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Speaker 1: It is the straw very that's right. Let us know

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Speaker 1: your problem subject. I want a man, a real man,

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Speaker 1: not this man. Dear Stephen Shirley. I have been married

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Speaker 1: to my husband for thirteen years, but we have been

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Speaker 1: together for a total of twenty three years. We have

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Speaker 1: manhood that he is displaying for our son. My husband

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Speaker 1: avoid conflict. He's always eager to help others, and he

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Speaker 1: gets frustrated or raises his voice. He is also very

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Speaker 1: because he won't be more certivant speak up for himself.

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Speaker 1: He is always concerned about what other people think of him,

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Speaker 1: few friends we have. His behavior is a huge turn off,

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Speaker 1: and quite frankly, I've had it with mister nice guy.

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Speaker 1: I want my husband to be my rock and my protector,

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Speaker 1: but instead I wear the pants in our household. The

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Speaker 1: situation is getting worse as he gets older and more complacent.

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Speaker 1: I would love to hear him say I got this

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Speaker 1: baby and take charge, but that hasn't happened in years.

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Speaker 1: so I don't always have to initiate intimacy. When we

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Speaker 1: spend time as a family, I make the decisions on

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Speaker 1: what we will do, and I always drive us around.

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Speaker 1: So far, my attempts to talk to him have not

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Speaker 1: understand that he needs to man up without insulting him? Please? Advice?

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Speaker 1: All right, give me a moment here, but I'm trying

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Speaker 1: to figure out what's really going on here and what

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Speaker 1: You say he's a great provider, he's always eager to

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Speaker 1: help others, he's non confrontational. You guys haven't argued in years,

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Speaker 1: he doesn't raise his voice, and in your words, he's

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Speaker 1: a mister nice guy. I mean, you guys have been

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Speaker 1: together for twenty three years. Surely you knew he was

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Speaker 1: you know, cared about what people thought of him, helpful guy,

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Speaker 1: this non assertive person that you talk about in the letter,

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Speaker 1: especially back in the day when you married him. That

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Speaker 1: was thirteen years ago. Bottom line, you have a problem

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Speaker 1: with this now. I guess you're growing and perhaps he's

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Speaker 1: still the same or something you want him to change,

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Speaker 1: and your attempt to talk to him it's fallen on

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Speaker 1: deaf ears. He's getting worse, you say in your opinions

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Speaker 1: since you get older. I mean only suggest at this point,

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Speaker 1: since you guys are are kind of had an impass.

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Speaker 1: You want things one way and he's doing it the

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Speaker 1: way he's been doing it, and you want to change.

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Speaker 1: You know, I gotta suggest some counseling for you guys

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Speaker 1: to get over this situation. And when you do talk

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Speaker 1: to him, how are you talking to him? I mean,

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Speaker 1: is it a way that you're turning him off? You're

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Speaker 1: turning him off? Are you nagging him? What are you?

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Speaker 1: What are you doing? You know in this situation. I'm

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Speaker 1: not blaming you, I'm just asking a question. I would

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Speaker 1: and help you guys get through the situation together together.

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Speaker 1: All right, that's my answer, Steve. Nice answer, Shirley, really good,

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Speaker 1: well thought out. You've given out good advice. I would

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Speaker 1: not finished out today. We can work this out, as pope.

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Speaker 1: People who don't have money fuck therapy. So now what

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Speaker 1: you need is a therapeutic conversation. I fitting to gear

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Speaker 1: to you right now. I've been married to my husband

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Speaker 1: Now here's a compliment. Your husband's a great provider. I'm, however,

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Speaker 1: So you mean to tell me you're writing a letter

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Speaker 1: he's not filling up to it. He rallied, he wait,

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Speaker 1: he'll help people if he don't feel like it. This

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Speaker 1: You mean, he's an actual calming force at his house

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Speaker 1: also very pleasant at work. I'll be damned if you

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Speaker 1: on that job, having everybody like you, Why didn't you crazy?

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Speaker 1: Ain't nobody SUPs to like everybody that day? Damn job, y'all, listening.

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Speaker 1: Got it? Yea, what's wrong with her? Exactly? Now? When

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Speaker 1: been talking about is what's wrong with him? Nowhere in

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Speaker 1: the letter that she mentioned what's wrong with her. When

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Speaker 1: we come back, I'm gonna tell you what's wrong with her?

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Speaker 1: Right obvious to me? Sounds good, Steve, No, this real?

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Speaker 1: She crazy? Yeah. He won't speak up for himself. He's

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Speaker 1: and you wouldn't have him friends if he wasn't so nice,

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Speaker 1: because don't aboudy like YOI even lay you heard me.

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Speaker 1: I'm trying to figure out what's going on too. A

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Speaker 1: woman just been complaining about her husband because he's non confrontational.

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Speaker 1: They ain't argued than years. They're having agreed a disagreement.

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Speaker 1: He'll just agree with her to avoid the conflict. He's

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Speaker 1: he's such a nice guy. Right here's where the letter

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Speaker 1: now she's not attracted it to him anymore. See that's

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Speaker 1: what we're getting down too. And quite frankly, I've had

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Speaker 1: coming here basking over furniture. Well what do you want?

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Speaker 1: You want somebody come in the house and ask for more? Why? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you're love? Come only you that argum? Here? I am conflict?

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Speaker 1: You want some of this? What you too? Who you

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Speaker 1: looking at? So he just walking in the house as

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Speaker 1: ready made conflict, wants to start arguments. Don't wan't agree

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Speaker 1: giving you your way? You won't opposition? See you crazy?

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Speaker 1: Now what you're saying is I've had it with mister

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Speaker 1: mister Knights. Gus. See you ain't tracked to it. Y'all

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Speaker 1: probably ain't having sex no more, none of this. Well

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Speaker 1: they are, But instead I wear the pants and our

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Speaker 1: thin't having sex? Well, she says she doesn't. She wants

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Speaker 1: him to take charge in the bedroom down near the end, Steve,

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Speaker 1: I got news for you. I wear the pants in

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Speaker 1: our household. The situation that gets worse as he getting

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Speaker 1: I don't have to do all that initiate intimacy time

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Speaker 1: as a family. I make decision what we do and

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Speaker 1: where we go who. I always drive us around. So

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Speaker 1: far my attempts to talk to him and not worked

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Speaker 1: out at all. How can I get him to understand

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Speaker 1: he needs a man up without insulting him? Please say

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Speaker 1: he don't want in the letter to me, I always

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Speaker 1: you what's wrong? Yeah, let me let me tell you

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Speaker 1: In the marriage, you ain't just sitting there quietly seething,

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Speaker 1: but you keep telling you about itself? Right? And and

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Speaker 1: how when did he get like this? The older he

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Speaker 1: what didn't happen. Has he changed? Maybe? But let me

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Speaker 1: You married the man probably because he was kind, he

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Speaker 1: that's why you married him. Now all of a sudden

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Speaker 1: want to happen here? So let's have a reenactment, Jay

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Speaker 1: and here here we're going. All right? You the woman?

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Speaker 1: Uh huh, I'm the guy. Let's go. Here we go.

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Speaker 1: That's where you been? Oh? I just can't know what

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Speaker 1: you mean we've been. I've been sitting here. I don't

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Speaker 1: half waiting on you enough. Where you've been, just been

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Speaker 1: Who I'm here? You know why I'm at? What you

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Speaker 1: come back, I was here waiting on you. Where have

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Speaker 1: take you to get home? I know the rounde you take? Know?

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Speaker 1: Did you go somebolace else? Today? You know? Getting him fast?

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Speaker 1: Drive faster tomorrow you should get You should be hit

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Speaker 1: faster because I'm sitting here waiting you got me here,

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Speaker 1: I sit out there and I wait on you. Why

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Speaker 1: am I waiting? Why? I need to know? Why? Where

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Speaker 1: Cause I was driving too slow? No? No, no? Where

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Speaker 1: and then the answer you know right? I don't like it.

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Speaker 1: Answer me why am I waiting? And why are you?

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Speaker 1: three questions right now, Baby, I can't. I can't answer quick.

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Speaker 1: You won't let me. Where have you been? Why am

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Speaker 1: need to know why. I'm like, man, sound like I'm mad?

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Speaker 1: Do I sound like I'm mad? No? You know what

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Speaker 1: I'm mad? My bad? Let me stop being mad? Oh

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Speaker 1: you man? Now I was man? Now you're mad? This

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Speaker 1: is you being mad because you being mad? Oh man?

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Speaker 1: I want to know why you take so long to

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Speaker 1: get home? And why do you want me to tell you?

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Speaker 1: Do you want me to tell you? You? Tell me?

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Speaker 1: I can't stay in your fucking as. I'm tired of

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Speaker 1: it's right, and I won't a damn divorce. That's the

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Speaker 1: nice guy. Yeah, come on, I ain't what she won't.

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Speaker 1: She won't this hell. You rarely get frustrated and raise

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Speaker 1: your voice. Mister. I knew this was coming. I knew it,

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Speaker 1: my mama did. Well. You know, all strawberry letters don't

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Speaker 1: end happy, Steve, you put your own feelings. Yeah, shall

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Speaker 1: we get your partner? All right? Listen, we gotta get

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