WEBVTT - Karol Markowicz Show: The Evolution of a Conservative Voice with Erick Erickson

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome back to the Carol Markowitz Show on Biheart Radio.

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<v Speaker 1>My guest today is Eric Ericson. Eric is a very

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<v Speaker 1>popular conservative talk radio host and author of three books,

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<v Speaker 1>most recently Before You Wake, Life Lessons from a Father

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<v Speaker 1>to his Children. Hi, Eric, so nice to have you on.

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<v Speaker 2>Thanks for having me.

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<v Speaker 3>So.

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<v Speaker 1>I've known you and of you like a million years.

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<v Speaker 1>You're really og in this movement and it's so nice

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<v Speaker 1>to talk to you. I'm not sure we've ever done

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<v Speaker 1>a show together before, but I've been looking forward to this.

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<v Speaker 1>Where did you get your start? How did this all

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<v Speaker 1>happen for you? You know?

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<v Speaker 2>So politics.

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<v Speaker 3>I grew up overseas and politics was just a way

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<v Speaker 3>to connect into American culture, and then went to college,

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<v Speaker 3>started college Republicans at my college, started volunteering for campaigns,

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<v Speaker 3>kind of fell into it, and went to law school

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<v Speaker 3>because the congressman I was working for said a law

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<v Speaker 3>degree is an MBA in politics. So I did that,

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<v Speaker 3>got married, and my wife was like, I'm not moving

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<v Speaker 3>to Washington. So I became a lawyer, start at Red State,

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<v Speaker 3>and one thing led to another, and a local radio

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<v Speaker 3>show host got arrested in a crack house literally, and

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<v Speaker 3>they needed someone to fill in for him.

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<v Speaker 2>So I did, Uh so this is yeah exactly.

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<v Speaker 3>So Herman Kane was running for president at the time

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<v Speaker 3>and his station needed someone, and his boss drove through

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<v Speaker 3>my town all the way to Disney World thought it

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<v Speaker 3>was my show. I knew Rushland bought the time who

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<v Speaker 3>lied and said I was totally a radio pro. So

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<v Speaker 3>they gave me Herman Kane's job. Wow, and here we

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<v Speaker 3>are all these years later, now the longest job I've

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<v Speaker 3>ever had. It's been a wild ride. I mean, from

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<v Speaker 3>Red State in two thousand and four to now talk

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<v Speaker 3>radio and kind of doing my own substacking.

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<v Speaker 2>But it's been a lot of fun.

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<v Speaker 1>That's amazing. I mean, just the fact that it wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>even your show and somebody happened to hear it. I

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<v Speaker 1>you know, that's really a kismet. So what kind of

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<v Speaker 1>lessons do you tell your son in that last book?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm interested in the path that you took to get here.

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<v Speaker 1>It was sort of I mean, I don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>say lucky wasn't you know? Luck played a role? But

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<v Speaker 1>so how do you impart lessons when there is that

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<v Speaker 1>luck factor?

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<v Speaker 3>So the background for the book kind of the genesis

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<v Speaker 3>of it was in twenty sixteen. I was, as every

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<v Speaker 3>nightmare story begins, I started CrossFit trying to get back

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<v Speaker 3>into shape, and I couldn't breathe. I couldn't keep up,

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<v Speaker 3>and I thought, God, I've hit forty. I'm old. That's

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<v Speaker 3>the problem. And finally my wife was like, you got

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<v Speaker 3>to go to the doctor. So I go to the

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<v Speaker 3>doctor and.

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<v Speaker 2>They send me to the emergency room.

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<v Speaker 3>And literally the guy who does my CT scan freaks out,

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<v Speaker 3>straps me to the table and says, sir, you can't

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<v Speaker 3>get up. You should be dead right now, which was

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<v Speaker 3>kind of like, oh, there's something going on. It turns

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<v Speaker 3>out my lungs is filled up with blood clots. They

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<v Speaker 3>gave me twenty four hours to live. They told me,

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<v Speaker 3>you've got to call your family. As I'm trying to

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<v Speaker 3>call my wife, my wife is calling me and she says, hey,

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<v Speaker 3>I got a call from the Mayo Clinic and they

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<v Speaker 3>think I have lung cancer. So literally like they're wheeling

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<v Speaker 3>me into an ICU of twenty four hours live and

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<v Speaker 3>my wife is getting this phone call that they think

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<v Speaker 3>she has lung cancer, which she does. She's got stage

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<v Speaker 3>four of a very rare genetic form of lung cancer.

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<v Speaker 3>And it was kind of like, you know, if we

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<v Speaker 3>both die, I need to write something for my kids.

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<v Speaker 3>I got to include their favorite recipes. I've got to

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<v Speaker 3>give them some life lessons. And it also was an

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<v Speaker 3>epiphany as well that my God, if they google me,

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<v Speaker 3>they're going to think I'm a horrible person. And so

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<v Speaker 3>it was kind of a I want you to believe

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<v Speaker 3>in God, because we believe in God, I believe in eternity.

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<v Speaker 3>I want you to so we can see each other

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<v Speaker 3>again if something happens. And also you need to actually

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<v Speaker 3>model your life of good character. Don't worry what other

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<v Speaker 3>people think, but also worry what God thinks. That was

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<v Speaker 3>kind of the genesis of the book.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, and you survived over the twenty four hours? And

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<v Speaker 1>how are you doing?

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<v Speaker 2>H You know, I'm fine. My lungs.

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<v Speaker 3>I finally several years ago, got the all clear that

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<v Speaker 3>there's nothing left. There's some damage in my lungs. But

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<v Speaker 3>my wife does have cancer. She was given two years

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<v Speaker 3>to live and now almost nine years later she's still here.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I'm so glad to hear that. That's really a miracle.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, how do you when you're dealing with all

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<v Speaker 1>your day to day stuff and all the politics and

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<v Speaker 1>all the nonsense that we all kind of go through

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<v Speaker 1>and living on our lives on the internet. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>how much perspective does what you went through give you?

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<v Speaker 2>You know, a lot, you know.

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<v Speaker 3>So we're recording this a couple of days after Rush

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<v Speaker 3>Limbaugh died. He was actually a good friend of mine

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<v Speaker 3>before I got into radio. I remember talking to him

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<v Speaker 3>one time and this was before this had happened, and said,

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<v Speaker 3>I never wanted to do a national radio show because

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<v Speaker 3>there was no chance of being number one as long

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<v Speaker 3>as he was around.

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<v Speaker 2>And he laughed.

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<v Speaker 3>He said, even if I'm dead, You're not going to

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<v Speaker 3>be as good as me, So just be yourself.

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<v Speaker 2>And so I had that actually.

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<v Speaker 3>Around this time while this happened, and I finally thought,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, I really am. I'm pretending to be this

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<v Speaker 3>biblical donkey, if you will, and jackass to people on

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<v Speaker 3>the internet, and I'm playing someone other than myself. I

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<v Speaker 3>should just be myself. And that really was kind of

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<v Speaker 3>a life turning moment for me. Was I just the

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<v Speaker 3>secret to my success is I am exactly on the

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<v Speaker 3>radio and on the internet exactly as I am off

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<v Speaker 3>the radio and off the Internet. I'm a middle aged,

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<v Speaker 3>fat white dude who's perfectly comfortable being married and enjoys

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<v Speaker 3>my kids and lives in Middle Georgia, not in Washington

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<v Speaker 3>or New York, and relate to people accordingly.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you can recognize a lot?

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<v Speaker 2>You know?

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<v Speaker 3>I believe yes, it's for a guy who's mostly on

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<v Speaker 3>the radio. Yes, And it's very weird. If I go

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<v Speaker 3>to a restaurant and I sit and I face people,

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<v Speaker 3>no one really pays attention, and the moment they hear

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<v Speaker 3>my voice and don't recognize me, it's like, I know

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<v Speaker 3>who that guy is. I actually have literally now probably

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<v Speaker 3>four times in my life, including right after the election

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<v Speaker 3>in November, I've been standing at a urinal in the

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<v Speaker 3>airport and someone recognized me and began yelling at me.

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<v Speaker 3>Like literally, I'm peen and I'm getting yelled at by someone.

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<v Speaker 3>It it's a very weird life.

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<v Speaker 1>That's so interesting because how do they know who you are? Like?

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<v Speaker 1>Are they listening to conservative radio and they hate it?

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<v Speaker 1>It's like hate listening.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, to some degree, I think. So.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, I've been on I was on CNN for

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<v Speaker 3>three years, on Fox for five, and occasionally still do TV.

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<v Speaker 3>So I do get recognized, and yeah, man, the people

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<v Speaker 3>who recognize me. And right after the election, when emotions

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<v Speaker 3>were raw, that guy just I mean, I'm literally just

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<v Speaker 3>trying to mind my own business and dude is yelling

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<v Speaker 3>at me because Donald Trump won. And then, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>the same day, literally someone followed me to my car

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<v Speaker 3>when I was leaving the airport. He was so excited

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<v Speaker 3>by the election. And I finally was like, I gotta

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<v Speaker 3>like win the lottery so I can find plyer for

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<v Speaker 3>private or something.

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<v Speaker 1>What's the best part about being a person.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, you know, the kindness of strangers at the same time,

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<v Speaker 3>the number of people who pray for my wife and

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<v Speaker 3>for me, who send notes just that pray for you today.

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<v Speaker 3>We've got a family, their kids. My wife gets a

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<v Speaker 3>note from their church regularly that she's been put on

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<v Speaker 3>their prayer list. And it's just the kindness of strangers.

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<v Speaker 3>As much as people can kind of get upset and stuff,

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<v Speaker 3>just the random kindness from individuals who they're not wealthy people.

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<v Speaker 3>They just they're reaching out and they're praying for you

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<v Speaker 3>and cheering you honor they see they buy you a beer.

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<v Speaker 1>I love that. That's actually, you know, worth all the

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<v Speaker 1>people yelling at you as Parnels, I think, yeah, maybe

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<v Speaker 1>it's kind of a trade off. You know, yeah, what

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<v Speaker 1>would you be doing if not this? What would be

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<v Speaker 1>the Eric ericson.

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<v Speaker 3>Plan b Oh, you know, probably cooking in a restaurant somewhere.

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<v Speaker 2>Really, I love to cook.

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<v Speaker 3>In fact, my parents thought I should go to culinary school,

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<v Speaker 3>and I was just like, this is this is what

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<v Speaker 3>I love to do. I don't want to turn it

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<v Speaker 3>into a profession. But the older I get, the more

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<v Speaker 3>I think, if if I wasn't doing radio and conservative politics,

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<v Speaker 3>I probably would be a chef somewhere. I genuinely love

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<v Speaker 3>to cook for other people. Half the stuff I make

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<v Speaker 3>I don't even eat.

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<v Speaker 1>I just make it for the Really, I mean, don't

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<v Speaker 1>you have to eat it or taste it at least?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, yeah, yeah, you taste a little bit. But

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<v Speaker 3>I mean if I'm smoking a brisket for someone, I'm

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<v Speaker 3>pretty sure I've got it right so I can give

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<v Speaker 3>it to them and or a cake or something. But yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I just I love to cook. On Sundays. Several years ago,

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<v Speaker 3>my wife is like, you're live in an isolated existence,

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<v Speaker 3>you don't have a lot of friends. Start inviting people over,

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<v Speaker 3>so on Sundays, I invite a group of friends over.

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<v Speaker 3>We saw on my front porch, watch sports, smoke cigars

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<v Speaker 3>and drink bourbon. And I cook every week. This past

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<v Speaker 3>Sunday I roasted a pork loin and made Cuban sandwiches,

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<v Speaker 3>and the week before I did a brisket, and the

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<v Speaker 3>week before that, I did fried shrimp tacos, and I

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<v Speaker 3>just I love to do it for people.

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<v Speaker 1>That sounds amazing. I mean, your wife had to pressure

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<v Speaker 1>you to have friends.

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<v Speaker 2>Over though, yeah she really did.

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<v Speaker 1>Like all lesbians, I guess.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I just you know, I do.

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<v Speaker 3>It is kind of an isolated existence, and I pay

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<v Speaker 3>to go to a gym to work out by myself

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<v Speaker 3>because I tried going with other people and they're like, oh,

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<v Speaker 3>let's talk politics while I'm trying to do a burpie

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<v Speaker 3>and not pute my guts up. So I just live

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<v Speaker 3>somewhat of a private life. But I enjoy it being

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<v Speaker 3>surrounded by friends and being able to cook for people.

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<v Speaker 1>A right trip to Georgia. I think it is in

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<v Speaker 1>my future some of that. I want to sit on

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<v Speaker 1>that front porch. What do you worry about?

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<v Speaker 3>I worry about my kids becoming too online. I mean,

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<v Speaker 3>we try to get them to not stare at phones

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<v Speaker 3>and stuff. But I see this with friends of mine

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<v Speaker 3>who they're less and less happy because they're less and

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<v Speaker 3>less in the world around them and more in the

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<v Speaker 3>world they've created online. I mean, we can all create

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<v Speaker 3>communities of interest where everybody thinks like us and looks

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<v Speaker 3>like us.

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<v Speaker 2>We don't know the homeless.

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<v Speaker 3>Guy down the street or our next door neighbor. I

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<v Speaker 3>started going to seminary a number of years ago, go

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<v Speaker 3>I talk about faith on radio and figured out how

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<v Speaker 3>to go back to seminary. And one of the things

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<v Speaker 3>that has struck me for years is as a Christian,

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<v Speaker 3>Jesus says, you love your neighbors as yourself. And when

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<v Speaker 3>I look at that, I try to tell my friends

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<v Speaker 3>that even though I may not agree with transgenderism as

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<v Speaker 3>a philosophy or a way of life, I've got to

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<v Speaker 3>love my transgender neighbors so much when they go on vacation,

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<v Speaker 3>they leave a key at my house or something just

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, we're in a community together, and I want

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<v Speaker 3>my kids to understand that you can't just surround yourself

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<v Speaker 3>with people who agree with you, because you're going to

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<v Speaker 3>be a shallow angry person.

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<v Speaker 1>How do you keep them kind of off of that

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<v Speaker 1>online existence. I mean, I'm asking for myself because obviously,

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<v Speaker 1>I think again, in our world, we're just online so much.

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<v Speaker 1>We have to keep up with the latest of what

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<v Speaker 1>people are saying and what X is. You know, character

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<v Speaker 1>of the Day is all of that. How do you

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<v Speaker 1>keep them away from it?

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<v Speaker 3>You know, so one, if you come to my house,

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<v Speaker 3>you can't get into Snapchat, you can't get into Twitter

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<v Speaker 3>unless you have the password for the WiFi to be

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<v Speaker 3>able to access those websites. So my kids aren't on it.

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<v Speaker 3>We let them do Instagram and that's about it. But volunteering,

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<v Speaker 3>participating in a church community, in a religious community, it's

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<v Speaker 3>important to us having my kids involved in sports and music.

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<v Speaker 3>My daughter is a great artist. My son has taught

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<v Speaker 3>himself how to play the piano and the cello, and

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<v Speaker 3>so now we're getting in lessons. But making them get

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<v Speaker 3>out of the house and get offline and actually be

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<v Speaker 3>in the world around them is important to us. You know,

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<v Speaker 3>we knew we had a problem one time when our

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<v Speaker 3>son we would as all I think real parents do,

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<v Speaker 3>babysit with an iPad, and we were going to see

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<v Speaker 3>my in laws one time, my son loves maps, and

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<v Speaker 3>literally we're driving across the Chattahoochie River here in Georgia,

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<v Speaker 3>and my son's not even looking out the window. He's

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<v Speaker 3>looking at his iPad. He says, we're about to go

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<v Speaker 3>over a river. It's like, we need to like take

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<v Speaker 3>the devices away, make me look out the car window.

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<v Speaker 1>But the problem, of course, is that like I'm on

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<v Speaker 1>my device, and it's kind of you know, my kids

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<v Speaker 1>are like look up and talk to me, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>when we're trying to tell me something. Obviously I can

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<v Speaker 1>give them the advice of like stay offline. But when

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<v Speaker 1>I'm myself and so so into it a lot tougher

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<v Speaker 1>it is.

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<v Speaker 3>And I'm a bit of a hypocrite on this with

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<v Speaker 3>my kids all the time. We'll say my kids have

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<v Speaker 3>a brilliant sense of humor. It's actually a pretty dark

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<v Speaker 3>sense of humor, exactly like their father. And so I

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<v Speaker 3>do enjoy sharing memes with my kids on Instagram a lot.

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<v Speaker 3>But you know, when we're we have we try to

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<v Speaker 3>have dinner together, sit around the table, all devices facing

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<v Speaker 3>the table or not at the table, and actually break

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<v Speaker 3>bread together like I do with friends. Where we're not

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<v Speaker 3>staring at our devices. We're actually talking to each other,

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<v Speaker 3>and when my kids start talking, it really is just

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<v Speaker 3>the funniest part of the day.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I love.

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<v Speaker 4>That We're going to take a quick break and be

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<v Speaker 4>right back on the Carol Marcowitch Show. What advice would

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<v Speaker 4>you give your sixteen year old self if you had to,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, offer yourself some.

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<v Speaker 2>Thoughts honestly, to exercise.

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<v Speaker 3>I was never a big into exercise when I was

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<v Speaker 3>growing up and now trying to lose weight to get

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<v Speaker 3>back in shape, tell my sixteen year old self just

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<v Speaker 3>get out and take a walk. You know, we had it,

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<v Speaker 3>I guess to a degree easier. We didn't have the internet,

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<v Speaker 3>at least I didn't when I was growing up as

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<v Speaker 3>a sixteen year old. But get outside and enjoy nature

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<v Speaker 3>is something I would have told myself as a kid

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<v Speaker 3>instead of sitting behind my Nintendo playing video games.

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<v Speaker 1>That's interesting. I feel like kids just naturally exercise all

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<v Speaker 1>the time. I would say, maybe just keep going. But yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I definitely was never a big working out person either,

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<v Speaker 1>and it would have been good to start at sixteen

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<v Speaker 1>if somebody.

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<v Speaker 3>Else you know, so I grew up in Dubai and

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<v Speaker 3>then move back to South Louisiana, So it was either

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<v Speaker 3>hot and dry or hot and humid, and either way

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<v Speaker 3>it was hot and I just wanted to stay inside.

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<v Speaker 1>What are some changes you've seen in the conservative movement

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<v Speaker 1>over your career, Like, what do you what do you

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<v Speaker 1>think is good about the changes? Let's start there.

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<v Speaker 3>Actually, you know, okay, So what I think is good

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<v Speaker 3>about the changes is that it is much more communal

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<v Speaker 3>in that because of the way the Internet works, there

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<v Speaker 3>are a wider swath of people across the nation who

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<v Speaker 3>have a say in what it means to be a

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<v Speaker 3>conservative in what direction it goes. It's less of an

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<v Speaker 3>elitist movement than I think it used to be in

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<v Speaker 3>the sixties, seventies and early eighties.

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<v Speaker 1>And the worst part.

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<v Speaker 3>That also it's conservatives are herding cats more than Democrats

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<v Speaker 3>because we are more individualistic. At the same time, I

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<v Speaker 3>think probably the worst part is there are a lot

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<v Speaker 3>of voices that have invaded the conservative movement that are

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<v Speaker 3>more there for profiting off the movement than committed to

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<v Speaker 3>the movement. And I think the Internet has caused all

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<v Speaker 3>of us, myself included, to lose a level of discernment

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<v Speaker 3>we went once had as to the voices we should

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<v Speaker 3>listen to and the ideas that we should be fostering

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<v Speaker 3>as opposed to festering.

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<v Speaker 1>Is it possible for the tech to get too big?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I definitely think so. I think there's some people

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<v Speaker 3>who want it smaller than it should be. There are

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<v Speaker 3>people who definitely want it too big. Not all ideas

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<v Speaker 3>are compatible with freedom and liberty, and I think a

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<v Speaker 3>conservative movement's got to be family focused and committed to

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<v Speaker 3>individual responsibility and individualism. This idea that I think some

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<v Speaker 3>people are trying to infect the movement with that we

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<v Speaker 3>need to be some level of Christian nationalist deocracy or

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<v Speaker 3>Catholic governance in some way. I think there is a

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<v Speaker 3>growing disrespect for the individual family within parts of the

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<v Speaker 3>conservative movement.

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<v Speaker 2>That's dangerous.

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<v Speaker 3>That at the end of the day, the free market

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<v Speaker 3>is you and me operating at arm's length to decide

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<v Speaker 3>what's best for our family, and inevitably we wind up

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<v Speaker 3>through a series of compromises in the free market doing well,

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<v Speaker 3>but having some sort of populous pullet bureau pulling the

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<v Speaker 3>levers and flipping the switches is as doomed to failure

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<v Speaker 3>as it is on the left.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you hopeful about the future of the conservative movement.

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<v Speaker 2>I am.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I'm hopeful because I've read the end of

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<v Speaker 3>the book. I know how it ends, and I think

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<v Speaker 3>people of faith are going to turn out okay in

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<v Speaker 3>the end. I do think that there's a danger in

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<v Speaker 3>us making an idol of our country and wanting things

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<v Speaker 3>to be a certain way. I hear people say all

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<v Speaker 3>the time, still, what is conservatism? Conservatives like your first

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<v Speaker 3>Amendment right that Jade Vans just lectured Europe about as

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<v Speaker 3>a great example.

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<v Speaker 2>But at the same time, I do.

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<v Speaker 3>Think that there are people who have a vision of

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<v Speaker 3>the country that is an idealized vision that never really was,

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<v Speaker 3>and the danger is trying to impose that vision on

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<v Speaker 3>everyone else.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you think Rush would be saying right now?

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<v Speaker 1>Would he be excited about.

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<v Speaker 2>Where we are? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>I think he would be having a blash, just just

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<v Speaker 3>laughing at both the frenzy on the right. And also

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<v Speaker 3>I do think one thing that Rushed at a very

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<v Speaker 3>good job that people in the conservative movement have forgotten

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<v Speaker 3>is the other side is right for laughter. We don't

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<v Speaker 3>need to be angry at them. I mean, it's actually

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<v Speaker 3>kind of hilarious the insanity that has infected the left.

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<v Speaker 3>We should be mocking them and laughing them.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I think mockery is actually way underutilized by the right.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that that has to be how we attack

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<v Speaker 1>the left. I think in a joyful fashion. Making fun

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<v Speaker 1>of them is often the way to go.

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<v Speaker 3>This anger and even some of the unhealthy anti Semitism

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<v Speaker 3>that's just cropping up in parts of the right, that's

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<v Speaker 3>doomed to failure, and it should fail. To see some

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<v Speaker 3>people voices on the right suddenly sounding very anti Semitic

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<v Speaker 3>these days, I think we have to police our movement

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<v Speaker 3>and drive those voices out.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I obviously agree, but I also I'm hopeful

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<v Speaker 1>because I think that a lot of that is only online.

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<v Speaker 1>Like when I go the deeper, the red the area

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<v Speaker 1>is the more pro Israel, a pro Jew or you know,

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<v Speaker 1>just generally not antisemitic. It is I think where you're

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<v Speaker 1>seeing these anti Semitic outbursts or you know, dominantly in

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<v Speaker 1>blue areas, and I think on our side it's still

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<v Speaker 1>and you know, in my Jewish world, when I say this,

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<v Speaker 1>people think I'm being naive or something, but I think

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<v Speaker 1>I really do think the more conservative areas are safer

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<v Speaker 1>for Jews.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, I tend to agree with you as well

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<v Speaker 3>in that, and I do think it is mostly online.

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<v Speaker 3>And I think the danger for the right right now

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<v Speaker 3>is much like the left was in twenty fifteen or so,

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<v Speaker 3>that we think that what happens on teter is reality,

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<v Speaker 3>and I've seen more and more younger guys on the

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<v Speaker 3>right say that, no, actually, what's happening online is a

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<v Speaker 3>reflection reality. I don't think it is. And I do

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<v Speaker 3>think that in the heartland outside of New York and DC,

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<v Speaker 3>people tend to really get along regardless of their politics,

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<v Speaker 3>and they have the backs of their Jewish neighbors as well.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. But other thing that I'm worried about on the right,

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<v Speaker 1>and maybe you are too, is just this whole you know,

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<v Speaker 1>it's sort of the Andrew Tate thing, but it's like

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<v Speaker 1>that don't get married message to men. I find that

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<v Speaker 1>that is growing on the right, and that is something

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like I'm worried about leaping into real life

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<v Speaker 1>because our marriage rates are already into decline.

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<v Speaker 3>What do you think, Yeah, listen, I'm glad you said that.

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<v Speaker 3>And this is again, it's where my fear is that

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<v Speaker 3>there are so many people who take what's happening online

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<v Speaker 3>and try to impose it offline or translate it offline.

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<v Speaker 3>And the marriage movement is something that I worry about.

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<v Speaker 3>There are helpful signs offline though, about the number of

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<v Speaker 3>young people who are going back to religious institutions, to

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<v Speaker 3>synagogue tipples and churches, who are trying to reconnect with

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<v Speaker 3>their faith. And that's a data point that does give

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<v Speaker 3>me some hope on this that we have these cycles

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<v Speaker 3>of life, and it's reflective in the West right now,

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<v Speaker 3>a birth decline across the Western world. But I do

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<v Speaker 3>think there's an opportunity for it to rebound, and a

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<v Speaker 3>younger generation that actually is more connected to its faith

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<v Speaker 3>probably is where it's going to happen.

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<v Speaker 1>I love that optimism because I think we really need it.

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<v Speaker 1>We need that rebound, and I think that the right

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<v Speaker 1>needs to be driving the conversation where marriage is a

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<v Speaker 1>good thing for both men and women. We need to

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<v Speaker 1>get back to it and have those numbers go up.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I'm hopeful, but I definitely am concerned too.

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<v Speaker 2>Right.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, there's a lot of data out there that does

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<v Speaker 3>give me hope for the younger generation, and it's one

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<v Speaker 3>of those weird cyclical things where you go through, like

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<v Speaker 3>with kids and group work, you have a generation that

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<v Speaker 3>wants to collaborate, wants to do group work.

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<v Speaker 2>And then you have these individualists.

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<v Speaker 3>And I see it in my kids that their generation

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<v Speaker 3>right now is very their individual thinkers. They don't like

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<v Speaker 3>group work, but they're also much more committed to institutions

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<v Speaker 3>than kids just a few years older than them.

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<v Speaker 1>I love hearing that. Thank you, Eric. This has been

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<v Speaker 1>so amazing for my last question that I ask all

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<v Speaker 1>my guests leave us here with your best tip for

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<v Speaker 1>my listeners on how they can improve their lives.

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<v Speaker 3>Know your actual neighbors if you live in an apartment complex,

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<v Speaker 3>if you live in a community, actually know the people

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<v Speaker 3>you live next to and try to have some even

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<v Speaker 3>mild relationship with them, so that I mean, your Facebook

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<v Speaker 3>friend is not going to come take care of you

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<v Speaker 3>if you're sick, but your next door neighbor might. So

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<v Speaker 3>you want to rebuild your community, I mean, look to Jeremiah,

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<v Speaker 3>seek the welfare of the community in which you live,

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<v Speaker 3>because there you'll find your welfare.

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<v Speaker 1>Love it. I have to go meet some neighbors for sure.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you so much, Eric for coming on. He's Eric Ericson.

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<v Speaker 1>Read him, check him out. Such a great voice on

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<v Speaker 1>the conservative side. And I just I've been listening to

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<v Speaker 1>you for years and I really loved having you on.

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<v Speaker 4>Thank you, thank you, thanks so much, Thanks so much

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<v Speaker 4>for joining us on the Carol Marca Woich Show.

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