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Speaker 1: It is time to get some great advice from the

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Speaker 1: CLO that stands for Chief Love Officer. We call him

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Speaker 1: the Close Steve Harvey. Shateria in Memphis writes, I have

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Speaker 1: been dating a younger man for four months, and he's

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Speaker 1: been using my car to go to work because I

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Speaker 1: work from home. Now. I had a doctor's appointment yesterday,

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Speaker 1: so I told him to call his mama for a ride.

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Speaker 1: His mama called me and said, I'm only four years

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Speaker 1: younger than her, So I'm his mama now and I

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Speaker 1: need to take care of his needs. Would I be

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Speaker 1: out of blind to curse her out?

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Speaker 2: What? Well?

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Speaker 3: First of all, let's talk about a couple of things

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Speaker 3: that I noticed, Shateria. This man, you Dayton, got to

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Speaker 3: be young because your name is Shathiria, and I don't

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Speaker 3: know nobody named Shatiria that was born in the seventies,

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Speaker 3: So I'm assuming that you are a young mother yourself.

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Speaker 3: You the one in here and rob this crackling. You're

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Speaker 3: dating this little damn baby that just now got off

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Speaker 3: his bicycle, so he ain't even got a car.

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Speaker 2: Now you letting him use your car.

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Speaker 3: You told him you got to go to the doctor

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Speaker 3: because you got some medical complications, he can't do that.

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Speaker 3: And then you told him using mama's car, his mama's car.

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Speaker 2: Would I be.

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Speaker 3: Wrong for cussing out or kicking hotel? What are you doing?

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Speaker 3: This is your fault. The fact that his mama can

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Speaker 3: call you, the fact that you had him call his

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Speaker 3: mama says you're in the wrong relationship shitteria that rhymes

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Speaker 3: with cafeteria.

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Speaker 2: And that's where we have the problem at right there.

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Speaker 3: Your name, your age, and this damn baby you done

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Speaker 3: picked up and moved around in here to your house

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Speaker 3: that don't have a car. Bad selection. It ain't his mama,

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Speaker 3: it's the boy you selected to be your man. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: there's your problem. Next question, all right?

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Speaker 1: Moving on to Tay in Ohio. Tay says, I'm a

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Speaker 1: twenty two year old student and I'm dating a black

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Speaker 1: guy that is giving me grief because he's very friendly.

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Speaker 1: He feels like he has to show the black girls

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Speaker 1: on campus a lot of attention or they'll hate him

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Speaker 1: for dating outside of his race. One of the girls

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Speaker 1: can't stand me, and she's always talking slick to me.

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Speaker 1: Should I pull her aside to see what the problem is?

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Speaker 1: Or do I keep ignoring her like he said to well.

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Speaker 2: Let me let me give you let me let me

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Speaker 2: say something to you.

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Speaker 3: Now when you pull her to the side.

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Speaker 2: I just want you to understand, Dan, ain't n.

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Speaker 3: Delvy live culturally.

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Speaker 2: Once you pull them to the.

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Speaker 3: Side and start addressing it, you're finna get way molding

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Speaker 3: you boggain for right now. The dude has told you

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Speaker 3: to ignore it. You could ignore it, but I understand

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Speaker 3: the position he's in. He gives them extra attention so

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Speaker 3: they don't hate him.

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Speaker 2: Look, are you enjoying this relationship?

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Speaker 3: Sounds lady, It don't sound like she is. To me,

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Speaker 3: it's very much with this. You don't like the pressure,

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Speaker 3: you don't like what come with it. And he's not

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Speaker 3: coping with it real good either because he feel in

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Speaker 3: some kind of way.

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Speaker 2: But now, let me explain something to you. Don't pull

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Speaker 2: that black girl to the side. That's your point.

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Speaker 3: Don't do that. Don't do that, sister, baby girl. Listen

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Speaker 3: to me, Listen to Uncle Steve. Don't pull that black

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Speaker 3: girl to the side, because it ain't gonna go nothing

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Speaker 3: like you think. You're not gonna believe her damn reaction.

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Speaker 3: First of all, if you literally tap her on the

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Speaker 3: elbow and say, come over here for a minute, let

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Speaker 3: me talk to you. Not just don't do that, don't

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Speaker 3: you first, It's gonna be a pause, and he's aation

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Speaker 3: the disbelief that you were addressing her. But if all

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Speaker 3: the black women you don't point, you're gonna picked out

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Speaker 3: her is the one you gonna check her. I can't

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Speaker 3: even tell you how this is fit to go now.

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Speaker 3: I don't know if you're a cheerleader. I don't know

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Speaker 3: if he an athlete, I don't know if you on

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Speaker 3: a debate team. I don't know what you own. But

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Speaker 3: do not grab Shiteria Junior and pull her.

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Speaker 2: To the side.

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Speaker 1: Think it not him?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, do not do that. It's not going to go go.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, CeeLo Monique and Tyler town says. My husband

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Speaker 1: and I had a card party over the weekend and

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Speaker 1: his best buddy got drunk and slept on our floor

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Speaker 1: all night. He also urinated on himself and he had

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Speaker 1: on dark jeans, so my carpet is ruined in that spot.

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Speaker 1: My husband didn't want to make a big deal out

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Speaker 1: of it and embarrass him, so we have to pay

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Speaker 1: to have our car it replaced. Shouldn't he make his

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Speaker 1: buddy pay for this.

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Speaker 3: You just so drunk you then fell asleep on the

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Speaker 3: floor and peede on yourself. I mean he could go

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Speaker 3: to him and say, hey, man, look here's a problem.

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Speaker 3: When you was at the house, you got drunk. I

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Speaker 3: know you couldn't help it, but you laid the floor

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Speaker 3: and you peed on yourself. Now, my wife got to

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Speaker 3: replace the copp Man, can you give us a little

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Speaker 3: something on it?

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Speaker 1: You know you should offer at that point.

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Speaker 3: Well, he not because he gonna swear him down. He

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Speaker 3: gonna swear him down. He ain't peede on himself. Who

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Speaker 3: you know if in the volunteer that was that wasn't

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Speaker 3: ain't no flow? Yeah no something that was a bill.

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Speaker 3: You think I peed on myself?

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Speaker 2: No, that's bier. I laid in the bill. I saw

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Speaker 2: the bill. I might knock the cup over. I give

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Speaker 2: you a couple of honey.

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Speaker 3: You're grown hell no, hell no, hell no, it ain't

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Speaker 3: nowhere And he ain't laying that.

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Speaker 2: You can't prove he preed. No, no, no, no at all. Man,

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Speaker 2: hold on, bro, So you're gonna come to me with that, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: we got pictures. Hold up, dog, did you see me

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Speaker 2: pee ya on my phone?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, now, hold up on who phone?

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Speaker 2: Hold up?

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Speaker 3: Don't so your girl taking picture of me? Peet turned.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, gotta knew he wasn't at home.

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Speaker 3: I mean, he could mention it to him, but it's

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Speaker 3: the dude gonna deny it and stopping him. Card party

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Speaker 3: and stop letting people sleep on your floor overnight.

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Speaker 2: Stop doing that, all right? Send his ass home, pee

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Speaker 2: on his own floor.

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Speaker 1: The smell in that house, all right. Moving on to

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Speaker 1: Stephanie in La Seventie says, I'm in my mid forties

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Speaker 1: and I can't function without having sex at least four

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Speaker 1: times a week. I work long days, so it's hard

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Speaker 1: for me to meet a good man, to meet good men,

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Speaker 1: and I end up tense up all night and can't

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Speaker 1: fall asleep. My neighbor has always been an option, but

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Speaker 1: I don't want to be intimate with someone in my building.

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Speaker 1: What's the worst that could happen? Should I go ahead

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Speaker 1: and invite him over?

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Speaker 2: I don't feel.

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Speaker 3: I don't care what you do. I really don't. This

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Speaker 3: ain't a love question, just a lost question. He's thirsty.

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Speaker 3: You in your forties, you gotta have sex full times

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Speaker 3: a week? Yeah, you know what got you and your

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Speaker 3: forties and you have to have sex full times a week.

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Speaker 2: Okay, we'll go ahead and have it. No, no, if

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Speaker 2: you have to go ahead, what you want me to

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Speaker 2: tell you? Now?

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Speaker 3: Your neighbor, you don't want to sleep with him because

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Speaker 3: he's your neighbor who've been doing the four times a

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Speaker 3: week for you up to now? Wow?

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Speaker 2: That part.

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Speaker 3: See what I think is you gots to have sex

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Speaker 3: four times a week. Your problem is you can't find

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Speaker 3: nobody want to have sex with you four times a week.

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Speaker 2: That's your real problem. That's what she said.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, we'll have more of the Steve Harvey

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Speaker 1: Morning Show right after this