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Speaker 1: Yeah, he's at work today, Thank you, nephew. Subject I

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Speaker 1: hate all of his family and friends. Dear Stephen Shirley,

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Speaker 1: my boyfriend of two years has been talking about marriage,

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Speaker 1: but I hate all of his family and friends. We're

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Speaker 1: both thirty three years old and we met online. I

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Speaker 1: got offered a job promotion and a transfer to the

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Speaker 1: city where my boyfriend grew up. We decided I'd take

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Speaker 1: the job and we get married, so we relocated to

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Speaker 1: the city that he grew up in. We bought a

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Speaker 1: house within a week of moving, and it all happened quickly.

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Speaker 1: After we got settled, he decided it was time for

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Speaker 1: me to meet his parents. They don't live together, but

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Speaker 1: they are married. He said, it's complicated. I thought it

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Speaker 1: was strange that I'd never met them, but he always

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Speaker 1: said there's no rush. Now I know why. So here's

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Speaker 1: what happened to make me hate everyone. We invited everyone

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Speaker 1: out to dinner, and the only way to get his

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Speaker 1: family to go was to agree to go to a

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Speaker 1: buffet restaurant. I don't like eating at buffets, and it's

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Speaker 1: not because I'm bougie.

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Speaker 2: It's because I got.

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Speaker 1: Very sick one time from eating at a buffet, and

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Speaker 1: that has scarred me for life. Two of my boyfriend,

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Speaker 1: two of my boyfriend's childhood friends came to dinner with us,

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Speaker 1: along with his mom, dad, sister, and a sister's four children.

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Speaker 1: His homeboy smelled like they work at a weed factory

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Speaker 1: and they were wrapping illicit lyrics at the table. His

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Speaker 1: parents got into an argument because his dad called his

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Speaker 1: mom a trick and she flipped him off. I won't

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Speaker 1: even mention the four little, filthy children that were running

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Speaker 1: all away around the restaurant. My boyfriend pay the bill

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Speaker 1: for all these grown people, and he looks so embarrassed.

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Speaker 1: He's whispered that he hopes this isn't a deal breaker.

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Speaker 1: I don't want any of these people to ever come

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Speaker 1: to our house. But how do I tell him that

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Speaker 1: you think he will understand, if I'm honest, Well, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I think he'll understand.

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Speaker 2: But I don't think you should tell him that.

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Speaker 1: You definitely can't tell him in that way that you

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Speaker 1: don't ever want them to come to your house. You

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Speaker 1: got to remember you're marrying him and not his family,

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Speaker 1: and we know you hate all of them and you

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Speaker 1: don't care for them.

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Speaker 2: But like I said, please don't tell him that.

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Speaker 1: I mean, you can think of other ways to say it,

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Speaker 1: you know, or if they're come or if they're coming

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Speaker 1: over you know you're busy, or whatever the situation. I mean,

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Speaker 1: there are still his family no matter what. The great part,

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Speaker 1: you know, look at the positive. He wanted you to

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Speaker 1: meet them. Okay, it was about time you met his family.

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Speaker 1: And that's pretty big because here's a man taking you

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Speaker 1: to meet his family. A lot of times that's what

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Speaker 1: we want to meet his family and to see, you know,

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Speaker 1: where he comes from. So that means he, you know,

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Speaker 1: So that's a good thing. He is embarrassed by them, though.

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Speaker 1: He is embarrassed, and it doesn't sound like they'll be

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Speaker 1: coming around because he's embarrassed, and it took you a

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Speaker 1: how they are because he said he hoped you weren't.

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Speaker 1: They weren't a deal breaker meeting them. So we can't

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Speaker 1: pick our family members, we know that, but we can

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Speaker 1: decide how we deal with them. So you decide. You

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Speaker 1: out and all that.

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Speaker 2: I mean.

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Speaker 1: Otherwise, if you love this man, you know you're going

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Speaker 1: So you know your options are to what sell your

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Speaker 1: new house that you just bought in.

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Speaker 2: The town he grew up in.

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Speaker 1: I doubt if that's going to happen, you know, because

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Speaker 1: you guys just bought it.

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Speaker 2: The housing market is crazy all that.

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Speaker 1: The other thing is, you know, you guys can build

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Speaker 2: Sounds like you're headed in that direction.

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Speaker 1: This is the man you love, build a life you

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Speaker 1: together with this man and have minimal contact with his family.

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Speaker 2: Don't invite them over, Steve, this.

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Speaker 3: One is interesting.

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Speaker 4: Everybody got some family members in their own family that

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Speaker 4: they don't really care for. So I can only imagine

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Speaker 4: that there's gonna be some people in their family, your spouse, mate, lover, friend, fiance, whatever,

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Speaker 4: in their family that you're not gonna like. Now, y'all

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Speaker 4: been together two years, you moving kind of quickie, thirty

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Speaker 4: three years old.

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Speaker 3: You met online.

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Speaker 4: But you know this was the dude. You know, y'all

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Speaker 4: got a job you got off of the promotion. You

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Speaker 4: transferred to the city where your boyfriend he grew up.

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Speaker 4: You say right at the top, I hate all his

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Speaker 4: family and friends, every last one of them. We decided

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Speaker 4: to take the job that you got off of the

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Speaker 4: promotion in we'd get married.

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Speaker 3: So we relocated to the city that he grew up in.

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Speaker 3: We bought a house within a week of moving.

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Speaker 4: It all happened quickly, and then right after y'all got centered,

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Speaker 4: he decided, who's time for need to meet his parents.

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Speaker 4: Now here the tricky part. They don't live together, but

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Speaker 4: they're married. He said, it's complicated. We'll get into that

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Speaker 4: in a minute. I thought it was strange that I

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Speaker 4: never met them, but he always said, ain't no rush

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Speaker 4: because he knew he loved you. He can't let you

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Speaker 4: meet his other side because you ain't gonna understand it

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Speaker 4: now he's different. He knew this was coming. Here's what

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Speaker 4: happened that made me hate everyone. Wow, we invited everybody

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Speaker 4: out to dinner, and the only way to get his

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Speaker 4: family to go was to agree to a buffet restaurant.

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Speaker 3: Now right here, we're talking about size.

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Speaker 2: Now, size or sides size?

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Speaker 4: Okay, when the whole family insists the only way we

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Speaker 4: going out is got to be buffey, just hate the

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Speaker 4: first time they'd have made that decision.

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Speaker 3: This is a family thing.

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Speaker 4: And if you go to buffets a lot, you have

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Speaker 4: some size on you. We'll get into the rest of

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Speaker 4: it when we come back.

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Speaker 3: The big people you're talking about.

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Speaker 1: Well, Steve Harvey's response coming up at twenty three minutes

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Speaker 1: after the hour. Okay, the subject of today's Strawberry letter

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Speaker 1: I hate all of his.

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Speaker 2: Family and friends. We'll get back into it right after this.

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Speaker 1: All right, come on, Steve, let's recap today's strawberry letter

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Speaker 1: and finish up your response today.

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Speaker 2: Subject is I hate all of his family and friends.

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Speaker 4: You know, like I said, this is gonna be rough

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Speaker 4: because everybody got some family members they don't care for.

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Speaker 3: So once you get into a relationship with.

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Speaker 4: Somebody else, they gonna have some family members you don't

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Speaker 4: care for. But your hatred for them came all at once.

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Speaker 4: This is why you hate. You hate met them with

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Speaker 4: one time and you have reached the conclusion that you

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Speaker 4: hate all of them. Here you know, now y'all have

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Speaker 4: moved together, y'all relocated, y'all bought a house. Y'all then

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Speaker 4: moved in it. You got settled. He told you it

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Speaker 4: wasn't no rush to meet his parents. Now you thought

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Speaker 4: it was a little bit strange, but he knew because

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Speaker 4: this could be a deal break.

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Speaker 3: First of all, they his parents, but they don't live together.

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Speaker 3: We're gonna get into that.

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Speaker 4: As to why I figured this out in the letter,

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Speaker 4: here's what happened to make me hate everyone. We invited

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Speaker 4: family to go was to agree to going to a

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Speaker 4: buffet restaurant. Now, when everybody say we have to go

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Speaker 4: to a buffet restaurant, it's because they need more bought

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Speaker 4: choices of the menu. Some people like their gravy to

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Speaker 4: run into their potato salad. They won't they ham laying

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Speaker 4: go and fix your own plate. These is big people

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Speaker 4: were talking about now, and I know they big people

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Speaker 4: because they've decided as a unit, we ain't going nowhere.

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Speaker 3: Le's it's a buffet. These is big people.

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Speaker 4: Man. I'm just gonna tell you don't like my answer,

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Speaker 4: I don't care. I've come to the conclusion in this

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Speaker 4: Strawberry letter this is a place full of big people

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Speaker 4: that I've prove it. I don't like eating at buffets

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Speaker 4: because I'm not bullgies, just because I'm very sad. I

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Speaker 4: got sick one time from eating at a buffet, and

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Speaker 4: that has scarred me from life. Nothing stops big people

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Speaker 4: They had all seen people pick over the food.

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Speaker 3: They didn't seen people talk under the shield while they

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Speaker 4: But big people can they They have seen the sneezes,

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Speaker 4: they have done all all that they coughed. They but

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Speaker 4: big people don't give it because buffets is for big people.

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Speaker 4: Two of his childhood friends came. They smell like a

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Speaker 4: weed factor. That's cause they smoke weed. Thus the other

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Speaker 4: reason we got to go to a buffet be cause

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Speaker 4: we got the munchies. Man, See this buffet is all

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Speaker 4: coming together now, and they were rapping explicit lyrics at

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Speaker 4: the table. Hell because they're high. You thirty three. All

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Speaker 4: his friends is all want to be rappers that ain't

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Speaker 4: never made it now at the table rapping explicit lyrics

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Speaker 4: because they high.

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Speaker 3: And they hung.

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Speaker 4: His parents got in the argument because his dad called

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Speaker 4: his mama a trick and she flipped him off. Nah,

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Speaker 4: we're getting into why they don't live together. Real big

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Speaker 4: people don't like staying together because it ain't allowed a room.

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Speaker 3: They after buffet. They can't stand each other.

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Speaker 4: See, the argument was a flip off, because that's all

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Speaker 4: she had the energy for. She was big. She'd the

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Speaker 4: But she crossed the table. She couldn't get up, so

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Speaker 2: This is terrible.

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Speaker 4: See how it's working out right now. I put all

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Speaker 4: this together. They were doing a trick daddy rap song.

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Speaker 4: That's where he got the turn trick from because he.

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Speaker 3: Didn't know it.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, she didn't want to mention the four little filthy kids.

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Speaker 4: And I know they filter because fat people don't like

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Speaker 4: bathing other other people. Little kids is filthy, Yeah, because

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Speaker 4: they people ain't got no time to be watching them

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Speaker 4: kids and got being over the bank.

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Speaker 3: Have to breathe and losing your breath and all.

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Speaker 4: This here, So just put some calls on these little

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Speaker 4: filter kids, will let them run round. My boyfriend paid

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Speaker 4: the bill for all these grown people. He looks so embarrassed.

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Speaker 4: He whispered that he hopes this isn't a deal breaker.

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Speaker 4: I don't want any of these people to come over

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Speaker 4: he will understand if I'm honest what Sureley said, You

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Speaker 4: respect that too, But you don't have to be honest.

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Speaker 4: But if you don't want to be honest, there's some

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Speaker 3: Out of your house.

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Speaker 4: First of all, you let it be known that none

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Speaker 4: of your meals would.

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Speaker 3: Be served buffet style. That's the first thing.

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Speaker 4: We don't put no plates out where you can go

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Speaker 4: around scoop your own. No, that'll keep they big out

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Speaker 4: And you can keep them people out your house for

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Speaker 2: For you look at the.

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Speaker 4: Time or every time you have a family, gather Kenny

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Speaker 4: Big right back down to that buffet and deal with

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