Speaker 1: Whoa, that is right. This is your girl, and you're
Speaker 1: listening to exactly a production of My Heart Radio. And
Speaker 1: I can't forget of course my co host st I
Speaker 1: love having you throw your energy. Come okay, we feed
Speaker 1: up each other, absolutely correct. You know what media and
Speaker 1: I don't want to gokate you know, the laya process
Speaker 1: because I want to get right into it right. Oh god,
Speaker 1: here we go. I don't think they're ready. Not for nothing.
Speaker 1: Battle social media has been such a big thing. I personally,
Speaker 1: I'm single. So how's your love life? What are you
Speaker 1: doing with your with your according to social media, I'm
Speaker 1: still in a relationship. Social media did not affect my relationship.
Speaker 1: You know, everybody lived on social media throughout the whole pandemic.
Speaker 1: That's all people were on, were on their phones. It
Speaker 1: is true. I mean social media, it really is a
Speaker 1: big important part of life. Battle is even bigger when
Speaker 1: you're single or even if you're in a relationship. Social
Speaker 1: media is like it could either make it or break it.
Speaker 1: So for you and your kind of experience. When don't know,
Speaker 1: I've had my situations with social media, you know, I
Speaker 1: mean not just social media. I be on these you know,
Speaker 1: dating apps, I'm being believe it or not, isn't that crazy? Well,
Speaker 1: now with your whole new look, I'm out of I've
Speaker 1: been getting every d M in the book talking about
Speaker 1: is I'm out of single? With she in a relationship?
Speaker 1: What's her status? This is this is breaking news right now.
Speaker 1: Are you in a relationship or no? I am looking
Speaker 1: because I still haven't found my husband. Don't give me that.
Speaker 1: Don't give me the whole Come give me already. Look
Speaker 1: at this body, Look at me. I get my own money.
Speaker 1: I'm independent, how that gold and everything. I'm smart all
Speaker 1: that bitch? Where are you? I mean, I'm saving, protecting
Speaker 1: my overies from my husband. Well, listen, this is the
Speaker 1: show is called exactly exactly what I'm on. I'm like,
Speaker 1: are you really in a relationship or not? Don't be
Speaker 1: come on. Okay, So I do have a little boothing
Speaker 1: or whatever you do, but it's not offish. So though, yeah,
Speaker 1: you know, I'm still working on it. But I'm gonna
Speaker 1: tell you this month though I'm not gonna lie. Social
Speaker 1: media did put a little, you know, bumps in the
Speaker 1: road for us a couple of times, because it did
Speaker 1: make me feel insecure when first of all, I never
Speaker 1: dig because so I've never looked into his phone d
Speaker 1: MS now, so now I'm not that type of girl
Speaker 1: battle I do be looking at the girls that you've
Speaker 1: been giving likes to. Why are you liking this bitch picture?
Speaker 1: Are you really micro that type of person you're on
Speaker 1: like that? Well? Yeah, I protect with mind and social media.
Speaker 1: You know, come out. We're very you know, flirtatious. We'll
Speaker 1: do a little like it, but that's nothing wrong. Okay,
Speaker 1: so there's nothing wrong with I know, but Latino man
Speaker 1: can sometimes be very machista as well, So they don't
Speaker 1: want you to do it, but they'll go ahead and
Speaker 1: do it if I would be liking a whole bunch
Speaker 1: of guys and that they know. Because that's another thing too.
Speaker 1: Men don't want to feel insecure. You know who to
Speaker 1: feel some type of way about, And the same thing
Speaker 1: was for women. We know who to feel insecure with,
Speaker 1: Like that's your type? Why are you talking to her?
Speaker 1: And if you're liking her pictures, you're already probably talking
Speaker 1: her in your m That's it always the case the
Speaker 1: social media. There's people that are like a million miles
Speaker 1: away that you're never gonna see. You're just liking the
Speaker 1: picture don't like? Okay, So does it bother you if
Speaker 1: your significant other is liking or somewhat commenting under My
Speaker 1: situation is completely different. Why you know, I don't care
Speaker 1: if my if my significant other likes anything. What. We're
Speaker 1: secure the comments. But I'm different, I'm very different. But
Speaker 1: I explain what your different looks like? Sounds like be
Speaker 1: about She might like the same thing I like, so
Speaker 1: it's a little different. But again, did I get playing? No? Nothing,
Speaker 1: She is going to like probably the same. Me and
Speaker 1: her have the same type. So are you in a relationship,
Speaker 1: you're married together, you're you know, mingling, you're figuring it out?
Speaker 1: What's happened? I am in a relationship, okay, And as
Speaker 1: flamboyant as I am, you are, it is a woman
Speaker 1: that I'm in a relationship. So you're in a relationship
Speaker 1: with a woman. Okay, And how does this work? Okay?
Speaker 1: Your birthatile? Okay. She may like a tall black man
Speaker 1: and I might like a tall black man too, you
Speaker 1: know what, I say what I don't think I'm the
Speaker 1: only one in the world because I don't know, you
Speaker 1: know what, as long as you're happy, and I don't
Speaker 1: even but I love how you just threw it back
Speaker 1: at me, look back at it. Okay, So so you're
Speaker 1: so your girl is cool with whatever makes me my wife?
Speaker 1: He said, your wife say right, get it right, and
Speaker 1: they'll say your wife is cool with letting you be yourself,
Speaker 1: no bound. It depends where being yourself looks like. Explain
Speaker 1: because I'm not embobbing, but you're speaking on social media
Speaker 1: that and you're toping here. So I mean we may
Speaker 1: both like Terry Crews when we may both like I
Speaker 1: wasn't saying lamar Oldham, but I don't know. You may
Speaker 1: both like, but that doesn't mean that is it going
Speaker 1: to happen? Correct? Can't be delusion o here? You know
Speaker 1: what I mean? Yeah? Yeah, but you're But I love
Speaker 1: the fact that personally I don't know too much because
Speaker 1: this is gonna get new information. Bat I like the
Speaker 1: fact that you are liberal and you're open with your sexuality,
Speaker 1: with who you are as a person. That makes me
Speaker 1: even more confident. And I love the fact that you're
Speaker 1: being open about it because there's so many people in
Speaker 1: your situation that feel like I know, so that people
Speaker 1: don't judge me better. You're a perfect example of you
Speaker 1: could be whoever the it is he want to be,
Speaker 1: but there has to be a level of respect. Respect
Speaker 1: and talking about level of respect, the same thing goes
Speaker 1: with boundaries and going back to social media because I'm
Speaker 1: sure your wife's sees, you know, the things that you post,
Speaker 1: the things that you do and everything else. When are
Speaker 1: you supposed to set boundaries when it comes to so
Speaker 1: to media in the beginning of a relationship, while the
Speaker 1: relation while you peep things happening, well, it depends, you know,
Speaker 1: I'm out. You're an artist, so you do have to
Speaker 1: put stuff out there promo y R. Right, we're not
Speaker 1: speaking only fans, but we're not showing all of that. Correct,
Speaker 1: That's okay, But that's okay, that's okay. I mean, the
Speaker 1: only thing that you have to protect though that you
Speaker 1: have to protect it, but the gay that listen one
Speaker 1: everybody's open eyes. But sometimes you don't want your significant
Speaker 1: other to be harassed. There's people that are in a
Speaker 1: relationship with people that don't live their lifestyle. Get it, Like,
Speaker 1: my wife is not an artist, is not You have
Speaker 1: to be respectful. He doesn't like to be posted all
Speaker 1: the time, got it, you know? But there are men
Speaker 1: that are like you you know, she can't be hiding
Speaker 1: me either. So so when it comes to that, and
Speaker 1: that goes back into you know, social media and privacy,
Speaker 1: how much should you put out there and how much
Speaker 1: should like what should you go and get keep to
Speaker 1: yourself because these days, I feel like every single thing
Speaker 1: that happens to you you post on social media. If
Speaker 1: you're in an accident, in a hospital, whatever, I'm here
Speaker 1: in the bed, I'm dying just in case you guys
Speaker 1: can see me or whatever, even in the toilet. So so,
Speaker 1: how much when it comes to privacy and social media
Speaker 1: and being in a relationship or whatever the case may be,
Speaker 1: what are the lines that you should in crypt It
Speaker 1: depends on you and your spouse or significant other, partner
Speaker 1: or whatever it is nowadays, it depends on how much
Speaker 1: of it do they want. You guys have to come
Speaker 1: to an agreement, and then, you know, sometimes it's better
Speaker 1: for your significant other to know first before the whole
Speaker 1: world knows. I don't know. I've never really been being
Speaker 1: on posting my significant other and so to media, I've
Speaker 1: always been very cautious. That's why no one really knows
Speaker 1: who I'm dating or who I'm dating. And then as
Speaker 1: an artist. You also always want to sell up a
Speaker 1: legal a movie. I'm so sexy, I'm hot, get me.
Speaker 1: It's not gonna happen, but I see a comfort me. Um.
Speaker 1: You know a lot of my sexy pictures. My mom
Speaker 1: takes my pictures, or my significant other be like, baby,
Speaker 1: just take me this sexy picture and he'll be like,
Speaker 1: or the lighting is not good or whatever. So I
Speaker 1: think social media kinda is a fantasy world. But I
Speaker 1: will say what I'm not gonna do. So what I'm
Speaker 1: not gonna do, ladies, But I'm not gonna do my
Speaker 1: And this message goes for you because most likely your
Speaker 1: man is in my d M s too. Don't be
Speaker 1: away here on your social media talking about talking about
Speaker 1: the game the love of my life. He loves me
Speaker 1: so much. You know I am the reason why he
Speaker 1: breathed and he couldn't live with him. In a second
Speaker 1: goal said because he means so much to meet meta.
Speaker 1: I'm very scared of that ASA writing all that crap.
Speaker 1: And right as students, you post that pitt that picture
Speaker 1: in that caption, Yo, man is lighting up in my
Speaker 1: d M where you are? And Hi, can I come
Speaker 1: check you? What can I invite you to dinner the second,
Speaker 1: so you have to beat me up. Be careful. Sometimes
Speaker 1: it's better to keep things on the low private. I
Speaker 1: think it is kind of embarrassing. Comes and everyone's posting
Speaker 1: there's a significant other. You didn't know they were married,
Speaker 1: they had a family, but then they all pick I like,
Speaker 1: and in social media it looks amazing in in a
Speaker 1: perfect world. In a perfect world, that's that's what it is.
Speaker 1: Social media is a fantasy world where where we sell
Speaker 1: what we want people to see. You don't post there
Speaker 1: when your man cheating on your or when you're girl
Speaker 1: cheating on your or when he came home late, or
Speaker 1: when you're stressed out. So I feel like sometimes we
Speaker 1: even put our own standards based off someone that we
Speaker 1: may admire or look up to on social media and
Speaker 1: try to compare our relationships with them. Like me all
Speaker 1: the time, me that I'm going through the stage in
Speaker 1: life right now. You don't I see it this, So
Speaker 1: here's the tea or whatever. Now every time I wake
Speaker 1: up and I see my social media and I see
Speaker 1: everybody getting married and engaged in there. You know, oh
Speaker 1: my god, you know pregnancy announcement. Now it's talking crack
Speaker 1: and then we're getting married. Look at this, and maybe
Speaker 1: that's stupid that how happy she is. Okay, look at me.
Speaker 1: I'm honest because it's exactly me. You're being honest, I'm
Speaker 1: being on a spit. Then I also realized that a
Speaker 1: lot of the times we're just comparing our lives to
Speaker 1: unrealistic standards. We don't really know what the hell is,
Speaker 1: you know. I was when a Rod was always posting
Speaker 1: j Loo because j Lo lived such a secretive life,
Speaker 1: like no one knew her personal life, and this guy
Speaker 1: was like her stalker, like he was like a fan. No, no,
Speaker 1: Rod was a fan. He was like posting everything about
Speaker 1: this woman. And I'm like, yeah, yeah, she also posted,
Speaker 1: but she posted him because he kind of made she
Speaker 1: felt obligated to post him because he was always posting her.
Speaker 1: And I was so aggravated. I was like, why is
Speaker 1: he always posted j Loo? We love that he was
Speaker 1: in love and look at them now, though, give us
Speaker 1: so now that he knew he had a season now
Speaker 1: that perfect relationship looks weird. No, no, no, no no, the
Speaker 1: world Jennifer Lopez is a seasonal relationship. It's okay. She
Speaker 1: renews her license all the time. If you knew. If
Speaker 1: you know that you're with j loo Ba, you're not
Speaker 1: gonna be there forever you're there. You know what I'm feeling.
Speaker 1: In two weeks your terms up, and I already had
Speaker 1: my backup planet I've been You think that really happens.
Speaker 1: I feel like she is like a driver's license, like renewal.
Speaker 1: And I love and that's okay, because she is enough
Speaker 1: woman for the world. But I also love the fact
Speaker 1: that let's admire this part. A lot of people may
Speaker 1: call her a whole, a lot of people may have
Speaker 1: negative things to say. She's a great mother, independent the woman,
Speaker 1: she's an entrepreneur, she has so many great things. She
Speaker 1: works out, she takes care of. Let's look at all
Speaker 1: the positive things as a woman, as a Latina that
Speaker 1: she's able to accomplish the world. Yes, and the way
Speaker 1: that she inspires so many other Latinos and Latinos as well.
Speaker 1: So let's admire that part as well. And I also
Speaker 1: admire the fact that and she isn't in an unhappy relationship.
Speaker 1: Now it's obligado, you're not obligated to stay there. Who
Speaker 1: cares what the world think when you're un yoke. Let's
Speaker 1: talk about be an unevenly yoked. I feel like j
Speaker 1: Lo is always above what she dates, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean? Reason for that? Jealous, So there's a renown.
Speaker 1: There's a reason for that. When you are a woman
Speaker 1: that is as powerful and as strong of a character
Speaker 1: as she is can be with someone that's too soft
Speaker 1: better than her. She likes to feel I'm the one
Speaker 1: in power. I got the background dancer, I got in
Speaker 1: mess the way I got I got this one. You
Speaker 1: just think that in this business, if they see you
Speaker 1: with someone, they expect you to date them. And a
Speaker 1: lot of times people are there for a season and
Speaker 1: a reason. So sometimes maybe they were just meant to
Speaker 1: be friends, would benefit or whatever to each other. He
Speaker 1: looked like he could have been a good husband. Look
Speaker 1: like social media. Look and let me tell you this
Speaker 1: to Mina and don't say that you see talking about that.
Speaker 1: But I don't know if it's true or not. But okay,
Speaker 1: I had heard has done like this long as list
Speaker 1: of all the requirements in order to be with her,
Speaker 1: like I didn't have your password, I didn't give you
Speaker 1: my security wherever you go, and you can't have more
Speaker 1: than three drinks and if you're gonna go out to
Speaker 1: the corner. I need to have my DPS on you
Speaker 1: to make sure that you get there. And there's cameras
Speaker 1: in the house just in case you bring a bitch
Speaker 1: into the house. And I mean, that's what I heard.
Speaker 1: She's a lot to you know. It's the same with you.
Speaker 1: Is going back to social media? Is it okay for
Speaker 1: you to ask your significant other further password to their
Speaker 1: social media or you know what's really dumb those joy accounts.
Speaker 1: But let's say I mean you were in a relationship,
Speaker 1: I'm out of Stevie request, I'd be like denied. That's
Speaker 1: so insecure, Like that's so dumb. I don't know who
Speaker 1: I'm talking to nothing, Like you don't talk to the
Speaker 1: two people at the same time. Because yes, if you
Speaker 1: have your account, if you have your account, I have
Speaker 1: my account, right and then we have our account. If
Speaker 1: we break up, the account goals none and everybody's good,
Speaker 1: nothing ever happened. But I don't even have to go
Speaker 1: to my page and Sunday leading going all the way
Speaker 1: to the bottom. They get two years ago now. But
Speaker 1: if you're my sister and I'm trying to get in
Speaker 1: contact with you now your boyfriend, I have to ask permission.
Speaker 1: It's almost that's the case with a joint account. It's
Speaker 1: almost like, can you head, by the way, can you
Speaker 1: tell what I don't joint accounts? Just a password to
Speaker 1: your phone? Would you give your wife the password to
Speaker 1: your phone? Help to the nah who you know that
Speaker 1: type of party? So you wouldn't, So you wouldn't give
Speaker 1: your password, I would go. So you're basically saying it.
Speaker 1: If she looks she's gonna fine, Well you know what,
Speaker 1: she does know everything. But there is some things that
Speaker 1: are going to annoy you, Like if a girl sends
Speaker 1: me a picture of her feet, and then like, what
Speaker 1: the fun is a girl saying you a picture of
Speaker 1: her feet? Um? Okay, well that's another conversation. I don't
Speaker 1: know how they've been trying to lick these tolls. I
Speaker 1: got the true Spanish. That's another conversation. But sorry, I
Speaker 1: have never No, I'm lying. I learned out of experience
Speaker 1: not to look into my significant others, like either social
Speaker 1: media or whatever. My oh my god, I'm gonna know
Speaker 1: I'm not even gonna him blast, but I'll just say
Speaker 1: that I was in a relationship and um, we were
Speaker 1: together on a yacht and then he went to go
Speaker 1: get something, and I was like, he was like, oh no, mentheta.
Speaker 1: I told him I maybe take me a picture. So
Speaker 1: when he tak me the picture of my phone died.
Speaker 1: So I was like, oh no, let's just do it
Speaker 1: from your phone. And then when I said, oh, let
Speaker 1: me look at the pictures to see how how I came,
Speaker 1: he left to go get a tower against something, and
Speaker 1: my womanly instinct automatically was that is dangerous. I was
Speaker 1: there to just look at the pictures he had taken
Speaker 1: up me on his phone. But his phone was open,
Speaker 1: and my womanly and said, look at it. Look at
Speaker 1: that dam open it. And that's exactly what I didn't
Speaker 1: when I opened it. That first of all, you couldn't
Speaker 1: even compare these bitches to me never and you're talking
Speaker 1: to these kinks and you have an what is wrong
Speaker 1: with you? So anyways, that was that. And I didn't
Speaker 1: tell him nothing, and you have to be smart. I knew,
Speaker 1: and I started, I didn't say nothing. I don't know that.
Speaker 1: I'm let me tell you something. You said that very nicely.
Speaker 1: You had that you were like him, and he leaves, say, memento,
Speaker 1: that was your moment right there. You were like, no,
Speaker 1: this is the moment right now, now or never. I'm
Speaker 1: gonna look at that man's phone and I'm gonna find No,
Speaker 1: I wasn't even doing that any friends that you know
Speaker 1: or anything like, because you know, some friends be thirsty, sod. No,
Speaker 1: no, no no, I didn't look that hard. But you know,
Speaker 1: it was really weird to me. It was a weird
Speaker 1: biddle and made me just look at things differently. So Tosa,
Speaker 1: and I'm very proud about my melanin better. All the
Speaker 1: girls that he was talking to were white and blonde hair,
Speaker 1: So I felt like, so, either you really don't like
Speaker 1: me and I'm like an experiment to you, or you're
Speaker 1: just seeking for validation, or you're seeking for something else.
Speaker 1: So I don't know, I don't know. I mean, it's
Speaker 1: all good because you're blond, because I can't be blind
Speaker 1: even if I wanted to. So you're okay with with
Speaker 1: open accounts and going through each other's social media. I'm not,
Speaker 1: And don't say another one from the you know, from
Speaker 1: the past. I also looked into his phone and I
Speaker 1: found some pictures of him with another girl to Venezuela.
Speaker 1: He was gonna recording video in country media. The point
Speaker 1: is that if you look, you shall find it. Be careful,
Speaker 1: don't look if you're exactly do the way you said it.
Speaker 1: If you're happy with your significant other, Mama, Bobby, don't
Speaker 1: be looking for stuff because if you look, you're gonna
Speaker 1: find it, You're gonna be unhappy. You're gonna be unhappy,
Speaker 1: you're gonna stop, or you're gonna still love. Why not
Speaker 1: just tell each other? Like, why not just say, listen,
Speaker 1: this is what I want to do. You know, especially
Speaker 1: if you're young in a relationship, you're in your early twenties,
Speaker 1: you know you want to explore. You know you want
Speaker 1: to go taste everything. Why not just tell someone? This
Speaker 1: is how diseases come because you can't tell people you
Speaker 1: want to keep a secret. Then you're out there exchanging
Speaker 1: fluids and then everyone sick. How about you just tell
Speaker 1: me listen. I have to tell you this, whether it
Speaker 1: hurts or not. But I'm young, and can we explore together? Like?
Speaker 1: Can we do this together? Put it together? When you
Speaker 1: stay explore together? What does that mean? That means you
Speaker 1: and I plus one? But okay, what about if this
Speaker 1: person doesn't want to do you and plus one? Then
Speaker 1: that's not the person for you at the time. Why
Speaker 1: are you in a relationship if you want to be
Speaker 1: out look outside of a relationship. What about free bees
Speaker 1: like the free like the hall passes like free pass like.
Speaker 1: Once they hear me that you have Christmas standsgiving and
Speaker 1: fo day, there's no ring, no commitment, then that's it
Speaker 1: that you're not. No one owns you but God. And
Speaker 1: that's the problem. Everyone thinks that in their relationship, somebody's
Speaker 1: your problems. You approve of that. One day I give you.
Speaker 1: One day, you're you and in a committed relationship. You
Speaker 1: said you're asking you. Yeah, you said that you want
Speaker 1: to be with me for the rest of your life.
Speaker 1: That means it's you and me and me and you. However,
Speaker 1: I understand it. If you eat rice and beans every day,
Speaker 1: one day you're gonna get tired and one day you
Speaker 1: might want some spaghetty. Okay, we did, Okay, If once
Speaker 1: a year I give you, I don't want to know
Speaker 1: about it. I don't know where you went. I don't
Speaker 1: want to. Don't tell me. Just go on. I'm gonna
Speaker 1: let you go on vacation. I'm gonna go on vacation.
Speaker 1: We're gonna come back and We're gonna let the listeners
Speaker 1: answer this question. Go to our social media exactly amount
Speaker 1: of and d m U s and answer that question
Speaker 1: because I would like to know what the listeners think.
Speaker 1: I'm curious we should do a point. Would you'll be
Speaker 1: okay with that? I'm totally okay with it. But but
Speaker 1: but I am kind of like hot production works nowadays
Speaker 1: where they want you to take tests. So like, if
Speaker 1: you're gonna do my significant other, I need to know
Speaker 1: that you're also clean because we're gonna be So it's
Speaker 1: it's a whole registration problems, application fee, all of this.
Speaker 1: Like if you want to do I need to know
Speaker 1: that you're one clean, so don't be bringing that's the problem.
Speaker 1: I don't think that's bad. These days, you can find
Speaker 1: a clinic. If there wasn't no diseases, I would have
Speaker 1: been out here, like out there's ideal. There's a lot
Speaker 1: of clinics. I'm glad that we're talking about protection though,
Speaker 1: but there's a lot of places that you can go
Speaker 1: to get tested real quick and make sure that everything
Speaker 1: is good. I almost feel like in the beginning of
Speaker 1: the relationship, no, because I'm in love and that's that
Speaker 1: dealing is mine. All of that is mine. I'm not
Speaker 1: sharing my bloot. I don't want nobody. Okay, I will
Speaker 1: stab a bit battle bat. I do have to be
Speaker 1: understanding of the fact that, look, whoever came up with
Speaker 1: this beautiful fantasy world of you and me and you
Speaker 1: and I for the rest of our lives is blowney.
Speaker 1: Our great great grandparents used to be together for sixty
Speaker 1: seventy years and they used to smash, but they used
Speaker 1: to do it on the low. Respectfully, don't let me
Speaker 1: find out. Don't let no bits knock on my door
Speaker 1: talking about they get a no, don't be having no
Speaker 1: kids out in the street, which they used to do it.
Speaker 1: And then my wife says, no, I'm won't do it.
Speaker 1: It's not something that like I control. Just just make
Speaker 1: sure you don't. While that's terrible, I can never give
Speaker 1: you that advice. I'm like, they can't do it. But
Speaker 1: doesn't let her know about it? While don't. But that's whack.
Speaker 1: I think that we have. We've grown so much us
Speaker 1: going it's it's it's even better. And don't say let
Speaker 1: me ask you, don't talk about social media or whatever
Speaker 1: you know. Get the only fans has been get really
Speaker 1: popular in the people are struggling out of me. When
Speaker 1: I get it right, you gotta do what you gotta do.
Speaker 1: Could you date someone who has an only fans account?
Speaker 1: Who's you know? Who shows your body for? You know?
Speaker 1: Bother you what? Ready? Yes? But put your seatbelt on
Speaker 1: quick fasting your seatblt because I'm gonna tell you if
Speaker 1: you're out there popping and dropping and stuff on only fans,
Speaker 1: ladies and gentlemen. Um, I think that if you're doing
Speaker 1: this when you started the relationship, and if it's okay
Speaker 1: with you in a significant other, than it's all right, okay,
Speaker 1: alrighty then, but yes, if you guys are not in
Speaker 1: agreement and you're out here showing your Coca Coco to
Speaker 1: the whole world, and I'm finding out from someone else,
Speaker 1: and even though the coins are right, where's the integrity there? Though?
Speaker 1: So you feel like they if you meet them doing
Speaker 1: this already, it wouldn't bother you as much because you
Speaker 1: already agreed to it. But if you find out later
Speaker 1: on during your relationship, you bother you, right, because I feel, okay,
Speaker 1: you know what, my little friends say, hello to my
Speaker 1: little friends. So it's it's unknown. It's a note for me.
Speaker 1: But but, but but it's got to be in an
Speaker 1: agree like if you and your significant other agree to
Speaker 1: this and are okay with them. No. I mean, let's
Speaker 1: be clear, Agay. Not everybody that is not an only
Speaker 1: fans is, you know, showing their goodies. There's some people
Speaker 1: out here doing you know, showing their feet or doing
Speaker 1: like fetishes or just taking sexy pictures. It doesn't necessarily
Speaker 1: mean that you're out here putting out your goodies. Now, listen,
Speaker 1: a situation you want to get what you get it
Speaker 1: you gotta pay a bill, and then you said listen, baby,
Speaker 1: um the bill to taken care of. And then later
Speaker 1: on I find out that it was you showing your
Speaker 1: feet to the world that it's okay. For example, I
Speaker 1: personally don't think that I could be able to be
Speaker 1: with a man who has only fans account and you know,
Speaker 1: doing sexy stuff, you know, for the money. I'm all about, babba,
Speaker 1: Go get your money, go handle it. Battle for a guy.
Speaker 1: For example, if I were to have one, which I
Speaker 1: don't and I don't plan on having one, but I
Speaker 1: still do a lot of sexy things on social media
Speaker 1: and stuff, and I'm gonna be honest I don't know
Speaker 1: how a guy could date me, Like you have to
Speaker 1: be so confident and be so cool. I mean, you know,
Speaker 1: as a fantasy world. But it will make me uncomfortable
Speaker 1: to see half of the things that I do. And
Speaker 1: I know that my partner has to accept item go
Speaker 1: now line now, Oh you need to stop taking sexy
Speaker 1: pictures or I don't want you to do that or that. No, no,
Speaker 1: no, no no, no, this is my career. I think it's
Speaker 1: my whole life. No, you're not gonna stop me Taco
Speaker 1: molas and you adapt to the system, or you need
Speaker 1: to find somebody else. But Dan you they're success stories
Speaker 1: from only fans like Eric Amana and Safari. They I
Speaker 1: guess bought a whole house out of out of only
Speaker 1: fans and everyone got to see his you know. The
Speaker 1: only the only reason why I was like it was
Speaker 1: only because I know they're going through a tough moment
Speaker 1: in their in their personal relationship right now. So but
Speaker 1: but I'll talk about their success moment that was a
Speaker 1: milestone for them one day. We're not only fans. Everyone
Speaker 1: got to see Eric Amanda, which was amazing, and then
Speaker 1: everybody got to see Safari, which even more amazing different
Speaker 1: because they did it as a couple. And I think
Speaker 1: that if you're supported and your if your spouse and
Speaker 1: you guys are supporting each other and you're doing the
Speaker 1: same thing, it's a definitive. Because you're chasing a gold
Speaker 1: brown nakasa. We want to do something. It is for
Speaker 1: a greater purpose, yes, but right if you just want
Speaker 1: to be showing everything because you want to Gucci back,
Speaker 1: people got Birkins Gucci and they're to do with your
Speaker 1: body whatever you want. Nobody's telling you not to do it.
Speaker 1: I'm just saying as far as would you be comfortable
Speaker 1: to be in a relationship with someone who's doing that,
Speaker 1: because you always see that if you're doing that, I'm
Speaker 1: sure you're getting private messages, you're doing things on the load,
Speaker 1: you're doing side things for something. But if you know
Speaker 1: that you get fifty dollars from one picture. If what
Speaker 1: I need to tell us you Mina, I'm gonna give
Speaker 1: you five. Just show me a private video or plump plank.
Speaker 1: The money gets enticed. Yeah, that point from und you
Speaker 1: want a thousand dollars five thousand, yeah, not to mention,
Speaker 1: I mean you think of kardash his whole Empire was
Speaker 1: made on a video that was probably the only fans
Speaker 1: Pirates only fans was her sex video with Ray J
Speaker 1: and now she became very successful. So hey, if it
Speaker 1: works and it helps you shoot for the stars, then
Speaker 1: letter whatever wrong? Now I don't know, but what I
Speaker 1: do want to know is yellow painting. So you already know.
Speaker 1: Go ahead, exactly a mata, Go out exactly a mata
Speaker 1: and tell me what your thoughts have been of this
Speaker 1: amazing podcast, because we have so many great questions, like,
Speaker 1: for example, ample, is it okay for me to still
Speaker 1: say in contact a little bit with my ex through
Speaker 1: like social media, Like we're not talking, like our relationship
Speaker 1: was over a long time ago, but once in a
Speaker 1: while he gives me like and I give him a like,
Speaker 1: or he'll send me a little comment through DM like
Speaker 1: oh I hope you're having a good day. That sounds
Speaker 1: like he's messing something, but that we're not going to
Speaker 1: talk about that friendly again. It depends on a situation.
Speaker 1: You feel uncomfortable if your wife is still maintaining, you know,
Speaker 1: some type of communication with her ex, well, let's let's
Speaker 1: do some backtrack. Let's backtrack a little bit. If that
Speaker 1: was my wife's or certificate others best friend in high
Speaker 1: school and they got it twisted and they made a
Speaker 1: mistake and they did something and dated and they were
Speaker 1: meant to be friends. That her family and her family
Speaker 1: are friends. I'm secure enough who mistakes. But sometimes you
Speaker 1: do have those moments where you feel like someone's supposed
Speaker 1: to be in a relationship with you, but they really
Speaker 1: were supposed to be your friend. But meyak, you had
Speaker 1: a vulnerable moment. Things happen, right, yeah, but personally doesn't
Speaker 1: sound so terrible, and don't judge me or whatever. But Okay,
Speaker 1: I kind of still maintaining contact with some of my axes.
Speaker 1: And it doesn't mean that I want them back. It's
Speaker 1: just that we cool like it just I didn't break
Speaker 1: up in bad terms. It's just like we're not. At
Speaker 1: some point we did like each other. We did have
Speaker 1: some type of love for each other. You and they
Speaker 1: could be like, oh, I'm glad to see that you're
Speaker 1: happy with someone else. But but but what does it
Speaker 1: look like so much? What does the inboxes look like?
Speaker 1: Because it's like, damn, you look better, Damn that STU
Speaker 1: looking at me. You look good? No, no, no sound
Speaker 1: The last two like that's too more or what you're doing.
Speaker 1: It depends on the time as well. You ain't gonna
Speaker 1: be but no, no axes, gonna be hitting up my
Speaker 1: significant other at one am. Sorry about w y D.
Speaker 1: What you're doing? No, no, no, no nothing. You have
Speaker 1: to put boundaries, you have to do a respectfully. But
Speaker 1: I don't find good thing you go. If I would
Speaker 1: have found out that that good thing, if my significant
Speaker 1: other is still maintaining some type of contact with his
Speaker 1: with his axes or whatever, I don't think that I
Speaker 1: would feel too bad. I just think it depends what
Speaker 1: type of communication you guys are having, and I think
Speaker 1: that also comes with maturity. You just don't have time
Speaker 1: for this, Listen. Relationships are mutual. I choose to be
Speaker 1: with you, You choose to be with me. If you
Speaker 1: don't want to be with me. I hit that point
Speaker 1: that so this is not no, we're not really as soon.
Speaker 1: We're not obligated to be with me. So I don't
Speaker 1: want to have to feel like I have to be
Speaker 1: insecure of every single woman that you're talking to. So
Speaker 1: if you want to stay hi to your ask mo
Speaker 1: or let's do it together. I mean I'll be the
Speaker 1: first one to be like that, she's pretty when she
Speaker 1: has a names asked. And I don't have a problem
Speaker 1: because guess what, Mama, You're the past and I'm the future.
Speaker 1: I'm the president, and don't say I'm clear, so I
Speaker 1: don't feel bad about Have you ever been out in
Speaker 1: the events and seen your ex with someone else and
Speaker 1: you what you're new? I share you the hell have?
Speaker 1: And do you say? Hi? I shorely? The hell do exactly?
Speaker 1: How does that high look like? Can we get a
Speaker 1: little idea of this? I don't know. I just want
Speaker 1: you to know that look sometimes or sometimes I can
Speaker 1: see that I wouldn't lie sometimes, but it happened with
Speaker 1: one person where they were still gonna a little chemistry
Speaker 1: even though that you're with somebody and I with somebody else.
Speaker 1: Time when we side, I was like, hey, what's up
Speaker 1: or whatever? I don't don't talk to me, don't look
Speaker 1: at me. You know, it was one of those moments
Speaker 1: but didn't mess up like your whole vibe like it didn't,
Speaker 1: because I think sometimes you just like a little bit
Speaker 1: of look so good. It's a little bit of so good,
Speaker 1: And your new thing wasn't It wasn't his best day
Speaker 1: and your acts looks so good. He's like, you know,
Speaker 1: I don't dressed it up nice. Imagine he has a
Speaker 1: really additive you're not going to put that no, because
Speaker 1: really good day. So I'll say this much. I'll say
Speaker 1: this much. Some of my axes, um for the most part,
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna say. I'm not gonna do here. I'm
Speaker 1: not going to generalize and say all of them, but
Speaker 1: most of them after leaving me, they all look like trash.
Speaker 1: Which one do you back? Which one would you date?
Speaker 1: All over? Because because all of them, at least from
Speaker 1: what I've seen, none of them have have actually dated
Speaker 1: better than me after me. So I'm okay with that, right,
Speaker 1: not never gonna You're always gonna be looking at my
Speaker 1: social media, and when you don't see me on social media,
Speaker 1: you're gonna have to hear me on the radio. And
Speaker 1: if you don't hear me on the radio, when you
Speaker 1: go to the supermarket, you're gonna see me in the
Speaker 1: magazine cover. It is. I'm always they have to turn
Speaker 1: on the radio and hear your ex because there's no
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