WEBVTT - Episode 206 "Testify"

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<v Speaker 1>Hold up, Hold up this show. Welcome to the Ball

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<v Speaker 1>Show podcast available everywhere you get your podcast. I go

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<v Speaker 1>by the name for our cimics. You know what it

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<v Speaker 1>is because you in my seat. You can definitely true.

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<v Speaker 1>You sat down in Sue's chair. Why did you do

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<v Speaker 1>that anyway? Because they was fixing the mark? You want

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<v Speaker 1>the pink wall. You don't get no pull on that.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what we're gonna next episode. I will be

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<v Speaker 1>right back in my damn your best seats. It's solo

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm gonna be back in my seat next week.

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<v Speaker 1>Go ahead. I know, I know you guys missed me.

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<v Speaker 1>Happy New Year. I did, but now I don't because

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't realize that you stole my seat. I thought

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<v Speaker 1>it was gonna be a tea party that's always always

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<v Speaker 1>excited to come. I thought Octavia put you in my seat.

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<v Speaker 1>And now that I know better, oh my god, this

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<v Speaker 1>is just so amazingly. Okay, how you doing whatever? Maybe

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<v Speaker 1>everybody free will think you see maybe bullshit. I can't

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<v Speaker 1>believe you took a week off and then you came

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<v Speaker 1>back and took my seat. You want to shout her

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<v Speaker 1>pretty face? Yeah, that's all she want to do. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>because last she was shades besides me. Well, she was

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<v Speaker 1>saying last episode about the bay with the Angela Simmons, Addie,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm still starting to call to actually a couple of

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<v Speaker 1>people hit by d M. Okay, any prospects. No, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>checking out, none of you. I'll checking out. But you

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<v Speaker 1>are searching? Yeah, I mean I'm not entertaining, not searching

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<v Speaker 1>new things, open some meeting new people. Yes, okay, so

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<v Speaker 1>don't say you're searching. You gonna have all type not searching.

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<v Speaker 1>Underscore sung another one, thank you, another one, thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, let's get back into it. Um prayers for tomorrow.

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<v Speaker 1>Hamlin Man, he woke up, he woke up and he wrote, um,

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<v Speaker 1>asking a question who won the game? And the doctor said,

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<v Speaker 1>you he won the game. Um, so he's he's alert. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>he's still not breathing on his own. They're saying he's

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<v Speaker 1>still critically ill. Correct, but he's shown a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>great signs and he opened his eyes and he's up

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<v Speaker 1>that this is dope. Uh, he's in good health. Four

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<v Speaker 1>year old. You know man Buffalo bills and shout out

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<v Speaker 1>to the medical staff who really did their job to

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<v Speaker 1>the best ability. TV. Yeah, I watched it. I've seen it.

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<v Speaker 1>Love that I saw the game. We saw the medical

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<v Speaker 1>staff and do their job, and that was just great, scary.

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<v Speaker 1>I saw a lot of baller nation in the comments,

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<v Speaker 1>and a lot of people feel like the COVID nineteen

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<v Speaker 1>vaccine has a lot to do with all these people

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<v Speaker 1>that's looking crazy about that in the comments. What is disrespectful.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's disrespectful for them to blame you know,

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<v Speaker 1>something critical like that too, a cod vaccine shot. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I respect everyone's opinion. Um, and you know, unfortunately, like

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<v Speaker 1>he's not the only act just that dropped there. There

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<v Speaker 1>are plenty of athletes right now that seem to be

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<v Speaker 1>having some health concerns, and a lot of people do

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<v Speaker 1>feel like the COVID nineteen vaccine was premature. Did not

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<v Speaker 1>know what, you know, what the consequences would be or

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<v Speaker 1>or how people would respond to it. I'm not saying

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<v Speaker 1>that it is the vaccine or not. I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>but but don't you think if it was if it

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<v Speaker 1>was the vaccine, that a lot of players would experience

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<v Speaker 1>the same thing. I also think this entire a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of athletes that are dealing with this stuff. If this

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<v Speaker 1>is what happened. I think we should discuss that at

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<v Speaker 1>a later date. Let's just I think discussed that he's

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<v Speaker 1>doing better. I think that, um, you know, medicine affects

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<v Speaker 1>people in different ways, and even we still have people

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<v Speaker 1>dying from COVID today, you know who are not vacs.

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<v Speaker 1>Who are you know, like you said, there are some

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<v Speaker 1>people who are experiencing different things who are vaccinated, and

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<v Speaker 1>you know who aren't as well. So it's just still

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<v Speaker 1>it's COVID is still a serious matter. I've seen on

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<v Speaker 1>new Strand here and a new Strand that's crazy. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a lot going on. So I don't know what

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<v Speaker 1>to say about it. I just know that medicine affects

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<v Speaker 1>people differently. It does. Yeah, it's unfortunate, but I'm super

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<v Speaker 1>glad that he's responding well. And you know, to anybody

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<v Speaker 1>who made a decision to get the vaccine, that's great

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<v Speaker 1>for you. If you didn't, that's great for you. Do

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<v Speaker 1>what you feel works for you. But we got to

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<v Speaker 1>be careful about saying like it is the COVID nineteen back,

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<v Speaker 1>disrespectful when you just because I feel like anytime a

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<v Speaker 1>health issue happens, everybody's like it's the vaccine. It's like,

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<v Speaker 1>let's let to not dehumanize a moment like this, like

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<v Speaker 1>that they were the humanizing. I think we're just acknowledging

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<v Speaker 1>what you know, people are saying in the swoller nation

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<v Speaker 1>comments like not us talking about the people in the

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<v Speaker 1>comments like damn so soon? Like I think people are

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<v Speaker 1>just scared, Like you know, people are scared, and they're

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<v Speaker 1>just trying to find a way to create dialogue and

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<v Speaker 1>see what other people think about it. But nonetheless, the

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<v Speaker 1>man is responsive and he's he's don't keep praying and

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<v Speaker 1>donate to his charity. Okay, yes, because he's up. He's

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<v Speaker 1>almost up to three point five million, okay, uh speaking

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<v Speaker 1>to millions. The suspect to Takeoffs murder has been released

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<v Speaker 1>on a one million dollar bond. Thoughts about that he's out.

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<v Speaker 1>I think he's a flight risk. Then they say they

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<v Speaker 1>found him with a brand new passport and cash, Like yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that that's just like letting him get so much leeway

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<v Speaker 1>and something, you know, tragical, terrible idea, terrible terrible idea,

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<v Speaker 1>especially when you found the man when he was trying

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<v Speaker 1>to flee the country. Is there is there enough evidence

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<v Speaker 1>to actually say that he did it like right, So

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<v Speaker 1>that's what investigators said that they saw on on camera.

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<v Speaker 1>So speaking to take Off, Quevo released the song Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's called without You. I've definitely been a part of

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<v Speaker 1>these guys beginnings and it's definitely sad. It's really sad

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<v Speaker 1>just hearing music and just seeing Cuevo. He just looks

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<v Speaker 1>so empty. Um I can't even fathom to think about

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<v Speaker 1>what he's going through mentally, physically, all of the above. So, um,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, I don't know how to feel about this.

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<v Speaker 1>I just feel sad every time all over again. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I think we all feel the same way. Take Off

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<v Speaker 1>so problematic. Um, so he's gonna be hurting for forever.

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<v Speaker 1>It's tough. I mean, this is your family, this is

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<v Speaker 1>your groupmate. Like you guys are coming up together, you're

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<v Speaker 1>making money together, You're having all these experiences like we're

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<v Speaker 1>seeing them travel and trying new food like and it

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<v Speaker 1>already went from a group of three to a group

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<v Speaker 1>of two. And then you lose your loved one in

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<v Speaker 1>the super a tragic way, Like I can't imagine what

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<v Speaker 1>that's like. I mean, I know that majority of us

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<v Speaker 1>have probably lost someone super close to us, but to

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<v Speaker 1>actually see him, you know, articulate that artistically. It's like

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<v Speaker 1>it was sad to see the clip of him just

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<v Speaker 1>sitting there holding a joint, Like, yeah, you never get

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<v Speaker 1>over it. You never get over losing a close loved

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<v Speaker 1>one like that. Um even like you said, with friends,

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<v Speaker 1>you some people like look at Swiss Beats and and DMX,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, and you just when when it comes to

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<v Speaker 1>things like that, you just honor them, you know, you

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<v Speaker 1>just continue their legacy and try to push for them.

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<v Speaker 1>Like even with missy Ellien and Aaliyah. You know, she

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<v Speaker 1>never lets people uh forget about Aaliyah, you know, begging

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<v Speaker 1>and puff. He never lets anybody forget. And you know,

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<v Speaker 1>as long as uh Cuebo was here, he will never

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<v Speaker 1>let anybody forget about take Off. You know, neither will

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<v Speaker 1>um Offset. So yeah, he'll live on. And it was

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<v Speaker 1>a dope. I really enjoyed the song. Two page, go

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<v Speaker 1>on to page. It made me really sad at the

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<v Speaker 1>end when he said, you know, I'm sorry, that really

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<v Speaker 1>made me sad. Yeah, it was just sad period, Alright,

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<v Speaker 1>talking about sad young thugs being charged with eight of

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<v Speaker 1>the sixty five charges. Thoughts about that because if he

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<v Speaker 1>gets convicted of one. It's max. It's max twenty years,

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<v Speaker 1>twenty years. Those charges look like beat abolt charges. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>you gotta think about it. Out of sixty eight charges,

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<v Speaker 1>he only has eight and sixty five or sixty five

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<v Speaker 1>the only charges. Yeah, I got you. I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know if y'all seen his lawyer interview that that

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<v Speaker 1>he did on the news. Seems very confident. He seems

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<v Speaker 1>extremely confident, and he seems like, I mean, a lawyer

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<v Speaker 1>that's saying I'm going to fight to my ask breath

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<v Speaker 1>for a client. That seems like a damn good lawyer

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<v Speaker 1>who's gonna do his job to get his client out.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you as anybody think that's gonna get up compaine?

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<v Speaker 1>It was marijuana tote. But those are all things that

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<v Speaker 1>could be somebody else's. That's why I said those charges

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<v Speaker 1>don't don't. One I'm worried about is the Rico one

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<v Speaker 1>because that's why I sell. That's his label, that's his

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<v Speaker 1>you know, next y Z. So that's the only one

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<v Speaker 1>I am concerned about, and I believe it was the

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<v Speaker 1>one of the conspiring to run a cridel enterprise. So

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<v Speaker 1>those two I'm nervous about that. Yeah, I'm nervous about

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<v Speaker 1>those two because the judge made it very clear to

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<v Speaker 1>all of the guys that are going to trial that

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<v Speaker 1>if you do get you know, if you lose this case,

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<v Speaker 1>by law, I have to give you the max. And

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<v Speaker 1>that's by law. Said that. Yeah, he made that very

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<v Speaker 1>clear to everybody that you know, if you lose any

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<v Speaker 1>one of those cases, you're getting twenty his conspiracy to

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<v Speaker 1>violate racketeer, influence and corrupt organizations. The other one is participation,

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<v Speaker 1>participation and commitmental in criminal street gang activity, possession of

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<v Speaker 1>marijuana with int the district the distribute, possession of codeine

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<v Speaker 1>with intend to distribute, possession of cocaine, possession of firearm,

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<v Speaker 1>possession of My concern is like all of those individually

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<v Speaker 1>might be something that you could beat, but collectively, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not sure how that works. Jerry has to find him

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<v Speaker 1>not guilty on all eight and see that's that's the

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<v Speaker 1>hard part because I feel like they're all separate too.

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<v Speaker 1>But I feel like for for like you know, somebody,

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<v Speaker 1>to be able to beat the system, that's the definition

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<v Speaker 1>of beating a system. That's gonna be really hard to do.

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<v Speaker 1>And especially if he does win this case, he's going

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<v Speaker 1>to come out a bigger artist. He's going to because

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<v Speaker 1>this morale looks kind of down, like when when we're

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<v Speaker 1>seeing clips of him and I I mean obviously right,

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<v Speaker 1>like you're you're locked up, like all this is going on,

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<v Speaker 1>people are talking um. But it's so sad to to

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<v Speaker 1>to see that from him, Like I'm kind of used

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<v Speaker 1>to seeing him just like super energetic col having fun. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>You're energy is gonna be a little different. Yeah, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm interested to see what happens during the trial. Did

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<v Speaker 1>anybody know when it starts January to night? You think

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<v Speaker 1>it's gonna be a long trial. I think it's gonna

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<v Speaker 1>be a long trial. I'm nervous. I ain't gonna lie.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm nervous. I'm really nervous. Many witnesses, they said they

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<v Speaker 1>had over a hundred, over a hundred are they calling

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<v Speaker 1>on some pretty said and Lucci a little Wayne rich

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<v Speaker 1>and Richard Kwan put cap in the comments the same thing. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>his lawyer, his lawyer, I believe, denied that. He said.

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<v Speaker 1>Lawyer came out and said Luci is not testifying. And

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think half of those people. I think those

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<v Speaker 1>are names that were somewhat connected to going to call them,

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<v Speaker 1>and then they're probably going to decline. Of course, they're

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<v Speaker 1>going to call their lawyers, and their lawyers gonna say,

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<v Speaker 1>my client, you know, doesn't want anything to do with that.

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<v Speaker 1>I think some people forget that. You know, Lord Wayne's

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<v Speaker 1>bust being shot up in Atlanta when in the nightclub

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<v Speaker 1>was allegedly associated to yr SL. So that's why Lord

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<v Speaker 1>Wayne's name came up. But I highly doubt any of

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<v Speaker 1>them will participate. I don't think any of them are

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<v Speaker 1>going to be going to testify. I don't see that

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<v Speaker 1>it's about to be interesting because you know, uh, it

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<v Speaker 1>starts January nine. Lucci his trial has been pushed back,

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<v Speaker 1>so we don't know when his trial is gonna. It's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna his trial depends on thus trial. I think. I

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<v Speaker 1>think that's probably why I will not disclose what. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't see how his trial connected to each other, and

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<v Speaker 1>they're not for remember the murder charges from an associative

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<v Speaker 1>a little of a wife and Lucci the murder charge.

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<v Speaker 1>They're connected. I mean, Lucie got locked up before THU

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<v Speaker 1>right correct on a separate thing. But Lucci is connected

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<v Speaker 1>to the thug ship some in some way, and they're

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<v Speaker 1>not friends, right, of course not, but just delaying his

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<v Speaker 1>for now. Yeah, I just disclosed that to the public. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>they're not from this Okay. I think there's gonna be

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<v Speaker 1>a long trial, and I think that they're you know,

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<v Speaker 1>the media. Everybody's about to drag the trial out since

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<v Speaker 1>it's a higher, you know, profile trial, especially in Atlanta.

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<v Speaker 1>I think you know, it's might gonna a couple of weeks. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna see January ninth, Monday. We need to keep

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<v Speaker 1>people updated with that. All right, time for the curveball

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<v Speaker 1>question of the days. Are you guys ready? O c T.

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<v Speaker 1>You have to participate? I'm that's the question. Wait, it's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna go and give us some music or ischilling. We

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<v Speaker 1>got the question that you should not worry about at

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<v Speaker 1>this particular amount. I love God, I'm very I want

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<v Speaker 1>some music. We got their legs right now. It's nice

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<v Speaker 1>too close, Okay. If you were offered nine hundred million

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<v Speaker 1>dollars to sell a family member, you had to sell somebody?

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<v Speaker 1>Who would yourself? Who in the slavery is going on?

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<v Speaker 1>You have to nine hundred million dollars for keyword? Who

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<v Speaker 1>would you sell? Whoever asked me for the most money. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>whatever family member calls me the most asked for money

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<v Speaker 1>that I do not have. You are sold for the

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<v Speaker 1>million dollars and definitely selling one of my aunties that

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<v Speaker 1>don't care about So are you selling somebody for nine

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<v Speaker 1>million or you're just gonna walk away? And that question

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<v Speaker 1>hurts my soul. I can't even know millions to aunties

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<v Speaker 1>that can go. I got a cop getting sold. I

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<v Speaker 1>got a cousin the South Florida. Our sell they got

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<v Speaker 1>to be blood blood or like, yeah, I got a

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<v Speaker 1>cousin my hometown of Westbonda, Florida. I would definitely sell

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<v Speaker 1>you know, what's her name? To her? What's her name?

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<v Speaker 1>I ain't going on that far ship. Then the keyboard

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<v Speaker 1>games and you used to talk about wait, so you really, bro,

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<v Speaker 1>this is not a million listen you know? And as

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<v Speaker 1>she sold on and I'll give a million though it's hard.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, what am I selling her to? Those are

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<v Speaker 1>the questions I have. What am I selling this family?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't give a damn damn slavery that I would

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<v Speaker 1>feel bad. I can't do that. If a slavery, I

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<v Speaker 1>can't do it. If it's what do we tell them

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<v Speaker 1>to it? That's a great question. I ain't asking all that.

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<v Speaker 1>They said, not a million, man, I asked nothing. What're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna do? Buy them back? They're just gonna get something. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but what if they asked for more? No no no

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<v Speaker 1>no no no no no no no no no no

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<v Speaker 1>no no. It's not like he's from sick. No no

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<v Speaker 1>no no. Let's they offer me five? Somebody against so,

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<v Speaker 1>so you're not selling nobody. I ain't got about it

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<v Speaker 1>to sell you a person, the person that really hurt

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<v Speaker 1>my spirits. That what's the longing the thing? So you

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<v Speaker 1>have out of that because I'm sorry. I love has

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<v Speaker 1>to be blood. If they could be, like my cousin

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<v Speaker 1>is so gay, so she would say, go ahead and

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<v Speaker 1>sell me. I know you want to sell me anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>go ahead. No, I ain't got nobody. Okay, nobody, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, let's take a quick comment. You want to

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<v Speaker 1>talk about it? X Oh how this work? That ain't

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<v Speaker 1>how this work? Okay, we'll be right back. Stay tuned

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<v Speaker 1>with more of the Baller Alert show. You said long

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<v Speaker 1>in the minute I met you, baby, I knew I

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to many the love of money. It's love versus money,

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<v Speaker 1>they say, you can't put a attack on love. I

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<v Speaker 1>love on the ball or alert show. On our show,

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<v Speaker 1>we got love versus money? Yeah yeah, yeah, ready, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>Today we got um TLC Chilly and the Boy meets

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<v Speaker 1>World Matthew Lawrence. Are we asking if Matthews doing it

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<v Speaker 1>for love? It was for the love all the money.

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<v Speaker 1>I think Chilly got more money in this case? Am

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<v Speaker 1>I wrong? Am I right? Answer the question, ma'am. I

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<v Speaker 1>think it's love. I just I think they're genuinely interested

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<v Speaker 1>in each other. I think Chilly's at a point life

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<v Speaker 1>where she's like, you know what, I need to try

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<v Speaker 1>something different, something outside the norm for me. And it

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<v Speaker 1>happened to be because you know, Chili used to have

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<v Speaker 1>a list. I don't know if that if he checked

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<v Speaker 1>all the boxes. But you know, he has to be

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<v Speaker 1>super fine. He has to have a great sense of humor, sensitive,

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<v Speaker 1>very charming, no good washboard stomach, he can't even He

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<v Speaker 1>has to believe in God. He has to love kids,

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<v Speaker 1>no more than two baby mamas. He asked me a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of things. Man, go ahead, bet, I mean, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna say it's definitely love. Um. I had a chance

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<v Speaker 1>to meet Chili several times and she seems like a

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<v Speaker 1>very loving woman. And I think that it's love now

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<v Speaker 1>on the guy on the dude hand, whatever his name,

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<v Speaker 1>And I mean it might be for the chicken white

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<v Speaker 1>man stuff, like you think white dudes ain't looking for

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<v Speaker 1>the bag too, that's cool, But I think that white

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<v Speaker 1>men possibly love a little differently as well, Like he's

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<v Speaker 1>probably very like essential and like a painting her toe

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<v Speaker 1>nails like that. Man? Do that? Is it my turn?

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<v Speaker 1>Go ahead? Ry? I think TLC. I mean not Chili.

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<v Speaker 1>Chili is like fucking she She's taking whatever the you

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<v Speaker 1>can get. God, I don't think Chili is a settler.

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<v Speaker 1>First of all, Hey, I let you'all go. I let

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<v Speaker 1>y'all got settling. Yes, Chili is settling. I think that

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<v Speaker 1>is ready. I'll be back. My old boy is getting

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<v Speaker 1>some African American asks. That's what you know you're getting.

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<v Speaker 1>You want you know what I'm talking about. He didn't

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<v Speaker 1>want to taste that, you know, I want to see

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<v Speaker 1>what he's talking about. You wanted some of that, yeah, Minory,

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<v Speaker 1>that's all he wanted. Oh, I don't know what the

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<v Speaker 1>hell this is. This ain't this ain't for the money,

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<v Speaker 1>off for the love, like you said, like you said, BT,

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<v Speaker 1>I've met Chili on several occasions. She's definitely Yes, she's

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<v Speaker 1>very nice person. You said she's settling. I think she

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<v Speaker 1>think she is settling. That's Chili. But now I think,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I don't think Chili is. I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>Rele is settling. Like I know. I think she knows

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<v Speaker 1>what she wants. She's okay with and comfortable in her

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<v Speaker 1>peace within herself. Uh. And you know, she finally found

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<v Speaker 1>somebody to align with her, and you know she's she

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<v Speaker 1>seems happy with her choice, and she you know, it's

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<v Speaker 1>comfortable enough to go public. I think I think this

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<v Speaker 1>is real. It might not even be a for everything,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I don't think we have to put so much

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<v Speaker 1>weight on it. Like it might just be good right now.

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<v Speaker 1>That's true, but it also is it also is shocking

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<v Speaker 1>for Chili to come out with somebody, you know, out

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<v Speaker 1>of all these years she older now don't give a fuck,

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<v Speaker 1>look a share. Yeah, yeah, facts, that's a good as

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<v Speaker 1>she's like, I'm having. Did not just say that? First

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<v Speaker 1>I said, she said thank it. No, you said she

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<v Speaker 1>was settling. That's the second thing I said that. The

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<v Speaker 1>first thing I said, she was like running back. What

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<v Speaker 1>he saying Chili is like fu, she whatever you can get.

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<v Speaker 1>The second thing she said I said was I believe

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<v Speaker 1>she's settlings was some bullshit. Oh boy is trying to

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<v Speaker 1>get some of that chocolate time out. Yes, uh, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>he tried to get some of that. They probably be

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<v Speaker 1>doing dancing. He's probably putting that yang't on his ass.

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<v Speaker 1>He never had nothing like that. Matthew, I get to

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<v Speaker 1>you that he was lit. When he was lit. He

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<v Speaker 1>ain't bad looking, He's not He's good. That's what's up episode.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's go ahead and go to commercially. Don't see not

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<v Speaker 1>wrong to swirl. I never had to swirl, but I

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<v Speaker 1>don't not wrong with the swirl. You ain't never had

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<v Speaker 1>a swirl. Don't even ask wirl chocolate vanilla know what

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<v Speaker 1>the swirl is. I did not know what the swirl was.

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<v Speaker 1>We're going to commercial with white girls. You've seen me

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<v Speaker 1>with at the party. You have a lot of Caucasian friends,

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<v Speaker 1>and I hope they're Polish. I'm saying that you have

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<v Speaker 1>a diverse group of friends. A lot of them you're

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<v Speaker 1>not to talk about you is they're Hispanic. They're not

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<v Speaker 1>all Hispanic. Third diverse. He has white friends, he has

0:22:08.400 --> 0:22:13.199
<v Speaker 1>Hispanic friends, he has Persian friends. How you don't know what? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>let's go to commercial a talking about swirls to my friends.

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<v Speaker 1>Will be come back right. You gotta love this show.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll be right back with more of the baller Alert

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<v Speaker 1>show message. It's time for ball of mail. Please forgive

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<v Speaker 1>me why I speed read through this. Please be alerted

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<v Speaker 1>and pay attention guys, Bowler family. I have a story.

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<v Speaker 1>I've been a relationship with a man for twelve years

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<v Speaker 1>and we have one kid together. Things aren't what they

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<v Speaker 1>seem to be with me and him. All of our

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<v Speaker 1>friends and family think we are the perfect couple, but

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<v Speaker 1>we are not. In fact, we are the most toxic, confusing,

0:22:56.480 --> 0:22:59.560
<v Speaker 1>oddest couple ever. I hate him and he hates me.

0:23:00.119 --> 0:23:03.280
<v Speaker 1>We literally are both actors in and out the house,

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<v Speaker 1>and it amazes me how I'm still here. I cheated

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<v Speaker 1>on him seven years ago, but I didn't have sex

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<v Speaker 1>with the person until two years ago. I recently found

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<v Speaker 1>out that he has a poorn addiction and he likes

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<v Speaker 1>to pay escorts for strange things. I found out and

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<v Speaker 1>didn't tell him that. I know. I don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>be with him at all. I simply want my kid

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<v Speaker 1>to grow up with a mom and dad. I know

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<v Speaker 1>that my child would be broken inside because she really

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<v Speaker 1>loves us both equally, and we make sure she has

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<v Speaker 1>everything and more. Please help, I need advice, and I

0:23:35.400 --> 0:23:38.600
<v Speaker 1>need it now. Tying to let it go, I gotta

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<v Speaker 1>that's not healthy, because the child can feel if you don't,

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<v Speaker 1>if you're not happy or if you're miserable in something,

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<v Speaker 1>you gotta walk away from that. I'm not a parent,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not married, so I don't understand, you know fully

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<v Speaker 1>how difficult that is. But I agree with Octavia. Children

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<v Speaker 1>can feel it. People in general can feel negative energy,

0:23:59.720 --> 0:24:04.159
<v Speaker 1>and it's not It's not enough to just be in

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<v Speaker 1>the same household and say we're gonna raise a child together,

0:24:06.400 --> 0:24:10.119
<v Speaker 1>like it might be better off separating and raising the

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<v Speaker 1>child in a healthy co parenting environment. I think what

0:24:14.160 --> 0:24:17.399
<v Speaker 1>you're doing could backstab, you know, could could backfire on

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<v Speaker 1>the kid. And maybe your child is gonna end up

0:24:20.200 --> 0:24:22.959
<v Speaker 1>in a relationship similar to yours in the future and

0:24:23.000 --> 0:24:26.680
<v Speaker 1>be miserable and stay for the kids. That ain't it.

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<v Speaker 1>That's not it. Yeah, I mean stay for the kids.

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<v Speaker 1>It's it's it's some bullshit. First of all sounds to

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<v Speaker 1>me like you guys are better off being neighbors and

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<v Speaker 1>co parenting rather than suffering, because, like you said, kids

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<v Speaker 1>understand and they can tell when mommy and daddy ain't

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<v Speaker 1>cool right now. And you know, I had a friend

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<v Speaker 1>who he was dating a m a lady, and that

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<v Speaker 1>she had a kid, and you know, she went to

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<v Speaker 1>her mom and was like, hey, is he treating you right?

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<v Speaker 1>Because you seem like you said at so the kids

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<v Speaker 1>be knowing, Yeah, that baby, that baby, no, um, what's

0:25:07.680 --> 0:25:10.480
<v Speaker 1>going on? And the baby she's probably not telling y'all

0:25:10.920 --> 0:25:14.920
<v Speaker 1>what's going on. So UH usually have something funny to say,

0:25:14.920 --> 0:25:19.680
<v Speaker 1>but this is definitely not funny. Um, you definitely need

0:25:19.720 --> 0:25:23.320
<v Speaker 1>to seek out some therapy to uh, just to kind

0:25:23.320 --> 0:25:25.639
<v Speaker 1>of get yourself together. UM. I would recommend both of

0:25:25.680 --> 0:25:29.520
<v Speaker 1>y'all do it separately and then maybe together, UM, because

0:25:29.520 --> 0:25:31.719
<v Speaker 1>you probably need gonna need to speak to your your

0:25:31.760 --> 0:25:34.000
<v Speaker 1>child and kids are resilient. Man. You don't don't ever

0:25:34.080 --> 0:25:38.600
<v Speaker 1>think that, Um, your daughter is not gonna overcome this.

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<v Speaker 1>As long as you guys love each other and love

0:25:41.320 --> 0:25:45.159
<v Speaker 1>your daughter together, they'll be fine. So don't stay together

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<v Speaker 1>and pretend just because. Go live your life and let

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<v Speaker 1>him have his escorts and let him do what the

0:25:51.000 --> 0:25:53.360
<v Speaker 1>hell he got going on. And you go get back

0:25:53.359 --> 0:25:56.000
<v Speaker 1>with this man that you cheated on with seven years ago.

0:25:56.080 --> 0:25:58.600
<v Speaker 1>Then you just start sleeping with him two years ago. Uh,

0:25:58.960 --> 0:26:00.359
<v Speaker 1>just gonna be with that man. I don't know what

0:26:00.400 --> 0:26:02.679
<v Speaker 1>to tell you outside of uh, just go ahead, and

0:26:02.720 --> 0:26:04.480
<v Speaker 1>if you're not happy, don't be with that person. I

0:26:04.480 --> 0:26:06.360
<v Speaker 1>feel like a lot of times people in this position

0:26:06.400 --> 0:26:08.919
<v Speaker 1>like projects like, oh, I wish my parents would have

0:26:08.920 --> 0:26:10.560
<v Speaker 1>stayed together, So I'm gonna make sure that me and

0:26:10.600 --> 0:26:13.960
<v Speaker 1>my partners stayed together for the kids. But you're completely

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<v Speaker 1>ignoring all of the negative things that you're teaching your child,

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<v Speaker 1>Like your kid could literally grow up and think it's

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<v Speaker 1>okay for a man to treat her that way because

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<v Speaker 1>you stayed normalized. That's not it. I agree with that.

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<v Speaker 1>Let me get some shots before we get up out

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<v Speaker 1>of here. Guys, go for it. I'm going first. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>what time for a and M custom jury? I literally

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<v Speaker 1>want a contest, I swear to guy, Guys, I did.

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<v Speaker 1>I liked the ten pictures on Instagram and I made

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<v Speaker 1>a comment on the post y'all of a sudden not

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<v Speaker 1>one only one on camera Yeah, I got a diamond

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<v Speaker 1>charm from A and M Custom Jury. As far as hell,

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<v Speaker 1>it's out there in kenniso. It took me about fifty

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<v Speaker 1>five minutes to get there, but I got there. I

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<v Speaker 1>got my white goal charm and M Custom Jury, and

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<v Speaker 1>we got something in the in the mix. Hopefully, well

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<v Speaker 1>I don't hopefully we get the whole team. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>some A and M. You know what I'm saying, make

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<v Speaker 1>a sponsor of a segment on the show. Yeah, let's

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<v Speaker 1>talk about all right, Well, I guess time for a

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<v Speaker 1>pep talk. Today's pep talk. I kind of want to

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<v Speaker 1>continue what we started our last episode as far as

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<v Speaker 1>goals and stuff goes. Um being there. This is a

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<v Speaker 1>new year. This is the first week in the new year.

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<v Speaker 1>What I want to know what you all learned last year? Uh?

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<v Speaker 1>What was the biggest leson in two for you? Last year?

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<v Speaker 1>I learned not to ignore when I'm being called. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>I've been having a really hard time sleeping. This is

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<v Speaker 1>old news. It's been years, but I would say the

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<v Speaker 1>last year I've been feeling a lot more spiritual. And

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<v Speaker 1>I was looking at it like, oh, I'm being pulled.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm being pulled, and really I had to change that

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<v Speaker 1>word pulled too called. So I know that there's a

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<v Speaker 1>column for me, and I'm really just focused on focusing

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<v Speaker 1>on my spirituality. Like so I've learned to ignore what

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<v Speaker 1>I know that was twenty two for me. All right, Um,

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<v Speaker 1>I think you know, the best thing I learned last

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<v Speaker 1>year is definitely, um, you know, to stop crastinate and

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<v Speaker 1>stop you know, thinking, because you know, I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of times when you're in this industry and

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<v Speaker 1>you know, things are just going you know, so fast,

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<v Speaker 1>so fast that other things that you want to accomplish

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<v Speaker 1>and things that you are actually passionate about that you

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<v Speaker 1>might procrastinate. So you know, I might be interested about

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<v Speaker 1>reading this book about you know, more about financial literacy

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<v Speaker 1>or you know, more about credit and more about ownership,

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<v Speaker 1>and then it's like, oh no, but I'm over here

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<v Speaker 1>doing this doing that. I don't have time of doing that.

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<v Speaker 1>So I think procrastination is definitely one of the things

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<v Speaker 1>that you know, I learned to stop doing going into

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<v Speaker 1>this new year. Man, I think last year I learned

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<v Speaker 1>how important I was to me. Uh. I'm a person.

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<v Speaker 1>I put a lot of things and people before me. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>even things that would affect my health and stuff like

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<v Speaker 1>that in my well being, So I didn't realize how

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<v Speaker 1>important I was, and I had to say no and

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<v Speaker 1>put myself first a lot more than usual. Um. So

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<v Speaker 1>I definitely learned that towards the end of the year

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<v Speaker 1>that he can't to you to keep helping so many

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<v Speaker 1>people and neglect yourself. So um kind of more so

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<v Speaker 1>over a self reflection thing based off the last episode, uh,

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<v Speaker 1>paying attention to my personal health and stuff like that,

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<v Speaker 1>because I tend to worry about other people and not

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<v Speaker 1>worry about myself at all. So um, within doing that,

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<v Speaker 1>I kind of realized that I have and I share

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<v Speaker 1>with a few of y'all, I have high cholesterol and

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<v Speaker 1>like I'm having like some some health problems because i

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<v Speaker 1>never really paid attention to myself because I'm always worrying

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<v Speaker 1>about somebody else. And um, so I learned a lot

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<v Speaker 1>to just pay attention to myself and put me first

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<v Speaker 1>so then I can help even more probably. So you know,

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<v Speaker 1>yeah that I love it uh self action as well

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<v Speaker 1>like therapy right here, And that's what I was gonna say.

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<v Speaker 1>I love I love where we're taking this pep talk,

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<v Speaker 1>because it's not when we say it sometimes we help

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<v Speaker 1>ourselves and not only ourselves, we help our audience. So

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<v Speaker 1>you know, let us know in the comments some of

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<v Speaker 1>the things that you learned, some of your biggest takeaways

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<v Speaker 1>from twenty two and yeah, we're gonna keep the conversation

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