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Speaker 1: Underscore sung another one, thank you, another one, thank you.
Speaker 1: All right, let's get back into it. Um prayers for tomorrow.
Speaker 1: Hamlin Man, he woke up, he woke up and he wrote, um,
Speaker 1: asking a question who won the game? And the doctor said,
Speaker 1: you he won the game. Um, so he's he's alert. Um,
Speaker 1: he's still not breathing on his own. They're saying he's
Speaker 1: still critically ill. Correct, but he's shown a lot of
Speaker 1: great signs and he opened his eyes and he's up
Speaker 1: that this is dope. Uh, he's in good health. Four
Speaker 1: year old. You know man Buffalo bills and shout out
Speaker 1: to the medical staff who really did their job to
Speaker 1: the best ability. TV. Yeah, I watched it. I've seen it.
Speaker 1: Love that I saw the game. We saw the medical
Speaker 1: staff and do their job, and that was just great, scary.
Speaker 1: I saw a lot of baller nation in the comments,
Speaker 1: and a lot of people feel like the COVID nineteen
Speaker 1: vaccine has a lot to do with all these people
Speaker 1: that's looking crazy about that in the comments. What is disrespectful.
Speaker 1: I think it's disrespectful for them to blame you know,
Speaker 1: something critical like that too, a cod vaccine shot. Well,
Speaker 1: I respect everyone's opinion. Um, and you know, unfortunately, like
Speaker 1: he's not the only act just that dropped there. There
Speaker 1: are plenty of athletes right now that seem to be
Speaker 1: having some health concerns, and a lot of people do
Speaker 1: feel like the COVID nineteen vaccine was premature. Did not
Speaker 1: know what, you know, what the consequences would be or
Speaker 1: or how people would respond to it. I'm not saying
Speaker 1: that it is the vaccine or not. I don't know,
Speaker 1: but but don't you think if it was if it
Speaker 1: was the vaccine, that a lot of players would experience
Speaker 1: the same thing. I also think this entire a lot
Speaker 1: of athletes that are dealing with this stuff. If this
Speaker 1: is what happened. I think we should discuss that at
Speaker 1: a later date. Let's just I think discussed that he's
Speaker 1: doing better. I think that, um, you know, medicine affects
Speaker 1: people in different ways, and even we still have people
Speaker 1: dying from COVID today, you know who are not vacs.
Speaker 1: Who are you know, like you said, there are some
Speaker 1: people who are experiencing different things who are vaccinated, and
Speaker 1: you know who aren't as well. So it's just still
Speaker 1: it's COVID is still a serious matter. I've seen on
Speaker 1: new Strand here and a new Strand that's crazy. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's a lot going on. So I don't know what
Speaker 1: to say about it. I just know that medicine affects
Speaker 1: people differently. It does. Yeah, it's unfortunate, but I'm super
Speaker 1: glad that he's responding well. And you know, to anybody
Speaker 1: who made a decision to get the vaccine, that's great
Speaker 1: for you. If you didn't, that's great for you. Do
Speaker 1: what you feel works for you. But we got to
Speaker 1: be careful about saying like it is the COVID nineteen back,
Speaker 1: disrespectful when you just because I feel like anytime a
Speaker 1: health issue happens, everybody's like it's the vaccine. It's like,
Speaker 1: let's let to not dehumanize a moment like this, like
Speaker 1: that they were the humanizing. I think we're just acknowledging
Speaker 1: what you know, people are saying in the swoller nation
Speaker 1: comments like not us talking about the people in the
Speaker 1: comments like damn so soon? Like I think people are
Speaker 1: just scared, Like you know, people are scared, and they're
Speaker 1: just trying to find a way to create dialogue and
Speaker 1: see what other people think about it. But nonetheless, the
Speaker 1: man is responsive and he's he's don't keep praying and
Speaker 1: donate to his charity. Okay, yes, because he's up. He's
Speaker 1: almost up to three point five million, okay, uh speaking
Speaker 1: to millions. The suspect to Takeoffs murder has been released
Speaker 1: on a one million dollar bond. Thoughts about that he's out.
Speaker 1: I think he's a flight risk. Then they say they
Speaker 1: found him with a brand new passport and cash, Like yeah,
Speaker 1: that that's just like letting him get so much leeway
Speaker 1: and something, you know, tragical, terrible idea, terrible terrible idea,
Speaker 1: especially when you found the man when he was trying
Speaker 1: to flee the country. Is there is there enough evidence
Speaker 1: to actually say that he did it like right, So
Speaker 1: that's what investigators said that they saw on on camera.
Speaker 1: So speaking to take Off, Quevo released the song Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's called without You. I've definitely been a part of
Speaker 1: these guys beginnings and it's definitely sad. It's really sad
Speaker 1: just hearing music and just seeing Cuevo. He just looks
Speaker 1: so empty. Um I can't even fathom to think about
Speaker 1: what he's going through mentally, physically, all of the above. So, um,
Speaker 1: I don't know, I don't know how to feel about this.
Speaker 1: I just feel sad every time all over again. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I think we all feel the same way. Take Off
Speaker 1: so problematic. Um, so he's gonna be hurting for forever.
Speaker 1: It's tough. I mean, this is your family, this is
Speaker 1: your groupmate. Like you guys are coming up together, you're
Speaker 1: making money together, You're having all these experiences like we're
Speaker 1: seeing them travel and trying new food like and it
Speaker 1: already went from a group of three to a group
Speaker 1: of two. And then you lose your loved one in
Speaker 1: the super a tragic way, Like I can't imagine what
Speaker 1: that's like. I mean, I know that majority of us
Speaker 1: have probably lost someone super close to us, but to
Speaker 1: actually see him, you know, articulate that artistically. It's like
Speaker 1: it was sad to see the clip of him just
Speaker 1: sitting there holding a joint, Like, yeah, you never get
Speaker 1: over it. You never get over losing a close loved
Speaker 1: one like that. Um even like you said, with friends,
Speaker 1: you some people like look at Swiss Beats and and DMX,
Speaker 1: you know, and you just when when it comes to
Speaker 1: things like that, you just honor them, you know, you
Speaker 1: just continue their legacy and try to push for them.
Speaker 1: Like even with missy Ellien and Aaliyah. You know, she
Speaker 1: never lets people uh forget about Aaliyah, you know, begging
Speaker 1: and puff. He never lets anybody forget. And you know,
Speaker 1: as long as uh Cuebo was here, he will never
Speaker 1: let anybody forget about take Off. You know, neither will
Speaker 1: um Offset. So yeah, he'll live on. And it was
Speaker 1: a dope. I really enjoyed the song. Two page, go
Speaker 1: on to page. It made me really sad at the
Speaker 1: end when he said, you know, I'm sorry, that really
Speaker 1: made me sad. Yeah, it was just sad period, Alright,
Speaker 1: talking about sad young thugs being charged with eight of
Speaker 1: the sixty five charges. Thoughts about that because if he
Speaker 1: gets convicted of one. It's max. It's max twenty years,
Speaker 1: twenty years. Those charges look like beat abolt charges. I mean,
Speaker 1: you gotta think about it. Out of sixty eight charges,
Speaker 1: he only has eight and sixty five or sixty five
Speaker 1: the only charges. Yeah, I got you. I mean, I
Speaker 1: don't know if y'all seen his lawyer interview that that
Speaker 1: he did on the news. Seems very confident. He seems
Speaker 1: extremely confident, and he seems like, I mean, a lawyer
Speaker 1: that's saying I'm going to fight to my ask breath
Speaker 1: for a client. That seems like a damn good lawyer
Speaker 1: who's gonna do his job to get his client out.
Speaker 1: Do you as anybody think that's gonna get up compaine?
Speaker 1: It was marijuana tote. But those are all things that
Speaker 1: could be somebody else's. That's why I said those charges
Speaker 1: don't don't. One I'm worried about is the Rico one
Speaker 1: because that's why I sell. That's his label, that's his
Speaker 1: you know, next y Z. So that's the only one
Speaker 1: I am concerned about, and I believe it was the
Speaker 1: one of the conspiring to run a cridel enterprise. So
Speaker 1: those two I'm nervous about that. Yeah, I'm nervous about
Speaker 1: those two because the judge made it very clear to
Speaker 1: all of the guys that are going to trial that
Speaker 1: if you do get you know, if you lose this case,
Speaker 1: by law, I have to give you the max. And
Speaker 1: that's by law. Said that. Yeah, he made that very
Speaker 1: clear to everybody that you know, if you lose any
Speaker 1: one of those cases, you're getting twenty his conspiracy to
Speaker 1: violate racketeer, influence and corrupt organizations. The other one is participation,
Speaker 1: participation and commitmental in criminal street gang activity, possession of
Speaker 1: marijuana with int the district the distribute, possession of codeine
Speaker 1: with intend to distribute, possession of cocaine, possession of firearm,
Speaker 1: possession of My concern is like all of those individually
Speaker 1: might be something that you could beat, but collectively, I'm
Speaker 1: not sure how that works. Jerry has to find him
Speaker 1: not guilty on all eight and see that's that's the
Speaker 1: hard part because I feel like they're all separate too.
Speaker 1: But I feel like for for like you know, somebody,
Speaker 1: to be able to beat the system, that's the definition
Speaker 1: of beating a system. That's gonna be really hard to do.
Speaker 1: And especially if he does win this case, he's going
Speaker 1: to come out a bigger artist. He's going to because
Speaker 1: this morale looks kind of down, like when when we're
Speaker 1: seeing clips of him and I I mean obviously right,
Speaker 1: like you're you're locked up, like all this is going on,
Speaker 1: people are talking um. But it's so sad to to
Speaker 1: to see that from him, Like I'm kind of used
Speaker 1: to seeing him just like super energetic col having fun. Yeah,
Speaker 1: You're energy is gonna be a little different. Yeah, Well,
Speaker 1: I'm interested to see what happens during the trial. Did
Speaker 1: anybody know when it starts January to night? You think
Speaker 1: it's gonna be a long trial. I think it's gonna
Speaker 1: be a long trial. I'm nervous. I ain't gonna lie.
Speaker 1: I'm nervous. I'm really nervous. Many witnesses, they said they
Speaker 1: had over a hundred, over a hundred are they calling
Speaker 1: on some pretty said and Lucci a little Wayne rich
Speaker 1: and Richard Kwan put cap in the comments the same thing. Well,
Speaker 1: his lawyer, his lawyer, I believe, denied that. He said.
Speaker 1: Lawyer came out and said Luci is not testifying. And
Speaker 1: I don't think half of those people. I think those
Speaker 1: are names that were somewhat connected to going to call them,
Speaker 1: and then they're probably going to decline. Of course, they're
Speaker 1: going to call their lawyers, and their lawyers gonna say,
Speaker 1: my client, you know, doesn't want anything to do with that.
Speaker 1: I think some people forget that. You know, Lord Wayne's
Speaker 1: bust being shot up in Atlanta when in the nightclub
Speaker 1: was allegedly associated to yr SL. So that's why Lord
Speaker 1: Wayne's name came up. But I highly doubt any of
Speaker 1: them will participate. I don't think any of them are
Speaker 1: going to be going to testify. I don't see that
Speaker 1: it's about to be interesting because you know, uh, it
Speaker 1: starts January nine. Lucci his trial has been pushed back,
Speaker 1: so we don't know when his trial is gonna. It's
Speaker 1: gonna his trial depends on thus trial. I think. I
Speaker 1: think that's probably why I will not disclose what. I
Speaker 1: don't see how his trial connected to each other, and
Speaker 1: they're not for remember the murder charges from an associative
Speaker 1: a little of a wife and Lucci the murder charge.
Speaker 1: They're connected. I mean, Lucie got locked up before THU
Speaker 1: right correct on a separate thing. But Lucci is connected
Speaker 1: to the thug ship some in some way, and they're
Speaker 1: not friends, right, of course not, but just delaying his
Speaker 1: for now. Yeah, I just disclosed that to the public. Yeah,
Speaker 1: they're not from this Okay. I think there's gonna be
Speaker 1: a long trial, and I think that they're you know,
Speaker 1: the media. Everybody's about to drag the trial out since
Speaker 1: it's a higher, you know, profile trial, especially in Atlanta.
Speaker 1: I think you know, it's might gonna a couple of weeks. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we're gonna see January ninth, Monday. We need to keep
Speaker 1: people updated with that. All right, time for the curveball
Speaker 1: question of the days. Are you guys ready? O c T.
Speaker 1: You have to participate? I'm that's the question. Wait, it's
Speaker 1: gonna go and give us some music or ischilling. We
Speaker 1: got the question that you should not worry about at
Speaker 1: this particular amount. I love God, I'm very I want
Speaker 1: some music. We got their legs right now. It's nice
Speaker 1: too close, Okay. If you were offered nine hundred million
Speaker 1: dollars to sell a family member, you had to sell somebody?
Speaker 1: Who would yourself? Who in the slavery is going on?
Speaker 1: You have to nine hundred million dollars for keyword? Who
Speaker 1: would you sell? Whoever asked me for the most money. Now,
Speaker 1: whatever family member calls me the most asked for money
Speaker 1: that I do not have. You are sold for the
Speaker 1: million dollars and definitely selling one of my aunties that
Speaker 1: don't care about So are you selling somebody for nine
Speaker 1: million or you're just gonna walk away? And that question
Speaker 1: hurts my soul. I can't even know millions to aunties
Speaker 1: that can go. I got a cop getting sold. I
Speaker 1: got a cousin the South Florida. Our sell they got
Speaker 1: to be blood blood or like, yeah, I got a
Speaker 1: cousin my hometown of Westbonda, Florida. I would definitely sell
Speaker 1: you know, what's her name? To her? What's her name?
Speaker 1: I ain't going on that far ship. Then the keyboard
Speaker 1: games and you used to talk about wait, so you really, bro,
Speaker 1: this is not a million listen you know? And as
Speaker 1: she sold on and I'll give a million though it's hard.
Speaker 1: I mean, what am I selling her to? Those are
Speaker 1: the questions I have. What am I selling this family?
Speaker 1: I don't give a damn damn slavery that I would
Speaker 1: feel bad. I can't do that. If a slavery, I
Speaker 1: can't do it. If it's what do we tell them
Speaker 1: to it? That's a great question. I ain't asking all that.
Speaker 1: They said, not a million, man, I asked nothing. What're
Speaker 1: gonna do? Buy them back? They're just gonna get something. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but what if they asked for more? No no no
Speaker 1: no no no no no no no no no no
Speaker 1: no no. It's not like he's from sick. No no
Speaker 1: no no. Let's they offer me five? Somebody against so,
Speaker 1: so you're not selling nobody. I ain't got about it
Speaker 1: to sell you a person, the person that really hurt
Speaker 1: my spirits. That what's the longing the thing? So you
Speaker 1: have out of that because I'm sorry. I love has
Speaker 1: to be blood. If they could be, like my cousin
Speaker 1: is so gay, so she would say, go ahead and
Speaker 1: sell me. I know you want to sell me anyway,
Speaker 1: go ahead. No, I ain't got nobody. Okay, nobody, Okay,
Speaker 1: all right, let's take a quick comment. You want to
Speaker 1: talk about it? X Oh how this work? That ain't
Speaker 1: how this work? Okay, we'll be right back. Stay tuned
Speaker 1: with more of the Baller Alert show. You said long
Speaker 1: in the minute I met you, baby, I knew I
Speaker 1: wanted to many the love of money. It's love versus money,
Speaker 1: they say, you can't put a attack on love. I
Speaker 1: love on the ball or alert show. On our show,
Speaker 1: we got love versus money? Yeah yeah, yeah, ready, all right,
Speaker 1: Today we got um TLC Chilly and the Boy meets
Speaker 1: World Matthew Lawrence. Are we asking if Matthews doing it
Speaker 1: for love? It was for the love all the money.
Speaker 1: I think Chilly got more money in this case? Am
Speaker 1: I wrong? Am I right? Answer the question, ma'am. I
Speaker 1: think it's love. I just I think they're genuinely interested
Speaker 1: in each other. I think Chilly's at a point life
Speaker 1: where she's like, you know what, I need to try
Speaker 1: something different, something outside the norm for me. And it
Speaker 1: happened to be because you know, Chili used to have
Speaker 1: a list. I don't know if that if he checked
Speaker 1: all the boxes. But you know, he has to be
Speaker 1: super fine. He has to have a great sense of humor, sensitive,
Speaker 1: very charming, no good washboard stomach, he can't even He
Speaker 1: has to believe in God. He has to love kids,
Speaker 1: no more than two baby mamas. He asked me a
Speaker 1: lot of things. Man, go ahead, bet, I mean, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna say it's definitely love. Um. I had a chance
Speaker 1: to meet Chili several times and she seems like a
Speaker 1: very loving woman. And I think that it's love now
Speaker 1: on the guy on the dude hand, whatever his name,
Speaker 1: And I mean it might be for the chicken white
Speaker 1: man stuff, like you think white dudes ain't looking for
Speaker 1: the bag too, that's cool, But I think that white
Speaker 1: men possibly love a little differently as well, Like he's
Speaker 1: probably very like essential and like a painting her toe
Speaker 1: nails like that. Man? Do that? Is it my turn?
Speaker 1: Go ahead? Ry? I think TLC. I mean not Chili.
Speaker 1: Chili is like fucking she She's taking whatever the you
Speaker 1: can get. God, I don't think Chili is a settler.
Speaker 1: First of all, Hey, I let you'all go. I let
Speaker 1: y'all got settling. Yes, Chili is settling. I think that
Speaker 1: is ready. I'll be back. My old boy is getting
Speaker 1: some African American asks. That's what you know you're getting.
Speaker 1: You want you know what I'm talking about. He didn't
Speaker 1: want to taste that, you know, I want to see
Speaker 1: what he's talking about. You wanted some of that, yeah, Minory,
Speaker 1: that's all he wanted. Oh, I don't know what the
Speaker 1: hell this is. This ain't this ain't for the money,
Speaker 1: off for the love, like you said, like you said, BT,
Speaker 1: I've met Chili on several occasions. She's definitely Yes, she's
Speaker 1: very nice person. You said she's settling. I think she
Speaker 1: think she is settling. That's Chili. But now I think,
Speaker 1: you know, I don't think Chili is. I don't think
Speaker 1: Rele is settling. Like I know. I think she knows
Speaker 1: what she wants. She's okay with and comfortable in her
Speaker 1: peace within herself. Uh. And you know, she finally found
Speaker 1: somebody to align with her, and you know she's she
Speaker 1: seems happy with her choice, and she you know, it's
Speaker 1: comfortable enough to go public. I think I think this
Speaker 1: is real. It might not even be a for everything,
Speaker 1: Like I don't think we have to put so much
Speaker 1: weight on it. Like it might just be good right now.
Speaker 1: That's true, but it also is it also is shocking
Speaker 1: for Chili to come out with somebody, you know, out
Speaker 1: of all these years she older now don't give a fuck,
Speaker 1: look a share. Yeah, yeah, facts, that's a good as
Speaker 1: she's like, I'm having. Did not just say that? First
Speaker 1: I said, she said thank it. No, you said she
Speaker 1: was settling. That's the second thing I said that. The
Speaker 1: first thing I said, she was like running back. What
Speaker 1: he saying Chili is like fu, she whatever you can get.
Speaker 1: The second thing she said I said was I believe
Speaker 1: she's settlings was some bullshit. Oh boy is trying to
Speaker 1: get some of that chocolate time out. Yes, uh, yes,
Speaker 1: he tried to get some of that. They probably be
Speaker 1: doing dancing. He's probably putting that yang't on his ass.
Speaker 1: He never had nothing like that. Matthew, I get to
Speaker 1: you that he was lit. When he was lit. He
Speaker 1: ain't bad looking, He's not He's good. That's what's up episode.
Speaker 1: Let's go ahead and go to commercially. Don't see not
Speaker 1: wrong to swirl. I never had to swirl, but I
Speaker 1: don't not wrong with the swirl. You ain't never had
Speaker 1: a swirl. Don't even ask wirl chocolate vanilla know what
Speaker 1: the swirl is. I did not know what the swirl was.
Speaker 1: We're going to commercial with white girls. You've seen me
Speaker 1: with at the party. You have a lot of Caucasian friends,
Speaker 1: and I hope they're Polish. I'm saying that you have
Speaker 1: a diverse group of friends. A lot of them you're
Speaker 1: not to talk about you is they're Hispanic. They're not
Speaker 1: all Hispanic. Third diverse. He has white friends, he has
Speaker 1: Hispanic friends, he has Persian friends. How you don't know what? Okay,
Speaker 1: let's go to commercial a talking about swirls to my friends.
Speaker 1: Will be come back right. You gotta love this show.
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Speaker 1: show message. It's time for ball of mail. Please forgive
Speaker 1: me why I speed read through this. Please be alerted
Speaker 1: and pay attention guys, Bowler family. I have a story.
Speaker 1: I've been a relationship with a man for twelve years
Speaker 1: and we have one kid together. Things aren't what they
Speaker 1: seem to be with me and him. All of our
Speaker 1: friends and family think we are the perfect couple, but
Speaker 1: we are not. In fact, we are the most toxic, confusing,
Speaker 1: oddest couple ever. I hate him and he hates me.
Speaker 1: We literally are both actors in and out the house,
Speaker 1: and it amazes me how I'm still here. I cheated
Speaker 1: on him seven years ago, but I didn't have sex
Speaker 1: with the person until two years ago. I recently found
Speaker 1: out that he has a poorn addiction and he likes
Speaker 1: to pay escorts for strange things. I found out and
Speaker 1: didn't tell him that. I know. I don't want to
Speaker 1: be with him at all. I simply want my kid
Speaker 1: to grow up with a mom and dad. I know
Speaker 1: that my child would be broken inside because she really
Speaker 1: loves us both equally, and we make sure she has
Speaker 1: everything and more. Please help, I need advice, and I
Speaker 1: need it now. Tying to let it go, I gotta
Speaker 1: that's not healthy, because the child can feel if you don't,
Speaker 1: if you're not happy or if you're miserable in something,
Speaker 1: you gotta walk away from that. I'm not a parent,
Speaker 1: I'm not married, so I don't understand, you know fully
Speaker 1: how difficult that is. But I agree with Octavia. Children
Speaker 1: can feel it. People in general can feel negative energy,
Speaker 1: and it's not It's not enough to just be in
Speaker 1: the same household and say we're gonna raise a child together,
Speaker 1: like it might be better off separating and raising the
Speaker 1: child in a healthy co parenting environment. I think what
Speaker 1: you're doing could backstab, you know, could could backfire on
Speaker 1: the kid. And maybe your child is gonna end up
Speaker 1: in a relationship similar to yours in the future and
Speaker 1: be miserable and stay for the kids. That ain't it.
Speaker 1: That's not it. Yeah, I mean stay for the kids.
Speaker 1: It's it's it's some bullshit. First of all sounds to
Speaker 1: me like you guys are better off being neighbors and
Speaker 1: co parenting rather than suffering, because, like you said, kids
Speaker 1: understand and they can tell when mommy and daddy ain't
Speaker 1: cool right now. And you know, I had a friend
Speaker 1: who he was dating a m a lady, and that
Speaker 1: she had a kid, and you know, she went to
Speaker 1: her mom and was like, hey, is he treating you right?
Speaker 1: Because you seem like you said at so the kids
Speaker 1: be knowing, Yeah, that baby, that baby, no, um, what's
Speaker 1: going on? And the baby she's probably not telling y'all
Speaker 1: what's going on. So UH usually have something funny to say,
Speaker 1: but this is definitely not funny. Um, you definitely need
Speaker 1: to seek out some therapy to uh, just to kind
Speaker 1: of get yourself together. UM. I would recommend both of
Speaker 1: y'all do it separately and then maybe together, UM, because
Speaker 1: you probably need gonna need to speak to your your
Speaker 1: child and kids are resilient. Man. You don't don't ever
Speaker 1: think that, Um, your daughter is not gonna overcome this.
Speaker 1: As long as you guys love each other and love
Speaker 1: your daughter together, they'll be fine. So don't stay together
Speaker 1: and pretend just because. Go live your life and let
Speaker 1: him have his escorts and let him do what the
Speaker 1: hell he got going on. And you go get back
Speaker 1: with this man that you cheated on with seven years ago.
Speaker 1: Then you just start sleeping with him two years ago. Uh,
Speaker 1: just gonna be with that man. I don't know what
Speaker 1: to tell you outside of uh, just go ahead, and
Speaker 1: if you're not happy, don't be with that person. I
Speaker 1: feel like a lot of times people in this position
Speaker 1: like projects like, oh, I wish my parents would have
Speaker 1: stayed together, So I'm gonna make sure that me and
Speaker 1: my partners stayed together for the kids. But you're completely
Speaker 1: ignoring all of the negative things that you're teaching your child,
Speaker 1: Like your kid could literally grow up and think it's
Speaker 1: okay for a man to treat her that way because
Speaker 1: you stayed normalized. That's not it. I agree with that.
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Speaker 1: talk about all right, Well, I guess time for a
Speaker 1: pep talk. Today's pep talk. I kind of want to
Speaker 1: continue what we started our last episode as far as
Speaker 1: goals and stuff goes. Um being there. This is a
Speaker 1: new year. This is the first week in the new year.
Speaker 1: What I want to know what you all learned last year? Uh?
Speaker 1: What was the biggest leson in two for you? Last year?
Speaker 1: I learned not to ignore when I'm being called. Um,
Speaker 1: I've been having a really hard time sleeping. This is
Speaker 1: old news. It's been years, but I would say the
Speaker 1: last year I've been feeling a lot more spiritual. And
Speaker 1: I was looking at it like, oh, I'm being pulled.
Speaker 1: I'm being pulled, and really I had to change that
Speaker 1: word pulled too called. So I know that there's a
Speaker 1: column for me, and I'm really just focused on focusing
Speaker 1: on my spirituality. Like so I've learned to ignore what
Speaker 1: I know that was twenty two for me. All right, Um,
Speaker 1: I think you know, the best thing I learned last
Speaker 1: year is definitely, um, you know, to stop crastinate and
Speaker 1: stop you know, thinking, because you know, I feel like
Speaker 1: a lot of times when you're in this industry and
Speaker 1: you know, things are just going you know, so fast,
Speaker 1: so fast that other things that you want to accomplish
Speaker 1: and things that you are actually passionate about that you
Speaker 1: might procrastinate. So you know, I might be interested about
Speaker 1: reading this book about you know, more about financial literacy
Speaker 1: or you know, more about credit and more about ownership,
Speaker 1: and then it's like, oh no, but I'm over here
Speaker 1: doing this doing that. I don't have time of doing that.
Speaker 1: So I think procrastination is definitely one of the things
Speaker 1: that you know, I learned to stop doing going into
Speaker 1: this new year. Man, I think last year I learned
Speaker 1: how important I was to me. Uh. I'm a person.
Speaker 1: I put a lot of things and people before me. Um,
Speaker 1: even things that would affect my health and stuff like
Speaker 1: that in my well being, So I didn't realize how
Speaker 1: important I was, and I had to say no and
Speaker 1: put myself first a lot more than usual. Um. So
Speaker 1: I definitely learned that towards the end of the year
Speaker 1: that he can't to you to keep helping so many
Speaker 1: people and neglect yourself. So um kind of more so
Speaker 1: over a self reflection thing based off the last episode, uh,
Speaker 1: paying attention to my personal health and stuff like that,
Speaker 1: because I tend to worry about other people and not
Speaker 1: worry about myself at all. So um, within doing that,
Speaker 1: I kind of realized that I have and I share
Speaker 1: with a few of y'all, I have high cholesterol and
Speaker 1: like I'm having like some some health problems because i
Speaker 1: never really paid attention to myself because I'm always worrying
Speaker 1: about somebody else. And um, so I learned a lot
Speaker 1: to just pay attention to myself and put me first
Speaker 1: so then I can help even more probably. So you know,
Speaker 1: yeah that I love it uh self action as well
Speaker 1: like therapy right here, And that's what I was gonna say.
Speaker 1: I love I love where we're taking this pep talk,
Speaker 1: because it's not when we say it sometimes we help
Speaker 1: ourselves and not only ourselves, we help our audience. So
Speaker 1: you know, let us know in the comments some of
Speaker 1: the things that you learned, some of your biggest takeaways
Speaker 1: from twenty two and yeah, we're gonna keep the conversation
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