Speaker 1: The second date updated. Who do you trust for advice
Speaker 1: on your dating life? Your friends? Yeah, yes, they're not
Speaker 1: really looking out for you. Yes they might say that.
Speaker 2: Not really.
Speaker 3: Your co workers.
Speaker 1: Yikes. Absolutely, chat GPT, I mean probably not. Still trust them.
Speaker 2: Trust all the computer minds.
Speaker 3: But when chat GPT runs out of date ideas, you
Speaker 3: got to turn to the sure thing, your therapist for
Speaker 3: hot dating tips.
Speaker 4: Wait, I mean maybe like relationship advice, but hot dating day.
Speaker 1: That's what one of our listeners, Hannah did, and the.
Speaker 3: Great advice from her therapist has landed her here with
Speaker 3: us today. Therapist, Yeah, I.
Speaker 1: Think it's all working out well, Hannah, welcome to the show.
Speaker 2: Hey, I want to hear the therapist did by some dime.
Speaker 1: Yeah, what did your therapist say?
Speaker 5: Well? I was talking about my struggles dating and she
Speaker 5: kind of called me out on that I'm maybe not
Speaker 5: always being my most authentic self and that could be
Speaker 5: why I'm struggling here.
Speaker 2: Okay, that's what you're paying her for, you out professionally.
Speaker 1: She said, to just be the real you.
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's just encouraging me to be myself the problem.
Speaker 2: So what did you do to accomplish that?
Speaker 5: So I was kind of racking my brain, like thinking,
Speaker 5: what are things that I like? And I love the
Speaker 5: show Cobra Kai.
Speaker 2: Oh like the Karate Kids spin off?
Speaker 5: Yes, Cobra Kai.
Speaker 2: I did not expect us to go there. So did
Speaker 2: you take a karate class then or something?
Speaker 5: H yeah, I get him there?
Speaker 1: Oh okay, okay, Well I guess who'd you go out with?
Speaker 5: His name is Mike?
Speaker 2: Okay?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 4: Did you meet him at the karate class or did
Speaker 4: you take a class together?
Speaker 6: Oh?
Speaker 5: We took a class together. Interesting, but I met him online?
Speaker 1: Oh so how did this date happen? Can you like
Speaker 1: run us through it?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 5: Well we set up just like a dinner date. Okay,
Speaker 5: nice and she and it was a fun time and
Speaker 5: like we were hitting it off.
Speaker 3: So you're matching the Cobra Kai theme to the meal too.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, sushi? You have like all kind of Asian
Speaker 1: culture influences.
Speaker 2: Yes, nice and sushi was good.
Speaker 4: You guys had good conversation or like what's the highlights there?
Speaker 5: We were just goofing around. We were like play fighting, like.
Speaker 2: With the chopsticks his swords.
Speaker 5: Yeah yeah, okay. To be honest, I wouldn't normally act
Speaker 5: like this on my dates. Like maybe I was a
Speaker 5: little too nerdy, but I kept hearing be my most
Speaker 5: authentic self, kind of saying it like as a mantra.
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, So when you brought up Cobra Kai with Mike,
Speaker 3: was he into it?
Speaker 5: He'd actually never seen it, but he had heard of it,
Speaker 5: and I think he'd been meaning to watch it.
Speaker 2: Okay, it's good.
Speaker 1: That's like to show him.
Speaker 2: Yeah, totally if everything.
Speaker 1: Goes well, of course.
Speaker 5: Yeah, and you know I've tried to go that route,
Speaker 5: invite him over to watch it at my place.
Speaker 2: You I think that he's probably planning on more than
Speaker 2: Cobra Kai, you know, yeah.
Speaker 1: I'm more like cobra thighs.
Speaker 2: What sorry.
Speaker 1: Did he say? Yeah?
Speaker 5: Well, he was kind of like, I don't know how
Speaker 5: late I can stay out.
Speaker 1: Oh okay, that makes sense. I mean tell literally people
Speaker 1: that before. It makes sense.
Speaker 3: But not in a dating world like that. Invite is
Speaker 3: whatever guy is waiting, you want to go.
Speaker 5: You'll stay up.
Speaker 2: Not every guy wants to hook up on the first date.
Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, maybe she got the one percent, you know,
Speaker 4: So were you okay with that?
Speaker 6: Yeah?
Speaker 5: I was okay with that because I had a backup plan.
Speaker 4: Okay, authentic self, what was that?
Speaker 5: My authentic self decided that we could like go do
Speaker 5: like a trial martial arts class.
Speaker 2: Ah, so it's.
Speaker 1: You, Mike and a room full of six year old.
Speaker 4: So you went straight from the restaurant to a karate class.
Speaker 5: It was actually next door. I sort of might have
Speaker 5: planned that.
Speaker 1: You have a whole plan. He's either going to my house.
Speaker 1: We're rolling on my bed or rolling on some man.
Speaker 2: Why do I picture him in jeans trying to do karate?
Speaker 2: Did he have the right outfit for it?
Speaker 5: What they give you?
Speaker 4: Oh?
Speaker 5: Yeah, they provided us with the Yeah, and I think
Speaker 5: we had fun.
Speaker 1: I got some sweet nunchucks in my truck anyway.
Speaker 2: So let me get my throwing stuff.
Speaker 1: Wasn't it fun as good? Was it romantic?
Speaker 3: Or?
Speaker 5: I think so? Because really, you know, like the kind
Speaker 5: of fighting, it's like there's tension, it's kind of flirty.
Speaker 4: And I also think just trying anything new with a
Speaker 4: person like helps bond.
Speaker 1: You what's going on.
Speaker 2: It's a shared experience. You could either laugh at how
Speaker 2: bad you.
Speaker 1: Are or I slowly choke them out.
Speaker 2: They do that at the beginner.
Speaker 3: Yeah, oh yeah, let's let's let's get to the end
Speaker 3: of the night. How did you leave things?
Speaker 5: We just said goodbye to each other, kind of outside hug, kiss,
Speaker 5: a little kiss.
Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, that's something. And what's happened since the date?
Speaker 5: Well, it hasn't been that long, but I actually saw
Speaker 5: my therapist.
Speaker 4: Okay, did you giggle through that session too?
Speaker 6: Yeah?
Speaker 5: I think I definitely did, because I really was trying
Speaker 5: to be my most authentic self.
Speaker 1: So you told her about the date, then.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I did. I told her about it.
Speaker 2: So why are you calling us? Then?
Speaker 5: Well, she kind of made me doubt things because she
Speaker 5: said to me like that might have been a little.
Speaker 1: Too much, too authentic.
Speaker 5: Not necessarily that, but that there are other parts to me,
Speaker 5: like I'm not just cobra kai.
Speaker 1: Okay, Well, like you only focus on martial arts.
Speaker 4: Tell your therapist, you're not gonna show this guy everything
Speaker 4: in the first night.
Speaker 1: Okay, that's Brooks movies.
Speaker 5: Yeah, maybe second date material, all right, you got to
Speaker 5: leave something to learn, open up, show him more of
Speaker 5: your interests when you meet up a second time, So
Speaker 5: hopefully we can facilitate that.
Speaker 3: We'll come back call Mike for you and try and
Speaker 3: get you your second date update right after this.
Speaker 1: Okay, second date update.
Speaker 3: This is the theme song for the original Karate Kids.
Speaker 2: Okay, the best around, Jeff.
Speaker 1: Wow, coming on a little strong man, authentic self, real
Speaker 1: thoughts now.
Speaker 3: But I know it's been a while since we've all
Speaker 3: seen the original movie, but I'll tell you the overall
Speaker 3: theme of it is an underdog who's up against the odds,
Speaker 3: finally faces his fears and his bullies and comes away
Speaker 3: with the trophy.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Everyone loves an underdog story.
Speaker 3: And that's our listener Hannah today. And Hannah's trophy that
Speaker 3: she's after is a man named Mike she met online
Speaker 3: and personally, Hannah, I just want to say your idea
Speaker 3: for like a Cobra kai themed date going to sushi
Speaker 3: and doing a karate class together. Like, we never hear
Speaker 3: women going out of their way to set things up
Speaker 3: like this. It's usually the men that try and arrange
Speaker 3: a date like this.
Speaker 1: It is refreshing. I commend you on what you did here.
Speaker 2: First, Yeah, I get it. Get it another.
Speaker 4: I'm striking first, like the Cobra, I think it's marriage material.
Speaker 2: Wow, you're just.
Speaker 4: I think I think she's marriage material. And this guy
Speaker 4: is going to be missing out if he doesn't give
Speaker 4: you another chance.
Speaker 1: All right, we're so Yeah.
Speaker 3: Would you like Brooke to tell him that as soon
Speaker 3: as we get him on the phone, or we can
Speaker 3: hold off for a second.
Speaker 5: Yeah, let's just be natural and chill about it at okay,
Speaker 5: see what happens, and.
Speaker 1: Then then we'll get to the waxing on and off
Speaker 1: and all that. All right, that's a good part of
Speaker 1: the movie. Here we go, let's dial the phone number
Speaker 1: and hopefully he picks up. Hello. Hey, we're looking for Mike.
Speaker 6: This is Mike.
Speaker 3: Hey, Mike, I said we because you're talking to a
Speaker 3: whole show right now, a radio show Brook and Jeffrey.
Speaker 1: In the morning.
Speaker 6: Uh, what is it about.
Speaker 2: It's called the Second Date Update, and it's all about
Speaker 2: you by.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, not just sorry. I don't know what's going
Speaker 1: on with Brooke today. She's a little yeah, and it's
Speaker 1: not just about you.
Speaker 3: It's about you along with one of our listeners that
Speaker 3: you went on a date with recently named Hannah.
Speaker 6: Oh yeah, Hannah. Yeah, okay, yeah you remember.
Speaker 4: Well it sounds like you guys just recently went out,
Speaker 4: which is awesome.
Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah we did, Yeah, we went out.
Speaker 1: Cool, all right, we.
Speaker 3: Heard a little bit about your guys's date we'd like
Speaker 3: to get your side.
Speaker 1: Of the story, just to see how the stories match.
Speaker 6: I mean, I don't know, what do you want to know?
Speaker 6: I don't really feel too comfortable about talking about this
Speaker 6: kind of stuff for the whole radio show.
Speaker 3: Oh okay, not the whole show. Alexis closed your ears.
Speaker 3: Oh all right, you have seventy of the show.
Speaker 4: I don't want to miss how it goes headphones off,
Speaker 4: he doesn't listen anyways.
Speaker 2: It's a good point.
Speaker 1: What okay?
Speaker 3: All right, I think we're meeting your quota now. So
Speaker 3: what we're looking for though, is just general thoughts like
Speaker 3: did you like Hannah?
Speaker 1: How did you feel about her?
Speaker 5: Uh? You know?
Speaker 6: I mean okay, if I if I say anything, it
Speaker 6: was one of the more like unique experiences I've ever
Speaker 6: had on date.
Speaker 4: It sounds like she put a lot of like thought
Speaker 4: and energy into planning the night for you too.
Speaker 2: Is that is that something new that?
Speaker 5: Oh?
Speaker 6: Yeah, that's that's that's for sure. I think a lot
Speaker 6: of energy was expended too, even on the date. I
Speaker 6: can give you that much.
Speaker 4: Yeah, when you're talking about like the karate class was
Speaker 4: like you extend.
Speaker 6: Energy, Yeah, that would be it. I I certainly something
Speaker 6: I've never experienced before.
Speaker 4: That's cool, though, I mean, what did you think when
Speaker 4: she came up with that idea? She said it was
Speaker 4: kind of a surprise.
Speaker 6: Yeah, well, it absolutely was. And I'll say this, you know,
Speaker 6: I thought for me, it was like I don't mind surprises.
Speaker 6: It was just something that like what I was wearing too.
Speaker 6: You know, I'm wearing some kind of nice pants. I
Speaker 6: couldn't yeah, you know, I can't do karate in those
Speaker 6: kind of clothes. It was, you know, it was it
Speaker 6: was interesting.
Speaker 3: Because I could see how people would even say no,
Speaker 3: not in a rude way, but like I'm sorry, but
Speaker 3: that's kind of a big ask, Like.
Speaker 1: We just had dinner.
Speaker 2: You're thinking of yourself.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I probably like.
Speaker 4: It.
Speaker 2: I mean, this guy, you sound adventurous.
Speaker 3: It sounds like you're talking a lot about the date
Speaker 3: and the activities. I want to know what you thought
Speaker 3: about Hannah.
Speaker 2: Oh a person if you got to know who she is.
Speaker 6: Uh yeah, a little bit by it. I mean she
Speaker 6: seems really nice, but uh, your personality wise, I just
Speaker 6: don't know if we're if we're compatible. Oh no, yeah,
Speaker 6: to be completely honest, well, it was she I mean,
Speaker 6: this is weird to me too. Is that like she
Speaker 6: put all this great idea and energy into this idea
Speaker 6: and then she kind of was a little like meek me,
Speaker 6: you know, just kind of yeah, shy. I guess I'd say, like,
Speaker 6: it's like, it's not her fault. I'm not saying it's
Speaker 6: a bad thing. I'm not saying people like that and
Speaker 6: have a problem or anything. It's just for me, it's
Speaker 6: not really what I go for. And when I saw that, But.
Speaker 4: Listen, you've got a person even if she's shy, she's
Speaker 4: going out on a limb. She's surprising you with the
Speaker 4: karate class. Like maybe you just need to it to
Speaker 4: no her more to see like her fun charismatic side.
Speaker 6: Yeah, what's that whole thing? You can't ask uh e
Speaker 6: to change his stripes or something like that. And then
Speaker 6: I'm saying, I don't know, it's just something like she is.
Speaker 1: You know what, what exactly a you're looking for? What
Speaker 1: type of woman do you want? Obnoxious brook type?
Speaker 2: Some people do?
Speaker 6: Some people do, Yeah, I don't know. You know, I
Speaker 6: think that typically I'm just more attracted to someone with
Speaker 6: a bit more of like an assertive of personality.
Speaker 3: Really, there is a saying that I like to draw
Speaker 3: up on. Sometimes it's that I may not always win,
Speaker 3: but I never quit.
Speaker 2: Oh is this a karate kid thing?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 3: Okay, I was for ruining it, but it's going to
Speaker 3: segue seedlessly to tell you, you know who also doesn't quit?
Speaker 1: Hannah, who's on the other line right now?
Speaker 6: Talk to what?
Speaker 5: Yeah, you're damn right.
Speaker 1: Yeah's on the phone.
Speaker 5: Because yeah, ob kid never dies.
Speaker 2: Okay, sober Kin never dies.
Speaker 5: It is and I think.
Speaker 6: Clearly a futable here sneaky move.
Speaker 3: Yeah, we want you to talk to each other. I
Speaker 3: want to hear from Hannah though, Hannah, what what do
Speaker 3: you think about what.
Speaker 1: You just heard?
Speaker 5: I think that it's kind of ridiculous that you would
Speaker 5: judge me that fast, because I clearly have other sides
Speaker 5: to my personality. I just was showing the one thing first.
Speaker 5: I put myself out there. I can be assertive like
Speaker 5: I can be bad.
Speaker 3: Oh okay, it sounds like he's not quite buying it yet.
Speaker 5: No, I don't think you're you're really getting that. So
Speaker 5: just like, don't confuse being nice with being weak.
Speaker 2: Is that a quote? Because that's a good ju Hannah.
Speaker 3: Do you have any other examples of how you can
Speaker 3: be an assertive, powerful woman.
Speaker 5: You know, like I might like this show for a reason. Okay,
Speaker 5: because I am a go getter. I try to get
Speaker 5: what I want. I mean, I don't give up.
Speaker 2: Yes, what are you thinking there?
Speaker 1: So?
Speaker 6: I mean, are you saying that what you want is
Speaker 6: another date with me? Is that what you want?
Speaker 1: Hannah? Strike first, strike hard, no mercy?
Speaker 2: Where are you kidding? Before we called it?
Speaker 1: I'm on Google.
Speaker 5: Listen. Okay, Okay, here's the thing. You're gonna either be
Speaker 5: quiet and listen to me and just do it and
Speaker 5: we're gonna go out again because there's more there, or
Speaker 5: you're just gonna be lame.
Speaker 1: I'll even have to.
Speaker 3: Ask a question because she's telling you that we're going
Speaker 3: to go out on a second day.
Speaker 6: You don't want to be lame, do you? I? I mean, listen.
Speaker 6: I said to them that I wanted someone who was assertive,
Speaker 6: and this is kind of the consertiveness. So I'm down
Speaker 6: if you're down.
Speaker 3: Okay, Okay, I din't offer to pay for it.
Speaker 1: There we go.
Speaker 2: She's gonna make him pay for it.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you got money and pay for it, and
Speaker 1: you're gonna like it.
Speaker 6: Mike again, I guess I have to now I literally
Speaker 6: asked for someone to tell me what to do.
Speaker 1: So it sounds like we're sending you guys out on
Speaker 1: another date.
Speaker 6: Yeah, all right, all right, hand, I'm glad you did
Speaker 6: this shoot.
Speaker 2: Do you not have a cobra kai saying to close
Speaker 2: this out?
Speaker 4: No?
Speaker 3: I was just gonna end with a traditional bow and
Speaker 3: then we all kiss.
Speaker 1: This is radio. There's kissing in the karate classes that
Speaker 1: I went to.
Speaker 3: There we okay, everybody bow and pucker and one two.
Speaker 1: Can control of the situation.
Speaker 3: I like it.
Speaker 2: You know, jeff is actually blushing.
Speaker 1: Your hands full with this tiger. Well, we've created a monster.
Speaker 6: It's broken Jeffrey in the morning,