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Come celebrate 9 00:00:28,360 --> 00:00:30,040 Speaker 1: Mother's Day at Whole Foods Market. 10 00:00:30,280 --> 00:00:33,320 Speaker 2: I listened to the Black Guy Who Tips podcast because 11 00:00:33,479 --> 00:00:35,400 Speaker 2: Rod and Karen are a hot. 12 00:00:35,640 --> 00:00:37,960 Speaker 3: Who that nigga thank you for and know man, man, 13 00:00:38,120 --> 00:00:40,479 Speaker 3: get the fuck off my stage On the same man, 14 00:00:40,720 --> 00:00:43,440 Speaker 3: get the fuck off my dick. That ain't right. I 15 00:00:43,600 --> 00:00:46,199 Speaker 3: make a play fucking up your whole life. I'm so 16 00:00:46,400 --> 00:00:49,320 Speaker 3: fucking sick and tired of the photoshop. Show me something natural, 17 00:00:49,400 --> 00:00:51,520 Speaker 3: role like afroo on rich of prop. Show me something 18 00:00:51,640 --> 00:00:53,880 Speaker 3: natural role like ass what's a stretch mark? Still, we'll 19 00:00:53,920 --> 00:00:56,360 Speaker 3: take you downright on your mama catching polo socks. Hey, 20 00:00:56,480 --> 00:00:58,720 Speaker 3: this shit wait too crazy? Hey, you don't not amaze 21 00:00:58,720 --> 00:01:01,080 Speaker 3: me eight. I blew from the ac he Obama just 22 00:01:01,480 --> 00:01:03,720 Speaker 3: a I don't fabricate it. Ay, most of y'all be 23 00:01:03,800 --> 00:01:06,600 Speaker 3: faking A. I stay mid as about it. A she elaborated. 24 00:01:06,640 --> 00:01:09,360 Speaker 3: Hey this day, great pool, Ponta Avy Young, that Ted talk. Hey, 25 00:01:09,440 --> 00:01:12,039 Speaker 3: watch my soul's feet. You let the man's talk. Hey, 26 00:01:12,160 --> 00:01:14,480 Speaker 3: if a nigga kill, if a killer nigga, it won't 27 00:01:14,520 --> 00:01:17,200 Speaker 3: be that alcohol. Hey, I'm the realist nigga at the all, 28 00:01:17,319 --> 00:01:20,800 Speaker 3: bitch be humble. Hey, welcome to the black Out Test Podcast. 29 00:01:20,800 --> 00:01:22,440 Speaker 3: Your host ride and can. 30 00:01:22,280 --> 00:01:24,560 Speaker 4: I'm the backup? My bad? I got my ages off. 31 00:01:24,760 --> 00:01:27,920 Speaker 3: You know what, it's fine. It's absolutely a lot of them. 32 00:01:28,240 --> 00:01:31,240 Speaker 3: It's a lot of a's okay, but it's fine. We 33 00:01:31,280 --> 00:01:32,880 Speaker 3: got through it together and we're here. 34 00:01:34,200 --> 00:01:34,560 Speaker 5: That's right. 35 00:01:34,560 --> 00:01:36,560 Speaker 3: It's the Blackout Tests podcast. Of course, you can find 36 00:01:36,600 --> 00:01:39,720 Speaker 3: us on iTunes, Stitcher, Potomatics such as leave us five 37 00:01:39,720 --> 00:01:41,080 Speaker 3: star reviews and we read them on the air as 38 00:01:41,120 --> 00:01:43,119 Speaker 3: long as they're nice. 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Okay, basically, what happens is 42 00:01:55,760 --> 00:01:58,160 Speaker 3: people leave us feedback throughout the week, whether it's in 43 00:01:58,200 --> 00:02:00,000 Speaker 3: the form of those five star reviews we just mentioned, 44 00:02:00,560 --> 00:02:03,040 Speaker 3: whether it's comments on the website the blackoutis dot com 45 00:02:03,040 --> 00:02:04,960 Speaker 3: where there's voicemails he left throughout the week, as long 46 00:02:04,960 --> 00:02:09,000 Speaker 3: as it's three minutes or less, emails a bunch of stuff. 47 00:02:09,040 --> 00:02:12,280 Speaker 3: We read the comments and and and play the emails, 48 00:02:12,280 --> 00:02:14,000 Speaker 3: and we let you guys know what we think. And 49 00:02:14,760 --> 00:02:16,920 Speaker 3: you know that's that's pretty much how this thing has 50 00:02:16,960 --> 00:02:20,640 Speaker 3: been working. And uh, if it's not broke, don't fix it, 51 00:02:20,680 --> 00:02:23,760 Speaker 3: is what I say. First thing we need to do, though, 52 00:02:23,960 --> 00:02:28,600 Speaker 3: give people shout outs for uh leaving us five stars. 53 00:02:28,639 --> 00:02:32,160 Speaker 3: I mean for leaving us money five star reviews. You know, 54 00:02:32,240 --> 00:02:33,880 Speaker 3: come on, we all know that it's that dollar make 55 00:02:33,919 --> 00:02:37,679 Speaker 3: me hollow, honey boo. So let me play the song 56 00:02:37,760 --> 00:02:44,440 Speaker 3: from mm Hmm'll take your time, Kurt. 57 00:02:48,120 --> 00:02:58,880 Speaker 6: I dedicate dession today. 58 00:02:58,919 --> 00:02:59,639 Speaker 4: It's a new thing. 59 00:03:00,120 --> 00:03:04,000 Speaker 5: That's right, and we got new money. Halle q h 60 00:03:04,080 --> 00:03:05,160 Speaker 5: recurring donator, thank you. 61 00:03:05,240 --> 00:03:08,840 Speaker 3: Hallaku got a one time donation from Michael D who says, 62 00:03:09,000 --> 00:03:11,320 Speaker 3: love y'all show keep doing you. 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Tavin Corey A the Tickler, Thank you, the 70 00:03:40,840 --> 00:03:46,040 Speaker 3: Tichla Conrad Al of course official first time donator, leader 71 00:03:46,080 --> 00:03:48,080 Speaker 3: of our first our new members class. 72 00:03:48,840 --> 00:03:50,880 Speaker 4: It's been pretty busy, lated, well, this thing you're working hard. 73 00:03:51,280 --> 00:03:52,920 Speaker 3: Christopher D. Recurring donator, Thank you. 74 00:03:53,040 --> 00:03:53,760 Speaker 5: Christ fher Waii. 75 00:03:54,560 --> 00:03:56,840 Speaker 3: He just sent us something too through the mail, got 76 00:03:56,920 --> 00:04:00,200 Speaker 3: carry the shirt and gave us some cookies and stuff. Yeah, 77 00:04:00,200 --> 00:04:01,360 Speaker 3: it's crazy. This week, we'll get to it. 78 00:04:03,240 --> 00:04:03,400 Speaker 6: Uh. 79 00:04:04,600 --> 00:04:08,640 Speaker 3: Calfani F. Calfani G. Recurring donator, Thank you, cal Fani. 80 00:04:09,680 --> 00:04:10,320 Speaker 5: Brina H. 81 00:04:10,400 --> 00:04:15,280 Speaker 3: Recurring donator, Jacqueline H. Returning donator, Thank you, Jacqueline Dana W. 82 00:04:15,440 --> 00:04:19,240 Speaker 3: Recarring donator. David S. David from Brooklyn, Thank you, man. 83 00:04:19,960 --> 00:04:24,159 Speaker 3: Uh Film Press Comics recurrent donation. Rickt A pretty Ricky 84 00:04:24,240 --> 00:04:28,040 Speaker 3: what to call him? Recurring donator, Gregory asked recurring donator. 85 00:04:28,080 --> 00:04:31,840 Speaker 3: Got a brand new recurrent donation from Rinita in Thank you, Rinita, 86 00:04:32,800 --> 00:04:36,880 Speaker 3: we appreciate your signing on up. Deborah f recurring donator. 87 00:04:36,960 --> 00:04:38,960 Speaker 3: Thank you, Deborah, And she's also new. Go to the 88 00:04:39,000 --> 00:04:42,839 Speaker 3: new members class with Rinita al Rada. Welcome you. Pete 89 00:04:42,880 --> 00:04:46,760 Speaker 3: De recurrent donator. When I take m recurring donator, I 90 00:04:46,880 --> 00:04:52,120 Speaker 3: go Olivia from Chicago. You know Anthony van d recurring donator, 91 00:04:52,200 --> 00:04:55,360 Speaker 3: Thank you very much. Bomani Jones, you may have heard 92 00:04:55,400 --> 00:04:55,640 Speaker 3: of him. 93 00:04:55,680 --> 00:04:56,120 Speaker 4: I don't know. 94 00:04:57,640 --> 00:05:01,600 Speaker 3: Rita may C recurring donator, Thank you. Nicholas Z recurrent donator. 95 00:05:01,880 --> 00:05:04,640 Speaker 3: Got a one time donations from Francis B who actually 96 00:05:04,720 --> 00:05:07,480 Speaker 3: won our e C double a pool, and so I 97 00:05:07,600 --> 00:05:10,920 Speaker 3: offer him you can either pick a prize from the 98 00:05:10,960 --> 00:05:13,680 Speaker 3: prize box over there, or he could be on the show. 99 00:05:14,080 --> 00:05:15,560 Speaker 3: I will get back to him. He told me let 100 00:05:15,640 --> 00:05:17,080 Speaker 3: him know what's in the prize box first, so I 101 00:05:17,160 --> 00:05:19,680 Speaker 3: owe him. Uh, I ain't forgot about your doll. Okay, 102 00:05:20,680 --> 00:05:24,599 Speaker 3: all right, let's talk about the rest of this stuff 103 00:05:24,640 --> 00:05:44,880 Speaker 3: that y'all left. After we play ourselves out, people. 104 00:05:44,680 --> 00:06:00,240 Speaker 6: Say, are you waiting and waiting. 105 00:06:03,920 --> 00:06:04,240 Speaker 7: So much? 106 00:06:06,800 --> 00:06:12,119 Speaker 6: You look you don't look so much fantom wings sign. 107 00:06:14,320 --> 00:06:17,640 Speaker 3: All right, all right, let's do the fly Star reviews. 108 00:06:17,680 --> 00:06:17,880 Speaker 8: Guys. 109 00:06:18,000 --> 00:06:21,320 Speaker 3: Oh wait, no, actually was giving people processing and stuff. Okay, listen, 110 00:06:22,080 --> 00:06:25,960 Speaker 3: I uh we getting we get Hello Fresh right now. Okay, 111 00:06:26,080 --> 00:06:27,800 Speaker 3: so we used to get Blue Apron, but we wanna 112 00:06:27,839 --> 00:06:30,279 Speaker 3: try some different things. See if it takes less more 113 00:06:30,400 --> 00:06:32,560 Speaker 3: time to prepare. All this kind of stuff fit into 114 00:06:32,600 --> 00:06:35,000 Speaker 3: our very busy lifestyles. And you guys can imagine, you know, 115 00:06:35,080 --> 00:06:36,840 Speaker 3: recording a podcast and night makes it kind of hard 116 00:06:36,839 --> 00:06:38,720 Speaker 3: to make sure you get a healthy, good dinner every night. 117 00:06:39,160 --> 00:06:43,039 Speaker 5: So and anyway, uh, I knew. 118 00:06:42,839 --> 00:06:44,920 Speaker 3: That box was coming and I was like, oh, I'm 119 00:06:44,920 --> 00:06:46,760 Speaker 3: gonna go by the post office, but I was out 120 00:06:46,800 --> 00:06:49,120 Speaker 3: to lunch of Karen. I got a call and it was, 121 00:06:49,360 --> 00:06:51,480 Speaker 3: uh it was from the post office store like the 122 00:06:51,560 --> 00:06:53,400 Speaker 3: UPS store, and now that was I was like, can 123 00:06:53,440 --> 00:06:54,880 Speaker 3: I help you? That was like you need to come 124 00:06:55,080 --> 00:06:58,440 Speaker 3: get all your packages right now? You have too many packages? 125 00:06:58,720 --> 00:06:59,720 Speaker 3: This is crazy? 126 00:07:00,080 --> 00:07:02,160 Speaker 5: Was like, what what's going on? It was like you 127 00:07:02,279 --> 00:07:03,760 Speaker 5: have because I was like, it's. 128 00:07:03,640 --> 00:07:06,040 Speaker 3: Just one fucking box. Dog like, calm down. You know. 129 00:07:06,320 --> 00:07:10,040 Speaker 3: Occasionally listeners might get us something from my Amazon wish list, 130 00:07:10,520 --> 00:07:12,800 Speaker 3: something like that, which you can find through social media 131 00:07:12,840 --> 00:07:17,840 Speaker 3: and stuff. But I legitimately have forgot that. Uh you know, 132 00:07:18,200 --> 00:07:20,560 Speaker 3: Karen's birthday was just a couple of weeks ago, and 133 00:07:21,280 --> 00:07:23,040 Speaker 3: even though we had checked the boxes then I think 134 00:07:23,080 --> 00:07:25,320 Speaker 3: maybe people were getting behind our shows or maybe this, 135 00:07:25,480 --> 00:07:27,440 Speaker 3: I don't know, maybe just y'all was feeling us this week. 136 00:07:27,480 --> 00:07:30,200 Speaker 3: I don't know, I don't know whatever happened, nigga. It 137 00:07:30,360 --> 00:07:32,280 Speaker 3: was so much shit in that mother. 138 00:07:32,920 --> 00:07:35,760 Speaker 4: Hey, hey dog, we know y'all get you a few ship, 139 00:07:35,880 --> 00:07:37,720 Speaker 4: but you know we ain't got a roll from the ship. 140 00:07:37,880 --> 00:07:38,320 Speaker 4: Get your ship. 141 00:07:38,400 --> 00:07:40,080 Speaker 5: I had to make like three trips to my car 142 00:07:40,160 --> 00:07:41,360 Speaker 5: to get everything in the house. 143 00:07:41,520 --> 00:07:45,800 Speaker 3: It was crazy. Anyway, we appreciate it, you know. Of 144 00:07:45,840 --> 00:07:48,280 Speaker 3: course one box was a Hello Fresh box. But still 145 00:07:48,400 --> 00:07:50,880 Speaker 3: even with that, we just had too much. It was 146 00:07:50,920 --> 00:07:53,520 Speaker 3: a lot of shit, Okay, we felt I felt very famous. 147 00:07:55,080 --> 00:07:57,240 Speaker 3: Everybody was looking at me walking out with all that ship, 148 00:07:57,360 --> 00:07:59,200 Speaker 3: like who the fuck is this, nigga? And I was like, 149 00:07:59,720 --> 00:08:02,640 Speaker 3: I don't know what to tell y'all. At any rate, 150 00:08:02,880 --> 00:08:04,640 Speaker 3: some of it, most of it came with like a 151 00:08:04,640 --> 00:08:07,120 Speaker 3: little acknowledgment that this is from who, this from this person. 152 00:08:07,480 --> 00:08:09,400 Speaker 3: So a couple of things came and it was no 153 00:08:09,880 --> 00:08:11,520 Speaker 3: like there was no paper in the box. I don't 154 00:08:11,520 --> 00:08:13,040 Speaker 3: know if you meant to have it or not, but 155 00:08:13,160 --> 00:08:17,640 Speaker 3: I'll just tell you it was Somebody said my favorite candles, 156 00:08:18,160 --> 00:08:20,560 Speaker 3: Like literally, I burned these, like I burned candles during 157 00:08:20,560 --> 00:08:23,480 Speaker 3: the show, y'all, And I'll add them to the to 158 00:08:23,600 --> 00:08:25,760 Speaker 3: the list, so you know, sometimes I put stuff on 159 00:08:25,800 --> 00:08:28,480 Speaker 3: the trial. But my go to candle smell my nuts. 160 00:08:28,560 --> 00:08:31,080 Speaker 4: Oh, and they smell so good, y'all. They do not 161 00:08:31,200 --> 00:08:33,040 Speaker 4: smell like real nuts. They smell delicious. 162 00:08:33,200 --> 00:08:36,559 Speaker 3: Listen, guys, if you want to get a candle, just 163 00:08:36,640 --> 00:08:39,400 Speaker 3: try it one time on them because I normally burned incense, 164 00:08:39,559 --> 00:08:43,960 Speaker 3: but these fucking smell my nuts. Candles are so fucking good. 165 00:08:44,559 --> 00:08:46,439 Speaker 3: And they have a bunch of different flavors, but the 166 00:08:46,600 --> 00:08:49,920 Speaker 3: number one flavor you gotta get banana ba banana ba 167 00:08:50,040 --> 00:08:52,080 Speaker 3: nut bread. The banana nut bread. 168 00:08:52,960 --> 00:08:53,000 Speaker 9: You. 169 00:08:53,240 --> 00:08:55,000 Speaker 3: I mean, it'll make you kind of hungry, Like you'll 170 00:08:55,040 --> 00:08:56,880 Speaker 3: really come in the house and be like, damn that, 171 00:08:57,080 --> 00:09:00,840 Speaker 3: Karen really make banana nut from scratch? 172 00:09:00,920 --> 00:09:02,439 Speaker 4: Today you walk in a house one out of and 173 00:09:02,480 --> 00:09:05,640 Speaker 4: burn But why I can't. 174 00:09:05,520 --> 00:09:06,439 Speaker 3: Believe you love me? 175 00:09:06,559 --> 00:09:06,599 Speaker 10: So? 176 00:09:06,760 --> 00:09:09,719 Speaker 3: Oh, it's just a candle. But still I've never made that. 177 00:09:09,840 --> 00:09:11,160 Speaker 4: I don't know how that would turn out. 178 00:09:11,320 --> 00:09:15,240 Speaker 3: And in that same package, Don't Breathe came so uh, 179 00:09:15,880 --> 00:09:16,840 Speaker 3: you know, Don't Breathe. 180 00:09:16,840 --> 00:09:19,480 Speaker 5: It is my fucking movie. I don't know if it 181 00:09:19,640 --> 00:09:21,320 Speaker 5: is for. You didn't see this. 182 00:09:21,360 --> 00:09:21,839 Speaker 9: With me, did you? 183 00:09:22,000 --> 00:09:22,800 Speaker 4: I don't think I did. 184 00:09:22,840 --> 00:09:25,160 Speaker 3: It's so good. Job she messed up. She should have 185 00:09:25,240 --> 00:09:28,720 Speaker 3: seen it, but you know what working on it. Yeah, 186 00:09:28,800 --> 00:09:31,520 Speaker 3: but you saw get Out? Yeah, all right, so you 187 00:09:31,600 --> 00:09:34,720 Speaker 3: can see this. It's so good. It's no worse than 188 00:09:34,760 --> 00:09:39,120 Speaker 3: get Out, honestly, and it's short too. I'm just remembering 189 00:09:39,200 --> 00:09:40,800 Speaker 3: that time I had in the theater when I saw this. 190 00:09:41,000 --> 00:09:43,959 Speaker 3: Oh my god, everybody, we was getting our motherfucking life together, 191 00:09:44,800 --> 00:09:47,800 Speaker 3: which reminds me that's what I wanted to see this week. 192 00:09:48,559 --> 00:09:52,360 Speaker 3: That motherfucking movie about that white woman, Catherine Heiegel, trying 193 00:09:52,400 --> 00:09:54,720 Speaker 3: to kill Rossario Dawson and take her family back. 194 00:09:55,160 --> 00:09:57,560 Speaker 5: That's what I wanted to see. All Right, I'm gonna 195 00:09:57,559 --> 00:09:57,880 Speaker 5: go see that. 196 00:09:57,920 --> 00:09:59,240 Speaker 3: I might have to see it by myself, but I 197 00:09:59,280 --> 00:10:02,560 Speaker 3: gotta go see that white woman trying to kill Dawson. 198 00:10:02,640 --> 00:10:02,840 Speaker 8: Y'all. 199 00:10:03,320 --> 00:10:05,440 Speaker 3: Like I said, black woman, you and Charlotte, I'll favor 200 00:10:05,440 --> 00:10:08,559 Speaker 3: your ticket. Okay, let me know, I'm dead serious. I 201 00:10:08,640 --> 00:10:10,719 Speaker 3: want to see that with some black people and we 202 00:10:10,800 --> 00:10:13,160 Speaker 3: can be like bitch run and all that shit. It's 203 00:10:13,160 --> 00:10:17,760 Speaker 3: gonna be so fun, all right. So we also got 204 00:10:17,960 --> 00:10:21,679 Speaker 3: another box of Oh wait, no, this is from last week. 205 00:10:21,720 --> 00:10:24,480 Speaker 3: This was a shanty sent us to Hurribo. We mentioned this, Karen, 206 00:10:24,559 --> 00:10:27,080 Speaker 3: this one fell on the ride, all right, all right, 207 00:10:27,160 --> 00:10:30,600 Speaker 3: but we still got more. All right. So oh, somebody 208 00:10:30,679 --> 00:10:33,920 Speaker 3: sent us Shamrou Samurai Shampoo, which is like me and 209 00:10:34,000 --> 00:10:39,079 Speaker 3: Karen's favorite anime series. They sent us the season the 210 00:10:39,160 --> 00:10:43,680 Speaker 3: complete series, uh from the Matthews Fantasy's High tvg WT 211 00:10:43,840 --> 00:10:45,360 Speaker 3: enjoy the gift from the Matthews family. 212 00:10:45,559 --> 00:10:46,600 Speaker 5: Thank you, we shall. 213 00:10:49,400 --> 00:10:51,199 Speaker 3: It's the Blu Ray too, Like I already had it 214 00:10:51,320 --> 00:10:53,880 Speaker 3: on DVD, but I'm not gonna front y'all. It was 215 00:10:53,960 --> 00:10:55,959 Speaker 3: the bootleg, right, I had bought it off of e 216 00:10:56,160 --> 00:11:00,240 Speaker 3: Bay back in the day. And you know, it was 217 00:11:00,360 --> 00:11:02,960 Speaker 3: like two thousands, like it was like in the early 218 00:11:03,040 --> 00:11:07,160 Speaker 3: two thousands or whatever about this ship because Cartoon Network 219 00:11:07,240 --> 00:11:09,520 Speaker 3: for some reason, it played like I don't know, half 220 00:11:09,600 --> 00:11:11,839 Speaker 3: the episodes were not all of them, and I'm like, 221 00:11:11,920 --> 00:11:14,040 Speaker 3: what the fuck happened? So then I had went and 222 00:11:14,120 --> 00:11:17,240 Speaker 3: bought it off of eBay, but it was like, uh, you. 223 00:11:17,280 --> 00:11:18,560 Speaker 5: Know, no offense A you're purist. 224 00:11:18,679 --> 00:11:22,679 Speaker 3: I know y'all gonna get mad, But it was the subtitles, 225 00:11:22,720 --> 00:11:25,480 Speaker 3: and I prefer to dug correct. It's actually one of 226 00:11:25,480 --> 00:11:27,240 Speaker 3: the few series where I'm like, to me, it's no 227 00:11:27,320 --> 00:11:29,720 Speaker 3: comparison to dub is better than the sub. 228 00:11:29,679 --> 00:11:30,559 Speaker 4: Yeah, I have very few. 229 00:11:30,679 --> 00:11:35,079 Speaker 10: That one and Cowboy Bebop are two in my personal opinion, 230 00:11:35,400 --> 00:11:39,040 Speaker 10: because the thing about the ones that are in English, 231 00:11:39,520 --> 00:11:42,319 Speaker 10: if you get rid of it any good voice actors, 232 00:11:42,760 --> 00:11:44,720 Speaker 10: I'll just prefer it because that's not funny. 233 00:11:45,120 --> 00:11:46,160 Speaker 4: I want to enjoy the action. 234 00:11:46,800 --> 00:11:48,160 Speaker 3: I don't want to be reading the screen. 235 00:11:48,320 --> 00:11:50,560 Speaker 4: And I'm not gonna lie. I'm not gonna learn the language. 236 00:11:50,559 --> 00:11:54,560 Speaker 3: So also me also, it's a lot of like they 237 00:11:54,640 --> 00:11:57,319 Speaker 3: when they put quality. When they have quality ones like that, 238 00:11:57,840 --> 00:12:00,360 Speaker 3: it's different. Like when it's high quality, I'm like, oh, 239 00:12:00,400 --> 00:12:03,040 Speaker 3: y'all wouldn't pay for some good voice actors. I love this. 240 00:12:03,160 --> 00:12:04,040 Speaker 3: I want to be down with this. 241 00:12:04,240 --> 00:12:06,120 Speaker 4: We know sometimes it's cheap, but when you pay for 242 00:12:06,200 --> 00:12:07,000 Speaker 4: the money, it's worth it. 243 00:12:07,320 --> 00:12:10,920 Speaker 3: Yep. We got we got this one and this actually typed. 244 00:12:10,960 --> 00:12:13,480 Speaker 3: It came with two came with a card. First of 245 00:12:13,520 --> 00:12:17,200 Speaker 3: all his card, guys these flowers. It says Happy Easter, 246 00:12:17,320 --> 00:12:19,959 Speaker 3: ride and Karen Love, your biggest fan in Germany. Listen, 247 00:12:20,440 --> 00:12:23,160 Speaker 3: if you guys knew what wait, I'm keeping this. If 248 00:12:23,200 --> 00:12:25,880 Speaker 3: you knew what was in the in the box, it 249 00:12:26,040 --> 00:12:29,040 Speaker 3: was full of cadberry eggs and chocolate deliciousness and can 250 00:12:29,280 --> 00:12:31,319 Speaker 3: I mean we both have diabetes now, so thank you 251 00:12:31,400 --> 00:12:36,000 Speaker 3: for this gift diabetes. And it came with hair products 252 00:12:36,440 --> 00:12:40,199 Speaker 3: and she wrote also wrote this letter that she typed. 253 00:12:41,080 --> 00:12:44,000 Speaker 3: I'm typing because my handwriting is terrible. Welcome to the club, buddy. 254 00:12:44,160 --> 00:12:47,480 Speaker 5: Okay, I'm almost I'm almost caught up from on the 255 00:12:47,559 --> 00:12:48,600 Speaker 5: shows from this week. 256 00:12:48,679 --> 00:12:51,640 Speaker 3: You had me done with them. During the fourteen twelve 257 00:12:51,880 --> 00:12:54,960 Speaker 3: March Sadness Show, on your news segment, you talked about 258 00:12:55,120 --> 00:12:58,360 Speaker 3: Haribo opening his first North American production site. You also 259 00:12:58,480 --> 00:13:00,719 Speaker 3: mentioned that you two really enjoyed her. That gave me 260 00:13:00,800 --> 00:13:02,680 Speaker 3: the perfect opportunity to send you a little Easter gift 261 00:13:03,000 --> 00:13:06,199 Speaker 3: of original German Heribo gummy everything before they ruined it 262 00:13:06,280 --> 00:13:08,120 Speaker 3: in Wisconsin. Yeah, we got. 263 00:13:08,040 --> 00:13:10,080 Speaker 5: Smurf gummies all kinds of shit. 264 00:13:10,280 --> 00:13:15,040 Speaker 4: It didn't I think it was in the original language. Too, 265 00:13:15,040 --> 00:13:16,559 Speaker 4: because I was like, what the fuck I can't read this? 266 00:13:16,800 --> 00:13:20,199 Speaker 3: Mm hmm. Then episode fourteen thirteen Church Street Harassing, you 267 00:13:20,240 --> 00:13:21,960 Speaker 3: talked about the benefits of chocolate to you on your 268 00:13:22,040 --> 00:13:24,599 Speaker 3: news segment. Since Karen loves all the chocolate gave it 269 00:13:24,679 --> 00:13:26,640 Speaker 3: gave me a good excuse to seeing you Germany's most 270 00:13:26,640 --> 00:13:29,679 Speaker 3: popular chocolate bars before I mailed the Horibo package. Yeah, 271 00:13:29,720 --> 00:13:31,839 Speaker 3: we ate those to some of those. I had some 272 00:13:32,000 --> 00:13:32,480 Speaker 3: this morning. 273 00:13:33,240 --> 00:13:34,000 Speaker 6: That was real good. 274 00:13:35,120 --> 00:13:37,000 Speaker 3: I've commented on the show before, but again I just 275 00:13:37,040 --> 00:13:38,560 Speaker 3: want to thank you to for putting out such an 276 00:13:38,559 --> 00:13:40,480 Speaker 3: excellent podcasts and keep me up to date on black 277 00:13:40,520 --> 00:13:43,160 Speaker 3: issues in the US. I cannot express how great I 278 00:13:43,240 --> 00:13:45,360 Speaker 3: think you too are. My oldest son, fourteen, is now 279 00:13:45,400 --> 00:13:47,720 Speaker 3: listening to you on his own now and he thinks 280 00:13:47,800 --> 00:13:51,719 Speaker 3: he's Rod Jr. I deeply appreciate your love for the 281 00:13:51,760 --> 00:13:54,319 Speaker 3: black community and with reference to black women and PTSD, 282 00:13:54,520 --> 00:13:56,960 Speaker 3: I too would never want to be anything but black. 283 00:13:57,040 --> 00:14:00,520 Speaker 3: Thanks for helping to keep me saying and connected. Wonderful 284 00:14:00,559 --> 00:14:06,400 Speaker 3: Easter and leave gross o duschline which means love lovely 285 00:14:06,440 --> 00:14:09,720 Speaker 3: greeting from from Germany. Thank you, uh and it's from Trina, 286 00:14:09,960 --> 00:14:14,520 Speaker 3: Thank you, Trina. That was so sweet. Literally the package 287 00:14:14,600 --> 00:14:18,480 Speaker 3: was full. It was full of sweets. And then we 288 00:14:18,600 --> 00:14:19,480 Speaker 3: got this one. 289 00:14:23,840 --> 00:14:25,760 Speaker 5: Oh wait, I think Trina O say so. 290 00:14:26,440 --> 00:14:29,880 Speaker 3: Trina sent us the Harribo Jonts too, and then she 291 00:14:29,960 --> 00:14:33,080 Speaker 3: also sent this letter for I think this one came 292 00:14:33,200 --> 00:14:41,120 Speaker 3: with I think that hair product chocolate man like Cadberry 293 00:14:41,200 --> 00:14:44,040 Speaker 3: eggs is in this. I'm gonna make them. I had 294 00:14:44,080 --> 00:14:46,000 Speaker 3: four of them, gonna make a caburty, y'all. 295 00:14:46,720 --> 00:14:47,240 Speaker 4: I don't think you. 296 00:14:48,720 --> 00:14:51,520 Speaker 3: Okay, all right, we'll see dear Rod and Karen. I'm 297 00:14:51,560 --> 00:14:53,400 Speaker 3: back again. I would not be defeat. I'm so happy 298 00:14:53,440 --> 00:14:56,200 Speaker 3: you both and Justin enjoyed the candy. I was on 299 00:14:56,360 --> 00:14:58,720 Speaker 3: my way to the grocery store when I heard the 300 00:14:58,760 --> 00:15:00,760 Speaker 3: feedback show, so I picked up some picnic bars. 301 00:15:00,800 --> 00:15:03,240 Speaker 5: Please share with Justin. I will share them with Justin. 302 00:15:03,320 --> 00:15:05,040 Speaker 5: I won't forget Karen. 303 00:15:05,080 --> 00:15:07,400 Speaker 3: I had never sent that particular item overseas before. And 304 00:15:07,520 --> 00:15:10,200 Speaker 3: I'm chalking up the bottle, breaking the lessons learned and 305 00:15:10,320 --> 00:15:13,800 Speaker 3: packaging my My business is only three months old, so 306 00:15:13,840 --> 00:15:14,920 Speaker 3: I'm growing and learning one. 307 00:15:15,480 --> 00:15:16,240 Speaker 5: Once I heard you. 308 00:15:16,280 --> 00:15:18,960 Speaker 3: Are heading to my homeland, Jamaica, I thought you would 309 00:15:19,000 --> 00:15:21,080 Speaker 3: need this moisturizing spray to protect your hair from the 310 00:15:21,120 --> 00:15:25,000 Speaker 3: sun drawing it out. I've included an empty travel sized 311 00:15:25,040 --> 00:15:27,520 Speaker 3: spray bottle for you. I hope you like the product. 312 00:15:27,640 --> 00:15:33,280 Speaker 3: Enjoy yourself and what it was say and something, oh 313 00:15:33,360 --> 00:15:34,520 Speaker 3: and reveling your magic. 314 00:15:34,640 --> 00:15:35,720 Speaker 5: Love y'all be well. 315 00:15:35,840 --> 00:15:40,200 Speaker 3: Katrina at number one feeling on Twitter, thank you, thank you. Yeah. 316 00:15:40,320 --> 00:15:43,040 Speaker 3: And I'm sure Karen, like I knew some products is 317 00:15:43,080 --> 00:15:44,480 Speaker 3: in there because I opened it up and it was 318 00:15:44,520 --> 00:15:45,200 Speaker 3: smelling too good. 319 00:15:46,240 --> 00:15:47,120 Speaker 11: I'm like, what is this? 320 00:15:49,480 --> 00:15:51,760 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, and then it actually came with like a 321 00:15:52,080 --> 00:15:56,560 Speaker 3: Transglobal Express like uh, packing litter. 322 00:15:56,680 --> 00:15:59,360 Speaker 4: Everything was like my shten ron I think last time. 323 00:16:00,480 --> 00:16:03,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, so yeah and this is what this is what 324 00:16:03,400 --> 00:16:05,840 Speaker 3: the eggs in and uh they were great. And she 325 00:16:05,920 --> 00:16:07,000 Speaker 3: also left us this car. 326 00:16:08,800 --> 00:16:09,000 Speaker 6: Yeah. 327 00:16:09,200 --> 00:16:12,560 Speaker 3: Born Beautiful Naturals but it's b oh you are in 328 00:16:13,880 --> 00:16:19,800 Speaker 3: Beautiful Naturals dot Weeley dot com and the emails BB 329 00:16:20,000 --> 00:16:23,640 Speaker 3: Naturals at UK at gmail dot com. Uh, and it 330 00:16:23,760 --> 00:16:27,840 Speaker 3: has handcrafted products for naturally kinky, curly kinky hair, healthy 331 00:16:27,960 --> 00:16:33,560 Speaker 3: radiant skin, vegetarian products, bespoke hair care consultations and blogging 332 00:16:33,680 --> 00:16:38,600 Speaker 3: and videos. Look at that, Ain't that's what black people? Man? 333 00:16:38,640 --> 00:16:44,800 Speaker 3: We're so creative. They got a made in Britain thing too, 334 00:16:46,800 --> 00:16:51,840 Speaker 3: Christian why left us uh some uh the some cookies 335 00:16:51,920 --> 00:17:00,480 Speaker 3: from cahouna cornflake butter crunch uh right, Hawaii which he 336 00:17:00,520 --> 00:17:02,800 Speaker 3: sent us before, I believe, which we ate the funk 337 00:17:02,800 --> 00:17:05,480 Speaker 3: out on cookies too. It's such a big job, man, 338 00:17:05,560 --> 00:17:08,680 Speaker 3: take forever to eat them cookies, Hawaii hot sauce, which 339 00:17:08,720 --> 00:17:10,840 Speaker 3: I cannot wait to try. I felt like that was 340 00:17:10,880 --> 00:17:13,399 Speaker 3: for me. And he sent Karen the T shirt and 341 00:17:13,520 --> 00:17:18,040 Speaker 3: said Panthers right yep, So thank you Chris. He had 342 00:17:18,160 --> 00:17:20,680 Speaker 3: hit me on Facebook, get a message and be like Karen, 343 00:17:20,760 --> 00:17:23,480 Speaker 3: get it. I was like, I don't get what. You know, 344 00:17:23,520 --> 00:17:23,880 Speaker 3: how many. 345 00:17:23,800 --> 00:17:25,800 Speaker 5: Packages in here? I haven't had a chance to open 346 00:17:25,840 --> 00:17:26,159 Speaker 5: any of you. 347 00:17:29,320 --> 00:17:33,840 Speaker 3: Karen got a happy birthday gift from Jared who sent 348 00:17:34,760 --> 00:17:38,119 Speaker 3: which is funny right because he sent sock it to 349 00:17:38,280 --> 00:17:41,960 Speaker 3: me Ninja's Great knee hot socks which if you guys see, 350 00:17:42,160 --> 00:17:44,680 Speaker 3: I played basketball in those socks. I actually sent it 351 00:17:44,720 --> 00:17:46,360 Speaker 3: out this morning. I sent a picture of my socks 352 00:17:46,400 --> 00:17:48,280 Speaker 3: and one was like about to ball on these ninjas 353 00:17:50,200 --> 00:17:50,880 Speaker 3: at any rate? 354 00:17:52,680 --> 00:17:53,600 Speaker 5: Sound went off for a second. 355 00:17:53,640 --> 00:17:56,840 Speaker 3: At any rate? Yeah, So I said, I'm about to 356 00:17:56,840 --> 00:17:59,360 Speaker 3: ball on these ninjas and then, but yeah, I wear 357 00:17:59,440 --> 00:18:02,400 Speaker 3: these socks. Okay, so even though it's had birthday for Caring, 358 00:18:02,560 --> 00:18:04,880 Speaker 3: it's really had birthday for me. Thank you, Jed, very 359 00:18:04,920 --> 00:18:07,760 Speaker 3: related gift, but I appreciate you because I was killing 360 00:18:07,840 --> 00:18:09,200 Speaker 3: them in my ninja socks. 361 00:18:09,240 --> 00:18:09,400 Speaker 4: Man. 362 00:18:11,080 --> 00:18:14,600 Speaker 3: And then Black and Freco sent us two different gifts, 363 00:18:15,119 --> 00:18:20,640 Speaker 3: and it was The Revenant and Sacario Blu Rays, which, 364 00:18:21,080 --> 00:18:24,160 Speaker 3: funny enough, movies I haven't seen movies. I wanted to see. 365 00:18:24,200 --> 00:18:26,600 Speaker 3: Everybody seen these fucking movies. I feel left out of 366 00:18:26,600 --> 00:18:29,080 Speaker 3: the loop and now I won't see them. Okay, guys, 367 00:18:29,520 --> 00:18:31,879 Speaker 3: so thank you very much. Man, that's just that was 368 00:18:31,960 --> 00:18:33,920 Speaker 3: just checking the mail. It was crazy carrying all that 369 00:18:33,960 --> 00:18:36,320 Speaker 3: shit out. I really should check it more often so 370 00:18:36,400 --> 00:18:39,960 Speaker 3: that doesn't happen once a week. I tried to check 371 00:18:40,000 --> 00:18:42,360 Speaker 3: it like once a week, but apparently I guess everybody 372 00:18:42,480 --> 00:18:43,840 Speaker 3: just thought of us at the same time. 373 00:18:44,040 --> 00:18:46,639 Speaker 4: I don't know, so I think, yeah, because that was 374 00:18:46,680 --> 00:18:48,439 Speaker 4: your first time checking it this week? Was that Friday? 375 00:18:48,520 --> 00:18:48,680 Speaker 6: Right? 376 00:18:48,960 --> 00:18:49,160 Speaker 3: Yeah? 377 00:18:49,359 --> 00:18:51,480 Speaker 10: Yeah, because we normally do we check it once a 378 00:18:51,520 --> 00:18:54,200 Speaker 10: week or whenever we passed by the grocery store. 379 00:18:54,240 --> 00:18:56,280 Speaker 4: We were like, hey, it's in the same shop center list, 380 00:18:56,800 --> 00:18:59,679 Speaker 4: you know, check it. But yeah for them to give 381 00:18:59,720 --> 00:18:59,840 Speaker 4: you a. 382 00:19:01,440 --> 00:19:03,640 Speaker 3: All right now to the five star reviews, and I'm 383 00:19:03,680 --> 00:19:05,640 Speaker 3: sorry to the floss all that in y'all faces. 384 00:19:05,720 --> 00:19:07,280 Speaker 5: These people sent us this and I feel. 385 00:19:07,119 --> 00:19:10,840 Speaker 3: So loved yeah and appreciate it, and I'm just had 386 00:19:10,880 --> 00:19:13,440 Speaker 3: to say thank you for giving me so much, and 387 00:19:13,560 --> 00:19:17,719 Speaker 3: the rest of y'all so little. Hey, hey, hey, hey, 388 00:19:18,480 --> 00:19:22,440 Speaker 3: all right, lotion for the ashes from then We Grown. 389 00:19:23,359 --> 00:19:24,080 Speaker 3: Five Stars. 390 00:19:24,800 --> 00:19:26,879 Speaker 5: Kring and Rod are so dope. The show is like 391 00:19:27,040 --> 00:19:28,720 Speaker 5: date night with all your closest. 392 00:19:28,320 --> 00:19:31,840 Speaker 3: Friends, sometimes clowning, sometimes getting deep, sometimes acting. The food 393 00:19:31,920 --> 00:19:37,720 Speaker 3: this show is crack. I got these cheese burgers. Thank you, Dan, 394 00:19:37,800 --> 00:19:41,680 Speaker 3: We're Grown. I got a five star review from got 395 00:19:41,720 --> 00:19:43,960 Speaker 3: to twenty five who says this was so this was 396 00:19:44,000 --> 00:19:47,280 Speaker 3: long overdue. You guys are consistently awesome. Five Stars. I've 397 00:19:47,320 --> 00:19:49,560 Speaker 3: been listening to this show for years now, and I 398 00:19:49,640 --> 00:19:51,719 Speaker 3: figured it's about time I wrote in to say how 399 00:19:51,760 --> 00:19:54,399 Speaker 3: much I love your show. Caring and Rod, y'all have 400 00:19:54,520 --> 00:19:56,680 Speaker 3: been putting in work for years now and have been 401 00:19:56,720 --> 00:19:59,840 Speaker 3: one of the most consistently enjoyable, informative, and hilarious shows 402 00:19:59,840 --> 00:20:02,600 Speaker 3: I listen to. I was about to say that I 403 00:20:02,640 --> 00:20:04,720 Speaker 3: don't know how you guys keep the quality bar so high. 404 00:20:04,760 --> 00:20:06,560 Speaker 3: But I know the answer is because you're both amazing 405 00:20:06,600 --> 00:20:08,520 Speaker 3: people that are great at what you do. Thanks for 406 00:20:08,640 --> 00:20:11,280 Speaker 3: keeping this show back and giving a voice to all 407 00:20:11,359 --> 00:20:17,080 Speaker 3: of us bless blessed. Well hold on, yeah, the voice 408 00:20:17,080 --> 00:20:20,080 Speaker 3: all of us blessed. Also, I don't think I would 409 00:20:20,080 --> 00:20:22,600 Speaker 3: have known how severe our sore violence problem was if 410 00:20:22,640 --> 00:20:24,439 Speaker 3: it weren't for your show. How in the world are 411 00:20:24,520 --> 00:20:26,920 Speaker 3: y'all able to find new sword, ratchet the stories? Every 412 00:20:26,960 --> 00:20:29,680 Speaker 3: single day something needs to be done. People are out 413 00:20:29,720 --> 00:20:31,720 Speaker 3: here dying, and I thank y'all for bringing it the 414 00:20:31,800 --> 00:20:33,679 Speaker 3: light to this underreported problem. 415 00:20:33,880 --> 00:20:36,680 Speaker 5: Yes, for real, And how am I finding it is? 416 00:20:37,240 --> 00:20:38,399 Speaker 5: That's how much it's happening. 417 00:20:39,119 --> 00:20:39,960 Speaker 3: I wish it wasn't. 418 00:20:40,000 --> 00:20:42,679 Speaker 5: That's times when I delete emails like I just don't want. 419 00:20:42,520 --> 00:20:45,399 Speaker 3: To see this today. I had to, you know. But 420 00:20:45,440 --> 00:20:47,960 Speaker 3: it's like every day it's another person turning the sword 421 00:20:48,040 --> 00:20:51,119 Speaker 3: on their brother's sister and somebody got to talk about this. 422 00:20:51,200 --> 00:20:51,760 Speaker 5: Problem, y'all. 423 00:20:53,760 --> 00:20:58,520 Speaker 3: Black excellence epitomized by h Town Grohen, who says everything 424 00:20:58,680 --> 00:21:00,960 Speaker 3: is better with a little Karen and Rob It. Give 425 00:21:01,040 --> 00:21:04,159 Speaker 3: this power couple a listen. You won't be disappointed. Thank you. 426 00:21:04,359 --> 00:21:06,560 Speaker 3: Thank you. We appreciate it. And if you're not from 427 00:21:06,600 --> 00:21:09,360 Speaker 3: the United States, if you're from somewhere else and you're 428 00:21:09,400 --> 00:21:11,520 Speaker 3: leaving us a five star review, we can't see that 429 00:21:11,560 --> 00:21:12,600 Speaker 3: ship unless you tell. 430 00:21:12,560 --> 00:21:13,919 Speaker 4: Us Canada, Mexico. 431 00:21:14,160 --> 00:21:16,719 Speaker 3: Even in Canada, and even in Mexico you say, hey man, 432 00:21:16,720 --> 00:21:19,240 Speaker 3: I'm in Germany. I left y'all five star review. We 433 00:21:19,400 --> 00:21:21,240 Speaker 3: gonna need you to let us know. To hit us 434 00:21:21,320 --> 00:21:25,000 Speaker 3: own email, Twitter or something. We'll go to your country 435 00:21:25,040 --> 00:21:26,680 Speaker 3: code and we'll find it and we'll rejoice too. We 436 00:21:26,720 --> 00:21:30,520 Speaker 3: want to read them all guys. We got one five 437 00:21:30,560 --> 00:21:33,560 Speaker 3: star review on Stitcher, which is from bacon Zilla. All ship, 438 00:21:33,680 --> 00:21:36,320 Speaker 3: that's that's my dog. We be playing that mass effect. 439 00:21:37,840 --> 00:21:40,000 Speaker 3: Shout out to my path finders. Y'all know I'm at 440 00:21:40,720 --> 00:21:43,760 Speaker 3: I'll let your boy, but in the game, high light 441 00:21:43,840 --> 00:21:47,360 Speaker 3: your girl. Okay, speaking of which me and Peebe, we'll 442 00:21:47,359 --> 00:21:49,480 Speaker 3: be getting it on, y'all. I don't want to brag, 443 00:21:49,640 --> 00:21:52,200 Speaker 3: but you know she moving in with a niggas okay, 444 00:21:52,480 --> 00:21:56,760 Speaker 3: so yeah, you know, like she ejected her you know, 445 00:21:56,880 --> 00:21:59,800 Speaker 3: her escape pod, so you know she stopped acting flighty 446 00:22:00,400 --> 00:22:03,000 Speaker 3: and let somebody know that she really want to be down. 447 00:22:03,200 --> 00:22:07,159 Speaker 3: So you know, her and Harriet Ryder. You know, I 448 00:22:07,200 --> 00:22:10,280 Speaker 3: would like to consider us an item right now. Hopefully 449 00:22:10,320 --> 00:22:13,200 Speaker 3: she don't get killed, the kidnapped and nothing, because I 450 00:22:13,320 --> 00:22:15,800 Speaker 3: do leave. I do live inn adventurous life, y'all. Was 451 00:22:15,880 --> 00:22:19,840 Speaker 3: what I'm saying. Begonzilla says, fix your life and listen 452 00:22:19,880 --> 00:22:22,119 Speaker 3: to this podcast. Putting in the work and finally getting 453 00:22:22,160 --> 00:22:25,080 Speaker 3: these reviews done. This show is rolling off the couch, 454 00:22:25,200 --> 00:22:27,280 Speaker 3: laughing through tears and not caring you smacked your face, 455 00:22:27,359 --> 00:22:31,200 Speaker 3: hilarious riding Karen have a great deal of empathy and 456 00:22:31,240 --> 00:22:34,879 Speaker 3: understanding while simultaneously taking no nonsense. Karen's laugh is just 457 00:22:34,960 --> 00:22:37,320 Speaker 3: the best thing. The show has been a lifeline for 458 00:22:37,400 --> 00:22:39,359 Speaker 3: me to pass several months, and I'm just extremely grateful 459 00:22:39,400 --> 00:22:43,280 Speaker 3: for this fantastic team. Also that porn pun game almost 460 00:22:43,280 --> 00:22:47,360 Speaker 3: said porn game, which hi to be honest, it will 461 00:22:47,400 --> 00:22:50,000 Speaker 3: still be the same sentence anyway. Also that pun game 462 00:22:50,240 --> 00:22:53,800 Speaker 3: is on point. Thank you, oh man, that was so sweet. 463 00:22:53,840 --> 00:22:57,400 Speaker 3: Appreciate all y'all we do for the four star reviews. Man, 464 00:22:57,560 --> 00:22:59,720 Speaker 3: last week felt like we ain't getting none This week, 465 00:23:00,320 --> 00:23:01,440 Speaker 3: Black We're back. 466 00:23:01,640 --> 00:23:03,240 Speaker 4: You can coming in, y'all, you can coming in. 467 00:23:03,600 --> 00:23:07,320 Speaker 3: All right, let's get to the comments on the website. 468 00:23:07,400 --> 00:23:09,760 Speaker 3: We had episode fourteen to twenty five, Black and the 469 00:23:09,880 --> 00:23:14,600 Speaker 3: Black Black, which is a feedback show. We had three 470 00:23:14,720 --> 00:23:20,159 Speaker 3: comments Wuang Gandhi one way, mangan Ghi or Mongoan. I 471 00:23:20,280 --> 00:23:22,040 Speaker 3: need you to write in. Is it mongong am i 472 00:23:22,119 --> 00:23:26,360 Speaker 3: pronouncing right? Is it muangan gi or Muang gang g Yeah, 473 00:23:27,400 --> 00:23:30,000 Speaker 3: I'm thinking's gi because it's a G but I'm not 474 00:23:30,040 --> 00:23:34,400 Speaker 3: one hundred percent sure. So at any rate, we talked 475 00:23:34,440 --> 00:23:36,639 Speaker 3: about k dot dropping part two in three days. I 476 00:23:36,720 --> 00:23:40,640 Speaker 3: thought of this gift immediately, and what is this gift? 477 00:23:41,560 --> 00:23:44,920 Speaker 3: Black Jesus gift, much like Black Jesus will be right back. 478 00:23:45,000 --> 00:23:48,240 Speaker 3: Oh it's Larry Willmore from the Daily Show. 479 00:23:48,280 --> 00:23:49,200 Speaker 5: God, I missed that show. 480 00:23:50,520 --> 00:23:55,200 Speaker 3: But you know what, Ray Sani is writing for the 481 00:23:55,280 --> 00:23:57,520 Speaker 3: President's Show, which should be premiere next week. 482 00:23:57,560 --> 00:23:59,760 Speaker 4: I believe spot. 483 00:24:00,119 --> 00:24:03,000 Speaker 3: Yeah it we'll be taking that spot. So support that man. 484 00:24:03,400 --> 00:24:05,480 Speaker 3: People were like, I missed the Nightly Show so much. 485 00:24:05,520 --> 00:24:07,720 Speaker 3: I was like, hey, I feel you, but you know, 486 00:24:07,760 --> 00:24:10,159 Speaker 3: we gotta support our girl. Ry Man got tuned in 487 00:24:10,240 --> 00:24:13,320 Speaker 3: to see see what Trump gonna be talking about. Arion 488 00:24:13,560 --> 00:24:16,320 Speaker 3: f says as a Christian and plus I mean that show. 489 00:24:16,880 --> 00:24:18,960 Speaker 3: We you know Ray might get locked up in jail. 490 00:24:19,040 --> 00:24:22,280 Speaker 3: We don't know. Trump is just a whole different level 491 00:24:22,359 --> 00:24:25,679 Speaker 3: of psychopath. You know, I don't want to have her 492 00:24:25,760 --> 00:24:28,080 Speaker 3: doing collect calls to the podcast. I mean, I don't 493 00:24:28,080 --> 00:24:31,679 Speaker 3: know what's gonna happen. Arian f says, as a Christian, 494 00:24:31,720 --> 00:24:34,120 Speaker 3: I guess I should be offended by your theatrical retelling 495 00:24:34,160 --> 00:24:35,000 Speaker 3: of the story of Lot. 496 00:24:35,080 --> 00:24:36,679 Speaker 5: But it was one hundred percent accurate. 497 00:24:36,760 --> 00:24:37,520 Speaker 3: I read the chapter. 498 00:24:37,600 --> 00:24:39,680 Speaker 5: Okay, I know what I was talking. 499 00:24:39,760 --> 00:24:41,240 Speaker 4: He didn't know. The other dude didn't know what he 500 00:24:41,320 --> 00:24:41,800 Speaker 4: was talking about. 501 00:24:41,800 --> 00:24:45,439 Speaker 5: I'm like, yeah, actually I think it was Joe. But whatever, 502 00:24:45,800 --> 00:24:46,240 Speaker 5: same thing. 503 00:24:47,000 --> 00:24:49,840 Speaker 3: If I had if I had read the rid Nos 504 00:24:49,920 --> 00:24:51,640 Speaker 3: version of the Bible as a child, maybe I would 505 00:24:51,680 --> 00:24:54,920 Speaker 3: have been more interested. I'll saw your bridge story reminded 506 00:24:55,000 --> 00:24:57,560 Speaker 3: me of the Jesus play that Easta and her friends 507 00:24:57,600 --> 00:25:00,960 Speaker 3: went on went to on insecure. Oh yeah, that was 508 00:25:00,960 --> 00:25:05,199 Speaker 3: actually pretty good. You know, I actually would if they 509 00:25:05,200 --> 00:25:08,879 Speaker 3: would have taught us that in Sunday School, maybe I 510 00:25:08,880 --> 00:25:11,280 Speaker 3: would have stuck around a little longer. You know, the 511 00:25:11,920 --> 00:25:18,880 Speaker 3: Eastern Ray version. Why had the forsaking me? You said 512 00:25:18,960 --> 00:25:22,640 Speaker 3: you was lawyer, but you wasn't. You said you was faithful, 513 00:25:23,040 --> 00:25:27,440 Speaker 3: but you were lying. The ass bitch mm hmm. But 514 00:25:27,560 --> 00:25:30,440 Speaker 3: Mel seventy three says this episode is somewhat monotonous. I 515 00:25:30,520 --> 00:25:35,520 Speaker 3: mean momentous. I said monotonous, episode of somewhat momentous as 516 00:25:35,560 --> 00:25:37,280 Speaker 3: it marks today that Rod, for the first time ever, 517 00:25:37,320 --> 00:25:40,400 Speaker 3: said something I violently disagree with. Usually, Karen and Rod 518 00:25:40,480 --> 00:25:42,120 Speaker 3: may say something that I may have to think about, 519 00:25:42,160 --> 00:25:43,800 Speaker 3: and usually I end up being on the same side 520 00:25:43,800 --> 00:25:46,879 Speaker 3: of the issue, because the tipping Morrows are nothing if 521 00:25:46,920 --> 00:25:52,640 Speaker 3: not reasonable motherfuckers. However, however, Stephen A Voyce, on this day, 522 00:25:53,000 --> 00:25:57,280 Speaker 3: Rod said something so egregious, so atrocious, so shocking and 523 00:25:57,520 --> 00:26:01,639 Speaker 3: intolerably scandalous that I oughto the gas and daintily clutched 524 00:26:01,680 --> 00:26:02,080 Speaker 3: my heart. 525 00:26:03,000 --> 00:26:06,720 Speaker 5: While talking about Kendrick the Kendrick track xx SAX, Rod. 526 00:26:06,640 --> 00:26:08,920 Speaker 3: Said, I usually hate you too. 527 00:26:09,720 --> 00:26:10,640 Speaker 4: You hate you too. 528 00:26:11,800 --> 00:26:14,360 Speaker 3: He could have said I don't listen to or I'm 529 00:26:14,400 --> 00:26:17,879 Speaker 3: not a big fan of, but he said hate. I 530 00:26:17,960 --> 00:26:19,800 Speaker 3: don't know what to say. You too taught me that 531 00:26:19,920 --> 00:26:23,320 Speaker 3: white music can entertain me too, that preach it, self 532 00:26:23,359 --> 00:26:26,800 Speaker 3: absorbed and self righteous post punk rock can coexist. In 533 00:26:26,880 --> 00:26:29,920 Speaker 3: my cassette collection alone with Big Daddy came Bob Marley, 534 00:26:30,040 --> 00:26:34,120 Speaker 3: Public Enemy and Eric b and rock kimp. This means 535 00:26:34,160 --> 00:26:37,680 Speaker 3: from now on, whenever I describe tvg WT, I'm legally 536 00:26:37,760 --> 00:26:40,960 Speaker 3: obligated to say I may not agree with everything they say, 537 00:26:41,080 --> 00:26:46,600 Speaker 3: but well I'm sorry too. I'm sorry it happened to you, buddy. 538 00:26:47,000 --> 00:26:47,159 Speaker 10: You know. 539 00:26:47,920 --> 00:26:50,400 Speaker 5: Well, can I say I don't like that boring ass shit? 540 00:26:50,560 --> 00:26:53,159 Speaker 3: Man? You two is not my jam. I remember they 541 00:26:53,200 --> 00:26:55,280 Speaker 3: did the Super Bowl. I was like, eugh, these niggas, 542 00:26:55,280 --> 00:26:58,960 Speaker 3: I can go get a snack. Do you watch Underground? 543 00:26:59,040 --> 00:26:59,200 Speaker 8: Yes? 544 00:26:59,320 --> 00:27:01,600 Speaker 5: No, not, yeah, but I want to. Forty two percent 545 00:27:01,640 --> 00:27:02,040 Speaker 5: of y'all do. 546 00:27:02,119 --> 00:27:05,359 Speaker 3: Watch it, seventeen percent said nah, you don't watch it, 547 00:27:05,640 --> 00:27:07,480 Speaker 3: and forty percent said not yet, but you want to, 548 00:27:08,200 --> 00:27:08,840 Speaker 3: which I don't know. 549 00:27:10,040 --> 00:27:12,320 Speaker 5: I think maybe Hulu you can stream Underground. 550 00:27:12,400 --> 00:27:14,560 Speaker 3: If I'm not mistaken, I think you can. It's a 551 00:27:14,600 --> 00:27:15,560 Speaker 3: great time to catch up. 552 00:27:15,760 --> 00:27:18,840 Speaker 5: But it's a really good show, excellent show. 553 00:27:19,040 --> 00:27:21,080 Speaker 3: Jackie says, I don't want you under watch Underground, but 554 00:27:21,080 --> 00:27:22,600 Speaker 3: I will watch the Hairy tell me the episode that 555 00:27:22,640 --> 00:27:24,040 Speaker 3: y'all talk about. Yeah, enjoy that. 556 00:27:24,200 --> 00:27:26,520 Speaker 10: You can actually watch that, not your funny standalone and 557 00:27:26,640 --> 00:27:27,720 Speaker 10: not watch anything else. 558 00:27:28,000 --> 00:27:28,480 Speaker 3: That's true. 559 00:27:28,840 --> 00:27:31,320 Speaker 5: Uh, Civil back services. I need to start binge watching it. 560 00:27:31,600 --> 00:27:35,240 Speaker 3: I'm letting down our ancestors, love y'all's current coverage of it. 561 00:27:35,480 --> 00:27:35,800 Speaker 4: Thank you. 562 00:27:37,600 --> 00:27:39,680 Speaker 3: Down the ancestors. If that's all it took. Can you 563 00:27:39,760 --> 00:27:42,639 Speaker 3: imagine just Slaves and Heven looking down at us like this. 564 00:27:42,760 --> 00:27:48,440 Speaker 3: Nigga won't even watch Underground, right man? You see what 565 00:27:48,480 --> 00:27:52,639 Speaker 3: your look at your ancestors up to this is what happened. 566 00:27:54,840 --> 00:27:55,720 Speaker 5: I mean your descendance. 567 00:27:55,760 --> 00:27:59,080 Speaker 3: Look at your descendence up to watching motherfucking Empire. They 568 00:27:59,080 --> 00:28:01,639 Speaker 3: won't even put it. Nigga, change the channel, put it 569 00:28:01,680 --> 00:28:08,240 Speaker 3: on Underground. D Ramsey pH Done says on episode fourteen 570 00:28:08,280 --> 00:28:12,120 Speaker 3: twenty six, half assed apologies fire stars, Tyres can kick 571 00:28:12,200 --> 00:28:16,240 Speaker 3: rocks as far as I'm concerned, because she de Ramsey 572 00:28:16,359 --> 00:28:20,280 Speaker 3: wasn't feeling that apology. F Rese Tanya W forty two says, 573 00:28:20,280 --> 00:28:23,000 Speaker 3: I totally agree about people criticizing your you using for 574 00:28:23,160 --> 00:28:24,760 Speaker 3: using the phone in a restaurant or a bar. I 575 00:28:24,840 --> 00:28:27,040 Speaker 3: mean talking on the phone would be rude, I think. 576 00:28:27,160 --> 00:28:29,119 Speaker 3: But other than that, I have no idea why it 577 00:28:29,160 --> 00:28:31,480 Speaker 3: bothers people so much. I can't tell you how many 578 00:28:31,520 --> 00:28:33,480 Speaker 3: times my boyfriend and I have been using our phones 579 00:28:33,520 --> 00:28:35,520 Speaker 3: at tablets and some wise ass comes up and says, 580 00:28:35,560 --> 00:28:38,400 Speaker 3: are you texting each other. H thanks for letting me vent. 581 00:28:38,720 --> 00:28:39,280 Speaker 3: I feel you. 582 00:28:41,120 --> 00:28:44,239 Speaker 10: AMIONI And you know, I think for some people they 583 00:28:44,360 --> 00:28:46,960 Speaker 10: take their personal views on that and want to interject 584 00:28:47,000 --> 00:28:48,280 Speaker 10: it on you because not trying. 585 00:28:48,320 --> 00:28:48,600 Speaker 4: Funny. 586 00:28:48,720 --> 00:28:50,680 Speaker 10: Some people have the personality, but they have to be 587 00:28:50,720 --> 00:28:53,000 Speaker 10: the sender of a tension or either they feel like 588 00:28:53,120 --> 00:28:56,040 Speaker 10: if you'll not a lot of people think phone and 589 00:28:56,080 --> 00:29:00,200 Speaker 10: texting is very not personal and so they feel like, 590 00:29:00,880 --> 00:29:03,200 Speaker 10: you know, you know how you have people you text 591 00:29:03,280 --> 00:29:05,200 Speaker 10: and they don't never respond and then they call you 592 00:29:05,320 --> 00:29:07,360 Speaker 10: and you and then they want to while y'all don't 593 00:29:07,360 --> 00:29:09,720 Speaker 10: communicate because like you ain't gonna give something, ain't gonna 594 00:29:09,720 --> 00:29:10,160 Speaker 10: give either. 595 00:29:11,880 --> 00:29:14,240 Speaker 4: And it's one of those things too will sometimes you're 596 00:29:14,280 --> 00:29:15,920 Speaker 4: just boring, you don't know. 597 00:29:16,720 --> 00:29:18,080 Speaker 3: One of the things that happened to me last week 598 00:29:18,200 --> 00:29:20,280 Speaker 3: me and carrying at this restaurant which, oh my god, 599 00:29:20,360 --> 00:29:23,840 Speaker 3: it might be our favorite restaurant in Charlotte now friends 600 00:29:23,920 --> 00:29:24,520 Speaker 3: filling station. 601 00:29:25,480 --> 00:29:28,280 Speaker 5: It's so guys, it's absolutely crack. 602 00:29:29,360 --> 00:29:31,280 Speaker 3: Like I want to go back just to keep trying 603 00:29:31,360 --> 00:29:34,160 Speaker 3: until I get everything on the menu because it's that good. Anyway, 604 00:29:34,720 --> 00:29:38,160 Speaker 3: we was there and I was reading comic books like 605 00:29:38,200 --> 00:29:40,480 Speaker 3: I do sometimes when go out to lunch or dinner 606 00:29:40,520 --> 00:29:43,600 Speaker 3: with Karen, and you know Karen. Sometimes Karen will let 607 00:29:43,640 --> 00:29:46,400 Speaker 3: me reading and sometimes she would just talk through me 608 00:29:46,520 --> 00:29:49,880 Speaker 3: reading anyway, but either way, like she was letting me 609 00:29:50,000 --> 00:29:52,480 Speaker 3: read this time, and I was reading something and the 610 00:29:52,560 --> 00:29:55,880 Speaker 3: person came home. I was like ooh, and I forget 611 00:29:55,960 --> 00:29:58,080 Speaker 3: what books she named, but it was something. It was 612 00:29:58,160 --> 00:30:00,760 Speaker 3: something I wouldn't reading a million fucking years. Oh she said, oh, 613 00:30:00,840 --> 00:30:05,120 Speaker 3: the Farcide. Now I think it was a tank okay, 614 00:30:05,480 --> 00:30:08,600 Speaker 3: because I was reading Star Wars, so I think she 615 00:30:08,800 --> 00:30:11,520 Speaker 3: really did think Star Wars but said the far Side. 616 00:30:11,840 --> 00:30:15,200 Speaker 5: So I turned to like, I said, I said, so 617 00:30:15,480 --> 00:30:16,600 Speaker 5: she said, yeah. 618 00:30:16,440 --> 00:30:18,960 Speaker 3: Ooh, f the far Side, and I turned around. I 619 00:30:19,040 --> 00:30:22,920 Speaker 3: was like, uh okay, I said, nah, she said you 620 00:30:23,040 --> 00:30:25,480 Speaker 3: even farside. I said no, it's actually Star Wars and 621 00:30:25,600 --> 00:30:27,840 Speaker 3: then she just like walked away like she didn't even 622 00:30:27,880 --> 00:30:28,800 Speaker 3: say like okay. 623 00:30:29,920 --> 00:30:32,600 Speaker 5: I was like wow, just because leave us alone. 624 00:30:32,880 --> 00:30:35,960 Speaker 4: And sometimes I think your table it just drops people attention. 625 00:30:36,040 --> 00:30:38,400 Speaker 10: They see the colors, they feel like they are obligated 626 00:30:38,440 --> 00:30:40,320 Speaker 10: to talk to you for some reason because you have it. 627 00:30:40,400 --> 00:30:45,400 Speaker 3: Out at any right. That shit is annoying. UHMANI says, 628 00:30:45,440 --> 00:30:47,360 Speaker 3: fuck Jeffrey Lord, fuck the see and then producers for 629 00:30:47,480 --> 00:30:50,160 Speaker 3: keeping him employed, and fuck Jeff Zucker for encouraging this 630 00:30:50,320 --> 00:30:53,480 Speaker 3: both sides bullshit, and fuck Donalomit for performing whatever blackness 631 00:30:53,480 --> 00:30:55,800 Speaker 3: gets him paid. He knew better this whole time, but 632 00:30:55,920 --> 00:30:58,440 Speaker 3: now it's profitable to speak out against Trump and his supporters, 633 00:30:58,680 --> 00:31:00,479 Speaker 3: so he can see the jig again and fuck out 634 00:31:00,520 --> 00:31:02,840 Speaker 3: of my face. Love y'all, doh appreciate the grind for real? 635 00:31:03,160 --> 00:31:03,400 Speaker 4: Thank you. 636 00:31:03,960 --> 00:31:06,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'll be feeling like Don Lemit and them. Like 637 00:31:06,640 --> 00:31:10,560 Speaker 3: Don Lemon specifically is a person that definitely knew better 638 00:31:10,640 --> 00:31:14,080 Speaker 3: the whole time, but knew that playing the middle to 639 00:31:14,200 --> 00:31:16,840 Speaker 3: piss off as many people as possible goes viral way 640 00:31:16,960 --> 00:31:20,400 Speaker 3: more than keeping it righteous. And now that it's a 641 00:31:20,520 --> 00:31:24,320 Speaker 3: Republican administration, he feels comfortable coming quote unquote coming back home. 642 00:31:24,880 --> 00:31:26,520 Speaker 5: But I'll never trust that nigga again. 643 00:31:27,720 --> 00:31:30,680 Speaker 3: Anonymous says, I think Winter bumble Land is a playoff 644 00:31:30,720 --> 00:31:33,400 Speaker 3: of Winter Wonderland, But like you said, it's April and 645 00:31:33,520 --> 00:31:36,760 Speaker 3: we know Cali don't get no damn snow, so yeah, 646 00:31:36,840 --> 00:31:37,360 Speaker 3: it's stupid. 647 00:31:39,120 --> 00:31:39,239 Speaker 4: Uh. 648 00:31:39,440 --> 00:31:42,360 Speaker 3: And then we had the pole and we had two 649 00:31:42,400 --> 00:31:45,520 Speaker 3: comments and the pole was easy, which apology was better? 650 00:31:47,240 --> 00:31:50,960 Speaker 3: Tyrese Lovey or they were both even. This was some 651 00:31:51,080 --> 00:31:54,200 Speaker 3: interesting results here, guys, Cuz love you got fifteen percent, 652 00:31:55,240 --> 00:31:58,440 Speaker 3: Tyrese got fifteen percent, and then they were both even 653 00:31:58,520 --> 00:31:59,360 Speaker 3: got seventy percent. 654 00:31:59,440 --> 00:32:00,680 Speaker 5: So I guess I have to go with they were 655 00:32:00,720 --> 00:32:01,160 Speaker 5: both even. 656 00:32:01,960 --> 00:32:03,840 Speaker 3: You know. Some people were trying to say, like, oh, 657 00:32:03,920 --> 00:32:05,840 Speaker 3: one was better than the other, but I don't know, man, 658 00:32:05,880 --> 00:32:08,680 Speaker 3: that's pretty even right there. Which if you thought one 659 00:32:08,840 --> 00:32:12,120 Speaker 3: was terrible, then it seemed like you would be saying 660 00:32:12,160 --> 00:32:15,520 Speaker 3: they both were terrible. Which is funny because somebody told 661 00:32:15,520 --> 00:32:18,280 Speaker 3: me when they saw the apology or from Tyrese online, 662 00:32:18,280 --> 00:32:20,320 Speaker 3: it was like, this is just like Lovey's apology or something, 663 00:32:20,320 --> 00:32:23,600 Speaker 3: and I was like, I hadn't never, I hadn't seen 664 00:32:23,640 --> 00:32:25,160 Speaker 3: them both at the time. I was like, oh man, 665 00:32:25,160 --> 00:32:28,080 Speaker 3: that's an interesting comparison, because if I was getting compared 666 00:32:28,120 --> 00:32:29,840 Speaker 3: to Tyrese, I'd probably be like, no, I. 667 00:32:30,120 --> 00:32:32,600 Speaker 5: No, no, no, no, I want to do better than Tyrese. 668 00:32:32,960 --> 00:32:35,320 Speaker 4: I got the least do a little bit better. 669 00:32:35,600 --> 00:32:35,760 Speaker 6: Yeah. 670 00:32:35,920 --> 00:32:38,280 Speaker 3: Brooklyn shoe Bay says, I'm not sure who Lovey is. 671 00:32:39,120 --> 00:32:41,120 Speaker 3: Did you not listen to any of the other shows 672 00:32:41,160 --> 00:32:41,680 Speaker 3: what happened? 673 00:32:42,480 --> 00:32:45,120 Speaker 10: She might just know from us talking a lot of 674 00:32:45,120 --> 00:32:47,320 Speaker 10: people might not be in the you know, on the 675 00:32:47,440 --> 00:32:49,480 Speaker 10: internet like that to actually know who she. 676 00:32:49,720 --> 00:32:52,720 Speaker 3: Might not run in them circles, right, I'm not sure 677 00:32:52,760 --> 00:32:55,080 Speaker 3: who Lovey is. So more other Tyres' drama came up 678 00:32:55,120 --> 00:32:55,800 Speaker 3: on my news feed. 679 00:32:55,880 --> 00:32:57,320 Speaker 5: I feel like, oh, okay, I. 680 00:32:57,320 --> 00:32:58,880 Speaker 3: Can see what you say. I feel like I saw 681 00:32:58,960 --> 00:33:03,760 Speaker 3: this disrespectful comments one hundred times. Juwan says, you're a 682 00:33:03,840 --> 00:33:07,280 Speaker 3: goddamn genius. You started to play Old Girls cover of Redbone, 683 00:33:07,320 --> 00:33:09,560 Speaker 3: and I was gonna let Becky cook until she apologized 684 00:33:09,560 --> 00:33:12,000 Speaker 3: in advance for cursing. I immediately pulled over on my 685 00:33:12,080 --> 00:33:14,200 Speaker 3: way home because I needed to hear which word she 686 00:33:14,360 --> 00:33:17,920 Speaker 3: was had to apologize for that pause before creeping was 687 00:33:18,040 --> 00:33:20,840 Speaker 3: comedy gold. But she still gets one hundred because I'm 688 00:33:20,880 --> 00:33:26,440 Speaker 3: fucked with peace. Yeah the kazoo. Yeah, that was literally amazing, 689 00:33:26,640 --> 00:33:28,480 Speaker 3: amazing whiteness in that in that. 690 00:33:28,600 --> 00:33:31,840 Speaker 4: Rendition, you can't say the words ring, I know been 691 00:33:31,880 --> 00:33:32,560 Speaker 4: and singing that song. 692 00:33:32,920 --> 00:33:36,280 Speaker 3: Yep. We had episode fourteen twenty seven Living under Terror, 693 00:33:36,800 --> 00:33:42,440 Speaker 3: which not necessarily the funniest episode, but uh, I think 694 00:33:42,520 --> 00:33:44,440 Speaker 3: we had a lot of stuff that needed to be said, 695 00:33:44,760 --> 00:33:48,680 Speaker 3: and I specifically, you know, had a lot of stuff 696 00:33:48,720 --> 00:33:50,960 Speaker 3: I wanted to say, and I appreciate Karen for letting 697 00:33:51,000 --> 00:33:52,560 Speaker 3: me say it and get it kind. 698 00:33:52,440 --> 00:33:53,120 Speaker 5: Of get it out there. 699 00:33:55,320 --> 00:33:58,280 Speaker 3: Maya B Says, this is gonna be a long one, 700 00:33:58,360 --> 00:34:01,000 Speaker 3: but it's definitely one that's relevant regards to violence against women. 701 00:34:01,080 --> 00:34:03,040 Speaker 3: Big trigger warning for those who are says totive, because 702 00:34:03,040 --> 00:34:06,120 Speaker 3: I'm about to talk about coercion, attempt to rape, and revenge. 703 00:34:06,160 --> 00:34:09,440 Speaker 3: For maybe a week ago, my school's Japanese club took 704 00:34:09,440 --> 00:34:11,680 Speaker 3: a trip to Nashville for Cherry Blossom Festival. Me and 705 00:34:11,760 --> 00:34:14,399 Speaker 3: my two young friends let's call them B and Cal 706 00:34:15,320 --> 00:34:18,560 Speaker 3: rode with one of the advisors of the program and 707 00:34:18,640 --> 00:34:21,000 Speaker 3: an upper classman, and they wanted to get pizza at 708 00:34:21,040 --> 00:34:24,280 Speaker 3: this fancy place before we headed home back to Kentucky. 709 00:34:24,360 --> 00:34:26,239 Speaker 3: The dinner was nice and fine, and we got to 710 00:34:26,480 --> 00:34:30,160 Speaker 3: finally bond with some upper classmen, but the subjects suddenly 711 00:34:30,239 --> 00:34:32,400 Speaker 3: turned to the visiting group of Japanese students that came 712 00:34:32,440 --> 00:34:34,880 Speaker 3: to our university for a month. Apparently the group that 713 00:34:34,960 --> 00:34:36,640 Speaker 3: came was so weird and strange that one of the 714 00:34:36,680 --> 00:34:39,240 Speaker 3: sensays was informed on how weird the boys were acting. 715 00:34:39,719 --> 00:34:41,719 Speaker 5: Me and be knew exactly what they were talking about 716 00:34:41,760 --> 00:34:43,040 Speaker 5: because B had a strange. 717 00:34:42,840 --> 00:34:44,839 Speaker 3: Run and with one of them. Dudes seriously met her 718 00:34:45,280 --> 00:34:48,200 Speaker 3: during during one of our sanctioned Japanese practice times, and 719 00:34:48,280 --> 00:34:51,879 Speaker 3: by the night he went to her dorm room and went, 720 00:34:52,440 --> 00:34:55,319 Speaker 3: can you be my girlfriend? However, we didn't know why 721 00:34:55,400 --> 00:34:57,160 Speaker 3: he was so fucking weird until that night. On the 722 00:34:57,200 --> 00:35:00,399 Speaker 3: car ride home, Danny, the upperclassman riding with a told 723 00:35:00,440 --> 00:35:03,760 Speaker 3: us that dude had essentially created a revenge form video 724 00:35:04,400 --> 00:35:07,719 Speaker 3: a fellow Japanese student a female student giving him head, 725 00:35:08,040 --> 00:35:09,920 Speaker 3: and proceeded not only to show it to the males 726 00:35:09,960 --> 00:35:12,840 Speaker 3: in his travel group, but the upper class Japanese majors 727 00:35:12,840 --> 00:35:15,720 Speaker 3: as well. Wow, this was something we didn't know about. 728 00:35:15,760 --> 00:35:17,960 Speaker 3: I thought the worst was him basically trying to pull 729 00:35:18,040 --> 00:35:19,960 Speaker 3: Bee's clothes down to trying to force her to have 730 00:35:20,120 --> 00:35:23,040 Speaker 3: sex with her, force her to have sex with her 731 00:35:23,600 --> 00:35:26,120 Speaker 3: him because he knew I wasn't with her. 732 00:35:26,560 --> 00:35:27,440 Speaker 5: I live off campus. 733 00:35:27,560 --> 00:35:31,200 Speaker 3: Danny continues to say that he stalked one of her friends, 734 00:35:31,239 --> 00:35:34,279 Speaker 3: who was a former student but she recently graduated. Danny 735 00:35:34,360 --> 00:35:37,800 Speaker 3: said that he wanted to just take pictures with her friend, 736 00:35:37,920 --> 00:35:39,640 Speaker 3: and her friend told him to leave her alone and 737 00:35:39,719 --> 00:35:42,000 Speaker 3: that he was keeping her out. B came to the 738 00:35:42,040 --> 00:35:46,120 Speaker 3: realization that what happened to her was attempted rape and 739 00:35:46,360 --> 00:35:48,319 Speaker 3: that nothing was her fault. But that was a huge 740 00:35:48,320 --> 00:35:51,080 Speaker 3: heaviness over the Japanese girl who was involved because we 741 00:35:51,120 --> 00:35:53,160 Speaker 3: did not give her the resources to help her process 742 00:35:53,200 --> 00:35:56,040 Speaker 3: through her trauma. For quick clarification being the other girl 743 00:35:56,120 --> 00:35:57,960 Speaker 3: are white and most of the girls just pray or 744 00:35:58,000 --> 00:35:59,360 Speaker 3: to try to go after with white girls in the 745 00:35:59,440 --> 00:36:02,160 Speaker 3: Japanese pro Sadly, this was a bit of a pattern 746 00:36:02,200 --> 00:36:04,560 Speaker 3: during that month, but thankfully nothing was on this level 747 00:36:04,600 --> 00:36:07,000 Speaker 3: of severity. So sorry this ran long, but it's a 748 00:36:07,000 --> 00:36:09,520 Speaker 3: story that's sadly relevant that should not have happened to anyone. 749 00:36:09,560 --> 00:36:12,799 Speaker 3: But yeah, here we are. Thank you Maya. Yeah man, 750 00:36:12,920 --> 00:36:14,800 Speaker 3: And like I said, it just comes back to that 751 00:36:14,880 --> 00:36:17,719 Speaker 3: same thing, right, who can you trust? How are you 752 00:36:17,719 --> 00:36:20,279 Speaker 3: supposed to feel safe around somebody? How? You You know 753 00:36:20,480 --> 00:36:22,920 Speaker 3: when people go in on women for having their guards 754 00:36:23,040 --> 00:36:25,800 Speaker 3: up and call them bitter and all this shit, you know, 755 00:36:26,520 --> 00:36:30,239 Speaker 3: it's so ridiculous. Yeah, not no, not even just because 756 00:36:30,239 --> 00:36:32,959 Speaker 3: they're not smiling, I'm saying, for they call women bitter 757 00:36:33,040 --> 00:36:36,200 Speaker 3: for pointing out obvious shit that they go through. You know, 758 00:36:36,400 --> 00:36:38,799 Speaker 3: when women are like yo, you can't really trust men 759 00:36:38,920 --> 00:36:41,040 Speaker 3: because you don't know which one of these motherfuckers is 760 00:36:41,080 --> 00:36:44,040 Speaker 3: the crazy one. And then it's like these bitter bitches, 761 00:36:44,120 --> 00:36:47,040 Speaker 3: you know what I mean, Like it's an obvious It's like, 762 00:36:47,320 --> 00:36:48,960 Speaker 3: how dare you see the truth? The same way I 763 00:36:49,040 --> 00:36:51,120 Speaker 3: get called racist for being like, well, white people do 764 00:36:51,200 --> 00:36:53,359 Speaker 3: some fucked up shit in the past. Whoa, whoa, whoa, 765 00:36:54,000 --> 00:36:56,960 Speaker 3: you know what I mean? Like you bitter black person? 766 00:36:57,080 --> 00:37:02,320 Speaker 3: You you racist? So uh yeah man tchnique Yeah, same technique. 767 00:37:02,560 --> 00:37:04,680 Speaker 3: Brooklyn shoe Babe says, I was listening to your podcast 768 00:37:04,719 --> 00:37:05,960 Speaker 3: on the way to work and when you mention that 769 00:37:06,040 --> 00:37:07,840 Speaker 3: you are constantly living under the threat of terror, a 770 00:37:07,920 --> 00:37:10,759 Speaker 3: shiver went through me. I am too, But on so 771 00:37:10,880 --> 00:37:12,960 Speaker 3: many levels I work in the public library. We get 772 00:37:12,960 --> 00:37:15,879 Speaker 3: all types coming through here, angry people, mentally to stir people, 773 00:37:15,960 --> 00:37:18,279 Speaker 3: homeless people, kids, parents, the press, folks, and all types 774 00:37:18,320 --> 00:37:21,439 Speaker 3: of regular folks. You never know when what you're gonna 775 00:37:21,480 --> 00:37:23,480 Speaker 3: get or what is going to get set someone off. 776 00:37:23,880 --> 00:37:26,440 Speaker 3: There been library staff hit threatened, or follow up to 777 00:37:26,480 --> 00:37:29,600 Speaker 3: their cars. And sometimes being a female librarian is even worse. 778 00:37:29,640 --> 00:37:31,319 Speaker 3: You sit at a desk facing the public and you're 779 00:37:31,320 --> 00:37:34,000 Speaker 3: told to be polite and the customer services the number 780 00:37:34,040 --> 00:37:36,359 Speaker 3: one priority. So you have all types of men coming 781 00:37:36,400 --> 00:37:38,600 Speaker 3: on to and flirting with you and trying to ask 782 00:37:38,640 --> 00:37:44,920 Speaker 3: you on a date. Yeah, that that sexy librarian stereotype 783 00:37:44,960 --> 00:37:46,879 Speaker 3: gotta be in a lot of these men's heads too. 784 00:37:47,880 --> 00:37:50,319 Speaker 3: Sometimes you can brush it off, but sometimes it could 785 00:37:50,400 --> 00:37:52,640 Speaker 3: just go left. And like when men holler at women 786 00:37:52,719 --> 00:37:54,879 Speaker 3: on the streets. So now that I'm divorced and don't 787 00:37:54,880 --> 00:37:56,880 Speaker 3: wear a wedding ring, I feel even more vulnerable. 788 00:37:57,200 --> 00:37:59,000 Speaker 10: A lot of a lot of women even know what 789 00:37:59,080 --> 00:38:03,040 Speaker 10: there was still actually just so they won't be harassed, 790 00:38:03,080 --> 00:38:06,200 Speaker 10: actually continue to wear that with ring. And it's women 791 00:38:06,280 --> 00:38:09,239 Speaker 10: that aren't married and wear a rating band just for 792 00:38:09,400 --> 00:38:12,120 Speaker 10: that same reason, yeap, Because for some reason when you 793 00:38:12,239 --> 00:38:13,960 Speaker 10: because when you don't have way, the man is a problem. 794 00:38:13,960 --> 00:38:17,319 Speaker 10: Because I know, I think one day, and I didn't 795 00:38:17,320 --> 00:38:20,359 Speaker 10: even think about this at the time, I had took 796 00:38:20,400 --> 00:38:23,319 Speaker 10: my ring off to clean it, and I think something 797 00:38:23,360 --> 00:38:25,400 Speaker 10: happened with my car and we had to call Triple 798 00:38:25,480 --> 00:38:28,200 Speaker 10: A and the Triple A man came up there, and 799 00:38:28,320 --> 00:38:30,640 Speaker 10: I didn't pay any attention, but I was thinking looking 800 00:38:30,640 --> 00:38:32,359 Speaker 10: at this man because he was just talking to a man. 801 00:38:32,480 --> 00:38:36,600 Speaker 4: He said something about uh uh, do you have a 802 00:38:36,680 --> 00:38:39,200 Speaker 4: man or somebody that was like, yeah, I'm married, you know. 803 00:38:39,440 --> 00:38:40,839 Speaker 10: But then I looked at my hand all that, oh shit, 804 00:38:40,880 --> 00:38:43,560 Speaker 10: you ain't got my band on. But I was like, okay, 805 00:38:43,840 --> 00:38:46,040 Speaker 10: you see, I even have a redding band on and 806 00:38:46,120 --> 00:38:48,440 Speaker 10: I'm a woman, and you just automatically, because he was 807 00:38:48,440 --> 00:38:50,160 Speaker 10: a black man, automatic look at that as a target 808 00:38:50,200 --> 00:38:52,879 Speaker 10: as a way to hit on me. Versus it don't 809 00:38:52,920 --> 00:38:56,319 Speaker 10: deter all men. For some men, because it's their property thing. 810 00:38:56,480 --> 00:38:58,560 Speaker 10: They see a ring on, they assume that you're somebody 811 00:38:58,560 --> 00:39:01,360 Speaker 10: else's property. And now out of respect for you, but 812 00:39:01,520 --> 00:39:04,000 Speaker 10: out of respect for that man, they won't fuck with 813 00:39:04,120 --> 00:39:05,560 Speaker 10: you because they feel like you're. 814 00:39:05,400 --> 00:39:09,040 Speaker 4: Already quote unquote owned or claimed, or you're already balked. 815 00:39:11,239 --> 00:39:13,399 Speaker 10: And so, like I said, I've heard a lot of women, 816 00:39:13,560 --> 00:39:15,120 Speaker 10: like I said, even though they get divorced, and you 817 00:39:15,239 --> 00:39:17,040 Speaker 10: may want to do this not trying funny, they still 818 00:39:17,080 --> 00:39:18,759 Speaker 10: wear they win and band and you have a lot 819 00:39:18,800 --> 00:39:20,520 Speaker 10: of single women, they're still where they win in band 820 00:39:20,880 --> 00:39:25,080 Speaker 10: and I have single friends who actually live alone, and 821 00:39:25,400 --> 00:39:29,560 Speaker 10: what they do is that they actually buy a men 822 00:39:29,800 --> 00:39:32,400 Speaker 10: boots and they actually take them and scuff them and 823 00:39:32,520 --> 00:39:35,720 Speaker 10: dirty them up and muddle them up and all that stuff, 824 00:39:35,960 --> 00:39:38,279 Speaker 10: and then they actually set them outside their door, like 825 00:39:38,360 --> 00:39:39,759 Speaker 10: they have a pair in the front and a pair 826 00:39:39,800 --> 00:39:41,560 Speaker 10: in the back, and periodically they bring them in and 827 00:39:41,600 --> 00:39:43,400 Speaker 10: they'll set them out just so they can have the 828 00:39:43,440 --> 00:39:46,080 Speaker 10: appearance of that there's a male in the house with you. 829 00:39:46,320 --> 00:39:48,120 Speaker 10: It's sad that you have to go to that extent, 830 00:39:48,440 --> 00:39:50,520 Speaker 10: but you don't know which one of your neighbors are 831 00:39:50,640 --> 00:39:51,120 Speaker 10: watching you. 832 00:39:51,719 --> 00:39:56,440 Speaker 3: Yep, And you're right, it's all about that ring means, oh, 833 00:39:56,680 --> 00:39:59,040 Speaker 3: there's some man somewhere that I have to it's property. 834 00:39:59,239 --> 00:40:02,279 Speaker 3: It's oh that's a bad property. Okay, my bad. I'll 835 00:40:02,280 --> 00:40:05,040 Speaker 3: step off. And that's for the people that you know 836 00:40:05,440 --> 00:40:10,600 Speaker 3: acknowledge that. She also says active shooter situation scared the 837 00:40:10,600 --> 00:40:12,839 Speaker 3: shit out of me and some of my colleagues. When 838 00:40:12,840 --> 00:40:14,640 Speaker 3: you hear the cases of people shooting up movie theaters, 839 00:40:14,680 --> 00:40:18,040 Speaker 3: playing parenthood, clinics, and schools. What's stopping someone from shooting 840 00:40:18,080 --> 00:40:20,520 Speaker 3: up for library, especially in this Trump era where most 841 00:40:20,560 --> 00:40:24,759 Speaker 3: public libraries are effectively actively against everything he represents. Some 842 00:40:24,960 --> 00:40:26,520 Speaker 3: days I can push through and not think about it. 843 00:40:26,600 --> 00:40:30,000 Speaker 3: Some days I need to take my anti xiety medication. Yeah, 844 00:40:30,400 --> 00:40:32,560 Speaker 3: I mean, if it's any consolation I think the only 845 00:40:32,560 --> 00:40:35,600 Speaker 3: reason people would shoot up a librari is because in 846 00:40:35,680 --> 00:40:38,040 Speaker 3: Trump's America, people too stupid to read, so they probably 847 00:40:38,120 --> 00:40:40,560 Speaker 3: gonna go. You know, They're like, oh, I probably would 848 00:40:40,560 --> 00:40:44,359 Speaker 3: only catch a couple of people in there. The only 849 00:40:44,440 --> 00:40:46,160 Speaker 3: day I was at the city. The other day I 850 00:40:46,200 --> 00:40:47,600 Speaker 3: was on the city bus. I lost my balance a 851 00:40:47,640 --> 00:40:50,080 Speaker 3: bunted to this old white guy. When I went to apologize, 852 00:40:50,080 --> 00:40:52,000 Speaker 3: he elbowed me in the ribs twice. Then I yelled 853 00:40:52,000 --> 00:40:53,400 Speaker 3: at him not to touch me, and he pushed me. 854 00:40:53,719 --> 00:40:55,680 Speaker 3: When I yelled again, he raised up his forearm and 855 00:40:55,760 --> 00:40:57,719 Speaker 3: bashed me in the head. I'm forty four years old. 856 00:40:57,719 --> 00:40:59,439 Speaker 3: I've been riding the bus on the train for thirty 857 00:40:59,440 --> 00:41:01,719 Speaker 3: plus years, and I never had anyone threaten me with 858 00:41:01,800 --> 00:41:03,759 Speaker 3: physical violence. I don't want to say it was racial, 859 00:41:03,840 --> 00:41:05,640 Speaker 3: but at my core, I feel like it was since 860 00:41:06,000 --> 00:41:07,680 Speaker 3: I was the only black person on the bus and 861 00:41:07,719 --> 00:41:09,680 Speaker 3: the part of Brooklyn I live in with the Trump 862 00:41:10,040 --> 00:41:13,840 Speaker 3: who takes a form to a woman, Yeah, man, and 863 00:41:14,000 --> 00:41:15,080 Speaker 3: like what are you supposed to do? 864 00:41:15,320 --> 00:41:18,359 Speaker 10: And like Roger said, for a lot of people, Trump 865 00:41:18,440 --> 00:41:21,560 Speaker 10: getting a lifted literally activated like it. For a lot 866 00:41:21,600 --> 00:41:23,879 Speaker 10: of racist people, there was like, oh, I could act 867 00:41:23,960 --> 00:41:27,920 Speaker 10: a motherfucking food and I won't be shamed and nobody 868 00:41:27,960 --> 00:41:30,880 Speaker 10: will call me out. And I guin tell y'all wouldn't 869 00:41:30,880 --> 00:41:32,840 Speaker 10: own the two people on this bus, So all the 870 00:41:32,920 --> 00:41:34,520 Speaker 10: mother white folks didn't nobody tell him. 871 00:41:34,560 --> 00:41:35,759 Speaker 4: You ain't got nobody to doing that to her. 872 00:41:36,760 --> 00:41:40,279 Speaker 3: And that's also that thing where anybody could be like, oh, 873 00:41:40,360 --> 00:41:41,560 Speaker 3: it's probably not about race. 874 00:41:41,600 --> 00:41:43,000 Speaker 5: I mean, he's just a jerk. 875 00:41:43,040 --> 00:41:45,759 Speaker 3: He's probably mean to everybody. He's an old white man. 876 00:41:45,680 --> 00:41:48,520 Speaker 5: Who knows what it was. But you know, deep down, 877 00:41:48,560 --> 00:41:50,719 Speaker 5: you know, you're like, yeah, that was racial. 878 00:41:50,480 --> 00:41:51,879 Speaker 4: All right, because if it had been a white woman, 879 00:41:51,880 --> 00:41:52,840 Speaker 4: he wouldn't have done that to her. 880 00:41:52,960 --> 00:41:54,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, a lot of people would find some way to 881 00:41:54,600 --> 00:41:56,479 Speaker 3: excuse it or something or to be like, you can't 882 00:41:56,560 --> 00:41:58,160 Speaker 3: know for sure did he call you a nigga? But 883 00:41:58,760 --> 00:42:01,440 Speaker 3: you know, I know as email was long, and I'm 884 00:42:01,520 --> 00:42:03,320 Speaker 3: very sorry I wrote all you don't have the popcast. 885 00:42:03,480 --> 00:42:05,040 Speaker 3: I wrote all that to say I understand where you're 886 00:42:05,040 --> 00:42:07,319 Speaker 3: coming from. I'm also glad you're one of the few 887 00:42:07,360 --> 00:42:09,960 Speaker 3: men that I know in real life or online. 888 00:42:09,880 --> 00:42:12,160 Speaker 5: That sympathizes with the unique dangerous women face. 889 00:42:13,440 --> 00:42:15,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's interesting because I feel like a lot of 890 00:42:15,280 --> 00:42:19,120 Speaker 3: dudes do know and understand innately, but they feel like 891 00:42:19,280 --> 00:42:22,960 Speaker 3: if they admit it, they're losing some sort of philosophical ground. 892 00:42:23,680 --> 00:42:25,560 Speaker 3: And the reason, you know, is because men are the 893 00:42:25,680 --> 00:42:29,359 Speaker 3: number one haters of men. Right. If you have a daughter, 894 00:42:29,600 --> 00:42:31,759 Speaker 3: the first thing you dread is the time that she's 895 00:42:31,760 --> 00:42:34,120 Speaker 3: gonna have to deal with men. If you have a wife, 896 00:42:34,280 --> 00:42:36,080 Speaker 3: you worry about her safety when she leaves a house, 897 00:42:36,120 --> 00:42:39,560 Speaker 3: not because of women, because of men. If you have sisters, 898 00:42:39,640 --> 00:42:43,360 Speaker 3: a mother, whatever, the people that you actually care about, 899 00:42:43,560 --> 00:42:45,320 Speaker 3: and I and I and I and put the record. 900 00:42:45,600 --> 00:42:49,520 Speaker 3: I understand people hate when people say, like your mam 901 00:42:49,680 --> 00:42:52,080 Speaker 3: or your sister, your daughter, but you have to go 902 00:42:52,200 --> 00:42:54,560 Speaker 3: where people are sometimes you have to. And I understand 903 00:42:54,560 --> 00:42:56,840 Speaker 3: people want to have a high falut in philosophical debate 904 00:42:57,160 --> 00:43:02,000 Speaker 3: and have everybody understand that. But for the record, a 905 00:43:02,080 --> 00:43:04,040 Speaker 3: lot of men have to be reached at the point 906 00:43:04,080 --> 00:43:06,319 Speaker 3: where they think about the people that they feel are 907 00:43:06,400 --> 00:43:08,879 Speaker 3: under their protection, the people that if you touch them, 908 00:43:08,920 --> 00:43:11,600 Speaker 3: I would do something to you. Some of them feel 909 00:43:11,680 --> 00:43:16,360 Speaker 3: that way about those people, but not other women and 910 00:43:16,520 --> 00:43:18,719 Speaker 3: not other people. You know, there's people that you know, 911 00:43:18,920 --> 00:43:21,040 Speaker 3: just like churches and shit, there's people that go well 912 00:43:21,160 --> 00:43:24,200 Speaker 3: our gay people, you better not fuck with them. But 913 00:43:24,320 --> 00:43:26,080 Speaker 3: then they get into puor fit every Sunday and talk 914 00:43:26,080 --> 00:43:29,239 Speaker 3: about how they hate gay people. Essentially, so anyway, the 915 00:43:29,320 --> 00:43:33,759 Speaker 3: point being men know how fucked up men are, but 916 00:43:33,960 --> 00:43:36,600 Speaker 3: they are men, so then they want to have it 917 00:43:36,719 --> 00:43:39,040 Speaker 3: both ways of like no, no, no, no, no, we're 918 00:43:39,080 --> 00:43:40,960 Speaker 3: not dangerous. It's not that. It's just every once in 919 00:43:41,040 --> 00:43:43,160 Speaker 3: a while somebody does something crazy, but it's not really 920 00:43:43,760 --> 00:43:46,799 Speaker 3: a reflection of all men. But they worry about all 921 00:43:46,920 --> 00:43:49,120 Speaker 3: men when you leave the house. They don't say I'm 922 00:43:49,239 --> 00:43:51,960 Speaker 3: just worried about a couple of dudes. No, they know 923 00:43:52,080 --> 00:43:55,120 Speaker 3: it only takes one dude to put that person they 924 00:43:55,200 --> 00:43:59,319 Speaker 3: love in serious harm and danger. They worry about why 925 00:43:59,360 --> 00:44:01,759 Speaker 3: does every Why the men had this big stereotype of 926 00:44:02,160 --> 00:44:04,680 Speaker 3: when someone wants to date their daughter, they gotta meet them, 927 00:44:04,840 --> 00:44:07,040 Speaker 3: and then they got to threaten them and all that shit. 928 00:44:07,120 --> 00:44:09,640 Speaker 3: Why are you threatening them if men are so safe, 929 00:44:09,719 --> 00:44:12,120 Speaker 3: if it's only a couple, if it's nothing to worry about. 930 00:44:12,560 --> 00:44:15,680 Speaker 3: Why is this this point to make this intimidating meeting 931 00:44:15,760 --> 00:44:18,520 Speaker 3: with this young person, to be like, hey, I will 932 00:44:18,600 --> 00:44:20,279 Speaker 3: hurt you if you do something to my daughter. Why 933 00:44:20,320 --> 00:44:22,680 Speaker 3: are we doing that? You know what I'm saying. 934 00:44:23,000 --> 00:44:24,680 Speaker 5: What it's not like we say we only do that 935 00:44:24,760 --> 00:44:25,439 Speaker 5: to certain people. 936 00:44:25,800 --> 00:44:28,399 Speaker 3: And almost every man that dated a woman that has 937 00:44:28,560 --> 00:44:31,640 Speaker 3: been introduced to a family has had that moment where 938 00:44:32,719 --> 00:44:34,920 Speaker 3: some family member has threatened them or pulled them to 939 00:44:35,000 --> 00:44:36,759 Speaker 3: the side and told them how to treat this woman. 940 00:44:36,920 --> 00:44:38,480 Speaker 5: Like we've all had that moment. 941 00:44:38,600 --> 00:44:42,239 Speaker 3: Men, fucking know It's what makes it infuriating the same 942 00:44:42,280 --> 00:44:44,520 Speaker 3: way white people know white people are fucked up in 943 00:44:44,680 --> 00:44:48,080 Speaker 3: racist White people know, yet there's an investment in a 944 00:44:48,160 --> 00:44:51,040 Speaker 3: lot of white people to say, hey, not me and 945 00:44:51,200 --> 00:44:55,120 Speaker 3: b not everybody right, Like there's an like they will 946 00:44:55,120 --> 00:44:59,040 Speaker 3: spend more time trying to dissuade you from knowing and 947 00:44:59,200 --> 00:45:01,960 Speaker 3: seeing the race them you've experienced in your life to 948 00:45:02,200 --> 00:45:04,759 Speaker 3: gas like you. They spend more time doing that, then 949 00:45:04,760 --> 00:45:06,800 Speaker 3: they will actually be like, you know what, this is 950 00:45:06,920 --> 00:45:09,320 Speaker 3: fucked up? Like, no, nigga, you might not be in 951 00:45:09,360 --> 00:45:12,560 Speaker 3: the alt right, but you see it's a real thing, 952 00:45:12,719 --> 00:45:15,400 Speaker 3: and the people that comprise it are white people. So 953 00:45:15,560 --> 00:45:17,959 Speaker 3: don't come to me and tell me this ain't white people. 954 00:45:18,160 --> 00:45:20,200 Speaker 3: These motherfucker's white. When they walk out the house, they 955 00:45:20,239 --> 00:45:22,880 Speaker 3: still white. They don't opt in when they log in 956 00:45:23,040 --> 00:45:24,879 Speaker 3: and then log out and it's like, oh, not really 957 00:45:24,920 --> 00:45:26,880 Speaker 3: a white person. I don't know which one of them 958 00:45:27,000 --> 00:45:29,040 Speaker 3: is you and which one of them is them, so 959 00:45:29,239 --> 00:45:32,160 Speaker 3: I gotta be careful around all the people. Well, that's 960 00:45:32,239 --> 00:45:34,200 Speaker 3: kind of the same way. I'm sure women have the field, 961 00:45:34,239 --> 00:45:37,080 Speaker 3: if not worse. Like I said, it's happening to women, 962 00:45:37,280 --> 00:45:40,520 Speaker 3: more violence towards them than we can say even towards men, 963 00:45:40,680 --> 00:45:43,920 Speaker 3: you know, I mean towards black people. All right. Tyer 964 00:45:43,960 --> 00:45:45,920 Speaker 3: three thousand says this will definitely go down as a 965 00:45:45,960 --> 00:45:48,439 Speaker 3: classic Roding Karen. I love this episode so thoughtful, thorough 966 00:45:48,480 --> 00:45:50,680 Speaker 3: and honest, and then some belly lasts at the end. 967 00:45:50,800 --> 00:45:52,520 Speaker 3: Keep it up, Ride of Caren, y'all are doing it right. 968 00:45:52,800 --> 00:45:56,560 Speaker 3: Thank you, Thanks Tanya d Ramsey. Pah done, says Rider Karen. 969 00:45:56,600 --> 00:45:58,520 Speaker 3: Timely podcasts. Good to know that at the end of 970 00:45:58,960 --> 00:46:01,799 Speaker 3: the day you have we have YouTube to keep us 971 00:46:01,880 --> 00:46:05,400 Speaker 3: woking in form five stars, Thank you, Thank you. B 972 00:46:05,600 --> 00:46:07,600 Speaker 3: says thank you for speaking on violence against women. I 973 00:46:07,680 --> 00:46:09,880 Speaker 3: can't say much more on that right now, but please 974 00:46:09,960 --> 00:46:13,000 Speaker 3: know you You're visible. Vocal support is appreciated. 975 00:46:13,080 --> 00:46:13,239 Speaker 4: Now. 976 00:46:13,360 --> 00:46:15,680 Speaker 3: About this restaurant review, I was so tick a boy. 977 00:46:15,760 --> 00:46:17,919 Speaker 3: The interpretation of the menu that I had to look 978 00:46:17,960 --> 00:46:19,440 Speaker 3: this place up and add it to my list of 979 00:46:19,480 --> 00:46:22,000 Speaker 3: places to check out when I'm in town. I have touch, 980 00:46:22,160 --> 00:46:24,080 Speaker 3: I have a touch of the fancy. But I also 981 00:46:24,239 --> 00:46:27,520 Speaker 3: have but I also pre Google. Oh yeah, see I 982 00:46:27,560 --> 00:46:28,200 Speaker 3: don't pre Google. 983 00:46:28,280 --> 00:46:30,080 Speaker 4: Now, we don't pre google. We just show up. I 984 00:46:30,320 --> 00:46:31,760 Speaker 4: guess that's why everything surprise. 985 00:46:32,160 --> 00:46:34,600 Speaker 3: Well, you know it's normally normally. I'm fine, this is 986 00:46:34,680 --> 00:46:36,680 Speaker 3: the one. This is an area that I just am 987 00:46:36,760 --> 00:46:39,640 Speaker 3: not familiar with me either. Watching the Chef series on 988 00:46:39,760 --> 00:46:43,320 Speaker 3: Netflix says flip my foodie switch. Great episode, fed my 989 00:46:43,400 --> 00:46:47,239 Speaker 3: soul multiple ways ps. Watching the horses Run chink O 990 00:46:47,400 --> 00:46:50,800 Speaker 3: tig is on my VA bucket list. I have no 991 00:46:50,920 --> 00:46:54,080 Speaker 3: idea what that means. Watching the horses run chink O 992 00:46:54,239 --> 00:46:58,000 Speaker 3: teg is on my Oh it's oh Virginia, It's on 993 00:46:58,080 --> 00:46:59,920 Speaker 3: my VA bucket list. Okay, yeah, yeah, because that was 994 00:47:00,600 --> 00:47:02,319 Speaker 3: one of the like it was like, you can get 995 00:47:03,520 --> 00:47:05,680 Speaker 3: what's just Chinko tig version. I'm like, I don't know 996 00:47:05,719 --> 00:47:06,239 Speaker 3: what this means. 997 00:47:07,280 --> 00:47:09,160 Speaker 5: Chinko teas not like a nigga that used to be 998 00:47:09,280 --> 00:47:10,320 Speaker 5: in Camplow. 999 00:47:11,920 --> 00:47:15,000 Speaker 3: It's me, sway, it is me. Chinky tea. 1000 00:47:16,640 --> 00:47:20,080 Speaker 5: Was like a horse race all right, that's just saying, uh. 1001 00:47:22,320 --> 00:47:22,560 Speaker 4: Make it. 1002 00:47:24,120 --> 00:47:26,200 Speaker 3: We got to drop him, and it's Chinko tea with 1003 00:47:26,320 --> 00:47:28,759 Speaker 3: the yachta and the bombie like you know they used 1004 00:47:28,760 --> 00:47:35,040 Speaker 3: to making ship up. Uh the bacotta itself, sir, it's 1005 00:47:35,120 --> 00:47:37,320 Speaker 3: like a word scrambled. Y'all niggas know about Camplow. I 1006 00:47:37,360 --> 00:47:40,680 Speaker 3: don't know if y'all know about camblow them niggas. Uh, 1007 00:47:41,239 --> 00:47:42,920 Speaker 3: there's some verybrocious ass niggas. 1008 00:47:42,960 --> 00:47:43,120 Speaker 10: Man. 1009 00:47:43,200 --> 00:47:47,000 Speaker 3: I don't know vocabulations as motherfuckers. I don't know that 1010 00:47:47,120 --> 00:47:51,240 Speaker 3: Camplow is necessarily that any of that ship made sense, 1011 00:47:51,920 --> 00:47:54,920 Speaker 3: to be honest. But they made a song called Lucini 1012 00:47:54,960 --> 00:47:58,040 Speaker 3: if y'all hadn't heard that. My favorite song they made 1013 00:47:58,160 --> 00:48:02,879 Speaker 3: is a song called Sparkling, which is uh off the hook. 1014 00:48:02,920 --> 00:48:05,040 Speaker 3: I remember they played that during a dance in my 1015 00:48:05,440 --> 00:48:10,239 Speaker 3: freshman year at Fairvielle State. D J Kid came through 1016 00:48:10,840 --> 00:48:14,240 Speaker 3: and he just had like this amazing like set of tracks, 1017 00:48:14,360 --> 00:48:17,080 Speaker 3: but the motherfucking Sparkling came on. I was like, I 1018 00:48:17,160 --> 00:48:19,040 Speaker 3: thought I was the only nigga that listened to this. 1019 00:48:20,480 --> 00:48:41,920 Speaker 3: Everybody was jamming and they always had great horns. Yeah, string. 1020 00:48:44,360 --> 00:48:47,680 Speaker 10: Slow and parade with the Black Spaces spelling on the 1021 00:48:47,800 --> 00:48:49,640 Speaker 10: rocks and taxating is setting dogs. 1022 00:48:49,680 --> 00:48:50,960 Speaker 4: But this stops. 1023 00:48:51,120 --> 00:48:52,960 Speaker 3: Now what does that mean? Does anybody know what that means? 1024 00:48:53,520 --> 00:48:54,640 Speaker 3: Nobody knows what that means. 1025 00:48:55,080 --> 00:48:57,840 Speaker 4: But that beat goes and you just start swaying. 1026 00:48:58,080 --> 00:49:01,520 Speaker 7: M h then classic, I mean right, only left, no 1027 00:49:01,680 --> 00:49:05,680 Speaker 7: light and surrounded in the more on Cisco got elakes, 1028 00:49:05,760 --> 00:49:07,920 Speaker 7: it's wants to high for court Denny and j GiB 1029 00:49:08,040 --> 00:49:11,879 Speaker 7: Chase wrong spitting at their niece less diamond crump up. 1030 00:49:12,840 --> 00:49:17,000 Speaker 3: Stillers give me. Nobody knows what that means anyway, those 1031 00:49:17,040 --> 00:49:22,759 Speaker 3: are my niggas though, so uh uh Casey sixty seven 1032 00:49:22,800 --> 00:49:25,480 Speaker 3: policiess I have the first and foremost say thank you 1033 00:49:25,600 --> 00:49:28,440 Speaker 3: both for speaking about domestic violence. My mother is a 1034 00:49:28,520 --> 00:49:30,480 Speaker 3: victim from her first husband before I was born, and 1035 00:49:30,560 --> 00:49:33,120 Speaker 3: also in college, my aunt's boyfriend was abusive and when 1036 00:49:33,160 --> 00:49:34,759 Speaker 3: my mother stepped in to put it to an edge, 1037 00:49:34,800 --> 00:49:37,440 Speaker 3: she ended up in the hospital. I see how it 1038 00:49:37,520 --> 00:49:39,560 Speaker 3: has really had an impact on her relationships with men. 1039 00:49:39,640 --> 00:49:41,920 Speaker 3: She definitely struggles with her man. Now, I think it's 1040 00:49:41,920 --> 00:49:43,560 Speaker 3: so important to talk about how it really is an 1041 00:49:43,600 --> 00:49:46,880 Speaker 3: epidemic in this country and really all over the world. Yeah, man, 1042 00:49:46,960 --> 00:49:49,640 Speaker 3: how do you trust the people I can't imagine. I 1043 00:49:49,760 --> 00:49:52,279 Speaker 3: just I honestly can't imagine. Man Like if Karen one 1044 00:49:52,360 --> 00:49:54,560 Speaker 3: day stabbed me, I don't know how I then go 1045 00:49:54,680 --> 00:49:58,239 Speaker 3: back to just trusting every other person ever in my life. Again. 1046 00:49:58,320 --> 00:50:02,120 Speaker 3: But there are women that you get married, you you know, 1047 00:50:02,280 --> 00:50:05,440 Speaker 3: people because it's not abuse typically isn't even that like 1048 00:50:06,360 --> 00:50:09,719 Speaker 3: this Nigga's just on ten all the time. It's this 1049 00:50:09,920 --> 00:50:13,360 Speaker 3: loving shit and then sometimes they turn around and abuse you, 1050 00:50:13,480 --> 00:50:16,520 Speaker 3: and then it's apologies and all this stuff. So that's 1051 00:50:16,600 --> 00:50:19,360 Speaker 3: part of it. But also just more importantly, I'm not 1052 00:50:19,400 --> 00:50:21,560 Speaker 3: even just talking about domestic violent I'm just talking about 1053 00:50:22,040 --> 00:50:26,800 Speaker 3: violence against women from men. I don't know how we 1054 00:50:26,920 --> 00:50:29,719 Speaker 3: can watch it unfold and then at the same time 1055 00:50:29,880 --> 00:50:35,040 Speaker 3: blame women for protecting themselves or being cautious or quote 1056 00:50:35,120 --> 00:50:38,120 Speaker 3: unquote better and all this other shit, or women speaking 1057 00:50:38,120 --> 00:50:40,920 Speaker 3: out against it, we get mad at them. You feminists. 1058 00:50:41,080 --> 00:50:44,040 Speaker 3: I hate these feminists. They're always outraging and it's like, 1059 00:50:44,520 --> 00:50:48,239 Speaker 3: or is it justified? You know, are we saying that 1060 00:50:48,440 --> 00:50:52,319 Speaker 3: against you know, whenever there's a person that speaks out 1061 00:50:52,360 --> 00:50:55,239 Speaker 3: on racial issues. Matter of fact, when the same women 1062 00:50:55,320 --> 00:50:57,160 Speaker 3: speak out on racial issues, we don't have a problem 1063 00:50:57,200 --> 00:50:59,920 Speaker 3: with them. You know, like if Jamela Lemieux is just 1064 00:51:00,160 --> 00:51:05,160 Speaker 3: talking about something dealing with racism against black people, the 1065 00:51:05,280 --> 00:51:08,440 Speaker 3: same people with else share her articles, they'll retweet her, 1066 00:51:08,840 --> 00:51:11,400 Speaker 3: they'll at her, appreciate you since da da da da 1067 00:51:11,719 --> 00:51:14,799 Speaker 3: the second that she didn goes and also within our 1068 00:51:14,840 --> 00:51:17,040 Speaker 3: community we have this issue in this issue, then it's 1069 00:51:17,280 --> 00:51:20,040 Speaker 3: fuck you see you, bitter bitch. I don't like her. 1070 00:51:20,440 --> 00:51:23,600 Speaker 3: It's that shit, and it's it and it's something you know, 1071 00:51:23,840 --> 00:51:26,360 Speaker 3: it's something fucked up in people to make them do that. 1072 00:51:28,200 --> 00:51:30,600 Speaker 3: All right, So Ksey sixty seven and Pola goes on 1073 00:51:30,760 --> 00:51:33,680 Speaker 3: to say, on a lighter note, I love when you 1074 00:51:33,719 --> 00:51:36,000 Speaker 3: two talked about your experience at the restaurant. I used 1075 00:51:36,040 --> 00:51:38,759 Speaker 3: to work at Whole Foods, and everything you named on 1076 00:51:38,840 --> 00:51:41,040 Speaker 3: the menu at the restaurant was it Wasn't it? So 1077 00:51:41,239 --> 00:51:43,240 Speaker 3: the Whole Foods, no one was so expensive? 1078 00:51:43,560 --> 00:51:46,080 Speaker 4: Ain't That's the truth. I've never been in the Whole Foods. 1079 00:51:46,120 --> 00:51:47,640 Speaker 4: We got a Whole Foods over it in the South 1080 00:51:47,719 --> 00:51:50,480 Speaker 4: Park and it be jumping, and I'm like, I'm good. 1081 00:51:50,560 --> 00:51:51,760 Speaker 3: You never been in Whole Foods? 1082 00:51:52,360 --> 00:51:52,839 Speaker 4: Not nope? 1083 00:51:53,600 --> 00:51:54,000 Speaker 3: Mm hmm. 1084 00:51:54,200 --> 00:51:55,799 Speaker 5: So where we go traded Jones or something? 1085 00:51:55,880 --> 00:51:56,200 Speaker 8: Mm hm. 1086 00:51:57,080 --> 00:51:59,359 Speaker 4: Never been the whole foods, at least I've never been 1087 00:51:59,360 --> 00:51:59,920 Speaker 4: the whole foods. 1088 00:52:00,360 --> 00:52:00,839 Speaker 3: I don't know how. 1089 00:52:00,840 --> 00:52:01,759 Speaker 5: I feel like I've been in Hope. 1090 00:52:02,320 --> 00:52:05,120 Speaker 3: So anyway, it reminds you that market we used to 1091 00:52:05,120 --> 00:52:07,320 Speaker 3: have across the street when we lived off of Providence. 1092 00:52:07,400 --> 00:52:08,640 Speaker 4: That ship was expensive as fuck. 1093 00:52:08,800 --> 00:52:10,719 Speaker 3: It was so so good. 1094 00:52:11,600 --> 00:52:15,000 Speaker 4: Oh my gosh. Everything was fucking ten times as much, 1095 00:52:15,560 --> 00:52:18,520 Speaker 4: but it was the best meat. Like I can't explain it. 1096 00:52:18,640 --> 00:52:22,200 Speaker 10: I don't know if they had the slaves and the 1097 00:52:22,320 --> 00:52:25,080 Speaker 10: back fresh off the crop, but motherfucker, that sh. 1098 00:52:25,000 --> 00:52:25,800 Speaker 4: It was delicious. 1099 00:52:25,920 --> 00:52:30,480 Speaker 3: Well, see, the secret is you it costs more and 1100 00:52:30,600 --> 00:52:32,600 Speaker 3: you get a little bit less, so it's it's like 1101 00:52:32,719 --> 00:52:37,799 Speaker 3: double the It's like, here are you know, these are 1102 00:52:38,560 --> 00:52:41,839 Speaker 3: peter chips that are made of kal or some weird 1103 00:52:41,880 --> 00:52:45,719 Speaker 3: shit like that, and you're like, wow, this is so 1104 00:52:46,640 --> 00:52:49,239 Speaker 3: expensive because it's six dollars for peter chips made the keal. 1105 00:52:49,320 --> 00:52:52,000 Speaker 3: But also it's half of what the size of a 1106 00:52:52,160 --> 00:52:55,480 Speaker 3: bag should be, so it's like double the fucking Uh, 1107 00:52:55,800 --> 00:52:56,879 Speaker 3: you're dealing with double ship. 1108 00:52:57,200 --> 00:52:58,600 Speaker 4: But you eat them and you'll be like, oh my god, 1109 00:52:58,680 --> 00:52:59,640 Speaker 4: this is delicious. 1110 00:53:00,080 --> 00:53:02,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, it was so, but do be good though it 1111 00:53:02,480 --> 00:53:04,200 Speaker 3: did be good. When you when you can afford it, 1112 00:53:04,280 --> 00:53:08,279 Speaker 3: when you can afford it. Uh but yeah. She also 1113 00:53:08,360 --> 00:53:10,600 Speaker 3: says when I worked there, I tried all kinds of 1114 00:53:10,640 --> 00:53:13,239 Speaker 3: foods I never heard of, mostly good, but the worst 1115 00:53:13,440 --> 00:53:16,839 Speaker 3: was charge charret is nasty and no salt pepper season 1116 00:53:16,920 --> 00:53:19,120 Speaker 3: at the table. Oh lord, guess the racer who made 1117 00:53:19,160 --> 00:53:19,600 Speaker 3: your food? 1118 00:53:19,840 --> 00:53:20,279 Speaker 6: That was right. 1119 00:53:21,400 --> 00:53:23,520 Speaker 3: I appreciate the polarity of this episode ended on a 1120 00:53:23,560 --> 00:53:24,520 Speaker 3: good note. Piece of love. 1121 00:53:24,920 --> 00:53:25,720 Speaker 5: Yep, no problem. 1122 00:53:25,800 --> 00:53:28,200 Speaker 3: Man, couldn't just leave y'all crime. 1123 00:53:28,520 --> 00:53:31,000 Speaker 4: We had to talk about that because that was an experience. 1124 00:53:31,080 --> 00:53:32,520 Speaker 4: I was like, we got with y'all. 1125 00:53:33,800 --> 00:53:35,920 Speaker 5: The poe was, did y'all know what all that stuff 1126 00:53:35,920 --> 00:53:36,719 Speaker 5: on the menu was? 1127 00:53:37,680 --> 00:53:41,279 Speaker 4: Because I didn't. We had horse races and all kinds 1128 00:53:41,280 --> 00:53:42,400 Speaker 4: of menu. I didn't know. 1129 00:53:42,880 --> 00:53:47,440 Speaker 3: The options were, yes, I'm super cultured and stuff, or no, 1130 00:53:47,640 --> 00:53:51,320 Speaker 3: I'm a regular daggla samegla like y'all. Sixty four percent 1131 00:53:51,360 --> 00:53:55,520 Speaker 3: of our audience it's regular dagglar shamegula like us. So 1132 00:53:55,640 --> 00:53:59,239 Speaker 3: they didn't know, and thirty six thirty six per cent 1133 00:53:59,320 --> 00:54:01,480 Speaker 3: y'all knew what all that shit was. Prosta y'all. Man 1134 00:54:01,920 --> 00:54:04,560 Speaker 3: Brooklyn Shoebase says, I knew maybe one or two of 1135 00:54:04,600 --> 00:54:07,319 Speaker 3: those things you're talking about, Like I like regular old 1136 00:54:07,360 --> 00:54:09,680 Speaker 3: dinner food. I don't even know what category that would 1137 00:54:09,680 --> 00:54:14,839 Speaker 3: fall into American food. Shit niggas eat is what I call. 1138 00:54:15,400 --> 00:54:17,520 Speaker 3: I don't know, really, Dark Knight says, I'm a ride 1139 00:54:17,560 --> 00:54:19,360 Speaker 3: on this one. I would just go fake boogie with 1140 00:54:19,440 --> 00:54:21,239 Speaker 3: Google on the phone. Why the wai there is a 1141 00:54:21,280 --> 00:54:21,960 Speaker 3: way I tried. 1142 00:54:22,080 --> 00:54:22,719 Speaker 5: That's the other thing. 1143 00:54:23,080 --> 00:54:24,920 Speaker 3: Nobody was in the restaurant but us because we went 1144 00:54:24,960 --> 00:54:27,200 Speaker 3: at an off time, so I didn't even have time 1145 00:54:27,320 --> 00:54:29,040 Speaker 3: to be like, well, she'll check some other tables I 1146 00:54:29,080 --> 00:54:32,560 Speaker 3: can google. And she was training another waitress, so they was. 1147 00:54:32,960 --> 00:54:35,000 Speaker 3: They was double the everything. Okay, you need some drinks 1148 00:54:35,040 --> 00:54:39,120 Speaker 3: none and no right and and y'all the waters the 1149 00:54:39,239 --> 00:54:41,719 Speaker 3: water glasses was so small. They had to come back 1150 00:54:41,719 --> 00:54:43,279 Speaker 3: every couple of minutes, Like you take a simple water. 1151 00:54:43,320 --> 00:54:45,640 Speaker 3: They're like, here you go, y'all ready to orderat Like 1152 00:54:46,520 --> 00:54:48,560 Speaker 3: you see, I have my phone. I'm still googling the 1153 00:54:48,640 --> 00:54:49,279 Speaker 3: fuck is this shit? 1154 00:54:49,400 --> 00:54:51,239 Speaker 4: She just like drumming to me, ma'am right. 1155 00:54:51,640 --> 00:54:53,799 Speaker 3: Jane m says I knew a few of those things, 1156 00:54:53,840 --> 00:54:55,320 Speaker 3: but only because I watched them seeing them out of 1157 00:54:55,320 --> 00:54:58,000 Speaker 3: cooking shows. I never actually tasted them. I'd fake it too, 1158 00:54:58,080 --> 00:55:01,400 Speaker 3: because I hate being embarrassed. Lol, I know. And it 1159 00:55:01,560 --> 00:55:05,600 Speaker 3: wasn't even like the typical like, oh, I don't know 1160 00:55:05,760 --> 00:55:07,560 Speaker 3: sucker tash, I've heard of that, but I don't know 1161 00:55:07,600 --> 00:55:11,200 Speaker 3: what it is exactly. This was like we needed to 1162 00:55:11,320 --> 00:55:13,719 Speaker 3: know the whole tutorial on like everything. 1163 00:55:13,960 --> 00:55:16,040 Speaker 10: Yeah, And the thing is, it's not like you can 1164 00:55:16,080 --> 00:55:18,680 Speaker 10: do the context clues because sometimes certain things. 1165 00:55:18,800 --> 00:55:21,759 Speaker 4: You can kind of just read ingredients and kind of 1166 00:55:21,800 --> 00:55:24,080 Speaker 4: get an idea. But it wasn't in content. I don't 1167 00:55:24,120 --> 00:55:26,120 Speaker 4: know that. I don't I just don't know what this. 1168 00:55:26,280 --> 00:55:30,080 Speaker 3: Is, right, Like sometimes things sound like something else or 1169 00:55:30,160 --> 00:55:32,160 Speaker 3: the combination of two things, and like, oh, that's what 1170 00:55:32,280 --> 00:55:35,799 Speaker 3: that is, and then sometimes it's just like fancy, right. 1171 00:55:36,760 --> 00:55:43,759 Speaker 3: So yeah, we had an episode fourteen twenty eight Robert Ducky. 1172 00:55:43,800 --> 00:55:46,160 Speaker 3: We had three guys on and we discussed a bunch 1173 00:55:46,160 --> 00:55:48,800 Speaker 3: of stuffs, so rambling. I love that this podcast was 1174 00:55:48,840 --> 00:55:52,040 Speaker 3: after that other serious ass podcast because like, halfway through 1175 00:55:52,080 --> 00:55:55,640 Speaker 3: this podcast were like, so, who would you rather accidentally 1176 00:55:55,680 --> 00:55:58,799 Speaker 3: get pregnant outside your marriage? I mean, think about it, guy, 1177 00:55:58,920 --> 00:56:02,319 Speaker 3: it's PhD profession, a woman or a stripper. I mean, 1178 00:56:02,920 --> 00:56:05,239 Speaker 3: who's to say who will get your coin the best? 1179 00:56:05,440 --> 00:56:09,640 Speaker 3: You know, so ridiculous. Anyway, we love those guys. Man, 1180 00:56:09,640 --> 00:56:12,960 Speaker 3: I'm glad they were due. Prof Core says now, that's 1181 00:56:13,000 --> 00:56:15,000 Speaker 3: why I'm watching the video even when I'm lady is 1182 00:56:15,040 --> 00:56:15,320 Speaker 3: worth it. 1183 00:56:15,400 --> 00:56:18,240 Speaker 5: Seeing that little girl Randall's daughter Princess. 1184 00:56:19,239 --> 00:56:21,919 Speaker 3: Seeing that little girl and the jokes about what y'all 1185 00:56:21,960 --> 00:56:24,879 Speaker 3: were talking about when she walked in was hilarious. Yes, 1186 00:56:24,960 --> 00:56:25,920 Speaker 3: she came out of nowhere. 1187 00:56:26,600 --> 00:56:28,439 Speaker 4: Everybody was like, wait a minute. 1188 00:56:29,000 --> 00:56:32,799 Speaker 3: Everybody had the same reaction, Oh oh, how are we doing? 1189 00:56:34,040 --> 00:56:36,799 Speaker 5: How things in Barbie Lane? I don't know what your 1190 00:56:36,880 --> 00:56:37,600 Speaker 5: children talking about? 1191 00:56:38,719 --> 00:56:39,080 Speaker 3: All right? 1192 00:56:39,640 --> 00:56:39,759 Speaker 8: Uh? 1193 00:56:39,880 --> 00:56:40,680 Speaker 3: The poem was easy. 1194 00:56:40,719 --> 00:56:43,080 Speaker 5: Who was get more money out of having Mellow's baby? 1195 00:56:44,000 --> 00:56:49,279 Speaker 3: H A a professional woman with a PhD b an 1196 00:56:49,320 --> 00:56:55,439 Speaker 3: exotic dancer or see Lola because she getting half five 1197 00:56:55,480 --> 00:56:59,040 Speaker 3: percent of y'all said woman with a PhD an exotic 1198 00:56:59,120 --> 00:57:02,719 Speaker 3: dancer was t'all so, and I lean more towards that, 1199 00:57:02,840 --> 00:57:07,120 Speaker 3: like people think like I think, PhD Lady, you might 1200 00:57:07,200 --> 00:57:09,160 Speaker 3: be able to say maybe it's more of a relationship, 1201 00:57:09,280 --> 00:57:12,640 Speaker 3: possibly if he's into that respectability shit, because these dudes 1202 00:57:12,680 --> 00:57:15,759 Speaker 3: do seem the fuck sex worker type women and not 1203 00:57:16,000 --> 00:57:18,640 Speaker 3: seem to have a level of respect for him. You know, 1204 00:57:18,760 --> 00:57:22,600 Speaker 3: these Instagram model people, you can almost keep your marriage 1205 00:57:22,640 --> 00:57:24,360 Speaker 3: going because it's like what a lit coloci fuck the 1206 00:57:24,400 --> 00:57:27,120 Speaker 3: Instagram model, but he don't love her. And the threat 1207 00:57:27,200 --> 00:57:29,880 Speaker 3: to the marriage of you know this, this woman that 1208 00:57:30,560 --> 00:57:32,880 Speaker 3: you know is quote unquote respectable in a lot of 1209 00:57:32,880 --> 00:57:37,240 Speaker 3: people's eyes, might seem to be more to people you 1210 00:57:37,360 --> 00:57:39,720 Speaker 3: know involved in the marriage, like Lola might be like 1211 00:57:39,800 --> 00:57:42,840 Speaker 3: this nigga is gone. But I think when it come 1212 00:57:42,920 --> 00:57:45,840 Speaker 3: to getting them coins though, you know, I feel like 1213 00:57:45,920 --> 00:57:48,840 Speaker 3: the blueprint for these Instagram people, it's it's right there. 1214 00:57:48,880 --> 00:57:50,640 Speaker 3: You gotta go get your coins, you know, I think 1215 00:57:50,680 --> 00:57:53,800 Speaker 3: they can run your pockets at any rate. Everybody agreed. 1216 00:57:53,880 --> 00:57:55,720 Speaker 3: Eighty five percent of people said la lah because she 1217 00:57:55,800 --> 00:57:59,480 Speaker 3: get in half, And that's the absolute damn truth. I 1218 00:57:59,600 --> 00:58:02,360 Speaker 3: seen them tears in her eyes after that. They people 1219 00:58:02,360 --> 00:58:05,560 Speaker 3: have been passing that picture around and all I heard 1220 00:58:05,680 --> 00:58:07,600 Speaker 3: was not gonna cry. I don't know what they prenup 1221 00:58:07,680 --> 00:58:10,760 Speaker 3: looked like, but if it ain't iron clad, this nigga 1222 00:58:10,760 --> 00:58:14,200 Speaker 3: about to come up off all that wop. If it's 1223 00:58:14,200 --> 00:58:16,040 Speaker 3: the cheating claus in there where it's like if he cheat, 1224 00:58:16,040 --> 00:58:20,280 Speaker 3: you can get half, then it's gone. Then we had 1225 00:58:20,360 --> 00:58:24,800 Speaker 3: episode fourteen twenty nine, Big Meani Poopyhead and Deeve Ramsey 1226 00:58:24,880 --> 00:58:27,600 Speaker 3: said thank you for playing queens. Another one by thus 1227 00:58:27,760 --> 00:58:31,400 Speaker 3: five stars, Anonymous said, rodding can it's been a minute 1228 00:58:31,520 --> 00:58:34,240 Speaker 3: I've written since I've written in and left the comment 1229 00:58:34,320 --> 00:58:36,920 Speaker 3: your girl. That's right with friends lol. Got a new 1230 00:58:36,960 --> 00:58:39,560 Speaker 3: position at work and training had me Hella busy and 1231 00:58:39,800 --> 00:58:42,960 Speaker 3: behind all episodes. But I persevere and through these ear 1232 00:58:43,040 --> 00:58:46,480 Speaker 3: buzz and looking busy, I'm all caught up. I had 1233 00:58:46,520 --> 00:58:49,760 Speaker 3: started an email about I mean, after about the third paragraph, 1234 00:58:49,800 --> 00:58:51,800 Speaker 3: I decided against it because ain't nobody got time for 1235 00:58:51,840 --> 00:58:54,640 Speaker 3: all that. I've been enjoying all the shows as usual 1236 00:58:54,680 --> 00:58:56,480 Speaker 3: and just wanted to let you guys know keep them coming. 1237 00:58:56,560 --> 00:58:59,439 Speaker 3: On another note, I'm over here Millie rocking to another 1238 00:58:59,480 --> 00:59:01,800 Speaker 3: one by done, some celebration of Bill Oh, shut the 1239 00:59:01,880 --> 00:59:05,400 Speaker 3: fuck up being fired. Keep up the great work. And Karen, 1240 00:59:05,440 --> 00:59:07,480 Speaker 3: I'm gonna send you some luggage for your trip, but 1241 00:59:07,560 --> 00:59:10,120 Speaker 3: the catch is I'll be in it. Have a great weekend. 1242 00:59:11,480 --> 00:59:15,560 Speaker 3: Love you both, Tiffany, thank you. I don't know how 1243 00:59:15,640 --> 00:59:17,240 Speaker 3: y'all gonna get past security. 1244 00:59:17,360 --> 00:59:20,320 Speaker 4: I don't know if they skin you know, it's another body. 1245 00:59:20,160 --> 00:59:22,600 Speaker 3: In here and you're definitely gonna You're definitely gonna get 1246 00:59:22,640 --> 00:59:27,120 Speaker 3: caught because whatever chemicals is in your hair, pick it up. 1247 00:59:27,440 --> 00:59:30,960 Speaker 3: You know it's a bomb or it's a black woman, right, 1248 00:59:31,040 --> 00:59:33,240 Speaker 3: Could it treat us the same black woman as the bomb? 1249 00:59:33,360 --> 00:59:36,680 Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying, Ao says, I appreciate your point 1250 00:59:36,720 --> 00:59:39,880 Speaker 3: about the male Maryland lawmakers also being biased. If I 1251 00:59:40,000 --> 00:59:42,160 Speaker 3: know one in four women has been sexually assaulted, and 1252 00:59:42,200 --> 00:59:44,200 Speaker 3: those are sauces that happened mostly by men, then there's 1253 00:59:44,240 --> 00:59:47,000 Speaker 3: a significant portion of the male population who are rapist 1254 00:59:47,000 --> 00:59:49,919 Speaker 3: slash sexual abuses. The numbers are hard to pin down, 1255 00:59:49,960 --> 00:59:52,240 Speaker 3: but let's assume one in ten ten percent of men 1256 00:59:52,320 --> 00:59:54,360 Speaker 3: have engaged in the action that will fit the definition 1257 00:59:54,440 --> 00:59:56,800 Speaker 3: of rape or on one of sexual advances. It means 1258 00:59:56,880 --> 00:59:59,280 Speaker 3: probably one of the men on the panel has forced 1259 00:59:59,320 --> 01:00:03,120 Speaker 3: themselves onto a woman. They men have an invested interest 1260 01:00:03,160 --> 01:00:05,680 Speaker 3: in keeping this oppressive law and in place because it 1261 01:00:05,760 --> 01:00:08,360 Speaker 3: protects them and any abusive behavior that they may engage 1262 01:00:08,400 --> 01:00:09,240 Speaker 3: in or be accused of. 1263 01:00:09,960 --> 01:00:11,960 Speaker 5: Additionally, the consequences is. 1264 01:00:12,200 --> 01:00:14,640 Speaker 3: If I live in Maryland and know this law exists, 1265 01:00:14,880 --> 01:00:16,640 Speaker 3: that I'm forced to live with the daily reminded of 1266 01:00:16,680 --> 01:00:19,040 Speaker 3: my victimization, and I have to invite the perpetrate into 1267 01:00:19,120 --> 01:00:21,520 Speaker 3: my life. I'm probably not going to report an assault 1268 01:00:21,560 --> 01:00:25,000 Speaker 3: because I don't want to deal with the bullshit, right though, Bingo, 1269 01:00:25,080 --> 01:00:26,440 Speaker 3: how many women are gonna be like, I'm just not 1270 01:00:26,520 --> 01:00:28,720 Speaker 3: gonna report it so I can get this pregnancy terminated. 1271 01:00:29,920 --> 01:00:32,320 Speaker 3: I do wonder if they're making these men pay child 1272 01:00:32,320 --> 01:00:35,080 Speaker 3: support when a woman is forced to carry the turn. Yeah, 1273 01:00:35,120 --> 01:00:36,760 Speaker 3: but then if being like and he has to be 1274 01:00:36,840 --> 01:00:39,680 Speaker 3: involved in decision making for this child, it's sick. It's 1275 01:00:39,760 --> 01:00:40,280 Speaker 3: really sick. 1276 01:00:42,160 --> 01:00:43,520 Speaker 5: And that was a great point you pointed out. 1277 01:00:43,560 --> 01:00:45,920 Speaker 3: And I would even say ten percent is being very generous, 1278 01:00:46,640 --> 01:00:48,760 Speaker 3: because you have to think about it. We know that 1279 01:00:49,000 --> 01:00:52,720 Speaker 3: most rapes are not most sexual assault, rape, sexual rasment 1280 01:00:53,040 --> 01:00:55,920 Speaker 3: those unreported, correct, so that percentage has to be much 1281 01:00:55,960 --> 01:00:57,120 Speaker 3: higher than ten percent. 1282 01:00:58,600 --> 01:01:03,000 Speaker 10: To say, how do every everybody from everybody that you 1283 01:01:03,120 --> 01:01:06,440 Speaker 10: talk to, we know at some period of time has 1284 01:01:06,520 --> 01:01:11,760 Speaker 10: heard some woman, family, membor, aunt, cousin, somebody been sexual assaulted. Particularly, 1285 01:01:11,760 --> 01:01:13,360 Speaker 10: I know women talk to each other. So you got 1286 01:01:13,440 --> 01:01:16,600 Speaker 10: all these women, right. Most grown women that I've talked 1287 01:01:16,640 --> 01:01:19,200 Speaker 10: to that in the twenties and thirties and up have 1288 01:01:19,400 --> 01:01:25,400 Speaker 10: had some form of sexual assault or attempted sexual assault, 1289 01:01:26,320 --> 01:01:29,920 Speaker 10: sexual harassment, like you like it's something sexual. 1290 01:01:31,080 --> 01:01:34,920 Speaker 3: With women. Yeah, women know. That's just like black people know. 1291 01:01:35,080 --> 01:01:38,000 Speaker 3: Racist shit happens more than other people. We know, we 1292 01:01:38,120 --> 01:01:40,600 Speaker 3: talk to each other, we experience it, we know, and 1293 01:01:41,200 --> 01:01:43,200 Speaker 3: it's we have no investment in denying it for the 1294 01:01:43,280 --> 01:01:47,600 Speaker 3: most part. But you know that's what happens. Thanks a. 1295 01:01:47,880 --> 01:01:51,080 Speaker 3: Janica says. When y'all were talking about major bliging, Karen said, 1296 01:01:51,120 --> 01:01:54,600 Speaker 3: you need more people, baby, I hollered, anyway, I'm waiting 1297 01:01:54,680 --> 01:01:58,160 Speaker 3: on the strength of a woman patiently, aren't we all? 1298 01:01:59,520 --> 01:02:01,120 Speaker 3: She might be this might be the first album, but 1299 01:02:01,200 --> 01:02:04,720 Speaker 3: she just called that nigga out by name, be like 1300 01:02:04,840 --> 01:02:07,120 Speaker 3: and can do you didn't be wrong like that? 1301 01:02:08,880 --> 01:02:12,720 Speaker 7: Uh uh? 1302 01:02:12,880 --> 01:02:13,919 Speaker 5: And the poll was easy. 1303 01:02:13,960 --> 01:02:16,760 Speaker 3: Do you think Bernie still returns killing Mike's phone calls? Yes, 1304 01:02:17,120 --> 01:02:19,520 Speaker 3: six percent of y'all things you do and ninety four 1305 01:02:19,520 --> 01:02:21,760 Speaker 3: percent of y'all much more realistic that nigga ain't call 1306 01:02:21,840 --> 01:02:23,040 Speaker 3: him killer Mike back. 1307 01:02:23,280 --> 01:02:25,120 Speaker 4: He blocked yourn But you won't you come up? 1308 01:02:25,240 --> 01:02:27,920 Speaker 3: He like, who is Michael? That's what you'd be saying. Now, 1309 01:02:28,960 --> 01:02:31,640 Speaker 3: all right, man, let's get to some voicemails. We had 1310 01:02:31,720 --> 01:02:35,320 Speaker 3: quite a few, and uh all of them came in 1311 01:02:35,560 --> 01:02:37,560 Speaker 3: right around you know, the three minutes, like three minutes 1312 01:02:37,640 --> 01:02:40,080 Speaker 3: or less. So we appreciate y'all listening to and following instruction. 1313 01:02:40,880 --> 01:02:44,520 Speaker 12: Uh all right, here we go, Rod and Karen, Karen 1314 01:02:44,600 --> 01:02:47,720 Speaker 12: and Rod, listen, this is chee Chy from Cleveland calling 1315 01:02:47,840 --> 01:02:51,600 Speaker 12: in your episode. I'm literally still at the beginning of 1316 01:02:51,880 --> 01:02:58,200 Speaker 12: your Sunday episode about apologies with Lovey and Tyzee and 1317 01:02:58,960 --> 01:03:02,240 Speaker 12: once I started here and Kyrie talking about you know, 1318 01:03:02,480 --> 01:03:05,080 Speaker 12: my mom didn't laze me like this, this, that, and 1319 01:03:05,200 --> 01:03:09,480 Speaker 12: the third Kyrie is a forty plus year old man. 1320 01:03:10,600 --> 01:03:10,880 Speaker 3: Listen. 1321 01:03:11,200 --> 01:03:14,880 Speaker 12: I know our mothers, you know, have our integral to 1322 01:03:14,960 --> 01:03:18,000 Speaker 12: the way that we are raised. But I absolutely love 1323 01:03:18,040 --> 01:03:21,919 Speaker 12: the fact that Karen sat there and said, now, whose 1324 01:03:21,960 --> 01:03:25,240 Speaker 12: stop using your mother as a shield. Karen, you took 1325 01:03:25,320 --> 01:03:29,160 Speaker 12: the words straight out of my soul and onto your podcast. 1326 01:03:29,280 --> 01:03:31,360 Speaker 12: I swear to you, you only see coins that I'm 1327 01:03:31,600 --> 01:03:33,040 Speaker 12: let I'm gonna let you tap, I'm gonna let you 1328 01:03:33,120 --> 01:03:33,360 Speaker 12: make it. 1329 01:03:33,760 --> 01:03:33,800 Speaker 10: No. 1330 01:03:33,960 --> 01:03:38,000 Speaker 12: But seriously, Karen, the fact that Tyrie, into his apology, 1331 01:03:39,200 --> 01:03:41,720 Speaker 12: had to bring in his mom and and talk to 1332 01:03:41,800 --> 01:03:46,640 Speaker 12: her talk talk about excuse me, how she, you know, 1333 01:03:46,800 --> 01:03:51,440 Speaker 12: didn't raise him like this. It really reminds me about 1334 01:03:51,560 --> 01:03:54,720 Speaker 12: how for many Black men, their proximity to women is 1335 01:03:54,840 --> 01:03:57,800 Speaker 12: judged by their mother, their sister, or their wife, and 1336 01:03:57,960 --> 01:04:02,120 Speaker 12: not just women as human beings. And I just mmmmmm, 1337 01:04:02,480 --> 01:04:05,560 Speaker 12: I just absolutely appreciate the fact that you actually spoke 1338 01:04:05,640 --> 01:04:08,240 Speaker 12: that word, and you said it out loud, and you 1339 01:04:08,320 --> 01:04:13,200 Speaker 12: are reminding our male listener that we don't care about 1340 01:04:13,200 --> 01:04:16,720 Speaker 12: your mama. We care about you speaking of on behalf 1341 01:04:16,760 --> 01:04:19,040 Speaker 12: of all women. Because you did not call your mama 1342 01:04:19,120 --> 01:04:21,680 Speaker 12: a seezer or a host. You didn't call your mama 1343 01:04:21,720 --> 01:04:24,720 Speaker 12: all of these negative names. You're talking to women in general, 1344 01:04:24,800 --> 01:04:27,640 Speaker 12: so your apology should really be focusing on women in general. 1345 01:04:28,240 --> 01:04:30,880 Speaker 12: So I just had to call you guys, stop my 1346 01:04:31,000 --> 01:04:33,920 Speaker 12: laundry right now here on this East Monday and sit 1347 01:04:34,040 --> 01:04:36,800 Speaker 12: down here and talk to my sister Karen and my 1348 01:04:36,960 --> 01:04:41,560 Speaker 12: brother Rod about their phenomenal podcast. You guys are amazing. 1349 01:04:42,480 --> 01:04:44,040 Speaker 12: I know I've called a couple of weeks ago when 1350 01:04:44,080 --> 01:04:48,000 Speaker 12: you guys are talking about my other Nigerian sister, Chimamanda, 1351 01:04:48,440 --> 01:04:51,880 Speaker 12: and now we got lovely and listen, I swear, listen. 1352 01:04:51,960 --> 01:04:52,680 Speaker 11: We don't do better. 1353 01:04:53,560 --> 01:04:55,840 Speaker 12: We don't wrap us, you know, wrap us up and 1354 01:04:55,880 --> 01:04:58,440 Speaker 12: the blood of the Lord. You're gonna do better as Nigerians. 1355 01:04:58,480 --> 01:05:01,160 Speaker 2: But I just really ship the work that you guys do. 1356 01:05:01,560 --> 01:05:04,680 Speaker 12: You are all phenomenal and I can't wait for keep 1357 01:05:04,720 --> 01:05:06,480 Speaker 12: listing all right, bye. 1358 01:05:06,880 --> 01:05:10,960 Speaker 3: Oh thank you baby, yeah, thank you and yeah that 1359 01:05:11,320 --> 01:05:12,880 Speaker 3: care and pointed that out right away. 1360 01:05:12,760 --> 01:05:13,920 Speaker 4: Man, because women get tired. 1361 01:05:13,960 --> 01:05:15,680 Speaker 10: I know I get tired that women get tired of 1362 01:05:16,040 --> 01:05:17,960 Speaker 10: niggas saying function and put out my mama. I only 1363 01:05:18,080 --> 01:05:20,479 Speaker 10: a goddamn about your mama. What you said when about 1364 01:05:20,480 --> 01:05:21,520 Speaker 10: your fucking mama. 1365 01:05:21,600 --> 01:05:23,920 Speaker 3: Right, Although if I was that dude's mama, I'd be like, 1366 01:05:24,040 --> 01:05:26,200 Speaker 3: thank you, you know what I mean, because I don't 1367 01:05:26,200 --> 01:05:29,640 Speaker 3: want to deal with it if you say that ship 1368 01:05:29,960 --> 01:05:31,400 Speaker 3: I need the first day to come out to my mouth. 1369 01:05:31,560 --> 01:05:33,440 Speaker 3: My mama didn't tell me this, good because I don't 1370 01:05:33,440 --> 01:05:35,520 Speaker 3: have nothing to do with your punk ass stupid p 1371 01:05:35,720 --> 01:05:37,320 Speaker 3: He probably got cussed out by your mama too that. 1372 01:05:37,400 --> 01:05:40,040 Speaker 4: Week, right, And just like you know how people joke 1373 01:05:40,080 --> 01:05:42,080 Speaker 4: about emok pokemon, that's not it. 1374 01:05:42,160 --> 01:05:44,560 Speaker 10: That's how all black women men do their mama. I 1375 01:05:44,720 --> 01:05:46,840 Speaker 10: choose you, mama, and they're gonna throw you up there 1376 01:05:46,880 --> 01:05:48,720 Speaker 10: and act like your mama is not is supposed to 1377 01:05:48,720 --> 01:05:51,240 Speaker 10: be a shield for me, not like kicking your ass. 1378 01:05:51,480 --> 01:05:52,760 Speaker 5: That yeah, what's scary than me? 1379 01:05:53,200 --> 01:05:57,000 Speaker 3: Is uh, the opposite. I like he used it the 1380 01:05:57,080 --> 01:05:59,760 Speaker 3: opposite way that I would think a man who was 1381 01:05:59,800 --> 01:06:02,240 Speaker 3: trying to use it for protection with dude, which is, well, 1382 01:06:02,280 --> 01:06:04,520 Speaker 3: my mama taught me this, So how are you gonna 1383 01:06:04,520 --> 01:06:04,920 Speaker 3: be mad at me? 1384 01:06:05,000 --> 01:06:05,880 Speaker 5: I learned it from a woman. 1385 01:06:05,920 --> 01:06:08,320 Speaker 3: A lot of dudes do that, Like if you say 1386 01:06:08,480 --> 01:06:12,919 Speaker 3: something they say is fucked up or regressive or whatever patronizing, 1387 01:06:13,000 --> 01:06:15,360 Speaker 3: they'll be like, well, my mama taught me as opposed 1388 01:06:15,440 --> 01:06:17,479 Speaker 3: to every woman, ain't your mama? 1389 01:06:17,680 --> 01:06:18,280 Speaker 11: You know what I mean? 1390 01:06:18,640 --> 01:06:20,800 Speaker 3: This was to me like to a certain extent, Like 1391 01:06:20,880 --> 01:06:24,440 Speaker 3: I said, it was better than what I would have 1392 01:06:24,520 --> 01:06:27,360 Speaker 3: expected from him, which I guess is the same much. 1393 01:06:27,480 --> 01:06:30,400 Speaker 3: But what can I say? I have very low expectations 1394 01:06:30,440 --> 01:06:30,920 Speaker 3: for tires. 1395 01:06:32,240 --> 01:06:35,080 Speaker 13: Good morning, guys. This is Shelley from New York. 1396 01:06:35,880 --> 01:06:37,240 Speaker 3: How are y'all doing great? 1397 01:06:38,280 --> 01:06:43,880 Speaker 13: Because I'm walking to work and we just broke her 1398 01:06:44,360 --> 01:06:48,240 Speaker 13: White people knew can this young lady doing this acoustic 1399 01:06:48,400 --> 01:06:48,840 Speaker 13: version of. 1400 01:06:51,680 --> 01:06:53,000 Speaker 14: The pause before creeping? 1401 01:06:54,160 --> 01:06:55,120 Speaker 8: Oh that's so loud? 1402 01:06:55,280 --> 01:06:56,720 Speaker 13: Made the white man seend it next to me on 1403 01:06:56,800 --> 01:06:57,440 Speaker 13: the corner. 1404 01:06:57,280 --> 01:06:59,520 Speaker 4: Jump thank you so much. 1405 01:07:00,360 --> 01:07:04,400 Speaker 14: It is beautiful Tuesday morning, and that lovely intro to 1406 01:07:04,520 --> 01:07:04,840 Speaker 14: my day. 1407 01:07:05,840 --> 01:07:07,520 Speaker 15: So I hope you guys had a beautiful easter. 1408 01:07:08,800 --> 01:07:11,040 Speaker 13: And you hear me walking walking? 1409 01:07:11,120 --> 01:07:12,120 Speaker 15: You do your shoes boys? 1410 01:07:13,200 --> 01:07:16,040 Speaker 13: All right, y'all say lest love what you guys do. 1411 01:07:17,400 --> 01:07:18,520 Speaker 13: I can't wait to hear more. 1412 01:07:18,760 --> 01:07:22,360 Speaker 4: Thank bye, oh bye bye baby. And I'm glad you're 1413 01:07:22,360 --> 01:07:23,440 Speaker 4: getting fit with that walking. 1414 01:07:23,920 --> 01:07:24,320 Speaker 9: I like that. 1415 01:07:24,440 --> 01:07:27,920 Speaker 3: She just had such a such a good laugh. She 1416 01:07:28,040 --> 01:07:30,080 Speaker 3: had to call to me like, oh my god, y'all 1417 01:07:30,080 --> 01:07:32,160 Speaker 3: almost killed me scared of this white man. 1418 01:07:32,920 --> 01:07:33,640 Speaker 4: Know what was happening? 1419 01:07:35,360 --> 01:07:37,080 Speaker 5: People were mad at you were playing that version, but 1420 01:07:37,160 --> 01:07:38,520 Speaker 5: come on, that ship was funny. 1421 01:07:39,800 --> 01:07:42,360 Speaker 4: Because you alone was was was enough to make your 1422 01:07:42,400 --> 01:07:47,040 Speaker 4: hour stay woke, creeping. 1423 01:07:48,640 --> 01:07:50,800 Speaker 3: She was so good? All right, next. 1424 01:07:52,280 --> 01:07:54,280 Speaker 15: Hang out and can and she Jada. 1425 01:07:55,960 --> 01:07:57,680 Speaker 11: To make a couple of comments about the. 1426 01:07:59,440 --> 01:08:05,280 Speaker 14: Tyree incident. So, uh, I am a Christian, but yeah, 1427 01:08:05,400 --> 01:08:09,240 Speaker 14: like the comments that you may write about like a 1428 01:08:09,360 --> 01:08:15,520 Speaker 14: lot of this, you know, rhetoric against female sexuality is 1429 01:08:15,760 --> 01:08:20,000 Speaker 14: really rooted in religion, and I totally agree. I mean, 1430 01:08:20,160 --> 01:08:24,519 Speaker 14: you know, a Christian for example, Uh, I have a 1431 01:08:24,640 --> 01:08:28,960 Speaker 14: friend who has this like Facebook group actually that centered 1432 01:08:29,040 --> 01:08:32,840 Speaker 14: around like Christian women trying to save themselves or you know, 1433 01:08:33,040 --> 01:08:33,880 Speaker 14: up a marriage. 1434 01:08:33,720 --> 01:08:35,600 Speaker 3: Or to maybe you're not a. 1435 01:08:35,640 --> 01:08:39,599 Speaker 14: Virgin now, but you're like continuing to abstain and don't 1436 01:08:39,600 --> 01:08:44,439 Speaker 14: get married. And really like I made a comment in 1437 01:08:44,520 --> 01:08:47,719 Speaker 14: the group, and I was kind of like, you know, okay, 1438 01:08:47,800 --> 01:08:49,680 Speaker 14: you know, like if you really believe in this, you know, 1439 01:08:49,760 --> 01:08:52,800 Speaker 14: because of what the Bible says. But I'm like the 1440 01:08:52,920 --> 01:08:55,760 Speaker 14: problem that I have with it is that the Church 1441 01:08:55,920 --> 01:08:58,880 Speaker 14: does not push it for men, like, you know, even 1442 01:08:58,920 --> 01:09:01,240 Speaker 14: in the group. Like I mean, I could be very 1443 01:09:01,360 --> 01:09:04,040 Speaker 14: well be wrong, but I'm like, well, this is the 1444 01:09:04,080 --> 01:09:05,920 Speaker 14: safe say for women, I guess, to talk about their 1445 01:09:05,960 --> 01:09:06,840 Speaker 14: relationship trouble. 1446 01:09:06,960 --> 01:09:09,960 Speaker 11: But I'm like, it's through a co equivalent group, you know, 1447 01:09:10,280 --> 01:09:13,719 Speaker 11: for men that are like specifically like hey, men. 1448 01:09:13,840 --> 01:09:16,560 Speaker 14: Like you know, dip it up into you know, you 1449 01:09:16,680 --> 01:09:17,759 Speaker 14: get married or something. 1450 01:09:17,840 --> 01:09:18,000 Speaker 10: You know. 1451 01:09:18,240 --> 01:09:23,680 Speaker 14: And she made the comment that you know, every relationship 1452 01:09:23,920 --> 01:09:26,040 Speaker 14: that your partner is going to be weaking something and 1453 01:09:26,160 --> 01:09:26,680 Speaker 14: you're going to. 1454 01:09:26,680 --> 01:09:28,960 Speaker 11: Be strong and something, you know whatever, or so I'm 1455 01:09:29,000 --> 01:09:29,559 Speaker 11: like it's true. 1456 01:09:29,600 --> 01:09:32,559 Speaker 14: I said, that's true, But why is it in every 1457 01:09:32,640 --> 01:09:36,720 Speaker 14: single relationship practically that if the couple is trying to 1458 01:09:36,840 --> 01:09:40,639 Speaker 14: unstain that not somebody then it's like the woman who 1459 01:09:41,479 --> 01:09:44,559 Speaker 14: is wanting to ubstain, right, And even if a man 1460 01:09:44,600 --> 01:09:48,799 Speaker 14: who is Christian also or Muzzlim or whatever, he's usually 1461 01:09:48,880 --> 01:09:51,439 Speaker 14: more so ubstaining because like, oh, okay, well I'm one 1462 01:09:51,479 --> 01:09:54,800 Speaker 14: of the women who wants to abstain, so I respect her, 1463 01:09:54,840 --> 01:09:56,040 Speaker 14: I want to be with her, and I want to 1464 01:09:56,080 --> 01:09:56,760 Speaker 14: do it behay, and. 1465 01:09:56,880 --> 01:09:57,840 Speaker 4: She was down for it. 1466 01:09:57,960 --> 01:09:59,600 Speaker 14: I was, you know, I would still be down for 1467 01:10:00,080 --> 01:10:02,720 Speaker 14: So that's yeah. Really the problem the issues that I 1468 01:10:02,840 --> 01:10:07,320 Speaker 14: have with my religion is that even when the church, 1469 01:10:07,400 --> 01:10:11,280 Speaker 14: I feel like a lot of responsibility of quote unquote 1470 01:10:11,280 --> 01:10:15,400 Speaker 14: abstaining is always put on the woman, and that like 1471 01:10:15,520 --> 01:10:18,920 Speaker 14: you said before, that men are never being as holes 1472 01:10:19,240 --> 01:10:23,040 Speaker 14: or impure or you know what I mean, or damaged 1473 01:10:23,120 --> 01:10:25,519 Speaker 14: goods or something if they've had a lot of sect or. 1474 01:10:25,520 --> 01:10:27,720 Speaker 2: Even if they're like sexually assaulted. 1475 01:10:27,280 --> 01:10:28,880 Speaker 14: Which is sad to say that a lot of women 1476 01:10:28,920 --> 01:10:31,920 Speaker 14: will even get raped when the religion is like that 1477 01:10:32,120 --> 01:10:35,040 Speaker 14: strong that oh well you've been raped now, so even 1478 01:10:35,080 --> 01:10:38,719 Speaker 14: though it wasn't partically your fault, like now your purity 1479 01:10:38,800 --> 01:10:41,800 Speaker 14: has been damaged. So now you like it's just you 1480 01:10:41,840 --> 01:10:42,839 Speaker 14: can't get married anybody. 1481 01:10:43,600 --> 01:10:45,839 Speaker 11: But all right, guys, love showing. 1482 01:10:45,680 --> 01:10:46,679 Speaker 13: To feed facts. 1483 01:10:48,960 --> 01:10:53,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, first of all, did and yeah, I meant what 1484 01:10:53,920 --> 01:10:56,280 Speaker 3: I said. Man, A lot of misagy and stuff is 1485 01:10:56,320 --> 01:10:58,519 Speaker 3: couch and religion. That's where a lot of people learn 1486 01:10:58,600 --> 01:11:00,360 Speaker 3: it to where a lot of people pass it down, 1487 01:11:00,439 --> 01:11:02,400 Speaker 3: and more important, it is where a lot of it's validated. 1488 01:11:03,760 --> 01:11:07,639 Speaker 3: Men's groups in churches don't concentrate nearly as much as 1489 01:11:08,000 --> 01:11:12,760 Speaker 3: women's groups in churches about keeping chased about sexuality other 1490 01:11:12,840 --> 01:11:16,559 Speaker 3: than don't be gay, you know, Like, it's very much 1491 01:11:16,640 --> 01:11:19,160 Speaker 3: a reinforcement of all the things that we consider to 1492 01:11:19,200 --> 01:11:23,360 Speaker 3: be toxic when it comes to manhood and shit. But 1493 01:11:23,560 --> 01:11:27,080 Speaker 3: yet because it's couch and religion, it's okay, you know. 1494 01:11:27,479 --> 01:11:27,519 Speaker 8: Like. 1495 01:11:27,760 --> 01:11:30,599 Speaker 3: And the thing is, there are women that want those 1496 01:11:30,680 --> 01:11:33,479 Speaker 3: things from men too, because that's what they've been told, you. 1497 01:11:33,560 --> 01:11:35,600 Speaker 5: Know, Like, I want a man that will protect me. 1498 01:11:35,800 --> 01:11:37,599 Speaker 5: I want a man that is a provider. 1499 01:11:37,720 --> 01:11:42,360 Speaker 3: I want a man that takes charge and runs the 1500 01:11:42,439 --> 01:11:44,559 Speaker 3: house and shit like this. But at the same time 1501 01:11:46,479 --> 01:11:49,920 Speaker 3: that respect and stuff isn't often given back, and with 1502 01:11:50,040 --> 01:11:52,600 Speaker 3: the realities of the real world where you need to 1503 01:11:53,080 --> 01:11:56,080 Speaker 3: incomes normally for people to make it work and things 1504 01:11:56,120 --> 01:11:59,000 Speaker 3: of this nature, you end up with women being subjugated 1505 01:11:59,200 --> 01:12:03,120 Speaker 3: and expected to provide at the same time, where it's 1506 01:12:03,240 --> 01:12:05,920 Speaker 3: like and especially in black relationships, where it's very much 1507 01:12:06,080 --> 01:12:08,439 Speaker 3: like you need to go get a have a job 1508 01:12:08,479 --> 01:12:10,439 Speaker 3: as well, and I'm gonna tell you ask what to 1509 01:12:10,479 --> 01:12:11,880 Speaker 3: do when you get home, and I expect to do it. 1510 01:12:11,960 --> 01:12:15,160 Speaker 3: You cook and cleaning, raising our kids, all the shit 1511 01:12:15,320 --> 01:12:21,400 Speaker 3: that you know. Essentially, this religion and patriarchy through whiteness 1512 01:12:21,800 --> 01:12:24,120 Speaker 3: has kind of taught us is what a woman's role is, 1513 01:12:24,600 --> 01:12:27,960 Speaker 3: despite the fact that it's very unrealistic. So I think 1514 01:12:28,120 --> 01:12:31,200 Speaker 3: a lot of that stuff is justified through Christianity and 1515 01:12:31,600 --> 01:12:35,800 Speaker 3: pretty much a lot of religions. And it's like I said, 1516 01:12:36,120 --> 01:12:40,320 Speaker 3: it's weird because people will be mad at Tyree's but 1517 01:12:40,920 --> 01:12:43,120 Speaker 3: they'll see they passed every Sunday who tells them what 1518 01:12:43,280 --> 01:12:47,040 Speaker 3: Tyree says. And for some reason, I guess it's just 1519 01:12:47,080 --> 01:12:49,320 Speaker 3: talking out of turn, talking out of church, where it's like, well, 1520 01:12:49,680 --> 01:12:52,120 Speaker 3: Tyree's bringing it up during this past and furious interview 1521 01:12:52,560 --> 01:12:55,519 Speaker 3: is more of a problem for people. But you know, 1522 01:12:56,120 --> 01:12:58,840 Speaker 3: Eddie Long bringing it up every Sunday is not or whatever. 1523 01:12:59,040 --> 01:13:01,200 Speaker 3: I don't know how that works and how people justified 1524 01:13:01,280 --> 01:13:03,880 Speaker 3: in their mind religions are very weird thing to me 1525 01:13:03,960 --> 01:13:06,760 Speaker 3: because it means a lot of people I know that 1526 01:13:06,880 --> 01:13:11,400 Speaker 3: are very open, progressive, liberal, however, whatever words you want 1527 01:13:11,439 --> 01:13:14,680 Speaker 3: to describe it, they are religious. And I wonder how 1528 01:13:14,720 --> 01:13:16,840 Speaker 3: they're able to make it work in their mind to 1529 01:13:17,200 --> 01:13:22,000 Speaker 3: maintain that belief while also essentially pushing back on some 1530 01:13:22,160 --> 01:13:25,479 Speaker 3: of the beliefs of the church and even some of 1531 01:13:25,560 --> 01:13:27,559 Speaker 3: the belief things that are in the Bible, like they're 1532 01:13:28,280 --> 01:13:30,160 Speaker 3: While I do think a lot of churches go off 1533 01:13:30,200 --> 01:13:32,880 Speaker 3: scripted with all this hate talking shit, there is there 1534 01:13:32,920 --> 01:13:37,599 Speaker 3: are there are things, there's evidence, and there are words 1535 01:13:37,680 --> 01:13:40,800 Speaker 3: in the Bible that inspire those hateful thoughts in some ways, 1536 01:13:40,840 --> 01:13:43,439 Speaker 3: and sometimes I use to justify those hateful thoughts, and 1537 01:13:43,520 --> 01:13:46,000 Speaker 3: it always just makes me wonder how you can rationalize 1538 01:13:47,160 --> 01:13:51,040 Speaker 3: that while also recognizing how wrong that is to live 1539 01:13:51,120 --> 01:13:53,320 Speaker 3: in the world. And it's not for me to answer, 1540 01:13:53,360 --> 01:13:56,559 Speaker 3: because that's not my you know, I don't know how 1541 01:13:56,600 --> 01:13:59,600 Speaker 3: they do it. I'm just thankful that people do. You know, like, 1542 01:13:59,680 --> 01:14:02,080 Speaker 3: I don't care of your church every Sunday. If you 1543 01:14:02,160 --> 01:14:04,360 Speaker 3: walk out of there and be like, Okay, that's some bullshit, 1544 01:14:04,600 --> 01:14:07,880 Speaker 3: We're not gonna be h I'm not trying to stop 1545 01:14:07,920 --> 01:14:10,040 Speaker 3: people from loving each other in a marriage because they're 1546 01:14:10,040 --> 01:14:12,439 Speaker 3: safe sex. I'm not. I'm just thankful that people are 1547 01:14:12,520 --> 01:14:15,000 Speaker 3: able to see through that shit. Reverend Barbara is one 1548 01:14:15,040 --> 01:14:21,200 Speaker 3: of the most like passionate, revolutionary spiritual minds in at 1549 01:14:21,320 --> 01:14:22,080 Speaker 3: least in America. 1550 01:14:22,400 --> 01:14:24,760 Speaker 5: And you know that dude got a church. 1551 01:14:25,400 --> 01:14:28,960 Speaker 3: So to me, that why some people would think, well, 1552 01:14:29,400 --> 01:14:31,240 Speaker 3: I guess you're saying church can be good. What I'm 1553 01:14:31,280 --> 01:14:33,479 Speaker 3: saying is that means there's no excuse for church, for 1554 01:14:33,600 --> 01:14:36,720 Speaker 3: these churches that are repressive. There's no excuse because there's 1555 01:14:36,760 --> 01:14:39,400 Speaker 3: people that found a way to be inspired by that 1556 01:14:39,479 --> 01:14:42,120 Speaker 3: book to love and care about other people outside of them. 1557 01:14:42,920 --> 01:14:46,479 Speaker 3: So there's no reason to think, well, this is just 1558 01:14:46,560 --> 01:14:48,559 Speaker 3: part of church and part of religion. Fuck that shit, 1559 01:14:48,680 --> 01:14:51,960 Speaker 3: y'all gotta do better, all right, let me go to 1560 01:14:52,000 --> 01:14:54,120 Speaker 3: the next session cause I don't want to cut off 1561 01:14:54,160 --> 01:14:56,160 Speaker 3: the next email, So give me a second, y'all. I'm 1562 01:14:56,160 --> 01:15:02,240 Speaker 3: gonna be right back. Okay, stay woke, creep in. 1563 01:15:04,960 --> 01:15:06,160 Speaker 5: They gonna find. 1564 01:15:07,960 --> 01:15:13,840 Speaker 3: And if you sleeping, m all right called the audience okay, 1565 01:15:16,600 --> 01:15:24,479 Speaker 3: and we are live and I'm writing you back, Karen. Okay, 1566 01:15:27,800 --> 01:15:28,519 Speaker 3: ain't they go. 1567 01:15:29,760 --> 01:15:31,160 Speaker 5: Let's go to the next voicemail. 1568 01:15:35,880 --> 01:15:39,839 Speaker 2: Hey, Rod and Karen, this is Tequita Bloodsoe. I'm from Kentucky. 1569 01:15:42,280 --> 01:15:44,920 Speaker 2: I've never called in this is my first voicemail, but 1570 01:15:45,040 --> 01:15:49,120 Speaker 2: I just had to let you guys know that your 1571 01:15:49,240 --> 01:15:55,840 Speaker 2: show has just giving me so much life, Like you 1572 01:15:55,960 --> 01:15:59,120 Speaker 2: have no idea how much I've grown, how much I've 1573 01:15:59,160 --> 01:16:06,519 Speaker 2: evolved as person while listening to your show, And I 1574 01:16:06,680 --> 01:16:08,840 Speaker 2: just wanted to call and say thank you guys for that. 1575 01:16:09,120 --> 01:16:14,040 Speaker 2: Because all the voices that you hear in the world 1576 01:16:14,760 --> 01:16:18,880 Speaker 2: to find voices of reason, you know, sprinkle with some 1577 01:16:19,479 --> 01:16:23,439 Speaker 2: laughter and even sometimes tears, Like I just listened to 1578 01:16:23,920 --> 01:16:27,680 Speaker 2: the episode for Monday, you know, and I could hear 1579 01:16:28,080 --> 01:16:33,519 Speaker 2: the emotions and passion and Rod's voice when he talks 1580 01:16:33,560 --> 01:16:40,320 Speaker 2: about you know, I can't even put it in the 1581 01:16:40,360 --> 01:16:43,000 Speaker 2: words because I'm a little emotional right now thinking about 1582 01:16:44,240 --> 01:16:45,759 Speaker 2: that murderer and the guy. 1583 01:16:47,200 --> 01:16:48,000 Speaker 3: That he murdered. 1584 01:16:49,439 --> 01:16:51,559 Speaker 2: Anyways, I just want to call and let you all 1585 01:16:51,640 --> 01:16:52,839 Speaker 2: know that you all are awesome. 1586 01:16:53,439 --> 01:16:54,600 Speaker 11: Please keep doing what you do. 1587 01:16:56,120 --> 01:16:58,160 Speaker 2: I'm listening to you all the way in Kentucky. I 1588 01:16:58,280 --> 01:17:01,680 Speaker 2: try to spread the words to let everybody else know 1589 01:17:02,360 --> 01:17:04,320 Speaker 2: this is one of the best podcasts out there. 1590 01:17:07,560 --> 01:17:13,960 Speaker 3: Take care, Thank you and yeah, that's the home of 1591 01:17:14,040 --> 01:17:16,040 Speaker 3: Mike Pance, So be careful out there in the streets 1592 01:17:16,840 --> 01:17:22,439 Speaker 3: speaking of women need to be safe. But yeah, definitely, man, 1593 01:17:22,520 --> 01:17:25,200 Speaker 3: I definitely feel like some days I'm like, this is 1594 01:17:25,240 --> 01:17:26,800 Speaker 3: why we do what we do. This is why we 1595 01:17:26,920 --> 01:17:28,920 Speaker 3: have the show that we have. That's why we had 1596 01:17:28,960 --> 01:17:30,880 Speaker 3: a following that we have, man, it's why we have 1597 01:17:31,640 --> 01:17:35,080 Speaker 3: the support, you know, when people send us stuff like, 1598 01:17:35,120 --> 01:17:37,280 Speaker 3: there's a bunch of shows that need support, and I 1599 01:17:37,720 --> 01:17:39,680 Speaker 3: do urge people to support the voices that they want 1600 01:17:39,720 --> 01:17:44,400 Speaker 3: to hear. But sometimes I think people don't realize what 1601 01:17:44,520 --> 01:17:47,040 Speaker 3: that show and when the stuff they say, and the 1602 01:17:47,120 --> 01:17:49,120 Speaker 3: fact that they won't open their minds or even think 1603 01:17:49,160 --> 01:17:52,400 Speaker 3: about other people. In some ways, it limits what your 1604 01:17:52,439 --> 01:17:54,240 Speaker 3: show can be, and it limits you as a person 1605 01:17:54,320 --> 01:17:56,600 Speaker 3: what you can be. You know, Like, I don't want to, 1606 01:17:56,680 --> 01:17:58,160 Speaker 3: like I said, I don't want to die believe in 1607 01:17:58,200 --> 01:18:00,880 Speaker 3: the same shit you coming this world, because when you 1608 01:18:00,960 --> 01:18:04,679 Speaker 3: come in this world, you mostly know ignorance. And while 1609 01:18:04,720 --> 01:18:06,960 Speaker 3: I do love me some good ignorance, especially if it's 1610 01:18:06,960 --> 01:18:10,400 Speaker 3: black ignorance, come on now, I mean, I do love 1611 01:18:10,479 --> 01:18:12,960 Speaker 3: me in the world, but I can't sit up here 1612 01:18:13,000 --> 01:18:16,560 Speaker 3: and be like because I love it, it's right or 1613 01:18:16,600 --> 01:18:19,840 Speaker 3: it's okay or whatever, you know, Like I said, just 1614 01:18:20,080 --> 01:18:23,200 Speaker 3: in general, stage Pel probably my favorite, if not best 1615 01:18:23,240 --> 01:18:25,920 Speaker 3: stand up in my life. Can't navigate my life by 1616 01:18:25,960 --> 01:18:28,200 Speaker 3: what Dave Chapelle says in the stand ups. They can't. 1617 01:18:28,360 --> 01:18:31,679 Speaker 3: That's not how my life works, you know, Like that's 1618 01:18:31,720 --> 01:18:35,680 Speaker 3: the kind of thing. So anyway, the point being when 1619 01:18:35,720 --> 01:18:38,519 Speaker 3: we do shows like that, you know, I find all 1620 01:18:38,600 --> 01:18:40,880 Speaker 3: day about that show. I thought two days about that 1621 01:18:40,960 --> 01:18:46,280 Speaker 3: show basically and kind of almost like not wanting to 1622 01:18:46,439 --> 01:18:50,120 Speaker 3: do it because I didn't want to basically have an 1623 01:18:50,200 --> 01:18:52,839 Speaker 3: hour or so of the show. That's just not very funny, 1624 01:18:53,560 --> 01:18:59,160 Speaker 3: and that is kind of serious, that is to what 1625 01:18:59,400 --> 01:19:02,040 Speaker 3: I know. And I listen to a lot of shows, 1626 01:19:02,080 --> 01:19:04,879 Speaker 3: but nobody else is talking about it that way except 1627 01:19:05,040 --> 01:19:08,000 Speaker 3: maybe women. But that's kind of that's kind of because 1628 01:19:08,040 --> 01:19:10,439 Speaker 3: women have to talk about it that way. But even 1629 01:19:10,479 --> 01:19:13,320 Speaker 3: at that point, I hadn't heard any women speak on it. 1630 01:19:13,520 --> 01:19:16,600 Speaker 3: I hadn't, you know, because it just happened literally the 1631 01:19:16,720 --> 01:19:20,680 Speaker 3: day before. So I can only me and Karen, we 1632 01:19:20,720 --> 01:19:23,000 Speaker 3: can only give you our point of views, you know, 1633 01:19:23,240 --> 01:19:25,960 Speaker 3: like we can't predict what everybody else is going to say. 1634 01:19:26,040 --> 01:19:28,120 Speaker 3: Some of our stuff we say. I think it's popular. 1635 01:19:28,240 --> 01:19:31,200 Speaker 3: Some of it people think it's edgy or so, you know. 1636 01:19:31,280 --> 01:19:33,400 Speaker 3: And I think some people probably think I'm fucking crazy 1637 01:19:33,920 --> 01:19:36,000 Speaker 3: some of the shit I say, like they probably think, 1638 01:19:36,520 --> 01:19:38,240 Speaker 3: like that motherfucker's weird or whatever. 1639 01:19:38,520 --> 01:19:41,639 Speaker 5: But I feel like really. 1640 01:19:41,520 --> 01:19:45,000 Speaker 3: Compelled to be like to speak on certain things, cause 1641 01:19:45,000 --> 01:19:48,360 Speaker 3: it's like if I don't, it really seems sometimes like 1642 01:19:48,479 --> 01:19:50,960 Speaker 3: it won't be people talking about it in any way 1643 01:19:51,040 --> 01:19:55,360 Speaker 3: that's meaningful. And like I said, those are moments where 1644 01:19:55,360 --> 01:19:57,519 Speaker 3: I'm like, this is why our show. I'm glad to 1645 01:19:57,640 --> 01:20:01,559 Speaker 3: have our show because I will rather be the voice 1646 01:20:01,680 --> 01:20:04,920 Speaker 3: that I want people to hear than to be a 1647 01:20:05,040 --> 01:20:09,680 Speaker 3: person waiting around hoping somebody says it, you know so 1648 01:20:09,880 --> 01:20:11,800 Speaker 3: and yeah, and man, people showed me so much love 1649 01:20:11,840 --> 01:20:13,519 Speaker 3: because honestly, man, when I said that shit, I wasn't 1650 01:20:13,560 --> 01:20:15,280 Speaker 3: sure how I was gonna gold. I really expect a 1651 01:20:15,320 --> 01:20:17,080 Speaker 3: lot of people to kind of And maybe there are 1652 01:20:17,160 --> 01:20:19,160 Speaker 3: people that are like, fuck that nigga, I hate what 1653 01:20:19,280 --> 01:20:21,560 Speaker 3: he's saying. He hate black men, he hate us, he 1654 01:20:21,680 --> 01:20:24,120 Speaker 3: hate himself all that. Maybe there are people that really 1655 01:20:24,200 --> 01:20:28,120 Speaker 3: do feel strongly that way. But I'll say the experience 1656 01:20:28,160 --> 01:20:30,760 Speaker 3: I have for people online and stuff. Man, it was 1657 01:20:30,840 --> 01:20:36,920 Speaker 3: really overwhelming, very supportive. A lot of black men came through, like, man, 1658 01:20:36,960 --> 01:20:39,360 Speaker 3: I appreciate what you saying. It made me think about this, 1659 01:20:39,520 --> 01:20:40,920 Speaker 3: this and this. It made me feel like I have 1660 01:20:41,040 --> 01:20:46,080 Speaker 3: things to work on, you know, like that that mattered 1661 01:20:46,120 --> 01:20:47,400 Speaker 3: to me. And then there was a lot of sisters 1662 01:20:47,439 --> 01:20:50,640 Speaker 3: that were like, man, you know. One sister told me, 1663 01:20:52,479 --> 01:20:54,400 Speaker 3: you know, I have a son that I hope he 1664 01:20:54,520 --> 01:20:59,880 Speaker 3: grows up with, you know, the emotional intelligence and you know, 1665 01:21:00,080 --> 01:21:03,720 Speaker 3: thoughtfulness of you and I'll and that one was that 1666 01:21:03,880 --> 01:21:06,400 Speaker 3: was a lot because you know, it's like I said, man, 1667 01:21:06,439 --> 01:21:09,040 Speaker 3: when you do this, I don't really think like that 1668 01:21:09,200 --> 01:21:11,240 Speaker 3: when we're doing the show, not like I'm gonna be 1669 01:21:11,320 --> 01:21:13,479 Speaker 3: an example and a leader. You niggas need to listen 1670 01:21:13,560 --> 01:21:15,600 Speaker 3: to me. I just think I want to give my 1671 01:21:15,760 --> 01:21:19,280 Speaker 3: opinion and my point of view in a way to 1672 01:21:19,400 --> 01:21:23,040 Speaker 3: be understood. And like I said, I want to understand 1673 01:21:23,160 --> 01:21:27,800 Speaker 3: other people and where they're coming from before really you know, 1674 01:21:28,000 --> 01:21:30,120 Speaker 3: trying to like go in or whatever. I would like 1675 01:21:30,200 --> 01:21:32,639 Speaker 3: to know what they where they're coming from. And sometimes 1676 01:21:32,640 --> 01:21:34,200 Speaker 3: I think I have a good grasp on that and 1677 01:21:34,280 --> 01:21:36,840 Speaker 3: then I'll say what I have to say. And other 1678 01:21:36,920 --> 01:21:38,679 Speaker 3: times I you know, sometimes you get out. 1679 01:21:38,600 --> 01:21:39,120 Speaker 5: Here and you don't. 1680 01:21:39,200 --> 01:21:41,880 Speaker 3: But like I said, I really appreciate people showing me 1681 01:21:41,960 --> 01:21:45,720 Speaker 3: so much love because I really had no idea how 1682 01:21:45,760 --> 01:21:47,960 Speaker 3: that shit was gonna go over, and I could definitely 1683 01:21:48,120 --> 01:21:51,680 Speaker 3: see people, you know, Like I think people always think 1684 01:21:51,760 --> 01:21:56,879 Speaker 3: of the isolation and loneliness and the backlash against saying. 1685 01:21:56,680 --> 01:22:00,439 Speaker 5: Stuff like you know, fuck fuck everybody. I don't give 1686 01:22:00,439 --> 01:22:00,800 Speaker 5: a fuck. 1687 01:22:00,920 --> 01:22:02,200 Speaker 3: I said what I said. 1688 01:22:02,240 --> 01:22:04,120 Speaker 5: But a lot of times I don't feel that way. 1689 01:22:04,160 --> 01:22:07,759 Speaker 3: I feel like, well, if you have some reasonable retort 1690 01:22:07,920 --> 01:22:09,640 Speaker 3: or something that I just didn't think of because I 1691 01:22:09,680 --> 01:22:12,360 Speaker 3: can't know everything, maybe I can kind of see what 1692 01:22:12,439 --> 01:22:15,720 Speaker 3: you're saying, you know. But then if it's just, you know, 1693 01:22:16,200 --> 01:22:18,400 Speaker 3: fuck me just for existing, I don't know what to say, 1694 01:22:18,520 --> 01:22:22,040 Speaker 3: you know, so I but anyway, I got nothing but 1695 01:22:22,240 --> 01:22:23,719 Speaker 3: a whole lot of overwhelming support. 1696 01:22:23,840 --> 01:22:24,000 Speaker 6: Man. 1697 01:22:24,200 --> 01:22:28,320 Speaker 3: Even the people that I think didn't really necessarily understand 1698 01:22:28,560 --> 01:22:32,800 Speaker 3: or didn't feel like they saw it that way, for 1699 01:22:32,880 --> 01:22:36,439 Speaker 3: the most part, they understood some level of like, Okay, 1700 01:22:37,080 --> 01:22:41,519 Speaker 3: I can grasp this point a little bit more. And lastly, 1701 01:22:41,600 --> 01:22:45,720 Speaker 3: I'll say this, in in this entertainment world and the 1702 01:22:45,880 --> 01:22:49,960 Speaker 3: podcast world and all the stuff, uh, sometimes I feels 1703 01:22:50,000 --> 01:22:55,800 Speaker 3: so defeated because the voices that get the biggest platforms 1704 01:22:55,840 --> 01:23:01,240 Speaker 3: and the most attention, especially as a black man, such regressive, 1705 01:23:03,160 --> 01:23:07,240 Speaker 3: just ignorant voices sometimes, And it's like the people who 1706 01:23:07,360 --> 01:23:10,439 Speaker 3: choose who get on are mostly white people, so the 1707 01:23:10,680 --> 01:23:13,400 Speaker 3: niggas they feel comfortable with are the ones who get on. 1708 01:23:14,080 --> 01:23:18,599 Speaker 3: So I don't think it's any coincidence that somebody who 1709 01:23:18,760 --> 01:23:22,040 Speaker 3: is as messy as say Charlemagne would get on. I 1710 01:23:22,080 --> 01:23:24,280 Speaker 3: don't think it's a coincidence that Charles Barkley gets a 1711 01:23:24,320 --> 01:23:26,720 Speaker 3: show to talk about race. I don't think it's all 1712 01:23:26,840 --> 01:23:29,320 Speaker 3: this shit. Feels like we're being gasled as a people, 1713 01:23:29,520 --> 01:23:32,880 Speaker 3: Like our pain makes for good ratings and it makes 1714 01:23:32,960 --> 01:23:37,120 Speaker 3: for good TV, and it hurts to watch the same 1715 01:23:37,240 --> 01:23:39,760 Speaker 3: people get put on a pedestal over and over and 1716 01:23:39,960 --> 01:23:42,799 Speaker 3: over again. And the people that love us and represent 1717 01:23:42,920 --> 01:23:44,720 Speaker 3: for us and believe in the highest hopes of what 1718 01:23:44,840 --> 01:23:46,880 Speaker 3: we can be, they get pushed to the side and 1719 01:23:46,920 --> 01:23:49,200 Speaker 3: they don't make it, and they don't get the props, 1720 01:23:49,200 --> 01:23:51,439 Speaker 3: and they don't get the writing of the articles, and 1721 01:23:51,479 --> 01:23:54,400 Speaker 3: they don't get gas spots on people's TV shows and shit. 1722 01:23:54,640 --> 01:23:56,560 Speaker 3: But if the person goes out there and says some 1723 01:23:56,720 --> 01:24:00,640 Speaker 3: ridiculous shit, like you know, black people got privilege too 1724 01:24:00,760 --> 01:24:03,640 Speaker 3: or something. That is the person that gets on and 1725 01:24:04,400 --> 01:24:07,080 Speaker 3: on a on a on a singular point of view, 1726 01:24:07,160 --> 01:24:09,960 Speaker 3: like I can't blame them being motivated for their own 1727 01:24:10,040 --> 01:24:13,640 Speaker 3: money and stuff, and and oftentimes those people actually do 1728 01:24:13,800 --> 01:24:17,000 Speaker 3: believe those things. But the thing is white people believe 1729 01:24:17,040 --> 01:24:19,360 Speaker 3: those things about us too, which is why they say, 1730 01:24:19,439 --> 01:24:22,120 Speaker 3: let's get Charles Barkley the show, because he's gonna call 1731 01:24:22,439 --> 01:24:25,120 Speaker 3: all these protesterstus and he's gonna say Black Lives Matter 1732 01:24:25,320 --> 01:24:28,200 Speaker 3: is stupid and and all. He's gonna say those things. 1733 01:24:28,280 --> 01:24:30,760 Speaker 3: So that's why we want him to have the TV 1734 01:24:30,880 --> 01:24:33,680 Speaker 3: show about race. Despite the fact this motherfucker hasn't gone 1735 01:24:33,680 --> 01:24:36,280 Speaker 3: to school, he doesn't read, he didn't even know if 1736 01:24:36,320 --> 01:24:39,400 Speaker 3: slavery was quote unquote that bad. They will put that 1737 01:24:39,600 --> 01:24:42,160 Speaker 3: ignorant son of a bitch on television and let that 1738 01:24:42,320 --> 01:24:45,400 Speaker 3: dude talk. And then you have people that are educated, informed, 1739 01:24:45,720 --> 01:24:49,320 Speaker 3: that have nuanced that that see you know that, that 1740 01:24:49,439 --> 01:24:52,560 Speaker 3: have different perspectives, that that wish for people to, you know, 1741 01:24:52,760 --> 01:24:55,600 Speaker 3: MTV letting Charlomagne holst that talk on race. After the 1742 01:24:55,640 --> 01:24:59,240 Speaker 3: shooting of those police police in Dallas, like it's those 1743 01:24:59,400 --> 01:25:02,560 Speaker 3: moments whereas a black man, I get so fucking frustrated 1744 01:25:02,600 --> 01:25:05,200 Speaker 3: because the diversity in our voice is not there. You know, 1745 01:25:05,600 --> 01:25:08,000 Speaker 3: there's so it's so rare. Now, I don't mind people 1746 01:25:08,479 --> 01:25:10,720 Speaker 3: stepping out of line, like quote unquote, I get it 1747 01:25:10,840 --> 01:25:13,559 Speaker 3: like Steven A. Smith can't be black, of it black 1748 01:25:13,600 --> 01:25:15,960 Speaker 3: and on TV every fucking day. Some days he gonna 1749 01:25:15,960 --> 01:25:17,839 Speaker 3: get it right and I'm gonna agree with him quote unquote, 1750 01:25:18,000 --> 01:25:19,920 Speaker 3: and some days he's gonna get it wrong in my opinion, 1751 01:25:19,960 --> 01:25:22,519 Speaker 3: and I'm gonna disagree with him. That's more human the 1752 01:25:22,640 --> 01:25:24,800 Speaker 3: idea that we don't all fit. But when you look 1753 01:25:24,880 --> 01:25:27,360 Speaker 3: around at that space and you see the opinions that 1754 01:25:27,479 --> 01:25:30,800 Speaker 3: many of them have, the fact that ninety nine percent 1755 01:25:30,840 --> 01:25:32,679 Speaker 3: of the black people on TV when they talk about 1756 01:25:32,760 --> 01:25:34,720 Speaker 3: the word nigger, have to come out and be like, 1757 01:25:34,840 --> 01:25:37,800 Speaker 3: black people can't say it. Why, Like if you did 1758 01:25:37,880 --> 01:25:41,200 Speaker 3: an actual poll of blackness, that is a at that 1759 01:25:41,400 --> 01:25:45,280 Speaker 3: is an outlier. So who picks those people? White people? 1760 01:25:45,360 --> 01:25:47,559 Speaker 3: Because white people don't feel comfortable with black people saying 1761 01:25:47,560 --> 01:25:50,160 Speaker 3: the N word. It's not a coincidence that all the 1762 01:25:50,200 --> 01:25:52,080 Speaker 3: people that get the job. It's not a coincidence that 1763 01:25:52,240 --> 01:25:54,920 Speaker 3: Van Jones gets a job because he's the one person 1764 01:25:55,000 --> 01:25:58,000 Speaker 3: that says, I believe white people can do better and 1765 01:25:58,040 --> 01:26:01,360 Speaker 3: they're not bad for vote for Trump. You know, they're 1766 01:26:01,400 --> 01:26:03,800 Speaker 3: not racist, They're not I believe in these people. That 1767 01:26:04,000 --> 01:26:06,759 Speaker 3: dude gets the job. I'm not against that dude, because 1768 01:26:07,040 --> 01:26:09,160 Speaker 3: there are black people should be able to believe that. 1769 01:26:09,600 --> 01:26:12,120 Speaker 3: But like I said, when as a black man, there's 1770 01:26:12,160 --> 01:26:14,280 Speaker 3: so many times where I look at the media voices 1771 01:26:14,360 --> 01:26:18,400 Speaker 3: and I'm like, Jason Whitlock shouldn't have that platform. But 1772 01:26:18,640 --> 01:26:21,400 Speaker 3: if he does, why is there never another person with 1773 01:26:21,520 --> 01:26:23,960 Speaker 3: that platform that I go, well, at least this dude's 1774 01:26:24,000 --> 01:26:26,320 Speaker 3: out there too, you know what I mean. It feels 1775 01:26:26,360 --> 01:26:28,719 Speaker 3: like the real ones are far and few between sometimes, 1776 01:26:28,760 --> 01:26:30,360 Speaker 3: and I don't want to concentrate too much on the 1777 01:26:30,400 --> 01:26:34,680 Speaker 3: bad ones because Mike Jammel Bomani, you know, Jalen, like, 1778 01:26:34,760 --> 01:26:37,599 Speaker 3: there's people out there that that that that that talking 1779 01:26:37,760 --> 01:26:41,040 Speaker 3: and do keeper you know, joy, but it feels like 1780 01:26:41,080 --> 01:26:43,360 Speaker 3: they have a much lonelier road. It feels like they're 1781 01:26:43,400 --> 01:26:46,760 Speaker 3: promoted at a lot a much short, smaller, shorter pace, 1782 01:26:46,880 --> 01:26:49,479 Speaker 3: And like I said, as a black man, sometimes it 1783 01:26:49,560 --> 01:26:54,040 Speaker 3: feels almost embarrassing because when when there are like when 1784 01:26:54,120 --> 01:26:56,880 Speaker 3: Ray Rice hits his wife and it's caught on video. 1785 01:26:57,600 --> 01:27:00,400 Speaker 3: It's the black dudes going on to air, going well, 1786 01:27:00,680 --> 01:27:01,960 Speaker 3: women need to watch what they do. 1787 01:27:03,160 --> 01:27:03,280 Speaker 9: You know. 1788 01:27:03,400 --> 01:27:06,360 Speaker 3: I tell my sisters to be careful white dudes. Don't. 1789 01:27:06,439 --> 01:27:09,400 Speaker 3: White dudes either mom silent or being like listen, man, 1790 01:27:09,560 --> 01:27:14,960 Speaker 3: you can't do that, period, no exceptions, no explanations, no nuance, 1791 01:27:15,120 --> 01:27:18,720 Speaker 3: no sometimes no, maybe you can't do that shit. And 1792 01:27:18,800 --> 01:27:21,360 Speaker 3: they keep their job even if they don't believe that shit. 1793 01:27:21,640 --> 01:27:24,080 Speaker 3: They keep their job because they're smarter than that. And 1794 01:27:24,200 --> 01:27:26,600 Speaker 3: yet when you want somebody to say something kind of 1795 01:27:26,680 --> 01:27:30,560 Speaker 3: dumb and controversial without having any education on it, a 1796 01:27:30,680 --> 01:27:32,639 Speaker 3: lot of times they go straight to the black dude. 1797 01:27:32,720 --> 01:27:32,880 Speaker 4: Man. 1798 01:27:32,960 --> 01:27:35,280 Speaker 3: It's I mean, I don't know how people can't see it, 1799 01:27:35,400 --> 01:27:37,960 Speaker 3: maybe because they're not black dudes. But you know, when 1800 01:27:38,040 --> 01:27:41,360 Speaker 3: it's like they want somebody to come in shit on Kaepernick, 1801 01:27:41,400 --> 01:27:44,400 Speaker 3: it's normally some black dude getting the number one, you know, 1802 01:27:44,760 --> 01:27:47,639 Speaker 3: most attention for shitting on Kaepernick because it's some nigga 1803 01:27:47,680 --> 01:27:50,360 Speaker 3: that's willing to do it, you know, and get all 1804 01:27:50,439 --> 01:27:51,400 Speaker 3: and white people can. 1805 01:27:51,600 --> 01:27:54,760 Speaker 5: Be behind them, like, yeah, tell them, Jason, you know 1806 01:27:55,280 --> 01:27:57,080 Speaker 5: that they are willing to do it. 1807 01:27:57,240 --> 01:28:00,800 Speaker 3: So Anyway, all that to say, Man, I don't know 1808 01:28:00,840 --> 01:28:02,800 Speaker 3: how people are gonna receive what I say sometimes because 1809 01:28:02,800 --> 01:28:06,479 Speaker 3: I'm like, I hope motherfuckers can't understand where I'm coming 1810 01:28:06,520 --> 01:28:10,120 Speaker 3: from and they don't think that I'm crazy or or 1811 01:28:10,920 --> 01:28:13,000 Speaker 3: they're gonna they need to come down on me, because 1812 01:28:13,520 --> 01:28:14,719 Speaker 3: I'm like, if these other. 1813 01:28:14,640 --> 01:28:16,719 Speaker 5: Motherfuckers can cook, I feel like I should be able. 1814 01:28:16,560 --> 01:28:21,040 Speaker 3: To cook too. All right, anyway, Sorry, no next onok Oh, 1815 01:28:22,120 --> 01:28:22,840 Speaker 3: I know that was long. 1816 01:28:22,920 --> 01:28:29,320 Speaker 11: Sorry, Hello Roding Karen. This is I shit Akaa grips 1817 01:28:29,439 --> 01:28:33,599 Speaker 11: Mama on Twitter and I was listening to the podcast 1818 01:28:33,680 --> 01:28:35,639 Speaker 11: today as I have been doing since I found out 1819 01:28:35,720 --> 01:28:39,400 Speaker 11: that I was but four months pregnant last year or 1820 01:28:39,479 --> 01:28:41,920 Speaker 11: the year before I got like in twenty fifteen, and 1821 01:28:42,040 --> 01:28:43,560 Speaker 11: I got turned on to you guys or whatever. And 1822 01:28:43,640 --> 01:28:45,800 Speaker 11: I want to start off by saying, Karen, you are 1823 01:28:46,720 --> 01:28:50,519 Speaker 11: my cutting in my head. You are like noted brown 1824 01:28:50,560 --> 01:28:55,200 Speaker 11: sugar on sweet potatoes and honey butter on biscuits. And 1825 01:28:55,360 --> 01:29:01,920 Speaker 11: I absolutely love you, your'am and rod you sir, Oh 1826 01:29:02,000 --> 01:29:08,720 Speaker 11: my goodness, you're insightfulness and just everything you say it's 1827 01:29:08,840 --> 01:29:14,000 Speaker 11: funny and sarcastic and all the word comes and just oh, 1828 01:29:14,120 --> 01:29:18,479 Speaker 11: my goodness, sir, you are extreme this like there's no 1829 01:29:18,600 --> 01:29:20,720 Speaker 11: words or whatever. And I've been saying I'm going to 1830 01:29:20,800 --> 01:29:23,040 Speaker 11: call you guys or at least send an email or 1831 01:29:23,040 --> 01:29:25,680 Speaker 11: I don't know how long, and so I finally got 1832 01:29:25,720 --> 01:29:27,280 Speaker 11: time to do it. I get my baby at bath, 1833 01:29:27,360 --> 01:29:30,160 Speaker 11: I'm making the bottles and I ain't sending you guys 1834 01:29:30,200 --> 01:29:32,679 Speaker 11: in message dukes. And I told Rod that I would 1835 01:29:32,840 --> 01:29:35,439 Speaker 11: because he followed me on Twitter, and I'm like, oh, 1836 01:29:35,520 --> 01:29:39,240 Speaker 11: my goodness, this is yeah, this is something, this is great, 1837 01:29:39,400 --> 01:29:41,760 Speaker 11: this is yeah, something serious is going to you know, 1838 01:29:41,880 --> 01:29:44,720 Speaker 11: going on. There's a shift in the atmosphere and yeah, 1839 01:29:44,760 --> 01:29:47,240 Speaker 11: it's going down, yes, sir. So I want to thank you, sad, 1840 01:29:47,720 --> 01:29:49,120 Speaker 11: and I want to thank you guys for you know, 1841 01:29:49,439 --> 01:29:52,599 Speaker 11: just putting out the hits every you know, all five days. 1842 01:29:52,600 --> 01:29:54,800 Speaker 11: I'm not a premium members of yet or whatever. Like 1843 01:29:54,840 --> 01:29:57,599 Speaker 11: I just had a baby, so yeah that's a whole 1844 01:29:57,640 --> 01:30:00,800 Speaker 11: bunch or whatever. But yeah, I listen to you right 1845 01:30:00,920 --> 01:30:02,640 Speaker 11: speak or whatever, and you know the different you know, 1846 01:30:03,920 --> 01:30:06,880 Speaker 11: topics that you guys talk about and and I just 1847 01:30:06,960 --> 01:30:08,439 Speaker 11: see it and not so yeah. 1848 01:30:08,520 --> 01:30:10,160 Speaker 3: I so try to. 1849 01:30:10,160 --> 01:30:13,200 Speaker 11: Create an environment of open mindedness and everything for my friend, 1850 01:30:13,240 --> 01:30:14,760 Speaker 11: even though my son is he just turned ten months 1851 01:30:14,760 --> 01:30:16,040 Speaker 11: old or whatever. But I still want him to be 1852 01:30:16,720 --> 01:30:22,840 Speaker 11: as just progressive and open minded and not hyper masculine 1853 01:30:23,160 --> 01:30:26,800 Speaker 11: and not misogynistic and not self loathing. And I just 1854 01:30:26,920 --> 01:30:28,640 Speaker 11: want him to be to grow up to be, you know, 1855 01:30:28,720 --> 01:30:31,840 Speaker 11: the great black man caring that you have. And yeah, 1856 01:30:32,080 --> 01:30:34,160 Speaker 11: I love you guys, a lively chemistry black love. 1857 01:30:34,280 --> 01:30:34,479 Speaker 2: Yay. 1858 01:30:35,520 --> 01:30:37,320 Speaker 11: I love you guys and my cousins in my head. 1859 01:30:37,640 --> 01:30:40,800 Speaker 11: And you know, just be strong, stay blessed, and I 1860 01:30:40,880 --> 01:30:42,719 Speaker 11: love you guys, and I hope you have a wonderful 1861 01:30:42,720 --> 01:30:44,920 Speaker 11: weekend and a good week all right, love you bye. 1862 01:30:48,640 --> 01:30:48,840 Speaker 6: Yeah. 1863 01:30:49,360 --> 01:30:53,160 Speaker 3: First of all, caring sounds delicious. Okay, so like my 1864 01:30:53,280 --> 01:30:54,519 Speaker 3: description I didn't get. 1865 01:30:54,880 --> 01:30:55,240 Speaker 5: I didn't. 1866 01:30:55,439 --> 01:31:01,320 Speaker 3: I wasn't like a well cooked steak, brown sugar, sweet. 1867 01:31:01,040 --> 01:31:04,320 Speaker 5: Potatoes and stuff now delicious right Uh. 1868 01:31:04,479 --> 01:31:07,160 Speaker 3: And then as far as following you on Twitter, it 1869 01:31:07,280 --> 01:31:09,160 Speaker 3: must have felt the same way I felt when Post 1870 01:31:09,200 --> 01:31:11,120 Speaker 3: Big Finds followed me back on Twitter. 1871 01:31:11,760 --> 01:31:11,880 Speaker 4: Uh. 1872 01:31:12,960 --> 01:31:15,600 Speaker 3: Shout out to post Big Fines. Okay, you're doing the 1873 01:31:15,680 --> 01:31:18,439 Speaker 3: Lord's work out there, guys. Uh, but not seriously, thank 1874 01:31:18,479 --> 01:31:21,879 Speaker 3: you for calling in. Got two more messages. 1875 01:31:24,080 --> 01:31:28,080 Speaker 13: I can this is dead again. A little bit behind 1876 01:31:28,120 --> 01:31:30,320 Speaker 13: the episodes, but I just got to the one with 1877 01:31:31,640 --> 01:31:35,519 Speaker 13: talking about the violence against women, and sorry, I just 1878 01:31:35,600 --> 01:31:40,600 Speaker 13: really wanted to communce you guys on the you know, 1879 01:31:40,760 --> 01:31:48,880 Speaker 13: having a conversation actually my recent like x or whatever. 1880 01:31:50,040 --> 01:31:52,599 Speaker 15: He's exactly like the type of guy that you would 1881 01:31:52,600 --> 01:31:56,680 Speaker 15: just gotten ride. I can't remember what you guys were 1882 01:31:56,720 --> 01:32:00,880 Speaker 15: talking about, but you were saying something about previously on 1883 01:32:00,960 --> 01:32:04,240 Speaker 15: the show about like an opinion that black men had 1884 01:32:04,360 --> 01:32:08,320 Speaker 15: on something, and like, you know, I asked him to 1885 01:32:08,400 --> 01:32:09,760 Speaker 15: listen to the show to be like, you know, this 1886 01:32:09,840 --> 01:32:12,519 Speaker 15: is what I'm talking about when I say black men 1887 01:32:12,680 --> 01:32:15,160 Speaker 15: have a certain like still have a certain like male 1888 01:32:15,240 --> 01:32:19,160 Speaker 15: privilege over black women. And he said this like sat 1889 01:32:19,240 --> 01:32:21,519 Speaker 15: exact thing of like, oh, these are just people on 1890 01:32:21,600 --> 01:32:22,160 Speaker 15: the internet. 1891 01:32:22,320 --> 01:32:23,280 Speaker 11: They're just trolling. 1892 01:32:23,479 --> 01:32:26,439 Speaker 13: And I'm like, but I'm like, actually, people are intending 1893 01:32:26,439 --> 01:32:28,800 Speaker 13: to be more honest or what they really feel, you know, 1894 01:32:28,880 --> 01:32:31,920 Speaker 13: on the internet because of you know, the anminity. 1895 01:32:32,600 --> 01:32:35,240 Speaker 14: And also. 1896 01:32:36,560 --> 01:32:38,400 Speaker 13: That's what I told him. I'm was like, you are 1897 01:32:38,560 --> 01:32:41,679 Speaker 13: acting just like white people ask when we bring up racism, 1898 01:32:41,840 --> 01:32:45,160 Speaker 13: because an example I was trying to give was like 1899 01:32:45,920 --> 01:32:48,559 Speaker 13: the whole you know, when it came out about Feldman 1900 01:32:48,640 --> 01:32:51,000 Speaker 13: women being raised by more house. 1901 01:32:50,880 --> 01:32:53,800 Speaker 15: Men and the schools basically just you know, pushing men 1902 01:32:53,960 --> 01:32:54,400 Speaker 15: the rugs. 1903 01:32:55,000 --> 01:32:56,479 Speaker 2: And he was like, oh, so. 1904 01:32:58,040 --> 01:33:01,120 Speaker 13: Black men have a privilege over women when you know, 1905 01:33:01,280 --> 01:33:03,000 Speaker 13: when it comes to rape, you know, when it comes 1906 01:33:03,040 --> 01:33:05,920 Speaker 13: to rape. And you know, he brought up about black men, 1907 01:33:06,000 --> 01:33:08,240 Speaker 13: you know, being fosterly accused of ray about white women 1908 01:33:08,560 --> 01:33:12,760 Speaker 13: and like, you know, the over sexualization of you know, 1909 01:33:12,880 --> 01:33:15,960 Speaker 13: satilizing that just about a black man by white women 1910 01:33:16,120 --> 01:33:18,880 Speaker 13: or whoever. And I'm like, yeah, that's all untrue, but 1911 01:33:19,000 --> 01:33:21,880 Speaker 13: it's not either or I'm like, that's because that happened, 1912 01:33:21,920 --> 01:33:26,040 Speaker 13: doesn't mean that when black men attack black women that 1913 01:33:26,640 --> 01:33:31,400 Speaker 13: that that's not you know, also a disparity there. I'm like, 1914 01:33:31,520 --> 01:33:35,679 Speaker 13: you know, prime example, the grim Sleeper and I forget 1915 01:33:35,720 --> 01:33:42,400 Speaker 13: the other guy's name somebody, but like they were prolific actually, 1916 01:33:42,479 --> 01:33:45,800 Speaker 13: like black serial killers that were killing Black women, mainly 1917 01:33:45,960 --> 01:33:49,439 Speaker 13: ones that were either drug addicts or maybe prostitutes in 1918 01:33:49,720 --> 01:33:54,160 Speaker 13: like the nineties and eighties in other places people, particularly 1919 01:33:54,200 --> 01:33:56,400 Speaker 13: Los Angeles, And the reason why they were able to 1920 01:33:56,439 --> 01:33:59,679 Speaker 13: get away with it so for so long was because 1921 01:33:59,840 --> 01:34:02,040 Speaker 13: the beliefs didn't care. Oh it was just you know, 1922 01:34:02,360 --> 01:34:04,840 Speaker 13: black women and oh the drug addicts. So you know, 1923 01:34:04,960 --> 01:34:08,200 Speaker 13: they was like they were not doing a full blown, 1924 01:34:08,280 --> 01:34:09,960 Speaker 13: you know, investigation, and so. 1925 01:34:10,320 --> 01:34:11,320 Speaker 2: It really does. 1926 01:34:13,240 --> 01:34:16,240 Speaker 13: Just fad mean that like we have this issue and 1927 01:34:16,320 --> 01:34:21,000 Speaker 13: then like black men can't see that, uh they can't 1928 01:34:21,080 --> 01:34:24,840 Speaker 13: see that hypocrisy that they have against women, but that 1929 01:34:24,920 --> 01:34:25,920 Speaker 13: they can relate. 1930 01:34:25,760 --> 01:34:26,960 Speaker 2: To racial issues. 1931 01:34:27,040 --> 01:34:29,280 Speaker 13: So I just really can mean, you guys are seeking 1932 01:34:29,360 --> 01:34:30,439 Speaker 13: out on it, and. 1933 01:34:31,960 --> 01:34:33,760 Speaker 15: Thank you so much for being so open about it. 1934 01:34:33,880 --> 01:34:35,120 Speaker 15: But all right, love the show. 1935 01:34:38,640 --> 01:34:41,519 Speaker 3: Did you try handing them with pepsi? Because that's what 1936 01:34:41,600 --> 01:34:44,920 Speaker 3: I do. I tried to hand some pepsi at the 1937 01:34:44,920 --> 01:34:47,639 Speaker 3: basketball I call it this morning, and uh, brothers wasn't 1938 01:34:47,680 --> 01:34:49,600 Speaker 3: feeling it this week. Still got a pepsi in the 1939 01:34:49,600 --> 01:34:51,320 Speaker 3: fridge right now, but you know what, I just call it. 1940 01:34:52,000 --> 01:34:54,000 Speaker 3: That's just my spare, you know. 1941 01:34:56,640 --> 01:35:03,719 Speaker 5: But yeah, So anyway, one of the things that she brought. 1942 01:35:03,600 --> 01:35:07,000 Speaker 3: Up was just the fact that you know, even in 1943 01:35:07,080 --> 01:35:09,680 Speaker 3: a relationship like this is a dude that claims to 1944 01:35:09,800 --> 01:35:13,439 Speaker 3: love you, claims to want to be with you, and 1945 01:35:13,640 --> 01:35:16,719 Speaker 3: you're talking to him and he can't hear you. Essentially, 1946 01:35:16,840 --> 01:35:21,240 Speaker 3: he like that must be so frustrating because to me, 1947 01:35:21,400 --> 01:35:23,200 Speaker 3: that's not love. If you can't listen to me, you 1948 01:35:23,280 --> 01:35:26,799 Speaker 3: don't love me if you dismiss me and think immediately 1949 01:35:26,880 --> 01:35:29,639 Speaker 3: my problems aren't serious. My point of view is quote 1950 01:35:29,720 --> 01:35:32,639 Speaker 3: unquote emotional, and you're the one that's logical and all 1951 01:35:32,680 --> 01:35:34,760 Speaker 3: that kind of shit, where like, emotions don't have a 1952 01:35:34,840 --> 01:35:36,439 Speaker 3: logic to it, because there's not a problem with you 1953 01:35:36,640 --> 01:35:39,240 Speaker 3: with there's not a problem with someone being more prone 1954 01:35:39,320 --> 01:35:43,040 Speaker 3: to giving quote unquote to their emotions than another person 1955 01:35:43,200 --> 01:35:46,360 Speaker 3: as But emotions have a logic too. You know, if 1956 01:35:46,400 --> 01:35:49,439 Speaker 3: you do blank, there's normally a reaction of blank, and 1957 01:35:49,560 --> 01:35:52,320 Speaker 3: we treat it like, well, that's women's shit. But like 1958 01:35:52,400 --> 01:35:54,840 Speaker 3: I said, men's emotions get validated all the time. When 1959 01:35:54,840 --> 01:35:57,080 Speaker 3: we're stirred to anger, people go, what's wrong? What happened? 1960 01:35:57,080 --> 01:35:59,639 Speaker 3: Why are you angry? They don't say, well, you must 1961 01:35:59,680 --> 01:36:02,960 Speaker 3: be angry about nothing, right, Like that's one of the 1962 01:36:03,040 --> 01:36:06,080 Speaker 3: parts about you know, when women talk to men in relationships, 1963 01:36:06,120 --> 01:36:08,240 Speaker 3: one of the things that will often come up is 1964 01:36:08,320 --> 01:36:11,920 Speaker 3: how kind of condescending and patronizing and dismissive men can 1965 01:36:12,000 --> 01:36:14,400 Speaker 3: be of the very real concerns of women. It's like, 1966 01:36:14,680 --> 01:36:16,280 Speaker 3: she just need to get it out, she just want 1967 01:36:16,280 --> 01:36:19,160 Speaker 3: to talk, and you know, it's it's definitely part of 1968 01:36:19,439 --> 01:36:21,560 Speaker 3: steep than our culture and shit, and you know, the 1969 01:36:21,640 --> 01:36:22,439 Speaker 3: running gag and. 1970 01:36:22,479 --> 01:36:24,439 Speaker 5: Joke and I got to hear about this bitch at 1971 01:36:24,479 --> 01:36:24,960 Speaker 5: work and shit. 1972 01:36:25,080 --> 01:36:27,760 Speaker 3: You know, I get it. But sometimes it's just two 1973 01:36:27,800 --> 01:36:30,240 Speaker 3: people communicating and you supposed to care about each other. 1974 01:36:30,720 --> 01:36:32,400 Speaker 3: And that's part of the deal you made to be 1975 01:36:32,520 --> 01:36:36,560 Speaker 3: serious and respect and sincere and have respect to be 1976 01:36:36,640 --> 01:36:40,280 Speaker 3: sinspirit s here with that persons. So when someone's telling you, like, listen, 1977 01:36:40,479 --> 01:36:42,720 Speaker 3: this is how I feel. We are being let down 1978 01:36:43,400 --> 01:36:45,840 Speaker 3: by you and people like you, and your whole thing 1979 01:36:46,000 --> 01:36:49,400 Speaker 3: is basically not the most important thing to take on 1980 01:36:49,479 --> 01:36:51,400 Speaker 3: this conversation is I have it worse than you. So 1981 01:36:51,520 --> 01:36:55,040 Speaker 3: thatfore anything you bring up is already invalid. You can't 1982 01:36:55,840 --> 01:37:01,840 Speaker 3: you can't have you can't have an issue basically, right, 1983 01:37:01,960 --> 01:37:04,800 Speaker 3: it's bigger than mine, right, Like it's funny because he's like, 1984 01:37:05,200 --> 01:37:07,800 Speaker 3: it's not the same as he's doing it, you know, 1985 01:37:08,080 --> 01:37:10,760 Speaker 3: Like no, no, no, no, no, it's not the same 1986 01:37:11,120 --> 01:37:11,760 Speaker 3: issues for you. 1987 01:37:12,400 --> 01:37:13,679 Speaker 6: But is it not an issue? 1988 01:37:14,920 --> 01:37:16,519 Speaker 5: You know, Like, like I'll tell you. 1989 01:37:16,640 --> 01:37:21,160 Speaker 3: What if you just suddenly start talking about some dude 1990 01:37:22,479 --> 01:37:24,280 Speaker 3: following you in a parking lot every day after work, 1991 01:37:24,400 --> 01:37:27,360 Speaker 3: he would be nervous and concerned the shit. You know 1992 01:37:27,400 --> 01:37:30,479 Speaker 3: what I mean, why why men aren't dangerous men? It's 1993 01:37:30,560 --> 01:37:33,400 Speaker 3: not Black men don't have a problem with black women. No, 1994 01:37:33,600 --> 01:37:36,080 Speaker 3: you do get nervous because we do worry about that shit. 1995 01:37:36,160 --> 01:37:39,439 Speaker 3: It's not we just feel some level of attachment to 1996 01:37:39,520 --> 01:37:43,400 Speaker 3: the idea that you would notice to be honest. So anyway, 1997 01:37:43,560 --> 01:37:45,920 Speaker 3: that's sad to hear man I sound like he's an 1998 01:37:45,960 --> 01:37:48,960 Speaker 3: ex so you know, but I still also feel kind 1999 01:37:49,000 --> 01:37:52,000 Speaker 3: of sad because, like, I hope people like that learn 2000 01:37:52,320 --> 01:37:54,559 Speaker 3: even if it's not from even if he y'all don't 2001 01:37:54,600 --> 01:37:57,599 Speaker 3: be together, I hope he learned something from that conversation. 2002 01:37:57,800 --> 01:38:00,599 Speaker 5: Maybe if he listens to the show, maybe he might 2003 01:38:00,720 --> 01:38:01,240 Speaker 5: learn something. 2004 01:38:01,320 --> 01:38:03,920 Speaker 3: But I hope that people kind of do take the 2005 01:38:04,040 --> 01:38:08,120 Speaker 3: idea of like winning the Oppression Olympics, doesn't you don't 2006 01:38:08,160 --> 01:38:13,280 Speaker 3: win anything. So all right, but thank you for calling 2007 01:38:13,400 --> 01:38:15,519 Speaker 3: and JA and I'm sorry you had to go through that. 2008 01:38:15,640 --> 01:38:18,759 Speaker 3: That's that's true, that's trash, But that's a very typical 2009 01:38:19,040 --> 01:38:21,960 Speaker 3: response for a lot of a lot of dudes while 2010 01:38:22,000 --> 01:38:23,960 Speaker 3: they're using the male privilege by telling you how we 2011 01:38:24,040 --> 01:38:27,479 Speaker 3: don't have it because we're black, right, And then. 2012 01:38:27,760 --> 01:38:32,320 Speaker 10: In a woman's mind, it's like, okay, so only concerns 2013 01:38:32,439 --> 01:38:34,080 Speaker 10: and Madden, the relationship is yours. 2014 01:38:34,240 --> 01:38:37,120 Speaker 4: My concerns don't matter. So what am I here? Am 2015 01:38:37,160 --> 01:38:38,800 Speaker 4: I here just for you to fuck me? That that's 2016 01:38:38,880 --> 01:38:39,880 Speaker 4: I'm all my whole purpose. 2017 01:38:39,960 --> 01:38:41,840 Speaker 10: I have no other purpose than for you to own 2018 01:38:41,920 --> 01:38:44,960 Speaker 10: me and fuck me, because you obviously don't care enough 2019 01:38:45,000 --> 01:38:48,120 Speaker 10: about me to actually here and love me enough to 2020 01:38:48,240 --> 01:38:50,040 Speaker 10: actually hear me out right? 2021 01:38:51,920 --> 01:38:52,280 Speaker 3: All right? 2022 01:38:52,520 --> 01:38:56,839 Speaker 5: Last voicemail guys, Hey. 2023 01:38:56,760 --> 01:38:57,880 Speaker 14: Guys, this is you. 2024 01:38:57,960 --> 01:39:02,080 Speaker 8: Ain't got the answer. And I've been thinking about all 2025 01:39:02,160 --> 01:39:04,240 Speaker 8: week whether I should write this in or call in, 2026 01:39:04,400 --> 01:39:06,760 Speaker 8: and I decided to call last minute. And I just 2027 01:39:06,880 --> 01:39:10,679 Speaker 8: wanted to thank you guys for speaking about domestic violence 2028 01:39:11,040 --> 01:39:15,880 Speaker 8: and how we normalize it. I personally just went through 2029 01:39:15,920 --> 01:39:19,280 Speaker 8: an experience and because of what I heard with Rod 2030 01:39:19,400 --> 01:39:24,120 Speaker 8: and gave me the courage to press charges. And I 2031 01:39:24,280 --> 01:39:26,200 Speaker 8: just wanted to call in, so you guys, thank you 2032 01:39:26,439 --> 01:39:31,080 Speaker 8: because you know, what happened this week with that guy 2033 01:39:31,360 --> 01:39:35,040 Speaker 8: is such something that I could see my extenting and 2034 01:39:35,200 --> 01:39:38,599 Speaker 8: blaming me, and so it just kind of hearing Rod 2035 01:39:38,680 --> 01:39:40,520 Speaker 8: as a man say something. 2036 01:39:40,400 --> 01:39:41,000 Speaker 3: Like that just. 2037 01:39:42,479 --> 01:39:45,080 Speaker 8: Kind of gave me the push that that could be me, 2038 01:39:45,560 --> 01:39:48,640 Speaker 8: It could be any woman and it's not going to 2039 01:39:48,720 --> 01:39:54,679 Speaker 8: stop until we get these crazy, unstable people under control. 2040 01:39:54,800 --> 01:39:57,280 Speaker 8: And I just want to personally thank you for giving 2041 01:39:57,360 --> 01:40:00,560 Speaker 8: me that push and that courage that you know, not 2042 01:40:00,800 --> 01:40:04,200 Speaker 8: all men are like that, but if we don't speak out, 2043 01:40:05,280 --> 01:40:10,400 Speaker 8: no one's gonna say anything. And yeah, sorry, I'm a waterhead. 2044 01:40:10,680 --> 01:40:12,960 Speaker 8: I know y'all hear any kind of line hient and stuff, 2045 01:40:13,000 --> 01:40:16,080 Speaker 8: but I sincerely want us to reach out and say 2046 01:40:18,400 --> 01:40:23,040 Speaker 8: thank you, and hopefully this can encourage other women to 2047 01:40:23,280 --> 01:40:27,080 Speaker 8: also take that step, because it's not normal for somebody 2048 01:40:27,200 --> 01:40:32,200 Speaker 8: to think that they have that much control over you. Yeah, 2049 01:40:32,479 --> 01:40:34,400 Speaker 8: but I said, I just wanted to take a moment 2050 01:40:34,479 --> 01:40:36,800 Speaker 8: out say thank you so much. And I appreciate you 2051 01:40:36,920 --> 01:40:39,360 Speaker 8: guys for everything that you do. I appreciate you for 2052 01:40:39,520 --> 01:40:43,040 Speaker 8: taking out that entire hour forty five minutes or whatever 2053 01:40:43,160 --> 01:40:48,200 Speaker 8: that was to talk about how this is affecting so 2054 01:40:48,360 --> 01:40:52,120 Speaker 8: many black women out here and we can only do 2055 01:40:52,240 --> 01:40:54,360 Speaker 8: so much. We need our black men to stand up 2056 01:40:54,400 --> 01:40:57,439 Speaker 8: and support us. So thank you, Rod, and thank you Karen, 2057 01:40:57,640 --> 01:41:01,360 Speaker 8: and I love you guys so much listening and and 2058 01:41:01,400 --> 01:41:04,759 Speaker 8: all that good stuff stuff. Thanks for making a change 2059 01:41:04,760 --> 01:41:06,760 Speaker 8: in my life. And I'm sure and so many other 2060 01:41:06,800 --> 01:41:09,400 Speaker 8: people well you guys have a great Saturday. 2061 01:41:09,720 --> 01:41:09,960 Speaker 11: Bye. 2062 01:41:10,880 --> 01:41:16,519 Speaker 3: Oh man, Yeah, thank you really not not us, because, uh, 2063 01:41:16,760 --> 01:41:19,680 Speaker 3: that's a very brave thing for you to do. I 2064 01:41:19,920 --> 01:41:22,320 Speaker 3: can't even imagine, like I said, I can't even imagine 2065 01:41:22,360 --> 01:41:26,679 Speaker 3: going through it. So, you know, the fear and sometimes 2066 01:41:27,680 --> 01:41:30,320 Speaker 3: when people tell people, well you just how to go 2067 01:41:30,360 --> 01:41:34,280 Speaker 3: to police, people underestimate the fear and the victim like, 2068 01:41:34,439 --> 01:41:37,680 Speaker 3: like they literally underestimate the fear. Like and that's the 2069 01:41:37,760 --> 01:41:40,800 Speaker 3: one time act like police know what they're doing, Like 2070 01:41:41,000 --> 01:41:43,080 Speaker 3: we don't trust them to do a whole lot of 2071 01:41:43,120 --> 01:41:44,720 Speaker 3: other ship. Some of y'all don't trust the police to 2072 01:41:44,800 --> 01:41:47,960 Speaker 3: jump your car, But that's the one time we're like, 2073 01:41:48,080 --> 01:41:49,599 Speaker 3: we'll put your hands in the life of the police. 2074 01:41:49,600 --> 01:41:51,160 Speaker 3: They'll put your life in the hands the police. They'll 2075 01:41:51,200 --> 01:41:54,280 Speaker 3: figure it out. But it takes bravery to make to 2076 01:41:54,360 --> 01:41:59,000 Speaker 3: get that process started. Not to mention you know, it's dangerous, man. 2077 01:41:59,080 --> 01:42:01,800 Speaker 3: A lot of these dues. It's when women take the 2078 01:42:01,920 --> 01:42:06,120 Speaker 3: steps to protect themselves that they escalate the violence, right. 2079 01:42:07,040 --> 01:42:09,160 Speaker 3: So you know, I really do hope it works out 2080 01:42:09,200 --> 01:42:11,760 Speaker 3: for the best. I really do. I think you're a 2081 01:42:11,800 --> 01:42:16,000 Speaker 3: superhero for even you know, taking those steps because you know, 2082 01:42:16,200 --> 01:42:18,280 Speaker 3: self protection is the number one thing, man, You have 2083 01:42:18,400 --> 01:42:22,519 Speaker 3: to protect yourself in these situations, and people make it 2084 01:42:22,600 --> 01:42:25,120 Speaker 3: sound so easy when they're not going through it, and 2085 01:42:25,240 --> 01:42:28,040 Speaker 3: they vibe people don't have no experience dealing with this shit, 2086 01:42:28,120 --> 01:42:31,680 Speaker 3: and they just tell people all kinds of bullshit that 2087 01:42:31,800 --> 01:42:36,639 Speaker 3: they're you know, but you know, maybe there's some experts 2088 01:42:36,680 --> 01:42:38,560 Speaker 3: in your local area, maybe there's some shelters or some 2089 01:42:38,600 --> 01:42:41,799 Speaker 3: people you can talk to as well to take steps 2090 01:42:41,880 --> 01:42:44,839 Speaker 3: to make sure that you're you know that you're protected 2091 01:42:45,439 --> 01:42:48,840 Speaker 3: whenever this happens, because like I said, it can be 2092 01:42:49,040 --> 01:42:51,519 Speaker 3: very dangerous, It can be very lonely. You have family 2093 01:42:51,560 --> 01:42:54,200 Speaker 3: and friends that isolate, women that make it feel like 2094 01:42:54,320 --> 01:42:57,439 Speaker 3: you're doing the wrong thing for defending yourself and for 2095 01:42:58,320 --> 01:43:01,519 Speaker 3: protecting yourself, or you should be happy to have a man, 2096 01:43:01,800 --> 01:43:03,920 Speaker 3: or because they don't see the worst size of him. 2097 01:43:04,000 --> 01:43:07,280 Speaker 3: Somehow you're the bad guy because he ain't like that 2098 01:43:07,400 --> 01:43:09,000 Speaker 3: with them. It's not he walk in their house and 2099 01:43:09,040 --> 01:43:11,680 Speaker 3: beat them up. So you know all that stuff. Man, 2100 01:43:11,760 --> 01:43:15,920 Speaker 3: I you know, I'm glad that I'm just I'm happy 2101 01:43:16,000 --> 01:43:18,360 Speaker 3: for you, and I hope, I really do hope it 2102 01:43:18,439 --> 01:43:19,360 Speaker 3: works out for the best. 2103 01:43:21,800 --> 01:43:22,439 Speaker 5: All right, man? 2104 01:43:22,560 --> 01:43:26,240 Speaker 3: That was wow? All right? Next let's go to the email. 2105 01:43:26,320 --> 01:43:29,519 Speaker 3: That's all the voicemails. We got the emails, and we're 2106 01:43:29,520 --> 01:43:34,400 Speaker 3: gonna get out of here. So this got John Wright saying, Hi, 2107 01:43:34,520 --> 01:43:37,160 Speaker 3: I love y'all, Love you guys. Rob mentioned that he 2108 01:43:37,200 --> 01:43:40,040 Speaker 3: gets his political cues from black women. You know who 2109 01:43:40,040 --> 01:43:43,599 Speaker 3: else gets his political wisdom from black women? Barack Obama. 2110 01:43:44,040 --> 01:43:45,640 Speaker 3: He says it near the end of this video, and 2111 01:43:45,720 --> 01:43:50,519 Speaker 3: it's a YouTube video, says Barack Obama is okay with criticism. God, 2112 01:43:51,160 --> 01:43:52,160 Speaker 3: I miss this nigga. 2113 01:43:52,880 --> 01:43:53,639 Speaker 5: See that was the thing. 2114 01:43:53,760 --> 01:43:53,960 Speaker 6: Man. 2115 01:43:55,880 --> 01:43:59,280 Speaker 5: I feel a certain level of unfairness has been. 2116 01:44:00,680 --> 01:44:02,880 Speaker 3: He down on this dude. But I also feel like 2117 01:44:02,960 --> 01:44:05,360 Speaker 3: he's one of the best people ever to be able 2118 01:44:05,400 --> 01:44:11,400 Speaker 3: to handle it. Like I don't feel as defensive about 2119 01:44:11,520 --> 01:44:15,200 Speaker 3: him is I think I would if I felt that 2120 01:44:15,280 --> 01:44:17,360 Speaker 3: he couldn't handle it. Like sometimes I hear people's complaints 2121 01:44:17,400 --> 01:44:19,240 Speaker 3: and I'm like, what that person wants is a perfect 2122 01:44:19,880 --> 01:44:24,040 Speaker 3: president that can fix the world by hisself and gets 2123 01:44:24,160 --> 01:44:26,560 Speaker 3: every opinion right and never has to think about it 2124 01:44:26,760 --> 01:44:30,720 Speaker 3: and always agrees with the most extreme leftist view out there. 2125 01:44:31,400 --> 01:44:33,760 Speaker 3: And I don't think that person is possible. But I 2126 01:44:33,880 --> 01:44:36,439 Speaker 3: do know is that Barack Obama would listen to you 2127 01:44:37,240 --> 01:44:39,800 Speaker 3: talk about why he ain't shit and try to figure 2128 01:44:39,840 --> 01:44:42,000 Speaker 3: out if there's a way to resolve that or if 2129 01:44:42,000 --> 01:44:43,840 Speaker 3: it's just something he's gonna have to live with. And 2130 01:44:43,960 --> 01:44:47,599 Speaker 3: that's something I really really really respect about him as 2131 01:44:47,600 --> 01:44:51,240 Speaker 3: a person more than just as a president. That's a 2132 01:44:51,560 --> 01:44:54,200 Speaker 3: difficult level of self evaluation to get to. Most people 2133 01:44:54,240 --> 01:44:57,120 Speaker 3: will never reach that level of self evaluation. I don't 2134 01:44:57,160 --> 01:44:59,639 Speaker 3: know that I'll attain that kind of shit, like where 2135 01:44:59,720 --> 01:45:02,439 Speaker 3: somebody they can really come from my neck and I 2136 01:45:02,640 --> 01:45:09,600 Speaker 3: hear the pain and the what you call the sincerity 2137 01:45:09,920 --> 01:45:13,560 Speaker 3: and the the actual part of their argument that that 2138 01:45:14,040 --> 01:45:17,280 Speaker 3: make that that is valid the validity, I don't know 2139 01:45:17,360 --> 01:45:20,040 Speaker 3: that I got that. I don't know. Man like that 2140 01:45:20,160 --> 01:45:22,760 Speaker 3: dude sits down at sat down, and we're definitely gonna 2141 01:45:22,760 --> 01:45:25,920 Speaker 3: see the difference next four to eight years, because you know, 2142 01:45:26,120 --> 01:45:27,640 Speaker 3: this is a dude in the White House now. 2143 01:45:27,760 --> 01:45:28,920 Speaker 5: He ain't sitting now with no critics. 2144 01:45:28,920 --> 01:45:30,439 Speaker 3: He don't give a fuck what y'all have to say, 2145 01:45:30,840 --> 01:45:33,439 Speaker 3: y'all Like people say, well, black lives matter went away, 2146 01:45:34,360 --> 01:45:37,519 Speaker 3: black lives matter, No, people ain't listening whatever. That tactic 2147 01:45:37,640 --> 01:45:40,640 Speaker 3: of marching that shit is useless now, no offense. But 2148 01:45:41,400 --> 01:45:43,120 Speaker 3: you know, for a lot of people, not it's I 2149 01:45:43,160 --> 01:45:45,519 Speaker 3: shouldn't say us. For a lot of people, it's useless 2150 01:45:45,920 --> 01:45:49,599 Speaker 3: because you know, this administration has zero fucking ground they're 2151 01:45:49,600 --> 01:45:51,240 Speaker 3: gonna give. They're never gonna ask to me with you, 2152 01:45:51,479 --> 01:45:53,720 Speaker 3: They're never gonna see what your action plan is. They're 2153 01:45:53,840 --> 01:45:56,439 Speaker 3: never gonna see how they can incorporate into the law. 2154 01:45:56,479 --> 01:45:58,800 Speaker 3: If anything, they're gonna go against it. You're push back 2155 01:45:58,840 --> 01:46:00,240 Speaker 3: the things that weren't corporate. 2156 01:46:00,040 --> 01:46:04,920 Speaker 4: It into the law from the Obama administration against protesting. 2157 01:46:05,200 --> 01:46:05,400 Speaker 14: Yeah. 2158 01:46:05,680 --> 01:46:08,080 Speaker 3: So, I mean, and it was I think to me, 2159 01:46:09,000 --> 01:46:11,040 Speaker 3: I felt like it was obvious, but I was very 2160 01:46:11,120 --> 01:46:13,800 Speaker 3: hopeful that President Obama was a person that listened to 2161 01:46:13,840 --> 01:46:16,400 Speaker 3: black women. But you can look at the black women 2162 01:46:16,439 --> 01:46:18,920 Speaker 3: that worked at the White House, you look at his wife, 2163 01:46:19,200 --> 01:46:22,000 Speaker 3: you can look at the women that he chose for 2164 01:46:22,200 --> 01:46:28,040 Speaker 3: different positions within you know, within the staff and within 2165 01:46:28,160 --> 01:46:29,600 Speaker 3: the actual administration. 2166 01:46:30,200 --> 01:46:33,120 Speaker 5: You know, Valerie Jarrett, you know, even Loretta. 2167 01:46:32,800 --> 01:46:39,000 Speaker 3: Lynch, like, like, dude listens or he seems to listen 2168 01:46:39,080 --> 01:46:41,599 Speaker 3: to black women and take his cues from there. Uh, 2169 01:46:41,720 --> 01:46:44,320 Speaker 3: doesn't mean he's flawless, doesn't mean he's not gonna fuck up. 2170 01:46:44,479 --> 01:46:46,559 Speaker 3: I mean, you know, I was reading something today about 2171 01:46:46,600 --> 01:46:49,720 Speaker 3: how he learned a lot of his community organizing from 2172 01:46:49,720 --> 01:46:53,120 Speaker 3: a black woman in Chicago, and now that community felt, like, 2173 01:46:53,400 --> 01:46:56,760 Speaker 3: you know, once he became president, that they kind of 2174 01:46:56,800 --> 01:46:59,479 Speaker 3: felt left behind, Like you know, we wanted him to 2175 01:46:59,600 --> 01:47:02,519 Speaker 3: use his power as president to kind of like save 2176 01:47:02,720 --> 01:47:08,120 Speaker 3: this particular community. I can't, like I said, one, I 2177 01:47:08,200 --> 01:47:13,000 Speaker 3: can't even fathom the pressure that would put on him 2178 01:47:13,040 --> 01:47:15,560 Speaker 3: as a person, And I can't fathom the pressure that 2179 01:47:15,600 --> 01:47:18,479 Speaker 3: community felt either, you know, because it's like, you know, 2180 01:47:18,600 --> 01:47:21,639 Speaker 3: the dude that works Friz at McDonald's, I want my hookup, 2181 01:47:21,760 --> 01:47:24,679 Speaker 3: you know, but this is a life and death situation 2182 01:47:24,800 --> 01:47:26,400 Speaker 3: that I want my hook up in. It's not just 2183 01:47:26,800 --> 01:47:29,679 Speaker 3: me being greedy, like nigga, we need you to stop 2184 01:47:29,800 --> 01:47:34,479 Speaker 3: this genrification, to stop our houses from being bulldozed or whatever, 2185 01:47:34,560 --> 01:47:38,200 Speaker 3: you know, Like these are real lives being affected. One 2186 01:47:38,280 --> 01:47:41,400 Speaker 3: thing I wonder about that dude, and maybe in his 2187 01:47:41,520 --> 01:47:44,439 Speaker 3: book it'll come out, but I wonder how he deals 2188 01:47:44,479 --> 01:47:48,479 Speaker 3: with like either the guilt or the knowledge of how 2189 01:47:49,280 --> 01:47:51,439 Speaker 3: many more people he could have helped and wanted to 2190 01:47:51,520 --> 01:47:58,479 Speaker 3: help but people weren't with him, and literally much of 2191 01:47:58,520 --> 01:48:03,080 Speaker 3: the administration absolutely against him, like not just the Democrats 2192 01:48:03,120 --> 01:48:06,320 Speaker 3: that were like, I don't know if this is Pamplin Rocca. 2193 01:48:06,360 --> 01:48:09,320 Speaker 3: I'm gonna wait it out and see and blame you 2194 01:48:09,400 --> 01:48:11,200 Speaker 3: in eight years when it doesn't work out for me. 2195 01:48:12,400 --> 01:48:12,439 Speaker 10: Like. 2196 01:48:12,680 --> 01:48:15,200 Speaker 3: In addition to those people, he also had to deal 2197 01:48:15,240 --> 01:48:16,920 Speaker 3: with the people that were just out and out like 2198 01:48:17,479 --> 01:48:19,480 Speaker 3: we're never gonna support you because. 2199 01:48:19,240 --> 01:48:23,080 Speaker 5: You're ever yeah like so, but yeah, let me see 2200 01:48:23,080 --> 01:48:23,960 Speaker 5: why I played this video. 2201 01:48:24,680 --> 01:48:26,519 Speaker 9: One of the things that can come pretty early on 2202 01:48:26,680 --> 01:48:31,599 Speaker 9: to understand in this child is that there's Barack Obama 2203 01:48:31,720 --> 01:48:36,120 Speaker 9: the person, and there's Barack Obama the symbol or just 2204 01:48:36,240 --> 01:48:41,519 Speaker 9: a representative of power. And so when people criticize or 2205 01:48:41,640 --> 01:48:48,080 Speaker 9: respond negatively to me, usually they're responding to this character 2206 01:48:48,200 --> 01:48:50,880 Speaker 9: that they're seeing on TV called Barack Obama. And so 2207 01:48:51,120 --> 01:48:54,400 Speaker 9: you don't take it personally. You understand that if people 2208 01:48:54,439 --> 01:48:57,719 Speaker 9: are angry, then somehow the government's failing, then they're gonna 2209 01:48:57,720 --> 01:49:00,840 Speaker 9: work for the guy who represents government. I think where 2210 01:49:00,840 --> 01:49:05,680 Speaker 9: I get frustrated at times was the belief that the 2211 01:49:05,800 --> 01:49:07,960 Speaker 9: president can do anything if he just decides he wants 2212 01:49:08,000 --> 01:49:11,000 Speaker 9: to do it, and that sort of lack of awareness 2213 01:49:11,040 --> 01:49:15,800 Speaker 9: on apartment about the constraints of our political system, I 2214 01:49:15,920 --> 01:49:19,479 Speaker 9: think sometimes would lead me to mutter under my breath. 2215 01:49:21,320 --> 01:49:23,680 Speaker 8: Rarely did I lose in he. 2216 01:49:25,520 --> 01:49:32,080 Speaker 9: Usually I always tell my staff better is good. I'll 2217 01:49:32,160 --> 01:49:36,000 Speaker 9: take better every time, because better may not be as 2218 01:49:36,080 --> 01:49:39,960 Speaker 9: good as the best, but better is surprisingly hard to 2219 01:49:40,280 --> 01:49:45,880 Speaker 9: tak and better is actually harder than worse. I was 2220 01:49:45,920 --> 01:49:48,160 Speaker 9: pretty realistic to people about what I thought we could 2221 01:49:48,160 --> 01:49:52,759 Speaker 9: get done, trying to tap that expectations. I don't regret 2222 01:49:52,840 --> 01:49:58,160 Speaker 9: the further because I do believe the election of a 2223 01:49:58,720 --> 01:50:02,880 Speaker 9: African American to the most powerful office summer meant that, 2224 01:50:03,320 --> 01:50:08,200 Speaker 9: in some irreversible way, the world was different. I hang 2225 01:50:08,280 --> 01:50:12,679 Speaker 9: out with a lot of related black women, and they're 2226 01:50:12,720 --> 01:50:16,960 Speaker 9: not casual in their support of me. There is a 2227 01:50:17,080 --> 01:50:21,920 Speaker 9: lot of love forthcoming, partly because they understand the constraints 2228 01:50:22,560 --> 01:50:28,920 Speaker 9: of this society. As fervent as they were, as excited 2229 01:50:29,280 --> 01:50:31,559 Speaker 9: and happy as they were when I was late, they 2230 01:50:31,640 --> 01:50:34,760 Speaker 9: had to go to work the next morning, they still 2231 01:50:34,840 --> 01:50:39,120 Speaker 9: had trouble paying those bills. They didn't stop being grounded, 2232 01:50:39,520 --> 01:50:43,320 Speaker 9: And in many ways they're in my touch stop because 2233 01:50:43,400 --> 01:50:47,320 Speaker 9: they're what I meant when I talked about the audacity 2234 01:50:47,360 --> 01:50:50,519 Speaker 9: of them. Not blind optimists, but it's hope in the 2235 01:50:50,560 --> 01:50:53,840 Speaker 9: face of difficult That's what makes an optations. If at 2236 01:50:53,840 --> 01:50:56,840 Speaker 9: the end of my presidency they feel like I did 2237 01:50:56,880 --> 01:50:57,439 Speaker 9: a pretty. 2238 01:50:57,240 --> 01:51:02,599 Speaker 3: Good job, then I'll feel pretty good. Come through Rock. 2239 01:51:04,520 --> 01:51:05,000 Speaker 4: Beautiful. 2240 01:51:05,520 --> 01:51:07,640 Speaker 5: Yeah, you know, I know people are gonna ask for 2241 01:51:07,680 --> 01:51:08,200 Speaker 5: the link to this. 2242 01:51:09,320 --> 01:51:11,760 Speaker 3: Let me copy in. You know, I'll put it in 2243 01:51:11,800 --> 01:51:14,920 Speaker 3: the show notes. I want the leat that. You know. 2244 01:51:15,160 --> 01:51:18,599 Speaker 3: One of the things about that reminds me of why 2245 01:51:18,640 --> 01:51:21,639 Speaker 3: I don't fuck with Bernie Sanders. Come on, dog, because 2246 01:51:21,640 --> 01:51:24,280 Speaker 3: that dude doesn't listen to Black people and black women 2247 01:51:25,000 --> 01:51:28,040 Speaker 3: in particular. You can't just throw some mom Sanders up 2248 01:51:28,080 --> 01:51:30,639 Speaker 3: there and they be like all black women they voted 2249 01:51:30,680 --> 01:51:34,000 Speaker 3: for me and understand No, they don't, and you don't 2250 01:51:34,240 --> 01:51:37,360 Speaker 3: show enough difference to them and the DNC as well. 2251 01:51:37,840 --> 01:51:41,439 Speaker 3: Like black women are the lynch stuff. They are, they 2252 01:51:41,520 --> 01:51:46,200 Speaker 3: are the lynch pin of that party. They're the most uh, 2253 01:51:46,560 --> 01:51:49,880 Speaker 3: they're the most dedicated voters, they're the most dedicated supporters. 2254 01:51:50,360 --> 01:51:52,800 Speaker 3: That are the people that do the most work, and 2255 01:51:54,360 --> 01:51:57,720 Speaker 3: they also often get left behind when it comes to 2256 01:51:57,960 --> 01:52:01,200 Speaker 3: who's the leadership of the party. That party still has 2257 01:52:01,240 --> 01:52:03,800 Speaker 3: a lot to figure out and until it's a party 2258 01:52:03,880 --> 01:52:06,680 Speaker 3: that is led by and for black women, because like 2259 01:52:06,760 --> 01:52:09,000 Speaker 3: I said, once again, black women's concerns because of the 2260 01:52:09,040 --> 01:52:13,280 Speaker 3: constraints of the world, as as the President said, they 2261 01:52:13,479 --> 01:52:15,479 Speaker 3: have to think about a lot of other shit, like 2262 01:52:15,560 --> 01:52:17,560 Speaker 3: they don't have a choice to be. They can't just 2263 01:52:17,600 --> 01:52:19,560 Speaker 3: get an office and be like I'm in charge. Like 2264 01:52:19,640 --> 01:52:22,439 Speaker 3: it's a whole lot of shit where it's like, Okay, 2265 01:52:22,560 --> 01:52:24,240 Speaker 3: how do I figure out a way to help these people, 2266 01:52:24,320 --> 01:52:27,000 Speaker 3: these people and these people because I see these connections 2267 01:52:27,439 --> 01:52:30,639 Speaker 3: and people that they not they don't necessarily see in themselves, 2268 01:52:30,680 --> 01:52:33,200 Speaker 3: because I have to see these connections to fucking survive 2269 01:52:33,320 --> 01:52:36,960 Speaker 3: every day. So, you know, until that party is serious 2270 01:52:37,800 --> 01:52:42,040 Speaker 3: about getting behind some of the black women that have 2271 01:52:42,160 --> 01:52:46,599 Speaker 3: been the voices out there, I don't I can't really 2272 01:52:46,640 --> 01:52:49,679 Speaker 3: take that party seriously, you know, and definitely not getting 2273 01:52:49,720 --> 01:52:53,519 Speaker 3: behind Bernie Sanders. That's that's really uh, that's the path 2274 01:52:53,600 --> 01:52:55,479 Speaker 3: to getting four more years of Trump. If you and 2275 01:52:55,560 --> 01:52:58,320 Speaker 3: if you don't understand why, then you just don't understand 2276 01:52:58,800 --> 01:53:00,600 Speaker 3: how people vote and how people think. And you just 2277 01:53:00,720 --> 01:53:05,719 Speaker 3: refuse to have read anything about the critique of Bernie Sanders. 2278 01:53:05,760 --> 01:53:07,880 Speaker 3: You've just been reading it from a point of how 2279 01:53:07,960 --> 01:53:10,640 Speaker 3: do I defend Bernie Sanders, and not a These are 2280 01:53:10,680 --> 01:53:13,320 Speaker 3: real people and voters with concerns and this dude doesn't 2281 01:53:13,320 --> 01:53:14,280 Speaker 3: seem to be addressing them. 2282 01:53:17,520 --> 01:53:17,640 Speaker 8: Uh. 2283 01:53:17,760 --> 01:53:22,000 Speaker 3: Someone sent us a link for it, says the one 2284 01:53:22,120 --> 01:53:27,240 Speaker 3: hundred on the Coon Olympics Henry County Community News blog. 2285 01:53:28,840 --> 01:53:31,920 Speaker 3: Oh oh, it's just a blog about some nigga that 2286 01:53:32,080 --> 01:53:33,679 Speaker 3: like the Confederate flag. Fuck that dude. 2287 01:53:36,280 --> 01:53:38,759 Speaker 5: Episode fourteen twenty six equal awesome as usual. 2288 01:53:40,640 --> 01:53:41,479 Speaker 4: This is by. 2289 01:53:41,960 --> 01:53:46,599 Speaker 3: It doesn't say who miss oh, miss Martinkins. It says 2290 01:53:46,920 --> 01:53:48,800 Speaker 3: I love it. I had to write in before I 2291 01:53:48,800 --> 01:53:50,760 Speaker 3: could even finish the podcast. Wanted to comment on the 2292 01:53:50,800 --> 01:53:54,120 Speaker 3: lovely situation. She did address things in depth and a 2293 01:53:54,160 --> 01:53:56,640 Speaker 3: piece on the medium. Okay, I hadn't read that. I 2294 01:53:56,760 --> 01:53:58,360 Speaker 3: know she tweeted the link to it, and I don't 2295 01:53:58,400 --> 01:53:59,960 Speaker 3: have Facebook, so I don't know if she supposed to 2296 01:54:00,120 --> 01:54:00,760 Speaker 3: link to the piece. 2297 01:54:00,800 --> 01:54:02,599 Speaker 5: I'm a fan, but she's not my fav. 2298 01:54:02,720 --> 01:54:04,720 Speaker 3: But because I just read the article before putting on 2299 01:54:04,800 --> 01:54:07,360 Speaker 3: this awesome podcast, in that piece, she addressed the points 2300 01:54:07,439 --> 01:54:10,200 Speaker 3: on compensations that you mentioned we're missing from her Facebook post, 2301 01:54:10,240 --> 01:54:13,000 Speaker 3: so I figured out comment. Tyree's, on the other hand, bruh. 2302 01:54:13,120 --> 01:54:15,840 Speaker 3: If he's learned something, I'd be surprised. I don't know 2303 01:54:15,920 --> 01:54:17,880 Speaker 3: if you saw this from the rest of the Internet. 2304 01:54:17,960 --> 01:54:20,840 Speaker 3: But it also seems that a lot of people were 2305 01:54:20,960 --> 01:54:25,080 Speaker 3: waiting for her to make any mistake tweets from twenty 2306 01:54:25,120 --> 01:54:27,160 Speaker 3: fourteen other black women who are now calling her a 2307 01:54:27,240 --> 01:54:29,479 Speaker 3: bitch and that she should go back to Africa. I 2308 01:54:29,560 --> 01:54:31,519 Speaker 3: agree with Karen's points as per usual on how these 2309 01:54:31,560 --> 01:54:34,120 Speaker 3: things hurt black women. Also agree with Rod on the 2310 01:54:34,200 --> 01:54:36,200 Speaker 3: hyper sense of the climate where people are mad and 2311 01:54:36,320 --> 01:54:38,800 Speaker 3: care about everything. I do think that we are approaching 2312 01:54:38,840 --> 01:54:41,440 Speaker 3: a critical mass where everyone on these internet streets will 2313 01:54:41,480 --> 01:54:43,080 Speaker 3: be held to such a high standard and no one 2314 01:54:43,120 --> 01:54:45,920 Speaker 3: will make any mistake. And I agree with Rod on 2315 01:54:45,960 --> 01:54:47,520 Speaker 3: the fact that people are waiting for a reason to 2316 01:54:47,600 --> 01:54:51,400 Speaker 3: distrust any black person. Yeah, well that's resonated deeply with 2317 01:54:51,520 --> 01:54:54,840 Speaker 3: me for the lot for a while now. Just I 2318 01:54:54,920 --> 01:54:57,600 Speaker 3: don't like, I don't want to be that level of 2319 01:54:57,680 --> 01:55:02,120 Speaker 3: famous anyway, like because because it just seems like people 2320 01:55:02,240 --> 01:55:06,920 Speaker 3: are literally waiting to say that you are anti black, 2321 01:55:07,080 --> 01:55:10,440 Speaker 3: like you literally like it's not a nuance, Like it's 2322 01:55:10,480 --> 01:55:12,520 Speaker 3: not a well that person messed up on that, and 2323 01:55:13,360 --> 01:55:16,560 Speaker 3: hopefully they get that right and hopefully their challenges to them, 2324 01:55:16,800 --> 01:55:19,720 Speaker 3: challenges to them will help them see the light. It's like, fuck, 2325 01:55:19,800 --> 01:55:21,640 Speaker 3: that person. They are dead, they are trash, they are 2326 01:55:21,720 --> 01:55:24,840 Speaker 3: done that everything they do from now on ihope of 2327 01:55:24,880 --> 01:55:27,280 Speaker 3: crumbles and fuck them forever. And it really could be 2328 01:55:27,400 --> 01:55:29,480 Speaker 3: after you've been a fan of that person for years 2329 01:55:29,520 --> 01:55:31,840 Speaker 3: and they said one thing you disagree with, right, It 2330 01:55:31,960 --> 01:55:34,560 Speaker 3: is a very real thing. I just I don't know 2331 01:55:34,840 --> 01:55:38,560 Speaker 3: how impactful it necessarily is because I feel like people 2332 01:55:38,720 --> 01:55:39,960 Speaker 3: really don't ever get canceled. 2333 01:55:40,680 --> 01:55:44,880 Speaker 5: And then I don't know how as a human being, 2334 01:55:45,040 --> 01:55:47,720 Speaker 5: I don't know how really it is. 2335 01:55:47,960 --> 01:55:52,440 Speaker 3: Like you know, like it's like when people say they're 2336 01:55:52,440 --> 01:55:56,440 Speaker 3: gonna boycott something they were never gonna support, you know, 2337 01:55:56,560 --> 01:55:59,320 Speaker 3: where it's like, yes, it must hurt someone's feelings to 2338 01:55:59,400 --> 01:56:02,120 Speaker 3: know that you will ever support. Like it's like people 2339 01:56:02,120 --> 01:56:06,800 Speaker 3: say I'm never gonna go to Bermuda. Fucked them, it's racist, 2340 01:56:06,880 --> 01:56:08,560 Speaker 3: and you're like, well you do you have go to 2341 01:56:08,600 --> 01:56:10,720 Speaker 3: Bermuda money, Well you gonna go to Bermuda. And you 2342 01:56:10,920 --> 01:56:14,560 Speaker 3: changed because if not, nothing really changed, but you kind 2343 01:56:14,560 --> 01:56:19,320 Speaker 3: of got attention for saying you wouldn't do something. But anyway, yeah, 2344 01:56:19,360 --> 01:56:22,120 Speaker 3: that was really awkward. And then like that cover or 2345 01:56:22,280 --> 01:56:24,960 Speaker 3: that Ebony list of the hundred Woke People came out 2346 01:56:25,040 --> 01:56:27,680 Speaker 3: and she was love he's on the list and activists 2347 01:56:27,760 --> 01:56:30,000 Speaker 3: on the list, like I can't, Like, it was really 2348 01:56:30,120 --> 01:56:33,800 Speaker 3: unfortunate time and too so I don't know how it's 2349 01:56:33,840 --> 01:56:36,400 Speaker 3: gonna go. I do feel like, you know, the people 2350 01:56:36,440 --> 01:56:39,800 Speaker 3: that were supporting her for the most part will continue 2351 01:56:39,840 --> 01:56:43,240 Speaker 3: to support her, you know, but at this point she's 2352 01:56:43,320 --> 01:56:47,920 Speaker 3: given a lot of ground to some vocal people that 2353 01:56:48,160 --> 01:56:51,120 Speaker 3: really don't fuck with her, and like you said, they're 2354 01:56:51,200 --> 01:56:55,120 Speaker 3: taking shit back from twenty fourteen and and times that 2355 01:56:55,200 --> 01:56:58,800 Speaker 3: they didn't fuck with her from before. So I mean, 2356 01:56:59,080 --> 01:57:02,040 Speaker 3: it sucks. It's a human being. You hope, you know, 2357 01:57:02,160 --> 01:57:04,040 Speaker 3: you hope you do things that don't give people like 2358 01:57:04,120 --> 01:57:08,040 Speaker 3: that ground to to fester and grow and whatnot. But 2359 01:57:08,400 --> 01:57:12,360 Speaker 3: that's the reality of it, man. People really they can 2360 01:57:12,440 --> 01:57:15,480 Speaker 3: hold Internet is forever. The Internet is forever now dog 2361 01:57:17,400 --> 01:57:20,320 Speaker 3: but uh but yeah, it's funny though, because I also 2362 01:57:20,400 --> 01:57:24,320 Speaker 3: saw people on Sunday trying to pull the well, what's 2363 01:57:24,440 --> 01:57:27,280 Speaker 3: up with us, sisters. We can't just kick somebody out 2364 01:57:27,360 --> 01:57:29,960 Speaker 3: because they make a mistake. We can't. It's like, well, 2365 01:57:30,080 --> 01:57:34,720 Speaker 3: hold up now, in all fairness, her mistake quote unquote 2366 01:57:34,880 --> 01:57:37,240 Speaker 3: was also kicking a lot of black people out of blackness, 2367 01:57:38,360 --> 01:57:42,440 Speaker 3: Like right, she can try to be nice about it 2368 01:57:42,520 --> 01:57:44,400 Speaker 3: and kind of revise it if she wants. But the 2369 01:57:44,480 --> 01:57:47,120 Speaker 3: truth of the matter is when you say that people 2370 01:57:47,200 --> 01:57:51,240 Speaker 3: that are biracial and and light skin are performing blackness 2371 01:57:51,320 --> 01:57:54,000 Speaker 3: with their anger, you are kicking some people out of 2372 01:57:54,080 --> 01:57:56,360 Speaker 3: believe you're kicking some sisters out of blackness. Man, it's 2373 01:57:56,440 --> 01:57:58,880 Speaker 3: no nice way to say it. No way you can 2374 01:57:58,920 --> 01:57:59,880 Speaker 3: sugarcoat that ship. 2375 01:58:00,240 --> 01:58:02,520 Speaker 4: And then that's when they're gonna turn around and attack 2376 01:58:02,600 --> 01:58:04,280 Speaker 4: you and say you ain't from here. 2377 01:58:04,320 --> 01:58:07,240 Speaker 3: Right like, it ain't like we're like people want the 2378 01:58:07,400 --> 01:58:09,520 Speaker 3: one side to play fair with the other fly plays 2379 01:58:09,560 --> 01:58:12,480 Speaker 3: dirty and that that ain't human at all, man Like, 2380 01:58:14,000 --> 01:58:16,840 Speaker 3: Like I said, none of it is necessarily fruitful, but 2381 01:58:17,960 --> 01:58:21,480 Speaker 3: you know it's it's the scary part about knowing your 2382 01:58:21,600 --> 01:58:24,200 Speaker 3: lame man Like, even with them putting you in the 2383 01:58:24,280 --> 01:58:28,200 Speaker 3: same photographs and lists those activist and ship, you know, 2384 01:58:28,520 --> 01:58:32,200 Speaker 3: like you gotta know that your critique of them, if 2385 01:58:32,240 --> 01:58:34,960 Speaker 3: it's scathing, they got to call your receipts and be like, 2386 01:58:35,440 --> 01:58:38,960 Speaker 3: you ain't been to jail, like you ain't march Kyle Pepper, 2387 01:58:39,000 --> 01:58:41,760 Speaker 3: spray you your friends ain't died off of this. 2388 01:58:41,920 --> 01:58:43,840 Speaker 4: They gonna be like what boys and committees have you 2389 01:58:43,960 --> 01:58:45,320 Speaker 4: been on? What have you organized? 2390 01:58:45,480 --> 01:58:48,240 Speaker 3: Right, You're gonna they're gonna call all your receipts out 2391 01:58:48,800 --> 01:58:51,040 Speaker 3: just because you came at them in a way that 2392 01:58:52,040 --> 01:58:57,360 Speaker 3: was very challenging and belligerent to a certain extent. So yeah, 2393 01:58:57,400 --> 01:58:59,880 Speaker 3: it's a lot, man, it's a lot. Like like I like, 2394 01:59:00,280 --> 01:59:02,080 Speaker 3: I'm kind of glad, you know, to be doing this 2395 01:59:02,760 --> 01:59:05,440 Speaker 3: that is kind of wrapped up already. I know what 2396 01:59:05,560 --> 01:59:07,000 Speaker 3: this is the feedback show, so that's the only reason 2397 01:59:07,000 --> 01:59:09,360 Speaker 3: we're talking about it. But you know, it didn't make 2398 01:59:09,400 --> 01:59:11,560 Speaker 3: me feel good on any level to see any of 2399 01:59:11,600 --> 01:59:15,400 Speaker 3: that shit happening, to be honest with people, because like 2400 01:59:15,480 --> 01:59:18,360 Speaker 3: I said, man, I don't know Lovey, I just but 2401 01:59:18,480 --> 01:59:20,480 Speaker 3: I think of her fondly. I like, I try to 2402 01:59:20,520 --> 01:59:22,840 Speaker 3: think of her finally, you know, because see, she's a 2403 01:59:22,920 --> 01:59:25,520 Speaker 3: person that she's a black woman that's very talented, she's 2404 01:59:25,640 --> 01:59:27,040 Speaker 3: very funny. She's made. 2405 01:59:28,840 --> 01:59:33,080 Speaker 5: Something out of, you know, in a world, in a lane. 2406 01:59:32,880 --> 01:59:35,840 Speaker 3: Where a lot of people pay white folks for some 2407 01:59:36,000 --> 01:59:39,000 Speaker 3: of this shit and black women don't get paid. She's 2408 01:59:39,040 --> 01:59:42,160 Speaker 3: been an advocate for getting your money, getting your respect, 2409 01:59:42,840 --> 01:59:45,360 Speaker 3: not doing people shit for free and for favors. Some 2410 01:59:45,480 --> 01:59:48,600 Speaker 3: of my favorite people believe that, and that's one of 2411 01:59:48,760 --> 01:59:50,280 Speaker 3: some of the reasons I fuck with them, you know, 2412 01:59:51,160 --> 01:59:53,880 Speaker 3: because they're like, go get your fucking coins. So to 2413 01:59:53,960 --> 01:59:55,960 Speaker 3: see her kind of go back on that, and to 2414 01:59:56,040 --> 01:59:59,480 Speaker 3: see people rightfully call her out for going back on that, 2415 01:59:59,720 --> 02:00:02,440 Speaker 3: it was just all ugly to me. And I don't 2416 02:00:02,480 --> 02:00:05,720 Speaker 3: think she'll some of those bridges and some of those 2417 02:00:05,920 --> 02:00:10,320 Speaker 3: some of those relationships will never be okay again. And 2418 02:00:10,400 --> 02:00:14,000 Speaker 3: the discord that she calls and the discord that the 2419 02:00:14,200 --> 02:00:17,000 Speaker 3: debate around it caused, will you know, some of those 2420 02:00:17,080 --> 02:00:21,120 Speaker 3: device will never be healed. But to a certain extent, 2421 02:00:21,200 --> 02:00:23,480 Speaker 3: I'm kind of glad that other shit has happened now 2422 02:00:23,560 --> 02:00:26,360 Speaker 3: people can kind of move on because, you know, it. 2423 02:00:26,480 --> 02:00:27,440 Speaker 5: Was awkward to talk about. 2424 02:00:27,520 --> 02:00:29,360 Speaker 3: But like we have a show, we talk about a 2425 02:00:29,440 --> 02:00:31,320 Speaker 3: lot of awkward shit, so right. 2426 02:00:31,200 --> 02:00:33,480 Speaker 10: And it boils down to, at the end of the day, 2427 02:00:33,640 --> 02:00:35,320 Speaker 10: hurt people, hurt people. I know a lot of people 2428 02:00:35,440 --> 02:00:38,240 Speaker 10: ignore that. But her feelings was hurt about something and 2429 02:00:38,360 --> 02:00:40,760 Speaker 10: she expressed it in this manner. She end up hurting 2430 02:00:40,840 --> 02:00:42,480 Speaker 10: other people and they went back at her. 2431 02:00:43,040 --> 02:00:43,280 Speaker 3: Yeah. 2432 02:00:43,600 --> 02:00:48,560 Speaker 5: So yeah, anyway, so she also goes on. 2433 02:00:51,040 --> 02:00:53,840 Speaker 3: People will always be disappointed with artists who expose themselves 2434 02:00:53,840 --> 02:00:56,400 Speaker 3: because they have ugly shortcomings just like everyone else. The 2435 02:00:56,520 --> 02:01:00,000 Speaker 3: difference is everyone else everyone does put it on front street. 2436 02:01:00,040 --> 02:01:01,880 Speaker 3: Everyone doesn't put it on front street. Shutting up is 2437 02:01:01,880 --> 02:01:04,280 Speaker 3: always free. I still fucks with love you but now 2438 02:01:04,400 --> 02:01:07,520 Speaker 3: she but now it is love with an asterisk because 2439 02:01:07,840 --> 02:01:10,080 Speaker 3: it was just fucked up what she said. I can 2440 02:01:10,160 --> 02:01:12,880 Speaker 3: say that. And I also still listening to the Ignition 2441 02:01:12,960 --> 02:01:15,520 Speaker 3: by R Kelly Shrugs. I love to show hellol Can 2442 02:01:15,600 --> 02:01:17,520 Speaker 3: calling the cops on the fight in the studio anah, 2443 02:01:18,840 --> 02:01:20,920 Speaker 3: you know it does. The thing that makes me wonder 2444 02:01:21,200 --> 02:01:24,760 Speaker 3: is I do wonder what it's gonna be like if 2445 02:01:24,800 --> 02:01:28,000 Speaker 3: she does get that TV power and stuff. Who's gonna 2446 02:01:28,040 --> 02:01:31,080 Speaker 3: watch it is the people that watch it? Are they 2447 02:01:31,160 --> 02:01:32,880 Speaker 3: now not gonna be able to watch it with a 2448 02:01:32,960 --> 02:01:35,080 Speaker 3: sense of joy and happiness because they gotta worry about 2449 02:01:35,120 --> 02:01:36,839 Speaker 3: defending this stuff? 2450 02:01:37,000 --> 02:01:39,200 Speaker 4: I mean, and people want to enjoy shit. 2451 02:01:39,640 --> 02:01:43,800 Speaker 10: People underestimate people who watch it out of just pure joy. 2452 02:01:43,920 --> 02:01:46,960 Speaker 10: They don't hate watch it, They just love shit, and 2453 02:01:47,120 --> 02:01:49,520 Speaker 10: so people want to It's gonna be like the Iron Fish. 2454 02:01:49,840 --> 02:01:53,000 Speaker 10: A lot of motherfuckers enjoyed Iron Fish, though Iron Fist 2455 02:01:53,120 --> 02:01:55,120 Speaker 10: was okay and wanted to talk about it, but it 2456 02:01:55,200 --> 02:01:57,560 Speaker 10: was motherfucking crickets across the internet because there was like, 2457 02:01:57,680 --> 02:02:00,240 Speaker 10: I don't want to fucking fuss and argue with you 2458 02:02:00,360 --> 02:02:00,760 Speaker 10: about it. 2459 02:02:01,000 --> 02:02:03,600 Speaker 4: Yeah, that nigga fucked up. Okay, let's talk about the 2460 02:02:03,680 --> 02:02:05,360 Speaker 4: substance and the content itself. 2461 02:02:06,280 --> 02:02:12,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, so yeah, I don't know, you know, like I 2462 02:02:13,040 --> 02:02:17,240 Speaker 3: We'll see you know, because you can make something difficult 2463 02:02:17,280 --> 02:02:18,720 Speaker 3: for people to enjoy it just for the fact that 2464 02:02:18,760 --> 02:02:21,360 Speaker 3: they don't want to be having a debate about your 2465 02:02:21,480 --> 02:02:24,200 Speaker 3: personality every time or something you said a long time ago. 2466 02:02:24,760 --> 02:02:26,920 Speaker 3: I know what happens to me. Man. Well, I like, 2467 02:02:27,080 --> 02:02:29,440 Speaker 3: like I started watching Iron Fist two days ago, y'all, 2468 02:02:29,720 --> 02:02:32,680 Speaker 3: that shit been out. I've watched every other Marvel superhero 2469 02:02:32,800 --> 02:02:35,560 Speaker 3: series and like a day or two of it coming out, 2470 02:02:35,640 --> 02:02:38,040 Speaker 3: and watch the whole thing that weekend. This is the 2471 02:02:38,080 --> 02:02:40,200 Speaker 3: first time I've been like, man, I'm just don't I 2472 02:02:40,280 --> 02:02:43,040 Speaker 3: don't want to talk to nobody about it, like I'm 2473 02:02:43,040 --> 02:02:44,840 Speaker 3: gonna watch it, and I just don't want to have 2474 02:02:44,880 --> 02:02:47,120 Speaker 3: a fight, to be honest, you know, And. 2475 02:02:47,240 --> 02:02:50,920 Speaker 10: Y'all, I'm not gonna lie like just about I think 2476 02:02:51,000 --> 02:02:54,200 Speaker 10: every series a lot of times I don't keep track 2477 02:02:54,720 --> 02:02:56,560 Speaker 10: cause I just think the previews are cool. 2478 02:02:57,680 --> 02:03:01,680 Speaker 4: But whatever midnight when and whenever they come out on Netflix. 2479 02:03:01,840 --> 02:03:04,080 Speaker 10: I wake up and he been up for four five hours, 2480 02:03:04,200 --> 02:03:07,720 Speaker 10: up at full five flocks, like literally within four to 2481 02:03:07,800 --> 02:03:10,400 Speaker 10: eight hours, you know, thirty six hours whatever. 2482 02:03:10,680 --> 02:03:13,120 Speaker 4: He's literally watching entire serial lot of times. By the 2483 02:03:13,200 --> 02:03:16,240 Speaker 4: next weekend rewatching it again. So for you to take 2484 02:03:16,600 --> 02:03:18,640 Speaker 4: literally like a month or two to decide to watch it, 2485 02:03:18,800 --> 02:03:19,879 Speaker 4: that that's pig volumes. 2486 02:03:20,440 --> 02:03:22,360 Speaker 3: Yeah. I mean, I'm not one of those people that 2487 02:03:22,480 --> 02:03:24,840 Speaker 3: watching something that debate about it. But some people do that. 2488 02:03:24,960 --> 02:03:28,400 Speaker 3: But it ain't me, and I think that that hurts 2489 02:03:28,440 --> 02:03:31,200 Speaker 3: a lot of people's product. But we'll see. You know, 2490 02:03:31,600 --> 02:03:35,080 Speaker 3: I still don't. I don't have any ill will towards 2491 02:03:35,080 --> 02:03:37,000 Speaker 3: I love you. But my point, the point that I 2492 02:03:37,080 --> 02:03:40,080 Speaker 3: wanted to make throughout all this, even with Tyres, I 2493 02:03:40,160 --> 02:03:44,440 Speaker 3: don't think I'm the person to that that needs to 2494 02:03:44,800 --> 02:03:48,120 Speaker 3: forgive them. I'm not the person that was slighted by right, 2495 02:03:48,400 --> 02:03:50,640 Speaker 3: black women will tell. It'll tell how black women feel 2496 02:03:50,640 --> 02:03:53,160 Speaker 3: about it. If black women feel like fuck you, well 2497 02:03:53,160 --> 02:03:56,080 Speaker 3: it'll be done sooner or later when you try to 2498 02:03:56,200 --> 02:03:58,240 Speaker 3: move some product and they like or not to me, 2499 02:03:58,560 --> 02:04:00,800 Speaker 3: you know what I mean. So we'll see what happens 2500 02:04:00,840 --> 02:04:03,400 Speaker 3: with her, and we'll see if people accept that apology 2501 02:04:03,600 --> 02:04:09,560 Speaker 3: or understand or whatever. So we'll see anyway. Black Gaithe 2502 02:04:09,680 --> 02:04:13,040 Speaker 3: is Palor Rising episode fourteen twenty seven. Damn, I was 2503 02:04:13,080 --> 02:04:14,640 Speaker 3: listening to this episode at work. I had to stop 2504 02:04:14,720 --> 02:04:17,240 Speaker 3: halfway through or take a walk outside to compose myself. 2505 02:04:17,680 --> 02:04:21,440 Speaker 3: I've heard so many black men, especially in my family, 2506 02:04:21,520 --> 02:04:24,320 Speaker 3: say that this fuck shit justifyed violence against black women 2507 02:04:24,400 --> 02:04:26,680 Speaker 3: by saying that it's all bullshit. I work in a 2508 02:04:26,720 --> 02:04:29,760 Speaker 3: predominantly white space, and nearly word for fucking word, my 2509 02:04:29,880 --> 02:04:33,160 Speaker 3: white coworkers say the same fucking thing to justify violence 2510 02:04:33,200 --> 02:04:37,120 Speaker 3: against black people, that the violence doesn't really exist, that 2511 02:04:37,240 --> 02:04:39,520 Speaker 3: we're to blame for violence against us, and why do 2512 02:04:39,600 --> 02:04:42,280 Speaker 3: we keep bringing it up and being so divisive? Come on, 2513 02:04:42,480 --> 02:04:45,880 Speaker 3: that sounds so familiar that to bring it up means 2514 02:04:45,920 --> 02:04:48,960 Speaker 3: that we hate white people and hashtag not all white people, nigga. 2515 02:04:49,120 --> 02:04:52,160 Speaker 3: Come on, come through with this word. That is exactly 2516 02:04:52,280 --> 02:04:55,280 Speaker 3: what the fuck it sounds like. I've heard others in 2517 02:04:55,360 --> 02:04:58,480 Speaker 3: the black Twitter circle say that I follow say say 2518 02:04:58,560 --> 02:05:00,520 Speaker 3: essentially the same thing, just a place black man for 2519 02:05:00,600 --> 02:05:02,880 Speaker 3: white people, and I cannot, for the life of me 2520 02:05:03,040 --> 02:05:06,960 Speaker 3: understand this giant, gaping blonde spot right. I don't know 2521 02:05:07,000 --> 02:05:09,879 Speaker 3: if it's just that these people don't talk about racism, 2522 02:05:10,000 --> 02:05:12,640 Speaker 3: so then they don't have the interactions with white people 2523 02:05:13,000 --> 02:05:16,040 Speaker 3: that make them go this white person is saying something 2524 02:05:16,160 --> 02:05:20,320 Speaker 3: completely ridiculous by calling me racist for saying this is racist, 2525 02:05:20,800 --> 02:05:23,160 Speaker 3: or saying I hate all white people because I said 2526 02:05:23,640 --> 02:05:26,920 Speaker 3: this white person did something racist to me. I don't 2527 02:05:27,000 --> 02:05:29,520 Speaker 3: know how they don't see it, but maybe they just don't. 2528 02:05:29,840 --> 02:05:31,440 Speaker 3: I don't know, I don't know how they don't see it. 2529 02:05:31,520 --> 02:05:34,680 Speaker 3: To be honest, it's like they're robots from Westworld that 2530 02:05:34,760 --> 02:05:36,680 Speaker 3: can't see the door right in front of them. Yes, 2531 02:05:37,480 --> 02:05:40,360 Speaker 3: these women are just mad because they hate black men 2532 02:05:40,440 --> 02:05:43,360 Speaker 3: with white wives. The fuck they don't have PhD in 2533 02:05:43,480 --> 02:05:46,320 Speaker 3: that Twitter handle? So do you have a degree to 2534 02:05:46,640 --> 02:05:49,160 Speaker 3: understand the oppression you suffer? When the fuck did that 2535 02:05:49,280 --> 02:05:52,640 Speaker 3: become a requirement. I'm sorry to ramble. I understand my 2536 02:05:52,680 --> 02:05:54,600 Speaker 3: privilege as a gay black man, but this shit makes 2537 02:05:54,640 --> 02:05:57,040 Speaker 3: me sick to my stomach. Even now writing it's I'm 2538 02:05:57,040 --> 02:05:59,040 Speaker 3: fighting back burning high anger tears. I just want to 2539 02:05:59,040 --> 02:06:01,520 Speaker 3: collectively shake all black men and tell them to see 2540 02:06:01,520 --> 02:06:03,480 Speaker 3: the fucking door right in front of them. Okay, I 2541 02:06:03,520 --> 02:06:05,720 Speaker 3: gotta recompose myself so I don't care white folks in 2542 02:06:05,760 --> 02:06:08,880 Speaker 3: my office. Blackgaith is pilot. Yeah. You know the other 2543 02:06:08,960 --> 02:06:13,640 Speaker 3: part of that too is I legitimately believe, even even 2544 02:06:13,720 --> 02:06:18,320 Speaker 3: if it's selfish, we become better people when we care 2545 02:06:18,360 --> 02:06:22,080 Speaker 3: about other people. Yes, So it's not just like as 2546 02:06:22,160 --> 02:06:24,440 Speaker 3: much as I say black men need to do this 2547 02:06:24,520 --> 02:06:27,240 Speaker 3: shit to one because we need to have empathy and 2548 02:06:27,360 --> 02:06:30,080 Speaker 3: understand and care for other people in our community. It 2549 02:06:30,240 --> 02:06:33,720 Speaker 3: also will make us better people. There's no excuse for it. Like, 2550 02:06:34,400 --> 02:06:37,760 Speaker 3: even if you selfishly think it's the status quo, is 2551 02:06:37,840 --> 02:06:40,600 Speaker 3: not good for us, Like keeping things the way they 2552 02:06:40,680 --> 02:06:43,480 Speaker 3: are is not good for us, you know, us going 2553 02:06:43,560 --> 02:06:48,160 Speaker 3: to prison, us being violent towards each other, us feeling 2554 02:06:48,200 --> 02:06:50,880 Speaker 3: like we always have to prove ourselves in our masculinity, 2555 02:06:52,080 --> 02:06:56,760 Speaker 3: us not allowing ourselves to have a spectrum within our sexuality, 2556 02:06:56,800 --> 02:06:57,920 Speaker 3: and shit, it's not healthy. 2557 02:06:58,000 --> 02:07:00,240 Speaker 5: It's not healthy, you know it. 2558 02:07:00,920 --> 02:07:03,200 Speaker 3: We look at what it does to ourselves as well 2559 02:07:03,240 --> 02:07:04,080 Speaker 3: as the other people. 2560 02:07:03,880 --> 02:07:04,440 Speaker 5: In our community. 2561 02:07:04,680 --> 02:07:08,760 Speaker 3: It's really bad, and I just feel like we shouldn't 2562 02:07:08,800 --> 02:07:10,960 Speaker 3: be taking that shit in, especially when a lot of 2563 02:07:11,000 --> 02:07:13,520 Speaker 3: it comes from the people who oppressed us. I don't 2564 02:07:13,560 --> 02:07:16,680 Speaker 3: want their shit, you know what I mean? Like that's 2565 02:07:16,800 --> 02:07:19,600 Speaker 3: not I don't want their value system for my life. 2566 02:07:19,760 --> 02:07:23,720 Speaker 3: Like I understand it. It's impossible to completely do away 2567 02:07:23,760 --> 02:07:26,200 Speaker 3: with everything, but some of this stuff is like yo, 2568 02:07:26,360 --> 02:07:29,320 Speaker 3: I don't have to have that, you know, Like I 2569 02:07:29,360 --> 02:07:33,280 Speaker 3: don't need your religion. I don't need your fucking value 2570 02:07:33,360 --> 02:07:36,720 Speaker 3: system on men and women. I don't need your fucking 2571 02:07:37,000 --> 02:07:39,440 Speaker 3: I need to hit my kids. I don't need that shit, 2572 02:07:40,280 --> 02:07:43,160 Speaker 3: you know. Like, if we're gonna undo this programming, then 2573 02:07:43,200 --> 02:07:46,560 Speaker 3: we gotta be vigilant about that shit, and we need 2574 02:07:46,640 --> 02:07:49,560 Speaker 3: to be at least aware of the programming that we're receiving. 2575 02:07:49,640 --> 02:07:52,360 Speaker 3: And so many black men seem to be not aware 2576 02:07:52,440 --> 02:07:57,680 Speaker 3: of that programming unless it comes to racism, but anything else, 2577 02:07:57,680 --> 02:08:04,320 Speaker 3: it's like, well, homophobia, transphobia, misogyny, that kind of shit 2578 02:08:04,440 --> 02:08:08,560 Speaker 3: we're absolutely fine with. And to me that I think 2579 02:08:08,640 --> 02:08:11,560 Speaker 3: that makes it makes us worse as people for having 2580 02:08:11,680 --> 02:08:13,960 Speaker 3: dealt with it, Like, not worse than other people, but 2581 02:08:14,000 --> 02:08:16,480 Speaker 3: I mean it makes us worse as we could be 2582 02:08:16,560 --> 02:08:19,320 Speaker 3: our higher and better selves to accept that shit in 2583 02:08:19,400 --> 02:08:22,160 Speaker 3: our community and accepting within each other. Man, we we 2584 02:08:22,280 --> 02:08:25,360 Speaker 3: can do better, man, I like I said it doesn't 2585 02:08:25,400 --> 02:08:27,000 Speaker 3: mean I hate us or any of that shit. It 2586 02:08:27,160 --> 02:08:29,880 Speaker 3: just I acknowledge we can do better. And I don't 2587 02:08:29,960 --> 02:08:32,200 Speaker 3: find that that's so fucking radical to say it, because 2588 02:08:32,200 --> 02:08:34,680 Speaker 3: if I say white people can do better, many many, 2589 02:08:34,720 --> 02:08:37,080 Speaker 3: many black people will be like, of course white people 2590 02:08:37,120 --> 02:08:39,200 Speaker 3: can do better, they're doing terrible. 2591 02:08:39,680 --> 02:08:41,440 Speaker 5: Like, you know, I don't. 2592 02:08:41,480 --> 02:08:43,640 Speaker 3: I don't think saying that about us. It should be 2593 02:08:43,760 --> 02:08:47,640 Speaker 3: considered such the third rail, you know. And I say 2594 02:08:47,640 --> 02:08:48,120 Speaker 3: it with love. 2595 02:08:48,200 --> 02:08:49,320 Speaker 5: I'm not saying it with like. 2596 02:08:49,480 --> 02:08:51,960 Speaker 3: And that's cause niggas ain't shit. And that's why I'm 2597 02:08:52,320 --> 02:08:54,200 Speaker 3: I think black people ain't shit, and I'm gonna go 2598 02:08:54,240 --> 02:08:56,320 Speaker 3: on TV and tell white people they right, you know, 2599 02:08:56,440 --> 02:08:59,840 Speaker 3: it's not That's not what I'm saying, all right. Last one, 2600 02:09:01,080 --> 02:09:05,240 Speaker 3: Bacon my dog right saying not so secret love letter 2601 02:09:05,320 --> 02:09:07,960 Speaker 3: to the show. Great greetings, Star Due Farmer of Karen 2602 02:09:08,040 --> 02:09:12,840 Speaker 3: and path Finder Rod. Greetings, I've been taking I've taken 2603 02:09:12,880 --> 02:09:16,720 Speaker 3: a brief break from intergalactic romance, sending y'all a quick email. 2604 02:09:16,760 --> 02:09:18,000 Speaker 5: Especsly my love for you guys. 2605 02:09:18,040 --> 02:09:20,280 Speaker 3: I've been meaning to leave a comment, but one, this 2606 02:09:20,400 --> 02:09:22,680 Speaker 3: will probably be too long for a show comment. Two, 2607 02:09:22,880 --> 02:09:24,760 Speaker 3: I couldn't decide where to leave it in three I 2608 02:09:24,920 --> 02:09:26,280 Speaker 3: keep forgetting that Adhd. 2609 02:09:26,440 --> 02:09:30,640 Speaker 5: Y'all, thank you for the space you created. 2610 02:09:30,840 --> 02:09:32,560 Speaker 3: It's been one of the few things holding me together 2611 02:09:32,600 --> 02:09:34,960 Speaker 3: in this post election hard shit show. I know you 2612 02:09:35,040 --> 02:09:37,320 Speaker 3: said that you don't consider community you built as a 2613 02:09:37,360 --> 02:09:39,600 Speaker 3: safe space, but because of the effort that you and 2614 02:09:39,720 --> 02:09:42,600 Speaker 3: Karen put in, it feels like a safe space. Being 2615 02:09:42,680 --> 02:09:44,840 Speaker 3: black and queer means that I've had to completely dip 2616 02:09:44,960 --> 02:09:48,320 Speaker 3: out of a lot of places because of blatant bigotry 2617 02:09:48,360 --> 02:09:51,520 Speaker 3: and unrepitting tone death behaviors. It's not always perfect, but 2618 02:09:51,720 --> 02:09:54,360 Speaker 3: knowing that there aren't, that those aren't tolerated makes all 2619 02:09:54,400 --> 02:09:58,320 Speaker 3: the difference. Well, thank you first of all. But yeah, 2620 02:09:58,400 --> 02:10:01,360 Speaker 3: I yeah, just I'm not gonna push back on that. 2621 02:10:01,800 --> 02:10:01,920 Speaker 4: Uh. 2622 02:10:02,760 --> 02:10:05,800 Speaker 5: I don't know why my first reaction to be like, no, run. 2623 02:10:05,880 --> 02:10:08,600 Speaker 3: It's caters out here in these streets. You never know 2624 02:10:08,720 --> 02:10:10,320 Speaker 3: what these niggas are gonna say in the chat room. 2625 02:10:10,360 --> 02:10:12,920 Speaker 3: I don't know what's wrong with them, you know, Yeah, 2626 02:10:13,040 --> 02:10:15,480 Speaker 3: thank you. You know, we try man to make it. 2627 02:10:16,120 --> 02:10:17,960 Speaker 3: Like I said, I don't know, I don't really use 2628 02:10:18,040 --> 02:10:19,800 Speaker 3: the term safe face and I really don't. 2629 02:10:20,760 --> 02:10:23,440 Speaker 5: Yeah, I don't know how people can use it, but 2630 02:10:23,600 --> 02:10:24,360 Speaker 5: I you. 2631 02:10:24,440 --> 02:10:27,920 Speaker 3: Know, for other people, like if other people feel safe, 2632 02:10:28,000 --> 02:10:30,720 Speaker 3: that's that's beautiful. I'm glad they do. Glad a lot 2633 02:10:30,760 --> 02:10:32,440 Speaker 3: of people in our community feel like they can let 2634 02:10:32,480 --> 02:10:34,960 Speaker 3: their guard down. They don't have to worry about being 2635 02:10:35,000 --> 02:10:40,800 Speaker 3: attacked for saying something, you know, like just demanding their 2636 02:10:40,880 --> 02:10:46,400 Speaker 3: humanity and shit like I do value that, man, But yeah, 2637 02:10:46,520 --> 02:10:51,240 Speaker 3: thank you. Anyway she goes at least goes on. I 2638 02:10:51,360 --> 02:10:54,040 Speaker 3: don't expect you or Caring to be perfect on it 2639 02:10:54,120 --> 02:10:55,760 Speaker 3: one hundred percent of the time because you're human and 2640 02:10:55,840 --> 02:10:58,120 Speaker 3: as humans we all fuck up. However, you both have 2641 02:10:58,200 --> 02:11:00,680 Speaker 3: shown that to really listen to hear folks and apologize 2642 02:11:00,680 --> 02:11:03,480 Speaker 3: when wrong. That means everything. Even on your personal page 2643 02:11:03,560 --> 02:11:05,280 Speaker 3: or I've seen you call out folks who are anti 2644 02:11:05,360 --> 02:11:07,400 Speaker 3: black women and anti LGBT. 2645 02:11:07,640 --> 02:11:08,560 Speaker 5: Makes such a difference. 2646 02:11:08,880 --> 02:11:10,920 Speaker 3: And social media, a lot of folks don't think about 2647 02:11:10,960 --> 02:11:14,560 Speaker 3: how their words affect those who are participating in a posting. Yeah, 2648 02:11:14,720 --> 02:11:17,280 Speaker 3: you know, the thing with that is, and this is 2649 02:11:17,320 --> 02:11:19,760 Speaker 3: a lot of people. A lot of people just tolerate 2650 02:11:19,880 --> 02:11:23,040 Speaker 3: bullshit and they think, well, as long as I say 2651 02:11:23,200 --> 02:11:25,960 Speaker 3: I don't agree, that's enough, m h. 2652 02:11:26,920 --> 02:11:29,720 Speaker 5: And they but then they don't want to be counted 2653 02:11:29,840 --> 02:11:30,080 Speaker 5: in that. 2654 02:11:30,240 --> 02:11:34,440 Speaker 3: Group of people. Oh no, I'll take it back. I 2655 02:11:34,480 --> 02:11:37,480 Speaker 3: don't not say as long as I don't say I 2656 02:11:37,720 --> 02:11:40,800 Speaker 3: agree right now, not as long as I say I disagree. 2657 02:11:41,120 --> 02:11:43,960 Speaker 3: A lot of people won't even say they disagree, but 2658 02:11:44,080 --> 02:11:46,120 Speaker 3: then they want to be counted as not part of 2659 02:11:46,200 --> 02:11:49,840 Speaker 3: this group, whatever group it is that people are saying 2660 02:11:50,000 --> 02:11:52,520 Speaker 3: are fucked up, but they don't ever come out and 2661 02:11:52,640 --> 02:11:55,520 Speaker 3: be like, yo, I don't agree with these niggas they 2662 02:11:55,560 --> 02:11:58,320 Speaker 3: are fucked up. Don't say that shit on my page, 2663 02:11:58,320 --> 02:11:59,880 Speaker 3: don't say that shit to me, don't write my po 2664 02:12:00,040 --> 02:12:03,040 Speaker 3: podcasts that bullshit. Don't like you can't be in my 2665 02:12:03,160 --> 02:12:06,440 Speaker 3: circle if you espouse these values. Instead, they kind of 2666 02:12:06,480 --> 02:12:07,920 Speaker 3: want it both ways. They want their cake and they 2667 02:12:07,960 --> 02:12:09,600 Speaker 3: want to eat it too. They want to hang out 2668 02:12:09,640 --> 02:12:11,960 Speaker 3: with the people that say the fuck shit and then 2669 02:12:12,480 --> 02:12:14,640 Speaker 3: let them say that fuck shit on that platform, whether 2670 02:12:14,680 --> 02:12:16,720 Speaker 3: it's a social because everybody has a platform now, whether 2671 02:12:16,760 --> 02:12:18,240 Speaker 3: the social media, your. 2672 02:12:19,600 --> 02:12:23,320 Speaker 5: Your podcast, your blog, your radio show, your TV show. 2673 02:12:23,440 --> 02:12:25,040 Speaker 3: They want to let them be able to say that 2674 02:12:25,160 --> 02:12:28,640 Speaker 3: shit and then academically be like maybe like it's just 2675 02:12:28,760 --> 02:12:31,200 Speaker 3: kind of their opinion, and then they want to be 2676 02:12:31,320 --> 02:12:34,879 Speaker 3: counted among the people that aren't toxic that are allies 2677 02:12:34,960 --> 02:12:37,160 Speaker 3: that do give a fuck, and you can't have it 2678 02:12:37,240 --> 02:12:40,080 Speaker 3: both ways, you know, like you just can't, and people 2679 02:12:40,160 --> 02:12:43,960 Speaker 3: want it both ways so often, and that's that's also privileged, 2680 02:12:44,040 --> 02:12:47,000 Speaker 3: being able to navigate that space and be like, but 2681 02:12:47,080 --> 02:12:49,800 Speaker 3: I should count as not being fucked up. You don't 2682 02:12:49,840 --> 02:12:51,840 Speaker 3: have a problem with these other people. You don't call 2683 02:12:51,920 --> 02:12:55,960 Speaker 3: these other people out. You pick when people retaliate to 2684 02:12:56,080 --> 02:12:59,320 Speaker 3: then say something and I hate that shit, you know, 2685 02:12:59,400 --> 02:13:01,080 Speaker 3: I don't fuck with white people that do that. Like 2686 02:13:01,400 --> 02:13:03,840 Speaker 3: if they catch me being like, yo, this shit was racist, 2687 02:13:03,840 --> 02:13:05,440 Speaker 3: and they come in and talk start talking to me 2688 02:13:05,480 --> 02:13:07,840 Speaker 3: about how it's not or and they ain't had nothing 2689 02:13:08,000 --> 02:13:09,720 Speaker 3: or how it ain't that bad or whatever, and they 2690 02:13:09,720 --> 02:13:11,960 Speaker 3: ain't had nothing to say when the racist person was talking, 2691 02:13:12,600 --> 02:13:15,160 Speaker 3: you can get the fuck out, like we're not cool, 2692 02:13:16,520 --> 02:13:19,400 Speaker 3: just how this was. But I feel like I have 2693 02:13:19,480 --> 02:13:23,920 Speaker 3: a responsibility to be that way too, man. So you know, 2694 02:13:24,120 --> 02:13:26,400 Speaker 3: in a certain situations where somebody comes in and they're 2695 02:13:26,480 --> 02:13:29,360 Speaker 3: legitimately saying some bullshit, I have to be like, nah, man, 2696 02:13:29,880 --> 02:13:33,120 Speaker 3: cause cause it is just about me. Especially once you 2697 02:13:33,320 --> 02:13:35,640 Speaker 3: have like a level of a platform, like there's people 2698 02:13:35,680 --> 02:13:38,480 Speaker 3: on my page, there's more people that are fans. Then 2699 02:13:38,520 --> 02:13:42,160 Speaker 3: I have friends on my page now, you know, and 2700 02:13:42,400 --> 02:13:44,480 Speaker 3: and it's not an And the thing is, it's not 2701 02:13:44,600 --> 02:13:47,960 Speaker 3: an act. It's not something I'm doing just the key fans. 2702 02:13:47,960 --> 02:13:49,440 Speaker 3: I wouldn't have been cool with that shit if it 2703 02:13:49,520 --> 02:13:51,680 Speaker 3: was just my friends on my page. But I god 2704 02:13:51,800 --> 02:13:55,640 Speaker 3: damn surans ain't okay with it people coming on my 2705 02:13:55,680 --> 02:13:58,320 Speaker 3: page acting stupid because a lot of people talk academically 2706 02:13:58,440 --> 02:14:02,240 Speaker 3: like the people reading this are all in whatever group 2707 02:14:02,320 --> 02:14:04,920 Speaker 3: they are in, so we're talking about gay people that 2708 02:14:05,520 --> 02:14:07,600 Speaker 3: it's like we're just all talking about gay people. Yeah, 2709 02:14:07,600 --> 02:14:10,120 Speaker 3: because no gay people reading this, right, They people don't 2710 02:14:10,160 --> 02:14:12,760 Speaker 3: have odds, they wouldn't possibly be my friends. They're like, 2711 02:14:12,840 --> 02:14:16,040 Speaker 3: what the fuck along with you? Anyway? Thank you for 2712 02:14:16,040 --> 02:14:18,280 Speaker 3: all that you both do. I'm grateful an appreciative love 2713 02:14:18,480 --> 02:14:22,400 Speaker 3: PS Joe Vitra and ray As all bay Ah. 2714 02:14:22,360 --> 02:14:24,360 Speaker 5: You fuck with rays See. 2715 02:14:24,400 --> 02:14:26,480 Speaker 3: I don't like ray As coming on too strong to me, 2716 02:14:26,960 --> 02:14:29,680 Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying, Like, I wasn't feeling it 2717 02:14:29,760 --> 02:14:33,600 Speaker 3: baging like he he felt crazy, like he felt like 2718 02:14:33,640 --> 02:14:35,600 Speaker 3: I don't know if that's racist because he is brown. 2719 02:14:36,120 --> 02:14:37,839 Speaker 3: He just felt a little too lecherous. 2720 02:14:37,920 --> 02:14:38,120 Speaker 10: Man. 2721 02:14:38,200 --> 02:14:39,760 Speaker 3: You know, I'm like, I don't know about you, ray 2722 02:14:39,800 --> 02:14:43,680 Speaker 3: As DrAk is my favorite granddad. Dack is the best 2723 02:14:44,440 --> 02:14:48,400 Speaker 3: that Jack. I love how Draco asked me about killing 2724 02:14:48,480 --> 02:14:50,720 Speaker 3: somebody and I'll be like, come on, we can't do that. 2725 02:14:50,880 --> 02:14:54,480 Speaker 3: He'll be like, spoils sport. I knew you would say that, and. 2726 02:14:54,520 --> 02:14:57,080 Speaker 5: Then we'll we'll go off and do it the right way. 2727 02:14:57,720 --> 02:14:59,760 Speaker 3: And I really want to see screenshots that can't start 2728 02:14:59,800 --> 02:15:02,040 Speaker 3: do Valley Farm because Stardu Valley is my. 2729 02:15:02,080 --> 02:15:02,960 Speaker 5: Second favorite game. 2730 02:15:03,880 --> 02:15:06,400 Speaker 3: You fit right in h I love that damn game. 2731 02:15:06,680 --> 02:15:10,360 Speaker 3: Thank you, Bacon. All right, man, that's everything. We'll be 2732 02:15:10,440 --> 02:15:14,280 Speaker 3: back tomorrow. We'll appreciate everybody for listening. Until next time. 2733 02:15:14,520 --> 02:15:16,200 Speaker 3: I love you. Why