1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:01,840 Speaker 1: Today show is pre recorded. 2 00:00:04,240 --> 00:00:10,400 Speaker 2: Y'all know what time, y'all don't know y'all all at all, 3 00:00:10,560 --> 00:00:24,840 Speaker 2: So don't given them black a million bush Yeah listening 4 00:00:24,920 --> 00:00:26,599 Speaker 2: to to. 5 00:00:38,640 --> 00:00:49,920 Speaker 3: I don't joy? 6 00:00:50,040 --> 00:00:59,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, Joy, you know you. 7 00:01:06,480 --> 00:01:06,680 Speaker 4: Love. 8 00:01:06,800 --> 00:01:29,040 Speaker 5: You gotta turn. 9 00:01:40,880 --> 00:01:44,160 Speaker 2: You got to turn the mouth turn you probably got 10 00:01:44,160 --> 00:01:46,160 Speaker 2: to turn the mouth out. 11 00:01:46,920 --> 00:01:48,400 Speaker 3: Ad the money up. 12 00:01:49,640 --> 00:01:56,440 Speaker 5: Look, come. 13 00:01:58,440 --> 00:02:04,840 Speaker 1: Come out your uh huh, I sure will. Good morning everybody. 14 00:02:05,080 --> 00:02:09,440 Speaker 4: You are listening to the voice, Come on dig me now, 15 00:02:10,440 --> 00:02:13,920 Speaker 4: one and only Steve Harvey. 16 00:02:13,680 --> 00:02:17,760 Speaker 1: Got a radio show man doing something with it too. 17 00:02:19,320 --> 00:02:26,160 Speaker 1: Get a mission. Get a mission, man, Get a purpose, 18 00:02:29,840 --> 00:02:31,120 Speaker 1: get a higher calling? 19 00:02:34,680 --> 00:02:42,040 Speaker 4: Be about it? What's this all for? What you're waking 20 00:02:42,120 --> 00:02:49,079 Speaker 4: up in the morning? For Get at it today one 21 00:02:49,080 --> 00:02:53,800 Speaker 4: more time? Get a mission, Get a purpose in your life, 22 00:02:55,800 --> 00:02:58,840 Speaker 4: find that higher calling of why you are here? 23 00:03:00,120 --> 00:03:04,440 Speaker 1: Be about it? What's it all for? Get at it today? 24 00:03:05,680 --> 00:03:09,639 Speaker 4: Now, Steve, you're making some some some some big statements here. 25 00:03:10,320 --> 00:03:11,000 Speaker 1: Uh huh yeah. 26 00:03:11,000 --> 00:03:13,240 Speaker 4: But oh you know I'm gonna clean it up for you, 27 00:03:13,320 --> 00:03:15,320 Speaker 4: don't you cause you know I don't just throw it 28 00:03:15,360 --> 00:03:18,320 Speaker 4: out there without without the how two part. See the 29 00:03:18,360 --> 00:03:22,160 Speaker 4: how two part is usually where most people stop. They 30 00:03:22,200 --> 00:03:23,680 Speaker 4: tell you this, what you gotta do? Is what you 31 00:03:23,680 --> 00:03:25,399 Speaker 4: gotta do, is what you gotta do. Then they don't 32 00:03:25,400 --> 00:03:29,200 Speaker 4: tell you how to That's why I don't. I don't 33 00:03:29,240 --> 00:03:33,720 Speaker 4: get off the boat right there now. If you're trying 34 00:03:33,720 --> 00:03:36,040 Speaker 4: to figure out if you're trying to get your life 35 00:03:36,120 --> 00:03:38,480 Speaker 4: a mission, and you're trying to figure out the purpose 36 00:03:38,520 --> 00:03:40,640 Speaker 4: and what the high calling is, and you want to 37 00:03:40,720 --> 00:03:43,720 Speaker 4: be about something, and you're trying to figure out what's 38 00:03:43,760 --> 00:03:46,080 Speaker 4: it all for, and you want to go get at 39 00:03:46,120 --> 00:03:53,760 Speaker 4: it today, here's the trick. God knows. God knows the 40 00:03:54,000 --> 00:03:58,840 Speaker 4: answer to all those questions. He knows what your mission 41 00:03:58,880 --> 00:04:01,960 Speaker 4: in life is. He already know what your purpose is. 42 00:04:02,240 --> 00:04:05,440 Speaker 4: He already know what the higher calling is. He already 43 00:04:05,480 --> 00:04:08,080 Speaker 4: know what you got to be about. He already know 44 00:04:08,160 --> 00:04:10,920 Speaker 4: what is all for. He already know what you need 45 00:04:10,960 --> 00:04:14,160 Speaker 4: to go get at. God knows you know why. He 46 00:04:14,280 --> 00:04:19,080 Speaker 4: knows because He created you. And God created all of 47 00:04:19,160 --> 00:04:23,520 Speaker 4: us with a purpose in mind. Irregardless as to how 48 00:04:23,560 --> 00:04:26,760 Speaker 4: we were created, we were all created with the purpose 49 00:04:26,800 --> 00:04:30,120 Speaker 4: in mind. He got a mission for us, He got 50 00:04:30,160 --> 00:04:33,440 Speaker 4: something he wants from us, he got something he expects 51 00:04:33,440 --> 00:04:37,960 Speaker 4: of us. He has a life of abundance prepared for 52 00:04:38,080 --> 00:04:39,360 Speaker 4: each and every one of us. 53 00:04:39,520 --> 00:04:40,920 Speaker 1: That will lay claim to it. 54 00:04:41,120 --> 00:04:44,000 Speaker 4: Now, if you don't want that, then gone and start 55 00:04:44,080 --> 00:04:48,080 Speaker 4: making decisions on your own, possibly like you have. Now, 56 00:04:48,160 --> 00:04:50,600 Speaker 4: let me ask you something, since you've been making all 57 00:04:50,640 --> 00:04:54,120 Speaker 4: the decisions on your own, Where you at, where you 58 00:04:54,240 --> 00:04:56,279 Speaker 4: at with it? How you feel about it every day? 59 00:04:57,279 --> 00:05:00,359 Speaker 4: How locked in on your mission? Are you you on 60 00:05:00,400 --> 00:05:03,159 Speaker 4: a good purpose? Plan you know? Do you feel like 61 00:05:03,240 --> 00:05:05,960 Speaker 4: your life is in a higher calling? Do you know 62 00:05:06,040 --> 00:05:09,520 Speaker 4: what you about? Do you have an understanding of what 63 00:05:09,600 --> 00:05:13,200 Speaker 4: it's all for? Are you up every day going and 64 00:05:13,240 --> 00:05:14,000 Speaker 4: getting at it? 65 00:05:15,520 --> 00:05:15,960 Speaker 1: See? 66 00:05:16,320 --> 00:05:20,440 Speaker 4: Come on now, So now I'm asking you if you've 67 00:05:20,480 --> 00:05:23,400 Speaker 4: done this without talking to God or without checking in 68 00:05:23,480 --> 00:05:27,400 Speaker 4: with your creator? Can you answer all those questions? I 69 00:05:27,440 --> 00:05:30,960 Speaker 4: can flat out tell you you can't. I know for 70 00:05:31,000 --> 00:05:36,320 Speaker 4: a fact you can't because you can't know how good 71 00:05:36,440 --> 00:05:40,039 Speaker 4: your life can be, and you won't have a life 72 00:05:40,400 --> 00:05:42,760 Speaker 4: as good as you want it to be until you 73 00:05:42,880 --> 00:05:47,040 Speaker 4: have connected with the one that created you. You better 74 00:05:47,160 --> 00:05:50,719 Speaker 4: understand this one now. Please understand this ain't Steve just 75 00:05:50,760 --> 00:05:53,640 Speaker 4: over here ranting and raving. This is Steve after having 76 00:05:53,800 --> 00:05:58,359 Speaker 4: years of figuring this one out. But it's all in 77 00:05:58,440 --> 00:06:03,440 Speaker 4: the Bible, It's all in holy writings. But you know 78 00:06:03,800 --> 00:06:07,080 Speaker 4: I ain't got time for that. Don't go to church 79 00:06:07,160 --> 00:06:11,360 Speaker 4: like I'm posed to. Don't read the Bible or the 80 00:06:11,400 --> 00:06:14,000 Speaker 4: scrolls or the Koran or whatever your faith is. You 81 00:06:14,080 --> 00:06:18,920 Speaker 4: don't read all that it's in there, though it's in there. 82 00:06:19,880 --> 00:06:24,599 Speaker 4: But we're humans, so we go get at it the 83 00:06:24,640 --> 00:06:27,400 Speaker 4: way we see it. Let me tell you what happened 84 00:06:27,440 --> 00:06:31,159 Speaker 4: to me. See while I was getting at it the 85 00:06:31,200 --> 00:06:33,520 Speaker 4: way I saw it ort to be got at You 86 00:06:33,600 --> 00:06:37,480 Speaker 4: understand me. When I was defining my purpose, when I 87 00:06:37,640 --> 00:06:42,440 Speaker 4: was creating my own mission, when I was laying claim 88 00:06:42,560 --> 00:06:45,240 Speaker 4: to what my calling is in life, let me tell 89 00:06:45,240 --> 00:06:46,200 Speaker 4: you what I was doing. 90 00:06:46,680 --> 00:06:47,960 Speaker 1: I was deferring. 91 00:06:48,880 --> 00:06:52,640 Speaker 4: I was deferring the abundance that He really had for me. 92 00:06:53,720 --> 00:06:57,520 Speaker 1: I'm just now listen to me. I'm just now. 93 00:06:57,480 --> 00:07:01,279 Speaker 4: Getting at it for real and working towards it all 94 00:07:01,360 --> 00:07:04,159 Speaker 4: my life. I didn't know it though, But see, because 95 00:07:04,240 --> 00:07:07,520 Speaker 4: God is so merciful and so full of grace, he 96 00:07:07,600 --> 00:07:10,800 Speaker 4: allowed me to make all the mistakes I made, And 97 00:07:11,360 --> 00:07:13,640 Speaker 4: then when I finally came to him, he said, all right, 98 00:07:13,680 --> 00:07:15,520 Speaker 4: now I'm gonna take all of them. Is to tell 99 00:07:15,520 --> 00:07:17,720 Speaker 4: you how cold I am. Now this this God, Now 100 00:07:17,960 --> 00:07:21,440 Speaker 4: I'm gonna tell you how cold God is. He takes 101 00:07:21,560 --> 00:07:25,440 Speaker 4: all the mistakes you made, all the failures you made 102 00:07:25,600 --> 00:07:29,480 Speaker 4: while you was making your own decisions. He takes all 103 00:07:29,520 --> 00:07:34,600 Speaker 4: of that and uses them as valuable gained and learned experiences, 104 00:07:34,760 --> 00:07:37,200 Speaker 4: and he takes that and allows you to be who 105 00:07:37,240 --> 00:07:40,520 Speaker 4: you are today. See God, God ain't gonna let you 106 00:07:40,600 --> 00:07:45,200 Speaker 4: forget what you did. But here's something cold too. He 107 00:07:45,200 --> 00:07:47,200 Speaker 4: ain't gonna let what you did go for not. 108 00:07:48,760 --> 00:07:52,560 Speaker 1: Oh what's you say? See that's what's cold. 109 00:07:52,880 --> 00:07:58,000 Speaker 4: See all the mistakes I made, every lie I told, 110 00:08:00,120 --> 00:08:03,880 Speaker 4: a traumatic experience I went through, I put anybody through. 111 00:08:05,520 --> 00:08:06,360 Speaker 1: Any time. 112 00:08:06,520 --> 00:08:10,120 Speaker 4: Man I was out there tripping trying to justify it 113 00:08:10,200 --> 00:08:14,480 Speaker 4: as right. He said, all right, okay, But now, because 114 00:08:14,520 --> 00:08:19,600 Speaker 4: of my mercy and my grace, what I'm gonna do 115 00:08:19,840 --> 00:08:23,320 Speaker 4: is I'm gonna allow all this to happen. You're gonna 116 00:08:23,320 --> 00:08:26,280 Speaker 4: waste a lot of time, you gonna forfeit a life 117 00:08:26,360 --> 00:08:28,880 Speaker 4: of abundance that you could have been and had. But 118 00:08:28,960 --> 00:08:30,760 Speaker 4: I tell you what I'm gonna do. I'm gonna take 119 00:08:30,880 --> 00:08:33,199 Speaker 4: all of that and I'm gonna turn it into some good. 120 00:08:33,760 --> 00:08:36,840 Speaker 4: So I'm gonna let all of these lessons that you've learned, 121 00:08:36,880 --> 00:08:40,479 Speaker 4: all of these hardships. All of these moments are despaired 122 00:08:40,760 --> 00:08:43,000 Speaker 4: come back, and you'll use them and you'll wear them 123 00:08:43,000 --> 00:08:45,720 Speaker 4: on your head like a crown. You're gonna it's gonna 124 00:08:45,720 --> 00:08:48,679 Speaker 4: be jewels in your head. Man. I'm gonna take all 125 00:08:48,720 --> 00:08:52,320 Speaker 4: of that stuff and make you knowledgeable. I'm gonna take 126 00:08:52,360 --> 00:08:54,320 Speaker 4: all that stuff and make you wise. 127 00:08:54,520 --> 00:08:55,000 Speaker 1: Man. 128 00:08:55,360 --> 00:08:58,160 Speaker 4: I'm gonna take all of that stuff and I'm gonna 129 00:08:58,160 --> 00:09:00,880 Speaker 4: put it in your mission. I'm gonna take all that 130 00:09:01,000 --> 00:09:03,600 Speaker 4: stuff and make that a part of your purpose. I'm 131 00:09:03,640 --> 00:09:06,240 Speaker 4: gonna take all that stuff and create that to be 132 00:09:06,280 --> 00:09:08,920 Speaker 4: a part of your higher calling. I'm gonna take all 133 00:09:09,000 --> 00:09:11,679 Speaker 4: that and let you be about that right there. I'm 134 00:09:11,679 --> 00:09:14,199 Speaker 4: gonna take all of that, and i'm gonna let you 135 00:09:14,320 --> 00:09:17,400 Speaker 4: find out what it's all been for. I'm gonna take 136 00:09:17,480 --> 00:09:19,680 Speaker 4: all of that, and with all of that mess you've 137 00:09:19,720 --> 00:09:22,080 Speaker 4: made of your life, I'm gonna let you now take 138 00:09:22,160 --> 00:09:23,520 Speaker 4: all that and go get at it. 139 00:09:24,440 --> 00:09:27,559 Speaker 1: See, but that only happens when you come to God. 140 00:09:28,360 --> 00:09:31,000 Speaker 4: Because God is the only one that knows what you've 141 00:09:31,000 --> 00:09:33,320 Speaker 4: been through and how to take what you've been through 142 00:09:33,520 --> 00:09:35,880 Speaker 4: and turn it into something to help you get through 143 00:09:36,000 --> 00:09:39,240 Speaker 4: what you're going through. Hey, the only one can do that. 144 00:09:39,480 --> 00:09:42,680 Speaker 4: Ain't nobody else like him. There's nothing like him on 145 00:09:42,800 --> 00:09:46,720 Speaker 4: this world available to you. Man, So quit tripping yourself out, 146 00:09:46,920 --> 00:09:48,240 Speaker 4: get over there and talk to God. 147 00:09:48,320 --> 00:09:48,520 Speaker 6: Man. 148 00:09:48,800 --> 00:09:51,319 Speaker 1: Quit wasting your life like I was doing. Stop. 149 00:09:51,440 --> 00:09:53,440 Speaker 4: I'm telling you He'll let you get at it and 150 00:09:53,480 --> 00:09:55,640 Speaker 4: can't nobody let you get at it like him. 151 00:09:55,800 --> 00:10:00,520 Speaker 1: All right, let's ride. You're listening hard Morning Show. 152 00:10:03,600 --> 00:10:03,800 Speaker 6: Three. 153 00:10:04,120 --> 00:10:07,480 Speaker 4: When you think of love, got it, get it on 154 00:10:07,800 --> 00:10:14,000 Speaker 4: your mind. When you think of love and got it? 155 00:10:14,080 --> 00:10:18,920 Speaker 4: Get it on your mind, Billy R. Valentine, when you 156 00:10:19,040 --> 00:10:23,520 Speaker 4: think of it, oh God, and get it on. 157 00:10:25,360 --> 00:10:26,080 Speaker 1: Your mind. 158 00:10:32,880 --> 00:10:33,080 Speaker 7: Yeah. 159 00:10:33,200 --> 00:10:36,120 Speaker 1: You's how we're doing it today. A little bit different. 160 00:10:37,840 --> 00:10:40,040 Speaker 8: Hey, good morning, Happy Friday, Steve. 161 00:10:40,360 --> 00:10:42,400 Speaker 1: It was a throwback Friday opening for me. 162 00:10:42,600 --> 00:10:45,280 Speaker 8: Colin Farrell, never mad on a Friday. 163 00:10:45,320 --> 00:10:45,719 Speaker 1: I love it. 164 00:10:45,800 --> 00:10:52,280 Speaker 4: Steve Moran, never mad. M M Junior, Jodasy Junior. 165 00:10:54,800 --> 00:10:58,480 Speaker 1: What's happing on one? Everybody? King of pranks? 166 00:10:58,640 --> 00:11:02,400 Speaker 6: If you tell me, yay, top top is Friday? Baby, 167 00:11:02,520 --> 00:11:03,520 Speaker 6: let's get it, unc. 168 00:11:04,240 --> 00:11:13,720 Speaker 1: Yo, don't get it? Younger love? Yeah, noah, I want 169 00:11:13,800 --> 00:11:17,040 Speaker 1: to know y'all younger. 170 00:11:18,320 --> 00:11:18,560 Speaker 4: Wow. 171 00:11:19,920 --> 00:11:25,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, hey boy, Oh that's true. Boy. They still put 172 00:11:25,960 --> 00:11:29,320 Speaker 1: on the show. Uh huh. They do Friday. 173 00:11:31,520 --> 00:11:32,240 Speaker 8: You're feeling good. 174 00:11:33,120 --> 00:11:36,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, gonna get your family feud out the way today. 175 00:11:36,120 --> 00:11:39,520 Speaker 1: And uh get you having two days off for the weekend. 176 00:11:40,720 --> 00:11:41,800 Speaker 1: What's you gonna do this weekend? 177 00:11:41,920 --> 00:11:46,320 Speaker 4: Because I have no idea. Nothing is at the top 178 00:11:46,320 --> 00:11:51,120 Speaker 4: of the list, though, hill mode. 179 00:11:53,280 --> 00:11:56,240 Speaker 9: Yeah, how do you sleep? I know you're a morning person, 180 00:11:56,240 --> 00:11:57,920 Speaker 9: but like on your days. 181 00:11:57,640 --> 00:12:01,400 Speaker 1: Off, oh my six six thirty. 182 00:12:01,440 --> 00:12:06,520 Speaker 9: Maybe that's like for us deep. 183 00:12:07,360 --> 00:12:10,760 Speaker 4: I get it in deep on the weekends six thirty. 184 00:12:10,880 --> 00:12:13,480 Speaker 4: Huh yeah, Like I was up this morning at four thirty. 185 00:12:14,120 --> 00:12:17,720 Speaker 1: Wow. Wow. Yeah, because you have to come to work. Yeah, 186 00:12:17,760 --> 00:12:20,680 Speaker 1: but ain't. I ain't got far the drivers. Are you 187 00:12:20,760 --> 00:12:24,319 Speaker 1: working at? Yeah? Workout first? 188 00:12:24,760 --> 00:12:33,840 Speaker 4: Oh, that's it's such a pain working on fat. 189 00:12:33,480 --> 00:12:38,439 Speaker 1: It ain't sh it. Ain't just working on fat. 190 00:12:38,520 --> 00:12:38,559 Speaker 9: No. 191 00:12:38,640 --> 00:12:41,920 Speaker 1: I got plenty of muscles. I'm muscular. I don't need it. 192 00:12:41,960 --> 00:12:47,439 Speaker 1: I just need to uncover them. Only nice, man. I'm strong. 193 00:12:47,440 --> 00:12:48,280 Speaker 1: I'm strong as hell. 194 00:12:48,440 --> 00:12:49,760 Speaker 5: But you're doing cardio. 195 00:12:49,840 --> 00:12:50,520 Speaker 1: A lot of cardio. 196 00:12:51,040 --> 00:12:52,800 Speaker 4: No, I do a lot of damn card I don't 197 00:12:52,880 --> 00:12:56,760 Speaker 4: like cardios. I do it, but I don't like it. 198 00:12:56,880 --> 00:13:01,120 Speaker 4: You know, I do a combination. It's lifting cardio coming out. Okay, 199 00:13:01,400 --> 00:13:04,520 Speaker 4: that's the best way to shread. Wait for me, cardio 200 00:13:04,640 --> 00:13:07,319 Speaker 4: without weight training isn't the best way to burn the 201 00:13:07,400 --> 00:13:11,560 Speaker 4: fact because I got a tone in shape too, as ault. 202 00:13:12,760 --> 00:13:15,640 Speaker 1: Training earn it. No, I don't like hit either, Jr. 203 00:13:15,920 --> 00:13:20,839 Speaker 1: You don't like I don't like high intensity training. You 204 00:13:20,880 --> 00:13:27,880 Speaker 1: don't like Jim. I like lit intensity low intensity training. 205 00:13:28,400 --> 00:13:34,600 Speaker 4: I like lit cot low intensity training with coffee. 206 00:13:37,200 --> 00:13:39,480 Speaker 9: Coming up at thirty two minutes after the hour, we'll 207 00:13:39,520 --> 00:13:42,240 Speaker 9: hear from the nephew to run that prank back right 208 00:13:42,280 --> 00:13:42,760 Speaker 9: after this. 209 00:13:43,360 --> 00:13:46,120 Speaker 1: You're listening morning. 210 00:13:45,840 --> 00:13:48,840 Speaker 9: Show, It is time now to start your morning off 211 00:13:48,880 --> 00:13:51,200 Speaker 9: with the nephew and run that prank back. 212 00:13:51,280 --> 00:13:55,280 Speaker 1: What you got f my refriger rate? 213 00:13:55,520 --> 00:13:58,640 Speaker 6: My refriger rate that I know, it sounds really simple, 214 00:14:01,120 --> 00:14:04,160 Speaker 6: that's right, that's right. But when you got a refrigerator 215 00:14:04,440 --> 00:14:09,040 Speaker 6: being the level, it's that window that bothers you at 216 00:14:09,080 --> 00:14:12,000 Speaker 6: eight to twelve, at twelve to four, that window because 217 00:14:12,000 --> 00:14:13,120 Speaker 6: they never come on time. 218 00:14:13,640 --> 00:14:15,040 Speaker 1: My refrigerator, cat dog. 219 00:14:15,120 --> 00:14:18,240 Speaker 6: If you would hello Hello, I'm trying to reach out 220 00:14:18,280 --> 00:14:22,440 Speaker 6: mister please miss missus Jackson. I'm the driver man, I'm 221 00:14:22,640 --> 00:14:25,160 Speaker 6: actually the delivery guy that's bringing you refrigerator over the day. 222 00:14:25,360 --> 00:14:26,640 Speaker 10: Okay, what's going on? 223 00:14:27,000 --> 00:14:29,000 Speaker 6: Okay, listen, I know we had a window that was 224 00:14:29,040 --> 00:14:33,680 Speaker 6: from eight to twelve. This morning's see, it's eleven thirty now, 225 00:14:34,240 --> 00:14:36,640 Speaker 6: so we're running a little bit behind schedule. 226 00:14:36,680 --> 00:14:36,800 Speaker 7: Man. 227 00:14:36,840 --> 00:14:39,360 Speaker 1: We have some problems at the yard getting everything loaded up. 228 00:14:39,680 --> 00:14:41,480 Speaker 10: Man, come on, man, you killing me. 229 00:14:41,560 --> 00:14:41,960 Speaker 7: I can't. 230 00:14:42,440 --> 00:14:43,760 Speaker 11: Y'all y'all running behind. 231 00:14:43,880 --> 00:14:45,720 Speaker 1: Were a little bit behind schedule. Man, we're gonna have 232 00:14:46,000 --> 00:14:47,800 Speaker 1: will be there somewhere between twelve and four. 233 00:14:48,080 --> 00:14:51,360 Speaker 10: Oh, come on, man, I got to do better than that, now, man, Man. 234 00:14:52,520 --> 00:14:55,400 Speaker 1: I understand, sir, I understand that. Actually it's. 235 00:14:56,640 --> 00:14:59,600 Speaker 10: Man, I got all my food in here and coolers 236 00:14:59,640 --> 00:15:03,840 Speaker 10: and stuff. Man, I got ice different where I mean. So, 237 00:15:04,320 --> 00:15:06,320 Speaker 10: I mean, what's what? What's what's going on? Is y'all 238 00:15:06,320 --> 00:15:08,240 Speaker 10: ain't got the refrigerator. I'm trying to figure out. 239 00:15:08,440 --> 00:15:10,440 Speaker 1: No, No, we loaded up, you know, we just have 240 00:15:10,480 --> 00:15:10,880 Speaker 1: some problems. 241 00:15:10,920 --> 00:15:13,240 Speaker 6: I think one of the forklifts went out, and you know, 242 00:15:13,640 --> 00:15:15,320 Speaker 6: it kind of pushed us back. So that four, our 243 00:15:15,360 --> 00:15:17,760 Speaker 6: window we had from eight to twelve, man, just got ruined. 244 00:15:18,120 --> 00:15:20,080 Speaker 6: And now we're pushing things from our twelve to four. 245 00:15:20,200 --> 00:15:22,480 Speaker 6: So between twelve and four, man, we would definitely be there. 246 00:15:23,040 --> 00:15:25,240 Speaker 10: Y'all have to be better than that. Of course, it's 247 00:15:25,280 --> 00:15:27,960 Speaker 10: all I supposed to yesterday. 248 00:15:28,880 --> 00:15:31,600 Speaker 1: Actually, the warehouse supervisor he's actually out today. 249 00:15:31,600 --> 00:15:35,240 Speaker 10: He's not here, so he's not in. Yeah, man, Yeah, 250 00:15:35,520 --> 00:15:37,600 Speaker 10: I'm supposed to be working one car. You said y'all 251 00:15:37,680 --> 00:15:39,480 Speaker 10: gonna be until in between twelve and four. 252 00:15:39,480 --> 00:15:40,640 Speaker 7: I' supposed to be worked. 253 00:15:40,400 --> 00:15:41,080 Speaker 10: In one o'clock. 254 00:15:41,280 --> 00:15:45,280 Speaker 6: I understand it, man, I greatly apologize. Man, this rarely happens, 255 00:15:45,320 --> 00:15:47,800 Speaker 6: and it just so happened this morning. The forklift was 256 00:15:47,840 --> 00:15:49,480 Speaker 6: down and we had a lot of stuff to load up. 257 00:15:49,520 --> 00:15:52,520 Speaker 6: You know, we got I got ten refrigerators on this truck, man, 258 00:15:52,560 --> 00:15:53,920 Speaker 6: and one of them is definitely yours, sir. 259 00:15:53,920 --> 00:15:55,360 Speaker 1: So I'm definitely gonna be getting to tell you as 260 00:15:55,400 --> 00:15:55,920 Speaker 1: soon as I can. 261 00:15:56,520 --> 00:15:59,200 Speaker 10: So many pushing it because I'm supposed to be at 262 00:15:59,280 --> 00:16:02,720 Speaker 10: work and I scheduled everything else around this because I'm 263 00:16:02,720 --> 00:16:04,560 Speaker 10: supposed to know I gotta have a refrigerator to find 264 00:16:04,560 --> 00:16:06,200 Speaker 10: out I'm a food and suffit in there in the 265 00:16:06,280 --> 00:16:10,360 Speaker 10: in the kitchen and what you refrigerator went out? 266 00:16:10,440 --> 00:16:12,440 Speaker 1: Did it go? You refrigerator went out? Is that what happened? 267 00:16:12,560 --> 00:16:13,640 Speaker 10: Yeah? Very so did that. 268 00:16:13,840 --> 00:16:13,960 Speaker 7: Man. 269 00:16:14,160 --> 00:16:16,160 Speaker 10: I had it for quite some times, you know, So 270 00:16:16,240 --> 00:16:18,520 Speaker 10: it's just amount of time for we'll go out, so 271 00:16:18,600 --> 00:16:20,160 Speaker 10: I try to go ahead and get a new one, 272 00:16:20,400 --> 00:16:21,120 Speaker 10: you know, right. 273 00:16:21,240 --> 00:16:23,400 Speaker 1: So that's why, Well, now to schedule. I'll schedule you 274 00:16:23,480 --> 00:16:25,080 Speaker 1: next week sometime if you want me to. 275 00:16:26,640 --> 00:16:28,600 Speaker 10: I mean, I can't. I can't afford it. We're gonna 276 00:16:28,640 --> 00:16:30,240 Speaker 10: pay the food that I got in here all over 277 00:16:30,280 --> 00:16:30,560 Speaker 10: the floor. 278 00:16:30,720 --> 00:16:32,200 Speaker 6: Let me let me get the hustling man. See if 279 00:16:32,200 --> 00:16:33,800 Speaker 6: I can move as quick as I can. But twelve 280 00:16:33,840 --> 00:16:34,560 Speaker 6: or four is the window. 281 00:16:34,600 --> 00:16:34,760 Speaker 12: Man. 282 00:16:35,160 --> 00:16:37,800 Speaker 1: Like I said, I apologize, miss, We'll be that man. 283 00:16:37,800 --> 00:16:39,200 Speaker 1: We're gonna, we're gonna, we're gonna beat that with you 284 00:16:39,320 --> 00:16:40,280 Speaker 1: refrigerated day. Okay. 285 00:16:40,400 --> 00:16:43,120 Speaker 10: Okay, So so when you when you on your way, 286 00:16:43,160 --> 00:16:44,720 Speaker 10: how about I want you to call me and let 287 00:16:44,800 --> 00:16:46,320 Speaker 10: me know that you on your way so I know 288 00:16:46,400 --> 00:16:46,840 Speaker 10: what's going on. 289 00:16:47,040 --> 00:16:48,840 Speaker 6: We don't normally, we don't normally call when we're on 290 00:16:48,880 --> 00:16:50,400 Speaker 6: our way. We just come on in and get things 291 00:16:50,440 --> 00:16:50,800 Speaker 6: set up. 292 00:16:51,280 --> 00:16:52,320 Speaker 10: What do you mean you don't call it? 293 00:16:53,160 --> 00:16:53,200 Speaker 9: Not? 294 00:16:53,600 --> 00:16:55,360 Speaker 10: You just called me just now? Yeah? 295 00:16:55,520 --> 00:16:59,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, like I said, the problem is on us, man, 296 00:16:59,240 --> 00:17:00,600 Speaker 1: I'll give you a call win route. 297 00:17:00,600 --> 00:17:02,920 Speaker 10: Okay, Okay, I appreciate that. Now you said twere you 298 00:17:02,960 --> 00:17:04,120 Speaker 10: said it between twelve and four? 299 00:17:04,240 --> 00:17:06,280 Speaker 1: Now yes, sir, tween twelve and four, we definitely be there. 300 00:17:06,320 --> 00:17:07,280 Speaker 1: We got you on the truck man. 301 00:17:07,359 --> 00:17:09,720 Speaker 10: Okay, I don't I don't want to miss man. 302 00:17:09,880 --> 00:17:11,360 Speaker 1: No, no, we got you. We got you. We'll see 303 00:17:11,359 --> 00:17:12,960 Speaker 1: you in a minute. Man, all right, take care. 304 00:17:15,200 --> 00:17:18,800 Speaker 6: Hello, uh miss, this is Jackson again, the delivery guy 305 00:17:18,880 --> 00:17:22,800 Speaker 6: man with refrigerator. Listen, listen about tea. 306 00:17:23,000 --> 00:17:23,160 Speaker 10: Man. 307 00:17:23,240 --> 00:17:24,959 Speaker 1: We run into a few more problems here. 308 00:17:25,000 --> 00:17:26,639 Speaker 6: Man, it looks like we probably not gonna get that 309 00:17:26,680 --> 00:17:30,920 Speaker 6: refrigerator out till tomorrow. Sometimes hold you said what we 310 00:17:31,080 --> 00:17:32,800 Speaker 6: run into a few more problems, Man, it looks like 311 00:17:32,840 --> 00:17:34,960 Speaker 6: we're probably not gonna get that refrigeratorut trel tomorrow soon. 312 00:17:35,359 --> 00:17:37,320 Speaker 10: Ran into a few more problems, a few more problems 313 00:17:37,440 --> 00:17:38,600 Speaker 10: like what, sir, we got. 314 00:17:38,560 --> 00:17:41,159 Speaker 6: Some problems with some uh some more delivers we got 315 00:17:41,359 --> 00:17:43,000 Speaker 6: just with all the deliverys we got it. Just don't see, 316 00:17:43,000 --> 00:17:44,520 Speaker 6: we're gonna make it on your side of town to 317 00:17:44,560 --> 00:17:45,560 Speaker 6: be able to get this thing table. 318 00:17:45,600 --> 00:17:47,200 Speaker 10: You're not gonna make it on my side of town. 319 00:17:47,359 --> 00:17:48,359 Speaker 4: What kind of is that? 320 00:17:48,760 --> 00:17:48,800 Speaker 11: You? 321 00:17:49,680 --> 00:17:51,440 Speaker 10: Just you decide you want to take my money with 322 00:17:51,560 --> 00:17:53,400 Speaker 10: our pay for when I paid for it, But you're 323 00:17:53,400 --> 00:17:54,720 Speaker 10: gonna tell me you don't you ain't gonna make it 324 00:17:54,760 --> 00:17:55,640 Speaker 10: on my side of town. 325 00:17:55,800 --> 00:17:57,760 Speaker 6: Well, well, we can definitely get out there tomorrow. Man, 326 00:17:57,800 --> 00:17:59,200 Speaker 6: we definitely can get out there the market. 327 00:18:00,119 --> 00:18:02,199 Speaker 10: You I can't have my situation here tomorrow. I got 328 00:18:02,320 --> 00:18:05,000 Speaker 10: chicken and beefing uh and man brisk all over here, 329 00:18:05,040 --> 00:18:06,800 Speaker 10: him my floak. And you're gonna tell me you can't 330 00:18:06,800 --> 00:18:07,680 Speaker 10: make it in here til tomorrow? 331 00:18:07,720 --> 00:18:08,560 Speaker 7: What that. 332 00:18:10,359 --> 00:18:10,399 Speaker 11: You? 333 00:18:10,520 --> 00:18:11,920 Speaker 10: You ain't got no answer for me on that. 334 00:18:12,280 --> 00:18:12,800 Speaker 1: I understand. 335 00:18:13,000 --> 00:18:15,920 Speaker 10: No, No, I don't think you understand, son, because I 336 00:18:15,920 --> 00:18:17,840 Speaker 10: got sitting I got food and ice sitting in here, 337 00:18:17,840 --> 00:18:20,280 Speaker 10: and coolers all over the floor in my kitchen. You're 338 00:18:20,280 --> 00:18:22,239 Speaker 10: gonna tell me that I did just you can't make 339 00:18:22,280 --> 00:18:23,879 Speaker 10: it in here until tomorrow with my with my with 340 00:18:24,000 --> 00:18:26,280 Speaker 10: my fridgitt hell because because you you you you you 341 00:18:26,440 --> 00:18:30,359 Speaker 10: yelling on the back of ramp the w yesterday, the 342 00:18:30,440 --> 00:18:34,399 Speaker 10: work that is, I know you spoke. I told him 343 00:18:34,480 --> 00:18:37,080 Speaker 10: yesterday I had to have my work at one o'clock. 344 00:18:37,440 --> 00:18:39,280 Speaker 10: I told him that, I said that you got to 345 00:18:39,720 --> 00:18:42,440 Speaker 10: refrigerating her own time because I got to have my 346 00:18:42,880 --> 00:18:43,320 Speaker 10: head work. 347 00:18:45,800 --> 00:18:49,040 Speaker 6: I don't talk to you, like I said, sertain not 348 00:18:49,200 --> 00:18:52,359 Speaker 6: working today, he's not in the day in charge. 349 00:18:52,480 --> 00:18:55,120 Speaker 1: Well, actually, the lady named one that's actually in charge 350 00:18:55,119 --> 00:18:57,399 Speaker 1: of leaves. But uh, I don't even know if I 351 00:18:57,440 --> 00:18:58,359 Speaker 1: saw mom. 352 00:18:59,040 --> 00:19:03,200 Speaker 10: But but you reggative? You where do y'all do it 353 00:19:03,280 --> 00:19:03,640 Speaker 10: over there? 354 00:19:04,880 --> 00:19:05,040 Speaker 1: Did? 355 00:19:05,119 --> 00:19:08,200 Speaker 10: We're gonna have it there? It was between I took 356 00:19:08,240 --> 00:19:11,360 Speaker 10: out my job, but y'all had a refrigerator here. I'm 357 00:19:11,400 --> 00:19:14,639 Speaker 10: here at home. Now you call me back and. 358 00:19:14,680 --> 00:19:16,560 Speaker 6: You all I can tell you is we're gonna be 359 00:19:16,640 --> 00:19:18,680 Speaker 6: there tomorrow. Okay, I'm not gonna go back and forth. 360 00:19:18,680 --> 00:19:21,639 Speaker 10: You said you're not gonna go you know what. You 361 00:19:24,680 --> 00:19:28,680 Speaker 10: the frigerator. Sorry, y'all you take the refrigerator. So you 362 00:19:28,760 --> 00:19:32,920 Speaker 10: take the refrigerator enough. I don't want to, you know, mo, 363 00:19:33,119 --> 00:19:35,320 Speaker 10: I go put this food in my neighbor refrigerator and 364 00:19:35,400 --> 00:19:37,440 Speaker 10: I'm gonna go give me another one somewhere else because 365 00:19:37,440 --> 00:19:39,520 Speaker 10: you playing around. Ain't got time for your mess, sir. 366 00:19:39,560 --> 00:19:42,200 Speaker 1: I don't know if I don't know if that's you. 367 00:19:43,800 --> 00:19:44,080 Speaker 1: You mean? 368 00:19:44,160 --> 00:19:45,879 Speaker 10: You know that is real fun. You got time. You're 369 00:19:45,880 --> 00:19:48,000 Speaker 10: gonna take my money and you're gonna tell me that 370 00:19:48,080 --> 00:19:50,160 Speaker 10: I can't have my money back and you can't get 371 00:19:50,280 --> 00:19:51,959 Speaker 10: my frigerator on your time, sir. 372 00:19:52,680 --> 00:19:56,000 Speaker 6: Listen, there's one more thing I need something saying to 373 00:19:56,040 --> 00:19:59,280 Speaker 6: me because okay, but I have one more thing I 374 00:19:59,359 --> 00:20:01,200 Speaker 6: need to tell y'all. Okay, are you listening? This will 375 00:20:01,200 --> 00:20:04,359 Speaker 6: probably help everything. This is nephew Tommy from the Steve 376 00:20:04,440 --> 00:20:06,960 Speaker 6: Hobby Morning Show. You just got pranked by your wife. 377 00:20:14,160 --> 00:20:18,159 Speaker 10: You know what I'm gonna six, That's what I want to. 378 00:20:19,760 --> 00:20:19,960 Speaker 7: Show. 379 00:20:24,680 --> 00:20:27,360 Speaker 1: Like them church folks say, I prank that thing right now, 380 00:20:27,600 --> 00:20:28,400 Speaker 1: I prank that thing. 381 00:20:29,320 --> 00:20:31,679 Speaker 9: Coming up next to his ask the CLO with our 382 00:20:31,800 --> 00:20:34,960 Speaker 9: Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey in the building, ready for 383 00:20:35,080 --> 00:20:39,439 Speaker 9: your love questions right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey 384 00:20:39,520 --> 00:20:42,639 Speaker 9: Morning Show. All right, guys, time now to ask the 385 00:20:42,800 --> 00:20:45,800 Speaker 9: c l O. He is here, Steve Harvey, our Chief 386 00:20:46,160 --> 00:20:50,320 Speaker 9: Love Officer. This one is from Tangala in the Bay Area. 387 00:20:51,000 --> 00:20:53,119 Speaker 9: Tangla writes, I'm a thirty five year old mother of 388 00:20:53,320 --> 00:20:57,080 Speaker 9: five daughters and I desperately need to get away. I've 389 00:20:57,160 --> 00:20:59,560 Speaker 9: gone above and beyond the call of duty as a mother. 390 00:21:00,280 --> 00:21:03,240 Speaker 9: I need a week or even a weekend to myself. 391 00:21:03,640 --> 00:21:06,720 Speaker 9: My husband travels for work, so he gets quiet time away. 392 00:21:07,320 --> 00:21:09,800 Speaker 9: My sister is stationed in Hawaii and I want to 393 00:21:09,840 --> 00:21:12,520 Speaker 9: go visit her, but my husband told me he can't 394 00:21:12,560 --> 00:21:16,000 Speaker 9: take care, he can't handle the girls by himself. Instead, 395 00:21:17,359 --> 00:21:20,840 Speaker 9: he suggested we all go to Hawaii as a family. 396 00:21:21,240 --> 00:21:23,280 Speaker 9: Would I be wrong to plan my trip and leave 397 00:21:23,359 --> 00:21:24,880 Speaker 9: him home along with our daughter? 398 00:21:25,560 --> 00:21:28,240 Speaker 1: Yep, you need a break, You need to break. 399 00:21:28,280 --> 00:21:31,639 Speaker 4: Look, everybody needs me time, and planning a trip to 400 00:21:31,640 --> 00:21:34,520 Speaker 4: Hawaii with the family is just taking the girls with you. 401 00:21:35,040 --> 00:21:37,000 Speaker 4: The guy has to understand now he's sending a bit 402 00:21:37,040 --> 00:21:39,240 Speaker 4: to me. He can't handle them by hisself, but he 403 00:21:39,359 --> 00:21:42,720 Speaker 4: leaves them there with you by yourself because he gets 404 00:21:42,720 --> 00:21:44,520 Speaker 4: some me time when he go out on the road 405 00:21:44,640 --> 00:21:46,480 Speaker 4: traveling all that he go to bed and get to 406 00:21:46,520 --> 00:21:49,159 Speaker 4: watch what he won't lay all weund he may do. 407 00:21:49,320 --> 00:21:51,679 Speaker 4: Come on, guy, in all families, he has to allow 408 00:21:51,800 --> 00:21:56,920 Speaker 4: you some time to yourself. Everybody needs me time. Being 409 00:21:57,000 --> 00:22:00,320 Speaker 4: a mother is hard, man who and the dude has 410 00:22:00,400 --> 00:22:05,560 Speaker 4: to understand that there's being a mother is harder than 411 00:22:05,720 --> 00:22:09,600 Speaker 4: fatherhood actually, because hell, they got to give birth to 412 00:22:09,680 --> 00:22:12,520 Speaker 4: these children. I mean, look, come on, marry them so 413 00:22:12,840 --> 00:22:16,520 Speaker 4: that tag we're sorry they got us topped. So yes, 414 00:22:16,800 --> 00:22:19,159 Speaker 4: you need me timing. You need to just go and 415 00:22:19,280 --> 00:22:23,000 Speaker 4: he needs to understand that he'll figure it out. I k' 416 00:22:23,280 --> 00:22:25,119 Speaker 4: ikat yeah, bitch, Well what you're gonna do? 417 00:22:25,720 --> 00:22:26,840 Speaker 1: Right? Yeah? 418 00:22:27,000 --> 00:22:29,280 Speaker 9: But telling her daughters I'm going to Hawaii and they 419 00:22:29,320 --> 00:22:31,600 Speaker 9: can't go, they probably I'm crazy about the face. 420 00:22:32,960 --> 00:22:34,560 Speaker 1: Tickets is seven tickets. 421 00:22:35,080 --> 00:22:37,720 Speaker 4: I mean, well, get to looking crazy because I'm out, 422 00:22:38,359 --> 00:22:39,280 Speaker 4: because I'm sitting. 423 00:22:39,080 --> 00:22:43,240 Speaker 1: Up here with y'all looking crazy. She spread crazy around. Yeah, 424 00:22:43,440 --> 00:22:46,320 Speaker 1: everybody gets him crazy. Yeah, all right. 425 00:22:46,440 --> 00:22:49,000 Speaker 9: Schuler and Augusta says, I'm a fifty seven year old 426 00:22:49,040 --> 00:22:51,240 Speaker 9: man and I'm renting a house to a woman that 427 00:22:51,400 --> 00:22:54,119 Speaker 9: I used to date. Lately, I've been sleeping with her 428 00:22:54,160 --> 00:22:56,399 Speaker 9: twenty eight year old daughter, and we've kept it on 429 00:22:56,480 --> 00:22:59,440 Speaker 9: the down low because I don't need the drama. The 430 00:22:59,520 --> 00:23:02,359 Speaker 9: woman had has been ill and she can't pay her rent. 431 00:23:02,760 --> 00:23:05,440 Speaker 9: Her daughter told me, if I don't stop pressuring them 432 00:23:05,480 --> 00:23:07,919 Speaker 9: for the rent, she's gonna tell her mom about us. 433 00:23:08,280 --> 00:23:12,000 Speaker 8: This will kill my reputation in town. But I need 434 00:23:12,080 --> 00:23:12,520 Speaker 8: the money. 435 00:23:12,920 --> 00:23:16,959 Speaker 1: What can I do? See, old pimp shoe. Look, let 436 00:23:17,000 --> 00:23:17,960 Speaker 1: me explain something to you. 437 00:23:18,280 --> 00:23:22,359 Speaker 4: God, you can't play the game, be the pimp and 438 00:23:22,480 --> 00:23:25,639 Speaker 4: the player, and don't expect to get played or pimped. 439 00:23:26,560 --> 00:23:29,520 Speaker 4: It's the game you created. You can't be the player 440 00:23:29,720 --> 00:23:31,960 Speaker 4: and the pimp. In the game and then don't expect 441 00:23:32,000 --> 00:23:34,840 Speaker 4: the game to turn around play and pimp you. Now 442 00:23:34,920 --> 00:23:38,399 Speaker 4: you're screwing this woman's daughter on the down low, so 443 00:23:38,640 --> 00:23:41,080 Speaker 4: you thought, but you pressuring them for money? 444 00:23:41,359 --> 00:23:43,399 Speaker 1: Now let me let me ask them. So how you 445 00:23:43,520 --> 00:23:46,399 Speaker 1: gonna play the young girl for some for some sex. 446 00:23:47,640 --> 00:23:50,880 Speaker 4: But now when it comes to some allocation on the rent, 447 00:23:51,000 --> 00:23:53,200 Speaker 4: you don't want to give her nothing. So now you 448 00:23:53,400 --> 00:23:56,040 Speaker 4: just she's rest saus have to sex you and you 449 00:23:56,119 --> 00:23:59,320 Speaker 4: don't chip in and nothing on the rent. Her mama 450 00:23:59,480 --> 00:24:01,920 Speaker 4: not only a you messing over her, you used to 451 00:24:02,000 --> 00:24:05,680 Speaker 4: mess with her and she's ill. Can you let some 452 00:24:05,880 --> 00:24:09,000 Speaker 4: of the dog in you act like a grown man 453 00:24:09,200 --> 00:24:11,160 Speaker 4: or you're just gonna be dogging your whole life. 454 00:24:11,320 --> 00:24:13,760 Speaker 1: It's just about you, Shuler, Shuler. 455 00:24:15,000 --> 00:24:16,760 Speaker 4: Now, I don't know what this young girl thinks that 456 00:24:16,880 --> 00:24:19,879 Speaker 4: she's gonna accomplish by telling her mother about y'all, because 457 00:24:19,920 --> 00:24:23,720 Speaker 4: that's just gonna break her heart. She already sick. Yeah, 458 00:24:23,880 --> 00:24:27,080 Speaker 4: so that's a stupid thing for her to initiate you with. 459 00:24:27,520 --> 00:24:30,959 Speaker 4: But your dumb mass is talking about it'll ruin your 460 00:24:31,040 --> 00:24:32,040 Speaker 4: reputation in town. 461 00:24:33,520 --> 00:24:35,600 Speaker 1: With the dog, it's all about you. 462 00:24:36,119 --> 00:24:40,960 Speaker 4: Yeah, you're sleeping with your former girlfriend's daughter on the loan. 463 00:24:41,760 --> 00:24:44,240 Speaker 4: You won't give them a break on Rick because you 464 00:24:44,560 --> 00:24:47,960 Speaker 4: need the money, but you need the sex from the 465 00:24:48,040 --> 00:24:50,920 Speaker 4: twenty eight year old, but you need your reputation intact. 466 00:24:51,160 --> 00:24:53,280 Speaker 1: Look like they're gonna be staying there for free for 467 00:24:53,880 --> 00:25:03,439 Speaker 1: to me, all right, we're moving on as it ain't free, Pardner, 468 00:25:05,119 --> 00:25:05,439 Speaker 1: all right. 469 00:25:05,600 --> 00:25:08,719 Speaker 9: My husband died in January, and I offered to let 470 00:25:08,800 --> 00:25:11,040 Speaker 9: his brother and his wife move in with me because 471 00:25:11,200 --> 00:25:13,280 Speaker 9: I needed a company and I have plenty of room. 472 00:25:13,840 --> 00:25:16,240 Speaker 9: His brother and I love to watch old movies and 473 00:25:16,320 --> 00:25:19,359 Speaker 9: we stay up late together in the living room watching movies, 474 00:25:19,600 --> 00:25:27,320 Speaker 9: reminiscing and making love while his wife is sleeping. It 475 00:25:27,480 --> 00:25:29,680 Speaker 9: helped me deal with the loss of my husband, and 476 00:25:29,880 --> 00:25:32,120 Speaker 9: I don't want it to end. Should I tell him 477 00:25:32,200 --> 00:25:33,680 Speaker 9: I'm falling for him or not? 478 00:25:34,680 --> 00:25:42,320 Speaker 4: What they just very clear sleeping with his brother, Jue 479 00:25:42,440 --> 00:25:46,119 Speaker 4: has helped to deal with his death. 480 00:25:46,440 --> 00:25:49,119 Speaker 1: That's what she said, because I guess it's like he 481 00:25:49,240 --> 00:25:55,240 Speaker 1: ain't gone no more. She imagines him. So I'm trying 482 00:25:55,280 --> 00:25:58,000 Speaker 1: to and now his wife in the other room sleep. 483 00:26:02,600 --> 00:26:03,840 Speaker 1: How old does she say she was? 484 00:26:04,600 --> 00:26:05,359 Speaker 7: She is? 485 00:26:05,800 --> 00:26:08,360 Speaker 8: She didn't say Steve, She did not say oh yeah, 486 00:26:08,400 --> 00:26:10,280 Speaker 8: she didn't say, Okay. 487 00:26:10,200 --> 00:26:16,440 Speaker 1: Y'all watching old movies. Uh huh call washed stuff like, Well, 488 00:26:16,520 --> 00:26:18,439 Speaker 1: depends on who you is, you know, I mean how 489 00:26:18,520 --> 00:26:21,480 Speaker 1: old y'all? Gladiator? 490 00:26:21,560 --> 00:26:21,720 Speaker 13: Oh. 491 00:26:21,880 --> 00:26:24,200 Speaker 4: I was talking to some people set today. They was 492 00:26:24,200 --> 00:26:25,920 Speaker 4: talking about Gladiator Horse Dad. 493 00:26:26,480 --> 00:26:29,879 Speaker 1: I said, what the hell you mean? 494 00:26:32,680 --> 00:26:36,440 Speaker 4: She told me when Gladier came out I was four. 495 00:26:40,680 --> 00:26:46,000 Speaker 4: So look, lady, we can't help you. I mean, if 496 00:26:46,080 --> 00:26:48,200 Speaker 4: that's how you decided to get over the death of 497 00:26:48,280 --> 00:26:52,920 Speaker 4: your husband in January, is by May to start sleeping 498 00:26:53,000 --> 00:26:59,080 Speaker 4: with his brother. I don't really know what to say 499 00:26:59,200 --> 00:27:04,520 Speaker 4: to you, because, well, dn, they all going me in there? 500 00:27:04,520 --> 00:27:04,840 Speaker 3: What now? 501 00:27:04,880 --> 00:27:06,560 Speaker 1: They all going me in there, making the damn move 502 00:27:06,640 --> 00:27:06,800 Speaker 1: it in? 503 00:27:07,160 --> 00:27:09,199 Speaker 5: Yeah? What is going on. 504 00:27:11,320 --> 00:27:11,480 Speaker 1: Later? 505 00:27:12,440 --> 00:27:14,240 Speaker 8: Yeah, it's bound to happen. 506 00:27:15,320 --> 00:27:17,800 Speaker 1: I don't know what to tell you, lady. Sorry, good luck. 507 00:27:17,880 --> 00:27:21,399 Speaker 9: And she wants don't you tell him she's falling for 508 00:27:21,520 --> 00:27:23,760 Speaker 9: him or not? That's that's the only thing she wants 509 00:27:23,760 --> 00:27:25,840 Speaker 9: to hell yeah, yeah. 510 00:27:25,960 --> 00:27:28,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, hell yeah, go on and tell me. 511 00:27:29,560 --> 00:27:31,480 Speaker 4: I won't tell your brother in LAWD that you're falling 512 00:27:31,560 --> 00:27:34,800 Speaker 4: for him, and asked him to go ask him going 513 00:27:34,840 --> 00:27:37,200 Speaker 4: there and tell his wife how she feel about it. 514 00:27:38,880 --> 00:27:43,240 Speaker 1: And y'all make some coffee and talk it over while 515 00:27:43,280 --> 00:27:44,800 Speaker 1: your pictures on the wall. 516 00:27:47,080 --> 00:27:50,000 Speaker 8: All right, coming up more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 517 00:27:50,320 --> 00:27:50,920 Speaker 1: Right after this. 518 00:27:51,640 --> 00:27:57,600 Speaker 9: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. Carl found this great 519 00:27:57,760 --> 00:28:00,360 Speaker 9: article on hiring your relative. 520 00:28:00,160 --> 00:28:00,920 Speaker 1: Your family member. 521 00:28:01,960 --> 00:28:04,080 Speaker 9: Yeah, we're all on team Tommy for the most part. 522 00:28:04,800 --> 00:28:11,080 Speaker 9: Jay is president and CEO. Yeah, but here's some information 523 00:28:11,280 --> 00:28:14,160 Speaker 9: from the article. Here the pros, Steve, Okay, for hiring 524 00:28:14,200 --> 00:28:18,159 Speaker 9: your relatives, you already know what you're getting. You already know. 525 00:28:18,240 --> 00:28:19,760 Speaker 9: You don't have to guess. You don't have to think 526 00:28:19,760 --> 00:28:21,920 Speaker 9: about it, you know, because this is a member of 527 00:28:21,960 --> 00:28:24,119 Speaker 9: your family, so you know this person. Here's some of 528 00:28:24,200 --> 00:28:28,200 Speaker 9: the cons though, It sends the wrong signal to other employees, 529 00:28:29,080 --> 00:28:31,080 Speaker 9: you know, like they're not qualified for the job. 530 00:28:31,160 --> 00:28:34,160 Speaker 1: They just got the job because he was your Huh 531 00:28:34,440 --> 00:28:34,920 Speaker 1: that's true. 532 00:28:35,080 --> 00:28:36,040 Speaker 9: Uh huh uh. 533 00:28:36,400 --> 00:28:37,200 Speaker 8: Here's another con. 534 00:28:37,280 --> 00:28:40,480 Speaker 9: A relative may feel the rules don't apply to in 535 00:28:40,600 --> 00:28:45,160 Speaker 9: this case him, that's so true about he just missed 536 00:28:45,160 --> 00:28:45,680 Speaker 9: two days. 537 00:28:46,040 --> 00:28:50,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, but oh okay, that's where. 538 00:28:55,760 --> 00:28:59,240 Speaker 5: He's gonna need it. He's gonna all right here. 539 00:29:00,040 --> 00:29:01,680 Speaker 1: Work in the compensate for his chick. 540 00:29:02,880 --> 00:29:05,760 Speaker 9: There's another con, Steve, Well, you don't necessarily do this, 541 00:29:05,960 --> 00:29:10,040 Speaker 9: But other CEOs might not hire relatives because the con 542 00:29:10,240 --> 00:29:13,719 Speaker 9: is you hold back from criticism or you don't discipline him. 543 00:29:13,800 --> 00:29:16,719 Speaker 1: So in this case you did. You did dock him 544 00:29:16,800 --> 00:29:18,000 Speaker 1: his pay, right. 545 00:29:18,440 --> 00:29:21,640 Speaker 4: Man, I wish I would. I will not criticize him. 546 00:29:21,760 --> 00:29:25,920 Speaker 4: What is we talking If we're not doing criticism? Why 547 00:29:25,960 --> 00:29:26,600 Speaker 4: are we talking? 548 00:29:26,720 --> 00:29:29,480 Speaker 1: But but you hired him, though, Steve, I had that 549 00:29:29,760 --> 00:29:33,240 Speaker 1: was not by choice? Should What do you mean, my sister? 550 00:29:33,960 --> 00:29:34,760 Speaker 1: Oh oh? 551 00:29:35,320 --> 00:29:38,200 Speaker 4: The only reason I ain't fired him is cause of hell. 552 00:29:38,280 --> 00:29:39,440 Speaker 4: I wasn't a good high though. 553 00:29:39,680 --> 00:29:41,240 Speaker 9: You don't think he does good work, Steve. 554 00:29:41,320 --> 00:29:42,480 Speaker 1: Wait a minute, you don't think I was a good 555 00:29:42,560 --> 00:29:43,760 Speaker 1: hire boy. 556 00:29:44,440 --> 00:29:50,080 Speaker 4: I don't relates the days you missed, the times you 557 00:29:50,360 --> 00:29:53,600 Speaker 4: called in, oh man, from day one though, Steve, No, 558 00:29:53,800 --> 00:29:55,360 Speaker 4: I can't even tell you. 559 00:29:55,760 --> 00:29:58,200 Speaker 9: Yeah, you guys weren't even here on day one when 560 00:29:58,240 --> 00:30:02,200 Speaker 9: Tommy used to call him from his bed at twice 561 00:30:02,240 --> 00:30:04,240 Speaker 9: a week, yeah, asking if he had to come in. 562 00:30:05,120 --> 00:30:08,360 Speaker 1: I was trying to get used to the system. That's awful, 563 00:30:09,200 --> 00:30:12,400 Speaker 1: but we were all here. What else? That's about it. 564 00:30:12,520 --> 00:30:15,400 Speaker 9: The article goes on to say that issues with family 565 00:30:15,440 --> 00:30:18,600 Speaker 9: members who come up, I don't even want to say. 566 00:30:19,640 --> 00:30:25,280 Speaker 9: Wait this way yeah, just wait, I gotta brace brace yourself. 567 00:30:26,000 --> 00:30:28,800 Speaker 9: The article goes on to say, issues with family members 568 00:30:28,840 --> 00:30:30,000 Speaker 9: who come up short. 569 00:30:38,480 --> 00:30:41,680 Speaker 5: You could have let that go, he asked me. 570 00:30:42,000 --> 00:30:42,720 Speaker 1: It's his show. 571 00:30:44,480 --> 00:30:50,760 Speaker 9: They come up shoes, it said, issues with family members. 572 00:30:53,880 --> 00:30:59,920 Speaker 13: Look, do a pretty good job around here, come up 573 00:31:00,160 --> 00:31:04,680 Speaker 13: short of the job. They must have interviewed me for 574 00:31:04,800 --> 00:31:05,640 Speaker 13: this autumn. 575 00:31:07,360 --> 00:31:12,920 Speaker 8: Should be addressed just as they would any other I 576 00:31:13,040 --> 00:31:15,440 Speaker 8: would have been the shortest one on the ship. 577 00:31:19,040 --> 00:31:30,360 Speaker 1: That's right there. Read one more time. 578 00:31:33,800 --> 00:31:37,720 Speaker 8: Again, what you say, President and CEE your team, Tom. 579 00:31:37,760 --> 00:31:40,600 Speaker 1: Need to hear it again? Yeah, but why she hollered, 580 00:31:41,240 --> 00:31:44,880 Speaker 1: She got Walter come out of Did you not ask 581 00:31:44,960 --> 00:31:45,520 Speaker 1: me the reason this? 582 00:31:45,600 --> 00:31:45,840 Speaker 3: Again? 583 00:31:46,120 --> 00:31:48,000 Speaker 1: I didn't know. I didn't know what it was. You know, 584 00:31:48,160 --> 00:31:49,960 Speaker 1: but you could not. You were going to let it go. 585 00:31:51,120 --> 00:31:54,040 Speaker 1: I was going to offer you some other reasons you shouldn't, 586 00:31:54,880 --> 00:31:57,480 Speaker 1: you know, Junior, I don't think I should. We we've 587 00:31:57,560 --> 00:32:01,680 Speaker 1: already heard it. Surely at you a thousand dollars. You 588 00:32:01,840 --> 00:32:09,240 Speaker 1: can't read it without laughing, ready, said, okay? Thousand dollars thousands? 589 00:32:09,320 --> 00:32:09,600 Speaker 5: Okay. 590 00:32:09,680 --> 00:32:15,840 Speaker 8: The article goes on to say, issues with family members. 591 00:32:16,800 --> 00:32:17,840 Speaker 1: Come on, I can do it. 592 00:32:17,960 --> 00:32:18,520 Speaker 9: I can do it. 593 00:32:19,000 --> 00:32:20,120 Speaker 1: Come on, thousand dollars. 594 00:32:20,800 --> 00:32:23,320 Speaker 8: Issues with family members. 595 00:32:26,520 --> 00:32:32,080 Speaker 5: Come on, issues with out family. 596 00:32:42,440 --> 00:32:48,640 Speaker 1: The devil ship, that's all. That's all it is. That 597 00:32:48,840 --> 00:32:49,920 Speaker 1: is so cute. 598 00:32:52,160 --> 00:32:53,360 Speaker 5: In this thousand dollars. 599 00:32:54,480 --> 00:32:58,320 Speaker 1: You can't get it. Don't worry about it one more time. 600 00:32:59,080 --> 00:33:03,040 Speaker 1: Two thousand. Yeah, I can do it. I can Okay. 601 00:33:04,080 --> 00:33:08,840 Speaker 8: The article goes on to say that issues with family members. 602 00:33:09,000 --> 00:33:28,800 Speaker 1: Who it ain't all. It's pretty good job the job 603 00:33:29,600 --> 00:33:33,520 Speaker 1: else to take this tissue. Shall he come up. 604 00:33:33,520 --> 00:33:36,840 Speaker 4: Short at the musement You haven't seen anybody go to 605 00:33:36,920 --> 00:33:38,040 Speaker 4: the musement park. 606 00:33:37,880 --> 00:33:39,760 Speaker 1: And that stick means so much. 607 00:33:41,960 --> 00:33:48,080 Speaker 4: About the Yeah, you ever seen somebody get on the 608 00:33:48,120 --> 00:33:51,000 Speaker 4: amusement ride? They shut the safety bar down and he 609 00:33:51,120 --> 00:33:55,200 Speaker 4: stepped right out. You ever seen somebody come down that 610 00:33:55,360 --> 00:33:59,280 Speaker 4: first heel on that roller coaster and everybody on the 611 00:33:59,400 --> 00:34:07,840 Speaker 4: train got a grab him. In other words, welcome me back, 612 00:34:08,440 --> 00:34:11,239 Speaker 4: welcome back, Oh dog, you should have seen what was happen? 613 00:34:11,320 --> 00:34:13,879 Speaker 1: Why you was going for captain of teen Tommy? Would 614 00:34:13,960 --> 00:34:15,440 Speaker 1: you the president? 615 00:34:15,719 --> 00:34:15,759 Speaker 11: So? 616 00:34:15,880 --> 00:34:17,880 Speaker 9: In other words, Steve, they're saying that it might be 617 00:34:18,000 --> 00:34:20,560 Speaker 9: the worst decision you can make to hire a relative. 618 00:34:20,640 --> 00:34:23,680 Speaker 1: It ain't no doubt about it from me, all right, 619 00:34:23,760 --> 00:34:27,719 Speaker 1: coming up he's here though. 620 00:34:31,120 --> 00:34:32,680 Speaker 5: That was a bonus, right there? 621 00:34:33,880 --> 00:34:39,560 Speaker 1: You get them for you're listening Morning show. 622 00:34:40,200 --> 00:34:44,120 Speaker 8: It is time now for a round of would you rather? 623 00:34:44,719 --> 00:34:49,080 Speaker 9: Would you rather would you rather date the hottest person 624 00:34:49,239 --> 00:34:52,280 Speaker 9: in the world but not be able to have sex 625 00:34:52,360 --> 00:34:55,280 Speaker 9: with her? Or would you rather date an ugly person 626 00:34:55,680 --> 00:34:58,160 Speaker 9: that you can have sex with? B? 627 00:34:59,080 --> 00:35:09,560 Speaker 1: Well, we just wrong, straight up and down? Yea, what 628 00:35:09,800 --> 00:35:14,799 Speaker 1: you're talking about? Lasting here? You can't talk. 629 00:35:15,000 --> 00:35:18,680 Speaker 4: You're gonna be talking kids. Other people have been in 630 00:35:18,760 --> 00:35:21,000 Speaker 4: a lot of fights, Junior. That ain't who you want 631 00:35:21,040 --> 00:35:24,800 Speaker 4: to talk rough a lot of fights. 632 00:35:25,040 --> 00:35:25,719 Speaker 5: Can't say that? 633 00:35:26,239 --> 00:35:28,879 Speaker 1: Does not again? Say it again? 634 00:35:30,000 --> 00:35:30,080 Speaker 9: Ni? 635 00:35:32,040 --> 00:35:34,400 Speaker 1: Right there? Yeah, you're gonna get it. But now what 636 00:35:34,520 --> 00:35:36,520 Speaker 1: you think you're gonna get You're about to be ugly 637 00:35:36,640 --> 00:35:40,960 Speaker 1: with them. Now we're starting to last people in here. 638 00:35:41,760 --> 00:35:45,080 Speaker 8: Tommy, what you got I'm going person in the world? 639 00:35:45,440 --> 00:35:48,320 Speaker 1: Are you gonna I'm gonna be sitting up there just 640 00:35:48,440 --> 00:35:53,000 Speaker 1: fantasizing all day? All right? 641 00:35:53,760 --> 00:35:54,120 Speaker 7: All right? 642 00:35:54,280 --> 00:35:57,640 Speaker 1: Next one? Would you rather have no toes or no fingers? 643 00:35:57,960 --> 00:35:58,440 Speaker 9: What is this? 644 00:36:00,000 --> 00:36:02,400 Speaker 1: Answer this question? Marn answer? He is struggling with it. 645 00:36:02,560 --> 00:36:06,120 Speaker 1: Why you say that, Steve, I need my hands. I'm 646 00:36:06,120 --> 00:36:08,200 Speaker 1: gonna go with hands. I need my hands. I'm gonna 647 00:36:08,239 --> 00:36:12,160 Speaker 1: let them feet go. Yeah, you're gonna be rocking off. 648 00:36:12,239 --> 00:36:13,920 Speaker 1: You gonna rock off. Last teach you. 649 00:36:15,160 --> 00:36:18,319 Speaker 4: You ain't gonna be able to stay up. You're gonna 650 00:36:18,360 --> 00:36:20,600 Speaker 4: be You're gonna mess when I'll be a weaver, a wobble. 651 00:36:21,080 --> 00:36:24,440 Speaker 1: I'm gonna be just fire weaver wobble. 652 00:36:25,120 --> 00:36:26,799 Speaker 4: Yeah, you're gonna be one of the people and through 653 00:36:26,880 --> 00:36:28,399 Speaker 4: the nerves on the bottom of your feet. 654 00:36:28,400 --> 00:36:30,279 Speaker 1: You ain't got no toes. That's the only thing keeping 655 00:36:30,360 --> 00:36:32,760 Speaker 1: you off. Okay, so what's your answer? 656 00:36:33,560 --> 00:36:38,359 Speaker 4: No, I need these fingers, man, Yeah, okay, I take 657 00:36:38,400 --> 00:36:42,279 Speaker 4: these toes. Well, if I take these toes, I'll still 658 00:36:42,320 --> 00:36:49,600 Speaker 4: wear a tin. I take my toes. I'm down to 659 00:36:49,719 --> 00:36:53,040 Speaker 4: a tin. I go from thirteen to a tin. I 660 00:36:53,080 --> 00:36:54,279 Speaker 4: can still walk on these tin. 661 00:36:54,400 --> 00:36:56,120 Speaker 1: Something. You take them toes off, you're gonna be a 662 00:36:56,320 --> 00:37:00,359 Speaker 1: four folk. Well, let them in a hand, all right? 663 00:37:01,800 --> 00:37:07,000 Speaker 1: Next one, and you would rather frank us off hands? 664 00:37:07,160 --> 00:37:13,680 Speaker 1: You got? We're going on and they start laughing. 665 00:37:14,360 --> 00:37:16,560 Speaker 9: Would you rather give up your cell phone for a 666 00:37:16,640 --> 00:37:18,600 Speaker 9: month or give up bathing for a month? 667 00:37:19,000 --> 00:37:22,560 Speaker 1: No bath for a month? Now, I got to give 668 00:37:22,640 --> 00:37:25,360 Speaker 1: up that cell phone. You had a phone. What the 669 00:37:25,480 --> 00:37:27,240 Speaker 1: world's dirtiest man lived. 670 00:37:27,600 --> 00:37:27,920 Speaker 7: He was. 671 00:37:31,040 --> 00:37:31,360 Speaker 1: TV. 672 00:37:33,880 --> 00:37:36,279 Speaker 4: His ain't on TV. I can't be sitting on there 673 00:37:36,360 --> 00:37:40,880 Speaker 4: for thirty thirty days. How y'all doing my already? 674 00:37:41,560 --> 00:37:41,680 Speaker 7: Yo? 675 00:37:42,000 --> 00:37:49,200 Speaker 1: How you doing? You ain't all? It ain't that's today's 676 00:37:49,320 --> 00:37:51,480 Speaker 1: round of which you rather thank you, guys. I ain't 677 00:37:51,520 --> 00:37:56,399 Speaker 1: even gonna be able to stand my own as you're 678 00:37:56,440 --> 00:37:58,919 Speaker 1: listening morning show. 679 00:38:00,360 --> 00:38:03,200 Speaker 9: All right, guys, it's time now to check Steve's voicemailing. 680 00:38:03,239 --> 00:38:05,200 Speaker 9: If you would like to leave Steve a message, if 681 00:38:05,280 --> 00:38:08,520 Speaker 9: you would call him eight seven seven twenty nine. Steve 682 00:38:08,719 --> 00:38:11,480 Speaker 9: is the number eight seven seven twenty nine. Steve, we 683 00:38:11,600 --> 00:38:13,800 Speaker 9: might just play your message back on the air like 684 00:38:13,880 --> 00:38:17,239 Speaker 9: we're gonna do. Rosa in Tennessee. Rosa says she does 685 00:38:17,320 --> 00:38:18,800 Speaker 9: not put up with cheating Steve. 686 00:38:19,560 --> 00:38:22,440 Speaker 1: Hello, Steve, how are you doing in the morning cruise? 687 00:38:22,800 --> 00:38:23,040 Speaker 11: Look? 688 00:38:23,400 --> 00:38:26,440 Speaker 8: I was talking like all these wanna be right writing 689 00:38:26,600 --> 00:38:30,480 Speaker 8: in about they bore friends cheen, but what they expect? 690 00:38:30,680 --> 00:38:33,360 Speaker 11: Like I said, when I was head with had on, 691 00:38:33,920 --> 00:38:36,520 Speaker 11: you know, dating or whatever, I hand. 692 00:38:36,400 --> 00:38:39,800 Speaker 8: Them up front, I said that see cheat, you gone. 693 00:38:40,160 --> 00:38:42,200 Speaker 7: I ain't got hand on. No cheating If you want 694 00:38:42,239 --> 00:38:42,400 Speaker 7: to be. 695 00:38:42,480 --> 00:38:44,920 Speaker 14: Teen, he's dead side in the street where you can 696 00:38:45,040 --> 00:38:48,120 Speaker 14: cheat because he don't be dipping and there in one 697 00:38:48,200 --> 00:38:50,480 Speaker 14: place and then come lay down with me now. 698 00:38:50,880 --> 00:38:52,799 Speaker 11: But like I said, and I. 699 00:38:52,920 --> 00:38:55,680 Speaker 8: Live in Tennessee and my first name is Rose. 700 00:38:56,480 --> 00:38:58,000 Speaker 1: First of all, let me say this right here. I 701 00:38:58,200 --> 00:38:59,320 Speaker 1: really couldn't understand. 702 00:39:00,080 --> 00:39:02,359 Speaker 4: Had to start no, no what y'all gonna head start doing, 703 00:39:02,440 --> 00:39:05,560 Speaker 4: y'all messy, y'all gon head stopped drinking and then calling 704 00:39:05,640 --> 00:39:08,600 Speaker 4: this machine because y'all ain't got no friends. Look, y'all 705 00:39:08,600 --> 00:39:10,520 Speaker 4: ain't got nobody in your life, and you do all 706 00:39:10,560 --> 00:39:13,879 Speaker 4: this drinking and there you I can't find no oldbody 707 00:39:14,000 --> 00:39:18,080 Speaker 4: to talk to. I find call Steve. Well if don't 708 00:39:18,160 --> 00:39:20,120 Speaker 4: call me, if you've been drinking, I had to tell 709 00:39:20,160 --> 00:39:23,160 Speaker 4: you something. Don't come stay out in their streets. Donna 710 00:39:23,239 --> 00:39:25,400 Speaker 4: come up in here and dibbing and dabbing like you 711 00:39:25,480 --> 00:39:28,480 Speaker 4: finish just being here and sleeping with me for these streets. 712 00:39:28,719 --> 00:39:30,920 Speaker 4: Because when I'm in the bed, I want to be 713 00:39:31,040 --> 00:39:34,040 Speaker 4: in the bed for myself to to be there. And 714 00:39:34,200 --> 00:39:36,960 Speaker 4: then when you coming in with it, and I'll be 715 00:39:37,200 --> 00:39:40,040 Speaker 4: sitting in the here waiting on you, and you out 716 00:39:40,120 --> 00:39:42,640 Speaker 4: in their streets and come you get it. I've been 717 00:39:42,719 --> 00:39:45,360 Speaker 4: cooking all that food in here that evening, and you 718 00:39:45,480 --> 00:39:52,400 Speaker 4: ain't out in the streets talking cousin. 719 00:39:52,520 --> 00:39:54,680 Speaker 1: Don't let it fun, you let the flies in here. 720 00:39:57,480 --> 00:40:00,520 Speaker 1: And then that's what and that's all I want my 721 00:40:00,719 --> 00:40:05,000 Speaker 1: first name in Rome. That's what they told me. It 722 00:40:05,239 --> 00:40:07,480 Speaker 1: was all what it is. 723 00:40:08,160 --> 00:40:14,680 Speaker 14: Next caller is that Nie? Her name is Carla. This 724 00:40:14,840 --> 00:40:18,160 Speaker 14: next caller she needs some advice about her mean, mean mother. 725 00:40:19,480 --> 00:40:23,480 Speaker 15: I see, it's Carla. My mom has a fink attitude. 726 00:40:23,880 --> 00:40:26,560 Speaker 15: And she came to my shop and embarrassed me. And 727 00:40:26,920 --> 00:40:30,799 Speaker 15: I not want to have Thanksgiving dinner with her at all. Ever, 728 00:40:31,160 --> 00:40:33,880 Speaker 15: I need a nice way to tell her, No, I 729 00:40:33,920 --> 00:40:35,800 Speaker 15: don't want to have Thanksgiving dinner with you, because you 730 00:40:35,880 --> 00:40:40,560 Speaker 15: got a stink attitude. Let me know thanks by well, 731 00:40:40,680 --> 00:40:41,120 Speaker 15: based on. 732 00:40:41,160 --> 00:40:48,800 Speaker 4: The way you sound, you can't cook yet, yay, you 733 00:40:48,920 --> 00:40:51,600 Speaker 4: don't even know. You don't know how you roasted no turkey, 734 00:40:51,960 --> 00:40:53,640 Speaker 4: You don't know how to make no dressing. 735 00:40:54,040 --> 00:40:56,040 Speaker 1: How can you tell that? By the way she sat, 736 00:40:56,120 --> 00:40:56,640 Speaker 1: I can just. 737 00:40:56,719 --> 00:40:57,200 Speaker 10: Tell you know. 738 00:40:57,400 --> 00:40:59,040 Speaker 1: She she got a stink attitude. 739 00:40:59,120 --> 00:41:01,040 Speaker 4: She came to my said, I'm gonna go to her 740 00:41:01,080 --> 00:41:04,040 Speaker 4: house for Thanksgiving forever, which means you've been going over 741 00:41:04,160 --> 00:41:06,840 Speaker 4: there forever. And the reason you go over there is 742 00:41:06,840 --> 00:41:11,520 Speaker 4: because it's family and your mama can cook. You can't cook. 743 00:41:12,200 --> 00:41:14,920 Speaker 4: There's gonna be a home grass Thanksgiving for you. I'm 744 00:41:14,960 --> 00:41:17,799 Speaker 4: gonna tell you that right now. You don't really sound 745 00:41:17,920 --> 00:41:20,200 Speaker 4: like you're a big football fan. And even if you will, 746 00:41:20,320 --> 00:41:23,279 Speaker 4: I don't know what you gonna eat this Thanksgiving. You 747 00:41:23,400 --> 00:41:24,440 Speaker 4: gonna have to order pizza. 748 00:41:24,760 --> 00:41:27,480 Speaker 3: Girl, listen to me for Thanksgiving. 749 00:41:28,719 --> 00:41:31,160 Speaker 4: Go in there and find out what's wrong with your mama. 750 00:41:31,280 --> 00:41:34,120 Speaker 4: Your mama might be bitter. She ain't got no man. 751 00:41:34,480 --> 00:41:36,759 Speaker 1: Maybe you know things have gone wrong. 752 00:41:36,960 --> 00:41:40,759 Speaker 4: You know, she feel underappreciated that she did all this 753 00:41:40,880 --> 00:41:42,880 Speaker 4: for all these kids. Now, y'all, don't hardy come by 754 00:41:42,960 --> 00:41:45,400 Speaker 4: and see her. You don't know what it is, but 755 00:41:45,560 --> 00:41:48,480 Speaker 4: you have got to fix this for Thanksgiving because you 756 00:41:48,640 --> 00:41:50,120 Speaker 4: don't sound like your ass. 757 00:41:49,960 --> 00:41:53,479 Speaker 1: Can cook at all. I know how people can cook. 758 00:41:53,600 --> 00:41:56,840 Speaker 4: Sound They wheeze when they talk, They shot a breath 759 00:41:56,880 --> 00:41:58,480 Speaker 4: because they got a lot of weight on them because 760 00:41:58,520 --> 00:41:59,240 Speaker 4: they've been eating. 761 00:41:59,760 --> 00:42:02,680 Speaker 1: And you know, she sounds than and everything. It's hard 762 00:42:02,719 --> 00:42:09,680 Speaker 1: to find a good skinny ass cool one eight yeah one. 763 00:42:10,280 --> 00:42:10,800 Speaker 1: So that's it. 764 00:42:12,120 --> 00:42:13,399 Speaker 3: I mean, you know, I don't I don't. 765 00:42:13,480 --> 00:42:16,080 Speaker 4: I don't like people falling out with their parents. I 766 00:42:16,200 --> 00:42:18,920 Speaker 4: don't know you know how your mama is. You already 767 00:42:19,120 --> 00:42:21,880 Speaker 4: know that it's going over there and fix it. This 768 00:42:22,000 --> 00:42:23,520 Speaker 4: ain't the first time she a trip. 769 00:42:25,320 --> 00:42:26,479 Speaker 1: She came to her job. 770 00:42:27,000 --> 00:42:28,759 Speaker 8: Mom has a stink attitude. 771 00:42:29,239 --> 00:42:30,759 Speaker 1: She came to the shop her job. 772 00:42:32,560 --> 00:42:32,719 Speaker 7: You know. 773 00:42:32,880 --> 00:42:36,200 Speaker 4: Look, look, your mama could have you know, something really wrong, 774 00:42:36,360 --> 00:42:37,960 Speaker 4: you know, condition or something you know? 775 00:42:38,880 --> 00:42:43,600 Speaker 14: Yo, All right, listen, Coming up next, it is the 776 00:42:43,719 --> 00:42:45,359 Speaker 14: nephew in today's prank phone call. 777 00:42:45,600 --> 00:42:49,160 Speaker 1: Right after this, don't do that. Just stop doing her hair, don't. 778 00:42:52,000 --> 00:42:52,879 Speaker 8: You're listening. 779 00:42:54,120 --> 00:42:54,719 Speaker 1: Morning show. 780 00:42:56,400 --> 00:42:58,680 Speaker 9: Coming up at the top of the hour, right about 781 00:42:58,719 --> 00:43:03,080 Speaker 9: four minutes after, it's my strawberry letter for today. This subject, Wow, 782 00:43:03,200 --> 00:43:05,920 Speaker 9: this letter right here is painful, you guys. The subject 783 00:43:06,000 --> 00:43:08,279 Speaker 9: he stole my wife from right up under me. 784 00:43:08,600 --> 00:43:10,040 Speaker 1: If you're gonna do it, that's how you do it, 785 00:43:10,200 --> 00:43:16,520 Speaker 1: right up under somebody. Okay, Steve, statements like that that 786 00:43:16,680 --> 00:43:20,200 Speaker 1: gets your stomped. I'm just saying, get you, Steve. Hey, 787 00:43:20,360 --> 00:43:22,120 Speaker 1: hey man, you can do your little praise. 788 00:43:23,719 --> 00:43:35,440 Speaker 9: Get Sophew is in the building with today's prank phone call. 789 00:43:35,600 --> 00:43:37,560 Speaker 1: What do you have for us today, nephew? 790 00:43:38,239 --> 00:43:41,000 Speaker 6: Well, you know, Sharon, everybody is not all men are 791 00:43:41,040 --> 00:43:45,520 Speaker 6: not like Tommy, you know, blessed in certain areas you 792 00:43:45,640 --> 00:43:49,840 Speaker 6: understand no, no, not finance, other areas. 793 00:43:50,640 --> 00:43:55,919 Speaker 1: Jobs, multiple no, no TV show TV. 794 00:43:56,040 --> 00:44:00,960 Speaker 6: Physically blessed like that, you understand, Yeah, things that a 795 00:44:01,040 --> 00:44:04,800 Speaker 6: woman is looking for where you are just physically just blessed. 796 00:44:05,320 --> 00:44:08,440 Speaker 4: Well, I can't I can't comment on that part because 797 00:44:08,440 --> 00:44:11,600 Speaker 4: I don't know anything about that, but I know where 798 00:44:11,640 --> 00:44:12,000 Speaker 4: you ain't. 799 00:44:12,680 --> 00:44:14,120 Speaker 1: God, that's what dam. 800 00:44:16,440 --> 00:44:20,200 Speaker 4: What are you talking about that? Just as Betty b 801 00:44:20,360 --> 00:44:29,480 Speaker 4: shock everybody he is in the family, everybody is not blessed. 802 00:44:29,520 --> 00:44:33,120 Speaker 4: So uh, here is the title go Big or Go Home? 803 00:44:33,640 --> 00:44:34,120 Speaker 4: Got dog? 804 00:44:35,320 --> 00:44:37,840 Speaker 7: Hello, Hello, I'm trying to reach Darnell. Darnell. 805 00:44:38,719 --> 00:44:40,439 Speaker 10: See how you doing? 806 00:44:40,520 --> 00:44:40,560 Speaker 1: This? 807 00:44:40,719 --> 00:44:44,279 Speaker 7: Is Scott saying, with bigger, bigger and better? Uh, where 808 00:44:44,320 --> 00:44:46,920 Speaker 7: we make you larger in charge? How you doing today? Scott? 809 00:44:46,960 --> 00:44:50,479 Speaker 7: Who I mean a Scot And I'm with bigger and better, 810 00:44:50,960 --> 00:44:52,720 Speaker 7: where we make you larger in charge? 811 00:44:53,440 --> 00:44:54,160 Speaker 11: I'm good Scott. 812 00:44:55,239 --> 00:44:58,799 Speaker 7: We were actually, uh given a phone call by your 813 00:44:58,840 --> 00:44:59,600 Speaker 7: wife your wife? 814 00:44:59,680 --> 00:45:01,000 Speaker 1: Is is that correct? 815 00:45:01,480 --> 00:45:05,840 Speaker 7: Yeah? Okay, well you know your wife's your wife's birthday 816 00:45:05,960 --> 00:45:07,440 Speaker 7: is coming up pretty soon? Is that right? 817 00:45:07,880 --> 00:45:08,080 Speaker 1: Yeah? 818 00:45:08,480 --> 00:45:10,840 Speaker 11: Yeah, So a couple of weeks yeah, it's coming up. 819 00:45:11,360 --> 00:45:14,000 Speaker 7: Okay, have you have you decided on getting or anything 820 00:45:14,280 --> 00:45:16,560 Speaker 7: or have you purchased anything yet? No? 821 00:45:16,880 --> 00:45:18,640 Speaker 11: No, I got a couple of days in mind. 822 00:45:19,800 --> 00:45:22,839 Speaker 7: Well actually, uh we got a call from uh from 823 00:45:23,280 --> 00:45:27,200 Speaker 7: I think we've got something that's gonna that's gonna really 824 00:45:27,920 --> 00:45:30,759 Speaker 7: help you guys. And and something I think that she 825 00:45:30,920 --> 00:45:33,640 Speaker 7: wanted to recommend that something that you probably wouldn't wouldn't 826 00:45:33,640 --> 00:45:38,319 Speaker 7: think about getting. Oh, I'm all, is okay wrecking my brain? 827 00:45:38,400 --> 00:45:42,120 Speaker 7: So I'm is actually gave us a call. She's actually 828 00:45:42,160 --> 00:45:44,759 Speaker 7: had an idea, you know, what she would really really 829 00:45:44,960 --> 00:45:46,160 Speaker 7: like for her birthday present? 830 00:45:46,280 --> 00:45:47,680 Speaker 11: So what's the name of your companion? 831 00:45:48,080 --> 00:45:48,799 Speaker 10: Bigger and Better? 832 00:45:50,080 --> 00:45:52,360 Speaker 7: Like I said, I follow she called you. 833 00:45:52,560 --> 00:45:55,800 Speaker 11: I'm sorry, she called you to get me an idea 834 00:45:55,880 --> 00:45:56,960 Speaker 11: on what I should get her. 835 00:45:56,960 --> 00:45:57,560 Speaker 10: For her birthday. 836 00:45:57,920 --> 00:45:58,040 Speaker 5: Uh. 837 00:45:58,320 --> 00:46:00,600 Speaker 7: Yeah, well this is this is something that's a little 838 00:46:01,440 --> 00:46:03,759 Speaker 7: a little different of something that you probably would never 839 00:46:03,760 --> 00:46:06,080 Speaker 7: in a million years think of. But here at Bigger 840 00:46:06,120 --> 00:46:08,440 Speaker 7: and Better, where we make you large and in charge, 841 00:46:08,520 --> 00:46:12,000 Speaker 7: we actually do some things that we definitely know you 842 00:46:12,040 --> 00:46:15,080 Speaker 7: wouldn't have thought of. So I definitely understand her giving 843 00:46:15,160 --> 00:46:15,520 Speaker 7: up call. 844 00:46:15,880 --> 00:46:17,040 Speaker 11: What you think what's your name? 845 00:46:17,080 --> 00:46:18,480 Speaker 10: Against? Sam? Scott. 846 00:46:18,600 --> 00:46:23,840 Speaker 7: Scott, Scott, you're to the point actually let us know 847 00:46:23,960 --> 00:46:26,960 Speaker 7: that there are some things that are really really lacking 848 00:46:27,040 --> 00:46:30,800 Speaker 7: between you guys, and she would very much like for 849 00:46:30,880 --> 00:46:33,399 Speaker 7: her birthday. Well, you can be a lot more well 850 00:46:33,520 --> 00:46:36,560 Speaker 7: in dowed, So you know that's what we do here 851 00:46:36,640 --> 00:46:39,440 Speaker 7: at Bigger and Better. We actually, hello, what. 852 00:46:40,080 --> 00:46:40,440 Speaker 10: I could be? 853 00:46:40,480 --> 00:46:40,640 Speaker 11: Well? 854 00:46:40,719 --> 00:46:42,160 Speaker 7: What more well? In doubt? 855 00:46:42,280 --> 00:46:42,480 Speaker 1: Sure? 856 00:46:42,600 --> 00:46:44,719 Speaker 7: So I think really what's going on is Beyonca is 857 00:46:44,760 --> 00:46:46,279 Speaker 7: really not satisfied right now? 858 00:46:47,040 --> 00:46:50,400 Speaker 11: Call you to tell you that I'm not what do 859 00:46:50,400 --> 00:46:51,719 Speaker 11: you mean willing doubt my junk? 860 00:46:51,960 --> 00:46:54,480 Speaker 7: So you're you're you're you're you're you're inadequate. You know 861 00:46:54,480 --> 00:46:58,279 Speaker 7: what I mean? You're you're Uh, I guess maybe maybe 862 00:46:58,440 --> 00:47:00,920 Speaker 7: very impotent. I'm not sure, but are you kidding me? 863 00:47:01,239 --> 00:47:03,640 Speaker 10: What the what's the name of this company? 864 00:47:03,719 --> 00:47:06,920 Speaker 7: Here, Bigger and Better, where we make you large and 865 00:47:07,000 --> 00:47:09,480 Speaker 7: in charge? And right now you know you're not You're 866 00:47:09,520 --> 00:47:11,120 Speaker 7: not large and in charge, and we want to get 867 00:47:11,160 --> 00:47:13,000 Speaker 7: you to we're able to come in for a consultation, 868 00:47:13,480 --> 00:47:14,200 Speaker 7: your consultation. 869 00:47:14,360 --> 00:47:14,880 Speaker 10: I'll tell you what. 870 00:47:15,360 --> 00:47:18,640 Speaker 11: I'm gonna call her right now because right now, okay, 871 00:47:18,680 --> 00:47:20,000 Speaker 11: I'm gonna call her well and. 872 00:47:20,320 --> 00:47:24,160 Speaker 7: We're we're trying to do because do you not do 873 00:47:24,239 --> 00:47:25,360 Speaker 7: you not think you need to come in? 874 00:47:25,600 --> 00:47:26,840 Speaker 11: I don't even think I don't even need to be 875 00:47:27,320 --> 00:47:30,759 Speaker 11: talking to you, mister Scott about whatever is going on 876 00:47:30,880 --> 00:47:33,560 Speaker 11: in my bed room. I'm king so I'm not even 877 00:47:33,640 --> 00:47:35,440 Speaker 11: I'm not even I don't even know what's going on. 878 00:47:35,840 --> 00:47:37,080 Speaker 7: Whatever? Can I say this? 879 00:47:37,480 --> 00:47:38,960 Speaker 10: Whatever services the first for me? 880 00:47:39,000 --> 00:47:40,960 Speaker 11: They's gonna increase me in the bedroom is the. 881 00:47:41,040 --> 00:47:44,480 Speaker 7: First sign of denial. Right, I don't have no I don't. 882 00:47:44,360 --> 00:47:45,440 Speaker 11: Have no problems in the bedroom. 883 00:47:45,560 --> 00:47:45,719 Speaker 7: Right. 884 00:47:45,760 --> 00:47:48,839 Speaker 10: Well, you know, I don't even why am I still 885 00:47:48,840 --> 00:47:50,839 Speaker 10: on the phone with you? Okay, But sir, I mean 886 00:47:50,880 --> 00:47:52,960 Speaker 10: you learn and I don't really have to worry about 887 00:47:52,960 --> 00:47:54,880 Speaker 10: hearing for merv she got something to kind of account 888 00:47:54,960 --> 00:47:57,640 Speaker 10: with you. Then you ain't go ahead and call that out. 889 00:47:59,000 --> 00:48:00,880 Speaker 7: Let me say this. You if you have a very 890 00:48:00,920 --> 00:48:03,040 Speaker 7: big ego, sir, But what I want to do is 891 00:48:03,160 --> 00:48:05,160 Speaker 7: is you know, but you're not You're not as big 892 00:48:05,200 --> 00:48:07,000 Speaker 7: as your ego. I want to get you to that point. 893 00:48:07,239 --> 00:48:10,000 Speaker 11: This is some crazy I've heard some crazy things people 894 00:48:10,080 --> 00:48:13,000 Speaker 11: say online. But you're gonna call me talk about my 895 00:48:13,120 --> 00:48:15,200 Speaker 11: wife calls you and saying that I'm in adequate in 896 00:48:15,280 --> 00:48:18,359 Speaker 11: the bedroom, sir, you know what? And and once again, 897 00:48:18,960 --> 00:48:21,680 Speaker 11: I'm trying to I know you're you're just doing your jobs, 898 00:48:21,760 --> 00:48:24,239 Speaker 11: got but I'm gonna have to call her right now. Okay, 899 00:48:25,280 --> 00:48:25,680 Speaker 11: don't worry. 900 00:48:26,600 --> 00:48:28,760 Speaker 7: You're in denial. 901 00:48:29,040 --> 00:48:30,560 Speaker 11: I'm in denial you. 902 00:48:32,160 --> 00:48:34,520 Speaker 7: Hello, sir. I really want to help you as much 903 00:48:34,560 --> 00:48:35,040 Speaker 7: as I can. 904 00:48:35,560 --> 00:48:38,239 Speaker 11: Listen, man, listen, I'm trying to get my wife's on 905 00:48:38,320 --> 00:48:41,200 Speaker 11: the phone right now. Okay, I know you you've got 906 00:48:41,239 --> 00:48:42,960 Speaker 11: a job to do, but what I need you to 907 00:48:43,040 --> 00:48:45,200 Speaker 11: do right now is stop calling me, all right. 908 00:48:45,280 --> 00:48:45,680 Speaker 10: I'm trying. 909 00:48:45,719 --> 00:48:48,040 Speaker 11: I'm trying to be nice to you because I'm sure 910 00:48:48,160 --> 00:48:50,359 Speaker 11: whatever it is she calls you and you're just doing 911 00:48:50,400 --> 00:48:51,040 Speaker 11: your job, all. 912 00:48:50,960 --> 00:48:53,320 Speaker 7: Right, But I'm trying to get you in here to 913 00:48:53,320 --> 00:48:55,680 Speaker 7: get a consultation so we can get you further along 914 00:48:55,760 --> 00:48:56,040 Speaker 7: the way. 915 00:48:56,080 --> 00:48:56,359 Speaker 1: You are. 916 00:48:56,719 --> 00:49:01,080 Speaker 11: Consultation, the consultation, I don't mean no consitation. I don't 917 00:49:01,080 --> 00:49:02,600 Speaker 11: need no assistance from your start, Sir. 918 00:49:02,800 --> 00:49:04,399 Speaker 10: You you call me no more? 919 00:49:04,480 --> 00:49:07,040 Speaker 7: Man. Hey, you're small and I want to make you bigger. 920 00:49:07,400 --> 00:49:08,440 Speaker 10: You want to make me bigger? 921 00:49:08,680 --> 00:49:08,719 Speaker 9: What? 922 00:49:09,040 --> 00:49:12,799 Speaker 7: What? What is this anyway? Huh? What kind of job 923 00:49:12,920 --> 00:49:14,440 Speaker 7: is that? How do you even get a job like that? 924 00:49:14,520 --> 00:49:15,480 Speaker 11: You apply for this job. 925 00:49:15,840 --> 00:49:20,960 Speaker 10: You're idiot when you're a high school Jut you stop 926 00:49:21,320 --> 00:49:21,799 Speaker 10: calling me. 927 00:49:21,840 --> 00:49:25,000 Speaker 7: Man, mister darnell. I'm still trying to help you get 928 00:49:25,040 --> 00:49:27,640 Speaker 7: through this situation. Okay. Are you willing to come in 929 00:49:27,800 --> 00:49:30,239 Speaker 7: for a counseltation at least we're coming for a counciltation 930 00:49:30,239 --> 00:49:32,080 Speaker 7: if we can get you one. Where you are? 931 00:49:32,160 --> 00:49:32,920 Speaker 10: Are you listening to me? 932 00:49:33,080 --> 00:49:35,000 Speaker 11: The only consultation we gonna have is my fist in 933 00:49:35,040 --> 00:49:37,040 Speaker 11: your face that you call me again. Tell you what, 934 00:49:37,280 --> 00:49:39,600 Speaker 11: I will come in for a consultation. Give me give 935 00:49:39,640 --> 00:49:42,360 Speaker 11: me your address and everything like that on your information, 936 00:49:42,640 --> 00:49:44,600 Speaker 11: and I will come down for a consultation. You're gonna 937 00:49:44,600 --> 00:49:44,839 Speaker 11: be there. 938 00:49:45,320 --> 00:49:48,280 Speaker 7: I'm here, I'm here, I'm here the first eight hours 939 00:49:48,320 --> 00:49:49,840 Speaker 7: of the day, sir. What I want to do is 940 00:49:49,880 --> 00:49:50,520 Speaker 7: get you lined up. 941 00:49:50,520 --> 00:49:53,799 Speaker 11: We get your present when my wife, I don't need 942 00:49:53,840 --> 00:49:56,400 Speaker 11: no damn procedures, give me your info, and you got 943 00:49:56,480 --> 00:49:56,879 Speaker 11: to work by. 944 00:49:56,840 --> 00:49:57,279 Speaker 10: Hand for us. 945 00:49:57,360 --> 00:49:57,560 Speaker 7: No more. 946 00:49:57,560 --> 00:49:59,840 Speaker 11: Okay, but right now I need you to get up me. 947 00:50:00,280 --> 00:50:01,759 Speaker 11: I don't want to hang up on you, and I 948 00:50:02,080 --> 00:50:03,120 Speaker 11: understand what trying to do your. 949 00:50:03,120 --> 00:50:06,280 Speaker 7: Job down now. You're small. You're small, and I'm trying 950 00:50:06,360 --> 00:50:07,120 Speaker 7: to make you bigger. 951 00:50:07,840 --> 00:50:10,480 Speaker 10: Thank you, sir, you know what I'm trying to help. 952 00:50:11,440 --> 00:50:13,680 Speaker 7: That's a little small guy. I'm trying to help you 953 00:50:13,800 --> 00:50:15,520 Speaker 7: with your problem. Now, if you're not going to be 954 00:50:15,560 --> 00:50:17,960 Speaker 7: appreciative of it, then I don't even understand why your 955 00:50:18,000 --> 00:50:19,680 Speaker 7: wife knows you're handling your address. 956 00:50:19,680 --> 00:50:22,040 Speaker 11: Why would that we can have this conversation face to face. 957 00:50:22,800 --> 00:50:24,200 Speaker 7: Why would your wife call here? 958 00:50:24,280 --> 00:50:25,080 Speaker 10: So it doesn't matter. 959 00:50:25,239 --> 00:50:26,640 Speaker 11: If I can get on the line, I can figure 960 00:50:26,640 --> 00:50:31,479 Speaker 11: out why she calls you because you're inadequate many sir. 961 00:50:31,680 --> 00:50:34,480 Speaker 7: Sir, here's the problem. You're tiny and you don't want 962 00:50:34,520 --> 00:50:36,320 Speaker 7: to admit it. I ain't get you to know me. 963 00:50:36,440 --> 00:50:37,400 Speaker 11: Man, you never seen me. 964 00:50:37,640 --> 00:50:38,840 Speaker 7: You don't know anything about me. 965 00:50:39,160 --> 00:50:40,360 Speaker 1: Ian I can't even. 966 00:50:40,239 --> 00:50:41,400 Speaker 10: Believe my wife's even called you. 967 00:50:41,480 --> 00:50:44,160 Speaker 7: But just this is just how you do business. 968 00:50:44,719 --> 00:50:47,600 Speaker 10: Call me and call me. I'm tiny, sir, I under you. 969 00:50:47,719 --> 00:50:50,320 Speaker 7: I'm not only to president, but I'm also a client. 970 00:50:50,440 --> 00:50:50,600 Speaker 1: Sir. 971 00:50:50,800 --> 00:50:53,760 Speaker 11: I don't give up what you are okay, okay? 972 00:50:53,880 --> 00:50:55,800 Speaker 7: And there are some other things that let us know 973 00:50:55,880 --> 00:50:58,399 Speaker 7: as well. What the would that mean? She also wanted 974 00:50:58,400 --> 00:51:00,759 Speaker 7: me to tell you that this is nephew Tommy from 975 00:51:00,800 --> 00:51:04,120 Speaker 7: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Your wife just praying phone 976 00:51:04,200 --> 00:51:05,000 Speaker 7: calls you bad. 977 00:51:06,640 --> 00:51:10,840 Speaker 11: Man, funny man. I'm all here over here looking at 978 00:51:11,200 --> 00:51:13,360 Speaker 11: in the mirror. Yeah, it's kind of great talking. 979 00:51:14,360 --> 00:51:16,560 Speaker 10: I thought I was good, but I got a little nervous. 980 00:51:16,719 --> 00:51:20,800 Speaker 10: I was like, man, what's the baddest radio show in 981 00:51:20,960 --> 00:51:21,400 Speaker 10: the lane? 982 00:51:21,719 --> 00:51:24,000 Speaker 11: Come on now, you know it's a Steel Harvey radio show. 983 00:51:24,080 --> 00:51:26,279 Speaker 1: Man, what you woke up motivated? 984 00:51:26,920 --> 00:51:29,880 Speaker 6: On another note, Chicago, Wendy City, y'all get ready. The 985 00:51:29,960 --> 00:51:33,040 Speaker 6: nephew is coming to town and it is studyed. Y'all 986 00:51:33,040 --> 00:51:36,800 Speaker 6: don't want to miss nonheing that's hosted by yours truly nephew, Tommy. 987 00:51:36,880 --> 00:51:38,960 Speaker 1: And that is two nights. That's sweetest day. 988 00:51:39,120 --> 00:51:41,319 Speaker 6: It's Friday night on Saturday night at the Airy Crown 989 00:51:41,400 --> 00:51:43,759 Speaker 6: this Friday, this Saturday. Come on out at the Airy 990 00:51:43,840 --> 00:51:47,720 Speaker 6: Crown Friday on Saturday, Chicago, Illinois. I would be dressed 991 00:51:47,760 --> 00:51:49,160 Speaker 6: to when pressed and ready. 992 00:51:49,120 --> 00:51:49,480 Speaker 1: All right? 993 00:51:49,840 --> 00:51:53,080 Speaker 9: Coming up next Strawberry Letter subject he stole my wife 994 00:51:53,200 --> 00:51:54,120 Speaker 9: right from under me. 995 00:51:54,520 --> 00:51:56,440 Speaker 1: Wow, we'll get into it right after this. 996 00:51:57,040 --> 00:52:03,600 Speaker 9: You're listening hardy morning show. Time Now for today's Strawberry Letter. 997 00:52:03,760 --> 00:52:07,680 Speaker 9: And if you need advice on relationships, on sex, on work, 998 00:52:07,800 --> 00:52:12,280 Speaker 9: on parenting, on dating, and more, please submit your Strawberry 999 00:52:12,360 --> 00:52:16,839 Speaker 9: letter to Steve HARVEYFM dot com and click submit Strawberry letter. 1000 00:52:16,880 --> 00:52:18,000 Speaker 1: We'll do our best to help you. 1001 00:52:18,360 --> 00:52:21,000 Speaker 9: We could be reading your letter live on the air, 1002 00:52:21,160 --> 00:52:23,319 Speaker 9: just like we're going to read this one right here, 1003 00:52:23,800 --> 00:52:24,319 Speaker 9: right now. 1004 00:52:25,560 --> 00:52:27,680 Speaker 1: Book louve, hold on tight. We got a coin and 1005 00:52:27,760 --> 00:52:29,239 Speaker 1: here it is Strawberry letter. 1006 00:52:29,640 --> 00:52:33,759 Speaker 9: Oh, this letter makes me sad right here. Subject he 1007 00:52:33,960 --> 00:52:40,359 Speaker 9: stole my wife from write up under me. Okay, Dear 1008 00:52:40,440 --> 00:52:44,000 Speaker 9: Stephen Shirley, I am a hard working, faithful man. I 1009 00:52:44,200 --> 00:52:47,640 Speaker 9: was married for fifteen years to my college sweetheart. I 1010 00:52:47,880 --> 00:52:51,480 Speaker 9: never had any problems in my marriage until I tried 1011 00:52:51,520 --> 00:52:54,439 Speaker 9: to help out a friend. Here's what happened. My wife 1012 00:52:54,520 --> 00:52:56,840 Speaker 9: had a best friend and the friend was married to 1013 00:52:56,960 --> 00:53:00,319 Speaker 9: a big time cheater. We were always there for her 1014 00:53:00,400 --> 00:53:03,040 Speaker 9: if she was going through drama with her husband. Their 1015 00:53:03,120 --> 00:53:08,480 Speaker 9: marriage finally ended when her husband got her cousin pregnant. 1016 00:53:09,880 --> 00:53:12,320 Speaker 9: She put him out of the house and he didn't 1017 00:53:12,360 --> 00:53:16,040 Speaker 9: have anywhere to go. So I talked my wife into 1018 00:53:16,120 --> 00:53:18,719 Speaker 9: letting him stay with us for a while so he 1019 00:53:18,760 --> 00:53:21,880 Speaker 9: could sort things out. The first week he kept to 1020 00:53:22,000 --> 00:53:24,719 Speaker 9: himself and he slept a whole lot when he wasn't 1021 00:53:24,760 --> 00:53:28,480 Speaker 9: at work. The second week, he started talking more. I 1022 00:53:28,640 --> 00:53:31,080 Speaker 9: came home from work one day and he and my 1023 00:53:31,200 --> 00:53:34,040 Speaker 9: wife had cooked together and we all sat and ate. 1024 00:53:34,880 --> 00:53:38,160 Speaker 9: Going into the third week, I sat down with him 1025 00:53:38,440 --> 00:53:41,600 Speaker 9: to see if he'd made other living arrangements. He informed 1026 00:53:41,680 --> 00:53:44,480 Speaker 9: me that he was very comfortable in my house, and 1027 00:53:44,600 --> 00:53:48,240 Speaker 9: he said my wife loved having him there. He told 1028 00:53:48,360 --> 00:53:50,520 Speaker 9: me that he could tell my wife needed to be 1029 00:53:50,640 --> 00:53:54,719 Speaker 9: loved properly, so he seduced her, and he's been making 1030 00:53:54,920 --> 00:53:58,760 Speaker 9: love to her almost daily for the past two weeks. 1031 00:53:59,440 --> 00:54:03,520 Speaker 9: You can guess what happened next. I grabbed him and 1032 00:54:03,719 --> 00:54:06,840 Speaker 9: I slung him to the ground, and my wife rushed 1033 00:54:06,880 --> 00:54:08,680 Speaker 9: in and yelled for me to stop. 1034 00:54:09,640 --> 00:54:12,560 Speaker 8: She said it was all true, and she apologized to me. 1035 00:54:13,280 --> 00:54:14,560 Speaker 1: Fast forward to the present. 1036 00:54:15,000 --> 00:54:17,479 Speaker 9: I have a new house. He's in my old house 1037 00:54:17,600 --> 00:54:20,759 Speaker 9: with my wife, and they are getting married when our 1038 00:54:20,880 --> 00:54:24,200 Speaker 9: divorce is final. He took my kindness for weakness and 1039 00:54:24,360 --> 00:54:28,680 Speaker 9: stole my wife from right up under me. I still 1040 00:54:28,840 --> 00:54:32,200 Speaker 9: want to put yeah, I still want to put hands 1041 00:54:32,239 --> 00:54:35,279 Speaker 9: on him, but there's no use in it because he 1042 00:54:35,400 --> 00:54:38,040 Speaker 9: already got my wife. It's going to be hard for 1043 00:54:38,120 --> 00:54:40,960 Speaker 9: me to trust another female. How could I move past 1044 00:54:41,080 --> 00:54:42,560 Speaker 9: this and find happiness? 1045 00:54:42,800 --> 00:54:43,120 Speaker 1: Again. 1046 00:54:43,840 --> 00:54:46,239 Speaker 9: Wow, Now you see why this letter makes me sad. This, 1047 00:54:47,239 --> 00:54:49,879 Speaker 9: I mean, just when you think you've heard it all, 1048 00:54:51,200 --> 00:54:54,160 Speaker 9: I'm just really sorry because you sound like a truly 1049 00:54:54,440 --> 00:54:56,560 Speaker 9: nice man. You sound like a nice guy. You know, 1050 00:54:56,960 --> 00:54:59,640 Speaker 9: women ask all the time we're the nice guys. You 1051 00:54:59,680 --> 00:55:01,400 Speaker 9: know there are no more nice guys. Well, this was 1052 00:55:01,480 --> 00:55:05,839 Speaker 9: truly a nice guy. These weren't even your friends. These 1053 00:55:05,880 --> 00:55:08,959 Speaker 9: were your wife's friends. She was your wife's best friend. 1054 00:55:09,040 --> 00:55:12,680 Speaker 9: You weren't even come on. You stepped in to help 1055 00:55:12,719 --> 00:55:14,440 Speaker 9: your wife's best friend's husband out. 1056 00:55:15,040 --> 00:55:16,640 Speaker 1: You didn't have to do any of this. 1057 00:55:16,960 --> 00:55:19,239 Speaker 8: You didn't have to do it, And I know you're 1058 00:55:19,280 --> 00:55:20,960 Speaker 8: probably asking yourself. 1059 00:55:20,680 --> 00:55:21,319 Speaker 1: Why you did. 1060 00:55:21,440 --> 00:55:26,759 Speaker 8: Now, this loser and a man. I'm being kind when 1061 00:55:26,800 --> 00:55:27,600 Speaker 8: I use that word. 1062 00:55:27,840 --> 00:55:29,719 Speaker 1: He stabbed you in your back so hard. 1063 00:55:29,840 --> 00:55:31,440 Speaker 8: Then he twisted that knife. 1064 00:55:31,480 --> 00:55:35,399 Speaker 9: Okay, but I can't blame him entirely because your wife 1065 00:55:35,440 --> 00:55:36,319 Speaker 9: played a big role. 1066 00:55:36,880 --> 00:55:37,839 Speaker 3: What is wrong with her? 1067 00:55:38,080 --> 00:55:39,439 Speaker 1: What is wrong with your wife? 1068 00:55:40,719 --> 00:55:43,759 Speaker 9: You guys have been college sweethearts and been married for 1069 00:55:43,880 --> 00:55:47,080 Speaker 9: fifteen years. So she lets this guy come in here, 1070 00:55:47,760 --> 00:55:51,800 Speaker 9: and after two weeks she's sleeping with the guy and 1071 00:55:51,960 --> 00:55:55,200 Speaker 9: defending him, trying to pull you off him when he 1072 00:55:55,400 --> 00:56:00,560 Speaker 9: clearly deserved a beat down. He was very comfortable not 1073 00:56:00,719 --> 00:56:04,360 Speaker 9: only living in your house, but you know, taking liberties 1074 00:56:04,400 --> 00:56:05,839 Speaker 9: with your wife and everything else. 1075 00:56:05,920 --> 00:56:09,520 Speaker 8: And now he's staying in your house. This is terrible. 1076 00:56:10,040 --> 00:56:11,759 Speaker 8: I blame your wife for. 1077 00:56:12,239 --> 00:56:15,040 Speaker 9: Allowing this to go down, But more than that, I 1078 00:56:15,120 --> 00:56:17,760 Speaker 9: blame him because you were just showing kindness to another 1079 00:56:17,840 --> 00:56:19,439 Speaker 9: man who needed it at the time. 1080 00:56:19,719 --> 00:56:22,480 Speaker 8: I think he overstayed. You allowed him to overstay. Three 1081 00:56:22,520 --> 00:56:25,200 Speaker 8: weeks is too long. He should have gotten it together 1082 00:56:25,280 --> 00:56:27,120 Speaker 8: by then, and if he didn't, he should have moved on. 1083 00:56:27,440 --> 00:56:28,320 Speaker 1: How do you move on? 1084 00:56:29,600 --> 00:56:33,520 Speaker 9: One way is to hopefully, you know, get some female 1085 00:56:33,560 --> 00:56:36,800 Speaker 9: companionship in your life. That's one way you can do it, 1086 00:56:37,600 --> 00:56:39,960 Speaker 9: move forward and have happiness again. You say it's hard 1087 00:56:40,000 --> 00:56:42,320 Speaker 9: for you to trust females. All females aren't like that. 1088 00:56:42,600 --> 00:56:45,120 Speaker 9: I hope you know that, But you know, start slowly 1089 00:56:45,239 --> 00:56:48,399 Speaker 9: with friendship from a female and take it from there. 1090 00:56:48,480 --> 00:56:50,680 Speaker 9: You can move on and get past this. And you're 1091 00:56:50,719 --> 00:56:52,840 Speaker 9: going to have to try and forgive Steve. 1092 00:56:53,600 --> 00:56:55,799 Speaker 1: I don't see nothing about no moving on in this letter. 1093 00:56:55,920 --> 00:57:00,239 Speaker 1: Just just about this letter. Yeah? Oh see the move huh? 1094 00:57:00,280 --> 00:57:03,360 Speaker 4: I started with my ad you married fifteen years to 1095 00:57:03,440 --> 00:57:06,160 Speaker 4: your college. Sweetheart got it. Never had problems in my 1096 00:57:06,280 --> 00:57:10,280 Speaker 4: marriage till I tried to help out a friend. Definition 1097 00:57:10,440 --> 00:57:15,120 Speaker 4: of friend. Here's what happened. My wife had a best friend. 1098 00:57:16,360 --> 00:57:18,480 Speaker 4: So this is your wife's best friend, and the friend 1099 00:57:18,640 --> 00:57:22,840 Speaker 4: was married to a big time Cheetoh. Now, nowhere in 1100 00:57:22,920 --> 00:57:27,040 Speaker 4: this letter, really was you saying that this man was 1101 00:57:27,160 --> 00:57:32,440 Speaker 4: your friend, your wife's best friend, and the friend was 1102 00:57:32,520 --> 00:57:35,720 Speaker 4: married to a big time Cheatah. We were always there 1103 00:57:35,840 --> 00:57:38,520 Speaker 4: for her when she was going through drama with her husband. 1104 00:57:38,960 --> 00:57:43,440 Speaker 4: Y'all were always dare for her. You ain't mentioned this 1105 00:57:43,520 --> 00:57:47,000 Speaker 4: guy yet. Then the marriage finally ended when her husband 1106 00:57:47,440 --> 00:57:49,080 Speaker 4: got her cousin pregnant. 1107 00:57:50,320 --> 00:57:52,800 Speaker 1: Okay, understood. 1108 00:57:53,560 --> 00:57:56,560 Speaker 4: She put him out the house. He didn't have nowhere 1109 00:57:56,600 --> 00:57:59,080 Speaker 4: to go. So then you talk to your wife to 1110 00:57:59,160 --> 00:58:01,240 Speaker 4: let him stay with your all for a while. When'd 1111 00:58:01,280 --> 00:58:04,880 Speaker 4: he become your friend? But y'all was with the lady 1112 00:58:04,920 --> 00:58:07,160 Speaker 4: to help her through all the trump did she put. 1113 00:58:07,080 --> 00:58:07,560 Speaker 1: The man out? 1114 00:58:07,640 --> 00:58:10,400 Speaker 4: Now y'all take him in too? What is y'all a 1115 00:58:10,520 --> 00:58:16,840 Speaker 4: shelter you have to side dog? You got home or 1116 00:58:17,040 --> 00:58:17,880 Speaker 4: damn shelter? 1117 00:58:20,520 --> 00:58:20,680 Speaker 2: Now? 1118 00:58:20,960 --> 00:58:23,360 Speaker 4: The first week he kept to himself, and he slept 1119 00:58:23,440 --> 00:58:26,200 Speaker 4: a lot when he wasn't at work. 1120 00:58:27,600 --> 00:58:29,480 Speaker 1: In the second week, he started talking with here the 1121 00:58:29,600 --> 00:58:30,120 Speaker 1: letter change. 1122 00:58:30,280 --> 00:58:32,320 Speaker 4: I come home from work one day he and my 1123 00:58:32,440 --> 00:58:35,520 Speaker 4: wife had cooked together, and we all sat down at ate. 1124 00:58:35,880 --> 00:58:40,680 Speaker 1: This wedding letter in for me exactly this damn metal over. 1125 00:58:41,200 --> 00:58:43,160 Speaker 1: We gotta take you cooking together fault. 1126 00:58:43,320 --> 00:58:45,640 Speaker 9: We'll have part two of Steve's response coming up at 1127 00:58:45,640 --> 00:58:49,400 Speaker 9: twenty three minutes after the hour. Subject of today's letter, 1128 00:58:49,480 --> 00:58:52,280 Speaker 9: he stole my wife from right up under me right 1129 00:58:52,360 --> 00:58:57,439 Speaker 9: after this. You're listening hard morning show. All right, Steve, 1130 00:58:57,520 --> 00:59:00,400 Speaker 9: come on, let's recap today's strawberry letter. Subject He's stole 1131 00:59:00,480 --> 00:59:04,560 Speaker 9: my wife right from under me, right from up under me. 1132 00:59:05,320 --> 00:59:08,400 Speaker 4: This letter unbelievable. D been married to a college sweetheart. 1133 00:59:08,760 --> 00:59:11,280 Speaker 4: They ain't have no problems her her best friend had 1134 00:59:11,920 --> 00:59:14,640 Speaker 4: and her friend her best friend her wife. Excuse me, 1135 00:59:14,760 --> 00:59:17,280 Speaker 4: his wife had a best friend who was married to 1136 00:59:17,400 --> 00:59:20,240 Speaker 4: a big time cheatam Then y'all was always there for 1137 00:59:20,440 --> 00:59:22,760 Speaker 4: going through the drama with her husband. Then the marriage 1138 00:59:22,840 --> 00:59:26,240 Speaker 4: ended when her husband got her cousin pregnant. She put 1139 00:59:26,360 --> 00:59:28,480 Speaker 4: him out of the house. He ain't have anywhere to go, 1140 00:59:28,840 --> 00:59:31,440 Speaker 4: So I talked my wife into letting him stay with 1141 00:59:31,600 --> 00:59:34,840 Speaker 4: us so he could sort things out first week get 1142 00:59:34,880 --> 00:59:38,400 Speaker 4: to himself, slept a whole lot. Then he wasn't at work. 1143 00:59:38,880 --> 00:59:42,000 Speaker 4: The second week he started talking more. I come home 1144 00:59:42,080 --> 00:59:44,640 Speaker 4: from work one day he and my wife had cooked 1145 00:59:44,640 --> 00:59:48,200 Speaker 4: together and we all sat down at eight cooking together 1146 00:59:48,360 --> 00:59:53,680 Speaker 4: for what. Ain't nobody here but me? Uh huh you 1147 00:59:54,200 --> 00:59:57,080 Speaker 4: that I invited and my wife? Why is two people 1148 00:59:57,160 --> 01:00:02,760 Speaker 4: cooking this damn meal? Three people don't require help in 1149 01:00:02,880 --> 01:00:07,960 Speaker 4: the kitchen. If your wife been cooking, it's just a 1150 01:00:08,000 --> 01:00:11,920 Speaker 4: little bit extra for one more half a cup more 1151 01:00:12,040 --> 01:00:16,400 Speaker 4: rice in the bowl uncooked. That blows up the two 1152 01:00:16,520 --> 01:00:21,480 Speaker 4: damn cups of eight rice. Uh okay, now that's what 1153 01:00:21,680 --> 01:00:26,240 Speaker 4: we start having a problem with right now. Now, going 1154 01:00:26,320 --> 01:00:30,080 Speaker 4: into the third week, I sat down with the man 1155 01:00:30,160 --> 01:00:32,640 Speaker 4: to see if he made other living arrangements. 1156 01:00:34,080 --> 01:00:35,520 Speaker 1: He informed me that he was. 1157 01:00:35,640 --> 01:00:40,560 Speaker 4: Very comfortable in my eye, my house right there. But see, 1158 01:00:40,600 --> 01:00:41,920 Speaker 4: I don't know, I don't even know how we have 1159 01:00:42,080 --> 01:00:47,120 Speaker 4: in this conversation. There's nobody that tummy, there's nobody that 1160 01:00:47,280 --> 01:00:49,840 Speaker 4: is no me. We gonna make this statement to me 1161 01:00:50,680 --> 01:00:53,040 Speaker 4: that I'm very comfortable in your house, And he said, 1162 01:00:53,600 --> 01:00:56,600 Speaker 4: my wife loved having him there. Wow, See, I don't 1163 01:00:56,720 --> 01:01:00,400 Speaker 4: know nobody that really know me that can open open 1164 01:01:00,440 --> 01:01:01,800 Speaker 4: their mouth and say these damn says. 1165 01:01:01,880 --> 01:01:04,840 Speaker 1: This ain't disrespectful you who you think you talking to? 1166 01:01:06,400 --> 01:01:10,880 Speaker 4: He told me he could tell my wife needed to 1167 01:01:10,960 --> 01:01:16,120 Speaker 4: be loved properly. Now, stun stuff right there, because the 1168 01:01:16,280 --> 01:01:20,120 Speaker 4: dude that's writing this letter, it's a little week ass, dude. 1169 01:01:20,240 --> 01:01:23,200 Speaker 4: I'm sorry man, this little week ass dude. Because first 1170 01:01:23,240 --> 01:01:25,720 Speaker 4: of all, I can't write the letter into the type 1171 01:01:25,760 --> 01:01:28,800 Speaker 4: because he had to send it in an email. You 1172 01:01:28,920 --> 01:01:32,280 Speaker 4: can't email from jail, so I couldn't even send this letter. 1173 01:01:33,920 --> 01:01:35,840 Speaker 4: There's no way I can send this letter because my 1174 01:01:35,920 --> 01:01:38,720 Speaker 4: ass in jail. Dog, what did you say to me? 1175 01:01:41,400 --> 01:01:43,520 Speaker 4: He told me he could tell my wife needed to 1176 01:01:43,600 --> 01:01:48,360 Speaker 4: be loved properly. What so he seduced her and he's 1177 01:01:48,440 --> 01:01:51,200 Speaker 4: been making love to her almost daily for the. 1178 01:01:51,280 --> 01:01:56,320 Speaker 1: Past two weeks. What holds you that human can't say 1179 01:01:56,440 --> 01:01:57,720 Speaker 1: these words to me? 1180 01:01:57,960 --> 01:01:59,720 Speaker 3: Lil and I sit down and. 1181 01:02:02,840 --> 01:02:05,960 Speaker 1: Dog, I could tell your wife needed to be loved. 1182 01:02:06,840 --> 01:02:07,200 Speaker 7: That was it. 1183 01:02:08,440 --> 01:02:11,240 Speaker 1: Talk to this guy, I could tell your wife needed 1184 01:02:11,320 --> 01:02:16,680 Speaker 1: to be loved. That's it. That's it all after that 1185 01:02:16,880 --> 01:02:19,160 Speaker 1: is asked for all this here. 1186 01:02:19,880 --> 01:02:22,120 Speaker 4: First of all, you way you can tell my wife 1187 01:02:22,240 --> 01:02:25,720 Speaker 4: needed to be loved properly. That's when I stand up. 1188 01:02:28,800 --> 01:02:31,200 Speaker 4: I could tell your wife needs okay. Then he said 1189 01:02:31,240 --> 01:02:33,480 Speaker 4: he been making love to her for daily for the 1190 01:02:33,560 --> 01:02:36,960 Speaker 4: past you and told me you screwed my what you 1191 01:02:37,080 --> 01:02:39,040 Speaker 4: thought you could say it? And then then then now 1192 01:02:39,120 --> 01:02:41,160 Speaker 4: this way he trying to sound like a man. But 1193 01:02:41,200 --> 01:02:43,720 Speaker 4: I'm gonna tell you what. This didn't happen, y'all. He 1194 01:02:43,920 --> 01:02:47,920 Speaker 4: just did it for life. No, no, no, no, he 1195 01:02:47,960 --> 01:02:50,520 Speaker 4: didn't do this right here, you can guess what happened next. 1196 01:02:50,680 --> 01:02:51,919 Speaker 1: No, no, see next. 1197 01:02:52,280 --> 01:02:56,080 Speaker 4: No, we can't, y'all can't beat it out. I grabbed 1198 01:02:56,160 --> 01:02:57,680 Speaker 4: him and slung him to the ground. 1199 01:02:57,920 --> 01:03:00,440 Speaker 1: That ain't even how we fight, No. 1200 01:03:02,720 --> 01:03:05,720 Speaker 4: Dog, I grabbed him and slung him to the ground, 1201 01:03:06,240 --> 01:03:09,800 Speaker 4: and he let you this is a dude that's bold 1202 01:03:09,880 --> 01:03:11,720 Speaker 4: enough to tell you he can slept with your wife. 1203 01:03:12,080 --> 01:03:15,160 Speaker 4: I grabbed him and slunk him to the ground, and 1204 01:03:15,320 --> 01:03:17,640 Speaker 4: my wife rushed in and yelled for me to stop. 1205 01:03:18,240 --> 01:03:20,880 Speaker 1: She said it was all true, and she apologized to me. 1206 01:03:21,280 --> 01:03:21,320 Speaker 11: What. 1207 01:03:25,520 --> 01:03:27,440 Speaker 4: You don't know how long it would have took her 1208 01:03:27,520 --> 01:03:30,920 Speaker 4: to get me on him. Do you know how many 1209 01:03:31,000 --> 01:03:33,200 Speaker 4: police cars would have been out side. He'd been all 1210 01:03:33,240 --> 01:03:36,800 Speaker 4: behind the refrigerator, hiding you know, I'm trying to kill 1211 01:03:36,840 --> 01:03:39,880 Speaker 4: this dude. You know, dog, I got that kitchen dog 1212 01:03:42,360 --> 01:03:45,960 Speaker 4: get Fast forward to the present. She said it was 1213 01:03:46,000 --> 01:03:48,240 Speaker 4: all true, and she apologized to me. Fast forward to 1214 01:03:48,320 --> 01:03:48,760 Speaker 4: the president. 1215 01:03:49,040 --> 01:03:50,040 Speaker 1: I have a new house. 1216 01:03:50,400 --> 01:03:52,840 Speaker 4: He's in my old house with my wife and they 1217 01:03:52,920 --> 01:03:55,280 Speaker 4: are getting married when our divorce is final. 1218 01:03:55,800 --> 01:03:58,960 Speaker 1: What hey, dog, you living in my house, the one 1219 01:03:59,000 --> 01:04:01,680 Speaker 1: I'm paying for. No man with her? 1220 01:04:02,760 --> 01:04:06,080 Speaker 4: No, no man, that's not happening. This, none of this 1221 01:04:06,280 --> 01:04:08,960 Speaker 4: is happening. This is unthinkable. Hey, ain't no real man 1222 01:04:09,000 --> 01:04:09,640 Speaker 4: reading this letter? 1223 01:04:09,720 --> 01:04:12,480 Speaker 1: Going? Well, you know, Steve, what could he do? Did 1224 01:04:12,520 --> 01:04:13,600 Speaker 1: he do? We all call? 1225 01:04:13,720 --> 01:04:16,400 Speaker 4: We all sit in here going the question would be, 1226 01:04:16,640 --> 01:04:19,919 Speaker 4: what did not do? Yeah, set the house on fire 1227 01:04:20,520 --> 01:04:23,840 Speaker 4: and kill everybody in here? We got yellow tape, brown building, 1228 01:04:24,400 --> 01:04:27,280 Speaker 4: shark marks on the ground. We he didn't heed the weapons. 1229 01:04:28,080 --> 01:04:31,720 Speaker 4: He got DNA everywhere. The man ain't got no fighter nails. 1230 01:04:33,520 --> 01:04:37,080 Speaker 4: Steve reedon Steve and a coma and everybody else in 1231 01:04:37,120 --> 01:04:41,120 Speaker 4: the damn coma. Because that's what what have happened. 1232 01:04:41,280 --> 01:04:42,480 Speaker 8: We gotta take a break right here. 1233 01:04:42,920 --> 01:04:45,560 Speaker 9: Every time I see you can post your comments on 1234 01:04:45,600 --> 01:04:49,440 Speaker 9: today's Strawberry Letter. It's Steve Harvey FM on Instagram and Facebook. 1235 01:04:49,520 --> 01:04:51,880 Speaker 9: Check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on demand now. Coming 1236 01:04:51,960 --> 01:04:54,080 Speaker 9: up at forty six after the hour, we're gonna have 1237 01:04:54,120 --> 01:04:56,600 Speaker 9: part three of today's Strawberry Letter. 1238 01:04:56,760 --> 01:04:59,800 Speaker 8: Subject he stole my wife from right up under me. 1239 01:05:00,360 --> 01:05:01,240 Speaker 8: You're listening. 1240 01:05:02,480 --> 01:05:03,040 Speaker 1: Morning show. 1241 01:05:03,600 --> 01:05:06,280 Speaker 9: Well, Steve, we were talking about the Strawberry Letter. You 1242 01:05:06,360 --> 01:05:08,280 Speaker 9: had a lot more to say on it. Subject he 1243 01:05:08,560 --> 01:05:11,320 Speaker 9: stole my wife from right up under me? Just a 1244 01:05:11,400 --> 01:05:12,480 Speaker 9: quick recap recap? 1245 01:05:12,600 --> 01:05:14,560 Speaker 4: Do anybody this man over to the house He ended 1246 01:05:14,640 --> 01:05:17,840 Speaker 4: up sleeping with his wife, told him I was cold, 1247 01:05:17,960 --> 01:05:20,600 Speaker 4: look at your wife until she needed to be loved properly. 1248 01:05:21,240 --> 01:05:23,560 Speaker 4: I been sleeping with her every day for the past 1249 01:05:23,640 --> 01:05:27,160 Speaker 4: two weeks. So you know what happened next. I grabbed 1250 01:05:27,240 --> 01:05:28,680 Speaker 4: him and slung him to the ground. 1251 01:05:29,080 --> 01:05:33,240 Speaker 1: What holdo, dog? Yeah, ain't nobody gets stabbed? 1252 01:05:34,480 --> 01:05:35,200 Speaker 3: Let's waiting. 1253 01:05:35,480 --> 01:05:38,720 Speaker 4: Ain't nobody we in the kitchen talking. You told me 1254 01:05:39,240 --> 01:05:42,360 Speaker 4: you've been sleeping my wife for two weeks. Ain't nobody 1255 01:05:42,480 --> 01:05:43,120 Speaker 4: get stamped? 1256 01:05:44,560 --> 01:05:44,800 Speaker 9: Wow? 1257 01:05:44,920 --> 01:05:47,880 Speaker 4: Ain't nobody got their face hail down on the on 1258 01:05:48,040 --> 01:05:51,400 Speaker 4: the eye with the gas on, everybody got all their ligaments. 1259 01:05:52,440 --> 01:05:55,840 Speaker 4: I didn't reach behind the stove and snatch the gas 1260 01:05:55,960 --> 01:05:57,720 Speaker 4: line out and stick it in your butt. 1261 01:05:58,920 --> 01:05:59,120 Speaker 7: All. 1262 01:06:00,200 --> 01:06:01,640 Speaker 1: There you go. Now you're talking. 1263 01:06:01,760 --> 01:06:05,120 Speaker 4: Now, I didn't slam your head in the freezer door 1264 01:06:05,560 --> 01:06:06,280 Speaker 4: nine times. 1265 01:06:06,480 --> 01:06:07,120 Speaker 15: I ain't do that. 1266 01:06:08,560 --> 01:06:11,280 Speaker 4: I slung him to the ground. I grabbed him and 1267 01:06:11,320 --> 01:06:13,400 Speaker 4: slung him to the ground. Slung him to the ground. 1268 01:06:13,640 --> 01:06:16,160 Speaker 8: So you don't believe that, because that's not how you 1269 01:06:16,240 --> 01:06:16,560 Speaker 8: guys are. 1270 01:06:18,960 --> 01:06:23,080 Speaker 4: You cannot tell no living man that that's married and 1271 01:06:23,200 --> 01:06:25,360 Speaker 4: put in time with a wife and the dude sitting 1272 01:06:25,440 --> 01:06:28,120 Speaker 4: in his house and say these words to him, and 1273 01:06:28,280 --> 01:06:31,080 Speaker 4: his reaction is I grabbed him and slung him to 1274 01:06:31,200 --> 01:06:31,720 Speaker 4: the ground. 1275 01:06:32,360 --> 01:06:35,560 Speaker 1: Then my wife yelled and yelled for me to stop. 1276 01:06:36,840 --> 01:06:42,960 Speaker 1: So then he stopped so bad I can't even hear her. 1277 01:06:43,760 --> 01:06:46,160 Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, she needed to get out the way while 1278 01:06:46,200 --> 01:06:48,120 Speaker 4: I'm throwing the blows any damn yeh. 1279 01:06:48,600 --> 01:06:51,320 Speaker 1: Then he said, fast forward to the president. I got 1280 01:06:51,320 --> 01:06:51,720 Speaker 1: a new house. 1281 01:06:51,760 --> 01:06:54,320 Speaker 4: So you moved out your house, and there's a man 1282 01:06:54,440 --> 01:06:57,560 Speaker 4: that moved in your house that's screwing your wife in 1283 01:06:57,760 --> 01:06:58,240 Speaker 4: that house. 1284 01:06:59,240 --> 01:07:03,720 Speaker 1: This house ain't this house don't have no soot damage 1285 01:07:05,120 --> 01:07:08,000 Speaker 1: from the fire you set. Yeah, you you can. 1286 01:07:08,040 --> 01:07:10,520 Speaker 4: Actually live in this house. It ain't no water damage. 1287 01:07:10,520 --> 01:07:13,560 Speaker 4: When the fire department come, you ain't set nothing on fire. 1288 01:07:14,160 --> 01:07:16,360 Speaker 4: He's sleeping in the house, screwing your wife. You done 1289 01:07:16,400 --> 01:07:18,960 Speaker 4: went and got a new house, and they getting married 1290 01:07:19,000 --> 01:07:22,200 Speaker 4: when I divorced, and y'all ain't even divorced, so now. 1291 01:07:22,160 --> 01:07:23,760 Speaker 1: You're still paying for this house. 1292 01:07:24,520 --> 01:07:27,160 Speaker 4: That he isn't sleeping with your wife, Pardner, I'm gonna 1293 01:07:27,200 --> 01:07:29,400 Speaker 4: tell you right now, I ain't. None of this is 1294 01:07:29,520 --> 01:07:33,040 Speaker 4: happening with no dudes I know. Okay, one of my 1295 01:07:33,120 --> 01:07:36,600 Speaker 4: best friends, Biggie Wig, if you sit in Big God 1296 01:07:36,720 --> 01:07:39,080 Speaker 4: and tell him you've been sleeping with his wife. Man, 1297 01:07:40,240 --> 01:07:42,280 Speaker 4: this is not even the news story we're on for 1298 01:07:42,400 --> 01:07:42,760 Speaker 4: that out. 1299 01:07:43,000 --> 01:07:46,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, the greatest episode. Everybody on that block they house 1300 01:07:47,000 --> 01:07:48,320 Speaker 1: is in jail, the whole block. 1301 01:07:48,760 --> 01:07:52,280 Speaker 4: All right, this is an episode of Forensic Files, the 1302 01:07:52,400 --> 01:07:54,400 Speaker 4: Greatest One Guy. 1303 01:07:56,040 --> 01:07:58,720 Speaker 1: You're listening morning show? 1304 01:08:01,000 --> 01:08:05,000 Speaker 9: All right, Guys, Americans spend ninety two percent of their 1305 01:08:05,120 --> 01:08:09,680 Speaker 9: time inside these days, but something called the mature or 1306 01:08:09,760 --> 01:08:13,560 Speaker 9: the Nature pyramid can help us get outside more. Okay, 1307 01:08:14,040 --> 01:08:16,800 Speaker 9: it's like the food pyramid, but it recommends how much 1308 01:08:16,880 --> 01:08:20,200 Speaker 9: time we should be spending in nature to reduce stress 1309 01:08:20,560 --> 01:08:24,240 Speaker 9: and boost our happiness. The twenty five to three rule 1310 01:08:24,360 --> 01:08:27,920 Speaker 9: for the nature pyramid says we need twenty minutes outside 1311 01:08:28,320 --> 01:08:31,240 Speaker 9: like in a park three times a week. We need 1312 01:08:31,400 --> 01:08:34,560 Speaker 9: five hours a month in semi wild nature like a 1313 01:08:36,320 --> 01:08:39,040 Speaker 9: what a forest, a state park, and then three days 1314 01:08:39,080 --> 01:08:41,599 Speaker 9: a year off the grid in nature like camping. 1315 01:08:43,880 --> 01:08:51,680 Speaker 1: Really, so that is never do never say never, but 1316 01:08:51,800 --> 01:08:56,800 Speaker 1: I will never go camp three days a month off degree. 1317 01:08:58,360 --> 01:08:59,240 Speaker 5: In nature, just. 1318 01:09:01,160 --> 01:09:04,639 Speaker 1: Like camping wilderness, way out in the middle of day. 1319 01:09:05,280 --> 01:09:09,160 Speaker 1: Take a break. Yeah, no, hey, listen to me. Okay, 1320 01:09:09,280 --> 01:09:10,479 Speaker 1: you have something in the woods. 1321 01:09:11,360 --> 01:09:17,120 Speaker 8: Yeah, camping for camping, Steve, it's three days a year camping. 1322 01:09:17,560 --> 01:09:21,240 Speaker 1: I'm mad at that. Okay, three days a year. What 1323 01:09:21,360 --> 01:09:22,920 Speaker 1: y'all talking about? Yeah, I'm mad at that. 1324 01:09:23,439 --> 01:09:27,000 Speaker 9: Five hours a month in semi wild nature like a forest, 1325 01:09:27,040 --> 01:09:27,679 Speaker 9: state park. 1326 01:09:28,320 --> 01:09:35,040 Speaker 1: Okay, you're back to the Dallas five hours okay, now. 1327 01:09:36,640 --> 01:09:40,120 Speaker 8: A month, five hours a month, that's all that's. 1328 01:09:40,800 --> 01:09:46,600 Speaker 1: I'm just walking right a lot. Yeah, look Dale, my herbology. 1329 01:09:46,720 --> 01:09:51,400 Speaker 1: He up in there now. He's some video everything. He's 1330 01:09:51,400 --> 01:09:54,720 Speaker 1: all up in blue, reds Mounts walk. Steve got some more. 1331 01:09:54,960 --> 01:10:01,040 Speaker 1: Excuse me, I have a job the family few he 1332 01:10:01,200 --> 01:10:02,920 Speaker 1: text me once a week. Here. You got to hear 1333 01:10:03,000 --> 01:10:05,120 Speaker 1: some of these trails. I like hiking with you, just 1334 01:10:05,200 --> 01:10:07,400 Speaker 1: fun I've got to work. 1335 01:10:09,680 --> 01:10:11,760 Speaker 4: And the last time my ass went up there with 1336 01:10:11,920 --> 01:10:16,000 Speaker 4: him hiking, I hurt my uh uh, I got what 1337 01:10:16,160 --> 01:10:21,120 Speaker 4: they call that b under your foot plaster flighters someone. 1338 01:10:21,520 --> 01:10:28,320 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, planting fasci iis planting fasci iis. I've had 1339 01:10:28,360 --> 01:10:31,519 Speaker 1: that twice in my life. Very very painful. I know, 1340 01:10:31,640 --> 01:10:35,600 Speaker 1: I can I can't say it. 1341 01:10:35,680 --> 01:10:41,160 Speaker 4: I know I am planter planting flatchy iis flats. 1342 01:10:41,240 --> 01:10:45,400 Speaker 1: So you stepped on plants, see right there, that's why. 1343 01:10:45,360 --> 01:10:49,400 Speaker 8: We flastyis plant strange. 1344 01:10:49,600 --> 01:10:54,519 Speaker 1: If you strain the tendon, it's a under your heel. 1345 01:10:55,520 --> 01:10:55,880 Speaker 7: This is. 1346 01:10:57,800 --> 01:11:01,080 Speaker 8: And that is a connective tissue which supports the arch. 1347 01:11:01,000 --> 01:11:01,519 Speaker 1: Of the foot. 1348 01:11:02,520 --> 01:11:06,040 Speaker 4: And when you strain that muscle right there, brother, you 1349 01:11:06,200 --> 01:11:08,559 Speaker 4: have a serious problem. I've had it twice. 1350 01:11:09,120 --> 01:11:11,679 Speaker 9: Pain in the heel and in the bottom of the foot. 1351 01:11:12,080 --> 01:11:14,640 Speaker 9: That is usually most severe with the first steps of 1352 01:11:14,760 --> 01:11:15,240 Speaker 9: the day. 1353 01:11:15,760 --> 01:11:18,320 Speaker 4: Oh God in the morning, man, I've gotten out the 1354 01:11:18,360 --> 01:11:22,439 Speaker 4: bed and damn to drop to my knees with this pain. Yeah, 1355 01:11:22,560 --> 01:11:24,400 Speaker 4: and you know, and then you warm it up and 1356 01:11:24,479 --> 01:11:26,080 Speaker 4: you get better with it. But you got to be 1357 01:11:26,400 --> 01:11:29,360 Speaker 4: but it's just a pain, and it takes a couple 1358 01:11:29,400 --> 01:11:30,439 Speaker 4: of months to get rid of. 1359 01:11:30,520 --> 01:11:37,040 Speaker 8: It comes on gradually and it affects both feet, and. 1360 01:11:39,760 --> 01:11:41,360 Speaker 1: We don't need to go out there. What it sound like, 1361 01:11:42,479 --> 01:11:44,120 Speaker 1: Yeah for us. 1362 01:11:45,479 --> 01:11:47,160 Speaker 4: What I had to do is you got to learn 1363 01:11:47,240 --> 01:11:51,200 Speaker 4: how to stretch before you get into strenuous exercise. Oh yeah, Well, 1364 01:11:51,280 --> 01:11:53,879 Speaker 4: if you're gonna be walking up steep heels and everything 1365 01:11:54,040 --> 01:11:57,360 Speaker 4: like that, you gotta stretch your calfs out really good. 1366 01:11:57,520 --> 01:12:00,240 Speaker 4: Stretch your tennis on the back of your achilles, get 1367 01:12:00,320 --> 01:12:02,560 Speaker 4: them nice and stretched. There's some stretches I had to 1368 01:12:02,640 --> 01:12:04,519 Speaker 4: learn how to do. So when I go up and 1369 01:12:04,600 --> 01:12:07,599 Speaker 4: I'm trying to walk on my toes and climb up 1370 01:12:07,680 --> 01:12:08,719 Speaker 4: the trails, I don't. 1371 01:12:09,080 --> 01:12:14,479 Speaker 1: I don't stretch that tendon. How long is a hike though? 1372 01:12:16,160 --> 01:12:16,920 Speaker 1: A couple hours? 1373 01:12:17,720 --> 01:12:17,920 Speaker 4: Yeah? 1374 01:12:18,680 --> 01:12:19,839 Speaker 1: Two hours. 1375 01:12:20,240 --> 01:12:21,280 Speaker 8: You're into camping at all? 1376 01:12:21,439 --> 01:12:23,919 Speaker 1: Do you like I used to? And not not anymore. 1377 01:12:24,680 --> 01:12:28,920 Speaker 1: I found out what luxury camps is like and cut 1378 01:12:28,960 --> 01:12:35,040 Speaker 1: all that at the hotel trying to put up under 1379 01:12:35,080 --> 01:12:39,120 Speaker 1: your knee squadlet the steve. 1380 01:12:40,040 --> 01:12:43,040 Speaker 8: Twenty minutes after right after this, you're listening. 1381 01:12:44,320 --> 01:12:44,920 Speaker 1: Morning show. 1382 01:12:47,040 --> 01:12:50,479 Speaker 9: All right, So a woman with a handyman husband has 1383 01:12:50,560 --> 01:12:52,800 Speaker 9: come up with a very clever way to earn some 1384 01:12:53,040 --> 01:12:57,759 Speaker 9: extra money. Uh, she runs her husband out to other women. 1385 01:12:58,320 --> 01:13:01,280 Speaker 9: Her husband is excellent handyman, and she knows a lot 1386 01:13:01,320 --> 01:13:03,960 Speaker 9: of women who don't have someone as handy around to 1387 01:13:04,080 --> 01:13:07,479 Speaker 9: fix things in their homes. So she created get this 1388 01:13:08,040 --> 01:13:11,799 Speaker 9: rent my handy husband. She did this for about forty 1389 01:13:11,920 --> 01:13:13,080 Speaker 9: four dollars an hour. 1390 01:13:13,280 --> 01:13:14,400 Speaker 1: Okay, this is what you can do. 1391 01:13:14,760 --> 01:13:17,880 Speaker 9: Her husband can come over and take care of any 1392 01:13:17,960 --> 01:13:22,280 Speaker 9: household projects that need to get done. What kinds of 1393 01:13:22,439 --> 01:13:25,360 Speaker 9: jobs do you think this man is doing and these 1394 01:13:25,439 --> 01:13:28,719 Speaker 9: other women's houses for forty four dollars an hour? 1395 01:13:30,960 --> 01:13:33,200 Speaker 1: Anything else? I'm just you know what, I'm just going 1396 01:13:33,280 --> 01:13:34,920 Speaker 1: out right there. 1397 01:13:37,680 --> 01:13:39,559 Speaker 4: I don't know a lot of women that are gonna 1398 01:13:39,560 --> 01:13:42,040 Speaker 4: send their husband over another woman house. 1399 01:13:42,200 --> 01:13:46,599 Speaker 1: Don't know at all. I'd like to see the guy though, 1400 01:13:47,040 --> 01:13:50,839 Speaker 1: see yeah, yeah, yeah, look like I'd. 1401 01:13:50,720 --> 01:13:53,200 Speaker 4: Like to see the guy and then the women that 1402 01:13:53,640 --> 01:13:56,479 Speaker 4: you know, could just be a handyman's service though it 1403 01:13:56,520 --> 01:13:57,600 Speaker 4: could very well be that. 1404 01:13:57,840 --> 01:14:00,559 Speaker 8: Yeah, And how did they come over for an hour? 1405 01:14:00,760 --> 01:14:00,960 Speaker 1: Yeah? 1406 01:14:02,400 --> 01:14:04,760 Speaker 8: Come over and take care of any household projects that 1407 01:14:04,960 --> 01:14:06,000 Speaker 8: need to get done. 1408 01:14:06,600 --> 01:14:08,879 Speaker 1: I got my own handed man. I got one myself 1409 01:14:09,920 --> 01:14:12,519 Speaker 1: changing lights built. You know how the lights heels up there? 1410 01:14:12,840 --> 01:14:17,439 Speaker 1: I'm not hold on, rich boy, rich boy, y'all mist that? 1411 01:14:18,760 --> 01:14:20,439 Speaker 1: So you got a handy man look at your house 1412 01:14:20,720 --> 01:14:21,599 Speaker 1: to come and fix all. 1413 01:14:21,600 --> 01:14:22,320 Speaker 5: You We gotta go. 1414 01:14:22,960 --> 01:14:25,360 Speaker 9: We'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming 1415 01:14:25,439 --> 01:14:27,640 Speaker 9: up at thirty three minutes after we'll play around it. 1416 01:14:27,720 --> 01:14:28,400 Speaker 1: Would you rather? 1417 01:14:28,840 --> 01:14:33,680 Speaker 9: Right after this you're listening Harvey Morning Show. It is 1418 01:14:33,800 --> 01:14:38,120 Speaker 9: time now for a round of would you rather? Would 1419 01:14:38,160 --> 01:14:42,360 Speaker 9: you rather? Would you rather date the hottest person in 1420 01:14:42,520 --> 01:14:45,680 Speaker 9: the world but not be able to have sex with her? 1421 01:14:46,240 --> 01:14:48,880 Speaker 8: Or would you rather date an ugly person that you 1422 01:14:49,160 --> 01:14:50,360 Speaker 8: can have sex with? 1423 01:14:51,000 --> 01:15:01,560 Speaker 1: B We just running straight up and down. Yeah, what 1424 01:15:02,400 --> 01:15:04,000 Speaker 1: you're talking about? Lancing? 1425 01:15:06,800 --> 01:15:10,800 Speaker 4: You can't talk. You're gonna be talking kids. Other people 1426 01:15:10,800 --> 01:15:12,960 Speaker 4: have been in a lot of fights, Junior. That ain't 1427 01:15:12,960 --> 01:15:17,639 Speaker 4: who you want to talk rough. A lot of kids 1428 01:15:17,720 --> 01:15:21,360 Speaker 4: say that that's not not again, ju said again. 1429 01:15:24,200 --> 01:15:26,519 Speaker 1: Right there. Yeah, you're gonna get it. But now what 1430 01:15:26,640 --> 01:15:28,599 Speaker 1: you think you're gonna get You're about to be ugly 1431 01:15:28,680 --> 01:15:34,040 Speaker 1: with them. Now we're stepping glass people in here. Tommy, 1432 01:15:34,240 --> 01:15:39,920 Speaker 1: what you got I'm going I'm gonna be sitting up 1433 01:15:39,920 --> 01:15:44,720 Speaker 1: there just fantasizing all days. All right? 1434 01:15:45,439 --> 01:15:45,800 Speaker 7: All right? 1435 01:15:45,960 --> 01:15:49,240 Speaker 8: Next one, Would you rather have no toes or no fingers. 1436 01:15:49,520 --> 01:15:52,479 Speaker 1: What it is, Tom a gonna be answer this question right? 1437 01:15:52,920 --> 01:15:55,240 Speaker 1: He is struggling with it. Why you say that, Steve, 1438 01:15:56,439 --> 01:15:58,320 Speaker 1: I need my hands. I'm gonna go with hands. I 1439 01:15:58,439 --> 01:16:00,000 Speaker 1: need my hands. I'm gonna let them feed. 1440 01:16:00,400 --> 01:16:04,200 Speaker 4: Yeah, you're gonna be rocking off. You're gonna rock off 1441 01:16:04,240 --> 01:16:08,680 Speaker 4: the last feat you. You ain't gonna be able to 1442 01:16:08,760 --> 01:16:10,439 Speaker 4: stay up. You're gonna be You're gonna mess when i'd 1443 01:16:10,479 --> 01:16:13,280 Speaker 4: be a web a wobble, I'm gonna be just fine 1444 01:16:14,479 --> 01:16:17,240 Speaker 4: web wobble. Yeah, you're gonna be one of the people 1445 01:16:17,280 --> 01:16:19,320 Speaker 4: having the little nerves on the bottom of your feet. 1446 01:16:19,320 --> 01:16:21,160 Speaker 1: You ain't got no toes. That's the only thing keeping 1447 01:16:21,240 --> 01:16:23,639 Speaker 1: you off. Okay, so what's your answer? 1448 01:16:24,360 --> 01:16:29,080 Speaker 4: No, I need these fingers, man, Yeah, okay, I take 1449 01:16:29,120 --> 01:16:32,920 Speaker 4: these toes. Well, if I take these toes, I'll still 1450 01:16:32,960 --> 01:16:40,080 Speaker 4: wear a tin. I take my toes. I'm down to 1451 01:16:40,200 --> 01:16:43,479 Speaker 4: a tin. I go from thirteen to a tin. I 1452 01:16:43,479 --> 01:16:45,439 Speaker 4: can still walk on these tins. Tom, you take them 1453 01:16:45,479 --> 01:16:47,120 Speaker 4: toes off, you're gonna be a fault. 1454 01:16:48,400 --> 01:16:48,599 Speaker 1: Folk. 1455 01:16:48,800 --> 01:16:52,720 Speaker 12: Well eleven and a half, all right, next one? And 1456 01:16:52,800 --> 01:16:57,719 Speaker 12: if you rather frank us off, little hands you got, 1457 01:16:58,560 --> 01:16:59,280 Speaker 12: we're going on. 1458 01:17:02,720 --> 01:17:03,679 Speaker 1: They start laughing. 1459 01:17:04,320 --> 01:17:06,439 Speaker 9: Would you rather give up your cell phone for a 1460 01:17:06,560 --> 01:17:08,479 Speaker 9: month or give up bathing for a month? 1461 01:17:08,840 --> 01:17:12,320 Speaker 1: No bath for a month? Now, I got to give 1462 01:17:12,400 --> 01:17:15,080 Speaker 1: up that cell phone. You had a phone? What the 1463 01:17:15,160 --> 01:17:16,920 Speaker 1: world's dirtiest man lived? 1464 01:17:17,280 --> 01:17:18,280 Speaker 3: He was ninety four? 1465 01:17:20,600 --> 01:17:25,760 Speaker 4: TV ain't on TV. I can't be sitting there there 1466 01:17:25,800 --> 01:17:29,080 Speaker 4: for thirty thirty day, I all do it? 1467 01:17:30,920 --> 01:17:32,080 Speaker 1: You doing? 1468 01:17:36,520 --> 01:17:37,200 Speaker 4: All right? It ain't. 1469 01:17:37,720 --> 01:17:40,360 Speaker 1: That's today's round of which you rather thank you, guys. 1470 01:17:40,400 --> 01:17:42,400 Speaker 1: I ain't even gonna be able to stand my own ass. 1471 01:17:43,160 --> 01:17:45,479 Speaker 9: Coming up in forty nine minutes after the hour, it's 1472 01:17:45,560 --> 01:17:47,679 Speaker 9: our last break of the day. We'll have some closing 1473 01:17:48,040 --> 01:17:50,479 Speaker 9: remarks from the one and only Steve Harvey right after this. 1474 01:17:51,160 --> 01:17:53,840 Speaker 1: You're listening Harvey Morning Show. 1475 01:17:54,520 --> 01:17:56,519 Speaker 8: All right, guys, here we are our last break of 1476 01:17:56,560 --> 01:17:56,880 Speaker 8: the day. 1477 01:17:57,479 --> 01:17:58,840 Speaker 1: A good day, good day. 1478 01:18:00,840 --> 01:18:03,280 Speaker 4: I was thinking today about what I could share with people. 1479 01:18:03,439 --> 01:18:05,840 Speaker 4: I try to be encouraging, you know, and one of 1480 01:18:05,880 --> 01:18:08,040 Speaker 4: the things I wanted to talk to people about today 1481 01:18:08,240 --> 01:18:08,840 Speaker 4: was simply this. 1482 01:18:10,560 --> 01:18:14,600 Speaker 1: It's no time like the present, you know. 1483 01:18:14,760 --> 01:18:17,600 Speaker 4: Oftentimes, you know, we have ideas, we have things that 1484 01:18:17,720 --> 01:18:20,320 Speaker 4: we think of us, that we want to follow through on, 1485 01:18:20,520 --> 01:18:24,200 Speaker 4: things that we want to initiate, and we just procrastinate, We. 1486 01:18:24,280 --> 01:18:24,880 Speaker 1: Put it off. 1487 01:18:25,760 --> 01:18:29,720 Speaker 4: But you know what, guys, you gotta start taking more 1488 01:18:29,880 --> 01:18:32,200 Speaker 4: immediate action, all of us, all of us do. 1489 01:18:32,640 --> 01:18:34,160 Speaker 1: I'm talking to myself included. 1490 01:18:34,920 --> 01:18:37,120 Speaker 4: I try to when I come up with an idea, 1491 01:18:37,760 --> 01:18:42,559 Speaker 4: I try to start the process immediately, you know, because 1492 01:18:42,560 --> 01:18:46,040 Speaker 4: I've learned in my journey there is no perfect time 1493 01:18:46,160 --> 01:18:47,120 Speaker 4: to start anything. 1494 01:18:48,080 --> 01:18:50,439 Speaker 1: There is no time when I've been able to line 1495 01:18:50,600 --> 01:18:52,200 Speaker 1: all the ducks up in a row. 1496 01:18:52,479 --> 01:18:55,479 Speaker 4: There is nothing I've ever accomplished that when exactly the 1497 01:18:55,520 --> 01:18:56,360 Speaker 4: way I planned it. 1498 01:18:56,800 --> 01:19:01,439 Speaker 1: That's nothing I've ever done, anything I've ever accomplished that 1499 01:19:01,720 --> 01:19:04,880 Speaker 1: was smooth sailing. It just wasn't. 1500 01:19:04,960 --> 01:19:05,160 Speaker 7: Man. 1501 01:19:06,320 --> 01:19:17,800 Speaker 4: It's always been frothed with hardships, setbacks, questions of uncertainty, a. 1502 01:19:18,479 --> 01:19:27,879 Speaker 1: Doubt, and just raw raw, just just difficulties. It's always 1503 01:19:27,960 --> 01:19:28,360 Speaker 1: that way. 1504 01:19:28,600 --> 01:19:32,800 Speaker 4: So I have learned when going into an idea of 1505 01:19:32,960 --> 01:19:36,639 Speaker 4: starting a project or trying to wield something into existence, 1506 01:19:37,360 --> 01:19:40,240 Speaker 4: that there's going to be opposition to that. So I 1507 01:19:40,360 --> 01:19:43,280 Speaker 4: go in realizing that the opposition is a part of 1508 01:19:43,400 --> 01:19:48,400 Speaker 4: the process. And oftentimes a lot of us we just 1509 01:19:48,600 --> 01:19:53,000 Speaker 4: don't complete the process because we fail the simple tests. 1510 01:19:53,520 --> 01:19:56,439 Speaker 4: Are you willing to stick to it and hang in 1511 01:19:56,520 --> 01:20:01,080 Speaker 4: there to see it through. That's a basic one. Are 1512 01:20:01,160 --> 01:20:05,519 Speaker 4: you willing to after you get challenged? Are you willing 1513 01:20:05,640 --> 01:20:09,759 Speaker 4: to not quit? That's a very basic thing. It's simple, 1514 01:20:10,240 --> 01:20:14,439 Speaker 4: you know, quitting. Quitting means just one thing. I'm gonna 1515 01:20:14,439 --> 01:20:15,040 Speaker 4: stop trying. 1516 01:20:16,160 --> 01:20:20,000 Speaker 1: I give up. I'm not sure this is gonna work. 1517 01:20:21,720 --> 01:20:25,840 Speaker 1: I I'm tired of this. Well, guess what. 1518 01:20:27,320 --> 01:20:29,880 Speaker 4: All those things that you just said of the reason 1519 01:20:29,960 --> 01:20:32,280 Speaker 4: why you could quitting use You could use those very 1520 01:20:32,360 --> 01:20:35,880 Speaker 4: same things as a reason to keep going. I'm tired 1521 01:20:36,760 --> 01:20:41,040 Speaker 4: means I could almost be there. I don't feel like this. 1522 01:20:42,280 --> 01:20:47,360 Speaker 4: It could simply mean the tough part is over, or 1523 01:20:48,040 --> 01:20:51,000 Speaker 4: I just don't. I don't believe this can happen for me. 1524 01:20:52,240 --> 01:20:54,439 Speaker 4: The race isn't given to the swift, but to him 1525 01:20:54,520 --> 01:20:57,960 Speaker 4: that endure it to the end. The silver that there's 1526 01:20:58,000 --> 01:21:02,120 Speaker 4: a silver tent to every cloud of doubt. You've got 1527 01:21:02,200 --> 01:21:05,160 Speaker 4: to see your way through when you have these dark moments. 1528 01:21:06,000 --> 01:21:09,520 Speaker 4: But listen to me, You all to not start pursuing 1529 01:21:09,640 --> 01:21:12,919 Speaker 4: the things you think about, aspired to and hopeful. 1530 01:21:13,840 --> 01:21:15,200 Speaker 1: Where does that get you? 1531 01:21:16,920 --> 01:21:20,519 Speaker 4: You cannot sit in your life and just sit there, man, 1532 01:21:21,040 --> 01:21:25,479 Speaker 4: without making an all out effort and assault on something 1533 01:21:26,960 --> 01:21:31,160 Speaker 4: on something, man, your dreams, your aspirations. 1534 01:21:31,640 --> 01:21:35,960 Speaker 1: Come on, guys, this is doable. Other people have done 1535 01:21:36,000 --> 01:21:36,560 Speaker 1: it before you. 1536 01:21:36,960 --> 01:21:40,280 Speaker 4: You're not the only person that's facing hardship and difficulties. 1537 01:21:41,520 --> 01:21:42,479 Speaker 1: And I got news for you. 1538 01:21:42,800 --> 01:21:44,920 Speaker 4: If you stop doing this, you're gonna have to deal 1539 01:21:44,960 --> 01:21:49,960 Speaker 4: with something else, and it's gonna happen again. You have 1540 01:21:50,120 --> 01:21:53,479 Speaker 4: to start developing the habits of success, and the first 1541 01:21:53,560 --> 01:21:55,519 Speaker 4: habit of success is just don't quit. 1542 01:21:56,479 --> 01:21:58,120 Speaker 1: That's really simple one y'all. 1543 01:21:58,800 --> 01:22:00,880 Speaker 4: Just wake up tomorrow when you having a bad day, 1544 01:22:01,040 --> 01:22:02,800 Speaker 4: just say, okay, God, if I can get to bed, 1545 01:22:03,160 --> 01:22:05,120 Speaker 4: let me wake up tomorrow and see what else you got. 1546 01:22:05,360 --> 01:22:07,640 Speaker 4: It's a simple thing to not quit. But it's so 1547 01:22:07,800 --> 01:22:15,439 Speaker 4: simple to quit. It's a simple thing not to quit. 1548 01:22:15,560 --> 01:22:17,200 Speaker 4: All you got to do is keep waking up. 1549 01:22:18,479 --> 01:22:19,120 Speaker 1: But it's such a. 1550 01:22:19,160 --> 01:22:22,439 Speaker 4: Simple thing to quit to just say I can't do this. 1551 01:22:23,680 --> 01:22:27,040 Speaker 4: But the benefit of saying I can't do this is gone. 1552 01:22:27,479 --> 01:22:30,360 Speaker 4: The benefit of saying let me try one more time, 1553 01:22:31,360 --> 01:22:35,439 Speaker 4: the benefit could be there. Come on, man, we've got 1554 01:22:35,520 --> 01:22:38,439 Speaker 4: to do better than this. Don't just sit in your 1555 01:22:38,520 --> 01:22:43,360 Speaker 4: life and exist, sit in your life and live. Live, 1556 01:22:44,680 --> 01:22:48,400 Speaker 4: Get out there and get involved. There's a stands in 1557 01:22:48,439 --> 01:22:51,559 Speaker 4: the poem that says the credit belongs to the man 1558 01:22:51,640 --> 01:22:55,559 Speaker 4: who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred 1559 01:22:55,640 --> 01:23:00,200 Speaker 4: with dust, blood, sweat, and tears, not to those cold, old, 1560 01:23:00,320 --> 01:23:05,439 Speaker 4: intimid souls in the stands, who know neither victory nor defeat. 1561 01:23:06,320 --> 01:23:08,679 Speaker 4: You know, when I learned that point, I just decided 1562 01:23:08,760 --> 01:23:10,879 Speaker 4: I wasn't gonna be one of the people in the stands. 1563 01:23:12,760 --> 01:23:14,960 Speaker 1: I was gonna be one That's no purchase necessary, void 1564 01:23:15,000 --> 01:23:15,760 Speaker 1: were prohibited. 1565 01:23:15,800 --> 01:23:19,320 Speaker 9: Participants must be legal US residents at least eighteen years old, 1566 01:23:19,439 --> 01:23:23,200 Speaker 9: unless otherwise stated. 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