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Speaker 1: What's the match my energy? Yeah, wow, we cannot we cannot. Yes,
Speaker 1: imagine we could not have a podcast. We should be grateful.
Speaker 1: That is definitely true, because they ain't. Then who win
Speaker 1: you in no meaning thing? Then wound gotta respect, respect
Speaker 1: j what we're doing man Friday listening right, But the
Speaker 1: word of today is forgiveness. Forgiveness. That yeah, that's the
Speaker 1: deep point. So the textbook salteam definition for all these
Speaker 1: people keep calling me, The textbook definition is the action
Speaker 1: or process, the action or process of forgiving or being forgiven.
Speaker 1: And the Urban Gerban definition is the greatest thing you
Speaker 1: can ever do for another person and yourself when even
Speaker 1: after they have hurt you so badly you thought you
Speaker 1: would die, you can move on and love again. I
Speaker 1: agree with that, actually for the first time, agree with
Speaker 1: the Urban Can you say that last one again? The
Speaker 1: greatest thing you can ever do for another person and yourself.
Speaker 1: When even after they have hurt you so badly you
Speaker 1: thought that you would die, you can move on and
Speaker 1: love again. I can't agree because they all emotions, you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. Any emotions is some's just inside
Speaker 1: of you. It's it's a different. If somebody physically harmed you,
Speaker 1: then I don't think you could forgive them for that,
Speaker 1: but they can take it as if you physically harm them,
Speaker 1: if you really cut them so deep, they could take
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, It's still the same. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I feel, but it's still meltal though, you know, because
Speaker 1: some mental harm can turn the physical harm, to be honest,
Speaker 1: because like if you mentally break somebody down and now
Speaker 1: they're not eating and now they're so stressed style and
Speaker 1: it's still mental. You can change that by changing your thoughts,
Speaker 1: and it's still someone else controlling. Somebody shoot you in
Speaker 1: your back and you paralyze, that's different. You can't take
Speaker 1: that back. But if you said something to me, or
Speaker 1: cheated on me, or whatever you did to me, there's
Speaker 1: something that I can just say, fuck it, ain't thinking
Speaker 1: about it nor more. That's up to you, Yeah, I agree, right, yeah, right. Forgiveness,
Speaker 1: I feel like, oh, when you forgive, it's definitely taking
Speaker 1: a weight off his shoulders. You know what, I say,
Speaker 1: you got to forget forgetting, forgetting it. But when you forgive,
Speaker 1: I think that like that, like the Erman Dictionary said,
Speaker 1: I think that takes a weight off your shoulder, bro,
Speaker 1: because you're clear not the resentment and you're able to
Speaker 1: open your heart back up again. M h. And probably
Speaker 1: two thousand and eight, going back, two thousand eight was
Speaker 1: the first time I practiced forgiveness. I actually reached out
Speaker 1: to the person and say, you know what, fucking you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying that The person cried and boo
Speaker 1: hoo and all that ship, but I felt like free.
Speaker 1: I feel like when you're holding that ship, when you're
Speaker 1: holding that ship in and you don't forgive people, it
Speaker 1: really do you more harm than the person because they
Speaker 1: might not be thinking about this ship. I'm not. I
Speaker 1: don't think I'm I don't think I'm there yet actually
Speaker 1: reach out to a person that has wronged me or
Speaker 1: harmed me. But I can definitely internally make that decision
Speaker 1: within my to like let it go and forgive it
Speaker 1: and just they no longer exist. But if you haven't
Speaker 1: forgave them or you put it in the back burner,
Speaker 1: do you think you really over it? If you have
Speaker 1: an address, you know what it come down to. Let
Speaker 1: me let me know, let me jump into you have
Speaker 1: to actually have a conversation with your wrong door in
Speaker 1: order to actually forgive. Do you think that, No, I
Speaker 1: don't think. I don't think. But give them and they
Speaker 1: don't even got to know you for though, you have
Speaker 1: to be in that space to where if you run
Speaker 1: into that person, and that's that's the truth forgetting that.
Speaker 1: But if you can be okay, yeah, I just say
Speaker 1: you have any buddy, buddy, but you could be okay
Speaker 1: whatever you can see them, Yeah, I can be okay
Speaker 1: with running into them, but as far as like having
Speaker 1: to re interact with them and have a conversation. And
Speaker 1: that's basically like the same ship that we just fell
Speaker 1: out about. But if you run into them. But if
Speaker 1: you run into and then it triggers something, mean you
Speaker 1: ain't forget, You ain't over it. Yeah, it's holding you
Speaker 1: back more than it's holding you. Haven't you realized that
Speaker 1: that moment, you really haven't forgiven because you may think
Speaker 1: you have, but you realize that that moment, like, she's
Speaker 1: still a fun nigger. You know what I'm saying, because
Speaker 1: now you're faced with it. But I don't think you've
Speaker 1: got to change your perception of the person to forgive
Speaker 1: you and you want to slap them. You ain't forgave it,
Speaker 1: right for sure. But if you see somebody that you
Speaker 1: say you forgave, but you still don't want to be
Speaker 1: in the presence, So even if they come towards you,
Speaker 1: you ain't forget. How So because you can, you can
Speaker 1: forgive somebody with them you're just saying, I ain't forgave you.
Speaker 1: But no, you can forgive somebody and still not funk
Speaker 1: with them. I'm a firm believer I can forgive you.
Speaker 1: It's still not funk with you at all. That's true.
Speaker 1: But if you see like, if you feel like, if
Speaker 1: you feel any type of way, then when you see them,
Speaker 1: then it's something still there. Wait, so if you see this,
Speaker 1: you're supposed to nothing nothing. No, let me feel a
Speaker 1: certain type of it was so bad for me. A
Speaker 1: family member asked me, if you got on the plane
Speaker 1: and you had to sit by them on the plane,
Speaker 1: go get your money. Door. Whatever, what would you do?
Speaker 1: I just wouldn't get on the plane. That's the old
Speaker 1: me that was not evolved. That need to stop my money.
Speaker 1: That's how bad. That's how much. That's how much I
Speaker 1: did not like I'm going to put that particular person
Speaker 1: shake in my hoodie. But you go to sleep. Fuck you,
Speaker 1: I'm getting them, Yeah, for sure, that's what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: That you've got to be able to sit right here
Speaker 1: with this person. I mean, you gotta talk to them.
Speaker 1: You can do that, though I can't wait. Wait, hold on, guys,
Speaker 1: just because you can't sit on the plane next to them,
Speaker 1: don't mean you did not forgive that. What do that mean?
Speaker 1: What you like? I'm let I'm letting. I'm letting them up.
Speaker 1: I'm let them up. I'm letting to up my trip,
Speaker 1: my money, my move, my day, everything. I can't sitting
Speaker 1: next to this person. It's like when fifty centers your
Speaker 1: rules saw each other on the plane. There was disruptive.
Speaker 1: It was disrupted. They talked about that ship like that
Speaker 1: ship the ship was all wrong. I'm uncomfortable. If they're
Speaker 1: making you uncomfortable, you ain't forgave right have any type
Speaker 1: of ability to affect your emotions kind of way. I
Speaker 1: just looked at it like, if you know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: I could forgive you right, meaning that I'm not gonna
Speaker 1: bring up the situation, meaning we're not gonna said. I
Speaker 1: could be like I don't want no smoke. Yeah you
Speaker 1: wan't something. Let bygones be bygones. That's not giving. This
Speaker 1: forgiveness is true. Forget it's it's really right here, it's
Speaker 1: really right here. Whatever it was, I'm not even thinking
Speaker 1: about it when I see you. That's what I thought.
Speaker 1: If we don't speak about it, then it's over right. No,
Speaker 1: it's all about the role that the person. If you
Speaker 1: have an X right, you have truly forgiven your ex.
Speaker 1: When you can walk and run into your ex and
Speaker 1: you ain't think about that ship or you ain't think
Speaker 1: about you gotta know that you don't have to be friends.
Speaker 1: But it doesn't affect you. You go, you see your ex,
Speaker 1: you feel this hot ship all over your body. You man,
Speaker 1: you're angry, and it's start thinking about old ship. You
Speaker 1: ain't forgave you. Ain't you got your girlfriend? Like why
Speaker 1: I've seen this? Yeah, yeah, you forgave him. You got
Speaker 1: to just be able to keep it moving and see them.
Speaker 1: It don't affect you two seconds going about your business
Speaker 1: And yeah, exactly, I got some healing. A lot of
Speaker 1: people do. I did have therapy for years to learn
Speaker 1: forgetting that. I would ask my therapist what what's forgiven this? Again?
Speaker 1: How does ship work? I don't get it years? But
Speaker 1: holding gridge don't do them fun with you though? Fun
Speaker 1: with you bad because you only need it as mad
Speaker 1: with you bad. These other people that you're mad at
Speaker 1: don't give a funk about you. That's why they made
Speaker 1: you mad. I thought holding grudges was more so like
Speaker 1: if I see this person, I'm like talking ill and
Speaker 1: I'm like wishing ill intent. Isn't that more so a
Speaker 1: g because that negative energy is consuming all of your time? Right?
Speaker 1: But so if you don't wish a person ill intent,
Speaker 1: that's not holding the grudge, is it? No? No, you can't.
Speaker 1: What if you wish a person ill intent? That can
Speaker 1: be well? I can't see. Rude means that you have
Speaker 1: a valid reason to be upset with this person because
Speaker 1: they did something to you. But it's anonymous with forgiveness. Though,
Speaker 1: what do you mean if you're holding the grudge, you
Speaker 1: haven't forgiven fact right right, all right, big facts canceling sessions. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I just feel like you gotta forgive people, man, in
Speaker 1: order to move on, in order to grow. Do you
Speaker 1: forgive everything though, that's the only way you because I
Speaker 1: was always do you forgive, but you don't forget. It's
Speaker 1: a serenity. You have to forgive everything if you start
Speaker 1: underst and I ain't gonna go there. If you start
Speaker 1: understanding your chakras and ship. Like when I forgave them people,
Speaker 1: I was literally saw blessings the next day, kid, you
Speaker 1: not yes, like the next day I was blessed. I
Speaker 1: just start seeing blessings because I have blocked that ship.
Speaker 1: I'm blocking my own blessings, not for game. So you
Speaker 1: got to if you can, if you're able to trust me.
Speaker 1: The toughest everybody got their obstacles in life, the toughest
Speaker 1: ship in the world, and forgiving it's tough because you
Speaker 1: love and you give so hard that you won't do
Speaker 1: that to that person and they're stabbing your back and
Speaker 1: it's like, suck you for life forever and you just
Speaker 1: think about the worst ship. But it's really harder on
Speaker 1: you than it is them people. As soon as you
Speaker 1: let that ship go, open up, whatever it is, open
Speaker 1: it up. It's a test, yep, exactly because at the
Speaker 1: end of the day, you can be you could be
Speaker 1: saying yourself, it ain't then tricky everybody around ain't something
Speaker 1: that need but God no person, Yeah yeah, yeah, I
Speaker 1: ain't stid in that ship, but god no, you right,
Speaker 1: you gotta. It's like a healing process. You gotta heal
Speaker 1: yourself from that ship. Yeah, it's a process period. Like
Speaker 1: it's it's like you're not just if somebody has really
Speaker 1: fucked you over, especially somebody that you care about, is
Speaker 1: somebody that you really had genuine love for, Like you're
Speaker 1: not gonna be able to just get off of that
Speaker 1: ship like that. And then and then and then to
Speaker 1: think about it, you can forgive a person and then
Speaker 1: get knocked out of forgiveness by what they're saying afterwards.
Speaker 1: You get what I'm saying, at break you back into
Speaker 1: that dark sea. Ain't a test like poking the bell
Speaker 1: like a nigga knowing like he acted like he forgave me,
Speaker 1: an it ain't he's still on that. So they say
Speaker 1: some little bit ship to get back to you, and
Speaker 1: then you react like seem real. You gotta be able
Speaker 1: to not see that ship like and then what it is.
Speaker 1: You know you ain't did none of me, ain't did
Speaker 1: none of You're like starting and saying he's on him.
Speaker 1: Hey man, they say do whatever they want to say.
Speaker 1: They see me, they play with me. Somebody gonna die
Speaker 1: and just how I go. Period. So that's that's for
Speaker 1: anybody in the world, like or pedestrian, anybody. So you
Speaker 1: just gotta start putting people in in that in that box.
Speaker 1: So I gotta protect myself that it ain't that what
Speaker 1: I've been sitting around and do the bit ship there
Speaker 1: then back and anybody got time for that, right right exactly? Yeah? Yeah,
Speaker 1: the truly is sin and be the best like version
Speaker 1: of yourself if you if you can rid yourself and
Speaker 1: everybody don't have all of these traits. But you know
Speaker 1: the ship that sucks you up, like hey, jealousy, grudges,
Speaker 1: what else y'all know, I'm the bash anger all that ship.
Speaker 1: You get that ship out of you, you feel yourself rising,
Speaker 1: like you feel your whole energy rising. So you gotta
Speaker 1: be able to rid yourself and ship and ship. Definitely
Speaker 1: stop your motion, definitely stop your motion for the way
Speaker 1: you will be motionless. And then I think, I think
Speaker 1: it really stops it when you know better. That's what
Speaker 1: hurts you when you know better, like when you don't
Speaker 1: know God to go food and cheer. That's what you
Speaker 1: think of yourself, like you think yourself like, damn, I
Speaker 1: trigger the fun that they tried me. Yeah, that used
Speaker 1: to it used to be right, funk all that for
Speaker 1: not that ship manna be waterfol in general. Man, Yeah,
Speaker 1: you're going on on. I forgive you whoever. And again
Speaker 1: I reiterate that. With that forgiveness, that don't mean you'll
Speaker 1: the whole hands and walk through the park. I mean,
Speaker 1: I don't never say ship. That's what I'm saying. You
Speaker 1: ain't gotta do that. But no, no, no, no no.
Speaker 1: He just said you have the right. You have the right,
Speaker 1: and about because he said I forgive you. But this
Speaker 1: is the most polite fuck you that exists with me. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't wish you no harm on with your family,
Speaker 1: no harm none of this ship. But you can never
Speaker 1: come back. So you can forgive somebody and it's still
Speaker 1: be funing somebody's It's the way they make you feel
Speaker 1: to know that you haven't forgetten I'm gonna get in
Speaker 1: first class. I'm gonna get on the plane. I'm gonna
Speaker 1: get on the plane. I'm gonna get on the plane,
Speaker 1: put on my beach bud dress. Okay, yeah, like this,
Speaker 1: and you're right there and I ain't stand you. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but I look at it like and then I'm an
Speaker 1: energy person, So I'm like the fact that you even
Speaker 1: that close to me is the issue. Even if I
Speaker 1: forgave you, Like if I don't funk with somebody, I
Speaker 1: don't even want you that close around me because I
Speaker 1: feel like your energy is too close to me. It's
Speaker 1: gonna be days. Well, I feel that true. I'm like that,
Speaker 1: y'all still working on it's working. Yeah, okay, we're still working.
Speaker 1: What happened? The part, the great part about it is
Speaker 1: that you want to You want to, you want like
Speaker 1: I can see it is a disease. Yeah. I didn't
Speaker 1: say all day that. You know what I'm saying. I
Speaker 1: forgive everybody, but I still gotta work on. When I
Speaker 1: see you how I'm gonna react because of the person
Speaker 1: that I am. But in my heart, I forgave it.
Speaker 1: I forgiven you. You want to forget them trying to
Speaker 1: get them and God know this. Yeah, God knows that.
Speaker 1: Like I'm really making an effort on this. But but
Speaker 1: but it's just like what they're calling church backsline. I
Speaker 1: don't know what ever. Doing your effort is to make
Speaker 1: your heart as pure as possible. But we are human
Speaker 1: and we are flawed. My effort doesn't mean any harm.
Speaker 1: But if I see you in person, I might mean
Speaker 1: some of the kids. It depends on the energy and
Speaker 1: the mood and the setting and everything. Everything's depends. But
Speaker 1: you will be tested. You will test, you will as
Speaker 1: soon as I see this person the whole time time.
Speaker 1: You got the grudge, right, so you're trying to forgive him.
Speaker 1: That's when you're gonna. Right. If you noticed that you
Speaker 1: don't have any type of whatever, that's when your blessing
Speaker 1: is gonna exactly that kind of gold is right there.
Speaker 1: Or you having that day with some amazing you spoke
Speaker 1: about this ship before two amazing ship is about to happen.
Speaker 1: You don't know it. That's when play yourself because you
Speaker 1: gave in to some bullshit. Will Smith on the Oscars,
Speaker 1: Will Smith, Yeah he might have been. It ain't like
Speaker 1: you need money in those ship, but he might have
Speaker 1: been aboutor who knows what even just winning the Oscar
Speaker 1: that was the first time he ever won one exactly
Speaker 1: right there before he can even win it play itself,
Speaker 1: So you gotta just be aby think, Jada, I really
Speaker 1: felt like my goodsters, I don't know, I feel like
Speaker 1: my goods should have stopped him at least if I
Speaker 1: if I have got one of these, I would have
Speaker 1: been like Jada, good with me. And then I just like,
Speaker 1: I feel like you shouldn't know if your man, like
Speaker 1: if you know your nigga, you know he's about to
Speaker 1: act up or whatever, Like at least one of these
Speaker 1: it's cool. It's cool, like giving him that, Like I'm
Speaker 1: that should have been enough that he stood up, and yeah,
Speaker 1: that should have been cool. Yeah, I feel I just
Speaker 1: feel like maybe she didn't think he was really gonna
Speaker 1: do it either, but she thought. I feel like this.
Speaker 1: I feel like, and you know, we don't know like
Speaker 1: everything that happened, We don't know all of the ports
Speaker 1: and afters and all that ship like when ship happens
Speaker 1: with us, but just from them showing her reaction before
Speaker 1: and her reaction after, like I don't know, it was
Speaker 1: just like to me, it was just kind of weird
Speaker 1: that like there was no like consolation or no, you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, like whatever, and then to go
Speaker 1: and make a public statement he shouldn't have done that
Speaker 1: like that was that was what do you say, cash?
Speaker 1: What exactly? Yeah, Like I just I don't know because
Speaker 1: it's just like all the ship that they've been through
Speaker 1: and with the union that they're supposed to have, Like
Speaker 1: there's no way I go against my nigga in public,
Speaker 1: and especially he would have done some ship like that,
Speaker 1: like we want to jumped this nigga together, right, slap
Speaker 1: this nigga pal pal like he would have been double
Speaker 1: pit slap. But you know what I'm saying, behind closed doors,
Speaker 1: you might let him know about what you don't funk with,
Speaker 1: but you're not publicly gonna say puss it right that
Speaker 1: nigga like when he ain't back down or something like
Speaker 1: he's already sucked up. Like but at the end of
Speaker 1: the day, like if we if we've been married all
Speaker 1: this time, we got all these we've been married, we've
Speaker 1: been together one day were together. We don't like especially
Speaker 1: because when she did that whole entanglement thing, Will didn't
Speaker 1: come out and been like yeah, my wife, she's been
Speaker 1: doing that. None of that. I don't agree with the
Speaker 1: whole state and stick the whole wre I don't agree
Speaker 1: with this. I mean not Chris Brown, No disrespect to
Speaker 1: Chris Rock or nothing like that, because nobody deserves to
Speaker 1: every put on. But it's just like and then on
Speaker 1: top of that, like he didn't even write the joke. Man,
Speaker 1: he's a comedian. It don't really matter, Like even if
Speaker 1: he wrote the joker, not David Chappelle. Dave Chappelle has
Speaker 1: said a lot worship right, he will trying to prove it,
Speaker 1: prove something his masculinity'll never be able to accept. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so they to prove it. So you think that they
Speaker 1: need to work on some forgiveness somewhere. Not then we're
Speaker 1: trying to get a nobody relationship with them. Like she
Speaker 1: already said that this other nigga was her soul mate,
Speaker 1: and the kids writing letters to the other foul mate
Speaker 1: was her soul mate. And she never should have got married, No,
Speaker 1: God should have got married. She said that she never
Speaker 1: wanted to get married like that, she never never wanted
Speaker 1: to get married. She got married because yeah, she said
Speaker 1: that she got married because she was Yeah, she was
Speaker 1: pregnant and her mom wanted her to get married. And
Speaker 1: since her mom wanted her to get married, that's why
Speaker 1: she went down with the whole situation. Even her walking
Speaker 1: down the aisle, they're talking on a red table talk
Speaker 1: she was crying and ship she didn't want to get married.
Speaker 1: That should have been my bitch. What I'm sure it
Speaker 1: was the whole statement for me with that statement, like
Speaker 1: we ain't righting with you? Yeah, we were too player
Speaker 1: for that, and so isn't possible like we're probably he
Speaker 1: ain't gonna say probably he might be a lunatic. Behind
Speaker 1: closed they say he is very sweet, Buthich. We don't
Speaker 1: know what goes on in any house, that's true what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. But the world I love like the nigga
Speaker 1: on the Oscar, you know what I'm saying, we'll smith
Speaker 1: is dumb there Oscar figures the face of being you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. But you just made me show
Speaker 1: my hand and then you when he didn't you think
Speaker 1: he banned from the oscars for ten years? Right? That
Speaker 1: really him? Yeah, this is a question, but it's just
Speaker 1: in my brain, like because big fact, do you think
Speaker 1: she'll go back to the Oscars. Yeah, I don't about him. Welcome,
Speaker 1: I'll give a funk about him. But well, I don't
Speaker 1: know because if you think about it, a year or
Speaker 1: two prior, she was trying to boycott the Oscars prior
Speaker 1: because he wasn't invited to the me. I feel like
Speaker 1: she really he really laying in the bed with his enemy. Man. No,
Speaker 1: that's how I feel now, you know. You know, at
Speaker 1: the end of the day, in my biggest moment, you're
Speaker 1: gonna you're gonna push my button. You see, I try
Speaker 1: to laugh at off and you look at me like
Speaker 1: you're laughing at that. So so you in it on
Speaker 1: the way that she looked at her husband. Yes, but
Speaker 1: that's only why he got up. I'm putting it on.
Speaker 1: Like women have intuition about certain ship. We got intuition
Speaker 1: about certain ships. I would tell Papa about dog. He
Speaker 1: bro that's your business, but that ain't good business. That's
Speaker 1: what I would do. I ain't saying I'm right, but
Speaker 1: I gotta tell my partner yours. But he was a
Speaker 1: key kid. Yeah, he was laughing about it. But then
Speaker 1: when she looked at up like damn out, Like if
Speaker 1: I look at you, you took that some type of way.
Speaker 1: So now I gotta make it. I gotta you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, I gotta I gotta make this right. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but it's crazy because just thirty minutes before that, when
Speaker 1: Regina Hall made the joke about their entire marriage, they
Speaker 1: were both laughing like it was funny. But just because
Speaker 1: he made a joke about the hairship. You know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying, no disrespect to anybody that has that condition,
Speaker 1: because you know, it's a very serious, self conscious condition.
Speaker 1: But y'all were just laughing at this lady making a
Speaker 1: farce of your marriage. But now all of a sudden,
Speaker 1: it's a big deal because it's Chris Rock and all
Speaker 1: of that, And now, okay, you're feeling hurt. I have
Speaker 1: a question, do y'all think that Okay, like you said,
Speaker 1: people have been talking about their marriage, and since the
Speaker 1: whole entanglement going on, they can't walk a red carpet
Speaker 1: without somebody bringing up their marriage. Nine times out of ten,
Speaker 1: the people that's bringing up their marriage are talking ill
Speaker 1: about them or women. Do you feel like at that moment,
Speaker 1: by it being Chris Rock, it was a man, so
Speaker 1: now we felt like it's the man, so now I
Speaker 1: can really say something everybody, I couldn't say it, dedicay
Speaker 1: bench if you want me to whit slop up fact
Speaker 1: big facts. I didn't even think. Okay, just got them
Speaker 1: on shlop a throing around him up if you want
Speaker 1: to her, I wouldn't never get a chancellor. Yeah, no,
Speaker 1: they probably scored you out. Then I cree rocket as
Speaker 1: he said somebody like we're going let go bl together.
Speaker 1: But to me, I feel like, personally, and you know,
Speaker 1: these the only pain we turned this ship to the
Speaker 1: pain facts. To me, I feel like I want to
Speaker 1: got up and did that for her. Yeah, I wouldn't. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you probably woudn't even Yeah, because I got know if
Speaker 1: this woman feel threatened about something, it tis me to
Speaker 1: rac because she will feel threatened about some or feel
Speaker 1: a way about something and know that I'll be tripping.
Speaker 1: So I ain't gonna trip out in front of this
Speaker 1: dumbas him in a position to and to maybe do
Speaker 1: something to cause himself to get out it or whatever.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, because I care that much
Speaker 1: about him, So I don't want him to do anything
Speaker 1: to put himself in that position exactly. That's all I'm saying,
Speaker 1: so for you to even want me to do that,
Speaker 1: you don't get enough funk about me. But did you
Speaker 1: did you think that she wanted him to slap? But
Speaker 1: I don't think that in her brain to react, But
Speaker 1: I like her wanted Henry. Yeah, I don't think that
Speaker 1: she thought will Smith, the Prince of French, Prince of
Speaker 1: bell Lair, was We don't think that's wants him to
Speaker 1: do with Tupac would do Tupac, well, then that's the
Speaker 1: closest thing he could deal with that later, then that's
Speaker 1: what this is. Who she won't she don't see it.
Speaker 1: I want you to react how Tupac would have that we'
Speaker 1: have been not shot, right nigger? Though that would not
Speaker 1: have happened to Kevin Hartiday Chappelle. It happened to the
Speaker 1: person that could happen to that ship. Weren't gonna happen
Speaker 1: to one of the motherfuckers. We'll be back to the
Speaker 1: oscars like I didn't versus that time that it happens
Speaker 1: so fast that Chris Rock didn't have a chance of
Speaker 1: process that. I don't think what you mean that's the process.
Speaker 1: Then he turned it back he Chris Roll still leving
Speaker 1: I don't know why. That's how he built, That's how
Speaker 1: he is. He's still thinking on the professional level. That's
Speaker 1: the Oscar. He's still he's thinking, I'm gonna get money
Speaker 1: off this ship. Like he's still thinking. He's in that
Speaker 1: way saying he couldn't got that s wear, but he
Speaker 1: can in a great position. You know, if you want
Speaker 1: to take a slap, if it's worth it, if the
Speaker 1: slap is worth it, that come back to them. Because
Speaker 1: somebody slap you for a million dollars type shop. He
Speaker 1: could really sue the Oscars and the Oscars. He could.
Speaker 1: He could have fresh charm, but he could shoot. He
Speaker 1: could sue the Oscars and the Oscars would have to
Speaker 1: pay him because the Oscars didn't protect him first security. Damn.
Speaker 1: It could be called the Chris Rock. Shall that just happen?
Speaker 1: Like these niggers be getting shot at these clubs and
Speaker 1: shot at these departments and ship and suit apartments and
Speaker 1: sue the club and ship like that. You know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying, Like that's how I should go to the facility?
Speaker 1: Is the possible party because of the security. I don't
Speaker 1: know that man, what the type of was giveing this?
Speaker 1: So should Chris Rock If Will Smith hell no, And
Speaker 1: should Will Smith Chris Rohall forget I think he should
Speaker 1: forget us, not because you think he's knowing us underlying
Speaker 1: the issue he ain't. Yeah, I think he rights should.
Speaker 1: Should Will Smith forgive Jada? Hell No? Again, that's your business.
Speaker 1: I was personally probably forgive Jada. Should you think he should?
Speaker 1: Jadan't need to forgive Will. Jada needs to forgive Will
Speaker 1: for what for whatever it is that he'd done her
Speaker 1: that we probably don't know. Whatever it is, she needs
Speaker 1: to forgive him. That Shi seemed like I should just
Speaker 1: be doing the man and ship. That Shi seemed like
Speaker 1: something else, like he tried to fight to embarrass him. Okay,
Speaker 1: I'm not trying to play Devil's advocate, but I am
Speaker 1: Jada didn't do ship to Will. August Alstina was the
Speaker 1: one that came out and started talking about I was talking.
Speaker 1: So No, I'm saying that August Alstina was the one
Speaker 1: that brought the entanglement. He made it public. Yes, because
Speaker 1: nobody at the end of the day, I don't think.
Speaker 1: I don't think that that's that I've seen an issue
Speaker 1: that he slept, well, she slept, I mean she was married.
Speaker 1: She slept with him. But I feel like I feel
Speaker 1: like that's that's how they relationship, that he probably had
Speaker 1: the green like to do she she had green that's
Speaker 1: not true, they said, that's the biggest But she did.
Speaker 1: She did. She said that on some red carprid talk whatever,
Speaker 1: that it's not true. Well, we get some puss. He
Speaker 1: would cheat and she was fucking so what I mean
Speaker 1: we had green like, there ain't no green light. They
Speaker 1: both were cheating. I don't know. I just feel like
Speaker 1: whatever it was, they were dealing with it till he
Speaker 1: brought it to the lightning into saying she went on
Speaker 1: help a podcast and we're like, shit, what so you're saying, okay,
Speaker 1: so I'm cheating, it's okay for you to cheat, that's
Speaker 1: a green light. Hell, I thought they probably had. They don't,
Speaker 1: they said, she said that's the biggest thing of their relationship.
Speaker 1: And she said, that's the biggest myth of their relationship.
Speaker 1: They do not have an open relationship. Oh so you
Speaker 1: just you just the bad girl in then he cheated
Speaker 1: and shoot, you're gonna be fucking you're gonna this and
Speaker 1: bring this nick around my kids. But they also said
Speaker 1: hold on when it came down to the August Austina
Speaker 1: stuff that they was talking about getting a divorce and
Speaker 1: then they realized it was just gonna be too much,
Speaker 1: so he went on his side of the house, she
Speaker 1: went on her side of the house. So that's really understanding.
Speaker 1: So basically they separated the state of the same basically,
Speaker 1: and that's that's that's where the that's a lot of
Speaker 1: these people are. But that's how the whole August Austinda
Speaker 1: ship played the part. And everybody is now saying that
Speaker 1: she was cheating and all that, but that wasn't the case.
Speaker 1: They was technically broken up and he was on one
Speaker 1: side of the wing of the house. She was another swing.
Speaker 1: I feel like that man really loved at Won. He
Speaker 1: really loved that woman. Whatever he mistakes is mistakes. He
Speaker 1: trying to he trying to fix his wrongs, and she's
Speaker 1: standing how Nigga would be like, but you gotta show
Speaker 1: me for life? Yeah yeah, yeah, I could see that.
Speaker 1: So basically she needs to forgive him because he don't
Speaker 1: forgave her for everything. Yeah, but I mean I don't
Speaker 1: know the details or whatever, but how does she get
Speaker 1: him from his first wife Jae? That's what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: we're talking about like him cheating and you know what,
Speaker 1: I'm saying, all of that blah blah blah whatever with
Speaker 1: your questions, I ain't never heard that. M hmmm. I
Speaker 1: doubt that. Well, God bless him in their union. And however,
Speaker 1: I want to see them folks ship play out together
Speaker 1: together for sure, like what people don't want to see.
Speaker 1: We've seen him talking about the folks being all that
Speaker 1: I want to be. Like the next time we talked
Speaker 1: about this ship, they got it right. They fucked really
Speaker 1: them too against the world. They're probably gonna go on
Speaker 1: a whole hiatus and take that time. Now. I feel
Speaker 1: like that's what they was on the verge or trying
Speaker 1: to do. That's what they're trying to do, but the
Speaker 1: media keeping it from happening and they allowing it. What
Speaker 1: the vibe, that's what we call them, the vibes. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but I mean, she keeps discussing the division. But that's
Speaker 1: her character though, and he got this self tough for
Speaker 1: her and take so much. I think he did. He
Speaker 1: hit that point. He just hit that point, make that point,
Speaker 1: at that breaking point. But at the end of the day,
Speaker 1: he probably good with what's going on, like I'm ready
Speaker 1: to go through the process of what I gotta go
Speaker 1: through to get my bitch back. But but they don't
Speaker 1: play with my wife while I'm in this process. Maybe
Speaker 1: and maybe you can. You're like, I could talk about her,
Speaker 1: but can nobody else talk about her? Talk We passed that,
Speaker 1: we passed the bullshit that we're working on because now,
Speaker 1: But why they ain't had that same energy for Jada female?
Speaker 1: Yeah that's what Yeah, okay, okay, okay, so just a female.
Speaker 1: She bought my truck. Smith absolutely could not have slap Regina,
Speaker 1: or he couldn't if it was such an issue or
Speaker 1: such a like like Black said, why didn't Jada gonna
Speaker 1: slap her? No, I feel you that could happen. It
Speaker 1: was such a oh my god, because Jada didn't feel
Speaker 1: like she she didn't feel like she should slap her
Speaker 1: over coming. She didn't felt like it was that serious.
Speaker 1: She didn't feel like it was that serious. I'm not
Speaker 1: disagreeing with you. I'm just saying she didn't feel like
Speaker 1: it was that serious Jada, and and Jada might feel
Speaker 1: like Jada might feel like it feels like something to
Speaker 1: prove ship like for him, he feels like he got
Speaker 1: something proved, but I feel like she got nothing to prove.
Speaker 1: He feels like he got something approved. I do got
Speaker 1: something approved because this ship funked up. So I'm trying
Speaker 1: to prove show you my love basically, But you're gonna
Speaker 1: receive something different from a woman than a man anyway.
Speaker 1: So they received it different from Regina because I'm your protector,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. Then they might be Regina
Speaker 1: friend like playing like yeah they might yeah, And then
Speaker 1: Will might have told her to save face for her
Speaker 1: image to put that quote out. We don't know what
Speaker 1: these people are because the business entertainment, day business, and
Speaker 1: they went in as long as everybody's talking about that's real.
Speaker 1: That's real, right though, just like the cars looking on
Speaker 1: the outside, looking at outside, looking at it. I feel
Speaker 1: like she needs to really forgive that man or they
Speaker 1: need to forgive each other, need to forgive each other. Yeah,
Speaker 1: forgive me, but they feel like they need to forgive
Speaker 1: each other and show the world they got Damn. You
Speaker 1: can overcome any obstacle with your soul mate. Pop. Don't
Speaker 1: she want them back? Ship? You know how to get there? Right? No,
Speaker 1: you didn't just say that the truth, what the fund
Speaker 1: is happening that ship, That ship ain't looking good man. Man,
Speaker 1: So we are on the outside looking. We don't know
Speaker 1: how the house they could be whatever. We don't know,
Speaker 1: like just real ship out. Like you said, you don't
Speaker 1: know what going on. The people got gold. You don't
Speaker 1: know what the folks got going on and what they're
Speaker 1: going through. But I don't see them being happy, even
Speaker 1: the people that's happy, or you feel like maybe happy
Speaker 1: can be the other way that pops up divorce like
Speaker 1: they're getting because some people got that work. They know
Speaker 1: how to work it from and don't say shipped to
Speaker 1: each other in the house. Yeah, so we don't know forgiveness.
Speaker 1: That man that ain't cry though, bro on national television,
Speaker 1: Will Smith movies, Yeah, every face you can my head,
Speaker 1: I leave Mohammad, I leave face. What ain't crying crying
Speaker 1: every movie? Even when he got his oscar, he got
Speaker 1: like the remorseful. Yeah that's how we felt. But he
Speaker 1: could have been a hit mad like he probably trying
Speaker 1: out for a movie and we don't even know they're
Speaker 1: gonna make a movie out of this ship. He had
Speaker 1: the executive producer a bell Air. That ship just went crazy.
Speaker 1: So he could not be at the oscars, but he
Speaker 1: still got ship emotion. Even if Will Smith don't be
Speaker 1: emotion acting, he got other ship that's emotional. He gotta
Speaker 1: whole bunch of ship. That's what I'm saying. Out of
Speaker 1: the country they got they live. I like will and
Speaker 1: Jada though, because human in a position the play it though, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't like that part to put him in that position.
Speaker 1: When when the man said what she said, how you
Speaker 1: look that mean do something? What are you talking about me?
Speaker 1: Get up and slap me? Do something? That's a grain
Speaker 1: like I mean you ain't gonna do nothing. That mean
Speaker 1: you ain't gonna do nothing about it for real? I
Speaker 1: mean she really did. When you want me to react,
Speaker 1: and that means and you know what else that means
Speaker 1: maybe to not not to that capacity, but that means
Speaker 1: some ship like that doesn't happen before. Yeah. Yeah, that's
Speaker 1: like you didn't protect me, like they're probably the argument
Speaker 1: in their household. Yeah. Yeah, you let them say that
Speaker 1: to me. You can say something to my bitch. I'm
Speaker 1: going on, should have got that August. Yeah. Yeah, you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. You're just gonna let that ship
Speaker 1: go down? Yeah, you let August tell the world our business. Yeah,
Speaker 1: the one that opened up my legs and let this
Speaker 1: that mad kick. So man, I talked to all this.
Speaker 1: We're cool. It was cool, man, Yeah, yeah, but y'all
Speaker 1: got some different ships. Always a woman job to protect me,
Speaker 1: vist sure I agree with that. I feel that way too, Like,
Speaker 1: ain't nobody for to play with my nigga while I'm
Speaker 1: right there. I don't give what's going on straight out
Speaker 1: or either pay or even if they're playing with you.
Speaker 1: If you know it's gonna go, let people just be like,
Speaker 1: don't worry about any hands after this exactly, not ruin
Speaker 1: your moment. Like they can can't creer rock anywhere. They
Speaker 1: could have taught him at the Vanity Fair party, at
Speaker 1: the part I have to do the ship at the Oscars.
Speaker 1: You can band me from the after party. Your ass
Speaker 1: out after this, you know what I'm saying. But I
Speaker 1: ain't even do this ship right here. But he just
Speaker 1: he only filly ship on site. See how he walked
Speaker 1: back and pop that college. He did keep my wife
Speaker 1: name your fuckingth yea. You had to vitalize it to
Speaker 1: make it real. When they do talk about it, it's
Speaker 1: gonna be a conversation one day, they're gonna talk about it.
Speaker 1: Chris rock Alredy said, he you're talking about to her
Speaker 1: some money. He already said that. So they're gonna make
Speaker 1: money off of everybody else. That's what I was saying.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna say this that I'm done talking for some money.
Speaker 1: Like on TV in Hollywood, New Folks is entertaining. The
Speaker 1: main thing is to entertained. So it sounds good, and
Speaker 1: I think what we're saying we're right about. But I
Speaker 1: wouldn't be surprised. Let me don't have a red table talk,
Speaker 1: spend off on Netflix whole movie together, because they entertainers.
Speaker 1: That's what they do. Chris walk did kind of like
Speaker 1: walk into the punch, I mean walk into that. I
Speaker 1: don't think that was staged. I don't think that she
Speaker 1: was staged. He didn't look like he was. Got them
Speaker 1: convinced me to get shopped at the oscars. Hell, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I see a show of right or throw something at
Speaker 1: ustand they're just gonna make some money off of it.
Speaker 1: Supposed to. You're supposed to make money off a crisis
Speaker 1: if you're a business person. So the moral of the stories,
Speaker 1: you know what they wanted us to talk about it,
Speaker 1: so we did because everybody been hitting when y'all gonna
Speaker 1: talk about it, So we talked about that ship. When
Speaker 1: you're talking about the noble ever, Yeah, but our we
Speaker 1: brought it up on the right word for giving. They
Speaker 1: need to give each other and show the world. Fuck y'all,
Speaker 1: it's us and let the battles going on and let
Speaker 1: them going on on. Y'all be mad whatever, keep talking
Speaker 1: about all the le's, keep talking about my X. Why
Speaker 1: I keep talking about Chris rock Creep talking about whatever? Funk?
Speaker 1: That were straight period forgiveness. Y'all forgive each other, will
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