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Speaker 1: This is the Benn and Ashley I almost famous podcast

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Speaker 1: with our radio everybody I've been in. Ashley is calling

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Speaker 1: in as we speak. He is in Virginia right now

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Speaker 1: seeing her family. She's in studio. We're excited, but I

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Speaker 1: had to get online because we have one of our

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Speaker 1: most special guests on this podcast. He's been around a while. Peter,

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Speaker 1: are you out there? I am here? How are you? Peter?

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Speaker 1: Please introduce yourself. It's been a while since we've seen you.

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Speaker 1: We've missed you. Who are you and what in the

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Speaker 1: heck have you been doing? Who am I? I am

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Speaker 1: Peter Crouse from Madison, Wisconsin, and I am currently about

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Speaker 1: the border plane in any secondary So I'm hanging out. Okay, Well,

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Speaker 1: we gotta get going here. What have you been up to?

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Speaker 1: I saw the guests the Final four. I'm extremely jealous.

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Speaker 1: I'm a huge basketball fan. My best friend to coach

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Speaker 1: at U C l A. I was really hoping they're

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Speaker 1: gonna be there this year. Didn't happen. Um, what are

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Speaker 1: we up to? The frontal four? That's why one. I'm

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Speaker 1: sure you guys know the card and uh, they brought

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Speaker 1: me out here to come see the final four. I

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Speaker 1: got sit pretty close and got to call all the

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Speaker 1: concerts and every thing and just have a really like

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Speaker 1: a super funk. It was a blast. I mean, I

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Speaker 1: I cannot imagine the energy, especially around level. Did you

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Speaker 1: get to meet Mr Jean? I did not. Did I

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Speaker 1: got a T shirt? Though that was about the extent

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Speaker 1: of it. I mean, whoever sold those T shirts? Uh

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Speaker 1: came up with the most yeah, brilliant idea ever. The mean,

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Speaker 1: more media than anybody else in the entire group, more

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Speaker 1: than any coach with any player the team was altogether.

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Speaker 1: She had the most. I mean, I was gonna say,

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Speaker 1: she has so much distension around her it kind of

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Speaker 1: reminds me of you about a year ago. I mean

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Speaker 1: not too long, well not even a year ago. It's

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Speaker 1: time flies. Um, I would be remiss. This is a

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Speaker 1: Bachelor focused podcast. I gotta ask you, Peter Um moving

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Speaker 1: right into he is Getna born a borda Plane. I'm

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Speaker 1: sorry for this, but we have have to know the

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Speaker 1: real reason. Why don't you do the Bachelor? These women

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Speaker 1: are going on Paradise thinking that you were the Bachelor,

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Speaker 1: so that you hopefully something you'll go to Paradise, But

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Speaker 1: why didn't you actually do the Bachelor at that point,

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Speaker 1: It's not something I felt was right for me. I

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Speaker 1: was stressed out, having a hard time when as it

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Speaker 1: was big on the Bachelour Rent, and when it came

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Speaker 1: down to, you know what, I want to do it

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Speaker 1: all over again, I decided it wasn't right for my health,

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Speaker 1: my happiness and moving forward in my life. And so,

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Speaker 1: you know, the conversations didn't really have to so much

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Speaker 1: further than Hey, would you want to do it? And

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Speaker 1: I'm like, no, not really. Actley is on the line now,

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Speaker 1: she has questions for you. She was she loves herself

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Speaker 1: some Peter, you know that she thinks you are. That

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Speaker 1: cats me out. So she was disappointed when you weren't

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Speaker 1: the Bachelor. I think a lot of people were a

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Speaker 1: little disappointed when you're at the Bachelor. Actually, I know

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Speaker 1: you you want to dig into this a little bit

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Speaker 1: with Peter. Go ahead, Pierre. It's not just your happiness.

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Speaker 1: We all know there are rumors of it being a

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Speaker 1: business decision. You maybe not getting money you got you

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Speaker 1: didn't do the back that. But then there was Winter Games.

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Speaker 1: People are like, okay, he's on board for Winter Games,

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Speaker 1: and then something fell through and it was you let

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Speaker 1: It was never about money for me. Um, I've never

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Speaker 1: life and at this juncture in my life it's it's not.

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Speaker 1: It wasn't And you know, I can't say, moving forward,

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Speaker 1: looking at the future if it's something that I would

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Speaker 1: And then with Winter Games, and it's actually a conversation

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Speaker 1: I had with producers like I would love to do it,

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Speaker 1: and then they just didn't pick me. It wasn't that

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Speaker 1: was what my decision was and everything. One of them

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Speaker 1: said that they support me and my path in life,

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Speaker 1: and if it wasn't for the batch, they were all

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Speaker 1: happy for me. You know, everybody comes off The Bachelor

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Speaker 1: and the fans of the show think, you know, you

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Speaker 1: can do it for the money, You're gonna be a

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Speaker 1: millionaire off after the show. That's just not trust me

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Speaker 1: like that. That is not the case. So I understand

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Speaker 1: as a friend. I was looking forward to you being

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Speaker 1: just seems odd. Why would they not to Peter Kroud

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Speaker 1: I mean, Peter, you're like making goals. I figured that

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Speaker 1: They've got the franchises Golden Boy and Ben Though. I

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Speaker 1: lead us to this question. I mean, I'm a big

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Speaker 1: fan of Paradise. I love watching Paradise. I always have.

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Speaker 1: but it wouldn't necessarily make for happiness in my life.

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Speaker 1: that attention right now. The attention again is already plenty.

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Speaker 1: Um so that the trajectory of my life has changed

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Speaker 1: not on far with that in my opinion. So, Peter,

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Speaker 1: I'm going Indiannafoi. You're Wesconsin kid. We love people from

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Speaker 1: probably from the Midwest. Uh, we don't than cut. Um Hey, Peter,

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Speaker 1: since the show? No, we had our last conversation there

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Speaker 1: to I'm not. I'm gonna say I'm a postord by

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Speaker 1: wherever to see her in person, I guess, but I'm

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Speaker 1: not gonna reach talk to her. I do that. We're

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Speaker 1: kind of be weird if we did. Um, I agree, Peter.

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Speaker 1: is so annoying. You guys don't know the relationship that

427
00:22:27,440 --> 00:22:32,000
Speaker 1: is behind closed doors. So and for all our listeners

428
00:22:32,080 --> 00:22:34,119
Speaker 1: out there, I think this is the topic. This is

429
00:22:34,240 --> 00:22:36,120
Speaker 1: this actually, honestly is one of my favorite parts about

430
00:22:36,119 --> 00:22:37,800
Speaker 1: the off season is we get to really dive into people,

431
00:22:37,960 --> 00:22:40,480
Speaker 1: into the reader theme or the listeners emails and and

432
00:22:40,560 --> 00:22:43,600
Speaker 1: take colors. If anybody out there is listening and they say, hey,

433
00:22:44,160 --> 00:22:47,040
Speaker 1: you know, we've felt this first love before, we felt

434
00:22:47,119 --> 00:22:50,919
Speaker 1: that takeover feeling, the feeling that just kind of consumes

435
00:22:50,960 --> 00:22:54,600
Speaker 1: you and you do almost in a sense, lose yourself

436
00:22:54,800 --> 00:22:57,240
Speaker 1: and there you know you you you kind of feel

437
00:22:57,280 --> 00:23:00,119
Speaker 1: something you're nervous before. Please emails your story. We love

438
00:23:00,160 --> 00:23:03,160
Speaker 1: to read him. Dude, the uplifting email us. Your first

439
00:23:03,240 --> 00:23:06,960
Speaker 1: love stories have been in Actley media dot com. Yeah,

440
00:23:07,080 --> 00:23:08,560
Speaker 1: we well, I mean I know I would. I would

441
00:23:08,640 --> 00:23:10,560
Speaker 1: spend a ton of time reading those first love stories.

442
00:23:10,560 --> 00:23:14,040
Speaker 1: I think it's it's just a beautiful depiction of life,

443
00:23:14,119 --> 00:23:17,440
Speaker 1: is that first time you feel love. Yeah, I know

444
00:23:17,520 --> 00:23:19,280
Speaker 1: people are going to be like, well, what about Kevin?

445
00:23:20,480 --> 00:23:22,639
Speaker 1: With Kevin, I love him as a person, you know,

446
00:23:22,920 --> 00:23:24,560
Speaker 1: I really love him as a person. Another thing that

447
00:23:24,680 --> 00:23:27,320
Speaker 1: gets such on my nerves is when people are like,

448
00:23:27,400 --> 00:23:29,280
Speaker 1: that was a showman, so you know they just did

449
00:23:29,320 --> 00:23:33,040
Speaker 1: it for the cameras. No, it wasn't. I really liked him.

450
00:23:34,000 --> 00:23:36,000
Speaker 1: It was a crush. I liked him. We did for

451
00:23:36,200 --> 00:23:40,239
Speaker 1: three months. It was not something we did for the cameras. Um.

452
00:23:40,320 --> 00:23:44,480
Speaker 1: It's just like over time, you you find the incompatibilities. Well,

453
00:23:44,520 --> 00:23:47,480
Speaker 1: and if anybody understands the truth that you know you're

454
00:23:47,480 --> 00:23:49,560
Speaker 1: never gonna make everybody happy, and that you're going to

455
00:23:49,640 --> 00:23:51,560
Speaker 1: pursue what you desire and what you like and people

456
00:23:51,560 --> 00:23:53,399
Speaker 1: are gonna criticize you and people are going to celebrate

457
00:23:53,440 --> 00:23:56,280
Speaker 1: you no matter what. It's if you know you felt

458
00:23:56,400 --> 00:23:59,560
Speaker 1: this love, your heart's been ripped out before you you've

459
00:23:59,640 --> 00:24:02,879
Speaker 1: shared emotion with people, you get it, and I think

460
00:24:02,960 --> 00:24:05,920
Speaker 1: that's just a good lesson almost in life is to

461
00:24:06,040 --> 00:24:09,120
Speaker 1: pursue what you believe is right. To not let anybody

462
00:24:09,280 --> 00:24:12,679
Speaker 1: in the in there in the critic slow you down. Um,

463
00:24:12,840 --> 00:24:14,800
Speaker 1: to listen to the feedback. You know, you don't want

464
00:24:14,800 --> 00:24:19,560
Speaker 1: to continue on a path that is unhealthier, unwise, but

465
00:24:19,760 --> 00:24:22,000
Speaker 1: pursue these things. And I think that's what you've done.

466
00:24:22,040 --> 00:24:24,280
Speaker 1: You pursued love. And we got to see you fall

467
00:24:24,440 --> 00:24:26,639
Speaker 1: for somebody on Winter Games, and that's why everybody was

468
00:24:26,640 --> 00:24:29,399
Speaker 1: still happy about it. We got to see you happy,

469
00:24:29,600 --> 00:24:31,879
Speaker 1: and that's what we all want, uh, And that's what

470
00:24:31,960 --> 00:24:33,560
Speaker 1: I think we saw with Jared and then that was

471
00:24:33,680 --> 00:24:38,240
Speaker 1: ripped out from you on national television. M hmm. And

472
00:24:38,440 --> 00:24:41,680
Speaker 1: all the relationships that you have lead to the person

473
00:24:41,760 --> 00:24:44,280
Speaker 1: you're supposed to be with. I do feel like each

474
00:24:44,359 --> 00:24:47,920
Speaker 1: person is a little stone in your life that grows

475
00:24:48,080 --> 00:24:51,639
Speaker 1: you and develops you into the person that will find

476
00:24:52,440 --> 00:24:56,719
Speaker 1: the right match right right? So it does? It does. Actually,

477
00:24:56,720 --> 00:25:01,680
Speaker 1: I gotta ask you then, Um, with all these love

478
00:25:01,760 --> 00:25:05,800
Speaker 1: connections and the things that have only shows and you

479
00:25:05,920 --> 00:25:08,919
Speaker 1: now dating outside of the franchise, should a girl ever

480
00:25:09,000 --> 00:25:12,800
Speaker 1: make the first move? Mm? Hmm, good question. Just depends

481
00:25:12,840 --> 00:25:15,119
Speaker 1: on the guy who's on the receiving end of it.

482
00:25:15,640 --> 00:25:18,119
Speaker 1: Some guys really like to be the pursuer, you know,

483
00:25:18,320 --> 00:25:21,440
Speaker 1: it's that fundamental primal thing or it's like they want

484
00:25:21,520 --> 00:25:24,440
Speaker 1: to go hunt the girl. And then there's other guys

485
00:25:24,480 --> 00:25:26,359
Speaker 1: who find it really attractive when a girl makes the

486
00:25:26,440 --> 00:25:29,280
Speaker 1: first move. It's gutsy and it shows confidence. So it

487
00:25:29,359 --> 00:25:31,240
Speaker 1: really depends on what guy you're working with. What do

488
00:25:31,320 --> 00:25:34,760
Speaker 1: you think? I honestly, I'm very torn here. I think

489
00:25:34,840 --> 00:25:36,680
Speaker 1: I don't think there's a right or wrong way to

490
00:25:36,760 --> 00:25:40,399
Speaker 1: do this. Now. I do believe that the man is

491
00:25:40,440 --> 00:25:44,080
Speaker 1: should be the pursuer, not that first move. I don't.

492
00:25:44,119 --> 00:25:46,439
Speaker 1: I don't know, because you know, if somebody catches your

493
00:25:46,480 --> 00:25:49,760
Speaker 1: eye and you're a female, like you have like go

494
00:25:50,119 --> 00:25:53,280
Speaker 1: go tell that guy, like you know, we're all human here,

495
00:25:53,440 --> 00:25:56,600
Speaker 1: like we're all people. But I do think that both

496
00:25:56,640 --> 00:25:58,439
Speaker 1: parties should pursue each other. But I think the man

497
00:25:58,560 --> 00:26:00,600
Speaker 1: needs to be intentional in his pursue of a woman.

498
00:26:00,640 --> 00:26:03,080
Speaker 1: I think it is his responsibility to make sure that

499
00:26:03,320 --> 00:26:10,800
Speaker 1: that woman feels cared for, appreciated, attractive. Um and uh,

500
00:26:11,720 --> 00:26:15,000
Speaker 1: it's loved on all the time. Uh and loved on,

501
00:26:15,119 --> 00:26:16,399
Speaker 1: not just like he fall in love with there, but

502
00:26:16,720 --> 00:26:18,800
Speaker 1: that they need to feel that you love them, even

503
00:26:18,840 --> 00:26:21,800
Speaker 1: if it's just as a person. So I think both

504
00:26:21,880 --> 00:26:23,399
Speaker 1: can make the first move. But I do think that

505
00:26:23,480 --> 00:26:26,480
Speaker 1: it is the man's role afterwards to make sure that

506
00:26:26,680 --> 00:26:29,680
Speaker 1: he is a support system for the female. And but

507
00:26:29,760 --> 00:26:31,320
Speaker 1: I'm not a female, so I can't speak for them,

508
00:26:31,480 --> 00:26:36,040
Speaker 1: but I would like to say, you know that the

509
00:26:36,119 --> 00:26:37,959
Speaker 1: woman needs to feel the same way that they need

510
00:26:38,000 --> 00:26:40,000
Speaker 1: to pursue the man, that that they need to make

511
00:26:40,040 --> 00:26:42,800
Speaker 1: sure to that man it knows that they care for Um,

512
00:26:43,000 --> 00:26:45,119
Speaker 1: that's what data is, right, It's a it's a relationship.

513
00:26:45,240 --> 00:26:49,879
Speaker 1: There's no it's a mutual interaction between two people. Right.

514
00:26:50,000 --> 00:26:55,359
Speaker 1: I feel like in my experience it's it's probably best

515
00:26:55,600 --> 00:26:57,840
Speaker 1: I don't want to say play hard to get, but

516
00:26:58,080 --> 00:27:00,840
Speaker 1: for the girl to just take it easy and sit

517
00:27:00,920 --> 00:27:03,760
Speaker 1: back and relax for the for the start of it.

518
00:27:04,280 --> 00:27:06,640
Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, I know people are going to give

519
00:27:06,680 --> 00:27:09,760
Speaker 1: me crap for that, but let's be real. Most guys

520
00:27:10,560 --> 00:27:15,359
Speaker 1: like to come to the girl well you know, but

521
00:27:15,480 --> 00:27:17,760
Speaker 1: actually there's there's a few things I want to ask

522
00:27:17,800 --> 00:27:21,879
Speaker 1: you about there, because through this podcast we've got to

523
00:27:21,960 --> 00:27:24,520
Speaker 1: know each other lot better you've been around me, Like,

524
00:27:24,760 --> 00:27:29,639
Speaker 1: you're really bad at having the guy come to you. No, no, no, no,

525
00:27:29,720 --> 00:27:33,080
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna I'm gonna actually say I struggle with

526
00:27:33,160 --> 00:27:36,440
Speaker 1: that first interaction. I love the post first interaction. I'm

527
00:27:36,520 --> 00:27:39,560
Speaker 1: great at that. I mean, I really enjoy the digging

528
00:27:39,600 --> 00:27:41,600
Speaker 1: into life and the sharing life to that. I love

529
00:27:41,720 --> 00:27:44,960
Speaker 1: that part. I am really bad at those first few interactions.

530
00:27:45,000 --> 00:27:48,000
Speaker 1: I get very nervous still this day when it comes

531
00:27:48,040 --> 00:27:51,359
Speaker 1: to if I see some somebody that around town, if

532
00:27:51,400 --> 00:27:54,119
Speaker 1: I just see somebody that I I'm into, I'm really

533
00:27:54,240 --> 00:27:57,239
Speaker 1: bad approaching them. I actually, do you want to hear

534
00:27:57,320 --> 00:28:00,240
Speaker 1: something crazy? I know how to think about it. I

535
00:28:00,359 --> 00:28:04,840
Speaker 1: don't remember one time that I approached a woman for

536
00:28:04,920 --> 00:28:06,680
Speaker 1: the first time. I think it's been like in group

537
00:28:06,760 --> 00:28:09,640
Speaker 1: settings where we've happened to like bounce off. But when

538
00:28:09,640 --> 00:28:12,800
Speaker 1: I've never approached somebody that I've seen and introduced myself to,

539
00:28:14,760 --> 00:28:17,960
Speaker 1: um randomly, never done it. You know what's funny. I

540
00:28:18,119 --> 00:28:21,320
Speaker 1: think that guys really are very nurvous about making the

541
00:28:21,400 --> 00:28:24,159
Speaker 1: first move, and I think it's totally fine for the

542
00:28:24,240 --> 00:28:26,680
Speaker 1: girl to make the first move, But after that move,

543
00:28:26,880 --> 00:28:29,560
Speaker 1: after you've gotten his attention, then it's time to sort

544
00:28:29,600 --> 00:28:31,320
Speaker 1: of sit back and see what he does about it.

545
00:28:32,000 --> 00:28:34,800
Speaker 1: Um and Ben, I think that you are not in

546
00:28:34,920 --> 00:28:37,960
Speaker 1: even the minority there. I think most guys would say.

547
00:28:38,400 --> 00:28:41,440
Speaker 1: There is something about today's society that has made guys

548
00:28:41,480 --> 00:28:44,040
Speaker 1: even more scared about going up to girls. I feel

549
00:28:44,080 --> 00:28:47,080
Speaker 1: like what you know, back in our parents day, it

550
00:28:47,120 --> 00:28:49,200
Speaker 1: would the girl would barely ever go up to the guy.

551
00:28:49,280 --> 00:28:51,360
Speaker 1: The guy was totally expected to make the first move.

552
00:28:51,440 --> 00:28:56,040
Speaker 1: But now now I feel like it's fifty fifty and

553
00:28:56,480 --> 00:28:58,920
Speaker 1: it really relieves the guy. If if you guys are

554
00:28:58,960 --> 00:29:00,760
Speaker 1: making eyes at each other from cross the room, if

555
00:29:00,760 --> 00:29:02,960
Speaker 1: the girl just goes as, goes ahead and does it,

556
00:29:04,040 --> 00:29:08,239
Speaker 1: you guys, are you are thankful? Yeah, definitely, I mean,

557
00:29:08,280 --> 00:29:10,400
Speaker 1: and it relieves a lot of stuff. I don't know

558
00:29:10,720 --> 00:29:12,480
Speaker 1: what it is, though, I'd have to think back and

559
00:29:12,600 --> 00:29:15,240
Speaker 1: maybe next week episode I could tell you. But I

560
00:29:15,720 --> 00:29:19,040
Speaker 1: have this like fear of approaching a woman who I

561
00:29:19,160 --> 00:29:21,960
Speaker 1: was into and and her looking at me was in

562
00:29:22,160 --> 00:29:24,520
Speaker 1: laughing like that. That is like something that I think

563
00:29:24,520 --> 00:29:26,320
Speaker 1: about When you said that, I like, I have a

564
00:29:26,440 --> 00:29:28,480
Speaker 1: picture in my head right now me walking up to

565
00:29:28,560 --> 00:29:32,200
Speaker 1: somebody saying hey, I'm I'm I'm interested or high my name,

566
00:29:32,240 --> 00:29:35,120
Speaker 1: spin or whatever you say in that first interaction and

567
00:29:35,440 --> 00:29:37,680
Speaker 1: her turning around and just laughing, And I think that

568
00:29:37,760 --> 00:29:40,200
Speaker 1: would crush me. And I can imagine that's happened to

569
00:29:40,200 --> 00:29:43,160
Speaker 1: many people out there before. UM, if you're listening right

570
00:29:43,200 --> 00:29:46,840
Speaker 1: now and you've had a really bad first interaction, if

571
00:29:46,880 --> 00:29:50,880
Speaker 1: you've ever felt that, like just emptiness or the frustration,

572
00:29:51,040 --> 00:29:54,760
Speaker 1: or just felt kind of picked after that first meeting,

573
00:29:55,520 --> 00:29:57,880
Speaker 1: emails your story. I don't want to feel alone here.

574
00:29:57,920 --> 00:29:59,920
Speaker 1: I know I'm not the only one. Actually, I gotta

575
00:30:00,000 --> 00:30:03,600
Speaker 1: ask you something, okay, because I remember this a few

576
00:30:03,800 --> 00:30:05,720
Speaker 1: few weeks ago, and I gotta be honest. I I'm

577
00:30:05,760 --> 00:30:09,040
Speaker 1: not familiar with it. I don't typically like I try

578
00:30:09,080 --> 00:30:11,760
Speaker 1: to say it's politically correct or try to walk in

579
00:30:11,840 --> 00:30:14,520
Speaker 1: a lane as possible. I got a tweet and I'm

580
00:30:14,560 --> 00:30:16,440
Speaker 1: sure our listeners could fill in and they will and

581
00:30:16,520 --> 00:30:18,560
Speaker 1: they should. Um a couple of weeks ago when I

582
00:30:18,640 --> 00:30:21,440
Speaker 1: said female and they said that's derogatory and it's no

583
00:30:21,520 --> 00:30:24,520
Speaker 1: longer accepted, is right true? Am I am I missing

584
00:30:24,640 --> 00:30:26,600
Speaker 1: something because I said it earlier. I said it and

585
00:30:26,640 --> 00:30:28,200
Speaker 1: I realized I said it, and I stopped myself and

586
00:30:28,240 --> 00:30:31,200
Speaker 1: I thought, Okay, somebody has said that's no longer appropriate,

587
00:30:31,360 --> 00:30:35,760
Speaker 1: and I never knew that, and I think that's learning. Yeah,

588
00:30:35,960 --> 00:30:38,440
Speaker 1: that I I'm learning things that are no longer appropriate

589
00:30:38,520 --> 00:30:41,600
Speaker 1: that I say mostly due to this podcast, which I appreciated,

590
00:30:41,640 --> 00:30:44,479
Speaker 1: because now I'm I'm more politically correct than ever. I mean,

591
00:30:44,520 --> 00:30:48,200
Speaker 1: I'm saying, we don't want you to get more politically correct, Ben,

592
00:30:49,800 --> 00:30:53,200
Speaker 1: We've created a whole segment Ben bitches because you're too

593
00:30:53,280 --> 00:30:59,440
Speaker 1: politically correct. Sometimes. Um okay, I wouldn't think that it's

594
00:30:59,520 --> 00:31:03,880
Speaker 1: taboo or not politically correct to say females, but I

595
00:31:04,040 --> 00:31:08,240
Speaker 1: will say it sounds a little bit like animals. It's

596
00:31:08,280 --> 00:31:11,880
Speaker 1: like it's it's more animalistic. It doesn't sound like they're humans.

597
00:31:11,920 --> 00:31:15,680
Speaker 1: It sounds like they're a species. M interesting. Well, I mean,

598
00:31:15,720 --> 00:31:17,800
Speaker 1: I guess again, if you're listening and you have any

599
00:31:17,840 --> 00:31:19,680
Speaker 1: insight into this, actually no, I mean actually I don't

600
00:31:19,680 --> 00:31:21,720
Speaker 1: think you're wrong there. I get what you're saying, but

601
00:31:21,840 --> 00:31:24,239
Speaker 1: we don't know. We're guessing and we're assuming. Please uh

602
00:31:24,880 --> 00:31:27,960
Speaker 1: tweet us, email us, make sure you tag the podcast,

603
00:31:28,040 --> 00:31:30,440
Speaker 1: because uh, if you're going to criticize this, mother as

604
00:31:30,480 --> 00:31:33,440
Speaker 1: will promote the podcast, you're doing it. So I can't

605
00:31:33,480 --> 00:31:38,960
Speaker 1: imagine myself saying males, males, really males, say the men,

606
00:31:40,720 --> 00:31:46,160
Speaker 1: the men. Then two more questions. Actually, we're talking about love,

607
00:31:46,240 --> 00:31:48,720
Speaker 1: We're talking about life. We hope you find love one day.

608
00:31:49,000 --> 00:31:50,320
Speaker 1: I root for you in that. I know you root

609
00:31:50,360 --> 00:31:53,080
Speaker 1: for me doing the same. When you find love, and

610
00:31:53,200 --> 00:31:54,920
Speaker 1: you when you look at that guy in the eyes,

611
00:31:55,080 --> 00:31:57,760
Speaker 1: and and and there a little twinkle, and the moment

612
00:31:57,880 --> 00:32:00,800
Speaker 1: comes where the conversation has to happen about what your

613
00:32:00,800 --> 00:32:04,520
Speaker 1: features entailed. Do you want kids? Of course I want kids.

614
00:32:06,200 --> 00:32:09,320
Speaker 1: I mean I want two to three. I have to

615
00:32:09,400 --> 00:32:12,040
Speaker 1: have to. What stresses me out is because my sister

616
00:32:12,120 --> 00:32:14,120
Speaker 1: and I are so close that I feel like I

617
00:32:14,240 --> 00:32:17,760
Speaker 1: need two of the same sex. So I'm gonna want

618
00:32:17,960 --> 00:32:19,960
Speaker 1: two boys or two girls. But the thing is, I

619
00:32:20,120 --> 00:32:22,080
Speaker 1: definitely need a girl. So if I were to have

620
00:32:22,280 --> 00:32:24,400
Speaker 1: two boys, I'm not and people are gonna be like,

621
00:32:24,880 --> 00:32:27,080
Speaker 1: oh my god, I hate her, right, I literally would

622
00:32:27,080 --> 00:32:31,600
Speaker 1: think I need to gender select the third girl. Really yeah,

623
00:32:31,800 --> 00:32:35,400
Speaker 1: because like I need Yeah, I mean, I think, I think,

624
00:32:35,440 --> 00:32:38,920
Speaker 1: I'm I think I may. I don't know. I really

625
00:32:39,080 --> 00:32:42,840
Speaker 1: just I can't even imagine myself being It would be

626
00:32:43,000 --> 00:32:45,000
Speaker 1: like all my little day dreams ever since I was

627
00:32:45,040 --> 00:32:47,360
Speaker 1: a little kid thinking about having kids, like I need

628
00:32:47,480 --> 00:32:49,760
Speaker 1: to play with a girl and play dress up and

629
00:32:50,000 --> 00:32:53,360
Speaker 1: play princesses and barbies and have a little playhouse and

630
00:32:53,440 --> 00:32:58,600
Speaker 1: all that you have to be. I mean, I don't

631
00:32:58,680 --> 00:33:03,560
Speaker 1: be raising boys like I can imagine a little boy like.

632
00:33:03,680 --> 00:33:06,240
Speaker 1: It doesn't quite make sense to me, and I don't

633
00:33:06,280 --> 00:33:10,800
Speaker 1: process that well. Ideally, this is ideal, and nobody can

634
00:33:10,920 --> 00:33:13,160
Speaker 1: choose this. I mean technically, actually you can choose it,

635
00:33:13,240 --> 00:33:15,560
Speaker 1: but that's not the way I'm going to do it. Um.

636
00:33:15,600 --> 00:33:18,080
Speaker 1: I would love to have the oldest boy and then

637
00:33:18,160 --> 00:33:22,920
Speaker 1: two younger girls. Yes, protection or why? Um. I like

638
00:33:23,120 --> 00:33:25,520
Speaker 1: the thought of having an older brother. I wonder how

639
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Speaker 1: grown up faster. I would have been able to socialize

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Speaker 1: with them completely differently, and I'd like to have that

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Speaker 1: for my girls. And I also love the fact of

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Speaker 1: for protection of the girls and always looking out for them. Um.

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Speaker 1: And I think that most guys want a son, and

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Speaker 1: But if I have two girls, I may just stick

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Speaker 1: in which we could do vice versa. My parents, my

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Speaker 1: dad especially, always wanted to be a dad of girls,

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Speaker 1: never wanted a boy, and they didn't try to have

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Speaker 1: a third kid because they didn't want to risk it

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Speaker 1: being a boy. Isn't that crazy? Yeah, I mean you

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Speaker 1: and then I go to bed and then I wake

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00:44:08,040 --> 00:44:09,759
Speaker 1: up with my stomach that were flat again. But then

850
00:44:09,840 --> 00:44:11,400
Speaker 1: one day I'm gonna wake up and I'm going to

851
00:44:11,520 --> 00:44:15,680
Speaker 1: have a huge gut. What do I do about this? Bed? Well,

852
00:44:15,760 --> 00:44:19,640
Speaker 1: I mean you do beat bodies. First off. Second off,

853
00:44:19,680 --> 00:44:21,160
Speaker 1: I mean I think it's true. I mean, it is

854
00:44:21,239 --> 00:44:25,760
Speaker 1: the process of life. Um, nobody can define age. Age happens.

855
00:44:25,880 --> 00:44:29,360
Speaker 1: Time is one thing that is uncontrollable, controllable. We have

856
00:44:29,520 --> 00:44:32,040
Speaker 1: to get healthy. We have to start healthy habits. I

857
00:44:32,120 --> 00:44:34,400
Speaker 1: mean we have to. If we have to be intentional

858
00:44:34,520 --> 00:44:36,640
Speaker 1: about how we live life, we can't go to this

859
00:44:36,719 --> 00:44:38,399
Speaker 1: thing as kids. I think that's the beauty of being

860
00:44:38,440 --> 00:44:40,600
Speaker 1: a kid is you can be a little irresponsible, you

861
00:44:40,640 --> 00:44:43,000
Speaker 1: can make huge mistakes. You can you can eat what

862
00:44:43,080 --> 00:44:44,279
Speaker 1: you want and do what you want, and you get

863
00:44:44,560 --> 00:44:46,359
Speaker 1: tons of times just to hang out with friends. As

864
00:44:46,440 --> 00:44:48,800
Speaker 1: we get older, UM, we have to prepare for the

865
00:44:48,840 --> 00:44:51,120
Speaker 1: future generation. You have to be the best person possible

866
00:44:51,160 --> 00:44:52,759
Speaker 1: for your kids. You have to be the best person

867
00:44:52,800 --> 00:44:55,879
Speaker 1: possible for your husband, UM, for your partner in life,

868
00:44:56,400 --> 00:44:59,000
Speaker 1: whatever that is. You have to start making those choices

869
00:44:59,080 --> 00:45:01,719
Speaker 1: now so that you can be that person later. And

870
00:45:01,800 --> 00:45:03,239
Speaker 1: so asked, I want to tell you. I mean, I

871
00:45:03,320 --> 00:45:07,200
Speaker 1: think you look amazing, you are absolutely beautiful. But we

872
00:45:07,320 --> 00:45:10,920
Speaker 1: have to start getting healthy. Bed do you eat healthy?

873
00:45:12,120 --> 00:45:15,880
Speaker 1: I eat super healthy? You can ask you, Yeah, I do.

874
00:45:16,080 --> 00:45:19,359
Speaker 1: I don't eat fried food. I limit my bread and take. Um,

875
00:45:19,400 --> 00:45:21,239
Speaker 1: I eat a ton of vegetables, a ton of fruit.

876
00:45:22,200 --> 00:45:24,480
Speaker 1: I do. I I eat pretty healthy. How much prep

877
00:45:24,640 --> 00:45:27,719
Speaker 1: do you put into it? None? I just throw some

878
00:45:27,840 --> 00:45:29,920
Speaker 1: things together. I mean that's the beauty of it. I

879
00:45:30,000 --> 00:45:31,880
Speaker 1: throw are some things together, eat super healthy. And for

880
00:45:31,880 --> 00:45:34,200
Speaker 1: anybody out there listening, UM, I mean I think we

881
00:45:34,239 --> 00:45:36,400
Speaker 1: can all relate on this right well, we all know,

882
00:45:36,600 --> 00:45:38,960
Speaker 1: especially in today's general like in today's world, we have

883
00:45:39,120 --> 00:45:42,640
Speaker 1: so much act to the knowledge and data on food

884
00:45:42,680 --> 00:45:44,239
Speaker 1: and take and kind of what we're eating and how

885
00:45:44,239 --> 00:45:47,400
Speaker 1: it's affecting us. Um, you know, would now we have

886
00:45:47,480 --> 00:45:50,160
Speaker 1: a whole you know group of people who still act um,

887
00:45:50,400 --> 00:45:53,280
Speaker 1: who have gluten allergies, and we never knew that until

888
00:45:53,400 --> 00:45:56,880
Speaker 1: you know, recently. This is uh something that we need

889
00:45:56,920 --> 00:45:59,640
Speaker 1: to stay on top of. And and so as I'm sorry,

890
00:45:59,760 --> 00:46:03,960
Speaker 1: enjoy corn muston today, but tomorrow might not be happening. Actually,

891
00:46:04,400 --> 00:46:08,160
Speaker 1: I gotta ask you something here, um, something is super

892
00:46:08,239 --> 00:46:12,520
Speaker 1: interesting to me. Uh. You know, yesterday was April Fools

893
00:46:12,680 --> 00:46:16,040
Speaker 1: to Day, um, the big day. People throwing random stuff

894
00:46:16,080 --> 00:46:18,239
Speaker 1: out there. Everybody's making jokes. People are acting like they're

895
00:46:18,280 --> 00:46:21,160
Speaker 1: leaving football teams, and you know, people asking when they

896
00:46:21,200 --> 00:46:24,080
Speaker 1: break up whatever. A lot of jokes being played, a

897
00:46:24,080 --> 00:46:26,799
Speaker 1: lot of being had. I didn't throw one out there

898
00:46:26,840 --> 00:46:28,440
Speaker 1: for the first time in a while, just because honestly,

899
00:46:28,440 --> 00:46:31,200
Speaker 1: I'd forgotten to think about it. Our poor guy Ari

900
00:46:32,040 --> 00:46:34,160
Speaker 1: can't win one. I mean, I I don't. Oh my god,

901
00:46:34,280 --> 00:46:37,560
Speaker 1: I feel like this is a podcaster. I'm gonna get

902
00:46:37,600 --> 00:46:42,520
Speaker 1: a whole bunch of trouble you guys, but our guy,

903
00:46:42,600 --> 00:46:45,200
Speaker 1: are you okay? We don't Hey, Ari, let me be clear,

904
00:46:45,280 --> 00:46:47,799
Speaker 1: I don't hate Ari. I think he made some really

905
00:46:47,880 --> 00:46:50,719
Speaker 1: big mistakes in The Bachelor. I don't. I don't think

906
00:46:51,440 --> 00:46:54,200
Speaker 1: that he was the best bachelor we've ever had. His

907
00:46:54,320 --> 00:46:56,920
Speaker 1: season obviously wasn't the most watchable season we've ever had.

908
00:46:57,239 --> 00:46:59,480
Speaker 1: But he found love, and so if that's what we

909
00:46:59,520 --> 00:47:02,920
Speaker 1: want to great. But the guy, obviously, and we all

910
00:47:03,000 --> 00:47:04,960
Speaker 1: know this, nobody can deny that he wasn't the most

911
00:47:05,040 --> 00:47:07,960
Speaker 1: love bachelor. People gave him a lot of crap. Uh.

912
00:47:08,120 --> 00:47:10,920
Speaker 1: They weren't the biggest fans of him for for a

913
00:47:11,000 --> 00:47:13,880
Speaker 1: whole different list of reasons. I don't know at this

914
00:47:13,960 --> 00:47:15,640
Speaker 1: point if he's just given up and he just said,

915
00:47:15,680 --> 00:47:18,160
Speaker 1: you know, I'm just gonna go and and be disliked.

916
00:47:18,200 --> 00:47:21,000
Speaker 1: But yesterday, if you haven't seen, on Twitter, Ari and

917
00:47:21,080 --> 00:47:23,879
Speaker 1: Lauren posted a picture. But it looks like Ari's hands

918
00:47:24,000 --> 00:47:27,239
Speaker 1: around Lauren's stomach and it makes it look like they

919
00:47:27,280 --> 00:47:29,759
Speaker 1: have an announcement that they're having a baby. Well, people

920
00:47:29,800 --> 00:47:33,640
Speaker 1: obviously react because uh, some people can't get pregnant, they're

921
00:47:33,680 --> 00:47:35,360
Speaker 1: not fertile, and they and they want to have a baby,

922
00:47:36,200 --> 00:47:37,600
Speaker 1: and they can't, so they took a fence to it.

923
00:47:37,680 --> 00:47:39,440
Speaker 1: Others were saying, oh, you should take a fence, it's

924
00:47:39,480 --> 00:47:42,800
Speaker 1: a joke and taple fools whatever. But I mean, the

925
00:47:42,960 --> 00:47:45,359
Speaker 1: majority of people were not a fan of his joke,

926
00:47:46,400 --> 00:47:48,040
Speaker 1: his joke at all. A lot of people were very

927
00:47:48,120 --> 00:47:50,560
Speaker 1: up that Actually, I want to hear your your thoughts

928
00:47:50,560 --> 00:47:52,799
Speaker 1: on this, and and my fault question that is has

929
00:47:52,880 --> 00:47:56,759
Speaker 1: already just given up. Um. So yeah, I like I'm saying,

930
00:47:56,760 --> 00:47:58,480
Speaker 1: I feel like I'm getting a lot of trouble for

931
00:47:58,560 --> 00:48:05,239
Speaker 1: things I said today. I think people really really overreacted

932
00:48:05,320 --> 00:48:09,400
Speaker 1: about that. I mean, you guys, we can't be we

933
00:48:09,520 --> 00:48:14,439
Speaker 1: can't take everything like everything can't disturb people and make

934
00:48:14,520 --> 00:48:16,840
Speaker 1: them sad. Like we have to be able to like

935
00:48:16,960 --> 00:48:19,880
Speaker 1: brush some things off as jokes these days. That's like

936
00:48:20,040 --> 00:48:22,279
Speaker 1: saying that, yes, of course there's so many people okay

937
00:48:22,280 --> 00:48:25,120
Speaker 1: a pregnant, it's like the saddest thing ever. But that's

938
00:48:25,160 --> 00:48:28,800
Speaker 1: like saying that people who are pregnant can't walk around

939
00:48:28,880 --> 00:48:31,399
Speaker 1: and show their baby bump because it may make them sad.

940
00:48:33,600 --> 00:48:36,000
Speaker 1: So you're just saying that we're way too sensive. And

941
00:48:36,040 --> 00:48:38,480
Speaker 1: I think a lot of people so I think, so

942
00:48:38,680 --> 00:48:41,440
Speaker 1: what this people was way too sensitive. If that's going

943
00:48:41,480 --> 00:48:46,680
Speaker 1: to make somebody who is having fertility issues really sad,

944
00:48:47,840 --> 00:48:49,600
Speaker 1: there's a lot of other things that are going to

945
00:48:49,640 --> 00:48:53,800
Speaker 1: make them really sad too. Yeah, I don't know. I

946
00:48:53,880 --> 00:48:55,840
Speaker 1: think they will totally over reacted. I think that it

947
00:48:55,960 --> 00:48:59,000
Speaker 1: was another bachelor. I think it was another bachelor, people

948
00:48:59,040 --> 00:49:03,480
Speaker 1: wouldn't have cause such an up. Poor m I mean, actually,

949
00:49:03,480 --> 00:49:06,120
Speaker 1: you're completely entuth to your opinion, and I think your

950
00:49:06,120 --> 00:49:08,040
Speaker 1: opinion is probably similar to a lot of people that

951
00:49:08,080 --> 00:49:09,759
Speaker 1: I mean, I think it's split the peace of to you.

952
00:49:09,840 --> 00:49:12,160
Speaker 1: Either I think people are reacted or you think, no,

953
00:49:12,239 --> 00:49:14,320
Speaker 1: they didn't and this pictures should have been posted. You're

954
00:49:14,320 --> 00:49:16,040
Speaker 1: not alone in this. You're obviously going to get people

955
00:49:16,040 --> 00:49:18,719
Speaker 1: that disagree with you. That's fine, that's why. But we

956
00:49:18,840 --> 00:49:20,719
Speaker 1: have to be able to share opinions. If we don't

957
00:49:20,760 --> 00:49:23,480
Speaker 1: share opinions on this podcast, what else we got? I mean,

958
00:49:23,800 --> 00:49:26,800
Speaker 1: you know, it's we're talking about things in reality television.

959
00:49:27,040 --> 00:49:30,120
Speaker 1: If reality television is and controversial in itself, like I

960
00:49:30,160 --> 00:49:32,160
Speaker 1: don't know what it and so I you know, I

961
00:49:32,480 --> 00:49:34,560
Speaker 1: kind of say more in the middle. I get that

962
00:49:34,680 --> 00:49:36,919
Speaker 1: it was just an awkward joke and a sensory That's

963
00:49:36,960 --> 00:49:40,200
Speaker 1: how I say, I understand that we were way too sensitive.

964
00:49:40,280 --> 00:49:41,800
Speaker 1: I don't think we need to be that sensitive. I

965
00:49:41,880 --> 00:49:44,800
Speaker 1: don't think they were doing anything too intentional. You know,

966
00:49:44,840 --> 00:49:47,279
Speaker 1: we always think about the intention behind it, and the

967
00:49:47,360 --> 00:49:50,759
Speaker 1: intention behind it was not to offend a large group

968
00:49:50,800 --> 00:49:53,560
Speaker 1: of people. That was not his intention. But I will

969
00:49:53,600 --> 00:49:56,680
Speaker 1: say that the joke was awkward. Can I say that,

970
00:49:56,800 --> 00:50:00,400
Speaker 1: like just weird? Totally awkward and just for a couple

971
00:50:00,520 --> 00:50:03,680
Speaker 1: that is still so touchy that people still have such

972
00:50:03,840 --> 00:50:08,359
Speaker 1: issues with them, it is probably not the smartest You've

973
00:50:08,400 --> 00:50:11,120
Speaker 1: come up with so many other things that was almost

974
00:50:11,200 --> 00:50:15,279
Speaker 1: cliche of them. I I completely agree, And you know,

975
00:50:15,320 --> 00:50:17,760
Speaker 1: I wonder the world, like, what is their thought process

976
00:50:17,840 --> 00:50:19,279
Speaker 1: right now when it comes to life? I mean, I

977
00:50:19,520 --> 00:50:22,840
Speaker 1: mean I would have blame them if I saw an

978
00:50:22,920 --> 00:50:25,480
Speaker 1: article written and said, oh, you know, another mistake from

979
00:50:25,520 --> 00:50:27,839
Speaker 1: the most hated bachelor couple in the history of the back.

980
00:50:27,880 --> 00:50:29,239
Speaker 1: So now I don't want to claim they are that.

981
00:50:29,320 --> 00:50:30,799
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't know that. I don't have data.

982
00:50:30,920 --> 00:50:33,719
Speaker 1: That's not scientific. That's just an opinion of some of

983
00:50:33,800 --> 00:50:38,000
Speaker 1: a journalist. But I wonder at this point, because they

984
00:50:38,080 --> 00:50:42,200
Speaker 1: felt so much, um just heat and hate and anger,

985
00:50:42,840 --> 00:50:44,759
Speaker 1: um from the show. If they've just kind of given

986
00:50:44,840 --> 00:50:46,120
Speaker 1: up and they're just like, you know what, I don't

987
00:50:46,160 --> 00:50:47,839
Speaker 1: care if people like us and we're just gonna keep

988
00:50:47,880 --> 00:50:51,440
Speaker 1: doing our thing, um and and I just wonder where

989
00:50:51,480 --> 00:50:53,880
Speaker 1: they're at right now in life. I mean, they have

990
00:50:54,120 --> 00:51:00,920
Speaker 1: to feel a little isolated from from the popular bachelor family. Okay, um,

991
00:51:01,280 --> 00:51:04,200
Speaker 1: we're we're about to get a color in. Um. We

992
00:51:04,280 --> 00:51:07,719
Speaker 1: got a beaut beautiful email last week from a girl

993
00:51:07,880 --> 00:51:11,040
Speaker 1: who was very moved by Ben Um. But right now

994
00:51:11,120 --> 00:51:15,080
Speaker 1: we're gonna talk about Movement watches. That was really bad.

995
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996
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1001
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Speaker 1: that's gonna totally cover my tired, hungover eyes on vacation.

1002
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Speaker 1: The guys that Movement, they don't just make great watches,

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Speaker 1: they also make awesome sunglasses. Here's my problem with sunglasses.

1005
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1007
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1008
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Speaker 1: I lose them. I can't spend that much money on sunglasses,

1009
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Speaker 1: because yes, I do lose a ton. Well, our friends

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1011
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1015
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1016
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1017
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1018
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1019
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1034
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1035
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1036
00:53:35,760 --> 00:53:37,759
Speaker 1: I want to take a little second and segue into

1037
00:53:37,800 --> 00:53:41,279
Speaker 1: our next collar and get a little background. So for you,

1038
00:53:41,520 --> 00:53:44,040
Speaker 1: for those of you who don't know, I work with

1039
00:53:44,040 --> 00:53:47,600
Speaker 1: an organization called Humanity and Hope United very closely UH.

1040
00:53:47,719 --> 00:53:51,160
Speaker 1: In order to help support the funding of this nonprofit,

1041
00:53:51,280 --> 00:53:55,239
Speaker 1: we started a company called Generous International. We still both things,

1042
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Speaker 1: but we're best known for coffee because that's what we

1043
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Speaker 1: do best. So we sell coffee um online at generous

1044
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1045
00:54:05,239 --> 00:54:07,560
Speaker 1: these nonprofits and causes that are trying to do some

1046
00:54:07,680 --> 00:54:11,759
Speaker 1: type of sustainable good in the world. Well, with all

1047
00:54:11,840 --> 00:54:15,000
Speaker 1: that being said, um, this was something that a couple

1048
00:54:15,080 --> 00:54:16,560
Speaker 1: of my friends and I started and now it's not

1049
00:54:16,640 --> 00:54:18,560
Speaker 1: even I mean, it's never been about us. It's really

1050
00:54:18,600 --> 00:54:20,359
Speaker 1: been about what we feel like our purpose is being

1051
00:54:20,400 --> 00:54:22,399
Speaker 1: called to and and that really comes from our faith

1052
00:54:22,920 --> 00:54:26,000
Speaker 1: and and just our belief system that, um, you know,

1053
00:54:26,280 --> 00:54:29,360
Speaker 1: God does desire everybody to to have hope, to be

1054
00:54:29,560 --> 00:54:31,760
Speaker 1: loved on, and to have opportunities. So that's where Gennerors

1055
00:54:31,800 --> 00:54:36,400
Speaker 1: came from. Well, we got an email from somebody named Hannah,

1056
00:54:36,880 --> 00:54:39,919
Speaker 1: and Hannah obviously has a huge heart to the Huge

1057
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Speaker 1: Heart First Service taston as one of the coolest emails

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Speaker 1: I've ever seen. And and Ashley, if you don't mind

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00:54:45,760 --> 00:54:49,799
Speaker 1: for a second, would you mind just reading through uh

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00:54:50,280 --> 00:54:54,160
Speaker 1: this email before we speak with Hannah. Yes, Hi, Ben

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00:54:54,239 --> 00:54:56,960
Speaker 1: and Ashley and of course Amy. Amy is not in

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00:54:57,080 --> 00:55:00,200
Speaker 1: studio today, as you guys can probably tell. Well, I

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00:55:00,320 --> 00:55:04,000
Speaker 1: love all of you equally. My email is specifically for Ben.

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00:55:04,440 --> 00:55:06,400
Speaker 1: I really want to get in touch with Ben about

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00:55:06,520 --> 00:55:10,000
Speaker 1: how to help out with generous coffee. Back in June,

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00:55:10,040 --> 00:55:12,360
Speaker 1: I was forced to quit my job because of health issues.

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00:55:12,440 --> 00:55:14,719
Speaker 1: I've been dealing with for years that have started to

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Speaker 1: make it physically impossible for me to go to work.

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Speaker 1: Despite my fears of not being able to support myself,

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Speaker 1: I made it work, and I decided to stay in

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00:55:23,360 --> 00:55:26,560
Speaker 1: this beautiful place. And it turned out that I've been

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Speaker 1: dealing with all of my health issues and leaving my

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00:55:28,719 --> 00:55:33,520
Speaker 1: job it was actually something wonderful. Ben. You understand that

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Speaker 1: life is all about giving back, being selfless, and supporting

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00:55:36,640 --> 00:55:38,400
Speaker 1: and loving others as much as you can, and for

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00:55:38,520 --> 00:55:41,600
Speaker 1: that I truly look up to you. I light up

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00:55:41,719 --> 00:55:44,600
Speaker 1: and listen a little more closely whenever you talk about

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00:55:44,640 --> 00:55:48,080
Speaker 1: generous coffee on the podcast. Your selflessness has really got

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00:55:48,160 --> 00:55:51,239
Speaker 1: me thinking about my own life, and your generosity is

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00:55:51,320 --> 00:55:53,239
Speaker 1: one of the reasons that I decided that I wanted

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00:55:53,239 --> 00:55:57,360
Speaker 1: to donate money that I make from my Etsy to charity.

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00:55:58,239 --> 00:56:02,040
Speaker 1: I wanted to know that you inspire me for this idea.

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00:56:02,520 --> 00:56:05,040
Speaker 1: My goal is to personally raise a thousand dollars for

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00:56:05,120 --> 00:56:08,240
Speaker 1: good causes in two thousand and eighteen, which will require

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00:56:08,320 --> 00:56:12,319
Speaker 1: about four hundred cards sales. My business is called I'm

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00:56:12,800 --> 00:56:16,719
Speaker 1: Bringing Crafty Back UM. We can post will post the

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Speaker 1: the the u r L on one of our twitters

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00:56:19,840 --> 00:56:22,800
Speaker 1: I'm also posting all of my cards to Instagram and

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Speaker 1: that is at Hannah dot t U, R G, E O,

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00:56:29,000 --> 00:56:34,040
Speaker 1: N or at. I'm bringing crafty back if you want

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00:56:34,040 --> 00:56:36,680
Speaker 1: to check them out there. So now Ben is going

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00:56:36,760 --> 00:56:39,479
Speaker 1: to get a chance to talk to Hannah on the line.

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Speaker 1: Anna you out there, I'm here, Hi, Hi, Hey, Hanna.

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00:56:45,200 --> 00:56:47,360
Speaker 1: Thank you for joining us on the almost famous podcast.

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00:56:48,280 --> 00:56:52,640
Speaker 1: Of course, I'm so excited freaking out, don't freak out.

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00:56:52,680 --> 00:56:55,120
Speaker 1: We go a lot to talk about here UM and

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00:56:55,320 --> 00:56:57,680
Speaker 1: will receive this email, and I want to personally to

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00:56:57,840 --> 00:57:01,160
Speaker 1: start by seeing that at tonight, UH, We're incredibly moved

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00:57:01,680 --> 00:57:05,560
Speaker 1: by your generosity. We think it is absolutely incredible that

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00:57:05,680 --> 00:57:08,000
Speaker 1: a small little business like hers that you be willing

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00:57:08,120 --> 00:57:11,879
Speaker 1: to support people all over the world. And and thank

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00:57:11,920 --> 00:57:14,839
Speaker 1: you for wanting to do that through Generous. It means

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00:57:14,880 --> 00:57:17,800
Speaker 1: a lot to me personally. At Generous, we really do

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00:57:17,960 --> 00:57:21,120
Speaker 1: believe that everyone deserves an opportunity and your partnership with

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00:57:21,280 --> 00:57:24,720
Speaker 1: us UM can make that happen. And so Hannah, thank you.

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00:57:26,240 --> 00:57:31,360
Speaker 1: Of course, I'm so excited and I gotta ask you here. UM.

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00:57:31,840 --> 00:57:34,560
Speaker 1: We just read the email. What moves you like? What

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00:57:34,760 --> 00:57:38,640
Speaker 1: is your dreams for this campaign? That you're starting here. Um.

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Speaker 1: So Um. First of all, I UM, I just I

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00:57:45,480 --> 00:57:49,760
Speaker 1: think it's so admirable that you've used your platform from

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00:57:49,800 --> 00:57:53,200
Speaker 1: the back Twitter to do something great with that. And UM,

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00:57:53,920 --> 00:57:55,680
Speaker 1: I just kind of realized that I wanted to use

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00:57:55,760 --> 00:57:58,200
Speaker 1: my su to do something bigger and make it into

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00:57:58,280 --> 00:58:02,240
Speaker 1: something more specifal and meaningful. Um. And I just realized

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00:58:02,280 --> 00:58:03,800
Speaker 1: that there's so many other people in the world that

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00:58:03,960 --> 00:58:06,800
Speaker 1: need the money more than I do. So there's really

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00:58:06,800 --> 00:58:09,320
Speaker 1: an easy decision, um, once I thought of it. And

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00:58:09,320 --> 00:58:10,800
Speaker 1: I just wanted to find a way to try to

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00:58:10,880 --> 00:58:13,960
Speaker 1: make a difference, season if it's a small one. Um.

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Speaker 1: And this kind of leave the world is a better

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00:58:18,080 --> 00:58:22,120
Speaker 1: place built that line from you, Ben, Um, and I

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00:58:22,280 --> 00:58:24,080
Speaker 1: just um, like you were saying, I just feel like

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00:58:24,200 --> 00:58:27,160
Speaker 1: life is about loving others as much as you can

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00:58:27,320 --> 00:58:29,440
Speaker 1: and lifting other people up as much as you can.

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Speaker 1: And that's what I'm trying to do. Um. And I

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00:58:32,600 --> 00:58:35,320
Speaker 1: know it's not gonna be like a huge difference because

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00:58:35,360 --> 00:58:37,440
Speaker 1: I don't I don't make that muself a profit. But

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Speaker 1: what I do make I want to I want to

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Speaker 1: give to generis for the next Dennis Covy for the

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Speaker 1: next four months. That's amazing Hannah. Um, so you left

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00:58:47,400 --> 00:58:50,320
Speaker 1: your job and now you've created this etsy where you

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00:58:50,400 --> 00:58:54,440
Speaker 1: make really cute I'm looking at your cards right now, um,

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00:58:55,240 --> 00:58:58,880
Speaker 1: very they're very crafty, they're super adorable. They're like don

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00:58:59,120 --> 00:59:02,240
Speaker 1: seemed why and themed coffee themed, and all of this

1135
00:59:02,360 --> 00:59:04,280
Speaker 1: money you're going to donate that all the money you

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00:59:04,400 --> 00:59:06,920
Speaker 1: make in these cards are about five dollars each is

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00:59:06,920 --> 00:59:10,360
Speaker 1: going to go to Generous. Yeah, well so I sent

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00:59:10,520 --> 00:59:13,080
Speaker 1: really now, I spent about fifty percent on materials, and

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00:59:13,120 --> 00:59:16,120
Speaker 1: then I'm taking a different charity each month to donate

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00:59:16,160 --> 00:59:19,560
Speaker 1: the other fifty to um or not necessarily a charity,

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00:59:20,400 --> 00:59:24,560
Speaker 1: some good cause. I know Jennerous Coffee is a business,

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00:59:24,760 --> 00:59:29,080
Speaker 1: but um, yeah, so whatever is less over after materials,

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00:59:29,120 --> 00:59:33,200
Speaker 1: who is gonna gonna go to Generous Coffee. Well we can,

1144
00:59:33,360 --> 00:59:35,200
Speaker 1: we can definitely figure out a great way for you

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00:59:35,320 --> 00:59:38,240
Speaker 1: to get, um, some free coffee delivered to you for

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00:59:38,360 --> 00:59:40,120
Speaker 1: your for your donation. And I want to tell you,

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00:59:40,200 --> 00:59:42,920
Speaker 1: I know you feel like, um, this is just a

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00:59:43,000 --> 00:59:46,080
Speaker 1: small amount, and I get that feeling right where when

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00:59:46,120 --> 00:59:48,880
Speaker 1: we first started up in October last year, we were

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00:59:48,960 --> 00:59:51,560
Speaker 1: trying to donate to these causes and we're writing very

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00:59:51,600 --> 00:59:54,200
Speaker 1: small checks because we're new and it just feels like, Okay,

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00:59:54,840 --> 00:59:57,240
Speaker 1: the impact actually ever going to be paid? You know,

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00:59:57,320 --> 01:00:01,080
Speaker 1: it is a dollar, seven dollars dollars know what impact

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01:00:01,240 --> 01:00:03,200
Speaker 1: and that make? And and I want to tell you,

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01:00:03,720 --> 01:00:06,840
Speaker 1: uh that to supply at gay's worth of work for

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01:00:06,960 --> 01:00:10,720
Speaker 1: somebody in Central America right now. It's specifically in hundera.

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01:00:11,320 --> 01:00:14,720
Speaker 1: It's just seven dollars and that is almost a two

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01:00:15,520 --> 01:00:18,120
Speaker 1: increase than what the averages and some of the stage

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01:00:18,120 --> 01:00:21,040
Speaker 1: don't we work with. So I mean, even seven dollars

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01:00:21,200 --> 01:00:23,920
Speaker 1: make a huge impact and it doesn't really matter the amount.

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01:00:24,040 --> 01:00:25,600
Speaker 1: And I have to stick to this in life and

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01:00:25,720 --> 01:00:27,600
Speaker 1: and for anybody out there listening, this is something that

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01:00:27,720 --> 01:00:31,160
Speaker 1: keeps me encourage um as we move forward. And I

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01:00:31,240 --> 01:00:34,000
Speaker 1: don't care what your face system is. You can believe

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01:00:34,040 --> 01:00:38,240
Speaker 1: a thousand different things, UM, but my face is Uh.

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01:00:38,720 --> 01:00:40,600
Speaker 1: I am a Christian and the set come a place

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01:00:40,960 --> 01:00:43,040
Speaker 1: where I do read the Bible, and there's a story

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01:00:43,080 --> 01:00:46,040
Speaker 1: of the Bible about a widow, uh, and a widow

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01:00:46,200 --> 01:00:50,560
Speaker 1: donate of a few cents um to a really great

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01:00:50,640 --> 01:00:54,240
Speaker 1: cause and other people are donating hundreds on hundreds of

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01:00:54,240 --> 01:00:58,440
Speaker 1: thousands of dollars and in the response the person receiving

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01:00:58,480 --> 01:01:01,040
Speaker 1: the gift which was Jesus and says true. I tell

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01:01:01,080 --> 01:01:04,760
Speaker 1: you this, widows put more into the treasury than all others.

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01:01:05,080 --> 01:01:07,760
Speaker 1: They gave out of their wealth, but she out of

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01:01:07,800 --> 01:01:11,320
Speaker 1: her poverty, putting everything and she had to live off.

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Speaker 1: So I'm telling you, Hannah, no matter what it is,

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01:01:13,760 --> 01:01:17,040
Speaker 1: you're giving um out of a plate that is beautiful

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01:01:17,160 --> 01:01:20,240
Speaker 1: and we appreciate you. And I promise you that live

1179
01:01:20,960 --> 01:01:23,680
Speaker 1: will be a hand and opportunity will give in and

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01:01:23,760 --> 01:01:26,720
Speaker 1: I hope will fill themselves based on your gifts. So

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01:01:26,840 --> 01:01:28,520
Speaker 1: thank you, and I want to support this in any

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01:01:28,520 --> 01:01:31,280
Speaker 1: way cancer. For all listeners out there, we want to

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01:01:31,320 --> 01:01:33,760
Speaker 1: remind you, Hannah, where can they go to purchase one

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01:01:33,800 --> 01:01:37,480
Speaker 1: of your cards today? Alrighty, so, um if you just

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01:01:37,600 --> 01:01:40,960
Speaker 1: search I'm bringing craft fee back on sc um you

1186
01:01:41,040 --> 01:01:43,920
Speaker 1: can find me directly, but um I also post all

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01:01:43,960 --> 01:01:46,840
Speaker 1: my cards on Instagram if you want to follow me there,

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01:01:47,200 --> 01:01:50,400
Speaker 1: um and just kind of keep up and see there

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Speaker 1: any cards that you like. And that's um At. I'm

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01:01:53,240 --> 01:01:59,760
Speaker 1: bringing crafty back there. Thank you and what you're doing

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01:01:59,880 --> 01:02:02,400
Speaker 1: is amazing. And the next time I need to thank

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01:02:02,480 --> 01:02:06,520
Speaker 1: you or a birthday card, I know where I'm going awesome.

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01:02:06,760 --> 01:02:09,640
Speaker 1: I was today custom orders. So if there's something in

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01:02:09,720 --> 01:02:11,800
Speaker 1: there that you don't if you don't see something on

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01:02:11,880 --> 01:02:16,200
Speaker 1: there that you want, then UM, feel free to reach outright.

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Speaker 1: Thank you guys, this is so amazing. I'm really glad

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01:02:21,800 --> 01:02:24,760
Speaker 1: I guess to talk to you both. Hey, I'm glad

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Speaker 1: you were born you do then by Actually, I'm telling

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Speaker 1: you now, the people that exist in this world today,

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01:02:38,960 --> 01:02:41,800
Speaker 1: for all, for all of our issues, for all the

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01:02:41,880 --> 01:02:45,440
Speaker 1: things that separate us, for all the the unpopular opinions

1202
01:02:45,520 --> 01:02:47,640
Speaker 1: that make people criticize this, I'm telling you right now,

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01:02:47,680 --> 01:02:50,160
Speaker 1: I am I'm going to prophesy that the people who

1204
01:02:50,200 --> 01:02:53,200
Speaker 1: live on here today, not just just this generation, but

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01:02:54,000 --> 01:02:56,320
Speaker 1: the people living are going to completely change the world

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01:02:56,360 --> 01:02:58,680
Speaker 1: for good. And I feel it, I know it. Um.

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01:02:58,760 --> 01:03:01,040
Speaker 1: It's people like Hannah. We're going out of their way

1208
01:03:01,120 --> 01:03:03,120
Speaker 1: to say I'm tired of the status flow. I'm tired

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01:03:03,160 --> 01:03:05,400
Speaker 1: of people stuffering. I'm tired of people not having clean water,

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01:03:05,600 --> 01:03:07,760
Speaker 1: I'm tired of people not having food. I'm tired of

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01:03:07,800 --> 01:03:10,000
Speaker 1: people getting sick. I'm tired of people having parasites. I'm

1212
01:03:10,000 --> 01:03:12,200
Speaker 1: tired of people not having health care. They're saying this

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01:03:12,400 --> 01:03:14,960
Speaker 1: is not an option anymore. We're gonna take a standard,

1214
01:03:14,960 --> 01:03:17,280
Speaker 1: We're gonna make it different, and hey, if that can

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01:03:17,320 --> 01:03:20,040
Speaker 1: be through generous. Generous is not about me, it's not

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01:03:20,120 --> 01:03:24,920
Speaker 1: about my buddies. Generous is now with over thirteen people involved.

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01:03:25,000 --> 01:03:26,960
Speaker 1: This is a movement. This is This is a group

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01:03:27,000 --> 01:03:29,280
Speaker 1: of people just saying we want to help where we can. UM.

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01:03:29,440 --> 01:03:32,880
Speaker 1: If it's a generous, great, If it's not awesome as well,

1220
01:03:33,440 --> 01:03:38,040
Speaker 1: let's just join together. Instead of criticizing um or instead

1221
01:03:38,040 --> 01:03:40,720
Speaker 1: of bringing us down, let's bring us up. Let's bring

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01:03:40,800 --> 01:03:44,480
Speaker 1: us stuff by by helping others. Well, just like Hannah

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Speaker 1: is offering a great deal, so is thread Up. Finding

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Speaker 1: a great deal is such a thrill. But but digging

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01:03:52,880 --> 01:03:55,880
Speaker 1: through all the clothing racks of your local discount store

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Speaker 1: it's exhausting. Thrown up makes it easy to find brands

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Speaker 1: weapon for over a million women to refresh their closets.

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Speaker 1: I just got an amazing pair too, amazing pairs of

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01:04:10,520 --> 01:04:13,120
Speaker 1: flares because I'm trying to bring the early two thousands back,

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01:04:13,440 --> 01:04:16,880
Speaker 1: and I also bought Yeah, same' says um. There was

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01:04:16,960 --> 01:04:20,360
Speaker 1: this Vince purse which was over two d dollars. I

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01:04:20,440 --> 01:04:22,960
Speaker 1: think I got it for a seventy or something and

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01:04:23,120 --> 01:04:26,840
Speaker 1: it is my new go to carry everyday bag. And

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Speaker 1: it's so beautiful, if I may say so. Uh. Throwed

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Speaker 1: Up is the world's largest online thrift store, with over

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Speaker 1: thirty five thousand brands and up to nine percent off retail.

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Speaker 1: So you got like my Vince purse I had, um,

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Speaker 1: I got some Citizens of Humanity jeans. Then there's free

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Speaker 1: people stuff Jake Crewe jeans for twelve dollars, Kate's Bad

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Speaker 1: Handbags for thirty dollars. Forget sifting through the racks because

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Speaker 1: throat Up makes it super easy to shop and personalize

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Speaker 1: that all the items are in like new condition. Many

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Speaker 1: are even brand new still with tags. Thrown Up offers

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Speaker 1: free shipping on qualified orders and it is super easy

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Speaker 1: with returns as well. So show your wallet whose boss.

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Speaker 1: Don't wait another minute? Thrown Up it's offering almost famous

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Speaker 1: Famous for an extra thirty percent off today. Then you

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Speaker 1: have just been you know, You're just You're so wonderful.

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01:05:51,440 --> 01:05:56,920
Speaker 1: You're so wonderful. You're so charitable and thoughtful and warm.

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01:05:58,320 --> 01:06:02,360
Speaker 1: But every when you which, everybody loves it. What Ben Bitches?

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01:06:03,120 --> 01:06:06,360
Speaker 1: So we're going to do Ben's Bitches, our new favorite segment,

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01:06:06,440 --> 01:06:08,440
Speaker 1: and a little bit. But before that, we're going to

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Speaker 1: take a couple. Um, we're gonna take one more email.

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01:06:11,920 --> 01:06:15,400
Speaker 1: This is from Megan. I am so happy to be

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01:06:15,520 --> 01:06:18,160
Speaker 1: talking to you through email. My best friend and I

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01:06:18,280 --> 01:06:21,600
Speaker 1: are both big listeners, and we discussed your podcast weekly.

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Speaker 1: This week, we've been talking about my dating dilemma and

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Speaker 1: I decided that I needed to go to the authority

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01:06:27,120 --> 01:06:30,720
Speaker 1: you guys, but really then four answers. I met this

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01:06:30,840 --> 01:06:33,640
Speaker 1: guy a little over three weeks ago. We've gone on

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01:06:33,800 --> 01:06:36,920
Speaker 1: four dates now, with the last one being an elaborate

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01:06:37,080 --> 01:06:40,200
Speaker 1: all weekend date where he planned an all out, whole

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01:06:40,360 --> 01:06:44,120
Speaker 1: weekend for us. He was so thoughtful, attentive, and likes

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01:06:44,200 --> 01:06:48,160
Speaker 1: me more than any guy has in a long time. Mentally,

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01:06:48,280 --> 01:06:51,320
Speaker 1: we click and we have some chemistry. Oh, we have

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01:06:51,480 --> 01:06:55,600
Speaker 1: some chemistry. Mentally, we click and we have some chemistry. Interesting,

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01:06:56,040 --> 01:06:59,919
Speaker 1: but it's not bombastic chemistry on my end, I would

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01:07:00,040 --> 01:07:04,080
Speaker 1: say it's about chemistry with him on my side. I've

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01:07:04,160 --> 01:07:07,200
Speaker 1: never done this before, and it's always been an all

1278
01:07:07,400 --> 01:07:10,760
Speaker 1: or nothing thing for me. However, I know that they

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01:07:10,840 --> 01:07:13,320
Speaker 1: say that chemistry can grow, and I wonder if I

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01:07:13,320 --> 01:07:14,880
Speaker 1: should give it a few more dates to see how

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01:07:14,920 --> 01:07:17,240
Speaker 1: the chemistry really blossoms for me, or if I should

1282
01:07:17,240 --> 01:07:19,640
Speaker 1: just cut it off now. I would love your advice.

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01:07:20,040 --> 01:07:23,320
Speaker 1: And for reference, I am thirty and he is twenty seven.

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01:07:23,480 --> 01:07:28,480
Speaker 1: Thank you. I like this email. I like this email. Actually,

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01:07:29,920 --> 01:07:32,320
Speaker 1: Oh wow, okay, I mean yeah, I know you're all

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01:07:32,320 --> 01:07:36,240
Speaker 1: about chemistry. What you're excited about. Let's go actually take

1287
01:07:36,320 --> 01:07:40,440
Speaker 1: awake some advice, let make it have it Okay. So

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01:07:40,920 --> 01:07:46,920
Speaker 1: for me, chemistry can only get better. It's it's all

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01:07:46,960 --> 01:07:49,960
Speaker 1: there initially. But for me, I can get really nervous.

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01:07:50,080 --> 01:07:52,720
Speaker 1: So sometimes I do need to form a friendship first,

1291
01:07:53,440 --> 01:07:55,040
Speaker 1: um or I need to just spend a little bit

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01:07:55,120 --> 01:07:58,280
Speaker 1: extra time with him before he can see the real me. UM.

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01:07:58,560 --> 01:08:02,520
Speaker 1: But I death really think if you've been on, you've

1294
01:08:02,560 --> 01:08:06,520
Speaker 1: been with him for about three weeks. I think at

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01:08:06,560 --> 01:08:12,400
Speaker 1: this point you're probably at the you're at You're at

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01:08:12,440 --> 01:08:15,840
Speaker 1: the decision point. So if you're only feeling sixty five

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01:08:16,360 --> 01:08:20,400
Speaker 1: chemistry at this point, I'm gonna say give it one

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01:08:20,479 --> 01:08:25,919
Speaker 1: more date to really make sure that you feel secure

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01:08:26,080 --> 01:08:29,679
Speaker 1: in making the breakup decision, because if you're just feeling

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01:08:30,120 --> 01:08:32,559
Speaker 1: mad right now, I don't think it's going to get

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01:08:32,680 --> 01:08:36,679
Speaker 1: much better after this. I mean, I think I think

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01:08:37,080 --> 01:08:42,600
Speaker 1: there's a difference between friends becoming lovers and you know,

1303
01:08:43,080 --> 01:08:46,640
Speaker 1: your relationship evolving over time. But I think even with

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01:08:46,720 --> 01:08:49,439
Speaker 1: those people who started out as friends and it evolved

1305
01:08:49,439 --> 01:08:52,280
Speaker 1: into more, they had a sort they had a chemistry

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01:08:52,520 --> 01:08:56,960
Speaker 1: in the beginning. It sounds like you're not mentally you

1307
01:08:57,080 --> 01:08:59,200
Speaker 1: say that you have a you say, you go, you go,

1308
01:08:59,439 --> 01:09:04,639
Speaker 1: we have sub mentally you click and we have some kindustry.

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01:09:05,640 --> 01:09:09,160
Speaker 1: I don't know. I feel like you need to be

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01:09:09,240 --> 01:09:11,960
Speaker 1: pretty sparky at this point if you are not feeling it,

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01:09:12,680 --> 01:09:14,640
Speaker 1: If you're not feeling sparks right now, I don't think

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01:09:14,640 --> 01:09:17,800
Speaker 1: you're ever going to feel sparks. I don't even know.

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01:09:18,160 --> 01:09:23,559
Speaker 1: Mentally we clicked means honestly like that, like emotionally Does

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01:09:23,600 --> 01:09:28,680
Speaker 1: that mean like No, that means mentally like through like

1315
01:09:28,880 --> 01:09:32,240
Speaker 1: what do you call that? H E sp what what

1316
01:09:32,280 --> 01:09:35,080
Speaker 1: do you call it? When you like can connect with Yes, Yeah,

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01:09:35,600 --> 01:09:38,519
Speaker 1: that's when when you're reading each other's minds. Okay, well

1318
01:09:38,520 --> 01:09:42,360
Speaker 1: I don't um. I know actually from my I can

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01:09:42,439 --> 01:09:45,200
Speaker 1: really only speak from experience and from my friends experiences

1320
01:09:45,200 --> 01:09:49,120
Speaker 1: that I've been LSC. I have never been around a

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01:09:49,240 --> 01:09:52,200
Speaker 1: couple who has dated for let's say more than a

1322
01:09:52,280 --> 01:09:56,120
Speaker 1: few weeks and they were questioning the chemistry, or if

1323
01:09:56,160 --> 01:09:58,360
Speaker 1: one of them was questioned the chemistry and that they

1324
01:09:58,479 --> 01:10:01,920
Speaker 1: ended up being together long term. I've never been that

1325
01:10:02,160 --> 01:10:04,160
Speaker 1: drastic of a twitch. If you're like, I'm just not

1326
01:10:04,360 --> 01:10:06,519
Speaker 1: that into him, I'm not really feeing it. I've spent

1327
01:10:06,640 --> 01:10:09,240
Speaker 1: some quality time with the guy. You know, he's great.

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01:10:09,320 --> 01:10:10,920
Speaker 1: He treats me so well. It's not like he's doing

1329
01:10:10,920 --> 01:10:15,000
Speaker 1: anything like wrong. It's just I'm not feeling I'm I

1330
01:10:15,160 --> 01:10:17,400
Speaker 1: have never heard and I think it can't happen. I

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01:10:17,400 --> 01:10:21,120
Speaker 1: would just say, uh, percentages is it's going to not

1332
01:10:21,240 --> 01:10:25,479
Speaker 1: work out? Okay, you guys. I feel like over the

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01:10:25,560 --> 01:10:30,720
Speaker 1: past couple of months, I've been kind of keeping to

1334
01:10:30,840 --> 01:10:33,759
Speaker 1: myself a lot of my experiences because it does affect

1335
01:10:33,800 --> 01:10:35,920
Speaker 1: so many people out there, because like they're part of

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01:10:35,960 --> 01:10:38,680
Speaker 1: the conversation as well. But I'll let you in a

1337
01:10:38,760 --> 01:10:42,160
Speaker 1: little bit here. I remember when I visited Kevin in

1338
01:10:42,320 --> 01:10:45,880
Speaker 1: Canada for the first and only time. Actually I had

1339
01:10:45,920 --> 01:10:48,000
Speaker 1: known him for a month at that point, and I

1340
01:10:48,120 --> 01:10:49,880
Speaker 1: met my sister at the airport because we were going

1341
01:10:49,920 --> 01:10:52,639
Speaker 1: to go down We're going on a vacation right from

1342
01:10:52,760 --> 01:10:55,920
Speaker 1: the Toronto airport, and she's like, how do you feel?

1343
01:10:56,000 --> 01:10:57,800
Speaker 1: And I'm like, I like him. I like him, but

1344
01:10:58,360 --> 01:11:01,920
Speaker 1: it's been four weeks and I don't feel at all

1345
01:11:02,000 --> 01:11:04,479
Speaker 1: like I'm falling in love. Should I feel like I'm

1346
01:11:04,560 --> 01:11:06,439
Speaker 1: falling in love at this point or at least like

1347
01:11:06,680 --> 01:11:09,120
Speaker 1: that I can see a future? And I was like,

1348
01:11:09,160 --> 01:11:11,800
Speaker 1: and I don't know. I think I should feel like

1349
01:11:12,920 --> 01:11:15,519
Speaker 1: falling but I'm not. And I think that that was

1350
01:11:15,560 --> 01:11:16,960
Speaker 1: a point where I knew it wasn't going to be

1351
01:11:17,040 --> 01:11:19,920
Speaker 1: a long term thing. Well as I also don't think

1352
01:11:19,960 --> 01:11:22,720
Speaker 1: you need to put the pressure on yourself to get

1353
01:11:22,760 --> 01:11:24,120
Speaker 1: to a certain spot of a certain times. I think,

1354
01:11:24,160 --> 01:11:26,400
Speaker 1: but don't you think that after a month you should

1355
01:11:26,400 --> 01:11:28,560
Speaker 1: be like I'm feeling head over heels, not just like

1356
01:11:28,680 --> 01:11:32,640
Speaker 1: I like him, I have a crush. Yeah, I mean

1357
01:11:32,680 --> 01:11:34,439
Speaker 1: I do. I think I think the truth is, if

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01:11:34,439 --> 01:11:39,880
Speaker 1: we're to summarize Megan's question right, there is this, Um, Megan,

1359
01:11:40,080 --> 01:11:42,040
Speaker 1: I would say to be concerned. I'm not saying in

1360
01:11:42,160 --> 01:11:44,080
Speaker 1: it right now. I'm not saying this is this is

1361
01:11:44,120 --> 01:11:46,479
Speaker 1: a lost cause, but it would be a major concern

1362
01:11:46,600 --> 01:11:49,040
Speaker 1: for me if you feel this lack of chemistry with

1363
01:11:49,120 --> 01:11:51,519
Speaker 1: this guy after that much time and after that much

1364
01:11:51,560 --> 01:11:54,120
Speaker 1: time together. Um, I think if we're all very honest,

1365
01:11:54,160 --> 01:11:55,400
Speaker 1: and this is one of the hardest things to do

1366
01:11:55,479 --> 01:11:58,160
Speaker 1: in life, is to break up and and and the

1367
01:11:58,280 --> 01:12:02,040
Speaker 1: split and saying goodbye to some it just not even

1368
01:12:02,080 --> 01:12:03,920
Speaker 1: to break up for them. They've only been together for

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01:12:04,000 --> 01:12:06,560
Speaker 1: three weeks, and I think it's easier if you're not

1370
01:12:06,640 --> 01:12:08,640
Speaker 1: feeling it to just break it off now, especially for

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01:12:08,760 --> 01:12:13,760
Speaker 1: thirty Like why continue to prolong it? Yeah, I just

1372
01:12:14,400 --> 01:12:16,360
Speaker 1: just know that that the percentages are probably not on

1373
01:12:16,400 --> 01:12:18,960
Speaker 1: your side, and that actually I both agree at some

1374
01:12:19,120 --> 01:12:22,200
Speaker 1: point this will end, and it just matters when. Um,

1375
01:12:22,680 --> 01:12:24,840
Speaker 1: you aren't going to be getting married being into this

1376
01:12:24,960 --> 01:12:28,559
Speaker 1: guy at least I wouldn't assume so. But if you were,

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01:12:29,720 --> 01:12:34,160
Speaker 1: actually you could do Oh my gosh, she could do Zola.

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Speaker 1: I will use Zola Right now where it's all about.

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Speaker 1: Our listeners are engaged listeners out there. I I get it.

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Speaker 1: Um hey and and speaking of that. I do want

1414
01:14:54,840 --> 01:14:59,280
Speaker 1: to close this whole Megan email. Um, we're just saying, Megan,

1415
01:15:00,080 --> 01:15:03,439
Speaker 1: keep pursuing data. I know this is probably a frustrating situation.

1416
01:15:03,600 --> 01:15:06,160
Speaker 1: I know you probably feel like you're doing something wrong

1417
01:15:06,240 --> 01:15:09,920
Speaker 1: and you can't necessarily point to what he's doing wrong. Uh,

1418
01:15:10,040 --> 01:15:13,639
Speaker 1: that's a terrible that that limbo and that that lack

1419
01:15:13,720 --> 01:15:16,719
Speaker 1: of clarity stage in life. That it's such a hard

1420
01:15:16,920 --> 01:15:20,080
Speaker 1: stage to live in. And and but you're not alone

1421
01:15:20,200 --> 01:15:24,040
Speaker 1: in it. We're all going through We've all gone through it. Um.

1422
01:15:24,680 --> 01:15:27,880
Speaker 1: Just just know that whatever you're feeling right now and

1423
01:15:28,120 --> 01:15:31,080
Speaker 1: in your dating world, somebody else has felt that way before.

1424
01:15:31,120 --> 01:15:33,760
Speaker 1: You're not crazy, You're not doing anything wrong. You're not

1425
01:15:33,880 --> 01:15:38,040
Speaker 1: a bad person. Breakups they're terrible, they're hard, Um, but

1426
01:15:38,120 --> 01:15:40,160
Speaker 1: they need to happen sometimes it's the best thing for

1427
01:15:40,240 --> 01:15:44,360
Speaker 1: both parties. I gotta add a little something in there. Hey, Megan, UM,

1428
01:15:44,520 --> 01:15:46,720
Speaker 1: I know that at this stage, at thirty, you're like, oh,

1429
01:15:46,800 --> 01:15:48,640
Speaker 1: I found a guy who treats me nice and I

1430
01:15:48,760 --> 01:15:51,280
Speaker 1: get along well, Like, maybe we should just keep pushing

1431
01:15:51,360 --> 01:15:53,920
Speaker 1: through this and see what happens. But you should never

1432
01:15:54,000 --> 01:15:56,400
Speaker 1: be in a relationship. We were like, I should just

1433
01:15:56,520 --> 01:15:58,720
Speaker 1: push through this and like because he's good to me,

1434
01:15:58,920 --> 01:16:02,760
Speaker 1: and like it's not face like. Um, very well balanced,

1435
01:16:03,160 --> 01:16:06,920
Speaker 1: lovely relationship. But I don't feel any magic. You should

1436
01:16:06,960 --> 01:16:11,439
Speaker 1: always feel magic as Carrie, as Carrie Bradja says, never

1437
01:16:11,720 --> 01:16:16,559
Speaker 1: settle for less than magic. Right, she said, never settle

1438
01:16:16,600 --> 01:16:19,880
Speaker 1: for anything less. Don't ask me I have, I have

1439
01:16:20,000 --> 01:16:23,120
Speaker 1: no idea. You're you're on your own hair. Never settle

1440
01:16:23,200 --> 01:16:26,920
Speaker 1: for anything. I gotta google this than butterflies. Yes, never

1441
01:16:27,000 --> 01:16:30,200
Speaker 1: settle for anything less than butterflies, Megan, that's all you

1442
01:16:30,240 --> 01:16:32,800
Speaker 1: have to keep reminding yourself up. Alright, it's time for

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Speaker 1: your favorite segment. My favorite segment. It's new. It's called

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Speaker 1: Ben Bitches, Ben, what do you get a bitch about today?

1445
01:16:40,720 --> 01:16:46,200
Speaker 1: It's absolutely unbelievable this topic. To me. I don't understand

1446
01:16:47,600 --> 01:16:51,559
Speaker 1: how this continues to happen time after time after time.

1447
01:16:52,160 --> 01:16:55,000
Speaker 1: I'm gonna call this little segment for me. Stand in

1448
01:16:55,120 --> 01:16:59,519
Speaker 1: line and wait your turn. I fly a lot. I

1449
01:16:59,640 --> 01:17:02,680
Speaker 1: fly all the time, and my biggest setive on these

1450
01:17:02,760 --> 01:17:05,920
Speaker 1: planes is that I'm sitting in my seat patiently waiting.

1451
01:17:05,960 --> 01:17:10,840
Speaker 1: Nobody's comfortable. This is a plane, it's literally a plane.

1452
01:17:10,920 --> 01:17:13,479
Speaker 1: Nobody wants to be there. We're all gonna have to

1453
01:17:13,520 --> 01:17:16,800
Speaker 1: get off at some point. At most, the difference from

1454
01:17:16,800 --> 01:17:18,519
Speaker 1: the first person getting off the plane to the last

1455
01:17:18,560 --> 01:17:21,479
Speaker 1: person getting off the plane it's ten minutes. But for

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01:17:21,680 --> 01:17:26,160
Speaker 1: some reason, every time there's the person behind me that

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01:17:26,280 --> 01:17:29,040
Speaker 1: feels like it is their right to walk in the

1458
01:17:29,120 --> 01:17:32,439
Speaker 1: aisle and stand there at my feet as I try

1459
01:17:32,479 --> 01:17:35,479
Speaker 1: to get off. There's an order here. There's an order

1460
01:17:35,520 --> 01:17:39,680
Speaker 1: in life. Lines were created for order. So if there

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01:17:39,800 --> 01:17:43,760
Speaker 1: is an order, there's a set way the process to

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01:17:43,840 --> 01:17:46,639
Speaker 1: a line, especially on a plane where there's no place

1463
01:17:46,720 --> 01:17:48,680
Speaker 1: to go. I can't even brought in front of you

1464
01:17:48,760 --> 01:17:52,720
Speaker 1: because you're already standing there. Wait until the person in

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01:17:52,800 --> 01:17:55,759
Speaker 1: front of you leave their seats, stands in the aisle,

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01:17:56,280 --> 01:18:01,200
Speaker 1: grab their bags, walks forward until you take those steps

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Speaker 1: that location. It's the same thing in life. Let's look

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01:18:04,360 --> 01:18:07,160
Speaker 1: at this in a figure picture. Okay, we all got

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01:18:07,240 --> 01:18:08,880
Speaker 1: a role to play, we've all got a purpose to

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01:18:08,960 --> 01:18:13,200
Speaker 1: be had, we're all pursuing something. Okay, But there's gonna

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Speaker 1: be those times that you have to stand in line

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Speaker 1: because you don't know what that line is gonna bring.

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Speaker 1: That line might mean you wait a few extra months

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Speaker 1: to pursue that opportunity because it's just right and it

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Speaker 1: fits you well. Being in a hurry doesn't exactly progress

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Speaker 1: you forward. It just makes you rush through the moments

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Speaker 1: that we may never remember, may never have. Take time

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Speaker 1: to invest your relationships. Stand in that line, look around, you,

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Speaker 1: take a deep breath, and when it comes to a

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Speaker 1: plane and you're sitting next to me, wait your turn.

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Speaker 1: Then are you a minister? Ben bitches is now becoming

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Speaker 1: a ministry because he's got a message to his bitching.

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Speaker 1: Oh my goodness, hey Ben, Yeah, I do find that

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Speaker 1: airports are the place in the world where people are

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Speaker 1: their most oblivious. They really have no idea who's in

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Speaker 1: front of them, are behind them at that point. It's

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Speaker 1: the time is all in their own head. They're not

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Speaker 1: realizing that like there's somebody struggling behind them, or that

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Speaker 1: somebody has I don't know, maybe I'm I'm contradicting you,

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Speaker 1: but what if somebody has connecting flights to catch and

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Speaker 1: they do have to be like I gotta go, I

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01:19:25,479 --> 01:19:28,920
Speaker 1: gotta go. Then what when you ask nicely say hey,

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01:19:28,960 --> 01:19:31,840
Speaker 1: I'm in a hurry, do you mind if I take

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01:19:31,920 --> 01:19:34,800
Speaker 1: your play in this line so it's understood that you

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01:19:34,960 --> 01:19:38,160
Speaker 1: are taking the place mine and I'm able to tell

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Speaker 1: you communicate with you. Yes, that is okay. Or maybe

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Speaker 1: it is not okay because maybe I have its neckting

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Speaker 1: fight as well, and I just might be a little

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Speaker 1: more patient. Actually, you're right, airports are crazy place. I

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Speaker 1: cannot imagine four years ago or three years ago, if

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Speaker 1: I would have seen saw Astley I can Eddie walking airport,

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Speaker 1: I would have flipped out. I would have recognized that. Um. Actually,

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Speaker 1: it is a pleasure talking to you every week. I'm

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Speaker 1: not kidding here. I want to close this podcast by

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Speaker 1: saying to all of our listeners out there, thank you

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Speaker 1: for listening. Make sure you emails that be in Actually

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Speaker 1: I heeart meaty dot com. This is season five, episode

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Speaker 1: two of the Almost Famous podcast. Actually five seasons of

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Speaker 1: this podcast. Congratulations to you, gradulations to you. Hey, thank

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Speaker 1: you so much. Uh, We're gonna have a lot of

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Speaker 1: fun with this. I gotta get out of here though,

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Speaker 1: because actually my dad and I are heading the Masters.

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Speaker 1: I'm so jealous. I couldn't do it for my dad,

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Speaker 1: but I got lots of people saying that next year

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Speaker 1: they can hook my dad up with tickets. So this

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Speaker 1: year it's yer year. Next year it's ours and I

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Speaker 1: am so happy for you and your dad. It's gonna

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Speaker 1: be such an amazing father daughter father daughter experience. Sorry,

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Speaker 1: I'm just used to say mother that our wolves. I mean,

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Speaker 1: is there anything more specially you can do with your dad? No?

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Speaker 1: This is this is a murray that will last me

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Speaker 1: a lifetime. I cannot wait to see this mole on

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Speaker 1: my dad's faces, an office mole on mine as we

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Speaker 1: walked the course from looks for us on tv UM

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Speaker 1: and also make sure you tune in next week It's

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Speaker 1: Almost Famous podcast with that I've Been Been and I've

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Speaker 1: Been Ashley. You can email us at Ben and Ashley

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