1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:02,480 Speaker 1: A text eight five five five nine one three five 2 00:00:02,480 --> 00:00:06,680 Speaker 1: Fred my sister, who is a huge Fred show supporter. Okay, 3 00:00:07,040 --> 00:00:09,159 Speaker 1: so that I feel like we're running for office or 4 00:00:09,160 --> 00:00:11,560 Speaker 1: something like we're probably if you're a big supporter of 5 00:00:11,600 --> 00:00:15,240 Speaker 1: the show, like we're running for mayor or something collectively, 6 00:00:15,640 --> 00:00:18,680 Speaker 1: which that would be just a disaster. I think we'd win, Honestly, 7 00:00:18,720 --> 00:00:20,520 Speaker 1: I think we could easily win. But can you imagine 8 00:00:20,520 --> 00:00:22,360 Speaker 1: if all of us had to come together to make 9 00:00:22,400 --> 00:00:26,920 Speaker 1: every decision collectively, no one of us can run and win. 10 00:00:27,000 --> 00:00:29,520 Speaker 1: And I think it's probably Paulina. Yes, I'll tell you what. 11 00:00:29,600 --> 00:00:32,320 Speaker 1: You can be the older men, the city council woman, 12 00:00:32,479 --> 00:00:34,760 Speaker 1: and then I'll be the mayor, and then we'll we'll 13 00:00:34,840 --> 00:00:36,240 Speaker 1: attempt to work together on things. 14 00:00:36,440 --> 00:00:37,400 Speaker 2: That's gonna be a tough job. 15 00:00:37,560 --> 00:00:38,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, of us. 16 00:00:38,120 --> 00:00:40,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's the worst job ever. I have zero I 17 00:00:40,960 --> 00:00:44,240 Speaker 1: believe I could win, Actually I do. Sorry, Sorry, Mayor Johnson. 18 00:00:44,240 --> 00:00:46,040 Speaker 1: I believe I could be the mayor of I believe 19 00:00:46,040 --> 00:00:46,520 Speaker 1: I could win. 20 00:00:46,760 --> 00:00:49,160 Speaker 3: Wow, I think I had the name recognition. 21 00:00:49,720 --> 00:00:50,600 Speaker 2: Yes, of course you do. 22 00:00:50,680 --> 00:00:52,559 Speaker 1: I think in New City, all you have to do 23 00:00:52,640 --> 00:00:54,160 Speaker 1: is get you don't You only have to win the 24 00:00:54,200 --> 00:00:55,800 Speaker 1: runoff of the runoff of the runoff. So I think 25 00:00:55,840 --> 00:00:58,680 Speaker 1: the name recognition alone would I'd have to quit my job. Yeah, 26 00:00:58,680 --> 00:01:01,240 Speaker 1: I don't do that, but I I think enough people 27 00:01:01,280 --> 00:01:03,480 Speaker 1: would see on the ballot and be like this guy, 28 00:01:03,920 --> 00:01:06,040 Speaker 1: you know, may and then maybe it's possible. 29 00:01:06,200 --> 00:01:07,959 Speaker 3: I would never do it. I don't want to do it. 30 00:01:08,160 --> 00:01:10,160 Speaker 1: And by the way, that's not because I'm qualified, because 31 00:01:10,160 --> 00:01:12,120 Speaker 1: i'd be a good editor, because I should. I just 32 00:01:12,120 --> 00:01:14,720 Speaker 1: think that, you know, you know, we talk enough and 33 00:01:14,760 --> 00:01:17,080 Speaker 1: we say fred enough. I think I could probably, I 34 00:01:17,080 --> 00:01:20,600 Speaker 1: think I could win. I think I really could. Yeah, no, 35 00:01:20,720 --> 00:01:23,600 Speaker 1: I'm not knowing. I shouldn't. It's a terrible job. Being 36 00:01:23,600 --> 00:01:25,679 Speaker 1: a politician is an awful job. But but that's none 37 00:01:25,720 --> 00:01:28,520 Speaker 1: of this matter, because we could change be the change 38 00:01:28,520 --> 00:01:30,880 Speaker 1: you want to see. Oh that's beautiful. 39 00:01:31,720 --> 00:01:32,320 Speaker 3: It doesn't matter. 40 00:01:32,400 --> 00:01:34,120 Speaker 1: Like you you have to pick a party and then 41 00:01:34,160 --> 00:01:36,760 Speaker 1: you know I'm I'm and then immediately I'm headed by 42 00:01:36,800 --> 00:01:39,200 Speaker 1: half of the people. The only way I would do 43 00:01:39,240 --> 00:01:41,120 Speaker 1: it is I could start my own party of like 44 00:01:41,240 --> 00:01:44,520 Speaker 1: people that makes like the people that make sense. It'd 45 00:01:44,520 --> 00:01:46,560 Speaker 1: be the people that make sense party. It would be 46 00:01:46,600 --> 00:01:48,920 Speaker 1: like reasonably be the reasonable people party. It would be 47 00:01:48,960 --> 00:01:50,840 Speaker 1: can we just be reasonable? That's all I'm asking for. 48 00:01:50,920 --> 00:01:53,280 Speaker 1: Can we just can you? Can you stop being a 49 00:01:53,400 --> 00:01:56,400 Speaker 1: holes on both sides and just be reasonable party the 50 00:01:56,520 --> 00:01:57,720 Speaker 1: non a whole party. 51 00:01:57,960 --> 00:01:59,840 Speaker 3: That would be yeah, exactly that. 52 00:02:00,080 --> 00:02:03,160 Speaker 1: None of this matters though, because the text says, my 53 00:02:03,280 --> 00:02:05,840 Speaker 1: sister is a huge Fred Show supporter, is having a 54 00:02:05,840 --> 00:02:08,799 Speaker 1: baby today. She's being induced this morning and could use 55 00:02:09,280 --> 00:02:10,880 Speaker 1: your motivational vibes. 56 00:02:11,040 --> 00:02:12,800 Speaker 3: Can you shout around? Her name is Jackie? 57 00:02:13,080 --> 00:02:16,760 Speaker 1: You want you want us to motivate you as you 58 00:02:16,800 --> 00:02:21,520 Speaker 1: go into the room and they and they make the 59 00:02:21,560 --> 00:02:23,920 Speaker 1: baby come out of you, and you you want us 60 00:02:23,919 --> 00:02:24,320 Speaker 1: to mote it. 61 00:02:24,280 --> 00:02:26,799 Speaker 3: Because they're inducing for Jason. Yeah, I know that. Yeah, 62 00:02:27,040 --> 00:02:27,480 Speaker 3: and I know that. 63 00:02:27,600 --> 00:02:29,160 Speaker 2: It's just a yeah, you see. 64 00:02:29,080 --> 00:02:31,000 Speaker 3: You see what you're puzzled on your face? 65 00:02:31,080 --> 00:02:33,400 Speaker 4: Was a gracious hit me because that's exactly what happens. 66 00:02:33,480 --> 00:02:35,440 Speaker 3: I just yeah, makes the baby come out of you. 67 00:02:36,120 --> 00:02:37,440 Speaker 3: That's that's what an induction is. 68 00:02:37,520 --> 00:02:39,240 Speaker 4: Yeah, no, I does what happens. 69 00:02:39,240 --> 00:02:41,080 Speaker 3: But that's just a startling phrase to me. 70 00:02:41,200 --> 00:02:41,680 Speaker 5: I don't know. 71 00:02:42,000 --> 00:02:47,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, they're gonna give her potosin baby come out there, 72 00:02:48,200 --> 00:02:50,320 Speaker 1: and then the baby comes out. It could be it 73 00:02:50,360 --> 00:02:52,080 Speaker 1: could be an hour, it could be nineteen hours. 74 00:02:52,080 --> 00:02:54,359 Speaker 2: When you see doctor Mike walk in with that cape. 75 00:02:54,120 --> 00:02:55,880 Speaker 6: But Harry Potter cape and he's ready to go with 76 00:02:55,880 --> 00:02:56,760 Speaker 6: the gloves hes. 77 00:02:56,840 --> 00:02:58,919 Speaker 5: Yeah, he was a cape and he says, baby's coming 78 00:02:59,000 --> 00:02:59,320 Speaker 5: right now. 79 00:02:59,400 --> 00:03:01,200 Speaker 1: Also, he doesn't with the gloves on until it's time. 80 00:03:01,320 --> 00:03:03,440 Speaker 1: Oh no, it's go time. When the gloves come on. 81 00:03:03,600 --> 00:03:06,000 Speaker 1: You't even see him until it's go time. This smoke, yeah, 82 00:03:07,639 --> 00:03:12,320 Speaker 1: and this music and then this music you know plays Hello, ideas. 83 00:03:12,960 --> 00:03:19,240 Speaker 1: You can do this, Jackie, you can do this girl. Yeah, 84 00:03:19,320 --> 00:03:21,600 Speaker 1: it's not gonna take a long time. It's not gonna 85 00:03:21,600 --> 00:03:23,200 Speaker 1: take it a long t It's not gonna hurt at all. 86 00:03:25,639 --> 00:03:29,119 Speaker 1: And everything's gonna look normal in three to six months afterwards, 87 00:03:29,120 --> 00:03:29,680 Speaker 1: gonna look like. 88 00:03:29,600 --> 00:03:30,239 Speaker 3: It did before. 89 00:03:31,080 --> 00:03:35,440 Speaker 1: It's gonna look totally norm right, even it might even 90 00:03:35,480 --> 00:03:39,520 Speaker 1: look better better, right right, I know that's right. 91 00:03:39,520 --> 00:03:41,240 Speaker 3: You're the only one has had a baby and I 92 00:03:41,280 --> 00:03:41,800 Speaker 3: get tested. 93 00:03:41,880 --> 00:03:44,520 Speaker 2: That's true. Never looked better, It never looks better. 94 00:03:45,240 --> 00:03:46,720 Speaker 3: How long does it take to go back to normal? 95 00:03:46,800 --> 00:03:47,560 Speaker 3: Three to six months? 96 00:03:47,600 --> 00:03:52,280 Speaker 7: You know, ask your professional for that girl, that's your obi. 97 00:03:53,200 --> 00:03:54,080 Speaker 3: Everybody's different. 98 00:03:54,280 --> 00:03:56,800 Speaker 1: I've never gotten to the end of the Alan Parsons project. 99 00:03:56,960 --> 00:03:59,480 Speaker 1: Eye in the Sky, but we get down with the guitar, 100 00:03:59,640 --> 00:04:03,040 Speaker 1: don't we No, Because normally Michael Jordan's been introduced by now. 101 00:04:03,160 --> 00:04:06,040 Speaker 1: They're already playing the games. Scottie Pippens, Dennis Robbins already 102 00:04:06,040 --> 00:04:07,040 Speaker 1: out there, we're already doing him. 103 00:04:07,160 --> 00:04:07,400 Speaker 6: All right. 104 00:04:07,480 --> 00:04:10,760 Speaker 1: You got this, Okay, Jackie, you got this? Yes, everything 105 00:04:10,840 --> 00:04:14,200 Speaker 1: look great. Everything's gonna be great. Baby's gonna be healthy. Notice, 106 00:04:14,200 --> 00:04:16,000 Speaker 1: I'd go right to what the huhas gonna look like 107 00:04:16,040 --> 00:04:17,480 Speaker 1: in three to six months, That's right. 108 00:04:18,320 --> 00:04:19,120 Speaker 3: I assume that. 109 00:04:19,080 --> 00:04:22,000 Speaker 1: The baby's going to be perfectly outfread show is course 110 00:04:22,360 --> 00:04:25,000 Speaker 1: friends the biggest stories of the day. I hope that 111 00:04:25,040 --> 00:04:28,120 Speaker 1: you are so fired up now as a friend show supporter, yep, 112 00:04:30,200 --> 00:04:32,080 Speaker 1: that'd be the song on stage I would use when 113 00:04:32,120 --> 00:04:33,520 Speaker 1: I was on stage, you know when. 114 00:04:33,400 --> 00:04:35,680 Speaker 3: They bring me out every time. 115 00:04:36,520 --> 00:04:38,680 Speaker 1: And then of course Alan Parsons Project would say they 116 00:04:38,680 --> 00:04:40,200 Speaker 1: would like send me a season assists to be like, 117 00:04:40,240 --> 00:04:43,960 Speaker 1: we don't agree with you, you reasonable person. Party, you know, 118 00:04:44,080 --> 00:04:47,960 Speaker 1: a whole party, you know, going to Facebook and bitching party. 119 00:04:48,160 --> 00:04:48,960 Speaker 3: That's what I would be. 120 00:04:49,400 --> 00:04:52,800 Speaker 1: I'd be the no Facebook having party. 121 00:04:52,880 --> 00:04:54,400 Speaker 3: Yeah No. 122 00:04:54,480 --> 00:04:58,239 Speaker 1: I made actually a city council a city councilman friend 123 00:04:58,279 --> 00:05:00,240 Speaker 1: of mine. I made him very angry by I don't 124 00:05:00,240 --> 00:05:02,320 Speaker 1: really believe this. I was just talking, but I told 125 00:05:02,400 --> 00:05:04,320 Speaker 1: him I think I could win the mayor RaSE. 126 00:05:05,839 --> 00:05:09,039 Speaker 3: He got so mad. Oh no, no, you wouldn't know the 127 00:05:09,080 --> 00:05:11,960 Speaker 3: first thing. You don't know anything you could know. 128 00:05:12,720 --> 00:05:15,080 Speaker 1: I'm like, he was just mad because I mean, you know, 129 00:05:16,040 --> 00:05:17,560 Speaker 1: I think there are people that would be dumb enough 130 00:05:17,600 --> 00:05:19,880 Speaker 1: to see a name they know and go oker, you know, 131 00:05:19,960 --> 00:05:23,719 Speaker 1: and yeah, that's what I'm saying. That's what I mean. 132 00:05:23,920 --> 00:05:25,200 Speaker 4: So I feel like it's kind of a learn on 133 00:05:25,240 --> 00:05:27,120 Speaker 4: the job sort of thing, like you don't get like 134 00:05:27,200 --> 00:05:28,080 Speaker 4: trained to be mad. 135 00:05:28,279 --> 00:05:31,240 Speaker 1: Clearly not clearly he's seen you know, we're still learning 136 00:05:31,279 --> 00:05:33,400 Speaker 1: in some cases. Yeah that's fat and we may never 137 00:05:33,520 --> 00:05:36,680 Speaker 1: learn in other cases. It depends where you are. But no, yeah, no, 138 00:05:36,760 --> 00:05:38,480 Speaker 1: I think. But he was so mad at me. Oh 139 00:05:38,560 --> 00:05:40,719 Speaker 1: you think you think? No, I don't, Actually I don't. 140 00:05:40,760 --> 00:05:43,080 Speaker 1: I am not qualified. Nobody should vote for me. I 141 00:05:43,120 --> 00:05:45,200 Speaker 1: don't know what I'm doing, but I just think that 142 00:05:45,240 --> 00:05:47,640 Speaker 1: there are enough people out there who might recognize the 143 00:05:47,720 --> 00:05:51,920 Speaker 1: name to go, really that guy, okay, and then boom 144 00:05:52,320 --> 00:05:54,680 Speaker 1: and then I have to do it for what three 145 00:05:54,680 --> 00:05:56,000 Speaker 1: to six years or however long you have to do 146 00:05:56,080 --> 00:05:57,280 Speaker 1: it for I don't even know how long the job 147 00:05:57,480 --> 00:06:01,080 Speaker 1: I guess anyway, No, it's not happening all right, headlines 148 00:06:01,120 --> 00:06:03,200 Speaker 1: biggest stories today. I hope that was uh. I hope 149 00:06:03,200 --> 00:06:05,839 Speaker 1: that was what you were looking for. Jackie's sister. I 150 00:06:05,839 --> 00:06:07,760 Speaker 1: hope that was the kind of inspiration that you needed 151 00:06:07,800 --> 00:06:08,560 Speaker 1: to go into the day. 152 00:06:08,720 --> 00:06:10,479 Speaker 2: She wanted you to talk about her. Hu huh. 153 00:06:10,520 --> 00:06:13,960 Speaker 1: She did well, and then I was successful. Yeah, I did. 154 00:06:14,520 --> 00:06:15,839 Speaker 1: I always deliver, kidd me. 155 00:06:16,320 --> 00:06:16,680 Speaker 3: I'll tell you. 156 00:06:16,760 --> 00:06:20,360 Speaker 1: What's weird though, is that I have friends who have 157 00:06:20,480 --> 00:06:22,680 Speaker 1: like ten year olds and we've done this for them 158 00:06:23,000 --> 00:06:25,040 Speaker 1: when they were walking around the hospital trying to get 159 00:06:25,040 --> 00:06:27,640 Speaker 1: the baby to fall out, and now the kid is 160 00:06:27,680 --> 00:06:30,440 Speaker 1: like going to high school, and it's like, remember, hey, 161 00:06:30,440 --> 00:06:32,520 Speaker 1: you're Fred, uncle Fred. Remember when you talked about me 162 00:06:32,560 --> 00:06:36,960 Speaker 1: when I was like, oh god, Like you're a grown 163 00:06:37,080 --> 00:06:39,839 Speaker 1: you're a grown woman. Like we've been doing this that long. 164 00:06:40,240 --> 00:06:42,480 Speaker 1: I mean it's a good thing, right, Like say, that's 165 00:06:42,480 --> 00:06:45,039 Speaker 1: what you want. Like when you get into the radio business, 166 00:06:45,080 --> 00:06:46,839 Speaker 1: you know, the media business, you want to hang around 167 00:06:46,839 --> 00:06:48,480 Speaker 1: for a long time. But then you realize, like, man, 168 00:06:48,520 --> 00:06:52,120 Speaker 1: it's been a long time. Yeah, oh boy, Jimmy Kimmel's 169 00:06:52,160 --> 00:06:54,760 Speaker 1: back guys, which it didn't take long. I kind of 170 00:06:54,760 --> 00:06:57,400 Speaker 1: saw this coming, But Jimmy Kimmel said to return to 171 00:06:57,480 --> 00:07:01,160 Speaker 1: ABC tonight after being suspended from making controversial comments about 172 00:07:01,160 --> 00:07:05,479 Speaker 1: conservative activist Charlie Kirk's death. Kimmel had falsely claimed that 173 00:07:05,560 --> 00:07:08,719 Speaker 1: Kirk's alleged killer was associated with the MAGA movement, despite 174 00:07:08,720 --> 00:07:12,800 Speaker 1: authorities clarifying that the suspect may have had left wing views. 175 00:07:12,800 --> 00:07:14,840 Speaker 1: At least that's the way that some people characterize what 176 00:07:14,920 --> 00:07:18,160 Speaker 1: happened here. In response to ABC temporarily pulled Jimmy Kimmelive 177 00:07:18,160 --> 00:07:20,800 Speaker 1: from the air, replacing it with other programming, Kimmel has 178 00:07:20,840 --> 00:07:24,120 Speaker 1: negotiated his return, but will refuse, has refused and will 179 00:07:24,120 --> 00:07:27,960 Speaker 1: not apologize for his remarks. There are still thirty eight 180 00:07:28,000 --> 00:07:31,400 Speaker 1: ABC affiliates owned by Sinclair Broadcast Group that have announced 181 00:07:31,440 --> 00:07:33,880 Speaker 1: they will not air the upcoming episode, citing the need 182 00:07:33,920 --> 00:07:37,520 Speaker 1: for an apology and a donation to Turning Point USA, 183 00:07:37,920 --> 00:07:42,960 Speaker 1: the organization founded by Kirk. So he's back tonight, and 184 00:07:43,000 --> 00:07:45,000 Speaker 1: I had a feeling this would happen, to be honest 185 00:07:45,040 --> 00:07:49,920 Speaker 1: with you, because I don't think it was necessarily the 186 00:07:49,960 --> 00:07:55,280 Speaker 1: best look for ABC and Disney to say, Okay, we're 187 00:07:55,280 --> 00:07:58,920 Speaker 1: going to be influenced here, potentially influenced by the government. Now, 188 00:07:58,920 --> 00:08:02,320 Speaker 1: if they had said we don't like what you said, 189 00:08:02,440 --> 00:08:04,440 Speaker 1: you're an employee of ours. We don't like what you said, 190 00:08:04,480 --> 00:08:07,560 Speaker 1: We're going to fire you. Now, that's bad for people. 191 00:08:07,680 --> 00:08:09,360 Speaker 1: And by the way, I'm coming from the perspective of 192 00:08:09,400 --> 00:08:11,480 Speaker 1: someone who talks for money for a company, right, like, 193 00:08:11,520 --> 00:08:16,160 Speaker 1: we don't own this place. I've learned this year. A 194 00:08:16,200 --> 00:08:17,800 Speaker 1: lot of people think a lot of people think I 195 00:08:17,840 --> 00:08:19,360 Speaker 1: own the place. A lot of people think I own 196 00:08:19,440 --> 00:08:21,040 Speaker 1: the show. A lot of people think I write the checks. 197 00:08:21,040 --> 00:08:22,400 Speaker 1: A lot of people think I have any power to 198 00:08:22,440 --> 00:08:24,000 Speaker 1: make any executive decision around here. 199 00:08:24,120 --> 00:08:26,040 Speaker 3: I have none of that. I do none of that. 200 00:08:26,360 --> 00:08:29,240 Speaker 1: I have an employee, just like everybody else in this room. 201 00:08:29,360 --> 00:08:31,840 Speaker 1: That being said, it's a scary thing if you're in 202 00:08:31,880 --> 00:08:35,120 Speaker 1: the broadcasting world to think that I could share my 203 00:08:35,200 --> 00:08:39,000 Speaker 1: opinion short of alienating an advertiser or the company, or 204 00:08:39,040 --> 00:08:41,800 Speaker 1: saying something hateful or spiteful or inaccurate. It's just my 205 00:08:41,880 --> 00:08:44,720 Speaker 1: opinion about something, especially in a comedic sense. It's almost 206 00:08:44,720 --> 00:08:50,040 Speaker 1: scary to think that, you know that some government influence 207 00:08:50,040 --> 00:08:51,800 Speaker 1: could say we don't like that he said that, fire him. 208 00:08:52,120 --> 00:08:53,720 Speaker 3: And then we get fired. Like that's not great. 209 00:08:53,760 --> 00:08:56,559 Speaker 1: Now the company deemed that what I said was inappropriate, well, 210 00:08:56,559 --> 00:08:58,960 Speaker 1: then I guess they can fire me, and that sucks. 211 00:08:58,960 --> 00:09:00,480 Speaker 1: But I signed a contract that we all sign a 212 00:09:00,480 --> 00:09:01,760 Speaker 1: contract that says that they can do that. 213 00:09:01,960 --> 00:09:02,560 Speaker 3: And it's a shame. 214 00:09:02,720 --> 00:09:04,920 Speaker 1: But I guess for me, it's just how about we 215 00:09:05,000 --> 00:09:07,320 Speaker 1: let the viewers and the listeners decide whether you think 216 00:09:07,360 --> 00:09:09,800 Speaker 1: that the thing that was said was inappropriate, Like, hey, 217 00:09:09,960 --> 00:09:11,960 Speaker 1: you might be listening now and saying what Jimmy Kimmel 218 00:09:11,960 --> 00:09:13,680 Speaker 1: said was abhorrent. He never should have said that. It 219 00:09:13,679 --> 00:09:16,040 Speaker 1: wasn't funny and it was inaccurate. Well then don't watch. 220 00:09:16,160 --> 00:09:18,840 Speaker 1: Then don't watch ever again, you know. And by the way, 221 00:09:18,840 --> 00:09:20,959 Speaker 1: this is not a new thought from me. You know, people, 222 00:09:20,960 --> 00:09:22,760 Speaker 1: every now and again, we'll come. We'll text up your eye, 223 00:09:22,800 --> 00:09:24,960 Speaker 1: you know, like Fred sucks and you know so and 224 00:09:25,000 --> 00:09:27,960 Speaker 1: so sucks and these comments. Okay, well, I'm sorry that 225 00:09:27,960 --> 00:09:30,320 Speaker 1: you feel that way. That's not our intent, but you know, hey, 226 00:09:30,440 --> 00:09:32,240 Speaker 1: you can do that all day or if you must. 227 00:09:32,520 --> 00:09:33,920 Speaker 1: And I don't want this, but if you must, and 228 00:09:33,960 --> 00:09:36,160 Speaker 1: don't listen anymore, and then maybe we'll get fired because 229 00:09:36,160 --> 00:09:37,880 Speaker 1: the ratings will be bad. I don't know, like that 230 00:09:38,160 --> 00:09:42,400 Speaker 1: isn't that Ultimately don't we all decide as consumers what 231 00:09:42,440 --> 00:09:44,200 Speaker 1: we're willing to consume and what we're not. So I 232 00:09:44,200 --> 00:09:47,199 Speaker 1: guess I don't know. And it's murky because it depends 233 00:09:47,240 --> 00:09:48,240 Speaker 1: who you ask about this. 234 00:09:48,360 --> 00:09:52,120 Speaker 7: Yeah, the free speech line seem I don't understand the rules. 235 00:09:52,200 --> 00:09:54,160 Speaker 7: It seems like confusing to me. I think a lot 236 00:09:54,200 --> 00:09:56,240 Speaker 7: of people also don't realize that it's not just ABC, 237 00:09:56,360 --> 00:09:58,120 Speaker 7: it's not just Disney and you touched on this, but 238 00:09:58,240 --> 00:10:03,400 Speaker 7: like Sinclair on the smaller markets are running that show, 239 00:10:03,640 --> 00:10:05,640 Speaker 7: and so that's the issue is like they were going 240 00:10:05,679 --> 00:10:08,520 Speaker 7: to lose advertisers, YadA, YadA. So it's not just as 241 00:10:08,520 --> 00:10:10,640 Speaker 7: black as what and white as people thought it was. 242 00:10:11,720 --> 00:10:15,240 Speaker 7: But yeah, I don't understand the guidelines for free speech. 243 00:10:15,400 --> 00:10:17,000 Speaker 2: I'm confused a little bit. Yeah, I need to go 244 00:10:17,040 --> 00:10:17,800 Speaker 2: a playbook or something. 245 00:10:17,840 --> 00:10:20,680 Speaker 1: At this point, Well, this was complicated because they're you 246 00:10:20,720 --> 00:10:24,360 Speaker 1: know again, it's political, right, It depends who you If 247 00:10:24,400 --> 00:10:27,720 Speaker 1: you talk to two people who have two different political viewpoints, 248 00:10:27,720 --> 00:10:31,280 Speaker 1: they'll describe this whole thing to you differently. And you 249 00:10:31,280 --> 00:10:33,840 Speaker 1: know it's well, the government was saying that he needs 250 00:10:33,880 --> 00:10:36,280 Speaker 1: to be fired. Well it did seem like the government 251 00:10:36,440 --> 00:10:38,480 Speaker 1: was you know, FCC was involving them, say hey, we're 252 00:10:38,480 --> 00:10:40,680 Speaker 1: gonna we're gonna eliminate this sort of smut or whatever 253 00:10:40,720 --> 00:10:44,679 Speaker 1: the terminology was from the airwaves. It did seem that way. 254 00:10:44,800 --> 00:10:46,760 Speaker 1: But then on the flip side, it's like, you know, 255 00:10:46,920 --> 00:10:48,800 Speaker 1: but but they don't have the right to do that, 256 00:10:48,840 --> 00:10:49,240 Speaker 1: and I don't. 257 00:10:49,280 --> 00:10:50,600 Speaker 3: I don't think they should, right. 258 00:10:50,679 --> 00:10:53,280 Speaker 1: I think, I think, short of something that's obscene, and 259 00:10:53,400 --> 00:10:55,800 Speaker 1: there are guidelines and regulations about this, but I don't 260 00:10:55,800 --> 00:10:58,080 Speaker 1: necessarily think that, you know, the government should be able 261 00:10:58,080 --> 00:11:00,680 Speaker 1: to come in and start firing shows or or dictating 262 00:11:00,679 --> 00:11:02,520 Speaker 1: who's on the air and who's not. Again, I think 263 00:11:02,559 --> 00:11:05,280 Speaker 1: it should be up to the audience to decide what 264 00:11:05,320 --> 00:11:06,839 Speaker 1: you want to listen to and what you don't. And 265 00:11:07,360 --> 00:11:09,439 Speaker 1: that's not a political it's an a political statement. That's 266 00:11:09,600 --> 00:11:11,679 Speaker 1: I think that's the easiest way to handle this again, 267 00:11:11,800 --> 00:11:16,040 Speaker 1: short of misinformation propagandu you know, there are protections in 268 00:11:16,080 --> 00:11:18,160 Speaker 1: place already for things that we can and can't say, 269 00:11:18,720 --> 00:11:21,440 Speaker 1: So maybe we leave it there exactly, But then you've 270 00:11:21,440 --> 00:11:23,600 Speaker 1: got you know, people saying, well, Disney can firement if 271 00:11:23,640 --> 00:11:25,560 Speaker 1: they want to, they can, and then they could say, well, 272 00:11:25,559 --> 00:11:28,600 Speaker 1: advertisers of advertisers don't like it, and then you can say, well, 273 00:11:28,679 --> 00:11:31,559 Speaker 1: if individual broadcast companies, if they don't want to air 274 00:11:31,559 --> 00:11:32,400 Speaker 1: the show, they don't have to. 275 00:11:32,480 --> 00:11:33,520 Speaker 3: Well they don't. That's true. 276 00:11:33,600 --> 00:11:35,600 Speaker 1: It's just there are a lot of different angles here, 277 00:11:36,280 --> 00:11:39,240 Speaker 1: and it really depends, you know, you know, from what 278 00:11:39,320 --> 00:11:40,760 Speaker 1: perspective you view it. 279 00:11:40,760 --> 00:11:42,440 Speaker 3: It's just for me at the in. 280 00:11:42,640 --> 00:11:46,320 Speaker 1: In summation, in conclusion, as a dude who talks for 281 00:11:46,320 --> 00:11:48,160 Speaker 1: a living, I got a little scared. 282 00:11:49,520 --> 00:11:50,480 Speaker 3: I got a little worried. 283 00:11:50,880 --> 00:11:52,960 Speaker 1: And you know, I don't know, and we don't say 284 00:11:53,040 --> 00:11:54,680 Speaker 1: like crazy things on this show. In fact, like the 285 00:11:54,679 --> 00:11:56,640 Speaker 1: design of the show is not to be that way, 286 00:11:56,880 --> 00:11:59,240 Speaker 1: is to sort of be the antithesis of all of 287 00:11:59,280 --> 00:12:01,960 Speaker 1: that and of all of that because there's so many 288 00:12:01,960 --> 00:12:03,280 Speaker 1: places you can go for the polarity. 289 00:12:03,320 --> 00:12:05,400 Speaker 3: But I don't know, it's just like what are we 290 00:12:05,440 --> 00:12:05,840 Speaker 3: doing here? 291 00:12:05,920 --> 00:12:06,120 Speaker 5: Right? 292 00:12:06,160 --> 00:12:09,640 Speaker 8: And the more you talk, you can't please everybody, and 293 00:12:09,679 --> 00:12:11,800 Speaker 8: we have to be okay with not being pleased. If 294 00:12:11,840 --> 00:12:14,320 Speaker 8: I'm not being pleased somewhere there are other options. 295 00:12:14,240 --> 00:12:17,160 Speaker 1: Right, And you know, again it appears what he said 296 00:12:17,200 --> 00:12:21,000 Speaker 1: may not have been totally accurate, and that's not great. Again, 297 00:12:21,000 --> 00:12:22,440 Speaker 1: and then don't watch the show if you don't like 298 00:12:22,480 --> 00:12:27,280 Speaker 1: it or whatever. I guess I know business, Yeah, because 299 00:12:27,320 --> 00:12:29,000 Speaker 1: you do have power in that. You could just say 300 00:12:29,040 --> 00:12:31,120 Speaker 1: I'm not going to support that anymore and then don't. 301 00:12:31,800 --> 00:12:33,440 Speaker 1: And I'm not saying you shouldn't speak up if you 302 00:12:33,440 --> 00:12:35,160 Speaker 1: think that someone said something you don't agree with. But 303 00:12:35,200 --> 00:12:37,880 Speaker 1: as far as like, we're firing people now and we're 304 00:12:37,920 --> 00:12:40,480 Speaker 1: taking people off the air, and I don't know it 305 00:12:40,720 --> 00:12:41,040 Speaker 1: just needs. 306 00:12:40,960 --> 00:12:42,959 Speaker 7: To stop wanting big changes to happen just because of 307 00:12:43,000 --> 00:12:45,440 Speaker 7: their own personal preferences. I think we all need to 308 00:12:45,480 --> 00:12:48,520 Speaker 7: individually support and not support who we would like to 309 00:12:48,600 --> 00:12:50,080 Speaker 7: and who we would not, and stop trying to have 310 00:12:50,200 --> 00:12:51,040 Speaker 7: others join us. 311 00:12:51,600 --> 00:12:54,360 Speaker 3: The Detroit Lions have defeated the Baltimore Ravens. 312 00:12:55,160 --> 00:12:55,720 Speaker 2: Do hear that? 313 00:12:56,679 --> 00:12:58,840 Speaker 3: Monday night football? Yeah, we're not doing it anymore. 314 00:12:58,880 --> 00:13:01,079 Speaker 1: You're making your own picture now, Okay, even though I 315 00:13:01,120 --> 00:13:02,760 Speaker 1: think you I don't think you would have pick picked it. 316 00:13:02,760 --> 00:13:04,079 Speaker 1: I don't think you would have pickn I don't think 317 00:13:04,080 --> 00:13:05,880 Speaker 1: you would have What's wrong, I was gonna be going 318 00:13:05,920 --> 00:13:08,640 Speaker 1: to be mayor and I'm trying not to get canceled, 319 00:13:08,679 --> 00:13:12,079 Speaker 1: and I'm picking stuff you would have picked the Ravens anyway, 320 00:13:12,120 --> 00:13:13,760 Speaker 1: because you don't pick the Lions for some reason, even 321 00:13:13,760 --> 00:13:14,640 Speaker 1: though your friend's right there. 322 00:13:14,679 --> 00:13:15,360 Speaker 3: No, the only time I. 323 00:13:15,360 --> 00:13:19,400 Speaker 4: Don't pick the Lions is when they're playing the Bears, right, 324 00:13:19,920 --> 00:13:21,360 Speaker 4: and normally picked you tell. 325 00:13:21,200 --> 00:13:24,520 Speaker 1: Me anyway they won and you didn't pick it that 326 00:13:24,559 --> 00:13:26,480 Speaker 1: I don't think like you had the Ravens. 327 00:13:26,280 --> 00:13:28,400 Speaker 7: And she told me, I want them to win for 328 00:13:28,480 --> 00:13:31,600 Speaker 7: you because on a personal level, but I don't think 329 00:13:31,640 --> 00:13:34,080 Speaker 7: that's going to happen, and I have to make the pick. 330 00:13:34,120 --> 00:13:37,480 Speaker 2: That's correct. That's how I feel. 331 00:13:38,120 --> 00:13:40,719 Speaker 3: Take that. Yeah, all right, which is not as good 332 00:13:40,720 --> 00:13:41,280 Speaker 3: as I thought. 333 00:13:43,160 --> 00:13:43,439 Speaker 9: Wow. 334 00:13:44,640 --> 00:13:48,160 Speaker 1: Gabrielle has intensified into a Category four storm, which is 335 00:13:48,200 --> 00:13:52,400 Speaker 1: east of Bermuda. Two more potential tropical systems in near by, 336 00:13:52,400 --> 00:13:55,040 Speaker 1: one year the Caribbean and another further east, could develop 337 00:13:55,120 --> 00:13:57,440 Speaker 1: later this week. The storms are not an immediate threat 338 00:13:57,480 --> 00:14:01,520 Speaker 1: to land, but the area of activity the Leeward Islands 339 00:14:01,520 --> 00:14:03,800 Speaker 1: in Bahamas is the wild card, with the future US 340 00:14:03,880 --> 00:14:06,600 Speaker 1: impact possible if atmospheric conditions align. 341 00:14:06,880 --> 00:14:09,040 Speaker 3: You're a weather guy, Jason, Yes, did it all makes 342 00:14:09,040 --> 00:14:09,360 Speaker 3: sense to you? 343 00:14:09,520 --> 00:14:09,679 Speaker 1: Yeah? 344 00:14:09,720 --> 00:14:11,120 Speaker 3: Atmosphere, you know, we don't want them. 345 00:14:11,480 --> 00:14:14,199 Speaker 1: Forecast indicate that Bermuda could experience rain, gusty winds, and 346 00:14:14,280 --> 00:14:17,160 Speaker 1: large swells from the storm. The hurricane will also generate 347 00:14:17,240 --> 00:14:19,880 Speaker 1: rough seas and dangerous rip currents along much of the 348 00:14:20,040 --> 00:14:23,520 Speaker 1: US East Coast from North Carolina, New England through midweek. 349 00:14:23,640 --> 00:14:27,360 Speaker 1: A teenager is in custody for a twenty twenty three 350 00:14:27,400 --> 00:14:29,920 Speaker 1: cyber attack on MGM resort casinos. And in fact, I 351 00:14:29,960 --> 00:14:32,800 Speaker 1: think we had to go there, weren't we? Yes, the 352 00:14:32,840 --> 00:14:34,760 Speaker 1: festival was right around this time, and it was a 353 00:14:34,760 --> 00:14:35,600 Speaker 1: complete disaster. 354 00:14:35,880 --> 00:14:38,720 Speaker 4: Yeah, like none of the machines were nothing more cards 355 00:14:38,960 --> 00:14:40,480 Speaker 4: where the Wi Fi was down. 356 00:14:40,400 --> 00:14:42,520 Speaker 3: Like nothing works. Gosh. 357 00:14:42,560 --> 00:14:45,120 Speaker 1: But anyway, as a teenager who did this and is 358 00:14:45,160 --> 00:14:47,600 Speaker 1: in custody reportedly cause at least one hundred million dollars 359 00:14:47,640 --> 00:14:51,080 Speaker 1: in losses. The hackers gain access by tricking MGM's IT 360 00:14:51,480 --> 00:14:54,880 Speaker 1: team into resetting a password and then disabled slaw machines, 361 00:14:54,920 --> 00:14:58,520 Speaker 1: hotel key cards, employee emails, and booking systems. Jason, were 362 00:14:58,520 --> 00:15:00,920 Speaker 1: you working there, freelance guy? 363 00:15:01,720 --> 00:15:02,240 Speaker 3: Did you fall? 364 00:15:02,360 --> 00:15:06,080 Speaker 1: With the facts of the email schemes and what happened. 365 00:15:06,360 --> 00:15:09,880 Speaker 1: They also access some customers personal data, including driver's licenses 366 00:15:09,920 --> 00:15:12,560 Speaker 1: and social security numbers. The team turned himself in last 367 00:15:12,560 --> 00:15:14,480 Speaker 1: week and could be tried as an adult on charges 368 00:15:14,520 --> 00:15:17,920 Speaker 1: including extortion, identity theft, and computer related crimes. I don't 369 00:15:17,960 --> 00:15:20,520 Speaker 1: know a lot about this, but I feel like and 370 00:15:20,560 --> 00:15:23,160 Speaker 1: I'm not sure how sophisticated this was, but maybe maybe 371 00:15:23,200 --> 00:15:26,160 Speaker 1: we hire the team. Maybe we hire the team to 372 00:15:26,200 --> 00:15:28,640 Speaker 1: work at MGM, and then then maybe you know, this 373 00:15:28,680 --> 00:15:31,680 Speaker 1: sounds like a pretty smart group of kids. You know, 374 00:15:31,480 --> 00:15:34,640 Speaker 1: you're not supposed to be sealing people's identities and information. Again, 375 00:15:34,680 --> 00:15:36,120 Speaker 1: I don't know the full extensive but I know what 376 00:15:36,160 --> 00:15:38,360 Speaker 1: I just read to you, But I don't know, you know, 377 00:15:38,400 --> 00:15:40,720 Speaker 1: I know that there are companies I think Apple's, won 378 00:15:41,160 --> 00:15:43,520 Speaker 1: maybe Google, where if you can hack them and you 379 00:15:43,560 --> 00:15:46,880 Speaker 1: can identify to them how you did it, they'll pay you. 380 00:15:46,880 --> 00:15:49,920 Speaker 1: You know, so you find a whole and then I've 381 00:15:49,920 --> 00:15:52,120 Speaker 1: read about this before because they don't want you to 382 00:15:52,120 --> 00:15:54,600 Speaker 1: hack them. They because if all you want is money, 383 00:15:54,760 --> 00:15:57,240 Speaker 1: then they'll they'll say, thank you for telling us where 384 00:15:57,240 --> 00:15:59,680 Speaker 1: the whole was. Here's money, and now we'll fix the whole. 385 00:16:00,040 --> 00:16:01,640 Speaker 1: To try this for the wedding flot let's do it. 386 00:16:01,920 --> 00:16:03,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, you guys are going to be neckers now. 387 00:16:04,160 --> 00:16:06,200 Speaker 2: Well, they need to get this wedding done. 388 00:16:06,720 --> 00:16:08,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, Well, then buy a t shirt, just like I did. 389 00:16:08,920 --> 00:16:11,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, we'm supporting. 390 00:16:11,560 --> 00:16:14,040 Speaker 1: Yeah no, Kiki, Yeah, that's how you do it. Don't 391 00:16:14,040 --> 00:16:16,000 Speaker 1: become hackers. I don't need you guys going to jail 392 00:16:16,480 --> 00:16:19,640 Speaker 1: or being canceled for any reason. Nearly ninety percent of 393 00:16:19,720 --> 00:16:22,840 Speaker 1: daily life runs on autopilot, according to a new study. 394 00:16:22,840 --> 00:16:24,840 Speaker 1: Research is found that eighty eight percent of what we 395 00:16:24,880 --> 00:16:27,240 Speaker 1: do every day happens out of habit. Two thirds of 396 00:16:27,280 --> 00:16:30,680 Speaker 1: our actions triggered automatically by our surroundings. Nearly half of 397 00:16:30,720 --> 00:16:33,640 Speaker 1: these habits still match our intentions, meaning they help us 398 00:16:33,680 --> 00:16:37,360 Speaker 1: reach goals without much thought. Experts say that this explains 399 00:16:37,480 --> 00:16:40,680 Speaker 1: why change is hard routines are deeply ingrained, but also 400 00:16:40,720 --> 00:16:44,560 Speaker 1: why building good habits works best when we set up 401 00:16:44,640 --> 00:16:46,880 Speaker 1: cues in our environment to trigger them. It's a little 402 00:16:46,920 --> 00:16:49,720 Speaker 1: scary if you think about it, But I mean, if 403 00:16:49,760 --> 00:16:52,520 Speaker 1: I don't like stop and actually am conscious for a 404 00:16:52,600 --> 00:16:55,520 Speaker 1: second the process of getting up every day and getting 405 00:16:55,600 --> 00:16:58,040 Speaker 1: ready and coming to work and doing it and sitting here, 406 00:16:58,120 --> 00:17:00,440 Speaker 1: I don't. It's about eight thirty before I realize what 407 00:17:00,480 --> 00:17:02,680 Speaker 1: I've done, and I've done a whole radio show. 408 00:17:02,720 --> 00:17:03,280 Speaker 3: By that point. 409 00:17:03,640 --> 00:17:05,920 Speaker 1: It's just automatic, you know, You get up, you take 410 00:17:05,920 --> 00:17:07,520 Speaker 1: a shoer. You do those things and whatever you drive 411 00:17:07,560 --> 00:17:08,960 Speaker 1: and then you drive to work. You're in a car, 412 00:17:09,040 --> 00:17:12,879 Speaker 1: you're in a large object. You move that object. They 413 00:17:12,960 --> 00:17:15,280 Speaker 1: weighed thousands of pounds, and like I wasn't I mean, 414 00:17:15,320 --> 00:17:18,040 Speaker 1: I was paying attention right obviously, because but I also 415 00:17:18,320 --> 00:17:21,240 Speaker 1: wasn't fully conscious for that because it's automatic. So you 416 00:17:21,280 --> 00:17:23,280 Speaker 1: think about like your routines and stuff. It's a little 417 00:17:23,280 --> 00:17:25,800 Speaker 1: bit scary. You're like half awake doing all this stuff. 418 00:17:25,920 --> 00:17:27,439 Speaker 4: It'll be like four o'clock and I'll be like, what 419 00:17:27,480 --> 00:17:28,720 Speaker 4: did I What happened today? 420 00:17:28,920 --> 00:17:31,280 Speaker 1: Right? Because you just get up and you just know 421 00:17:31,320 --> 00:17:33,119 Speaker 1: what to do. It's like you just I gotta do 422 00:17:33,160 --> 00:17:35,800 Speaker 1: this and that and the other thing. And Americans are 423 00:17:35,800 --> 00:17:38,600 Speaker 1: rethinking their subscriptions is rising costs to make them harder 424 00:17:38,640 --> 00:17:41,600 Speaker 1: to justify. The average person has one hundred and twenty 425 00:17:41,640 --> 00:17:46,399 Speaker 1: dollars in unused services every year, and new survey shows 426 00:17:46,400 --> 00:17:49,240 Speaker 1: at households have trimmed their average from just over four 427 00:17:49,280 --> 00:17:52,200 Speaker 1: subscriptions last year to fewer than three and twenty twenty five, 428 00:17:52,240 --> 00:17:54,760 Speaker 1: with spending dropping slightly to about thirty seven bucks a month. 429 00:17:54,920 --> 00:17:57,359 Speaker 1: Streaming services and food delivery perks are the first to 430 00:17:57,400 --> 00:18:00,480 Speaker 1: go as price hikes and password cracked down to push 431 00:18:00,720 --> 00:18:03,840 Speaker 1: many to cancel or turn to piracy. I guess using 432 00:18:03,840 --> 00:18:06,160 Speaker 1: other people's stuff, but on average one hundred and twenty 433 00:18:06,200 --> 00:18:09,720 Speaker 1: bucks a year and unused subscriptions, so you gotta think 434 00:18:09,720 --> 00:18:10,080 Speaker 1: about that. 435 00:18:10,240 --> 00:18:11,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's probably true. 436 00:18:11,440 --> 00:18:14,760 Speaker 4: I think I have like multiple, like Netflix subscriptions or 437 00:18:14,800 --> 00:18:15,399 Speaker 4: something like. 438 00:18:15,480 --> 00:18:17,120 Speaker 1: I signed up and then I forgot. This is why 439 00:18:17,119 --> 00:18:19,880 Speaker 1: you're broke. You don't pay a mortgage, but you're broke. 440 00:18:19,920 --> 00:18:22,359 Speaker 1: It's because you have seven Netflix subscriptions. Probably also of 441 00:18:22,359 --> 00:18:23,040 Speaker 1: the worst memory. 442 00:18:23,080 --> 00:18:24,320 Speaker 4: So I feel like I signed up for stuff and 443 00:18:24,320 --> 00:18:26,080 Speaker 4: then I forget, and then as I signed up again 444 00:18:26,440 --> 00:18:27,359 Speaker 4: and now I'm paying again. 445 00:18:28,480 --> 00:18:30,080 Speaker 1: This is my pro tip for you, and this might 446 00:18:30,080 --> 00:18:31,760 Speaker 1: be the most valuable thing I've said in forty two 447 00:18:31,800 --> 00:18:34,439 Speaker 1: minutes today, is is go like, if you have a 448 00:18:34,440 --> 00:18:37,320 Speaker 1: credit card, go look at the like look it up 449 00:18:37,320 --> 00:18:39,720 Speaker 1: on the website the benefits of your credit card, because 450 00:18:39,720 --> 00:18:41,680 Speaker 1: I don't really I hadn't really done this for a 451 00:18:41,720 --> 00:18:44,400 Speaker 1: while and then I went looked At'm like, wait a minute, 452 00:18:44,400 --> 00:18:46,960 Speaker 1: I can get door Dash like my credit card. I 453 00:18:47,000 --> 00:18:49,680 Speaker 1: can get door Dash monthly for free if I get 454 00:18:49,680 --> 00:18:51,440 Speaker 1: the subscription thing and I put it on my credit 455 00:18:51,440 --> 00:18:54,080 Speaker 1: card to take it off TSA pre check free. I 456 00:18:54,080 --> 00:18:54,879 Speaker 1: think clear is. 457 00:18:55,200 --> 00:18:55,520 Speaker 3: I don't know. 458 00:18:55,520 --> 00:18:58,479 Speaker 1: A bunch of stuff is free. There's like Lululemon credit 459 00:18:58,520 --> 00:19:00,920 Speaker 1: on one of them. There's all stuff you got Uber 460 00:19:01,040 --> 00:19:03,040 Speaker 1: credit per month on it. I didn't know about any 461 00:19:03,040 --> 00:19:04,560 Speaker 1: of this because they don't. They don't really tell you. 462 00:19:04,600 --> 00:19:06,160 Speaker 1: It's almost like they don't really want you to know. 463 00:19:06,680 --> 00:19:07,959 Speaker 1: But if you go like, I'm like, well, I can 464 00:19:07,960 --> 00:19:10,679 Speaker 1: get Disney Plus for free, you know, which is why 465 00:19:10,680 --> 00:19:11,160 Speaker 1: I didn't. 466 00:19:11,000 --> 00:19:11,560 Speaker 3: Have to cancel it. 467 00:19:11,680 --> 00:19:12,879 Speaker 2: Can I see what kind of card do you have? 468 00:19:13,640 --> 00:19:13,840 Speaker 3: Yeah? 469 00:19:13,960 --> 00:19:18,120 Speaker 1: No, you can't. It's it's a uh, it's a it's 470 00:19:18,119 --> 00:19:19,560 Speaker 1: a it's a gift card. 471 00:19:19,720 --> 00:19:22,120 Speaker 3: Show is on, it's stay or go? 472 00:19:22,359 --> 00:19:22,720 Speaker 9: All right? 473 00:19:23,880 --> 00:19:28,920 Speaker 1: Max is here, turning to a likely source for advice. Hi, Max, 474 00:19:28,920 --> 00:19:29,440 Speaker 1: how you doing? 475 00:19:31,160 --> 00:19:31,400 Speaker 2: Hey? 476 00:19:31,520 --> 00:19:33,440 Speaker 3: Hey, I'm all right? How are you guys? 477 00:19:33,520 --> 00:19:35,879 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, Max here, we are to help you, 478 00:19:36,320 --> 00:19:39,280 Speaker 1: so stairego. You can hit us up fred shirt radio 479 00:19:39,320 --> 00:19:40,639 Speaker 1: dot com, you can d m us and all the 480 00:19:40,640 --> 00:19:44,080 Speaker 1: different socials which Max did. What's going on with your 481 00:19:45,160 --> 00:19:46,080 Speaker 1: with your girlfriend? 482 00:19:47,320 --> 00:19:47,520 Speaker 10: Yeah? 483 00:19:47,560 --> 00:19:48,920 Speaker 3: I appreciate your guys's help. 484 00:19:49,320 --> 00:19:51,680 Speaker 5: And I know it's gonna sound harsh what I'm about 485 00:19:51,720 --> 00:19:54,080 Speaker 5: to say so just you know, no no judging. 486 00:19:55,880 --> 00:19:58,240 Speaker 1: So, if this is about Jimmy Kimble, hang up. If 487 00:19:58,240 --> 00:20:00,639 Speaker 1: this is about Jimmy Kimmel, hangup, I'm not I'm not 488 00:20:00,680 --> 00:20:02,480 Speaker 1: doing it. Max. I'm not doing it with you. Max, 489 00:20:02,480 --> 00:20:04,600 Speaker 1: I'm not doing it with you. I just want to 490 00:20:04,600 --> 00:20:06,520 Speaker 1: be clearing me. Okay, good, all right, because I'm not 491 00:20:06,520 --> 00:20:06,800 Speaker 1: doing it. 492 00:20:06,880 --> 00:20:09,000 Speaker 3: Okay, No, no, you don't need to. 493 00:20:09,080 --> 00:20:09,760 Speaker 5: It's not about that. 494 00:20:09,960 --> 00:20:10,480 Speaker 3: Okay. 495 00:20:11,560 --> 00:20:15,720 Speaker 5: So I started dating a girl about five six months ago, 496 00:20:16,040 --> 00:20:18,359 Speaker 5: and I really like her. I'm not going to say 497 00:20:18,400 --> 00:20:20,880 Speaker 5: her name just out of you know, respect for her privacy. 498 00:20:20,960 --> 00:20:25,000 Speaker 5: But there's one issue I'm running into over and over again, 499 00:20:25,040 --> 00:20:26,440 Speaker 5: and that is actually her health. 500 00:20:28,680 --> 00:20:30,919 Speaker 3: I don't know how to say. Okay, she has she 501 00:20:31,040 --> 00:20:32,240 Speaker 3: has severe. 502 00:20:32,640 --> 00:20:38,000 Speaker 5: I b s okay, okay, and that I don't mean 503 00:20:38,040 --> 00:20:40,919 Speaker 5: to laugh. But it affects pretty much every aspect of 504 00:20:40,960 --> 00:20:44,520 Speaker 5: her life, and now it's kind of affecting mine since 505 00:20:44,520 --> 00:20:47,120 Speaker 5: we've been together all these Now. 506 00:20:47,000 --> 00:20:48,400 Speaker 2: Why would you call my name out? 507 00:20:48,400 --> 00:20:49,159 Speaker 3: Why would you do that? 508 00:20:50,800 --> 00:20:53,600 Speaker 2: I was looking at Jason, who was laughing at this 509 00:20:57,720 --> 00:20:58,760 Speaker 2: because I'm signing. 510 00:21:01,960 --> 00:21:05,240 Speaker 3: Kicking out of and then she calls him out. Okay, 511 00:21:05,560 --> 00:21:08,320 Speaker 3: I think it's same. Well, I was gonna say, Jason, 512 00:21:08,440 --> 00:21:13,640 Speaker 3: Jason diagnosed has this issue. Okay, So so she. 513 00:21:15,359 --> 00:21:17,880 Speaker 1: I don't even know how to appropriately describe i bs'. 514 00:21:18,119 --> 00:21:21,040 Speaker 1: So she needs to access a bathroom regularly needs And 515 00:21:21,080 --> 00:21:23,320 Speaker 1: this is this is not a fun thing. And I 516 00:21:23,320 --> 00:21:28,840 Speaker 1: feel bad for anybody who encounters a Kiki and Jason. Okay, 517 00:21:28,840 --> 00:21:31,000 Speaker 1: so she has this issue, and you know that, So 518 00:21:31,040 --> 00:21:32,280 Speaker 1: why is this a problem for you? 519 00:21:33,280 --> 00:21:35,200 Speaker 3: Exactly just like you said, it's not fun. 520 00:21:35,440 --> 00:21:38,359 Speaker 5: She's the bathroom everywhere we go, everywhere we go, every 521 00:21:38,400 --> 00:21:40,240 Speaker 5: place we go, She's got to figure out where's the 522 00:21:40,240 --> 00:21:41,080 Speaker 5: closest bathroom. 523 00:21:41,160 --> 00:21:42,200 Speaker 3: Every place we eat. 524 00:21:42,040 --> 00:21:44,760 Speaker 5: You've got to know the menu ahead of time, make 525 00:21:44,840 --> 00:21:47,080 Speaker 5: sure she can eat something there. And there's just a 526 00:21:47,080 --> 00:21:49,280 Speaker 5: lot of places we can't go together, like we can't 527 00:21:49,359 --> 00:21:53,760 Speaker 5: I can't take her to whatever theme park festival, so 528 00:21:54,400 --> 00:21:57,000 Speaker 5: she because of the bathroom situation, and we can't travel 529 00:21:57,119 --> 00:21:59,679 Speaker 5: so many places, and so it's just becoming a lot. 530 00:22:00,240 --> 00:22:01,800 Speaker 3: I don't know, as the months go on, and I 531 00:22:02,800 --> 00:22:04,080 Speaker 3: and I feel bad. 532 00:22:05,480 --> 00:22:10,120 Speaker 5: I really like her, but you know, I know there's obviously, 533 00:22:10,200 --> 00:22:13,360 Speaker 5: like there's no cure for IBS. You know, the only 534 00:22:13,400 --> 00:22:16,040 Speaker 5: things you can do to prevent flare. 535 00:22:15,840 --> 00:22:19,680 Speaker 3: Ups, And I just you know, there's a lot. 536 00:22:19,520 --> 00:22:21,560 Speaker 5: That comes with it, and I didn't expect it and 537 00:22:21,600 --> 00:22:23,239 Speaker 5: it would be the rest of my life and I 538 00:22:23,320 --> 00:22:25,159 Speaker 5: just don't know, like I. 539 00:22:25,200 --> 00:22:28,080 Speaker 3: Don't know if I'm I'm not okay, so far enough? 540 00:22:28,359 --> 00:22:30,160 Speaker 1: Yeah no, So I'm sorry to interrupt you with maxim. 541 00:22:30,320 --> 00:22:32,960 Speaker 1: So you're your girlfriend has this this condition that that's 542 00:22:33,160 --> 00:22:36,119 Speaker 1: limiting to her lifestyle in a lot of ways. Not 543 00:22:36,200 --> 00:22:39,000 Speaker 1: people live with this and and they deal with it. 544 00:22:39,119 --> 00:22:43,800 Speaker 1: But you're saying that for you, the limitations may sort 545 00:22:43,800 --> 00:22:46,560 Speaker 1: of you are already are a burden to you or 546 00:22:46,600 --> 00:22:48,800 Speaker 1: may forever be a burden to you. I hate to 547 00:22:48,880 --> 00:22:51,320 Speaker 1: use the word burden, but you know, for whatever reason, 548 00:22:51,760 --> 00:22:54,720 Speaker 1: for various reasons, rather you think it's holding you back. 549 00:22:55,280 --> 00:22:58,240 Speaker 1: And so you're asking yourself, and you're being honest and transparent, 550 00:22:59,560 --> 00:23:01,040 Speaker 1: is this something that I want to deal with for 551 00:23:01,080 --> 00:23:03,400 Speaker 1: the rest of my life? Like do everywhere we go? 552 00:23:03,480 --> 00:23:05,439 Speaker 1: Do I want to have to consider these things? Do 553 00:23:05,480 --> 00:23:07,160 Speaker 1: I want to be limited to where we can go 554 00:23:07,200 --> 00:23:10,159 Speaker 1: and what we can do? And you know things you 555 00:23:10,400 --> 00:23:12,720 Speaker 1: brought up theme parks and festivals and things like that, 556 00:23:13,280 --> 00:23:15,399 Speaker 1: and so you're asking yourself, this is just something I 557 00:23:15,400 --> 00:23:17,159 Speaker 1: can commit to you for the rest of my life. 558 00:23:18,320 --> 00:23:20,800 Speaker 5: That you got it exactly. I feel terrible, but that's 559 00:23:20,800 --> 00:23:21,439 Speaker 5: what I'm asking. 560 00:23:21,560 --> 00:23:23,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, And I think the reason that this is not 561 00:23:23,440 --> 00:23:26,080 Speaker 1: I mean, is not an easy thing right to consider, 562 00:23:26,160 --> 00:23:28,400 Speaker 1: but I think there is. It's not coming to you naturally. 563 00:23:28,600 --> 00:23:30,840 Speaker 1: I'm beginning to my gut tells me that the answer 564 00:23:30,920 --> 00:23:33,560 Speaker 1: is no, you can't and you're not going to. And 565 00:23:33,600 --> 00:23:35,520 Speaker 1: there's your answer. I hate to say it. That's just 566 00:23:35,560 --> 00:23:38,760 Speaker 1: me being honest. The fact that you're considering this, the 567 00:23:38,760 --> 00:23:40,600 Speaker 1: fact that you wrote us, the fact that you're calling. 568 00:23:40,600 --> 00:23:42,080 Speaker 1: And I'm not judging you for this. I mean again, 569 00:23:42,080 --> 00:23:45,639 Speaker 1: I appreciate the transparency. I feel like the fact that 570 00:23:45,680 --> 00:23:48,359 Speaker 1: you're thinking about this is already saying to me, this 571 00:23:48,480 --> 00:23:49,920 Speaker 1: isn't something that you want to deal with and you 572 00:23:49,960 --> 00:23:51,200 Speaker 1: want someone to tell you it's okay. 573 00:23:53,800 --> 00:23:57,840 Speaker 5: Oh I mean god maybe, I mean I really like 574 00:23:57,920 --> 00:23:59,000 Speaker 5: or I like spending time with her. 575 00:23:59,040 --> 00:24:00,000 Speaker 3: It just kind of affects it. 576 00:24:00,000 --> 00:24:02,680 Speaker 1: I pretty where we go because I wonder I wonder 577 00:24:02,720 --> 00:24:04,520 Speaker 1: if you if you were just head over heel. And again, 578 00:24:04,520 --> 00:24:07,080 Speaker 1: I don't know, I've never dealt with this before, but 579 00:24:07,119 --> 00:24:08,919 Speaker 1: I wonder if you were, you know, if you were 580 00:24:08,960 --> 00:24:11,320 Speaker 1: sure about this relationship and you were sure about every 581 00:24:11,400 --> 00:24:15,920 Speaker 1: aspect of it, then maybe I don't know. My gut 582 00:24:15,960 --> 00:24:18,879 Speaker 1: tells me that you wouldn't see this as a barrier. 583 00:24:18,960 --> 00:24:21,440 Speaker 1: That means that you would eliminate her from your life 584 00:24:21,520 --> 00:24:22,560 Speaker 1: or and the relationship. 585 00:24:22,960 --> 00:24:25,280 Speaker 3: That's what you're talking this this is not Is. 586 00:24:25,200 --> 00:24:26,720 Speaker 8: It really something to leave off because you need a 587 00:24:26,760 --> 00:24:28,040 Speaker 8: little alone time in the bathroom? 588 00:24:28,240 --> 00:24:29,840 Speaker 1: And see, I don't know the answer. Eight five five 589 00:24:29,960 --> 00:24:31,879 Speaker 1: five nine three five. I don't know. 590 00:24:32,200 --> 00:24:36,040 Speaker 2: I've not minimizing, ibs. Oh yeah, I think it's really severe. 591 00:24:36,080 --> 00:24:37,119 Speaker 2: Like yeah, I think so. 592 00:24:37,600 --> 00:24:39,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, Well I'm not minimized. I don't I don't know. 593 00:24:39,440 --> 00:24:41,440 Speaker 1: I don't know. I've never dealt with this. I've never 594 00:24:41,480 --> 00:24:44,040 Speaker 1: known anyone to be super communicative, and I know I've 595 00:24:44,080 --> 00:24:46,720 Speaker 1: known people who have dealt with it. No one's ever 596 00:24:46,800 --> 00:24:50,320 Speaker 1: fully communicated to me their issues or said to me, hey, 597 00:24:50,320 --> 00:24:51,879 Speaker 1: we can't do X y Z because of it. But 598 00:24:52,119 --> 00:24:56,560 Speaker 1: it sounds to me like the cost benefit doesn't work 599 00:24:56,600 --> 00:24:58,639 Speaker 1: for you. That's what that's That's what my gut is 600 00:24:58,680 --> 00:24:59,880 Speaker 1: telling me about this situation. 601 00:25:02,119 --> 00:25:05,040 Speaker 5: And it's really severe, ibs. I think there's different levels 602 00:25:05,040 --> 00:25:06,679 Speaker 5: of it. She's got really severe. 603 00:25:08,119 --> 00:25:09,720 Speaker 3: Okay, all right, well, let me again. 604 00:25:10,320 --> 00:25:12,399 Speaker 1: There are people out there listening who have perspective on this, 605 00:25:12,440 --> 00:25:14,040 Speaker 1: who either deal with it or have dealt with it, 606 00:25:14,119 --> 00:25:15,760 Speaker 1: and I'd rather hear from them because I don't I 607 00:25:15,760 --> 00:25:18,320 Speaker 1: don't have enough information to really be able to speak 608 00:25:18,320 --> 00:25:21,199 Speaker 1: on this. But Mike, I think that if you weren't 609 00:25:23,280 --> 00:25:27,639 Speaker 1: really sort of strongly contemplating ending the relationship, then I 610 00:25:27,680 --> 00:25:29,520 Speaker 1: don't think that this phone call would even take place. 611 00:25:30,359 --> 00:25:32,520 Speaker 1: That's that's that's what I'm I'm not judging you for that. 612 00:25:32,520 --> 00:25:34,720 Speaker 1: That's just that's where I am on this. It's you 613 00:25:34,760 --> 00:25:37,320 Speaker 1: wouldn't call us and have this conversation with us if 614 00:25:37,359 --> 00:25:41,600 Speaker 1: that were becausetherwise, I think you would just we wouldn't 615 00:25:41,600 --> 00:25:43,280 Speaker 1: have to talk about it. It would just be something 616 00:25:43,280 --> 00:25:45,000 Speaker 1: that you'd have to deal with, and that that's a shame. 617 00:25:45,240 --> 00:25:47,520 Speaker 1: But that's that's where I'm at. Let me take some 618 00:25:47,520 --> 00:25:49,439 Speaker 1: phone calls, Max, have a good day, Thanks for calling. 619 00:25:50,640 --> 00:25:51,080 Speaker 2: Thank you. 620 00:25:51,320 --> 00:25:51,560 Speaker 3: Yeah. 621 00:25:51,680 --> 00:25:54,280 Speaker 1: I mean, look, and again, this is this is his 622 00:25:54,440 --> 00:25:56,919 Speaker 1: it's his life and his feeling and and and he 623 00:25:56,960 --> 00:25:58,840 Speaker 1: has every right to live his life how he wants to. 624 00:25:59,080 --> 00:26:02,440 Speaker 1: I just think he's looking for validation because I think 625 00:26:02,440 --> 00:26:05,119 Speaker 1: we've probably all encountered folks in our lives who have 626 00:26:05,200 --> 00:26:09,879 Speaker 1: different situations that are limiting or complicated, and we have 627 00:26:09,960 --> 00:26:12,000 Speaker 1: to make a decision if it's something that we want 628 00:26:12,040 --> 00:26:15,159 Speaker 1: to deal with, you know, together, And I think if 629 00:26:15,200 --> 00:26:17,320 Speaker 1: the answer is yes, then you just do it. If 630 00:26:17,320 --> 00:26:19,639 Speaker 1: the answer is maybe or no, then you start asking 631 00:26:19,680 --> 00:26:22,439 Speaker 1: other people what you should do, right, yeah, because you 632 00:26:22,440 --> 00:26:25,240 Speaker 1: don't know, right, you would think it would be organic. 633 00:26:25,600 --> 00:26:27,000 Speaker 1: I guess that's where I'm getting it. 634 00:26:27,080 --> 00:26:29,760 Speaker 4: Like like what you said, like if it's something you 635 00:26:29,800 --> 00:26:31,960 Speaker 4: would you wouldn't even question it, it would just be something 636 00:26:31,960 --> 00:26:33,360 Speaker 4: that you would accept and like keep it moving. 637 00:26:33,720 --> 00:26:35,520 Speaker 3: I guess that's what I That's what I mean. Judgment 638 00:26:35,640 --> 00:26:36,840 Speaker 3: or shade to hit exactly. 639 00:26:36,840 --> 00:26:39,159 Speaker 4: Everyone has their preferences and what they can deal with 640 00:26:39,200 --> 00:26:40,400 Speaker 4: and what they can exactly. 641 00:26:40,400 --> 00:26:42,280 Speaker 1: But he's calling up here, you know, looking for some feedback. 642 00:26:42,280 --> 00:26:44,480 Speaker 1: And my feedback is you're asking us because you already know. 643 00:26:44,920 --> 00:26:49,159 Speaker 1: Hey donnay, Hey Donna. Okay, So I have to be honest. 644 00:26:49,240 --> 00:26:52,679 Speaker 1: It says on the screen Donna in parentheses has ibs. 645 00:26:54,280 --> 00:26:57,840 Speaker 3: So I just you're I'm not going to call you ibs, Donna. 646 00:26:58,119 --> 00:27:00,320 Speaker 1: But you know that's what it says on this and 647 00:27:00,359 --> 00:27:02,159 Speaker 1: it might forever unless we are rec the part that 648 00:27:02,200 --> 00:27:04,280 Speaker 1: says has IBS. So I just want to say thank 649 00:27:04,320 --> 00:27:06,760 Speaker 1: you for your freeing candid, and we really appreciate that 650 00:27:06,800 --> 00:27:07,119 Speaker 1: about you. 651 00:27:07,160 --> 00:27:09,240 Speaker 3: Don Okay, okay, good? 652 00:27:09,359 --> 00:27:12,560 Speaker 11: Yeah, So I have IBS and IBD. 653 00:27:12,760 --> 00:27:16,080 Speaker 2: So I have Crown's disease as well, and so. 654 00:27:16,600 --> 00:27:17,359 Speaker 12: It's been severe. 655 00:27:17,400 --> 00:27:18,280 Speaker 10: It's a severe saying. 656 00:27:18,359 --> 00:27:19,080 Speaker 12: It's something you. 657 00:27:19,000 --> 00:27:19,720 Speaker 2: Have to deal with. 658 00:27:20,240 --> 00:27:23,359 Speaker 6: But honestly, I feel like he should go for her sake. 659 00:27:24,280 --> 00:27:28,000 Speaker 11: I'm married, I've had I've been with my husband since 660 00:27:28,080 --> 00:27:32,400 Speaker 11: high school. He's seen it all through everything I've gone through, 661 00:27:32,600 --> 00:27:35,760 Speaker 11: and he's always been supportive. So if this dude isn't 662 00:27:35,880 --> 00:27:38,800 Speaker 11: able to be supportive and is worried about having to 663 00:27:38,880 --> 00:27:42,639 Speaker 11: find a different restaurant for a different bathroom, that's just crazy. 664 00:27:42,680 --> 00:27:45,720 Speaker 11: And she honestly, she does not he did not deserve her. 665 00:27:46,359 --> 00:27:48,480 Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, because I want to. I hope you don't 666 00:27:48,760 --> 00:27:50,320 Speaker 1: and you can tell us, but I hope no. You 667 00:27:50,359 --> 00:27:54,359 Speaker 1: don't feel that we're trivializing this at all. You know, 668 00:27:54,760 --> 00:27:57,520 Speaker 1: his perspective is that this is limiting to him and 669 00:27:57,600 --> 00:28:01,520 Speaker 1: I and my thought is he's focused more on how 670 00:28:01,560 --> 00:28:04,639 Speaker 1: this limits him than how much he values her, and 671 00:28:04,680 --> 00:28:06,600 Speaker 1: that tells me everything I need to know about what 672 00:28:06,680 --> 00:28:11,080 Speaker 1: he thinks about this relationship. No, yeah, exactly. 673 00:28:11,400 --> 00:28:13,840 Speaker 12: I feel like a lot of people, I. 674 00:28:13,800 --> 00:28:16,920 Speaker 11: Mean, don't I don't get offended if people minimize it 675 00:28:17,040 --> 00:28:18,600 Speaker 11: or trivialize it, but I feel like a lot of 676 00:28:18,600 --> 00:28:21,280 Speaker 11: people don't understand the severity of it. Sure, and like 677 00:28:21,320 --> 00:28:23,040 Speaker 11: he was even saying, there are different. 678 00:28:22,880 --> 00:28:25,400 Speaker 6: Levels to it, So she might have something that's to per. 679 00:28:25,280 --> 00:28:27,600 Speaker 11: Severe, whereas like some people might just have a stomach 680 00:28:27,600 --> 00:28:28,600 Speaker 11: ache every once in a while. 681 00:28:29,040 --> 00:28:30,880 Speaker 6: But if he's not willing to. 682 00:28:30,800 --> 00:28:34,440 Speaker 11: Work through that or like deal with that, it's really honestly, 683 00:28:34,440 --> 00:28:38,720 Speaker 11: it's really not that hard, like finding a bathroom, it's easy. 684 00:28:39,240 --> 00:28:42,040 Speaker 12: I look at the menus before we go anywhere. 685 00:28:42,160 --> 00:28:44,920 Speaker 11: And if it's something that I can't have, like my 686 00:28:45,000 --> 00:28:47,400 Speaker 11: husband's willing to like adapt to it. 687 00:28:47,880 --> 00:28:49,120 Speaker 12: There's so many options. 688 00:28:49,120 --> 00:28:52,120 Speaker 11: So if this is a deal breaker or a possible 689 00:28:52,160 --> 00:28:52,880 Speaker 11: deal breaker for. 690 00:28:52,880 --> 00:28:55,280 Speaker 6: Him, he just should go and not even waste her time. 691 00:28:55,360 --> 00:28:56,960 Speaker 1: There you go, Hey, Donad, thank you and thanks for 692 00:28:57,000 --> 00:28:59,480 Speaker 1: calling him for the transparency and authenticity. 693 00:28:59,480 --> 00:29:03,920 Speaker 3: Appreciate that. Yeah, yeah, you too, appreciate it. 694 00:29:03,960 --> 00:29:05,520 Speaker 1: See again, like I don't know anything about this, So 695 00:29:05,640 --> 00:29:07,560 Speaker 1: the fact that you're calling, and a lot of people 696 00:29:07,560 --> 00:29:09,520 Speaker 1: are texting and you know, being very transparent about their 697 00:29:09,600 --> 00:29:12,160 Speaker 1: journey with the two. I don't, I don't, I don't know. 698 00:29:12,240 --> 00:29:14,800 Speaker 1: I've not dealt with this, so I'd rather hear from you, 699 00:29:14,880 --> 00:29:15,160 Speaker 1: is it. 700 00:29:15,120 --> 00:29:18,480 Speaker 3: Reeve, yes? Ree Hey, good morning, welcome. 701 00:29:18,840 --> 00:29:21,160 Speaker 1: So you heard the guy max on waiting by the 702 00:29:21,160 --> 00:29:24,000 Speaker 1: phone or excuse me on ustre go. This guy, you know, 703 00:29:24,080 --> 00:29:26,080 Speaker 1: he's been dating a woman and she has IBS and 704 00:29:26,120 --> 00:29:27,760 Speaker 1: he feels it's very limiting to her and he's not 705 00:29:27,760 --> 00:29:28,920 Speaker 1: sure if he can do it for the rest of 706 00:29:28,960 --> 00:29:31,120 Speaker 1: his life, if he can not go to festivals in 707 00:29:31,120 --> 00:29:33,000 Speaker 1: this case, and it was an example that he used 708 00:29:33,280 --> 00:29:36,080 Speaker 1: in theme parks. Apparently, you know, it's a big problem. 709 00:29:36,080 --> 00:29:36,600 Speaker 3: What do you think? 710 00:29:38,480 --> 00:29:42,320 Speaker 12: Okay, I found it really interesting. My girlfriend has chronic 711 00:29:42,360 --> 00:29:45,960 Speaker 12: health issues. So for me, like I was just hearing him, 712 00:29:46,000 --> 00:29:48,160 Speaker 12: I was like, oh wow, sounds like he's really not 713 00:29:48,280 --> 00:29:50,800 Speaker 12: ready to be in a relationship at all, because for 714 00:29:50,960 --> 00:29:54,520 Speaker 12: me to love someone is to consider them, to consider 715 00:29:54,600 --> 00:29:59,000 Speaker 12: them like always, and it just sounds like he doesn't 716 00:29:59,000 --> 00:30:02,160 Speaker 12: want to consider her. And it's like I can appreciate 717 00:30:02,240 --> 00:30:08,040 Speaker 12: that it's difficul or whatever, but you know, I don't 718 00:30:08,080 --> 00:30:09,520 Speaker 12: know it sounds like he just wants to me and 719 00:30:09,600 --> 00:30:12,840 Speaker 12: that's like less serious, more of a fling whatever. 720 00:30:13,000 --> 00:30:15,680 Speaker 1: But yeah, I mean, I feel like everybody comes with 721 00:30:15,800 --> 00:30:18,480 Speaker 1: something right, and I'm not gonna list things because I'm 722 00:30:18,480 --> 00:30:20,760 Speaker 1: not I'm not equating one with another. But you know, 723 00:30:20,800 --> 00:30:23,200 Speaker 1: we all we all come with things right, and I 724 00:30:23,200 --> 00:30:25,520 Speaker 1: think we all as we're dating and meeting people, we 725 00:30:25,640 --> 00:30:28,400 Speaker 1: have to make the determination whether those things are things 726 00:30:28,400 --> 00:30:31,000 Speaker 1: that we want to deal with or we don't, and 727 00:30:31,080 --> 00:30:32,800 Speaker 1: that's our choice. And he might be missing on an 728 00:30:32,800 --> 00:30:36,080 Speaker 1: amazing person because he feels inconvenienced. That's on him, I guess. 729 00:30:36,320 --> 00:30:39,200 Speaker 1: But better that he identify that and move on and 730 00:30:39,320 --> 00:30:42,240 Speaker 1: let her move on and find somebody else. Then I 731 00:30:42,280 --> 00:30:45,200 Speaker 1: suppose continue to tread water on this because he's obviously 732 00:30:45,200 --> 00:30:45,680 Speaker 1: thinking about it. 733 00:30:46,720 --> 00:30:49,120 Speaker 3: What's that I said her? 734 00:30:49,320 --> 00:30:52,120 Speaker 1: Yeah there, Reeve, thank you for calling her for listening. 735 00:30:52,120 --> 00:30:53,480 Speaker 1: Have a great day. 736 00:30:53,720 --> 00:30:55,720 Speaker 3: Yeah you too, Joanna. 737 00:30:55,840 --> 00:31:01,080 Speaker 1: Hi, Joanna, Hey, good morning. So this dude's already got 738 00:31:01,120 --> 00:31:03,800 Speaker 1: one foot on the door, you think absolutely. 739 00:31:03,960 --> 00:31:06,560 Speaker 10: I think in two seconds of hearing his story, I'm like, 740 00:31:06,600 --> 00:31:08,800 Speaker 10: he's already at the door. He just wants us to 741 00:31:08,800 --> 00:31:11,680 Speaker 10: tell him it's okay. Not to be fair, as someone 742 00:31:11,680 --> 00:31:14,880 Speaker 10: in my fifties and who's single. I always ask about 743 00:31:14,960 --> 00:31:17,400 Speaker 10: chronic illnesses before I get too far into it. 744 00:31:17,840 --> 00:31:20,520 Speaker 1: Oh do you Okay, so you you know a couple 745 00:31:20,520 --> 00:31:22,600 Speaker 1: of dates and you're like, hey, so what about anything 746 00:31:22,640 --> 00:31:23,320 Speaker 1: deadly going on? 747 00:31:24,440 --> 00:31:29,040 Speaker 10: Yeah, like if they're like, got a whole list of 748 00:31:29,120 --> 00:31:31,560 Speaker 10: meds that they're on and they're sick, and yeah, I 749 00:31:31,560 --> 00:31:33,040 Speaker 10: don't want I don't want to deal with that. 750 00:31:33,880 --> 00:31:36,840 Speaker 3: Okay. I mean that's you're right. I suppose, yeah, you. 751 00:31:36,920 --> 00:31:38,840 Speaker 10: Got to like get into that before you fall in 752 00:31:38,880 --> 00:31:41,680 Speaker 10: love with him. But if he's already been dating her 753 00:31:42,080 --> 00:31:44,440 Speaker 10: and he's feeling like this and he doesn't love. 754 00:31:44,320 --> 00:31:46,560 Speaker 1: Her enough, I can't believe I'm the one making this 755 00:31:46,680 --> 00:31:48,800 Speaker 1: argument because I tend to be a little sort of 756 00:31:49,280 --> 00:31:52,400 Speaker 1: not cold but unemotional about things. But you know, who's 757 00:31:52,440 --> 00:31:54,440 Speaker 1: to say, Joanna, you don't fall in love with someone 758 00:31:54,480 --> 00:31:57,680 Speaker 1: who also happens to have these issues, like you're preventing 759 00:31:57,720 --> 00:31:58,560 Speaker 1: yourself from. 760 00:31:58,520 --> 00:31:59,280 Speaker 12: You ask first? 761 00:31:59,400 --> 00:32:01,840 Speaker 1: But is that how love works? And I'm asking. I 762 00:32:01,840 --> 00:32:04,880 Speaker 1: don't hate all people. I don't know, but I mean, 763 00:32:04,960 --> 00:32:06,080 Speaker 1: is is that how it works? 764 00:32:06,080 --> 00:32:06,200 Speaker 9: Like? 765 00:32:06,280 --> 00:32:08,840 Speaker 1: I can't fall in love with you because you you 766 00:32:08,840 --> 00:32:09,560 Speaker 1: you might die? 767 00:32:12,200 --> 00:32:15,000 Speaker 10: Yeah? You just remove yourself from the aquaintance. 768 00:32:15,080 --> 00:32:17,000 Speaker 3: Okay, well, I mean, hey, that's you're right. 769 00:32:17,080 --> 00:32:19,239 Speaker 1: I guess the way that I understand love would be 770 00:32:19,680 --> 00:32:22,000 Speaker 1: that I fall in love and then those are challenges 771 00:32:22,000 --> 00:32:23,960 Speaker 1: that we overcome. But maybe that's a Hallmark movie. Maybe 772 00:32:23,960 --> 00:32:26,400 Speaker 1: that's something I saw with Rebecca Remains Demos or something. 773 00:32:26,440 --> 00:32:27,040 Speaker 10: I'm with them. 774 00:32:27,240 --> 00:32:29,440 Speaker 2: Have you been burned by them to fall in love? 775 00:32:30,000 --> 00:32:30,360 Speaker 5: No? 776 00:32:30,440 --> 00:32:30,920 Speaker 2: Not at all? 777 00:32:31,160 --> 00:32:35,200 Speaker 3: Okay, yes them? Yeah again, this is her right, I 778 00:32:35,200 --> 00:32:37,160 Speaker 3: mean fall in love with you? Now you're about that? 779 00:32:37,320 --> 00:32:37,360 Speaker 10: That? 780 00:32:37,800 --> 00:32:38,400 Speaker 8: Oh my god. 781 00:32:38,520 --> 00:32:42,320 Speaker 3: Ye that's terrible. That's an awful thing. That's bad luck. 782 00:32:42,840 --> 00:32:45,400 Speaker 2: I'm before you fall in love. She hadult with already 783 00:32:45,400 --> 00:32:46,040 Speaker 2: and she done. 784 00:32:46,240 --> 00:32:47,240 Speaker 5: But maybe I have. 785 00:32:47,920 --> 00:32:50,520 Speaker 10: I have been burned, but in just like family and 786 00:32:50,600 --> 00:32:53,320 Speaker 10: personal life, not so much as a partner. 787 00:32:53,560 --> 00:32:55,320 Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, you feel like people would take it from 788 00:32:55,400 --> 00:32:57,160 Speaker 1: you or something. No, there's always more to the story here, 789 00:32:57,320 --> 00:32:59,080 Speaker 1: and I appreciate you calling. You have a good day. 790 00:33:00,720 --> 00:33:03,920 Speaker 1: You know, I can understand that. You know, you fall 791 00:33:03,960 --> 00:33:06,360 Speaker 1: in love, you felt like somebodyho's taken from you early, 792 00:33:06,520 --> 00:33:08,920 Speaker 1: and or you felt I don't know, like you were 793 00:33:08,960 --> 00:33:11,000 Speaker 1: shorted in some way, and then you don't want to 794 00:33:11,040 --> 00:33:13,080 Speaker 1: deal with that again, so you sort of block that, 795 00:33:13,360 --> 00:33:14,880 Speaker 1: you prevent that from happening in your. 796 00:33:14,800 --> 00:33:17,080 Speaker 7: Life because like if you have been a caretaker, it's 797 00:33:17,120 --> 00:33:20,400 Speaker 7: a lot, and so maybe people would be a little 798 00:33:20,400 --> 00:33:22,040 Speaker 7: gunshy about going into that situation. 799 00:33:22,120 --> 00:33:25,560 Speaker 1: Again. My mom loves my dad deeply, like they have 800 00:33:25,600 --> 00:33:27,720 Speaker 1: a wonderful thirty five years. They've been through ups and 801 00:33:27,760 --> 00:33:29,920 Speaker 1: downs and whatever. But my mom would tell you in 802 00:33:29,920 --> 00:33:34,719 Speaker 1: front of him, he's twelve or twelve years older than 803 00:33:34,760 --> 00:33:37,240 Speaker 1: she is. And now you know that she's her age 804 00:33:37,240 --> 00:33:38,920 Speaker 1: and he's his age. She would tell you if she 805 00:33:38,920 --> 00:33:41,200 Speaker 1: had to do over again, she wouldn't choose somebody who's 806 00:33:41,240 --> 00:33:44,120 Speaker 1: that much older because she's having just sort of you know, 807 00:33:44,200 --> 00:33:47,400 Speaker 1: everyone's getting older now, and it's happening for him faster 808 00:33:47,480 --> 00:33:49,920 Speaker 1: because he's older. Again, this is no slam on him, 809 00:33:49,920 --> 00:33:51,480 Speaker 1: and she's not slamming in when she's saying it. But 810 00:33:51,800 --> 00:33:54,440 Speaker 1: you know, when people look back on life, I think 811 00:33:54,440 --> 00:33:56,400 Speaker 1: it's like, well, I probably would have chosen someone my 812 00:33:56,480 --> 00:33:59,640 Speaker 1: age or younger even I mean, that's not how love works. 813 00:33:59,680 --> 00:34:01,320 Speaker 1: I guess the point I was making to her is 814 00:34:01,600 --> 00:34:03,080 Speaker 1: you fall in love with who you fall in love with, 815 00:34:03,120 --> 00:34:06,520 Speaker 1: but you know, odds are she's going to be present 816 00:34:06,720 --> 00:34:11,640 Speaker 1: for his aging process before hers, and that's hard to watch. 817 00:34:12,719 --> 00:34:16,240 Speaker 1: So I I see what she's saying. It just sounds 818 00:34:16,239 --> 00:34:21,719 Speaker 1: a little harsh. Hi Jenna, Hi, Hi, good morning. So 819 00:34:21,760 --> 00:34:23,280 Speaker 1: you you've been in this situation before? 820 00:34:24,520 --> 00:34:24,799 Speaker 5: I have. 821 00:34:25,160 --> 00:34:26,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, And I. 822 00:34:26,440 --> 00:34:29,440 Speaker 6: Actually feel like such a horrible person with what I'm 823 00:34:29,480 --> 00:34:30,560 Speaker 6: going to say after hall of. 824 00:34:30,560 --> 00:34:35,600 Speaker 9: These No, nobody should feel like a horrible person, like, yeah, 825 00:34:36,000 --> 00:34:37,680 Speaker 9: this might be one of our last days, you know, 826 00:34:38,520 --> 00:34:41,359 Speaker 9: for one reason or another, either the raptures coming from 827 00:34:41,360 --> 00:34:43,279 Speaker 9: one place or it's coming from another, I don't know, 828 00:34:45,040 --> 00:34:47,120 Speaker 9: but no, I mean, look, I wanted to be really 829 00:34:47,120 --> 00:34:49,640 Speaker 9: clear here, Like this guy called he was transparent. 830 00:34:49,680 --> 00:34:53,040 Speaker 1: People are calling, They're being honest. Everyone's entitled to whatever 831 00:34:53,040 --> 00:34:55,439 Speaker 1: their limitations are or whatever they want to live their life. 832 00:34:55,480 --> 00:34:57,640 Speaker 1: And even if it doesn't sound good. I never want 833 00:34:57,680 --> 00:35:00,000 Speaker 1: to make anyone feel bad. Well I shouldn't say it. 834 00:35:00,480 --> 00:35:02,200 Speaker 1: Occasionally I want to make you feel bad for being 835 00:35:02,200 --> 00:35:04,680 Speaker 1: a moron, but not you what going to go ahead? 836 00:35:05,880 --> 00:35:06,200 Speaker 12: Yeah? 837 00:35:06,239 --> 00:35:09,239 Speaker 6: So, I mean so I definitely feel like after what 838 00:35:09,320 --> 00:35:13,759 Speaker 6: I was listening to, like love is not enough all 839 00:35:13,840 --> 00:35:17,359 Speaker 6: the time, and like there's so many different fish in 840 00:35:17,400 --> 00:35:20,080 Speaker 6: the sea, and there's so many different situations that fit 841 00:35:20,120 --> 00:35:23,960 Speaker 6: for different people. So for me, you know, like I mean, 842 00:35:24,000 --> 00:35:27,680 Speaker 6: I'm a single mom, I'm dating, and I don't know, 843 00:35:27,760 --> 00:35:31,000 Speaker 6: I'm a foodie, like I love going out to restaurants 844 00:35:31,040 --> 00:35:34,040 Speaker 6: and eating like all different types of food. And like 845 00:35:34,080 --> 00:35:36,840 Speaker 6: the guy who you know, I was just went on 846 00:35:36,920 --> 00:35:40,000 Speaker 6: some dates with he could only eat like chicken fingers 847 00:35:40,040 --> 00:35:44,040 Speaker 6: and mazzurostics, and you know, like, I just don't know 848 00:35:44,360 --> 00:35:48,320 Speaker 6: if that's what I want for the rest of my life. 849 00:35:49,320 --> 00:35:53,279 Speaker 6: And I think that's okay to be like, no, that's 850 00:35:53,400 --> 00:35:58,240 Speaker 6: just not what I want. So ye, his his stuff 851 00:35:58,520 --> 00:36:01,560 Speaker 6: was limiting, and I'm I didn't take it, like I 852 00:36:01,640 --> 00:36:03,120 Speaker 6: kind of cut it off at the beginning because I 853 00:36:03,160 --> 00:36:06,359 Speaker 6: knew that wasn't right for me. But I don't know 854 00:36:06,520 --> 00:36:08,280 Speaker 6: just I mean, I think he is looking for validation, 855 00:36:08,480 --> 00:36:10,520 Speaker 6: so I want to validate him, and just being like 856 00:36:10,560 --> 00:36:13,280 Speaker 6: if this doesn't work for your lifestyle, just that's okay, 857 00:36:13,640 --> 00:36:15,640 Speaker 6: Like there is going to be somebody else who works 858 00:36:15,640 --> 00:36:18,279 Speaker 6: for her lifestyle and your lifestyle. And for me, just 859 00:36:18,320 --> 00:36:20,640 Speaker 6: the fact that he could only eat off the kid's menu, 860 00:36:21,600 --> 00:36:21,879 Speaker 6: you know. 861 00:36:22,160 --> 00:36:25,279 Speaker 1: Just and Jenna, I don't I'm not putting I said 862 00:36:25,280 --> 00:36:27,279 Speaker 1: this earlier. I'll say it again and people still won't 863 00:36:27,320 --> 00:36:29,839 Speaker 1: hear it. But I'm not I'm not putting all these 864 00:36:29,880 --> 00:36:33,560 Speaker 1: things on the same level, like it's different health versus 865 00:36:34,200 --> 00:36:37,279 Speaker 1: versus lifestyle versus whatever. I'm not saying these are all 866 00:36:37,280 --> 00:36:39,879 Speaker 1: the same. But how how would you feel? And I'm 867 00:36:39,920 --> 00:36:42,040 Speaker 1: sure it's happened to you where you've met men since 868 00:36:42,040 --> 00:36:44,480 Speaker 1: you're dating and you're a single mom who has said, Hey, 869 00:36:44,560 --> 00:36:47,239 Speaker 1: I don't I don't necessarily I like you, but I 870 00:36:47,239 --> 00:36:51,400 Speaker 1: don't necessarily want what comes with your obligation as a parent. 871 00:36:51,480 --> 00:36:53,919 Speaker 1: I mean, how does that make you feel? Because because 872 00:36:53,920 --> 00:36:55,120 Speaker 1: you're sort of saying the same. 873 00:36:54,960 --> 00:36:58,000 Speaker 6: Thing, thank you so much for just letting me know, 874 00:36:58,640 --> 00:37:01,160 Speaker 6: because I get it, you know, like I want someone 875 00:37:01,239 --> 00:37:04,880 Speaker 6: who wants all of those things. But just like the 876 00:37:04,920 --> 00:37:07,400 Speaker 6: girl who I was just listening to, like, yeah, maybe 877 00:37:07,520 --> 00:37:11,360 Speaker 6: prerequisites are smart, especially when you're like a little bit older. 878 00:37:12,520 --> 00:37:14,799 Speaker 1: So you're not being a hypocrite about this, Jenna, You're 879 00:37:14,800 --> 00:37:17,399 Speaker 1: being You're open minded about the fact that people need 880 00:37:17,400 --> 00:37:18,560 Speaker 1: different things for their lives. 881 00:37:18,880 --> 00:37:21,600 Speaker 6: Yeah, one hundred percent, you know, And I would much 882 00:37:21,719 --> 00:37:25,600 Speaker 6: rather someone be like, listen, I like you who you are, 883 00:37:25,880 --> 00:37:29,759 Speaker 6: but I'm not ready to you know, step in and 884 00:37:29,800 --> 00:37:32,400 Speaker 6: for me listen, I've got a great situation, you know. 885 00:37:32,400 --> 00:37:33,840 Speaker 6: So I'm not looking for some of this step in 886 00:37:33,840 --> 00:37:35,879 Speaker 6: and being dad, but I one hundred percent like that 887 00:37:35,920 --> 00:37:39,439 Speaker 6: comes with you know stuff, So I am much more. 888 00:37:39,560 --> 00:37:43,080 Speaker 6: Just let me know, because again, there are just too 889 00:37:43,120 --> 00:37:44,240 Speaker 6: many fish in the sea. 890 00:37:44,280 --> 00:37:46,080 Speaker 1: Because you know, I think about this as a single 891 00:37:46,120 --> 00:37:49,200 Speaker 1: guy in my in my mid forties. It's like, I'm 892 00:37:49,239 --> 00:37:53,000 Speaker 1: probably not having kids of my own. The demographic, there's 893 00:37:53,000 --> 00:37:54,640 Speaker 1: a demographic of people that I would date who have 894 00:37:54,719 --> 00:37:57,160 Speaker 1: been married and have kids. And I think about that like, 895 00:37:57,280 --> 00:37:59,560 Speaker 1: I'm not opposed to one or the other. I was 896 00:37:59,560 --> 00:38:01,960 Speaker 1: that kid, right I was adopted. I was that kid 897 00:38:02,000 --> 00:38:04,640 Speaker 1: at one point. My dad chows to marry my mom 898 00:38:04,680 --> 00:38:06,279 Speaker 1: and then take us all in as his family and 899 00:38:06,320 --> 00:38:08,239 Speaker 1: treat us as his own. So I mean, I've been 900 00:38:08,239 --> 00:38:10,239 Speaker 1: through this, but I think about it like my life 901 00:38:10,280 --> 00:38:13,359 Speaker 1: would change drastically if I fell in love with someone 902 00:38:13,400 --> 00:38:15,560 Speaker 1: who had a kid, But like, would I limit myself 903 00:38:15,560 --> 00:38:16,799 Speaker 1: from falling in love with that person? 904 00:38:16,800 --> 00:38:17,840 Speaker 3: I would like to believe no. 905 00:38:18,280 --> 00:38:20,680 Speaker 1: But I mean if I'm married or dated somebody or 906 00:38:20,800 --> 00:38:23,400 Speaker 1: was with someone as a partner who didn't, then my 907 00:38:23,440 --> 00:38:26,359 Speaker 1: life looks completely different. So I don't know it's right. 908 00:38:26,600 --> 00:38:29,400 Speaker 1: But am I a bad person if I choose not 909 00:38:29,480 --> 00:38:31,160 Speaker 1: to date the person with a kid. And I don't 910 00:38:31,200 --> 00:38:32,879 Speaker 1: think I'm a bad person, but I mean, you say 911 00:38:32,880 --> 00:38:35,600 Speaker 1: it out loud, it kind of sounds bad. 912 00:38:36,520 --> 00:38:40,880 Speaker 3: But listen, no, I mean we all have choices, right, Yeah, Jenna, 913 00:38:40,920 --> 00:38:42,000 Speaker 3: thank you. I appreciate you. 914 00:38:42,000 --> 00:38:44,040 Speaker 6: Have a good day you too. 915 00:38:44,880 --> 00:38:49,480 Speaker 1: Oh oh, okay, I misread that someone said. I thought 916 00:38:49,520 --> 00:38:51,279 Speaker 1: I said my wife has cancer, I'm leaving her? 917 00:38:51,520 --> 00:38:51,719 Speaker 3: You know. 918 00:38:51,920 --> 00:38:54,719 Speaker 1: It was what if she gets cancer? Will he leave her? 919 00:38:54,800 --> 00:38:56,920 Speaker 1: Is what it says. I misread that. I was like, oh, 920 00:38:57,120 --> 00:38:59,800 Speaker 1: oh my, we're taking this call so I canot just 921 00:39:00,000 --> 00:39:01,719 Speaker 1: i'roy this human being, but I'm not going. I don't 922 00:39:01,719 --> 00:39:03,240 Speaker 1: have to because this is that what it's said perfect. 923 00:39:03,280 --> 00:39:06,360 Speaker 7: I think the difference is like this guy is getting 924 00:39:06,440 --> 00:39:10,160 Speaker 7: into something knowing what comes with this person. And if 925 00:39:10,200 --> 00:39:12,160 Speaker 7: you are in love with someone in marriage to them 926 00:39:12,160 --> 00:39:14,600 Speaker 7: for years and they get cancer, it's a different story. 927 00:39:14,640 --> 00:39:16,759 Speaker 2: And I agree with the last caller. Love is not 928 00:39:16,920 --> 00:39:17,560 Speaker 2: always enough. 929 00:39:18,040 --> 00:39:20,040 Speaker 7: You can have love, but there can be a lot 930 00:39:20,040 --> 00:39:22,279 Speaker 7: of things that come with a person that it just 931 00:39:22,320 --> 00:39:23,680 Speaker 7: doesn't work for long term. 932 00:39:23,760 --> 00:39:25,319 Speaker 2: And that's also okay, you know