WEBVTT - Bobby's Mailbag + Riddle Me This + Amy Needs Advice 0:00:03.279 --> 0:00:13.960 Transmitting good MORNI studio morning. Why don't I go to 0:00:14.240 --> 0:00:17.040 Carrie and Saint Charles Missouri, who's on the phone. Hey Carrie? 0:00:17.079 --> 0:00:19.000 How are you good? How are you pretty good? What 0:00:19.040 --> 0:00:20.840 can I do for you? So a couple of years ago, 0:00:21.120 --> 0:00:24.040 you guys did a segment. It was right after Amy 0:00:24.120 --> 0:00:26.600 got her kids, and it was I think, it was 0:00:26.760 --> 0:00:28.920 what you're grateful for? And then what keeps you up 0:00:28.920 --> 0:00:32.440 at night? And I still remember to this day Amy's answers. 0:00:32.560 --> 0:00:36.000 It like touched me to my soul. She said like 0:00:36.080 --> 0:00:38.599 she was grateful for a bottle of motion because her 0:00:38.720 --> 0:00:41.279 kids had such dry skin, and they like wouldn't let 0:00:41.280 --> 0:00:43.239 her put it on, and they finally did. And then 0:00:43.280 --> 0:00:44.960 what kept her up at night is that she slept 0:00:45.000 --> 0:00:46.680 on the floor with her I think, I don't know 0:00:46.720 --> 0:00:49.000 if it was her daughter or her son, but they 0:00:49.040 --> 0:00:51.040 supped on the floor because they didn't even know what 0:00:51.080 --> 0:00:54.320 a bed was. And I thought that was incredible. And 0:00:54.400 --> 0:00:57.560 now all of you guys have had such big life changes. Um, 0:00:57.600 --> 0:00:59.360 I wanted to ask that question. Now, if you guys 0:00:59.360 --> 0:01:01.200 could go around and see, you know, name one thing 0:01:01.200 --> 0:01:02.960 that you're grateful for and one thing that keeps you 0:01:03.040 --> 0:01:06.920 up at night. Amy For me, I am super thankful 0:01:07.040 --> 0:01:11.120 for therapy, and what keeps me up at night is 0:01:12.000 --> 0:01:15.759 learning to set boundaries. And you know how that might 0:01:15.800 --> 0:01:18.880 affect certain people, but I'm trying to practice what did 0:01:18.920 --> 0:01:21.600 I do now? Not you? Well, I mean maybe it's 0:01:21.600 --> 0:01:24.440 in friendships and relationships, all kinds of things you can 0:01:24.440 --> 0:01:26.920 set boundaries, but I'm not used to it. So it 0:01:26.959 --> 0:01:28.920 definitely keeps me up because you get worried that I'm 0:01:29.000 --> 0:01:32.280 letting someone down or hurting someone's feelings when really it's 0:01:32.360 --> 0:01:36.160 not anything I should think twice about because boundaries are important. 0:01:36.680 --> 0:01:38.800 So but that does keep me up for sure. But 0:01:38.920 --> 0:01:41.240 that's why I also circle back to why I'm thankful 0:01:41.280 --> 0:01:43.800 for therapy. Well too, when you get older, you don't 0:01:43.840 --> 0:01:46.440 have time for as much bullcrap, and you start to go, 0:01:46.880 --> 0:01:49.800 I just don't care, Like this isn't that important in 0:01:49.840 --> 0:01:51.560 my life, so I'm not going to put a lot 0:01:51.600 --> 0:01:54.640 of time into it and make it that important. So true, 0:01:54.640 --> 0:01:56.440 and sometimes that's a boundary of I just don't have 0:01:56.520 --> 0:01:59.680 time for this crap. Right, My boundary is I'm time 0:01:59.720 --> 0:02:02.760 for you because you're dramatic the end, not worried about it, 0:02:02.800 --> 0:02:05.840 no drama because you don't exist in my little space anymore. 0:02:06.240 --> 0:02:08.720 And that's just because we get old and tired. Yeah, well, 0:02:08.760 --> 0:02:12.240 it's not even just boundaries regarding to anything dramatic or drama, 0:02:12.360 --> 0:02:15.880 but just healthy boundaries for yourself. That that totally makes sense. 0:02:15.880 --> 0:02:19.040 And if other people are aware of boundaries too, then 0:02:19.080 --> 0:02:24.000 they get it. Other people, dramatic people exactly. Eddie. I say, 0:02:24.040 --> 0:02:26.560 I'm grateful for the strength that God gives me to 0:02:26.600 --> 0:02:29.800 be a parent for four kids. Like that's tough and 0:02:29.880 --> 0:02:31.400 I don't know how I do it. There are certain 0:02:31.480 --> 0:02:32.799 days or weeks I go through and I'm just like, 0:02:32.840 --> 0:02:34.560 I don't know how I did that. I tell I 0:02:34.560 --> 0:02:37.200 would have quit a long time ago. So that's that's 0:02:37.200 --> 0:02:38.640 a big one. I don't know how it happens. So 0:02:38.760 --> 0:02:40.480 thank you God for doing that for me. Giving me 0:02:40.520 --> 0:02:43.720 that strength I am keeps me up at night. I 0:02:43.760 --> 0:02:46.520 would say, just my just worried about this job, like 0:02:46.600 --> 0:02:48.960 just a little bit, you know, Um, I think it's 0:02:48.960 --> 0:02:50.520 just a weird time for everyone and we don't know 0:02:50.680 --> 0:02:53.120 nothing's guaranteed, and I just hope that we have a job. 0:02:53.360 --> 0:02:56.280 What do you know that I don't nothing nothing, But 0:02:56.360 --> 0:02:57.679 you know, you talked to a lot of people. They're 0:02:57.720 --> 0:03:00.079 losing jobs left and right, and you just worry that 0:03:00.080 --> 0:03:03.600 that that could happen to anyone at any moment. Lunchbox, 0:03:03.760 --> 0:03:06.160 I am grateful for the invention of the lottery because 0:03:06.160 --> 0:03:08.919 it allows me to dream big and imagine my life 0:03:08.919 --> 0:03:11.200 when I hit the lottery and becomes super rich and 0:03:11.280 --> 0:03:14.640 what I'm gonna do. And what keeps me up at 0:03:14.720 --> 0:03:16.920 night is my kid in the middle of the night 0:03:16.960 --> 0:03:21.640 yelling dad da dad d my blanket, my blanket, or 0:03:21.680 --> 0:03:23.640 I need a hug that keeps me up at night 0:03:23.680 --> 0:03:25.440 because there's three thirty in the morning and they're yelling. 0:03:26.440 --> 0:03:29.320 It literally keeps literally keeps me up at night. I 0:03:29.400 --> 0:03:34.760 do that same thing with Kaitlin. No blanket, Mamma, blanket Carrie. 0:03:34.800 --> 0:03:37.840 Thank you for calling. Are you satisfied with those answers? 0:03:38.600 --> 0:03:42.240 I am, and yes, it just yep, it's great. Just 0:03:42.320 --> 0:03:44.680 listen about the kids because I have two kids myself, 0:03:44.920 --> 0:03:48.040 so the literal keeping you up at night, and then 0:03:48.080 --> 0:03:50.840 also you know, just thinking about keeping up at night 0:03:50.920 --> 0:03:54.880 just does. And yeah, it's all all big, exciting, exciting 0:03:54.920 --> 0:03:56.480 things for you guys. So thanks for having me on 0:03:56.520 --> 0:03:58.240 the show. You guys are awesome. Thanks carry have a 0:03:58.280 --> 0:04:02.080 good day you too. We're so adult now, I know. 0:04:02.240 --> 0:04:06.040 I just thought about that, and it's a it's a 0:04:06.120 --> 0:04:09.440 change that I've had to embrace because for most of 0:04:09.480 --> 0:04:11.360 my career I was the youngest to do it. I 0:04:11.440 --> 0:04:13.520 was twenty two, twenty three doing mornings in a big 0:04:13.560 --> 0:04:16.120 market and syndicating myself, and I was like, oh, look 0:04:16.120 --> 0:04:19.480 at this. I'm an adult. I'm a grown man, are 0:04:20.520 --> 0:04:23.560 you know. Don't make me go full Gundy on you. Yeah, 0:04:23.600 --> 0:04:25.880 we're getting there. I'm maybe I'm getting to that part 0:04:25.920 --> 0:04:27.760 of my life a little later than some people, but 0:04:27.839 --> 0:04:29.560 I think a little earlier I was doing other parts 0:04:29.560 --> 0:04:31.440 of my life. Sure that some people. So we're all 0:04:31.480 --> 0:04:35.080 just figuring it out the best way we can. All. Right, 0:04:35.080 --> 0:04:44.920 Here we go, open the mailbag something year. Hey, Bobby Bones, 0:04:45.360 --> 0:04:47.240 I'm writing to you because my girlfriend likes to wear 0:04:47.279 --> 0:04:49.479 this old Alan Jackson T shirt from the nineties to 0:04:49.520 --> 0:04:51.880 bed sometimes. You know, I never thought think about it. 0:04:52.240 --> 0:04:56.599 And don't get me wrong, I love Alan Jackson until 0:04:56.600 --> 0:04:58.160 I found out that it was a Rex's boyfriend's T 0:04:58.279 --> 0:05:02.080 shirt that she took from him be before they broke up. Okay, now, 0:05:02.120 --> 0:05:04.360 I know they had an amicable breakup, but I told 0:05:04.360 --> 0:05:06.880 her I don't want her wearing his shirt anymore, and 0:05:06.920 --> 0:05:09.200 she refuses to get rid of it. She said she 0:05:09.279 --> 0:05:11.279 only wears it because it's so comfortable and she likes 0:05:11.320 --> 0:05:12.960 the shirt. I said, hey, if you're gonna wear it, 0:05:13.000 --> 0:05:15.960 I won't stay next to you anymore. Do you think 0:05:15.960 --> 0:05:19.480 I'm overreacting? I thought you could tell me and you 0:05:19.720 --> 0:05:25.680 will settle the debate. Signed Kevin. This is a great email. Yeah, 0:05:25.720 --> 0:05:27.440 this is the kind of juice that we wait for. 0:05:27.720 --> 0:05:32.000 We love we love these Listen. This is what you do. 0:05:33.120 --> 0:05:35.200 You go and you try to find that exact shirt 0:05:35.440 --> 0:05:42.360 on eBay, some old Alan Jackson, big shirt, same size. 0:05:42.720 --> 0:05:44.760 Maybe you find the same one, maybe you don't, and 0:05:44.839 --> 0:05:46.200 you give it to her and you go, hey, listen, 0:05:46.200 --> 0:05:48.160 I was wrong to say, hey, just get rid of 0:05:48.240 --> 0:05:50.080 that shirt. It makes me uncomfortable because it was from 0:05:50.080 --> 0:05:52.440 your ex boyfriend, and it makes it just does it 0:05:52.480 --> 0:05:54.160 makes me uncomfortable. And then you say, hey, I got 0:05:54.200 --> 0:05:56.480 you this as a gesture because I am asking you 0:05:56.480 --> 0:05:58.039 to get rid of it, but I have you another one. 0:05:58.920 --> 0:06:02.480 And then that's I feel a transition that makes her 0:06:02.560 --> 0:06:04.880 not lose a battle and also gets to her a 0:06:04.920 --> 0:06:07.120 nice comfortable shirt that's what I would suggest. But she 0:06:07.160 --> 0:06:09.320 has to lose the shirt. Oh yeah, like that's not 0:06:09.400 --> 0:06:14.160 a thing. We don't allow that. Yeah, you communicate about it. 0:06:14.200 --> 0:06:17.480 When you wear that shirt it makes me feel, and 0:06:17.480 --> 0:06:20.760 then share with her how you feel. And then maybe 0:06:20.800 --> 0:06:22.800 the story that you tell yourself, even in your head 0:06:22.880 --> 0:06:24.480 is whether it's true or not. Oh my gosh, she 0:06:24.560 --> 0:06:27.080 must still be hung up on her boyfriend, and you know, 0:06:27.120 --> 0:06:30.120 then that's the story you tell herself yourself. And if 0:06:30.160 --> 0:06:34.800 she can't respect that, then I don't know. I'm assuming 0:06:35.040 --> 0:06:37.600 she already knows that, because if he's brought it up, 0:06:37.640 --> 0:06:39.640 she has to know why he brought it up. Okay, 0:06:40.000 --> 0:06:42.119 I'd say, you do all that in a Respectfulay, exactly 0:06:42.160 --> 0:06:43.800 what you're saying, but you also give a gift to 0:06:43.880 --> 0:06:46.880 kind of lighten the mood. But here's my thing. When 0:06:46.920 --> 0:06:49.200 you do sit down and share that, her response is 0:06:49.320 --> 0:06:51.960 very important. And her response was, I'm not losing the shirts. 0:06:52.400 --> 0:06:55.000 That's already happened. Okay. Well, I didn't know how fairly 0:06:55.000 --> 0:07:00.200 he presented his because don't act like just take it off, yeah, 0:07:00.360 --> 0:07:01.839 or like I don't like you wearing that shirt. But 0:07:01.839 --> 0:07:03.760 when you sit down and give her your honest feelings. 0:07:03.760 --> 0:07:05.599 Why when you do that it makes me feel blah 0:07:05.640 --> 0:07:08.160 blah blah. And this is the story I tell myself, like, 0:07:08.200 --> 0:07:11.560 that's a great communication tip for anything that's going on. 0:07:11.720 --> 0:07:16.040 And then if she still doesn't understand your feelings and 0:07:16.080 --> 0:07:17.960 doesn't because she cares about you want to make you 0:07:18.000 --> 0:07:21.880 feel better, then I think then you question overall where 0:07:21.880 --> 0:07:26.640 you're going off the ledge they're not. You go to 0:07:26.680 --> 0:07:28.600 her and do what Amy said in a nice way, 0:07:29.120 --> 0:07:31.400 but you also give her a new shirt. It just 0:07:31.520 --> 0:07:33.680 is it makes it much easier for her to be 0:07:33.720 --> 0:07:36.480 like okay, because again she probably has some pride about 0:07:36.480 --> 0:07:38.640 it too. It doesn't want to lose a fight. You 0:07:38.680 --> 0:07:41.000 know how you dig in now, I mean you you 0:07:41.040 --> 0:07:43.400 know how you dig in at times? Yes? I know, 0:07:44.040 --> 0:07:46.240 But I just think that this is a great way 0:07:46.240 --> 0:07:50.440 to see how she would respond. But we love Alan Jackson, 0:07:50.480 --> 0:07:53.480 so we'll take that shirtmail it up here the original. 0:07:53.600 --> 0:07:56.480 But she can't keep the shirt right, No, No, definitely 0:07:56.560 --> 0:07:59.400 not there. You go. Thank you for your email, Morgan. 0:07:59.440 --> 0:08:00.960 If they want to reach out to us, what happens, 0:08:01.160 --> 0:08:03.920 they just email mailbag at Bobby Bones dot com. Thank 0:08:03.920 --> 0:08:08.960 you very much. Close it up. We've got your that 0:08:09.160 --> 0:08:16.280 was found to close. Bobby Maia, it's the good News countdown, 0:08:16.760 --> 0:08:20.560 counting down the biggest good news stories across the lad 0:08:21.360 --> 0:08:26.520 It's the greatest countdown on the radio. Let's go. A 0:08:26.680 --> 0:08:28.920 septic company in New Hampshire found a wedding ring in 0:08:29.000 --> 0:08:31.280 one of its trucks. The ring was found in the 0:08:31.440 --> 0:08:34.320 depths of a septic truck. By the way, let me 0:08:34.320 --> 0:08:38.560 just say this, but it has now been reunited with 0:08:38.600 --> 0:08:42.400 its owner, cleaned and shine looking and smelling as good 0:08:42.400 --> 0:08:44.880 as new. And you know what I gotta say, whoever 0:08:44.920 --> 0:08:46.680 found it could easily kept it and sold it taken 0:08:46.720 --> 0:08:49.800 to a pun shop. They didn't, found it, tracked it, 0:08:50.000 --> 0:08:52.640 gave it back, and that person's wearing that pooper ring 0:08:52.679 --> 0:08:56.760 for the rest of their lives. Far A long time 0:08:56.800 --> 0:08:59.480 pizza delivery driver named Robert Peters and Indiana got a 0:08:59.480 --> 0:09:02.000 new car after people in his town pulled their money 0:09:02.040 --> 0:09:04.680 and gave him nineteen thousand dollars. He's been delivering pizzas 0:09:04.679 --> 0:09:07.480 for thirty one years. Was driving a beat up ninety 0:09:07.480 --> 0:09:11.600 three Oldsmobile. Now he's driving a two seventeen Chevy Malibu. 0:09:11.840 --> 0:09:14.319 Here's Robert talking about it to me. This is luxury. 0:09:14.400 --> 0:09:15.679 This is the first car I've had has been made 0:09:15.720 --> 0:09:17.760 the twenty first century. But the community has done what 0:09:17.880 --> 0:09:20.720 Tanner has done. He's gone far beyond a call of duty. 0:09:20.760 --> 0:09:22.720 It means a lot to me that people would do this. 0:09:23.520 --> 0:09:27.319 Come on, that's awesome. A guy in North Carolina raised 0:09:27.320 --> 0:09:29.440 a bunch of money for charity by running forty three 0:09:29.480 --> 0:09:34.040 miles on his forty third birthday. Wow. Justin Bailey did 0:09:34.080 --> 0:09:36.200 to raise money to give food to those in need. 0:09:36.240 --> 0:09:41.120 Here's a clip from wfmy News too opportunity to include 0:09:41.320 --> 0:09:43.600 something I love doing, which is running, bringing other people 0:09:43.600 --> 0:09:45.559 in to run with me, and also being able to 0:09:45.880 --> 0:09:50.360 raise money for a good cause. So after seven hours, 0:09:50.400 --> 0:09:54.640 thirty nine minutes and twenty seven seconds, Justin Bailey crossed 0:09:54.640 --> 0:09:59.079 the finish line forty three miles on his forty third birthday. 0:09:59.200 --> 0:10:03.600 That's a lot of running, man. A guy in North 0:10:03.600 --> 0:10:06.400 Carolina got a gift bag from his boss for Christmas. 0:10:07.120 --> 0:10:09.360 Very nice, and in the gift bag had lottery tickets 0:10:09.360 --> 0:10:11.560 inside of it little scratchers and so everybody had one, 0:10:11.600 --> 0:10:13.880 but he took his home, got around and scratching it 0:10:13.920 --> 0:10:20.720 off one two hundred thousand dollars. Wow. Wow, that is insane. 0:10:21.480 --> 0:10:24.040 Changed that guy's life. And how about everybody who didn't 0:10:24.040 --> 0:10:30.320 get they got a different ticket. Someone left a fourteen 0:10:30.440 --> 0:10:32.960 hundred dollars tip at a restaurant in Colorado, not to 0:10:33.040 --> 0:10:34.880 just one person, but two hundred bucks for each of 0:10:34.880 --> 0:10:37.760 the seven servers who were working that day. That's awesome. 0:10:38.600 --> 0:10:46.600 That the good news countdown. It's time for the good news. 0:10:48.559 --> 0:10:51.560 A guy rescued an older woman who had wandered away 0:10:51.559 --> 0:10:54.000 from her home in the snow, and she had fallen 0:10:54.640 --> 0:10:57.960 and crawled into an old car of his to get warm. 0:10:58.280 --> 0:11:00.520 So one of his neighbors said, Hey, I think somebody 0:11:00.559 --> 0:11:03.040 crawled into your old car that you keep beside the house. 0:11:03.320 --> 0:11:04.520 And it's like, there's no way wro in the middle 0:11:04.520 --> 0:11:06.360 of a snowstorm. Are you talking about? So he goes 0:11:06.400 --> 0:11:08.240 out there and he opens the door and he sees 0:11:08.280 --> 0:11:10.280 an old lady in there, going, this is the only 0:11:10.320 --> 0:11:12.400 place I could get to. She's I'm cold, I'm scared. 0:11:12.400 --> 0:11:15.200 Can you please help me? So he rushed inside, got 0:11:15.200 --> 0:11:18.240 a bunch of blankets to wrap her up, warmed her up, 0:11:18.600 --> 0:11:20.960 and then took her over to reunite with her family. 0:11:21.240 --> 0:11:23.240 Said he almost never uses that car, so he leaves 0:11:23.240 --> 0:11:27.160 it unlocked, and again, had his neighbor not seen what 0:11:27.280 --> 0:11:30.080 looked like somebody crawling in the snow and then him 0:11:30.080 --> 0:11:32.160 going out to save her, she would have just been 0:11:32.160 --> 0:11:34.040 in there for who knows how long. It's not a 0:11:34.040 --> 0:11:36.600 crazy story that she was even found. Yeah, that's what 0:11:36.640 --> 0:11:39.520 it's all about. Right there. That was tell me something good, 0:11:40.600 --> 0:11:44.480 remembering the dream of doctor Martin Luther King Jr. Bit 0:11:44.880 --> 0:11:49.840 if the Bobby Bone Show. Amy. When you were a kid, 0:11:49.880 --> 0:11:51.600 what did you want to be when you grew up? Oh, 0:11:51.880 --> 0:11:55.760 probably a veterinarian and then a news anchor both. Huh 0:11:55.800 --> 0:11:57.680 well yeah, veterinarian is early on when I was like 0:11:57.720 --> 0:12:00.800 a little little kid, and then high school cool like 0:12:00.840 --> 0:12:03.600 for career day, I went to the local news station. 0:12:03.920 --> 0:12:05.280 I've never heard you once say you wanted to be 0:12:05.320 --> 0:12:07.240 a news anchor. Oh yeah, I remember. I was obsessed 0:12:07.240 --> 0:12:10.360 with Judy Demaggio, and so much so later when I 0:12:10.400 --> 0:12:12.200 did have a career in sales. She came into the 0:12:12.200 --> 0:12:14.800 place where I worked and I had her sign something 0:12:14.840 --> 0:12:17.520 unofficially like, I's like, we're going to need your signature 0:12:17.600 --> 0:12:20.439 right here for this. She was a local newsperson, and 0:12:20.679 --> 0:12:23.680 I thought I wanted to do that, but didn't even 0:12:23.720 --> 0:12:25.640 major in that in college. I moved on, Edie, what 0:12:25.720 --> 0:12:29.040 do you want to be when you grew up? Rockstar, lunchbox, 0:12:29.520 --> 0:12:31.160 anything famous? I was gonna be on the Real World 0:12:31.160 --> 0:12:33.080 and then it was gonna take off, but really army 0:12:33.120 --> 0:12:36.680 because I liked camouflage, didn't you. At one point this 0:12:36.720 --> 0:12:38.920 is the long lost story of Lunchbox, he claims he 0:12:39.000 --> 0:12:41.200 almost got a call back for Real World. Oh no, 0:12:41.280 --> 0:12:43.480 I did. I went and tried out. I drove from 0:12:43.520 --> 0:12:46.439 San Antonio, Texas to College Station, Texas and tried out 0:12:46.440 --> 0:12:49.120 at the what's that called the Dixie Chicken? Amy, Uh, 0:12:49.440 --> 0:12:51.560 that is what's called the Dixie Yeah. I tried out there. 0:12:51.640 --> 0:12:54.040 And I drove back to San Antonio and I had 0:12:54.040 --> 0:12:56.160 a night class economics, and I was like, might as 0:12:56.160 --> 0:12:58.560 well go to class. And I got home that night 0:12:59.040 --> 0:13:01.720 and there was a call from three two three, and 0:13:01.760 --> 0:13:03.520 I asked my room, I said, Hey, who called you 0:13:03.559 --> 0:13:05.400 from three two three? Goes? I don't know that number, 0:13:05.440 --> 0:13:07.800 asked my other roommate, who called you from three two three? 0:13:07.960 --> 0:13:10.800 Don't know who that is? Look it up, La. They 0:13:10.800 --> 0:13:13.000 were calling me back. They wanted me back, but they 0:13:13.000 --> 0:13:14.720 had to call you again. They wouldn't just call it. 0:13:14.640 --> 0:13:16.760 That was it. They moved on. It was over. That 0:13:16.880 --> 0:13:20.160 was that was my shot. And I what I learned 0:13:20.240 --> 0:13:22.560 is when you go audition for things, don't go to class. 0:13:23.240 --> 0:13:24.880 And why didn't they call my cell phone? I had 0:13:24.880 --> 0:13:26.600 a cell phone. I put my cell phone number down, 0:13:26.720 --> 0:13:28.760 but they called the house phone back when those were 0:13:28.760 --> 0:13:31.400 a thing, and they didn't leave a voicemail. And that 0:13:31.520 --> 0:13:33.920 was it and I missed my shot. It was very 0:13:33.920 --> 0:13:36.480 I was so crushed. We don't know if they were 0:13:36.480 --> 0:13:38.480 really offering you a spot, and they wanted to at 0:13:38.520 --> 0:13:40.920 least reinterview me, like, hey, bring him back like this, 0:13:41.000 --> 0:13:44.640 dude's good, great, bam. Well, I'd like to share a 0:13:44.679 --> 0:13:46.440 story now that I've just learned. Did you know, Scooba 0:13:46.440 --> 0:13:48.280 Steve was offered a spot on the real World officially? 0:13:48.800 --> 0:13:52.679 What back in the day did you know that? No? No, 0:13:52.880 --> 0:13:55.680 like on the real world, real world, Scooba, Yes, on 0:13:55.760 --> 0:13:57.720 the actual real world. So this was in two thousand 0:13:57.720 --> 0:14:00.880 and seven when the Internet was kind of popping his lunchboxes. 0:14:00.920 --> 0:14:02.880 Put his hand on his head. He isn't now destroyed. 0:14:03.080 --> 0:14:04.920 Go ahead, and the step part is, I'll preface this. 0:14:04.960 --> 0:14:07.120 I had to turn it down. So they didn't talk 0:14:07.160 --> 0:14:08.920 to me. You had to turn it down. If you're 0:14:08.960 --> 0:14:12.679 applying for Real World, why would you ever turn it down? 0:14:12.840 --> 0:14:15.320 It was for Love go ahead. So what had happened 0:14:15.360 --> 0:14:17.680 was they did an online submission for their last castmate 0:14:17.960 --> 0:14:20.360 on Real World Hollywood, which I've always wanted to be 0:14:20.840 --> 0:14:23.240 on some sort of reality television show at that point 0:14:23.240 --> 0:14:25.560 in time my life. So we did this huge campaign. 0:14:25.640 --> 0:14:27.280 I was in a band, as we talked about before, 0:14:27.640 --> 0:14:29.800 and at every show we promote to vote for me 0:14:30.120 --> 0:14:33.600 to the audience. I promoted on MySpace like heavily. I 0:14:33.640 --> 0:14:35.280 got all kinds of people to vote for me, and 0:14:35.320 --> 0:14:37.320 I got to the top and it was between me 0:14:37.360 --> 0:14:39.720 and another guy. They chose me. But at the same 0:14:39.760 --> 0:14:41.600 time though, I was going off after this one girl 0:14:41.640 --> 0:14:44.560 who became my ex wife, and she gave me the 0:14:44.640 --> 0:14:48.480 ultimatum like, hey, you can either go this whole reality route, 0:14:48.760 --> 0:14:52.840 I'm out, or you choose me. I unfortunately chose her. 0:14:53.320 --> 0:14:55.720 I turned down a Real World. They went with this 0:14:55.800 --> 0:14:58.640 other guy from Daytona Beach, Florida, and he ended up 0:14:58.680 --> 0:15:00.440 up doing really well in the show. But I turned 0:15:00.440 --> 0:15:02.880 it down for Love, which was an awful mistake because 0:15:02.880 --> 0:15:04.880 I would have loved to be in a real world Scooba. 0:15:04.920 --> 0:15:07.360 Steve was offered a spot on the Real World. That 0:15:07.560 --> 0:15:09.880 is the worst news I've ever heard in my life. Like, 0:15:11.440 --> 0:15:14.840 oh my gosh, Like it makes me sick because I 0:15:14.840 --> 0:15:17.320 don't know how Scuba Steve is more interesting than me. 0:15:17.520 --> 0:15:20.400 I'm way more interesting At that time my life, I 0:15:20.440 --> 0:15:22.040 was the coolest kid in the block and was a 0:15:22.120 --> 0:15:23.960 rock band that a lot to offer. The fact that 0:15:24.040 --> 0:15:26.480 he turned it down for a chick, Like people that 0:15:26.560 --> 0:15:28.440 go on the Real World are so stupid when they 0:15:28.480 --> 0:15:30.520 go on with a girlfriend or boyfriend back home, Like 0:15:30.600 --> 0:15:33.080 it's really gonna work. You are there to party and 0:15:33.200 --> 0:15:36.640 to hook up, and you I can't believe you turn 0:15:36.720 --> 0:15:39.320 it down for a chick. How dumb? Like why wouldn't 0:15:39.320 --> 0:15:42.040 you go through the whole process if you have a 0:15:42.040 --> 0:15:44.200 girlfriend and you're gonna turn it down because of her? Well, 0:15:44.240 --> 0:15:45.920 I met her through that process when I was in 0:15:45.920 --> 0:15:49.880 the band, like a couple of months, a couple of weeks. Actually, 0:15:51.040 --> 0:15:54.280 oh my guys, come on, how stupid can you bean? 0:15:54.320 --> 0:15:56.080 It turns up down that you've known for someone for 0:15:56.120 --> 0:15:59.000 two weeks? It was pretty stupid. It was a dumb 0:15:59.080 --> 0:16:01.040 choice because obviously she's max wife. She cheated on me, 0:16:01.120 --> 0:16:03.640 so it was a horrible decision to have gone with 0:16:03.640 --> 0:16:05.960 her versus the Real World. I didn't know Scooba Steve 0:16:06.000 --> 0:16:08.800 was married twice, Me neither. When he said second ago 0:16:09.560 --> 0:16:16.760 on Ashley Madison, hold, I mean story, so many interesting stories. 0:16:16.800 --> 0:16:20.440 It's always it's like we're unwinding this most interesting man 0:16:20.520 --> 0:16:23.040 in radio. And that's why I got offered a spot World. 0:16:23.400 --> 0:16:25.560 I'm starting to I want to come. Did you talk 0:16:25.600 --> 0:16:27.960 about that story would have happened? Yeah, because I was 0:16:28.000 --> 0:16:29.680 in San Francisco on the radio, it was like a hole, 0:16:29.720 --> 0:16:31.200 don't share too much, I want to save it. Yeah, 0:16:31.200 --> 0:16:32.840 it was a whole month playout, like we just did 0:16:32.880 --> 0:16:34.560 a bunch of things with it. Yeah. That's how I 0:16:34.560 --> 0:16:37.120 found my new wife too, was through that process through Madison. 0:16:40.440 --> 0:16:42.640 Scooba Steve our executive producer who comes on about once 0:16:42.640 --> 0:16:45.360 every couple of days, but always with just like the 0:16:45.480 --> 0:16:48.360 perfect nugget. And today it was that he turned down 0:16:48.360 --> 0:16:49.840 Real World, and I knew what drive lunch box is 0:16:49.880 --> 0:16:52.000 crazy because that's been his biggest goal in life. My 0:16:52.000 --> 0:16:54.760 biggest goal in life since I was like twelve years old, 0:16:54.800 --> 0:16:57.680 I'd watch Real World Miami Boston, San Francisco, and I 0:16:57.680 --> 0:16:59.360 was like, I'm gonna be on that show or road Rules, 0:16:59.360 --> 0:17:01.880 and it just never happen. And that means you could 0:17:01.880 --> 0:17:05.280 be on the Challenge Scuba Prossibly. I'm killing myself about 0:17:05.320 --> 0:17:07.080 it too. Right now. You could be going for millions 0:17:07.080 --> 0:17:09.719 of dollars in these competitions. Instead, you turn it down 0:17:09.760 --> 0:17:11.720 for a girl you knew for two weeks. And Hollywood 0:17:11.760 --> 0:17:13.439 was a terrible season anyway. So do you want to 0:17:13.440 --> 0:17:19.440 get a Scoob's autograph before I play? So? No? Okay? Yeah, 0:17:19.520 --> 0:17:22.000 most kids love riddles. But what if we ask the 0:17:22.040 --> 0:17:25.480 adults in the room these kids riddles? Let's play riddle 0:17:25.560 --> 0:17:32.840 me this Amy, lunchbox Eddie. I will give you a 0:17:32.960 --> 0:17:35.639 kid's riddle. All you have to do is get it. 0:17:36.040 --> 0:17:38.480 You'll have twenty seconds after I finished the second reading 0:17:38.520 --> 0:17:40.960 of it. Okay, For example, this is you guys, can 0:17:41.080 --> 0:17:46.159 yell this one out? What gets wetter the more it dries? Right? 0:17:46.240 --> 0:17:49.000 That's wow? Well that's an old one. Yeah you've never 0:17:49.080 --> 0:17:52.560 heard that one. And I'm gonna be terrible at this. Okay, Amy, 0:17:52.560 --> 0:17:58.440 you're up first? Amy, What goes up but never comes 0:17:58.480 --> 0:18:04.359 back down? What goes up but never comes back down. 0:18:05.160 --> 0:18:10.639 Riddle me this. I mean, I feel like eventually it 0:18:10.840 --> 0:18:13.879 cycles itself back down again. But I'm just gonna go 0:18:13.880 --> 0:18:15.200 with the first thing that popped in my head, which 0:18:15.280 --> 0:18:23.840 was percipit. Evaporation. Yeah, I don't know because like then 0:18:23.920 --> 0:18:26.639 the evaporates within it like comes back down as we're 0:18:26.680 --> 0:18:31.120 doing this is a cycle. What goes up it never 0:18:31.160 --> 0:18:37.760 comes back down evaporation. The answer is age your age, oh, 0:18:38.000 --> 0:18:41.480 or that it's not gonna be so on the nose 0:18:41.520 --> 0:18:46.240 and scientific. It's a riddle, yeah, and sometimes it is 0:18:46.280 --> 0:18:49.119 not in the right head space. It's tough what you 0:18:49.119 --> 0:18:52.040 get on one track. But to believe because age, that's 0:18:52.080 --> 0:18:59.720 so true. A right amy, you've been eliminated. Okay, yeah, goodbye, 0:18:55.720 --> 0:19:05.560 O siled that way, all right, lunchbox. What goes away 0:19:05.640 --> 0:19:09.560 as soon as you talk about it? What goes away? 0:19:10.560 --> 0:19:13.480 As soon as you talk about it? Timer starts? Now, 0:19:14.320 --> 0:19:17.560 what goes away as soon as you talk about it? 0:19:18.840 --> 0:19:26.000 I'm talking about something, It goes away ten seconds, It 0:19:26.040 --> 0:19:33.320 goes away. A minute you talk about it, you go away. 0:19:33.720 --> 0:19:38.600 That's time. What goes away as soon as you talk 0:19:38.640 --> 0:19:45.320 about it? Your breath incorrect? It is silence. Silence goes 0:19:45.359 --> 0:19:47.000 away as soon as you talk about it. It's a 0:19:47.040 --> 0:19:50.960 hard one, man. Yeah, I don't know. You've been boned. No, 0:19:51.240 --> 0:19:55.639 I am not not this game, eddie. Come on, what 0:19:55.840 --> 0:20:00.320 is the best month for a parade? What is the 0:20:00.359 --> 0:20:05.919 best month for a parade? Riddle me? This the best 0:20:06.160 --> 0:20:12.120 month for a parade? I didn't have to do with anything. 0:20:13.160 --> 0:20:21.280 Parade months? January, February, March, April, May, June, July, August, September, October, November, December. 0:20:21.520 --> 0:20:25.760 What's the best month or a parade? Five seconds? Oh, 0:20:25.800 --> 0:20:30.000 it's gotta be something with a parade. The month time, eddie? 0:20:30.119 --> 0:20:34.200