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Speaker 1: Spreading in with Becca Tilly and Tanya rad and I

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Speaker 1: Heart Radio and two time People's Choice Award winning podcast.

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Speaker 1: Hello everybody, Welcome to our mini bonus episode. Which actually

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Speaker 1: is it going to be mini or just a bonus?

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Speaker 1: I think it's gonna be a hybrid of sorts. But

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Speaker 1: when Giacomo comes knocking on your door and says, knock knock,

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Speaker 1: I'd like to come on and promote this really cool

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Speaker 1: event that I'm doing, it's on I need to do

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Speaker 1: it on a Thursday. Guess what we say. We say,

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Speaker 1: come on in Dr de Luca and have a seat, virtually,

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Speaker 1: pull up a seat and take a load off your feet.

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Speaker 1: Happy to have you on a Thursday at three pm. Um,

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Speaker 1: And that's what we're gonna do. We're gonna chat to him.

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Speaker 1: He has a really cool event coming up. Is that

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Speaker 1: what I said? I don't think I've had caffeine today.

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Speaker 1: I've had a lot. Yeah, I can tell a different

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Speaker 1: pages of energy I've did. This is my third show

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Speaker 1: but Anyways, we are going to chat with him and

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Speaker 1: talk about this cool event, and he has coming up

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Speaker 1: and talk about Grey's Anatomy and when they're filming, if

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Speaker 1: it's ready. Says it's time for Giacomo. All right, we'll

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Speaker 1: be right back with him. All right, we have a

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Speaker 1: very special guest, very special guests. We are welcoming back

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Speaker 1: to the o R. We have Giacomo. You got you

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Speaker 1: said the last part of my last name. That's I know. Well,

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Speaker 1: I tried so hard, was it okay? Baby steps, It's okay.

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Speaker 1: It's the first part again. Janet Um also known as

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Speaker 1: Andrew de Luca on Grey's Anatomy, Welcome back. Um, you're

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Speaker 1: part of our Virtual are Live virtual event, which was

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Speaker 1: the well really the one and only that we've done

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Speaker 1: for good reason. But um you really you you made

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Speaker 1: it very special. YEA, truly the highlight. Thank you guys.

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Speaker 1: It was fun talking to you guys. Yeah, it was

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Speaker 1: I don't, I don't we had it was a lot

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Speaker 1: that were apart. I thought it was really really funny

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Speaker 1: and entertaining. So fine, right, what's there for? Yeah? Um,

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Speaker 1: so what is happening with you right now? As someone

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Speaker 1: the same boat. Do you all have a set date

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Speaker 1: to receive that because you haven't sorted out stuff in

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Speaker 1: your life, then those things probably won't come to you

427
00:23:00,880 --> 00:23:03,480
Speaker 1: yet because you're not ready for them. I saw this

428
00:23:03,560 --> 00:23:06,359
Speaker 1: thing on Instagram the other day of like it was

429
00:23:06,400 --> 00:23:11,000
Speaker 1: this woman who tweeted like how I always help my

430
00:23:11,040 --> 00:23:14,000
Speaker 1: other girlfriends, Like, um, you know, we went to a

431
00:23:14,080 --> 00:23:18,040
Speaker 1: job interviewed together and she got it, like and I

432
00:23:18,080 --> 00:23:19,679
Speaker 1: took her to it so she didn't know about it,

433
00:23:19,680 --> 00:23:21,520
Speaker 1: and I took her to the thing and she got it,

434
00:23:21,680 --> 00:23:25,000
Speaker 1: And I was happy for her because I don't there's

435
00:23:25,119 --> 00:23:27,680
Speaker 1: enough for all of us to eat, and what's meant

436
00:23:27,680 --> 00:23:30,080
Speaker 1: for me, won't miss me, And I was like, whoa,

437
00:23:30,440 --> 00:23:33,800
Speaker 1: I love that. Um So I think the same thing

438
00:23:33,800 --> 00:23:36,199
Speaker 1: with with love, like what's meant for you won't miss you?

439
00:23:36,880 --> 00:23:39,240
Speaker 1: So you know, things are kind of I believe that

440
00:23:39,240 --> 00:23:41,080
Speaker 1: there's sort of like a things are meant to be

441
00:23:41,160 --> 00:23:45,000
Speaker 1: to a certain degree. Um So, yeah, I think you

442
00:23:45,040 --> 00:23:46,520
Speaker 1: just have to be in the state of mind that

443
00:23:46,600 --> 00:23:48,320
Speaker 1: you you want that, you know what I mean. I

444
00:23:48,320 --> 00:23:51,679
Speaker 1: don't think it's about like an age or the person,

445
00:23:51,880 --> 00:23:55,359
Speaker 1: but yeah, certainly a person can certainly accelerate those things.

446
00:23:55,440 --> 00:23:57,760
Speaker 1: If you find this incredible person and you're like, wow,

447
00:23:57,800 --> 00:24:00,560
Speaker 1: I wasn't really planning on, you know, in a committed

448
00:24:00,600 --> 00:24:03,399
Speaker 1: relationship now or being married, but like wow, this person

449
00:24:03,520 --> 00:24:05,520
Speaker 1: is like totally rock my world and I can't see

450
00:24:05,600 --> 00:24:07,800
Speaker 1: myself being with anyone else. Then Yeah, and you would

451
00:24:07,840 --> 00:24:10,880
Speaker 1: maybe settle down with that person. I love that what's

452
00:24:10,960 --> 00:24:13,960
Speaker 1: meant for you won't miss you? It won't like good advice,

453
00:24:14,280 --> 00:24:18,560
Speaker 1: Well you just know. Yeah. Sure. I don't know if

454
00:24:18,600 --> 00:24:20,159
Speaker 1: you knew that before he said that, or if that

455
00:24:20,240 --> 00:24:23,400
Speaker 1: struck it. It struck me a little bit. Um did

456
00:24:23,440 --> 00:24:26,160
Speaker 1: you have during quarantine times? Have you picked up any

457
00:24:26,359 --> 00:24:30,560
Speaker 1: um different hobbies or done anything different that maybe you

458
00:24:30,600 --> 00:24:33,320
Speaker 1: didn't have time for before. Yeah. I mean for the

459
00:24:33,320 --> 00:24:35,760
Speaker 1: first little while, I was doing this like little poetry

460
00:24:35,760 --> 00:24:39,199
Speaker 1: show on my Instagram every day at least Monday to Friday.

461
00:24:39,240 --> 00:24:41,280
Speaker 1: I I'd read a poem and like talk about it,

462
00:24:41,320 --> 00:24:43,440
Speaker 1: and I'd invite like different friends of mine or other

463
00:24:43,480 --> 00:24:45,600
Speaker 1: actors or artists to come on and read a poem

464
00:24:45,640 --> 00:24:48,000
Speaker 1: from like their culture, of their language or something. And

465
00:24:48,160 --> 00:24:50,200
Speaker 1: I thought it was really fun and really engaging. But

466
00:24:51,240 --> 00:24:56,560
Speaker 1: you know, then, you know, the the protests and everything

467
00:24:56,560 --> 00:24:59,640
Speaker 1: started happening, and I just felt like a lot, along

468
00:24:59,680 --> 00:25:02,200
Speaker 1: with a lot to other people, that was baby better

469
00:25:02,240 --> 00:25:04,320
Speaker 1: to kind of like step back from Instagram a little

470
00:25:04,359 --> 00:25:07,640
Speaker 1: bit and give the voices to the voices that needed

471
00:25:07,640 --> 00:25:11,080
Speaker 1: to be heard at this moment. So um, But but

472
00:25:11,160 --> 00:25:14,680
Speaker 1: that was that was about it. New hobbies or did

473
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Speaker 1: you read it? Like, are there any books that you

474
00:25:16,440 --> 00:25:19,280
Speaker 1: read that you had been wanting to read and when

475
00:25:19,359 --> 00:25:22,880
Speaker 1: you had the time, You're got him done. I adopted

476
00:25:22,960 --> 00:25:26,080
Speaker 1: leave my wife and I adopted a dog. Oh yeah,

477
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Speaker 1: I believe that that's really taken up a lot of

478
00:25:28,320 --> 00:25:30,720
Speaker 1: my time, but in a great way. I mean, he

479
00:25:30,800 --> 00:25:33,800
Speaker 1: keeps me really busy, and he's been a great source

480
00:25:33,840 --> 00:25:37,480
Speaker 1: of joy in our life. So I feel like that

481
00:25:37,600 --> 00:25:39,639
Speaker 1: had just happened the last time we talked to you all,

482
00:25:39,720 --> 00:25:42,480
Speaker 1: or talk to you You're right, Yeah, you're right. Yeah,

483
00:25:42,600 --> 00:25:44,320
Speaker 1: we had just got him the last time I spoke

484
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Speaker 1: to you guys. Yeah, I don't know if y'all were

485
00:25:47,119 --> 00:25:49,440
Speaker 1: sleeping much. I when I first got my dog, there

486
00:25:49,520 --> 00:25:52,159
Speaker 1: was I don't remember a lot of things because I

487
00:25:52,200 --> 00:25:55,280
Speaker 1: was sleep deprived. He's two and a half years. We

488
00:25:55,320 --> 00:25:58,600
Speaker 1: didn't get a puppy, so he's, you know, super young.

489
00:25:58,720 --> 00:26:01,760
Speaker 1: But he's definitely you know, I guess in his dog years,

490
00:26:01,800 --> 00:26:04,600
Speaker 1: like a teenager. So he's got he's potty trained and

491
00:26:04,600 --> 00:26:07,120
Speaker 1: all that kind of stuff. He's just got a little

492
00:26:07,160 --> 00:26:10,119
Speaker 1: separation anxiety, that's pretty much. Yeah, he doesn't like it

493
00:26:10,160 --> 00:26:12,280
Speaker 1: when we leave. So we try to leave during the

494
00:26:12,359 --> 00:26:15,840
Speaker 1: week more often, and like you would normally do like

495
00:26:16,600 --> 00:26:19,080
Speaker 1: by ourselves, like I'll get the groceries or she'll get

496
00:26:19,080 --> 00:26:20,840
Speaker 1: the groceries. Now we're like trying to do it together

497
00:26:20,880 --> 00:26:22,720
Speaker 1: so that we both leave the house and he gets

498
00:26:22,720 --> 00:26:26,600
Speaker 1: more used to being left alone and being okay with it. Um.

499
00:26:26,680 --> 00:26:32,480
Speaker 1: But every recue dog comes with their traumas I know,

500
00:26:33,040 --> 00:26:37,240
Speaker 1: separation I have. I mean, I feel the separation anxiety

501
00:26:37,240 --> 00:26:39,639
Speaker 1: from my dog, like we both feel and she I

502
00:26:39,680 --> 00:26:42,160
Speaker 1: got her as a puppy, and I feel like that

503
00:26:42,280 --> 00:26:46,199
Speaker 1: is very common for for every dog because I just

504
00:26:46,359 --> 00:26:48,800
Speaker 1: never wanted to I felt so much guilt leaving her,

505
00:26:48,840 --> 00:26:51,720
Speaker 1: and then someone told me, they're like, you're you're you're

506
00:26:51,760 --> 00:26:54,920
Speaker 1: going to regret that. You need to establish those boundaries.

507
00:26:54,960 --> 00:26:58,560
Speaker 1: So it's really hard for sure. Boundaries. Don't even get

508
00:26:58,600 --> 00:27:00,440
Speaker 1: me start on bound every I just had a book

509
00:27:00,440 --> 00:27:04,280
Speaker 1: called boundaries. Oh, I don't think he has time for

510
00:27:04,320 --> 00:27:09,240
Speaker 1: that today. For your analysis of boundaries, it's so good.

511
00:27:09,840 --> 00:27:12,000
Speaker 1: Oh so I've been reading like a ton of self

512
00:27:12,000 --> 00:27:15,199
Speaker 1: help books. So that's very very important for your for

513
00:27:15,280 --> 00:27:19,520
Speaker 1: your life and for your mental health for sure. Yeah. Wait,

514
00:27:19,560 --> 00:27:25,160
Speaker 1: one one quick question. Um, this is just personal question. Um.

515
00:27:25,520 --> 00:27:27,640
Speaker 1: I know you're married, but like if you were, let's

516
00:27:27,680 --> 00:27:29,160
Speaker 1: just say you back in the day when you were dating,

517
00:27:29,480 --> 00:27:31,280
Speaker 1: If you were on a date with somebody and they

518
00:27:31,320 --> 00:27:33,240
Speaker 1: told you that they were reading a book called Calling

519
00:27:33,280 --> 00:27:39,720
Speaker 1: in the One, would that scare you? Calling in the One? Yeah,

520
00:27:39,960 --> 00:27:43,280
Speaker 1: I don't know what that is. Like you're calling in

521
00:27:43,480 --> 00:27:53,840
Speaker 1: the one, like you're manifesting the one. I know I think,

522
00:27:54,240 --> 00:27:55,960
Speaker 1: I don't think that would freak me out at all.

523
00:27:56,640 --> 00:28:01,440
Speaker 1: Oh really yeah, so if at a connection with someone

524
00:28:01,920 --> 00:28:04,520
Speaker 1: that wouldn't like that would just be oh cool, they're

525
00:28:04,520 --> 00:28:07,280
Speaker 1: reading you know. Yeah, It's just funny because I think

526
00:28:07,320 --> 00:28:11,400
Speaker 1: it would scare me if you started, like, like showing

527
00:28:11,440 --> 00:28:14,760
Speaker 1: me tactics you were using from the book in our dates.

528
00:28:17,960 --> 00:28:20,639
Speaker 1: The book doesn't give you like tactics. The book is

529
00:28:20,680 --> 00:28:23,280
Speaker 1: more like self help like it it kind of makes

530
00:28:23,320 --> 00:28:26,199
Speaker 1: you look in word and deal with things like internally

531
00:28:26,440 --> 00:28:29,719
Speaker 1: versus giving you like pickup lines and tools and in

532
00:28:29,760 --> 00:28:32,840
Speaker 1: that sense. But it's funny because I read this book

533
00:28:32,920 --> 00:28:35,879
Speaker 1: last year and I literally finished the book and I

534
00:28:35,920 --> 00:28:38,320
Speaker 1: met my now boyfriend, and so I've talked about a

535
00:28:38,360 --> 00:28:40,400
Speaker 1: lot on the podcast, and a ton of scrubbers will

536
00:28:40,440 --> 00:28:42,680
Speaker 1: message me and be like, I'm reading the book. I'm

537
00:28:42,720 --> 00:28:44,320
Speaker 1: going on a date. Isn't weird if I tell him

538
00:28:44,320 --> 00:28:46,440
Speaker 1: I'm reading the book? And I was like, that's a

539
00:28:46,560 --> 00:28:50,120
Speaker 1: great question. I don't know if i'd mentioned the title,

540
00:28:50,840 --> 00:28:53,920
Speaker 1: But I don't know the difference. What would be the

541
00:28:53,920 --> 00:28:56,440
Speaker 1: difference between you saying that and then just sharing with

542
00:28:56,480 --> 00:28:58,840
Speaker 1: your date that I'm really looking for someone to fall

543
00:28:58,880 --> 00:29:00,880
Speaker 1: in love with and like that's in the place in

544
00:29:00,920 --> 00:29:03,479
Speaker 1: my life that I'm at. That's true. I mean I

545
00:29:03,520 --> 00:29:05,480
Speaker 1: mentioned it on my first day with my current boyfriend.

546
00:29:05,480 --> 00:29:07,040
Speaker 1: I was like, I'm reading this book and it helped

547
00:29:07,040 --> 00:29:10,240
Speaker 1: me realize a ton of my past dating patterns that

548
00:29:10,360 --> 00:29:14,680
Speaker 1: led me down like a bad path. I think that's fine. Yeah,

549
00:29:14,840 --> 00:29:17,680
Speaker 1: I think anything where you're talking about learning about yourself

550
00:29:17,800 --> 00:29:21,360
Speaker 1: is is okay. I think the title I agree comes

551
00:29:21,400 --> 00:29:29,880
Speaker 1: off a little oh oh and the one calling in

552
00:29:29,960 --> 00:29:33,200
Speaker 1: the one and I hope that's you. Well, maybe not

553
00:29:33,360 --> 00:29:38,840
Speaker 1: that based at my hand gesture, but like right right,

554
00:29:39,960 --> 00:29:42,120
Speaker 1: I don't have like an in between, like I'm either

555
00:29:42,200 --> 00:29:45,840
Speaker 1: like a zero or a hundred, you know, eyes like

556
00:29:45,960 --> 00:29:53,520
Speaker 1: bulge out. It's really she's an expressive one. Um. Jachma,

557
00:29:53,560 --> 00:29:57,440
Speaker 1: thank you so much for your time. Again. Um everyone,

558
00:29:57,800 --> 00:30:00,600
Speaker 1: go be a part of this Live a Joy event.

559
00:30:00,640 --> 00:30:03,840
Speaker 1: It sounds like it's gonna be awesome. Um. Yeah, I'm

560
00:30:03,880 --> 00:30:05,720
Speaker 1: gonna send up for the wine night. What are the

561
00:30:05,800 --> 00:30:10,600
Speaker 1: dates again, Antonia? Yeah, so August nine, this Sunday is

562
00:30:10,640 --> 00:30:13,080
Speaker 1: the benefit concert. It's free. Don't miss that. It's an

563
00:30:13,120 --> 00:30:15,040
Speaker 1: amazing I mean, just tune in for that and watch

564
00:30:15,040 --> 00:30:17,040
Speaker 1: all your favorite artists perform. I don't know why anyone

565
00:30:17,080 --> 00:30:19,600
Speaker 1: wouldn't tune in for this. It's gonna be awesome. And

566
00:30:19,600 --> 00:30:23,160
Speaker 1: then during the week, yeah, for anywhere from seventy five dollars'

567
00:30:23,200 --> 00:30:28,080
Speaker 1: workshops um ending on August thirteen. So go to um

568
00:30:28,280 --> 00:30:31,960
Speaker 1: m FP Summer Fest dot gives smart dot com. That's

569
00:30:32,000 --> 00:30:34,800
Speaker 1: gonna take you right to all the tickets. Um. But

570
00:30:35,120 --> 00:30:37,320
Speaker 1: I just said before, just the regular my friends based

571
00:30:37,320 --> 00:30:40,600
Speaker 1: website can also get you there as well. Yeah, and

572
00:30:40,600 --> 00:30:42,560
Speaker 1: we can actually throw up. We can throw a swipe

573
00:30:42,640 --> 00:30:44,640
Speaker 1: up link on our scrubbing and account to for you

574
00:30:44,680 --> 00:30:46,080
Speaker 1: guys if you want to just swipe up and have

575
00:30:46,200 --> 00:30:48,400
Speaker 1: it right there. Yeah, I'm going to do the wine

576
00:30:48,480 --> 00:30:51,720
Speaker 1: night and possibly the paint night as well. Yeah, you

577
00:30:51,760 --> 00:30:53,720
Speaker 1: have some beautiful art work. I've been doing a little

578
00:30:53,720 --> 00:30:58,280
Speaker 1: painting during quarantine. Awesome. Not good, but I mean you

579
00:30:58,280 --> 00:31:00,200
Speaker 1: want to see it exactly. Wait, actually it's to go

580
00:31:00,280 --> 00:31:08,680
Speaker 1: hold on, gonna take mine. She's going to bring it over. Yeah. Yeah, yeah,

581
00:31:08,800 --> 00:31:11,760
Speaker 1: we're in the same point that like freaked me out.

582
00:31:11,880 --> 00:31:14,400
Speaker 1: I was like, oh yeah, we're sitting across the table.

583
00:31:14,520 --> 00:31:18,719
Speaker 1: But I my setup is only like geared to like

584
00:31:18,800 --> 00:31:20,840
Speaker 1: for me to have the videos. So Becca has to

585
00:31:20,960 --> 00:31:23,720
Speaker 1: like log on on her phone. That's so funny. She

586
00:31:23,840 --> 00:31:29,200
Speaker 1: just like pops up behind me. Okay, so my boyfriend

587
00:31:29,240 --> 00:31:31,240
Speaker 1: and I each painted what we see in each other,

588
00:31:31,400 --> 00:31:36,880
Speaker 1: and so this was his painting of me. Oh okay,

589
00:31:37,400 --> 00:31:40,840
Speaker 1: X over the eyes. Yeah, it's supposed to be like

590
00:31:40,880 --> 00:31:43,080
Speaker 1: it's supposed to look like some artists. I'm not totally

591
00:31:43,160 --> 00:31:45,240
Speaker 1: sure the name of the artist, but somebody does this.

592
00:31:46,240 --> 00:31:49,160
Speaker 1: It's cool. I like it. It's a little scary. The

593
00:31:49,200 --> 00:31:52,560
Speaker 1: halo was really redeeming. When I looked at I was like, oh, like,

594
00:31:52,600 --> 00:31:55,920
Speaker 1: I'm an angel, of course I think, yeah, yeah, but

595
00:31:56,000 --> 00:31:59,000
Speaker 1: a little scary. And then um, I did what I'll

596
00:31:59,040 --> 00:32:00,920
Speaker 1: see you when I look into his eyes. So there's

597
00:32:00,920 --> 00:32:06,600
Speaker 1: like an ocean and a sun and little hearts. She's

598
00:32:06,640 --> 00:32:10,960
Speaker 1: really going to crush the pain the virtual paint Night, Yeah,

599
00:32:11,200 --> 00:32:13,280
Speaker 1: there you go. Should definitely go out of Paint Night.

600
00:32:14,000 --> 00:32:16,080
Speaker 1: I know. I'm actually kind of looking forward to it

601
00:32:16,120 --> 00:32:18,920
Speaker 1: for real. Well, it sounds amazing. We can't wait. We'll

602
00:32:18,960 --> 00:32:21,280
Speaker 1: do a swipe up link for our scrubbers and thanks

603
00:32:21,320 --> 00:32:23,720
Speaker 1: again for your time. I mean, we kind of just

604
00:32:23,800 --> 00:32:26,080
Speaker 1: like love having you. So when you guys start filming again,

605
00:32:26,120 --> 00:32:28,400
Speaker 1: if you want to come back on. Happy to have you.

606
00:32:28,640 --> 00:32:32,080
Speaker 1: We love you. We will support everything and anything you do. Again,

607
00:32:32,160 --> 00:32:34,240
Speaker 1: I remember, we'll never forget the first time we met

608
00:32:34,280 --> 00:32:36,880
Speaker 1: you and how amazing and kind you were to us.

609
00:32:37,000 --> 00:32:39,360
Speaker 1: So you're just like on the top of the list

610
00:32:39,640 --> 00:32:43,080
Speaker 1: for life. We're like, what are we president vice president

611
00:32:43,080 --> 00:32:47,040
Speaker 1: of your fan club? Yeah? Amazing. Thank you guys so much.

612
00:32:47,040 --> 00:32:49,040
Speaker 1: I have a great day. And thank you for helping

613
00:32:49,040 --> 00:32:53,400
Speaker 1: me spread awareness about this. Yeah, thank you, thank you.

614
00:33:08,360 --> 00:33:13,880
Speaker 1: I wish that y'all could see how handsome he is

615
00:33:13,920 --> 00:33:16,160
Speaker 1: when we're talking to him, I know, just so cool.

616
00:33:16,760 --> 00:33:18,520
Speaker 1: But you know what, I was so Mark, I'm a

617
00:33:18,560 --> 00:33:20,880
Speaker 1: little bit bummed because I really wanted you to like

618
00:33:21,000 --> 00:33:24,000
Speaker 1: pop in zoom at the end of the interview so

619
00:33:24,040 --> 00:33:27,040
Speaker 1: he could be like, Dad's here again. I was like, wait,

620
00:33:27,360 --> 00:33:28,920
Speaker 1: and then I wanted to text you to tell you

621
00:33:28,960 --> 00:33:32,520
Speaker 1: to do it, but I like, I I just couldn't

622
00:33:32,560 --> 00:33:35,160
Speaker 1: get I just well, that would have been a fun throwback.

623
00:33:35,240 --> 00:33:36,920
Speaker 1: But you know, it's weird. I'm in a closet. It's

624
00:33:36,920 --> 00:33:39,160
Speaker 1: all weird. No, But I feel like he would have

625
00:33:39,160 --> 00:33:40,920
Speaker 1: done the same thing. He would have been my dad's

626
00:33:40,960 --> 00:33:45,880
Speaker 1: here here. That, by the way, it is weird. That

627
00:33:45,960 --> 00:33:48,520
Speaker 1: red star painted you with extras over your eyes. I

628
00:33:48,600 --> 00:33:52,520
Speaker 1: agree with him. I think we've all pointed out it's strange.

629
00:33:52,840 --> 00:34:03,400
Speaker 1: Rubbed the Angel. Yeah it was crazy. So yeah, well no,

630
00:34:03,560 --> 00:34:05,600
Speaker 1: so we like signed it. We signed and dated him

631
00:34:05,600 --> 00:34:08,400
Speaker 1: on the back and um, wait a minute, did you

632
00:34:08,480 --> 00:34:12,240
Speaker 1: write I love you on the back? Huge? If true?

633
00:34:13,080 --> 00:34:15,360
Speaker 1: Oh I can't really say because it's his initials. Okay,

634
00:34:15,360 --> 00:34:18,200
Speaker 1: but I thought you said E y e as an

635
00:34:18,239 --> 00:34:20,200
Speaker 1: eye because you do an eye? Yeah, because I drew

636
00:34:20,239 --> 00:34:25,200
Speaker 1: his eye. I love you? Do you love her heart?

637
00:34:25,840 --> 00:34:28,440
Speaker 1: What did it say after e y e, there's a

638
00:34:28,440 --> 00:34:31,480
Speaker 1: heart and then then his initials got it? So you

639
00:34:31,520 --> 00:34:33,800
Speaker 1: told him you loved him in April? No, I didn't,

640
00:34:34,360 --> 00:34:36,560
Speaker 1: but that's what it says. It's a heart, the same

641
00:34:36,600 --> 00:34:39,480
Speaker 1: as I love you. Though. No, it's not like I

642
00:34:39,480 --> 00:34:45,000
Speaker 1: don't love New York, you know, think like I heart heart.

643
00:34:45,120 --> 00:34:50,880
Speaker 1: No it's not. But he rubbed the question. No, he

644
00:34:50,960 --> 00:34:56,399
Speaker 1: calls me rub Rubs my nickname the Angel. Yeah, there's

645
00:34:56,440 --> 00:34:59,640
Speaker 1: a backstory, and there's like I didn't know what the

646
00:34:59,760 --> 00:35:02,279
Speaker 1: term that's. No, No, it's not sexual. Actually I wish

647
00:35:02,280 --> 00:35:06,399
Speaker 1: it was. Um, it's the we I didn't understand the term.

648
00:35:06,440 --> 00:35:08,799
Speaker 1: That's the rub. I've never heard that before. I'd never

649
00:35:08,840 --> 00:35:11,400
Speaker 1: in my life heard that, thank you, And he was like,

650
00:35:11,400 --> 00:35:12,840
Speaker 1: you know what that means, and so he tried to

651
00:35:12,840 --> 00:35:14,680
Speaker 1: explain it to me. Didn't make any sense. So I

652
00:35:14,680 --> 00:35:17,200
Speaker 1: started using it in different scenarios. I was like, and

653
00:35:17,239 --> 00:35:19,759
Speaker 1: there's the rub and he's like, you're not using it right,

654
00:35:19,840 --> 00:35:22,520
Speaker 1: Like I just never could get it right, and so

655
00:35:22,600 --> 00:35:27,480
Speaker 1: he just started calling me t rub not sexual not

656
00:35:27,960 --> 00:35:30,600
Speaker 1: I wish it were rubbed the angel, like basically like

657
00:35:30,760 --> 00:35:34,120
Speaker 1: Tanya the Angel is the name of this, but um,

658
00:35:34,160 --> 00:35:37,359
Speaker 1: it's supposed to be like some sort of artist that

659
00:35:37,400 --> 00:35:41,160
Speaker 1: does this, but I don't remember the name. But Patty.

660
00:35:41,200 --> 00:35:44,000
Speaker 1: When I showed Patty, she's like upped up. She's like

661
00:35:44,080 --> 00:35:47,640
Speaker 1: hip to um art artists, I guess, and she knew

662
00:35:47,640 --> 00:35:50,200
Speaker 1: exactly who he was trying to like imitate with this,

663
00:35:52,520 --> 00:35:55,080
Speaker 1: not Picasso. It's like some I don't know, but yeah,

664
00:35:55,080 --> 00:35:56,600
Speaker 1: I know, I agree. I was like, why do I

665
00:35:56,640 --> 00:36:02,480
Speaker 1: have exs over my eyes? And like races? Those are

666
00:36:02,520 --> 00:36:05,680
Speaker 1: just the lines in your teeth they look races, And

667
00:36:05,719 --> 00:36:11,320
Speaker 1: I looked like and I look like Donald Trump. I

668
00:36:11,400 --> 00:36:14,239
Speaker 1: was slightly offended by it. Until it doesn't kind of

669
00:36:14,239 --> 00:36:16,680
Speaker 1: look like Donald Trump. Yeah, the halo was like, thank

670
00:36:16,760 --> 00:36:19,799
Speaker 1: god you drew a halo, and can we see the

671
00:36:19,840 --> 00:36:22,800
Speaker 1: one that you painted? And we're gonna post these somewhere

672
00:36:22,800 --> 00:36:25,799
Speaker 1: because you know, people need to know what we're talking about. Yeah,

673
00:36:25,880 --> 00:36:29,840
Speaker 1: we can post these. That's cute. That's this giant eye

674
00:36:30,280 --> 00:36:34,000
Speaker 1: with waves in it and birdies and butterflies. No, they're

675
00:36:34,000 --> 00:36:40,560
Speaker 1: not birds. They're hard heart. Literally, my painting looks like

676
00:36:40,600 --> 00:36:42,640
Speaker 1: a five year old could have done it. They both

677
00:36:42,760 --> 00:36:45,640
Speaker 1: ought to be fair, they both do, but is this

678
00:36:45,680 --> 00:36:49,680
Speaker 1: at least a little more artist I think they both

679
00:36:49,719 --> 00:36:52,120
Speaker 1: look like they were done by five year olds. No,

680
00:36:53,280 --> 00:36:57,160
Speaker 1: his is very upsetting to me. I'm sorry. And then

681
00:36:57,160 --> 00:37:00,000
Speaker 1: they rubbed the angel on the back like imagine somewhere

682
00:37:00,040 --> 00:37:06,200
Speaker 1: just final, like looking how scary the exits over the eyes.

683
00:37:06,239 --> 00:37:09,520
Speaker 1: They flip it over, rubbed the age. He was really upset. No,

684
00:37:09,719 --> 00:37:12,120
Speaker 1: he was really upset that I didn't have bigger canvases.

685
00:37:12,160 --> 00:37:14,000
Speaker 1: He was like, I need I just want to work.

686
00:37:14,320 --> 00:37:17,040
Speaker 1: So he got bigger. He got bigger canvases for us.

687
00:37:17,120 --> 00:37:20,160
Speaker 1: We're going to do it again. Needed more space to

688
00:37:20,239 --> 00:37:25,680
Speaker 1: express himself correct which I'm slightly terrified of. Yikes. And

689
00:37:25,760 --> 00:37:27,960
Speaker 1: my other point from that interview, is that men already

690
00:37:28,000 --> 00:37:29,480
Speaker 1: at the age of thirty three. I think there's no

691
00:37:29,640 --> 00:37:32,560
Speaker 1: question about that. I surprised he dodged the question. Thirty

692
00:37:32,560 --> 00:37:36,399
Speaker 1: three is the age? That's age I know, but how

693
00:37:36,400 --> 00:37:39,080
Speaker 1: old is he stand by? I'll have that information for

694
00:37:39,120 --> 00:37:42,719
Speaker 1: you very soon. I just feel like you can't put

695
00:37:42,719 --> 00:37:44,640
Speaker 1: an age on that. Yeah, that's true. I don't think

696
00:37:44,680 --> 00:37:49,160
Speaker 1: you are you are you basing that off of like

697
00:37:49,280 --> 00:37:53,080
Speaker 1: scientific facts of developmental stages. I'm saying that on average,

698
00:37:53,120 --> 00:37:56,080
Speaker 1: when a guy hits, guys in their twenties are very

699
00:37:56,120 --> 00:37:58,760
Speaker 1: immature and still in the video game hanging out drinking

700
00:37:58,760 --> 00:38:01,600
Speaker 1: phase of their lives, and then when they get to thirty,

701
00:38:01,920 --> 00:38:04,200
Speaker 1: they try to hang on to that video game drinking

702
00:38:04,200 --> 00:38:06,080
Speaker 1: phase of their lives for as long as they can.

703
00:38:06,480 --> 00:38:09,440
Speaker 1: It's at thirty three when they realized, oh crap, I

704
00:38:09,480 --> 00:38:11,440
Speaker 1: really need to grow up at some point, and now

705
00:38:11,560 --> 00:38:13,480
Speaker 1: is a good time as any And that's when they

706
00:38:13,520 --> 00:38:16,680
Speaker 1: realized that they're going to have to get serious. So

707
00:38:16,760 --> 00:38:18,799
Speaker 1: maybe he didn't know the answer because he's only thirty,

708
00:38:19,440 --> 00:38:21,880
Speaker 1: haven't gotten there yet. He's married though, I know, but

709
00:38:21,960 --> 00:38:25,200
Speaker 1: like he probably just he for him, it was more

710
00:38:25,320 --> 00:38:27,279
Speaker 1: probably his wife that brought it out of him, you

711
00:38:27,320 --> 00:38:29,560
Speaker 1: know what I mean. But he was saying though, he said,

712
00:38:29,560 --> 00:38:31,399
Speaker 1: when you're ready to when you meet someone and you're

713
00:38:31,400 --> 00:38:33,640
Speaker 1: ready to receive that, then you can decide it when

714
00:38:33,680 --> 00:38:35,360
Speaker 1: you're Yeah, and I kind of feel like you really

715
00:38:35,400 --> 00:38:37,680
Speaker 1: it's not based on like their age age, but maybe

716
00:38:37,719 --> 00:38:40,640
Speaker 1: their mental age. So some men I feel like our

717
00:38:40,719 --> 00:38:44,520
Speaker 1: old souls, which Giacomo I think is yeah, I do too.

718
00:38:44,560 --> 00:38:47,000
Speaker 1: So he's really thirty one, but I feel like mentally

719
00:38:47,080 --> 00:38:52,680
Speaker 1: he's like forty seven, very advanced. Yeah, well we really

720
00:38:52,680 --> 00:38:55,360
Speaker 1: advanced him. Yeah he does. Come. I didn't think he

721
00:38:55,480 --> 00:38:57,640
Speaker 1: was thirty one. Yeah. Well that was good. That was

722
00:38:57,680 --> 00:39:01,480
Speaker 1: a good interview. I thought we got some good Gray's scoop. Yeah. Sure,

723
00:39:01,719 --> 00:39:04,799
Speaker 1: Thrilled that they're like have a date set and like

724
00:39:04,880 --> 00:39:07,920
Speaker 1: the next next month to start things. I know that

725
00:39:08,080 --> 00:39:10,320
Speaker 1: is not what I read. So that was some insider

726
00:39:10,360 --> 00:39:12,920
Speaker 1: scoop right there. I had not even thought about the

727
00:39:12,960 --> 00:39:16,400
Speaker 1: fact that they can all wear masks and everything's fine.

728
00:39:16,440 --> 00:39:18,879
Speaker 1: It's just the normal show for them, like that would

729
00:39:19,000 --> 00:39:22,000
Speaker 1: work on Modern Family, Like that's kind of a great thing,

730
00:39:22,840 --> 00:39:24,160
Speaker 1: I know, And all the other thing I did. I

731
00:39:24,239 --> 00:39:25,960
Speaker 1: knew that they were going to do all these stories

732
00:39:25,960 --> 00:39:29,600
Speaker 1: with the doctors. Excuse me, but what I didn't realize

733
00:39:29,640 --> 00:39:32,479
Speaker 1: and what I guess I just forgot about, was that

734
00:39:32,600 --> 00:39:35,040
Speaker 1: all the patients are not going to be able to

735
00:39:35,040 --> 00:39:37,840
Speaker 1: have people there, So that's gonna be a whole other element.

736
00:39:38,480 --> 00:39:40,920
Speaker 1: It is, and it's it's interesting they're going to really

737
00:39:40,960 --> 00:39:42,759
Speaker 1: lean on the doctors. I know that's I was going

738
00:39:42,800 --> 00:39:46,960
Speaker 1: to say. And I feel like a lot of Izzy situation. Yeah,

739
00:39:47,000 --> 00:39:49,759
Speaker 1: I don't need more Izzy Dinny situations. But I am

740
00:39:49,840 --> 00:39:55,240
Speaker 1: just thrilled that there's a start date in sight. Yeah. Same. Also,

741
00:39:55,360 --> 00:39:58,040
Speaker 1: did you know The Bachelorette is going to air in September?

742
00:39:58,360 --> 00:40:00,640
Speaker 1: They're filming it now and I guess or they plan

743
00:40:00,719 --> 00:40:04,640
Speaker 1: on area in September. Correct. I'm really excited about that.

744
00:40:04,800 --> 00:40:07,719
Speaker 1: By the way, I'm excited about that, like I'm never

745
00:40:07,800 --> 00:40:10,720
Speaker 1: excited about a Bachelor season. I'm excited because of the drama,

746
00:40:10,760 --> 00:40:14,480
Speaker 1: but also because it's it's something new to watch in

747
00:40:14,520 --> 00:40:18,480
Speaker 1: the world. Do they get so lucky? Were these dramatic,

748
00:40:18,680 --> 00:40:23,160
Speaker 1: amazing things happen that calls for like excitement and uproar?

749
00:40:23,360 --> 00:40:25,960
Speaker 1: Like who knew that Claire was going to fall in

750
00:40:26,000 --> 00:40:29,399
Speaker 1: love with someone? And then they she's like I don't

751
00:40:29,400 --> 00:40:31,000
Speaker 1: want to do it anymore, and then they bring in

752
00:40:31,040 --> 00:40:34,160
Speaker 1: someone else. I don't know, but I have a little mission.

753
00:40:34,239 --> 00:40:36,319
Speaker 1: Since we are going to Pump Springs this weekend, I

754
00:40:36,360 --> 00:40:39,120
Speaker 1: feel like you and I should do some sleuthing. Oh

755
00:40:39,160 --> 00:40:41,480
Speaker 1: my gosh, I'm so down. I know where they're staying.

756
00:40:42,560 --> 00:40:44,640
Speaker 1: Let's like, sleuth, are you going to try and break

757
00:40:44,640 --> 00:40:47,000
Speaker 1: their bubble? No? No, no, we will not. We will

758
00:40:47,000 --> 00:40:49,480
Speaker 1: not break the bubble. We will not expose ourselves to

759
00:40:49,480 --> 00:40:52,200
Speaker 1: anybody on that set, but we will definitely get some

760
00:40:52,840 --> 00:40:57,560
Speaker 1: around the premises. Hell yeah, I'm honestly so down to

761
00:40:57,600 --> 00:41:00,440
Speaker 1: do that. Yeah, are you kidding? I'm gonna do some

762
00:41:00,640 --> 00:41:04,279
Speaker 1: salute thing. I'm with you a minute. You know why

763
00:41:04,360 --> 00:41:06,399
Speaker 1: I think this happens to them. I think they're they've

764
00:41:06,480 --> 00:41:09,200
Speaker 1: learned over the years to lean into stuff like this.

765
00:41:09,320 --> 00:41:12,120
Speaker 1: I think in the old days they had a structure

766
00:41:12,200 --> 00:41:14,480
Speaker 1: and this is how it's going to go. And if

767
00:41:14,520 --> 00:41:18,120
Speaker 1: somebody started to, you know, go off course, they would say, look,

768
00:41:18,239 --> 00:41:21,320
Speaker 1: you signed a contract, get back on course. But now

769
00:41:21,520 --> 00:41:23,720
Speaker 1: when Claire says I don't want to do this anymore,

770
00:41:23,719 --> 00:41:27,200
Speaker 1: they go interesting. There's a lot of potential for publicity here,

771
00:41:27,560 --> 00:41:30,680
Speaker 1: for ratings. Here, I think they've learned to go wherever

772
00:41:30,719 --> 00:41:36,480
Speaker 1: it goes. You're so freaking right. It's nice to hear

773
00:41:36,560 --> 00:41:38,760
Speaker 1: it's true. I feel like this had this been happened

774
00:41:38,760 --> 00:41:40,640
Speaker 1: like ten years ago, they would have like forced her

775
00:41:40,719 --> 00:41:43,200
Speaker 1: to say and like finish off the season and like

776
00:41:43,320 --> 00:41:45,480
Speaker 1: this is way better because it's like, really, this has

777
00:41:45,520 --> 00:41:48,640
Speaker 1: probably happened before that somebody has known very early on

778
00:41:48,680 --> 00:41:50,160
Speaker 1: who they were going to end up with. But they

779
00:41:50,160 --> 00:41:54,560
Speaker 1: go through their motions anyway, absolutely, and the producers are

780
00:41:54,600 --> 00:41:57,840
Speaker 1: so good at saying like, hey, you never know, like

781
00:41:58,040 --> 00:42:00,400
Speaker 1: what could change in this amount of time, like just

782
00:42:00,719 --> 00:42:02,839
Speaker 1: lean into it, give it a chance. They really, like,

783
00:42:03,360 --> 00:42:06,279
Speaker 1: you know, would be convincing of why it would be

784
00:42:06,480 --> 00:42:09,440
Speaker 1: productive and positive to stay and see if anything changes.

785
00:42:09,480 --> 00:42:11,839
Speaker 1: But I agree, Mark, I liked it. They're just like,

786
00:42:12,239 --> 00:42:14,520
Speaker 1: all right, you don't you you're ready to go, then

787
00:42:15,960 --> 00:42:17,840
Speaker 1: we'll do We'll do the next Yeah, And like, not

788
00:42:17,960 --> 00:42:20,399
Speaker 1: only were we excited to see this season because it's

789
00:42:20,400 --> 00:42:23,520
Speaker 1: gonna look totally different because quarantine and all this stuff.

790
00:42:23,560 --> 00:42:26,719
Speaker 1: It's not the mansion, but now the fact that there's

791
00:42:26,719 --> 00:42:28,600
Speaker 1: this whole plot twist they're gonna bring in a new girl,

792
00:42:28,719 --> 00:42:31,239
Speaker 1: Like are they gonna reuse men like I mean, it's

793
00:42:31,239 --> 00:42:33,640
Speaker 1: all so good, like literally, it's so good. They're just

794
00:42:34,360 --> 00:42:36,879
Speaker 1: they do a great job. Gotta hand it to him. Yeah,

795
00:42:37,480 --> 00:42:43,680
Speaker 1: um so yeah, dress, that's piercing the bubble. You said

796
00:42:43,719 --> 00:42:46,600
Speaker 1: you're not going to do that. Oh right right serving

797
00:42:46,719 --> 00:42:52,680
Speaker 1: food and drinks. Um okay. On that note, um, make

798
00:42:52,719 --> 00:42:57,640
Speaker 1: sure you go get tickets to Giacomo's Virtual Um you've

799
00:42:57,640 --> 00:43:00,719
Speaker 1: been this coming up week, coming up on Sunday and

800
00:43:00,800 --> 00:43:04,480
Speaker 1: starting on Sunday, um my friends place dot org and

801
00:43:05,000 --> 00:43:08,400
Speaker 1: we will see you next time in Palm Springs. In

802
00:43:08,560 --> 00:43:13,800
Speaker 1: Palm Springs, bye bye,