Speaker 1: Rooking Jewels. Second Date up Day. A listener named Nicole
Speaker 1: is on the phone today to do a second date
Speaker 1: up date, and she said in her email that the
Speaker 1: guy she wants to call today she liked him because
Speaker 1: he's cultured. I'm guessing, Nicole, that he's the type of
Speaker 1: dude that likes to put mayonnaise on his hot dog.
Speaker 1: That's a culture. No, yeah, he's very fancy dude. I mean,
Speaker 1: if we were talking miracle whip maybe, I don't know.
Speaker 1: We never eat hot dogs together, so I can't really say,
Speaker 1: but that wasn't exactly how cultured is this guy? Then?
Speaker 1: Do you guys see it's something other than hot dogs
Speaker 1: on a first day? He lived in France for like
Speaker 1: eight years. Oh, that's Nicole. So he's super well traveled
Speaker 1: and he's a man of the world, super well traveled.
Speaker 1: He loves to do a ton of adventurous thing that
Speaker 1: he loves to ski. Specifically, he calls it alpine skiing,
Speaker 1: which I've never heard anyone see before. Like, like, he's
Speaker 1: just very rich with his like things that he loves
Speaker 1: to do. You know, rich with money too. I don't know.
Speaker 1: I did never found out. And how did you meet
Speaker 1: this man. We actually met online on a dating website. Okay,
Speaker 1: not an alpine skiing enthusiasts blog. I actually have never
Speaker 1: skied before, which he doesn't know. But you're like, yeah,
Speaker 1: oh I shoot the powder. Yeah powder. I like a
Speaker 1: lot of going downhill. So who shows who on the website?
Speaker 1: Did you make the first contact or to d Yeah.
Speaker 1: I actually reached out to him because I was reading
Speaker 1: through his profile and I saw that he loved to travel,
Speaker 1: and that's actually like a huge thing for me, Like
Speaker 1: I love traveling. I've been to Iceland, France, Italy, Germany, Switzerland, Austria.
Speaker 1: I love traveling. So when I saw that he lived
Speaker 1: in France three years, I was like, I have to
Speaker 1: meet this dude. I have to And what did you
Speaker 1: think the first time you laid eyes on him? Okay,
Speaker 1: well this is how the date story, which is actually
Speaker 1: kind of embarrassing. I saw on the picture of mine
Speaker 1: thought he was very cute, like I knowed he looks like.
Speaker 1: I got to the restaurant first and I was waiting
Speaker 1: at the bar for us to get our table, and
Speaker 1: someone came up to me and said hi, and I said, oh,
Speaker 1: I'm so sorry, I'm actually waiting for someone, and then
Speaker 1: there was like this awkward moment and then I was like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, Aaron. I didn't realize it was him. Him,
Speaker 1: So you thought just some random dude was coming up
Speaker 1: to hit on you and you're like, oh god, not again.
Speaker 1: I just I was really nervous. I was really in
Speaker 1: my thoughts and I was like like, okay, really excited
Speaker 1: to meet this guy. And I just I don't know
Speaker 1: what it was. I wasn't expecting it in that moment,
Speaker 1: so I didn't realize it was him, And yeah, it was.
Speaker 1: It was awkward. No, he didn't. He looks like his picture.
Speaker 1: I think it was just like you know, it's like
Speaker 1: dark lighting in the restaurant, and I just I don't know.
Speaker 1: I just was in my thoughts. It's like, okay, be cool,
Speaker 1: to cool, be cool. That's a great day. And then
Speaker 1: and then he waked that scene. I just wasn't expecting it,
Speaker 1: so that that got things off on a weird start
Speaker 1: all old minute. Plus he didn't say bon jour, so
Speaker 1: I'm sure that that totally threw you off. That's it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's what I was expecting. Was he was cool about
Speaker 1: that though? Right? No, he was. He was he laughed,
Speaker 1: and you know, he made some joke about like how
Speaker 1: many dates are you going on tonight? And I was like, no,
Speaker 1: that's not it. And it was fun. But yeah, when
Speaker 1: first started, I was very embarrassed. So how was the
Speaker 1: date though? Like how was the conversation? Okay? I thought
Speaker 1: it was great, Like you know it all most first dates,
Speaker 1: it's just very like, so what do you do for
Speaker 1: a living? I do this and it's kind of like
Speaker 1: just stiff, like small talk. Like because he was in France,
Speaker 1: we talked about how I just recently traveled there. I
Speaker 1: was just in con and I went to a film
Speaker 1: festival and I swam in the Mediterranean and we just
Speaker 1: we went back and forth. That has bonded over like
Speaker 1: how beautiful the country was, and I don't know, I
Speaker 1: felt like a really awesome connection with him. Can. I ask, yeah,
Speaker 1: con Or is it the Canned Film Festival? Wasn't It's
Speaker 1: a festival in can France? Okay, yeah, but the pronunciation
Speaker 1: is it con Or? Can? It's been driving me nuts
Speaker 1: my whole life and I've never been there. Yeah, it's
Speaker 1: camed it's camp. So if you say can, are you
Speaker 1: being pretentious? You're just being American. Oh, I thought it
Speaker 1: was the other way around, that was American, Like, I'm
Speaker 1: going to the Cans Film Festival anyway, So you guys
Speaker 1: bonded over that. Anything else interesting from the date that
Speaker 1: we should know about. At the end, I thought I
Speaker 1: was making a really fun joke because I thought I
Speaker 1: went really well. When we were saying goodbye, I asked
Speaker 1: for a French kiss because he thought it was being
Speaker 1: really bold and I thought things went well. But he
Speaker 1: kind of just laughed and he was like, that was
Speaker 1: a funny joke and then just hugged me out. That
Speaker 1: must have hurt. You asked for a kiss in the
Speaker 1: cutest way possible that you could think of, and he
Speaker 1: was like, that's funny. Yeah, how did you recover from that?
Speaker 1: Or did you? I just told myself like, you know,
Speaker 1: not everyone wants to kiss on the first date, and
Speaker 1: maybe that's the kind of thing. And I walked away
Speaker 1: still feeling pretty good. Until I haven't heard from him
Speaker 1: for a week, so and how many times if you
Speaker 1: tried to call him? I called him twice in his
Speaker 1: phone it's been off. And then I sign a couple
Speaker 1: texts us to be like, are you know he's still
Speaker 1: alive and nothing. So that's where I reached out to
Speaker 1: you guys. Yeah, that's quite a bit. Okay, and his
Speaker 1: name is Aaron, you said, yeah, eron, all right, well
Speaker 1: we'll play a song. Comeback, call Aaron and get your
Speaker 1: second day update. Okay, okay, thank you guys. Yeah, hang
Speaker 1: out brooking jubil in the morning. Second if you're just
Speaker 1: joining us for today's second date updating. Nicole is on
Speaker 1: the phone and she wants to call a guy named Aaron.
Speaker 1: The two of them bonded over their love of France.
Speaker 1: They went out to dinner and talked about how they
Speaker 1: both have traveled there and experienced the Champs Elyses and
Speaker 1: the sale and then walked around the Lever Museum and
Speaker 1: check that out for a bit. Just two cultured individuals
Speaker 1: talking about what they saw over there in Frank. Hois
Speaker 1: Nicole Nicole? Nicole? Yes, yes, go on here. I was
Speaker 1: really enjoying the music. Did it feel like you were
Speaker 1: out to dinner with Aaron all over again? The way
Speaker 1: that I was speaking that definitely he did. I to
Speaker 1: him a very cultured individual. So Nicole met Aaron online.
Speaker 1: They both have traveled a lot. They bonded over that
Speaker 1: they went out to dinner, but at the end of
Speaker 1: the night, she said, hey, how about a French kiss?
Speaker 1: I get it because we both bit of France. And
Speaker 1: he said that's a funny joke and gave her a hug.
Speaker 1: So no kiss and now no phone call for over
Speaker 1: a week. So we're gonna get him on the phone
Speaker 1: and see if we can find out why. I'm gonna
Speaker 1: dallas one of her right now and see if he
Speaker 1: picks up. Okay, okay, all right, here we go. Hello, Hi,
Speaker 1: I was looking for Aaron. This is Aaron. Aaron, how
Speaker 1: are you? This is Jewel from Brook and Jewel in
Speaker 1: the Morning. Um, I'm from where Brook and Jewel in
Speaker 1: the Morning. It's a radio show. Oh I don't. I
Speaker 1: only listen to NPR. Sorry, that's okay, Yeah, we're kind
Speaker 1: of the same if you add all like NPR plus
Speaker 1: Justin Bieber plus far jokes. Oh yeah, sorry, I'm not
Speaker 1: going How can I help you? Well, I'm calling you
Speaker 1: today because a listener to our show actually emailed us
Speaker 1: to see if we could get you on the phone.
Speaker 1: A listener. Okay, I don't know anyone who might listen
Speaker 1: to you, but well you you do actually know one
Speaker 1: person who listens to us. Her name is Nicole, and
Speaker 1: you guys went out on a date the other day. Yeah, um,
Speaker 1: I know Nicole. I blocked her. Wait, I blocked her
Speaker 1: from everything social her number. Yeah, okay, why would you
Speaker 1: block her? How is that any business of yours? Well,
Speaker 1: because she emailed us and wanted us to get in
Speaker 1: touch with you, because we do a segment on our
Speaker 1: show called the Second Date Update. That's where if you
Speaker 1: go out on a date with somebody and then don't
Speaker 1: call them afterwards, they email us to see if we
Speaker 1: can get you on the phone and ask what went wrong.
Speaker 1: So she was curious why you weren't calling her back.
Speaker 1: And I guess we know now that you've blocked her,
Speaker 1: but she wanted to know why. Oh so you're going
Speaker 1: to tell her. Yeah, that's the whole point. We get
Speaker 1: the info from you and then we pass it along
Speaker 1: to her. Okay, I think I think it could be
Speaker 1: good for her to know. Actually, okay, so what would
Speaker 1: you like us to tell Nicole? Um? Well, tell Nicole
Speaker 1: that it's been done, it's been played out, and she
Speaker 1: needs to shake it up a little bit. Is she
Speaker 1: like harassing you or something? And that's why you blocked her.
Speaker 1: Is that what you mean by it's been played out
Speaker 1: or something? No, I mean tell her she needs to
Speaker 1: stop being so average, being so average, okay, very average.
Speaker 1: What about her is so average? I mean, not to
Speaker 1: be mean. I mean, it's just how she is. But
Speaker 1: you know, it's the same American thing, the girl who
Speaker 1: thinks she likes to travel and it is so cultured,
Speaker 1: but really isn't suit. You blocked her from all social
Speaker 1: media and everything on the internet because you think that
Speaker 1: she's average and isn't well cultured enough. I'll give you
Speaker 1: an example. You know, she says she's well traveled, and
Speaker 1: she says, you know, France is her favorite place to go,
Speaker 1: and she says, the most incredible place to go in
Speaker 1: France Paris, and then she like flashes her stupid Tiffel
Speaker 1: Tower key chain. It was just not you were not impressed,
Speaker 1: not at all. Every American woman says they love Paris.
Speaker 1: So if Paris is an awesome city, so what parents
Speaker 1: was an awesome city in the nineteenth century, So I
Speaker 1: mean Paris is not awesome anymore. No, I mean most
Speaker 1: people you know, you say lyon you say, but I
Speaker 1: mean Paris was a while ago we did that. Whatever
Speaker 1: you said to me just sounded like mustard, that's all
Speaker 1: so city. Yeah, yeah, I don't know where you're talking about.
Speaker 1: I mean, you get the gist. She's an American girl
Speaker 1: says she loves to travel, and she's just skinned the surface.
Speaker 1: And I wasn't that impressed with it, and frankly I
Speaker 1: didn't have the patience for it. You sound super condescending,
Speaker 1: like can't you just understand that one she's trying to
Speaker 1: connect with you on a level where she knows you
Speaker 1: have interests connect with me of her Paris I find
Speaker 1: that very funny. Yeah, I guess. Okay, well, if I
Speaker 1: ever take a trip to France, I know not to
Speaker 1: go to Paris, now right. I mean you can fly
Speaker 1: to Paris and buy a question and go to the
Speaker 1: top of the Eiffel Tower and you're still not a
Speaker 1: world traveler. What are you talking There's some people that
Speaker 1: I know that she's never even been out of the country.
Speaker 1: I mean, good for her, for people just like you
Speaker 1: pity Nicole. It sounds like exactly all right, Well, Aaron,
Speaker 1: thank you for sharing. I need to share with you
Speaker 1: that Nicole is actually on the other line and wants
Speaker 1: to talk to you. Wait right now, yes, right now,
Speaker 1: right now, yes, Nicole, Hey, Aaron, it's that basic chick
Speaker 1: you want on a date list. I like, I'm so
Speaker 1: embarrassed right now. I swear to god, he was not
Speaker 1: dis pretentious on our gate, okay, like he was a
Speaker 1: cultured person. He was not discondescending. I this is not
Speaker 1: who I thought you were, Aaron. How would you remotely
Speaker 1: know that I'm cultured If you're not close to that.
Speaker 1: You're talking to me as if you we didn't converse
Speaker 1: it all the night. I told you I spent many
Speaker 1: many countries. You've lived in Paris for eight years. I've
Speaker 1: traveled to France, Italy, Austria, Switzerlan Like, I've spend many places.
Speaker 1: How can you say that? Stop talking? I don't need
Speaker 1: to hear you know your passports. Dance of the World
Speaker 1: I heard once on our gate, and I don't need
Speaker 1: to hear it second time. Oh God, I don't understand. Like,
Speaker 1: who do you think you are? Do you think that
Speaker 1: you're like some prince or something? I mean, why do
Speaker 1: you think that you're so incredible? Yeah? Well, I actually
Speaker 1: do have a little bit of royal ancestry and blood.
Speaker 1: But God, but I don't like to, you know, talk
Speaker 1: about it much. Oh why would you? That's that's kind
Speaker 1: of showing off at that point, Aaron. Well, look, Aaron,
Speaker 1: all I ever say is like, if you plan on
Speaker 1: ever finding love in this life, you've got to change
Speaker 1: because you're being a huge pretentious start right now. Well,
Speaker 1: I'll think about that next time. I'm flying on my
Speaker 1: jet to Majets with my family ski and you're at
Speaker 1: some senior froug is trying to buy a shock class.
Speaker 1: Tell everyone you went to Porto Vier. God, oh my god,
Speaker 1: I can't believe I actually liked you and you didn't
Speaker 1: see any of this on your date with him. No,
Speaker 1: he totally would wink me. I thought that he was
Speaker 1: really sweet, gentleman. I don't know, he must have real
Speaker 1: game or something. Guy, I actually was a gentleman. It
Speaker 1: was excruciating to sit there for two hours or whatever,
Speaker 1: and I laughed on the inside and h frankly, I
Speaker 1: think I'm done. WHOA. Well, that makes tune to us, Aaron.
Speaker 1: Finally we have something actually in common because we are
Speaker 1: both thought, I do not ever want to speak to
Speaker 1: you again. Oh well that a shot and Nicole before
Speaker 1: you go. It's pronounced con not. Can you know, why
Speaker 1: don't you go suck your own? Because no woman is
Speaker 1: ever going to do it before you. Okay, I just
Speaker 1: fell Oh my god, Aaron, you seem cultured enough. Are
Speaker 1: you able to do that? Because I've heard that frenchmen
Speaker 1: can do that to themselves. This is the reason I
Speaker 1: don't listen to terrestrial radio. Thank you for being on
Speaker 1: terrestrial radio for a few minutes. Appreciate your feedback, Aaron. Nicole,
Speaker 1: I didn't even get to ask if you go on
Speaker 1: a second date with you? I think I think you
Speaker 1: know the answer. I'm honestly so sorry you had to
Speaker 1: deal with him. You guys, I'm very emarrating, that's all right.
Speaker 1: So what are you gonna do now? I mean, I'm
Speaker 1: just so angry. I just want to find him and
Speaker 1: like just like hit him over the head with a bag.
Speaker 1: Dan text in at seven eight five nine too, says,
Speaker 1: if that guy's so classy, why is he meeting up
Speaker 1: in a bar with a woman he's meeting on social media?
Speaker 1: Good point, he should be finding them somewhere else because
Speaker 1: he's very refined. Gallery. If you missed today's second date update,
Speaker 1: Nicole wanted to call a guy named Aaron while they
Speaker 1: were out on the date. On their date, they bonded
Speaker 1: about how they both liked to travel. Well, she thought
Speaker 1: they bonded about how they both liked to travel, but
Speaker 1: apparently she's very basic when it comes to traveling, and
Speaker 1: he knows because he grew up in Europe. So the
Speaker 1: fact that she liked Harris was just ridiculous, because of
Speaker 1: course every American woman likes Paris. Actually get out and
Speaker 1: experience the country, you idiot, which is so stupid, because
Speaker 1: like even here in America, like I think it's really
Speaker 1: cool to go to New York City still, and you
Speaker 1: would you would try going to Kentucky, all right, go
Speaker 1: to actual America and experience it for once. Everyone in York.
Speaker 1: You're so lame with your New York key chain. Would
Speaker 1: you go to the Times Square as well? Oh the
Speaker 1: bright lights, yeah, shiny things off and hold my attention
Speaker 1: because I'm an idiot, No, thank you. It was basically
Speaker 1: how he acted the whole time. He really was You
Speaker 1: can hang out with him, maybe I should, yeah, I
Speaker 1: mean maybe you two were actually bac and you didn't
Speaker 1: know it. He actually got offended because she had an
Speaker 1: Eiffel Tower like key chain. Yeah, just so weird. Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: buy a trinket, a trinket from the Eiffel Tower. God,
Speaker 1: try to challenge yourself for what. Anyway, they agreed not
Speaker 1: to go out because he's kind of a d bag. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and then she said something at the end that I
Speaker 1: can't repeat on the radio. She told him that he
Speaker 1: should service himself in a certain way. And I feel
Speaker 1: like he probably is thinking about that now, like I
Speaker 1: bet you I could. I don't need a woman. I
Speaker 1: should probably learn to do that anyway, because I know
Speaker 1: almost everything else every man thinking that right now. Yeah,
Speaker 1: oh wait a minute, hold on a second, I could
Speaker 1: give me a good idea. Remember, if you want to
Speaker 1: do a second day update, all you have to do
Speaker 1: is email the show and we will call the person
Speaker 1: who didn't call you back.