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Speaker 2: Those are rookie numbers. You're gonna have to pump those up.

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Speaker 2: Talk to me when it gets to seven hundred and

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Speaker 1: All right, Yeah, that's Twitter talk. This is kind of

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Speaker 2: Yeah, cause he's investing in making you a hard worker.

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Speaker 1: America. I twenty one graduated from university with my undergrad

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Speaker 1: my mom left my emotionally abusive father, leaving her leaving

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Speaker 1: just her, me and my siblings by ourselves. By the way,

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Speaker 1: this comes from baby Flower two thousand and three, and

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Speaker 1: if you want to submit your own stories, please go

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Speaker 1: to our slash okay story of time on reddits. So

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Speaker 1: I was happy at this decision until I found out

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Speaker 1: far more than that. I knew that throughout my first

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Speaker 1: loans for me. Private student You take out private stud

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Speaker 1: loans for your kid.

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Speaker 2: Well, I mean maybe using Yeah wait a minute, is

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Speaker 2: this guy just committing financial fraud and being like it's

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Speaker 2: for your education, son?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's that's a little.

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Speaker 3: Hey. Don't ask questions you want answers to, you know.

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Speaker 1: True. True. I was told by my father that since

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Speaker 3: We lost it.

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Speaker 1: Guys, we're gonna have to go solo on reading our

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Speaker 1: Wi Fi. I have one to straggle three people today.

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Speaker 2: Internet's dunking and duncan in and out up out sideways.

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Speaker 1: It's not stable at all. But don't worry, guys. We

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Speaker 1: We got a new wheel wheel that I'll talk to

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Speaker 1: you guys about a little bit. And we got packages.

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Speaker 1: We have a full stream today, So don't worry. One

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Speaker 2: The realized I'm looking at two wheels. Yeah, this is

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Speaker 2: the this is the mystery whell look at that, folks. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: we got room bow on there got double the wheel

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Speaker 2: there should say death room bo.

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Speaker 1: That's gonna get anyway.

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Speaker 3: Now you can't put that anyway.

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Speaker 1: I don't know what will be guys. We're gonna get

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Speaker 1: back to the story, guys, but keon, can you make

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Speaker 1: sure to put the donations behind the chat? Yes, and

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Speaker 1: then take away that thing I can't see.

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Speaker 3: Yes, I know, I'm making sure you look.

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Speaker 1: Good, awesome. I'm gonna go back and just making us

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Speaker 1: look beautiful. I found out recently that the loans were

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Speaker 1: total of All right, since you guys can't see it, Yes,

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Speaker 1: how much did you think you took out? Dakota? What?

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Speaker 2: How many loans? How many much or how much?

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Speaker 1: Right now? Right now?

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Speaker 2: I would guess seventy three thousand?

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Speaker 1: Wrong? Lower, keon, let's go fifty fifty All right, forty

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Speaker 3: What do I get in?

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Speaker 2: You don't get anything? Price is right?

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Speaker 1: Rules, you went too high. You went too high, buddy,

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Speaker 1: in private student loans under my name. I remember signing

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it turned out that was really bad advice. Turns

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Speaker 1: Goodness gracious and oh and you know what sucks. They're

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Speaker 1: Every time I tried to push for answers, I got

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Speaker 1: The Oh no, no, no, no, no, just leave it empty. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: What No, guys, No, no, we got it.

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Speaker 1: No, it like won't pull up on the phone now. Guys,

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Speaker 1: Well literally inside I am okay, internally crying, I can accept. Yeah, okay, cool, cool,

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Speaker 2: All right did that today?

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Speaker 1: Guys? I go crazy cool al right. I got it

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Speaker 1: back for a little bit. I trusted him to help

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Speaker 1: build my credit. When I turned eighteen, I found out

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Speaker 2: That's no, no, no, what are you?

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Speaker 2: I have to check at I've always had really good credit.

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Speaker 2: Oh nice, they helped me out establishing good credit.

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Speaker 2: Credit is so crazy. It's like my my buddy, not

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Speaker 1: Well, that's just the game of credit. He used my

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Speaker 1: Does this second one mean that I don't have to

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Speaker 1: Of your pants. Oh, absolutely, out of your dad. My god, dude,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so this guy I don't know what he's got

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Speaker 2: You need to find do something to contact your credit wherever,

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Speaker 2: whatever your bank is, contact them and let them know

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Speaker 2: you're a victim of fraud.

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Speaker 1: Explain the situation. This is not good. Yeah no, yeah, wow.

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Speaker 1: Flash forward, he's probably over a million dollars in debt

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Speaker 2: Everyone got fraudulent debt.

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Speaker 1: Flash forward to now. I found out about these loans

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like it's there's there's no universe in which

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Speaker 3: Yeah. I was gonna say, what's gonna stop him from

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Speaker 1: Yeah? And on the part of he's currently helping pay

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Speaker 2: If you're gonna do anything, you give him one single chance.

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Speaker 2: You say you need to, we're either in agreement that

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so that's your choice. Uh, poll one cops to talk.

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Speaker 2: I'm cops. To be clear, I am, I am Immediately

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Speaker 2: you're just saying if you if you are against the cops,

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Speaker 1: Realistically, if that's true, you're gonna end.

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Speaker 1: Ke On, put a one for us in the poll.

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Speaker 2: It's terrible. And I hope they see this. I hope

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, wow, I need to get the police involved here.

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Speaker 1: That was yeah, and we have on call the cops.

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Speaker 3: Give me three where I talk to the cops with

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Speaker 2: Talk to a policeman. Oh no, let me go get

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Speaker 1: Oh quick, what's wrong? Is he like? Oh my ski

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Speaker 2: Oh I have a lot to say about that one.

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Speaker 2: Go ahead, Hey, I'll let you take off on that one.

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Speaker 1: Buddy. There's this thing called keeping others accountable, and I'm

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Speaker 2: Also, Hey, doesn't God maybe not want fathers to exploit

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Speaker 1: Anything to say about that? Anything? Yeah, that was actually

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Speaker 4: Okay, So we got ninety four cops six percent.

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Speaker 2: Talk nice, Okay, six those six people are actively committing

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Speaker 1: Ellen, I hate when people use religion to justify crimes. Yeah, same, same,

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Speaker 1: In March, I'll have over fourteen K of tuition reimbursement

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Speaker 2: Maybe they're Maybe they're just a whole gaggle of financial

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Speaker 1: Anyway.

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Speaker 2: I doubt you'd be disowned by your whole family, and

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Speaker 1: Yeah you know, huh he ayyyyi. I'm still not one

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Speaker 1: Ooh. Heidi has a great quote here. The Bible says,

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Speaker 1: it does. It's wild actually, yeah, there's one story about

440
00:22:27,840 --> 00:22:30,240
Speaker 1: a king. Sorry real quick, there's one story about a king.

441
00:22:30,359 --> 00:22:32,199
Speaker 1: Is it Midas? No? I don't know who it was,

442
00:22:32,359 --> 00:22:35,560
Speaker 1: but he gave one hundred fifty and like ten gold

443
00:22:35,600 --> 00:22:37,960
Speaker 1: to people, and the guy that had ten gold, the

444
00:22:38,000 --> 00:22:40,040
Speaker 1: people with one hundred and fifty like invested, but the

445
00:22:40,080 --> 00:22:41,520
Speaker 1: guy with ten gold put in the ground and brought

446
00:22:41,560 --> 00:22:43,440
Speaker 1: it back up and he got mad at the guy

447
00:22:43,440 --> 00:22:44,080
Speaker 1: that put Wait.

448
00:22:43,960 --> 00:22:46,920
Speaker 4: Do I somehow is that is that Nepkin Azer?

449
00:22:47,000 --> 00:22:49,080
Speaker 1: Yeah? Probably? Why do I know that?

450
00:22:49,359 --> 00:22:49,840
Speaker 3: I know why?

451
00:22:50,080 --> 00:22:52,679
Speaker 1: I literally thought story is about.

452
00:22:52,400 --> 00:22:54,240
Speaker 2: I only know that name because of the matrix.

453
00:22:54,840 --> 00:22:59,680
Speaker 1: But back on this, yeah, I think I think they

454
00:23:00,520 --> 00:23:04,000
Speaker 1: I hate that they have to wait to file before

455
00:23:04,760 --> 00:23:07,679
Speaker 1: they can leave, Like is that can you do that?

456
00:23:07,760 --> 00:23:10,800
Speaker 1: Because like sometimes like doesn't that like I don't know,

457
00:23:10,880 --> 00:23:13,840
Speaker 1: like you found out in December that your father's cheating

458
00:23:13,880 --> 00:23:16,800
Speaker 1: on you, can you wait till March to actually file it?

459
00:23:17,119 --> 00:23:17,840
Speaker 1: Does that make sense?

460
00:23:17,920 --> 00:23:21,680
Speaker 2: I don't know what like the statute is on those

461
00:23:21,760 --> 00:23:26,280
Speaker 2: kind of crimes, but I mean, yeah, I wouldn't wait.

462
00:23:27,000 --> 00:23:27,720
Speaker 2: I wouldn't wait.

463
00:23:28,200 --> 00:23:28,840
Speaker 1: I think.

464
00:23:32,920 --> 00:23:35,440
Speaker 2: It's hard though, to like, you know, to tell someone

465
00:23:35,480 --> 00:23:37,919
Speaker 2: they shouldn't wait and should they do something immediately. It's like,

466
00:23:38,040 --> 00:23:40,440
Speaker 2: you can't always make a move. You gotta have things

467
00:23:40,480 --> 00:23:42,879
Speaker 2: lined up, you gotta know where you're gonna go. Also

468
00:23:42,920 --> 00:23:46,560
Speaker 2: still very young, and it's like, yeah, I would try

469
00:23:46,600 --> 00:23:49,840
Speaker 2: to maybe, you know, get some friends lined up, couch

470
00:23:49,880 --> 00:23:52,880
Speaker 2: surf a little bit. I need to immediately establish though,

471
00:23:52,880 --> 00:23:54,280
Speaker 2: because it's like at eighteen, I don't think.

472
00:23:54,320 --> 00:23:55,600
Speaker 1: Yeah. I think most people just don't.

473
00:23:56,000 --> 00:24:03,159
Speaker 2: And I understand how devastating this kind of financial record

474
00:24:03,840 --> 00:24:04,480
Speaker 2: can be.

475
00:24:05,400 --> 00:24:08,600
Speaker 1: And speaking about the friend's part, i'd probably talk to

476
00:24:08,640 --> 00:24:11,240
Speaker 1: the boyfriend's family be like, hey, I'm in some big trouble.

477
00:24:11,560 --> 00:24:13,840
Speaker 1: Gotta just stay here for a little bit. Yeap, lean

478
00:24:13,920 --> 00:24:16,119
Speaker 1: on your support system, but get out of there. File

479
00:24:16,240 --> 00:24:18,880
Speaker 1: update two in response to the comments I've gotten. Oh

480
00:24:18,920 --> 00:24:22,600
Speaker 1: my mom's religious comments are obviously ridiculous, but I'm most

481
00:24:22,680 --> 00:24:25,960
Speaker 1: looking for help on how to file or what to expect.

482
00:24:26,600 --> 00:24:29,680
Speaker 1: I have records showing twenty three K of refunds went

483
00:24:29,720 --> 00:24:32,399
Speaker 1: to a bank account he controlled. I didn't see a

484
00:24:32,480 --> 00:24:34,719
Speaker 1: dime with that money, and I think he used it

485
00:24:34,800 --> 00:24:38,600
Speaker 1: for a vacation. Not gonna lie. We have some more

486
00:24:38,640 --> 00:24:41,359
Speaker 1: relevant comments. Is it possible for op to find a

487
00:24:41,359 --> 00:24:44,080
Speaker 1: new place or rent near their job? OPI, I'm a

488
00:24:44,119 --> 00:24:47,640
Speaker 1: substitute teacher. I work at a different school around the county,

489
00:24:47,880 --> 00:24:50,800
Speaker 1: so it would be possible. So it wouldn't be possible

490
00:24:50,840 --> 00:24:53,560
Speaker 1: for me to get a job near work. Unfortunately, how

491
00:24:53,560 --> 00:24:56,639
Speaker 1: did Ope's father get involved in Op's signing the documents

492
00:24:56,640 --> 00:24:59,360
Speaker 1: with their mother? All I did is how to sign.

493
00:24:59,440 --> 00:25:02,000
Speaker 1: He filled that everything. Now, I understand looking back that

494
00:25:02,200 --> 00:25:04,879
Speaker 1: I was stupid for signing without asking, But you did

495
00:25:05,000 --> 00:25:07,000
Speaker 1: ask what he wouldn't tell you the truth. But after

496
00:25:07,280 --> 00:25:10,320
Speaker 1: further looking into things, I see the amount of money

497
00:25:10,840 --> 00:25:14,000
Speaker 1: I was refunded by my school was an insane amount

498
00:25:14,119 --> 00:25:17,600
Speaker 1: and not an amount I could have spent by myself

499
00:25:17,640 --> 00:25:22,320
Speaker 1: in one semester semester aka twelve k extra refund in

500
00:25:22,359 --> 00:25:25,959
Speaker 1: a semester where my turition was only two K. He

501
00:25:26,080 --> 00:25:31,280
Speaker 1: must have used that money himself on non educational related things. Also,

502
00:25:31,320 --> 00:25:34,840
Speaker 1: the credit cards I did not sign for. I didn't

503
00:25:34,880 --> 00:25:38,440
Speaker 1: even know that you signed for credit cards. He did

504
00:25:38,520 --> 00:25:40,600
Speaker 1: that all himself.

505
00:25:44,320 --> 00:25:47,959
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean again, you're just finding more stack up

506
00:25:47,960 --> 00:25:52,040
Speaker 2: your evidence, man, Just continue to gather evidence because it's

507
00:25:53,080 --> 00:25:57,199
Speaker 2: you know God, it's yeah, just a scum. Sorry that

508
00:25:57,200 --> 00:25:59,040
Speaker 2: your dad's a scumbag, dude, that sucks.

509
00:25:59,280 --> 00:26:02,480
Speaker 1: That is crazy. Coming to one. It sounds to me

510
00:26:03,000 --> 00:26:06,000
Speaker 1: like both your mom and dad are in this together ooh,

511
00:26:06,119 --> 00:26:09,040
Speaker 1: and that if you don't file against them, they will

512
00:26:09,040 --> 00:26:14,480
Speaker 1: come out ahead and you will come out behind. Coming here. Two,

513
00:26:14,560 --> 00:26:17,000
Speaker 1: God didn't want your mom to leave your dad either,

514
00:26:17,080 --> 00:26:19,600
Speaker 1: but she did, so she doesn't have a leg to

515
00:26:19,640 --> 00:26:25,120
Speaker 1: stand on when on when is preaching to you? Report

516
00:26:25,280 --> 00:26:28,560
Speaker 1: him to anyone? You can. Also, if you were under

517
00:26:28,720 --> 00:26:32,480
Speaker 1: eighteen years old, you can't be held responsible for any contracts.

518
00:26:33,040 --> 00:26:34,360
Speaker 2: And that is it.

519
00:26:34,800 --> 00:26:38,000
Speaker 1: Whether you can't be held responsible for any contracts, then.

520
00:26:37,920 --> 00:26:39,399
Speaker 2: Why work They were under eighteen?

521
00:26:39,400 --> 00:26:41,639
Speaker 1: I think they were eighteen already. Well, I remember signing

522
00:26:41,640 --> 00:26:43,080
Speaker 1: at fourteen that I had to work at the sawmill

523
00:26:43,160 --> 00:26:47,959
Speaker 1: until I was like so I was like twenty something,

524
00:26:48,080 --> 00:26:49,800
Speaker 1: I don't know, and I got the breakers.

525
00:26:51,840 --> 00:26:55,400
Speaker 2: They just made like a completely fake like binding contract

526
00:26:55,480 --> 00:26:56,959
Speaker 2: that it was just like, yeah, I'll work here for

527
00:26:57,080 --> 00:27:01,800
Speaker 2: seven years, sign this sign this peace would Yeah, it

528
00:27:01,840 --> 00:27:02,880
Speaker 2: wasn't made the paper yet.

529
00:27:03,040 --> 00:27:04,040
Speaker 3: This is my friend Plank.

530
00:27:04,280 --> 00:27:05,879
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, that's what it was.

531
00:27:06,040 --> 00:27:06,280
Speaker 4: Yeah.

532
00:27:06,560 --> 00:27:08,800
Speaker 1: They did you guys have like well probably not. Did

533
00:27:08,800 --> 00:27:10,520
Speaker 1: you guys have bonfires at the sawmill? Probably not?

534
00:27:11,040 --> 00:27:15,200
Speaker 2: Places not a good place to have a stove.

535
00:27:15,080 --> 00:27:17,159
Speaker 1: Where we would go around and be you know, but

536
00:27:17,240 --> 00:27:19,240
Speaker 1: it was enclosed, but we're gould have an open flame

537
00:27:20,280 --> 00:27:20,840
Speaker 1: the sawmill.

538
00:27:20,960 --> 00:27:23,160
Speaker 2: Well, it's the reason I brought that up because I imagined,

539
00:27:23,359 --> 00:27:25,600
Speaker 2: like the contract was on a piece of wood and

540
00:27:25,640 --> 00:27:28,840
Speaker 2: then it was burned. That seals the contract.

541
00:27:29,560 --> 00:27:30,399
Speaker 1: Or went to the shrutter.

542
00:27:30,880 --> 00:27:35,680
Speaker 2: My rude stepmother belittles our food because she's French and

543
00:27:35,840 --> 00:27:37,080
Speaker 2: we're American.

544
00:27:40,000 --> 00:27:41,480
Speaker 1: You're just jealous because we do French.

545
00:27:41,520 --> 00:27:44,199
Speaker 4: All right, boys, I'm gonna say this right now, be

546
00:27:44,359 --> 00:27:45,880
Speaker 4: careful where we go with this.

547
00:27:46,160 --> 00:27:48,399
Speaker 1: What alright, there's probably some French people.

548
00:27:48,920 --> 00:27:54,040
Speaker 2: We have a French Yeah, yeah, I'm still gonna say,

549
00:27:54,320 --> 00:27:56,400
Speaker 2: y'all jealous that our French fries is so good?

550
00:27:56,480 --> 00:27:56,720
Speaker 1: Huh?

551
00:27:56,760 --> 00:27:58,480
Speaker 3: But are even American?

552
00:27:58,640 --> 00:28:01,439
Speaker 1: That's key? On whose side are you on?

553
00:28:03,400 --> 00:28:08,000
Speaker 2: Liberty which was technically was invented in France, So I

554
00:28:08,040 --> 00:28:08,399
Speaker 2: got it.

555
00:28:08,520 --> 00:28:11,960
Speaker 3: There you go. He understood the assignment. Assignment.

556
00:28:13,600 --> 00:28:16,000
Speaker 2: So this happened today and my brother and I are

557
00:28:16,040 --> 00:28:19,879
Speaker 2: still laughing about it, except Gabrielle the stepmother, and dad,

558
00:28:19,920 --> 00:28:21,399
Speaker 2: who is embarrassed.

559
00:28:21,640 --> 00:28:22,080
Speaker 1: By the way.

560
00:28:22,119 --> 00:28:24,600
Speaker 2: This comes from user a quiet borderline and if you

561
00:28:24,640 --> 00:28:27,040
Speaker 2: want to submit your own stories go to the r

562
00:28:27,119 --> 00:28:33,880
Speaker 2: slash okay story time subreddit on Reddit. So Dad came

563
00:28:33,920 --> 00:28:35,240
Speaker 2: into oop oop oop.

564
00:28:35,480 --> 00:28:36,640
Speaker 1: Dad came into.

565
00:28:36,400 --> 00:28:38,880
Speaker 2: Town to visit my brother let's call him Mark, and

566
00:28:39,040 --> 00:28:42,160
Speaker 2: me for a few days, and brought Gabrielle with him.

567
00:28:42,600 --> 00:28:45,480
Speaker 2: Gabrielle has her good traits, but she does have this

568
00:28:45,600 --> 00:28:50,320
Speaker 2: one really nasty trait. She's notoriously picky and critical when

569
00:28:50,360 --> 00:28:53,840
Speaker 2: it comes to food. You know, the stereotypical snooty and

570
00:28:53,920 --> 00:28:57,160
Speaker 2: rude French character in movies or books who always complains

571
00:28:57,640 --> 00:29:00,560
Speaker 2: that is not how this is done in France. Snat.

572
00:29:02,640 --> 00:29:07,520
Speaker 2: She's this way when it comes to food. Oh, going

573
00:29:07,560 --> 00:29:11,959
Speaker 2: out to eat with her is embarrassing. She constantly sends

574
00:29:12,000 --> 00:29:15,640
Speaker 2: back food. Is insistent on food being made a certain way,

575
00:29:15,960 --> 00:29:18,680
Speaker 2: and always demand certain things be done a certain way.

576
00:29:18,920 --> 00:29:21,600
Speaker 1: And hey, if you're gonna be like that, make your

577
00:29:21,600 --> 00:29:25,040
Speaker 1: own food, dude. Sorry, there we go, that's the solution.

578
00:29:25,320 --> 00:29:25,840
Speaker 1: There we go.

579
00:29:27,560 --> 00:29:30,040
Speaker 2: One time she asked the waiter to bring some mustard

580
00:29:30,080 --> 00:29:33,400
Speaker 2: to the table. Not even two minutes later, she called

581
00:29:33,480 --> 00:29:37,280
Speaker 2: him back because the mustard is old. Bring us a new,

582
00:29:37,480 --> 00:29:42,960
Speaker 2: unopened bottle. Ooh, who says you got old mustard?

583
00:29:43,400 --> 00:29:47,360
Speaker 1: Who does that? Yeah? More than once.

584
00:29:47,680 --> 00:29:49,880
Speaker 2: I've had to apologize to the weight staff on my

585
00:29:49,920 --> 00:29:52,640
Speaker 2: family's behalf and told the manager that I will vouch

586
00:29:52,640 --> 00:29:55,640
Speaker 2: for them should Gabrielle leave a bad review on their site.

587
00:29:56,240 --> 00:30:00,960
Speaker 2: She's made waiters and managers cry she's that bad. Honestly,

588
00:30:01,040 --> 00:30:04,240
Speaker 2: I have no idea why Dad puts up with her

589
00:30:04,440 --> 00:30:06,680
Speaker 2: when she does that, even though I know he's just

590
00:30:06,720 --> 00:30:09,400
Speaker 2: as embarrassed as Mark and I are. We can only

591
00:30:09,440 --> 00:30:11,760
Speaker 2: chalk it up to Gabrielle having a magical hoo ha

592
00:30:13,120 --> 00:30:15,400
Speaker 2: or you know what I mean.

593
00:30:16,000 --> 00:30:18,680
Speaker 1: Some people are like this, though, I just yeah.

594
00:30:18,520 --> 00:30:21,000
Speaker 2: This is is.

595
00:30:21,040 --> 00:30:22,040
Speaker 3: I want to know what that is?

596
00:30:22,360 --> 00:30:23,680
Speaker 1: Magical? What the hoho ha?

597
00:30:24,600 --> 00:30:27,040
Speaker 3: The he who the who ha ha?

598
00:30:27,320 --> 00:30:29,840
Speaker 1: The woos that bam? You know what it is?

599
00:30:30,040 --> 00:30:31,440
Speaker 3: Shut up, I'm innocent.

600
00:30:32,560 --> 00:30:34,640
Speaker 2: You look at your hat.

601
00:30:35,520 --> 00:30:36,160
Speaker 3: It's a chicken.

602
00:30:36,520 --> 00:30:38,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, sure, sure it is.

603
00:30:40,520 --> 00:30:41,160
Speaker 3: It's a rooster.

604
00:30:41,800 --> 00:30:42,000
Speaker 1: Yeah.

605
00:30:42,000 --> 00:30:44,040
Speaker 2: I don't know if for me that's the That's like

606
00:30:44,320 --> 00:30:46,800
Speaker 2: if if I had a partner who was like outrageously

607
00:30:46,840 --> 00:30:49,480
Speaker 2: rude to wait staff, it'd be over me. Yeah, it'd

608
00:30:49,480 --> 00:30:51,959
Speaker 2: be like burst, it's over and now it's over.

609
00:30:52,320 --> 00:30:56,120
Speaker 1: That was fun for a little bit. Yes.

610
00:30:57,280 --> 00:31:00,680
Speaker 2: When they got here yesterday, for some reason, they insisted

611
00:31:00,720 --> 00:31:03,440
Speaker 2: they wanted to go out for dinner. Dad recommended our

612
00:31:03,480 --> 00:31:09,360
Speaker 2: new favorite. Dad recommended our new favorite diner, which is

613
00:31:09,400 --> 00:31:12,360
Speaker 2: known for its breakfast set anytime of the day. We

614
00:31:12,400 --> 00:31:14,720
Speaker 2: live close to a major interstate, and the saying about

615
00:31:14,800 --> 00:31:17,680
Speaker 2: truckers knowing all the best diners and holes in the

616
00:31:17,680 --> 00:31:20,920
Speaker 2: wall in all fifty states, and then some is true

617
00:31:20,960 --> 00:31:22,600
Speaker 2: and then some What's what's after that?

618
00:31:23,120 --> 00:31:24,760
Speaker 1: More holes in the walls, They're.

619
00:31:24,560 --> 00:31:26,080
Speaker 2: Like, they know all the holes in the wall in

620
00:31:26,120 --> 00:31:27,400
Speaker 2: Canada and Mexico.

621
00:31:27,840 --> 00:31:29,920
Speaker 1: More holes than the walls, more holes in the walls.

622
00:31:32,360 --> 00:31:36,200
Speaker 2: Please tell me what the I'm gonna I'm gonna continue.

623
00:31:36,440 --> 00:31:38,920
Speaker 3: I need I'm just a little boy, I shaved. I

624
00:31:39,000 --> 00:31:40,200
Speaker 3: don't know what you're talking about.

625
00:31:39,960 --> 00:31:42,880
Speaker 2: From Thanks for the France and pants and the comments.

626
00:31:42,880 --> 00:31:43,880
Speaker 1: Thanks for letting the snuff.

627
00:31:44,760 --> 00:31:45,120
Speaker 2: Thanks.

628
00:31:45,280 --> 00:31:46,760
Speaker 1: We know it's broken.

629
00:31:46,880 --> 00:31:48,160
Speaker 3: It's broken. We broken.

630
00:31:48,680 --> 00:31:51,560
Speaker 2: It's adding a five. It's adding five hundred on top

631
00:31:51,600 --> 00:31:55,880
Speaker 2: of whatever. It's adding one hundred, it's adding all the zeros. Okay,

632
00:31:56,000 --> 00:31:56,640
Speaker 2: you can fix that.

633
00:31:56,720 --> 00:31:59,600
Speaker 3: I'm going to change that back, okay, cool. Oh it's

634
00:31:59,600 --> 00:32:03,480
Speaker 3: around that okay, Yeah, I'll just put it to one hundred.

635
00:32:03,960 --> 00:32:07,479
Speaker 1: It's just put ninety five, okay, So the diner.

636
00:32:07,840 --> 00:32:12,200
Speaker 2: The aforementioned diner is a greasy spoon in every sense

637
00:32:12,240 --> 00:32:15,120
Speaker 2: of the word, right out of the nineteen fifties, every

638
00:32:15,280 --> 00:32:18,960
Speaker 2: leather booth filled with truckers or locals, waitresses who automatically

639
00:32:18,960 --> 00:32:21,720
Speaker 2: know their regular orders by heart and don't put up

640
00:32:21,720 --> 00:32:25,760
Speaker 2: with crap from anyone, a bustling kitchen, and while spotless,

641
00:32:25,880 --> 00:32:28,760
Speaker 2: is just worn enough to let you know many people

642
00:32:28,840 --> 00:32:32,120
Speaker 2: have been there. In other words, it has character. Oo

643
00:32:32,920 --> 00:32:36,440
Speaker 2: is this just a what? I don't care, I'll free plug.

644
00:32:36,480 --> 00:32:37,800
Speaker 2: This is this waffle house?

645
00:32:38,080 --> 00:32:41,560
Speaker 1: Yeah? This is just waffle house is definitely.

646
00:32:42,920 --> 00:32:45,040
Speaker 2: You haven't I've never been because they're not out here.

647
00:32:45,080 --> 00:32:47,000
Speaker 1: There's none in California.

648
00:32:46,560 --> 00:32:49,800
Speaker 3: It's I heard that's an experience in.

649
00:32:49,840 --> 00:32:52,360
Speaker 2: All Oh to go on an okay storytime road trip

650
00:32:52,360 --> 00:32:53,160
Speaker 2: to waffle house.

651
00:32:53,160 --> 00:32:56,720
Speaker 1: You know who their closest one is like seven hours away. Yeah,

652
00:32:56,960 --> 00:32:58,880
Speaker 1: I trust me. I've looked it up. Yeah. Yeah.

653
00:32:59,160 --> 00:33:00,600
Speaker 3: Is it in two in Arizona?

654
00:33:01,120 --> 00:33:01,440
Speaker 2: I don't know.

655
00:33:01,480 --> 00:33:02,600
Speaker 1: Probably it might be.

656
00:33:04,480 --> 00:33:06,600
Speaker 2: It may not look like a five star restaurant, it

657
00:33:06,680 --> 00:33:10,240
Speaker 2: has some of the best breakfast you're ever going to eat. Though,

658
00:33:11,000 --> 00:33:13,400
Speaker 2: I was hesitant to take Gabrielle there, if only because

659
00:33:13,440 --> 00:33:15,680
Speaker 2: I didn't want to ruin the staff's day. Mark and

660
00:33:15,680 --> 00:33:17,640
Speaker 2: I have been there enough times that the weight and

661
00:33:17,720 --> 00:33:21,600
Speaker 2: staff know us. Sorry that the weight staff and the

662
00:33:21,640 --> 00:33:25,480
Speaker 2: cooks know us. However, Dad wanted Gabrielle to experience a

663
00:33:25,640 --> 00:33:29,640
Speaker 2: true American classic and was offering to pay, so we

664
00:33:29,800 --> 00:33:33,400
Speaker 2: reluctantly went. Luckily, we got there during a not really

665
00:33:33,400 --> 00:33:35,800
Speaker 2: busy time, so I told Dad to find a parking

666
00:33:35,840 --> 00:33:37,640
Speaker 2: spot and I would go in to get us a table.

667
00:33:37,960 --> 00:33:40,920
Speaker 2: The reason I did this was so I could warn

668
00:33:41,000 --> 00:33:45,040
Speaker 2: the staff about Gabrielle and apologize and advance for anything

669
00:33:45,120 --> 00:33:45,440
Speaker 2: she did.

670
00:33:45,520 --> 00:33:47,960
Speaker 1: Oh no, no, no, If this is where I think you're going,

671
00:33:48,480 --> 00:33:51,960
Speaker 1: that's just gonna make it worse. Why let me go

672
00:33:52,000 --> 00:33:55,120
Speaker 1: to all of the waffle house staff and tell them, Hey,

673
00:33:55,160 --> 00:33:56,240
Speaker 1: this person's a snoot.

674
00:33:57,520 --> 00:33:59,680
Speaker 2: Well, it's like you know, I don't. You could probably

675
00:33:59,720 --> 00:34:01,400
Speaker 2: go to the staff they know you. You go hey,

676
00:34:01,960 --> 00:34:03,840
Speaker 2: Stepma or my lawns.

677
00:34:04,560 --> 00:34:09,279
Speaker 1: I've forgot just I'm warning you. She's gonna be bad. God, yeah,

678
00:34:09,440 --> 00:34:10,480
Speaker 1: got it? Okay.

679
00:34:11,160 --> 00:34:15,680
Speaker 2: So fortunately, our usual waitress let's call her Mary, thanked

680
00:34:15,680 --> 00:34:18,560
Speaker 2: me for the warning and warned the rest of the staff.

681
00:34:19,080 --> 00:34:21,920
Speaker 2: We go in and get our booth and Gabrielle tries

682
00:34:22,000 --> 00:34:25,600
Speaker 2: pulling her usual stunts. I won't go into everything she

683
00:34:25,680 --> 00:34:28,319
Speaker 2: did because we'll be here forever, but I'll leave the

684
00:34:28,400 --> 00:34:31,560
Speaker 2: highlight reel and here come the highlights.

685
00:34:31,960 --> 00:34:32,520
Speaker 1: Number one.

686
00:34:32,680 --> 00:34:36,040
Speaker 2: Gabrielle sent Mary back three times with the coffee because

687
00:34:36,239 --> 00:34:39,120
Speaker 2: in order, it was too cold, it was too hot,

688
00:34:39,440 --> 00:34:45,440
Speaker 2: and not enough cream. Oh what I would just I

689
00:34:45,480 --> 00:34:48,080
Speaker 2: would ban you from being in my sight if you

690
00:34:48,120 --> 00:34:52,440
Speaker 2: did that with me at a restaurant. Uh. Finally, Mary,

691
00:34:52,920 --> 00:34:55,799
Speaker 2: who doesn't let anybody push her around, just slap the

692
00:34:55,840 --> 00:34:57,719
Speaker 2: coffee pot on the table along with the cream and

693
00:34:57,760 --> 00:35:00,479
Speaker 2: sugar and told Gabrielle to make do because she wasn't

694
00:35:00,520 --> 00:35:03,680
Speaker 2: going back to get her dang coffee. This made Mark

695
00:35:03,719 --> 00:35:07,960
Speaker 2: and Me chuckle and Gabrielle steam two. While waiting and

696
00:35:08,000 --> 00:35:11,720
Speaker 2: probably still stewing from Mary's little comeback with the coffee,

697
00:35:11,760 --> 00:35:16,040
Speaker 2: Gabrielle decided to accost Stephanie, who had just started, and

698
00:35:16,120 --> 00:35:20,200
Speaker 2: tell her to go get some fresh biscuits, not ask tell.

699
00:35:21,160 --> 00:35:24,200
Speaker 2: Poor Stephanie, who is understandably anxious about her job, does

700
00:35:24,320 --> 00:35:26,800
Speaker 2: as told, and then Gabrielle made a fuss about the

701
00:35:26,840 --> 00:35:30,440
Speaker 2: packets of butter up being soft enough despite Stephanie, explaining

702
00:35:30,480 --> 00:35:33,960
Speaker 2: that all the butter was kept cold for food safety reasons.

703
00:35:34,640 --> 00:35:37,520
Speaker 2: Gabrielle made a Snyder remark about how Stephanie couldn't wait

704
00:35:37,560 --> 00:35:40,560
Speaker 2: five extra minutes to let the butter soften, which made

705
00:35:40,560 --> 00:35:44,239
Speaker 2: Stephanie tear up and me about ready to tell Gabrielle

706
00:35:44,280 --> 00:35:47,440
Speaker 2: to go f a French chef if food was that

707
00:35:47,560 --> 00:35:48,359
Speaker 2: important to her.

708
00:35:48,560 --> 00:35:51,560
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I don't even think it's a food thing.

709
00:35:51,600 --> 00:35:55,560
Speaker 1: I think it is the person has to be submissive

710
00:35:55,640 --> 00:35:59,440
Speaker 1: towards her, and if that is done, she'll be like,

711
00:35:59,440 --> 00:36:02,400
Speaker 1: all right, cool, I guess I'll like your food. Yeah,

712
00:36:02,600 --> 00:36:05,160
Speaker 1: we we need nice food. WI. Yes.

713
00:36:05,360 --> 00:36:08,160
Speaker 2: Uh so I'm gonna go ahead. I'm gonna make a

714
00:36:08,160 --> 00:36:11,520
Speaker 2: claim right now. Oh boy, I know everyone already thinks

715
00:36:11,520 --> 00:36:14,440
Speaker 2: that Gabrielle is an ahole. Everyone at this table is

716
00:36:14,440 --> 00:36:17,360
Speaker 2: being an ahole right now. Really for facilitating this behavior.

717
00:36:17,480 --> 00:36:21,560
Speaker 2: Oh wow, how is a single person not going, hey, Gabrielle,

718
00:36:22,920 --> 00:36:26,560
Speaker 2: this is unacceptable behavior. Like somebody at this table, whether

719
00:36:26,600 --> 00:36:31,040
Speaker 2: it's her freaking husband or the people the younglings at

720
00:36:31,040 --> 00:36:35,600
Speaker 2: the table, need to put her on blast. This is unacceptable,

721
00:36:36,080 --> 00:36:40,200
Speaker 2: which is why it continues. M H and I will

722
00:36:40,239 --> 00:36:41,000
Speaker 2: die on that hill.

723
00:36:41,719 --> 00:36:42,719
Speaker 1: Someone needs to say something.

724
00:36:42,800 --> 00:36:45,359
Speaker 2: Until someone says something, everyone's in the wrong here.

725
00:36:45,480 --> 00:36:51,160
Speaker 1: Honeybee says it is one control thing. I agree, take

726
00:36:51,200 --> 00:36:51,920
Speaker 1: the control away.

727
00:36:53,560 --> 00:36:58,920
Speaker 2: So number three when our meeting blah, wow, how'd you

728
00:36:58,920 --> 00:36:59,719
Speaker 2: even write that one down?

729
00:37:01,480 --> 00:37:02,160
Speaker 1: Number three?

730
00:37:02,360 --> 00:37:05,959
Speaker 2: When our meals did arrive, Gabrielle was quiet during the meal,

731
00:37:06,120 --> 00:37:09,279
Speaker 2: not making any comments. I was unsure what was going

732
00:37:09,320 --> 00:37:12,160
Speaker 2: to happen as a result. Either she really liked it,

733
00:37:12,400 --> 00:37:15,080
Speaker 2: which I doubted, seeing as I've never seen her compliment

734
00:37:15,120 --> 00:37:18,200
Speaker 2: anyone's cooking whenever we've gone out, or she was planning

735
00:37:18,280 --> 00:37:23,040
Speaker 2: a nasty barb, which I feared. When Mary dropped off

736
00:37:23,080 --> 00:37:26,120
Speaker 2: the bill, Gabrielle took it before Dad could and said

737
00:37:26,320 --> 00:37:29,640
Speaker 2: she was paying what so she could leave a zero

738
00:37:29,719 --> 00:37:35,080
Speaker 2: dollar tip? Just that's my I see you conspiracy theory.

739
00:37:35,120 --> 00:37:36,320
Speaker 2: She's trying to tip zero dollars.

740
00:37:36,960 --> 00:37:40,400
Speaker 3: I mean they don't, oh tip, would you a?

741
00:37:40,920 --> 00:37:43,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, they don't tip? And oh they don't Gabrielle doesn't tip.

742
00:37:44,360 --> 00:37:46,719
Speaker 3: Say they do not in Europe, they don't really tip.

743
00:37:46,760 --> 00:37:51,040
Speaker 2: Oh in front, Well we're not in Europe, are we

744
00:37:51,040 --> 00:37:53,680
Speaker 2: We're not sorry, we're not lightened people. There's people who

745
00:37:53,719 --> 00:37:58,799
Speaker 2: pay weight staff two dollars an hour, so as I

746
00:37:58,920 --> 00:38:02,080
Speaker 2: was just saying, because I was sitting next to her,

747
00:38:03,040 --> 00:38:07,239
Speaker 2: Gabrielle left a big fat zero in the tip line

748
00:38:07,239 --> 00:38:09,960
Speaker 2: and left a note about it's cute that American chefs

749
00:38:09,960 --> 00:38:12,239
Speaker 2: think they're good cooks when they've never stepped in her

750
00:38:12,320 --> 00:38:16,600
Speaker 2: real kitchen before prove me wrong before closing the little

751
00:38:16,600 --> 00:38:18,360
Speaker 2: book the receipt came in and hiding it so no

752
00:38:18,400 --> 00:38:24,200
Speaker 2: one else could see what she wrote. Dude, I mean,

753
00:38:24,680 --> 00:38:28,640
Speaker 2: where is hey? Can somebody please grow a spine here?

754
00:38:29,160 --> 00:38:35,240
Speaker 2: Someone anyone? I was pissed when I read that note

755
00:38:35,239 --> 00:38:38,400
Speaker 2: and was about ready to slap Gabrielle. I know the

756
00:38:38,480 --> 00:38:40,799
Speaker 2: chefs and servers who work at this particular diner learned

757
00:38:40,840 --> 00:38:42,600
Speaker 2: their skills on the job, and if you ask me,

758
00:38:42,920 --> 00:38:44,640
Speaker 2: they have every right to be as proud of their

759
00:38:44,680 --> 00:38:46,880
Speaker 2: work as someone who went to culinary school would be.

760
00:38:47,680 --> 00:38:50,279
Speaker 2: While I'm looking at going to culinary school myself to

761
00:38:50,280 --> 00:38:53,120
Speaker 2: become a pastry chef, I respect people who've learned by

762
00:38:53,160 --> 00:38:56,279
Speaker 2: working in kitchens and on the floor because they have

763
00:38:56,520 --> 00:39:00,319
Speaker 2: first hand experience. I took out one hundred dollars using

764
00:39:00,320 --> 00:39:01,960
Speaker 2: the ATM at the diner and gave it to the

765
00:39:02,000 --> 00:39:05,040
Speaker 2: staff as a tip, along with an apology for her behavior.

766
00:39:05,360 --> 00:39:09,680
Speaker 2: Embarrassed and angry, let's go. Fortunately they didn't hold it

767
00:39:09,719 --> 00:39:13,160
Speaker 2: against us, just Gabrielle and told me that Mark and

768
00:39:13,160 --> 00:39:15,840
Speaker 2: I were always welcome back. I also decided I was

769
00:39:15,880 --> 00:39:20,080
Speaker 2: going to get back at Gabrielle.

770
00:39:21,880 --> 00:39:22,560
Speaker 1: Guys, what is it?

771
00:39:22,600 --> 00:39:24,160
Speaker 2: What is up with the aversion of just like a

772
00:39:24,200 --> 00:39:27,880
Speaker 2: direct conversation with somebody doing something wrong in front of you.

773
00:39:28,320 --> 00:39:29,240
Speaker 3: That's too easy?

774
00:39:29,400 --> 00:39:30,240
Speaker 1: Where are we at?

775
00:39:31,320 --> 00:39:34,280
Speaker 4: People don't like confrontation. People want to do the things

776
00:39:34,320 --> 00:39:35,080
Speaker 4: the sneaky way.

777
00:39:35,160 --> 00:39:37,440
Speaker 3: You know. I'd be I am and eye.

778
00:39:37,840 --> 00:39:40,960
Speaker 2: No mood for this behavior.

779
00:39:41,239 --> 00:39:44,680
Speaker 1: Yeah no, So.

780
00:39:46,200 --> 00:39:50,760
Speaker 2: There was a benefit to this lockdown, which I'm assuming

781
00:39:50,960 --> 00:39:56,239
Speaker 2: is the pandemic era. During this time, board out of

782
00:39:56,280 --> 00:39:59,400
Speaker 2: our wits and wanting to better our skills, Mark and

783
00:39:59,440 --> 00:40:02,400
Speaker 2: I have been binge watching recipe and cooking how to

784
00:40:02,600 --> 00:40:07,160
Speaker 2: videos online along with practicing them. And while I don't

785
00:40:07,280 --> 00:40:11,680
Speaker 2: like bragging, I'd say we've become quite good. That's the

786
00:40:11,719 --> 00:40:16,200
Speaker 2: most humble brag. Literally, yeah, quite good. It's a very

787
00:40:16,239 --> 00:40:20,600
Speaker 2: humble brag. We know how to smoke our own bacon,

788
00:40:21,000 --> 00:40:25,160
Speaker 2: cure corned beef, make creamy scrambled eggs, and baked flaky croissants.

789
00:40:25,440 --> 00:40:30,520
Speaker 1: And that's just as sampling. Don't whoa, don't let Opee

790
00:40:30,520 --> 00:40:32,880
Speaker 1: get on the Great British Bakeoff. She gonna win the

791
00:40:32,920 --> 00:40:34,880
Speaker 1: whole thing. She's gonna win it all. Don't put her

792
00:40:34,880 --> 00:40:35,440
Speaker 1: on Chopped.

793
00:40:36,400 --> 00:40:40,120
Speaker 2: I love Chopped. I haven't watched Chopped as much basically

794
00:40:40,360 --> 00:40:42,719
Speaker 2: like a random basket. No, I mean, I know, I

795
00:40:42,800 --> 00:40:46,920
Speaker 2: just mean you said you never did. Now I'm confused.

796
00:40:46,920 --> 00:40:48,480
Speaker 2: I've never watched it as much as the other ones

797
00:40:48,480 --> 00:40:50,319
Speaker 2: that I got It, got It, got It, gotron chef.

798
00:40:50,320 --> 00:40:51,399
Speaker 1: You could be like, oh, yeah, I know what you're

799
00:40:51,400 --> 00:40:53,520
Speaker 1: talking about, dude, I'd love you.

800
00:40:53,600 --> 00:40:56,719
Speaker 2: Let's do let's do a chop challenge for the stream. Yeah,

801
00:40:56,800 --> 00:40:58,560
Speaker 2: that'd be cool. That actually would be really cool. I

802
00:40:58,600 --> 00:41:01,000
Speaker 2: do cook, I know you do. Why we should chop

803
00:41:01,080 --> 00:41:05,800
Speaker 2: challenge and I'll be the judge. Yeah, you'll be the cameraman.

804
00:41:06,080 --> 00:41:07,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, you be the cameraman and the judge. You have

805
00:41:07,960 --> 00:41:10,799
Speaker 1: to cut every second. That's how their editing is. It's

806
00:41:10,920 --> 00:41:12,720
Speaker 1: every second. It's never on a frame.

807
00:41:12,520 --> 00:41:15,600
Speaker 3: From every little like slice of vegetable like.

808
00:41:16,239 --> 00:41:20,800
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, oh yeah yeah onion edit on TikTok.

809
00:41:21,160 --> 00:41:23,759
Speaker 1: You know what I'm talking about the onion edit. Yeah no, no, no, no,

810
00:41:23,840 --> 00:41:24,640
Speaker 1: all right, we're going back.

811
00:41:28,120 --> 00:41:31,239
Speaker 2: When we got home, I told Mark my plan and

812
00:41:31,320 --> 00:41:35,040
Speaker 2: he was grinning ear to ear the next day, while

813
00:41:35,080 --> 00:41:37,960
Speaker 2: Gabrielle and Dad still slept, Mark and I got up

814
00:41:38,000 --> 00:41:41,120
Speaker 2: early and got right to work. We prepared scrambled eggs,

815
00:41:41,360 --> 00:41:46,279
Speaker 2: home cured smoked bacon, biscuits, and a fruit salad. Dad

816
00:41:46,320 --> 00:41:49,120
Speaker 2: woke up early and smelled the breakfast, waking up Gabrielle

817
00:41:49,120 --> 00:41:49,640
Speaker 2: by saying that.

818
00:41:49,600 --> 00:41:50,880
Speaker 1: The kids were making breakfast.

819
00:41:51,800 --> 00:41:58,560
Speaker 2: Dan, it's just how I imagine him. A man who

820
00:41:58,600 --> 00:42:02,000
Speaker 2: refuses to call someone out on their horrendous behavior. Sounds

821
00:42:02,040 --> 00:42:04,200
Speaker 2: like yeah, yeah, please wake up.

822
00:42:05,120 --> 00:42:07,640
Speaker 1: Hey, they're making breakfast downstairs. Don't eat my head off.

823
00:42:08,080 --> 00:42:08,799
Speaker 2: Don't get me enemy.

824
00:42:08,880 --> 00:42:11,240
Speaker 1: He's married to a praying mantis. Yeah.

825
00:42:11,640 --> 00:42:14,799
Speaker 2: Dad came downstairs first, and Mark asked him to set

826
00:42:14,840 --> 00:42:17,719
Speaker 2: the table. Gabrielle came down as we were finishing up,

827
00:42:17,760 --> 00:42:22,520
Speaker 2: and she sits down, offering no help, while Gabrielle commented

828
00:42:22,560 --> 00:42:24,919
Speaker 2: about how it smells just like a restaurant she went

829
00:42:24,960 --> 00:42:28,239
Speaker 2: to in France and couldn't wait to taste everything. Mark

830
00:42:28,280 --> 00:42:31,600
Speaker 2: and I serve Dad in our plates before putting everything

831
00:42:31,680 --> 00:42:36,640
Speaker 2: back I actually really like this. Gabrielle looked at us confused.

832
00:42:38,239 --> 00:42:42,080
Speaker 2: I looked at her. I said, oh, oh, I thought

833
00:42:42,440 --> 00:42:45,280
Speaker 2: I thought you were going to a French cafe for breakfast.

834
00:42:45,840 --> 00:42:48,080
Speaker 2: I said, you did right on the receipt at the

835
00:42:48,120 --> 00:42:50,560
Speaker 2: diner that you thought it was cute. Americans think they're

836
00:42:50,600 --> 00:42:53,320
Speaker 2: good cooks if they haven't set foot in a real kitchen,

837
00:42:53,440 --> 00:42:55,520
Speaker 2: and you wanted someone to prove you wrong.

838
00:42:57,360 --> 00:43:02,320
Speaker 1: Sorry, Gabrielle, I just I thought you were too good this. Oh, dude,

839
00:43:03,160 --> 00:43:05,640
Speaker 1: that is so petty. I was just listening to what

840
00:43:05,680 --> 00:43:06,040
Speaker 1: you said.

841
00:43:06,080 --> 00:43:08,560
Speaker 2: I I figured you didn't want any of this.

842
00:43:08,680 --> 00:43:12,880
Speaker 1: Oh my god. Feel free to make some yourself, though, Dude,

843
00:43:13,080 --> 00:43:16,080
Speaker 1: I am burning alive inside. As a non confrontational person.

844
00:43:17,360 --> 00:43:20,920
Speaker 1: This is crazy. Why I confronting people.

845
00:43:20,719 --> 00:43:23,000
Speaker 2: To be so I'm gonna do a little one eighty here.

846
00:43:23,040 --> 00:43:27,040
Speaker 2: I actually love this this format. Although they should have

847
00:43:27,080 --> 00:43:29,120
Speaker 2: definitely confronted her at the restaurant.

848
00:43:30,400 --> 00:43:32,399
Speaker 4: I'm sorry five minutes ago you were like, I don't

849
00:43:32,480 --> 00:43:34,960
Speaker 4: like because I didn't know what they were gonna do

850
00:43:35,080 --> 00:43:35,600
Speaker 4: pick away.

851
00:43:35,960 --> 00:43:38,560
Speaker 2: You look, you absolutely needed to call her out in

852
00:43:38,640 --> 00:43:39,760
Speaker 2: the moment at the restaurant.

853
00:43:39,840 --> 00:43:41,400
Speaker 3: Do you want a conrotation or do you want to

854
00:43:41,400 --> 00:43:41,800
Speaker 3: be petty?

855
00:43:41,840 --> 00:43:44,880
Speaker 1: What do you want? I want both? No, I want both.

856
00:43:46,000 --> 00:43:48,440
Speaker 2: I want order and I can have both.

857
00:43:49,160 --> 00:43:51,279
Speaker 1: We literally have it. Clip. I could clip it, well,

858
00:43:51,640 --> 00:43:52,000
Speaker 1: clip it.

859
00:43:53,080 --> 00:43:54,640
Speaker 3: Look at that, I'm making it unfocused?

860
00:43:55,800 --> 00:43:56,040
Speaker 1: Clip?

861
00:43:56,080 --> 00:44:00,440
Speaker 2: Can someone clips Keon's hand becoming like viciously in focus

862
00:44:00,520 --> 00:44:01,280
Speaker 2: for that second.

863
00:44:01,400 --> 00:44:05,040
Speaker 1: I just like, I just liked that camera to do that. Okay,

864
00:44:05,280 --> 00:44:06,239
Speaker 1: I want to know I like it.

865
00:44:06,280 --> 00:44:08,280
Speaker 2: I want to turn that into a meme, like Keon's

866
00:44:08,320 --> 00:44:12,960
Speaker 2: hand just being like, I'll turn you into Okay, anyway.

867
00:44:14,000 --> 00:44:17,160
Speaker 3: He's already turning himself in a meme. Look at him.

868
00:44:17,200 --> 00:44:18,719
Speaker 3: He's like, I like confrontation.

869
00:44:18,960 --> 00:44:20,080
Speaker 1: No, I like being petty.

870
00:44:20,320 --> 00:44:21,120
Speaker 3: I don't know what I want.

871
00:44:21,840 --> 00:44:25,799
Speaker 2: I thought it was gonna be like less direct pettiness.

872
00:44:27,440 --> 00:44:29,600
Speaker 3: All right, tom petty, we're going back.

873
00:44:29,840 --> 00:44:34,799
Speaker 1: We're diving back, so Dad.

874
00:44:35,760 --> 00:44:39,799
Speaker 2: Dad looked at Gabrielle, his eyes wide as all the

875
00:44:39,840 --> 00:44:43,920
Speaker 2: color drained from Gabrielle's face. He said, you wrote what,

876
00:44:45,080 --> 00:44:48,279
Speaker 2: well hop to it? I said, sitting down, enjoy your

877
00:44:48,280 --> 00:44:52,720
Speaker 2: French breakfast with your French chefs. Gabrielle's face reddened before

878
00:44:52,760 --> 00:44:55,600
Speaker 2: she left. I don't know if she was embarrassed or angry,

879
00:44:55,920 --> 00:44:58,000
Speaker 2: but we were able to have a nice breakfast without

880
00:44:58,000 --> 00:45:02,840
Speaker 2: any of Gabrielle's complaining. She did come back after getting

881
00:45:02,920 --> 00:45:07,240
Speaker 2: breakfast and has been nice and quiet all day. Hopefully

882
00:45:07,280 --> 00:45:13,719
Speaker 2: she's learned her lesson and Dad grows a backbone. You ay,

883
00:45:14,120 --> 00:45:17,359
Speaker 2: you're not escaping me. Ope, you and your partner both

884
00:45:17,400 --> 00:45:19,080
Speaker 2: need a backbone, just like Dad.

885
00:45:19,200 --> 00:45:21,920
Speaker 1: Well, okay, they did get a backbone. If dude, I

886
00:45:21,920 --> 00:45:22,640
Speaker 1: don't care who if.

887
00:45:22,760 --> 00:45:25,319
Speaker 2: If I'm with anyone and they pull something like that,

888
00:45:26,320 --> 00:45:27,200
Speaker 2: I'll tell anyone.

889
00:45:27,280 --> 00:45:28,320
Speaker 1: You need to relax.

890
00:45:28,680 --> 00:45:31,160
Speaker 2: You need to not make a single comment for the

891
00:45:31,200 --> 00:45:33,400
Speaker 2: rest of the night. I could confront you about something

892
00:45:33,440 --> 00:45:34,840
Speaker 2: right now, Okay, confront me.

893
00:45:35,400 --> 00:45:39,080
Speaker 1: Let me let me just journey for your confirmation, double check,

894
00:45:39,280 --> 00:45:40,880
Speaker 1: and then I will you have an update.

895
00:45:41,160 --> 00:45:44,879
Speaker 2: We have an update coming up, but apparently Riley needs

896
00:45:44,880 --> 00:45:48,400
Speaker 2: to confront me about something about Friday nights and dinner.

897
00:45:48,719 --> 00:45:50,319
Speaker 2: Oh is it the one that I paid you for?

898
00:45:50,800 --> 00:45:53,279
Speaker 1: I was double checking. Okay, there is there is. I

899
00:45:53,360 --> 00:45:55,719
Speaker 1: knew the second that it opened it would say that. Okay.

900
00:45:55,960 --> 00:45:58,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, Oh, so you're just confronting me about how I

901
00:45:58,560 --> 00:45:59,200
Speaker 2: pay my bills.

902
00:45:59,280 --> 00:46:01,719
Speaker 1: Yep, that's right. Nice now that we know that I

903
00:46:01,760 --> 00:46:03,200
Speaker 1: do that, So Yeah, I hate it. I hate it.

904
00:46:03,239 --> 00:46:06,040
Speaker 1: I just don't like it because that could happen. Like,

905
00:46:06,160 --> 00:46:08,120
Speaker 1: I just hate it. Oh, I hate it.

906
00:46:08,120 --> 00:46:11,200
Speaker 2: Any deal a little more legwork, Ah, Like.

907
00:46:11,239 --> 00:46:13,799
Speaker 1: You could have checked did he pay me? Before? You

908
00:46:13,800 --> 00:46:16,560
Speaker 1: were like, I need to corunt you about not paying me.

909
00:46:17,080 --> 00:46:19,439
Speaker 1: See what I mean? Mom? See mom?

910
00:46:19,480 --> 00:46:19,680
Speaker 2: Does this?

911
00:46:20,520 --> 00:46:21,160
Speaker 3: See how you're doing?

912
00:46:21,520 --> 00:46:23,759
Speaker 4: See Riley, I'm proud of you. You're doing confrontation right

913
00:46:23,760 --> 00:46:25,040
Speaker 4: there and there in front of everyone.

914
00:46:25,080 --> 00:46:29,360
Speaker 1: I'm your mom now, Riley. Oh no, you go to therapy.

915
00:46:29,360 --> 00:46:33,000
Speaker 2: All right, let's get let's get into this update.

916
00:46:33,600 --> 00:46:35,879
Speaker 1: Oh, we have a wheel spin after the.

917
00:46:35,840 --> 00:46:41,439
Speaker 4: Story wheel Already, there's a lot going and we're having

918
00:46:41,480 --> 00:46:44,080
Speaker 4: a good time over here. John's next to me and

919
00:46:44,120 --> 00:46:45,239
Speaker 4: he's breathing down my neck.

920
00:46:45,320 --> 00:46:47,360
Speaker 3: I love it. Okay, it's warm.

921
00:46:47,440 --> 00:46:51,319
Speaker 2: We have an update, folks. Let's get into it, all right,

922
00:46:51,440 --> 00:46:55,080
Speaker 2: pe My inbox, Holy smokes, I'm glad most of it.

923
00:46:55,160 --> 00:46:57,319
Speaker 2: I'm glad most of you enjoyed my story and had

924
00:46:57,320 --> 00:47:00,640
Speaker 2: their own stories to tell about the Gabrielle's and their lives.

925
00:47:01,040 --> 00:47:03,000
Speaker 2: I'm so sorry you have to deal with people like

926
00:47:03,040 --> 00:47:05,560
Speaker 2: her as well. They really are the worst. And give

927
00:47:05,640 --> 00:47:12,240
Speaker 2: both good French, good French and step parents a bad lesson.

928
00:47:15,239 --> 00:47:15,759
Speaker 3: You got this.

929
00:47:16,719 --> 00:47:20,240
Speaker 2: They really are the worst and give both good French

930
00:47:20,320 --> 00:47:24,080
Speaker 2: people and stepparents a bad lesson.

931
00:47:25,920 --> 00:47:27,399
Speaker 1: What was that? Probably bad name?

932
00:47:27,760 --> 00:47:30,240
Speaker 3: M It's probably someone translating their French.

933
00:47:32,360 --> 00:47:37,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, So I'm just gonna keep going. Dad and Gabrielle

934
00:47:37,040 --> 00:47:39,120
Speaker 2: were supposed to stay with us for a few days

935
00:47:39,160 --> 00:47:41,719
Speaker 2: before I returned to work next week. All four of

936
00:47:41,800 --> 00:47:45,120
Speaker 2: us got sick with the bug at one point or

937
00:47:45,160 --> 00:47:47,800
Speaker 2: another during the last six months, and to have remained

938
00:47:47,840 --> 00:47:50,040
Speaker 2: a symptom free, thank goodness, so no need for us

939
00:47:50,080 --> 00:47:53,920
Speaker 2: to quarantine. They left this morning, but not before they

940
00:47:53,960 --> 00:47:56,360
Speaker 2: had a vicious argument last night after my brother and

941
00:47:56,400 --> 00:47:59,160
Speaker 2: I went to bed, And when I say vicious, I

942
00:47:59,200 --> 00:48:01,800
Speaker 2: mean it was so life We could hear every word.

943
00:48:02,600 --> 00:48:05,040
Speaker 2: Thank god the neighbors couldn't hear, otherwise we might have

944
00:48:05,080 --> 00:48:08,399
Speaker 2: had the cops called on us. Dad chewed Gabrielle out

945
00:48:08,400 --> 00:48:10,319
Speaker 2: on what she wrote on the receipt and reminded her

946
00:48:10,360 --> 00:48:13,239
Speaker 2: that she had promised him she'd be on her best behavior.

947
00:48:13,960 --> 00:48:16,760
Speaker 2: After all, this restaurant was special to not just marking

948
00:48:16,880 --> 00:48:21,480
Speaker 2: me but Dad as well. Why are again, what what

949
00:48:21,600 --> 00:48:22,200
Speaker 2: are we doing?

950
00:48:23,280 --> 00:48:24,040
Speaker 1: What are we doing?

951
00:48:24,320 --> 00:48:24,440
Speaker 4: Uh?

952
00:48:24,520 --> 00:48:30,279
Speaker 1: John? They're talking about waffle house. We don't know what

953
00:48:30,360 --> 00:48:30,880
Speaker 1: it might be.

954
00:48:30,920 --> 00:48:37,319
Speaker 2: It's essentially waffle houses, which, by the way, if Gabrielle

955
00:48:37,520 --> 00:48:40,360
Speaker 2: was pulling this stunt at a waffle house, the entire

956
00:48:40,480 --> 00:48:43,080
Speaker 2: staff is picking her up and throwing her out of

957
00:48:43,120 --> 00:48:46,880
Speaker 2: the front door. Yeah, they don't. They don't play around.

958
00:48:46,920 --> 00:48:51,399
Speaker 2: They really don't stay open through natural disasters.

959
00:48:52,280 --> 00:48:55,399
Speaker 1: They got helicopters. They're they're the team, dude.

960
00:48:55,480 --> 00:48:57,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, they have helicopters.

961
00:48:57,880 --> 00:49:01,319
Speaker 1: Yeah, like sorry, real quick. At their headquarters. They have

962
00:49:01,360 --> 00:49:03,440
Speaker 1: helicopters that they'll fly out in case of a natural

963
00:49:03,440 --> 00:49:05,480
Speaker 1: disaster so they can keep the waffle house open. It's

964
00:49:05,520 --> 00:49:07,319
Speaker 1: like with the generator and stuff. It's really cool.

965
00:49:07,440 --> 00:49:09,840
Speaker 2: Oh so it's like they got the chinooks.

966
00:49:09,800 --> 00:49:13,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah for natural Yeah, dude, they're ready. It's crazy

967
00:49:15,000 --> 00:49:16,160
Speaker 1: government true.

968
00:49:16,160 --> 00:49:21,680
Speaker 2: It's like there's like the FEMA scale of like disasters.

969
00:49:21,880 --> 00:49:25,240
Speaker 1: Facts. Bro, we got we got YouTubers paying people's medical

970
00:49:25,280 --> 00:49:29,799
Speaker 1: bills and waffle house Thank Caravos. What is this is America? Man?

971
00:49:32,000 --> 00:49:38,759
Speaker 2: So, Gabrielle defended her actions, saying that it was not

972
00:49:38,960 --> 00:49:42,520
Speaker 2: what she likes, until she finally blew up and revealed

973
00:49:42,560 --> 00:49:45,319
Speaker 2: the real reason she threw that tantrum in the restaurant.

974
00:49:45,640 --> 00:49:48,560
Speaker 2: Turned out Dad was planning on surprising Gabrielle on a

975
00:49:48,600 --> 00:49:51,360
Speaker 2: trip to one of the best restaurants in town to

976
00:49:51,440 --> 00:49:54,960
Speaker 2: celebrate the anniversary of their first date, which was yesterday.

977
00:49:55,520 --> 00:49:58,480
Speaker 2: She had found the reservations by accident and thought they

978
00:49:58,520 --> 00:50:00,920
Speaker 2: were going to it the night they are when he

979
00:50:01,000 --> 00:50:03,400
Speaker 2: was planning on taking her tomorrow to make it a

980
00:50:03,440 --> 00:50:07,120
Speaker 2: real surprise. So us going to the greasy spoon instead

981
00:50:07,120 --> 00:50:10,839
Speaker 2: of the super nice, expensive restaurant really upset her, and

982
00:50:10,880 --> 00:50:13,200
Speaker 2: she thought he was catering to his kids instead of her.

983
00:50:13,760 --> 00:50:17,000
Speaker 2: The argument finally ended when Dad took to the couch downstairs,

984
00:50:17,040 --> 00:50:20,799
Speaker 2: fed up with her bs. And by the way, if

985
00:50:20,840 --> 00:50:23,560
Speaker 2: you're fed up with all this other bs out there,

986
00:50:24,280 --> 00:50:26,080
Speaker 2: I just want to let you know you can tune

987
00:50:26,120 --> 00:50:29,240
Speaker 2: it all out by listening to full episodes with stories

988
00:50:29,280 --> 00:50:31,080
Speaker 2: like this. All you have to do is go to

989
00:50:31,160 --> 00:50:33,680
Speaker 2: Spotify or Apple Podcasts or wherever you get your podcast

990
00:50:33,760 --> 00:50:37,760
Speaker 2: from and search Okay, story time, and then you'll find

991
00:50:38,200 --> 00:50:43,319
Speaker 2: like thousands of hours, thousands of hours for you to

992
00:50:43,360 --> 00:50:47,279
Speaker 2: listen to. Boo and we've got some more story left here.

993
00:50:47,320 --> 00:50:50,000
Speaker 2: But like goodness, Graciousley, I want to hire your thoughts.

994
00:50:50,080 --> 00:50:50,960
Speaker 2: I don't know what I think.

995
00:50:51,160 --> 00:50:53,440
Speaker 1: I don't know how you can find someone like this

996
00:50:53,560 --> 00:50:54,879
Speaker 1: and be like, Oh, I want to spend the rest

997
00:50:54,920 --> 00:50:58,000
Speaker 1: of my life with you. Oh, please tell me more

998
00:50:58,040 --> 00:51:01,839
Speaker 1: about how you hated that food, dude, Please, I can't wait.

999
00:51:02,239 --> 00:51:05,360
Speaker 2: How I don't like isn't that buddy?

1000
00:51:05,360 --> 00:51:06,120
Speaker 1: How's your stressing?

1001
00:51:06,400 --> 00:51:09,040
Speaker 2: We put a pull up a divorce or nah, yeah,

1002
00:51:09,080 --> 00:51:10,479
Speaker 2: divorce would divorce this woman.

1003
00:51:10,640 --> 00:51:12,640
Speaker 1: If you live with someone like this, this is gonna

1004
00:51:12,640 --> 00:51:14,719
Speaker 1: one get more gray hairs on your head to your

1005
00:51:14,760 --> 00:51:17,879
Speaker 1: live expantancy. You're gonna die, like within the next year.

1006
00:51:18,200 --> 00:51:22,400
Speaker 2: The gray hairs came above your life expectancy.

1007
00:51:23,080 --> 00:51:23,720
Speaker 1: It just happened.

1008
00:51:23,880 --> 00:51:25,839
Speaker 2: First of all, you're gonna go gray. Second of all,

1009
00:51:26,000 --> 00:51:30,560
Speaker 2: just actually kill you. Yeah, and your looks are gonna

1010
00:51:30,560 --> 00:51:30,759
Speaker 2: go away.

1011
00:51:30,800 --> 00:51:31,520
Speaker 1: Then you're gonna die.

1012
00:51:32,719 --> 00:51:33,840
Speaker 3: Hairs, silver fox.

1013
00:51:34,960 --> 00:51:36,799
Speaker 1: What I'm saying gray hairs are bad? It's just like,

1014
00:51:36,920 --> 00:51:40,560
Speaker 1: are you stressed? Gray hairs are different than gray hairs.

1015
00:51:40,440 --> 00:51:43,680
Speaker 2: Right, because they're caused by free radicals. Free radicals are

1016
00:51:43,680 --> 00:51:46,080
Speaker 2: really bad for your body. I had a friend who

1017
00:51:46,160 --> 00:51:47,879
Speaker 2: was so stressed out in high school he went gray.

1018
00:51:48,160 --> 00:51:49,880
Speaker 4: Holy yeah, I have some gray hairs. I have a

1019
00:51:49,920 --> 00:51:54,239
Speaker 4: great patch m don't sat to that.

1020
00:51:57,000 --> 00:52:01,760
Speaker 1: Where is it? Me and John had the same thought.

1021
00:52:02,160 --> 00:52:03,960
Speaker 2: Both go where they'll.

1022
00:52:03,760 --> 00:52:05,880
Speaker 3: Play that game later? Guys? Yeah?

1023
00:52:07,600 --> 00:52:08,080
Speaker 2: Is it like?

1024
00:52:09,400 --> 00:52:11,920
Speaker 1: Never mind? We gotta phis the story.

1025
00:52:12,920 --> 00:52:19,280
Speaker 2: Okay, so clearly divorce and then Gabrielle has two accounts

1026
00:52:19,280 --> 00:52:20,720
Speaker 2: that she voted no on.

1027
00:52:23,440 --> 00:52:26,000
Speaker 1: H So they left this morning.

1028
00:52:26,600 --> 00:52:29,160
Speaker 2: Dad did tell me before they left that he was

1029
00:52:29,200 --> 00:52:31,400
Speaker 2: going to have a serious talk with Gabrielle about her

1030
00:52:31,440 --> 00:52:34,400
Speaker 2: behavior and that until she learned her manners, he was

1031
00:52:34,440 --> 00:52:37,759
Speaker 2: not going to take her out anymore, even to our place. Hey,

1032
00:52:37,880 --> 00:52:40,360
Speaker 2: you know what it sounds like. You're like a dad

1033
00:52:40,440 --> 00:52:43,320
Speaker 2: of a toddler. That's not supposed to be what you

1034
00:52:43,360 --> 00:52:44,240
Speaker 2: say about your wife.

1035
00:52:44,840 --> 00:52:46,680
Speaker 1: Yea her manners?

1036
00:52:47,280 --> 00:52:48,920
Speaker 2: What what does that mean?

1037
00:52:49,320 --> 00:52:51,120
Speaker 1: What are we doing? She said to yourself?

1038
00:52:51,200 --> 00:52:56,759
Speaker 2: Dad? Okay, hopefully that will either be the wake up

1039
00:52:56,800 --> 00:53:00,400
Speaker 2: call to get Gabrielle to behave or that Dad should

1040
00:53:00,400 --> 00:53:03,600
Speaker 2: get out. Oh and to those who said this story

1041
00:53:03,719 --> 00:53:06,200
Speaker 2: is fake, which was one person asking how we were

1042
00:53:06,239 --> 00:53:08,520
Speaker 2: able to smoke bacon and for your information, yeah, the

1043
00:53:08,560 --> 00:53:11,399
Speaker 2: pellet grill and a smoker, and we are constantly curing

1044
00:53:11,400 --> 00:53:13,120
Speaker 2: and smoking bacon because it's so good.

1045
00:53:14,560 --> 00:53:15,440
Speaker 1: When it comment.

1046
00:53:16,080 --> 00:53:19,879
Speaker 2: Do you guys have anything better to do, and that's

1047
00:53:19,880 --> 00:53:23,000
Speaker 2: the end of the story. Wow oh key called their shot.

1048
00:53:23,040 --> 00:53:25,479
Speaker 2: They were like, and for everyone saying that we're fake

1049
00:53:25,560 --> 00:53:26,960
Speaker 2: smoking our bacon.

1050
00:53:27,280 --> 00:53:31,200
Speaker 1: I'm calling you out. Come on, dad, we got we

1051
00:53:31,239 --> 00:53:36,240
Speaker 1: got pellet grill. I'm gonna smoke you do, mister Ah.

1052
00:53:36,360 --> 00:53:38,719
Speaker 1: That's just that's just super sad to be with a

1053
00:53:38,800 --> 00:53:42,239
Speaker 1: person that complains. I was with the person once that

1054
00:53:42,280 --> 00:53:45,400
Speaker 1: complained about everything, and then it like made me complain

1055
00:53:45,440 --> 00:53:47,000
Speaker 1: about everything, and I thought I was a bad person.

1056
00:53:47,239 --> 00:53:48,640
Speaker 1: And then as soon as I went away from them,

1057
00:53:48,680 --> 00:53:51,839
Speaker 1: I was like, Wow, there's nothing to complain about, right,

1058
00:53:52,000 --> 00:53:54,120
Speaker 1: And it was like, this is such a nice world

1059
00:53:54,120 --> 00:53:54,560
Speaker 1: I live in.

1060
00:53:54,680 --> 00:53:57,239
Speaker 2: There is like a it's it's a crazy thing how

1061
00:53:57,280 --> 00:54:00,759
Speaker 2: it's like the attitudes and emotions or something axious, like

1062
00:54:00,800 --> 00:54:02,280
Speaker 2: it really is. And that's why it's like some people

1063
00:54:02,280 --> 00:54:03,960
Speaker 2: can walk into the place and it's like everyone's like,

1064
00:54:04,000 --> 00:54:06,839
Speaker 2: I feel great. Is They're like a glowing, big gray

1065
00:54:06,880 --> 00:54:07,480
Speaker 2: of sunshine.

1066
00:54:07,920 --> 00:54:10,680
Speaker 1: I get sad in the morning meetings until these two

1067
00:54:10,680 --> 00:54:12,840
Speaker 1: people who always show up late come and then I

1068
00:54:12,880 --> 00:54:20,799
Speaker 1: feel better. You know what's crazy? I was telling Kean.

1069
00:54:20,840 --> 00:54:23,880
Speaker 2: I'm like I'm embarrassed because now that I live way closer.

1070
00:54:23,960 --> 00:54:27,560
Speaker 2: I've been late like every day by like a minute,

1071
00:54:27,719 --> 00:54:30,360
Speaker 2: and I don't live an hour away anymore.

1072
00:54:30,719 --> 00:54:33,040
Speaker 1: And it makes no sense to me. But there are

1073
00:54:33,080 --> 00:54:35,239
Speaker 1: three people that show up in person, and I didn't

1074
00:54:35,239 --> 00:54:37,600
Speaker 1: say which to show up late with us.

1075
00:54:37,719 --> 00:54:39,920
Speaker 2: I didn't say that me guys, it's me and Keon.

1076
00:54:40,160 --> 00:54:42,359
Speaker 2: Some days we're late by like a minute or two

1077
00:54:42,360 --> 00:54:44,800
Speaker 2: every day and it's driving me insane.

1078
00:54:44,840 --> 00:54:45,600
Speaker 1: Some days it's not.

1079
00:54:45,880 --> 00:54:48,239
Speaker 2: We are what do you mean shaking your head? No,

1080
00:54:48,520 --> 00:54:53,480
Speaker 2: get out here, own it, own it, Keon. Oh we

1081
00:54:53,560 --> 00:54:55,520
Speaker 2: got some Filipino time.

1082
00:54:55,600 --> 00:54:57,640
Speaker 3: I'm on Filipino time. I'm on time.

1083
00:54:59,320 --> 00:55:04,480
Speaker 1: Oh we got three big ones. Hannah just donated everyone

1084
00:55:05,520 --> 00:55:10,080
Speaker 1: you know what to do in the chat uh filip Switch,

1085
00:55:10,160 --> 00:55:13,400
Speaker 1: thanks for that fifty bucks. Oh my gosh, happy to

1086
00:55:13,480 --> 00:55:16,319
Speaker 1: catch a live. Love you guys, and we freaking love

1087
00:55:16,520 --> 00:55:21,120
Speaker 1: you and our aunt lunch Lady vix Mix, who donated

1088
00:55:21,160 --> 00:55:25,280
Speaker 1: fifty bucker Runo's as well. She says, cause your Auntie

1089
00:55:25,400 --> 00:55:28,719
Speaker 1: vix Mix loves y'all, and don't forget you are invited

1090
00:55:28,760 --> 00:55:31,360
Speaker 1: to my best friend's wedding in June, and so is

1091
00:55:31,400 --> 00:55:32,560
Speaker 1: Angie and Carly.

1092
00:55:33,120 --> 00:55:36,839
Speaker 3: Oh, Carly is gonna flip out.

1093
00:55:37,840 --> 00:55:38,120
Speaker 2: House.

1094
00:55:38,200 --> 00:55:38,880
Speaker 1: She's gonna love it.

1095
00:55:38,960 --> 00:55:39,320
Speaker 3: Dude.

1096
00:55:40,239 --> 00:55:44,200
Speaker 1: That's funny. That's in Virginia, right, I think so Virginia.

1097
00:55:46,480 --> 00:55:49,040
Speaker 2: On that. Honestly, yeah, we'll blame really interesting.

1098
00:55:49,560 --> 00:55:53,040
Speaker 1: But I'm gonna stop reading donations and I'm gonna give

1099
00:55:53,120 --> 00:55:59,480
Speaker 1: my voice to someone more deep in voicing because their

1100
00:55:59,560 --> 00:56:05,040
Speaker 1: voice is deeper because they're older. What damn how you

1101
00:56:05,280 --> 00:56:05,960
Speaker 1: do them like that?

1102
00:56:06,040 --> 00:56:06,239
Speaker 4: Man?

1103
00:56:06,840 --> 00:56:10,360
Speaker 1: John? Get on in here, Mande.

1104
00:56:10,600 --> 00:56:20,440
Speaker 2: Dude, Soaphie is here, Sophie the soapster baby.

1105
00:56:21,840 --> 00:56:25,680
Speaker 1: Baby, there he is, and he's in his suit. I'm adjusting.

1106
00:56:26,239 --> 00:56:28,880
Speaker 1: I think I am. I'm suitless, dude, I'm.

1107
00:56:28,760 --> 00:56:31,239
Speaker 2: Well so so chat doesn't know, but I'm doing a

1108
00:56:31,280 --> 00:56:34,960
Speaker 2: thirty day suit challenge inconsecutive and I think I'm either

1109
00:56:35,080 --> 00:56:36,400
Speaker 2: five or six out of thirty.

1110
00:56:36,640 --> 00:56:37,680
Speaker 1: I think you're.

1111
00:56:37,800 --> 00:56:39,839
Speaker 2: And may I just say I think you are great?

1112
00:56:40,320 --> 00:56:41,440
Speaker 3: Thank you all that.

1113
00:56:41,640 --> 00:56:43,319
Speaker 1: I honestly I wasn't ready to do it today, but

1114
00:56:43,400 --> 00:56:45,719
Speaker 1: you are. You are five out of it because I

1115
00:56:45,760 --> 00:56:49,640
Speaker 1: remember four out of the five. Okay. Nice