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Speaker 1: Welcome back everybody to Bachelor Happy Hours, Golden Hour. Thanks

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Speaker 1: again for tuning in. We're very excited to be back. Kathy.

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Speaker 1: Are you ready for today?

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Speaker 2: Yes? I am.

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Speaker 3: But before we get in today's episode, season, we've got

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Speaker 3: to talk about AFR, Holy spooks.

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Speaker 1: Oho.

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Speaker 3: Can I just say hometown girl, Newton, Massachusetts?

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Speaker 2: One yea, Juliana?

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Speaker 1: And I did you cry? Did you cry? I need

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Speaker 1: to know, did you cry?

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Speaker 3: I've been crying since the season began. But here's the

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Speaker 3: thing I knew, and I think I said last time

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Speaker 3: this was going to be a horror show at the end.

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Speaker 3: It always is because there's two left, but the game

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Speaker 3: it is. But here's the thing. Grant started this whole thing,

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Speaker 3: uh with everybody he could see everybody has his wife

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Speaker 3: and the mother of his children.

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Speaker 2: And and I'm.

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Speaker 3: Following for you, like with twenty two of them are

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Speaker 3: pretty close, so as it's like the little engine that could.

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Speaker 3: That engine built steam until it came to AFR. And

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Speaker 3: you knew that train was going to go down hill

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Speaker 3: real fast and collide and crash and Lettilla I felt so.

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Speaker 2: Sorry for her?

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Speaker 1: Yes did I? And I think the world is asking

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Speaker 1: right now. I'm sure all you listeners. One of the

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Speaker 1: things that she confronted him with was why did you

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Speaker 1: keep going? Why did you keep telling me it was me?

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Speaker 1: It was me? It was me. I remember Leslie thinking

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Speaker 1: it was her, But and then the other side of

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Speaker 1: me thought, that is the game here, that is the show.

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Speaker 2: It is the shows. You know, someone's going to get

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Speaker 2: the harp.

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Speaker 3: But here's the thing, like with Leslie, because she's our friend,

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Speaker 3: we love you, Leslie. If you're listening, there were things

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Speaker 3: that went on behind the scene that made Leslie think

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Speaker 3: she was the one, right.

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Speaker 1: And I'm sure in this case there was behind the

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Speaker 1: scenes things too, right, but she was calling him on

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Speaker 1: from this first date. I have the words that he

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Speaker 1: spoke to her, and I genuinely believe, I mean, in

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Speaker 1: my heart of hearts, I believe you can fall in

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Speaker 1: love with two people at the same time and then

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Speaker 1: you have to make a choice.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but do you really believe, you who believes in

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Speaker 3: fairy tales? Do you really believe that he didn't know

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Speaker 3: who was going to pick until right before the ceremony.

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Speaker 3: There's no way, Susan, No ways, it's good editing, it's

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Speaker 3: good TV.

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Speaker 2: No way.

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Speaker 3: And now the proof of that is Juliana. When Latilla said, uh,

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Speaker 3: did how did you know, saying Juliana's gonna have a

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Speaker 3: lot of questions for you, and Juliana said.

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Speaker 2: No, I don't know about that. Yes, well, you know what,

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I'm out a producer and I don't have an insider track.

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Speaker 3: But I think that's because Grant said things to her

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Speaker 3: off camera that she knew she was the one, and

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Speaker 3: she and that's what I believe.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I'll give you that, And I think, well, I.

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Speaker 3: Also know we're going to get them both on the

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Speaker 3: podcast and we're gonna be thrill up. We're going to

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Speaker 3: put them on two hot seats. But anyway, I thought

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Speaker 3: my heart broke for Letia, her face, her face, and

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Speaker 3: when he said, I hope you don't think differently of me,

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Speaker 3: I do, yes, sir Bob film.

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Speaker 1: Going back to her saying she doesn't have any questions,

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Speaker 1: what was your thought when she said that?

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Speaker 3: My thought was if things happened behind the scenes that

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Speaker 3: any questions either.

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Speaker 1: Okay, however, that's why.

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Speaker 3: However, watching it back though, yeah, watching it back, there

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Speaker 3: might there might be maybe not there might be disconnect.

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Speaker 1: But what I was thinking was what better way I

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Speaker 1: wish I was that strong of a person. What better

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Speaker 1: way to start a relationship than letting go of the past.

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Speaker 1: Obviously you knew there was another woman. Let go. Don't

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Speaker 1: ask questions me personally, that would be that other voice

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Speaker 1: in the back of my mind wondering and having a

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Speaker 1: billion questions. Yeah, I think they're off to a good start.

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Speaker 2: I mean they make an ass. They make a cute couple.

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Speaker 3: For Shore, they were both you know what his mama saying,

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Speaker 3: grandmama saying he could see the love, she could see

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Speaker 3: the love Lettia had that they I mean, that was

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Speaker 3: all heartbreaking. I still though, I'm focusing on the positive.

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Speaker 3: They're in love. They they started got a gorgeous timon ring.

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Speaker 3: Thank you, Neil Lane. I want one of best, Neil,

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Speaker 3: if you're listening, I want one of these. I think, please,

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Speaker 3: pretty please. But they are starting out on a really

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Speaker 3: positive note. They see to love each other, the parents

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Speaker 3: seem to all get along be happy for them. I

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Speaker 3: think another positive is Grant has reconnected with his dad.

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Speaker 2: You know we have.

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Speaker 1: When I was crying, that's what I answer. You were

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Speaker 1: you crying? Yeah, they were both tearing up. Grant has

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Speaker 1: been to hell, especially with his dad, and so that

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Speaker 1: is remorseful. I mean, he just wants to be a

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Speaker 1: part of his life. I thought that was beautiful.

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Speaker 3: And I think that Grant. I think those are some

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Speaker 3: of the positives. You know, people, Oh, it's reality TV.

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Speaker 3: None of it's true. There was a lot of truth

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Speaker 3: on that show. And so that's you know, we're done

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Speaker 3: with the season that there there, he's moving to Massachusetts,

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Speaker 3: to Boston. I'm just I want to be in the parade.

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Speaker 3: I want to fly back to Newton. I want to

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Speaker 3: be in the parade. But they seem happy. They have

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Speaker 3: a great relations with parents.

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Speaker 1: They're going to Italy to make pizza.

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Speaker 3: The season's over. We're going to move on everybody, Susan Okay,

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Speaker 3: first of all.

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Speaker 1: Wait, wait are we going? Do we get to go?

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Speaker 3: I don't know, but I'm sending out my emails. I've

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Speaker 3: already sent them out. Here's my name, my number, my

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Speaker 3: social Security number.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, what are the dates we're available?

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Speaker 3: So I thought it was interesting. I mean, we don't know, right,

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Speaker 3: I can tell you what we do now. We know

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Speaker 3: Gary Levingston is going and we know Leslie from our

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Speaker 3: season is going and and but it was so weird

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Speaker 3: because when they made the announcement, like I'm wondering, I'm

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Speaker 3: waiting for my phone ring, like they don't call me?

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Speaker 2: Did they call you?

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Speaker 1: I thought no? First thing I thought of, why am

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Speaker 1: I not there? Why am I not there? Why is

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Speaker 1: likely there? What's going on to you? Did I not? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: And did you hear anything?

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Speaker 2: I said? I'm waiting. I'm waiting. I got my phone on,

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Speaker 1: But here's the thing gonna be exciting.

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Speaker 3: I wonder there have to be more goldens coming. I

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Speaker 3: mean that's what Jessie said.

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Speaker 1: Well, you can't do a show with two of them.

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Speaker 2: I mean, come on, well if it were you me,

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Speaker 2: they could.

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Speaker 1: Well this is true, this is true.

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Speaker 2: I don't know. I want to know. Did they say

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Speaker 2: where they're going or anything?

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Speaker 1: Don't they would never tell us that. But maybe they

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Speaker 1: didn't call yet because I have a boo boo I don't.

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Speaker 2: Know speaking up.

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Speaker 3: Okay, So I'm excited to be excited to be considered.

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Speaker 2: Hopefully you and I are going to go. We won't

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Speaker 2: know until.

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Speaker 1: We know, but we'll let you know first.

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Speaker 4: Oh, you'll hear a screaming, you'll hear announcements.

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Speaker 3: Wait, Susan, I know you before we get into your

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Speaker 3: broken wrist and your show. Don't give me this that

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Speaker 3: you as soon as you saw then announcement. Don't tell

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Speaker 3: me you weren't going through your resort, closed your summer face.

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Speaker 1: I pulled out the suitcase. I'm patching. I'd better go.

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Speaker 2: All right, let's talk about your show that is coming out.

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Speaker 1: Oh that's really exciting. Did you see well? Of course

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Speaker 1: you send it to you.

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Speaker 2: I saw it.

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Speaker 1: I saw so excited and I got to meet Demi

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Speaker 1: of course, and Claire from from Paradise as well as Bachelor.

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Speaker 3: What is the premise? I want to know what's the

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Speaker 3: premise of the show? Tell me what it is.

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Speaker 1: We were locked in a mansion and we were trying

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Speaker 1: to escape to win a million dollars. There was twenty

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Speaker 1: of us and I can't tell you. I mean, you

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Speaker 1: know on our show, Kathy, I was unapologetically Susan, Okay, yeah,

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Speaker 1: once again, did you make me?

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Speaker 2: Did you make me?

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Speaker 1: Of course I did? And that would be the day

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Speaker 1: that I can't share because it's coming. That's pretty funny.

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Speaker 2: So you had fun you had fun, made new friends.

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Speaker 1: Fabulous batt I know I want to. I'm sorry, go ahead,

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Speaker 1: the housewive, Spencer. I mean all kinds of people vow

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Speaker 1: from Dancing with the Stars. Him and I are like

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Speaker 1: Bonnie and Clyde. That's all I'm going to say.

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Speaker 3: Okay, I'm going to ask you did you win a

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Speaker 3: million bucks?

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Speaker 4: I can't tell you that if you did, you're taking

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Speaker 4: me to Italy a deal.

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Speaker 3: Listen, you've been doing a lot of traveling, so I'm

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Speaker 3: going to guess that you might have won a million bucks.

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Speaker 2: Well that I can't wait? And when does it come out?

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Speaker 1: To the due April eleventh. They're going to download on

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Speaker 1: Huloo all eight episodes, so you con binge? What do yeah?

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Speaker 1: Get THEA and the why.

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Speaker 3: I'm really happy for you. I truly cannot wait to

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Speaker 3: see it. Okake a lot of fun now, I'm assuming

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Speaker 3: because I saw you after that show that you taped,

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Speaker 3: even though you wouldn't tell me anything about it to your.

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Speaker 1: Bestie, That's why we signed NDA.

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Speaker 2: Oh right, okay, thank you.

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Speaker 3: You were fine, you didn't hurt yourself, but as I

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Speaker 3: see you now, you have a broken rest.

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Speaker 2: Tell us about that season?

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah. So we were going up in Saint Martin,

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Speaker 1: up to Ance Marcel. We were going on a hike.

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Speaker 1: They were going to surf and I was going to film.

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Speaker 1: And you parked a car here and it takes about

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Speaker 1: twenty five minutes and the terrain isn't that rough, but

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Speaker 1: rough ocean.

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Speaker 3: Okay, stop, you know I'm a big hiker. Please God

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Speaker 3: tell me you had on hiking boots.

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Speaker 1: I had sneakers.

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Speaker 3: Oh Jesus, Okay, okay, that's the beginning of the end

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Speaker 3: right there.

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Speaker 1: I was like getting winded, you know me, And I'm like,

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Speaker 1: oh my god, there's the end. We're almost there. Was

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Speaker 1: so excited and you stepped down. At this one point,

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Speaker 1: the bottom of my sneaker hit gravel and slid and

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Speaker 1: I went to fall back and I went to break

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Speaker 1: my fall on this giant boulder and sure enough, but

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Speaker 1: here's the worst part. I had to go back. It

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Speaker 1: was only twenty five minutes up. It took over an

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Speaker 1: hour to get back down these steep hills. It took

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Speaker 1: And he would put the bag and then walk back

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Speaker 1: and make me stay and help me down a little step,

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Speaker 1: because God forbid, I fell again. It was horrific. They

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Speaker 1: took me to a French hospital and I was nervous

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Speaker 1: about that. Of course, it was two hundred and fifty

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Speaker 3: Please put up the good vibes for Susan, me Haunt,

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Speaker 3: Have you or a close friend of yours ever experienced

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Speaker 3: She makes cousin, Donna, I love you. I'll make it

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Speaker 1: She wants to know why. I said, Donna, there isn't

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Speaker 3: And the next time young, you said young because I

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Speaker 1: It really it hurts until kids get hurt. My daughter's

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Speaker 3: That's Susan tough breakup does not equal ending as friends

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Speaker 1: Well, guess what nobody should fight for four years in

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Speaker 1: What should I do if he doesn't react? Well, would

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Speaker 3: But I really can't take it anymore. I just don't

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Speaker 3: Divorce is not just about money, but it's always about money.

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Speaker 3: talk to him first at it.

441
00:22:00,320 --> 00:22:02,320
Speaker 1: What do you think we should talk to him? And

442
00:22:02,359 --> 00:22:06,600
Speaker 1: he may react just fine. You might be as miserable

443
00:22:06,640 --> 00:22:07,199
Speaker 1: as she is.

444
00:22:07,760 --> 00:22:10,000
Speaker 2: It sounds like they're both pretty miserable.

445
00:22:09,680 --> 00:22:12,679
Speaker 1: You know, But but you do need to discuss it.

446
00:22:12,800 --> 00:22:16,399
Speaker 1: Don't surprise him with papers. Talk to him and say, listen,

447
00:22:16,800 --> 00:22:19,359
Speaker 1: I've done a lot of thinking and either one of

448
00:22:19,440 --> 00:22:22,520
Speaker 1: us are happy. So how about we get on the

449
00:22:22,520 --> 00:22:24,120
Speaker 1: same page and make.

450
00:22:24,440 --> 00:22:28,200
Speaker 3: Sure that you work with someone on telling the kids.

451
00:22:28,400 --> 00:22:32,480
Speaker 3: You know, kids can survive divorce really well if you

452
00:22:32,600 --> 00:22:36,520
Speaker 3: do the divorce and and the you know the follow

453
00:22:36,600 --> 00:22:39,640
Speaker 3: up if you do that, well, But you know one

454
00:22:39,640 --> 00:22:43,160
Speaker 3: thing I will say to you. Do as I say,

455
00:22:43,200 --> 00:22:47,640
Speaker 3: not as my mother did. Do not trash your soon

456
00:22:47,680 --> 00:22:48,560
Speaker 3: to be ex husband.

457
00:22:48,600 --> 00:22:50,560
Speaker 2: To your children. It is their.

458
00:22:50,440 --> 00:22:55,560
Speaker 3: Father, their dad. Be kind, be kind and let their

459
00:22:55,760 --> 00:22:57,240
Speaker 3: Let your children love their dad.

460
00:22:58,160 --> 00:23:01,560
Speaker 1: Get divorced. You are yes, sorry, I have to do.

461
00:23:01,640 --> 00:23:04,359
Speaker 1: We should luck and yes, if he is on the

462
00:23:04,359 --> 00:23:07,760
Speaker 1: same page, it should go smoothly. But I've never seen

463
00:23:07,800 --> 00:23:09,760
Speaker 1: a divorce go that smoothly.

464
00:23:09,880 --> 00:23:12,040
Speaker 2: Sometimes I've seen a few. For me.

465
00:23:12,200 --> 00:23:15,880
Speaker 3: I mean you saw me, Yeah, you saw me jump

466
00:23:15,920 --> 00:23:19,080
Speaker 3: into this question because my parents were divorced and it

467
00:23:19,160 --> 00:23:20,760
Speaker 3: was like, did you ever see the movie The War

468
00:23:20,800 --> 00:23:24,639
Speaker 3: of the Roses hardly remember It's where they're hanging from

469
00:23:24,680 --> 00:23:28,359
Speaker 3: the chandeliers fighting they take up They literally that was

470
00:23:28,400 --> 00:23:28,920
Speaker 3: my parents.

471
00:23:29,000 --> 00:23:31,040
Speaker 2: I mean, it was so bad.

472
00:23:32,600 --> 00:23:34,920
Speaker 1: The kids don't need kids feel that, you know.

473
00:23:34,920 --> 00:23:36,560
Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying. That's why I said keep the

474
00:23:36,680 --> 00:23:39,840
Speaker 3: kids out of it. It's just it's not a good thing.

475
00:23:40,680 --> 00:23:42,439
Speaker 3: You want your kids to grow up and be healthy

476
00:23:42,440 --> 00:23:44,800
Speaker 3: and happy, and you want to move on and find

477
00:23:44,840 --> 00:23:47,560
Speaker 3: happiness in your life. So if you get the divorce,

478
00:23:47,640 --> 00:23:50,399
Speaker 3: do it the right way and also talking to your husband.

479
00:23:50,520 --> 00:23:52,119
Speaker 1: That man is going to be in your life for

480
00:23:52,160 --> 00:23:54,480
Speaker 1: the rest of your life because it's your children's father,

481
00:23:54,800 --> 00:23:58,800
Speaker 1: so better to be civil about everything. Yeah, and get

482
00:23:58,840 --> 00:23:59,359
Speaker 1: a good bayer.

483
00:23:59,520 --> 00:24:03,520
Speaker 2: Okay, we good good luck Anonymous? Okay the question.

484
00:24:03,800 --> 00:24:07,480
Speaker 3: The next question, Carly writes, Hi, Kathy and Susan, I

485
00:24:07,640 --> 00:24:10,720
Speaker 3: really need your help. I'm pretty sure my boyfriend is

486
00:24:10,760 --> 00:24:13,439
Speaker 3: still hung up on his high school girlfriend, and I

487
00:24:13,520 --> 00:24:15,920
Speaker 3: don't know what to do. They were together all through

488
00:24:16,000 --> 00:24:18,120
Speaker 3: high school and broke up when they went to college.

489
00:24:18,480 --> 00:24:21,680
Speaker 3: We're both twenty seven now, and I never thought an

490
00:24:21,760 --> 00:24:25,119
Speaker 3: ex from high school would be a problem, but I

491
00:24:25,160 --> 00:24:27,959
Speaker 3: really think it is. He is still in contact with

492
00:24:28,000 --> 00:24:31,560
Speaker 3: her via her Instagram dms. I have snooped and I

493
00:24:31,600 --> 00:24:34,880
Speaker 3: didn't find anything incriminating, but the amount of times he

494
00:24:34,920 --> 00:24:37,520
Speaker 3: reaches out and talks to her is stressing me out.

495
00:24:37,960 --> 00:24:40,200
Speaker 3: He saw her at his ten year high school reunion,

496
00:24:40,320 --> 00:24:42,040
Speaker 3: and the way he looked at her made me sick

497
00:24:42,040 --> 00:24:45,360
Speaker 3: to my stomach. She is single, which really stresses me out.

498
00:24:45,520 --> 00:24:46,960
Speaker 3: What do you think I should do?

499
00:24:49,960 --> 00:24:53,560
Speaker 1: Ouch? I think there's a little bit of jealousy here,

500
00:24:53,600 --> 00:24:59,680
Speaker 1: but he's obviously not over her. In other words, she's thinking,

501
00:24:59,840 --> 00:25:03,240
Speaker 1: is that other girl the high school sweetheart said book

502
00:25:03,480 --> 00:25:05,640
Speaker 1: I'm ready come back? He would jump and leave her

503
00:25:05,640 --> 00:25:06,480
Speaker 1: like a hot potato.

504
00:25:06,720 --> 00:25:07,520
Speaker 2: You think he would.

505
00:25:07,920 --> 00:25:11,880
Speaker 1: I don't know him. I don't know him. But she's snooping.

506
00:25:12,200 --> 00:25:14,640
Speaker 1: He keeps reaching out her. He's looking like a damn fool.

507
00:25:14,680 --> 00:25:16,120
Speaker 1: Obviously the woman's not biting.

508
00:25:17,000 --> 00:25:19,440
Speaker 2: Well, how do you know she's not well?

509
00:25:19,480 --> 00:25:22,760
Speaker 1: If he keeps reaching out, she just can't find anything.

510
00:25:23,800 --> 00:25:25,960
Speaker 2: But you don't know that they're not mean. We don't know.

511
00:25:26,280 --> 00:25:27,439
Speaker 2: Here's something, Carly.

512
00:25:28,359 --> 00:25:28,600
Speaker 1: You know.

513
00:25:28,960 --> 00:25:32,240
Speaker 3: I know I'm going to sign old fashioned here, but

514
00:25:32,400 --> 00:25:34,600
Speaker 3: where there's smoking, where there's.

515
00:25:34,400 --> 00:25:35,719
Speaker 2: Smoke, there may be fire.

516
00:25:36,280 --> 00:25:39,280
Speaker 3: If he's why would he be reaching unless well, there's

517
00:25:39,359 --> 00:25:41,280
Speaker 3: a few things we don't know. If they live in

518
00:25:41,320 --> 00:25:45,360
Speaker 3: the same hometown and everybody's friends with their high school friends,

519
00:25:45,800 --> 00:25:48,520
Speaker 3: you know, maybe that's one thing. But I'm not reading

520
00:25:48,560 --> 00:25:52,160
Speaker 3: it this way. Ten year high school reunion, chit chatting.

521
00:25:53,640 --> 00:25:54,080
Speaker 2: I don't know.

522
00:25:54,359 --> 00:25:56,119
Speaker 3: I think you have to have the conversation with him.

523
00:25:56,160 --> 00:25:59,600
Speaker 3: But again, Carly, I would phrase the question that you're

524
00:26:00,200 --> 00:26:02,879
Speaker 3: feeling insecure, You're feeling.

525
00:26:02,800 --> 00:26:05,080
Speaker 1: How many years ago is it? Kath happened ten high

526
00:26:05,520 --> 00:26:06,960
Speaker 1: ten years.

527
00:26:06,760 --> 00:26:08,080
Speaker 2: And he's still talking to her.

528
00:26:08,200 --> 00:26:10,920
Speaker 3: So but you know what I'm saying again, I'm big

529
00:26:10,920 --> 00:26:13,720
Speaker 3: on not accusing. You can't go in and say to

530
00:26:13,760 --> 00:26:19,040
Speaker 3: your husband they are married, right, yeah, they're married. You

531
00:26:19,080 --> 00:26:22,800
Speaker 3: can't go oh no, it says boyfriend. Oh I thought

532
00:26:22,800 --> 00:26:25,640
Speaker 3: you were married. Oh yeah, yeah. I mean I think

533
00:26:25,680 --> 00:26:27,320
Speaker 3: you have to. I think you have to fess up

534
00:26:27,359 --> 00:26:29,840
Speaker 3: and say, you know you're feeling insecure. I don't know

535
00:26:29,840 --> 00:26:31,480
Speaker 3: how long you've been dating him, but you know how

536
00:26:31,480 --> 00:26:33,920
Speaker 3: long you've been dating this guy? Are you going to

537
00:26:34,000 --> 00:26:36,200
Speaker 3: get engaged? Are you thinking about marrying him? Or is

538
00:26:36,240 --> 00:26:39,720
Speaker 3: it a casual relationship? We don't have enough information here.

539
00:26:40,160 --> 00:26:44,560
Speaker 3: How serious is this boyfriend girlfriend? Maybe it's not that serious, Susan,

540
00:26:45,320 --> 00:26:45,800
Speaker 3: I don't know.

541
00:26:46,560 --> 00:26:47,120
Speaker 2: We don't know.

542
00:26:47,560 --> 00:26:49,440
Speaker 3: It doesn't say how long she Carly, you don't. We

543
00:26:49,480 --> 00:26:51,280
Speaker 3: don't know how long you've been dating him. Carly, you

544
00:26:51,280 --> 00:26:53,800
Speaker 3: need to write us back, tell us how long you've

545
00:26:53,840 --> 00:26:57,600
Speaker 3: been dating him. Are you guys living together? Are you

546
00:26:57,920 --> 00:27:00,639
Speaker 3: in a committed relationship where you're talking about marriage or

547
00:27:01,600 --> 00:27:03,159
Speaker 3: at least forging a life together?

548
00:27:03,640 --> 00:27:05,560
Speaker 1: Katy, do you think if she brings it up to

549
00:27:05,680 --> 00:27:08,240
Speaker 1: him her suspicions to her feelings, that that would be

550
00:27:08,240 --> 00:27:09,879
Speaker 1: a good idea or a bad idea.

551
00:27:10,400 --> 00:27:10,560
Speaker 2: Oh?

552
00:27:10,560 --> 00:27:13,160
Speaker 3: I would bring it up with him, but I would

553
00:27:13,680 --> 00:27:17,240
Speaker 3: solve anything. I would put it on me. I would say,

554
00:27:17,440 --> 00:27:22,080
Speaker 3: I'm feeling a little insecure. Of course, she'd have to

555
00:27:22,080 --> 00:27:25,240
Speaker 3: admit that she's been, you know, looking at her DM.

556
00:27:26,480 --> 00:27:28,840
Speaker 3: But you know what she could You could say, hey,

557
00:27:28,880 --> 00:27:30,080
Speaker 3: have you been talking to him?

558
00:27:30,520 --> 00:27:31,440
Speaker 2: And if you mean me?

559
00:27:32,560 --> 00:27:36,040
Speaker 1: Says her respond then you know. But it would be

560
00:27:36,160 --> 00:27:40,520
Speaker 1: how the woman's responding to him. That's how I would

561
00:27:40,560 --> 00:27:42,560
Speaker 1: make my decision whether or not I was going to

562
00:27:42,600 --> 00:27:44,120
Speaker 1: bring this to surface.

563
00:27:44,720 --> 00:27:46,320
Speaker 2: Wait a minute, how the woman's responding to.

564
00:27:46,320 --> 00:27:48,760
Speaker 1: Her like he keeps reaching out to her, and what

565
00:27:48,800 --> 00:27:50,720
Speaker 1: are the responses from those messages?

566
00:27:50,840 --> 00:27:53,880
Speaker 3: Well, again, they could be meeting in purpose. We don't

567
00:27:53,920 --> 00:27:55,879
Speaker 3: have enough information, I'm telling you we don't.

568
00:27:56,200 --> 00:27:56,600
Speaker 2: We don't.

569
00:27:56,680 --> 00:27:58,760
Speaker 1: But you have every right to feel like you're feeling,

570
00:27:58,800 --> 00:27:59,360
Speaker 1: that's for sure.

571
00:27:59,440 --> 00:28:01,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, for sure. Or you do you do? And if

572
00:28:01,920 --> 00:28:05,800
Speaker 3: you do decide to talk to him, Carly, do not

573
00:28:07,400 --> 00:28:10,720
Speaker 3: accuse him. Tell him it's how you're feeling.

574
00:28:10,760 --> 00:28:11,600
Speaker 1: Don't be susan.

575
00:28:12,240 --> 00:28:15,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly, tell him how you're feeling and see what

576
00:28:15,840 --> 00:28:18,000
Speaker 3: he says. But you know what if he says what

577
00:28:18,200 --> 00:28:19,879
Speaker 3: I haven't talked to her in ten years except at

578
00:28:19,880 --> 00:28:22,600
Speaker 3: the reunion, will they have your answer? Then you have

579
00:28:22,760 --> 00:28:25,280
Speaker 3: your answer, and I would move out and you know,

580
00:28:26,400 --> 00:28:28,320
Speaker 3: take all the food in the night sheets with him.

581
00:28:28,720 --> 00:28:34,040
Speaker 1: Good all right, good luck, sweetie. Question number three Patty, Yes, hi, ladies.

582
00:28:34,200 --> 00:28:37,760
Speaker 1: My son is going through his very first heartbreak and

583
00:28:37,840 --> 00:28:41,040
Speaker 1: I don't know how to help him. He's eighteen and

584
00:28:41,200 --> 00:28:44,120
Speaker 1: have been with his girlfriend for three years. From what

585
00:28:44,160 --> 00:28:47,440
Speaker 1: I understand, they broke up because she doesn't want to

586
00:28:47,480 --> 00:28:50,800
Speaker 1: go to the same college as him, and they both

587
00:28:50,880 --> 00:28:54,760
Speaker 1: don't think distance will work. It's been about a month

588
00:28:54,800 --> 00:28:57,560
Speaker 1: since the breakup and I just can't get him out

589
00:28:57,600 --> 00:29:01,360
Speaker 1: of his room. I never had a serious boyfriend until college,

590
00:29:01,400 --> 00:29:04,600
Speaker 1: and that breakup was a breeze for me. A story

591
00:29:04,640 --> 00:29:07,360
Speaker 1: for another day, lol. So I don't have a lot

592
00:29:07,400 --> 00:29:10,000
Speaker 1: of experience with this stuff. What can I say or

593
00:29:10,080 --> 00:29:12,680
Speaker 1: do to help him? Thank you so much? Oh God,

594
00:29:12,720 --> 00:29:15,120
Speaker 1: I hate I hate it. There's nothing you could do.

595
00:29:15,200 --> 00:29:16,600
Speaker 1: Maybe there's nothing you can do.

596
00:29:16,720 --> 00:29:16,960
Speaker 3: Well.

597
00:29:17,480 --> 00:29:21,280
Speaker 2: I think she can tell him that she's there if

598
00:29:21,280 --> 00:29:22,080
Speaker 2: he wants to talk.

599
00:29:22,160 --> 00:29:23,200
Speaker 1: I don't think she said that.

600
00:29:24,040 --> 00:29:28,800
Speaker 3: I think I think that if he really is, You're

601
00:29:28,800 --> 00:29:31,680
Speaker 3: gonna be surprised when I say this, Susan. But Patty,

602
00:29:31,800 --> 00:29:34,080
Speaker 3: if you really cannot get your son to come out

603
00:29:34,120 --> 00:29:37,440
Speaker 3: of his room. That is cause for worry in my book.

604
00:29:38,360 --> 00:29:40,920
Speaker 3: I mean, it's been a month and he is not

605
00:29:41,000 --> 00:29:42,000
Speaker 3: coming out of his room.

606
00:29:43,800 --> 00:29:47,760
Speaker 1: Means going to school literally, Well, they're going to college.

607
00:29:47,920 --> 00:29:52,920
Speaker 1: And you know what, how many college kids know they

608
00:29:52,920 --> 00:29:55,400
Speaker 1: break up and they agree to do their things, but

609
00:29:55,440 --> 00:29:58,360
Speaker 1: when they're home, they'll get back together to see if

610
00:29:58,400 --> 00:30:02,000
Speaker 1: it's as strong as it should. That is what college

611
00:30:02,040 --> 00:30:03,280
Speaker 1: is about.

612
00:30:03,560 --> 00:30:06,880
Speaker 3: Well, I'm not arguing with that, and I honestly don't

613
00:30:06,920 --> 00:30:11,800
Speaker 3: think that distance, especially at that age, particularly at that

614
00:30:11,880 --> 00:30:18,240
Speaker 3: age works. However, you know, I think that you're right.

615
00:30:18,560 --> 00:30:21,120
Speaker 3: Going to college is a time for exploration and having

616
00:30:21,200 --> 00:30:23,800
Speaker 3: fun and meeting new people. So I don't fault the

617
00:30:23,840 --> 00:30:25,840
Speaker 3: girlfriend for breaking up with him.

618
00:30:26,280 --> 00:30:26,520
Speaker 2: Do you.

619
00:30:27,400 --> 00:30:30,240
Speaker 1: I mean, no, she's trying to be honest.

620
00:30:30,160 --> 00:30:33,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, but I do I would be concerned that your son,

621
00:30:33,760 --> 00:30:36,000
Speaker 2: who's eighteen has not come out of his room.

622
00:30:37,160 --> 00:30:39,840
Speaker 3: I might get some help with that. I mean, I'm

623
00:30:39,840 --> 00:30:42,560
Speaker 3: not a therapist again, but if he's been in his

624
00:30:42,640 --> 00:30:49,120
Speaker 3: room for a month, he's taking it maybe more harder

625
00:30:49,120 --> 00:30:50,680
Speaker 3: than he should, I think.

626
00:30:51,160 --> 00:30:53,400
Speaker 1: I mean it's his first one.

627
00:30:53,760 --> 00:30:58,720
Speaker 3: Susan, a month in your bedroom, I know that's a

628
00:30:58,760 --> 00:30:59,640
Speaker 3: long time.

629
00:30:59,480 --> 00:31:03,479
Speaker 2: That's a lot time. So what you can do to

630
00:31:03,480 --> 00:31:06,840
Speaker 2: help him? Maybe maybe you know, talk to somebody, if

631
00:31:06,840 --> 00:31:10,000
Speaker 2: you get one of his friends to come over and

632
00:31:10,080 --> 00:31:12,440
Speaker 2: talk to him and see if his friends can help.

633
00:31:12,840 --> 00:31:16,320
Speaker 1: I mean, time does heal, I think honestly. But when

634
00:31:16,320 --> 00:31:18,840
Speaker 1: she wrote this, it should be about over by now,

635
00:31:19,080 --> 00:31:24,720
Speaker 1: like it's it takes time, it has to take its course. Yes,

636
00:31:24,920 --> 00:31:29,000
Speaker 1: probably better now. I don't know when she wrote us Patty.

637
00:31:29,200 --> 00:31:33,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, Patty, you need to let us know what because

638
00:31:33,480 --> 00:31:35,400
Speaker 2: is married. Now we're gonna re that.

639
00:31:35,560 --> 00:31:37,920
Speaker 3: That's worrisome to me and I know we love our

640
00:31:38,000 --> 00:31:40,440
Speaker 3: children and we hate to see that our heart's broken.

641
00:31:40,800 --> 00:31:44,560
Speaker 3: But Patty, it truly is. It's a it's a write

642
00:31:44,560 --> 00:31:47,440
Speaker 3: of passage. It happens to all of us, whether it's

643
00:31:47,480 --> 00:31:50,840
Speaker 3: in high school, you know, college, if you if you've

644
00:31:50,880 --> 00:31:53,160
Speaker 3: never had a heartbreak, Patty, you're one lucky girl.

645
00:31:53,320 --> 00:31:55,360
Speaker 1: Yeah. I want to hear your story, she said, story

646
00:31:55,400 --> 00:31:56,480
Speaker 1: for another day call us.

647
00:31:56,560 --> 00:31:58,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, let us know. We want to hear your story.

648
00:31:58,600 --> 00:32:00,440
Speaker 1: It could be anonymous even we don't have to know

649
00:32:00,520 --> 00:32:03,440
Speaker 1: it to you, but thank you for writing. You'll keep

650
00:32:03,480 --> 00:32:14,920
Speaker 1: them in here. Yeah, all right, then, well today we're

651
00:32:14,960 --> 00:32:20,000
Speaker 1: going to play Who's most likely to Kathy, we'll switch

652
00:32:20,040 --> 00:32:24,400
Speaker 1: off reading and say, who, between the two of us

653
00:32:24,640 --> 00:32:29,680
Speaker 1: is my most likely to do it? Okay, I'll say, sorry,

654
00:32:29,840 --> 00:32:33,800
Speaker 1: who's most likely to talk their way out of a

655
00:32:33,960 --> 00:32:35,080
Speaker 1: traffic ticket?

656
00:32:35,360 --> 00:32:37,560
Speaker 2: Well, I'm just going to answer that question.

657
00:32:38,000 --> 00:32:40,840
Speaker 3: Since I've never had one, and Susan just talked to

658
00:32:40,840 --> 00:32:43,440
Speaker 3: herself her way out of one, I'm going to.

659
00:32:43,480 --> 00:32:46,360
Speaker 2: Go I cannot. Susan.

660
00:32:46,360 --> 00:32:47,680
Speaker 3: You want to You want to fess up about the

661
00:32:47,680 --> 00:32:49,080
Speaker 3: traffic ticket you got recently.

662
00:32:49,360 --> 00:32:52,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, it was late, I was tired, I had a

663
00:32:52,400 --> 00:32:53,440
Speaker 1: pee and I was speeding.

664
00:32:53,680 --> 00:32:55,600
Speaker 2: However, wait, how faust are you going to this?

665
00:32:55,880 --> 00:32:58,680
Speaker 1: I don't want to talk about that. It was on

666
00:32:58,720 --> 00:33:01,320
Speaker 1: the parkway. I mean, if any just say there was

667
00:33:02,080 --> 00:33:06,080
Speaker 1: parkway there? Three ditch okay, three digits? No? No, no,

668
00:33:06,080 --> 00:33:07,360
Speaker 1: he clocked me at ninety four.

669
00:33:07,760 --> 00:33:09,480
Speaker 2: Yes, but you told me you were going over all.

670
00:33:09,320 --> 00:33:10,560
Speaker 1: All that He didn't cock me.

671
00:33:10,600 --> 00:33:11,360
Speaker 2: It what Overah?

672
00:33:11,480 --> 00:33:13,720
Speaker 3: So I guess it didn't happen if it was in

673
00:33:13,760 --> 00:33:15,640
Speaker 3: the forest and the tree didn't, No one heard the

674
00:33:15,680 --> 00:33:16,120
Speaker 3: tree fall.

675
00:33:16,160 --> 00:33:16,480
Speaker 2: It didn't.

676
00:33:16,560 --> 00:33:19,920
Speaker 1: It was straight away. Do you know my my bucket list?

677
00:33:19,960 --> 00:33:21,880
Speaker 1: It's like to drive the autumn, So I don't get

678
00:33:21,880 --> 00:33:22,240
Speaker 1: a ticket.

679
00:33:22,360 --> 00:33:26,200
Speaker 4: Like that is my thrill in Germany where else I've

680
00:33:26,200 --> 00:33:26,520
Speaker 4: done it.

681
00:33:26,600 --> 00:33:29,360
Speaker 3: I've done it, but you didn't go one hundred or more.

682
00:33:29,640 --> 00:33:31,160
Speaker 3: I was in a car where they were going to fast.

683
00:33:31,400 --> 00:33:32,320
Speaker 1: You were driving.

684
00:33:32,640 --> 00:33:33,800
Speaker 2: You're damn right. I wasn't.

685
00:33:34,240 --> 00:33:36,200
Speaker 1: But he was a great cop. He was young, he

686
00:33:36,200 --> 00:33:39,240
Speaker 1: could have been my son, and he knew I was tired.

687
00:33:39,520 --> 00:33:41,640
Speaker 1: He asked where I was going all that stuff, and

688
00:33:41,680 --> 00:33:44,400
Speaker 1: then he said, listen, I'm going to write down that

689
00:33:44,440 --> 00:33:47,960
Speaker 1: you weren't obeying the traffic sign I mean the signs.

690
00:33:48,240 --> 00:33:53,320
Speaker 1: And I go, okay, thank you, okay, just don't give.

691
00:33:53,200 --> 00:33:57,719
Speaker 3: Me points, no points on lines, all right. Get caught

692
00:33:58,000 --> 00:34:02,920
Speaker 3: going through a partner phone. Have you ever done it, Susan?

693
00:34:03,760 --> 00:34:07,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, I have to. Yeah, I always catch them going

694
00:34:07,760 --> 00:34:11,040
Speaker 1: through mine. Good, knock yourself out. There's nothing not I

695
00:34:11,040 --> 00:34:12,960
Speaker 1: don't really care because.

696
00:34:12,680 --> 00:34:15,880
Speaker 2: I want to lie with younger kids today. They know

697
00:34:15,920 --> 00:34:16,520
Speaker 2: how to have.

698
00:34:17,000 --> 00:34:18,560
Speaker 1: Oh they can crack into everything.

699
00:34:18,640 --> 00:34:20,640
Speaker 2: No, but they can. You can hide it. Hide on

700
00:34:20,640 --> 00:34:21,719
Speaker 2: my phone, they can hide it.

701
00:34:22,000 --> 00:34:26,759
Speaker 1: Let me tell you I found things through it annex Oh, Anthony,

702
00:34:26,960 --> 00:34:30,040
Speaker 1: poor little Anthony, Yeah, dirty, oh.

703
00:34:30,160 --> 00:34:32,239
Speaker 3: I found stuff when I went through. That was the

704
00:34:32,280 --> 00:34:33,799
Speaker 3: beginning to the end of that relationship.

705
00:34:34,120 --> 00:34:39,000
Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, go ahead, okay, Oh I am famous Irish

706
00:34:39,120 --> 00:34:42,719
Speaker 1: exit at a party? Who wants to do the long goodbyes?

707
00:34:43,040 --> 00:34:45,920
Speaker 1: You were ready to go home? Cap that's another twenty

708
00:34:45,960 --> 00:34:48,440
Speaker 1: five minutes if you have to think about everybody, and

709
00:34:48,480 --> 00:34:49,919
Speaker 1: then you got to hear why are you going?

710
00:34:50,000 --> 00:34:53,879
Speaker 2: So I just go okay, yes or no? Just yes

711
00:34:53,960 --> 00:34:54,120
Speaker 2: or no.

712
00:34:54,520 --> 00:34:58,840
Speaker 3: Do you always thank the host or hostess at a

713
00:34:58,880 --> 00:35:01,640
Speaker 3: party and say good night to them before your Irish accent?

714
00:35:01,880 --> 00:35:05,200
Speaker 1: It depends on the party now, not necessarily, Oh, I

715
00:35:05,239 --> 00:35:09,000
Speaker 1: always do. I mean most of the time. But if

716
00:35:09,040 --> 00:35:12,560
Speaker 1: I'm scooting most of the time, the host, her hostesses

717
00:35:13,000 --> 00:35:15,400
Speaker 1: or there's a couple are talking with people and I

718
00:35:15,400 --> 00:35:18,120
Speaker 1: don't want to go announce that I'm leaving, all right?

719
00:35:18,480 --> 00:35:20,719
Speaker 1: Get scammed online?

720
00:35:21,120 --> 00:35:22,880
Speaker 2: Wha, that's Susan, that's you.

721
00:35:23,040 --> 00:35:24,080
Speaker 1: Oh my god.

722
00:35:24,560 --> 00:35:24,840
Speaker 2: You know what.

723
00:35:25,320 --> 00:35:27,839
Speaker 3: Susan's online all the time, shopping. That's why she's going

724
00:35:27,880 --> 00:35:28,400
Speaker 3: to get scalled.

725
00:35:28,480 --> 00:35:32,360
Speaker 1: That doesn't mean necessarily mean shopping. Like I came to

726
00:35:32,360 --> 00:35:34,600
Speaker 1: mind the dating sec Remember I told you the scammers

727
00:35:34,640 --> 00:35:37,640
Speaker 1: out there, Kathy, they're not real. They have pictures like

728
00:35:37,680 --> 00:35:39,279
Speaker 1: you could kind of tell them. They use the word

729
00:35:39,600 --> 00:35:42,880
Speaker 1: m am instead of I am. They'll go, AM doing

730
00:35:42,920 --> 00:35:45,759
Speaker 1: this or M going like, are you kidding? I got

731
00:35:45,760 --> 00:35:48,479
Speaker 1: scammed when I when I first did it, like years ago,

732
00:35:48,560 --> 00:35:49,520
Speaker 1: fifteen years ago.

733
00:35:50,080 --> 00:35:54,160
Speaker 3: Okay, so I was right, all right, accidentally sent a

734
00:35:54,200 --> 00:35:58,600
Speaker 3: screenshot to the person they were talking about. Who's more likely,

735
00:36:00,320 --> 00:36:02,520
Speaker 3: I know it's you just pass up, you've done it.

736
00:36:02,760 --> 00:36:05,319
Speaker 3: I probably yeah, sus I'll say, oh shit, I just

737
00:36:05,360 --> 00:36:06,799
Speaker 3: sent to the wrong person.

738
00:36:06,840 --> 00:36:10,439
Speaker 2: I'm like, oh, you're getting caught sometimes sending something bad.

739
00:36:11,040 --> 00:36:13,560
Speaker 1: No, I never say anything that bad, nothing that I

740
00:36:13,600 --> 00:36:17,160
Speaker 1: can't say to their face. I mean, I might be embarrassed,

741
00:36:17,480 --> 00:36:20,440
Speaker 1: but hey, you should know. I told you the story

742
00:36:20,440 --> 00:36:24,640
Speaker 1: about when I went to Italy and one of my clients.

743
00:36:24,680 --> 00:36:26,839
Speaker 1: I never wrote in the diary ever, but I used

744
00:36:26,840 --> 00:36:28,560
Speaker 1: to have a copy book under my bed when my

745
00:36:28,600 --> 00:36:31,800
Speaker 1: boys were going through five years of hell, and I

746
00:36:31,840 --> 00:36:34,719
Speaker 1: would write down my thoughts at night just to get

747
00:36:34,760 --> 00:36:37,560
Speaker 1: me through. It was my way of therapy. But this client,

748
00:36:37,560 --> 00:36:39,080
Speaker 1: I was going to do my Eat Prey Love and

749
00:36:39,120 --> 00:36:41,440
Speaker 1: I was going to Italy for fifteen days by myself,

750
00:36:41,560 --> 00:36:44,720
Speaker 1: and she gave me like a journal and it was great.

751
00:36:44,840 --> 00:36:48,080
Speaker 1: I wrote everything, all my experiences, what I thought of,

752
00:36:48,160 --> 00:36:50,640
Speaker 1: what I felt, The train ride from A to B

753
00:36:51,600 --> 00:36:54,280
Speaker 1: Long story short. At the end of the fifteen days,

754
00:36:54,360 --> 00:36:56,680
Speaker 1: I flew over to Barcelona to meet a girl from

755
00:36:56,719 --> 00:36:59,360
Speaker 1: work who wanted to go on the trip with me.

756
00:36:59,400 --> 00:37:02,520
Speaker 1: And there was new way I was doing that. But

757
00:37:02,560 --> 00:37:06,359
Speaker 1: I'll meet you in Barcelona. And she was very particular

758
00:37:06,719 --> 00:37:10,120
Speaker 1: and like, she doesn't like morning. She sleeps in. She's

759
00:37:10,160 --> 00:37:12,640
Speaker 1: an only child. You can't get in a cab. She

760
00:37:12,640 --> 00:37:14,439
Speaker 1: gets car six. She got to be in the front.

761
00:37:14,480 --> 00:37:16,839
Speaker 1: If they have air fresheners, we got to get out.

762
00:37:16,880 --> 00:37:19,040
Speaker 1: You can't talk to her in a cab like a lot.

763
00:37:19,800 --> 00:37:23,440
Speaker 1: Long story short. I tiptoe in the morningst my teeth,

764
00:37:23,440 --> 00:37:25,600
Speaker 1: my bathing suits by the toilet so I could sneak

765
00:37:25,600 --> 00:37:27,560
Speaker 1: out of the room so I don't disturb her. I

766
00:37:27,680 --> 00:37:30,319
Speaker 1: go have breakfast. I'm having a little cup of gino

767
00:37:30,400 --> 00:37:33,520
Speaker 1: and I'm writing. So I see her go to the beach.

768
00:37:33,640 --> 00:37:35,000
Speaker 1: I was there about an hour and a half. And

769
00:37:35,040 --> 00:37:38,320
Speaker 1: I go down to the beach and my book's sitting

770
00:37:38,360 --> 00:37:41,360
Speaker 1: there and I say, hi, Da da, da da. About

771
00:37:41,680 --> 00:37:44,200
Speaker 1: forty five minutes in, she was in the water. I

772
00:37:44,280 --> 00:37:46,920
Speaker 1: was in the water. She comes out and she goes, oh,

773
00:37:47,120 --> 00:37:50,719
Speaker 1: is this your journal? My heart skipped a beat. I go,

774
00:37:50,880 --> 00:37:54,480
Speaker 1: mm hmm, do you mind if I randomly just read it?

775
00:37:54,520 --> 00:37:59,640
Speaker 2: I go, oh, shit, for god, you said yes, I said.

776
00:37:59,480 --> 00:38:03,360
Speaker 1: Not at all. Knock yourself out. She reads the middle,

777
00:38:03,400 --> 00:38:05,640
Speaker 1: She opens a random page, read a couple of pages.

778
00:38:05,680 --> 00:38:08,879
Speaker 1: She was like, oh my god, you should write. She goes,

779
00:38:08,960 --> 00:38:13,960
Speaker 1: I felt everything you described. I could picture it with

780
00:38:14,040 --> 00:38:16,520
Speaker 1: the story. I said, listen. She goes to another part

781
00:38:16,760 --> 00:38:19,040
Speaker 1: and I'm feeling it coming, Kathy, I know it's coming.

782
00:38:19,520 --> 00:38:22,360
Speaker 1: And she's like, I'm serious. And she goes to the

783
00:38:22,480 --> 00:38:25,279
Speaker 1: very last page and you had to see the expression.

784
00:38:25,320 --> 00:38:29,520
Speaker 1: I'm looking at her. She's like really, and she keeps reading.

785
00:38:29,520 --> 00:38:32,360
Speaker 1: It was all about her. And she closes the book

786
00:38:32,400 --> 00:38:36,200
Speaker 1: and goes, I'm that bad. I said, I tell the truth.

787
00:38:37,800 --> 00:38:40,360
Speaker 1: You're hard to love, but I do it.

788
00:38:41,960 --> 00:38:43,400
Speaker 2: That's a very long winded story.

789
00:38:43,480 --> 00:38:49,600
Speaker 3: Congratulations talking about anybody read their diary.

790
00:38:50,560 --> 00:38:53,400
Speaker 1: It's not a diary though I never looked at it.

791
00:38:54,000 --> 00:38:59,080
Speaker 3: My thoughts. Look it up in the dictionary. Diary equals thoughts.

792
00:38:59,400 --> 00:39:03,440
Speaker 1: But you know what, it was the truth, and we

793
00:39:03,600 --> 00:39:06,160
Speaker 1: talked about one other truth. Well, then that's what you

794
00:39:06,200 --> 00:39:06,880
Speaker 1: get for asking.

795
00:39:09,920 --> 00:39:14,759
Speaker 2: She's cruel people, you think she's kind honest? Oh, my god.

796
00:39:15,160 --> 00:39:17,720
Speaker 2: All right, moving right along.

797
00:39:18,000 --> 00:39:21,320
Speaker 1: Okay, fell asleep in the middle of an important event?

798
00:39:21,440 --> 00:39:24,799
Speaker 1: Oh guilty have you? Yes?

799
00:39:26,160 --> 00:39:29,920
Speaker 3: Okay, I fallen asleep in school and in college before,

800
00:39:29,960 --> 00:39:33,799
Speaker 3: but not an important event. Okay, get a tattoo on

801
00:39:33,840 --> 00:39:36,960
Speaker 3: a whim. No, no, neither one of us would do that. No,

802
00:39:38,640 --> 00:39:41,640
Speaker 3: create a fight profile online just to spy on.

803
00:39:43,880 --> 00:39:45,320
Speaker 1: Would you do that with my friends?

804
00:39:45,560 --> 00:39:47,440
Speaker 2: I was going to say, I bet you would do that.

805
00:39:47,840 --> 00:39:50,239
Speaker 1: Yes, hell, yeah.

806
00:39:49,960 --> 00:39:51,920
Speaker 2: Okay, you're more likely I'm going to go on that.

807
00:39:52,160 --> 00:39:52,560
Speaker 2: All right.

808
00:39:53,080 --> 00:39:54,920
Speaker 1: What accidentally start a fire?

809
00:39:55,000 --> 00:39:59,319
Speaker 2: And who do you think that would be me?

810
00:39:59,600 --> 00:40:02,440
Speaker 1: Problem? More than once? Remember I did it in Saint Martin.

811
00:40:03,080 --> 00:40:04,480
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, but you don't think it would be me

812
00:40:04,560 --> 00:40:09,040
Speaker 3: since I don't call, should be in the kitchen? Would

813
00:40:09,040 --> 00:40:12,480
Speaker 3: be an accident, though, I'll say I love you first

814
00:40:12,600 --> 00:40:19,280
Speaker 3: in a relationship. Susan, Susan and Susan. Yeah, forget someone's

815
00:40:19,360 --> 00:40:24,600
Speaker 3: name mid conversation. Daily done that, yeah, daily, daily.

816
00:40:25,080 --> 00:40:28,719
Speaker 2: We both do that. It's called It's called aging. All right.

817
00:40:28,760 --> 00:40:33,680
Speaker 3: Oh wait, wait, wait, wait, I don't know Susan, you

818
00:40:33,719 --> 00:40:35,200
Speaker 3: don't even guys.

819
00:40:35,480 --> 00:40:36,560
Speaker 2: I want y'all to listen.

820
00:40:37,200 --> 00:40:40,880
Speaker 3: Pack way too much for a weekend trip, Susan is

821
00:40:40,920 --> 00:40:43,120
Speaker 3: going to weigh on a little quick trip hair.

822
00:40:44,719 --> 00:40:45,120
Speaker 2: A week.

823
00:40:46,080 --> 00:40:49,400
Speaker 3: She doesn't have enoughing, she's got enough for a month,

824
00:40:49,560 --> 00:40:51,920
Speaker 3: and she's staying. Oh, I got to take another suitcase.

825
00:40:51,960 --> 00:40:56,400
Speaker 3: This girl has to have underwear that match your bras

826
00:40:56,480 --> 00:40:59,040
Speaker 3: does your shoes that match your earrings?

827
00:40:59,120 --> 00:41:00,480
Speaker 2: Oh my god, it's kill us.

828
00:41:00,880 --> 00:41:04,560
Speaker 1: I'd like to have sees. Some people when they pack,

829
00:41:04,920 --> 00:41:07,240
Speaker 1: they go, this is for Monday, this is for Tuesday,

830
00:41:07,320 --> 00:41:09,880
Speaker 1: this is for Wednesday. Go What if you don't feel

831
00:41:09,960 --> 00:41:12,640
Speaker 1: like it? What if you feel like throwing.

832
00:41:12,360 --> 00:41:15,799
Speaker 2: A knucking up like that?

833
00:41:16,120 --> 00:41:18,560
Speaker 1: Look look too stalking? Can I just remind you of

834
00:41:18,640 --> 00:41:21,560
Speaker 1: two weeks ago that Kathy and I both had to

835
00:41:21,600 --> 00:41:24,920
Speaker 1: go buy another suitcase second year and away, by the way,

836
00:41:25,480 --> 00:41:27,720
Speaker 1: another suitcase for all the things.

837
00:41:27,800 --> 00:41:32,399
Speaker 3: We excuse me, good friend, who bought a suitcase last year?

838
00:41:33,040 --> 00:41:33,520
Speaker 2: You did?

839
00:41:33,719 --> 00:41:35,480
Speaker 1: Okay, you bought one this year with you?

840
00:41:35,560 --> 00:41:37,960
Speaker 2: Okay? See it's two to one and the only.

841
00:41:37,760 --> 00:41:39,600
Speaker 1: Reason I could have fit all mine. But I would

842
00:41:39,640 --> 00:41:42,480
Speaker 1: have had to pay one hundred dollars for overweight where

843
00:41:42,520 --> 00:41:44,920
Speaker 1: I get two bags free. All I do is pay

844
00:41:44,960 --> 00:41:46,080
Speaker 1: the price of the suitcase.

845
00:41:47,560 --> 00:41:50,000
Speaker 3: Can you hear Bachelor Nation, they're all crying for you, Susan,

846
00:41:50,000 --> 00:41:51,560
Speaker 3: your poor thing, your poor.

847
00:41:51,560 --> 00:41:53,560
Speaker 1: This is why I don't have enough for retirement.

848
00:41:53,640 --> 00:41:56,720
Speaker 2: But that was good, and she looks good. She shops

849
00:41:57,000 --> 00:41:58,240
Speaker 2: till she drops.

850
00:41:58,960 --> 00:42:01,080
Speaker 1: If you guys only knew the way she shot up

851
00:42:01,120 --> 00:42:03,280
Speaker 1: this time, and she can't blame me. I'm just saying,

852
00:42:03,560 --> 00:42:11,080
Speaker 1: alrighty okay, have a secret situation no one knows about.

853
00:42:11,160 --> 00:42:12,879
Speaker 1: What's a situationship?

854
00:42:12,960 --> 00:42:19,320
Speaker 3: Cat A situation could be a situationship, could be anything.

855
00:42:19,400 --> 00:42:22,520
Speaker 3: It could be a relationship with someone. It could be

856
00:42:22,560 --> 00:42:24,239
Speaker 3: I robbed a bank and no one knows.

857
00:42:24,280 --> 00:42:25,800
Speaker 1: That could be a situationship.

858
00:42:26,000 --> 00:42:29,040
Speaker 3: Well, it could a situation or a relationship. It's just

859
00:42:29,200 --> 00:42:33,160
Speaker 3: a thing. It's a I have a secret thing. Let's

860
00:42:33,160 --> 00:42:37,480
Speaker 3: say that that no one knows about situation relationship.

861
00:42:37,520 --> 00:42:41,360
Speaker 2: I say you, I think you're right, actually because I.

862
00:42:42,960 --> 00:42:45,120
Speaker 3: Because well, mine is mostly an open book, but I

863
00:42:45,160 --> 00:42:49,880
Speaker 3: do have a few secrets. Oh Jesus, send a risky

864
00:42:50,200 --> 00:42:52,120
Speaker 3: text after two classes of wine.

865
00:42:52,120 --> 00:42:54,000
Speaker 2: I don't know, Vachel Nation, who do you think on

866
00:42:54,080 --> 00:42:54,479
Speaker 2: that one?

867
00:42:54,880 --> 00:42:57,720
Speaker 1: Because you know, after two glasses, I am two sheets

868
00:42:57,800 --> 00:42:59,640
Speaker 1: to the way because I'm not a good drinker.

869
00:43:00,400 --> 00:43:03,600
Speaker 3: And I've seen Susan do it. I've seen her send Susan,

870
00:43:03,760 --> 00:43:06,520
Speaker 3: what are you doing. I'm just sending a little text.

871
00:43:06,560 --> 00:43:10,759
Speaker 3: Don't put your phone down. No, no, I'm just going

872
00:43:10,800 --> 00:43:12,840
Speaker 3: to send a little text that would be Wait, it

873
00:43:12,880 --> 00:43:14,640
Speaker 3: says risky.

874
00:43:15,320 --> 00:43:18,200
Speaker 1: I don't know risky.

875
00:43:18,880 --> 00:43:22,040
Speaker 2: No, Risky just means like, do you.

876
00:43:22,000 --> 00:43:23,600
Speaker 1: Want to regret this in the morning?

877
00:43:23,880 --> 00:43:26,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly, exactly, exactly.

878
00:43:27,120 --> 00:43:30,200
Speaker 1: Fake an emergency to leave a bad date.

879
00:43:31,280 --> 00:43:31,919
Speaker 2: I've done it.

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Speaker 1: I really haven't.

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Speaker 3: I just not an emergency. I just said, my my,

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Speaker 3: you know my, I gotta go my kids. You know

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00:43:40,640 --> 00:43:43,000
Speaker 3: what I said? There's you see that bus out there,

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00:43:43,040 --> 00:43:44,480
Speaker 3: It's got my name all over and I got to

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Speaker 3: catch it.

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00:43:45,600 --> 00:43:48,440
Speaker 1: How about getting banned from a dating app?

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00:43:48,880 --> 00:43:50,200
Speaker 2: Oh, neither one of us.

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00:43:50,760 --> 00:43:52,840
Speaker 1: Why. I mean, you have to be pretty stupid to

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00:43:52,920 --> 00:43:58,879
Speaker 1: do that. Wow, I've been people, I retorted a lot

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Speaker 1: of people.

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Speaker 2: Oh, I of two.

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Speaker 3: I mean on my Apple phone delete, report junk and

893
00:44:05,320 --> 00:44:07,360
Speaker 3: block and report people.

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00:44:07,400 --> 00:44:10,000
Speaker 2: I'm all over it. It's like it's like it's like

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Speaker 2: a full time job.

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Speaker 1: I don't know what do you people out there do?

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00:44:12,760 --> 00:44:14,240
Speaker 1: Huh huh?

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Speaker 3: True?

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Speaker 1: After two glasses of wine, do you send a text

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Speaker 1: that you may not be happy about the next day?

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Speaker 3: I mean, I'll guess see most of us, when you

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00:44:25,160 --> 00:44:30,760
Speaker 3: reach a certain age, have done some of these things.

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Speaker 3: I think many people have Irish exited a party.

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Speaker 4: They've got the party, that's like legal, I'm sorry, packing

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Speaker 4: what going through someone's phone.

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Speaker 1: Is exiting without saying bye? Irish way is legal in

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00:44:44,960 --> 00:44:45,440
Speaker 1: my book?

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00:44:45,960 --> 00:44:47,200
Speaker 2: Well I don't think.

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Speaker 1: It's legal.

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00:44:49,760 --> 00:44:53,760
Speaker 2: Well I was just saying legal, I mean ethical or legal.

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00:44:53,960 --> 00:44:56,840
Speaker 1: Legal covers everything or not.

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00:44:57,800 --> 00:45:01,600
Speaker 3: Okay, this was too much fun. Thank you all of

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Speaker 3: our listeners today. We hope you know a little bit

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Speaker 3: more about how Susan packs for her weekend trips, that

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00:45:08,239 --> 00:45:09,920
Speaker 3: she has enough clothes for a month.

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Speaker 1: Can I just let an episode? Let me talk to

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Speaker 1: you about Kathy packing for a trip. It takes forty

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Speaker 1: five FaceTime calls. She's got to try it on. She

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Speaker 1: doesn't know how to hold the phone. When she's getting dressed.

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00:45:21,080 --> 00:45:24,319
Speaker 1: I get dizzy. I'm ready to throw up. It's like

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00:45:24,400 --> 00:45:25,239
Speaker 1: get it, get it.

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Speaker 4: I I to stand you can I explain to you why?

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Speaker 3: Because I want to look nice. I don't care if

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00:45:32,760 --> 00:45:36,240
Speaker 3: everything matches. I'm more about going and having the good time.

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Speaker 3: But I don't want to be embarrassed and have someone say,

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Speaker 3: what the hell does she.

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Speaker 1: Have on which I would never let you out of

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Speaker 1: the room.

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Speaker 2: Would you let my hair go blonde?

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Speaker 1: Though probably not? So? Once again that make sure you

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Speaker 1: follow a Bachelor happy hour, as we have new stuff

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Speaker 1: coming out every week and I don't know what you

933
00:45:58,680 --> 00:46:04,000
Speaker 1: guys this this stuff. Talk to me? Just zip it

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Speaker 1: for one minute. Let me finish my line. Go ahead, Dathy,

935
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Speaker 1: get it out.

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Speaker 3: I just I just can't like at this point. Do

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Speaker 3: people that know that we have new episodes coming out.

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Speaker 1: Well, we're supposed to remind them listen.

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Speaker 3: I want to just before we leave, I want to

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Speaker 3: do one more public service announcement. If you are on

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Speaker 3: this podcast, you have found us, please put it out

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943
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Speaker 2: You know what I do? Now give me your phone,

947
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Speaker 2: and you.

948
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Speaker 1: Know what, We had new people listening every day, so

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Speaker 3: All right, So to all your new listeners, welcome and

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Speaker 2: We're going to be busy packing susan suitcase. Until the

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