1 00:00:10,200 --> 00:00:16,720 Speaker 1: For sure. It's time nice level lower, lwin low and no. 2 00:00:17,000 --> 00:00:19,960 Speaker 1: Welcome to the naughty but nice Show. It's Tuesday. 3 00:00:20,000 --> 00:00:22,520 Speaker 2: I'm your host, and who joins us every Tuesday, our 4 00:00:22,520 --> 00:00:24,080 Speaker 2: dear friend Delana Dixon. 5 00:00:24,160 --> 00:00:25,480 Speaker 1: Heydlana. Are you there? 6 00:00:25,800 --> 00:00:27,320 Speaker 3: I am, I'm back. 7 00:00:27,560 --> 00:00:28,880 Speaker 1: I missed you last week. 8 00:00:29,280 --> 00:00:31,560 Speaker 2: I was in London, you were traveling. We are back 9 00:00:31,600 --> 00:00:34,200 Speaker 2: now and so we have a ton of catching gup 10 00:00:34,240 --> 00:00:35,720 Speaker 2: to get to lots of celebrity gossip. 11 00:00:35,960 --> 00:00:38,400 Speaker 1: Let's jump in, my friends. What time is it? It 12 00:00:38,560 --> 00:00:39,760 Speaker 1: is tea time. 13 00:00:40,040 --> 00:00:42,240 Speaker 2: Big story at the top of the show. So overnight, 14 00:00:42,600 --> 00:00:49,080 Speaker 2: Savannah Guthrie's family has been officially cleared as DNA testing continues. 15 00:00:49,120 --> 00:00:55,360 Speaker 2: So authorities have formerly cleared Savannah's entire family following the 16 00:00:55,440 --> 00:00:59,800 Speaker 2: disappearance of Nancy Guthrie, her eighty four year old mommy. 17 00:01:00,280 --> 00:01:04,640 Speaker 2: The sheriff said that the siblings and their spouses that's 18 00:01:04,640 --> 00:01:08,160 Speaker 2: a keyword here, and their spouses have been ruled out 19 00:01:08,319 --> 00:01:14,240 Speaker 2: as suspects and calling anybody that is suggesting this cruel 20 00:01:14,800 --> 00:01:18,600 Speaker 2: and emphasizing that the family are the victims here, plain 21 00:01:18,800 --> 00:01:22,480 Speaker 2: and simple. If you remember a couple of weeks ago, 22 00:01:22,600 --> 00:01:26,240 Speaker 2: when this tragedy first made headlines, when it first happened, 23 00:01:26,840 --> 00:01:33,960 Speaker 2: Savannah's sister's husband was named as a suspect. This circulated 24 00:01:34,000 --> 00:01:36,840 Speaker 2: on social media. And when I say named, not by 25 00:01:36,880 --> 00:01:40,600 Speaker 2: the police, by a really, in my opinion, reckless reporter. 26 00:01:40,959 --> 00:01:42,959 Speaker 2: A reporter was out there, someone I know, someone that 27 00:01:43,000 --> 00:01:45,560 Speaker 2: I've worked with, someone that I really used to respect 28 00:01:45,600 --> 00:01:48,880 Speaker 2: quite highly. She was out there saying that she had 29 00:01:48,920 --> 00:01:53,800 Speaker 2: sources in the police who told her that Savannah's sister's 30 00:01:54,240 --> 00:01:58,560 Speaker 2: husband that would be Nancy's son in law. Nancy's son 31 00:01:58,600 --> 00:02:03,720 Speaker 2: in law was sup Now, the police did search many homes, 32 00:02:03,760 --> 00:02:09,680 Speaker 2: including Savannah's sister. Other people in the media, some quite powerful, 33 00:02:09,760 --> 00:02:15,040 Speaker 2: some with millions of followers, kept pushing that narrative. And 34 00:02:15,120 --> 00:02:18,800 Speaker 2: he has been living under absolute hell since his name 35 00:02:19,639 --> 00:02:23,200 Speaker 2: was released. Once again, not by authorities, not by anybody 36 00:02:23,240 --> 00:02:26,960 Speaker 2: in an official office, but by basically bloggers and people 37 00:02:27,360 --> 00:02:31,520 Speaker 2: on social media and a couple of really well respected journalists. 38 00:02:31,560 --> 00:02:34,160 Speaker 1: And so this blew up. I'm told it was not. 39 00:02:34,080 --> 00:02:36,720 Speaker 2: Just devastating for him, Misty, it was devastating for the 40 00:02:36,760 --> 00:02:40,040 Speaker 2: whole family. Now we know, you know, mister, your family 41 00:02:40,440 --> 00:02:43,880 Speaker 2: is involved in crime in law law enforcements. Whenever something 42 00:02:44,240 --> 00:02:48,680 Speaker 2: terrible happens, the police the investigators always look at the 43 00:02:48,680 --> 00:02:52,520 Speaker 2: people closest to you first, and historically, if you look 44 00:02:52,560 --> 00:02:55,600 Speaker 2: at the statistics, it's normally not a stranger. It's normally 45 00:02:55,639 --> 00:02:59,160 Speaker 2: somebody that you know. And so I think that's where 46 00:02:59,200 --> 00:03:01,760 Speaker 2: this story came came from, that they had to rule 47 00:03:02,120 --> 00:03:06,200 Speaker 2: the family members out. It picked up a lot a 48 00:03:06,240 --> 00:03:09,640 Speaker 2: lot of stem particularly online. Now we know it's not true. 49 00:03:09,720 --> 00:03:14,240 Speaker 3: What do you think I mean in this makes me 50 00:03:14,320 --> 00:03:17,480 Speaker 3: so sad this case, that it's been almost three weeks 51 00:03:17,520 --> 00:03:19,799 Speaker 3: now and they haven't found this woman. And I think 52 00:03:20,080 --> 00:03:23,639 Speaker 3: for some people saying that a family member was involved, 53 00:03:23,880 --> 00:03:26,400 Speaker 3: at least it would be somebody who cares about her, 54 00:03:26,480 --> 00:03:29,240 Speaker 3: would make sure she has her medication. So I think 55 00:03:29,360 --> 00:03:31,680 Speaker 3: that's why people thought it could be a family member. 56 00:03:32,000 --> 00:03:37,160 Speaker 3: And statistics show that the percentage of a woman over 57 00:03:37,240 --> 00:03:39,880 Speaker 3: eighty being kidnapped by a stranger and held for ransom, 58 00:03:39,920 --> 00:03:43,480 Speaker 3: it's almost it's almost zero. And so I don't think 59 00:03:43,520 --> 00:03:48,720 Speaker 3: people could wrap their heads around this concept. But as 60 00:03:48,760 --> 00:03:52,360 Speaker 3: you said, they've been ruled out for having anything to 61 00:03:52,400 --> 00:03:56,640 Speaker 3: do with her disappearance. There are some people, some rumors, 62 00:03:57,520 --> 00:04:01,520 Speaker 3: some theories, or you know, believing that maybe it's a 63 00:04:01,560 --> 00:04:05,400 Speaker 3: family friend, somebody who knows the family would know the 64 00:04:05,480 --> 00:04:08,800 Speaker 3: mother and so would know to prepare that she would 65 00:04:08,800 --> 00:04:12,200 Speaker 3: need her medication on a daily basis to keep her alive. 66 00:04:12,440 --> 00:04:16,720 Speaker 3: So that might be why you know the son in law, 67 00:04:17,040 --> 00:04:19,560 Speaker 3: he has friends, maybe a friend of his did it. 68 00:04:19,920 --> 00:04:23,680 Speaker 3: But obviously we're not one hundred percent sure. And what 69 00:04:23,920 --> 00:04:26,840 Speaker 3: is the saddest part of this case is with any 70 00:04:26,880 --> 00:04:31,960 Speaker 3: missing persons, the first forty eight hours are crucial. That 71 00:04:32,040 --> 00:04:36,279 Speaker 3: has passed long, obviously by weeks, and so it's just 72 00:04:37,120 --> 00:04:40,440 Speaker 3: something needs to be done. We need some kind of answer. 73 00:04:40,560 --> 00:04:42,359 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think we've been realistic about this and I 74 00:04:42,360 --> 00:04:45,200 Speaker 2: think we're handling it beautifully and very carefully. Here there 75 00:04:45,279 --> 00:04:49,120 Speaker 2: is a lady Innatis missing somewhere and we're all praying 76 00:04:49,160 --> 00:04:53,240 Speaker 2: for her return. Savannah's video yesterday was just heartbreaking. She 77 00:04:53,320 --> 00:04:56,960 Speaker 2: looks like she's at her at her breaking point. My heartbreaks. 78 00:04:57,000 --> 00:05:01,000 Speaker 2: I'm also told too, that family members are considering even 79 00:05:01,000 --> 00:05:04,160 Speaker 2: taking legal action. It just goes to show you we 80 00:05:04,400 --> 00:05:07,599 Speaker 2: escape go to people so quickly when we want an answer, 81 00:05:07,880 --> 00:05:10,640 Speaker 2: when we want something to be done and dusted, we 82 00:05:10,680 --> 00:05:13,640 Speaker 2: want this to be solved. It's so easy to point 83 00:05:13,680 --> 00:05:17,720 Speaker 2: a finger at somebody and then everybody pile on. And 84 00:05:17,760 --> 00:05:21,000 Speaker 2: that is not how the justice system. That is not 85 00:05:21,360 --> 00:05:25,119 Speaker 2: how this is meant to work. Everybody is innocent until 86 00:05:25,200 --> 00:05:30,799 Speaker 2: proven guilty. However, to statistically, I could barely get that out. Statistically, 87 00:05:30,839 --> 00:05:34,400 Speaker 2: there you go. It is often more than often somebody 88 00:05:34,480 --> 00:05:37,320 Speaker 2: that is related to the victim. It is very rare 89 00:05:37,800 --> 00:05:41,680 Speaker 2: that a stranger actually does something like this. It does happen, 90 00:05:41,880 --> 00:05:44,440 Speaker 2: but it is very very rare. So I think the 91 00:05:44,440 --> 00:05:46,479 Speaker 2: police were just doing what they had to do. I 92 00:05:46,520 --> 00:05:50,600 Speaker 2: think it was reckless for reporters to announce that. We 93 00:05:50,720 --> 00:05:54,400 Speaker 2: certainly didn't on our show, on our substack, and I 94 00:05:54,440 --> 00:05:57,120 Speaker 2: think that's why the police felt like it was important 95 00:05:57,440 --> 00:06:00,479 Speaker 2: to come forward and stop these rumors. It is not 96 00:06:01,080 --> 00:06:05,520 Speaker 2: her brother in law, it is not Savannah's sister's husband, 97 00:06:05,800 --> 00:06:09,640 Speaker 2: it's not the sister, it is not a family member. 98 00:06:10,240 --> 00:06:13,040 Speaker 2: Now there is new reporting from Harvey Levin at TMC, 99 00:06:13,160 --> 00:06:16,840 Speaker 2: who have been receiving more and more ransom notes. Now 100 00:06:16,839 --> 00:06:21,039 Speaker 2: there's reporting that Nancy might have been abducted and taken 101 00:06:21,080 --> 00:06:24,680 Speaker 2: to Mexico and more than one person was involved. Just 102 00:06:24,720 --> 00:06:26,400 Speaker 2: heartbreak in Once again, we're not going to do a 103 00:06:26,400 --> 00:06:30,280 Speaker 2: poll question today. It doesn't feel right voting when somebody's 104 00:06:30,320 --> 00:06:33,200 Speaker 2: life is potentially hanging in the balance. It will move 105 00:06:33,240 --> 00:06:37,120 Speaker 2: straight along m America's next top model. My goodness, mister, 106 00:06:37,360 --> 00:06:39,280 Speaker 2: I sort of forgot about this show. But there was 107 00:06:39,320 --> 00:06:42,400 Speaker 2: a moment when this was the biggest show on television. 108 00:06:42,440 --> 00:06:46,039 Speaker 2: It made Tyra Banks a star. We were addicted to it. Now, 109 00:06:46,120 --> 00:06:49,200 Speaker 2: many years later, we're looking back at the show and 110 00:06:49,360 --> 00:06:52,160 Speaker 2: not through such rose colored glasses. 111 00:06:52,279 --> 00:06:52,920 Speaker 1: What's going on? 112 00:06:53,760 --> 00:06:57,400 Speaker 3: Well, obviously, the documentary dropped on Netflix yesterday and it's 113 00:06:57,440 --> 00:07:02,280 Speaker 3: all anybody can talk about, including its first winner, Adrian Curry. 114 00:07:02,360 --> 00:07:07,479 Speaker 3: And she's saying filming the hit series felt like psychological warfare, 115 00:07:07,640 --> 00:07:12,119 Speaker 3: a legend. Contestants were starving, sleep, divibed, and deliberately kept 116 00:07:12,160 --> 00:07:14,680 Speaker 3: on edge for better TV. Now, we have to remember 117 00:07:14,920 --> 00:07:17,400 Speaker 3: this was the height of reality television and people were 118 00:07:17,440 --> 00:07:19,920 Speaker 3: trying to figure out how to make it work. So 119 00:07:19,960 --> 00:07:23,800 Speaker 3: she seems that meals were delayed for hours. Those elimination 120 00:07:23,960 --> 00:07:26,720 Speaker 3: nights that we watched in about what five minutes actually 121 00:07:26,760 --> 00:07:31,360 Speaker 3: stretched past two am, and producers plan toxic questions to 122 00:07:31,440 --> 00:07:35,000 Speaker 3: stir in the drama. Now, she also is talking about 123 00:07:35,000 --> 00:07:38,560 Speaker 3: those makeovers, which we're watching it back then, you just 124 00:07:38,680 --> 00:07:40,920 Speaker 3: like I remember thinking, oh, I just want to see 125 00:07:40,920 --> 00:07:44,480 Speaker 3: how this woman looks differently. But she said that they 126 00:07:44,480 --> 00:07:48,280 Speaker 3: were painful makeovers that left her with scalp wounds and 127 00:07:48,440 --> 00:07:52,560 Speaker 3: long term hair damage. Now she insists that she doesn't 128 00:07:52,760 --> 00:07:56,800 Speaker 3: hate Tyra Banks, calling her a powerhouse. Obviously she created 129 00:07:56,800 --> 00:08:00,360 Speaker 3: one of the most watch shows of the two thous 130 00:08:01,000 --> 00:08:04,840 Speaker 3: but believes that the reboot of this do the reboot 131 00:08:04,880 --> 00:08:08,480 Speaker 3: of a series because that's how Tyrek ends in spoiler alert, 132 00:08:08,680 --> 00:08:11,280 Speaker 3: it's how she ends this doc that she would love 133 00:08:11,320 --> 00:08:15,640 Speaker 3: to bring it back, would be carefully calculated for damage control, 134 00:08:15,800 --> 00:08:18,600 Speaker 3: which makes me think of the Biggest Loser when they 135 00:08:18,600 --> 00:08:20,440 Speaker 3: brought it back and were trying to deal with some 136 00:08:20,520 --> 00:08:23,800 Speaker 3: of the issues of how they dealt with their contestants 137 00:08:23,840 --> 00:08:27,600 Speaker 3: to lose weight. So I don't know, Rob a reboot 138 00:08:27,640 --> 00:08:30,720 Speaker 3: of America's Next Talk Model could it work? 139 00:08:30,760 --> 00:08:31,680 Speaker 1: Would you watch? 140 00:08:31,880 --> 00:08:33,319 Speaker 2: I used to work for Tyres. I've known her for 141 00:08:33,360 --> 00:08:35,840 Speaker 2: a really long time. She hustles like she doesn't give up. 142 00:08:35,880 --> 00:08:38,960 Speaker 2: The reason she did this interview was not mania. It 143 00:08:39,040 --> 00:08:41,640 Speaker 2: was because she wants to plan a reboot and she 144 00:08:41,679 --> 00:08:44,079 Speaker 2: thought this would be a great way. And it's pretty 145 00:08:44,120 --> 00:08:47,200 Speaker 2: smart actually to acknowledge the sins of your past. Makes 146 00:08:47,240 --> 00:08:49,880 Speaker 2: the future much easier to go forward with. So I 147 00:08:49,880 --> 00:08:53,000 Speaker 2: think this is her Mia Kopa, This is her moment. 148 00:08:53,120 --> 00:08:56,280 Speaker 2: This is her moment where she can acknowledge that it 149 00:08:56,320 --> 00:08:59,120 Speaker 2: was a time. It was a show that was very 150 00:08:59,160 --> 00:09:01,560 Speaker 2: much of its time. This is what happens. If you've 151 00:09:01,559 --> 00:09:04,040 Speaker 2: watched The Real Housewives, you see how exhausted and how 152 00:09:04,040 --> 00:09:07,760 Speaker 2: liquored up, and how producers make you ask saucy questions 153 00:09:07,880 --> 00:09:10,240 Speaker 2: to get all the drama. So this sort of really 154 00:09:10,240 --> 00:09:12,520 Speaker 2: paved the way for those trashy reality shows that we 155 00:09:12,600 --> 00:09:15,440 Speaker 2: still love today. I think there is a way for 156 00:09:15,920 --> 00:09:18,599 Speaker 2: America's Next Couple Top Model. 157 00:09:18,320 --> 00:09:19,200 Speaker 1: To move forward. 158 00:09:19,240 --> 00:09:21,280 Speaker 2: I'm not sure if Tyra can host it, though I 159 00:09:21,280 --> 00:09:24,280 Speaker 2: think it should be maybe a brand new generation of it. 160 00:09:24,360 --> 00:09:26,680 Speaker 2: These rebeats never seem to work, do they Like? The 161 00:09:26,800 --> 00:09:29,079 Speaker 2: Queer Eye one did okay, but it wasn't as big 162 00:09:29,120 --> 00:09:33,320 Speaker 2: as the first one. America's Biggest Loser wasn't quite as big, 163 00:09:33,400 --> 00:09:36,200 Speaker 2: So I get why Tyra wants to do it. But 164 00:09:36,559 --> 00:09:38,480 Speaker 2: this show has a lot to answer for looking back, 165 00:09:38,559 --> 00:09:40,800 Speaker 2: it does not hold up. I watched a few episodes 166 00:09:40,800 --> 00:09:42,520 Speaker 2: Mystery and Oh Dear. 167 00:09:42,760 --> 00:09:46,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, and it's just even the way she answered some 168 00:09:46,480 --> 00:09:50,800 Speaker 3: of her questions. I'm not sure that she did herself justice. 169 00:09:50,840 --> 00:09:53,600 Speaker 3: That's what people are saying that maybe it came off 170 00:09:53,720 --> 00:09:57,760 Speaker 3: kind of Oh, you don't seem to be apologizing for 171 00:09:58,080 --> 00:10:02,520 Speaker 3: things that happened. You seem to explain not necessarily offering 172 00:10:02,640 --> 00:10:09,400 Speaker 3: apologies exactly. And in a new generation that that you know, 173 00:10:09,760 --> 00:10:14,720 Speaker 3: values authenticity and owning up to your mistakes, I'm not 174 00:10:14,720 --> 00:10:16,720 Speaker 3: sure it's going to work for a new generation. 175 00:10:16,880 --> 00:10:17,880 Speaker 1: I don't know what it's gonna work. 176 00:10:18,040 --> 00:10:20,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, Tyra is authentic though, she's a tough girl, like 177 00:10:20,800 --> 00:10:22,560 Speaker 2: she's not pretending to be anything. 178 00:10:22,640 --> 00:10:25,200 Speaker 1: But she might not be the person we want, but 179 00:10:25,320 --> 00:10:26,360 Speaker 1: she is who she is. 180 00:10:26,559 --> 00:10:30,000 Speaker 2: Talking about that Miss Jane, Remember Miss Jay Alexander on 181 00:10:30,080 --> 00:10:31,920 Speaker 2: the show, one of my favorites. On the show, he 182 00:10:32,000 --> 00:10:34,440 Speaker 2: really taught the ladies how to walk. Is revealing that 183 00:10:34,480 --> 00:10:38,360 Speaker 2: he suffered a stroke. I know December twenty twenty two, 184 00:10:38,720 --> 00:10:41,440 Speaker 2: he had a stroke and is unable to walk, and 185 00:10:41,480 --> 00:10:44,280 Speaker 2: he said he will be back. He said the following quote, 186 00:10:44,480 --> 00:10:47,360 Speaker 2: I taught models how to walk and now I can't walk, 187 00:10:47,720 --> 00:10:48,360 Speaker 2: not yet. 188 00:10:48,720 --> 00:10:51,040 Speaker 1: But it's not over for me, Miss Jay. We want 189 00:10:51,120 --> 00:10:52,320 Speaker 1: you back. We are rooting for you. 190 00:10:52,520 --> 00:10:55,199 Speaker 2: What was shocking though, is he was asked, has Tyra 191 00:10:55,400 --> 00:10:59,800 Speaker 2: visited and he said no, not yet. She's sent to 192 00:11:01,080 --> 00:11:04,600 Speaker 2: but no. Now, fellow judges Nigel and Jay they did 193 00:11:04,679 --> 00:11:09,000 Speaker 2: visit him in hospital, but Tyra was a no show. Tyron, 194 00:11:09,120 --> 00:11:12,520 Speaker 2: you can't help yourself. I mean, I sort of respect 195 00:11:12,880 --> 00:11:15,160 Speaker 2: that you are who you are. You're happy to be 196 00:11:15,240 --> 00:11:18,160 Speaker 2: the villain. She won't say sorry for stuff that she's 197 00:11:18,240 --> 00:11:22,480 Speaker 2: not sorry for. That's maybe refreshing and slightly alarming at 198 00:11:22,520 --> 00:11:25,559 Speaker 2: the same time. But she didn't. She didn't go and 199 00:11:25,640 --> 00:11:28,079 Speaker 2: visit him. I think the mistake we make, miss Me 200 00:11:28,160 --> 00:11:31,760 Speaker 2: and we've worked on TV shows, is that to the public, 201 00:11:31,880 --> 00:11:36,120 Speaker 2: to the viewers, there's an image given that were family, 202 00:11:36,280 --> 00:11:38,880 Speaker 2: that we're all really good friends and we just all 203 00:11:39,120 --> 00:11:41,720 Speaker 2: like each other and we hang out and we text 204 00:11:41,760 --> 00:11:45,240 Speaker 2: each other. It's not true. It's a job. It is 205 00:11:45,640 --> 00:11:49,959 Speaker 2: just not true. It's a job, and it's a stressful job, 206 00:11:50,200 --> 00:11:53,280 Speaker 2: and it's a job when you're tired, you're under a 207 00:11:53,320 --> 00:11:56,240 Speaker 2: lot of pressure. It's a job with people you wouldn't 208 00:11:56,280 --> 00:11:59,320 Speaker 2: normally hang out with. He'll be friends with and suddenly 209 00:11:59,320 --> 00:12:01,880 Speaker 2: you're all put on to a show where you've got 210 00:12:01,880 --> 00:12:04,880 Speaker 2: a smile and pretend to be best friends. Tyra was 211 00:12:04,960 --> 00:12:07,760 Speaker 2: never that close to anybody on this show, and so 212 00:12:08,000 --> 00:12:12,160 Speaker 2: they portrayed as a group of friends. In reality, that's 213 00:12:12,200 --> 00:12:14,760 Speaker 2: just not who Tyra is. She didn't remain friends with 214 00:12:14,840 --> 00:12:17,640 Speaker 2: any of the models. She didn't remain friends with anybody 215 00:12:17,720 --> 00:12:19,920 Speaker 2: from her talk show. She had her own talk show 216 00:12:19,960 --> 00:12:23,599 Speaker 2: in La Chrissy Teagan that didn't last very long. And 217 00:12:23,679 --> 00:12:26,880 Speaker 2: then also too, She's not friends with anybody from Dancing 218 00:12:26,920 --> 00:12:29,920 Speaker 2: with the Stars. It's just not how Tyler Tyra rolls. 219 00:12:29,960 --> 00:12:33,000 Speaker 2: It's just not her thing. I think, though, I do 220 00:12:33,080 --> 00:12:36,520 Speaker 2: think miss Jay I would like to think there's enough 221 00:12:36,600 --> 00:12:39,959 Speaker 2: decency there that if you were in New York, if 222 00:12:40,000 --> 00:12:42,200 Speaker 2: you could pop in and see him, you would. 223 00:12:42,559 --> 00:12:43,240 Speaker 1: I don't think she. 224 00:12:43,200 --> 00:12:47,120 Speaker 3: Will or to send some flowers, but look, Tara's got 225 00:12:47,280 --> 00:12:50,600 Speaker 3: him Moto and it's I'm trying to run up business. 226 00:12:54,520 --> 00:12:57,960 Speaker 2: Tyra Tyra Tyra Okay, moving along with Viva Dresher, one 227 00:12:57,960 --> 00:13:00,240 Speaker 2: of my favorite housewives. You've not heard from her in 228 00:13:00,280 --> 00:13:04,040 Speaker 2: a while. He's defending Jill saren So. She did rachel 229 00:13:04,080 --> 00:13:06,800 Speaker 2: Yucutel's podcast. I know rachel Lelooloono I as a guest 230 00:13:06,840 --> 00:13:08,920 Speaker 2: on that show a couple of months ago. It's a great, 231 00:13:08,960 --> 00:13:12,680 Speaker 2: great podcast, and so Aviva was on, Jill has just 232 00:13:12,720 --> 00:13:15,240 Speaker 2: been fired from the reboot of The Real houh size, 233 00:13:15,400 --> 00:13:18,160 Speaker 2: Aviva's defending her. What do you think what's going on? 234 00:13:19,000 --> 00:13:23,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, so Aviva is drawing a distinction between what Jill 235 00:13:23,400 --> 00:13:26,680 Speaker 3: said and she's standing by her former castmates. So sometimes 236 00:13:26,679 --> 00:13:29,640 Speaker 3: they really are friends again, like you said. She was 237 00:13:29,640 --> 00:13:34,120 Speaker 3: on the Misunderstood with Rachel Yucutel show, and she basically 238 00:13:34,320 --> 00:13:38,400 Speaker 3: addressed the backlash that Jill received after her now deleted 239 00:13:38,480 --> 00:13:42,560 Speaker 3: Super Bowl halftime rant about bad Bunny, which ultimately cost 240 00:13:42,600 --> 00:13:45,640 Speaker 3: her a spot on Ease upcoming reboot. Aviva said, I've 241 00:13:45,640 --> 00:13:48,600 Speaker 3: known Jill since twenty eleven. I've never thought of her 242 00:13:48,679 --> 00:13:52,000 Speaker 3: to be racist. That was the thing that stung. But 243 00:13:52,960 --> 00:13:55,720 Speaker 3: Yviva did not make excuses for the remarks. She said 244 00:13:55,760 --> 00:13:58,760 Speaker 3: it was completely stupid, but I don't think it came 245 00:13:58,800 --> 00:14:01,719 Speaker 3: from a hateful place. One thing that have Eva made 246 00:14:01,760 --> 00:14:04,040 Speaker 3: clear is that she would never do a show with 247 00:14:04,120 --> 00:14:08,000 Speaker 3: someone she thought was racis so obviously these housewives were 248 00:14:08,040 --> 00:14:13,200 Speaker 3: truly friends. I mean, it's so hard. It's interesting. We 249 00:14:13,240 --> 00:14:18,480 Speaker 3: want reality stars to be shocking and say things that 250 00:14:18,640 --> 00:14:22,560 Speaker 3: were go ooh, but there's a thin line over what 251 00:14:22,600 --> 00:14:25,840 Speaker 3: you can say where it gets into territory where it's 252 00:14:26,000 --> 00:14:30,200 Speaker 3: just unacceptable, and for Jill's arin unfortunately, the comment that 253 00:14:30,280 --> 00:14:33,360 Speaker 3: she made and how she chose to frame it, because 254 00:14:33,520 --> 00:14:35,720 Speaker 3: you know what, if you didn't like the Bad Benny show, 255 00:14:35,720 --> 00:14:39,200 Speaker 3: that is your opinion. You're allowed not to like it. 256 00:14:39,240 --> 00:14:41,720 Speaker 3: There have been Super Bowl shows that I've watched and 257 00:14:41,760 --> 00:14:44,640 Speaker 3: I haven't necessarily thought they were the best. But I 258 00:14:44,680 --> 00:14:47,000 Speaker 3: think it's the certain wording that she put in that 259 00:14:47,080 --> 00:14:49,520 Speaker 3: caused a problem for the show. And you have to 260 00:14:49,680 --> 00:14:52,040 Speaker 3: the show is thinking not that they hate Jill. They're 261 00:14:52,080 --> 00:14:56,360 Speaker 3: thinking about advertisers and protesting and things like that, And 262 00:14:56,360 --> 00:14:58,560 Speaker 3: I have to weigh the two. Do we go through 263 00:14:58,560 --> 00:15:01,040 Speaker 3: that or do we just say this is not the 264 00:15:01,160 --> 00:15:04,560 Speaker 3: job for you. So you have to think reality stars, yes, 265 00:15:04,640 --> 00:15:06,960 Speaker 3: say what's on your mind, but make sure that it 266 00:15:07,000 --> 00:15:08,640 Speaker 3: doesn't cross that m. 267 00:15:09,640 --> 00:15:13,120 Speaker 2: Very wise, Miss t I have trouble with this, and 268 00:15:13,200 --> 00:15:15,960 Speaker 2: I really like Aviva. On one hand, I think it's 269 00:15:16,000 --> 00:15:18,840 Speaker 2: admirable that she's sticking up for somebody who's a friend. 270 00:15:19,120 --> 00:15:21,480 Speaker 2: I stick up for my friends, But I don't want 271 00:15:21,480 --> 00:15:24,280 Speaker 2: to go down the road where you're basically saying they 272 00:15:24,280 --> 00:15:26,880 Speaker 2: were nice to me. Which is something that a lot 273 00:15:26,880 --> 00:15:30,720 Speaker 2: of people do to excuse bad behavior. It would have 274 00:15:30,760 --> 00:15:32,480 Speaker 2: been very easy for me to say I used to 275 00:15:32,480 --> 00:15:34,280 Speaker 2: work for did he did? He was nice to me, 276 00:15:34,640 --> 00:15:36,800 Speaker 2: Yes he was, But that does not mean he's not 277 00:15:36,840 --> 00:15:39,680 Speaker 2: a monster. He's a monster, he just wasn't a monster 278 00:15:40,040 --> 00:15:42,600 Speaker 2: to me. And so, Aviva, I think that's a much 279 00:15:42,680 --> 00:15:45,800 Speaker 2: more subtle and much more smart way of framing this. 280 00:15:46,120 --> 00:15:48,760 Speaker 2: You don't know if Jill is a racist or not. 281 00:15:48,960 --> 00:15:51,280 Speaker 2: You know that she wasn't racist in front of you, 282 00:15:51,760 --> 00:15:53,960 Speaker 2: but you don't know what's going on behind the scenes. 283 00:15:54,320 --> 00:15:57,560 Speaker 2: We spend so much of our lives with ourselves. The 284 00:15:57,560 --> 00:16:00,360 Speaker 2: only person that really knows one hundred percent of Jill's Aaron, Jill, 285 00:16:00,400 --> 00:16:03,600 Speaker 2: Zarah and nobody else. And she said what she said, 286 00:16:04,000 --> 00:16:08,840 Speaker 2: She said what she said, and so she's only got 287 00:16:08,880 --> 00:16:12,720 Speaker 2: herself here to blame. Some people call it cancel culture. 288 00:16:12,920 --> 00:16:15,920 Speaker 2: I like to call it consequence culture. You're allowed to 289 00:16:15,960 --> 00:16:18,720 Speaker 2: have your opinions, you really are. You're allowed to say stuff, 290 00:16:18,960 --> 00:16:22,600 Speaker 2: but if you say certain stuff, I might not want 291 00:16:22,640 --> 00:16:26,200 Speaker 2: to listen to you any more. And so, Aviva, I 292 00:16:26,200 --> 00:16:28,040 Speaker 2: get what you're doing here. You're a good friend, You're 293 00:16:28,080 --> 00:16:31,360 Speaker 2: really trying to be a good friend, but don't fall 294 00:16:31,400 --> 00:16:34,280 Speaker 2: into that trap of saying they were nice to me. 295 00:16:35,320 --> 00:16:36,520 Speaker 1: Doesn't excuse everything. 296 00:16:36,520 --> 00:16:38,480 Speaker 2: Okay, we're going to take a quick break and we'll 297 00:16:38,520 --> 00:16:41,880 Speaker 2: be right back. Welcome back to the naught even nice 298 00:16:41,880 --> 00:16:43,680 Speaker 2: Show'm your host, Tom. Shoot you my dear friend, Miss g. 299 00:16:44,000 --> 00:16:46,000 Speaker 2: There is no poll result to get to. We've really 300 00:16:46,000 --> 00:16:48,600 Speaker 2: been careful about the polls the last few weeks since 301 00:16:48,640 --> 00:16:51,200 Speaker 2: Savannah's mummy went missing. We don't want to do poles 302 00:16:51,680 --> 00:16:58,120 Speaker 2: on somebody's tragedy, so let's get straight too and nice. 303 00:16:57,120 --> 00:17:01,480 Speaker 3: Of the day, Well, our nicest of the day are 304 00:17:01,560 --> 00:17:06,240 Speaker 3: the America's Next Top Model documentary directors, because they're telling 305 00:17:06,320 --> 00:17:08,840 Speaker 3: us why Tyra agreed to sit down and have it. 306 00:17:09,520 --> 00:17:13,840 Speaker 3: So they say they were shocked that Tyro agreed to participate, 307 00:17:14,160 --> 00:17:16,960 Speaker 3: but once she did, everything was on the table. So 308 00:17:17,080 --> 00:17:21,760 Speaker 3: the filmmakers are named Daniel Sivin and more Laoshi. She 309 00:17:21,880 --> 00:17:24,600 Speaker 3: sat down for more than four hours and she was 310 00:17:24,680 --> 00:17:28,720 Speaker 3: told that nothing would be censored, and she hasn't seen 311 00:17:28,760 --> 00:17:30,920 Speaker 3: the final codmit and she might have seen it by now. 312 00:17:31,200 --> 00:17:34,720 Speaker 3: But the doc holds Tyra accountable for controversial moments while 313 00:17:34,760 --> 00:17:39,400 Speaker 3: acknowledging the early two thousands reality TV culture that fueled them. 314 00:17:40,000 --> 00:17:43,160 Speaker 3: One topic that she did refuse to discuss was her 315 00:17:43,320 --> 00:17:47,679 Speaker 3: fractured relationship with j Manuel and so as for that 316 00:17:47,800 --> 00:17:52,520 Speaker 3: rumored cycle twenty five, America's tech model, Tyra and Ken, 317 00:17:52,720 --> 00:17:55,400 Speaker 3: who was the director of this series back in the day, 318 00:17:55,440 --> 00:17:59,160 Speaker 3: are dying to reboot it, but hope that it would 319 00:17:59,200 --> 00:18:02,840 Speaker 3: evolve with the times. Now, God should If it evolves 320 00:18:02,840 --> 00:18:04,760 Speaker 3: with the times, it's because of you guys, If you 321 00:18:04,800 --> 00:18:05,919 Speaker 3: guys are controlling it. 322 00:18:06,280 --> 00:18:11,679 Speaker 2: Yes, serious, this is interesting too, and I do like 323 00:18:11,760 --> 00:18:14,480 Speaker 2: that this is the only moment of vulnerability that I 324 00:18:14,520 --> 00:18:17,879 Speaker 2: saw from Tyra in the entire documentary. When they asked 325 00:18:17,880 --> 00:18:21,080 Speaker 2: about this friendship, she made it clearer. She didn't want 326 00:18:21,119 --> 00:18:23,160 Speaker 2: to speak about it. She could have told a lie, 327 00:18:23,400 --> 00:18:26,119 Speaker 2: she could have made something of she could have brushed 328 00:18:26,160 --> 00:18:28,840 Speaker 2: away the question. It was Tyra at her most honest 329 00:18:28,880 --> 00:18:31,160 Speaker 2: and a most vulnerable, and we don't get to see 330 00:18:31,200 --> 00:18:34,240 Speaker 2: that Tira very often, if at all. So that's what 331 00:18:34,440 --> 00:18:37,359 Speaker 2: made it all such a nice, truthful moment. And now 332 00:18:37,400 --> 00:18:40,560 Speaker 2: my naughty is today naughty naughty. So Silence of the 333 00:18:40,600 --> 00:18:45,960 Speaker 2: lambstar Ted Leviean has apologizing for Buffalo Bill's role amid 334 00:18:46,080 --> 00:18:49,160 Speaker 2: transgender criticism. So when Silence of the Lambs came out 335 00:18:49,200 --> 00:18:53,760 Speaker 2: in nineteen ninety one, it really really gave an insight 336 00:18:53,960 --> 00:18:57,600 Speaker 2: into the trans community that is just not accurate, and 337 00:18:57,720 --> 00:19:00,960 Speaker 2: people at the time knew it. They to adapt the 338 00:19:01,000 --> 00:19:04,840 Speaker 2: script a little bit, but it was quote effing wrong. 339 00:19:05,119 --> 00:19:08,879 Speaker 2: That's what the actor who played Buffalo Bill is saying. 340 00:19:08,920 --> 00:19:09,280 Speaker 1: He said. 341 00:19:09,280 --> 00:19:13,080 Speaker 2: Over the years, critics have argued that characters reinforced harmful 342 00:19:13,160 --> 00:19:19,000 Speaker 2: stereotypes about trans and gender nonconforming people. He said that 343 00:19:19,119 --> 00:19:23,359 Speaker 2: he wish it had dealt with all this better and 344 00:19:23,440 --> 00:19:26,879 Speaker 2: had a little bit more understanding. It's amazing. We were 345 00:19:26,920 --> 00:19:29,880 Speaker 2: just talking about America's next top model. Also movies, when 346 00:19:29,920 --> 00:19:34,720 Speaker 2: you look back, do they hold up finally apologizing. Let's 347 00:19:34,760 --> 00:19:36,000 Speaker 2: end with a moment of rob. You're gonna rob, you 348 00:19:36,040 --> 00:19:39,280 Speaker 2: gonna RUBI you rob. The biggest success habit, let me 349 00:19:39,320 --> 00:19:43,400 Speaker 2: tell you, it's the willingness to look stupid. So success 350 00:19:43,760 --> 00:19:46,400 Speaker 2: doesn't belong to the most polished person in the room. 351 00:19:46,800 --> 00:19:49,280 Speaker 2: It belongs to the one who raises their hand and 352 00:19:49,359 --> 00:19:53,399 Speaker 2: asks dumb questions, tries risky ideas, and falls flat on 353 00:19:53,440 --> 00:19:59,000 Speaker 2: their face Publicly. Looking stupid is temporary, Staying silent is permanent. 354 00:19:59,600 --> 00:20:04,440 Speaker 2: Every breakthrough begins with awkwardness. Everything you're good at today, 355 00:20:04,640 --> 00:20:07,439 Speaker 2: you are not good at when you started. And the 356 00:20:07,520 --> 00:20:10,320 Speaker 2: people who win, they're not fearless, mis d They're the 357 00:20:10,359 --> 00:20:14,040 Speaker 2: ones that are less afraid of embarrassment. That's who wins. 358 00:20:14,200 --> 00:20:18,080 Speaker 2: People who are willing to look stupid. Let them laugh, 359 00:20:18,440 --> 00:20:22,000 Speaker 2: let them doubt, let them watch, because you are building 360 00:20:22,119 --> 00:20:26,400 Speaker 2: your future. I'm quite comfortable looking like a fool as 361 00:20:26,440 --> 00:20:29,280 Speaker 2: I start a new process, a new I've got a 362 00:20:29,359 --> 00:20:32,560 Speaker 2: novel coming guide, I'm quite I know the backlash is 363 00:20:32,560 --> 00:20:34,399 Speaker 2: going to be strong. I know people are going to 364 00:20:34,480 --> 00:20:36,040 Speaker 2: say some really harsh things. 365 00:20:36,280 --> 00:20:37,120 Speaker 1: I'm fine with that. 366 00:20:37,280 --> 00:20:41,760 Speaker 2: I'm okay looking like a fool. I'm okay feeling stupid. 367 00:20:42,040 --> 00:20:44,280 Speaker 2: Get comfortable with that, my friends. Hey, that is it 368 00:20:44,760 --> 00:20:46,520 Speaker 2: for today. Thank you so much for listening to The 369 00:20:46,600 --> 00:20:48,600 Speaker 2: Naughty Bit Nice with Robin. Miss d Show were a 370 00:20:48,600 --> 00:20:51,800 Speaker 2: production of Elvis Duran and iHeartRadio. Don't forget to check 371 00:20:51,840 --> 00:20:54,679 Speaker 2: out my substack robshooter dot substack dot com and my 372 00:20:54,760 --> 00:20:57,719 Speaker 2: upcoming novel, It's Started with a Whisper. It is now 373 00:20:57,760 --> 00:21:02,120 Speaker 2: available for pre orders under Everybody sing Along. 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