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Speaker 1: Second date updated.

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Speaker 2: Isn't it annoying when you're on the dating apps and

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Speaker 2: you match with somebody and you can just talk to

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Speaker 2: them right away.

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Speaker 3: What isn't that what you want to know?

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Speaker 1: It never happened.

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Speaker 3: No, thank you.

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Speaker 1: I want to work for it. That's why I'm glad.

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Speaker 2: On Bumble they added multiple steps in hoops you have

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Speaker 2: to jump through first, where if you're a guy and

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Speaker 2: you match with a girl first, the woman sends you

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Speaker 2: a prompt question that the guy has to answer, and

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Speaker 2: if she doesn't like your response to that, she could

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Speaker 2: just ditch you right away without ever speaking a word.

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Speaker 4: Do you I feel like you have to fill out

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Speaker 4: full essay questions like you're back in high school English

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Speaker 4: class all over again.

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Speaker 3: To get a date.

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Speaker 1: We're not there yet, but I hope it gets to

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Speaker 1: that person. Yeah, because I love writing essays.

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Speaker 2: Theis Yeah, if she does like your answer, then she

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Speaker 2: can approve and give the green light to actually message her.

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Speaker 2: So if you get that prompt, then you're halfway there.

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Speaker 2: And one of our listeners apparently got it recently. His

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Speaker 2: name is Card with a K, so Card congratulations, you

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Speaker 2: got to answer a pre selected question. That must feel

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Speaker 2: pretty good. Yeah, you did it, buddy.

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Speaker 4: Is it too much details to know what her pre

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Speaker 4: selected question was about?

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Speaker 1: What was the question?

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Speaker 5: So it was what's the best piece of advice you've

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Speaker 5: ever received?

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Speaker 3: Oh gosh, oh serious?

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Speaker 4: Well, for sure, she was going to ask for your

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Speaker 4: favorite pizza toppings.

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Speaker 3: That's what I would go.

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Speaker 2: It is tricky how you answer that, because if you're

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Speaker 2: just sincere without being fun, then.

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Speaker 1: You're gonna look very boring and steff.

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Speaker 2: But at the same time, if you're too fun and

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Speaker 2: too silly, then it seems like you're not taking this serious,

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Speaker 2: not going to call back.

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Speaker 4: I would take my grandmother's vice, live and learn, die

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Speaker 4: and forget it all.

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Speaker 2: Okay, get boring and a little bit morbid?

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Speaker 4: Card?

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Speaker 2: What did you answer to the prompt what's the best

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Speaker 2: advice you ever got?

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Speaker 6: So?

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Speaker 5: I really thought about it, and I came up with

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Speaker 5: three options because this girl is really cute and I

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Speaker 5: didn't want to blow it.

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, that's good.

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Speaker 3: What would you do?

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Speaker 2: Give us the other two before you tell us the winner?

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Speaker 2: I want to know what the options are so we

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Speaker 2: can make sure you chose.

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Speaker 4: So just writing down life advice for yourself, is that

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Speaker 4: what you're doing we might.

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Speaker 5: My runner ups were put the cart back, people are watching.

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Speaker 3: That's pretty good.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay.

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Speaker 5: My next one I was always to yourself unless you

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Speaker 5: can be Beyonce.

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Speaker 3: The That's definitely what it was like people put on.

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Speaker 5: You didn't like that one, No, like, maybe that's too

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Speaker 5: silly and not answering it. So I wasn't sure.

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Speaker 3: Okay, So what was the winner?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: So the one I went with was never date someone

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Speaker 5: who collaps when the plane lands.

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Speaker 3: I think she must have liked it, right, Okay, she.

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Speaker 5: Said she was going to update her profile and put

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Speaker 5: it on hers and she did.

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Speaker 3: Oh bro, that's extra. That's like personalizing her own thing

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Speaker 3: for you.

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Speaker 5: I was flattered. But the best part was, you know,

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Speaker 5: it led to a date.

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Speaker 1: So there you go.

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Speaker 2: Okay, you made it over all the hurdles, through the obstacles,

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Speaker 2: and you got actual meet up with her.

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Speaker 1: What did you do for your date?

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Speaker 3: I was going to clap right there.

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Speaker 2: Oh well, he's not going to want to talk to

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Speaker 2: you if you did that, bro, what did you do

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Speaker 2: for your date?

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Speaker 5: Well, because of things beyond my control, I couldn't until

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Speaker 5: super late, so I booked at a dinner reservation at

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Speaker 5: nine point thirty. She initially asked if I could go earlier,

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Speaker 5: but I told her I couldn't, but I really wanted

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Speaker 5: to buy her dinner and spend time with her and

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Speaker 5: that one or over.

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, yeah, it went well.

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Speaker 5: We were there for a long time past midnight.

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Speaker 1: Oh wow, whoa, that's good.

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Speaker 2: You must have really clicked for two and a half

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Speaker 2: hours at dinner.

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Speaker 1: What time does the restaurant even close. That's a long dinner.

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Speaker 1: It's really long.

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Speaker 5: It was supposed to close at eleven, but we asked

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Speaker 5: if we could hang there while they like shut stuff down,

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Speaker 5: and they let us.

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Speaker 1: That's actually like, that's actually a rude thing.

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Speaker 3: It's so bad.

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Speaker 2: I thought I would take that as a compliment if

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Speaker 2: I worked in the restaurant, to be like, Wow, they

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Speaker 2: love us so much they want to stick around beyond.

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Speaker 3: I stay here for you.

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Speaker 6: Oh goodness.

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Speaker 5: I don't think they were too bothered by it, because

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Speaker 5: they saw the clean up and stuff and rolling silverware.

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Speaker 1: They're sweeping.

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Speaker 3: You haven't worked, You better have tipped?

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Speaker 5: Well, yeah, of course I did.

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Speaker 4: Okay, okay, restaurant aside, like, it sounds like it was

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Speaker 4: going great with her.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, so, how did the night end.

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Speaker 5: It was a good night. I walked her to her

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Speaker 5: car because we drove separately, and it was a quick kiss,

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Speaker 5: not a long one.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, So I'm.

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Speaker 5: Seeing if I can take her out again. I even

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Speaker 5: joked over text that we could do a nor more time.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'll put it up to eight thirty.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, but uh, not responding.

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Speaker 4: She's just not responded. Oh that's interesting. I mean, it

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Speaker 4: seems like she was so invested. Just all of the

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Speaker 4: hoops you had to jump through to even get the date.

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Speaker 4: Feels like she would have been all in.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I would think, but no dice, no dice.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well, don't sound so dejected on the phone right now.

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Speaker 6: Car.

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Speaker 2: We haven't even called her and got the answer. There

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Speaker 2: might be a total misunderstanding here.

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Speaker 5: That's what I'm worried about. When you guys call people,

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Speaker 5: normally doesn't go well.

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Speaker 3: Because we're always the last resort, you know.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and we only air the craziest, worst one. So

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Speaker 1: don't worry. Is this hits the air and it's actually

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Speaker 1: a bad thing.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, hopefully this is so boring we never even put

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Speaker 2: it on our actual show.

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Speaker 1: That's the goal.

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Speaker 2: We'll see what happens when we call Amy, We're gonna

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Speaker 2: come back and try and get you a second.

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Speaker 1: Date, up date super boring edition right after this.

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Speaker 6: Thank you?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, hold on man, second date update.

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Speaker 2: In the story of Cinderella, you know her date with

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Speaker 2: the prince is going well because she stays out with

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Speaker 2: him till midnight.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he's not a girl.

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Speaker 2: But in this situation, our listener, Card with a K

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Speaker 2: took his date Amy to a late dinner and they

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Speaker 2: stayed past midnight.

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Speaker 3: Despite the restaurant being closed.

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Speaker 1: Yes, a date, you're like dancing?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, but it is a good sign that they

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Speaker 2: were out together for so long. Now, is it possible

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Speaker 2: her date accidentally left her glass stiletto behind and ended

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Speaker 2: up bibbity boppiting the waiter.

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Speaker 1: Alec azooa mechicad. I get it.

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Speaker 3: We don't change what happened.

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Speaker 2: But no matter what, I am interested to hear how

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Speaker 2: this modern day fairy tale ends a slippers involved.

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Speaker 1: We're going to find out.

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Speaker 2: I mean, maybe we could just ask Card, Card, did

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Speaker 2: you have a hot waiter?

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Speaker 7: Uh?

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Speaker 5: Not exceptionally?

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Speaker 3: All right, Okay, that's good.

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Speaker 4: You start intimidated by whoever your staff was.

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Speaker 1: Was uber a pumpkin.

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Speaker 3: That's a good question, balt j.

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Speaker 1: He said that they drove separately. I didn't need an answer, Je, No,

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Speaker 1: it's not. We're checking off.

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Speaker 2: Okay, let's just call this lovely lady Amy okay.

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Speaker 1: And hopefully she picks up and we get some answers

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Speaker 1: out of her. You ready to do this? I was

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Speaker 1: saying that to myself. I'm ready. Let's do it. Jeff,

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Speaker 1: here we go.

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Speaker 4: Hello.

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Speaker 1: Hey is this Amy?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Hey, this is a radio show called Brook and Jeffrey

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Speaker 1: in the Morning.

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Speaker 2: Hi.

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Speaker 4: Amy? Hi?

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Speaker 6: Wait what do you mean?

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Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, radio still exists. I know it's shocking, but

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Speaker 2: we do a show. It's called Brooke and Jeffrey. I

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Speaker 2: think I already said that. And uh, this is a

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Speaker 2: segment called Second Date Update.

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Speaker 6: I'm sorry, I'm not telling Ruth, but why are you calling?

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Speaker 3: Great question?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's part of that segment, the second Date thing,

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Speaker 2: because we're trying to help out one of our listeners

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Speaker 2: that you went out with recently, a guy named Card.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, what Card with the kye?

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Speaker 6: Card with the K?

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Speaker 3: Did I just hear you go in?

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Speaker 5: All right?

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Speaker 6: That's my honest reaction?

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Speaker 1: Oh no, oh, well it's Okay.

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Speaker 3: Interesting.

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Speaker 1: If you feel that way, that's fine.

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Speaker 2: It's just Card has reached out to our show because

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Speaker 2: he's a little bit confused. Why after your date you're

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Speaker 2: not responding to any of his texts or messages?

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Speaker 6: Okay, oh you're laughing.

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Speaker 3: Does that mean you think he should know?

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Speaker 6: I mean, yeah, sure, okay, let's go.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'll just tell you a few things that we

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Speaker 2: know about your date is that it started pretty late.

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Speaker 2: You were at a restaurant for like two and a

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Speaker 2: half hours till like way past it even closed.

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Speaker 1: He felt like the vibes were pretty good, so we're wait.

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Speaker 3: There was even a cute little kiss he said at the.

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Speaker 1: End, Yeah, a little quick one.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, okay, okay, is.

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Speaker 3: That all accurate?

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Speaker 6: Yes? Those are shacks.

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Speaker 3: Well okay, so where did it go wrong?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Well maybe just tell us how did you feel

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Speaker 1: about the date?

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Speaker 6: Okay? Well, first of all, we get there at nine thirty.

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Speaker 6: I'm hungry. I've been waiting to eat, you know.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, oh you didn't have free dinner.

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Speaker 6: I mean I had, but I was fully expecting to

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Speaker 6: eat when we got there.

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Speaker 1: Totally, okay, totally.

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Speaker 2: That was not made clear to us from what we

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Speaker 4: It sounds like Card is maybe not very good at reading.

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Speaker 6: The room he kept going on looked beyond Beyonce. It

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Speaker 6: Now, there's something weird about it because around like eleven

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Speaker 2: Oh no, that's financially responsible man.

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Speaker 6: No way when I tell you I wanted to die.

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Speaker 1: Want to talk. Very patient if you can't still have.

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Speaker 6: Are you?

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Speaker 6: You know what, I'm sorry if i'd known that you

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Speaker 5: To stay there and enjoy it with you.

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Speaker 6: They brought us the bill before eleven, and you kept

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Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, Amy, I think you've said your your piece,

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Speaker 1: In response to that, I was.

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Speaker 5: A little low on funds. The cell phone company I

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Speaker 1: Look, you feel bad for that.

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Speaker 3: He did have money. He needed a way to take

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Speaker 6: I don't feel bad. That's the dumbest I.

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Speaker 6: Why didn't you just schedule it for a later date?

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Speaker 6: What is wrong? What? I'm sorry?

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Speaker 5: I don't have a credit card.

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Speaker 1: You don't have a credit card?

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Speaker 5: No, I don't trust myself carry one.

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Speaker 3: I think that's good financially, honestly, But.

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Speaker 4: Like a guy.

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Speaker 3: That is such a privileged thing. Yeah, you're doing right.

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Speaker 4: That's a good financial choice, right, Amy, I mean that's responsible, girl.

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Speaker 1: Card. You're not really saying a lot here. Is there

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Speaker 5: I mean, what else can I say? I told you

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Speaker 3: Yeah, don't come at her.

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Speaker 1: Oh you know the Stepsisters are freaky though.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I feel like Amy, you should give him

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Speaker 2: If Brooke is willing to give a break to a

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Speaker 3: That's very out of character for her.

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Speaker 2: What do you think, Amy, One more chance and look,

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Speaker 2: we'll take all the credit cards off the table, will

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Speaker 3: Girl card needs to eat. You need to say yes

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Speaker 7: That not just think, and the bad and the no

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Speaker 6: No, I thank you very much, guys, but no, thank you.

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Speaker 1: I thought she was leading to it.

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Speaker 7: Yes, I thought.

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Speaker 3: She was going to run past the red flash.

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Speaker 4: All right, Well that gives you something to work towards,

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Speaker 5: To a bullet.

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Speaker 1: I'm look Jeffrey in the morning, Brooke, what I mean?

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Speaker 1: Come on? I know you felt sorry for the guy.

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Speaker 3: I felt terrible for him.

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Speaker 1: But be honest with yourself.

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Speaker 2: There is no way you would go on a date

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Speaker 3: Oh yes, absolutely I would.

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Speaker 4: I had a first date with a boyfriend who we

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Speaker 3: Because he had a free burger coupon.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I'm not talking about your free and easy early

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Speaker 1: I mean these are adults.

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Speaker 3: Look at you, look so cute and polaroids.

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Speaker 1: It's just not I know that the perfect lighting in those.

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Speaker 2: But remember, these are adults looking to lock down a

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Speaker 4: Dude, A guy who is willing to not get a

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Speaker 4: and I really is, absolutely I stand by that.

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Speaker 2: I thought Alexis had a good point where this guy

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Speaker 1: Said hey, have you just loan this I can venmo

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Speaker 2: He's like, no, yes, I want to bring us down

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Speaker 1: Us out of it. Sorry, I forgot what romance looks like.

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Speaker 4: They said, the guy has never dealt with overdraft fees.

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Speaker 1: I don't know we can agree to disagree on this one.

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Speaker 1: You've gotten under draft fees.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I have too much money in that account.

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Speaker 1: It is a burden. But you know what, we weren't

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