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Speaker 2: Hot rock and roll man, rolling rock. I got tens,

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Speaker 3: Hey.

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Speaker 2: Welcome to the Black Guy to his podcast, your host

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Speaker 3: A Saturday afternoon.

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Speaker 2: You, sir, after already doing balls deep pregame and a

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so now it's time to give you guys your

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Speaker 3: I'll see y'all. Kit Cat is too cute?

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Speaker 2: that still thinks acting gay is beneath him. The industry

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Speaker 1: The fucking the rest of the rest of them niggas

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Speaker 4: There's a lot of people that.

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Speaker 1: It's not a problem, but our dollars is a drop

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Speaker 3: Well, I feel like everybody, I.

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Speaker 4: Mean everybody heard about this, but they won't care, you know.

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Speaker 4: Right.

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Speaker 2: I think Kevin feels very accomplished, but he is, which

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Speaker 3: But he forgot a couple of things. One, he's black.

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Speaker 2: If all us still ain't making the money she should

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Speaker 1: But she's not a man, right, you know, you kind

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Speaker 2: Well, moneymaker is relative, because that's like I get her

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Speaker 3: I really think that could happen. I just don't.

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Speaker 2: Because I'm to be honest, I'm not even a point

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Speaker 2: an easy win for him, and then he ended up

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Speaker 2: But you know, I don't know, it's it's like that

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and also, uh, so many people came out to

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Speaker 1: It don't matter to them because they don't have any

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Speaker 2: Well, they represent a large group of black men. I

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Speaker 2: don't know what black men are representative of, most of

440
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Speaker 2: what the way Hollywood feels about it, or representative of

441
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Speaker 2: other people that go see Kevin Hart movies.

442
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Speaker 1: Yeah, but I do think, you know, it is a

443
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Speaker 1: percentage of people.

444
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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, yeah, yeah, they represent more than themselves.

445
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Speaker 2: But I don't know really honestly, Like this, it really

446
00:20:51,480 --> 00:20:53,679
Speaker 2: depends on if you pissed off enough white people, and

447
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Speaker 2: I don't think that did, especially when I saw the

448
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Speaker 2: spin of like.

449
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Speaker 3: He just working. I mean, look, even I ain't the

450
00:21:00,400 --> 00:21:02,040
Speaker 3: jokes what about what white people did?

451
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Speaker 2: And you know, now they ain't got no host And

452
00:21:05,080 --> 00:21:06,240
Speaker 2: if you can't do it, who can?

453
00:21:06,320 --> 00:21:08,080
Speaker 3: And it's just like, well damn.

454
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Speaker 2: I mean, I didn't realize y'all were gonna be so,

455
00:21:10,960 --> 00:21:14,359
Speaker 2: you know, on this dude's you know side. But I

456
00:21:14,400 --> 00:21:16,200
Speaker 2: think a lot of people did end up on the side.

457
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Speaker 2: All right, back to the comment she should be talking

458
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Speaker 2: about all to day. She should be making an Oscar winner,

459
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Speaker 2: She should be making the money. She should be Violet

460
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Speaker 2: still ain't making the money she should be making as

461
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Speaker 2: an OSCAR winner when you compare her to other white

462
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Speaker 2: women OSCAR winners. So, if the black people that are

463
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Speaker 2: getting awards aren't held at the same standard as the whites,

464
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Speaker 2: what makes you think you have a send it behind

465
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Speaker 2: blackness enough to where people will treat you like the

466
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Speaker 2: white people and forget your transgressions. Yeah, I'm like I said,

467
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Speaker 2: I don't think anything's wrong with that logic. I think

468
00:21:50,119 --> 00:21:52,920
Speaker 2: this scandal won't be the one, but I agree there's

469
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Speaker 2: a different standard for black people. Yes, And it's not

470
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Speaker 2: really about debating if it's good or not, or if

471
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Speaker 2: you can or not. It's literally just this is the standard.

472
00:22:02,200 --> 00:22:04,480
Speaker 2: Keep fucking around if you want to, because they will

473
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Speaker 2: cancel your ass and you won't even know what happened.

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Speaker 4: You won't the phone calls to stop ringing and all

475
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Speaker 4: that stuff.

476
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Speaker 2: Yeah, Kevin is hot today, but so is kat Williams

477
00:22:16,000 --> 00:22:16,880
Speaker 2: less than a decade ago.

478
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Speaker 3: What makes you think his flame won't be extinguished?

479
00:22:19,240 --> 00:22:22,040
Speaker 2: What makes you think we won't just find the next

480
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Speaker 2: funny black man, The black Man on the Show with

481
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Speaker 2: Jess Hilarious, Lou Rawl or something will.

482
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Speaker 3: Gladly take your place in line.

483
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Speaker 2: He already standing up for black women that hasn't said

484
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Speaker 2: nothing homophobic, that has had to apologize for it yet,

485
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Speaker 2: so already two steps ahead of him. Well yeah, that's

486
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Speaker 2: interesting though, because it's just interesting because like I wonder

487
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Speaker 2: if dudes like that pay a cost for standing up

488
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Speaker 2: for black women, you know what I mean?

489
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Speaker 3: Like, do they pay?

490
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Speaker 2: Do they pay a little bit of a cost for

491
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Speaker 2: being like this outspoken person and shit will do this?

492
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Speaker 2: Hollywood like a wary of those guys, like because there's

493
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Speaker 2: a type you know, can we just say that without

494
00:23:06,320 --> 00:23:09,600
Speaker 2: like trying to offend anybody, Like even the woke black dudes.

495
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Speaker 2: They like the woke black dude that is accepted by

496
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Speaker 2: white people. They prefer, you know, I shouldn't say prefer,

497
00:23:17,040 --> 00:23:19,800
Speaker 2: but it's not coincidence. A lot of the woke black

498
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Speaker 2: dudes gonna have white spouses. A lot of the acceptable

499
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Speaker 2: white black dudes are kind of like, well, you know,

500
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Speaker 2: you know, I'm gonna make funny fun of blackness and

501
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Speaker 2: being black in some ways that might make black people

502
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Speaker 2: kind of uncomfortable. It's you know, so I think, you know,

503
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Speaker 2: or they do that all lives matter type of shit,

504
00:23:40,320 --> 00:23:42,960
Speaker 2: or it's just about being funny, like it's a meritocracy

505
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Speaker 2: and stuff like that. So I do think that I wonder,

506
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Speaker 2: I wonder not think. I wonder if there are dudes

507
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Speaker 2: who advocate for black women that they're like and we can't.

508
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Speaker 3: He can't be the guy, you know.

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Speaker 1: And when talking about Kat Williams, the thing is, Cat

510
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Speaker 1: Williams never quote unquote got counseled. We might not have

511
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Speaker 1: been following him, he might not have had the quote

512
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Speaker 1: unquote true spotlight, but his bag he still got a bag.

513
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Speaker 4: You know.

514
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Speaker 3: He didn't do nothing to get canceled.

515
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Speaker 2: Like it wasn't like he did something and white people

516
00:24:11,640 --> 00:24:15,880
Speaker 2: decided no more Kat Williams. His his comments were too much.

517
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Speaker 2: I mean, well, he did get a lot of rest

518
00:24:18,040 --> 00:24:20,359
Speaker 2: though he got arrested a lot. But I feel like

519
00:24:20,560 --> 00:24:23,440
Speaker 2: that's a self inflicted wound. That's not the same as

520
00:24:23,480 --> 00:24:25,680
Speaker 2: saying something controversial or doing.

521
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Speaker 3: A joke that people didn't like.

522
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Speaker 4: Right, Oh, you keep getting arrested, you know what.

523
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Speaker 3: Yeah, I can see them saying this nigga can't say

524
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Speaker 3: out of jail.

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Speaker 1: Right, which is something that you know, when it comes

526
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Speaker 1: to white people, depend on who you are, they will

527
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Speaker 1: let slide. So that's that's what that sism rolls in there.

528
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Speaker 1: But like I said, just because you don't follow somebody

529
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Speaker 1: or or they not in the in the main stream,

530
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Speaker 1: it doesn't mean that they're they ain't making income and

531
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Speaker 1: that that their career is quote unquote dead because we

532
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Speaker 1: don't see it in my opinion.

533
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Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, so back to it. Look KM not

534
00:24:57,000 --> 00:25:00,960
Speaker 2: saying k ain't funny. I'm u oh okay, look okay,

535
00:25:01,000 --> 00:25:02,520
Speaker 2: I'm not saying ca I ain't funny. I'm not gonna

536
00:25:02,520 --> 00:25:03,560
Speaker 2: act like I didn't laugh at that.

537
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Speaker 3: Stop. That's gay jokes. He delivered them during the special.

538
00:25:06,520 --> 00:25:08,920
Speaker 2: But as I've gotten older and chosen to be more informed,

539
00:25:08,960 --> 00:25:11,320
Speaker 2: I know that these jokes aren't okay. And what and

540
00:25:11,400 --> 00:25:14,719
Speaker 2: what's real, true creative comedic genius would be is to

541
00:25:14,760 --> 00:25:16,920
Speaker 2: find the humor and something else that isn't abusive.

542
00:25:17,280 --> 00:25:18,080
Speaker 3: Go to a gay.

543
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Speaker 2: Club, make jokes about how how you ended up on

544
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Speaker 2: the pole or something, talk about how your lesbian cousin

545
00:25:24,560 --> 00:25:26,520
Speaker 2: loves her woman more than you love your wife. Do

546
00:25:26,640 --> 00:25:29,320
Speaker 2: something else besides being the biggest if not, I hope

547
00:25:29,320 --> 00:25:32,800
Speaker 2: his pride is worth less loss of income in the future. Yeah,

548
00:25:32,840 --> 00:25:35,000
Speaker 2: that's the now see that part is the part that

549
00:25:35,359 --> 00:25:39,040
Speaker 2: I never really understand. Why not just because your job

550
00:25:39,119 --> 00:25:41,920
Speaker 2: is a comedian, some people look at I guess they

551
00:25:41,920 --> 00:25:44,280
Speaker 2: look at comedy differently, but a lot of people look

552
00:25:44,280 --> 00:25:47,800
Speaker 2: at comedy is like forcing themselves on the audience. And

553
00:25:47,840 --> 00:25:50,159
Speaker 2: I don't mean that sexually or anything, but like forcing

554
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Speaker 2: their mentality on the audience to where they must laugh

555
00:25:52,560 --> 00:25:56,080
Speaker 2: at what I find funny. And then to me, that's

556
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Speaker 2: not necessarily like comedy is part of that. But to me,

557
00:26:00,840 --> 00:26:06,320
Speaker 2: the best comedy is like kind of taking reading the room,

558
00:26:06,600 --> 00:26:10,880
Speaker 2: reading the world, reading society, and kind of playing with

559
00:26:11,000 --> 00:26:14,480
Speaker 2: where society is at and finding the truth and what

560
00:26:14,680 --> 00:26:19,000
Speaker 2: the humor in those subjects. Like I don't like when

561
00:26:19,040 --> 00:26:22,000
Speaker 2: we talked about Cardi b and all said we weren't

562
00:26:22,040 --> 00:26:25,120
Speaker 2: on here making jokes about how funny it was he.

563
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Speaker 3: Cheated on her, he was gonna get.

564
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Speaker 2: Her back and all this shit be cause to me,

565
00:26:28,119 --> 00:26:31,119
Speaker 2: I'm like, that's society's kind of fucked up. That's fucked up.

566
00:26:31,200 --> 00:26:33,400
Speaker 2: That's really not funny to me. But I can make

567
00:26:33,600 --> 00:26:38,119
Speaker 2: fun of him talking about bruh, when you're apologizing to

568
00:26:38,320 --> 00:26:41,800
Speaker 2: a woman that you've scorned and all this shit, like

569
00:26:41,840 --> 00:26:43,840
Speaker 2: to me, that's like, where the funny is. It actually

570
00:26:43,840 --> 00:26:45,640
Speaker 2: took me a day or two to find that it

571
00:26:45,680 --> 00:26:48,560
Speaker 2: wasn't something readily apparent to me. But it's like, God,

572
00:26:48,600 --> 00:26:52,720
Speaker 2: what a ridiculous due you know to do that? Not

573
00:26:52,760 --> 00:26:54,400
Speaker 2: as well, said my nigga, you know what I mean.

574
00:26:54,520 --> 00:26:58,159
Speaker 2: So it's just that moment of like, Okay, that's what's funny.

575
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Speaker 2: I don't know why comedians always reject and go back

576
00:27:01,280 --> 00:27:04,119
Speaker 2: to like, no, I'm gonna make you one, not all

577
00:27:04,160 --> 00:27:06,280
Speaker 2: to me as well a lot. I'm gonna make you

578
00:27:06,400 --> 00:27:10,280
Speaker 2: laugh at the thing. I said, Fuck what y'all talking about?

579
00:27:10,560 --> 00:27:12,359
Speaker 2: And if your boo me, if you don't want me

580
00:27:12,400 --> 00:27:15,160
Speaker 2: performing in your veny or your college or whatever, that's

581
00:27:15,240 --> 00:27:15,840
Speaker 2: your fault.

582
00:27:15,960 --> 00:27:18,120
Speaker 3: I'm it's not my fault, right.

583
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Speaker 1: And the thing is just looking at Kevin Hart in

584
00:27:21,280 --> 00:27:25,600
Speaker 1: his career, he really wants to please everybody, so you go,

585
00:27:26,160 --> 00:27:28,080
Speaker 1: the last thing he really wanted to do was fuck

586
00:27:28,119 --> 00:27:31,040
Speaker 1: up his bag, and in his mind him rejecting and

587
00:27:31,119 --> 00:27:34,399
Speaker 1: quote unquote not wanting to apologize in his mind, not

588
00:27:34,480 --> 00:27:36,560
Speaker 1: that it made sense in his mind. He was like,

589
00:27:36,600 --> 00:27:40,000
Speaker 1: I've already apologized. I feel like I'm tired of apologizing

590
00:27:40,000 --> 00:27:41,679
Speaker 1: for the same maybe.

591
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Speaker 3: This is what he's addressed. He's addressed, he's not apologized.

592
00:27:44,200 --> 00:27:47,320
Speaker 2: I like, the only reason I'm correcting that language is

593
00:27:47,359 --> 00:27:50,240
Speaker 2: because he said addressed, and he said a lot of

594
00:27:50,840 --> 00:27:52,920
Speaker 2: but not just that he did address it.

595
00:27:53,200 --> 00:27:54,400
Speaker 3: He never apologized.

596
00:27:54,760 --> 00:27:57,439
Speaker 2: And I've listened to podcasts at the podcast at the

597
00:27:57,480 --> 00:28:01,359
Speaker 2: podcast of people saying he apologized, and mostly to be

598
00:28:01,440 --> 00:28:03,440
Speaker 2: on his side and make him the victim. He did

599
00:28:03,520 --> 00:28:06,760
Speaker 2: not apologize. I've read those excerpts where he addressed it.

600
00:28:06,760 --> 00:28:09,520
Speaker 2: He didn't apologize. He basically said, I'm gonna stop telling

601
00:28:09,560 --> 00:28:11,439
Speaker 2: those jokes because I don't want to get in trouble.

602
00:28:11,480 --> 00:28:14,800
Speaker 2: He did not say I'm sorry or these jokes were wrong.

603
00:28:15,040 --> 00:28:18,080
Speaker 2: It was y'all too sensitive now. So I think that's

604
00:28:18,080 --> 00:28:20,600
Speaker 2: a very important distinction, And I just want to make

605
00:28:20,600 --> 00:28:23,760
Speaker 2: sure our podcast isn't one contributed to that narrative.

606
00:28:24,040 --> 00:28:28,399
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, that's my bad. But he said he's addressed

607
00:28:28,400 --> 00:28:29,840
Speaker 1: it and he didn't want to address it again. But

608
00:28:29,880 --> 00:28:32,760
Speaker 1: it's differ between addressing something and apologizing. And at the

609
00:28:32,880 --> 00:28:34,440
Speaker 1: end he still ended up doing some.

610
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Speaker 3: For right after all that shitho, you might as well.

611
00:28:37,600 --> 00:28:40,440
Speaker 1: Have apologized when they first came to you, versus telling

612
00:28:40,480 --> 00:28:40,920
Speaker 1: them no.

613
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Speaker 3: Right, I agree.

614
00:28:43,000 --> 00:28:45,480
Speaker 2: Corey says, yes, he will be offered a fewer gigs,

615
00:28:45,520 --> 00:28:46,920
Speaker 2: but he will still get a lot of offers. He

616
00:28:46,920 --> 00:28:49,600
Speaker 2: could probably use a vacation anyway. Who knows, maybe he'll

617
00:28:49,600 --> 00:28:53,240
Speaker 2: now have time to read some books on intersectionality. They

618
00:28:53,320 --> 00:28:57,040
Speaker 2: might end up work, you know, doing a better job,

619
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Speaker 2: you know, at the stuff that he decides to do.

620
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Speaker 3: No, who knows.

621
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Speaker 2: Steven says, Unfortunately, he will not lose word, not because

622
00:29:03,880 --> 00:29:06,360
Speaker 2: he apologize or second time, but because most of the

623
00:29:06,360 --> 00:29:08,560
Speaker 2: industry's responsor has been it was just a joke or

624
00:29:08,560 --> 00:29:11,200
Speaker 2: he said sorry once. What do you want even if,

625
00:29:11,720 --> 00:29:15,800
Speaker 2: even if more even if people won't publicly defend the joke,

626
00:29:16,040 --> 00:29:18,720
Speaker 2: they might have privately laughed to the joke in the past. Now, see,

627
00:29:18,760 --> 00:29:21,680
Speaker 2: that is some real shit, and I think that always

628
00:29:21,680 --> 00:29:24,840
Speaker 2: gets lost into stuff. A lot of the people who

629
00:29:24,920 --> 00:29:28,400
Speaker 2: are going after him, like super woke people being super

630
00:29:28,440 --> 00:29:31,560
Speaker 2: aggressive and all that shit. A lot of those motherfuckers

631
00:29:31,600 --> 00:29:33,440
Speaker 2: did used to laugh at that shit. And that's the

632
00:29:33,600 --> 00:29:35,680
Speaker 2: universal truth that a lot of people don't want to

633
00:29:35,720 --> 00:29:38,440
Speaker 2: talk about because it's very inconvenient to be like, we

634
00:29:38,600 --> 00:29:43,440
Speaker 2: participated to his rise by laughing at that shit, you know,

635
00:29:43,520 --> 00:29:46,040
Speaker 2: I'm not a big fan of his, but whatever, but

636
00:29:46,080 --> 00:29:47,240
Speaker 2: you can find something.

637
00:29:47,360 --> 00:29:49,880
Speaker 3: I guarantee you can find something.

638
00:29:50,200 --> 00:29:52,840
Speaker 2: That I laugh at that you laugh at that everyone

639
00:29:52,880 --> 00:29:55,640
Speaker 2: listening to show laughs at.

640
00:29:54,560 --> 00:29:57,520
Speaker 3: That that is not in job, that does not jive.

641
00:29:57,360 --> 00:30:01,720
Speaker 2: With their political opinions or their personal feelings or whatever

642
00:30:01,760 --> 00:30:04,960
Speaker 2: the fuck. And I feel like the fact that people

643
00:30:04,960 --> 00:30:09,400
Speaker 2: won't admit that is more harmful than even laughing at

644
00:30:09,400 --> 00:30:10,400
Speaker 2: the shit in the first place.

645
00:30:10,440 --> 00:30:13,040
Speaker 3: It's like you're a liar. You're lying to the world.

646
00:30:13,640 --> 00:30:16,760
Speaker 2: I've laughed at Dave Chappelle make jokes about r Kelly

647
00:30:16,760 --> 00:30:20,800
Speaker 2: pan on Girls. I laughed about when you had Friday

648
00:30:20,880 --> 00:30:22,840
Speaker 2: Night Sissy Fighters and they had to dude dancing the

649
00:30:22,880 --> 00:30:25,120
Speaker 2: ass and titties while cutting the grass and leather chaps.

650
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Speaker 2: The show was the most popular show on the earth

651
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Speaker 2: at the time. A lot of people were laughing at

652
00:30:29,960 --> 00:30:32,520
Speaker 2: that shit. Now we go back and if maybe if

653
00:30:32,560 --> 00:30:34,960
Speaker 2: he did the delt today, there might be people that

654
00:30:35,000 --> 00:30:37,600
Speaker 2: don't find it funny. You know, people share videos of

655
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Speaker 2: dudes dressed up in bikinis and dancing and saying all

656
00:30:41,920 --> 00:30:44,120
Speaker 2: kinds of crazy shit, and we laugh at it. But

657
00:30:44,200 --> 00:30:46,960
Speaker 2: someone could be like, well, that's just being transphobic or

658
00:30:47,000 --> 00:30:51,120
Speaker 2: that's being so I think there's this thing where everyone's

659
00:30:51,160 --> 00:30:53,440
Speaker 2: crossed this line into life. We don't even we don't

660
00:30:53,440 --> 00:30:55,760
Speaker 2: even know how anyone ever thought this was okay. It's like,

661
00:30:55,920 --> 00:30:59,440
Speaker 2: that's not realistic. Let's be fair and be like Eddie

662
00:30:59,480 --> 00:31:03,160
Speaker 2: Murphy had the world laughing at his homophobia. He had

663
00:31:03,160 --> 00:31:06,120
Speaker 2: the world laughing because the world's homophobia. We're all complicit

664
00:31:06,160 --> 00:31:08,840
Speaker 2: in that shit. We know better, we hear from more

665
00:31:08,960 --> 00:31:12,240
Speaker 2: voices now for a lot of us, it doesn't mean

666
00:31:12,320 --> 00:31:15,480
Speaker 2: that we can go back and retroactively take back the

667
00:31:15,880 --> 00:31:18,040
Speaker 2: fact that that dude was popular, or the fact that

668
00:31:18,080 --> 00:31:20,600
Speaker 2: people loved him, or the fact that he apologized and

669
00:31:20,640 --> 00:31:22,520
Speaker 2: people still let him quoe unquote stay around.

670
00:31:23,080 --> 00:31:25,120
Speaker 3: We can't take all that back. You know.

671
00:31:25,200 --> 00:31:27,160
Speaker 2: I wish people would just be more realistic about it,

672
00:31:27,200 --> 00:31:30,400
Speaker 2: because if everybody kind of admits that shit, I feel

673
00:31:30,400 --> 00:31:32,200
Speaker 2: like we don't have to be so fake and uptight

674
00:31:32,240 --> 00:31:32,680
Speaker 2: about it.

675
00:31:33,040 --> 00:31:36,080
Speaker 3: You know, I've been seeing well I'll get to this

676
00:31:36,120 --> 00:31:37,080
Speaker 3: in another show.

677
00:31:36,840 --> 00:31:39,920
Speaker 2: But yeah, it's just weird that people go so hard

678
00:31:40,480 --> 00:31:43,400
Speaker 2: to the point of I think, and I'm saying this

679
00:31:43,400 --> 00:31:46,120
Speaker 2: because I don't want people to exhaust the fucking momentum

680
00:31:46,240 --> 00:31:49,680
Speaker 2: of positive change with like, hey, we need to be

681
00:31:49,720 --> 00:31:52,040
Speaker 2: more sensitive to this, this and this. I think those

682
00:31:52,080 --> 00:31:54,719
Speaker 2: are good things. I think when we start lying in

683
00:31:54,800 --> 00:31:59,120
Speaker 2: order to create this false narrative that nobody was ever

684
00:31:59,160 --> 00:32:01,480
Speaker 2: fucking with this shit, I feel like, well, now you're

685
00:32:01,480 --> 00:32:03,680
Speaker 2: making the people on the other side, you're helping them

686
00:32:04,000 --> 00:32:06,880
Speaker 2: because they can be like, no, this was popular. Y'all

687
00:32:06,880 --> 00:32:10,440
Speaker 2: did like this, like y'all like y'all changed, not the comedian,

688
00:32:10,560 --> 00:32:14,520
Speaker 2: not this, not that, and y'all did think it was funny.

689
00:32:14,520 --> 00:32:16,640
Speaker 2: And that's why this person thinks that shit is okay

690
00:32:16,640 --> 00:32:18,840
Speaker 2: to say. And we have to be like, yeah, as

691
00:32:18,840 --> 00:32:21,400
Speaker 2: a society, we got to be accountable for that we

692
00:32:21,440 --> 00:32:23,680
Speaker 2: created this environment, and then we want to just like

693
00:32:24,200 --> 00:32:26,120
Speaker 2: shun the people that use it the profit, as if

694
00:32:26,160 --> 00:32:28,120
Speaker 2: they were just like the good the bad guys, and

695
00:32:28,160 --> 00:32:30,520
Speaker 2: we were all like, I can't believe this is so bad.

696
00:32:30,600 --> 00:32:34,360
Speaker 2: But nah he he rose to promise as a as

697
00:32:34,400 --> 00:32:37,480
Speaker 2: a popular comedian, and because more than black people, but

698
00:32:37,600 --> 00:32:39,880
Speaker 2: a lot of people thought this shit was okay.

699
00:32:41,040 --> 00:32:43,280
Speaker 3: And if they didn't think it was okay, they chuckled

700
00:32:43,320 --> 00:32:43,840
Speaker 3: and moved on.

701
00:32:44,000 --> 00:32:47,680
Speaker 2: But yeah, now you know that, now you know the

702
00:32:47,720 --> 00:32:50,440
Speaker 2: other side of that, because we have LGBTQ people talking

703
00:32:50,440 --> 00:32:53,720
Speaker 2: about their lives and being like, yo, someone fucking I

704
00:32:53,800 --> 00:32:54,920
Speaker 2: wanted to kill myself.

705
00:32:56,160 --> 00:32:57,320
Speaker 3: My parents disowned me.

706
00:32:58,080 --> 00:33:01,320
Speaker 2: I was fucking abused because of this, and now we're like, oh,

707
00:33:01,360 --> 00:33:04,360
Speaker 2: so that's why you can't really be on the side of.

708
00:33:04,440 --> 00:33:07,720
Speaker 3: It's funny to be gay. That's it anyway.

709
00:33:07,760 --> 00:33:09,320
Speaker 2: But I know that's a lot longer to say than

710
00:33:09,440 --> 00:33:11,520
Speaker 2: just he's a bad person and we should never laugh.

711
00:33:12,000 --> 00:33:14,240
Speaker 2: In the past, whenever I heard heard another comedians tell

712
00:33:14,280 --> 00:33:16,760
Speaker 2: such a key, low key, high key homophobic jokes, it

713
00:33:16,760 --> 00:33:18,720
Speaker 2: would make me feel uncomfortable, but I would just shrug

714
00:33:18,760 --> 00:33:20,200
Speaker 2: it off and keep and with the rest of the

715
00:33:20,240 --> 00:33:23,160
Speaker 2: comedian's jokes. That now we're in the time of accountability,

716
00:33:23,200 --> 00:33:24,880
Speaker 2: people are find a voice to speak out about these

717
00:33:24,920 --> 00:33:29,160
Speaker 2: micro slash macroaggressions. Yeah, I mean that's the thing, like

718
00:33:29,240 --> 00:33:30,880
Speaker 2: Karen said, when you woke, you can't go back to

719
00:33:30,880 --> 00:33:33,760
Speaker 2: sleep or whatever. It's kind of like that. It's hard

720
00:33:33,760 --> 00:33:36,680
Speaker 2: to turn my brain off of certain shit. And there's I.

721
00:33:36,680 --> 00:33:39,360
Speaker 3: Look, I fucking love Dave Chappelle. I love that. I

722
00:33:39,440 --> 00:33:40,719
Speaker 3: think he's so fucking funny.

723
00:33:40,760 --> 00:33:43,200
Speaker 2: I think at his highest of heights he can make

724
00:33:43,280 --> 00:33:45,880
Speaker 2: jokes that nobody else can make and make it make

725
00:33:45,960 --> 00:33:47,800
Speaker 2: sense and make me and make me laugh.

726
00:33:49,680 --> 00:33:51,680
Speaker 3: But his last like two or three.

727
00:33:51,560 --> 00:33:55,560
Speaker 2: Specials, like he got big chunks of the special where

728
00:33:55,600 --> 00:33:58,360
Speaker 2: I'm like, this shit isn't even really that funny, you know,

729
00:33:58,480 --> 00:34:01,240
Speaker 2: to a certain extent, it's beneath you, you on the

730
00:34:01,360 --> 00:34:03,680
Speaker 2: level of like how funny you can be. Those are

731
00:34:03,720 --> 00:34:05,640
Speaker 2: like jokes you could have cut from your long ass

732
00:34:05,680 --> 00:34:09,480
Speaker 2: sets because just because they were retreads or not funny,

733
00:34:09,520 --> 00:34:13,360
Speaker 2: Like someone's already done the man a woman would a penis.

734
00:34:13,440 --> 00:34:15,560
Speaker 3: Somebody's already done that joke a million times.

735
00:34:15,600 --> 00:34:19,040
Speaker 2: Some fucking like stand up who's just doing like a

736
00:34:19,160 --> 00:34:22,799
Speaker 2: fucking open mic has done that set. It's and it was,

737
00:34:22,920 --> 00:34:26,080
Speaker 2: you know, and it's like it's beneath you to a

738
00:34:26,120 --> 00:34:29,920
Speaker 2: certain extent, Like the story where he talks about winning

739
00:34:29,960 --> 00:34:33,040
Speaker 2: a bunch of money in a like either a comedy

740
00:34:33,120 --> 00:34:36,080
Speaker 2: or a rap contest or something and walking out, like

741
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Speaker 2: riding the bus back to his house with twenty thousand

742
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Speaker 2: dollars or whatever it was in his backpack and feeling

743
00:34:42,640 --> 00:34:45,080
Speaker 2: like everyone was staring at him and everybody was gonna

744
00:34:45,080 --> 00:34:47,759
Speaker 2: get robbed, and it's like everyone could know and he

745
00:34:47,920 --> 00:34:50,839
Speaker 2: was like looking at people, and then he was like,

746
00:34:51,360 --> 00:34:54,040
Speaker 2: the punchline was something I know, I'm fucking this joke up,

747
00:34:54,040 --> 00:34:57,480
Speaker 2: but the punchline was something like, imagine if I had

748
00:34:57,520 --> 00:35:01,120
Speaker 2: pussy on me all the time. It's just like it

749
00:35:01,560 --> 00:35:04,719
Speaker 2: like basically saying all that to be like, it must

750
00:35:04,800 --> 00:35:06,640
Speaker 2: be scary as fuck to be a woman in the

751
00:35:06,680 --> 00:35:08,760
Speaker 2: world of people that look at you the same way

752
00:35:09,120 --> 00:35:10,400
Speaker 2: they would look at you if they knew there was

753
00:35:10,440 --> 00:35:13,120
Speaker 2: twenty thousand dollars in your backpack all the fucking time.

754
00:35:13,520 --> 00:35:16,440
Speaker 2: And I'm like, damn, that's a brilliant fucking analogy. A

755
00:35:16,440 --> 00:35:19,360
Speaker 2: funny ass joke got everybody in the room to do it.

756
00:35:19,400 --> 00:35:23,799
Speaker 2: But it's almost like the masculinity in us, the rebellious

757
00:35:23,800 --> 00:35:26,560
Speaker 2: side of funny people is, especially men. It's just like,

758
00:35:26,960 --> 00:35:29,200
Speaker 2: y'all ain't gonna bitch me and make me say that

759
00:35:29,280 --> 00:35:31,799
Speaker 2: thing that agrees with everybody, so I'm gonna say it

760
00:35:32,200 --> 00:35:36,799
Speaker 2: in a way that's actually fucked up. So anyway, I

761
00:35:36,800 --> 00:35:38,920
Speaker 2: don't think Kevin Hard is homophobic, but he is a

762
00:35:38,920 --> 00:35:40,879
Speaker 2: sists had black man who might have some more work

763
00:35:40,920 --> 00:35:44,640
Speaker 2: to unlearned. Is in grain homophobia like racism sexism, homophobia

764
00:35:44,719 --> 00:35:47,520
Speaker 2: is ingrained in our cultural fabric, and people are still

765
00:35:47,760 --> 00:35:50,439
Speaker 2: learning all the fastest of homophobia that was recently seen

766
00:35:50,480 --> 00:35:54,080
Speaker 2: as acceptable. Yeah, it's not up to me to say

767
00:35:54,120 --> 00:35:55,840
Speaker 2: whether he is or not in that way, but I

768
00:35:55,840 --> 00:35:57,960
Speaker 2: think those jokes definitely were, And if somebody were to

769
00:35:58,000 --> 00:36:00,439
Speaker 2: say he was, I'd be like, yeah, I'm not gonna

770
00:36:00,480 --> 00:36:00,880
Speaker 2: argue with you.

771
00:36:01,960 --> 00:36:03,399
Speaker 3: It's like the offset abuse thing.

772
00:36:03,480 --> 00:36:05,359
Speaker 2: I don't know that it is up to me to

773
00:36:05,360 --> 00:36:08,960
Speaker 2: define what abuse is in that situation. I know if

774
00:36:09,000 --> 00:36:11,000
Speaker 2: somebody said his abuse, I wouldn't argue with him. I'd

775
00:36:11,000 --> 00:36:13,719
Speaker 2: be like, that's you know, like I wouldn't do that shit.

776
00:36:13,800 --> 00:36:15,719
Speaker 2: I don't think it was cool to do. And if

777
00:36:15,760 --> 00:36:20,440
Speaker 2: you want to label it as that's an abusive situation, okay,

778
00:36:20,680 --> 00:36:23,360
Speaker 2: Like I'm not fighting you at all. I don't speak

779
00:36:23,440 --> 00:36:26,319
Speaker 2: for all black lgbtq IA people, but I speak for

780
00:36:26,360 --> 00:36:29,040
Speaker 2: this one here. It's great that he apologized twice now,

781
00:36:29,080 --> 00:36:30,960
Speaker 2: but it would be even greater if he acknowledged the

782
00:36:31,000 --> 00:36:33,520
Speaker 2: impact it had on the community and rebuke those who

783
00:36:33,560 --> 00:36:35,520
Speaker 2: are standing with Kevi in the name of it was

784
00:36:35,600 --> 00:36:37,960
Speaker 2: just a joke, and he already said sorry, I'm not

785
00:36:38,040 --> 00:36:40,800
Speaker 2: the cancer culture and I have empathy for his growth

786
00:36:40,840 --> 00:36:43,640
Speaker 2: in that backlash he might have faced, but right now

787
00:36:43,680 --> 00:36:45,440
Speaker 2: I'm not feeling him. In the answer to Poe, he

788
00:36:45,480 --> 00:36:50,960
Speaker 2: won't lose work because people, oh, people don't think the offense.

789
00:36:50,760 --> 00:36:51,360
Speaker 3: Is that serious.

790
00:36:51,719 --> 00:36:53,480
Speaker 2: There is so much more to say about all this,

791
00:36:53,560 --> 00:36:56,640
Speaker 2: but I will stop with this. He apologized to America

792
00:36:56,640 --> 00:36:59,040
Speaker 2: about his infidelity and apology he owes to no one

793
00:36:59,080 --> 00:37:01,800
Speaker 2: but his wife was reluctant to expand on his apology

794
00:37:01,800 --> 00:37:02,480
Speaker 2: to gay folks.

795
00:37:04,680 --> 00:37:04,919
Speaker 3: Sigh.

796
00:37:05,080 --> 00:37:07,279
Speaker 2: You both have beautifully talked about this subject on the

797
00:37:07,280 --> 00:37:09,319
Speaker 2: podcast and on What's the Team with Nick and Rich

798
00:37:09,640 --> 00:37:10,719
Speaker 2: seeing all sides of the issue.

799
00:37:10,800 --> 00:37:13,160
Speaker 3: Killed the good work. Much love, Steven, Thanks Steven, thank

800
00:37:13,200 --> 00:37:14,360
Speaker 3: you very nicely.

801
00:37:14,360 --> 00:37:18,680
Speaker 2: You Yeah, and yeah. That's the thing, man, I like.

802
00:37:19,400 --> 00:37:22,520
Speaker 2: Homophobia is much like the word abuse. Encompass is so

803
00:37:22,800 --> 00:37:25,759
Speaker 2: much shit that I understand when people use it for.

804
00:37:26,080 --> 00:37:29,040
Speaker 2: And this is all relative, but go with me here

805
00:37:29,640 --> 00:37:33,440
Speaker 2: quote unquote little stuff as well as big stuff, like

806
00:37:33,600 --> 00:37:37,239
Speaker 2: so on the scale, let's say, Kevin Harts, I'm gonna

807
00:37:37,280 --> 00:37:41,800
Speaker 2: hit my son because he's gay quote unquote joke because

808
00:37:41,840 --> 00:37:45,480
Speaker 2: he was saying it to be funny. To me, that

809
00:37:45,800 --> 00:37:48,280
Speaker 2: is less of an offense than the person that says

810
00:37:48,400 --> 00:37:51,239
Speaker 2: I'm seriously going to kill my kid if they're gay,

811
00:37:51,280 --> 00:37:53,520
Speaker 2: because obviously one of y'all is not. It's not even

812
00:37:53,560 --> 00:37:57,160
Speaker 2: a joke. But both of them are still to me homophobic,

813
00:37:57,800 --> 00:38:01,320
Speaker 2: you know what I mean. Kevin thing about he won't

814
00:38:01,480 --> 00:38:05,799
Speaker 2: play the role of any role that will require him

815
00:38:05,840 --> 00:38:07,680
Speaker 2: to be gay or have a gay be a gay

816
00:38:07,800 --> 00:38:11,799
Speaker 2: character or whatever because of his own hang ups about that,

817
00:38:12,680 --> 00:38:15,320
Speaker 2: Like there's a way he could have said that and

818
00:38:15,320 --> 00:38:16,760
Speaker 2: and not and maybe even.

819
00:38:16,560 --> 00:38:16,960
Speaker 3: Be a lie.

820
00:38:17,040 --> 00:38:18,759
Speaker 2: But he could have said that same thing by saying,

821
00:38:18,760 --> 00:38:20,600
Speaker 2: I don't want to take the roles from gay people.

822
00:38:20,880 --> 00:38:23,000
Speaker 2: And if you want to play get one a gay character,

823
00:38:23,000 --> 00:38:25,040
Speaker 2: why not just hire a gay actor and people would

824
00:38:25,040 --> 00:38:28,319
Speaker 2: be applauding him, like, yo, thank you, that's what I'm

825
00:38:28,320 --> 00:38:30,520
Speaker 2: talking about. Hid gay people to play gay? What's wrong

826
00:38:30,560 --> 00:38:33,480
Speaker 2: with that? But instead it turned into like, Kama be gay.

827
00:38:33,560 --> 00:38:35,560
Speaker 2: Ain't nobody gonna believe that, you know, that type of thing,

828
00:38:35,600 --> 00:38:39,759
Speaker 2: and it went the other way. So but uh, yeah,

829
00:38:40,080 --> 00:38:42,160
Speaker 2: Like I appreciate you saying that because we talk about

830
00:38:42,160 --> 00:38:44,880
Speaker 2: a lot of stuff that in the gray area on

831
00:38:44,920 --> 00:38:47,480
Speaker 2: the show, and it's not as black and white as

832
00:38:47,880 --> 00:38:50,319
Speaker 2: maybe people would like it to be. But I feel

833
00:38:50,360 --> 00:38:53,960
Speaker 2: like it's honest in a way that is not that

834
00:38:54,080 --> 00:38:57,480
Speaker 2: everybody's not being honest like that, you know, or if

835
00:38:57,520 --> 00:38:59,040
Speaker 2: they're honest in you know, they just.

836
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Speaker 3: Feel the way they feel, me feel how we feel.

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Speaker 2: Episode eighteen ten, Celebrity Fuckery. We had two comments. This

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Speaker 3: Rod and Karen.

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Speaker 2: I normally not along in agreement and talk to myself

842
00:39:14,440 --> 00:39:18,560
Speaker 2: while listen to your podcast episodes, but today's LGBTQ segment

843
00:39:18,640 --> 00:39:20,839
Speaker 2: really hit home for me. I'm far from a religious person,

844
00:39:20,880 --> 00:39:22,760
Speaker 2: but I do carry a bit of faith that things

845
00:39:22,760 --> 00:39:25,040
Speaker 2: happened for a reason. I was introduced to your podcast

846
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Speaker 2: maybe three years ago by Dominick rivera shout out to

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Speaker 2: don out Puerto Rico.

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Speaker 2: He sold He sold me immediately by describing your podcast

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Speaker 2: as a husband and wife who was able to turn

851
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Speaker 2: their conversation with each other into a whole business. I've

852
00:39:40,560 --> 00:39:42,640
Speaker 2: been hooked ever since. I'm a super big fan and

853
00:39:42,719 --> 00:39:45,359
Speaker 2: have you guys in my ears honestly every single day

854
00:39:45,360 --> 00:39:46,920
Speaker 2: trying to catch up on old episodes.

855
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Speaker 3: But I can say that journey for another time.

856
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Speaker 2: The discussion over the teacher getting fired for intentionally using

857
00:39:52,960 --> 00:39:55,080
Speaker 2: the incorrect pronouns address his student gave me a bit

858
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Speaker 2: of hope in this crazy world.

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Speaker 3: My fourteen year old son.

860
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Speaker 2: Now going by Christopher, came out to us trans about

861
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Speaker 2: six months ago, and it's been quite the ride. I've

862
00:40:03,440 --> 00:40:06,120
Speaker 2: been so down while trying to stay positive and supported

863
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Speaker 2: for him, thinking about all the challenges he will face

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Speaker 2: with employment discrimination, trying to date, and overall just navigating

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Speaker 2: this world surround about so much ignorance. He's so smart,

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Speaker 2: and I know, as his mom it may sound biased,

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Speaker 2: but I know he's fully capable of doing anything he

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Speaker 2: wants in the future. I'm so fearful of the pushback

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Speaker 2: and the doors that were closing his face simply because

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Speaker 2: he is living in his truth. We are currently in

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Speaker 2: the process of meeting with the school counselor to find

872
00:40:28,480 --> 00:40:30,759
Speaker 2: out what the steps are to officially change his name

873
00:40:30,840 --> 00:40:33,560
Speaker 2: in the school, how they address the bathrooms, and exactly

874
00:40:33,560 --> 00:40:37,239
Speaker 2: what rights we have. YO, this is one that's so

875
00:40:37,640 --> 00:40:40,440
Speaker 2: dope that y'all are so proactive to go try to

876
00:40:40,440 --> 00:40:41,600
Speaker 2: tackle that before him.

877
00:40:42,000 --> 00:40:43,960
Speaker 1: Be no shocks, so we can do whatever, So we

878
00:40:44,000 --> 00:40:46,759
Speaker 1: can go ahead and make pre and make decisions up

879
00:40:46,760 --> 00:40:48,080
Speaker 1: front right that's so.

880
00:40:48,760 --> 00:40:51,640
Speaker 2: Being proactive in that situation because it has to be

881
00:40:51,680 --> 00:40:53,120
Speaker 2: new to you, it has to be foreign to you

882
00:40:53,600 --> 00:40:56,480
Speaker 2: to then have to go and be proactive on this.

883
00:40:56,600 --> 00:40:58,520
Speaker 3: That's really smart.

884
00:40:59,760 --> 00:41:01,840
Speaker 1: And because she's like, I don't want no surprise to

885
00:41:01,880 --> 00:41:03,839
Speaker 1: quote unquote surprises, right.

886
00:41:04,600 --> 00:41:06,840
Speaker 2: And the other thing is these are considerations that I

887
00:41:06,880 --> 00:41:09,880
Speaker 2: think a lot of people don't even think about. Like

888
00:41:09,920 --> 00:41:12,440
Speaker 2: it's never crossed my mind really that, oh, yeah, if

889
00:41:12,440 --> 00:41:15,239
Speaker 2: this is your child, I need to go figure out

890
00:41:15,280 --> 00:41:17,919
Speaker 2: how are we changing his name? How are we making

891
00:41:17,920 --> 00:41:20,399
Speaker 2: sure he's addressed correctly? How are we making sure he's

892
00:41:20,440 --> 00:41:22,520
Speaker 2: okay with the bathroom situation? What is the thing with

893
00:41:22,560 --> 00:41:24,839
Speaker 2: the locker room? Like, how are y'all gonna treat this?

894
00:41:25,560 --> 00:41:28,560
Speaker 2: What is my child most comfortable with? Like I don't

895
00:41:28,560 --> 00:41:31,200
Speaker 2: want like yeah, because I'm trying not to have any problems,

896
00:41:31,239 --> 00:41:32,840
Speaker 2: and I need to know now if y'all gonna be

897
00:41:32,880 --> 00:41:34,719
Speaker 2: a problem, because I don't want to have to be

898
00:41:34,800 --> 00:41:36,600
Speaker 2: up here ready to fucking fight every week.

899
00:41:36,560 --> 00:41:38,879
Speaker 4: Right, And I can put my child some you know.

900
00:41:39,040 --> 00:41:41,160
Speaker 3: Because I will be up here, not just.

901
00:41:41,200 --> 00:41:45,640
Speaker 2: Kidding right up here if needed, right, I will come

902
00:41:45,680 --> 00:41:48,239
Speaker 2: my ass We live in northern Virginia, so My ears

903
00:41:48,280 --> 00:41:50,440
Speaker 2: definitely perked up when I heard about the firing this teacher.

904
00:41:50,480 --> 00:41:52,920
Speaker 2: Although this happened in southern Virginia, I've been assured by

905
00:41:53,000 --> 00:41:54,960
Speaker 2: other parents that our high school is really progressive and

906
00:41:55,000 --> 00:41:57,520
Speaker 2: accepting of other trans students that are attending. But that

907
00:41:57,560 --> 00:42:00,440
Speaker 2: can only ease my fear so much. Wanted to say

908
00:42:00,440 --> 00:42:02,239
Speaker 2: that I appreciate you guys bringing these issues to light

909
00:42:02,320 --> 00:42:04,840
Speaker 2: so often. Sometimes I really feel alone in this, and

910
00:42:04,880 --> 00:42:06,240
Speaker 2: I just wanted to protect my child.

911
00:42:06,440 --> 00:42:08,480
Speaker 3: Hearing you guys passionate on the subject wares my heart.

912
00:42:08,520 --> 00:42:10,040
Speaker 2: And I really think it was kids Met that I

913
00:42:10,040 --> 00:42:13,600
Speaker 2: started listening to, and I have to say I found

914
00:42:13,600 --> 00:42:17,319
Speaker 2: strength at times in your voices. Oh anyway, this was

915
00:42:17,360 --> 00:42:20,000
Speaker 2: extra long. Sorry, don't need to apologize. Just know you

916
00:42:20,000 --> 00:42:22,480
Speaker 2: guys continue inspiring. Although you may not have asked the

917
00:42:22,520 --> 00:42:24,560
Speaker 2: b ro models, my son definitely looks up to both

918
00:42:24,560 --> 00:42:24,759
Speaker 2: of you.

919
00:42:24,920 --> 00:42:25,920
Speaker 3: Oh.

920
00:42:26,280 --> 00:42:30,120
Speaker 2: Our favorite thing, thank you, and our favorite thing is

921
00:42:30,160 --> 00:42:32,239
Speaker 2: a sing a long and dance to Sylvesters. Do you

922
00:42:32,280 --> 00:42:34,760
Speaker 2: want to funk? Take care of Love you guys, Tianna

923
00:42:34,760 --> 00:42:35,840
Speaker 2: b ak Oh.

924
00:42:35,719 --> 00:42:39,320
Speaker 3: Curvey TV Oh Instagram Faith.

925
00:42:40,160 --> 00:42:43,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's dope, and I'm sorry that after selvester, we

926
00:42:44,000 --> 00:42:45,280
Speaker 2: have to do all that Harvard News.

927
00:42:45,440 --> 00:42:46,919
Speaker 3: I'm so sorry your.

928
00:42:46,880 --> 00:42:49,960
Speaker 2: Dance up front so you can get trying to spread awareness,

929
00:42:49,960 --> 00:42:52,239
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying. We're trying to, uh you know,

930
00:42:52,360 --> 00:42:54,160
Speaker 2: trying to shed some light on some things.

931
00:42:54,400 --> 00:42:57,480
Speaker 3: But uh yeah, I'm sorry that right after that, it

932
00:42:57,600 --> 00:43:01,239
Speaker 3: becomes the fucking uh crossroads.

933
00:43:02,040 --> 00:43:05,319
Speaker 2: Kyle says, as someone who was a Kanye fan since

934
00:43:05,360 --> 00:43:06,080
Speaker 2: middle school.

935
00:43:05,880 --> 00:43:07,640
Speaker 3: Here and ye talk about how people need to respect

936
00:43:07,640 --> 00:43:08,680
Speaker 3: his mental health is rich?

937
00:43:09,000 --> 00:43:11,759
Speaker 2: What about all the people you talked about over the years,

938
00:43:11,760 --> 00:43:14,760
Speaker 2: what about Whitney Houston's family of amburrolls, same old Kanye.

939
00:43:17,320 --> 00:43:18,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, Like it's.

940
00:43:18,560 --> 00:43:22,799
Speaker 2: Funny because of this episode in particular, I don't know

941
00:43:22,840 --> 00:43:25,200
Speaker 2: how it happened, but people are only focused on, well,

942
00:43:25,239 --> 00:43:26,799
Speaker 2: I know how it happened because Cardi is a lot

943
00:43:26,800 --> 00:43:29,880
Speaker 2: of people's faith. People only focused on the Cardi B segment.

944
00:43:30,600 --> 00:43:33,160
Speaker 2: But I mean, ain't nobody right in to be like,

945
00:43:33,280 --> 00:43:37,120
Speaker 2: y'all really didn't give the time to Kanye's mental health,

946
00:43:37,200 --> 00:43:38,960
Speaker 2: or y'all didn't get a time to Pete Davis and

947
00:43:39,120 --> 00:43:41,880
Speaker 2: suicidal ideations, or y'all didn't you know, I need you

948
00:43:41,920 --> 00:43:44,279
Speaker 2: to be more clear because everybody, because my whole point

949
00:43:44,320 --> 00:43:47,400
Speaker 2: with this episode like so much shit was happening before

950
00:43:47,440 --> 00:43:49,960
Speaker 2: you can analyze anything, it was on to the next thing.

951
00:43:51,120 --> 00:43:53,000
Speaker 2: It was like another nigga was fighting before you get

952
00:43:53,000 --> 00:43:56,080
Speaker 2: even talk. It's like motherfuckers was already on the internet

953
00:43:56,120 --> 00:43:59,640
Speaker 2: being like no, this Ariana Grande is trying to make

954
00:43:59,680 --> 00:44:02,319
Speaker 2: Pete Davis and kill himself and I'm like what. And

955
00:44:02,360 --> 00:44:05,120
Speaker 2: then before you can say anything, it's like Todd Reese

956
00:44:05,160 --> 00:44:06,680
Speaker 2: is like, y'all need to stop fighting.

957
00:44:06,719 --> 00:44:08,279
Speaker 3: I'm like, WHOA where you come from?

958
00:44:08,480 --> 00:44:12,439
Speaker 2: Celebrity death matches in this scene, right, will Cardi take

959
00:44:12,560 --> 00:44:15,200
Speaker 2: off set back? Yes and they'll live happily ever after,

960
00:44:15,360 --> 00:44:16,720
Speaker 2: Yes but he gonna cheat again?

961
00:44:16,840 --> 00:44:27,240
Speaker 3: Or no? That was the pole, Karen, I hate to yesain.

962
00:44:26,440 --> 00:44:29,279
Speaker 2: Seventy the audience agrees with you, Yes, but he gonna

963
00:44:29,320 --> 00:44:33,000
Speaker 2: cheat again. Four percent say yes and they'll live happily

964
00:44:33,000 --> 00:44:34,680
Speaker 2: ever after, twenty one.

965
00:44:34,560 --> 00:44:35,319
Speaker 3: Percent say no.

966
00:44:35,560 --> 00:44:36,600
Speaker 4: I hope it's the first one.

967
00:44:37,280 --> 00:44:39,359
Speaker 2: I really meant to add one more option, which is yes,

968
00:44:39,400 --> 00:44:42,960
Speaker 2: but she gonna cheat. But uh I forgot uh cet

969
00:44:43,160 --> 00:44:46,719
Speaker 2: says ha yo. These poor Poe rezolts have me cracking up.

970
00:44:46,760 --> 00:44:49,480
Speaker 2: As a Thursday evening, everybody said yes that nigga gonna

971
00:44:49,520 --> 00:44:49,959
Speaker 2: cheat again.

972
00:44:50,360 --> 00:44:52,359
Speaker 3: It took me out, but for real, he gets more.

973
00:44:52,400 --> 00:44:54,400
Speaker 2: So he getting someone pregnant and they gonna call it

974
00:44:54,440 --> 00:44:56,600
Speaker 2: a comeback when they get over the break baby and

975
00:44:56,640 --> 00:44:58,799
Speaker 2: coach it has a little brother, then it's gonna be

976
00:44:58,840 --> 00:45:01,080
Speaker 2: hashtag black love up and down my timeline.

977
00:45:01,160 --> 00:45:02,960
Speaker 3: Laugh my ass off. Don't at me. It's just jokes.

978
00:45:02,960 --> 00:45:03,480
Speaker 3: But love y'all.

979
00:45:03,480 --> 00:45:08,640
Speaker 2: B ha, Yeah, it's funny cet because well as of

980
00:45:08,680 --> 00:45:11,319
Speaker 2: this recording, they already did.

981
00:45:12,560 --> 00:45:15,480
Speaker 3: They went on vacation for Christmas together and took a picture.

982
00:45:15,200 --> 00:45:19,120
Speaker 2: On a jet ski at the same time smiling at

983
00:45:19,120 --> 00:45:22,440
Speaker 2: the camera and shit, and I was just like, this

984
00:45:22,520 --> 00:45:24,640
Speaker 2: is why I do not investing them loving hip hop

985
00:45:24,680 --> 00:45:25,759
Speaker 2: ass relationships.

986
00:45:25,760 --> 00:45:28,200
Speaker 3: Man, Like I'm not doing it.

987
00:45:28,239 --> 00:45:30,560
Speaker 2: I'm not going through this with everybody, Like I know

988
00:45:30,600 --> 00:45:33,760
Speaker 2: that's people fave, but I'm not about to be using

989
00:45:34,560 --> 00:45:38,680
Speaker 2: her as a launching pad to talk about relationships.

990
00:45:38,680 --> 00:45:38,879
Speaker 4: Man.

991
00:45:39,000 --> 00:45:41,279
Speaker 3: It's it's just futile. If you've been keeping up with

992
00:45:41,320 --> 00:45:41,920
Speaker 3: her and.

993
00:45:43,040 --> 00:45:45,680
Speaker 2: Since since the start, then you know that it's gonna

994
00:45:45,680 --> 00:45:47,480
Speaker 2: be some situations where it's just gonna be like a

995
00:45:47,480 --> 00:45:53,760
Speaker 2: Facebook mean, you know, like you know, like the father

996
00:45:53,840 --> 00:45:56,680
Speaker 2: wrote in and said that like she took the picture

997
00:45:56,719 --> 00:45:58,399
Speaker 2: of the baby and put it online when she wasn't

998
00:45:58,400 --> 00:46:01,000
Speaker 2: supposed to do that, and it messed up the record

999
00:46:01,000 --> 00:46:03,440
Speaker 2: for the Ain't nobody gonna accuse her of financial abuse

1000
00:46:03,520 --> 00:46:05,759
Speaker 2: or child abuse or whatever for them pictures like they

1001
00:46:05,920 --> 00:46:08,239
Speaker 2: like Cardi, you know, and that if that was the

1002
00:46:08,239 --> 00:46:10,480
Speaker 2: opposite way, if she was gonna use the baby for

1003
00:46:10,520 --> 00:46:14,440
Speaker 2: some promo and and offset.

1004
00:46:14,120 --> 00:46:15,240
Speaker 3: Was the one leaking the pictures.

1005
00:46:16,200 --> 00:46:20,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, And I know I'm right on this, Like I

1006
00:46:20,920 --> 00:46:22,520
Speaker 2: don't know, I'm just not caught up in the hype

1007
00:46:22,520 --> 00:46:25,000
Speaker 2: on it, so I know that I'm not tripping when

1008
00:46:25,000 --> 00:46:27,600
Speaker 2: I'm saying I see a lot of people that are

1009
00:46:27,640 --> 00:46:30,560
Speaker 2: more about liking her than they are about whether or

1010
00:46:30,640 --> 00:46:35,000
Speaker 2: not this shit qualifies as whatever, Like it's but they

1011
00:46:35,000 --> 00:46:37,480
Speaker 2: don't want to hear that shit because you know, that's

1012
00:46:37,800 --> 00:46:40,400
Speaker 2: too real, Like they just want you to go along

1013
00:46:40,440 --> 00:46:43,040
Speaker 2: and be like, Yep, it's everything, yep, yep, everything.

1014
00:46:42,840 --> 00:46:43,640
Speaker 3: Y'all said is right.

1015
00:46:43,880 --> 00:46:45,719
Speaker 2: All these other niggas is wrong, and I'm like, no,

1016
00:46:45,760 --> 00:46:49,600
Speaker 2: them niggas is wrong. But also I be careful investing

1017
00:46:49,640 --> 00:46:52,799
Speaker 2: too much and Cardi because she live a crazy life

1018
00:46:52,840 --> 00:46:54,719
Speaker 2: and she don't really give a fuck what we think.

1019
00:46:56,840 --> 00:46:58,360
Speaker 2: And then also the other reason I said it the

1020
00:46:58,360 --> 00:46:59,640
Speaker 2: way I said it is because I like to at

1021
00:46:59,719 --> 00:47:01,960
Speaker 2: least room for the fact that if this shit turns

1022
00:47:02,000 --> 00:47:04,560
Speaker 2: out to all be a publicity stunt, I want to

1023
00:47:04,560 --> 00:47:07,600
Speaker 2: be like, okay, cool, like I don't hate either one

1024
00:47:07,600 --> 00:47:10,000
Speaker 2: of y'all or whatever. And for everybody that got upset,

1025
00:47:10,080 --> 00:47:12,120
Speaker 2: that's fine, Like y'all got to deal with them people.

1026
00:47:12,160 --> 00:47:16,040
Speaker 2: But you know, I don't think it's beyond a reality

1027
00:47:16,080 --> 00:47:19,319
Speaker 2: star and a couple that lives that much through like

1028
00:47:19,480 --> 00:47:23,040
Speaker 2: Instagram and shit to have like think that they're especially

1029
00:47:23,040 --> 00:47:26,520
Speaker 2: after Beyonce and jay Z kind of sold their relationship trauma.

1030
00:47:27,040 --> 00:47:29,520
Speaker 2: I don't think it's beyond anybody anymore to be like

1031
00:47:29,560 --> 00:47:30,640
Speaker 2: they could be selling this shit.

1032
00:47:30,719 --> 00:47:31,160
Speaker 3: I don't know.

1033
00:47:31,960 --> 00:47:34,000
Speaker 2: You hope it, You hope that people are being honest

1034
00:47:34,040 --> 00:47:37,800
Speaker 2: and real, but I don't know anybody anyway. Moni says,

1035
00:47:38,560 --> 00:47:41,480
Speaker 2: epis so eighteen eleven fantasy hate crime, rid over here

1036
00:47:41,520 --> 00:47:43,719
Speaker 2: concerned about the wrong things with that pastor my man

1037
00:47:43,800 --> 00:47:46,279
Speaker 2: don't even give his wife the best lambo money could buy.

1038
00:47:47,520 --> 00:47:49,640
Speaker 3: We had to be mam. Jesus wouldn't know you have

1039
00:47:49,719 --> 00:47:50,360
Speaker 3: the best limbo?

1040
00:47:51,080 --> 00:47:53,160
Speaker 2: What kind of broke boy teacher preacher is that he

1041
00:47:53,200 --> 00:47:58,200
Speaker 2: couldn't afford the Lamborghini Veino wait, Vanino roadster. It's only

1042
00:47:58,239 --> 00:48:00,520
Speaker 2: a cool four point five million, But my man with

1043
00:48:00,680 --> 00:48:02,080
Speaker 2: an understated struggle car.

1044
00:48:02,520 --> 00:48:05,040
Speaker 3: You should really be thanking him. Don't worry about what

1045
00:48:05,080 --> 00:48:06,680
Speaker 3: me and my wife do. I hear you.

1046
00:48:07,440 --> 00:48:08,960
Speaker 2: I don't worry ibout what's going on to the type

1047
00:48:08,960 --> 00:48:12,080
Speaker 2: of things while I'm at at, Anonymous says, I'm black

1048
00:48:12,120 --> 00:48:12,600
Speaker 2: and Latino.

1049
00:48:12,640 --> 00:48:14,400
Speaker 3: You could be both black as a race, Latinos and

1050
00:48:14,440 --> 00:48:15,040
Speaker 3: ethnic city.

1051
00:48:15,120 --> 00:48:19,520
Speaker 2: We we know, uh, I know, guess the race is

1052
00:48:19,600 --> 00:48:21,439
Speaker 2: just the game. But I definitely wanted the bonus round

1053
00:48:21,440 --> 00:48:24,320
Speaker 2: this week my point. Oh so you got it right? Okay, Anonymous,

1054
00:48:24,360 --> 00:48:27,040
Speaker 2: good for you, But yeah, we know edie. He says,

1055
00:48:27,080 --> 00:48:29,520
Speaker 2: has anyone seen Megan Kelly lately? Because I think she's

1056
00:48:29,560 --> 00:48:34,200
Speaker 2: the one who vanilized Black Center? He shaking Black Center.

1057
00:48:34,200 --> 00:48:37,960
Speaker 2: It's not photoshot that the poe was. Which one is better?

1058
00:48:38,000 --> 00:48:39,680
Speaker 2: Love and light or thoughts and prayers?

1059
00:48:40,000 --> 00:48:40,320
Speaker 3: Okay?

1060
00:48:41,160 --> 00:48:42,080
Speaker 4: Which one is better?

1061
00:48:42,800 --> 00:48:43,720
Speaker 3: Which one do you prefer?

1062
00:48:44,520 --> 00:48:45,879
Speaker 4: Living? I prefer living light?

1063
00:48:46,080 --> 00:48:49,760
Speaker 2: Okay, all right, I think I prefer thoughts and prayers.

1064
00:48:49,800 --> 00:48:52,120
Speaker 2: If you're gonna see me something. Thoughts and prayers got

1065
00:48:52,120 --> 00:48:55,239
Speaker 2: a bad rap because of you know, some shoot school shootings.

1066
00:48:55,400 --> 00:48:57,000
Speaker 4: Right, That's how I was like a little and light.

1067
00:48:57,080 --> 00:49:00,640
Speaker 1: But yeah, I don't mind thoughts and prayers, and you know,

1068
00:49:01,840 --> 00:49:02,600
Speaker 1: I'm fine with it.

1069
00:49:02,840 --> 00:49:04,279
Speaker 4: At least I know you're thinking about me.

1070
00:49:04,440 --> 00:49:06,520
Speaker 2: Right, I mean, like, on the off chance that I'm

1071
00:49:06,520 --> 00:49:09,080
Speaker 2: wrong about this whole God thing, you know, I appreciate

1072
00:49:09,080 --> 00:49:09,600
Speaker 2: the thoughts.

1073
00:49:09,440 --> 00:49:11,000
Speaker 3: And the prayers more than the love and the light.

1074
00:49:11,080 --> 00:49:13,120
Speaker 3: You know, let's cover our basis. That's all I'm saying.

1075
00:49:13,360 --> 00:49:16,960
Speaker 2: What if I'm wrong, send me some thighs of prayers.

1076
00:49:17,000 --> 00:49:19,000
Speaker 2: He might be listening. I don't know what's she I

1077
00:49:19,000 --> 00:49:21,920
Speaker 2: don't know. They have no idea what's going on with there?

1078
00:49:22,480 --> 00:49:26,799
Speaker 2: Uh so, Stevens. So anyway, seventy percent of people say

1079
00:49:26,840 --> 00:49:30,120
Speaker 2: love and light. Thirty percent said thoughts and prayers. That's

1080
00:49:30,120 --> 00:49:34,480
Speaker 2: the prayers. Need better pr man, right, Stephen says, well, actually, lol,

1081
00:49:34,520 --> 00:49:37,919
Speaker 2: love and light is my agnostic, non Christian wal of saying.

1082
00:49:37,960 --> 00:49:40,120
Speaker 2: You know, I'm not going to actually pray for you,

1083
00:49:40,320 --> 00:49:43,200
Speaker 2: so love and light. Wow, I bet you won't type

1084
00:49:43,239 --> 00:49:47,720
Speaker 2: that whole thing out, Stephen. Next time, if my mother's

1085
00:49:47,760 --> 00:49:50,319
Speaker 2: in the hospital, well, I'm not gonna actually pray for you,

1086
00:49:50,400 --> 00:49:54,600
Speaker 2: but love and light truly lol at Bohemian rap CDs.

1087
00:49:54,800 --> 00:49:55,120
Speaker 3: Lol.

1088
00:49:55,160 --> 00:49:57,640
Speaker 2: Another note, preachers do and should get paid the salary,

1089
00:49:57,719 --> 00:50:00,000
Speaker 2: especially if that is that full time job bigger than church.

1090
00:50:00,120 --> 00:50:02,920
Speaker 3: Big of the salary. Yeah, I mean sure, But.

1091
00:50:04,960 --> 00:50:13,920
Speaker 2: My nigga, that's a little bit slippery slope as to

1092
00:50:14,400 --> 00:50:20,160
Speaker 2: what becomes ostentatious and what is a kind of a

1093
00:50:20,239 --> 00:50:23,360
Speaker 2: legitimate salary. Like a lot of people do kind of

1094
00:50:23,400 --> 00:50:26,040
Speaker 2: feed into this whole, Like my preacher is a mascot.

1095
00:50:26,160 --> 00:50:29,200
Speaker 2: He got the biggest house, They made a highway ramp

1096
00:50:29,239 --> 00:50:32,480
Speaker 2: for him to go straight to church, he got a limo.

1097
00:50:32,920 --> 00:50:35,680
Speaker 3: He look at his clothes. That I've seen that, at

1098
00:50:35,760 --> 00:50:36,960
Speaker 3: least within the Black community.

1099
00:50:37,360 --> 00:50:39,760
Speaker 2: I'm guessing white people probably to have some similar stuff

1100
00:50:39,760 --> 00:50:44,440
Speaker 2: with their megachurch preachers. But I've seen, I've been privy

1101
00:50:44,480 --> 00:50:46,960
Speaker 2: to those conversations, and that shit ain't about Jesus at all.

1102
00:50:47,840 --> 00:50:49,520
Speaker 2: Last of y'all ain't shit for making puns of the

1103
00:50:49,560 --> 00:50:54,640
Speaker 2: man down outside the wingspot. That's someone's brother, father son.

1104
00:50:55,040 --> 00:50:58,240
Speaker 2: There are many people who hold him tenderly in their hearts.

1105
00:51:00,040 --> 00:51:02,239
Speaker 2: See what you did, mm hm hmmm.

1106
00:51:02,520 --> 00:51:03,279
Speaker 3: That's messed up.

1107
00:51:03,320 --> 00:51:03,520
Speaker 4: Man.

1108
00:51:04,239 --> 00:51:06,320
Speaker 2: Well, I'm not gonna get all sad and blue cheese

1109
00:51:06,360 --> 00:51:10,200
Speaker 2: over this. Ah Cet says, love and light is whack.

1110
00:51:10,560 --> 00:51:13,200
Speaker 2: Doos and prayers just give sound like a smart ass comment,

1111
00:51:13,560 --> 00:51:16,640
Speaker 2: but aha, but makes me laugh and think someone.

1112
00:51:16,480 --> 00:51:17,080
Speaker 3: Is being shady.

1113
00:51:17,120 --> 00:51:21,759
Speaker 2: It's classic dosad prayers is good for sast sarcasm, though

1114
00:51:21,880 --> 00:51:22,759
Speaker 2: I did not think of.

1115
00:51:22,680 --> 00:51:25,240
Speaker 4: That because I don't ever use it in that manner.

1116
00:51:25,800 --> 00:51:31,920
Speaker 2: Off set Gate Day three, we got many, many comments,

1117
00:51:32,440 --> 00:51:33,520
Speaker 2: eight comments on this one.

1118
00:51:33,560 --> 00:51:35,320
Speaker 4: Let's see what to say.

1119
00:51:35,560 --> 00:51:37,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, we talked about a lot of stuff, though not

1120
00:51:38,040 --> 00:51:41,200
Speaker 2: just offset, but still so let's see you had something

1121
00:51:41,239 --> 00:51:45,080
Speaker 2: to say. Ray says, I just want to say I

1122
00:51:45,160 --> 00:51:49,319
Speaker 2: appreciate your nuanced approach to Cardi b offset issue. One

1123
00:51:49,320 --> 00:51:51,600
Speaker 2: thing that very few people realize is that sometimes abuse

1124
00:51:51,680 --> 00:51:53,040
Speaker 2: victims don't want to leave their abuses.

1125
00:51:53,080 --> 00:51:54,520
Speaker 3: Stockholm syndrome is very real.

1126
00:51:54,840 --> 00:51:57,080
Speaker 2: A lot of these situations about dependency of some kind,

1127
00:51:57,280 --> 00:51:59,399
Speaker 2: or it's possible to victim grow up in an abusive home,

1128
00:51:59,680 --> 00:52:02,279
Speaker 2: so they view that treatment as quote unquote love, which

1129
00:52:02,320 --> 00:52:05,239
Speaker 2: allows them to accept it. Abuse, especially in romantic relationships,

1130
00:52:05,320 --> 00:52:08,040
Speaker 2: isn't an easy problem to fix, even more so when

1131
00:52:08,040 --> 00:52:10,040
Speaker 2: they are kids in the picture. Women sometimes choose to

1132
00:52:10,040 --> 00:52:11,960
Speaker 2: suffer more than they usually would for the sake of

1133
00:52:11,960 --> 00:52:14,880
Speaker 2: their children. Right, You're right, we don't know the details

1134
00:52:14,920 --> 00:52:16,719
Speaker 2: of what's going on, and even if we did, Cardi

1135
00:52:16,840 --> 00:52:17,640
Speaker 2: is the only person.

1136
00:52:17,440 --> 00:52:19,960
Speaker 3: Who could stop it. That's all I'm saying.

1137
00:52:20,520 --> 00:52:22,520
Speaker 2: It's hard to watch people we care about. I'll go

1138
00:52:22,560 --> 00:52:24,680
Speaker 2: through this, but we must allow people to freedom to

1139
00:52:24,719 --> 00:52:27,200
Speaker 2: make them mistakes. I wish Cardi like I wish Carti

1140
00:52:27,320 --> 00:52:29,160
Speaker 2: like I wish for any abused parton. I wish them

1141
00:52:29,200 --> 00:52:31,320
Speaker 2: safety and courage find a healthy relationship.

1142
00:52:32,440 --> 00:52:33,919
Speaker 3: I swear that. That's all I'm saying.

1143
00:52:33,960 --> 00:52:36,759
Speaker 2: I don't know how that's confusing, cause I'm like, I

1144
00:52:36,760 --> 00:52:41,480
Speaker 2: don't know her to know what is actually happening. And

1145
00:52:41,520 --> 00:52:44,040
Speaker 2: I think any of us that feel like we absolutely

1146
00:52:44,120 --> 00:52:47,040
Speaker 2: know what's happening, then we are gotten.

1147
00:52:47,080 --> 00:52:48,880
Speaker 3: We've lost the plot. We don't know these people.

1148
00:52:49,360 --> 00:52:51,000
Speaker 2: You know, when I saw people saying she was gonna

1149
00:52:51,040 --> 00:52:54,359
Speaker 2: get murdered, she was being beaten and stuff. If y'all

1150
00:52:54,360 --> 00:52:56,560
Speaker 2: have some evidence of that or whatever other than just

1151
00:52:56,920 --> 00:53:00,920
Speaker 2: an inclination, then so be it. But I don't have

1152
00:53:01,040 --> 00:53:04,120
Speaker 2: enough experience with that type of lifestyle or what people

1153
00:53:04,200 --> 00:53:06,319
Speaker 2: like that do to even be like as a well,

1154
00:53:06,520 --> 00:53:08,120
Speaker 2: my opinion, they definitely doing this.

1155
00:53:08,160 --> 00:53:09,760
Speaker 3: That and the other so people.

1156
00:53:10,080 --> 00:53:12,440
Speaker 2: It's like people wanted me to like, I don't know,

1157
00:53:12,600 --> 00:53:17,279
Speaker 2: dance form or something like, to present their opinion as

1158
00:53:17,320 --> 00:53:20,000
Speaker 2: my opinion. I don't know, And there's nothing wrong with

1159
00:53:20,040 --> 00:53:22,920
Speaker 2: me not knowing that. I'm not a bad person and

1160
00:53:22,960 --> 00:53:26,040
Speaker 2: I'm not on offset side for not fucking knowing what

1161
00:53:26,160 --> 00:53:29,880
Speaker 2: this is like for not being like cause I don't,

1162
00:53:29,920 --> 00:53:32,600
Speaker 2: like I said, I know how I feel about my

1163
00:53:32,680 --> 00:53:37,440
Speaker 2: personal relationship, but I don't know how everybody feels or

1164
00:53:37,480 --> 00:53:42,759
Speaker 2: if that is even societally acceptable. There's things within my

1165
00:53:42,840 --> 00:53:46,080
Speaker 2: relationship I would never tolerate that. Before you get to

1166
00:53:46,120 --> 00:53:50,719
Speaker 2: this offset shit, y'all, you people that are listening, go

1167
00:53:50,800 --> 00:53:53,120
Speaker 2: through these things and deal with these things every single

1168
00:53:53,160 --> 00:53:55,040
Speaker 2: day and find a way to make your quote unquote

1169
00:53:55,080 --> 00:53:57,840
Speaker 2: love work. And I don't want to pass judgment on

1170
00:53:57,880 --> 00:53:59,920
Speaker 2: you because it's not my fucking business.

1171
00:53:59,600 --> 00:54:00,960
Speaker 4: Right, it's not my relationship.

1172
00:54:00,960 --> 00:54:03,279
Speaker 2: And I'm not talking about physical violence or any of

1173
00:54:03,280 --> 00:54:04,240
Speaker 2: that shit I'm talking about.

1174
00:54:04,680 --> 00:54:05,120
Speaker 3: I don't like.

1175
00:54:05,280 --> 00:54:09,960
Speaker 2: I don't do the silent treatment. If we're not like

1176
00:54:10,080 --> 00:54:13,759
Speaker 2: we talk here, you know what I mean. We don't

1177
00:54:13,800 --> 00:54:17,000
Speaker 2: raise our voices, we don't yell at each other, we

1178
00:54:17,040 --> 00:54:17,960
Speaker 2: don't call each other.

1179
00:54:17,920 --> 00:54:20,480
Speaker 1: Names, we don't fuss and fight like like like we

1180
00:54:20,560 --> 00:54:23,440
Speaker 1: might jokefully like call each other, you know, but not

1181
00:54:23,480 --> 00:54:24,520
Speaker 1: in an argument.

1182
00:54:24,360 --> 00:54:26,400
Speaker 4: Right, like, not when no anger is up.

1183
00:54:26,400 --> 00:54:29,040
Speaker 1: And like I said, these are things that people consider

1184
00:54:29,160 --> 00:54:32,719
Speaker 1: normal because society has taught you that it's normal. So

1185
00:54:32,760 --> 00:54:35,280
Speaker 1: when it comes to abuse, everybody has a different definition

1186
00:54:35,320 --> 00:54:36,920
Speaker 1: of what it is like For me, like I'm saying,

1187
00:54:36,920 --> 00:54:38,479
Speaker 1: those are things that I would not talk about.

1188
00:54:38,440 --> 00:54:39,400
Speaker 3: We don't leave the house.

1189
00:54:39,520 --> 00:54:41,359
Speaker 2: We don't do that thing where like one of us

1190
00:54:41,440 --> 00:54:43,200
Speaker 2: is upset or one of us wants to talk and

1191
00:54:43,239 --> 00:54:45,600
Speaker 2: the other one goes, I gotta get out of here.

1192
00:54:45,880 --> 00:54:47,920
Speaker 2: A lot of people do that, not just me, a

1193
00:54:48,040 --> 00:54:51,440
Speaker 2: lot of people, you know. And I to me, I'm like,

1194
00:54:51,520 --> 00:54:53,279
Speaker 2: that's a fucked up thing to do to somebody. They

1195
00:54:53,280 --> 00:54:56,000
Speaker 2: clearly want to have this conversation. You can't sit there

1196
00:54:56,040 --> 00:54:59,840
Speaker 2: and at least listen to them or whatever. So the

1197
00:55:00,000 --> 00:55:02,360
Speaker 2: they aren't even like things that people consist This is

1198
00:55:02,400 --> 00:55:04,000
Speaker 2: just communication for most people.

1199
00:55:04,760 --> 00:55:06,759
Speaker 3: They do not consider this to be abused. They do

1200
00:55:06,880 --> 00:55:07,560
Speaker 3: not consider this.

1201
00:55:07,760 --> 00:55:12,200
Speaker 2: These are things where I feel like, you know, I

1202
00:55:12,239 --> 00:55:15,479
Speaker 2: feel like I'm outside of what people consider the norm

1203
00:55:15,719 --> 00:55:18,440
Speaker 2: for this kind of shit. Yes, So then people are like, well,

1204
00:55:18,480 --> 00:55:21,759
Speaker 2: you have to label this. I don't fucking know, you

1205
00:55:21,800 --> 00:55:23,799
Speaker 2: see what I'm saying, because I know you would. Most

1206
00:55:23,800 --> 00:55:26,560
Speaker 2: people would not label, uh, you gotta sleep on the couch.

1207
00:55:26,560 --> 00:55:28,120
Speaker 2: Most people don't label that as abuse.

1208
00:55:28,920 --> 00:55:30,719
Speaker 3: To me, I'm like, why fuck would someone had to

1209
00:55:30,760 --> 00:55:32,000
Speaker 3: sleep on the couch in the house.

1210
00:55:31,800 --> 00:55:34,759
Speaker 2: They pay rent for, Like y'all can't figure a way

1211
00:55:34,800 --> 00:55:37,239
Speaker 2: out as adults to sleep in the same fucking bed. Like,

1212
00:55:37,960 --> 00:55:42,120
Speaker 2: that's that's wow to me. You know, even cheating, there's

1213
00:55:42,200 --> 00:55:46,000
Speaker 2: a lot of relationships go through cheating and overcome it. Now,

1214
00:55:46,040 --> 00:55:48,360
Speaker 2: I would not say that cheating isn't isn't abusive.

1215
00:55:48,440 --> 00:55:50,719
Speaker 3: I think it is. You know, it's a violation of trust,

1216
00:55:50,760 --> 00:55:51,319
Speaker 3: a bunch of shit.

1217
00:55:51,680 --> 00:55:54,480
Speaker 2: But a lot of people wouldn't label cheating by itself

1218
00:55:54,520 --> 00:55:58,880
Speaker 2: as abusive. They would label serial cheating what they might

1219
00:55:58,920 --> 00:56:01,360
Speaker 2: call abusive. Some people didn't even say that depending on

1220
00:56:01,400 --> 00:56:03,799
Speaker 2: that you married this type of person, so you know

1221
00:56:04,120 --> 00:56:06,880
Speaker 2: they gonna I don't fucking know it's the point, and

1222
00:56:06,920 --> 00:56:09,479
Speaker 2: I'm not a goddamn expert on this, but I will

1223
00:56:09,480 --> 00:56:10,280
Speaker 2: give you my opinion.

1224
00:56:10,400 --> 00:56:12,160
Speaker 3: So I feel like that's kind of the thing where

1225
00:56:12,200 --> 00:56:12,680
Speaker 3: it's like.

1226
00:56:14,719 --> 00:56:17,759
Speaker 2: I'm saying, it's messy and complicated, and I don't know

1227
00:56:17,760 --> 00:56:20,040
Speaker 2: what's gonna happen, but people are making it online.

1228
00:56:20,160 --> 00:56:21,840
Speaker 3: This is how it started. Conversation Sunday.

1229
00:56:22,200 --> 00:56:26,080
Speaker 2: Online, people are making a conversation as simple as uh, uh,

1230
00:56:26,600 --> 00:56:28,120
Speaker 2: he gonna kill her, so you need to leave.

1231
00:56:29,560 --> 00:56:31,239
Speaker 3: Uh. This is just like my cousin who got out

1232
00:56:31,320 --> 00:56:31,480
Speaker 3: of that.

1233
00:56:31,600 --> 00:56:35,759
Speaker 2: And I'm like, Okay, maybe that is what's happening, but

1234
00:56:36,120 --> 00:56:38,960
Speaker 2: it could it could also be other things, and no

1235
00:56:39,000 --> 00:56:41,920
Speaker 2: one wants to allow for the possibility that it could

1236
00:56:41,920 --> 00:56:46,280
Speaker 2: be like jay Z cheating on y'all say, and somehow

1237
00:56:46,320 --> 00:56:49,240
Speaker 2: they figured some way out and started and made it work,

1238
00:56:49,320 --> 00:56:51,799
Speaker 2: and he worked on himself and all that shit, but

1239
00:56:51,840 --> 00:56:54,120
Speaker 2: at the time everyone was his team. Get the fuck

1240
00:56:54,160 --> 00:56:55,839
Speaker 2: out of there, leave him. I can't believe he cheated

1241
00:56:55,880 --> 00:56:58,680
Speaker 2: on the Queen. This is abusive, now, you know. I'm

1242
00:56:58,719 --> 00:57:01,239
Speaker 2: sure there's still people that that that way. And this

1243
00:57:01,400 --> 00:57:03,040
Speaker 2: part of the problem of putting your life out in

1244
00:57:03,080 --> 00:57:06,480
Speaker 2: public that much, you know, And we're talking to people

1245
00:57:06,480 --> 00:57:08,759
Speaker 2: that put well Cardi anyway, who puts a lot of

1246
00:57:08,800 --> 00:57:11,680
Speaker 2: shit out here, and it's like a Facebook meme. She

1247
00:57:11,719 --> 00:57:15,360
Speaker 2: ain't never been a quote unquote perfect person anyway, So

1248
00:57:15,440 --> 00:57:18,360
Speaker 2: you're not really gonna be able to build this case

1249
00:57:18,480 --> 00:57:21,560
Speaker 2: of and these are what healthy relationships look like versus

1250
00:57:21,720 --> 00:57:26,000
Speaker 2: unhealthy relationships. Like if a person, especially a person with

1251
00:57:26,040 --> 00:57:29,520
Speaker 2: their own autonomy, wants to be in unhealthy relationships because

1252
00:57:29,520 --> 00:57:31,760
Speaker 2: they don't consider them to not be fucked up, I

1253
00:57:31,760 --> 00:57:32,200
Speaker 2: don't know.

1254
00:57:33,240 --> 00:57:33,800
Speaker 3: I don't know.

1255
00:57:34,360 --> 00:57:36,680
Speaker 2: I just know personally, I'm taking it the same way

1256
00:57:36,720 --> 00:57:38,200
Speaker 2: I take it when I watch Love and hip Hop.

1257
00:57:38,400 --> 00:57:40,200
Speaker 2: When we watch Love and Hip Hop, I've never come

1258
00:57:40,200 --> 00:57:43,360
Speaker 2: on this show and said, you know, Stevie J and me, me,

1259
00:57:43,680 --> 00:57:46,919
Speaker 2: that's such an abusive relationship. I know it's abusive. It's

1260
00:57:46,960 --> 00:57:50,680
Speaker 2: on TV though, because it's normalized. You know, you know

1261
00:57:50,720 --> 00:57:54,720
Speaker 2: what else is fucking abusive rom coms, most TV shows

1262
00:57:54,760 --> 00:57:57,720
Speaker 2: that involve a married couple or a couple that's whatever

1263
00:57:57,800 --> 00:58:00,439
Speaker 2: they always do, shit that is foul to each other.

1264
00:58:01,120 --> 00:58:05,640
Speaker 2: Insecure is abusive, where there's Easter cheating on Lawrence, Lawrence's

1265
00:58:05,640 --> 00:58:08,200
Speaker 2: anger over it, and all this, Like all of that

1266
00:58:08,240 --> 00:58:11,080
Speaker 2: shit has stuff in it, these levels, and so it's

1267
00:58:11,080 --> 00:58:13,040
Speaker 2: weird that people got hung up on you got to

1268
00:58:13,080 --> 00:58:15,160
Speaker 2: say it's abusive more so than what the fuck I

1269
00:58:15,200 --> 00:58:18,920
Speaker 2: was trying to say, which is like there's levels to

1270
00:58:19,040 --> 00:58:21,400
Speaker 2: all this stuff, and there's a lot of gray area

1271
00:58:21,440 --> 00:58:23,800
Speaker 2: when you're dealing with two individuals and trying to make

1272
00:58:23,840 --> 00:58:26,240
Speaker 2: them a case study for the world. I don't know

1273
00:58:26,400 --> 00:58:28,880
Speaker 2: what's gonna happen, and I don't know what to even

1274
00:58:28,920 --> 00:58:30,000
Speaker 2: call what is happening.

1275
00:58:30,520 --> 00:58:33,640
Speaker 3: And I'm not knocking anyone who feels strongly.

1276
00:58:34,840 --> 00:58:36,720
Speaker 2: That they feel like I know for sure, this is

1277
00:58:36,720 --> 00:58:38,560
Speaker 2: what's happening and this is how it goes. I've been

1278
00:58:38,600 --> 00:58:42,560
Speaker 2: here before, I've had friends like this. I haven't, so

1279
00:58:42,720 --> 00:58:45,400
Speaker 2: I don't know, So take my opinion with a grain

1280
00:58:45,440 --> 00:58:49,600
Speaker 2: of salt. I don't know. I'm leaving room for whatever happens.

1281
00:58:49,240 --> 00:58:52,120
Speaker 3: To happen, you know. I think what would be the.

1282
00:58:52,040 --> 00:58:55,200
Speaker 2: Most fucked up is probably if it's all a pr snunt,

1283
00:58:55,360 --> 00:58:58,560
Speaker 2: which I have to leave room for because unlike a

1284
00:58:58,560 --> 00:59:02,040
Speaker 2: lot of folks, I'm not as convinced that it's impossible

1285
00:59:02,080 --> 00:59:05,040
Speaker 2: for this to be some type of coordinated thing. I

1286
00:59:05,080 --> 00:59:08,160
Speaker 2: hope it's not, you know, if I was betting, i'd

1287
00:59:08,200 --> 00:59:11,920
Speaker 2: say it wasn't. But I also don't know them, and

1288
00:59:11,960 --> 00:59:13,880
Speaker 2: it maybe there's a way that they thought this would

1289
00:59:13,920 --> 00:59:15,720
Speaker 2: be cute and funny, and you come, oh, or it's

1290
00:59:15,840 --> 00:59:18,920
Speaker 2: cute and nice or whatever, and you apologize me and

1291
00:59:18,960 --> 00:59:20,720
Speaker 2: all this stuff would be a big deal. I don't

1292
00:59:20,760 --> 00:59:24,680
Speaker 2: know when you got people involved in this shit like publicists,

1293
00:59:25,200 --> 00:59:28,200
Speaker 2: venues and all this stuff behind the scenes and no

1294
00:59:28,280 --> 00:59:30,920
Speaker 2: one's and we're told, hey, don't be mad at any

1295
00:59:30,920 --> 00:59:33,480
Speaker 2: of these people. None of them did anything wrong. Y'all

1296
00:59:33,520 --> 00:59:34,320
Speaker 2: stay out of my life.

1297
00:59:35,040 --> 00:59:35,400
Speaker 3: Okay.

1298
00:59:35,840 --> 00:59:37,840
Speaker 2: The most I can give you is okay, I'll stay

1299
00:59:37,840 --> 00:59:40,040
Speaker 2: out of your I don't. I will eject from that

1300
00:59:40,080 --> 00:59:42,800
Speaker 2: part of your life. I love your music videos. I

1301
00:59:42,800 --> 00:59:47,600
Speaker 2: think you're a very funny, charming person, but I don't

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Speaker 2: personally want to consume your personal life as entertainment in

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00:59:52,120 --> 00:59:54,080
Speaker 2: the way that it seems the majority of people that

1304
00:59:54,480 --> 00:59:57,360
Speaker 2: follow her would like to consume her personal life is entertainment.

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00:59:57,840 --> 01:00:00,920
Speaker 3: I'm off of that part. I just like it's too much.

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01:00:01,240 --> 01:00:01,439
Speaker 4: Yep.

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01:00:01,480 --> 01:00:03,440
Speaker 1: But like I said on a free game show, mascot

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01:00:03,560 --> 01:00:07,120
Speaker 1: celebrities are nothing more than mascots something to quote unquote

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01:00:07,160 --> 01:00:09,840
Speaker 1: group for And if you don't agree with my mascot,

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Speaker 1: you know you're not on my team. And I for

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Speaker 1: a lot of people, is that couldn't dry?

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01:00:14,480 --> 01:00:16,520
Speaker 3: Yeah? I can't. I don't know, man.

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01:00:16,560 --> 01:00:19,760
Speaker 2: It's something about her has made people be like, it's

1314
01:00:19,840 --> 01:00:23,760
Speaker 2: different than watching black Ink, It's different than love and

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01:00:23,840 --> 01:00:24,280
Speaker 2: hip hop.

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01:00:24,520 --> 01:00:25,080
Speaker 3: It's different.

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01:00:25,280 --> 01:00:27,400
Speaker 2: And I'm like, I don't know when it became different

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01:00:27,400 --> 01:00:29,560
Speaker 2: for everybody else, But I don't think I'm there yet.

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01:00:30,120 --> 01:00:30,760
Speaker 3: I think it's the.

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01:00:30,760 --> 01:00:34,520
Speaker 2: Same correct where it's still to me, like you kind

1321
01:00:34,520 --> 01:00:38,080
Speaker 2: of like dog ass niggas that dog you out. Whether

1322
01:00:38,120 --> 01:00:41,360
Speaker 2: it's for entertainment, whether it's just for your real life,

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01:00:41,440 --> 01:00:44,560
Speaker 2: I don't know, but it consistently has been a thing.

1324
01:00:45,440 --> 01:00:47,240
Speaker 2: Either you grow out of that or some people deal

1325
01:00:47,240 --> 01:00:48,640
Speaker 2: with that shit they whole life.

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01:00:48,720 --> 01:00:49,439
Speaker 3: Yeah, they do.

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01:00:49,640 --> 01:00:51,480
Speaker 4: You know, there's a lot of old women to deal

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01:00:51,520 --> 01:00:52,240
Speaker 4: with shit like that.

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01:00:52,320 --> 01:00:53,920
Speaker 2: It's like if there would have been a reality show

1330
01:00:53,920 --> 01:00:56,840
Speaker 2: where Mary J. Blibers dating Jojo I mean Jake and

1331
01:00:56,880 --> 01:00:59,600
Speaker 2: k C. Dayton Casey, like our life would, it would

1332
01:00:59,600 --> 01:01:02,520
Speaker 2: have been totally different than how we view it now. Yes,

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01:01:02,720 --> 01:01:05,480
Speaker 2: you know, so I don't know, man, I don't know.

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01:01:05,520 --> 01:01:08,400
Speaker 2: I just feel like it's so black and white for folks.

1335
01:01:08,400 --> 01:01:11,160
Speaker 2: But I appreciate you saying that because it is kind.

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01:01:11,040 --> 01:01:13,280
Speaker 3: Of nuanced to us.

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01:01:13,560 --> 01:01:15,760
Speaker 2: GWG says, I also came here to say I appreciate

1338
01:01:15,760 --> 01:01:17,640
Speaker 2: you know, our sketched from you both. This is your

1339
01:01:17,800 --> 01:01:20,000
Speaker 2: this is your What's the Teeth feature this week felt

1340
01:01:20,000 --> 01:01:22,439
Speaker 2: like listening to expert panelists who only know what they're

1341
01:01:22,480 --> 01:01:24,680
Speaker 2: talking about, but come through with the empathy and sympathy.

1342
01:01:24,720 --> 01:01:28,080
Speaker 3: Thank you, Caring to Rob, Thank you, book.

1343
01:01:27,880 --> 01:01:29,440
Speaker 2: And shoe based I thought you and Karen gave a

1344
01:01:29,560 --> 01:01:32,480
Speaker 2: very nuanced through examination of the CARDI Being offset relationship

1345
01:01:32,480 --> 01:01:34,280
Speaker 2: as much as a person who was not directly involved

1346
01:01:34,320 --> 01:01:36,480
Speaker 2: with them can do. I'm very surprised by how much

1347
01:01:36,480 --> 01:01:37,360
Speaker 2: attention this is getting.

1348
01:01:37,360 --> 01:01:38,880
Speaker 3: Personally. I don't have a dog in a fight.

1349
01:01:39,120 --> 01:01:43,520
Speaker 2: I said what I said, Peter, I think you mean

1350
01:01:43,600 --> 01:01:47,280
Speaker 2: I don't have a dog in this shower.

1351
01:01:47,640 --> 01:01:49,800
Speaker 3: I don't know this dog. You know, I don't have

1352
01:01:49,840 --> 01:01:51,240
Speaker 3: a dog in this hot house.

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01:01:52,480 --> 01:01:55,480
Speaker 2: But I am curious and amused by social media's reaction,

1354
01:01:55,600 --> 01:01:59,960
Speaker 2: not the serious ones, but the ones of the mean variety. Yeah, man,

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01:02:00,280 --> 01:02:03,720
Speaker 2: y'all don't know. It's really uh because it bothered me

1356
01:02:03,760 --> 01:02:06,560
Speaker 2: the way that people were talking, you know, or saying

1357
01:02:06,560 --> 01:02:08,480
Speaker 2: that they felt I was being.

1358
01:02:08,720 --> 01:02:11,080
Speaker 3: And I appreciate y'all that wrote in to be like nah.

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01:02:11,120 --> 01:02:13,440
Speaker 2: I thought y'all was approaching it with nuance and not

1360
01:02:13,600 --> 01:02:16,960
Speaker 2: just you know, like black and white or taking this

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01:02:17,080 --> 01:02:19,840
Speaker 2: dude's side or saying this shit is okay, because I

1362
01:02:20,280 --> 01:02:23,720
Speaker 2: really I went back and listened to those episodes and

1363
01:02:24,200 --> 01:02:27,200
Speaker 2: I gotta disagree with the people that I mean, I hate,

1364
01:02:27,240 --> 01:02:30,600
Speaker 2: I deal with people, ask I reconsider. I went back

1365
01:02:30,640 --> 01:02:32,240
Speaker 2: and look, and I hope that by the time we

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01:02:32,280 --> 01:02:35,200
Speaker 2: talked about it Wednesday, it was more clear, which.

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01:02:35,000 --> 01:02:37,720
Speaker 3: Is my only goal. I don't want to be misunderstood.

1368
01:02:37,760 --> 01:02:40,920
Speaker 3: But I disagreed that I wasn't clear before.

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01:02:41,040 --> 01:02:42,760
Speaker 2: I thought I was clear the whole time, and I'm

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01:02:42,800 --> 01:02:47,200
Speaker 2: sorry if if you know, it didn't feel that way

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01:02:47,400 --> 01:02:51,000
Speaker 2: to people. But I really thought I was clear. I

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01:02:51,000 --> 01:02:52,400
Speaker 2: don't even feel like I was. I feel like I

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01:02:52,520 --> 01:02:54,800
Speaker 2: repeat myself now. I don't think I said anything really

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01:02:54,840 --> 01:02:56,160
Speaker 2: different in those three days.

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01:02:56,360 --> 01:02:59,720
Speaker 3: Nothing. There's no contradictory opinion, or I wouldn't.

1376
01:02:59,360 --> 01:03:01,280
Speaker 2: Have said this, but now I'm saying like it just

1377
01:03:01,320 --> 01:03:05,840
Speaker 2: felt like people needed me to say the words over

1378
01:03:05,920 --> 01:03:08,160
Speaker 2: and over and over again to that or something.

1379
01:03:08,200 --> 01:03:08,640
Speaker 3: I don't know.

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01:03:09,360 --> 01:03:12,160
Speaker 2: Thank you for putting me on that Miss new York Man.

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01:03:12,160 --> 01:03:14,080
Speaker 2: I'm gonna leave it there. Thank you for putting on

1382
01:03:14,240 --> 01:03:16,959
Speaker 2: that Miss new York fenty ad man. I didn't know

1383
01:03:17,280 --> 01:03:19,640
Speaker 2: how much I needed to have Miss New York back

1384
01:03:19,680 --> 01:03:21,840
Speaker 2: in my pop culture life until I watched that eight

1385
01:03:21,880 --> 01:03:22,440
Speaker 2: minute clip.

1386
01:03:22,880 --> 01:03:23,720
Speaker 3: I watched it twice.

1387
01:03:23,760 --> 01:03:26,320
Speaker 2: My next ot check will go to buying something else

1388
01:03:26,560 --> 01:03:28,520
Speaker 2: from the fency line cam. You are so right about

1389
01:03:28,560 --> 01:03:31,080
Speaker 2: the Foundation. I will be following Miss New York on Instagram.

1390
01:03:31,120 --> 01:03:35,680
Speaker 3: Now, yeah, I love the found Yes, all.

1391
01:03:35,640 --> 01:03:39,480
Speaker 2: Right, we're whispering now, Kim says the Zoe Kravit situation.

1392
01:03:39,760 --> 01:03:42,280
Speaker 4: Yeah, I was just whistling, but yes, I do love

1393
01:03:42,320 --> 01:03:44,360
Speaker 4: the Foundation and thank you.

1394
01:03:44,720 --> 01:03:48,040
Speaker 3: Uh, I'm like, I don't feel myself.

1395
01:03:48,080 --> 01:03:49,600
Speaker 4: Here and go, I know what happened to it? Did

1396
01:03:49,600 --> 01:03:50,200
Speaker 4: she disappeared?

1397
01:03:50,360 --> 01:03:52,840
Speaker 2: The Zoe Kravit situation leaves me a question, says Kim.

1398
01:03:53,080 --> 01:03:55,200
Speaker 2: I've heard her talk about this before, maybe a year ago.

1399
01:03:55,200 --> 01:03:57,920
Speaker 2: Shouldn't part of this question of be of her parents,

1400
01:03:59,080 --> 01:04:01,520
Speaker 2: like why didn't they subject the more black people. I know,

1401
01:04:01,600 --> 01:04:03,800
Speaker 2: of course that some black people gravitate to other cultures,

1402
01:04:03,800 --> 01:04:05,240
Speaker 2: and maybe that was a case for her parents. I

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01:04:05,240 --> 01:04:08,720
Speaker 2: also don't understand how her not wanting to take certain

1404
01:04:08,800 --> 01:04:10,000
Speaker 2: roles because she doesn't relate.

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01:04:10,160 --> 01:04:13,120
Speaker 3: Is that part of acting? Isn't that part of acting? Yeah?

1406
01:04:13,160 --> 01:04:21,280
Speaker 2: I agree with that part actually, but I can understand, Uh.

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01:04:18,840 --> 01:04:19,920
Speaker 3: It's that thing where.

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01:04:22,080 --> 01:04:26,000
Speaker 2: You're almost doing the respectability thing while saying you're it's

1409
01:04:26,040 --> 01:04:28,080
Speaker 2: because you're anti that, you know what I mean?

1410
01:04:28,200 --> 01:04:30,800
Speaker 3: Like, so now you've let.

1411
01:04:30,680 --> 01:04:33,320
Speaker 2: It define you the other way, like well I won't

1412
01:04:33,320 --> 01:04:35,480
Speaker 2: play any ghetto active parts.

1413
01:04:35,520 --> 01:04:37,040
Speaker 3: It's like, well, you could add nuance.

1414
01:04:37,120 --> 01:04:39,920
Speaker 2: It doesn't necessarily have to be Well, I don't come

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01:04:39,960 --> 01:04:41,800
Speaker 2: from that. I don't know anything about that type of

1416
01:04:41,800 --> 01:04:45,200
Speaker 2: black And it's like, well that's what acting is, you know,

1417
01:04:45,800 --> 01:04:48,240
Speaker 2: becoming to someone else, researching and learning. I'm kind of judging,

1418
01:04:48,280 --> 01:04:51,280
Speaker 2: but not really because I'm not that invested. There were

1419
01:04:51,720 --> 01:04:53,560
Speaker 2: there were just two things I thought about. I love

1420
01:04:53,680 --> 01:04:56,080
Speaker 2: y'all shows and always great, thank you for keeping smile

1421
01:04:56,120 --> 01:04:58,640
Speaker 2: on my face and keeping giving me a belly full

1422
01:04:58,680 --> 01:04:59,120
Speaker 2: of laughs.

1423
01:04:59,200 --> 01:05:00,520
Speaker 3: Thanks Kim you.

1424
01:05:01,360 --> 01:05:03,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know, and yet I don't know what

1425
01:05:03,840 --> 01:05:04,600
Speaker 2: her parents would say.

1426
01:05:04,640 --> 01:05:06,400
Speaker 3: I thought about that too during the thing, but they

1427
01:05:06,440 --> 01:05:10,160
Speaker 3: didn't interview her parents. But uh, yeah, I don't know

1428
01:05:10,160 --> 01:05:12,000
Speaker 3: what her parents would say, like how would that happen?

1429
01:05:12,720 --> 01:05:13,400
Speaker 4: That, you know?

1430
01:05:13,480 --> 01:05:15,200
Speaker 2: And maybe they were giving her freedom in a way

1431
01:05:15,280 --> 01:05:19,160
Speaker 2: that black children don't often get freedom, correct, you know,

1432
01:05:19,280 --> 01:05:22,280
Speaker 2: and being like, well, look you will come to that

1433
01:05:22,320 --> 01:05:23,800
Speaker 2: awakening as you see fit.

1434
01:05:24,000 --> 01:05:26,000
Speaker 1: On your own, you know, versus a lot of use.

1435
01:05:26,040 --> 01:05:27,800
Speaker 1: We ain't got no mother fucking choice. But like, look,

1436
01:05:28,080 --> 01:05:30,240
Speaker 1: you step outside his house, it's some fuck shit out there.

1437
01:05:30,360 --> 01:05:33,400
Speaker 1: I don't want you to go out there unprepared versus

1438
01:05:34,120 --> 01:05:35,840
Speaker 1: you know. Their child may have had a luxury to

1439
01:05:35,920 --> 01:05:38,720
Speaker 1: quote unquote growing to their own, growing to their black blackness.

1440
01:05:38,800 --> 01:05:42,240
Speaker 1: Take your time the shit that white children deal with, right.

1441
01:05:42,720 --> 01:05:45,480
Speaker 2: Katrice two six says the Cardi b Offset drama exactly

1442
01:05:45,480 --> 01:05:48,680
Speaker 2: why I left the internets come on just too many

1443
01:05:48,720 --> 01:05:52,280
Speaker 2: opinions and emotions. Though I found myself empathizing with afsets father.

1444
01:05:52,680 --> 01:05:54,480
Speaker 2: It seemed like he just needed to vent and gave

1445
01:05:54,520 --> 01:05:56,920
Speaker 2: a pretty fair depiction slash response to all the drama.

1446
01:05:57,120 --> 01:05:58,840
Speaker 2: It didn't seem like he was trying to be ashy

1447
01:05:58,880 --> 01:06:00,840
Speaker 2: or put out the blame on Cardi, but that he

1448
01:06:00,920 --> 01:06:01,560
Speaker 2: agreed with some.

1449
01:06:01,600 --> 01:06:02,560
Speaker 3: Of what you've been saying.

1450
01:06:02,640 --> 01:06:02,840
Speaker 4: Rod.

1451
01:06:02,880 --> 01:06:07,000
Speaker 3: They're young with money and not trying to listen to anyone. Yeah.

1452
01:06:07,160 --> 01:06:09,280
Speaker 2: See, he also says some shit in there where I

1453
01:06:09,320 --> 01:06:10,920
Speaker 2: was like, now see, I don't know what you do

1454
01:06:11,000 --> 01:06:12,800
Speaker 2: about because he was like, we don't have to come

1455
01:06:12,840 --> 01:06:15,560
Speaker 2: over there, y'all. Don't get these late night phone calls.

1456
01:06:15,640 --> 01:06:18,720
Speaker 2: Y'all don't know about this drug use, and you know what,

1457
01:06:18,840 --> 01:06:20,080
Speaker 2: He's absolutely fucking right.

1458
01:06:20,160 --> 01:06:23,120
Speaker 3: I don't know. I don't know them, you know what

1459
01:06:23,160 --> 01:06:23,480
Speaker 3: I mean?

1460
01:06:23,480 --> 01:06:25,840
Speaker 2: And if I got a phone call at I don't know,

1461
01:06:25,840 --> 01:06:28,720
Speaker 2: two three in the morning about you know, my son,

1462
01:06:29,560 --> 01:06:33,160
Speaker 2: my grandchild and the woman that he's married with and

1463
01:06:33,160 --> 01:06:36,800
Speaker 2: they're fighting and there's drug use and there's infidelity, I

1464
01:06:36,880 --> 01:06:39,400
Speaker 2: might not have a neat answer for everybody that's gonna

1465
01:06:39,440 --> 01:06:40,560
Speaker 2: fix everything, you know.

1466
01:06:41,160 --> 01:06:41,880
Speaker 3: So I don't know.

1467
01:06:41,960 --> 01:06:44,280
Speaker 2: And I think it's easy for us on the outside

1468
01:06:44,560 --> 01:06:47,080
Speaker 2: because we don't have really any truly investment other than

1469
01:06:47,240 --> 01:06:49,840
Speaker 2: we find these people to be entertainment correct, it's easy

1470
01:06:49,840 --> 01:06:52,400
Speaker 2: for us to just be like, it's either this or that.

1471
01:06:52,560 --> 01:06:53,040
Speaker 3: I don't know.

1472
01:06:54,400 --> 01:06:57,040
Speaker 2: It made me see another unattended coust of fame, especially

1473
01:06:57,040 --> 01:06:59,680
Speaker 2: in our current culture. How to fame affect families, like

1474
01:07:00,120 --> 01:07:02,760
Speaker 2: times as Beyonce's ape cousin get asked about her or

1475
01:07:02,800 --> 01:07:04,960
Speaker 2: for free tickets to a concert has to be over

1476
01:07:05,040 --> 01:07:07,320
Speaker 2: women and annoying for some because they didn't sign up

1477
01:07:07,360 --> 01:07:09,880
Speaker 2: for it. Obviously, like in Megan Markle's case, some members

1478
01:07:09,920 --> 01:07:10,600
Speaker 2: will exploit it.

1479
01:07:11,120 --> 01:07:14,640
Speaker 3: Yeah. Well, another thing that I would add to that too, is.

1480
01:07:16,800 --> 01:07:21,320
Speaker 2: It also says a lot when fame is its own currency,

1481
01:07:21,840 --> 01:07:25,200
Speaker 2: and the pursuit of fame is a goal in a way,

1482
01:07:25,440 --> 01:07:27,760
Speaker 2: you know, like Cardi's getting to the money.

1483
01:07:27,800 --> 01:07:28,880
Speaker 3: But there's a lot of.

1484
01:07:28,800 --> 01:07:31,880
Speaker 2: Women like Cardi, a lot of people like Carti who

1485
01:07:31,960 --> 01:07:34,960
Speaker 2: are just sharing their lives on the internet, hoping to

1486
01:07:35,000 --> 01:07:37,760
Speaker 2: be the next person that gets famous off of just

1487
01:07:37,760 --> 01:07:42,120
Speaker 2: sharing their life on the internet. Anonymous says, I don't

1488
01:07:42,120 --> 01:07:44,400
Speaker 2: know why people are hating on the man's albums. That

1489
01:07:44,520 --> 01:07:47,080
Speaker 2: song is definitely about cheating. All said, don't need to

1490
01:07:47,080 --> 01:07:48,960
Speaker 2: play that for Cardy. He needs to listen to it

1491
01:07:49,000 --> 01:07:51,880
Speaker 2: and get his corn effactor up. And I do think

1492
01:07:51,920 --> 01:07:58,800
Speaker 2: being corney helps with being in love, y'all. Marlow right saying,

1493
01:07:58,800 --> 01:08:01,040
Speaker 2: I appreciate the clarification, and I think I understand what

1494
01:08:01,080 --> 01:08:03,280
Speaker 2: you're trying to say. However, I will be honest. I

1495
01:08:03,320 --> 01:08:04,919
Speaker 2: do not think it was clear when you spoke about

1496
01:08:04,920 --> 01:08:07,400
Speaker 2: this earlier. No one is saying she won't choose to stay.

1497
01:08:07,440 --> 01:08:11,480
Speaker 2: But identifying toxic behavior doesn't mean you are triggered or projecting.

1498
01:08:12,400 --> 01:08:15,480
Speaker 2: I just want to say because this is very important,

1499
01:08:15,480 --> 01:08:20,720
Speaker 2: because this is I think divorcing what I said from context,

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01:08:21,000 --> 01:08:23,559
Speaker 2: and this is the kind of thing that speaking of

1501
01:08:23,600 --> 01:08:26,120
Speaker 2: being triggered, this is one of my triggers, to be honest,

1502
01:08:26,160 --> 01:08:28,040
Speaker 2: and I'm not gonna try to like come down on you,

1503
01:08:28,520 --> 01:08:31,719
Speaker 2: but that is absolutely not what I said. I said

1504
01:08:31,720 --> 01:08:35,120
Speaker 2: when you say stuff like he's going to kill her

1505
01:08:35,560 --> 01:08:40,400
Speaker 2: or he is beating her, or like this definitely means

1506
01:08:40,400 --> 01:08:43,640
Speaker 2: blank that to me is being triggered and projecting.

1507
01:08:44,520 --> 01:08:47,679
Speaker 3: To say this is toxic is not being triggered or projecting.

1508
01:08:48,200 --> 01:08:51,360
Speaker 3: I agree that it is toxic. You know.

1509
01:08:51,640 --> 01:08:55,240
Speaker 2: I think the entire way that people define love in

1510
01:08:55,280 --> 01:08:57,439
Speaker 2: America for most part, maybe in the world, but.

1511
01:08:57,400 --> 01:08:59,200
Speaker 3: Definitely America, is toxic.

1512
01:09:00,000 --> 01:09:06,840
Speaker 2: It's very confining, it's very limiting, it's very restrictive, it's

1513
01:09:06,960 --> 01:09:13,200
Speaker 2: very much about power, dominance, control. It's fucked up. And

1514
01:09:13,479 --> 01:09:16,200
Speaker 2: that's before you even add gender into it. To be honest,

1515
01:09:16,200 --> 01:09:18,120
Speaker 2: and the gendered way that we look at it in

1516
01:09:18,240 --> 01:09:20,840
Speaker 2: same sex relationships, much of it is this way as well,

1517
01:09:20,840 --> 01:09:24,360
Speaker 2: where it's about one person quote unquote winning this power battle.

1518
01:09:24,880 --> 01:09:27,880
Speaker 2: Most people, in my opinion, that I've talked to about

1519
01:09:27,920 --> 01:09:31,080
Speaker 2: love see it as some type of power battle. You know,

1520
01:09:31,200 --> 01:09:33,759
Speaker 2: it's not. I don't think love. The way we define

1521
01:09:33,800 --> 01:09:36,360
Speaker 2: love is just not healthy in America. I just don't

1522
01:09:36,439 --> 01:09:38,240
Speaker 2: like talking about it too much because it comes off

1523
01:09:38,280 --> 01:09:40,719
Speaker 2: like I'm feeling like I'm holier than now, I'm better

1524
01:09:40,760 --> 01:09:43,840
Speaker 2: than everybody, or some shit like that. I just think

1525
01:09:43,840 --> 01:09:47,479
Speaker 2: I'm very fucking lucky. I'm very lucky to have found Karen.

1526
01:09:47,520 --> 01:09:50,960
Speaker 2: I'm very lucky to have somebody that we kind of

1527
01:09:50,960 --> 01:09:51,479
Speaker 2: speak the.

1528
01:09:51,400 --> 01:09:57,760
Speaker 3: Same language when it comes to these things. But it's

1529
01:09:57,800 --> 01:09:58,519
Speaker 3: so much deeper.

1530
01:09:58,600 --> 01:10:00,360
Speaker 2: I'm not even telling y'all all the things I think

1531
01:10:00,360 --> 01:10:02,760
Speaker 2: because it's so much deeper than that. I just know

1532
01:10:03,080 --> 01:10:07,720
Speaker 2: in general, it's important. I want to I want to

1533
01:10:07,800 --> 01:10:10,400
Speaker 2: keep the importance on what I said and not how

1534
01:10:10,439 --> 01:10:12,519
Speaker 2: people are trying to make it seem. Because I did

1535
01:10:12,640 --> 01:10:16,080
Speaker 2: not ever say that what he did was not toxic.

1536
01:10:16,560 --> 01:10:19,559
Speaker 2: I thought I even said it was emotionally manipulative. It

1537
01:10:19,720 --> 01:10:22,519
Speaker 2: was and this is these are words I used before,

1538
01:10:22,600 --> 01:10:27,200
Speaker 2: even the abusive category. It's emotionally manipulative. It's entitled we

1539
01:10:27,240 --> 01:10:30,639
Speaker 2: think we own women. I don't understand how, how how

1540
01:10:30,680 --> 01:10:33,720
Speaker 2: that that's not clear. I just maybe I just have

1541
01:10:33,880 --> 01:10:36,040
Speaker 2: like a privilege and a blind spot.

1542
01:10:35,760 --> 01:10:37,360
Speaker 3: To to to to this.

1543
01:10:37,240 --> 01:10:41,240
Speaker 2: And I'm just not missing I'm missing something and and

1544
01:10:41,240 --> 01:10:43,840
Speaker 2: and and if so then you know, I can only

1545
01:10:43,880 --> 01:10:46,719
Speaker 2: say what I what I what I feel and experience

1546
01:10:46,760 --> 01:10:49,559
Speaker 2: and a scene. But I don't know, man, I thought

1547
01:10:49,560 --> 01:10:51,840
Speaker 2: I cut off, said a lot of stuff that was

1548
01:10:51,880 --> 01:10:54,320
Speaker 2: like this is not this is bad way he did

1549
01:10:55,160 --> 01:10:58,479
Speaker 2: and that's kind of obvious. The next step becomes like,

1550
01:10:58,960 --> 01:11:01,280
Speaker 2: is everyone gonna turn on car party? Is this even

1551
01:11:01,320 --> 01:11:03,360
Speaker 2: the end? Is this the beginning? Is it's just another

1552
01:11:03,560 --> 01:11:06,280
Speaker 2: thing that is gonna you know, next week he'll be

1553
01:11:06,360 --> 01:11:08,920
Speaker 2: doing some other shit, some break baby will be popping

1554
01:11:09,000 --> 01:11:09,840
Speaker 2: up next week.

1555
01:11:09,960 --> 01:11:10,160
Speaker 4: Year.

1556
01:11:10,280 --> 01:11:11,680
Speaker 3: I don't know, you know.

1557
01:11:12,000 --> 01:11:14,200
Speaker 2: And at the end of the day, the only opinion

1558
01:11:14,200 --> 01:11:17,800
Speaker 2: that matters on how bad this was is gonna end

1559
01:11:17,880 --> 01:11:21,439
Speaker 2: up being Cardi. And that's a truth that's not just

1560
01:11:21,479 --> 01:11:24,240
Speaker 2: an opinion. That's like, the only time is gonna matter,

1561
01:11:24,280 --> 01:11:26,120
Speaker 2: the only thing that will change in this situation because

1562
01:11:26,160 --> 01:11:29,920
Speaker 2: he's a serial cheater, right he did this shit the

1563
01:11:29,960 --> 01:11:34,360
Speaker 2: little like half ass apology and shit. Only when she

1564
01:11:34,520 --> 01:11:37,240
Speaker 2: goes this is good, This isn't good for me, this

1565
01:11:37,280 --> 01:11:40,120
Speaker 2: isn't good for my child. If she feels that way,

1566
01:11:40,240 --> 01:11:46,000
Speaker 2: then things will change, hopefully, you know. And like I said,

1567
01:11:46,040 --> 01:11:48,280
Speaker 2: and even with all that I've kept saying over and over,

1568
01:11:48,520 --> 01:11:51,360
Speaker 2: I'm also allowed for the fact that or maybe I'm

1569
01:11:51,400 --> 01:11:53,160
Speaker 2: just fucking wrong, and this dude is back here beating

1570
01:11:53,160 --> 01:11:56,639
Speaker 2: on her, being like very like restrictive of her freedom

1571
01:11:56,720 --> 01:11:59,120
Speaker 2: and jealous, and he could be doing he could be

1572
01:11:59,120 --> 01:11:59,960
Speaker 2: the worst fucking person.

1573
01:12:00,080 --> 01:12:02,600
Speaker 3: He could be Lawrence Fishburne. And what's love got to

1574
01:12:02,600 --> 01:12:02,960
Speaker 3: do with it?

1575
01:12:03,000 --> 01:12:06,080
Speaker 2: I just don't know, that's it, And I don't feel

1576
01:12:06,160 --> 01:12:08,720
Speaker 2: and I won't feel bad for saying I don't know.

1577
01:12:09,479 --> 01:12:13,679
Speaker 2: I feel like more people need to be honest with it.

1578
01:12:12,600 --> 01:12:17,599
Speaker 4: And right, a thing is the thing.

1579
01:12:17,640 --> 01:12:20,040
Speaker 2: And just because society is male oriented doesn't negate the

1580
01:12:20,080 --> 01:12:22,240
Speaker 2: issues with these so called romantic gestures.

1581
01:12:22,760 --> 01:12:23,920
Speaker 3: When the society ever.

1582
01:12:23,840 --> 01:12:26,120
Speaker 2: Championed women, championing women as a whole, it is that

1583
01:12:26,240 --> 01:12:26,880
Speaker 2: private life.

1584
01:12:26,920 --> 01:12:29,320
Speaker 3: It is their private life, but they have chosen to

1585
01:12:29,320 --> 01:12:30,599
Speaker 3: air this out publicly.

1586
01:12:30,600 --> 01:12:32,679
Speaker 2: If you agree with all of that, then there isn't

1587
01:12:32,680 --> 01:12:36,000
Speaker 2: anything to this conversation, to this conversation. But as a listener,

1588
01:12:36,280 --> 01:12:39,920
Speaker 2: I did not gather that from your previous episode. All right,

1589
01:12:40,040 --> 01:12:42,320
Speaker 2: I appreciate you clarifying your position further, but I felt

1590
01:12:42,400 --> 01:12:44,920
Speaker 2: this was more of a clarity issue than you being

1591
01:12:44,920 --> 01:12:45,280
Speaker 2: a man.

1592
01:12:46,280 --> 01:12:48,880
Speaker 3: All right, Yeah, that's fine. It's just weird because me

1593
01:12:48,920 --> 01:12:50,200
Speaker 3: and Karen both talked about it.

1594
01:12:50,240 --> 01:12:54,840
Speaker 2: So I do feel like it kind of became about

1595
01:12:54,840 --> 01:12:57,280
Speaker 2: me being a dude. And that's fine, That's what male

1596
01:12:57,320 --> 01:12:59,839
Speaker 2: privilege is, Like, Yeah.

1597
01:12:59,640 --> 01:13:01,600
Speaker 1: Because I'm gonna keep rearing out at any period of

1598
01:13:01,640 --> 01:13:05,479
Speaker 1: time that with any of these comments directed towards me,

1599
01:13:05,880 --> 01:13:08,040
Speaker 1: and nobody had any period of time right in and

1600
01:13:08,080 --> 01:13:11,960
Speaker 1: be like, well, carrying girl, why didn't you support Cardi

1601
01:13:12,080 --> 01:13:13,840
Speaker 1: while you you know, let her get out here and

1602
01:13:13,880 --> 01:13:17,200
Speaker 1: hung the dry And I said it before and I

1603
01:13:17,200 --> 01:13:20,200
Speaker 1: will continue to say this again. People hear what they

1604
01:13:20,280 --> 01:13:23,639
Speaker 1: want to hear because I was here too. I heard

1605
01:13:23,640 --> 01:13:26,000
Speaker 1: the conversation to me and Right just talked about it online.

1606
01:13:26,000 --> 01:13:27,400
Speaker 1: Me and Right to talking I mean not online, but

1607
01:13:27,439 --> 01:13:28,920
Speaker 1: me and Right talk about it offline.

1608
01:13:29,000 --> 01:13:31,080
Speaker 4: We've had discovered, you know, conversations.

1609
01:13:31,120 --> 01:13:34,479
Speaker 1: He really listened to the show, and it's one.

1610
01:13:34,360 --> 01:13:37,879
Speaker 4: Of those things to where uh.

1611
01:13:38,040 --> 01:13:40,400
Speaker 1: And and And it's not even to be dismissive when

1612
01:13:40,439 --> 01:13:44,040
Speaker 1: I say this, but sometimes it's just something within you,

1613
01:13:44,040 --> 01:13:47,400
Speaker 1: you know, that makes you feel like we're having a

1614
01:13:47,439 --> 01:13:49,679
Speaker 1: fight when there's actually not a fight here. Like we're

1615
01:13:49,680 --> 01:13:53,880
Speaker 1: not arguing with you, we're not saying that you're not wrong,

1616
01:13:54,040 --> 01:13:54,960
Speaker 1: you're you're wrong and.

1617
01:13:54,920 --> 01:13:55,920
Speaker 4: Feeling this way.

1618
01:13:56,360 --> 01:13:59,000
Speaker 1: All we're saying is that there has to be an

1619
01:13:59,120 --> 01:14:06,320
Speaker 1: understanding that I said these things and went through them

1620
01:14:06,920 --> 01:14:11,479
Speaker 1: very because Roger picked his words very carefully, and people

1621
01:14:11,520 --> 01:14:13,559
Speaker 1: that have listened to this show over the years, there's

1622
01:14:13,640 --> 01:14:16,960
Speaker 1: nothing about Roger that will make you think he's ashy,

1623
01:14:17,000 --> 01:14:19,320
Speaker 1: that will make you think he's hotel, that will make

1624
01:14:19,400 --> 01:14:22,200
Speaker 1: you think that he would come out here and just

1625
01:14:22,280 --> 01:14:26,720
Speaker 1: dismiss this dude's actions and totality like to do it

1626
01:14:26,760 --> 01:14:31,519
Speaker 1: was right, And so for me, I feel like certain

1627
01:14:31,600 --> 01:14:34,559
Speaker 1: things was said and people kind of pinpointed those things

1628
01:14:34,720 --> 01:14:37,400
Speaker 1: and was just determined because you're a man, you were

1629
01:14:37,439 --> 01:14:40,240
Speaker 1: automatically wrong, and sometimes that can be a fact that

1630
01:14:40,240 --> 01:14:42,320
Speaker 1: that could be true. Please don't get me wrong, But

1631
01:14:42,479 --> 01:14:44,559
Speaker 1: like I said, I was here too. I heard him too.

1632
01:14:45,080 --> 01:14:47,960
Speaker 1: Other people wrote in and also said that, you know,

1633
01:14:48,840 --> 01:14:51,960
Speaker 1: they were glad he clarified and they had an understanding

1634
01:14:52,200 --> 01:14:55,160
Speaker 1: at some period of time. Baby, it's just you, and

1635
01:14:56,479 --> 01:14:58,320
Speaker 1: you know when you say that, people go, well, you're

1636
01:14:58,360 --> 01:15:00,840
Speaker 1: just no, I'm not dismissing anything at all, because actually,

1637
01:15:00,920 --> 01:15:02,919
Speaker 1: like I said right before, we're talking around in circles.

1638
01:15:03,400 --> 01:15:04,479
Speaker 4: You're acting like it's a fight.

1639
01:15:04,520 --> 01:15:06,800
Speaker 1: It's not a fight. You're saying we're disagreeing with you.

1640
01:15:06,920 --> 01:15:10,320
Speaker 1: We're not disagreeing with you. So then where is this confrontation?

1641
01:15:10,840 --> 01:15:13,559
Speaker 1: Where is this friction coming from on your side to

1642
01:15:13,600 --> 01:15:16,240
Speaker 1: make it appear as though we're.

1643
01:15:16,160 --> 01:15:18,479
Speaker 4: Arguing with you when actually there's no argument here.

1644
01:15:18,760 --> 01:15:21,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, Well, in all fairlers, they did say that they

1645
01:15:21,360 --> 01:15:24,040
Speaker 2: wanted clarity, and I provided that, so I do. I

1646
01:15:24,040 --> 01:15:27,160
Speaker 2: don't know that they think we're disagreeing at this point.

1647
01:15:27,240 --> 01:15:29,320
Speaker 3: I would really sincerely hope not.

1648
01:15:29,600 --> 01:15:32,320
Speaker 2: I would hope that I've probably been a bit too

1649
01:15:32,320 --> 01:15:35,720
Speaker 2: meticulous almost in going back over point by point. This

1650
01:15:35,760 --> 01:15:38,200
Speaker 2: is what I mean, this is what I'm saying, And

1651
01:15:40,000 --> 01:15:42,080
Speaker 2: you know, I did want to just kind of confront

1652
01:15:42,160 --> 01:15:46,960
Speaker 2: what I consider to be a misrepresentation that you know

1653
01:15:47,200 --> 01:15:50,439
Speaker 2: of the like, well, you're projecting if you think it's abuse. No,

1654
01:15:51,080 --> 01:15:54,519
Speaker 2: I think if you're saying this means he is like

1655
01:15:54,800 --> 01:15:57,320
Speaker 2: he's going to kill her, that that is, to me

1656
01:15:57,479 --> 01:16:00,880
Speaker 2: is a projection because we don't know that. That doesn't

1657
01:16:00,880 --> 01:16:03,519
Speaker 2: mean it's unrealistic. It's based on nothing or any of

1658
01:16:03,560 --> 01:16:06,479
Speaker 2: that shit. Like I said, I mean, I personally wouldn't

1659
01:16:06,479 --> 01:16:08,640
Speaker 2: have put up with any of the ship they have

1660
01:16:08,800 --> 01:16:09,639
Speaker 2: done to each other.

1661
01:16:09,720 --> 01:16:13,519
Speaker 3: But that's me even he says, oh go ahead, I'm.

1662
01:16:13,400 --> 01:16:15,200
Speaker 1: Sorry, no, right, And if it's one of those things

1663
01:16:15,240 --> 01:16:19,000
Speaker 1: where you feel like we're it's still a disagreement, well

1664
01:16:19,000 --> 01:16:20,320
Speaker 1: we just have to agree to disagree.

1665
01:16:20,360 --> 01:16:21,639
Speaker 4: Like I said, I don't. I don't.

1666
01:16:21,720 --> 01:16:25,639
Speaker 1: I don't ever think it was a conflict from the beginning.

1667
01:16:26,120 --> 01:16:28,400
Speaker 1: But I'm okay with you because everybody listen to the

1668
01:16:28,439 --> 01:16:30,360
Speaker 1: show does not one hundred percent agree with us, and

1669
01:16:30,439 --> 01:16:31,200
Speaker 1: we're okay with that.

1670
01:16:31,280 --> 01:16:34,120
Speaker 4: We don't take it personally. It's not an attack on us.

1671
01:16:34,360 --> 01:16:38,680
Speaker 1: Just because we don't say everything that you said, and

1672
01:16:38,720 --> 01:16:41,599
Speaker 1: vice versa. It's fans that voice the opinion that disagree

1673
01:16:41,640 --> 01:16:43,479
Speaker 1: with us all the time. That's that's not a problem

1674
01:16:43,479 --> 01:16:45,439
Speaker 1: at all. But you know, I, like I said, I

1675
01:16:45,479 --> 01:16:47,240
Speaker 1: just didn't want to sound dismissed it, but like I said,

1676
01:16:47,439 --> 01:16:50,679
Speaker 1: some period of time, it's it's not us.

1677
01:16:50,840 --> 01:16:54,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, And you know, I'm glad that we had a

1678
01:16:54,120 --> 01:16:56,280
Speaker 2: feedback for that, for people to come in and voice it,

1679
01:16:56,360 --> 01:17:00,479
Speaker 2: because you know, it helps sharpen my points to be like, well,

1680
01:17:00,520 --> 01:17:02,600
Speaker 2: this is what I want to say. And you know,

1681
01:17:02,720 --> 01:17:05,880
Speaker 2: occasionally I'm like, oh, yeah, I absolutely said that wrong,

1682
01:17:05,960 --> 01:17:09,479
Speaker 2: or I see the point that I didn't see before

1683
01:17:09,560 --> 01:17:11,680
Speaker 2: or whatever. It's just like I said, I really did

1684
01:17:11,720 --> 01:17:14,360
Speaker 2: re examine that because I try to be really careful

1685
01:17:14,360 --> 01:17:19,120
Speaker 2: about talking about women, especially black women like that on

1686
01:17:19,160 --> 01:17:22,640
Speaker 2: the show. But I would add one more analogy. I

1687
01:17:22,640 --> 01:17:24,519
Speaker 2: know everybody's rolling their eyes out in the world, but

1688
01:17:25,000 --> 01:17:27,559
Speaker 2: I would add one more analogy to me. This is

1689
01:17:27,600 --> 01:17:31,439
Speaker 2: like Martin lamont Hill last week when Mark lamont Hill

1690
01:17:31,560 --> 01:17:33,280
Speaker 2: said that river to the sea shit. We had a

1691
01:17:33,280 --> 01:17:35,320
Speaker 2: bit of a conversation about how you don't really wait

1692
01:17:35,360 --> 01:17:39,320
Speaker 2: into the water on people like Martin lamont Hill because

1693
01:17:39,360 --> 01:17:41,960
Speaker 2: Mark lamont Hill builds houses on sand casts, right, like

1694
01:17:42,280 --> 01:17:45,280
Speaker 2: he doesn't build a foundation. He says a lot of

1695
01:17:45,760 --> 01:17:49,200
Speaker 2: inflammatory rhetoric, goes off half cocked. His stuff doesn't always

1696
01:17:49,240 --> 01:17:54,200
Speaker 2: make sense. He will completely ignore points that he's made

1697
01:17:54,280 --> 01:17:57,240
Speaker 2: and have no accountability to him. So I'm not gonna

1698
01:17:57,280 --> 01:18:00,000
Speaker 2: let him being fired be my well, this Jewish thing

1699
01:18:00,000 --> 01:18:01,760
Speaker 2: and we need to talk about it because Israel is

1700
01:18:01,760 --> 01:18:05,200
Speaker 2: out of control in Palistini's freedom. Like, I'm not trying

1701
01:18:05,200 --> 01:18:07,200
Speaker 2: to say that that's not true, but I would not

1702
01:18:07,280 --> 01:18:09,680
Speaker 2: start that conversation based off of what I consider to

1703
01:18:09,720 --> 01:18:14,000
Speaker 2: be a Facebook meme of of a comment by by

1704
01:18:14,439 --> 01:18:17,720
Speaker 2: a guy. It's something I don't truly understand with Mark

1705
01:18:17,760 --> 01:18:20,840
Speaker 2: Lamont Hill. Well, that's how I feel about this. I'm

1706
01:18:20,880 --> 01:18:23,760
Speaker 2: not starting my let's talk about healthy relationships based off

1707
01:18:23,760 --> 01:18:27,320
Speaker 2: of Cardi B and her personal life. I just refuse

1708
01:18:27,400 --> 01:18:30,720
Speaker 2: to It's not it's not it's not gonna end up

1709
01:18:30,720 --> 01:18:32,559
Speaker 2: in a good place because you're starting with people that

1710
01:18:32,600 --> 01:18:35,759
Speaker 2: are already kind of being fucked up as a living,

1711
01:18:35,840 --> 01:18:39,080
Speaker 2: as a brand. Like everyone forgets that if bitch got

1712
01:18:39,080 --> 01:18:41,240
Speaker 2: a problem with me, she got a problem forever. Comment

1713
01:18:41,400 --> 01:18:44,080
Speaker 2: is not Cardi B saying that because someone did something

1714
01:18:44,080 --> 01:18:46,920
Speaker 2: wrong to hers, Because she's talking about taking someone else's man,

1715
01:18:47,600 --> 01:18:50,400
Speaker 2: you know, and beating up a woman who flew all

1716
01:18:50,439 --> 01:18:53,240
Speaker 2: the way from Europe to be with her boyfriend. She

1717
01:18:53,520 --> 01:18:55,559
Speaker 2: beat that woman up and physically solvet her on TV.

1718
01:18:56,120 --> 01:18:58,439
Speaker 2: No one carries those things with Cardie. None of us

1719
01:18:58,520 --> 01:19:00,600
Speaker 2: dislikes her because of that. No one said as she

1720
01:19:00,840 --> 01:19:04,280
Speaker 2: was wrong in a home rerecord. But instead people get

1721
01:19:04,320 --> 01:19:06,760
Speaker 2: mad at the woman who cheated with offset for going

1722
01:19:06,800 --> 01:19:08,680
Speaker 2: on Instagram and doing interviews about it.

1723
01:19:09,680 --> 01:19:11,320
Speaker 3: What we wouldn't know Cardi if.

1724
01:19:11,200 --> 01:19:14,000
Speaker 2: She wasn't doing interviews about cheating with other niggas women

1725
01:19:14,120 --> 01:19:15,760
Speaker 2: and other niggas men and shit like.

1726
01:19:16,439 --> 01:19:18,320
Speaker 3: It just is what it is. Man, None of none

1727
01:19:18,320 --> 01:19:19,040
Speaker 3: of this shit is clean.

1728
01:19:19,120 --> 01:19:21,920
Speaker 2: So I'm just staying I'm trying to have a conversation

1729
01:19:22,120 --> 01:19:25,639
Speaker 2: separate from from that, and I think if any mistake

1730
01:19:25,760 --> 01:19:27,519
Speaker 2: was really made, it's just the fact of trying to

1731
01:19:27,560 --> 01:19:31,280
Speaker 2: have a conversation based off of you know, this messy

1732
01:19:31,320 --> 01:19:31,760
Speaker 2: ass shit.

1733
01:19:32,080 --> 01:19:34,080
Speaker 3: It's not it's not gonna be black and white.

1734
01:19:33,960 --> 01:19:36,559
Speaker 1: Right, and it ain't clean, and and you know, the

1735
01:19:36,600 --> 01:19:39,040
Speaker 1: reality of it is people don't want to accept sometimes

1736
01:19:39,040 --> 01:19:40,920
Speaker 1: the fact that sh it ain't just black and white.

1737
01:19:41,400 --> 01:19:44,599
Speaker 3: All right, all right, let's let's move on.

1738
01:19:45,920 --> 01:19:48,920
Speaker 2: Uh Eve says, I'm all for Christians getting that holy

1739
01:19:48,960 --> 01:19:50,960
Speaker 2: cake smash smither ring sex, save as many.

1740
01:19:50,840 --> 01:19:52,280
Speaker 3: Lives as Jesus true.

1741
01:19:53,920 --> 01:19:58,200
Speaker 2: Hey, the poem is Christian? Uh wait, the Christian sex album?

1742
01:19:58,920 --> 01:20:01,240
Speaker 2: I guess I fu the type of on this I

1743
01:20:01,280 --> 01:20:05,760
Speaker 2: meant to say, is a Christian sex album good or

1744
01:20:05,760 --> 01:20:06,320
Speaker 2: something like that?

1745
01:20:06,400 --> 01:20:07,719
Speaker 3: Or would you listen to one?

1746
01:20:08,000 --> 01:20:11,960
Speaker 2: Yes, chop my Christian case the saintly smithereens Nay. I

1747
01:20:12,040 --> 01:20:18,799
Speaker 2: need that Satanic sex, Karen, I need fifty six percent?

1748
01:20:18,840 --> 01:20:19,439
Speaker 3: Agree with you.

1749
01:20:19,600 --> 01:20:21,639
Speaker 2: It was close, though, fifty six percent say they need

1750
01:20:21,640 --> 01:20:24,599
Speaker 2: some Satanic sex, and forty four percent said they will

1751
01:20:24,640 --> 01:20:26,920
Speaker 2: listen to the man's it makes sweet heavenly love.

1752
01:20:27,080 --> 01:20:27,519
Speaker 3: Okay.

1753
01:20:27,960 --> 01:20:29,960
Speaker 2: Mike and London says, I'm a Buddhist, so it's more

1754
01:20:30,080 --> 01:20:33,880
Speaker 2: like like some incense and assume the lotus position, for example,

1755
01:20:33,960 --> 01:20:36,760
Speaker 2: and then he put a list. Brooklyn shoe Bay says,

1756
01:20:36,760 --> 01:20:38,559
Speaker 2: I'm a Christian and inviting you to go to church

1757
01:20:38,600 --> 01:20:40,680
Speaker 2: with me means I have developed very strong feelings for

1758
01:20:40,720 --> 01:20:43,240
Speaker 2: you and invited someone into my spiritual life. It's much

1759
01:20:43,280 --> 01:20:45,439
Speaker 2: more intimate than inviting you into my body. I don't

1760
01:20:45,439 --> 01:20:47,880
Speaker 2: think of myself as corny Christians like Russell Wilson in

1761
01:20:47,920 --> 01:20:51,040
Speaker 2: Sierra of Michelle Williams and her now ex fiance, but

1762
01:20:51,120 --> 01:20:54,120
Speaker 2: I get down to some Christian love making music. The

1763
01:20:54,120 --> 01:20:57,160
Speaker 2: gospel music they played the secular radio could be a

1764
01:20:57,160 --> 01:20:59,120
Speaker 2: love song if you listen to it quickly. They never

1765
01:20:59,160 --> 01:21:00,599
Speaker 2: mentioned God or Jesus name.

1766
01:21:00,720 --> 01:21:01,040
Speaker 3: Lol.

1767
01:21:01,080 --> 01:21:03,960
Speaker 2: I think my parents would love it because they find

1768
01:21:03,960 --> 01:21:07,360
Speaker 2: today's R and B pretty voguer. I feel you on that, Yeah,

1769
01:21:07,360 --> 01:21:09,520
Speaker 2: I think people are unfairly hating on this album.

1770
01:21:10,240 --> 01:21:13,040
Speaker 3: Also, I reject Russell Wilson.

1771
01:21:12,760 --> 01:21:15,559
Speaker 2: This year having corny Christian sex. I think they are

1772
01:21:15,600 --> 01:21:20,479
Speaker 2: having some freaky ass sex. Yeah, I think y'all don't

1773
01:21:20,479 --> 01:21:24,559
Speaker 2: even know what that man is doing over there. Cet says,

1774
01:21:24,560 --> 01:21:26,759
Speaker 2: I'm Buddhist too. Shout out to the Mike from London,

1775
01:21:27,080 --> 01:21:29,240
Speaker 2: thank you, thanks for not being hated. Y'all saw the

1776
01:21:29,240 --> 01:21:31,720
Speaker 2: album covering on the Shade Room and surely skipped right over.

1777
01:21:31,800 --> 01:21:33,920
Speaker 2: If it wasn't for y'all, I would have never listened

1778
01:21:34,000 --> 01:21:35,679
Speaker 2: heard one song. Now that I heard it, I don't

1779
01:21:35,680 --> 01:21:37,439
Speaker 2: completely dismiss it, and it is for people that are

1780
01:21:37,439 --> 01:21:38,840
Speaker 2: trying to listen to nice sound of R and B

1781
01:21:38,920 --> 01:21:40,840
Speaker 2: with I regret now is that person me?

1782
01:21:41,200 --> 01:21:41,280
Speaker 4: No?

1783
01:21:41,640 --> 01:21:43,799
Speaker 2: But still I won't knock it because it's for someone.

1784
01:21:43,880 --> 01:21:45,280
Speaker 2: Thank you, Thank you.

1785
01:21:45,520 --> 01:21:47,479
Speaker 3: Yeah. I thought it was gonna sound way worse than

1786
01:21:47,520 --> 01:21:48,000
Speaker 3: it was.

1787
01:21:48,680 --> 01:21:52,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's what was like, come on now.

1788
01:21:52,520 --> 01:21:55,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, like some of the music sounds bad because they're

1789
01:21:55,800 --> 01:21:59,000
Speaker 2: trying to copy secular music, but they can't do the

1790
01:21:59,040 --> 01:22:01,800
Speaker 2: secular shit like especially I can wrap.

1791
01:22:01,840 --> 01:22:04,920
Speaker 3: It's like normally the worst with that. So I appreciated

1792
01:22:04,960 --> 01:22:06,639
Speaker 3: this all.

1793
01:22:06,600 --> 01:22:10,680
Speaker 2: Right, Uh eighteen thirteen, we're not in Texas anymore. I

1794
01:22:10,840 --> 01:22:16,479
Speaker 2: had five comments to get to these. Jamel says, I

1795
01:22:16,520 --> 01:22:18,920
Speaker 2: don't want. I don't want shit, just to say, if

1796
01:22:18,920 --> 01:22:22,920
Speaker 2: the ghost priorate was related to offset uh want and

1797
01:22:23,040 --> 01:22:26,439
Speaker 2: wanted her back, he would probably say, oh mate, I'm sorry.

1798
01:22:26,479 --> 01:22:33,600
Speaker 3: Bruh, that's terrible. Uh it's like Karen level pun. How's that.

1799
01:22:35,320 --> 01:22:37,679
Speaker 4: You have arrived? You got my level of pun?

1800
01:22:38,800 --> 01:22:41,240
Speaker 2: Ms Anderson says, I'm not sure where in New York

1801
01:22:41,280 --> 01:22:43,360
Speaker 2: that person is from, but we do have dollartry in

1802
01:22:43,439 --> 01:22:46,240
Speaker 2: Long Island, and I also feel like I'm bothering when

1803
01:22:46,280 --> 01:22:49,200
Speaker 2: I live up in there. We are you are right

1804
01:22:49,240 --> 01:22:51,720
Speaker 2: about them killing us though my boss worked for a

1805
01:22:51,760 --> 01:22:53,600
Speaker 2: company that ship stuff to try to be filled with

1806
01:22:53,640 --> 01:22:55,960
Speaker 2: some other product and shipped back and sold in the

1807
01:22:56,000 --> 01:23:00,280
Speaker 2: dollar store and name brand packaging. Mmmm, we should We

1808
01:23:00,320 --> 01:23:02,640
Speaker 2: could be dying. We could be lined. She could be lined, though,

1809
01:23:02,640 --> 01:23:04,840
Speaker 2: I don't trust that lady.

1810
01:23:05,120 --> 01:23:06,160
Speaker 3: My conspiracy grows.

1811
01:23:06,280 --> 01:23:10,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, the bot down truth because I worked at a

1812
01:23:10,360 --> 01:23:14,000
Speaker 1: pharmaceutical place where we actually packed like peels and things

1813
01:23:14,040 --> 01:23:14,360
Speaker 1: like that.

1814
01:23:15,200 --> 01:23:16,519
Speaker 4: The bottles would change.

1815
01:23:17,520 --> 01:23:19,760
Speaker 1: I mean, the bottles were the same, the medication was

1816
01:23:19,800 --> 01:23:20,759
Speaker 1: the same, y'all.

1817
01:23:20,520 --> 01:23:21,320
Speaker 4: Know what changed?

1818
01:23:21,720 --> 01:23:26,920
Speaker 1: The labels they the nose, the bottles.

1819
01:23:26,640 --> 01:23:29,200
Speaker 4: Would be blank. It would run down the line.

1820
01:23:29,520 --> 01:23:32,880
Speaker 1: It's Tayler. Naw, it run down the line again. It's

1821
01:23:32,880 --> 01:23:35,720
Speaker 1: the Kroger brand. It run down line again, it is

1822
01:23:35,800 --> 01:23:40,000
Speaker 1: the off brand. The motherfucking medication inside the bottle did

1823
01:23:40,040 --> 01:23:42,640
Speaker 1: not fucking change. And that's why I know for a

1824
01:23:42,680 --> 01:23:44,760
Speaker 1: fact that a lot of times if you turn the

1825
01:23:44,800 --> 01:23:47,840
Speaker 1: flip and flip the boxes and turn the bottle the

1826
01:23:47,920 --> 01:23:51,880
Speaker 1: side of the containers with medication, all of them have

1827
01:23:52,040 --> 01:23:55,160
Speaker 1: the exact same ingredients in them.

1828
01:23:55,200 --> 01:23:57,880
Speaker 4: Okay, so I believe them could because it's probably cheaper.

1829
01:23:58,160 --> 01:24:00,880
Speaker 3: I won't lie though I like the name. I don't know.

1830
01:24:01,280 --> 01:24:03,600
Speaker 3: I don't trust them Generics.

1831
01:24:05,520 --> 01:24:07,800
Speaker 2: Or Public Tailernod. I'll be going with the tilernand. I

1832
01:24:07,840 --> 01:24:09,760
Speaker 2: know they getting me for an extra dollars, but I

1833
01:24:09,800 --> 01:24:10,559
Speaker 2: mean it's in case.

1834
01:24:10,720 --> 01:24:12,920
Speaker 1: I mean, and sometimes I do it too, just because

1835
01:24:12,960 --> 01:24:15,200
Speaker 1: I'm like, hey, I'd rather spend the extra money too.

1836
01:24:15,240 --> 01:24:17,040
Speaker 3: I mean, no, I'm just saying they got me here.

1837
01:24:17,600 --> 01:24:17,920
Speaker 3: I'm not.

1838
01:24:18,000 --> 01:24:19,760
Speaker 2: I'm saying, you know for a fact, the truth, and

1839
01:24:19,760 --> 01:24:23,080
Speaker 2: they still got me. I was like, rover testing or

1840
01:24:24,560 --> 01:24:28,040
Speaker 2: Public's are testing. No, if that's the case, I'm going

1841
01:24:28,240 --> 01:24:29,920
Speaker 2: robotest an that robotesting.

1842
01:24:30,040 --> 01:24:33,120
Speaker 1: Every time I paid a two extra dollars, I believe

1843
01:24:33,160 --> 01:24:36,320
Speaker 1: them could think of because of the cost of American wages,

1844
01:24:36,360 --> 01:24:38,720
Speaker 1: even though they fucking suck. It's cheaper to do all

1845
01:24:38,760 --> 01:24:41,320
Speaker 1: that than it is to pay for the for the

1846
01:24:41,360 --> 01:24:43,559
Speaker 1: process to be completely done here in the United States.

1847
01:24:45,080 --> 01:24:46,040
Speaker 3: Uh, to be fair.

1848
01:24:46,120 --> 01:24:48,760
Speaker 2: In the fireboroughs of NYC, we have ninety nine cents store,

1849
01:24:48,800 --> 01:24:50,000
Speaker 2: but that ain't ship in there.

1850
01:24:50,040 --> 01:24:51,160
Speaker 3: That is ninety nine cents.

1851
01:24:51,160 --> 01:24:53,679
Speaker 2: But everything used to be a dollar plus tax about

1852
01:24:53,680 --> 01:24:56,240
Speaker 2: twenty years ago. Now we do have a handful of

1853
01:24:56,240 --> 01:24:59,200
Speaker 2: dollar trees, family dollars, and dollar generals throughout Brooklyn, and

1854
01:24:59,280 --> 01:25:00,920
Speaker 2: everything is a jet one dollar.

1855
01:25:01,000 --> 01:25:03,479
Speaker 3: I have bought groceries from dollar Tree, like canned.

1856
01:25:03,320 --> 01:25:07,320
Speaker 2: Vegetable soup, crackers, pasta, and some other broke people staples.

1857
01:25:07,439 --> 01:25:11,679
Speaker 3: Lol, Okay, did not know that.

1858
01:25:11,880 --> 01:25:13,519
Speaker 2: I guess June got to get out of Harlem and

1859
01:25:13,520 --> 01:25:15,559
Speaker 2: start getting some of these other boroughs so she get

1860
01:25:15,560 --> 01:25:19,160
Speaker 2: them deals. Start Start says that Jehovah witness attacks might

1861
01:25:19,200 --> 01:25:22,200
Speaker 2: be a thing, might be in response aka revenge to

1862
01:25:22,240 --> 01:25:24,400
Speaker 2: there being a mass uncovering of child abuse going on

1863
01:25:24,439 --> 01:25:27,560
Speaker 2: behind closed doors. Obviously, absolute power corrupts absolutely, so the

1864
01:25:27,640 --> 01:25:31,040
Speaker 2: hierarchy within the religion makes it very easy for badshit

1865
01:25:31,120 --> 01:25:33,439
Speaker 2: to go down. Most people willing to burn down one

1866
01:25:33,439 --> 01:25:36,439
Speaker 2: of their buildings knows specifically when nobody will be inside.

1867
01:25:36,439 --> 01:25:38,439
Speaker 2: The point is to keep them from meeting, not to

1868
01:25:38,479 --> 01:25:40,320
Speaker 2: actually hurt them. Oh, I did.

1869
01:25:40,200 --> 01:25:42,640
Speaker 3: Not know any of this. Why they ain't burning no

1870
01:25:42,640 --> 01:25:48,280
Speaker 3: Catholic churches down? Then? I mean, you know what, move on,

1871
01:25:54,120 --> 01:25:55,280
Speaker 3: that's not going anywhere.

1872
01:25:55,320 --> 01:26:01,040
Speaker 4: Good, gotta let it burn. I got little birds?

1873
01:26:01,360 --> 01:26:05,200
Speaker 3: Oh man, All right, that's all calmed down.

1874
01:26:05,240 --> 01:26:08,280
Speaker 2: Even E says, I'm not too proud to admit that

1875
01:26:08,320 --> 01:26:10,120
Speaker 2: the Dollar Store is my go to place for movie

1876
01:26:10,200 --> 01:26:13,640
Speaker 2: theater snacks, party decorations, gift bags and wrap paper and

1877
01:26:13,680 --> 01:26:14,320
Speaker 2: odds and ends.

1878
01:26:14,960 --> 01:26:17,599
Speaker 4: Oh yes, oh yeah, that wrap wrapping paper is the flame, now,

1879
01:26:17,680 --> 01:26:17,920
Speaker 4: you know.

1880
01:26:18,400 --> 01:26:22,600
Speaker 3: And and them back gift bags.

1881
01:26:22,720 --> 01:26:24,439
Speaker 4: I go on, dollar trees, gift bags.

1882
01:26:24,600 --> 01:26:26,840
Speaker 2: I'll buy just about anything from Dollar Store except me.

1883
01:26:27,040 --> 01:26:29,400
Speaker 2: I don't know about anywhere else, but the dollar trees

1884
01:26:29,400 --> 01:26:30,880
Speaker 2: in my neighborhood are really nice.

1885
01:26:31,040 --> 01:26:32,840
Speaker 3: That's for the jink. Listen you on. Who be in

1886
01:26:32,880 --> 01:26:33,679
Speaker 3: the dollar trees?

1887
01:26:33,800 --> 01:26:34,000
Speaker 4: Y'all?

1888
01:26:34,040 --> 01:26:35,920
Speaker 3: Wanna know who be in them dollar trees?

1889
01:26:35,960 --> 01:26:38,320
Speaker 2: I don't know why it is dollar trees and general

1890
01:26:38,360 --> 01:26:39,960
Speaker 2: dollar You know who be in them?

1891
01:26:40,240 --> 01:26:40,800
Speaker 3: White women?

1892
01:26:41,600 --> 01:26:43,040
Speaker 4: What up?

1893
01:26:43,400 --> 01:26:46,479
Speaker 3: White women with some money be in there. I've seen it.

1894
01:26:46,600 --> 01:26:47,639
Speaker 3: I've seen it with my own eyes.

1895
01:26:47,720 --> 01:26:48,960
Speaker 4: By the whole goddamn stow out.

1896
01:26:49,160 --> 01:26:49,800
Speaker 3: It's like when I.

1897
01:26:49,760 --> 01:26:52,840
Speaker 2: Saw white people are ready that damn Bojangle's chicken around

1898
01:26:52,840 --> 01:26:54,439
Speaker 2: the block when we moved over to the white side

1899
01:26:54,479 --> 01:26:57,519
Speaker 2: of town at that time, I was like, what y'all

1900
01:26:57,640 --> 01:27:00,840
Speaker 2: my whole life been making me believe niggas is the

1901
01:27:00,880 --> 01:27:03,400
Speaker 2: ones loving chicken. We ain't never had the bow Jangles

1902
01:27:03,439 --> 01:27:06,120
Speaker 2: wrapped around the block. Now, come on, now, oh.

1903
01:27:06,120 --> 01:27:08,800
Speaker 6: Yeah, the both Jenkins the white side of town, you know,

1904
01:27:09,760 --> 01:27:11,240
Speaker 6: and you know it's on a white side of town

1905
01:27:11,240 --> 01:27:14,160
Speaker 6: because they would even pay for the police officers the

1906
01:27:14,240 --> 01:27:17,720
Speaker 6: direct traffic in and around the bow Jenkins. The bow

1907
01:27:17,800 --> 01:27:19,760
Speaker 6: Jenkins was right beside the Chick fil A, so they

1908
01:27:19,840 --> 01:27:21,680
Speaker 6: end up directing traffic in the both of them.

1909
01:27:21,720 --> 01:27:22,599
Speaker 3: How dare you?

1910
01:27:22,760 --> 01:27:26,200
Speaker 2: How fucking dare you make me feel that I'm supposed

1911
01:27:26,200 --> 01:27:28,519
Speaker 2: to feel bad? I can chicken in public, y'allma, I

1912
01:27:28,520 --> 01:27:30,479
Speaker 2: ain't never been like, let me wait an hour for

1913
01:27:30,560 --> 01:27:33,280
Speaker 2: this chicken in my life other than that black family

1914
01:27:33,320 --> 01:27:34,360
Speaker 2: functions where they cook late.

1915
01:27:34,520 --> 01:27:36,080
Speaker 4: Other than that, that's all we show up.

1916
01:27:36,160 --> 01:27:40,559
Speaker 2: Lady never waited for anything as for that Jankie Wiz production.

1917
01:27:40,640 --> 01:27:41,519
Speaker 3: I think I can top it.

1918
01:27:41,560 --> 01:27:43,400
Speaker 2: I guess around the time of dream Girls the movie

1919
01:27:43,400 --> 01:27:45,040
Speaker 2: came out, my friends daughter was selling tickets to a

1920
01:27:45,080 --> 01:27:47,360
Speaker 2: high school play. He drama department decided to put on

1921
01:27:47,360 --> 01:27:50,360
Speaker 2: a multicultural version of dream Girls. And my multiculture, I

1922
01:27:50,400 --> 01:27:52,040
Speaker 2: mean there were only two black people in the cast,

1923
01:27:52,240 --> 01:27:54,120
Speaker 2: and neither of them played the main three girls. What

1924
01:27:55,160 --> 01:27:58,720
Speaker 2: and the girl played Fie White who was skinny, but

1925
01:27:58,760 --> 01:28:01,719
Speaker 2: they patted up her body with it was a hot mess.

1926
01:28:01,960 --> 01:28:03,240
Speaker 3: Okay, but they are kids, right?

1927
01:28:03,320 --> 01:28:03,360
Speaker 6: What?

1928
01:28:03,520 --> 01:28:04,760
Speaker 3: What great were they in?

1929
01:28:06,120 --> 01:28:07,360
Speaker 4: What's happening to high school?

1930
01:28:07,760 --> 01:28:12,479
Speaker 2: High school is late? It should be better about then.

1931
01:28:13,120 --> 01:28:14,760
Speaker 2: And when she sang and I'm telling you how, the

1932
01:28:14,800 --> 01:28:15,679
Speaker 2: audience walked out.

1933
01:28:15,800 --> 01:28:17,080
Speaker 3: No, not on the babies.

1934
01:28:17,800 --> 01:28:19,920
Speaker 2: Now see, you gotta take the l for the kids, man,

1935
01:28:19,960 --> 01:28:22,519
Speaker 2: you gotta stay for the kids. One white guy in

1936
01:28:22,520 --> 01:28:24,640
Speaker 2: the front of the audience stood up and yell, this

1937
01:28:24,880 --> 01:28:26,000
Speaker 2: is terrible.

1938
01:28:27,240 --> 01:28:28,080
Speaker 3: On the children.

1939
01:28:28,720 --> 01:28:30,559
Speaker 4: And you know what they are in high school.

1940
01:28:30,600 --> 01:28:33,280
Speaker 1: So you know a lot of them are like, hey, oh,

1941
01:28:34,200 --> 01:28:35,719
Speaker 1: I mean the tickets brought it free.

1942
01:28:35,760 --> 01:28:37,439
Speaker 4: I mean, you parents to love one.

1943
01:28:37,479 --> 01:28:40,080
Speaker 3: Right, You're supposed to be parents support other people kids.

1944
01:28:40,120 --> 01:28:42,800
Speaker 4: But they was like I didn't.

1945
01:28:42,560 --> 01:28:45,200
Speaker 2: Sign up for this, White fie Rent. See, this is

1946
01:28:45,200 --> 01:28:47,240
Speaker 2: why I can't be a parent, because I'll choke a nigga.

1947
01:28:47,760 --> 01:28:49,559
Speaker 2: If you blew my little girl, I'll choke the fuck

1948
01:28:49,600 --> 01:28:50,920
Speaker 2: out of you on the way out, Like, can I

1949
01:28:50,920 --> 01:28:53,080
Speaker 2: talk to you for a second? White fie Rent off

1950
01:28:53,080 --> 01:28:54,559
Speaker 2: the stage in tears. So the direct d had to

1951
01:28:54,560 --> 01:28:56,240
Speaker 2: come out and scold the audience, said, you should all

1952
01:28:56,280 --> 01:28:56,799
Speaker 2: be ashamed.

1953
01:28:56,840 --> 01:28:58,519
Speaker 3: It was a hot ass mess. He was right by

1954
01:28:58,560 --> 01:29:01,160
Speaker 3: the way. I mean he he should be ashamed for

1955
01:29:01,160 --> 01:29:02,120
Speaker 3: putting that shit out there.

1956
01:29:02,120 --> 01:29:03,320
Speaker 4: That's what I was about to say.

1957
01:29:03,920 --> 01:29:06,040
Speaker 1: You should have been like, you know what, baby, No, no,

1958
01:29:06,439 --> 01:29:08,880
Speaker 1: we gonna get your the lips sync this, Like he

1959
01:29:08,880 --> 01:29:11,680
Speaker 1: should be ashamed because you heard it before we heard it,

1960
01:29:11,720 --> 01:29:13,160
Speaker 1: so you know that baby couldn't.

1961
01:29:12,840 --> 01:29:14,280
Speaker 3: Say he should be ashamed.

1962
01:29:14,280 --> 01:29:15,880
Speaker 2: But now that y'all was all there in the autist,

1963
01:29:15,960 --> 01:29:18,760
Speaker 2: y'all was in this together. Okay, y'all was in on

1964
01:29:18,800 --> 01:29:22,000
Speaker 2: this dream girls heist. Y'all just ain't like, YO, what

1965
01:29:22,439 --> 01:29:25,000
Speaker 2: function right? Try to switch it up?

1966
01:29:26,080 --> 01:29:27,920
Speaker 3: But yeah, I would hit him up later and be like,

1967
01:29:27,960 --> 01:29:29,840
Speaker 3: you should be ashamed? What the fuck was you thinking?

1968
01:29:31,120 --> 01:29:33,120
Speaker 2: Would you rather see a good production of the Wiz

1969
01:29:33,200 --> 01:29:36,679
Speaker 2: or horrible production of the Wiz Karen a good one.

1970
01:29:37,120 --> 01:29:39,080
Speaker 2: Fifty three percent of audience says they rather see a

1971
01:29:39,120 --> 01:29:42,719
Speaker 2: good one. Eleven percent don't want to see either version,

1972
01:29:42,800 --> 01:29:45,519
Speaker 2: and I'm with the thirty seven percent horrible.

1973
01:29:45,640 --> 01:29:48,400
Speaker 3: Thank you. I would rather see the horrible version that

1974
01:29:48,520 --> 01:29:50,160
Speaker 3: sounded hilarious.

1975
01:29:50,920 --> 01:29:53,439
Speaker 2: I would not have walked out, I don't like I wouldn't.

1976
01:29:53,479 --> 01:29:55,200
Speaker 2: I would have been like, oh, this is about to

1977
01:29:55,280 --> 01:29:59,360
Speaker 2: be There's no place like Texas.

1978
01:29:59,600 --> 01:30:01,799
Speaker 3: What how did we get to practice?

1979
01:30:02,640 --> 01:30:03,920
Speaker 4: That's no place like Houston?

1980
01:30:04,040 --> 01:30:05,840
Speaker 3: What? Right? Oh? That has been so.

1981
01:30:05,880 --> 01:30:09,400
Speaker 4: Good, clean Antonio? Why are we traveling around Texas? What

1982
01:30:09,479 --> 01:30:10,120
Speaker 4: is happening here?

1983
01:30:10,720 --> 01:30:14,000
Speaker 3: These are the only places I know? We got some comments.

1984
01:30:14,080 --> 01:30:16,719
Speaker 2: Kim says, honestly that production of where It sounds funny

1985
01:30:16,720 --> 01:30:19,120
Speaker 2: as hell. I wouldn't have mind seeing just to laugh

1986
01:30:19,200 --> 01:30:21,639
Speaker 2: my ass off, but not for thirty five or seventy

1987
01:30:21,640 --> 01:30:23,639
Speaker 2: dollars maybe five or ten. Oh, get a good point.

1988
01:30:23,680 --> 01:30:26,759
Speaker 2: I did not think about the money. Valid point, valid point,

1989
01:30:26,960 --> 01:30:30,120
Speaker 2: valid very valid point. Actually that's a lot of money for.

1990
01:30:30,080 --> 01:30:30,759
Speaker 3: A bad production.

1991
01:30:30,880 --> 01:30:30,960
Speaker 1: Right.

1992
01:30:31,040 --> 01:30:32,600
Speaker 4: If I said, if I'm gonna pay full price, I

1993
01:30:32,600 --> 01:30:33,240
Speaker 4: want a good one.

1994
01:30:33,320 --> 01:30:34,200
Speaker 3: I didn't think about that.

1995
01:30:34,240 --> 01:30:36,040
Speaker 4: If I'm getting a group on. I do the bad one.

1996
01:30:36,120 --> 01:30:38,960
Speaker 2: But I'll say this once I'm already there. Are you

1997
01:30:39,040 --> 01:30:41,800
Speaker 2: right and it's bad, I'm staying. I'm staying once I'm

1998
01:30:41,800 --> 01:30:44,719
Speaker 2: already there. It's better than mediocre. I'd rather take bad.

1999
01:30:45,439 --> 01:30:48,240
Speaker 2: Cet says, you see, I try to go see shows

2000
01:30:48,240 --> 01:30:49,920
Speaker 2: in my city, but this shit sounds crazy.

2001
01:30:50,200 --> 01:30:53,120
Speaker 3: This makes me signed out. All the local shows. Don't

2002
01:30:53,120 --> 01:30:54,000
Speaker 3: do that to the local shows.

2003
01:30:54,080 --> 01:30:55,720
Speaker 4: They read some good local shows.

2004
01:30:55,800 --> 01:30:58,400
Speaker 2: I need to see a few four or five ratings

2005
01:30:58,400 --> 01:31:00,479
Speaker 2: before I go out to see your show. I feel

2006
01:31:00,479 --> 01:31:02,559
Speaker 2: you open the night as a risk. I'm just sad

2007
01:31:02,640 --> 01:31:04,479
Speaker 2: for the people that lost that hard ear money. Try

2008
01:31:04,520 --> 01:31:07,519
Speaker 2: and see a fun musical. Tim says, if I'm paying,

2009
01:31:07,560 --> 01:31:09,400
Speaker 2: I'd rather see a good production. But I think I

2010
01:31:09,479 --> 01:31:11,559
Speaker 2: get more enjoyment out of seeing a video of a

2011
01:31:11,560 --> 01:31:16,120
Speaker 2: bad production. Yeah, oh man, I'm suck inflicted on this.

2012
01:31:16,439 --> 01:31:19,000
Speaker 2: The troll part of me is like, let's just see

2013
01:31:19,040 --> 01:31:23,720
Speaker 2: the bad version. You know, all right, we got some voicemails.

2014
01:31:23,840 --> 01:31:26,800
Speaker 2: I will play them.

2015
01:31:27,040 --> 01:31:27,880
Speaker 3: This is our first one.

2016
01:31:27,960 --> 01:31:30,880
Speaker 2: The voicemail number is seven oh four five five seven

2017
01:31:31,000 --> 01:31:34,559
Speaker 2: zero one eight six seven O four five five seven

2018
01:31:34,720 --> 01:31:37,080
Speaker 2: zero one eight six and you can leave you two

2019
01:31:37,080 --> 01:31:39,040
Speaker 2: minutes or less voicemail Karen and.

2020
01:31:39,160 --> 01:31:43,280
Speaker 7: Rod, This is Falcon Steva, just calling. Hope I get

2021
01:31:43,280 --> 01:31:46,719
Speaker 7: this in in time for the tee back show. Anyways,

2022
01:31:46,720 --> 01:31:49,080
Speaker 7: for a while since I've just ritten in and told

2023
01:31:49,080 --> 01:31:51,840
Speaker 7: you guys how much I love and appreciate you, and

2024
01:31:51,920 --> 01:31:55,080
Speaker 7: I wanted to call and we got the happy holidays.

2025
01:31:55,360 --> 01:31:58,840
Speaker 7: Let you pray for you guys, because I know that

2026
01:31:58,920 --> 01:32:02,080
Speaker 7: you got couldn't work. I really appreciate it. So I

2027
01:32:02,200 --> 01:32:03,880
Speaker 7: just want to drop for a quick the line and

2028
01:32:03,960 --> 01:32:08,320
Speaker 7: say love you people doing what you're doing. I appreciate

2029
01:32:08,360 --> 01:32:10,879
Speaker 7: you guys behind us always.

2030
01:32:10,960 --> 01:32:13,840
Speaker 5: Oh and I got a new job, so my commute.

2031
01:32:13,360 --> 01:32:16,679
Speaker 7: Will go from fifty seven miles one way to five

2032
01:32:16,760 --> 01:32:20,000
Speaker 7: miles one way. I don't know when I'm gonna listen

2033
01:32:20,040 --> 01:32:22,160
Speaker 7: to you guys that you are the guys in the car.

2034
01:32:23,000 --> 01:32:29,240
Speaker 7: So anyway, love you, appreciate you. Happy holidays, and I

2035
01:32:29,280 --> 01:32:34,479
Speaker 7: can't wait to hear some more GGGWT in twenty nineteen.

2036
01:32:35,320 --> 01:32:39,759
Speaker 4: Bye, thank you, thank you. Shout out to the short commute.

2037
01:32:40,080 --> 01:32:42,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, I ain't listening. I don't care if it means

2038
01:32:42,760 --> 01:32:46,080
Speaker 2: you got to hear us less. There's nothing better than

2039
01:32:46,080 --> 01:32:47,080
Speaker 2: that short commute man.

2040
01:32:47,200 --> 01:32:48,400
Speaker 4: I Oh, I love it.

2041
01:32:48,640 --> 01:32:52,160
Speaker 2: On the highway, less time, less dangerous. Good for you,

2042
01:32:52,520 --> 01:32:54,600
Speaker 2: and I'm sure you'll hopefully you'll find a way to

2043
01:32:54,840 --> 01:32:57,320
Speaker 2: fit us in somewhere appreciate.

2044
01:32:57,000 --> 01:32:59,000
Speaker 4: It is on miles down like no joke.

2045
01:32:59,360 --> 01:33:01,599
Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, let's see we get to the next

2046
01:33:01,680 --> 01:33:07,400
Speaker 2: voicemail and that might I think that's it for this week.

2047
01:33:08,439 --> 01:33:11,839
Speaker 3: Oh no, No, it's one more ro and Karen.

2048
01:33:12,880 --> 01:33:16,800
Speaker 5: I think I would be anonymous. The story I want

2049
01:33:16,800 --> 01:33:22,200
Speaker 5: to say, but this que story bout this man getting beat.

2050
01:33:23,720 --> 01:33:28,599
Speaker 5: That shit is crazy because one y'all say he's so fou,

2051
01:33:29,680 --> 01:33:36,400
Speaker 5: but uh, that that shit really triggered me, because yeah,

2052
01:33:36,439 --> 01:33:37,439
Speaker 5: I got my ass beat.

2053
01:33:37,920 --> 01:33:38,920
Speaker 3: No, but I was like.

2054
01:33:38,920 --> 01:33:42,280
Speaker 5: Eighteen and I still don't know. I still don't know why.

2055
01:33:42,439 --> 01:33:46,840
Speaker 5: And now that I'm, you know, thirty three, fifteen years later,

2056
01:33:48,080 --> 01:33:50,640
Speaker 5: I don't even feel as connected to the org like

2057
01:33:50,680 --> 01:33:56,720
Speaker 5: that anymore, Not so much like nationally, but more so

2058
01:33:56,960 --> 01:34:00,439
Speaker 5: like the idea of being in a fraternity kind of

2059
01:34:00,439 --> 01:34:04,720
Speaker 5: turns me off now because I find myself like that

2060
01:34:04,760 --> 01:34:08,479
Speaker 5: should get real locker room these real fast when I'm

2061
01:34:08,520 --> 01:34:10,640
Speaker 5: around them, and I'm not even like that, you know.

2062
01:34:11,479 --> 01:34:14,960
Speaker 5: It's like I'm eighteen all over again. When I'm around them.

2063
01:34:15,280 --> 01:34:19,679
Speaker 5: But that doesn't mean all my experiences have been bad

2064
01:34:19,760 --> 01:34:23,720
Speaker 5: with my fraternity or with fraternities other Greeks. There's a

2065
01:34:23,720 --> 01:34:25,639
Speaker 5: lot of you know, the ship they tell you, they

2066
01:34:25,680 --> 01:34:27,640
Speaker 5: tell you when you join, you know a lot of

2067
01:34:27,960 --> 01:34:33,479
Speaker 5: business opportunities and stuff like that, job references that network.

2068
01:34:34,080 --> 01:34:35,000
Speaker 3: It's good, But.

2069
01:34:36,960 --> 01:34:39,360
Speaker 5: Yeah, I just don't really find myself being that interested.

2070
01:34:39,520 --> 01:34:44,040
Speaker 5: And when I was going through the hazing, I was like, oh,

2071
01:34:44,200 --> 01:34:46,040
Speaker 5: you know, if it made sense because I was eighteen

2072
01:34:46,040 --> 01:34:48,519
Speaker 5: and stupid. But now, if you ever try to tell

2073
01:34:48,560 --> 01:34:51,080
Speaker 5: somebody about what you went through, the ship really does

2074
01:34:51,160 --> 01:34:56,599
Speaker 5: sound like joining a cold run outside. One last thing,

2075
01:34:56,880 --> 01:34:59,880
Speaker 5: I would move to that town in Cleveland because I got.

2076
01:34:59,760 --> 01:34:59,960
Speaker 8: Hell of.

2077
01:35:05,040 --> 01:35:05,280
Speaker 4: Yeah.

2078
01:35:05,360 --> 01:35:08,080
Speaker 2: Man, I think it's weird because first of all, I

2079
01:35:08,080 --> 01:35:10,439
Speaker 2: was sorry that happened to you, obviously, I think I

2080
01:35:10,479 --> 01:35:14,240
Speaker 2: think it's really weird the fraternity shit, because somehow that's

2081
01:35:14,360 --> 01:35:18,719
Speaker 2: not like considered abuse or abusive to a lot of people.

2082
01:35:19,640 --> 01:35:22,280
Speaker 2: Once again, like things that I knew at eighteen, where

2083
01:35:22,320 --> 01:35:25,080
Speaker 2: I was like, no, that seems wrong to hit somebody

2084
01:35:25,600 --> 01:35:28,559
Speaker 2: who wants to be in your organization. And it was

2085
01:35:28,640 --> 01:35:32,640
Speaker 2: something that pretty much every organization on my campus was

2086
01:35:32,680 --> 01:35:34,880
Speaker 2: secretly going to do like it was just part of

2087
01:35:34,880 --> 01:35:37,200
Speaker 2: the pledging process. There was no you go paper. It

2088
01:35:37,240 --> 01:35:39,960
Speaker 2: was you become brothers, but us making you a psyche

2089
01:35:39,960 --> 01:35:42,320
Speaker 2: Greek alphabets and hitting you and doing all this type

2090
01:35:42,320 --> 01:35:44,559
Speaker 2: of shit. And so I never it was never on

2091
01:35:44,600 --> 01:35:48,240
Speaker 2: the table for me. But I just don't think I

2092
01:35:48,280 --> 01:35:51,200
Speaker 2: had that type of mentality, but I was. There were

2093
01:35:51,240 --> 01:35:53,639
Speaker 2: not everybody was not like me. I was the weird though.

2094
01:35:54,120 --> 01:35:57,559
Speaker 2: So once again another situation where I'm like, that sounds abusive.

2095
01:35:57,560 --> 01:35:59,960
Speaker 2: They could drive your car around, you can't walk on grads,

2096
01:36:00,240 --> 01:36:03,920
Speaker 2: You like, what, Like, why would they be able to

2097
01:36:03,960 --> 01:36:06,800
Speaker 2: do any of this to you? You're gonna pay them

2098
01:36:06,800 --> 01:36:11,400
Speaker 2: to let them do that. But those fraternities and sororities

2099
01:36:11,439 --> 01:36:13,599
Speaker 2: are around, and they exist, and they're very popular, and

2100
01:36:13,600 --> 01:36:16,760
Speaker 2: people have what they would consider to be great experiences

2101
01:36:16,800 --> 01:36:18,800
Speaker 2: in them. And so I don't know how I turn

2102
01:36:18,880 --> 01:36:21,120
Speaker 2: around and tell them, like, no, y'all were just beating

2103
01:36:21,120 --> 01:36:23,280
Speaker 2: and shit and that was fucked up And you shouldn't

2104
01:36:23,280 --> 01:36:24,760
Speaker 2: have to do that to be anybody's brother or.

2105
01:36:24,720 --> 01:36:27,360
Speaker 4: Sister, because different people experiences are different.

2106
01:36:27,360 --> 01:36:29,360
Speaker 1: Because you would talk to some people and they might

2107
01:36:29,400 --> 01:36:31,000
Speaker 1: not have had to deal with any of that, so

2108
01:36:31,040 --> 01:36:31,519
Speaker 1: I guess.

2109
01:36:31,400 --> 01:36:32,280
Speaker 4: It just varies.

2110
01:36:32,520 --> 01:36:34,840
Speaker 2: Well, it's some level of a for a lot of

2111
01:36:34,880 --> 01:36:37,400
Speaker 2: it's some level of abuse. It might not always be physical,

2112
01:36:37,400 --> 01:36:40,800
Speaker 2: but it's something. It's something, you know. But anyway, all

2113
01:36:40,840 --> 01:36:42,800
Speaker 2: that stuff aside, Man, I'm just sorry that happened to you.

2114
01:36:42,880 --> 01:36:46,040
Speaker 2: And yeah, a decision you made at eighteen nineteen might

2115
01:36:46,080 --> 01:36:48,679
Speaker 2: not be one that at thirty five is gonna necessarily

2116
01:36:48,720 --> 01:36:51,720
Speaker 2: be that fruitful. And I think at that age when

2117
01:36:51,760 --> 01:36:53,680
Speaker 2: they were selling that to me, I think it's just

2118
01:36:53,720 --> 01:36:57,040
Speaker 2: more I'm headstrong and stubborn in some ways. And so

2119
01:36:57,880 --> 01:37:00,000
Speaker 2: when they sold me the like you'll need these connections

2120
01:37:00,040 --> 01:37:01,559
Speaker 2: and ship, I was like, I don't think I will,

2121
01:37:02,479 --> 01:37:05,880
Speaker 2: you know. I'm like, I'll get my connections through internship

2122
01:37:05,920 --> 01:37:09,800
Speaker 2: programs and academically get the youth programs and ship. I'm

2123
01:37:09,800 --> 01:37:14,280
Speaker 2: not doing the uh, I'm not gonna do the fraternity thing,

2124
01:37:14,560 --> 01:37:18,479
Speaker 2: you know. But yeah, like I said, I don't want to.

2125
01:37:18,840 --> 01:37:20,439
Speaker 2: There is another one of those topics. I don't feel

2126
01:37:20,479 --> 01:37:23,840
Speaker 2: like alien a now the audience that uh pledge and ship,

2127
01:37:23,920 --> 01:37:26,040
Speaker 2: and I don't feel like fighting anybody over it.

2128
01:37:26,040 --> 01:37:27,360
Speaker 3: It just is what it is.

2129
01:37:27,400 --> 01:37:30,720
Speaker 2: It's not something for me, all right. I think we

2130
01:37:30,760 --> 01:37:33,559
Speaker 2: have one more voicemail. Actually, let's see where were we at?

2131
01:37:33,640 --> 01:37:34,400
Speaker 3: That was here?

2132
01:37:34,479 --> 01:37:37,920
Speaker 2: So then Wednesday is here and that should be the

2133
01:37:38,000 --> 01:37:42,080
Speaker 2: last one for the week. Uh, okay, why isn't it

2134
01:37:42,120 --> 01:37:46,800
Speaker 2: not going here? Goddamn it, Skype, you were doing so

2135
01:37:46,920 --> 01:37:49,559
Speaker 2: great you okay, did it work?

2136
01:37:50,040 --> 01:37:58,640
Speaker 3: No? All right? What about now? Oh? Why did it

2137
01:37:58,680 --> 01:38:01,880
Speaker 3: even work? On the Now? Skype is wrong? It's calling somebody.

2138
01:38:01,920 --> 01:38:06,040
Speaker 3: I didn't tell her. What was he doing? Like? What

2139
01:38:07,200 --> 01:38:10,799
Speaker 3: come on Skype together? All right, let's see.

2140
01:38:10,640 --> 01:38:15,439
Speaker 2: If it works now, okay, hung up?

2141
01:38:15,520 --> 01:38:23,200
Speaker 3: Thank you? Okay, now it should work all right, And

2142
01:38:23,240 --> 01:38:26,679
Speaker 3: of course you gotta give it a second because you'll

2143
01:38:26,800 --> 01:38:28,160
Speaker 3: have to kill the Skype.

2144
01:38:29,920 --> 01:38:32,639
Speaker 8: Running. Karen, just to be mine, sorry about my voice,

2145
01:38:32,680 --> 01:38:37,559
Speaker 8: and I'm just a little sick. But I never laughed

2146
01:38:37,680 --> 01:38:41,639
Speaker 8: so hard as when Karen didn't laugh at your Freddie

2147
01:38:41,720 --> 01:38:45,280
Speaker 8: Mercury joke. It was just like he said, a fresh line.

2148
01:38:45,280 --> 01:38:47,599
Speaker 5: It was just cricket, he sighed.

2149
01:38:51,160 --> 01:38:56,840
Speaker 8: I was like, oh, man, I love you. I'm down

2150
01:38:56,920 --> 01:38:58,200
Speaker 8: it because it's so honest.

2151
01:39:00,840 --> 01:39:05,040
Speaker 5: You're like, okay, Oh, I also love it.

2152
01:39:05,040 --> 01:39:08,400
Speaker 8: When there's a like when y'all read a story and

2153
01:39:08,439 --> 01:39:10,840
Speaker 8: there's like a long pause and it happens to me

2154
01:39:10,880 --> 01:39:14,920
Speaker 8: almost every time. Sometimes, like if I'm looking at my

2155
01:39:14,960 --> 01:39:18,600
Speaker 8: phone when it happens, I know what's happening. But a

2156
01:39:18,600 --> 01:39:21,439
Speaker 8: lot of times, if I'm in my car listening and

2157
01:39:21,520 --> 01:39:23,920
Speaker 8: you guys do a long pouse because it was just

2158
01:39:24,000 --> 01:39:28,280
Speaker 8: a foolishness that you knew was gonna happen, and you

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01:39:28,400 --> 01:39:30,920
Speaker 8: just have this really long silence, I was like, oh no,

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01:39:31,200 --> 01:39:34,840
Speaker 8: what happened to my phone? The podcast turn off? I'm

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01:39:34,840 --> 01:39:38,400
Speaker 8: just accolutely press something and I'm looking and then you

2162
01:39:38,439 --> 01:39:41,400
Speaker 8: guys have a heavy sigh.

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01:39:41,720 --> 01:39:53,000
Speaker 9: You're like, I'm gonna go all right by hope you

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01:39:53,040 --> 01:39:55,280
Speaker 9: feel better, baby, Yeah, thank you for calling them on,

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01:39:55,400 --> 01:39:56,679
Speaker 9: and I do help you feel better.

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01:39:58,000 --> 01:40:00,639
Speaker 2: And uh yeah, not all the joke. So I knew

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01:40:00,640 --> 01:40:02,320
Speaker 2: when I said that joke it wasn't funny. I just

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01:40:02,360 --> 01:40:04,360
Speaker 2: had to get it out, y'all. Y'all ever have that,

2169
01:40:04,960 --> 01:40:06,400
Speaker 2: you just had to get it out. You're like, this

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01:40:06,479 --> 01:40:09,000
Speaker 2: is a terrible, terrible joke. But if I don't tell

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01:40:09,040 --> 01:40:12,360
Speaker 2: the world how terrible this terrible joke, I'll never be

2172
01:40:12,400 --> 01:40:13,360
Speaker 2: able to live with myself.

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01:40:13,479 --> 01:40:15,240
Speaker 4: And see, now it's the same. That's how you feel

2174
01:40:15,280 --> 01:40:16,600
Speaker 4: about my terrible puns.

2175
01:40:16,680 --> 01:40:17,200
Speaker 3: That's true.

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01:40:18,400 --> 01:40:22,880
Speaker 2: That's why we're together. And just like me, didn't laugh. No,

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01:40:23,320 --> 01:40:25,200
Speaker 2: actually I do laugh at your terrible puns. It is

2178
01:40:25,200 --> 01:40:26,400
Speaker 2: probably a problem.

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Speaker 4: Y'all. Do it too, y'all be encouraged about terrible puns.

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Speaker 3: I got some emails, a lot of them. Actually, let's

2181
01:40:32,200 --> 01:40:32,920
Speaker 3: get to them. Okay.

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01:40:33,560 --> 01:40:39,360
Speaker 2: Someone Jane sent me a gift for my candle. Their

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01:40:39,360 --> 01:40:43,559
Speaker 2: eyes were watching God, a novel by Zora Neil Hurston.

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01:40:44,200 --> 01:40:46,080
Speaker 2: I added on my list. That's why it lets me

2185
01:40:46,120 --> 01:40:49,599
Speaker 2: add Kindle books on my list now for time right,

2186
01:40:49,680 --> 01:40:51,439
Speaker 2: it used to wouldn't let me do it, but now

2187
01:40:51,520 --> 01:40:53,400
Speaker 2: on Amazon, it lets me add them to my Kindle

2188
01:40:53,439 --> 01:40:55,000
Speaker 2: wish list. So if people go to our wish list

2189
01:40:55,040 --> 01:40:58,120
Speaker 2: and want to get us something, there's books on there too.

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01:40:57,960 --> 01:41:03,280
Speaker 3: Now, Uhane, Jane? All right's see Allegro.

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01:41:03,520 --> 01:41:07,559
Speaker 2: Then feedback on eighteen o nine feedback show, Hello you too.

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Speaker 4: Well.

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01:41:08,280 --> 01:41:10,280
Speaker 2: Listening to your feedback show eighteen o nine, I realized

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01:41:10,320 --> 01:41:11,360
Speaker 2: another aspect of my dukes.

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01:41:11,360 --> 01:41:13,320
Speaker 3: It has a childhood. I mentioned that as a.

2196
01:41:13,360 --> 01:41:15,920
Speaker 2: Child I was bitter about not getting dukes as a paraphernalia.

2197
01:41:15,960 --> 01:41:18,120
Speaker 2: But I just realized while listened to my aunt, a

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01:41:18,160 --> 01:41:22,479
Speaker 2: blond hair, blue eyed native Missouri, Missouri woman clearly did

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01:41:22,560 --> 01:41:25,080
Speaker 2: not have an adverse reaction to the Confederate flag. Giving

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01:41:25,120 --> 01:41:27,680
Speaker 2: her background, it's allege that her father may have been

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Speaker 2: a high rank.

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Speaker 3: And clan member. Little girl, thank you, I'm glad you hear.

2203
01:41:32,040 --> 01:41:33,559
Speaker 3: I'm glad you made it through that come out.

2204
01:41:33,920 --> 01:41:36,000
Speaker 2: Though she was mostly a strange from her family for

2205
01:41:36,080 --> 01:41:39,919
Speaker 2: marrying a black man and having biracial babies, her upbringing

2206
01:41:40,000 --> 01:41:44,960
Speaker 2: probably highly likely included appreciation for that whitewash history. True,

2207
01:41:45,479 --> 01:41:47,640
Speaker 2: like you can be woke but still not know and

2208
01:41:47,720 --> 01:41:50,240
Speaker 2: still don't understand because you're still white.

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Speaker 3: Anyway.

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01:41:51,280 --> 01:41:53,560
Speaker 2: I had learned as I got older that white that

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01:41:53,600 --> 01:41:55,640
Speaker 2: flag is truly terrible, But it's only now that I'm

2212
01:41:55,680 --> 01:41:57,720
Speaker 2: realizing how the affected our family in my childhood.

2213
01:41:57,960 --> 01:42:00,679
Speaker 3: Crazy, how our country prize itself on keeping people ignorant.

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01:42:00,760 --> 01:42:04,839
Speaker 3: Love you, guys, legate, Yep, yes, thank you, baby, But yes.

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01:42:05,120 --> 01:42:07,360
Speaker 2: Nobody likes to hear that point when people make it.

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01:42:07,439 --> 01:42:09,639
Speaker 2: But I'll make it anyway because I don't give a fuck.

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01:42:10,640 --> 01:42:12,880
Speaker 2: White people are victim of racism too because of stupid

2218
01:42:12,920 --> 01:42:18,280
Speaker 2: shit like that, like in trying to make it about us,

2219
01:42:18,360 --> 01:42:21,480
Speaker 2: they've also successfully wounded themselves.

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01:42:23,040 --> 01:42:26,200
Speaker 3: It's so stupid. It's just so stupid because then knows.

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01:42:26,479 --> 01:42:28,519
Speaker 3: We did get a five star review from Great Britain.

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01:42:29,320 --> 01:42:31,879
Speaker 3: Yay uh this is from last.

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01:42:31,680 --> 01:42:36,439
Speaker 2: Week we out your Heart emogic five stars as by

2224
01:42:36,600 --> 01:42:40,040
Speaker 2: it looks like betto and then a bunch of numbers.

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01:42:41,760 --> 01:42:44,360
Speaker 2: It says Karen and Rod, I love your work the

2226
01:42:44,360 --> 01:42:46,600
Speaker 2: way you both think your humor with a U in it.

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01:42:46,800 --> 01:42:49,320
Speaker 3: Hey, thank you, Pip.

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01:42:51,680 --> 01:42:55,080
Speaker 2: That's as far as good day, good day, I say,

2229
01:42:56,240 --> 01:42:58,640
Speaker 2: and dedication to your podcast. The black Out Tests was

2230
01:42:58,680 --> 01:43:01,000
Speaker 2: a tremendous addition to my life life in twenty sixteen,

2231
01:43:01,200 --> 01:43:04,920
Speaker 2: and like everywhere else has said, you feel like family.

2232
01:43:04,960 --> 01:43:06,840
Speaker 2: But I hope I never get too familiar for helping

2233
01:43:06,880 --> 01:43:09,679
Speaker 2: me with my Southern accent to help him.

2234
01:43:09,600 --> 01:43:12,280
Speaker 3: Take Oh it's all it got cut off. How do

2235
01:43:12,400 --> 01:43:13,240
Speaker 3: I see the whole review?

2236
01:43:14,120 --> 01:43:15,800
Speaker 2: I don't know how to see the whole review? Oh wait,

2237
01:43:15,840 --> 01:43:17,240
Speaker 2: I had to go to iTunes and put it in

2238
01:43:17,240 --> 01:43:20,599
Speaker 2: Great Britain. Wanner, I think I would have to do that. Okay,

2239
01:43:20,880 --> 01:43:25,160
Speaker 2: did you go and see uh yeah, sure, but I

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01:43:25,160 --> 01:43:27,040
Speaker 2: had to do it in the background. Give me a second,

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01:43:27,040 --> 01:43:30,840
Speaker 2: everybody to get to that because I don't know another

2242
01:43:30,880 --> 01:43:31,639
Speaker 2: way to see it.

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01:43:31,840 --> 01:43:34,920
Speaker 3: This is link I can click. Let me see if

2244
01:43:34,920 --> 01:43:35,600
Speaker 3: this takes me to it.

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01:43:35,680 --> 01:43:37,519
Speaker 4: Let me see a bunch of flags.

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01:43:37,560 --> 01:43:39,360
Speaker 3: Oh okay, you know what, Now this link will take

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01:43:39,400 --> 01:43:39,720
Speaker 3: me to it.

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01:43:39,720 --> 01:43:41,920
Speaker 2: There we go, all right, Okay, to help me with

2249
01:43:41,920 --> 01:43:43,960
Speaker 2: my southern accent, to help me take my mind off

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01:43:44,000 --> 01:43:45,519
Speaker 2: of my illness. I was in the hospital for two

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01:43:45,520 --> 01:43:48,960
Speaker 2: months and back again for three weeks for sharing your

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01:43:48,960 --> 01:43:52,439
Speaker 2: blackness and helping me feel like a black a black

2253
01:43:52,479 --> 01:43:54,720
Speaker 2: CRUs Yes, I use the N word now, and this

2254
01:43:54,840 --> 01:44:01,000
Speaker 2: your all your fault. It's honestly, it's this is my superpower.

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Speaker 3: You're welcome.

2256
01:44:02,040 --> 01:44:05,800
Speaker 2: It's honestly the one thing that's it really is my superpower.

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01:44:06,080 --> 01:44:08,040
Speaker 2: Be careful I use it though, Okay, got it. I

2258
01:44:08,080 --> 01:44:09,439
Speaker 2: know you you're new to it, so.

2259
01:44:09,400 --> 01:44:11,439
Speaker 4: You gotta great power comes possible.

2260
01:44:11,520 --> 01:44:13,479
Speaker 2: Yeah, you gotta like kind of parts it out, you know,

2261
01:44:13,560 --> 01:44:14,760
Speaker 2: and make sure you're using it right.

2262
01:44:14,920 --> 01:44:16,320
Speaker 4: Know when you said and know when the whisper it

2263
01:44:16,400 --> 01:44:17,920
Speaker 4: be like look around, like.

2264
01:44:18,360 --> 01:44:20,840
Speaker 3: Listen to lots of rap Dave Chappelle. They'll get your

2265
01:44:20,920 --> 01:44:24,080
Speaker 3: niggas right. Uh. And if you want to go high level,

2266
01:44:25,080 --> 01:44:29,840
Speaker 3: maybe even go to What's My man? Why I can't

2267
01:44:29,880 --> 01:44:31,920
Speaker 3: think Paul Mooney? Maybe even go pal money with it.

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01:44:32,960 --> 01:44:34,720
Speaker 2: I love your band to your chemistry, your guess, your

2269
01:44:34,760 --> 01:44:37,360
Speaker 2: closed mouth, laugh of rise and Karen's blasted.

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01:44:37,080 --> 01:44:40,000
Speaker 3: Jory, thank you endlessly love, love and more love. How

2271
01:44:40,000 --> 01:44:42,080
Speaker 3: about Bet? Oh, thank you? How about bet?

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01:44:42,120 --> 01:44:42,679
Speaker 4: Thank you?

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01:44:43,320 --> 01:44:43,960
Speaker 3: There we go?

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01:44:44,040 --> 01:44:47,320
Speaker 2: All right, let's go to the next email. See what

2275
01:44:47,360 --> 01:44:54,479
Speaker 2: else we got here? How about I don't know if

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01:44:54,479 --> 01:44:55,799
Speaker 2: it's pronounced Tanya or Tonia?

2277
01:44:56,560 --> 01:45:00,000
Speaker 3: Hey, toy here? Oh, there we go? Toy uh.

2278
01:45:00,000 --> 01:45:02,080
Speaker 2: In June twenty seventeen, I had to leave my husband

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01:45:02,080 --> 01:45:05,679
Speaker 2: after and during emotional, mental, financial, and physical abuse. Eventually

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01:45:05,720 --> 01:45:07,240
Speaker 2: I had to get a restrain in order to keep

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01:45:07,280 --> 01:45:09,120
Speaker 2: it short. I had to fight for my life. I

2282
01:45:09,160 --> 01:45:11,880
Speaker 2: lost a lot. I still miss my old life in Charlotte.

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01:45:12,040 --> 01:45:14,200
Speaker 2: I understand that going back put me in danger of

2284
01:45:14,240 --> 01:45:15,479
Speaker 2: my ex husband finding me.

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01:45:15,880 --> 01:45:16,639
Speaker 3: When I saw.

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01:45:16,439 --> 01:45:18,479
Speaker 2: Everything happened with Cardy, I felt for her. I married

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01:45:18,479 --> 01:45:20,200
Speaker 2: my husband at twenty three. I had to leave it

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01:45:20,320 --> 01:45:23,080
Speaker 2: twenty five. We're around the same age. She will have

2289
01:45:23,160 --> 01:45:25,479
Speaker 2: to make a hard decision regarding her marriage.

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01:45:25,520 --> 01:45:26,200
Speaker 3: If she does.

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01:45:26,040 --> 01:45:30,240
Speaker 2: Decide to leave off cheat, it will probably be it

2292
01:45:30,240 --> 01:45:32,000
Speaker 2: will probably be one of the hardest things she's ever

2293
01:45:32,080 --> 01:45:34,160
Speaker 2: had to do. She will take a loss financially because

2294
01:45:34,200 --> 01:45:36,040
Speaker 2: her career popped off during the marriage.

2295
01:45:36,479 --> 01:45:37,400
Speaker 3: It is what it is.

2296
01:45:37,439 --> 01:45:39,720
Speaker 2: Every person who gets divorced has to take some sort

2297
01:45:39,720 --> 01:45:40,200
Speaker 2: of loss.

2298
01:45:40,640 --> 01:45:42,040
Speaker 3: That's deep. That's true.

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01:45:42,360 --> 01:45:44,519
Speaker 2: When I left my ex husband, all I had was

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01:45:44,560 --> 01:45:49,280
Speaker 2: my son. Not here is thank God, my right, my

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01:45:49,400 --> 01:45:52,280
Speaker 2: car and my clothes. I slept in my car some nights. However,

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01:45:52,360 --> 01:45:54,120
Speaker 2: my son and I now have a beautiful life.

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01:45:54,200 --> 01:45:56,559
Speaker 3: And I don't even know what I should be saying.

2304
01:45:56,560 --> 01:45:59,759
Speaker 4: Where you live now saying yeah, skip the city.

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01:46:00,040 --> 01:46:02,600
Speaker 2: Lem'a skipped that far because I don't feel comfort. We

2306
01:46:02,640 --> 01:46:04,719
Speaker 2: are still recovering. My son and I had to both

2307
01:46:04,760 --> 01:46:06,479
Speaker 2: go to therapy. Sorry for the long email.

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01:46:06,520 --> 01:46:09,519
Speaker 3: It's not too long. It's fun. All I say is all.

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01:46:09,760 --> 01:46:10,120
Speaker 3: I said.

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01:46:10,560 --> 01:46:13,080
Speaker 2: All this to say that if Cardi choose to move on,

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01:46:13,200 --> 01:46:15,160
Speaker 2: she will take some losses, but she is still young

2312
01:46:15,240 --> 01:46:16,840
Speaker 2: and she has so much time to get it right

2313
01:46:16,840 --> 01:46:21,280
Speaker 2: the next time. Yeah, and if especially if that's the

2314
01:46:21,320 --> 01:46:24,080
Speaker 2: stuff that's happening with him, Like I said, I don't know.

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01:46:24,080 --> 01:46:28,080
Speaker 3: What's happening with them. I don't know. That's all I got.

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01:46:28,120 --> 01:46:30,479
Speaker 2: And I understand why if you have their history, that's

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01:46:30,479 --> 01:46:33,519
Speaker 2: the first place you're gonna go. Like, nah, you know

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01:46:33,560 --> 01:46:36,400
Speaker 2: what I mean. So, and I think people had to

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01:46:36,400 --> 01:46:38,720
Speaker 2: do so much to survive. And I really hate that

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01:46:39,080 --> 01:46:42,160
Speaker 2: people felt like my police analogy was so fucked up

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01:46:42,200 --> 01:46:45,400
Speaker 2: because I'm like, that's to me, that's kind of a

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01:46:45,479 --> 01:46:49,120
Speaker 2: working analogy that works because it doesn't fucking matter to

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01:46:49,280 --> 01:46:51,639
Speaker 2: me what the intent is.

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01:46:51,760 --> 01:46:52,599
Speaker 3: At a certain extent.

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01:46:52,640 --> 01:46:55,040
Speaker 2: There's just a certain imagery I see and I'm like, nah,

2326
01:46:55,400 --> 01:46:57,920
Speaker 2: something bad is gonna happen. Fight or flight kicks in.

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01:46:58,200 --> 01:47:00,840
Speaker 2: I won't out. Everyone should be out. When I see

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01:47:00,880 --> 01:47:03,320
Speaker 2: people get other people get pulled over by the police.

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01:47:03,240 --> 01:47:04,760
Speaker 4: What I'm gonna tell you.

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01:47:04,840 --> 01:47:07,120
Speaker 1: If I'm riding, I'll just stuff I ride, I see

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01:47:07,160 --> 01:47:09,840
Speaker 1: other people pull over, I stop panicking, and I'll start

2332
01:47:09,880 --> 01:47:11,599
Speaker 1: thinking about them. I'd be like, I hope that nothing

2333
01:47:11,600 --> 01:47:14,400
Speaker 1: happened in it. It's like I automatically just go into it.

2334
01:47:14,479 --> 01:47:16,519
Speaker 1: I hope doesn't happen to them. I hope they save

2335
01:47:16,600 --> 01:47:19,800
Speaker 1: I hope the police officer's minded right, like almost immediately

2336
01:47:19,800 --> 01:47:21,400
Speaker 1: when I see them, because I was like, I do

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01:47:21,520 --> 01:47:22,719
Speaker 1: not want this to in bad.

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01:47:22,920 --> 01:47:24,920
Speaker 4: I don't want to pass this. And then I'm watching

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01:47:24,960 --> 01:47:25,720
Speaker 4: the news.

2340
01:47:25,479 --> 01:47:28,240
Speaker 1: And to be like, so on, so got shot, you know,

2341
01:47:28,400 --> 01:47:31,080
Speaker 1: just from a random from a routine check.

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01:47:31,680 --> 01:47:36,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, so I hope anyway, not gonna re explain myself.

2343
01:47:36,040 --> 01:47:39,240
Speaker 2: But come on, Ernest Wright said, steam pastors riding car

2344
01:47:39,439 --> 01:47:41,560
Speaker 2: given honor to God, the deacons, and my brothers and

2345
01:47:41,600 --> 01:47:45,439
Speaker 2: sisters anti anti blackness. I come before the congregation the

2346
01:47:45,520 --> 01:47:47,840
Speaker 2: day and need a prayer for I am a black.

2347
01:47:48,640 --> 01:47:53,120
Speaker 2: I a black, am fucked with. As evidence of said fuckery,

2348
01:47:53,160 --> 01:47:55,559
Speaker 2: please see the linked images which our skins are the

2349
01:47:55,600 --> 01:47:58,320
Speaker 2: front and back of an unwanted handbill found on my

2350
01:47:58,400 --> 01:48:05,120
Speaker 2: windshield after a heart day's work. Uh it's after perusing

2351
01:48:05,120 --> 01:48:08,720
Speaker 2: this foolishness, I found the following e book on Amazon,

2352
01:48:08,920 --> 01:48:10,040
Speaker 2: as promised by.

2353
01:48:09,960 --> 01:48:14,040
Speaker 3: This migger M I G G E R missive. Okay,

2354
01:48:14,200 --> 01:48:14,599
Speaker 3: let me.

2355
01:48:14,640 --> 01:48:16,679
Speaker 2: Share my screen because people are gonna have to see

2356
01:48:16,680 --> 01:48:17,640
Speaker 2: this in order to get it.

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01:48:18,920 --> 01:48:20,880
Speaker 3: Oh, I see, we don't have much time left in

2358
01:48:20,880 --> 01:48:21,439
Speaker 3: this session.

2359
01:48:23,320 --> 01:48:25,680
Speaker 2: You know, I'm ana pause right here, all right, So

2360
01:48:26,080 --> 01:48:28,200
Speaker 2: let me share my screen so y'all can see what

2361
01:48:28,360 --> 01:48:32,599
Speaker 2: is going on over here that triggered this man at.

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01:48:33,720 --> 01:48:36,120
Speaker 3: The after he got out of out of work.

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01:48:38,400 --> 01:48:41,800
Speaker 2: Uh so it says the first one says bigger M

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01:48:41,840 --> 01:48:44,800
Speaker 2: my G G E R dot Org is the caption

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01:48:44,960 --> 01:48:48,479
Speaker 2: for the not capturing the description for the picture you

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01:48:48,600 --> 01:48:49,000
Speaker 2: put up?

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01:48:49,840 --> 01:48:52,040
Speaker 3: Why does this picture want a load? What's going on?

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01:48:54,120 --> 01:48:54,479
Speaker 3: All right?

2369
01:48:54,560 --> 01:48:59,000
Speaker 2: Gmail clicked on it and now it's taking the sweet

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01:48:59,040 --> 01:48:59,519
Speaker 2: ass time.

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01:49:00,120 --> 01:49:00,320
Speaker 1: Right.

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01:49:00,400 --> 01:49:03,360
Speaker 2: Well, it's just a picture. It's not even like a

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Speaker 2: movie or something. All right, So that's the second picture.

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Speaker 2: Let's go back to the first.

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Speaker 3: All right, Well i'll go is it showing?

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01:49:12,280 --> 01:49:15,000
Speaker 2: I'll go back to the second one. Megger by author

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Speaker 2: Ray Adam Bosolda. My name is Ray Adam Bosolda. I

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01:49:19,920 --> 01:49:22,559
Speaker 2: am writing this notice to inform you I have filed

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Speaker 2: with the United States Patting and Trademark Office USPTO a

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01:49:25,760 --> 01:49:30,360
Speaker 2: trademark Megger. This trademark is of no relation to the

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01:49:30,439 --> 01:49:32,759
Speaker 2: N word. It has been legally defined a creative idea

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01:49:32,800 --> 01:49:35,879
Speaker 2: to stems from theory, developed into a simplest format, resulting

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01:49:35,920 --> 01:49:38,439
Speaker 2: in a power of discovery beyond the imagination that could

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01:49:38,560 --> 01:49:42,400
Speaker 2: that became fact. I have this e book currently for

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01:49:42,439 --> 01:49:44,479
Speaker 2: sale on Amazon, disclosing the purpose of Bigger.

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Speaker 3: I'm informing you of the path I.

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Speaker 2: Have chosen to take, so that you may take any

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01:49:49,760 --> 01:49:52,799
Speaker 2: steps to find necessary on your end to keep the peace.

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01:49:53,360 --> 01:49:56,400
Speaker 2: In my opinion, this may raise a legal criminal defense

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Speaker 2: issue due to the misrepresentation of the N word in

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01:49:59,160 --> 01:50:02,280
Speaker 2: the near future. I think it is imperative to bring

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01:50:02,320 --> 01:50:04,519
Speaker 2: this to your attention so that no public official, private

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01:50:04,560 --> 01:50:07,599
Speaker 2: citizen is unnecessarily put in their life of career at

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Speaker 2: rizdo to being uninformed. Thanks ray Adam Bosoda.

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Speaker 3: What does this mean?

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01:50:12,439 --> 01:50:12,759
Speaker 6: Dog?

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01:50:14,720 --> 01:50:17,519
Speaker 2: And the front is him with no shoes on, in

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01:50:17,600 --> 01:50:22,920
Speaker 2: a suit, standing on top of a fountain and it

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01:50:23,000 --> 01:50:28,600
Speaker 2: says bigger, Bigger by ray Adam Bosodia.

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01:50:29,080 --> 01:50:33,320
Speaker 3: I'm so confused. What and the book is actually on

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01:50:33,400 --> 01:50:38,160
Speaker 3: Amazon apparently four ninety nine for Kendle. Now see this.

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01:50:38,280 --> 01:50:39,760
Speaker 3: Biggers out of this goddamn mind.

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01:50:41,040 --> 01:50:42,880
Speaker 4: I wish these niggers would get it together.

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01:50:43,520 --> 01:50:47,120
Speaker 2: Come on, man, ninety nine cents is the right price

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01:50:47,200 --> 01:50:48,120
Speaker 2: for bigger literature.

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01:50:48,640 --> 01:50:51,439
Speaker 1: There's no way in the world you got these biggers

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01:50:51,520 --> 01:50:54,400
Speaker 1: mixing up with these other biggers making these nigger kids.

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01:50:56,320 --> 01:50:59,200
Speaker 2: It's called he has a description. It had been brewing

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01:50:59,240 --> 01:51:02,719
Speaker 2: for years. Many in the working class community. Working class

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01:51:02,720 --> 01:51:06,880
Speaker 2: community knew something was wrong, but Jake, they just couldn't

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01:51:06,920 --> 01:51:08,479
Speaker 2: quite put their finger on what it was.

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01:51:08,560 --> 01:51:09,320
Speaker 3: Something had to give.

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01:51:09,400 --> 01:51:11,280
Speaker 2: There was no way the working class community was going

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01:51:11,320 --> 01:51:13,000
Speaker 2: to stand for this very much longer.

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01:51:13,520 --> 01:51:18,160
Speaker 3: Some were even predicting a revolution. Meger.

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01:51:18,880 --> 01:51:22,040
Speaker 2: There was a division among the people that everyone agreed existed,

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01:51:23,000 --> 01:51:27,960
Speaker 2: those with money and those without. Twenty eighteen, twenty percent

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01:51:28,040 --> 01:51:32,600
Speaker 2: of American's own ninety percent of the wealth, and the

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01:51:32,640 --> 01:51:34,680
Speaker 2: other eighty percent of Americans had little or nothing to

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01:51:34,720 --> 01:51:35,120
Speaker 2: word that.

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01:51:35,240 --> 01:51:37,680
Speaker 3: Everyone was putting the blame on the education system. It had.

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01:51:37,680 --> 01:51:41,639
Speaker 2: The education system was broken. It was the same old

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01:51:41,640 --> 01:51:44,200
Speaker 2: story again and again. Policy makers for Leithopes had gotten

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01:51:44,200 --> 01:51:47,160
Speaker 2: together to reform the public educational system that failed. There

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01:51:47,240 --> 01:51:49,840
Speaker 2: was a missing link between this twenty percent and eighty percent,

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01:51:49,880 --> 01:51:51,400
Speaker 2: and no one could figure out what it was.

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01:51:51,800 --> 01:52:00,280
Speaker 3: And then came bigger ah ah.

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01:51:58,920 --> 01:52:05,960
Speaker 2: I gotta say no reviews, zero customer reviews, zeroms.

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Speaker 3: No comments.

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01:52:07,880 --> 01:52:11,040
Speaker 2: Uh, you know what I gotta say this mega please

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01:52:11,720 --> 01:52:16,760
Speaker 2: mm hmm. I don't think so, all right, let's go

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01:52:17,400 --> 01:52:20,640
Speaker 2: what wow. I would have been sucked with too. I

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01:52:20,680 --> 01:52:21,320
Speaker 2: don't blame you.

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01:52:22,320 --> 01:52:22,479
Speaker 4: Uh.

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01:52:22,640 --> 01:52:25,639
Speaker 3: Detroit retired sim says, why what do you.

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01:52:25,640 --> 01:52:28,919
Speaker 1: I mean if you see somebody that has its economic anxiety,

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01:52:28,960 --> 01:52:30,719
Speaker 1: do you like my megger?

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01:52:30,840 --> 01:52:33,280
Speaker 3: What's going on? My mega? I think it's my mega,

2439
01:52:33,680 --> 01:52:34,160
Speaker 3: my mega.

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01:52:34,560 --> 01:52:37,600
Speaker 1: But only they could say that that no disrespect?

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01:52:37,800 --> 01:52:41,120
Speaker 3: Why Congress.

2442
01:52:41,920 --> 01:52:44,920
Speaker 2: Why is Congress trying to pass obviously unconstitutional bill that

2443
01:52:44,960 --> 01:52:49,080
Speaker 2: were criminalized boycotts of Israel from tech Dirt Detroit.

2444
01:52:48,800 --> 01:52:53,639
Speaker 3: Or tire sim synth us this Uh. As we've noted in.

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01:52:53,560 --> 01:52:55,680
Speaker 2: The past on articles discussing this topic, I recognize that

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01:52:55,720 --> 01:52:58,000
Speaker 2: people have very very strong views on both Israel and

2447
01:52:58,000 --> 01:52:59,960
Speaker 2: the whole BDS movement.

2448
01:53:00,400 --> 01:53:02,919
Speaker 3: What is the BDS movement? I don't know what that means.

2449
01:53:03,120 --> 01:53:05,280
Speaker 2: And trust me, you're not gonna convince anyone about the

2450
01:53:05,320 --> 01:53:08,200
Speaker 2: rightness or wrongness of those views in our comments. However,

2451
01:53:08,280 --> 01:53:10,559
Speaker 2: even if you support it. Oh, just from the article

2452
01:53:10,600 --> 01:53:11,799
Speaker 2: they left this he's.

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01:53:11,640 --> 01:53:14,560
Speaker 4: Coming, yeah eject.

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01:53:14,720 --> 01:53:15,320
Speaker 3: I don't know.

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01:53:16,120 --> 01:53:17,679
Speaker 4: I know nothing about that.

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01:53:19,000 --> 01:53:22,519
Speaker 2: My understanding is free Palestine and that they dealing with

2457
01:53:22,520 --> 01:53:24,080
Speaker 2: some of the same shiit niggas over here deal with.

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01:53:24,520 --> 01:53:26,240
Speaker 2: And that's all I got for you. I don't know

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01:53:26,840 --> 01:53:27,840
Speaker 2: enough about the rest of that.

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01:53:29,960 --> 01:53:38,720
Speaker 1: I know, and I don't know. Oh, somebody says boycott, divestments,

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01:53:38,760 --> 01:53:40,360
Speaker 1: and sanctions.

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01:53:40,760 --> 01:53:42,559
Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, so y'all didn't even know that.

2463
01:53:44,840 --> 01:53:47,400
Speaker 2: Todd Wright saying I think I found my new white

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01:53:47,439 --> 01:53:48,519
Speaker 2: People news anthem.

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01:53:48,680 --> 01:53:51,760
Speaker 3: My god, uh, what is this? Ship?

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01:53:53,680 --> 01:53:58,280
Speaker 2: Mark Ribelett for featuring Peanut butter Jones the Butthole.

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01:54:00,479 --> 01:54:01,160
Speaker 3: Oh yeah.

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01:54:01,240 --> 01:54:04,599
Speaker 2: But so here's the thing, Todd, I checked it out

2469
01:54:04,680 --> 01:54:07,120
Speaker 2: that I did listen to this. It's not based on

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01:54:07,120 --> 01:54:09,400
Speaker 2: a black song. You gotta steal a black song and

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01:54:09,439 --> 01:54:11,439
Speaker 2: make it white. So this don't count for white people

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01:54:11,479 --> 01:54:12,080
Speaker 2: news at all.

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01:54:12,520 --> 01:54:16,479
Speaker 1: Be it gotta be a black song? Does somebody white sings?

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01:54:16,520 --> 01:54:20,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm I'm sure it's funny, but this is not counting,

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01:54:20,240 --> 01:54:22,519
Speaker 2: So I'm not not counting that for white people news.

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01:54:22,960 --> 01:54:26,479
Speaker 2: Thank you for an amazing twenty eighteen. I hope I

2477
01:54:26,560 --> 01:54:28,559
Speaker 2: pronounced this right. Zenzi Okay?

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01:54:28,600 --> 01:54:31,400
Speaker 3: Cool? Dear Rod and Karen.

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01:54:31,560 --> 01:54:34,240
Speaker 2: I've been wanting to write you guys for a while now,

2480
01:54:34,400 --> 01:54:37,080
Speaker 2: but I never was sure what to say, and I

2481
01:54:37,120 --> 01:54:39,160
Speaker 2: always put it off. I started listening to you guys

2482
01:54:39,200 --> 01:54:41,160
Speaker 2: a few months ago, and already I can tell I

2483
01:54:41,200 --> 01:54:44,200
Speaker 2: can't wait to process a lot of the news I.

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01:54:44,280 --> 01:54:46,680
Speaker 3: See in here through your unique and entertaining perspective.

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01:54:47,000 --> 01:54:49,800
Speaker 2: For some contexts, I'm in Nigeria, and to be honest,

2486
01:54:50,000 --> 01:54:53,080
Speaker 2: your podcast really helped shed some of the established biases

2487
01:54:53,160 --> 01:54:55,280
Speaker 2: I didn't even know I held against Americans in general

2488
01:54:55,520 --> 01:54:57,840
Speaker 2: and black people in the US, but in particular, you

2489
01:54:57,920 --> 01:54:59,280
Speaker 2: guys have really.

2490
01:54:59,640 --> 01:55:03,200
Speaker 3: Open my mind, my eyes, sorry some of them stuck

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01:55:03,240 --> 01:55:03,720
Speaker 3: in my throat.

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01:55:05,160 --> 01:55:07,040
Speaker 2: You guys have really opened my eyes to the things

2493
01:55:07,080 --> 01:55:09,320
Speaker 2: that y'all find that black people face every day just

2494
01:55:09,400 --> 01:55:11,240
Speaker 2: existing in the US. Why I love the last that

2495
01:55:11,360 --> 01:55:14,080
Speaker 2: come with the way you present your segments, especially fucking

2496
01:55:14,080 --> 01:55:16,080
Speaker 2: with black people. I always stop and acknowledge my own

2497
01:55:16,160 --> 01:55:18,080
Speaker 2: level of privilege, never having gone through the fear of

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01:55:18,080 --> 01:55:20,520
Speaker 2: what it means to be a black person in that environment.

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01:55:21,600 --> 01:55:25,440
Speaker 3: Oh no doubt, Thank you. Glad to be spreading the

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01:55:25,480 --> 01:55:26,280
Speaker 3: experience somewhere.

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01:55:27,680 --> 01:55:29,840
Speaker 2: One thing that's personally affected me is how passionate you

2502
01:55:29,880 --> 01:55:31,720
Speaker 2: both have been about the twenty sixteen election and the

2503
01:55:31,760 --> 01:55:35,440
Speaker 2: apathy and complacency that enabled this administration here in Nigeria.

2504
01:55:36,000 --> 01:55:38,320
Speaker 2: I will admit that I was very disinterested in our

2505
01:55:38,400 --> 01:55:40,640
Speaker 2: last election in twenty fourteen because the.

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01:55:40,560 --> 01:55:43,840
Speaker 3: One thing we have become used to, apart from the lack.

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01:55:43,720 --> 01:55:47,600
Speaker 2: Of infrastructure and rampant corruption, it's hardy election rigging that

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01:55:47,800 --> 01:55:50,240
Speaker 2: always leads to the same people staying in power, just

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01:55:50,280 --> 01:55:51,560
Speaker 2: at different combinations.

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01:55:51,880 --> 01:55:54,160
Speaker 3: Yo. You know what's wild though, right, So.

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01:55:54,240 --> 01:56:01,040
Speaker 2: Like we in America actually take for granted how clean

2512
01:56:01,120 --> 01:56:04,960
Speaker 2: our election system actually does run, right, and you still

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01:56:05,000 --> 01:56:07,760
Speaker 2: have people that they don't understand we actually have it

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01:56:07,800 --> 01:56:10,880
Speaker 2: good compared to some places where where you cast a

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01:56:11,000 --> 01:56:14,200
Speaker 2: vote and you actually do feel like there's a a

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01:56:14,320 --> 01:56:16,880
Speaker 2: ninety nine percent chance it will be counting, and when

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01:56:16,920 --> 01:56:20,400
Speaker 2: it's and when something is fucked up, like you typically

2518
01:56:20,560 --> 01:56:22,320
Speaker 2: see those stories and they stay in the story for

2519
01:56:22,520 --> 01:56:25,240
Speaker 2: in the news for weeks, and people are seeing each

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01:56:25,320 --> 01:56:28,680
Speaker 2: other people like we take a lot of shit for granted,

2521
01:56:28,680 --> 01:56:30,480
Speaker 2: there's places where it's like, why even vote?

2522
01:56:30,480 --> 01:56:32,920
Speaker 3: They just gonna say it was the same people it

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01:56:33,000 --> 01:56:33,600
Speaker 3: always is.

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01:56:34,880 --> 01:56:36,640
Speaker 2: I always believe that my vote didn't matter and that

2525
01:56:36,680 --> 01:56:38,760
Speaker 2: they would always get what they wanted in the end. However,

2526
01:56:38,760 --> 01:56:40,360
Speaker 2: hearing you guys talk about how much this kind of

2527
01:56:40,400 --> 01:56:43,280
Speaker 2: attitude hurt, it led to the situation where all now

2528
01:56:43,560 --> 01:56:45,760
Speaker 2: have to live with. I have started to reevaluate my

2529
01:56:45,800 --> 01:56:49,400
Speaker 2: position on voting, even in our own ridiculous, fucked up system.

2530
01:56:49,440 --> 01:56:51,200
Speaker 2: I've made up my mind to take a more active

2531
01:56:51,240 --> 01:56:53,840
Speaker 2: role in upcoming elections next year, even if I don't

2532
01:56:53,840 --> 01:56:56,880
Speaker 2: really believe they'll be changed, because I now know that

2533
01:56:56,960 --> 01:56:59,000
Speaker 2: it's better to fight and lose and it just roll

2534
01:56:59,040 --> 01:57:01,000
Speaker 2: over and let them win out any effort. Thank you

2535
01:57:01,040 --> 01:57:04,200
Speaker 2: for having me see the error always, yo, that's that's beautiful.

2536
01:57:04,360 --> 01:57:06,520
Speaker 4: Yes, And the thing is.

2537
01:57:07,920 --> 01:57:10,320
Speaker 1: Guarantee you you're not the only person that feels that way.

2538
01:57:10,720 --> 01:57:14,680
Speaker 1: But if enough people feel that way, it will.

2539
01:57:14,440 --> 01:57:15,560
Speaker 4: It will cause the change.

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01:57:15,560 --> 01:57:17,800
Speaker 2: And in all fairness, I don't know enough about Nigeria

2541
01:57:17,920 --> 01:57:21,920
Speaker 2: to say like anything definitive, but I just like the fight,

2542
01:57:22,200 --> 01:57:26,320
Speaker 2: you know, within you because change I put like that

2543
01:57:26,480 --> 01:57:28,160
Speaker 2: because it's not like it has to be limited to

2544
01:57:28,320 --> 01:57:31,080
Speaker 2: just voting or whatever, but it's just it's it's like

2545
01:57:31,520 --> 01:57:33,600
Speaker 2: people want to do a three sixty wind mill, but

2546
01:57:33,600 --> 01:57:35,640
Speaker 2: they don't want to like make a bounce pass, you know,

2547
01:57:35,760 --> 01:57:39,760
Speaker 2: the junk with with the with of course the voting

2548
01:57:39,800 --> 01:57:41,760
Speaker 2: being the bounce pass. It's like one of the simplest

2549
01:57:42,360 --> 01:57:45,880
Speaker 2: rights that we have that can be done without a

2550
01:57:45,920 --> 01:57:50,040
Speaker 2: lot of you know, inconvenience, if you if you're able

2551
01:57:50,080 --> 01:57:52,600
Speaker 2: to do it, and and yet some people will tell

2552
01:57:52,600 --> 01:57:55,520
Speaker 2: you they wouldn't even do that. I really appreciate everything

2553
01:57:55,520 --> 01:57:56,800
Speaker 2: you say in the way you say it, because you

2554
01:57:56,800 --> 01:57:58,880
Speaker 2: don't try to force your opinions on anyone, and you

2555
01:57:58,960 --> 01:58:00,920
Speaker 2: always make so much sense. I often think of Karen

2556
01:58:00,920 --> 01:58:02,840
Speaker 2: as my big sister who I can rely on to

2557
01:58:02,960 --> 01:58:04,360
Speaker 2: always give the best advice.

2558
01:58:04,680 --> 01:58:05,880
Speaker 3: She hasn't failed me yet.

2559
01:58:06,040 --> 01:58:09,040
Speaker 2: Everything for your advice about social media to forgiveness and

2560
01:58:09,120 --> 01:58:11,320
Speaker 2: understanding relationships with others has been on point. And I

2561
01:58:11,320 --> 01:58:13,600
Speaker 2: love listening to you guys every week without fail. I

2562
01:58:13,680 --> 01:58:15,680
Speaker 2: just want to add that when you talked about chores

2563
01:58:15,680 --> 01:58:17,520
Speaker 2: in the household, I remember that growing up, my parents

2564
01:58:17,560 --> 01:58:20,160
Speaker 2: were not big into sharing chores because of gender, mostly

2565
01:58:20,160 --> 01:58:22,680
Speaker 2: because I'm the only girl with the three other brothers

2566
01:58:22,960 --> 01:58:25,360
Speaker 2: older brothers, and my dad would not hear of me

2567
01:58:25,480 --> 01:58:29,640
Speaker 2: doing chores alone. We also had domestic help growing up,

2568
01:58:29,800 --> 01:58:31,560
Speaker 2: so we really lived a life of privilege, but we

2569
01:58:31,680 --> 01:58:33,720
Speaker 2: still had to do our chores, and my dad gave

2570
01:58:33,800 --> 01:58:36,840
Speaker 2: us weekly allowances that were based on our negotiating power

2571
01:58:36,840 --> 01:58:39,960
Speaker 2: and not our gender. Yeah, that's actually a different concept

2572
01:58:40,000 --> 01:58:40,800
Speaker 2: I've never heard before.

2573
01:58:40,960 --> 01:58:43,280
Speaker 3: Right, Like, nah, I need to make you.

2574
01:58:43,240 --> 01:58:44,320
Speaker 4: A good negotiator.

2575
01:58:44,360 --> 01:58:47,040
Speaker 1: Boy, you'll learn how to please your case.

2576
01:58:47,120 --> 01:58:49,520
Speaker 3: I need to get these premium lunches at school, Pops.

2577
01:58:49,560 --> 01:58:52,760
Speaker 1: It's like you'll realize I've been doing an extra twenty

2578
01:58:52,840 --> 01:58:55,080
Speaker 1: five percent molde in my brother.

2579
01:58:55,240 --> 01:58:57,200
Speaker 4: Here are the numbers, daddy.

2580
01:58:57,040 --> 01:59:00,440
Speaker 2: Right, Thank you so much for enriching my and for

2581
01:59:00,520 --> 01:59:02,480
Speaker 2: shaming me and the care more about my own elections

2582
01:59:02,480 --> 01:59:03,320
Speaker 2: of my voting power.

2583
01:59:03,680 --> 01:59:05,280
Speaker 3: They said it didn't work, But.

2584
01:59:06,520 --> 01:59:08,560
Speaker 2: Thank you for enlightening me about the life in the

2585
01:59:08,720 --> 01:59:11,440
Speaker 2: US or the average black person, because I've been informed

2586
01:59:11,440 --> 01:59:14,800
Speaker 2: by the liberal white media only for too long. You

2587
01:59:14,800 --> 01:59:16,640
Speaker 2: guys are wanted the best part of twenty eighteen for me,

2588
01:59:16,960 --> 01:59:18,720
Speaker 2: and I hope that twenty nineteen is filled with more

2589
01:59:18,800 --> 01:59:21,360
Speaker 2: laugh and more love and yes, more checks for sharing

2590
01:59:21,400 --> 01:59:22,440
Speaker 2: your wisdom with the world.

2591
01:59:22,560 --> 01:59:23,920
Speaker 3: We did get some checks this year.

2592
01:59:24,080 --> 01:59:26,960
Speaker 4: We did some checks this year. This has been good.

2593
01:59:27,240 --> 01:59:28,200
Speaker 3: We got some checks.

2594
01:59:28,440 --> 01:59:31,120
Speaker 2: You guys deserve the absolute best things, and I wish

2595
01:59:31,160 --> 01:59:33,400
Speaker 2: I could send you something for your wish list too,

2596
01:59:33,400 --> 01:59:37,000
Speaker 2: But it's been a pretty tough month and needs exchange. Race,

2597
01:59:37,080 --> 01:59:40,040
Speaker 2: don't play man, It's cool. I don't anybody feel obligated.

2598
01:59:40,120 --> 01:59:41,320
Speaker 4: We don't take it personally.

2599
01:59:41,480 --> 01:59:45,160
Speaker 2: You appreciate y'all and appreciate y'all that think about it, right.

2600
01:59:45,200 --> 01:59:48,520
Speaker 1: If you five stars, I tell people file stars.

2601
01:59:48,560 --> 01:59:50,600
Speaker 4: That's how you pay us in five stars.

2602
01:59:50,640 --> 01:59:53,440
Speaker 1: If you know you ain't got it, put five stars

2603
01:59:53,480 --> 01:59:55,080
Speaker 1: on it and I will be just as happy.

2604
01:59:55,160 --> 01:59:57,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, and I think Zizz left us a file star review.

2605
01:59:57,640 --> 01:59:58,320
Speaker 4: So thank you.

2606
01:59:58,400 --> 02:00:01,920
Speaker 2: Good From now though, I'm sending you out my love appreciation,

2607
02:00:02,040 --> 02:00:05,280
Speaker 2: not thoughts and prayers. Ha ps. Sorry for the long email.

2608
02:00:05,320 --> 02:00:06,280
Speaker 2: Don't worry about it with love.

2609
02:00:06,400 --> 02:00:06,640
Speaker 4: Zenz.

2610
02:00:06,840 --> 02:00:09,520
Speaker 2: This is my middle name and I often use it

2611
02:00:09,520 --> 02:00:12,920
Speaker 2: because it's easier for people to now pronounce all right, cool.

2612
02:00:12,640 --> 02:00:15,440
Speaker 3: Well, thank you Zenz. We appreciate you. It was very

2613
02:00:15,520 --> 02:00:18,960
Speaker 3: nice of you say it's such a nice show.

2614
02:00:19,560 --> 02:00:23,840
Speaker 2: Miss Stacey says generally and Healthy Roots Dear Riding Karen,

2615
02:00:24,520 --> 02:00:27,360
Speaker 2: I'm related to say that my girlfriends brought bought Healthy

2616
02:00:27,440 --> 02:00:31,480
Speaker 2: Roots dolls for their daughter and granddaughter. Ay I swear

2617
02:00:31,520 --> 02:00:33,880
Speaker 2: the link. I shd a link anytime I can now.

2618
02:00:33,880 --> 02:00:36,640
Speaker 2: For episode eighteen oh six, I absolutely hollered. I was

2619
02:00:36,640 --> 02:00:39,440
Speaker 2: a big fan of Dukes as a years later when

2620
02:00:39,480 --> 02:00:43,280
Speaker 2: I watched episodes when it aired on CMT, I saw

2621
02:00:43,320 --> 02:00:47,120
Speaker 2: all the defaults of the show being awoke adult and

2622
02:00:47,280 --> 02:00:49,320
Speaker 2: I know there are many shows that were problematic, so

2623
02:00:49,320 --> 02:00:52,040
Speaker 2: I don't dwell on that fact if that, if it

2624
02:00:52,120 --> 02:00:54,560
Speaker 2: was what it was, Love you too, Happy holidays with guards,

2625
02:00:54,600 --> 02:00:58,400
Speaker 2: Miss Stacy, thank you, thank you, and uh you know what, dog,

2626
02:00:59,240 --> 02:01:01,920
Speaker 2: I absolutely watch old problematic shit at the time.

2627
02:01:02,000 --> 02:01:04,320
Speaker 3: I just I understand that.

2628
02:01:06,240 --> 02:01:08,080
Speaker 2: I don't live my life based off of that shit.

2629
02:01:08,200 --> 02:01:11,320
Speaker 2: But yep, sometimes I'm like, this was fucked up back then,

2630
02:01:11,400 --> 02:01:16,720
Speaker 2: but living color what's funny. But you couldn't do it today.

2631
02:01:17,720 --> 02:01:19,880
Speaker 2: Everybody stopped asking for a reunion. You don't want that.

2632
02:01:20,000 --> 02:01:20,720
Speaker 3: You just think you do.

2633
02:01:21,120 --> 02:01:21,560
Speaker 4: Correct.

2634
02:01:22,040 --> 02:01:25,160
Speaker 2: We are adults and this is ridiculous. Episode eighteen eleven.

2635
02:01:25,920 --> 02:01:28,800
Speaker 2: So a girl ms Martiken. She says, hey, love you guys,

2636
02:01:29,280 --> 02:01:31,560
Speaker 2: b I'm not part of the Barti gang. I do

2637
02:01:31,640 --> 02:01:33,800
Speaker 2: like a few of her singles. I don't particularly find

2638
02:01:33,800 --> 02:01:35,680
Speaker 2: her loverboar or genuine. One hundred cent of the time

2639
02:01:36,080 --> 02:01:39,800
Speaker 2: she was just human. I want people to leave her alone.

2640
02:01:39,840 --> 02:01:42,360
Speaker 2: I let this woman be. If she is not mad

2641
02:01:42,400 --> 02:01:46,640
Speaker 2: at sir set first name off, then we won't.

2642
02:01:46,680 --> 02:01:47,600
Speaker 3: Then we don't have to be.

2643
02:01:47,680 --> 02:01:49,520
Speaker 2: I do understand and respect that people are triggered by

2644
02:01:49,600 --> 02:01:52,240
Speaker 2: his actions, but but they are projecting a lot of

2645
02:01:52,240 --> 02:01:55,560
Speaker 2: their experiences onto the relationship and their reality. These people

2646
02:01:55,560 --> 02:01:57,920
Speaker 2: are entertainers who live a completely different life than most

2647
02:01:57,920 --> 02:02:00,480
Speaker 2: of the general general public. She does do not work

2648
02:02:00,480 --> 02:02:01,880
Speaker 2: at a bank. He did not show up to her

2649
02:02:01,960 --> 02:02:04,080
Speaker 2: tailor station. This is a woman who routinely acted a

2650
02:02:04,080 --> 02:02:05,320
Speaker 2: plum food when she.

2651
02:02:05,360 --> 02:02:08,000
Speaker 3: Was on reality TV. What is acceptable and what is

2652
02:02:08,040 --> 02:02:11,640
Speaker 3: not in her world is her business. Who who are

2653
02:02:11,760 --> 02:02:12,600
Speaker 3: me to judge?

2654
02:02:13,080 --> 02:02:15,640
Speaker 2: I think that labeling Sir said abusive is triggering for

2655
02:02:15,720 --> 02:02:18,000
Speaker 2: many black men because it echoes how the world season

2656
02:02:18,000 --> 02:02:23,320
Speaker 2: a stugs overly violent. That is absolutely true, because I'm

2657
02:02:23,360 --> 02:02:26,840
Speaker 2: not saying for me, but I've listened to other podcasts

2658
02:02:26,880 --> 02:02:30,600
Speaker 2: with black men on it, and they, you know, do

2659
02:02:30,640 --> 02:02:33,160
Speaker 2: feel sensitive to the idea of being the face of

2660
02:02:33,280 --> 02:02:36,120
Speaker 2: domestic violence and stuff. Now I feel like, for me personally,

2661
02:02:36,200 --> 02:02:39,080
Speaker 2: the solution to that is to call out the other

2662
02:02:39,240 --> 02:02:42,000
Speaker 2: black men that are doing these things and the culture

2663
02:02:42,040 --> 02:02:45,920
Speaker 2: that enables us doing this shit and not giving any

2664
02:02:45,920 --> 02:02:48,080
Speaker 2: excuses to that. So I you know, but a lot

2665
02:02:48,080 --> 02:02:50,320
Speaker 2: of black men don't get to that level. They just go,

2666
02:02:51,800 --> 02:02:54,680
Speaker 2: you know, I feel attacked and I'm the victim and

2667
02:02:54,920 --> 02:02:55,400
Speaker 2: fuck y'all.

2668
02:02:55,480 --> 02:02:57,240
Speaker 3: Then if it's fucked me and fuck y'all, you know.

2669
02:02:57,520 --> 02:03:00,520
Speaker 2: Correct, Though I may think his actions are emotionally manipulative,

2670
02:03:00,560 --> 02:03:03,800
Speaker 2: the threshold for abuse is hazy, but when comparing to

2671
02:03:03,960 --> 02:03:07,160
Speaker 2: someone in that family getting killed, does not recognize that

2672
02:03:07,200 --> 02:03:10,120
Speaker 2: there are many shades and a greater approach to what

2673
02:03:10,240 --> 02:03:14,360
Speaker 2: abusive is that man, he's saying it better than I did.

2674
02:03:14,960 --> 02:03:16,960
Speaker 2: Should have let you do the show him showing up

2675
02:03:17,080 --> 02:03:19,760
Speaker 2: like that he proposed in public and she liked that.

2676
02:03:20,040 --> 02:03:22,080
Speaker 2: It's not the same as cussing her out of beating her.

2677
02:03:22,160 --> 02:03:24,720
Speaker 2: I can't and won't cake for the ashy. But when

2678
02:03:24,760 --> 02:03:28,800
Speaker 2: we say that abuse, that this is abuse, it cannot

2679
02:03:28,800 --> 02:03:31,280
Speaker 2: be overlooked that there are some parallels to calling black men.

2680
02:03:31,360 --> 02:03:33,560
Speaker 3: Thus just like just call him niggers.

2681
02:03:33,480 --> 02:03:36,040
Speaker 2: When the world has sold us rom coms and romantic

2682
02:03:36,080 --> 02:03:41,400
Speaker 2: gestures in a media slash art but seems but when

2683
02:03:41,440 --> 02:03:43,760
Speaker 2: someone does it, they get put in the same category

2684
02:03:43,800 --> 02:03:47,200
Speaker 2: as Ike Turner. Sir set seems dumb and full of

2685
02:03:47,240 --> 02:03:50,240
Speaker 2: come and an idiot. Cheating is hurtful and emotionally damaging.

2686
02:03:50,280 --> 02:03:52,360
Speaker 2: And I don't know that I would say it is

2687
02:03:52,440 --> 02:03:54,400
Speaker 2: abusive or not, because I'm just unsure.

2688
02:03:54,480 --> 02:03:56,360
Speaker 3: I do not know. I do know.

2689
02:03:56,600 --> 02:03:59,040
Speaker 2: I wish the best for young culture and Lady B

2690
02:03:59,280 --> 02:04:02,920
Speaker 2: and I hope she's in on it and then people

2691
02:04:03,000 --> 02:04:06,280
Speaker 2: get mad and leave her alone. That would be hilarious.

2692
02:04:06,280 --> 02:04:09,960
Speaker 2: I really don't want anything bad to happen to Cardi

2693
02:04:10,440 --> 02:04:13,720
Speaker 2: or whatever, Like I do worry that if this is

2694
02:04:13,760 --> 02:04:16,440
Speaker 2: some type of gimmick, she gonna end up catching a

2695
02:04:16,440 --> 02:04:19,080
Speaker 2: lot of people who were They were like, I had

2696
02:04:19,120 --> 02:04:21,240
Speaker 2: your back and I've been talking all this shit, and

2697
02:04:21,280 --> 02:04:24,720
Speaker 2: now you're back with this nigga and y'all saying it

2698
02:04:24,800 --> 02:04:28,080
Speaker 2: was just some type of stunt. I can see people

2699
02:04:28,120 --> 02:04:30,880
Speaker 2: being upset by her if that was the case.

2700
02:04:30,960 --> 02:04:32,880
Speaker 3: I don't know what is the case. As you said,

2701
02:04:32,880 --> 02:04:33,440
Speaker 3: I don't know.

2702
02:04:35,480 --> 02:04:37,800
Speaker 2: And all the stuff you brought up that's kind of

2703
02:04:37,840 --> 02:04:41,800
Speaker 2: gray area or different or whatever that was not you

2704
02:04:41,840 --> 02:04:44,200
Speaker 2: were not able to even say something like that on

2705
02:04:44,240 --> 02:04:47,640
Speaker 2: social media, like and I didn't even make any of

2706
02:04:47,640 --> 02:04:49,920
Speaker 2: those points about black men don't want to be douzd shit,

2707
02:04:49,960 --> 02:04:53,080
Speaker 2: because you know, I really that wasn't even what something

2708
02:04:53,120 --> 02:04:57,520
Speaker 2: I was thinking about. But I have heard other black

2709
02:04:57,600 --> 02:05:02,560
Speaker 2: dudes express that, like damn, Like I like, that was

2710
02:05:02,600 --> 02:05:06,080
Speaker 2: not an act of him trying to harm her. That

2711
02:05:06,280 --> 02:05:08,120
Speaker 2: was an act of him trying to get back with her.

2712
02:05:08,560 --> 02:05:12,080
Speaker 2: That being said, you can still harm somebody even when

2713
02:05:12,120 --> 02:05:15,240
Speaker 2: you don't mean to, and you can still all those

2714
02:05:15,240 --> 02:05:17,760
Speaker 2: people that aren't in a relationship can still be reminded

2715
02:05:17,760 --> 02:05:19,360
Speaker 2: of all the men that showed up in places they

2716
02:05:19,400 --> 02:05:22,200
Speaker 2: weren't supposed to be after being told not to be

2717
02:05:22,320 --> 02:05:24,960
Speaker 2: places and told no and stuff and all that. Now

2718
02:05:25,000 --> 02:05:27,280
Speaker 2: they don't have like restraining orders or anything, so I

2719
02:05:27,320 --> 02:05:29,000
Speaker 2: don't know how serious it has gotten, but.

2720
02:05:31,080 --> 02:05:32,160
Speaker 3: That's a lot. You know.

2721
02:05:33,320 --> 02:05:35,320
Speaker 2: It's just crazy because I keep thinking of love and

2722
02:05:35,400 --> 02:05:37,880
Speaker 2: hip hop stories, and like every time I'm thinking of shit,

2723
02:05:37,880 --> 02:05:42,040
Speaker 2: I'm like, Kirk had a whole ass other baby, you know,

2724
02:05:43,680 --> 02:05:45,080
Speaker 2: you know what I mean, Like he had a whole

2725
02:05:45,080 --> 02:05:48,720
Speaker 2: ass of the baby and they stayed together, and you know,

2726
02:05:48,880 --> 02:05:51,240
Speaker 2: everybody like kind of hates his guts, but then also

2727
02:05:52,040 --> 02:05:53,920
Speaker 2: they kind of just go with us love and hip hop,

2728
02:05:54,400 --> 02:05:56,840
Speaker 2: Like we don't have long conversations based off of that shit.

2729
02:05:57,360 --> 02:05:59,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, babies, look, Lakiita.

2730
02:05:59,240 --> 02:06:02,680
Speaker 2: Says, Yeah, it's just crazy, like all these people treat

2731
02:06:02,720 --> 02:06:05,120
Speaker 2: each other like shit on these shows, you know.

2732
02:06:05,200 --> 02:06:06,800
Speaker 3: And then I guess it's hard for me to.

2733
02:06:06,680 --> 02:06:10,760
Speaker 2: Define, like where is the line when we've seen Cardi

2734
02:06:10,840 --> 02:06:13,680
Speaker 2: do foul shit? But then somehow we want to talk

2735
02:06:13,760 --> 02:06:16,000
Speaker 2: pause it right here at this moment and go all

2736
02:06:16,120 --> 02:06:19,440
Speaker 2: right now, see clearly she is above this kind of shit,

2737
02:06:19,520 --> 02:06:21,200
Speaker 2: and I can't believe this will happened to her. And

2738
02:06:21,200 --> 02:06:24,240
Speaker 2: I'm like she kind of dabbles in and out of

2739
02:06:24,240 --> 02:06:27,600
Speaker 2: this shit too, Like is that wrong to say?

2740
02:06:27,800 --> 02:06:30,120
Speaker 3: Like you like I don't know.

2741
02:06:30,440 --> 02:06:33,760
Speaker 2: I don't know, but okay, see on voter I D.

2742
02:06:33,840 --> 02:06:36,560
Speaker 2: People are knowingly racist, even when it is so implicit

2743
02:06:36,600 --> 02:06:39,640
Speaker 2: that they delude themselves. The people that you described and

2744
02:06:39,640 --> 02:06:42,240
Speaker 2: the old poor black poor people, people don't care about them.

2745
02:06:42,440 --> 02:06:46,400
Speaker 4: True, that's why they apply these cast loss d.

2746
02:06:46,600 --> 02:06:48,880
Speaker 2: I bet my herschel Ali didn't say bruh in his

2747
02:06:48,960 --> 02:06:50,320
Speaker 2: apology to that man's family.

2748
02:06:50,600 --> 02:06:51,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm pretty sure he didn't.

2749
02:06:52,680 --> 02:06:55,400
Speaker 2: E your commentary on Lady B Sir said and young

2750
02:06:55,440 --> 02:06:57,640
Speaker 2: culture was nuanced, and I appreciate it, and f refer

2751
02:06:57,760 --> 02:06:59,880
Speaker 2: back up to a which was I love you guys,

2752
02:07:00,320 --> 02:07:04,120
Speaker 2: less up, thank you, thank you. I appreciate y'all man,

2753
02:07:04,240 --> 02:07:06,360
Speaker 2: because I've been in my head about this ship all week,

2754
02:07:06,560 --> 02:07:09,160
Speaker 2: and Karen could tell you. We've had many dinners. I've

2755
02:07:09,160 --> 02:07:12,360
Speaker 2: been like, so, what about this angle? Am I saying

2756
02:07:12,360 --> 02:07:14,640
Speaker 2: it like this kind of way or you know? And

2757
02:07:14,760 --> 02:07:17,000
Speaker 2: Karen's just kind of you know, Karen's a little bit

2758
02:07:17,040 --> 02:07:19,800
Speaker 2: more like, man, fuck these niggas than I am.

2759
02:07:21,440 --> 02:07:23,440
Speaker 3: Like, I'm like, well, they could have a point.

2760
02:07:23,520 --> 02:07:26,120
Speaker 2: Karen's like them niggas are tripping, they're projecting, don't even

2761
02:07:26,120 --> 02:07:29,720
Speaker 2: worry about that shit, which I absolutely appreciate, but you know,

2762
02:07:29,800 --> 02:07:32,400
Speaker 2: I try not to just use be like, well this

2763
02:07:32,440 --> 02:07:34,360
Speaker 2: fits my agender fuck y'all, but right.

2764
02:07:34,320 --> 02:07:35,080
Speaker 3: And what's so funny?

2765
02:07:35,080 --> 02:07:37,840
Speaker 1: And sometimes a certain topics it's completely the opposite.

2766
02:07:37,880 --> 02:07:39,480
Speaker 3: So it just very on what it is.

2767
02:07:39,960 --> 02:07:43,760
Speaker 2: But I appreciate all the people, especially you care, because

2768
02:07:43,800 --> 02:07:46,280
Speaker 2: I know I've been talking about this a lot this weekend.

2769
02:07:46,320 --> 02:07:47,560
Speaker 4: Oh and I don't mind talking with you.

2770
02:07:47,680 --> 02:07:50,920
Speaker 2: Yeah all right, Look, we did get things in the mail.

2771
02:07:51,000 --> 02:07:51,760
Speaker 3: Let's talk about them.

2772
02:07:51,840 --> 02:07:57,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, Allegra and Mariano sent us some chowry birds.

2773
02:07:58,200 --> 02:07:59,840
Speaker 3: They are in the refrigerator.

2774
02:08:02,400 --> 02:08:05,640
Speaker 6: Yes, I opened up the refrigerator and I see some cherry berries.

2775
02:08:05,360 --> 02:08:07,280
Speaker 4: And I came in here and I was like, who

2776
02:08:07,360 --> 02:08:09,680
Speaker 4: is this other woman that you've sent some berries too?

2777
02:08:09,800 --> 02:08:12,760
Speaker 2: There ain't nobody, but sure Shari doesn't send me some

2778
02:08:12,800 --> 02:08:14,440
Speaker 2: burds uh.

2779
02:08:14,640 --> 02:08:18,600
Speaker 3: As we say down South shirt birds. But yeah, we've

2780
02:08:18,600 --> 02:08:21,080
Speaker 3: eaten some and they were deliciously chocolate coated.

2781
02:08:21,360 --> 02:08:23,800
Speaker 4: Thank you and it's so gorgeous.

2782
02:08:25,640 --> 02:08:31,160
Speaker 3: We got some cards too. Let's see who this was from?

2783
02:08:31,600 --> 02:08:35,720
Speaker 2: Uh black al Merry Christmas, it says on the front

2784
02:08:35,760 --> 02:08:40,440
Speaker 2: with a big white Christmas tree for white power. Yeah,

2785
02:08:40,560 --> 02:08:42,640
Speaker 2: at a happy New Year. Riding careen two of my

2786
02:08:42,760 --> 02:08:45,360
Speaker 2: favorite people. Much success and happiness to you in the

2787
02:08:45,800 --> 02:08:48,520
Speaker 2: coming year. I'm so proud of you and I can't

2788
02:08:48,520 --> 02:08:51,240
Speaker 2: wait to see what's next. Tiffany aka calib Beauty aka

2789
02:08:51,360 --> 02:08:54,640
Speaker 2: Boss geekery A, thank you.

2790
02:08:54,720 --> 02:08:57,080
Speaker 4: Some little calls to put in my drawer full of cards.

2791
02:08:57,240 --> 02:08:59,040
Speaker 3: We do have a lot of cars, Yeah, we do.

2792
02:08:59,080 --> 02:09:01,200
Speaker 4: I hold on it all to tell y'all be a grandma.

2793
02:09:01,440 --> 02:09:03,360
Speaker 2: Oh this one is like an envelope, like a like

2794
02:09:03,400 --> 02:09:07,160
Speaker 2: a melon lisize. Oh, it has a Yoda on the background.

2795
02:09:07,720 --> 02:09:11,560
Speaker 2: Oh ship, Wait is this from a leg ground Mariana,

2796
02:09:12,360 --> 02:09:12,880
Speaker 2: let me see.

2797
02:09:13,280 --> 02:09:18,200
Speaker 3: Oh oh it's bad boy up. Wow, they're so thoughtful.

2798
02:09:18,240 --> 02:09:19,880
Speaker 3: This is like recyclable paper and ship.

2799
02:09:21,960 --> 02:09:26,200
Speaker 2: Marry everything, it says, and on the side it says,

2800
02:09:26,240 --> 02:09:28,520
Speaker 2: wishing you marry everything this season with love.

2801
02:09:28,600 --> 02:09:32,920
Speaker 3: Allegra and Marianna. You go, thank you you sent the

2802
02:09:32,960 --> 02:09:35,360
Speaker 3: berries and then this you didn't have to.

2803
02:09:35,360 --> 02:09:38,680
Speaker 4: Believe the berries. Oh it's a fine piece of art.

2804
02:09:38,720 --> 02:09:41,160
Speaker 3: Crunch alright, this is beautiful.

2805
02:09:41,200 --> 02:09:43,240
Speaker 4: In my mouth, Yes, in my mouth.

2806
02:09:43,840 --> 02:09:47,960
Speaker 3: I got another one. Let's see coming.

2807
02:09:47,680 --> 02:09:52,560
Speaker 2: From New York, y'all, girl, Tyanya, yay, look at this

2808
02:09:52,600 --> 02:09:56,600
Speaker 2: little mouse sleeping on some presents and stuff, y'all, says

2809
02:09:57,440 --> 02:10:01,880
Speaker 2: Rod and Karen, wishing you a warm and snugly, cozy,

2810
02:10:01,920 --> 02:10:04,560
Speaker 2: happy holiday, have a very merry Christmas and a wonderful

2811
02:10:04,640 --> 02:10:06,040
Speaker 2: New Year. It was so great to be able to

2812
02:10:06,040 --> 02:10:08,520
Speaker 2: attend the live show this year. The black Out Tips

2813
02:10:08,520 --> 02:10:11,720
Speaker 2: fans are awesome. I've never seen an event like that

2814
02:10:11,880 --> 02:10:15,640
Speaker 2: where complete strangers just started talking to one another. You

2815
02:10:15,720 --> 02:10:19,360
Speaker 2: both rule all the best, Tanya, thank you, and you.

2816
02:10:19,320 --> 02:10:21,640
Speaker 1: Know what you do maake a good point. Everybody was like, well,

2817
02:10:21,680 --> 02:10:23,560
Speaker 1: we all know we like riding krons.

2818
02:10:23,280 --> 02:10:24,880
Speaker 4: So let's talk.

2819
02:10:24,920 --> 02:10:28,520
Speaker 2: And I love that about you guys, and nobody even

2820
02:10:28,560 --> 02:10:30,960
Speaker 2: got punched in the face, Like shout out to my

2821
02:10:31,000 --> 02:10:33,040
Speaker 2: people that wanted to punch people in the face and said,

2822
02:10:33,480 --> 02:10:35,360
Speaker 2: I respect ridder Caroen enough not to do it.

2823
02:10:35,480 --> 02:10:38,320
Speaker 3: Y'all are real MVP. Yes, y'all all, don't get it twisted.

2824
02:10:39,920 --> 02:10:43,000
Speaker 2: A gift for you to my favorite podcasts, A little

2825
02:10:43,040 --> 02:10:46,840
Speaker 2: something to make Rise Adventures cooking easier, have a married Christmas, happening,

2826
02:10:46,840 --> 02:10:47,680
Speaker 2: prosperous New Year.

2827
02:10:47,960 --> 02:10:49,600
Speaker 3: This is from Jane.

2828
02:10:49,920 --> 02:10:54,919
Speaker 2: Y'all, y'all will not believe what she got me, my Nighglas,

2829
02:10:56,360 --> 02:10:59,960
Speaker 2: I got electronic salt and pepper grind us.

2830
02:11:01,000 --> 02:11:01,200
Speaker 4: Yeah.

2831
02:11:01,240 --> 02:11:02,920
Speaker 3: I was like, who this is fancy?

2832
02:11:03,040 --> 02:11:07,200
Speaker 2: I don't know, Like you mustn't really love me because

2833
02:11:08,360 --> 02:11:12,360
Speaker 2: on my you know, I cook a lot down and

2834
02:11:12,520 --> 02:11:14,720
Speaker 2: on my I put a picture on my Instagram and

2835
02:11:14,800 --> 02:11:19,000
Speaker 2: my Facebook that was like, man, my delicate wrists are

2836
02:11:19,120 --> 02:11:22,320
Speaker 2: hurting from this fucking these pepper grinders and soft grinders.

2837
02:11:22,600 --> 02:11:26,360
Speaker 3: These things hurt, Like I don't know about.

2838
02:11:26,120 --> 02:11:27,840
Speaker 1: This and I get only a little bit because it's

2839
02:11:27,880 --> 02:11:29,400
Speaker 1: nothing like fresh crack pepper.

2840
02:11:29,480 --> 02:11:31,560
Speaker 4: I'm not even just tasted so much better than food.

2841
02:11:31,760 --> 02:11:33,240
Speaker 3: And I was asking people for a solution.

2842
02:11:33,400 --> 02:11:34,960
Speaker 2: I was like, man, what can I do about this

2843
02:11:35,000 --> 02:11:37,000
Speaker 2: because this shit hurts and I'm not getting enough pepper

2844
02:11:37,080 --> 02:11:39,240
Speaker 2: or salt out of these things. And they was like,

2845
02:11:39,680 --> 02:11:42,440
Speaker 2: you can change the the thing on the inside, and

2846
02:11:42,440 --> 02:11:43,720
Speaker 2: I'm like that didn't really work.

2847
02:11:44,040 --> 02:11:44,920
Speaker 3: My hands still hurt.

2848
02:11:45,000 --> 02:11:48,160
Speaker 2: And then finally they were like you can get electric,

2849
02:11:48,200 --> 02:11:49,280
Speaker 2: when I was like, I'm gonna add it to my

2850
02:11:49,320 --> 02:11:52,600
Speaker 2: wish list and see if somebody get it, and somebody did.

2851
02:11:53,400 --> 02:11:56,920
Speaker 4: Appreciate. Thank you for thinking about us, and he has

2852
02:11:57,080 --> 02:11:57,920
Speaker 4: been cooking more.

2853
02:11:58,400 --> 02:12:00,320
Speaker 3: Thank you for being a friend.

2854
02:12:00,880 --> 02:12:05,280
Speaker 2: Yes, Simon says, Happy holidays. Riding can great shows. I

2855
02:12:05,280 --> 02:12:08,280
Speaker 2: get introduced to new candles too. Y'all are the best.

2856
02:12:08,440 --> 02:12:11,320
Speaker 2: Hope you enjoyed a small token appreciation, enjoyed.

2857
02:12:11,080 --> 02:12:14,600
Speaker 3: The smell goods. I'm trying to think. Oh yo, this

2858
02:12:14,640 --> 02:12:15,320
Speaker 3: was from last week.

2859
02:12:15,360 --> 02:12:19,640
Speaker 2: Okay, the banana but the banana butt, banana nut bread candle.

2860
02:12:20,680 --> 02:12:25,560
Speaker 3: Smell my nuts. These nuts. We appreciate those.

2861
02:12:25,600 --> 02:12:32,640
Speaker 2: Okay, Oh absolutely, we got Oh wait, I got two

2862
02:12:32,640 --> 02:12:34,200
Speaker 2: more cars before I get to this one.

2863
02:12:34,440 --> 02:12:36,960
Speaker 3: All right, let me open this one up.

2864
02:12:37,880 --> 02:12:40,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, if y'all still want to send us cars, going

2865
02:12:40,080 --> 02:12:42,960
Speaker 1: to blackout hootips dot com click on about us and

2866
02:12:43,080 --> 02:12:44,320
Speaker 1: has our meiling of dreads.

2867
02:12:44,360 --> 02:12:46,040
Speaker 2: I'll put our show notes. Put in the show notes

2868
02:12:46,080 --> 02:12:48,000
Speaker 2: one more time, and that'll probably be it for the year.

2869
02:12:48,680 --> 02:12:51,760
Speaker 3: Happy holidays. What's some marshmallows?

2870
02:12:51,760 --> 02:12:55,880
Speaker 2: Snowman and on the inside says, wishing your absolute joy,

2871
02:12:56,040 --> 02:12:58,520
Speaker 2: Wishing you absolute joy this holiday season. Congrats on all

2872
02:12:58,560 --> 02:13:02,680
Speaker 2: your success you deserve. Bye, Samantha, Thank you, Samantha, thank you.

2873
02:13:02,760 --> 02:13:07,240
Speaker 3: We appreciate you. That's adorable, little card. I love these cards.

2874
02:13:07,320 --> 02:13:15,040
Speaker 3: All right, one more.

2875
02:13:12,040 --> 02:13:13,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, one thing I go through that Jordan kind of

2876
02:13:13,920 --> 02:13:16,160
Speaker 1: organize right now. They just kind of all in the

2877
02:13:16,200 --> 02:13:17,040
Speaker 1: little Joridan together.

2878
02:13:17,080 --> 02:13:22,080
Speaker 2: Then Oh my girl, babe, coko o qt look at.

2879
02:13:21,920 --> 02:13:26,160
Speaker 1: Her all girl, you is everything I be liking our

2880
02:13:26,160 --> 02:13:26,760
Speaker 1: older pics.

2881
02:13:26,800 --> 02:13:30,000
Speaker 4: I'm not even gonna lie. Come on, man, cutting on

2882
02:13:30,120 --> 02:13:32,160
Speaker 4: these hos like.

2883
02:13:32,200 --> 02:13:35,040
Speaker 2: I don't care how many booty models I follow on Instagram,

2884
02:13:35,080 --> 02:13:37,240
Speaker 2: I always have a like for you. Okay, come on,

2885
02:13:37,360 --> 02:13:39,880
Speaker 2: don't ever, don't ever let it slip. Who's important to

2886
02:13:40,040 --> 02:13:41,320
Speaker 2: love ones from man?

2887
02:13:41,440 --> 02:13:42,360
Speaker 3: Thank you so much.

2888
02:13:43,720 --> 02:13:46,120
Speaker 4: Yes she had like.

2889
02:13:46,040 --> 02:13:47,400
Speaker 3: A professional photo shoot.

2890
02:13:47,800 --> 02:13:49,880
Speaker 4: Yes you did stunting on these foods.

2891
02:13:50,240 --> 02:13:52,640
Speaker 3: Oh, I'm sorry this one first? All right? So then

2892
02:13:52,680 --> 02:13:55,400
Speaker 3: we got this. It is wrapped up in the Amazon

2893
02:13:55,520 --> 02:13:56,000
Speaker 3: gifts thing.

2894
02:13:56,560 --> 02:13:58,760
Speaker 2: Happy holidays, right and Karen great shows and I get

2895
02:13:58,800 --> 02:14:01,400
Speaker 2: introduced to candles to Okay, so simon, this is from

2896
02:14:01,440 --> 02:14:03,520
Speaker 2: this week. Okay, I read yours already. Let me open

2897
02:14:03,640 --> 02:14:05,720
Speaker 2: up and see what's in it. I guess I hadn't

2898
02:14:05,760 --> 02:14:06,320
Speaker 2: opened it yet.

2899
02:14:06,360 --> 02:14:08,160
Speaker 4: You might have to do the outside things.

2900
02:14:10,000 --> 02:14:12,000
Speaker 2: Trust me. I know how to open up something. I

2901
02:14:12,040 --> 02:14:13,480
Speaker 2: know how to secure the bag, if you know what

2902
02:14:13,520 --> 02:14:20,760
Speaker 2: I'm saying. All right, it is a white box, y'all.

2903
02:14:20,760 --> 02:14:21,800
Speaker 4: We got a white box.

2904
02:14:22,640 --> 02:14:23,920
Speaker 3: See what's inside the white box?

2905
02:14:24,640 --> 02:14:29,040
Speaker 2: All sniggtyds nuts.

2906
02:14:29,560 --> 02:14:31,520
Speaker 3: Oh, I can't believe.

2907
02:14:31,520 --> 02:14:37,120
Speaker 2: You got us these nuts, that's what we wanted. Oh

2908
02:14:37,160 --> 02:14:39,600
Speaker 2: and this banana bread flavored. Okay, so this is m

2909
02:14:40,560 --> 02:14:42,520
Speaker 2: almost like banana banana pudding.

2910
02:14:42,680 --> 02:14:43,440
Speaker 3: That's fell good.

2911
02:14:44,440 --> 02:14:47,960
Speaker 2: And you know what's funny, Ironically, during this show, the

2912
02:14:48,000 --> 02:14:50,000
Speaker 2: candle always burn a candle when we do the show.

2913
02:14:50,760 --> 02:14:54,480
Speaker 3: During this show, my candle went out. You know it's

2914
02:14:54,520 --> 02:14:59,560
Speaker 3: like it's like, you guys really get me. All right,

2915
02:15:00,400 --> 02:15:02,240
Speaker 3: I'm about to light up the new candle right now.

2916
02:15:04,200 --> 02:15:09,960
Speaker 1: And then we got one more thing.

2917
02:15:07,840 --> 02:15:10,680
Speaker 3: You want me to do yours, But I ain't get

2918
02:15:10,720 --> 02:15:11,360
Speaker 3: you nothing yet.

2919
02:15:11,600 --> 02:15:12,040
Speaker 4: I don't care.

2920
02:15:12,840 --> 02:15:17,880
Speaker 2: Okay, but uh, your gift is in the your gift

2921
02:15:17,960 --> 02:15:21,600
Speaker 2: is in the in the apartment office.

2922
02:15:21,760 --> 02:15:25,880
Speaker 3: Oh damn, they closed. I guess tomorrow. Okay, it's tomorrow

2923
02:15:25,960 --> 02:15:28,680
Speaker 3: Christmas Eve. No, okay, cool, So I guess tomorrow we

2924
02:15:28,680 --> 02:15:33,960
Speaker 3: can get it. Mele Christmas and a Prairie New Year.

2925
02:15:34,440 --> 02:15:37,360
Speaker 2: Sending our best wishes to a wonderful holiday and great

2926
02:15:37,360 --> 02:15:40,080
Speaker 2: twenty nineteen. The Rider Carrn thanks for all your hard

2927
02:15:40,120 --> 02:15:41,440
Speaker 2: work and for aspiring me.

2928
02:15:42,040 --> 02:15:46,480
Speaker 3: Snocky delicious. This is the uh, this is the cat all.

2929
02:15:47,760 --> 02:15:52,200
Speaker 2: And then let me open up this tin. Inside the

2930
02:15:52,240 --> 02:15:57,520
Speaker 2: ten is something that smell good. Some snacks or something.

2931
02:15:58,880 --> 02:16:03,040
Speaker 2: And it got some that's some type of flowering, some

2932
02:16:03,120 --> 02:16:07,920
Speaker 2: type of urban health. Oh oh yes, oh we got

2933
02:16:08,000 --> 02:16:09,520
Speaker 2: some chocolate brownie treats up in hell.

2934
02:16:10,360 --> 02:16:10,760
Speaker 3: Mm hmm.

2935
02:16:11,160 --> 02:16:13,880
Speaker 4: Long talking about and you get a little thing too.

2936
02:16:13,920 --> 02:16:16,720
Speaker 3: What was it? She gave us that bacon last time?

2937
02:16:18,920 --> 02:16:19,640
Speaker 4: What jam?

2938
02:16:19,960 --> 02:16:22,160
Speaker 3: Oh and she gave us speaking of bacon, she gave

2939
02:16:22,240 --> 02:16:22,920
Speaker 3: us bacon jam.

2940
02:16:23,000 --> 02:16:23,960
Speaker 4: Okay, that's what it was.

2941
02:16:24,000 --> 02:16:26,480
Speaker 2: Okay, she gave us that chocolate cold bacon last time

2942
02:16:26,680 --> 02:16:27,680
Speaker 2: was in st.

2943
02:16:29,160 --> 02:16:32,240
Speaker 3: Mm hmm. Thank you. We appreciate you.

2944
02:16:32,360 --> 02:16:32,760
Speaker 4: We did.

2945
02:16:33,840 --> 02:16:37,080
Speaker 2: And uh I think that's Oh and then the last thing,

2946
02:16:38,480 --> 02:16:39,879
Speaker 2: I'll go ahead and open this now.

2947
02:16:39,760 --> 02:16:41,520
Speaker 1: Careen, Yes, since you were already I thought that's why

2948
02:16:41,560 --> 02:16:42,560
Speaker 1: you put it over in the first place.

2949
02:16:42,560 --> 02:16:52,280
Speaker 2: My bad, It's fine, uh m.

2950
02:16:52,680 --> 02:16:58,160
Speaker 3: Opening the last box, all snuff.

2951
02:16:59,760 --> 02:17:06,760
Speaker 2: This is exactly what I needed. I got the bevel tremor. Okay,

2952
02:17:07,959 --> 02:17:11,480
Speaker 2: the same hell the same hair intension that cut Barack

2953
02:17:11,520 --> 02:17:17,040
Speaker 2: Obama's infamous presidential main Come on.

2954
02:17:17,360 --> 02:17:20,360
Speaker 1: So so in the enddirectly way you've had, you've got

2955
02:17:20,360 --> 02:17:21,520
Speaker 1: to touch Barack Obama.

2956
02:17:21,680 --> 02:17:24,600
Speaker 2: I'm moving into the it's a wireless it has four

2957
02:17:24,600 --> 02:17:27,080
Speaker 2: hours worth of power in it. I've moved into the

2958
02:17:27,080 --> 02:17:32,600
Speaker 2: motherfucking twenty second century wireless. Uh, they not gonna know

2959
02:17:32,600 --> 02:17:33,119
Speaker 2: what hit him.

2960
02:17:33,160 --> 02:17:35,160
Speaker 3: Okay, thank you, baby, You're welcome.

2961
02:17:36,000 --> 02:17:40,879
Speaker 2: All right, guys, that is us, That is it we.

2962
02:17:41,080 --> 02:17:43,800
Speaker 2: I think we're doing one episode this week, might do

2963
02:17:43,879 --> 02:17:45,440
Speaker 2: tomorrow and then take the rest of the week off,

2964
02:17:45,879 --> 02:17:47,360
Speaker 2: possibly all the way to the end of the year.

2965
02:17:47,520 --> 02:17:48,680
Speaker 3: Yeah.

2966
02:17:48,840 --> 02:17:50,600
Speaker 2: Thank you for everybody that took the time out to

2967
02:17:50,840 --> 02:17:52,760
Speaker 2: whether you send us stuff, wrote the stuff, hung out

2968
02:17:52,760 --> 02:17:56,040
Speaker 2: with us in the chat, left feedback or whatever.

2969
02:17:56,440 --> 02:17:57,720
Speaker 4: Yeah, thank you, thank you.

2970
02:17:59,160 --> 02:18:02,280
Speaker 3: All right, we'll talk to you y'all later. Until then, I

2971
02:18:02,360 --> 02:18:03,480
Speaker 3: love you. I love you too.

2972
02:18:03,720 --> 02:18:03,879
Speaker 4: Wh