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Speaker 1: Calling all my sweeties to the forefront. I'm your host, Christopher,

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Speaker 1: and this is a keep it positive, sweetish show. Sweeties,

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Speaker 1: have you ever met someone who doesn't just show up?

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Speaker 2: They shift the room?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we are talking impact. Today's episode is all about

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Speaker 1: that quiet power, that loud purpose, and that kind of

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Speaker 1: presence that leaves the mark after you've walked away. Because

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Speaker 1: cute is cool, but impact is forever. Let's get into it.

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Speaker 1: This is keep it positive, sweetie. Today's guest is someone

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Speaker 1: I not only admire on screen, but deeply respect offscreen.

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Speaker 1: She's bold, she's funny, she's real, and you know, she's

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Speaker 1: one of those women who brings that light with.

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Speaker 2: Her everywhere she goes.

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Speaker 1: You might know her as seen stealing Danny from Tyler

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Speaker 1: Perry's Sisters, but trust me, Mignon Vond is so much

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Speaker 1: more than a character. She's a storyteller, a creative and

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Speaker 1: a woman of faith. She has worked her way up

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Speaker 1: in this industry with grit and grace and that signature

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Speaker 1: Minyon Sparkle. I am so excited to have this honest,

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Speaker 1: joyful and impactful conversation with my sister today.

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Speaker 2: Sweetyes, Please give a warm welcome to Mignon, my sister

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Speaker 2: have now the people have been wanting this one. I know. No,

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Speaker 2: thank you for coming, thank you for having me.

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Speaker 3: I'm so excited happy we could make their dreams come true.

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Speaker 2: You know. See this is what we do once again.

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Speaker 1: No people every week they're like, we want more of

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Speaker 1: Danny and Fatima. When are we gonna get some Fanny

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Speaker 1: or Fanny Fatima? Yeah, Fanny, I think that'd be our nickname,

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Speaker 1: Datima Datima.

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Speaker 4: Because the teama was like the team too exactly.

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Speaker 1: Yes, and we make a really good team like we do.

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Speaker 1: I do coming out, put it together.

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Speaker 2: I love it. Thank you so much. Thank you. We

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Speaker 2: when we're working, we don't get to talk as much.

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Speaker 1: In the past few seasons, we didn't have a lot

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Speaker 1: of work together the past. Now, like I think the

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Speaker 1: last two seasons we filmed, we've actually got to work

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Speaker 1: more together.

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Speaker 2: We built our own relationship, our own language.

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Speaker 1: Like I can just look at her and you like,

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Speaker 1: and I know exactly what she's talking about. It's so

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Speaker 1: funny of like you guess she's like, I'm like, got it.

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Speaker 1: I read I read all that, I.

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Speaker 3: Read it all talk about how I go mute, I

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Speaker 3: do have like I just start kind of.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but she has mumble core. She likesumed him up.

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Speaker 2: You know.

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Speaker 3: At time we did it, I was like, I didn't

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Speaker 3: understand anything but everything.

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Speaker 2: The crazy thing is me and my brother had that language.

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Speaker 1: So I guess you really are my sister because he's

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Speaker 1: the only one that understands me and you.

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Speaker 2: Now, my mom was like, what are y'all talking about?

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Speaker 2: Like he's like, is that Tennessee? It must be. It

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Speaker 2: must be. I don't know what it is, but that's why. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I mumble and you get it. Yeah, I love it.

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Speaker 2: I love it. It don't even matter.

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Speaker 4: It's like just she's telling y'all that the pickup is wrong.

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Speaker 2: I love it. So because we haven't got we worked.

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Speaker 1: When we're working, we are working, And I was like,

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Speaker 1: I really want to sit down and talk to you

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Speaker 1: and even for the audience to get to know you more,

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Speaker 1: because the times that we have talked have been so

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Speaker 1: enriching for me learning more about your faith.

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Speaker 2: We had financial talks.

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Speaker 1: We talked about so much like in our breaks, it's

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Speaker 1: like what about this, and who do you use for this?

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Speaker 2: What we like?

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Speaker 1: We talk about so many different things so much. No,

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Speaker 1: you've got impeccable taste.

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Speaker 2: Thank you, so thank you, thank you so much. But

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Speaker 2: that's what it's about.

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Speaker 1: We talked about in our prayer about not gatekeeping and

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Speaker 1: making sure that we're sharing the knowledge and this season

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Speaker 1: not gaykeep.

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Speaker 2: I don't for what somebody told me.

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Speaker 1: Hello, Why why should I take what somebody else gave

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Speaker 1: me and keep.

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Speaker 2: It all to myself? Yeah, yep, that's it. You got it.

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Speaker 2: That's it, you got it.

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Speaker 4: We know.

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Speaker 1: I wanted to have you on so we can learn

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Speaker 1: more about you because when we are working, we don't

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Speaker 1: really get to dive into those things. So I was like,

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Speaker 1: let's have me on so we can really dive in,

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Speaker 1: you know, dive into who you are, some of your

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Speaker 1: who you are. So you started. You were born in DC,

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Speaker 2: In Georgia, oh. Raised in Georgia.

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Speaker 1: Augusta Augusta, Georgia, Austa, born in DC, raising Augusta.

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Speaker 2: I did go to the Masters last year. We did.

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Speaker 2: It was crazy, was it. I've never been with Mercedes.

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Speaker 2: We need to.

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Speaker 1: We need to make that heaven because you're driving Mercedes.

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Speaker 1: Come on, now, make it.

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Speaker 4: With Mercedes like an ambassador or something.

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Speaker 2: Yep, so we don't make that. Heaven, don't get.

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Speaker 1: Driving Mercedes. That's a double win right there. You need

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Speaker 1: to go to the Master's next year. It's an experience

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Speaker 1: of a lifetime. I got to go and Tiger was there,

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Speaker 3: Well that's the thing like growing up in Augusta and

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Speaker 2: So and I was like child whatever, I'm trying to

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Speaker 1: To La anyway, Right, seriously, what was it like as young? Mean, like,

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Speaker 1: were you always did you know you were funny? When

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Speaker 3: So I always say that it was annoying with like acting,

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Speaker 3: I didn't necessarily know I was funny until a certain age.

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Speaker 3: But like the thing about acting, it just it was understood.

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Speaker 2: And I was like three, so it was just annoing.

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Speaker 3: traumas and insecurities. And then eventually I was just like nah, shouting.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, what were some of those struggles and traumas that

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Speaker 2: Shoddy, you got this well?

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Speaker 3: Just so I went to Peppernine University for film school, graduated,

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Speaker 3: Like with other people's short films, I've been like an

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Speaker 2: May I did not know, ma'am, our stories are so parallel.

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Speaker 2: I have no idea.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but like I just I tried to work behind

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Speaker 3: don't get to be your size and do this. How

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Speaker 4: So I was like, all right, I'll just make my

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Speaker 3: Doors started closing and I started fasting, like in my twenties.

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Speaker 3: And one of the times I was fasting, I was

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Speaker 3: reading the book called The Alchemists. Well listening to it,

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Speaker 3: that is one of my favorite books. It's absolutely one

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Speaker 3: It's so good because Paulo Coela, I think that's how

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Speaker 2: I mean, he's also a believer.

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Speaker 3: So it's just like understanding our journey, our life path

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Speaker 2: And that book really helped you in like.

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Speaker 4: Visual storytelling, to understand your own personal hero's journey. And

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Speaker 4: I was fascinating. I was like, God, just tell me

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Speaker 3: My brother was like, remember that little girl who had

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Speaker 3: And I put all those things together and I was like, Okay,

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Speaker 1: Because that's the move, right people. They can go to

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Speaker 3: But that's because God was like, take acting classes, get back, really,

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Speaker 3: I was taking acting classes, but I still focused on

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Speaker 2: Right.

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Speaker 3: He was like, no, you need to go after this hard.

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Speaker 3: And then I did that. You know, I think I

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Speaker 3: but I did improp here in Atlanta, and we would

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Speaker 2: Like, okay, you know, heal a little funny. It'd be

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Speaker 2: kind of cute at this. Yes, yeah, that's funny.

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Speaker 4: So I've always been funny, though I don't know you

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Speaker 4: are funny?

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Speaker 2: Thank you.

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Speaker 3: I mean, yes, I am funny. That's why people think

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Speaker 3: I'm Danny, because that's why I think I'm Danny in

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Speaker 3: real life, just because like, no, yes, I'm hilarious, but

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Speaker 3: I promise you I've not heard.

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Speaker 2: But yeah, yeah exactly.

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Speaker 1: So from moving from Los Angeles to Atlanta, all the doors,

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Speaker 1: the rejection being closed, what was that first big break

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Speaker 1: where you were.

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Speaker 2: Like, okay, we got some traction here. M really sisus

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Speaker 2: was that moment? What year? What do year did you

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Speaker 2: move to Atlanta? I'm moving back to Atlanta?

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Speaker 4: Like twenty sixteen, so three years later because we got

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Speaker 4: people like twenty nineteen.

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Speaker 2: That's true.

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Speaker 1: It was only three years, yeah, which is I mean

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Speaker 4: Why are we doing this just so we can get

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Speaker 1: They're like, Chris, so, how do you expect to get

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Speaker 3: Like when you told me that, I was Yeah, it

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Speaker 3: was visceral for me when you told me that, Okay.

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Speaker 1: Yeah it's scary because, like you said, I can be

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Speaker 2: There the weirdo that Yeah, yeah, you know, you just

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Speaker 1: So it's always having like this awareness now watching my bag,

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Speaker 3: And that's the thing that sometimes frustrates me about my

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Speaker 2: You know how to navigate what I'm navigating? Though?

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Speaker 1: I'm just kind of afraid that primal fear that I'll

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Speaker 2: With my look. I think you're right about referral.

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Speaker 3: I think they say that no matter who you are,

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Speaker 2: I have to do. So are you're looking? Are you ready?

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Speaker 3: This week I was thinking about that. I was like,

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Speaker 2: But like I tried to even.

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Speaker 1: I'm older than you mean, so I will tell you

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Speaker 4: But how do you focus on something that you can't control.

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Speaker 1: Well, by telling your friends, hey, I'm ready, I'm willing

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Speaker 4: I'm ready and I'm willing to day. All right, you

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Speaker 2: The right.

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Speaker 3: See, there's only certain people that I want to send

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Speaker 1: Now, you can't have everybody sending referrals because everybody don't

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Speaker 2: I'm like, do you even know me? Do you even

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Speaker 2: Sometimes I think we all have that either we did.

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Speaker 1: Some people are just dumb, but like, yeah, some people

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Speaker 3: Just because I remember being twelve thirteen fourteen trying to

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Speaker 4: There's like a billion women in my family, but we

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Speaker 3: if I wanted something that I have not seen, I

442
00:20:49,520 --> 00:20:51,400
Speaker 3: would have to go through a process that most people

443
00:20:51,440 --> 00:20:54,280
Speaker 3: wouldn't go through. Right, that is so true. And so

444
00:20:54,400 --> 00:20:57,040
Speaker 3: I think I'm still cooking. Yeah, because he was like,

445
00:20:57,080 --> 00:20:59,359
Speaker 3: you want it better, let.

446
00:20:59,200 --> 00:21:00,680
Speaker 2: Me get different.

447
00:21:00,760 --> 00:21:02,960
Speaker 3: You want it more so to who much is given,

448
00:21:03,000 --> 00:21:07,080
Speaker 3: much is required. So I think I'm still cooking. My

449
00:21:07,160 --> 00:21:11,399
Speaker 3: gentleman is still cooking. And because I really because I

450
00:21:11,400 --> 00:21:13,000
Speaker 3: feel like even in the Church, a lot of men

451
00:21:13,040 --> 00:21:16,080
Speaker 3: don't understand what it is to love like Christ.

452
00:21:16,880 --> 00:21:18,760
Speaker 2: Because Jesus said.

453
00:21:18,640 --> 00:21:21,280
Speaker 4: I think it was Mark nine or Matthew nine.

454
00:21:21,880 --> 00:21:23,920
Speaker 3: I can never quote the exact book chapter in verse,

455
00:21:23,960 --> 00:21:27,800
Speaker 3: but he said, the gentile leaders lord their authority over you,

456
00:21:29,000 --> 00:21:33,680
Speaker 3: but in this kingdom not so. Whoever desires to be great,

457
00:21:33,920 --> 00:21:38,520
Speaker 3: desires to serve. And if you have the mind of Christ,

458
00:21:39,200 --> 00:21:41,399
Speaker 3: if you're going to love your wife the way Christ

459
00:21:41,440 --> 00:21:43,280
Speaker 3: loves the church, yeah, a.

460
00:21:43,280 --> 00:21:45,040
Speaker 4: Lot of men be like, I'll die for mint, Yeah,

461
00:21:45,040 --> 00:21:45,439
Speaker 4: but will you.

462
00:21:45,440 --> 00:21:52,600
Speaker 3: Live for yours? That when you wash speed, when you

463
00:21:52,680 --> 00:21:56,920
Speaker 3: are equal to God? Thought it not robbery to put

464
00:21:56,960 --> 00:21:58,600
Speaker 3: on the flesh of a servant, not a king, not

465
00:21:58,640 --> 00:22:01,560
Speaker 3: a warrior, but a servant, and then die death you

466
00:22:01,600 --> 00:22:05,240
Speaker 3: didn't deserve. Yeah you got the dying part, but do

467
00:22:05,280 --> 00:22:08,960
Speaker 3: you got the living part? And that's that's something I

468
00:22:09,000 --> 00:22:11,200
Speaker 3: think I saw at that age. But you know, I said,

469
00:22:11,240 --> 00:22:13,760
Speaker 3: don't have the language and still want that, yea.

470
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Speaker 1: And so that's what I love about you mean, like

471
00:22:16,640 --> 00:22:19,280
Speaker 1: even when we go on our press tours and stuff,

472
00:22:19,320 --> 00:22:23,000
Speaker 1: and the way you speak on behalf of women that

473
00:22:23,119 --> 00:22:25,600
Speaker 1: started at a young age, the fact that you could

474
00:22:25,640 --> 00:22:27,879
Speaker 1: see that and like, but why don't we get why

475
00:22:27,880 --> 00:22:28,320
Speaker 1: are they not?

476
00:22:29,119 --> 00:22:30,240
Speaker 2: And I grew up the same way.

477
00:22:30,320 --> 00:22:32,800
Speaker 1: I grew up On Sundays, all the men were in

478
00:22:32,880 --> 00:22:36,000
Speaker 1: the living room watching football while the women were cooking.

479
00:22:36,680 --> 00:22:39,080
Speaker 2: Same thing. Make your dad a plate like it was

480
00:22:39,160 --> 00:22:40,800
Speaker 2: that was the thing. And I still do that. It's

481
00:22:40,840 --> 00:22:42,680
Speaker 2: like when my parents said, here, dad, here's your plate.

482
00:22:42,720 --> 00:22:45,280
Speaker 2: Like that's just it was programmed and to do that.

483
00:22:46,720 --> 00:22:48,680
Speaker 1: But of course, like being who I am today, of

484
00:22:48,760 --> 00:22:50,760
Speaker 1: course I want someone where we can help each other,

485
00:22:50,960 --> 00:22:53,720
Speaker 1: you know, and serve each other, not just to give

486
00:22:53,760 --> 00:22:57,199
Speaker 1: give give, give givet situation. That's one thing I was

487
00:22:57,240 --> 00:22:59,239
Speaker 1: telling JB. I was like, I love the way she

488
00:22:59,440 --> 00:23:03,040
Speaker 1: just speaks for women and even some of the things

489
00:23:03,040 --> 00:23:04,720
Speaker 1: that we go through and how you like, I don't

490
00:23:04,760 --> 00:23:08,160
Speaker 1: want this struggle of We talk about that, Yeah, even

491
00:23:08,200 --> 00:23:11,520
Speaker 1: through your characters, like you want more for Danny, Like it.

492
00:23:11,440 --> 00:23:12,399
Speaker 2: Goes from your real life.

493
00:23:12,520 --> 00:23:14,200
Speaker 1: You talk about what you want and we talk about

494
00:23:14,280 --> 00:23:16,119
Speaker 1: characters and like, yeah, this is what we want to

495
00:23:16,160 --> 00:23:17,480
Speaker 1: make sure we're putting out because.

496
00:23:17,280 --> 00:23:19,879
Speaker 2: A lot of us are dealing with struggle of and

497
00:23:19,920 --> 00:23:24,680
Speaker 2: it's not fun. Yeah, it's not about tip for tat,

498
00:23:25,359 --> 00:23:27,520
Speaker 2: you know what I mean. It's not about tip for tat.

499
00:23:27,560 --> 00:23:32,119
Speaker 3: It's about it's about it's about love, it's about sacrifice

500
00:23:32,160 --> 00:23:34,040
Speaker 3: and it's really and I think that's the other thing

501
00:23:34,080 --> 00:23:40,600
Speaker 3: to me realizing like when you marry someone, you're marrying

502
00:23:40,840 --> 00:23:46,280
Speaker 3: their fears, their hopes, their flaws, their traumas, processor un processed,

503
00:23:46,520 --> 00:23:50,959
Speaker 3: their triggers. Like marriage is a ministry, it's work, like

504
00:23:51,240 --> 00:23:53,320
Speaker 3: you know what I mean. Like and so I just

505
00:23:53,400 --> 00:23:58,440
Speaker 3: think for women and men because I can already see

506
00:23:58,480 --> 00:23:59,639
Speaker 3: the comments.

507
00:23:59,640 --> 00:24:02,639
Speaker 2: And that's fine. He's paying all the bills and it's.

508
00:24:05,400 --> 00:24:08,560
Speaker 4: So basically I'm a higher is a woman a hired help?

509
00:24:08,680 --> 00:24:10,720
Speaker 3: Is that what you're saying, like is your partner hired

510
00:24:10,760 --> 00:24:12,840
Speaker 3: help because you pay the bills. That means you don't

511
00:24:12,840 --> 00:24:15,359
Speaker 3: have to pick up your draws. Like you got the

512
00:24:15,400 --> 00:24:17,879
Speaker 3: toilet looking like a Jackson Pollock paint. She gotta clean it.

513
00:24:18,640 --> 00:24:19,439
Speaker 3: What are you telling me?

514
00:24:20,200 --> 00:24:22,600
Speaker 2: What are you saying to me? That was gross?

515
00:24:22,640 --> 00:24:25,120
Speaker 1: But I'm trying to be gross right because it's gross.

516
00:24:25,359 --> 00:24:28,600
Speaker 2: It's gross, And so it's not about Tippertiz.

517
00:24:28,600 --> 00:24:34,800
Speaker 3: It's just about understanding how certain ideologies have infiltrated our society.

518
00:24:35,400 --> 00:24:38,639
Speaker 3: And it's the foundation of our society. I mean, if

519
00:24:38,640 --> 00:24:42,080
Speaker 3: you want to cut somebody out, it's a mother fl

520
00:24:42,200 --> 00:24:44,399
Speaker 3: what's your mama had to do with it? You're a

521
00:24:44,440 --> 00:24:48,040
Speaker 3: son of a bee, a female dog. If you want

522
00:24:48,040 --> 00:24:49,720
Speaker 3: to call somebody week, you call them the p word.

523
00:24:50,040 --> 00:24:53,800
Speaker 3: But peas push out babies. These can't get hit without

524
00:24:53,800 --> 00:24:58,600
Speaker 3: them punching over. So why is it that everything it's

525
00:24:58,760 --> 00:25:00,560
Speaker 3: female related or female ollanted.

526
00:25:00,720 --> 00:25:02,800
Speaker 2: It's the substratum of our society.

527
00:25:02,840 --> 00:25:06,040
Speaker 3: And I'm just you know, sometimes I feel like that

528
00:25:06,280 --> 00:25:10,080
Speaker 3: crazy person and a natural disaster movie with like a

529
00:25:10,160 --> 00:25:12,480
Speaker 3: mustard standing on their shirt and like.

530
00:25:14,320 --> 00:25:16,399
Speaker 4: Nobody will listen to them because their hair is crazy

531
00:25:16,440 --> 00:25:19,240
Speaker 4: and all over their head, Like right now, you know.

532
00:25:19,119 --> 00:25:22,240
Speaker 2: What I'm saying. You know what I'm saying.

533
00:25:22,440 --> 00:25:24,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, But at the end of the movie, the professor

534
00:25:24,800 --> 00:25:26,720
Speaker 3: died in like the first act, and they're.

535
00:25:26,480 --> 00:25:28,480
Speaker 2: Like they were right, right, But like.

536
00:25:28,480 --> 00:25:30,280
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying, Like, it's not about it's

537
00:25:30,320 --> 00:25:35,360
Speaker 3: not about upending traditions. It's not about not loving your partners.

538
00:25:35,400 --> 00:25:37,600
Speaker 3: It's just about understanding what it really means to love.

539
00:25:37,880 --> 00:25:41,359
Speaker 3: And I don't know, No, I love it. Yeah, I

540
00:25:41,400 --> 00:25:43,560
Speaker 3: think I love you your take on it. And I

541
00:25:43,600 --> 00:25:45,560
Speaker 3: think it's a great conversation to have with men.

542
00:25:46,520 --> 00:25:47,560
Speaker 2: Yeah.

543
00:25:47,640 --> 00:25:49,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, I just wish they could hear because I feel

544
00:25:49,640 --> 00:25:52,840
Speaker 3: like a lot of men will get defensive when they

545
00:25:52,840 --> 00:25:55,720
Speaker 3: hear that. Yeah, some men hear it because they've been

546
00:25:55,760 --> 00:25:59,119
Speaker 3: married and they're happily married. Yeah, emphasis and happily married.

547
00:25:59,240 --> 00:26:03,000
Speaker 3: They understand and that it's mutual submission. Especially the Bible

548
00:26:03,000 --> 00:26:05,159
Speaker 3: talks about mutual submission. A lot of people don't focus

549
00:26:05,200 --> 00:26:05,680
Speaker 3: on that either.

550
00:26:06,760 --> 00:26:09,720
Speaker 2: We pick and choose, We pick and choose, We pick.

551
00:26:09,560 --> 00:26:12,879
Speaker 3: And choose, like our parents do that too, Like honor

552
00:26:12,920 --> 00:26:18,879
Speaker 3: your parents, but also parents don't provoke your children around.

553
00:26:18,880 --> 00:26:28,920
Speaker 2: They stop stop, you know, no, seriously.

554
00:26:28,960 --> 00:26:29,440
Speaker 4: I don't know.

555
00:26:29,640 --> 00:26:31,280
Speaker 2: I just I think that's part of it too.

556
00:26:31,280 --> 00:26:34,400
Speaker 3: It's like when you're when you're kind of on your

557
00:26:34,440 --> 00:26:37,199
Speaker 3: own little That's why I have the orbital tribe. When

558
00:26:37,240 --> 00:26:40,119
Speaker 3: your own orbit, sometimes it takes longer to make a

559
00:26:40,119 --> 00:26:42,200
Speaker 3: full revolution and encounter another.

560
00:26:42,640 --> 00:26:47,199
Speaker 1: Yeah, the same orbits exactly. You talked about fasting. This

561
00:26:47,280 --> 00:26:49,800
Speaker 1: is actually a conversation we had in the garage after

562
00:26:49,840 --> 00:26:53,359
Speaker 1: we just finished filming and you were talking about fasting.

563
00:26:53,359 --> 00:26:55,320
Speaker 1: I didn't know you started fasting at at the age

564
00:26:55,359 --> 00:26:56,800
Speaker 1: of twenty, like that was when you.

565
00:26:56,800 --> 00:26:58,200
Speaker 2: Start even young.

566
00:26:58,240 --> 00:26:59,840
Speaker 3: I think I tried one time when I was in

567
00:27:00,400 --> 00:27:01,600
Speaker 3: I tried in high school too.

568
00:27:02,560 --> 00:27:03,680
Speaker 2: I was not fasting.

569
00:27:03,760 --> 00:27:06,119
Speaker 1: I didn't do that until probably until I really like

570
00:27:06,160 --> 00:27:08,800
Speaker 1: got became an adult or I understood what it meant.

571
00:27:08,880 --> 00:27:10,879
Speaker 2: You know, I saw my parents fastening.

572
00:27:11,040 --> 00:27:14,439
Speaker 3: Yeah, see, yeah, I saw my parents fast and so

573
00:27:14,480 --> 00:27:15,040
Speaker 3: I tried that.

574
00:27:15,080 --> 00:27:18,040
Speaker 2: And yeah, in my twenties is when I really picked up.

575
00:27:18,840 --> 00:27:22,600
Speaker 3: And now mid thirties, trying to get right back into

576
00:27:22,640 --> 00:27:25,040
Speaker 3: the swing of it, because you know, with our job,

577
00:27:25,680 --> 00:27:28,240
Speaker 3: it's not always you know, always know where you're going

578
00:27:28,280 --> 00:27:30,000
Speaker 3: to be, what you're going to be doing right, and

579
00:27:30,040 --> 00:27:33,600
Speaker 3: you don't want to be trying to So yeah.

580
00:27:33,600 --> 00:27:35,560
Speaker 1: When you grew up in a Christian home, And you said,

581
00:27:35,560 --> 00:27:38,160
Speaker 1: I saw my mom and dad fasting. What did growing

582
00:27:38,240 --> 00:27:40,000
Speaker 1: up in that Christian home? What did it do to

583
00:27:40,040 --> 00:27:42,760
Speaker 1: shape who you are today? Because I was just blown

584
00:27:42,760 --> 00:27:44,920
Speaker 1: away just by our conversation in the garage that day,

585
00:27:45,080 --> 00:27:47,359
Speaker 1: Like I love when things happen like that where we

586
00:27:47,400 --> 00:27:49,120
Speaker 1: just start talking about the Lord and like, well by

587
00:27:49,160 --> 00:27:51,199
Speaker 1: fast and like, oh I want to fast and I

588
00:27:51,240 --> 00:27:53,399
Speaker 1: was doing this we had just finished with Lyn and

589
00:27:53,440 --> 00:27:55,439
Speaker 1: you were like, let's do it together, you know, And

590
00:27:55,480 --> 00:27:58,119
Speaker 1: I love that that orbit who's your tribe, you know,

591
00:27:58,320 --> 00:27:59,480
Speaker 1: people that like are in.

592
00:27:59,480 --> 00:28:02,120
Speaker 2: Alignment and that can like help you along the way.

593
00:28:02,760 --> 00:28:05,280
Speaker 1: So what well, yeah, of course, no, thank you, and

594
00:28:05,320 --> 00:28:06,399
Speaker 1: I can't wait to do it together.

595
00:28:07,000 --> 00:28:07,240
Speaker 2: Yeah.

596
00:28:07,240 --> 00:28:10,080
Speaker 1: I just had doctor Sabe's daughter and she was talking

597
00:28:10,080 --> 00:28:12,360
Speaker 1: about the three Day Fast and I was like, we

598
00:28:12,359 --> 00:28:13,119
Speaker 1: were talking about that.

599
00:28:13,600 --> 00:28:14,000
Speaker 4: Watch that.

600
00:28:14,119 --> 00:28:16,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's so good, so good. Subscribe I'll see.

601
00:28:16,600 --> 00:28:17,680
Speaker 3: When I was like telling when it comes out, I

602
00:28:17,680 --> 00:28:22,240
Speaker 3: was like I'm subscribed, thank you, But.

603
00:28:22,240 --> 00:28:23,959
Speaker 2: Yeah, I want to know, like what was what was that?

604
00:28:24,040 --> 00:28:25,320
Speaker 2: How did that shape who you are today?

605
00:28:25,359 --> 00:28:28,359
Speaker 1: Because I'm really fascinated about how even just in conversation

606
00:28:28,680 --> 00:28:30,760
Speaker 1: is so enlightening when you talk to people about God

607
00:28:30,760 --> 00:28:31,359
Speaker 1: and your faith.

608
00:28:32,680 --> 00:28:35,800
Speaker 3: Yes, I mean I tell my parents all the time.

609
00:28:36,400 --> 00:28:40,360
Speaker 3: My parents weren't perfect people. But I mean the more

610
00:28:40,400 --> 00:28:42,120
Speaker 3: that I heal, the more I look back, I'm like,

611
00:28:42,200 --> 00:28:44,480
Speaker 3: I had a fun child. I think when I was

612
00:28:44,520 --> 00:28:47,480
Speaker 3: still healing, and I'm still healing, but just when things

613
00:28:47,480 --> 00:28:52,160
Speaker 3: were more, when I was more wounded, I should say, yeah.

614
00:28:51,920 --> 00:28:54,000
Speaker 4: I was like, no, they all these things, but I

615
00:28:54,080 --> 00:28:57,560
Speaker 4: look back and there was just so much good. And

616
00:28:57,600 --> 00:29:00,280
Speaker 4: I tell my parents all the time, if y'all did

617
00:29:00,400 --> 00:29:06,800
Speaker 4: nothing right, not one thing right, except for raised me

618
00:29:06,840 --> 00:29:09,680
Speaker 4: in the fear and aminitiony to the Lord, that was enough.

619
00:29:11,000 --> 00:29:12,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, that was enough.

620
00:29:12,920 --> 00:29:18,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, because they couldn't help me get on systems. They

621
00:29:18,640 --> 00:29:22,400
Speaker 3: couldn't help me through school, They couldn't help me through

622
00:29:22,400 --> 00:29:25,520
Speaker 3: my job. Like honestly, my parents even qualify for a

623
00:29:25,600 --> 00:29:30,160
Speaker 3: parent plus loan because they just fell on hard times.

624
00:29:30,320 --> 00:29:33,560
Speaker 3: My dad was an entrepreneur, and you know, before Obama,

625
00:29:33,680 --> 00:29:36,320
Speaker 3: like it wasn't universal health not that we have universal

626
00:29:36,360 --> 00:29:39,160
Speaker 3: health care now, but it's.

627
00:29:39,000 --> 00:29:41,440
Speaker 4: Some iteration of universal health care.

628
00:29:41,520 --> 00:29:44,160
Speaker 3: But I mean, so when my dad was sick, it

629
00:29:44,240 --> 00:29:46,640
Speaker 3: was out of pocket on us, Like you know, it's

630
00:29:47,240 --> 00:29:52,400
Speaker 3: anyway they couldn't help me in a lot of monetary ways,

631
00:29:52,840 --> 00:30:01,480
Speaker 3: but raising me to love God, yeah, before anything and anybody. Yeah,

632
00:30:01,640 --> 00:30:04,240
Speaker 3: and that's the foundation that carries us.

633
00:30:04,720 --> 00:30:06,080
Speaker 2: Yeah. None, that is so true.

634
00:30:06,800 --> 00:30:11,160
Speaker 1: Speaking of faith, something that I'm still trying to grapple

635
00:30:11,200 --> 00:30:15,240
Speaker 1: with is who I am on TV and who I

636
00:30:15,240 --> 00:30:18,600
Speaker 1: am in real life, and is the character that I'm

637
00:30:18,600 --> 00:30:23,040
Speaker 1: portraying is God okay with it? Have you ever felt that,

638
00:30:23,720 --> 00:30:26,920
Speaker 1: like because you know what I'm saying, like the things

639
00:30:26,920 --> 00:30:29,720
Speaker 1: that we do, but then how we live our real life,

640
00:30:29,840 --> 00:30:32,200
Speaker 1: like and we have me and Zach on that we've

641
00:30:32,320 --> 00:30:34,440
Speaker 1: we haven't really had to have sex a lot like

642
00:30:34,480 --> 00:30:37,520
Speaker 1: we were that during that in the beginning, it was.

643
00:30:37,480 --> 00:30:39,040
Speaker 2: A lot and I was just like, oh my god,

644
00:30:39,160 --> 00:30:40,160
Speaker 2: you never knew.

645
00:30:40,800 --> 00:30:43,840
Speaker 1: No, that's that's one of my and my writer like

646
00:30:43,960 --> 00:30:47,760
Speaker 1: no frontal if it is it's chess the chest, but

647
00:30:47,800 --> 00:30:50,000
Speaker 1: I have on nipple covers so like I'm not actually

648
00:30:50,000 --> 00:30:54,480
Speaker 1: touching him. It was so much even with the MC coordinator,

649
00:30:54,680 --> 00:30:56,880
Speaker 1: like these are my guidelines. This is where he can

650
00:30:56,880 --> 00:30:59,800
Speaker 1: grab me only on my waist, no butt grabbing, Like

651
00:31:00,360 --> 00:31:04,280
Speaker 1: very very particular about those scenes. And I love how

652
00:31:04,320 --> 00:31:07,760
Speaker 1: now like I think with our money, he's like he'll

653
00:31:07,800 --> 00:31:11,320
Speaker 1: see it and it'll be like one minute of like

654
00:31:11,560 --> 00:31:13,720
Speaker 1: passionate sex. He's like, yeah, we're not doing that. He

655
00:31:13,800 --> 00:31:17,480
Speaker 1: said it'd be like yealler's ha. Then flip over. I'm like, Okay,

656
00:31:17,520 --> 00:31:18,360
Speaker 1: I like that, we can do that.

657
00:31:19,000 --> 00:31:20,320
Speaker 3: It takes too much time. You got to get the

658
00:31:20,360 --> 00:31:22,720
Speaker 3: intimate sycordinated in. You gotta get everybody.

659
00:31:22,320 --> 00:31:24,000
Speaker 2: Out way too much. Yeah.

660
00:31:24,240 --> 00:31:27,880
Speaker 1: But are you ever like conflicted because I've gone through

661
00:31:27,920 --> 00:31:30,440
Speaker 1: these times where I'm like a little conflicted about what

662
00:31:30,480 --> 00:31:32,840
Speaker 1: I'm putting out there on TV. And that's why I

663
00:31:32,880 --> 00:31:35,280
Speaker 1: go so hard on this to put try to like

664
00:31:35,400 --> 00:31:36,720
Speaker 1: kind of balance it out. You know.

665
00:31:37,960 --> 00:31:45,000
Speaker 3: I'm more concerned with messaging because Danny is a sinner,

666
00:31:46,720 --> 00:31:47,200
Speaker 3: we all are.

667
00:31:47,640 --> 00:31:50,200
Speaker 2: Center is gonna send it's a character?

668
00:31:50,400 --> 00:31:55,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, is there a redemptive art?

669
00:31:55,400 --> 00:31:58,520
Speaker 3: What is what's our messaging? What story are we telling?

670
00:31:58,680 --> 00:32:02,800
Speaker 3: What messaging are putting out into the world. That's what

671
00:32:02,840 --> 00:32:07,360
Speaker 3: I care more about, because even Jesus praised the shrewd

672
00:32:07,600 --> 00:32:13,640
Speaker 3: servant who was stealing essentially, Yeah, because I mean so

673
00:32:13,720 --> 00:32:19,160
Speaker 3: I tell people that storytelling is spiritual because what did

674
00:32:19,240 --> 00:32:21,320
Speaker 3: Jesus do in order to get his message?

675
00:32:22,400 --> 00:32:22,960
Speaker 2: Stories?

676
00:32:24,000 --> 00:32:29,040
Speaker 3: Storytelling is a ministry and that's why that's why there's

677
00:32:29,080 --> 00:32:32,560
Speaker 3: so much darkness in Hollywood, because the enemy understands how

678
00:32:32,560 --> 00:32:33,719
Speaker 3: powerful storytelling is.

679
00:32:33,880 --> 00:32:35,200
Speaker 2: Right. I think that's my point.

680
00:32:35,240 --> 00:32:39,480
Speaker 3: Like, yes, and so I don't mind a character who's

681
00:32:39,480 --> 00:32:42,600
Speaker 3: a sinner. I send too. I might not send the

682
00:32:42,640 --> 00:32:50,080
Speaker 3: same way she does, but what is our message? That's

683
00:32:50,080 --> 00:32:52,640
Speaker 3: that's where you know, I'm trying to tweak things here

684
00:32:52,680 --> 00:32:55,640
Speaker 3: and tweak things There's like and I catch things from

685
00:32:55,720 --> 00:32:58,840
Speaker 3: a you know, the female perspective, and like we've had those.

686
00:32:58,640 --> 00:33:01,800
Speaker 1: Conversations, yeah, where we're like, Okay, where is she going?

687
00:33:02,000 --> 00:33:02,080
Speaker 4: Is?

688
00:33:02,120 --> 00:33:03,720
Speaker 2: What are we doing here? What's the story we're telling?

689
00:33:04,200 --> 00:33:05,920
Speaker 1: And then we're able to go back and say, okay,

690
00:33:05,960 --> 00:33:08,440
Speaker 1: like this or this is fine, but we need to

691
00:33:08,440 --> 00:33:10,880
Speaker 1: see where she's going. When you say the redemptive arc,

692
00:33:11,160 --> 00:33:13,320
Speaker 1: where is this going? And house can she redeem herself?

693
00:33:13,360 --> 00:33:15,960
Speaker 1: That's one thing I love about Denzel when he plays

694
00:33:16,000 --> 00:33:19,240
Speaker 1: all these characters. And he talked about training day and

695
00:33:19,320 --> 00:33:21,400
Speaker 1: he said, yeah, he was doing all these horrible things,

696
00:33:21,440 --> 00:33:22,440
Speaker 1: he said, but at the end he did.

697
00:33:22,680 --> 00:33:23,560
Speaker 2: Originally he didn't die.

698
00:33:23,600 --> 00:33:25,520
Speaker 1: He said I wanted him to have or he did die,

699
00:33:25,520 --> 00:33:27,840
Speaker 1: but he said, I wanted it to be brutal.

700
00:33:28,120 --> 00:33:29,880
Speaker 2: He was like, and that's why it was as bad

701
00:33:29,880 --> 00:33:31,080
Speaker 2: as it was, He said, I need.

702
00:33:30,960 --> 00:33:33,360
Speaker 1: Them to understand when you do we're on these are

703
00:33:33,360 --> 00:33:36,240
Speaker 1: the consequences, Like you can't just get away with it,

704
00:33:36,360 --> 00:33:36,560
Speaker 1: you know.

705
00:33:37,120 --> 00:33:39,080
Speaker 2: And it made me look at it different. But just

706
00:33:39,120 --> 00:33:40,520
Speaker 2: listening to you, even just.

707
00:33:40,520 --> 00:33:43,120
Speaker 1: Now, really helped me kind of process it and not

708
00:33:43,360 --> 00:33:47,160
Speaker 1: be so judgmental of the character, like overthinking it because

709
00:33:47,200 --> 00:33:49,880
Speaker 1: my parents always like, it's sorrytelling you're just portraying a

710
00:33:49,960 --> 00:33:52,160
Speaker 1: character that's not who you are. But I'm like, but

711
00:33:52,480 --> 00:33:54,760
Speaker 1: what is somebody out there is really taking that Fatima

712
00:33:54,840 --> 00:33:56,720
Speaker 1: serious and like she's always carrying a gun and ready

713
00:33:56,720 --> 00:33:58,800
Speaker 1: to book up on people and think that's the way

714
00:33:58,800 --> 00:33:59,600
Speaker 1: to live, you know.

715
00:34:00,080 --> 00:34:02,960
Speaker 2: So I was always like mindful of those things.

716
00:34:03,720 --> 00:34:06,000
Speaker 3: And I understand that and I agree with that. I

717
00:34:06,080 --> 00:34:11,399
Speaker 3: think it's the job of us, Crystal in your mind,

718
00:34:11,960 --> 00:34:16,839
Speaker 3: to be and embody our beliefs in our life, yes,

719
00:34:17,560 --> 00:34:20,839
Speaker 3: our characters. And now if I can't say this, I'm

720
00:34:20,880 --> 00:34:23,000
Speaker 3: sure you can cut it. But we got this discussion

721
00:34:23,040 --> 00:34:25,880
Speaker 3: for season ten storyline is like, if this is not

722
00:34:25,920 --> 00:34:29,719
Speaker 3: going to serve a purpose, then I don't know why

723
00:34:29,760 --> 00:34:30,239
Speaker 3: we're doing it.

724
00:34:30,640 --> 00:34:31,479
Speaker 2: Because we've done this.

725
00:34:32,160 --> 00:34:36,840
Speaker 3: Right, Yes, it's brutal. What are we saying? What is

726
00:34:36,880 --> 00:34:40,640
Speaker 3: the point of it? And I think that's what storytellers

727
00:34:40,680 --> 00:34:45,919
Speaker 3: have to take into account, not just entertainment, because there

728
00:34:45,920 --> 00:34:49,479
Speaker 3: are young girls watching us. And that's why I said

729
00:34:49,480 --> 00:34:56,719
Speaker 3: it on Twitter this season with Jonah. I said, it's

730
00:34:56,760 --> 00:35:00,719
Speaker 3: important for you to know, ladies and gentlemen, that we

731
00:35:00,800 --> 00:35:02,920
Speaker 3: have to stop putting the onus on girls to not

732
00:35:02,960 --> 00:35:03,600
Speaker 3: be attacked.

733
00:35:04,080 --> 00:35:06,360
Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, when we talked about that too, and that

734
00:35:06,400 --> 00:35:08,520
Speaker 1: when we're on the phone. Yeah, just because she's wearing

735
00:35:08,520 --> 00:35:10,560
Speaker 1: a short dress, she's asking to be raped.

736
00:35:10,600 --> 00:35:14,720
Speaker 3: Non men have to start teaching men to be safe.

737
00:35:15,880 --> 00:35:17,960
Speaker 3: And yes, I understand there's always going to be criminals

738
00:35:18,000 --> 00:35:21,880
Speaker 3: in the world, but good girls get attacked too.

739
00:35:22,160 --> 00:35:25,640
Speaker 2: Yeah.

740
00:35:26,160 --> 00:35:28,640
Speaker 3: Bad things happen to good people too. Yeah, so how do.

741
00:35:28,640 --> 00:35:32,280
Speaker 2: We explain that? Yeah? How do we put the onus

742
00:35:32,280 --> 00:35:32,919
Speaker 2: on the girl? Then?

743
00:35:33,600 --> 00:35:37,360
Speaker 3: Right, she wasn't drinking, she wasn't wearing anything wrong, she

744
00:35:37,560 --> 00:35:39,240
Speaker 3: wasn't teasing anybody.

745
00:35:39,400 --> 00:35:42,440
Speaker 4: Yeah, she was at the library, right, she.

746
00:35:42,440 --> 00:35:47,320
Speaker 2: Was out jogging in the park. Yeah.

747
00:35:48,200 --> 00:35:50,520
Speaker 3: Okay, ladies, and you to take self to finished classes. Okay,

748
00:35:51,040 --> 00:35:53,080
Speaker 3: she took a self to finished class. He had a

749
00:35:53,080 --> 00:35:57,040
Speaker 3: gun yeah, So I think it's most important for us

750
00:35:57,040 --> 00:36:01,440
Speaker 3: to understand what stories we're telling, what's the messaging. And

751
00:36:01,480 --> 00:36:04,160
Speaker 3: I understand what you're saying about you know, Fatima and

752
00:36:04,239 --> 00:36:06,000
Speaker 3: Danny and all of that, But I just think that

753
00:36:10,360 --> 00:36:13,640
Speaker 3: things like having Danny in therapy and having Fatima be

754
00:36:13,680 --> 00:36:18,480
Speaker 3: the one who referred the therapist that matters to those

755
00:36:19,680 --> 00:36:23,000
Speaker 3: And I think that, you know, every TV show can't

756
00:36:23,000 --> 00:36:23,920
Speaker 3: be the chosen.

757
00:36:24,000 --> 00:36:25,000
Speaker 2: Right right.

758
00:36:26,280 --> 00:36:29,640
Speaker 1: Right, you know who else? I talked to Divine Franklin

759
00:36:29,680 --> 00:36:31,799
Speaker 1: about this. I always talk to people who I know

760
00:36:31,880 --> 00:36:35,000
Speaker 1: are are strong in their faith about when I have questions,

761
00:36:35,320 --> 00:36:37,200
Speaker 1: and he was like, Crystal, he said, there's so many

762
00:36:37,200 --> 00:36:40,239
Speaker 1: different characters in the Bible. And he was like, so

763
00:36:40,320 --> 00:36:43,399
Speaker 1: what we're doing is just like just we're acting. We're

764
00:36:43,400 --> 00:36:45,960
Speaker 1: playing characters in real life. And he said, in those

765
00:36:46,040 --> 00:36:48,000
Speaker 1: characters in the Bible were living their real life at

766
00:36:48,000 --> 00:36:48,359
Speaker 1: that time.

767
00:36:48,719 --> 00:36:51,360
Speaker 4: He said, you had all different types of people. And

768
00:36:51,800 --> 00:36:57,760
Speaker 4: Sampson was an acting baby, but hello, he was not acting,

769
00:37:01,160 --> 00:37:03,360
Speaker 4: but he was. But he's still failful. He's still fail

770
00:37:03,440 --> 00:37:03,759
Speaker 4: for it.

771
00:37:05,680 --> 00:37:06,120
Speaker 2: Seriously.

772
00:37:06,160 --> 00:37:08,800
Speaker 1: So I've had these conversations with a lot of people,

773
00:37:10,239 --> 00:37:12,840
Speaker 1: just especially they're in the industry, but also of the faith.

774
00:37:12,880 --> 00:37:14,520
Speaker 2: They're like, how do you feel about this?

775
00:37:15,040 --> 00:37:18,520
Speaker 3: But also, you don't control. You're not in the writer's room.

776
00:37:18,640 --> 00:37:19,879
Speaker 2: I'm not in the writers.

777
00:37:19,560 --> 00:37:22,799
Speaker 4: You don't control. You don't control what your character does.

778
00:37:22,840 --> 00:37:25,800
Speaker 3: I mean obviously where we are, Thankfully we're in this

779
00:37:25,840 --> 00:37:27,680
Speaker 3: space to be able to call on Mone and be

780
00:37:27,800 --> 00:37:35,719
Speaker 3: like yeah, yeah, saying but I also don't think it's

781
00:37:35,800 --> 00:37:38,800
Speaker 3: realistic to try to have every character be a saint.

782
00:37:39,239 --> 00:37:42,640
Speaker 4: No, because it's almost isn't it almost.

783
00:37:42,360 --> 00:37:45,120
Speaker 3: Self righteous if we think we have to play perfect

784
00:37:45,200 --> 00:37:48,239
Speaker 3: characters if we ourselves aren't perfect. I'm not saying that

785
00:37:48,280 --> 00:37:50,560
Speaker 3: to you, but I'm saying like, because I did have something.

786
00:37:50,560 --> 00:37:53,359
Speaker 3: I'm saying that because I did have a church lady

787
00:37:53,400 --> 00:37:55,720
Speaker 3: email me season one about Danny.

788
00:37:55,920 --> 00:37:58,279
Speaker 2: Wow, I just ignored it. Yeah, I was just like

789
00:37:59,440 --> 00:38:03,680
Speaker 2: mm hmmm, mm hmm. It's hypocritical, Like it's self righteous.

790
00:38:03,719 --> 00:38:06,040
Speaker 3: I mean, no, like I don't want little girls to

791
00:38:06,080 --> 00:38:08,759
Speaker 3: live the way Danny lives. But I still don't think

792
00:38:08,840 --> 00:38:10,719
Speaker 3: Danny's deserved the stuff she went through, you know what

793
00:38:10,800 --> 00:38:11,120
Speaker 3: I mean.

794
00:38:11,280 --> 00:38:12,319
Speaker 2: Like, so I just.

795
00:38:13,800 --> 00:38:16,319
Speaker 3: It is it is a tightrope, but I think it's

796
00:38:16,360 --> 00:38:19,600
Speaker 3: also just understanding. Like Devon said, like, look at the

797
00:38:19,600 --> 00:38:23,080
Speaker 3: people God used, come on, Rahab is in the lineage

798
00:38:23,080 --> 00:38:27,880
Speaker 3: of Jesus, like when you look at Matthew, Yeah, that

799
00:38:28,000 --> 00:38:28,600
Speaker 3: working girl.

800
00:38:28,719 --> 00:38:33,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, it is in the lineage of work is m.

801
00:38:34,600 --> 00:38:36,920
Speaker 3: So I don't think it's about God looking for people

802
00:38:36,920 --> 00:38:40,560
Speaker 3: who are perfect. It's about God looking for people who

803
00:38:40,560 --> 00:38:43,160
Speaker 3: have hearts that are looking for him. It's not to

804
00:38:43,200 --> 00:38:45,080
Speaker 3: say that we continue and sin so that grace may

805
00:38:45,120 --> 00:38:47,919
Speaker 3: have bound me. But yes, no, but I mean, yeah,

806
00:38:47,920 --> 00:38:53,359
Speaker 3: I think playing a character who is imperfect is it's

807
00:38:53,400 --> 00:38:57,200
Speaker 3: not only natural, but why would people watch it if

808
00:38:57,239 --> 00:38:59,840
Speaker 3: it's not relatable? And then it's my job as a

809
00:39:00,000 --> 00:39:03,480
Speaker 3: door tell her to have some message in there. Yeah,

810
00:39:03,560 --> 00:39:05,120
Speaker 3: that I'm trying to download to people.

811
00:39:05,440 --> 00:39:07,279
Speaker 2: Right, I love that. I love that.

812
00:39:07,880 --> 00:39:10,279
Speaker 1: In the industry, is there any roles that you like,

813
00:39:10,520 --> 00:39:12,120
Speaker 1: are genres that you're like, I won't do that.

814
00:39:13,160 --> 00:39:15,160
Speaker 3: Is there any type of probably horror? Because I don't

815
00:39:15,280 --> 00:39:17,160
Speaker 3: like it. I don't watch it in my own either.

816
00:39:17,239 --> 00:39:23,440
Speaker 1: I'll be scared, Like even there's something I'm so scary.

817
00:39:23,880 --> 00:39:25,759
Speaker 1: And if I do watch something that people say, like,

818
00:39:25,920 --> 00:39:27,560
Speaker 1: you gotta watch it, it's so good, I'll like try

819
00:39:27,560 --> 00:39:29,719
Speaker 1: to watch it in the daytime because I am I

820
00:39:29,719 --> 00:39:30,759
Speaker 1: won't be able to sleep at night.

821
00:39:30,880 --> 00:39:33,560
Speaker 2: I'm so scared, I can't do it. Yeah, Horror is

822
00:39:33,560 --> 00:39:34,200
Speaker 2: definitely one of those.

823
00:39:34,200 --> 00:39:38,600
Speaker 1: And then I used to say, like those like demonic movies,

824
00:39:39,440 --> 00:39:41,520
Speaker 1: like I'm really big on spirits.

825
00:39:42,920 --> 00:39:45,400
Speaker 2: We're talking about that too, uh huh, yes.

826
00:39:45,360 --> 00:39:51,200
Speaker 1: Sure did, yes, yes, yes, that's another one, like I think,

827
00:39:51,840 --> 00:39:56,399
Speaker 1: what was it like the Exorcists and the one that

828
00:39:56,680 --> 00:39:59,480
Speaker 1: Lee Daniels just did where they had the preacher there.

829
00:39:59,719 --> 00:40:01,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, talk about that one.

830
00:40:02,280 --> 00:40:05,480
Speaker 1: Those are true stories, you know, so it's like and

831
00:40:05,640 --> 00:40:06,799
Speaker 1: demons are real.

832
00:40:08,400 --> 00:40:10,360
Speaker 2: No, the one that Lee Daniels.

833
00:40:09,960 --> 00:40:13,360
Speaker 1: Did, what was it called the There's Something?

834
00:40:14,000 --> 00:40:14,680
Speaker 2: Was it something?

835
00:40:14,960 --> 00:40:17,440
Speaker 1: But yeah, that was that was a true story. But

836
00:40:17,480 --> 00:40:19,960
Speaker 1: they had a pastor on set praying every day.

837
00:40:20,239 --> 00:40:24,560
Speaker 2: But the Deliverance, but I know that. And then in

838
00:40:24,719 --> 00:40:25,200
Speaker 2: the I didn't.

839
00:40:25,239 --> 00:40:27,200
Speaker 1: I never watched it, but I've watched a lot of

840
00:40:27,239 --> 00:40:29,879
Speaker 1: the commentary about it when people were getting online talking

841
00:40:29,880 --> 00:40:34,000
Speaker 1: about it. The importance of binding demons in the name

842
00:40:34,040 --> 00:40:37,040
Speaker 1: of Jesus, and that was like the biggest part takeaway

843
00:40:37,040 --> 00:40:38,759
Speaker 1: from that movie. And I was like, Okay, I guess

844
00:40:38,760 --> 00:40:40,320
Speaker 1: if I had to watch it. When I see stuff

845
00:40:40,360 --> 00:40:42,439
Speaker 1: like that, I'm like, it makes me more comfortable.

846
00:40:42,120 --> 00:40:44,880
Speaker 2: Because I know you can. They did cover that in

847
00:40:44,920 --> 00:40:48,960
Speaker 2: the movie. That's yes, Yeah, so that's good. But I'm scary.

848
00:40:49,000 --> 00:40:52,160
Speaker 3: That's why I stopped watching that show Evil. I like

849
00:40:52,239 --> 00:40:56,560
Speaker 3: that show a lot. I liked it, but I realized

850
00:40:56,600 --> 00:40:59,040
Speaker 3: why they didn't talk about the power of the name

851
00:40:59,040 --> 00:41:01,240
Speaker 3: of Jesus because the show have been over in two minutes.

852
00:41:01,719 --> 00:41:04,440
Speaker 3: Wouldn't beinish show it be short, wouldn't even been a shorter,

853
00:41:05,000 --> 00:41:08,960
Speaker 3: been a skit, like because they tremble at the name

854
00:41:08,960 --> 00:41:14,200
Speaker 3: of Jesus. Yes, you see what I'm saying. So, I mean,

855
00:41:15,520 --> 00:41:18,360
Speaker 3: I believe in portals being opened up. I believe in

856
00:41:18,880 --> 00:41:23,800
Speaker 3: I believe that demons have territory, like when Jesus cast

857
00:41:23,880 --> 00:41:27,360
Speaker 3: Legion out of the gentleman and the gatherings, and they

858
00:41:27,400 --> 00:41:31,080
Speaker 3: were like, don't make us leave this area, let us

859
00:41:31,080 --> 00:41:33,400
Speaker 3: go into the pigs, and then they went into the water.

860
00:41:34,400 --> 00:41:36,640
Speaker 3: But water is a body too, that's why it's called

861
00:41:36,640 --> 00:41:40,120
Speaker 3: a body of water. Come on, they need to stay

862
00:41:40,120 --> 00:41:43,040
Speaker 3: in their territory. Yeah, And I believe that demons have

863
00:41:43,200 --> 00:41:47,560
Speaker 3: like territory on blood lines because of you know, Great

864
00:41:47,600 --> 00:41:49,839
Speaker 3: Granny putting roots on Grand dadd because he wouldn't stop

865
00:41:49,840 --> 00:41:54,279
Speaker 3: messing with Shirlene and now now this, now there's the

866
00:41:54,400 --> 00:41:59,080
Speaker 3: devil has a demonic contract with this bloodline because of

867
00:41:59,120 --> 00:42:02,280
Speaker 3: Grandma playing in which craft and not realizing the ramifications

868
00:42:02,320 --> 00:42:02,520
Speaker 3: of it.

869
00:42:02,600 --> 00:42:04,680
Speaker 1: No, you aresocated. I was just having a conversation with

870
00:42:04,719 --> 00:42:08,000
Speaker 1: a friend of mine. He's also in the industry. He's Nigerian,

871
00:42:08,680 --> 00:42:11,360
Speaker 1: and he found out that the strongholds that were all

872
00:42:11,360 --> 00:42:14,400
Speaker 1: in his life came from his lineage and how they

873
00:42:14,400 --> 00:42:17,080
Speaker 1: were practicing witchcraft back in Africa and it like passed

874
00:42:17,080 --> 00:42:20,000
Speaker 1: down to his father to him and he didn't know that,

875
00:42:20,360 --> 00:42:22,160
Speaker 1: but he's been delivered since then.

876
00:42:22,160 --> 00:42:23,160
Speaker 2: But he was like, it was so much.

877
00:42:23,239 --> 00:42:25,279
Speaker 1: I learned when he finally went to go visit his

878
00:42:25,360 --> 00:42:29,719
Speaker 1: father and I was like, goodness, like that that bloodline

879
00:42:29,760 --> 00:42:30,240
Speaker 1: is serious.

880
00:42:30,760 --> 00:42:32,200
Speaker 2: I called my grandma and my dad.

881
00:42:32,360 --> 00:42:34,200
Speaker 3: I said, did we have a root lady in our

882
00:42:34,200 --> 00:42:36,080
Speaker 3: family or did anybody put roots on anybody?

883
00:42:36,200 --> 00:42:36,919
Speaker 2: Yeah?

884
00:42:37,040 --> 00:42:39,360
Speaker 3: And my dad said on his side, he had an auntie.

885
00:42:41,280 --> 00:42:43,240
Speaker 3: People gaming roots.

886
00:42:43,800 --> 00:42:47,400
Speaker 2: Now explain roots.

887
00:42:46,000 --> 00:42:49,200
Speaker 3: Literally a plant room and like, I don't know what

888
00:42:49,239 --> 00:42:51,040
Speaker 3: they would do, but I think you would drink it

889
00:42:51,120 --> 00:42:52,759
Speaker 3: or get them to eat it, or get them to

890
00:42:52,840 --> 00:42:55,680
Speaker 3: drink it. I don't know the whole process, but she

891
00:42:56,000 --> 00:42:59,840
Speaker 3: had a book on I mean, I had to say witchcraft.

892
00:43:00,080 --> 00:43:01,319
Speaker 2: That's I guess that's what it is.

893
00:43:01,400 --> 00:43:04,640
Speaker 3: It was it was it was esoteric and it was

894
00:43:04,680 --> 00:43:05,879
Speaker 3: spiritual and it was.

895
00:43:07,760 --> 00:43:10,120
Speaker 2: So you know, witchcraft is the act of rebellion.

896
00:43:10,840 --> 00:43:13,160
Speaker 3: I believe it's the act of rebellion because instead of

897
00:43:13,239 --> 00:43:14,759
Speaker 3: using the power of God, you're trying to use your

898
00:43:14,760 --> 00:43:18,520
Speaker 3: own power. Yeah, you're trying to control the circumstances of outcome.

899
00:43:18,680 --> 00:43:20,799
Speaker 3: And that's what her book was. It was just like

900
00:43:21,400 --> 00:43:23,839
Speaker 3: roots and different things to make people do, you know,

901
00:43:23,840 --> 00:43:26,880
Speaker 3: control things and manipulate, right, And I feel.

902
00:43:26,719 --> 00:43:29,840
Speaker 1: Like when people do that, it's it's the very not

903
00:43:29,880 --> 00:43:34,160
Speaker 1: office rebellion, but also some type of hurt where it's

904
00:43:34,200 --> 00:43:37,600
Speaker 1: something didn't go or you feel betrayed by God that

905
00:43:37,760 --> 00:43:39,560
Speaker 1: causes you to veer off, you know.

906
00:43:39,800 --> 00:43:43,920
Speaker 2: And no, you're not you a witch.

907
00:43:45,280 --> 00:43:46,960
Speaker 4: No, no, no, it's love and it's light.

908
00:43:47,760 --> 00:43:50,200
Speaker 3: But as you're trying to control an outcome, Yeah, that's

909
00:43:50,200 --> 00:43:53,799
Speaker 3: why there isn't as much condemnation in my heart. It's like,

910
00:43:54,520 --> 00:43:58,400
Speaker 3: you want to control things, and I get that, Yeah,

911
00:43:58,640 --> 00:44:02,280
Speaker 3: But the same way, we're a host for the Holy Spirit,

912
00:44:02,800 --> 00:44:06,120
Speaker 3: which becomes a host for the yes of the enemy.

913
00:44:06,160 --> 00:44:11,239
Speaker 2: Of our soul. Yeah, yeah, so that's so true. Yeah,

914
00:44:11,680 --> 00:44:13,440
Speaker 2: my goodness.

915
00:44:14,239 --> 00:44:17,239
Speaker 1: I want to talk about We're gonna switch gears a

916
00:44:17,280 --> 00:44:21,080
Speaker 1: little bit, talking about how coming into where we are

917
00:44:21,160 --> 00:44:24,520
Speaker 1: kind of stilling the same thing, but how life has changed,

918
00:44:24,560 --> 00:44:26,680
Speaker 1: even dealing with like finance, because it's something else you

919
00:44:26,680 --> 00:44:29,879
Speaker 1: talk about all the time we talk about finances. I've

920
00:44:30,200 --> 00:44:33,080
Speaker 1: talked to you about my financial advisor, my accountant, and

921
00:44:33,080 --> 00:44:36,200
Speaker 1: how she's like got me right, because taxes is something

922
00:44:36,239 --> 00:44:43,000
Speaker 1: that just hits different now. I called me one day

923
00:44:43,000 --> 00:44:46,640
Speaker 1: about eyes red.

924
00:44:48,640 --> 00:44:52,520
Speaker 2: He said, I just paid the eye urs. I said, oh, brother,

925
00:44:54,000 --> 00:44:54,760
Speaker 2: I feel your.

926
00:44:54,640 --> 00:44:58,920
Speaker 3: Pain that ever come give me because the amount of

927
00:44:59,000 --> 00:45:02,480
Speaker 3: money I give y'all, you better not ever come get me.

928
00:45:02,680 --> 00:45:08,280
Speaker 2: Seriously too much. It's too much, too much.

929
00:45:08,440 --> 00:45:11,840
Speaker 1: What did you like going from both of us going

930
00:45:11,880 --> 00:45:16,759
Speaker 1: from making what we were making to now, from what

931
00:45:16,760 --> 00:45:19,239
Speaker 1: we were making to now, what are some of the

932
00:45:19,320 --> 00:45:21,799
Speaker 1: lessons you had to learn and even pivoting and some

933
00:45:21,840 --> 00:45:23,959
Speaker 1: of the even mistakes that you made, and like, ooh,

934
00:45:24,640 --> 00:45:26,200
Speaker 1: just not knowing because I know where I'm from.

935
00:45:27,280 --> 00:45:28,520
Speaker 2: I wasn't taught how to save.

936
00:45:29,040 --> 00:45:33,239
Speaker 1: I wasn't taught like my dad taught us not to overspend,

937
00:45:33,800 --> 00:45:36,040
Speaker 1: like if you're going to give somebody something, if don't

938
00:45:36,040 --> 00:45:38,400
Speaker 1: expect it back, just give what you can give you.

939
00:45:38,680 --> 00:45:40,759
Speaker 1: If you can't give it without expecting it back, you

940
00:45:40,760 --> 00:45:44,239
Speaker 1: don't have enough. Yeah, And he would always say, I'm like, Dad,

941
00:45:44,320 --> 00:45:46,520
Speaker 1: I need this. He's like, I ain't got it. But

942
00:45:46,560 --> 00:45:48,640
Speaker 1: if he didn't have it, but he still had a

943
00:45:48,640 --> 00:45:50,040
Speaker 1: lot of money in the bank, but he had a

944
00:45:50,040 --> 00:45:52,880
Speaker 1: bottom line, and that was one thing he did teach me,

945
00:45:52,880 --> 00:45:54,600
Speaker 1: the bottom line. But when it came to like learning

946
00:45:54,600 --> 00:45:56,279
Speaker 1: how to save, I didn't know how to do that.

947
00:45:56,560 --> 00:45:58,120
Speaker 2: I didn't know how to budget.

948
00:45:58,760 --> 00:46:01,120
Speaker 1: You know, So, what are some mistakes that you made

949
00:46:01,480 --> 00:46:03,680
Speaker 1: once you, like really started or were you already ready

950
00:46:04,040 --> 00:46:04,920
Speaker 1: once you started.

951
00:46:04,640 --> 00:46:05,400
Speaker 2: Making a lot of money?

952
00:46:05,480 --> 00:46:07,840
Speaker 3: So similar, But my mom is a big saver, so

953
00:46:07,880 --> 00:46:10,200
Speaker 3: I didn't know how to say. So I do have

954
00:46:10,239 --> 00:46:14,040
Speaker 3: a lot saved, but that's the problem. It's time to

955
00:46:14,160 --> 00:46:17,640
Speaker 3: make my money, start making money for me, especially because

956
00:46:17,640 --> 00:46:18,600
Speaker 3: of the way this industry is.

957
00:46:18,680 --> 00:46:20,880
Speaker 2: Oh gosh, after strike, I said, ha ha.

958
00:46:21,520 --> 00:46:23,360
Speaker 1: What she's not gonna do is ever catch me slipping

959
00:46:23,600 --> 00:46:26,040
Speaker 1: jokes on you, right, will not be on me.

960
00:46:27,120 --> 00:46:27,319
Speaker 4: Yes.

961
00:46:27,520 --> 00:46:29,040
Speaker 3: So now that's what I'm trying to figure out as

962
00:46:29,040 --> 00:46:32,680
Speaker 3: well to what does it look like to really start

963
00:46:32,680 --> 00:46:35,919
Speaker 3: to build. Well, yeah, I think I've been playing chess.

964
00:46:36,000 --> 00:46:38,520
Speaker 3: That's time started playing checkers. I got to really and

965
00:46:38,560 --> 00:46:43,000
Speaker 3: I would say a mistake I made was taking the

966
00:46:43,000 --> 00:46:43,840
Speaker 3: the LMA.

967
00:46:45,320 --> 00:46:52,279
Speaker 2: With my portfolio. Yeah, I should have done that.

968
00:46:52,440 --> 00:46:55,399
Speaker 3: I should have done that, because it's it eats away

969
00:46:55,400 --> 00:46:57,880
Speaker 3: that all the money, that the money the accounts are

970
00:46:57,880 --> 00:46:58,800
Speaker 3: making the market.

971
00:46:58,960 --> 00:47:01,520
Speaker 2: And I'm like, because the interest rate on it is insane.

972
00:47:01,880 --> 00:47:04,359
Speaker 3: Right, it was low when I got it, but they

973
00:47:04,360 --> 00:47:06,400
Speaker 3: didn't tell me that, oh, hey, this is a variable

974
00:47:06,440 --> 00:47:10,640
Speaker 3: interest rate that could change, not a fixed fixed Wow.

975
00:47:11,360 --> 00:47:13,600
Speaker 3: And so they still haven't lowered the interest rates and

976
00:47:13,640 --> 00:47:16,359
Speaker 3: I'm still haven't been able to lock one in, just.

977
00:47:16,280 --> 00:47:21,000
Speaker 2: Trying to think about it. Right, to think that, because.

978
00:47:20,719 --> 00:47:26,399
Speaker 3: I also invested during a bear market, so right, and

979
00:47:26,440 --> 00:47:29,439
Speaker 3: then now it's like a it was a bull market

980
00:47:29,520 --> 00:47:30,000
Speaker 3: for a while.

981
00:47:30,120 --> 00:47:31,239
Speaker 2: Right now, I don't know what it is.

982
00:47:31,480 --> 00:47:35,799
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I am one of the investments that I

983
00:47:35,840 --> 00:47:38,440
Speaker 1: made early on when we started making It's funny because Deuce,

984
00:47:38,600 --> 00:47:41,520
Speaker 1: our first ad for the first few seasons we shot,

985
00:47:41,760 --> 00:47:43,600
Speaker 1: he called me season one and he goes, you need

986
00:47:43,640 --> 00:47:46,239
Speaker 1: a financial advisor, and I was like, okay, yeah, I

987
00:47:46,280 --> 00:47:48,239
Speaker 1: do like, you know, somebody's I got somebody, I'm going

988
00:47:48,280 --> 00:47:50,520
Speaker 1: to send them to you, he said, Because you're about

989
00:47:50,520 --> 00:47:52,279
Speaker 1: to start making more money than you used to. He said,

990
00:47:52,320 --> 00:47:53,799
Speaker 1: so I want you to make sure that you stew

991
00:47:53,800 --> 00:47:55,279
Speaker 1: it over it properly. And I was like, thank you,

992
00:47:55,719 --> 00:47:57,759
Speaker 1: shout out a duce for that. You know, always looking

993
00:47:57,800 --> 00:48:01,239
Speaker 1: at good people, you know. And so I met with

994
00:48:01,280 --> 00:48:04,400
Speaker 1: the guy and then he actually introduced me to Alicia.

995
00:48:04,920 --> 00:48:06,839
Speaker 1: That guy did. So it's like just I just kept

996
00:48:06,880 --> 00:48:10,520
Speaker 1: meeting good people. And I remember it was this kid

997
00:48:10,560 --> 00:48:14,920
Speaker 1: that I grew up with. His family had left my farm, yes,

998
00:48:15,480 --> 00:48:20,279
Speaker 1: and he started growing cannabis on it, and this is

999
00:48:20,320 --> 00:48:22,759
Speaker 1: like cannabis. It was booming and I was like yo.

1000
00:48:22,840 --> 00:48:24,800
Speaker 1: I was like, this is built right in my hometown.

1001
00:48:25,239 --> 00:48:27,719
Speaker 1: We can create jobs with this. I was like, I'll

1002
00:48:27,719 --> 00:48:29,319
Speaker 1: put one hundred thousand in it, and he was like.

1003
00:48:29,280 --> 00:48:30,000
Speaker 2: Okay, great.

1004
00:48:30,880 --> 00:48:33,680
Speaker 1: The return was supposed to be I could either get

1005
00:48:33,680 --> 00:48:36,480
Speaker 1: equity in the company or within the next two years,

1006
00:48:36,560 --> 00:48:39,240
Speaker 1: I could get my money back with like interests added

1007
00:48:39,280 --> 00:48:41,720
Speaker 1: on to it, so I would make a profit. And

1008
00:48:42,200 --> 00:48:44,799
Speaker 1: we agreed that we would do the profit part. I mean,

1009
00:48:44,840 --> 00:48:47,480
Speaker 1: they get my money back with the profit on top

1010
00:48:47,520 --> 00:48:49,440
Speaker 1: of interest, give him money.

1011
00:48:50,880 --> 00:48:54,279
Speaker 2: I ain't got a dime. Do you hear me when

1012
00:48:54,320 --> 00:48:56,880
Speaker 2: I tell you? I felt? And I mean, this is

1013
00:48:56,920 --> 00:48:59,440
Speaker 2: a part of investing, and you have contracts and you

1014
00:48:59,680 --> 00:49:02,360
Speaker 2: like West not like he was. He did business with

1015
00:49:02,440 --> 00:49:06,560
Speaker 2: him too, and I will find you. I will hunt

1016
00:49:06,600 --> 00:49:08,520
Speaker 2: you down. Wait wait, wait, wait, you're not telling me

1017
00:49:09,239 --> 00:49:12,120
Speaker 2: what happened. Wait what happened, honey? This man didn't went

1018
00:49:12,200 --> 00:49:16,360
Speaker 2: and spent the money on his wedding. Yes, flexing. It

1019
00:49:16,480 --> 00:49:17,080
Speaker 2: was crazy.

1020
00:49:17,160 --> 00:49:19,279
Speaker 1: And then I had my dad called his aunt because

1021
00:49:19,320 --> 00:49:22,279
Speaker 1: she like worked with him as well. And he kept talking,

1022
00:49:22,280 --> 00:49:24,040
Speaker 1: I gonna send you like seventy some thousand. Now, I'm

1023
00:49:24,040 --> 00:49:26,120
Speaker 1: gonna go ahead and seen you like a portion of it.

1024
00:49:26,200 --> 00:49:27,520
Speaker 1: I was like okay, and then he's like the why

1025
00:49:27,520 --> 00:49:28,440
Speaker 1: should be hitting any time?

1026
00:49:28,520 --> 00:49:28,680
Speaker 2: Now?

1027
00:49:29,040 --> 00:49:32,480
Speaker 1: My aunt just went to the bank. He forgot Martin's

1028
00:49:32,480 --> 00:49:35,640
Speaker 1: a small town. I said, Daddy, you know so and

1029
00:49:35,680 --> 00:49:37,400
Speaker 1: so and he said yeah, he said, I'm doing some

1030
00:49:37,640 --> 00:49:38,399
Speaker 1: work on her house.

1031
00:49:38,400 --> 00:49:42,120
Speaker 2: I said, give me her number. H I called her.

1032
00:49:42,239 --> 00:49:43,920
Speaker 1: She said, I have no idea what you're talking about.

1033
00:49:44,320 --> 00:49:47,719
Speaker 1: Just a lot girl like wante this is. I was

1034
00:49:47,760 --> 00:49:50,160
Speaker 1: so excited about this investment, thinking like this gotta be

1035
00:49:50,160 --> 00:49:54,480
Speaker 1: something really big, and when when that's one of your

1036
00:49:54,480 --> 00:49:57,839
Speaker 1: first investments and you're you're just starting to really make money,

1037
00:49:57,880 --> 00:49:59,680
Speaker 1: but you want to like this is something I saw

1038
00:49:59,680 --> 00:50:01,759
Speaker 1: the RETI on it. I'm like, people are making a

1039
00:50:01,800 --> 00:50:04,120
Speaker 1: lot of money if I get in it early, Like

1040
00:50:04,160 --> 00:50:06,080
Speaker 1: this could be something great and we're giving back to

1041
00:50:06,360 --> 00:50:09,120
Speaker 1: my hometown community. It was one of those things that

1042
00:50:09,200 --> 00:50:11,520
Speaker 1: kind of scared me, and I was afraid to invest

1043
00:50:11,640 --> 00:50:16,719
Speaker 1: in people and their businesses for a while, and I

1044
00:50:16,760 --> 00:50:18,319
Speaker 1: to this day, I just when we were talking about it,

1045
00:50:18,440 --> 00:50:19,399
Speaker 1: I hadn't thought about that in a while.

1046
00:50:19,400 --> 00:50:21,040
Speaker 2: I want my money back now.

1047
00:50:21,000 --> 00:50:26,359
Speaker 1: Man, Man like I had the fellow of the guy

1048
00:50:26,480 --> 00:50:28,560
Speaker 1: was dated at the time, and he was just sending

1049
00:50:28,640 --> 00:50:29,640
Speaker 1: us in circles.

1050
00:50:30,239 --> 00:50:31,920
Speaker 2: But that was like that was I mean, it was

1051
00:50:31,960 --> 00:50:34,600
Speaker 2: a mistake that I made. You think it was a mistake.

1052
00:50:35,080 --> 00:50:38,560
Speaker 2: It wasn't mistake. It was just a bad investment. Yeah.

1053
00:50:38,719 --> 00:50:42,239
Speaker 1: He just wasn't an integral person. See that's why I'm

1054
00:50:42,360 --> 00:50:43,640
Speaker 1: slow to do stuff.

1055
00:50:43,760 --> 00:50:43,960
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1056
00:50:45,120 --> 00:50:46,480
Speaker 1: I think that's why it's hard for me to like

1057
00:50:46,560 --> 00:50:49,560
Speaker 1: even do business with people, like let's do this together,

1058
00:50:49,600 --> 00:50:51,520
Speaker 1: because I just don't know how you're going to act,

1059
00:50:51,640 --> 00:50:54,480
Speaker 1: you know, Like I got good people around me now

1060
00:50:54,480 --> 00:50:56,440
Speaker 1: where I trust him. Like me and Westcott, we go

1061
00:50:56,520 --> 00:51:00,759
Speaker 1: back years like when I had nothing, we both was struggling,

1062
00:51:00,880 --> 00:51:03,359
Speaker 1: you know. So that's somebody that I know, like if

1063
00:51:03,360 --> 00:51:06,080
Speaker 1: we did business together, he's not gonna like screw me over,

1064
00:51:06,239 --> 00:51:06,480
Speaker 1: you know.

1065
00:51:06,840 --> 00:51:12,000
Speaker 2: But it's it's hard. That's always yesterday asking chat GPT.

1066
00:51:12,760 --> 00:51:17,080
Speaker 3: Is it legal to do a mental health screening before

1067
00:51:17,160 --> 00:51:23,360
Speaker 3: hiring someone? It needs to be legal, No, because people

1068
00:51:23,400 --> 00:51:26,480
Speaker 3: be pre hospital dealing with you.

1069
00:51:26,520 --> 00:51:31,560
Speaker 2: No, seriously, And I don't know.

1070
00:51:31,760 --> 00:51:33,080
Speaker 3: I don't know what you want me to do because

1071
00:51:33,120 --> 00:51:36,640
Speaker 3: I'm human too. I make mistakes too. I'm dealing with

1072
00:51:36,719 --> 00:51:43,359
Speaker 3: things too, and and I just yeah, it's tough. You'd

1073
00:51:43,400 --> 00:51:45,200
Speaker 3: be trying to help people, trying to put people on

1074
00:51:46,400 --> 00:51:47,200
Speaker 3: work with people.

1075
00:51:47,320 --> 00:51:50,000
Speaker 2: Yeah. But that's the other thing that I think.

1076
00:51:50,080 --> 00:51:51,600
Speaker 3: Part of the reason why I haven't done as much

1077
00:51:51,600 --> 00:51:56,319
Speaker 3: investing too, is because I'll see something about somebody, but

1078
00:51:56,360 --> 00:51:58,040
Speaker 3: then I'd be still trying to make it work.

1079
00:51:59,040 --> 00:52:01,920
Speaker 2: It's a lack of trust to myself too. Yes, I

1080
00:52:01,960 --> 00:52:02,960
Speaker 2: know exactly what you mean.

1081
00:52:03,719 --> 00:52:07,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, and be feeling like a bad person because

1082
00:52:07,360 --> 00:52:12,359
Speaker 3: they're so nice. But I'm like I can just mm, yeah,

1083
00:52:13,200 --> 00:52:16,879
Speaker 3: yeah something yes, and you gotta trust that.

1084
00:52:17,080 --> 00:52:19,760
Speaker 1: You have to trust that God has given us that

1085
00:52:19,760 --> 00:52:21,960
Speaker 1: that's that spirit of discernment that He has blessed us with.

1086
00:52:22,520 --> 00:52:24,360
Speaker 1: And I'm telling you there's been so many times, just

1087
00:52:24,400 --> 00:52:26,400
Speaker 1: like you were, I've ignored it and it came to

1088
00:52:26,440 --> 00:52:29,520
Speaker 1: buy me in the But every single time, every single time.

1089
00:52:29,960 --> 00:52:32,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's like now.

1090
00:52:31,880 --> 00:52:34,359
Speaker 1: Like for me, say things are like real estate, like

1091
00:52:34,520 --> 00:52:36,879
Speaker 1: I'll buy a house in a heartbeat, you know, any

1092
00:52:36,880 --> 00:52:39,839
Speaker 1: type of property, I'll do that. It's just that that's

1093
00:52:39,840 --> 00:52:42,960
Speaker 1: a safer, low risk investment for me that I know

1094
00:52:43,080 --> 00:52:46,000
Speaker 1: I can control, you know, I have a little more

1095
00:52:46,040 --> 00:52:49,840
Speaker 1: control over it. But when it comes to investing in

1096
00:52:49,920 --> 00:52:52,160
Speaker 1: people and really taking a risk with other people, it's

1097
00:52:52,200 --> 00:52:53,799
Speaker 1: really that really damaged me.

1098
00:52:54,440 --> 00:52:56,000
Speaker 2: It really did. Yeah.

1099
00:52:56,120 --> 00:52:58,120
Speaker 3: The other thing I was thinking too, about a relationship,

1100
00:52:58,160 --> 00:53:00,440
Speaker 3: I was like, because that's how this one more talking

1101
00:53:00,440 --> 00:53:04,160
Speaker 3: about how God wanted to heal her disappointment because she

1102
00:53:04,280 --> 00:53:08,080
Speaker 3: realized that if God were to send the right person

1103
00:53:08,120 --> 00:53:11,120
Speaker 3: in her life, she would still see life through the

1104
00:53:11,200 --> 00:53:14,040
Speaker 3: lens of disappointment. And would you even be able to

1105
00:53:14,080 --> 00:53:16,879
Speaker 3: open up to him and trust him. I'm like, because

1106
00:53:17,000 --> 00:53:19,040
Speaker 3: out of all the videos that I suggested to me

1107
00:53:19,120 --> 00:53:21,400
Speaker 3: that day, that one did, and I was like, oh.

1108
00:53:21,440 --> 00:53:24,200
Speaker 2: That's good. He's healed me from disappointment.

1109
00:53:24,280 --> 00:53:26,320
Speaker 3: Tell me from the disappointment and the lack of trust.

1110
00:53:26,320 --> 00:53:29,120
Speaker 3: Because if it's a good dude, you're gonna sabotage it.

1111
00:53:29,760 --> 00:53:31,719
Speaker 3: I don't even think it's I think that's part of it.

1112
00:53:31,760 --> 00:53:35,800
Speaker 3: But I think it'll be more so like the only

1113
00:53:35,880 --> 00:53:37,680
Speaker 3: people like if I'm a boundary person.

1114
00:53:37,760 --> 00:53:39,880
Speaker 2: You know me, I'm a boundary person. I'm kind of guarded.

1115
00:53:40,160 --> 00:53:43,880
Speaker 3: I'm like, but like you can still see it's like, yeah,

1116
00:53:44,080 --> 00:53:47,920
Speaker 3: you know, you're a decent human being, so you're not

1117
00:53:48,000 --> 00:53:50,359
Speaker 3: gonna try to climb over those boundaries. Right, So if

1118
00:53:50,360 --> 00:53:52,600
Speaker 3: he's a decent person, he's gonna be like, I like her,

1119
00:53:52,640 --> 00:53:55,880
Speaker 3: but I don't think she's I wouldn't even he wouldn't

1120
00:53:55,880 --> 00:53:58,759
Speaker 3: even feel like he had the opportunity to be like, hey,

1121
00:53:59,160 --> 00:54:02,680
Speaker 3: so yes, but somebody who is a narcissist will be like,

1122
00:54:02,719 --> 00:54:06,000
Speaker 3: I can break down those boons, you know what I'm saying.

1123
00:54:06,120 --> 00:54:08,680
Speaker 1: But is he a narcissist or somebody that like really

1124
00:54:08,920 --> 00:54:10,799
Speaker 1: likes you is not going to give up.

1125
00:54:14,239 --> 00:54:18,359
Speaker 3: I think that a good man will be in proximity

1126
00:54:19,719 --> 00:54:22,840
Speaker 3: and will be It's kind of like when people rescue dogs,

1127
00:54:23,560 --> 00:54:25,359
Speaker 3: they just sit. They'll sit there for an hour until

1128
00:54:25,400 --> 00:54:29,080
Speaker 3: the dog comes to them. But human beings don't have

1129
00:54:29,120 --> 00:54:32,120
Speaker 3: that type of time. If he's also a good man,

1130
00:54:33,000 --> 00:54:35,439
Speaker 3: he would have to really hear from God just wait

1131
00:54:35,600 --> 00:54:39,080
Speaker 3: for a second. Yeah, and not too many people go

1132
00:54:39,200 --> 00:54:42,560
Speaker 3: to hear God that clearly and be that obedient. I'm

1133
00:54:42,560 --> 00:54:45,360
Speaker 3: not saying this impossible. Yeah, but like why should he

1134
00:54:45,400 --> 00:54:46,640
Speaker 3: have to go through all that? Let me do my

1135
00:54:46,719 --> 00:54:50,880
Speaker 3: human I'm not a rescue German shepherd, like I need to,

1136
00:54:50,920 --> 00:54:53,920
Speaker 3: you know, continue to work on myself. But I just think.

1137
00:54:54,560 --> 00:54:57,440
Speaker 3: I just think, And it doesn't make them a bad person.

1138
00:54:58,239 --> 00:55:00,279
Speaker 3: Some of them, people who are super overseealou and go

1139
00:55:00,320 --> 00:55:02,440
Speaker 3: try to Petter rescue. They get that and now you're

1140
00:55:02,440 --> 00:55:04,040
Speaker 3: mad at the rescue and then the dog got to

1141
00:55:04,040 --> 00:55:04,719
Speaker 3: get put down and.

1142
00:55:06,239 --> 00:55:08,080
Speaker 2: Read the room, Yes you know what I mean.

1143
00:55:08,600 --> 00:55:13,200
Speaker 3: But people can't read. People can't read people read. People

1144
00:55:13,239 --> 00:55:14,520
Speaker 3: are socially illiterate.

1145
00:55:14,640 --> 00:55:17,280
Speaker 2: Literally, Yes, that is funny.

1146
00:55:17,880 --> 00:55:22,880
Speaker 1: When you think about your legacy and your future, what

1147
00:55:23,040 --> 00:55:25,200
Speaker 1: is something that you want to leave behind that's impactful

1148
00:55:25,280 --> 00:55:25,920
Speaker 1: to other people.

1149
00:55:29,520 --> 00:55:32,640
Speaker 3: I haven't been asked that in such a long time. Really, Yeah,

1150
00:55:33,160 --> 00:55:38,000
Speaker 3: So it's like gosh. I want to be concise. I

1151
00:55:38,080 --> 00:55:43,879
Speaker 3: want to have a left of mark, especially with storytelling,

1152
00:55:44,840 --> 00:55:52,640
Speaker 3: that will make people feel less alone, will guide people

1153
00:55:53,280 --> 00:55:59,400
Speaker 3: to the one who created them and have empowered them

1154
00:56:00,080 --> 00:56:03,680
Speaker 3: to operate in their gifts and their purpose so that

1155
00:56:03,760 --> 00:56:06,800
Speaker 3: they can do the exact same thing, like that ripple

1156
00:56:06,840 --> 00:56:12,799
Speaker 3: effect of you know, a candle doesn't lose fire when

1157
00:56:12,800 --> 00:56:15,120
Speaker 3: it lights another candle. So I want to light other

1158
00:56:15,160 --> 00:56:18,400
Speaker 3: people's candles. I want people to see my stories and

1159
00:56:18,440 --> 00:56:21,440
Speaker 3: feel like, all right, I can go. I can I

1160
00:56:21,480 --> 00:56:24,759
Speaker 3: can take on the world. I can take on this classroom,

1161
00:56:24,840 --> 00:56:27,719
Speaker 3: I can take on this disease, I can take on

1162
00:56:27,800 --> 00:56:32,200
Speaker 3: this research project. And people are walking in their gift

1163
00:56:32,239 --> 00:56:34,319
Speaker 3: and operating in their gift, and they know who they

1164
00:56:34,360 --> 00:56:37,360
Speaker 3: belong to and who they are, and they feel empowered

1165
00:56:37,360 --> 00:56:40,600
Speaker 3: and they love themselves because of the work that I've done.

1166
00:56:40,800 --> 00:56:43,879
Speaker 3: And right now in this moment, I'm like I got

1167
00:56:43,920 --> 00:56:44,439
Speaker 3: a lot of work.

1168
00:56:45,320 --> 00:56:45,840
Speaker 2: We all do.

1169
00:56:46,040 --> 00:56:48,880
Speaker 1: No And when people when you answer that question, you

1170
00:56:48,960 --> 00:56:51,239
Speaker 1: do think you're like, oh, wait, there's more I gotta do.

1171
00:56:51,719 --> 00:56:54,480
Speaker 3: I'm the same disappointment and the trauma, and it's the

1172
00:56:54,600 --> 00:56:58,000
Speaker 3: trying and being pushed back down, like I don't know

1173
00:56:58,040 --> 00:57:03,520
Speaker 3: when you got Fatima, maybe season two at least because

1174
00:57:03,680 --> 00:57:06,879
Speaker 3: season one you were reoccurring. Ye season two.

1175
00:57:06,920 --> 00:57:08,759
Speaker 4: When you saw that, he was like, all right, he's

1176
00:57:08,800 --> 00:57:09,560
Speaker 4: giving you a shot.

1177
00:57:09,800 --> 00:57:11,600
Speaker 2: Yeah. I don't know about you.

1178
00:57:11,680 --> 00:57:14,000
Speaker 3: But when Raven called me and told me I got

1179
00:57:14,040 --> 00:57:17,480
Speaker 3: the role, I enjoyed it for like sixty two seconds,

1180
00:57:17,560 --> 00:57:19,560
Speaker 3: and then I felt something in my spirit say, now

1181
00:57:19,600 --> 00:57:20,560
Speaker 3: the real work begins.

1182
00:57:20,680 --> 00:57:22,120
Speaker 2: Yes, oh, I had sure.

1183
00:57:22,400 --> 00:57:25,640
Speaker 1: I went straight to back to studying school, like I

1184
00:57:25,640 --> 00:57:26,320
Speaker 1: gotta get this.

1185
00:57:26,640 --> 00:57:27,600
Speaker 2: I can't mess this up.

1186
00:57:27,680 --> 00:57:30,480
Speaker 3: It was real work, just even just starting stuff like

1187
00:57:30,600 --> 00:57:34,280
Speaker 3: starting your podcast, I'm sure, like getting other deals, doing

1188
00:57:34,400 --> 00:57:36,600
Speaker 3: like the amount of work we still have to do,

1189
00:57:36,720 --> 00:57:39,160
Speaker 3: even though we're series regulars on a hit show, Like

1190
00:57:40,000 --> 00:57:44,360
Speaker 3: it's it's almost harder because it's the mental.

1191
00:57:44,040 --> 00:57:48,600
Speaker 4: Warfare of what am I doing? Like what is the problem?

1192
00:57:48,720 --> 00:57:50,880
Speaker 2: Like, yeah, it's a lot.

1193
00:57:50,920 --> 00:57:53,800
Speaker 1: I was just telling my friend driving here today, she

1194
00:57:53,920 --> 00:57:54,440
Speaker 1: was like, what are you doing?

1195
00:57:54,480 --> 00:57:55,560
Speaker 2: I'm headed to the office.

1196
00:57:55,600 --> 00:57:58,280
Speaker 1: I've been filming episodes all week And she goes, oh,

1197
00:57:58,360 --> 00:57:59,000
Speaker 1: and she was like.

1198
00:57:59,640 --> 00:58:00,880
Speaker 2: Shed been busy.

1199
00:58:00,920 --> 00:58:02,840
Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, what straight from filming, straight to

1200
00:58:02,880 --> 00:58:06,280
Speaker 1: BT Awards, straight to ABFF home to work. I said,

1201
00:58:06,280 --> 00:58:09,440
Speaker 1: even when I'm off work. I'm working, you know, it

1202
00:58:09,480 --> 00:58:12,400
Speaker 1: doesn't stop. And we've built these brands. We've been blessed

1203
00:58:12,440 --> 00:58:15,000
Speaker 1: with the platform to be able to build brands off

1204
00:58:15,040 --> 00:58:19,640
Speaker 1: of it so that when say, whenever Sisters may be done,

1205
00:58:19,840 --> 00:58:21,880
Speaker 1: you know, then we're like, Okay, I've built enough that

1206
00:58:21,920 --> 00:58:22,640
Speaker 1: I'm okay.

1207
00:58:22,760 --> 00:58:24,720
Speaker 2: You know, We're not like, oh gosh, like what am

1208
00:58:24,720 --> 00:58:25,680
Speaker 2: I gonna do now? You know?

1209
00:58:27,320 --> 00:58:29,840
Speaker 1: But it's a thing like and people think it's we

1210
00:58:29,880 --> 00:58:30,880
Speaker 1: make it look so easy.

1211
00:58:31,080 --> 00:58:34,040
Speaker 2: It's not. It's just you.

1212
00:58:34,040 --> 00:58:36,760
Speaker 4: You make it look like warm butter on warm toast.

1213
00:58:41,080 --> 00:58:42,480
Speaker 2: My team probably say different.

1214
00:58:46,440 --> 00:58:47,880
Speaker 4: Oh I know, she keep you all running because she

1215
00:58:47,920 --> 00:58:48,560
Speaker 4: ain't stopped.

1216
00:58:49,120 --> 00:58:49,600
Speaker 2: Don't stop.

1217
00:58:53,000 --> 00:58:55,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what him and Shine I always say, Chrystal

1218
00:58:55,720 --> 00:58:57,840
Speaker 1: will outwork you if you let her. Like, I'm right

1219
00:58:57,840 --> 00:58:59,480
Speaker 1: there with them, like, let's go what we're doing. I

1220
00:58:59,520 --> 00:59:01,520
Speaker 1: don't care what it is we're packing up. They like

1221
00:59:01,560 --> 00:59:05,000
Speaker 1: sitting down, just giving her an Alani honey, and I'm

1222
00:59:05,040 --> 00:59:07,240
Speaker 1: good to go charge.

1223
00:59:08,280 --> 00:59:12,840
Speaker 4: Alani, give go ahead and send them money. Cut the check, Alani,

1224
00:59:13,320 --> 00:59:13,880
Speaker 4: go ahead.

1225
00:59:13,640 --> 00:59:16,680
Speaker 2: And send the check. Please check. Seriously.

1226
00:59:16,720 --> 00:59:19,520
Speaker 1: No, I'm so grateful for them because when God does

1227
00:59:19,560 --> 00:59:22,360
Speaker 1: bless you with ideas and you want to be creative.

1228
00:59:23,120 --> 00:59:25,040
Speaker 1: The team is what hells push it, you know, Like

1229
00:59:25,160 --> 00:59:27,040
Speaker 1: I could not do this without them. So that's the

1230
00:59:27,080 --> 00:59:30,560
Speaker 1: warm butter on the bread, because I couldn't do without them.

1231
00:59:30,920 --> 00:59:33,280
Speaker 3: See that's the I think that's the warfare too. It's

1232
00:59:33,320 --> 00:59:36,520
Speaker 3: like relationships, yes, you know what I mean. We're two

1233
00:59:36,640 --> 00:59:39,720
Speaker 3: or more gathered yep. And that's why I feel like

1234
00:59:39,920 --> 00:59:42,600
Speaker 3: that's sometimes why it's hard. It's like just finding the

1235
00:59:42,640 --> 00:59:44,840
Speaker 3: good people, the people that you don't feel like you

1236
00:59:44,840 --> 00:59:47,840
Speaker 3: need a mental health screening for, like, and I feel

1237
00:59:47,840 --> 00:59:49,840
Speaker 3: like that's been my struggle and that's been the warfare

1238
00:59:49,920 --> 00:59:50,120
Speaker 3: for me.

1239
00:59:50,200 --> 00:59:53,360
Speaker 2: It's like, oh God, can I just give me one Lord?

1240
00:59:54,240 --> 00:59:54,520
Speaker 4: One?

1241
00:59:54,800 --> 00:59:57,480
Speaker 1: And yeah, you know it's beautiful, glad you have that.

1242
00:59:57,720 --> 00:59:59,640
Speaker 1: And then everybody just loves the Lord, you know, so

1243
00:59:59,760 --> 01:00:02,760
Speaker 1: like we're all like you did two or three prayers

1244
01:00:02,760 --> 01:00:03,960
Speaker 1: before we start, Okay.

1245
01:00:03,840 --> 01:00:04,440
Speaker 2: We should did.

1246
01:00:04,600 --> 01:00:07,560
Speaker 1: And I just got JB during BT Words when you

1247
01:00:07,600 --> 01:00:11,640
Speaker 1: came to BT House and I was when we exchanged numbers.

1248
01:00:11,680 --> 01:00:14,360
Speaker 1: I was going to be Psycho and put Christopher and

1249
01:00:14,440 --> 01:00:18,280
Speaker 1: Hazel you're stuck with me. It's my contact name because

1250
01:00:18,280 --> 01:00:20,200
Speaker 1: I was like, you have to come work with us,

1251
01:00:20,240 --> 01:00:23,520
Speaker 1: Like yeah, there's where are we going where where you

1252
01:00:23,800 --> 01:00:26,080
Speaker 1: thought you was going to know, you're stuck with us.

1253
01:00:27,240 --> 01:00:29,680
Speaker 1: But I felt it like you feel it instantly. And

1254
01:00:29,680 --> 01:00:32,680
Speaker 1: it's hard to find good people, especially in this day

1255
01:00:32,720 --> 01:00:35,000
Speaker 1: and age, within this industry as well, because everybody has

1256
01:00:35,080 --> 01:00:38,400
Speaker 1: ulterior motives. It's just like who is just loves what

1257
01:00:38,440 --> 01:00:41,240
Speaker 1: they do. They're passionate. They're here to like just push

1258
01:00:41,280 --> 01:00:41,720
Speaker 1: the dream.

1259
01:00:42,160 --> 01:00:42,400
Speaker 2: You know.

1260
01:00:43,760 --> 01:00:46,560
Speaker 1: It's a lot, but yeah, I think it's also a

1261
01:00:46,560 --> 01:00:48,479
Speaker 1: passion So that's probably why it looks like it looks

1262
01:00:48,480 --> 01:00:49,760
Speaker 1: easy because I love it.

1263
01:00:50,440 --> 01:00:53,240
Speaker 2: I love it. Yeah, I can tell thank you.

1264
01:00:53,480 --> 01:00:55,760
Speaker 1: So I want to talk about orbital tribe. Let's talk

1265
01:00:55,760 --> 01:00:57,360
Speaker 1: about how did you even come up with the name?

1266
01:00:57,960 --> 01:00:59,760
Speaker 3: What I was saying, like, I've always felt like I've

1267
01:00:59,800 --> 01:01:03,520
Speaker 3: kind in my own orbit like feeling like that crazy

1268
01:01:03,560 --> 01:01:07,000
Speaker 3: professor with the mustard stain dropping papers that nobody listens to.

1269
01:01:10,720 --> 01:01:14,400
Speaker 3: I've always just kind of been different and walked to

1270
01:01:14,440 --> 01:01:16,200
Speaker 3: the beat of my own drum, like in my own family.

1271
01:01:16,240 --> 01:01:21,280
Speaker 3: It has been very you know, like just different, you know,

1272
01:01:22,120 --> 01:01:26,280
Speaker 3: And thank God for the Bible, because without the Bible,

1273
01:01:27,000 --> 01:01:31,000
Speaker 3: I would not be able to make peace with just

1274
01:01:31,280 --> 01:01:36,200
Speaker 3: kind of being vulnerable here, not really having a sense

1275
01:01:36,240 --> 01:01:40,800
Speaker 3: of belonging, and so the Orbital Tribe was really kind

1276
01:01:40,800 --> 01:01:44,520
Speaker 3: of for those people that God has kind of called out,

1277
01:01:44,960 --> 01:01:49,280
Speaker 3: even amongst the people He's called out, and say like, hey,

1278
01:01:49,400 --> 01:01:51,680
Speaker 3: you might not get there the traditional way, people might

1279
01:01:51,720 --> 01:01:54,240
Speaker 3: not always see you, but you can get there, which

1280
01:01:54,280 --> 01:01:59,200
Speaker 3: is my story for this show. And that's what I

1281
01:01:59,240 --> 01:02:01,880
Speaker 3: love about Tyler like key with me, Baby, you don't

1282
01:02:01,880 --> 01:02:03,520
Speaker 3: mind a dimond in the rough, Baby.

1283
01:02:03,280 --> 01:02:03,720
Speaker 2: He does not.

1284
01:02:04,080 --> 01:02:06,320
Speaker 1: He said, We're gonna get this thing right, make it shine.

1285
01:02:07,760 --> 01:02:09,400
Speaker 1: I was going through so much. Remember I had the

1286
01:02:09,440 --> 01:02:12,240
Speaker 1: whole like breast cancer callback while we were filming.

1287
01:02:12,280 --> 01:02:13,680
Speaker 2: And we had a scene.

1288
01:02:15,400 --> 01:02:19,120
Speaker 1: The day before I had to go in for my appointment,

1289
01:02:19,440 --> 01:02:21,160
Speaker 1: and I was just my brain was just like all

1290
01:02:21,160 --> 01:02:23,480
Speaker 1: over the place and I was just like and.

1291
01:02:23,440 --> 01:02:27,000
Speaker 2: You were looking at me, and I was like where

1292
01:02:27,040 --> 01:02:27,360
Speaker 2: are we?

1293
01:02:27,560 --> 01:02:29,880
Speaker 1: Like I could I could not track and musically like

1294
01:02:29,920 --> 01:02:31,920
Speaker 1: I have a photographic memory, I can like see it

1295
01:02:32,000 --> 01:02:33,800
Speaker 1: on the pages, so like, oh I know where we are?

1296
01:02:33,840 --> 01:02:36,400
Speaker 2: Got it like one line? Got it that day? I

1297
01:02:36,440 --> 01:02:36,720
Speaker 2: could not.

1298
01:02:36,800 --> 01:02:38,000
Speaker 1: And I left and I was like, oh my god,

1299
01:02:38,040 --> 01:02:40,160
Speaker 1: I hope Minyan does not hate me. She probably like, girl,

1300
01:02:40,200 --> 01:02:42,680
Speaker 1: come on, because you had a crazy few days in

1301
01:02:42,760 --> 01:02:44,840
Speaker 1: your house and it was a lot of content. So

1302
01:02:44,880 --> 01:02:47,280
Speaker 1: I always liked to come in like when I'm coming,

1303
01:02:47,320 --> 01:02:50,200
Speaker 1: I'm helping, I'm your your wing girl, you know. And

1304
01:02:50,280 --> 01:02:52,040
Speaker 1: I just like I feel like I let you down

1305
01:02:52,040 --> 01:02:54,280
Speaker 1: on that day and remember I hit you, not take and.

1306
01:02:54,280 --> 01:02:56,080
Speaker 2: I'm like no, no, because like.

1307
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Speaker 3: I felt like, because especially my storyline, I was like,

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01:03:01,800 --> 01:03:05,080
Speaker 3: there's gotta be some grace because the day before, you

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01:03:05,120 --> 01:03:06,760
Speaker 3: were at the townhouse.

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Speaker 2: All day, all day long. Yeah, we all have our days.

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01:03:09,760 --> 01:03:11,800
Speaker 3: You were at the townhouse all day and then the

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01:03:11,920 --> 01:03:14,200
Speaker 3: scene we shot was it wasn't seen.

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01:03:14,280 --> 01:03:14,960
Speaker 2: It was scenes.

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01:03:15,240 --> 01:03:18,400
Speaker 4: Yeah, weren't they wasn't it twenty pages pages y'all?

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01:03:18,920 --> 01:03:21,760
Speaker 2: It was crazy. It was like boom boom, boom boom.

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01:03:22,000 --> 01:03:24,360
Speaker 4: So I did not like me personally. I was like,

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01:03:24,640 --> 01:03:26,160
Speaker 4: I expected you to be like.

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01:03:29,680 --> 01:03:34,400
Speaker 1: Because right supposed to do yeah you know what I mean,

1319
01:03:34,400 --> 01:03:35,320
Speaker 1: what are you supposed to do?

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01:03:35,440 --> 01:03:38,000
Speaker 3: Like what like you at the townhouse. When I saw

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01:03:38,000 --> 01:03:42,440
Speaker 3: the townhouse black, I was like, m hmm, I was crazy.

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01:03:42,640 --> 01:03:43,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was a lot.

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01:03:44,000 --> 01:03:46,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, not at all, thank you, because Joe Be told

1324
01:03:46,760 --> 01:03:47,640
Speaker 4: I was like, is it me?

1325
01:03:48,360 --> 01:03:51,800
Speaker 2: It was not you? It was definitely me me.

1326
01:03:52,680 --> 01:03:54,200
Speaker 3: I do that all the time. I be calling line.

1327
01:03:54,240 --> 01:03:55,640
Speaker 3: It will be other people's line. I was like, oh

1328
01:03:55,680 --> 01:03:56,920
Speaker 3: my bad, sorry, y'all.

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01:03:56,680 --> 01:03:58,600
Speaker 2: Listen, and I feel I'm like, okay, good, it wasn't

1330
01:03:58,600 --> 01:04:03,920
Speaker 2: me life, Okay, thanks God.

1331
01:04:04,520 --> 01:04:06,440
Speaker 3: I feeling like, dang, I could have got away with

1332
01:04:06,520 --> 01:04:09,560
Speaker 3: it if I hadn't called line, because now.

1333
01:04:09,440 --> 01:04:11,360
Speaker 1: I'm I need it when we get to this next

1334
01:04:11,360 --> 01:04:12,640
Speaker 1: book line.

1335
01:04:13,960 --> 01:04:16,960
Speaker 3: It could be anybody, I said all the time. Brian

1336
01:04:17,000 --> 01:04:19,160
Speaker 3: will laugh because I'll be like, it could be anything.

1337
01:04:19,560 --> 01:04:22,800
Speaker 3: This could be anything, literally anything.

1338
01:04:23,200 --> 01:04:24,640
Speaker 2: I love it. I'm so happy we're getting to work

1339
01:04:24,640 --> 01:04:25,160
Speaker 2: together now.

1340
01:04:25,480 --> 01:04:30,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, they wanted hopefully we got a loving yeah.

1341
01:04:32,440 --> 01:04:34,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, I love that.

1342
01:04:34,840 --> 01:04:37,440
Speaker 1: And it's so many people that Hollywood has overlooked that

1343
01:04:37,480 --> 01:04:40,120
Speaker 1: Tyler has given a chance and changed your life completely,

1344
01:04:40,480 --> 01:04:44,040
Speaker 1: change your families, like the generations, and that's what he does.

1345
01:04:44,320 --> 01:04:45,200
Speaker 2: So grateful for him.

1346
01:04:45,520 --> 01:04:48,240
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, so yeah, I mean that's what the Oracle

1347
01:04:48,320 --> 01:04:49,800
Speaker 3: trip is. We're filming season two right now.

1348
01:04:49,840 --> 01:04:52,480
Speaker 1: That I'm gonna ask you, Okay, Paly, so it makes you, guys,

1349
01:04:52,640 --> 01:04:55,440
Speaker 1: tap in subscribe so you can follow along with the

1350
01:04:55,440 --> 01:04:56,440
Speaker 1: older child that I love that.

1351
01:04:56,680 --> 01:04:57,560
Speaker 2: I'm so proud of you.

1352
01:04:57,600 --> 01:05:01,160
Speaker 1: Mean, I'm proud of you, thank you, and I'm glad

1353
01:05:01,160 --> 01:05:02,120
Speaker 1: we finally got to do this.

1354
01:05:02,360 --> 01:05:02,680
Speaker 2: Me too.

1355
01:05:03,000 --> 01:05:06,160
Speaker 3: This was like so relaxing, like it's trying to look

1356
01:05:06,200 --> 01:05:07,880
Speaker 3: like it's trying to rain again.

1357
01:05:08,120 --> 01:05:10,080
Speaker 1: It's like forty days and forty nights here in Atlanta.

1358
01:05:10,080 --> 01:05:10,880
Speaker 1: I don't know what's going on.

1359
01:05:10,960 --> 01:05:11,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, I can roll up on.

1360
01:05:11,800 --> 01:05:13,560
Speaker 4: This little rug.

1361
01:05:14,000 --> 01:05:17,520
Speaker 2: Don't bother me. Thank you, thank you so much.

1362
01:05:17,800 --> 01:05:20,240
Speaker 1: All right, Let the people know where they can follow you,

1363
01:05:20,240 --> 01:05:22,400
Speaker 1: your YouTube, your Instagram, all the things. We want to

1364
01:05:22,400 --> 01:05:24,120
Speaker 1: support you in any way we can. If there's anything

1365
01:05:24,120 --> 01:05:26,400
Speaker 1: else that you have going on that you can share.

1366
01:05:26,320 --> 01:05:28,960
Speaker 3: With, Yeah, from what I can share the season two

1367
01:05:29,000 --> 01:05:31,120
Speaker 3: of The Orbital Tribe we are filming right now, so

1368
01:05:31,160 --> 01:05:33,440
Speaker 3: it's dropping soon, you know.

1369
01:05:35,880 --> 01:05:36,120
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1370
01:05:36,200 --> 01:05:39,520
Speaker 3: So the Orbital Tribe is on YouTube. It is on

1371
01:05:40,120 --> 01:05:43,760
Speaker 3: you can follow our Instagram page. The Orbital Tribe is

1372
01:05:43,840 --> 01:05:51,800
Speaker 3: on Spotify. iHeart Apple, of course, I think Amazon.

1373
01:05:51,480 --> 01:05:55,120
Speaker 2: And YouTube anywhere you listen to your podcast.

1374
01:05:55,120 --> 01:05:59,520
Speaker 3: Anywhere you listen to your podcast, Yeah, and then share it,

1375
01:05:59,640 --> 01:06:02,280
Speaker 3: refer to people if it helps you. And then of

1376
01:06:02,280 --> 01:06:04,680
Speaker 3: course you can follow me at Mignon and my g

1377
01:06:04,800 --> 01:06:10,720
Speaker 3: n O n Underscore fof on Instagram by it's just initials.

1378
01:06:10,800 --> 01:06:14,560
Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah, you got it. Okay, they wouldn't give me mignon.

1379
01:06:15,720 --> 01:06:17,040
Speaker 2: Are you at it?

1380
01:06:17,080 --> 01:06:20,280
Speaker 3: Somebody already has it, but they don't post and and

1381
01:06:20,400 --> 01:06:24,800
Speaker 3: but Instagram said that they were they were active, and

1382
01:06:24,840 --> 01:06:27,520
Speaker 3: I was like, they're not active or it's a it's

1383
01:06:27,560 --> 01:06:32,000
Speaker 3: their fence to Uh yeah, that's the thing.

1384
01:06:33,960 --> 01:06:36,760
Speaker 1: Just give it to me, like I'll give you, give

1385
01:06:38,280 --> 01:06:42,280
Speaker 1: give it to me this one that is so funny.

1386
01:06:42,640 --> 01:06:44,600
Speaker 1: I love but thank you so much, and make sure

1387
01:06:44,600 --> 01:06:46,480
Speaker 1: you tap in with my girl being and we will

1388
01:06:46,520 --> 01:06:57,160
Speaker 1: see you soon. Getting into today's fit, today, I am

1389
01:06:57,200 --> 01:07:00,480
Speaker 1: wearing a cream Louis Vauton matching set.

1390
01:07:01,080 --> 01:07:03,480
Speaker 2: I absolutely love this outfit. It's super comfortable.

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01:07:03,520 --> 01:07:06,320
Speaker 1: Today we were just all the things, keeping it simple

1392
01:07:06,320 --> 01:07:09,480
Speaker 1: with the jewelry. Today I'm wearing Botake of Another earrings

1393
01:07:09,600 --> 01:07:11,880
Speaker 1: and my Van Cleeve bracelet.

1394
01:07:19,200 --> 01:07:19,560
Speaker 2: Sudez.

1395
01:07:19,600 --> 01:07:21,760
Speaker 1: I hope you all enjoyed this conversation as much as

1396
01:07:21,800 --> 01:07:25,400
Speaker 1: I did. Look remember, keep company only with those who

1397
01:07:25,480 --> 01:07:29,240
Speaker 1: uplift you and whose presence calls forth your best. Until

1398
01:07:29,280 --> 01:07:31,520
Speaker 1: next time, keep your pies and sweeties, love y'all,