Speaker 1: Second date updated.
Speaker 2: As guys, we all have to deal with the same issue.
Speaker 2: Too many hot women wanting to date us and not
Speaker 2: enough time to date them all.
Speaker 3: Ye, that must be hard, it is.
Speaker 2: Sorry, ladies, we want to take you out, but it's
Speaker 2: not our fault. Time is the enemy. Broke. You should
Speaker 2: feel lucky that you're not a man. You don't have
Speaker 2: to deal with stress like this.
Speaker 3: My simple little mind can only maybe comprehend.
Speaker 2: Well, it's good that at least knowledgeable enough to recognize
Speaker 2: that and.
Speaker 3: That like what you just said.
Speaker 2: The thing is, that's what happened to one of our listeners,
Speaker 2: Connor recently. Connor, you feel me bro Too many eager
Speaker 2: ladies only want of you to go around, am I right?
Speaker 1: Yeah, start this way.
Speaker 3: I want to have people like you, Connor.
Speaker 2: I like you already, Connor. But let's hear about your situation.
Speaker 2: But you had more than one woman wanting to go
Speaker 2: out with you.
Speaker 4: Yeah I did. I did so. Initially. I met this
Speaker 4: girl Hannah. We connected online and sup all those instant
Speaker 4: like click and connects, you know. Yeah, we started talking.
Speaker 4: We had a great time, and so I asked her out.
Speaker 4: But then she went like radio silence was gone.
Speaker 5: Oh wait, wait, wait wait did she say yes to
Speaker 5: a date and then were silent or just after.
Speaker 4: You asked, like right after I asked, was gone?
Speaker 3: She had bought then she was hoping for a credit card.
Speaker 4: But she doesn't come back, so don't count her out yet.
Speaker 3: Oh okay, okay, we're gonna circle back to Hannah in
Speaker 3: a minute.
Speaker 4: Okay. So you know, I gave her a couple of days,
Speaker 4: didn't hear anything Frommers, and then I was like, all right,
Speaker 4: it's time to move on. Asked out the second girl,
Speaker 4: the name is anybody, And you know, I was like
Speaker 4: less excited about her, but she was fun, and I
Speaker 4: was like, I'm not going to hear anything from a Hannah. Hannah.
Speaker 3: You can't even remember her name.
Speaker 4: So.
Speaker 2: Memory now she's she doesn't deserve the age. Yeah, right now.
Speaker 3: Okay, So then you asked Amy out.
Speaker 4: Yeah, and so she said yes, and then of course
Speaker 4: the second she said yes, it comes back.
Speaker 5: Oh it's always like that.
Speaker 4: She's like, I'm so sorry I didn't have any signal.
Speaker 4: I'd love to go out with you. What do you
Speaker 4: do on Friday night? And I was like, well, in
Speaker 4: my head, I didn't tell her this, but I'm like, well,
Speaker 4: I'm going out with Amy for yeah.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 4: So I ended up making like a pros and cons
Speaker 4: list to see which one of my chaugar is Friday night.
Speaker 3: Oh you're gonna dump one. That's good. I thought we
Speaker 3: were gonna maybe try to balance the two. Yeah night.
Speaker 3: So I think already you're making good choices.
Speaker 2: We have had other guys try and do this, going
Speaker 2: back to back between tables.
Speaker 5: This is what Jeff was trying to say us guys,
Speaker 5: we're good dudes.
Speaker 2: So you made a pros and consoless for each one.
Speaker 4: Pros and consless for each one.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 4: You can't just make a pros and consolict for one.
Speaker 4: You gotta do the whole. Sure.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, So who got the most pros?
Speaker 4: So Hannah did?
Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, Hannah one original?
Speaker 6: What is d like even the way you've been talking
Speaker 6: about it? Yeah?
Speaker 2: Okay, So did you end up actually meeting up with
Speaker 2: Hannah finally?
Speaker 4: So we we ended up going bowling and we had
Speaker 4: a good time. We would cheer each other on and
Speaker 4: we made up like little chokey tears for each other
Speaker 4: as we.
Speaker 3: Went, so super flirty.
Speaker 4: Yeah, when we one of us can make a good shot,
Speaker 4: we'd like gap bowling balls.
Speaker 7: Wow.
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, that's funny though, because it's corny to us.
Speaker 5: But if as long as you two were having.
Speaker 3: Fun, yeah yeah, same wavelength.
Speaker 4: I don't get me wrong. It was corey to us too,
Speaker 4: like we're not amaled to the fact that it was very,
Speaker 4: very corny.
Speaker 6: Yeah right, okay, having a great time exactly.
Speaker 4: But somewhere in the night, her mood changed all of
Speaker 4: a sudden. You know, I was like, what's wrong, and
Speaker 4: then she's like nothing, I just I think they cleaned
Speaker 4: these shoes wrong or something, because my feet are all
Speaker 4: itchy all of a sudden.
Speaker 3: I would go with you didn't clean them if that
Speaker 3: was the case.
Speaker 4: I hope not. I felt like mine, we're clean, so
Speaker 4: I'm hoping they cleaned him. But I don't know. She
Speaker 4: was really weird about.
Speaker 2: It, or they couldn't have been like a line, because
Speaker 2: sometimes women are like, oh, I need to get out
Speaker 2: of this itchy sweat, Like yeah, is that.
Speaker 1: Not in the middle case?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 4: Maybe not.
Speaker 3: You can't think of it, Like what else could have
Speaker 3: changed her mood? Like did you do something? Say something?
Speaker 4: I don't think so okay. I was thrown out suggestions
Speaker 4: like what's get you? They did clean them all and
Speaker 4: she's don't know, I just gotta go. Oh no, she
Speaker 4: you know, started packing up to leave, but I stuck
Speaker 4: around because we don't even going about forty minutes at
Speaker 4: that point, and I paid for a full hour the hour.
Speaker 2: You didn't walk her out and leave with her?
Speaker 4: No, Like after the one time I was like with you,
Speaker 4: she was like no, but like if you want to,
Speaker 4: that's cool, but like no, that means.
Speaker 5: Yes, that means yes, yes, yes, yes, the girls says,
Speaker 5: if you want to maybe.
Speaker 6: Walk her outside at least wait for the uber walk
Speaker 6: make sure.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think she was safe.
Speaker 6: You think it's not even about the safety thing, it's
Speaker 6: just about like that's how politeness.
Speaker 2: Being a gentleman. Trust me, dude, I'm a Jew. I
Speaker 2: understand trying to get the full value for the hour
Speaker 2: that you paid for. But even I know you got
Speaker 2: to walk out with her.
Speaker 3: Did you text her anything?
Speaker 4: I did? You know? I texted her a little later
Speaker 4: to see if she got home safe, and I haven't
Speaker 4: heard anything back from her, And like, maybe I really
Speaker 4: messed up on that going outside.
Speaker 2: Okay, Well that definitely went onto your cons list that
Speaker 2: she made for you. We should ask what else is
Speaker 2: on and when we come back, we'll call Hannah and
Speaker 2: try and get you a second.
Speaker 1: Date update right after this. Okay, thanks? All right, hold
Speaker 1: on second date update.
Speaker 2: Quick recap of the events of Connor's date night with Hannah. Okay,
Speaker 2: there was bowling, laughter, inside jokes, It's fun. Hannah's itchy feet,
Speaker 2: shoe problem question mark. Yeah, she leaves, Connor stays to
Speaker 2: get his money's worth. No communication since Connor, did I
Speaker 2: miss anything from that lightning fast recap?
Speaker 4: No? I think you got it all all right?
Speaker 3: Really good.
Speaker 6: Now have you heard from Amy the other girl that
Speaker 6: I'm just wondering if you have a backup if this
Speaker 6: doesn't work out?
Speaker 2: Okay, we probably shouldn't mention to Hannah that we do
Speaker 2: have a backup girl in case she says.
Speaker 3: No, no, no, I wasn't gonna say anything. I just
Speaker 3: didn't know how much pressure we had on ourselves. You're
Speaker 3: making this successful with Hannah.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and I'm sure there's like seven or eight backups
Speaker 2: in reality that Connor isn't telling us about. He's a
Speaker 2: man in demand, I see, but none of that will
Speaker 2: come up when we call Hannah right now?
Speaker 6: You ready to do this man talk about her possible
Speaker 6: foot fungus issue.
Speaker 2: We should ask to make sure she's okay.
Speaker 4: Connor? You ready, I'm ready? Thank you?
Speaker 2: All right, us two, Here we go. Good luck to everyone.
Speaker 1: Hello.
Speaker 2: Hey is this Hannah?
Speaker 1: Uh?
Speaker 7: This is she?
Speaker 4: Is this?
Speaker 2: And my name is jeff I'm a radio host on
Speaker 2: a show called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 3: Hey, Hannah, we're all here.
Speaker 7: Hey show, I know you guys. Yeah, what's going on?
Speaker 2: Is this?
Speaker 7: Are you guys pranking me?
Speaker 1: Or something?
Speaker 4: Is weird?
Speaker 3: So many people ask that, yeah, yeah, we continue to
Speaker 3: pray make the joke.
Speaker 5: So here's the scenario.
Speaker 4: No, we're doing Wait.
Speaker 7: Am I really on the radio?
Speaker 3: It was so fun, It's already fun.
Speaker 2: I'm glad you have this positive energy because we do
Speaker 2: want to ask you about I guess a little bit
Speaker 2: of an unfortunate date that we heard you went on
Speaker 2: recently with a guy named Connor.
Speaker 1: Oh god, yeah, really, it's.
Speaker 2: Too bad that your mood changed as soon as we
Speaker 2: brought up Connor in the date. You were really into
Speaker 2: it when you thought this was a prank.
Speaker 3: But like when people who would rather get pranks called
Speaker 3: than I know.
Speaker 2: A good sign. We did hear a little bit about
Speaker 2: what happened that night though from Connor.
Speaker 7: What did he tell?
Speaker 2: Well, we told us a lot. I just wanted to say,
Speaker 2: first of all, we're really sorry. That's disgusting that your
Speaker 2: feet were really itchy from the shoes and we had
Speaker 2: to leave. I hope you told management about it, because
Speaker 2: everyone here agrees that's a gross thing to have to
Speaker 2: deal with on a date night.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it was that an excuse or is that real?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 7: I didn't say anything to management because there was nothing
Speaker 7: wrong with my feet.
Speaker 5: You lie.
Speaker 3: Men are so shocked.
Speaker 5: Women don't lie.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that is a strange lie to come up with, honestly.
Speaker 7: Hannah, But I saw it. It was creative for the moment
Speaker 7: because I didn't have anything planned, Like, I didn't tell
Speaker 7: any of my girlfriends to call me in the middle
Speaker 7: of it, say there's an emergency or anything like that,
Speaker 7: so I really had to kind of thing quick on
Speaker 7: my feet.
Speaker 3: Oh look at that feet again?
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, Well there was something else that happened.
Speaker 7: Then, Oh my gosh, this is really weird. I mean, basically,
Speaker 7: we're bowling, we're having a really fun time, and then
Speaker 7: he got up to the bowl and a piece of
Speaker 7: paper falls out of his pocket. He doesn't notice. I
Speaker 7: pick it up and it's some list. It's like a
Speaker 7: pros and conflict.
Speaker 5: Oh he brought it on the table.
Speaker 3: My god, he actually wrote it down like I would
Speaker 3: feel like you do it in chap or something.
Speaker 7: Wait a second, how do you guys know about the list?
Speaker 2: I mean, we don't honestly know a whole lot about it.
Speaker 2: We heard of it, We heard that there is a
Speaker 2: pros and consoleist that was made.
Speaker 3: But about me, well, you know, it's hard.
Speaker 6: And he had decision to make on who we wanted
Speaker 6: to spend his time with, and you won.
Speaker 2: You have a lot of rose.
Speaker 5: You know.
Speaker 6: He's like a methodical person, Like methodical people do that
Speaker 6: type of thing.
Speaker 7: You know.
Speaker 2: Can we ask why you were offended by it?
Speaker 7: Con?
Speaker 5: No one wants to read your own call, even if
Speaker 5: you know what it is.
Speaker 6: And it's like you can have ten compliments and one
Speaker 6: negative and you're gonna remember the negative.
Speaker 5: Please tell me the con was like way too pretty,
Speaker 5: way too.
Speaker 4: Right.
Speaker 7: The cons were like forced smile and not attractive as
Speaker 7: the other girl I'm talking to.
Speaker 5: He spelled it out.
Speaker 4: If you're I'm so sorry, No, no, no, no, no.
Speaker 1: Ye, oh god, okay, here's.
Speaker 2: Ye Hannah.
Speaker 4: You know that.
Speaker 2: That's Connor on the other line. He's been listening to this.
Speaker 3: It's just haunted him really badly.
Speaker 2: Right now, Connor, did you not notice that a list
Speaker 2: was missing from your pocket when it fell out?
Speaker 1: I didn't.
Speaker 4: I didn't even know it was in my pocket. I honestly, Uh.
Speaker 4: I grew embarrassed because I didn't mean for you to see.
Speaker 7: That in the first place, Like that out weird, hang
Speaker 7: on it.
Speaker 4: But here's the thing that that was about you? What what? No?
Speaker 7: No?
Speaker 4: No, So I had started talking. I had started talking
Speaker 4: to this other girl because it took so long for
Speaker 4: you to get back to me. You remember how there
Speaker 4: was like that long gap between when I asked you out.
Speaker 7: And you finally said you traveling.
Speaker 6: I think I.
Speaker 4: Know that now, but I thought you were just ghosted
Speaker 4: me at the end. So like I made this list
Speaker 4: to decide which one of the two of you go
Speaker 4: out with it, you actually you won. That was That's
Speaker 4: the that's the compless for her.
Speaker 2: Oh was about the other girls. About Hannah.
Speaker 5: Okay, you're the cue one, not.
Speaker 3: Her, Hannah. He did tell us about the other girl.
Speaker 3: Her name was Amy. He told us all about.
Speaker 4: I just don't.
Speaker 1: Honest, it's true.
Speaker 2: He mentioned that there was there was another woman and
Speaker 2: he was bummed out that he had to move on
Speaker 2: from you.
Speaker 4: Yeah, like you have a super Your way for track
Speaker 4: is super normal.
Speaker 2: Smile.
Speaker 7: I hope Amy is listening, okay, And I'll tell you what.
Speaker 7: If you want me to go on a date with you,
Speaker 7: you have to read me the pros and conflict made
Speaker 7: about me.
Speaker 2: God Connor, if you're really into her, you might have
Speaker 2: to do this, Bud, and be honest. Don't make up
Speaker 2: a bunch of nice things on the spot.
Speaker 3: You have a bunch of nice things.
Speaker 4: Let me find it somewhere.
Speaker 3: Why are people always asking questions that they don't really
Speaker 3: want the answer to.
Speaker 2: It's well, she won in the competition between the two
Speaker 2: of them. Theoretically these are nice.
Speaker 7: I want to know for sure that that list that
Speaker 7: I read wasn't the list about me.
Speaker 3: Okay. This is the proof that that one was about
Speaker 3: Amy and this one's that.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 4: So the first one that you could possibly have emotional baggage,
Speaker 4: you know, she told me you had been like engaged before, and.
Speaker 2: That was in the cons I'm guessing like.
Speaker 4: Stepping away from engagement, can wait on people. That's all
Speaker 4: I'm saying.
Speaker 2: That's not like a like a Okay, on the next Connor, don't,
Speaker 2: let's go into a different one.
Speaker 4: Okay, Okay. The next one was that you might you
Speaker 4: were maybe too into reading because you know, because.
Speaker 3: Reading, you're actually too literate. He only likes semi literate.
Speaker 4: Like, like I said, I was just worried that you
Speaker 4: were gonna be like too introverted, you know, like sometimes
Speaker 4: when people read a lot, they don't.
Speaker 2: Oh, okay, it's not that you don't want her to
Speaker 2: read it all.
Speaker 4: It's just yeah, I love I love people who are literated.
Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, Connor will only have time for one more
Speaker 2: from your list, so pick a good one.
Speaker 7: I can't believe there's so many.
Speaker 6: Off.
Speaker 4: Okay. My last Connor list was that you didn't come
Speaker 4: from a wealthy family.
Speaker 6: Hey, I didn't come from a wealthy family either, And
Speaker 6: it's also a con on my list.
Speaker 4: I'd always dreamed about, like marrying the family and spending
Speaker 4: like summers like lake house.
Speaker 2: Yeah that sounds kind of nice.
Speaker 4: Not like a deal breakers, just the thing that was
Speaker 4: on my list.
Speaker 2: And despite all of those cons against you, Hannah. He
Speaker 2: still chose to go out with you over the other girl.
Speaker 3: I liked that he actually doesn't know her family, but
Speaker 3: he's just assuming that.
Speaker 4: She's We had talked about, how we talked about, how
Speaker 4: we grew up.
Speaker 7: I do can I get say something please? Connor? On
Speaker 7: first off, it doesn't seem like you come from a
Speaker 7: wealthy family that you have a lake house.
Speaker 5: Of course does your family.
Speaker 4: Grade?
Speaker 7: And then the other thing, we don't have a lake house.
Speaker 7: We have a beach house in May.
Speaker 5: Wow.
Speaker 2: Actually sounds like old money who wants to go swimming
Speaker 2: in Maine?
Speaker 6: Though?
Speaker 7: Okay, well my grandfather's.
Speaker 5: And then this is like freaking apple.
Speaker 2: Look, we're running out of time. Yeah, sure, we're running
Speaker 2: out of time here. We got to ask you, Hannah.
Speaker 2: And before we even ask, like, clearly that list shouldn't
Speaker 2: make that big of a deal because he chose you
Speaker 2: despite all of these things.
Speaker 5: And he never thought you were gonna.
Speaker 3: See that last Yeah, he would love sounds pretty earnest.
Speaker 2: I would love to go out with you one more time,
Speaker 2: improve himself and we'll pay for that date.
Speaker 4: Really would? I mean?
Speaker 7: Connor super He's very nice and very sweet, But I
Speaker 7: have two words and that pale. No.
Speaker 2: Okay, do you have any like friends from a wealthy
Speaker 2: family that maybe it may be cousins. They'll take anybody.
Speaker 1: Brook Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 2: Oh, that might be my biggest regret of the entire year,
Speaker 2: right there, get in him a date? Yeah, not getting
Speaker 2: her to say yes.
Speaker 3: Oh d she was going to say no even before
Speaker 3: she asked for the cons list. I think she just
Speaker 3: wanted to hear she was having fun.
Speaker 2: It's just I'm thinking, how cool would it have been
Speaker 2: to do a second eate update update with an adjusted
Speaker 2: pros and cons list and we could haven't heard hers
Speaker 2: that she makes about him. Actually, this is a great
Speaker 2: idea for a date night, Broke, you and your husband
Speaker 2: should try this.
Speaker 6: This is the stuff that comes up later in arguments,
Speaker 6: like two years down the road. Yeah, you remember when
Speaker 6: you said that my family wasn't rich.
Speaker 3: Do you remember when you said that, like.
Speaker 5: Michael, how can neither of us have any program?
Speaker 2: I think, right, And I'll do it on separate pieces
Speaker 2: of paper, scatter them all across the table, and then
Speaker 2: you take turns picking up one pro or one con
Speaker 2: and reading the.
Speaker 5: Family to a hot note. Con isn't willing to work.
Speaker 4: With her family.
Speaker 2: Yeah, well I think it could be romantic. You should
Speaker 2: give it a shot. You should also give us a shot.
Speaker 2: If you need some help getting a hold of that
Speaker 2: person who isn't calling you back, we'll.
Speaker 4: Call him for you.
Speaker 1: Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.