1 00:00:02,200 --> 00:00:05,600 Speaker 1: What's up? What's up this lift service? I mean, ye, reguire, 2 00:00:05,800 --> 00:00:12,160 Speaker 1: I'm Larry. Oh wait my name is it's my wife's 3 00:00:14,320 --> 00:00:16,640 Speaker 1: well listen, we are looking to you guys today for 4 00:00:16,720 --> 00:00:20,720 Speaker 1: so much great information. First of all, congratulations and being uh. 5 00:00:20,760 --> 00:00:23,520 Speaker 1: I guess are you still considered like newly webs right now? 6 00:00:24,520 --> 00:00:29,600 Speaker 1: I think so? Yeah, but I think so until you 7 00:00:29,600 --> 00:00:32,760 Speaker 1: say you're not right? All right, I'll tell your first 8 00:00:32,800 --> 00:00:35,879 Speaker 1: anniversary you guys are newly right, and I love to 9 00:00:35,880 --> 00:00:38,279 Speaker 1: see it like I love first of all, how positive 10 00:00:38,320 --> 00:00:41,040 Speaker 1: and happy you guys are, and also just promoting this 11 00:00:41,120 --> 00:00:46,600 Speaker 1: like lifestyle of wellness and meditation and yoga, right, that 12 00:00:46,800 --> 00:00:48,720 Speaker 1: is so dope to me. So I just want to 13 00:00:48,720 --> 00:00:51,320 Speaker 1: come here jaw thank you, thank you. Yes, I'll tell 14 00:00:51,360 --> 00:00:53,920 Speaker 1: you're looking good, y'all. Ain't shape. I'll trick to that 15 00:00:55,320 --> 00:00:58,880 Speaker 1: even different corner glowing you glow, You're glowing up under 16 00:00:58,880 --> 00:01:01,360 Speaker 1: the head girl always you don't never have a shirt 17 00:01:01,440 --> 00:01:03,080 Speaker 1: on here. It's like a swell pack. I mean, I 18 00:01:03,160 --> 00:01:10,840 Speaker 1: have to keep up back a lot of work. So 19 00:01:10,959 --> 00:01:13,280 Speaker 1: how has quarantine been for you guys? And then we're 20 00:01:13,280 --> 00:01:15,160 Speaker 1: gonna get all in your business as a couple because 21 00:01:15,200 --> 00:01:17,840 Speaker 1: I feel like you can educate us on a lot. Yeah, 22 00:01:18,120 --> 00:01:22,480 Speaker 1: all right, you gonna go first. So quarantine has been interesting, 23 00:01:22,520 --> 00:01:25,800 Speaker 1: to say the least for me. Um. I've had my 24 00:01:25,880 --> 00:01:29,000 Speaker 1: ups and downs with quarantine and being like isolated or whatnot. 25 00:01:29,000 --> 00:01:32,720 Speaker 1: But I think, um, you know, it's been it's been 26 00:01:33,160 --> 00:01:35,440 Speaker 1: great for the most part in an interesting way because 27 00:01:35,440 --> 00:01:37,400 Speaker 1: I think just setting the intention of what I want 28 00:01:38,200 --> 00:01:40,200 Speaker 1: to happen during this time, would don't want to create 29 00:01:40,280 --> 00:01:42,520 Speaker 1: after the fact, after this madness is all over it. 30 00:01:42,600 --> 00:01:44,680 Speaker 1: So it's like, uh, in the beginning, though, it was 31 00:01:44,800 --> 00:01:47,400 Speaker 1: very trying times because we had just came off honeymoon 32 00:01:47,440 --> 00:01:49,400 Speaker 1: and stuff and traveling and we were just in this 33 00:01:49,480 --> 00:01:52,400 Speaker 1: peaceful space to traveling back over to the United States 34 00:01:52,400 --> 00:01:56,080 Speaker 1: to just being in an actual pandemic and like shutdown 35 00:01:56,080 --> 00:01:58,400 Speaker 1: as soon as we got here. So uh, in the beginning, 36 00:01:58,440 --> 00:02:00,640 Speaker 1: like the first week, we can half or it was 37 00:02:00,720 --> 00:02:02,080 Speaker 1: like it was a little tough. You know, we had 38 00:02:02,120 --> 00:02:05,440 Speaker 1: have some downs. You know, yeah it's just miscommunication, you know, 39 00:02:05,480 --> 00:02:08,160 Speaker 1: hearing there between me and her. So um, But after 40 00:02:08,160 --> 00:02:10,360 Speaker 1: a while, you know, I was able to gain some 41 00:02:10,480 --> 00:02:13,560 Speaker 1: type of like you know, consistency, wouldn't really uh kind 42 00:02:13,560 --> 00:02:17,000 Speaker 1: of settle myself down and then understand what's happening and 43 00:02:17,000 --> 00:02:19,560 Speaker 1: then say, all right, let me just feed my mind 44 00:02:19,639 --> 00:02:21,800 Speaker 1: and my body full of just like things that's gonna 45 00:02:22,360 --> 00:02:24,919 Speaker 1: keep me uplifted and keep me healthy. So keep my 46 00:02:25,000 --> 00:02:27,200 Speaker 1: mind focus and learning and gone, you know what I'm saying, 47 00:02:27,240 --> 00:02:29,840 Speaker 1: and not just going back into the fear of everything else. 48 00:02:29,919 --> 00:02:33,760 Speaker 1: So um yeah, But throughout this episode, just so y'all know, 49 00:02:33,800 --> 00:02:36,639 Speaker 1: we're gonna be playing games with y'all to see, uh 50 00:02:36,919 --> 00:02:39,760 Speaker 1: who does something. It's kind of a newly ware game throughout, 51 00:02:39,760 --> 00:02:43,160 Speaker 1: so we're gonna get questions. So first, but is who 52 00:02:43,200 --> 00:02:53,400 Speaker 1: initiates sex? More? Oh, y'all, And I'm stuck here with 53 00:02:53,520 --> 00:03:00,400 Speaker 1: courting with him? Kil you got because I'm wish I 54 00:03:00,480 --> 00:03:06,320 Speaker 1: was quarantined with a bag. Okay, the girl the grass 55 00:03:06,360 --> 00:03:10,880 Speaker 1: is always greener on nowither side. I feel like I'm 56 00:03:11,919 --> 00:03:18,720 Speaker 1: in the house. That's why he got twelve facts. And 57 00:03:18,760 --> 00:03:20,720 Speaker 1: we were just talking about that yesterday. This man like 58 00:03:20,840 --> 00:03:25,720 Speaker 1: incorporate exercising and sex. Hold on, hold on what I'm like? 59 00:03:26,480 --> 00:03:31,040 Speaker 1: You know it? He's not counting? Is you're not counting 60 00:03:31,160 --> 00:03:33,720 Speaker 1: in my county? Yeah? Like raps, Like here we go, 61 00:03:35,520 --> 00:03:39,600 Speaker 1: you know, because to least get into like you know, positions, 62 00:03:39,640 --> 00:03:41,960 Speaker 1: I think, or just try, you know, just try new stuff. 63 00:03:42,000 --> 00:03:43,880 Speaker 1: Man to take myself. I mean it is that you 64 00:03:44,000 --> 00:03:46,400 Speaker 1: flex a bunch of positions in order to get to 65 00:03:46,480 --> 00:03:49,480 Speaker 1: certain you know what I like. I like the process. 66 00:03:49,520 --> 00:03:51,760 Speaker 1: I like that do you keep it real? You'd be 67 00:03:51,800 --> 00:03:54,440 Speaker 1: doing them squats though, and you know the backward squad 68 00:03:54,800 --> 00:03:57,600 Speaker 1: look I've been doing to the girl money is only 69 00:03:57,640 --> 00:04:00,040 Speaker 1: but so strong. But you know it's saying that on 70 00:04:00,120 --> 00:04:04,440 Speaker 1: my She's like, I didn't make this value. Now we're 71 00:04:04,480 --> 00:04:08,320 Speaker 1: working on it. I'm working. Have y'all ever done something 72 00:04:08,360 --> 00:04:14,040 Speaker 1: like on a headstand? Like do you all experiment like that? Deep? 73 00:04:14,480 --> 00:04:17,960 Speaker 1: But we have like a book not yet, It's like, 74 00:04:18,120 --> 00:04:21,599 Speaker 1: of course, it's a whole book of exercises and sex 75 00:04:21,680 --> 00:04:24,400 Speaker 1: that also give your workout at the same time. So wow. 76 00:04:24,760 --> 00:04:26,599 Speaker 1: Sometimes we'll just take it out and be like, Okay, 77 00:04:26,600 --> 00:04:29,159 Speaker 1: which one you want to try? Like the ghetto Karma Sutra? 78 00:04:30,279 --> 00:04:38,039 Speaker 1: I buy it, like a good Karma sutra. That's that's 79 00:04:38,080 --> 00:04:42,159 Speaker 1: kind of little. I would buy that ricking. I'll take 80 00:04:42,200 --> 00:04:47,920 Speaker 1: ten percent dricking. Now I want to ask you this, Uman, 81 00:04:48,040 --> 00:04:50,599 Speaker 1: So after you mit Sheila, obviously you like you guys 82 00:04:50,680 --> 00:04:53,440 Speaker 1: have been educating each other and a lot of different things. 83 00:04:53,480 --> 00:04:55,320 Speaker 1: You've said that you were surprised he even wanted to 84 00:04:55,360 --> 00:04:57,600 Speaker 1: talk to you, and you felt insecure at first when 85 00:04:57,600 --> 00:05:00,360 Speaker 1: you guys started dating, just because you to look at 86 00:05:00,360 --> 00:05:02,080 Speaker 1: yourself as a type of person, which, by the way, 87 00:05:02,160 --> 00:05:04,800 Speaker 1: I can't see how you wouldn't. Yeah, yeah, beautiful, Yeah, 88 00:05:04,839 --> 00:05:07,680 Speaker 1: who are rapper? You know, but lifestyle wise, maybe it 89 00:05:07,720 --> 00:05:09,680 Speaker 1: is what you meant. But let me ask you this, 90 00:05:10,240 --> 00:05:14,080 Speaker 1: how has sex improved just come improving like your diet 91 00:05:14,160 --> 00:05:16,640 Speaker 1: and yoga. Has that improved the way that you have 92 00:05:16,720 --> 00:05:19,600 Speaker 1: sex in the way that your orgasm? Yes, it does, 93 00:05:20,320 --> 00:05:23,000 Speaker 1: it does. Um, you know my energy man, like I'm 94 00:05:23,040 --> 00:05:25,039 Speaker 1: always like I'm just like a machine. I feel like. 95 00:05:25,080 --> 00:05:27,880 Speaker 1: So it's like for me on metabolism, you know, it's 96 00:05:27,960 --> 00:05:30,359 Speaker 1: low and not just you know, I'm constantly like earning. 97 00:05:30,440 --> 00:05:32,960 Speaker 1: So for me, it's always it makes it that much 98 00:05:33,000 --> 00:05:35,440 Speaker 1: more fun. So I feel like being in shape and 99 00:05:35,839 --> 00:05:37,719 Speaker 1: for sure doing all of our do and in my 100 00:05:37,800 --> 00:05:41,479 Speaker 1: exercising world definitely helps from sex one percent. And I 101 00:05:41,520 --> 00:05:45,279 Speaker 1: think it's a woman. The more comfortable, the more confidence 102 00:05:45,320 --> 00:05:46,840 Speaker 1: you feel about your body, Like you know how this 103 00:05:46,880 --> 00:05:48,680 Speaker 1: is when you work out like three days You're like, oh, 104 00:05:48,720 --> 00:05:52,159 Speaker 1: I feel like results already, Like you go, you feel 105 00:05:52,160 --> 00:05:55,360 Speaker 1: fitter about yourself. You're more to me than that translates 106 00:05:55,400 --> 00:05:57,880 Speaker 1: to sex, because you can bring yourself into this, into 107 00:05:57,880 --> 00:05:59,800 Speaker 1: the bedroom, you know what I'm saying. So for me, 108 00:06:00,000 --> 00:06:02,920 Speaker 1: the better I feel about myself, the more I'm gonna 109 00:06:02,960 --> 00:06:06,360 Speaker 1: be adventurous, I'm gonna be excited, I'm gonna have more energy, 110 00:06:06,400 --> 00:06:09,800 Speaker 1: and so I think it does translate. Sure, yeah, because 111 00:06:09,839 --> 00:06:12,320 Speaker 1: sometimes people be nervous, like I think women, we can 112 00:06:12,400 --> 00:06:14,600 Speaker 1: be very self conscious, like we want the lights off, 113 00:06:16,200 --> 00:06:17,760 Speaker 1: and then you'll be trying to suck your stomach in 114 00:06:17,880 --> 00:06:20,600 Speaker 1: at the same time that you're trying to ask She'd like, 115 00:06:20,680 --> 00:06:22,279 Speaker 1: don't you now because you don't know what this is 116 00:06:22,320 --> 00:06:24,640 Speaker 1: like okay, yeah, in fact, your stomach in in your sleep, 117 00:06:24,760 --> 00:06:28,680 Speaker 1: so that ain't gonna work. I received these compliments. I'm 118 00:06:28,720 --> 00:06:33,599 Speaker 1: just like women. I'm just receive the conflience she talked about. Said, yeah, 119 00:06:33,600 --> 00:06:35,680 Speaker 1: like everyway, gotta worry about none of these things. But 120 00:06:35,720 --> 00:06:38,640 Speaker 1: it is true, like we do sometimes overthink it. And 121 00:06:38,680 --> 00:06:41,760 Speaker 1: I know they always say guys really just don't care. 122 00:06:41,880 --> 00:06:43,680 Speaker 1: As long as they sucking, they're good. But I don't 123 00:06:43,680 --> 00:06:46,520 Speaker 1: know that that is that true. No, that's not true. 124 00:06:47,000 --> 00:06:48,960 Speaker 1: Well at least for me, it's not. You know, it's 125 00:06:48,960 --> 00:06:51,680 Speaker 1: an experience, you know. I think any time we get 126 00:06:51,760 --> 00:06:54,320 Speaker 1: to connect, man, it's like again setting the attention and 127 00:06:54,400 --> 00:06:58,039 Speaker 1: like it's always just like a dope experience. It's like, um, 128 00:06:58,360 --> 00:07:00,520 Speaker 1: me enjoying her body to me, being able to like 129 00:07:00,640 --> 00:07:03,400 Speaker 1: explore like I love that, you know, and watching her 130 00:07:03,520 --> 00:07:06,320 Speaker 1: as the process is actually happening, you know, and unwrapping 131 00:07:06,400 --> 00:07:09,400 Speaker 1: them folding like I love step by step. So for me, 132 00:07:09,480 --> 00:07:12,160 Speaker 1: it's not just sex or it's not just me fucking 133 00:07:12,240 --> 00:07:14,920 Speaker 1: or anything like that. It's always just an experience that 134 00:07:14,960 --> 00:07:17,680 Speaker 1: I'm grateful for, happy to be a part of. I 135 00:07:17,680 --> 00:07:20,480 Speaker 1: think it's too Men don't have that pressure to look perfect. 136 00:07:21,800 --> 00:07:27,200 Speaker 1: Nothing not a little perfect pressure. You'll see the most 137 00:07:27,240 --> 00:07:30,800 Speaker 1: ready to dude no no, don't care talking about what 138 00:07:31,440 --> 00:07:33,160 Speaker 1: table and y'all ain't gonna tell what you got the 139 00:07:33,240 --> 00:07:37,040 Speaker 1: folding table you bring on when you play, talking about 140 00:07:37,080 --> 00:07:38,480 Speaker 1: what you bring it to the table start you don't 141 00:07:38,480 --> 00:07:40,760 Speaker 1: even have real table. And I feel like men don't 142 00:07:40,800 --> 00:07:44,040 Speaker 1: have that pressure. They just look out, they don't care whatever, 143 00:07:44,160 --> 00:07:46,400 Speaker 1: and they're just coming like I'm fine. But women, it's 144 00:07:46,480 --> 00:07:50,160 Speaker 1: like there's a pressure to be perfect. Men do have 145 00:07:50,240 --> 00:07:52,600 Speaker 1: different pressures, right, like more like to be more of 146 00:07:52,640 --> 00:07:56,800 Speaker 1: a provider and bring the money. That's a good point, 147 00:07:57,120 --> 00:08:00,520 Speaker 1: money power. I felt like rispect, but because it's like 148 00:08:00,560 --> 00:08:03,760 Speaker 1: I couldn't you know you, A guy becomes more attractive, 149 00:08:03,800 --> 00:08:06,320 Speaker 1: the more respected he is, the more powerful he is, 150 00:08:06,520 --> 00:08:08,960 Speaker 1: because if he's just getting hurt, you're like, get this 151 00:08:09,040 --> 00:08:12,960 Speaker 1: little hugly mother out out of my face. Let me 152 00:08:12,960 --> 00:08:21,880 Speaker 1: answer this. Who is more likely to fall asleep after sex? Yeah, 153 00:08:23,720 --> 00:08:28,200 Speaker 1: and antestipate that one. I thought. I thought it was 154 00:08:28,240 --> 00:08:34,559 Speaker 1: definitely gonna be asad yes, because we always think guys 155 00:08:34,600 --> 00:08:36,719 Speaker 1: fall asleep after sex. But I'm glad you said that 156 00:08:36,760 --> 00:08:40,359 Speaker 1: because I said, that's me too. I'll be so relaxing 157 00:08:40,360 --> 00:08:46,120 Speaker 1: while he does a good job. It's what you're saying. 158 00:08:46,679 --> 00:08:49,080 Speaker 1: Orgasm says like make you feel like your soul coming 159 00:08:49,120 --> 00:08:52,280 Speaker 1: out of your body. Now, let's see how much you'll 160 00:08:52,280 --> 00:08:55,400 Speaker 1: talk to each other about everything. So said, can you 161 00:08:55,520 --> 00:08:59,640 Speaker 1: name who was shirless first love? I don't even know 162 00:08:59,640 --> 00:09:03,640 Speaker 1: if I actually who your first love was, but I 163 00:09:03,640 --> 00:09:07,600 Speaker 1: think that I think that there was somebody when you 164 00:09:07,600 --> 00:09:10,880 Speaker 1: were younger that you had a relationship with that kinda 165 00:09:10,920 --> 00:09:13,360 Speaker 1: love you almost there now, don't I don't know the name, 166 00:09:13,400 --> 00:09:17,720 Speaker 1: but I do know that thing more young relationship when 167 00:09:17,720 --> 00:09:19,560 Speaker 1: you were hurt. I think it was around high school 168 00:09:19,600 --> 00:09:33,280 Speaker 1: or something like that. No, I'm jacket, okay, so it's 169 00:09:33,320 --> 00:09:35,840 Speaker 1: a high school first lab. He broke your heart. I 170 00:09:35,880 --> 00:09:37,480 Speaker 1: don't know if he broke my heart. Feel like we 171 00:09:37,559 --> 00:09:39,480 Speaker 1: kind of grew apart with the fact that it didn't work. 172 00:09:39,480 --> 00:09:42,440 Speaker 1: Broke my heart? Okay. It's like, oh, you know, when 173 00:09:42,440 --> 00:09:44,559 Speaker 1: you're young, you think you're gonna get married my first 174 00:09:44,600 --> 00:09:47,320 Speaker 1: love of all that? All right? So who is asans 175 00:09:47,320 --> 00:09:54,160 Speaker 1: first love? Oh, she's like, I don't know if he knows. 176 00:09:56,600 --> 00:09:59,679 Speaker 1: I think it was h the one, the one where 177 00:09:59,720 --> 00:10:03,040 Speaker 1: you in the laptop thing and then y'all ended up 178 00:10:03,080 --> 00:10:08,320 Speaker 1: breaking up. You don't even know his own stories. He 179 00:10:08,400 --> 00:10:10,440 Speaker 1: looked at her like whore with a certain levels of 180 00:10:10,480 --> 00:10:13,640 Speaker 1: black love. I think I don't even think I know, 181 00:10:13,800 --> 00:10:15,640 Speaker 1: to be honest. You know what's interesting for me, I 182 00:10:15,679 --> 00:10:18,520 Speaker 1: think I experienced love very differently when I was coming 183 00:10:18,559 --> 00:10:20,920 Speaker 1: up and being in the industry, So I was, you know, 184 00:10:21,120 --> 00:10:23,800 Speaker 1: I didn't really allow myself to experience a deep level 185 00:10:23,840 --> 00:10:25,880 Speaker 1: of love before. What was he trying to say, is 186 00:10:25,920 --> 00:10:28,560 Speaker 1: the first love is right here. But I said that 187 00:10:28,559 --> 00:10:34,280 Speaker 1: that was my answer. Now we want to hear this, 188 00:10:35,240 --> 00:10:37,400 Speaker 1: We want to hear the laptop story. What happened? Yeah, 189 00:10:37,440 --> 00:10:46,960 Speaker 1: come on now? So all right, So the first time, 190 00:10:47,040 --> 00:10:49,079 Speaker 1: a few singers I just had got signed at dep 191 00:10:49,320 --> 00:10:52,080 Speaker 1: Tion and we Best Music. We just dropped a single 192 00:10:52,120 --> 00:10:55,280 Speaker 1: around this time. Um, so I was new to the industry. 193 00:10:55,400 --> 00:10:57,760 Speaker 1: So we were dating for maybe like eight months a 194 00:10:57,920 --> 00:11:01,320 Speaker 1: year or something like that. And uh so one day 195 00:11:01,320 --> 00:11:03,480 Speaker 1: I come home from traveling or whatever, and then she's 196 00:11:03,520 --> 00:11:06,160 Speaker 1: not there. She's actually on the beach. Um. And as 197 00:11:06,160 --> 00:11:07,920 Speaker 1: soon as I get there, it's like the laptops and 198 00:11:08,040 --> 00:11:10,400 Speaker 1: on the computer, the laptop that I purchased her. And 199 00:11:10,440 --> 00:11:12,920 Speaker 1: as I proceeded to open the laptop, right so I'm 200 00:11:12,920 --> 00:11:16,520 Speaker 1: just told me to just check the laptop already been 201 00:11:16,520 --> 00:11:18,800 Speaker 1: going through like you know, I had already intuitively been 202 00:11:18,840 --> 00:11:22,560 Speaker 1: feeling like there's something deeper happening with the situation. Ended 203 00:11:22,600 --> 00:11:24,680 Speaker 1: up going through the laptop seeing all type of pictures 204 00:11:24,920 --> 00:11:29,120 Speaker 1: for her, and another dude again gave it. We got 205 00:11:29,160 --> 00:11:30,920 Speaker 1: on my scar phone, she got my shirt out of 206 00:11:31,480 --> 00:11:34,240 Speaker 1: It's like no, it's like it's it's it's there, it's there. 207 00:11:34,360 --> 00:11:37,320 Speaker 1: So me I just, you know, kindly need to call 208 00:11:37,400 --> 00:11:39,640 Speaker 1: and say hey. I didn't never of fact, I didn't 209 00:11:39,640 --> 00:11:41,839 Speaker 1: even say nothing because she was on the beach and 210 00:11:41,920 --> 00:11:45,599 Speaker 1: she was sick. She wasn't feeling well, so I was 211 00:11:45,679 --> 00:11:47,760 Speaker 1: actually playing that role of like, oh, I'm so sorry 212 00:11:47,800 --> 00:11:50,320 Speaker 1: that you don't feel well. Meantime, in the entire time, 213 00:11:50,400 --> 00:11:52,200 Speaker 1: it's like two or three floors, I'm bringing all her 214 00:11:52,200 --> 00:12:00,400 Speaker 1: stuff downstairs. I didn't hear. Basically, I was young, you 215 00:12:00,400 --> 00:12:03,240 Speaker 1: know what, My sisters, it was. It was active, and 216 00:12:03,360 --> 00:12:06,040 Speaker 1: it was like, you know, it ain't that that happens. 217 00:12:06,160 --> 00:12:11,760 Speaker 1: Did you take the laptop you bought back? Uh, the laptop? Yes, 218 00:12:11,880 --> 00:12:16,839 Speaker 1: I took the laptop. Yes, I took the laptop. Yeah yeah, yeah, 219 00:12:16,880 --> 00:12:19,640 Speaker 1: I stop. Yeah, I let it keep. Let me keep 220 00:12:20,000 --> 00:12:22,160 Speaker 1: the purchase in like shoes and stuff like that. But 221 00:12:22,240 --> 00:12:25,000 Speaker 1: I kept the laptop. Angela knows I had a similar 222 00:12:25,120 --> 00:12:28,560 Speaker 1: situation happened to me where I found out something through 223 00:12:28,600 --> 00:12:30,800 Speaker 1: a laptop I bought for him for Christmas, and I 224 00:12:30,960 --> 00:12:35,160 Speaker 1: rever danced on that motherfucking laptop. I broke the ship backwards. Yeah, 225 00:12:35,160 --> 00:12:37,439 Speaker 1: because I had a laptop already. I just wanted to 226 00:12:37,480 --> 00:12:41,160 Speaker 1: make sure that bitch didn't get to, you know, laptop, 227 00:12:41,840 --> 00:12:45,560 Speaker 1: I gonna use my laptop to cheat on me. Somebody 228 00:12:45,600 --> 00:12:48,280 Speaker 1: could have used that laptop well now, and it ain't 229 00:12:48,320 --> 00:12:50,959 Speaker 1: gonna be him. Jam. I think I think I was 230 00:12:51,000 --> 00:12:53,079 Speaker 1: actually a savage. I think I gave it to. I 231 00:12:53,120 --> 00:12:56,199 Speaker 1: think I gave it to you should have relationship. You 232 00:12:56,360 --> 00:12:58,360 Speaker 1: see you as a little I wanted him to feel 233 00:12:58,520 --> 00:13:01,160 Speaker 1: that laptopy, bro, and know that I've seen the mean 234 00:13:04,559 --> 00:13:09,480 Speaker 1: literally like the least part arriving back to the house 235 00:13:09,600 --> 00:13:12,640 Speaker 1: with all her snow reading her awaiting her as she 236 00:13:12,760 --> 00:13:15,800 Speaker 1: pulled up in the yard. That ship there, you don't 237 00:13:15,800 --> 00:13:18,000 Speaker 1: even even gotta worry about the least she was really 238 00:13:18,080 --> 00:13:21,040 Speaker 1: think that her move her stuff into her vehicle as 239 00:13:21,080 --> 00:13:23,600 Speaker 1: like she don't know what's happening. But I know what's happening. 240 00:13:23,640 --> 00:13:25,480 Speaker 1: And I got to jump on you. Throw them outside 241 00:13:25,520 --> 00:13:27,120 Speaker 1: with me and my sisters and they're like, yeah, run 242 00:13:27,200 --> 00:13:29,719 Speaker 1: it back up. So we're just they're posting like yeah, man, 243 00:13:29,800 --> 00:13:31,439 Speaker 1: like you know what it is. Did you take it 244 00:13:31,480 --> 00:13:34,800 Speaker 1: back after that? Uh? Did you take it back after that? No? 245 00:13:34,920 --> 00:13:39,920 Speaker 1: I don't take that. Have you ever taken somebody back 246 00:13:39,920 --> 00:13:45,400 Speaker 1: to cheating after cheating? No? No, you back after cheating? 247 00:13:46,800 --> 00:13:57,760 Speaker 1: Has anybody taken you back after cheating? Yes, surprised cheating it, 248 00:13:57,840 --> 00:14:01,199 Speaker 1: but y'all can't take it. Say it's very different from 249 00:14:01,320 --> 00:14:04,959 Speaker 1: each gender like women and like men will make this 250 00:14:05,080 --> 00:14:08,640 Speaker 1: whole story that you're like almost praise for how much 251 00:14:08,679 --> 00:14:13,040 Speaker 1: bullshit you can take. But yeah, right, we do one 252 00:14:13,080 --> 00:14:17,760 Speaker 1: thing and it's like one thing. I'm saying that, yeah, period, 253 00:14:18,760 --> 00:14:23,120 Speaker 1: but they can't take it. But about you, ladies, have 254 00:14:23,280 --> 00:14:28,400 Speaker 1: y'all ever taken somebody back after they cheated? Look at it, 255 00:14:30,640 --> 00:14:35,240 Speaker 1: she's kind of be funny. How about you, Angela? Have 256 00:14:35,400 --> 00:14:40,920 Speaker 1: you ever taken somebody back after cheating? I'm sure I have. Yeah, 257 00:14:41,360 --> 00:14:44,640 Speaker 1: but I love I've been taken back after cheating too, 258 00:14:45,240 --> 00:14:49,360 Speaker 1: I have to. I definitely have brand did relate? Like 259 00:14:49,480 --> 00:14:51,200 Speaker 1: was it different? Did you always show up where you 260 00:14:51,240 --> 00:14:54,560 Speaker 1: felt like I've done well? It's never the same after 261 00:14:55,400 --> 00:14:57,920 Speaker 1: it was different, like after cheating is never the same. 262 00:14:58,120 --> 00:15:00,360 Speaker 1: And they always bring it out just like we always 263 00:15:00,400 --> 00:15:03,440 Speaker 1: look like and you know, you agree to put in 264 00:15:03,480 --> 00:15:05,720 Speaker 1: the past and from this day forward, will never speak 265 00:15:05,760 --> 00:15:07,880 Speaker 1: on it again. The first argument, that's the first thing 266 00:15:08,000 --> 00:15:10,480 Speaker 1: they come over, and you was sucking that mega. You's 267 00:15:10,480 --> 00:15:14,480 Speaker 1: sucking that bitch like it's okay. To me, it's it's 268 00:15:14,520 --> 00:15:18,160 Speaker 1: tricky because like the cheating to me, is like a symptom, 269 00:15:18,440 --> 00:15:21,640 Speaker 1: Like you know, if you are coughing, it's a symptom 270 00:15:21,680 --> 00:15:24,320 Speaker 1: of something else, like you is it your respiratory is? 271 00:15:24,440 --> 00:15:27,480 Speaker 1: Like what's going on? It's making you call? Is it coronavirus? 272 00:15:27,760 --> 00:15:30,760 Speaker 1: For some? And so you just ain't share if you 273 00:15:30,760 --> 00:15:33,040 Speaker 1: don't look at what caused the cheating, like what laid 274 00:15:33,080 --> 00:15:35,160 Speaker 1: the foundation for the cheating, Like why did you teach cheat? 275 00:15:35,200 --> 00:15:38,560 Speaker 1: Like men sometimes cheating power. They want to feel dominance. 276 00:15:38,640 --> 00:15:40,760 Speaker 1: You want to make sure like if you don't because 277 00:15:40,840 --> 00:15:43,480 Speaker 1: their mama wasn't shipped and they didn't treat them like ship. 278 00:15:43,880 --> 00:15:47,360 Speaker 1: Can you talk about this? I'mlike, but I ain't about 279 00:15:47,400 --> 00:15:48,800 Speaker 1: to have to deal with that for the rest of 280 00:15:48,880 --> 00:15:53,160 Speaker 1: my life because your mama very baggage. Yeah, if they're 281 00:15:53,200 --> 00:15:56,040 Speaker 1: willing to, if they're willing to talk about it, you'll 282 00:15:56,080 --> 00:15:57,960 Speaker 1: willing to look at it. It could maybe, but if not, 283 00:15:58,120 --> 00:16:01,080 Speaker 1: it's just gonna keep shawing. It's like go same cycle. 284 00:16:01,400 --> 00:16:03,320 Speaker 1: But let me let me ask this next question. Who 285 00:16:03,440 --> 00:16:06,960 Speaker 1: was the first person to talk about marriage? You know, 286 00:16:11,520 --> 00:16:15,480 Speaker 1: he doesn't even point or say anything. He don't even 287 00:16:15,560 --> 00:16:19,400 Speaker 1: blink because you know, man, you know it's different for guys. Man, 288 00:16:19,480 --> 00:16:22,080 Speaker 1: you know, like me coming from where I came from, um, 289 00:16:22,680 --> 00:16:24,440 Speaker 1: as a man, you feel like you need your finances 290 00:16:24,480 --> 00:16:26,320 Speaker 1: and everything. You know, you need ducks in the road 291 00:16:26,640 --> 00:16:28,240 Speaker 1: in order to feel like you want to be in 292 00:16:28,280 --> 00:16:30,000 Speaker 1: a position to get married and what the rest with 293 00:16:30,640 --> 00:16:35,160 Speaker 1: issues with yourself financial issues, uh, life issues outside of that, 294 00:16:35,440 --> 00:16:38,840 Speaker 1: you know. So it's it's just a lot that comes 295 00:16:38,880 --> 00:16:41,320 Speaker 1: with that. But why do you think guys are like that? 296 00:16:41,400 --> 00:16:43,600 Speaker 1: Because why don't they feel like, Okay, this woman is 297 00:16:43,640 --> 00:16:46,480 Speaker 1: down for me even if ship isn't all the way together. 298 00:16:46,600 --> 00:16:49,320 Speaker 1: Instead they are just like, well, I don't have my 299 00:16:49,360 --> 00:16:53,440 Speaker 1: ship together, So like I don't understand why men and 300 00:16:53,520 --> 00:16:55,480 Speaker 1: not talked compassion. You know what, men and not talked 301 00:16:55,560 --> 00:16:58,440 Speaker 1: how to be empathetic? You know, men are we just 302 00:16:59,440 --> 00:17:02,280 Speaker 1: are basically really like uh, guys who work hard to 303 00:17:02,360 --> 00:17:05,000 Speaker 1: provide for our families, and in our mind, if we 304 00:17:05,080 --> 00:17:07,560 Speaker 1: can't do that at a at a healthy level, a 305 00:17:07,640 --> 00:17:09,600 Speaker 1: high level, we feel like, you know, that's what we 306 00:17:09,680 --> 00:17:12,080 Speaker 1: placed a lot of our work in our finance. For 307 00:17:12,200 --> 00:17:15,240 Speaker 1: men in general, it's like where their energy power and 308 00:17:15,320 --> 00:17:18,240 Speaker 1: all of that security lies is in that so um, 309 00:17:19,359 --> 00:17:21,960 Speaker 1: you know the moment though you actually have compassion and 310 00:17:22,080 --> 00:17:24,520 Speaker 1: you know for yourself, it's kind of like understanding even 311 00:17:24,560 --> 00:17:27,520 Speaker 1: if you ain't there, you know how to um, you know, 312 00:17:28,520 --> 00:17:30,720 Speaker 1: be you know, trying to accept where you are and 313 00:17:30,800 --> 00:17:33,840 Speaker 1: didn't understand where you want to be. You know you like, man, 314 00:17:33,840 --> 00:17:36,120 Speaker 1: I ain't ship. I never came out and have nine 315 00:17:36,240 --> 00:17:37,920 Speaker 1: bits and not this there, but I would feel like 316 00:17:38,080 --> 00:17:40,159 Speaker 1: a woman being like I love you no matter what 317 00:17:40,240 --> 00:17:42,760 Speaker 1: would make you feel better, and you're like, well, let 318 00:17:42,800 --> 00:17:45,280 Speaker 1: me take her now that she loves me when I 319 00:17:45,359 --> 00:17:47,800 Speaker 1: don't have. But it's it's kind of like the opposite. 320 00:17:48,040 --> 00:17:50,360 Speaker 1: It's like, okay, well even though she loves me, I'm 321 00:17:50,359 --> 00:17:52,320 Speaker 1: gonna wait till I'm good and then I'll marry her. 322 00:17:52,440 --> 00:17:55,200 Speaker 1: And plus it quite into your song. You're very confident. 323 00:18:05,040 --> 00:18:10,000 Speaker 1: Don't tell me you'll be lying. Who's I'm confident. I'm 324 00:18:10,040 --> 00:18:13,720 Speaker 1: just I'm speaking on many but just seeing that man 325 00:18:13,760 --> 00:18:15,560 Speaker 1: and that like I've been there, you know, so I 326 00:18:15,600 --> 00:18:17,080 Speaker 1: can speak on it like I've been a man to 327 00:18:17,160 --> 00:18:19,760 Speaker 1: where it's like I thought that my uh, you know, 328 00:18:20,640 --> 00:18:23,200 Speaker 1: who I was existed in my finances, like whether or 329 00:18:23,240 --> 00:18:25,200 Speaker 1: not I was worthy or not insisted in the way 330 00:18:25,440 --> 00:18:27,800 Speaker 1: on on baseball, whether that I could provide for my 331 00:18:27,920 --> 00:18:30,440 Speaker 1: love them she did. So it's like once I maybe 332 00:18:30,480 --> 00:18:32,600 Speaker 1: got to a space or it's ever gotten intoto a 333 00:18:32,640 --> 00:18:35,800 Speaker 1: space to where I couldn't do that, I felt unworthy. Um, 334 00:18:36,240 --> 00:18:38,760 Speaker 1: you know, it's unworthy of love and all of this 335 00:18:38,880 --> 00:18:40,560 Speaker 1: other stuff. So you know when you don't have that 336 00:18:40,640 --> 00:18:43,200 Speaker 1: any life. So regardless of how she feels about me 337 00:18:43,320 --> 00:18:44,960 Speaker 1: or the love that she gives off to me, it's 338 00:18:45,000 --> 00:18:47,000 Speaker 1: like if I don't have it for myself, it's like 339 00:18:47,080 --> 00:18:49,040 Speaker 1: I can never really just take the love and she 340 00:18:49,119 --> 00:18:51,280 Speaker 1: got didn't really be able to appreciate it. So but 341 00:18:51,600 --> 00:18:53,560 Speaker 1: she like, you make good money, Now, would you have 342 00:18:53,800 --> 00:18:58,320 Speaker 1: been able to be okay? Like, look, you think you 343 00:18:58,359 --> 00:18:59,920 Speaker 1: could be okay with your woman making more of my 344 00:19:00,000 --> 00:19:03,520 Speaker 1: me to you me? Yeah, I know the guy here, 345 00:19:08,000 --> 00:19:15,040 Speaker 1: you know me? You know, would you would you feeling 346 00:19:15,080 --> 00:19:17,480 Speaker 1: secure about that? Or I think if I didn't have 347 00:19:17,600 --> 00:19:21,720 Speaker 1: a plan, I think I would feel insecure. Okay, should 348 00:19:21,760 --> 00:19:24,040 Speaker 1: be motivated. I think it should be motivated because you 349 00:19:24,119 --> 00:19:25,919 Speaker 1: might be in situations to where, say, if you got 350 00:19:26,000 --> 00:19:28,440 Speaker 1: a significant othern they make tons of money but or 351 00:19:28,480 --> 00:19:29,720 Speaker 1: whatever you mean, you know, you might be in a 352 00:19:29,760 --> 00:19:32,280 Speaker 1: situation where you make more money at a particular time, 353 00:19:32,359 --> 00:19:34,680 Speaker 1: but understanding that it's just that moment and that you 354 00:19:34,760 --> 00:19:36,840 Speaker 1: will figure it out until you get to that next thing. 355 00:19:36,920 --> 00:19:40,280 Speaker 1: So by having a plan, So I think that's always 356 00:19:40,320 --> 00:19:42,600 Speaker 1: good though, to know that if I need to handle 357 00:19:42,680 --> 00:19:45,360 Speaker 1: some other things, she got me, and then she knows 358 00:19:45,480 --> 00:19:47,520 Speaker 1: if I gotta handle some things he got me. It's 359 00:19:47,600 --> 00:19:50,240 Speaker 1: kind of like a situation where I think some of 360 00:19:50,280 --> 00:19:52,200 Speaker 1: the best relationships and when you know that you could 361 00:19:52,200 --> 00:19:55,159 Speaker 1: rely on the other person if you should need to 362 00:19:55,840 --> 00:20:00,960 Speaker 1: right myself's the point, Hello, you never oh, one may happen, 363 00:20:01,040 --> 00:20:03,680 Speaker 1: and that's all the point of picking the right person 364 00:20:03,760 --> 00:20:06,520 Speaker 1: that's gonna be there for you regardless of anything, Because 365 00:20:06,640 --> 00:20:09,520 Speaker 1: God forbid, something does happen and you do need to 366 00:20:09,600 --> 00:20:11,800 Speaker 1: lean or depend on that person. You need them to 367 00:20:11,880 --> 00:20:14,440 Speaker 1: be able to be there and be by your side 368 00:20:14,480 --> 00:20:16,960 Speaker 1: and be your house. Sometimes I feel like, and I'm 369 00:20:17,000 --> 00:20:21,000 Speaker 1: not talking about you as head, but sometimes guys like 370 00:20:21,359 --> 00:20:23,600 Speaker 1: for women to have to depend on them, you know 371 00:20:23,680 --> 00:20:26,760 Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Like they like in a position where 372 00:20:27,200 --> 00:20:29,080 Speaker 1: I make more than you, and with that, I don't 373 00:20:29,119 --> 00:20:30,240 Speaker 1: want you to work. I don't want you to do 374 00:20:30,400 --> 00:20:33,760 Speaker 1: them And it's like stop stop working now that you're 375 00:20:33,840 --> 00:20:36,960 Speaker 1: with me, right, you know what I mean? Like a 376 00:20:37,040 --> 00:20:39,600 Speaker 1: lot of a lot of the things that we are 377 00:20:40,080 --> 00:20:42,480 Speaker 1: socialized in conditions to think that are like cute in 378 00:20:42,520 --> 00:20:45,760 Speaker 1: a relationship are actually toxic, you know, like a lot 379 00:20:45,840 --> 00:20:49,080 Speaker 1: of songs like a reason you gotta look investigate the reason. 380 00:20:49,080 --> 00:20:51,480 Speaker 1: Why Why would a guy want you to quit your job? 381 00:20:51,600 --> 00:20:53,080 Speaker 1: It could be out of a good place, like he 382 00:20:53,200 --> 00:20:55,080 Speaker 1: just doesn't want you to work, but a lot of 383 00:20:55,160 --> 00:20:57,280 Speaker 1: times and so he can control you. You can't pick 384 00:20:57,320 --> 00:20:59,680 Speaker 1: your own money, and you gotta on his schedule. He 385 00:20:59,760 --> 00:21:01,840 Speaker 1: can take it from you whenever he wants, he capt 386 00:21:02,200 --> 00:21:04,840 Speaker 1: with it, manipulate, you know what I'm saying. And and 387 00:21:04,920 --> 00:21:07,040 Speaker 1: a lot of women want to feel taken care of 388 00:21:07,160 --> 00:21:08,639 Speaker 1: like it comes from Oh I just want somebody to 389 00:21:08,640 --> 00:21:10,280 Speaker 1: take care of me. But what is that? Are you 390 00:21:10,359 --> 00:21:12,600 Speaker 1: looking for? Dad? Trying to play shirt? Like what you 391 00:21:12,640 --> 00:21:14,840 Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, It could be toxic. So it's 392 00:21:15,480 --> 00:21:19,240 Speaker 1: it's true true. Doesn't it feel good to have a 393 00:21:19,280 --> 00:21:22,399 Speaker 1: woman who's like self made and you know, got her 394 00:21:22,440 --> 00:21:26,200 Speaker 1: own thing and has established like her own businesses and everything. Yes, 395 00:21:27,720 --> 00:21:32,920 Speaker 1: and then you guys, not more than you, but also 396 00:21:33,040 --> 00:21:35,320 Speaker 1: somebody you can learn from because I think that's important 397 00:21:35,560 --> 00:21:41,159 Speaker 1: and you're in a relationship like that. Yeah, because just 398 00:21:41,280 --> 00:21:43,359 Speaker 1: think about it, like you never have been doing yoga, 399 00:21:43,400 --> 00:21:45,439 Speaker 1: and I saw that you actually had to do private 400 00:21:45,520 --> 00:21:49,560 Speaker 1: yoga classes first just so you could get like comfortable. Yeah. 401 00:21:49,680 --> 00:21:51,920 Speaker 1: I remember all the guys that they were like, you're 402 00:21:51,920 --> 00:21:54,800 Speaker 1: going good yeo doing yo yo? Like what you doing it? 403 00:21:55,600 --> 00:21:59,919 Speaker 1: Like like why are you going through? I love yoga? 404 00:22:00,440 --> 00:22:02,639 Speaker 1: You know. One thing about you, he said, is like 405 00:22:02,840 --> 00:22:04,840 Speaker 1: I heard an interview with you a few years ago, 406 00:22:05,440 --> 00:22:08,000 Speaker 1: and um, you were on Sway in the morning, and 407 00:22:08,119 --> 00:22:10,000 Speaker 1: I was like, oh my god, Like the way that 408 00:22:10,119 --> 00:22:13,520 Speaker 1: he's talking and the way that he's like just I 409 00:22:13,560 --> 00:22:15,560 Speaker 1: don't know. It was just the way that you articulated 410 00:22:15,640 --> 00:22:19,600 Speaker 1: yourself and and everything where you surprised Sheila when you 411 00:22:19,920 --> 00:22:22,280 Speaker 1: met him, and that was the way that he carried 412 00:22:22,320 --> 00:22:25,240 Speaker 1: this out. It was weird. The thing about is is 413 00:22:25,359 --> 00:22:28,920 Speaker 1: he's kind of like he's so open minded like you. 414 00:22:29,119 --> 00:22:32,080 Speaker 1: You wouldn't know it, maybe just from the image that's 415 00:22:32,119 --> 00:22:34,760 Speaker 1: out there, but he's really open. And that's what I'm 416 00:22:34,760 --> 00:22:37,360 Speaker 1: really surprised about. I didn't know all that was gonna 417 00:22:37,400 --> 00:22:39,560 Speaker 1: be there, Like I had an inclination. Like when I 418 00:22:39,720 --> 00:22:42,359 Speaker 1: just the first time I saw him, like in a flash, 419 00:22:42,440 --> 00:22:44,520 Speaker 1: I just had all these like this could be really 420 00:22:45,200 --> 00:22:48,320 Speaker 1: he's a very interesting person. But I didn't the evidence 421 00:22:48,400 --> 00:22:51,440 Speaker 1: one where I thought that when he when he was 422 00:22:51,560 --> 00:22:53,320 Speaker 1: open to it and every now and even though he 423 00:22:53,440 --> 00:22:55,320 Speaker 1: just started saying just come out and be like I 424 00:22:55,440 --> 00:22:57,879 Speaker 1: was reading this book about saying you know what I'm 425 00:22:57,920 --> 00:22:59,520 Speaker 1: saying in your body and blow, I'm like, what do 426 00:22:59,560 --> 00:23:04,199 Speaker 1: you avery? Intellectual? Yeah? Like I did better. He got 427 00:23:04,280 --> 00:23:07,840 Speaker 1: some good game. He might have fooled everybody because I 428 00:23:07,960 --> 00:23:10,920 Speaker 1: was listening, like, yo, you know what he's talking about, 429 00:23:11,040 --> 00:23:13,040 Speaker 1: maybe about to change his name to Ace not hood 430 00:23:19,440 --> 00:23:26,480 Speaker 1: for the community. Eighth made it out the hood, all right. Now. 431 00:23:26,560 --> 00:23:27,800 Speaker 1: The next thing I want to touch on, and I 432 00:23:27,880 --> 00:23:29,560 Speaker 1: know this is gonna be helpful to a lot of people, 433 00:23:29,640 --> 00:23:33,080 Speaker 1: but blended families, right because I said, you have children, 434 00:23:33,320 --> 00:23:35,359 Speaker 1: and she let me see how much you love his kids. 435 00:23:35,800 --> 00:23:37,720 Speaker 1: So how did you guys get to the point where 436 00:23:38,240 --> 00:23:40,520 Speaker 1: you could actually bring your kids around and then you 437 00:23:40,600 --> 00:23:43,720 Speaker 1: could actually feel comfortable enough to embrace that. How did 438 00:23:43,800 --> 00:23:46,520 Speaker 1: y'all get to that point? It was it difficult, It 439 00:23:46,640 --> 00:23:50,160 Speaker 1: was very difficult. It was very difficult. Um just which 440 00:23:50,200 --> 00:23:52,520 Speaker 1: is an on point situation. Man. For years after every 441 00:23:52,560 --> 00:23:55,400 Speaker 1: since I had my daughter, you know, and ship back 442 00:23:55,440 --> 00:23:57,880 Speaker 1: and forth between us, that just was just unhealthy. Neither 443 00:23:57,960 --> 00:23:59,840 Speaker 1: one of us wanted to go to court. Either one 444 00:23:59,880 --> 00:24:02,280 Speaker 1: of was, you know, we're just trying to figure it out. 445 00:24:02,400 --> 00:24:06,359 Speaker 1: My kids live in Carolina. So it took four because 446 00:24:06,520 --> 00:24:08,280 Speaker 1: we was already doing little core things and I was 447 00:24:08,400 --> 00:24:11,040 Speaker 1: we're already working on putting myself on child support and stuff. 448 00:24:11,280 --> 00:24:13,520 Speaker 1: Was moving at my own paces and be a matarge 449 00:24:13,600 --> 00:24:16,840 Speaker 1: to be slow some times with having heard is that 450 00:24:17,320 --> 00:24:20,000 Speaker 1: What I love about her mainly though, is that her 451 00:24:20,080 --> 00:24:22,080 Speaker 1: being who she said she was, you know what I'm saying. 452 00:24:22,119 --> 00:24:24,760 Speaker 1: So her coming in and feeling like into our relationship, 453 00:24:24,840 --> 00:24:26,840 Speaker 1: feeling like this is important to me. This is important 454 00:24:26,880 --> 00:24:31,240 Speaker 1: that uh, that our families blending that you know, you 455 00:24:31,280 --> 00:24:33,200 Speaker 1: know that that we just have a healthy relationship. And 456 00:24:33,280 --> 00:24:35,960 Speaker 1: for me overall, I always wanted a healthy relationship with 457 00:24:36,000 --> 00:24:38,400 Speaker 1: the mother of my children, but she could never see 458 00:24:38,840 --> 00:24:41,160 Speaker 1: that far down that's for her, which is all about 459 00:24:41,200 --> 00:24:43,280 Speaker 1: the kids and and everything that I'm doing out here. 460 00:24:43,359 --> 00:24:45,200 Speaker 1: So you know, once she stepped in, it was just 461 00:24:45,280 --> 00:24:47,480 Speaker 1: another voice, man. She her stepping in and just kind 462 00:24:47,520 --> 00:24:49,640 Speaker 1: of just saying that, look, this is what we want 463 00:24:49,680 --> 00:24:52,000 Speaker 1: to do, um, this is what we want to create, 464 00:24:52,080 --> 00:24:56,439 Speaker 1: and just and just sitting that president, I always always 465 00:24:56,440 --> 00:24:59,159 Speaker 1: start to myself, these were my children, how would I 466 00:24:59,200 --> 00:25:00,879 Speaker 1: want them to be true? You know what type of 467 00:25:00,920 --> 00:25:02,840 Speaker 1: situation what I want him to be in? And I 468 00:25:02,920 --> 00:25:05,080 Speaker 1: told him like straight though, I'm not moving forward to 469 00:25:05,200 --> 00:25:07,960 Speaker 1: no nigga, like you gotta y'all gotta figure this out 470 00:25:08,359 --> 00:25:10,680 Speaker 1: because at the end of the day, if it's about 471 00:25:10,720 --> 00:25:12,680 Speaker 1: the kids, you have to put it to the side. 472 00:25:13,040 --> 00:25:14,960 Speaker 1: And for me, it was really important for them to 473 00:25:15,040 --> 00:25:18,840 Speaker 1: have a healthy, whole parenting relationship. But the place it 474 00:25:18,920 --> 00:25:21,399 Speaker 1: had to start from, which I feel like a lot 475 00:25:21,440 --> 00:25:23,520 Speaker 1: of women might have problems with this, I actually had 476 00:25:23,560 --> 00:25:26,720 Speaker 1: to really have empathy for her. Like first I came 477 00:25:26,760 --> 00:25:31,320 Speaker 1: in and was kind of like, oh, you know why right? 478 00:25:31,400 --> 00:25:33,359 Speaker 1: And then I have really big group of friends, and 479 00:25:33,440 --> 00:25:35,560 Speaker 1: my friends always brought me back down, like you don't 480 00:25:35,560 --> 00:25:37,360 Speaker 1: have girl, thought about what it's like to be heard. 481 00:25:37,960 --> 00:25:39,520 Speaker 1: Have you ever thought about like all the stuff that 482 00:25:39,560 --> 00:25:41,600 Speaker 1: happened like before you got there, that how does it 483 00:25:41,640 --> 00:25:44,040 Speaker 1: feel you got two kids and he just out here 484 00:25:44,119 --> 00:25:49,119 Speaker 1: doing yoga and you when as a woman. As a woman, 485 00:25:49,200 --> 00:25:53,360 Speaker 1: I'm just sounding funny right back he ever had dad, 486 00:25:53,760 --> 00:25:56,760 Speaker 1: he had dad, were dogging he can't getting that ship. 487 00:25:57,080 --> 00:26:00,840 Speaker 1: And that's how I'm saying, like, as a woman, you 488 00:26:00,880 --> 00:26:02,800 Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. Hey, Like I had to approach 489 00:26:02,840 --> 00:26:04,680 Speaker 1: and be like, sin, I'm sorry. You know, I'm sorry. 490 00:26:05,240 --> 00:26:07,240 Speaker 1: What I apologize even for things I didn't know, I 491 00:26:07,400 --> 00:26:09,600 Speaker 1: didn't period. And it's not about little ego or nothing. 492 00:26:09,680 --> 00:26:11,640 Speaker 1: It's just a matter of I told her, like, look, 493 00:26:11,960 --> 00:26:14,240 Speaker 1: me and you are strong women. We can create or 494 00:26:14,320 --> 00:26:17,720 Speaker 1: we can destroy. We can make this hell or we 495 00:26:17,760 --> 00:26:19,879 Speaker 1: can make this very easy. And we both agreed, like, 496 00:26:19,960 --> 00:26:22,520 Speaker 1: you know what, we love the kids. It's better now 497 00:26:22,760 --> 00:26:25,320 Speaker 1: I can call Hey, how said the sailor? Did this? Oh? Yeah, 498 00:26:25,400 --> 00:26:27,359 Speaker 1: she's sick. What does she usually do? Okay, great, what 499 00:26:27,480 --> 00:26:30,120 Speaker 1: you wanted to do this summer? But it's like we community, 500 00:26:30,160 --> 00:26:32,480 Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. And to me, she said 501 00:26:32,600 --> 00:26:38,119 Speaker 1: your life, they said, but but yeah, you know, hold on, 502 00:26:38,160 --> 00:26:42,720 Speaker 1: hold on it once because you know, like I think 503 00:26:42,760 --> 00:26:44,800 Speaker 1: this is important though for people to understand. It's not 504 00:26:45,320 --> 00:26:47,080 Speaker 1: you know, it's always a choice. You can meet a 505 00:26:47,160 --> 00:26:49,240 Speaker 1: man and it's ultimately gonna be his choice, and well, 506 00:26:49,240 --> 00:26:50,760 Speaker 1: and not he want to put in the time and 507 00:26:50,800 --> 00:26:53,320 Speaker 1: the effort of really go that level for you and 508 00:26:53,400 --> 00:26:55,200 Speaker 1: for the relationship and whether or not he feels like 509 00:26:56,119 --> 00:26:58,320 Speaker 1: for me, it's what I've always wanted to create. So 510 00:26:58,480 --> 00:27:00,680 Speaker 1: for me find her, which just a part my frequency 511 00:27:00,880 --> 00:27:03,040 Speaker 1: and what I wanted to create. I knew I wanted 512 00:27:03,080 --> 00:27:04,880 Speaker 1: a certain type of woman, so I called that force. 513 00:27:04,960 --> 00:27:07,240 Speaker 1: So for me, it was like to be regardless of 514 00:27:07,280 --> 00:27:09,720 Speaker 1: what I wanted the tribal situation, because I wanted a 515 00:27:09,800 --> 00:27:12,360 Speaker 1: level of helping this within the relationship with my mother, 516 00:27:12,680 --> 00:27:14,480 Speaker 1: you know, the mother of my children and my kids. 517 00:27:14,760 --> 00:27:17,159 Speaker 1: When she came along, like it just made even more 518 00:27:17,240 --> 00:27:19,879 Speaker 1: sense because you know, I like that, I like her 519 00:27:19,920 --> 00:27:22,760 Speaker 1: standing by her word and staff she believes in because 520 00:27:22,840 --> 00:27:24,720 Speaker 1: like for me, it forces me as a man to 521 00:27:24,800 --> 00:27:27,720 Speaker 1: take accountability. So it's like, you know, either you're not 522 00:27:27,800 --> 00:27:29,920 Speaker 1: gonna go through this, go through this, or you're gonna 523 00:27:29,960 --> 00:27:32,120 Speaker 1: you know, you're gonna rise in the situation. So it's 524 00:27:32,119 --> 00:27:34,040 Speaker 1: an opportunity for me to be better. So for me, 525 00:27:34,119 --> 00:27:36,159 Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, you know what I'm gonna take it 526 00:27:36,280 --> 00:27:37,840 Speaker 1: is that you know, and I looked at it, it's 527 00:27:37,880 --> 00:27:40,840 Speaker 1: just like that's constructive criticism and things like that helped 528 00:27:40,880 --> 00:27:43,040 Speaker 1: me move through. Yeah, because I think it's so wack 529 00:27:43,119 --> 00:27:45,080 Speaker 1: when women are with a guy who has kids and 530 00:27:45,200 --> 00:27:47,600 Speaker 1: they don't want to encourage them to take care of 531 00:27:47,680 --> 00:27:50,160 Speaker 1: their kids or step more time. I thought the woman also, 532 00:27:50,200 --> 00:27:52,480 Speaker 1: I couldn't be with a guy who had children and 533 00:27:52,600 --> 00:27:55,119 Speaker 1: wasn't handling his responsibilities. That is the wackiest thing on 534 00:27:55,200 --> 00:27:58,240 Speaker 1: the planet. They were the same ones that came from 535 00:27:58,240 --> 00:28:00,240 Speaker 1: a book of family. You came from up like not 536 00:28:00,359 --> 00:28:02,479 Speaker 1: everybody good if you came to a family where your 537 00:28:02,560 --> 00:28:04,480 Speaker 1: dad wasn't not in the picture, where your mom wasn't 538 00:28:04,480 --> 00:28:05,720 Speaker 1: in the picture in the way that she wanted, like 539 00:28:05,960 --> 00:28:09,200 Speaker 1: that affects your whole life. Like even on a spiritual level, 540 00:28:09,280 --> 00:28:11,399 Speaker 1: to me, like I tell I really do believe in 541 00:28:11,480 --> 00:28:14,080 Speaker 1: what I speak about healing and healing the black community. 542 00:28:14,160 --> 00:28:16,360 Speaker 1: Even on that level, I said to myself, well, even 543 00:28:16,400 --> 00:28:19,200 Speaker 1: if me and Ace never work out, like Sailor and 544 00:28:19,280 --> 00:28:21,439 Speaker 1: Junior are going to grow up to be here. They're humans, 545 00:28:21,480 --> 00:28:24,160 Speaker 1: They're not babies. They grow and they're gonna be people 546 00:28:24,200 --> 00:28:26,760 Speaker 1: in this world. And like what would it help if 547 00:28:26,800 --> 00:28:30,560 Speaker 1: they didn't have a good relationship with their dad? Not, 548 00:28:30,960 --> 00:28:34,280 Speaker 1: Like do you mind me asking what do Ace's kids 549 00:28:34,359 --> 00:28:39,160 Speaker 1: call you? Um, they called me she, They called me 550 00:28:39,200 --> 00:28:41,719 Speaker 1: their bonus mommy, but really were in the house, they 551 00:28:41,840 --> 00:28:44,440 Speaker 1: just be like she The reason why I asked us 552 00:28:44,480 --> 00:28:45,920 Speaker 1: because I don't know if you've seen, like it was 553 00:28:45,960 --> 00:28:49,000 Speaker 1: like a lot of recent things with Vessell Wilson and 554 00:28:49,280 --> 00:28:52,520 Speaker 1: when he ended up future yeah yeah and baby future 555 00:28:52,920 --> 00:28:55,760 Speaker 1: and he ended it off with daddy loves you. So 556 00:28:56,080 --> 00:28:57,840 Speaker 1: I just, you know, I wondered because I had a 557 00:28:57,880 --> 00:28:59,840 Speaker 1: situation where I was theydn't a guy and I was 558 00:29:00,000 --> 00:29:02,880 Speaker 1: around has child a lot. Never said this to the child, 559 00:29:02,960 --> 00:29:05,880 Speaker 1: but I guess to the mother one day she was like, 560 00:29:06,280 --> 00:29:09,800 Speaker 1: oh my mommy and was referring to me, and I 561 00:29:09,920 --> 00:29:12,360 Speaker 1: swear to God they know me. I would never do 562 00:29:12,520 --> 00:29:14,960 Speaker 1: that with the child. But then she didn't want the 563 00:29:15,080 --> 00:29:18,120 Speaker 1: child around me anymore because she felt like I was 564 00:29:18,240 --> 00:29:21,160 Speaker 1: telling the child to call me that or whatever. So 565 00:29:21,240 --> 00:29:24,080 Speaker 1: I just wondered, like, you know what, like how y'all 566 00:29:24,120 --> 00:29:26,480 Speaker 1: go about that? Is it like mess shell? Is it 567 00:29:26,640 --> 00:29:35,160 Speaker 1: like mom? You had that issue before though, stepmother? Just 568 00:29:35,200 --> 00:29:37,640 Speaker 1: because uh, you know, when things started to change, like 569 00:29:38,520 --> 00:29:40,840 Speaker 1: because the kids started to be affective above all, like 570 00:29:40,960 --> 00:29:42,840 Speaker 1: what really started to create the change was that like 571 00:29:43,160 --> 00:29:45,160 Speaker 1: once the kids started coming over here and when I 572 00:29:45,200 --> 00:29:47,280 Speaker 1: would travel, she would really be looking out for the 573 00:29:47,360 --> 00:29:50,360 Speaker 1: kids who rang, taking care of them, doing gage all 574 00:29:50,400 --> 00:29:53,880 Speaker 1: of this creative stuff that you know, they didn't have 575 00:29:54,040 --> 00:29:56,560 Speaker 1: the space for technically, you know what I'm saying. And 576 00:29:56,760 --> 00:29:59,920 Speaker 1: she's different person when it comes to that. She naturally 577 00:30:00,000 --> 00:30:03,000 Speaker 1: so we're like, you know who she is. So for them, 578 00:30:03,080 --> 00:30:05,920 Speaker 1: there was an issue because you know, she wouldn't like 579 00:30:06,080 --> 00:30:08,640 Speaker 1: the way that the kids actually spoke of her, because 580 00:30:08,720 --> 00:30:11,080 Speaker 1: she wanted to be considered it's like, the only mother, 581 00:30:11,160 --> 00:30:13,840 Speaker 1: and she felt threatened because a woman like that came 582 00:30:13,880 --> 00:30:16,280 Speaker 1: in and because the children were calling her mother and 583 00:30:16,360 --> 00:30:19,560 Speaker 1: all of that, so they never or not even mom 584 00:30:19,680 --> 00:30:22,440 Speaker 1: or just uh just the love or just them constantly 585 00:30:22,520 --> 00:30:25,440 Speaker 1: talking about her. Um was was really the main thing, 586 00:30:25,520 --> 00:30:27,680 Speaker 1: and it allowed her she started to feel challenges a 587 00:30:27,760 --> 00:30:30,440 Speaker 1: mother because she felt like, I deserve all the love. 588 00:30:30,520 --> 00:30:32,720 Speaker 1: I want all the love from you guys. And that's 589 00:30:32,760 --> 00:30:37,800 Speaker 1: when she remember that that type of pig that the were, hey, y'all, 590 00:30:37,800 --> 00:30:41,080 Speaker 1: little same pepper pig. The little they like he looks 591 00:30:41,160 --> 00:30:44,280 Speaker 1: it's a little look a game like it's it's like 592 00:30:44,760 --> 00:30:48,479 Speaker 1: Mama pig and daddy pig and baby pig and Georgia pig. Right, 593 00:30:48,800 --> 00:30:51,160 Speaker 1: we were playing like accents because we do that a lot. 594 00:30:51,200 --> 00:30:54,080 Speaker 1: And I think I remember that moment when Junior he 595 00:30:54,200 --> 00:30:56,760 Speaker 1: was like, that's stabby picking your mummy pig, and like 596 00:30:56,880 --> 00:30:59,360 Speaker 1: it was like just like a little slip. Yeah, it 597 00:30:59,480 --> 00:31:01,000 Speaker 1: was around at time where it started to be like, 598 00:31:02,000 --> 00:31:04,200 Speaker 1: but but you know what, when people are married and 599 00:31:04,280 --> 00:31:08,160 Speaker 1: you are a stepmother, I do feel like at some point, like, 600 00:31:09,000 --> 00:31:11,479 Speaker 1: I mean, you know, when you get married, I think 601 00:31:11,480 --> 00:31:14,400 Speaker 1: if you're a girlfriend or a different but I think 602 00:31:14,480 --> 00:31:16,560 Speaker 1: when you actually are married and it's a long term 603 00:31:16,600 --> 00:31:18,239 Speaker 1: and it's in it for the long haul and year 604 00:31:18,280 --> 00:31:19,880 Speaker 1: in these kids lives for the rest of your life, 605 00:31:20,800 --> 00:31:22,320 Speaker 1: I don't know. I mean, I can't say what is 606 00:31:22,320 --> 00:31:24,120 Speaker 1: the right thing to do, but I could see instead 607 00:31:24,160 --> 00:31:26,920 Speaker 1: of saying step mommy, stepmommy, you might just be like mommy, 608 00:31:29,560 --> 00:31:32,920 Speaker 1: all right now? Who said I love you first? I 609 00:31:32,960 --> 00:31:38,360 Speaker 1: think I think I think those I'm pretty sure that was. 610 00:31:39,040 --> 00:31:42,480 Speaker 1: Are you scared to say it? Oh? Yes, I was 611 00:31:42,640 --> 00:31:45,320 Speaker 1: terrified in the beginning because I feel like in the 612 00:31:45,400 --> 00:31:48,360 Speaker 1: beginning of our relationship, I really wasn't sure if face 613 00:31:48,480 --> 00:31:52,720 Speaker 1: was going to choose the relationship because of how he 614 00:31:53,000 --> 00:31:55,120 Speaker 1: could see how many hurdles he had to jump over 615 00:31:55,200 --> 00:31:57,480 Speaker 1: in order to be in this, Like you knew a 616 00:31:57,480 --> 00:31:58,960 Speaker 1: lot of things we're gonna have to change, And I'm like, 617 00:31:58,960 --> 00:32:00,600 Speaker 1: I don't know, I don't know if you up for 618 00:32:00,680 --> 00:32:03,520 Speaker 1: the challenge. So but if it was in my heart, 619 00:32:03,640 --> 00:32:06,600 Speaker 1: I definitely I'm just gonna say so I said, didn't 620 00:32:06,640 --> 00:32:11,840 Speaker 1: say it back. I don't think so. You ain't shi 621 00:32:13,880 --> 00:32:17,000 Speaker 1: you were gonna say yes. But I appreciated that because 622 00:32:17,000 --> 00:32:20,520 Speaker 1: I don't want you to lie to me, just to me, like, hey, 623 00:32:20,640 --> 00:32:26,920 Speaker 1: thank you. Right, he probably say something like this above 624 00:32:28,000 --> 00:32:31,640 Speaker 1: period mine. But when were you thinking eight when she 625 00:32:31,760 --> 00:32:35,400 Speaker 1: told you that? Honestly, it sounds it sounds a little shitty. 626 00:32:35,440 --> 00:32:37,000 Speaker 1: I don't even know if I could remember the moment 627 00:32:37,120 --> 00:32:40,920 Speaker 1: when we actually never mind, you ain't getting nothing the 628 00:32:40,960 --> 00:32:43,960 Speaker 1: next exactly, it's not even the bad thing. It's like 629 00:32:46,120 --> 00:32:50,280 Speaker 1: life colds man. Do you remember like you said like 630 00:32:50,400 --> 00:32:55,480 Speaker 1: that that was like do you remember when he said 631 00:32:55,520 --> 00:32:59,920 Speaker 1: it to you the first time? Sheila? Um, I don't 632 00:33:00,280 --> 00:33:01,680 Speaker 1: the first time I said it back, but I can't 633 00:33:01,680 --> 00:33:03,320 Speaker 1: remember the feeling Like as I'm thinking about it, I 634 00:33:03,440 --> 00:33:06,800 Speaker 1: just was so exciting, like I just feel like I'm 635 00:33:06,880 --> 00:33:09,560 Speaker 1: just you know, I'm open hearted, Like I just feel 636 00:33:09,560 --> 00:33:11,400 Speaker 1: like I loved him the first time I saw him, 637 00:33:11,520 --> 00:33:15,120 Speaker 1: like thet I laid eyes on him and physically in person, 638 00:33:15,280 --> 00:33:17,720 Speaker 1: like I just seen his eyes and he had this 639 00:33:17,840 --> 00:33:20,239 Speaker 1: big smile, which I was not expecting, like I never 640 00:33:20,320 --> 00:33:23,400 Speaker 1: said a smile like and so I was just like, 641 00:33:23,680 --> 00:33:25,960 Speaker 1: oh my heart. I was just like, I love this person. 642 00:33:27,520 --> 00:33:29,800 Speaker 1: I said, you was in love at first sight, You're 643 00:33:29,840 --> 00:33:32,760 Speaker 1: always girl. It was a ron for me, and I 644 00:33:32,880 --> 00:33:34,880 Speaker 1: just told myself, but I hope we're supposed to do this, girl, 645 00:33:34,880 --> 00:33:37,320 Speaker 1: because we're doing this. When did you have that first 646 00:33:37,360 --> 00:33:40,040 Speaker 1: talk with him when you was like, listen, I like you, 647 00:33:40,240 --> 00:33:43,880 Speaker 1: but I'm not gonna be dealing with all the bullshit. Yes, right. 648 00:33:44,040 --> 00:33:47,040 Speaker 1: That was like when we were deciding, Okay, so we've 649 00:33:47,040 --> 00:33:50,880 Speaker 1: been doing this long distance, I'm in New York in Florida. 650 00:33:51,320 --> 00:33:54,360 Speaker 1: What's up? Like we're not getting any younger. That was 651 00:33:54,400 --> 00:33:56,200 Speaker 1: a conversation where we had to be like, okay, so 652 00:33:56,640 --> 00:34:00,280 Speaker 1: what are choices? What do you have moved to New York? Me? No, 653 00:34:05,560 --> 00:34:10,000 Speaker 1: that wasn't even a consideration. Huh, not at all? Right, 654 00:34:10,400 --> 00:34:12,200 Speaker 1: So how was it moving to New York? For you 655 00:34:12,880 --> 00:34:15,799 Speaker 1: to Florida, I mean to Florida. Sorry to Florida. Working 656 00:34:15,800 --> 00:34:18,400 Speaker 1: to Florida. We go. Actually we grew up like an 657 00:34:18,480 --> 00:34:21,960 Speaker 1: hour how far, like about an hour with from each other. So, yeah, 658 00:34:22,040 --> 00:34:24,200 Speaker 1: my family is down here. So it was moving back home. 659 00:34:24,560 --> 00:34:26,279 Speaker 1: And so at first I was like I had all 660 00:34:26,320 --> 00:34:29,920 Speaker 1: these ideas about how well that's like failure, that's like 661 00:34:30,000 --> 00:34:32,920 Speaker 1: going back. I can go back in New York. But 662 00:34:33,120 --> 00:34:35,560 Speaker 1: then it turned out that it was moving back home 663 00:34:35,640 --> 00:34:37,680 Speaker 1: that I started my company and I started doing everything 664 00:34:37,719 --> 00:34:39,520 Speaker 1: that I'm going now. So in a weird way, I 665 00:34:39,560 --> 00:34:41,319 Speaker 1: think it was it was perfect. It was hard at 666 00:34:41,360 --> 00:34:44,799 Speaker 1: first though, because at the time, like he he still 667 00:34:44,840 --> 00:34:46,920 Speaker 1: had his engineer living with him, and like it was 668 00:34:47,000 --> 00:34:50,840 Speaker 1: like a boys like Peter Pan lost boys like if 669 00:34:50,880 --> 00:34:53,120 Speaker 1: y'all ain't got nowhere to go, you don't have you 670 00:34:53,120 --> 00:34:55,800 Speaker 1: don't have to lived in the man cave, it was 671 00:34:59,440 --> 00:35:01,839 Speaker 1: They're all. It was there and people just show up 672 00:35:01,920 --> 00:35:05,759 Speaker 1: all the time like that that's the only woman. Did 673 00:35:05,840 --> 00:35:10,480 Speaker 1: your family like him? Yes, yes, my family. So my 674 00:35:10,600 --> 00:35:13,560 Speaker 1: family liked him when they when they they were open, 675 00:35:13,760 --> 00:35:16,200 Speaker 1: like my family is my family is sold non judgment, 676 00:35:16,280 --> 00:35:19,880 Speaker 1: so they said everybody, so when they met him, and 677 00:35:19,880 --> 00:35:22,040 Speaker 1: they saw like how nice and friendly and grounded he 678 00:35:22,280 --> 00:35:25,600 Speaker 1: was and down to earth. They loved My family adores 679 00:35:25,719 --> 00:35:28,840 Speaker 1: him and they love his family. All right. Next question, 680 00:35:29,440 --> 00:35:33,320 Speaker 1: he said, does yella have an orgasm every time? Not 681 00:35:33,440 --> 00:35:42,680 Speaker 1: every time? Percentage wise? Percentage wise how much would you 682 00:35:42,760 --> 00:35:45,600 Speaker 1: say if you had to guess, she's looking out of 683 00:35:45,600 --> 00:35:51,200 Speaker 1: the way for him to get the wrong answer. Percentage 684 00:35:51,239 --> 00:35:56,200 Speaker 1: wise would say about well, that's what I was thinking 685 00:35:56,239 --> 00:36:04,719 Speaker 1: in my mind. That's what they got. That's pretty good thing. Now, 686 00:36:05,120 --> 00:36:08,320 Speaker 1: he said, have you ever faked an orgasm? Never in 687 00:36:08,320 --> 00:36:12,719 Speaker 1: your life? Can a guys orgasm? Yeah? You had some 688 00:36:12,880 --> 00:36:16,160 Speaker 1: gas for multiple reasons. It was not well enough, it 689 00:36:16,280 --> 00:36:20,360 Speaker 1: was not smelling good. It just try to get it 690 00:36:20,440 --> 00:36:25,240 Speaker 1: over with and they'd be like start falling, freak fake 691 00:36:25,600 --> 00:36:30,520 Speaker 1: like little How long did it take before both of 692 00:36:30,640 --> 00:36:33,399 Speaker 1: you knew like, Okay, I gotta cut off anybody else 693 00:36:33,440 --> 00:36:37,279 Speaker 1: I'm talking too because this person is the one I 694 00:36:37,400 --> 00:36:41,640 Speaker 1: feel like. That was right about when when we moved 695 00:36:41,680 --> 00:36:45,680 Speaker 1: in together. Okay, yes, yes, yes together, that's when it 696 00:36:45,719 --> 00:36:49,279 Speaker 1: became like this is really real? All right? Now, last 697 00:36:49,360 --> 00:36:56,919 Speaker 1: question for you guys? Who masturbates more? Who? He said, 698 00:36:59,560 --> 00:37:01,600 Speaker 1: we were talking about the like he's like you feel 699 00:37:01,640 --> 00:37:04,320 Speaker 1: some like Elsa North like everyone's like working out, you know, 700 00:37:05,120 --> 00:37:07,160 Speaker 1: working out said, it's like working out, working out your 701 00:37:07,200 --> 00:37:10,200 Speaker 1: hand and it's like you know, for the game, meaning 702 00:37:10,320 --> 00:37:12,640 Speaker 1: just like from perspective of just like exercise and like 703 00:37:13,680 --> 00:37:16,960 Speaker 1: it's amazing. But you know, if it's not between you know, 704 00:37:17,000 --> 00:37:19,279 Speaker 1: I'm alway. You know, sometimes I might exercise a little bit. 705 00:37:19,719 --> 00:37:23,520 Speaker 1: You know, they can playful energy doing how you learn 706 00:37:23,600 --> 00:37:27,160 Speaker 1: different things, You try different stuff, and you know, again 707 00:37:27,200 --> 00:37:30,520 Speaker 1: it's like learning yourself, but you try different things when 708 00:37:30,560 --> 00:37:33,480 Speaker 1: you're masturbate. I said that way, not in that way, 709 00:37:33,760 --> 00:37:37,920 Speaker 1: like like that though, but experiment might experiment with the 710 00:37:38,000 --> 00:37:42,279 Speaker 1: grabbing and the turn of you know, you gotta touch 711 00:37:42,360 --> 00:37:45,080 Speaker 1: you you gotta touch your ten to TV. Can you 712 00:37:45,320 --> 00:37:48,640 Speaker 1: share the knowledge you game? You gotta me and see 713 00:37:48,680 --> 00:37:51,000 Speaker 1: how you like, you know, like the soft, you might 714 00:37:51,080 --> 00:37:54,680 Speaker 1: like the rough, you might like to like you know, 715 00:37:54,800 --> 00:37:56,800 Speaker 1: you never know. You gotta try, but you have to 716 00:37:56,880 --> 00:37:59,520 Speaker 1: share the knowledge. So you gotta be like shelling today, 717 00:38:00,000 --> 00:38:07,200 Speaker 1: you have this new stroke. You know, I always let 718 00:38:07,239 --> 00:38:09,960 Speaker 1: that guys just masturbate for the intention of coming as 719 00:38:10,000 --> 00:38:12,920 Speaker 1: fast as possible, like not even I didn't know. They 720 00:38:13,000 --> 00:38:15,359 Speaker 1: try to like prolong and try different things. I thought 721 00:38:15,360 --> 00:38:20,160 Speaker 1: they'd just be like I think I thought that too, 722 00:38:20,280 --> 00:38:22,360 Speaker 1: like just to get it out, like, yeah, I didn't 723 00:38:22,440 --> 00:38:25,080 Speaker 1: think that you are really like love each other your 724 00:38:25,120 --> 00:38:28,759 Speaker 1: stuff like that. We had to talk about it. I 725 00:38:28,800 --> 00:38:31,560 Speaker 1: had to talk to her about even the masturbation thing 726 00:38:31,640 --> 00:38:33,440 Speaker 1: because I started to feel a little guilt behind it, 727 00:38:33,960 --> 00:38:35,480 Speaker 1: because you know, I didn't want it to feel like 728 00:38:35,560 --> 00:38:40,359 Speaker 1: I was a little key your hand. What I'm saying, 729 00:38:40,360 --> 00:38:42,640 Speaker 1: it's always like I just let her know, like, hey, 730 00:38:42,760 --> 00:38:44,880 Speaker 1: I do this. I don't know if it's you know, 731 00:38:45,160 --> 00:38:48,239 Speaker 1: just so so it's an open line of count. Do 732 00:38:48,280 --> 00:38:50,040 Speaker 1: you ever like switch hands, Like I'm using the left 733 00:38:50,080 --> 00:39:00,759 Speaker 1: hand today? How much time something stily? You know you're 734 00:39:00,840 --> 00:39:09,640 Speaker 1: right hand being like, who's that? Okay? The three films? 735 00:39:15,880 --> 00:39:19,680 Speaker 1: Do y'all ever use toys in the bedroom? Yeah? Yeah, 736 00:39:20,120 --> 00:39:23,239 Speaker 1: like how very consistently or just every now and then. 737 00:39:23,560 --> 00:39:25,600 Speaker 1: I think we mostly use them when you're out of 738 00:39:25,680 --> 00:39:28,600 Speaker 1: town because there's like the one we have where it's 739 00:39:28,600 --> 00:39:30,600 Speaker 1: like he has an app on your phone so like 740 00:39:31,080 --> 00:39:32,759 Speaker 1: and the video thing at the same time, so you 741 00:39:32,800 --> 00:39:35,440 Speaker 1: could like be on video and he can be controlling 742 00:39:35,600 --> 00:39:38,960 Speaker 1: what the toy does remotely and then I have the 743 00:39:39,000 --> 00:39:44,000 Speaker 1: toys that is that a good one. That's probably the 744 00:39:44,040 --> 00:39:47,239 Speaker 1: best toys toy for couples, you know, if we let's say, 745 00:39:47,280 --> 00:39:57,400 Speaker 1: if we get hack into that. And but listen, I 746 00:39:57,560 --> 00:40:00,239 Speaker 1: really love both of you guys together. I think, yeah, 747 00:40:00,320 --> 00:40:02,520 Speaker 1: you know, it's amazing. I wish we could have been 748 00:40:02,560 --> 00:40:04,920 Speaker 1: at your wedding out said everybody talking about it and 749 00:40:05,040 --> 00:40:10,040 Speaker 1: how dope it was now and even like, I love 750 00:40:10,120 --> 00:40:12,040 Speaker 1: that you were so happy. Like I can just see 751 00:40:12,040 --> 00:40:14,160 Speaker 1: how happy as Hood is now. So I think that's 752 00:40:14,200 --> 00:40:17,880 Speaker 1: really dope because we've known him before. This just flourishing. 753 00:40:18,120 --> 00:40:22,799 Speaker 1: Everything is just going, Everything is just popping over there. 754 00:40:23,600 --> 00:40:25,799 Speaker 1: You guys complement each other very well. Don't sunk up, 755 00:40:25,800 --> 00:40:36,200 Speaker 1: because right now your relationship goals. Okay please ye all right? 756 00:40:36,280 --> 00:40:38,239 Speaker 1: And A said, we are looking forward to seeing you 757 00:40:38,320 --> 00:40:41,040 Speaker 1: when this quarantine is over and keep on hearing some 758 00:40:41,560 --> 00:40:44,800 Speaker 1: some more new music. What situation are you in right now? Independent? 759 00:40:44,880 --> 00:40:48,440 Speaker 1: What are you gonna do right now? In the partner's 760 00:40:48,440 --> 00:40:52,480 Speaker 1: a word empire we're working with now. Shout out to Gazi, 761 00:40:52,600 --> 00:40:56,680 Speaker 1: that's my guy. Shout of the Empire. Bring people over there. Um. 762 00:40:56,760 --> 00:41:00,520 Speaker 1: So we dropped. I dropped Self Preservation Project early you know, 763 00:41:00,640 --> 00:41:02,239 Speaker 1: just to kind of speak on the pandemic. And then 764 00:41:02,280 --> 00:41:07,160 Speaker 1: I'm dropping a Mr. Hood projected night. So right, we 765 00:41:07,280 --> 00:41:11,239 Speaker 1: got two singles from that so far. So yes, yes, yes, yes, 766 00:41:11,600 --> 00:41:14,920 Speaker 1: we're looking forward till it. Keep pumping out the music, right, 767 00:41:15,200 --> 00:41:17,080 Speaker 1: I tell you, I tell your hands kissing each other 768 00:41:17,200 --> 00:41:24,680 Speaker 1: just now. So that's there. You go get one tonight threesome. 769 00:41:28,680 --> 00:41:30,160 Speaker 1: But now, thank you all so much for being a 770 00:41:30,200 --> 00:41:32,239 Speaker 1: good sport and this was really dope. We appreciate you. 771 00:41:32,360 --> 00:41:35,359 Speaker 1: Happy Memorial to Day. Thank you for having by