WEBVTT - How Sexy is Mrs. Walsh??!!! (S1, E7 “Perfect Mom”)

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<v Speaker 1>It's with Jenny Garth and Tori Spelling. Happy New Year,

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<v Speaker 1>you hose year, you get it nine or two one

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<v Speaker 1>hose ho ho the three of us we made you guys.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't drink it yet. Things are going well so far.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you know what? It's kind of cool like no expectations, right, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>because you know what, it can't get much worse and well,

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<v Speaker 1>I never know what. I have no control over anything.

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<v Speaker 1>You're right soized that. M hmmm. Did you guys make

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<v Speaker 1>any New Year's resolutions? Yeah? I already broke mine. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>I broke mine too, that's where my best friends. Yes, sis,

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<v Speaker 1>what was your resolution to not drink drink less wine?

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<v Speaker 1>Not drink less red wine? Oh my god, that's so funny.

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<v Speaker 1>I love that you guys have to drink, not to

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<v Speaker 1>have to, but you enjoy drinking during the podcast, And

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<v Speaker 1>if I were to drink, I would be horrible, Like

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<v Speaker 1>I can. This is like considered being on the job

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<v Speaker 1>for me, I know, but we use this as like

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<v Speaker 1>this is our our our date night. Yeah, totally, it's true,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's so funny. This is your day job and

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<v Speaker 1>for us. I just I was just thinking, like lounge singers,

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<v Speaker 1>this is our night job. We moonlight as podcasters, drunk

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<v Speaker 1>on the job. So did you watch the episode that

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<v Speaker 1>we're talking about? This? Yes? Did anybody that was That

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<v Speaker 1>was our homework We were supposed to watch its perfect mom,

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<v Speaker 1>Perfect mom. Uh. This show aired November. Brenda envies Kelly's

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<v Speaker 1>relationship with her hip looking mom until she sees another

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<v Speaker 1>side at a public event where Andrea shines. Andrea shines

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<v Speaker 1>at a public event. I'm there, Oh my gosh, I

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<v Speaker 1>can literally remember filming this episode, Like I remember that

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<v Speaker 1>runway and like, I bet you do. You had to

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<v Speaker 1>wear a freaking but knee in front of all those people,

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<v Speaker 1>and I would like, you, you're a little but so

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<v Speaker 1>adorable chicks, so cute, remember when I had a little

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<v Speaker 1>but oh it's really I have a mama, But you're

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<v Speaker 1>adorable and your and your mom was rocking a bathing

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<v Speaker 1>suit on the runway too, But that was my mom,

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<v Speaker 1>who wasn't my mom? Yeah, I feel like they hired

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<v Speaker 1>her just because she looked great in a bikini. So

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<v Speaker 1>that bikini I wore was my own bikini, And I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, I don't know if you ever did this.

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<v Speaker 1>I used to buy bikinis my friends and I like

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<v Speaker 1>other friends, not like you guys. Um in high school,

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<v Speaker 1>we would buy like teen sizes, Like if you were seventeen,

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<v Speaker 1>like you would wear an adult small. You would buy

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<v Speaker 1>like a teen preteen or a teen bikini so it

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<v Speaker 1>would fit itsy bitsy. So I was wearing probably like yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I was like seventeen, wearing like third Tchenerrals Borkini. None

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<v Speaker 1>of this is sounding good. Sorry, well now they have those,

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<v Speaker 1>like really like string bikinis. They didn't have them. Then

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<v Speaker 1>that's interesting. You were wearing a string bikini before. It

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<v Speaker 1>was cool. I guess your button, she's hanging out. But

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<v Speaker 1>that wasn't even my mom. That was that she was

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<v Speaker 1>a weird really weird to see a different woman as

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<v Speaker 1>your mom. Yeah, different name too, was it? Nancy? Nancy Martin?

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<v Speaker 1>Nancy Martin? You're right, that crazy, not Fleece. This episode

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<v Speaker 1>was a lot of like Kelly's home turmoil, you don't

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<v Speaker 1>really know what's going on, Like I love that because

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<v Speaker 1>you always think everybody's got it better than you, everybody's

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<v Speaker 1>life is simpler, better, easier, And then you get to

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<v Speaker 1>see behind the curtain a little bit on this episode,

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<v Speaker 1>and it was a lot about the moms too, so

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<v Speaker 1>Kelly's mom and then Brenda's mom. Who, by the way,

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<v Speaker 1>what Carol Potter, We'll be joining us very shortly. If not,

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<v Speaker 1>she might be here already, Carol, Carol there, all of us,

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<v Speaker 1>what are your memories with her? So we luckily just

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<v Speaker 1>got to see her last summer. Last summer, well now

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<v Speaker 1>it's two summers ago for b H nine O two now,

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<v Speaker 1>and she flew up to Vancouver and we all got

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<v Speaker 1>to work together and it was so great to be

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<v Speaker 1>with her. It was just like, so, she was a

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<v Speaker 1>therapist on the show, but she's really a therapist in

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<v Speaker 1>real life. Now, yes, I thought that was just that

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<v Speaker 1>was that was because she was a therapist in real life.

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<v Speaker 1>The Carol, thank you for coming and being on our podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>All our hair is long, isn't it? Because none of

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<v Speaker 1>us are getting haircuts, Torry, I have never seen your

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<v Speaker 1>hair that long. I paid for all of it. It's

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<v Speaker 1>gotta gotta find something. But yeah, I mean as far

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<v Speaker 1>as the therapist thing goes. Um. After I left the show,

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<v Speaker 1>I went back to school. I got a master's. I

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<v Speaker 1>did my three thousand hours working with clients and getting

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<v Speaker 1>supervision and stuff. And actually the best part. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>I did a soap that your father also produced. That's right, yes, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>Sunset Beach. And the great thing about that soap was

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<v Speaker 1>I was that was when I was getting all my

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<v Speaker 1>hours and my training, and because I already had the

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<v Speaker 1>job the the because the training thing was already established,

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<v Speaker 1>they were really helpful and sort of working around my schedule.

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<v Speaker 1>And you know, soaps are different in in Back in

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<v Speaker 1>the day, you had to be there morning till night

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<v Speaker 1>because they got in sequence. There was no editing. But

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<v Speaker 1>now they just edited all on a computer. It's really

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<v Speaker 1>fast and easy, so you can do all the scenes

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<v Speaker 1>in one location at the same time. Right. So I

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<v Speaker 1>would go on the set and it would be all

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<v Speaker 1>about me, me, me, you know, my hair, my hair,

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<v Speaker 1>and my makeup and my wardrobe and my motivation and

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<v Speaker 1>my emotions and all that stuff. And then I go

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<v Speaker 1>to the therapy room and it'd be all about the him,

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<v Speaker 1>and I could just forget about myself, leave myself completely behind.

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<v Speaker 1>It was such a great sort of balance. I would

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<v Speaker 1>have done that the rest of my life. But of

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<v Speaker 1>course soaps tied so didn't work out quite that way.

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<v Speaker 1>We wrote, We wrote into b H nine two, I

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<v Speaker 1>know that you did a group therapy session for the cast,

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<v Speaker 1>and I thought that was so fun because you really

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<v Speaker 1>were a therapists. So when we filmed that, were you thinking, well,

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<v Speaker 1>if there's no hope for these people, I can have

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<v Speaker 1>them therapist fans like really like the die hard fans

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<v Speaker 1>know that you're a therapist the background. But I wonder

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<v Speaker 1>if other people watching or just like, oh, I wonder

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<v Speaker 1>why they cast her as the therapist. They probably didn't

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<v Speaker 1>get it. It's a lot of people didn't. Every does

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<v Speaker 1>say it. In the scene, she says, she is a

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<v Speaker 1>licensed therapist. And I've had I've had all kinds of

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<v Speaker 1>things with clients coming in and I came in and

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<v Speaker 1>I've had I had a couple. I have worked with

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<v Speaker 1>them for months and months and months, and they finally

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<v Speaker 1>I think they were breaking up. So we were ending

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<v Speaker 1>the work together and at the very last session, he says,

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<v Speaker 1>don't you recognize her? She's the mom from And I'm going,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my god. He was with me all this time

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<v Speaker 1>and he never said a word I would. You're a legend,

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<v Speaker 1>Like everyone knows who you are, Like, there's not anyone

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<v Speaker 1>that sees you that doesn't recognize you. Do you feel

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<v Speaker 1>the need with all of your patients to say, like

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<v Speaker 1>to get it out of the way and say something

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<v Speaker 1>or no, I think there's always in the back of

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<v Speaker 1>your head. No, I leave it to them at the moment.

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<v Speaker 1>Most of my clients are kind of older than um

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<v Speaker 1>then the you know, the key demographic. But there's no

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<v Speaker 1>question that I have that it's you know, if we're

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<v Speaker 1>a different role, it would be a problem. But because

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<v Speaker 1>Cindy was everybody's understanding, you know, heartfelt, welcoming everyone, all

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<v Speaker 1>of that stuff, it really segues into the natural transition.

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<v Speaker 1>I would lose my mind if I come to a

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<v Speaker 1>session and saw that it it was you, and I'd be like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my God, and I would fan girl out. And

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<v Speaker 1>here's the thing, I got a bone to pick with you.

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<v Speaker 1>Like you became a therapist, but all of those years

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<v Speaker 1>before that, you never helped us. We had so many issues.

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<v Speaker 1>We did you where we can tell you every every

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<v Speaker 1>single interview that I did for you know, to be

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<v Speaker 1>your radio or newspapers or what they always ask, Oh

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<v Speaker 1>do the kids come to you for advice? I'm going

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<v Speaker 1>are you kidding? Now? Now? I wish I had to Jesus, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>you guys, you know, you were in your own you

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<v Speaker 1>you were trying to figure it out on your own.

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<v Speaker 1>And I mean I didn't really have much advice. We're

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<v Speaker 1>just we're just on the first season of the show,

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<v Speaker 1>which is all about the Walsh family and then moving

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<v Speaker 1>to Beverly Hills, and and it's we've commented that it

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<v Speaker 1>seems like in every scene Mama Walsh was like either

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<v Speaker 1>cooking something, barbecuing something, or gardening. Those are the three

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<v Speaker 1>things that you were allowed to do as a character,

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<v Speaker 1>at least so far. Do you remember that we had

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<v Speaker 1>this whole um. There was a whole story about me

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<v Speaker 1>becoming uh like a landscape contractor oh like a Mrs Miyagi. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>we haven't got and and and Jim was reluctant because

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<v Speaker 1>he was going to custom more in taxes. And finally

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<v Speaker 1>at the end of the episode he says, okay, you

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<v Speaker 1>can you know, you can go get a license to

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<v Speaker 1>be an Isn't that funny? Let you think, But then

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<v Speaker 1>the people at Fox apparently said no, no, she can't. No,

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<v Speaker 1>not real money. Why she's not allowed to make money

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<v Speaker 1>just to stay home and cook the meals for the teenagers.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even know why, But I just got it's

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<v Speaker 1>my dad's show. I just felt shame from head to toe.

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<v Speaker 1>What that is infuriating? Sorry, well I don't think it

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<v Speaker 1>was his fault, but still, you know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, different time, but but you looked hot

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<v Speaker 1>in every episode like you were the milf you were

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<v Speaker 1>so I mean nothing that we're saying you were, but

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<v Speaker 1>you are. You're such a beautiful woman. But that that

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<v Speaker 1>was thirty years ago. And we every time I see

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<v Speaker 1>you on screen and we always comment about it is

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<v Speaker 1>how hot Carol Potter is. And yeah, truly, like, oh

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<v Speaker 1>my gosh, like that storylines they didn't do like what

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<v Speaker 1>you called her an h f D Jenny. Was I

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<v Speaker 1>right potty for days? Oh my goodness, so flattered? You know.

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<v Speaker 1>I was never the hottie in my career. Um, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I went from sister to mother like within a year.

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<v Speaker 1>And the year that I became mom, I had a

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<v Speaker 1>baby and a ten year old, so there was it

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<v Speaker 1>was something I passed the threshold, and um, I never

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<v Speaker 1>went back. I was mom for the rest of my days.

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<v Speaker 1>You're kidding it? How how old do you mind just

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<v Speaker 1>asking how old you were when you start at the show? Um,

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<v Speaker 1>well it was ninety. I was forty two, so I

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<v Speaker 1>was younger than that. Gosh, yes, yeah, and like at

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<v Speaker 1>our age, at our age, like we're still fighting to

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<v Speaker 1>be like, we're still sex symbols when we do something

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<v Speaker 1>like and wow, like you know what you were the

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<v Speaker 1>girl next door? You were Maryanne from Gilligan's Island, and

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<v Speaker 1>every boy wanted Marianne at the end of the day,

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<v Speaker 1>not Ginger. So you won. Well that was yes, everyone,

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<v Speaker 1>everyone didn't remind I did remind everyone of somebody they knew,

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<v Speaker 1>Is that right. The other thing that's funny is, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of people recognize me, but they can't always

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<v Speaker 1>place me, so they'll say things like, were you a

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<v Speaker 1>teacher at my high school? Get that too? Did we

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<v Speaker 1>go to school together? I feel like I know you

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<v Speaker 1>did you know? Yeah, we're there are classmates. Did you

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<v Speaker 1>watch this episode? Perfect mom um, oh, I remember that episode?

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<v Speaker 1>That was a big episode. Yeah. Well, you know, Annie,

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<v Speaker 1>Annie Gillespie and I are still great friends. You are,

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<v Speaker 1>that's awesome. She you know, she and I grew up

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<v Speaker 1>in two towns right next to each other in New Jersey.

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<v Speaker 1>And Glesbie, who played Kelly Taylor's mom, Jackie. Yeah. Throughout

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<v Speaker 1>the entire series. Yeah, and this episode really focuses on Jackie.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes and her. This is when we're doing the fashion show, right,

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<v Speaker 1>fancy dress. The thing I remember most about this show, Kelly,

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<v Speaker 1>is how many times wait, wait, hold on, you just

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<v Speaker 1>called me Kelly, and I just want to point it out.

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<v Speaker 1>I love it. And here's the funny part. I ruined

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<v Speaker 1>at least three takes calling me Jenny. I kept saying Jenny,

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<v Speaker 1>and people would look at me and I, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't even know what I'd done wrong. And now

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<v Speaker 1>I call you Kelly. There's no rhyme or reason. Time

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<v Speaker 1>you said something in that episode, UM that I really

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<v Speaker 1>resonated with me as a grown woman now and of teenagers. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>I see everything so differently as I watched the show now,

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<v Speaker 1>because when I when I watched, when I was in it,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't know what was happening. I didn't really understand

0:14:25.120 --> 0:14:29.480
<v Speaker 1>anything outside my little brain bubble. But now watching it,

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<v Speaker 1>you said something in the kitchen I think was to

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<v Speaker 1>Brenda when she was trying to get you to hang

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<v Speaker 1>out with Kelly's mom. You were like, um, yeah, well,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sure she's really nice. I'm paraphrasing. But she's really nice,

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<v Speaker 1>but we're just different. I don't really want to be

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<v Speaker 1>friends with her. Basically, we're just different. And Brenda got

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<v Speaker 1>all upset about that, thinking that you, you know, were

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<v Speaker 1>you thought you were better than her. But that wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>the case at all. You you just kind of felt

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<v Speaker 1>like your friend, your your personalities didn't meet up. Maybe well,

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<v Speaker 1>I suspect that, you know, I was. Cindy probably felt

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<v Speaker 1>a little intimidated somebody. I mean she had been a big,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, star model and had this, you know, big career,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm m a stay at home mom and I've

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<v Speaker 1>been all my cooking. What do you think was the

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<v Speaker 1>best dish Cindy Walsh made? Oh god? Did we ever? Do?

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<v Speaker 1>You can remember you tasting a lot of the dishes?

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<v Speaker 1>I have this memory and in my mom we all

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<v Speaker 1>remember it of you eating all the property. She didn't

0:15:42.600 --> 0:15:45.800
<v Speaker 1>want to waste it. I love it. It's the Scott

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<v Speaker 1>in me. You know, did you ever get like a

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<v Speaker 1>stomach ache from from the spray that they sprayed on it? Nope? Nope, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I probably couldn't do it now because my

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<v Speaker 1>little Tom, he's more sensitive. She was so tiny and

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<v Speaker 1>had the best body, and yeah, you would. You would

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<v Speaker 1>eat all the eating and I'd be like, wow, eat anything.

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<v Speaker 1>Rarely used a spit bucket too, I just would eat it. Wait,

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<v Speaker 1>there's spit buckets. Well, you have to eat the same

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<v Speaker 1>thing over and over again. Yeah, they give you a

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<v Speaker 1>spit bucket so you don't have to actually eat the

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<v Speaker 1>whole thing. Interesting as soon as they cut, like they

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<v Speaker 1>do that in commercials, especially because otherwise, you know, you

0:16:32.360 --> 0:16:37.320
<v Speaker 1>be eating three or four or five hamburgers and would

0:16:37.360 --> 0:16:41.440
<v Speaker 1>be bad. That would be bad. But I felt I

0:16:41.480 --> 0:16:45.520
<v Speaker 1>felt like sorry for Cindy in that episode in a

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<v Speaker 1>different way than I did for like Relate. I related

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<v Speaker 1>to you a lot more as a mom, and I

0:16:52.320 --> 0:16:55.080
<v Speaker 1>felt sad that you felt like she didn't want you

0:16:55.520 --> 0:16:59.560
<v Speaker 1>at the fashion show. That broke my heart. Yeah, this episode,

0:16:59.680 --> 0:17:02.360
<v Speaker 1>I literally cried probably three times. And it was so

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<v Speaker 1>embarrassing because I was sitting there watching it with my

0:17:04.400 --> 0:17:08.160
<v Speaker 1>kid and my husband and my Fiona was like, why

0:17:08.160 --> 0:17:10.720
<v Speaker 1>are you crying? I said, I cry when I see

0:17:10.800 --> 0:17:14.000
<v Speaker 1>me cry on TV, Like when I'm watching myself cry,

0:17:14.040 --> 0:17:16.280
<v Speaker 1>it makes me cry because I feel all the feelings again.

0:17:17.000 --> 0:17:19.840
<v Speaker 1>And then I look over and my husband's got he's

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<v Speaker 1>got a tear. He had a tear too, so well,

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<v Speaker 1>you know that's that was one of the things that

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<v Speaker 1>I think made this show so strong and appealing was

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<v Speaker 1>that it did have a very strong emotional tug on

0:17:32.240 --> 0:17:35.399
<v Speaker 1>the audience. I mean, you were really we got people

0:17:35.480 --> 0:17:39.520
<v Speaker 1>rooting for everybody, you know, even the bad people, the

0:17:40.000 --> 0:17:44.040
<v Speaker 1>bad characters, you know, right, even when the main characters

0:17:44.080 --> 0:17:46.399
<v Speaker 1>would go through bad things, the audience would kind of

0:17:46.520 --> 0:17:50.080
<v Speaker 1>ride that way with them. And yeah, yeah, it reminded

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<v Speaker 1>me of us now, Jen as school moms. Do you

0:17:53.480 --> 0:17:57.280
<v Speaker 1>remember a conversation we had where I think we're working

0:17:57.280 --> 0:18:00.159
<v Speaker 1>at Mystery Girls, and I was frazzled because I had

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<v Speaker 1>come from school from drop off and I have this

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<v Speaker 1>innate to this day feeling of like I want everyone

0:18:07.359 --> 0:18:10.280
<v Speaker 1>to like me. I want to fit in. And I

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<v Speaker 1>still remember the conversation we had because you said I

0:18:13.280 --> 0:18:14.480
<v Speaker 1>was late and so why are you lad? And I said,

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<v Speaker 1>because I had to say hi to everyone, because if

0:18:15.920 --> 0:18:17.960
<v Speaker 1>I don't, They're going to think I'm a bit They're

0:18:18.200 --> 0:18:20.399
<v Speaker 1>they're not gonna like me. And you were like, but

0:18:20.480 --> 0:18:22.719
<v Speaker 1>your priority are the kids, Like, it doesn't matter if

0:18:22.720 --> 0:18:24.000
<v Speaker 1>they like you, And I was like, how are you

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<v Speaker 1>at school? You're like, I go in. My head's down

0:18:27.160 --> 0:18:30.080
<v Speaker 1>and I go And I respected that. I learned so

0:18:30.160 --> 0:18:32.399
<v Speaker 1>much because I was like, she's right, like if you

0:18:32.600 --> 0:18:34.800
<v Speaker 1>become friends with someone great, but trying to have to

0:18:34.800 --> 0:18:37.760
<v Speaker 1>fit in, it's different. Now we're not doing it for us,

0:18:37.800 --> 0:18:39.320
<v Speaker 1>We're doing it for our kids. We don't have to

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<v Speaker 1>fit in. So I don't know, it's not always take

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<v Speaker 1>that story, and I always think of you all the time.

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<v Speaker 1>I had an incident at Christopher's school. One of the

0:18:49.000 --> 0:18:52.600
<v Speaker 1>older you know, Christopher was like age three to eight

0:18:53.640 --> 0:18:58.320
<v Speaker 1>those those first five years, and um, there was a

0:18:58.359 --> 0:19:02.480
<v Speaker 1>girl at his school who you know, she's probably nine

0:19:02.560 --> 0:19:05.280
<v Speaker 1>or ten, you know, so she's quite a bit older

0:19:05.280 --> 0:19:08.680
<v Speaker 1>than him. And I guess the the the head of

0:19:08.720 --> 0:19:10.760
<v Speaker 1>the school was a friend of mine, and she said,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, some of the girls are you know, want

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<v Speaker 1>to ask you about nine o two? You know? You know,

0:19:16.440 --> 0:19:18.520
<v Speaker 1>so I did. I took a little moment with them

0:19:18.560 --> 0:19:21.880
<v Speaker 1>and I said, you know, I appreciate that you liked

0:19:21.920 --> 0:19:24.959
<v Speaker 1>the show and everything, but you know, this this place

0:19:25.240 --> 0:19:29.639
<v Speaker 1>is Christopher's place, and I don't I want to respect

0:19:29.680 --> 0:19:32.800
<v Speaker 1>that this is this is the place where he shines

0:19:32.960 --> 0:19:35.760
<v Speaker 1>and he's it's all about him and they were so

0:19:36.800 --> 0:19:40.560
<v Speaker 1>they totally got it because they're going to the same school, right,

0:19:40.600 --> 0:19:44.239
<v Speaker 1>they wanted the same thing for themselves. So, um, so

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<v Speaker 1>that was nice. They gosh, you are Cindy Wall she

0:19:47.800 --> 0:20:02.080
<v Speaker 1>you are. Do you remember your audition story, like your

0:20:02.119 --> 0:20:05.600
<v Speaker 1>audition for the show? Oh? God, yes, I mean, um,

0:20:05.680 --> 0:20:09.280
<v Speaker 1>I don't remember the first audition so much. Oh, this

0:20:09.359 --> 0:20:11.680
<v Speaker 1>is what I remember. I mean, I've been out of

0:20:11.760 --> 0:20:14.840
<v Speaker 1>work for a while, and every time I had an

0:20:14.880 --> 0:20:17.600
<v Speaker 1>audition and I didn't hear back right away, I would

0:20:17.640 --> 0:20:20.200
<v Speaker 1>just dissolve into tears because I was convinced I would

0:20:20.200 --> 0:20:23.680
<v Speaker 1>never work again. But the one, the one I really remember, though,

0:20:23.760 --> 0:20:27.360
<v Speaker 1>was the one that your dad was at Tory, because

0:20:27.480 --> 0:20:29.560
<v Speaker 1>you know, you walk into those rooms and they're all

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<v Speaker 1>these guys sitting there and they're just looking at you.

0:20:32.720 --> 0:20:35.600
<v Speaker 1>Your father it comes right up to me, shakes my

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<v Speaker 1>hand and he said, Hi, I'm Aaron Spelling, thank you

0:20:38.720 --> 0:20:42.080
<v Speaker 1>for coming in. And I thought, wow, nobody does that.

0:20:43.080 --> 0:20:44.919
<v Speaker 1>You know, he never forgot what it was like to

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<v Speaker 1>be an actor, even though he became a big producer,

0:20:48.680 --> 0:20:51.919
<v Speaker 1>And um, that just impressed me so much and it

0:20:52.000 --> 0:20:55.520
<v Speaker 1>put me at ease. Right, he loved actor so much

0:20:55.640 --> 0:20:59.159
<v Speaker 1>because he came from it. You're right, Oh my gosh.

0:20:59.400 --> 0:21:02.840
<v Speaker 1>I wonder was up against you. I wonder who looks

0:21:02.880 --> 0:21:06.160
<v Speaker 1>back and was like, no could be. I think there

0:21:06.240 --> 0:21:09.480
<v Speaker 1>was two of us. But do you remember, like the

0:21:09.840 --> 0:21:12.080
<v Speaker 1>like your first time on the set. Do you remember

0:21:12.440 --> 0:21:14.840
<v Speaker 1>what it was like to kind of come and remember

0:21:14.880 --> 0:21:18.880
<v Speaker 1>I had a different husband. Yes, that's right, Tell everyone,

0:21:18.920 --> 0:21:24.240
<v Speaker 1>Tell everyone. Linman Ward was a wonderful actor. He's about

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<v Speaker 1>six too. I think he's ver very tall. I think

0:21:28.200 --> 0:21:32.720
<v Speaker 1>was one of the problems, these short children, these two

0:21:32.800 --> 0:21:39.000
<v Speaker 1>tall parents, and then you know, I think he I

0:21:39.040 --> 0:21:43.480
<v Speaker 1>think his quality he was too sort of urbane and sophisticated.

0:21:43.600 --> 0:21:47.080
<v Speaker 1>It didn't ring sort of it didn't provide enough contrast.

0:21:47.200 --> 0:21:49.119
<v Speaker 1>Maybe that's my guests. I mean, I don't know what.

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<v Speaker 1>So somebody else was cast as Jim Walsh in the beginning,

0:21:53.480 --> 0:21:58.960
<v Speaker 1>but they reshot, they reshot those scenes for the pilot. Yeah. Well,

0:21:59.000 --> 0:22:01.800
<v Speaker 1>if you watched like you'll see that Jim is often

0:22:01.880 --> 0:22:08.040
<v Speaker 1>standing in a doorway. By the rest of the he

0:22:08.080 --> 0:22:10.480
<v Speaker 1>went on to start on something big after that. Oh

0:22:10.560 --> 0:22:16.120
<v Speaker 1>he was, but something after I can't remember. But but yes,

0:22:16.320 --> 0:22:19.560
<v Speaker 1>I think you're right, I think goodness. But I did

0:22:19.600 --> 0:22:22.920
<v Speaker 1>read with Jim and the other fellow who was reading

0:22:22.960 --> 0:22:25.600
<v Speaker 1>for that part that they were going to replace him with,

0:22:25.720 --> 0:22:29.440
<v Speaker 1>and I was rooting for Jim. We heard, we heard

0:22:29.480 --> 0:22:31.520
<v Speaker 1>that you had a little crush on a couple of

0:22:31.560 --> 0:22:43.280
<v Speaker 1>the actors, maybe Luke Hurt. You had the biggest crush

0:22:43.320 --> 0:22:46.440
<v Speaker 1>on Luke. I think everybody that came up joke about

0:22:46.440 --> 0:22:50.000
<v Speaker 1>it all the time. He would flirt with you. I

0:22:50.040 --> 0:22:53.040
<v Speaker 1>remember that. I remember how he'd go up and just

0:22:53.160 --> 0:22:58.920
<v Speaker 1>hold you, like nuzzle you and get dirty to each other.

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<v Speaker 1>What would he say? I said, like I said, it's

0:23:06.680 --> 0:23:10.040
<v Speaker 1>always something inappropriate. He was whispering into your ear. But

0:23:10.119 --> 0:23:13.760
<v Speaker 1>what do you remember, Harold Potter just said he talked

0:23:13.840 --> 0:23:19.520
<v Speaker 1>dirty to me. He whispered it. And she's giggling. She's

0:23:19.520 --> 0:23:24.560
<v Speaker 1>giggling the way you giggle over you can't see. I'm sure.

0:23:24.640 --> 0:23:30.080
<v Speaker 1>I'm my cheeks are very hot. It's so interesting. I

0:23:30.119 --> 0:23:31.919
<v Speaker 1>didn't remember it to you said it, and then I

0:23:31.920 --> 0:23:34.439
<v Speaker 1>can have the visual of him, like seeing you in

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<v Speaker 1>the hallway and going up to you and putting his

0:23:36.280 --> 0:23:40.000
<v Speaker 1>hands on your waist and talking. Yeah, I'm seeing it

0:23:40.080 --> 0:23:44.480
<v Speaker 1>right now. She's really having to tell us one thing

0:23:44.480 --> 0:23:49.359
<v Speaker 1>he said that wasn't too dirty. Oh, if I can

0:23:49.440 --> 0:23:53.800
<v Speaker 1>remember anything in particular exactly, you know we had that. Oh,

0:23:54.240 --> 0:24:00.720
<v Speaker 1>Mrs Mrs Walsh, I should have enough. Ms Robinson, gravely

0:24:01.440 --> 0:24:07.239
<v Speaker 1>lovely having affair with Dylan. Oh, I can imagine. We

0:24:07.280 --> 0:24:11.399
<v Speaker 1>thought that would be fun. Actually mentioned it was Grand

0:24:11.480 --> 0:24:20.359
<v Speaker 1>shown from m Grand Show from Melrose Place, and we

0:24:20.359 --> 0:24:22.800
<v Speaker 1>were sitting on a wall at one point and he's

0:24:22.800 --> 0:24:25.800
<v Speaker 1>looking at me, says, we should be having the affair,

0:24:26.480 --> 0:24:29.240
<v Speaker 1>having the you know, the younger man, older woman affair.

0:24:29.320 --> 0:24:32.280
<v Speaker 1>But what is happening? The star of nine two, the

0:24:32.320 --> 0:24:34.239
<v Speaker 1>Star of Melrose Placed. They were all hitting on you,

0:24:34.400 --> 0:24:36.960
<v Speaker 1>Carol Potter. The whole side of you is revealed today.

0:24:37.320 --> 0:24:40.680
<v Speaker 1>I love the hubbub love it so much because we've

0:24:40.960 --> 0:24:43.439
<v Speaker 1>rewatching these episodes, Like we couldn't see it when we

0:24:43.440 --> 0:24:45.359
<v Speaker 1>were in it, but now re watching it, we were

0:24:45.400 --> 0:24:49.760
<v Speaker 1>saying the same thing, like beautiful, beautiful. Yeah we didn't really,

0:24:49.960 --> 0:24:52.280
<v Speaker 1>we didn't really take the time to look at you

0:24:52.359 --> 0:24:54.320
<v Speaker 1>much because we're so worried about what we look like.

0:24:56.720 --> 0:24:59.639
<v Speaker 1>But now we're watching it, you looked amazing and you

0:24:59.720 --> 0:25:02.760
<v Speaker 1>were You're acting was so great and I feel like

0:25:02.840 --> 0:25:08.520
<v Speaker 1>I personally just didn't appreciate your amazing contribution fusion to

0:25:08.560 --> 0:25:10.960
<v Speaker 1>the show at that time. Well, you know, I have

0:25:11.119 --> 0:25:14.280
<v Speaker 1>to say that that you know, doing that reboot by

0:25:14.320 --> 0:25:18.040
<v Speaker 1>the way, you don't, you ladies really put together something.

0:25:18.480 --> 0:25:20.520
<v Speaker 1>I mean when I first heard about it, I said,

0:25:20.800 --> 0:25:23.480
<v Speaker 1>a bunch of actors getting together to try to, you know,

0:25:23.560 --> 0:25:26.879
<v Speaker 1>reboot a show. But once I read that script and

0:25:27.160 --> 0:25:30.359
<v Speaker 1>I thought you did an amazing job. I mean you

0:25:30.359 --> 0:25:35.840
<v Speaker 1>you hit on so many, like themes of aging of celebrity,

0:25:35.840 --> 0:25:40.760
<v Speaker 1>I mean, sort of deconstructing these, uh, the idea of celebrity,

0:25:40.800 --> 0:25:44.080
<v Speaker 1>the idea of what's a person really like and what's

0:25:44.080 --> 0:25:46.560
<v Speaker 1>their real life versus their screen life. I mean, I

0:25:46.680 --> 0:25:49.359
<v Speaker 1>just I have to give you props for that because

0:25:49.400 --> 0:25:53.199
<v Speaker 1>I thought it was really well done. And and I

0:25:53.280 --> 0:25:56.159
<v Speaker 1>have to say that was probably my favorite day of

0:25:56.240 --> 0:26:01.080
<v Speaker 1>shooting ever in my entire career. You were all so sweet,

0:26:01.119 --> 0:26:03.720
<v Speaker 1>and it was so nice to hang around together. Now

0:26:03.760 --> 0:26:11.560
<v Speaker 1>that you're all adults, it was so much more relaxed.

0:26:11.680 --> 0:26:14.199
<v Speaker 1>And then you knew what you were about. You weren't

0:26:14.760 --> 0:26:17.800
<v Speaker 1>you know, you weren't all stressed about I mean, I

0:26:17.800 --> 0:26:21.679
<v Speaker 1>can't imagine what it was like to find yourself throwst

0:26:21.720 --> 0:26:24.800
<v Speaker 1>so in the spotlight. The way you were, it must

0:26:24.840 --> 0:26:32.159
<v Speaker 1>have been incredibly jarring and scary, you know. I just

0:26:32.240 --> 0:26:34.359
<v Speaker 1>remember the girls were all getting scared. I mean I

0:26:34.400 --> 0:26:37.080
<v Speaker 1>remember Shannon coming, Oh guy came to my house. I

0:26:37.119 --> 0:26:39.560
<v Speaker 1>have to get you know, they were all concerned about

0:26:39.600 --> 0:26:45.040
<v Speaker 1>security and the guys are just going. Girls are throwing

0:26:45.080 --> 0:26:48.359
<v Speaker 1>themselves at me, want to be bad, you know, But

0:26:48.440 --> 0:26:51.600
<v Speaker 1>then you get the who's vulnerable In our culture, it's

0:26:51.640 --> 0:26:54.720
<v Speaker 1>women who are vulnerable, right, and so being thrust out

0:26:54.760 --> 0:26:59.680
<v Speaker 1>into the open. It struck me that it was much

0:26:59.720 --> 0:27:05.040
<v Speaker 1>harder for the for you girls, you women, Yes, we

0:27:05.080 --> 0:27:08.320
<v Speaker 1>didn't really it was harder for the guys, right, well,

0:27:08.359 --> 0:27:10.800
<v Speaker 1>they were. They were just chased more I think by

0:27:10.800 --> 0:27:13.840
<v Speaker 1>the girls, but I think emotionally and mentally, and it

0:27:13.920 --> 0:27:18.440
<v Speaker 1>was more taxing on on maybe the women because there

0:27:18.520 --> 0:27:24.120
<v Speaker 1>was so much more pressure on us to fulfill people's

0:27:24.200 --> 0:27:28.520
<v Speaker 1>everybody's needs, everybody's you know, what they wanted us to be.

0:27:29.800 --> 0:27:32.760
<v Speaker 1>So that was a lot. And I don't think that

0:27:32.800 --> 0:27:34.760
<v Speaker 1>the guys really took that on as much as the

0:27:34.800 --> 0:27:39.520
<v Speaker 1>girls probably did. And I also think, you know, for

0:27:39.520 --> 0:27:43.080
<v Speaker 1>for a guy to have girls throwing themselves at him

0:27:43.200 --> 0:27:46.120
<v Speaker 1>there's a certain aspect of that that he can enjoy.

0:27:46.160 --> 0:27:49.879
<v Speaker 1>But for a young woman to have strange men throwing

0:27:49.920 --> 0:27:53.560
<v Speaker 1>themselves at her feels and to have people just look

0:27:53.560 --> 0:27:56.399
<v Speaker 1>at you a different way, like objectifying you, looking at

0:27:56.440 --> 0:28:00.000
<v Speaker 1>you and and sort of sizing you up or stereotype

0:28:00.160 --> 0:28:04.600
<v Speaker 1>you and thinking that's all you are. I mean, I've

0:28:04.640 --> 0:28:07.959
<v Speaker 1>been in therapy for years, Carol, because of of that

0:28:08.040 --> 0:28:10.359
<v Speaker 1>was a really it was a lot, and I was

0:28:10.400 --> 0:28:13.160
<v Speaker 1>not equipped to handle all that went with that sort

0:28:13.200 --> 0:28:17.840
<v Speaker 1>of starting. Very few people who are able are equipped

0:28:17.840 --> 0:28:20.320
<v Speaker 1>to handle something like that at the ages that you

0:28:20.640 --> 0:28:22.879
<v Speaker 1>kids were dealing with it. You don't mind if I

0:28:22.920 --> 0:28:27.280
<v Speaker 1>call you kids? No, keep doing it. I really like it. Yeah,

0:28:27.720 --> 0:28:30.200
<v Speaker 1>with they confiding you, Carol, and during the show, would

0:28:30.200 --> 0:28:32.000
<v Speaker 1>they come to your dressing room and ask for advice?

0:28:35.600 --> 0:28:38.000
<v Speaker 1>They knew more, They probably knew more. I mean, we

0:28:38.040 --> 0:28:43.720
<v Speaker 1>thought she needs advice from anybody, should go a lot

0:28:43.800 --> 0:28:49.840
<v Speaker 1>of it. I thought. The funny Part two was Tory's

0:28:49.960 --> 0:28:53.440
<v Speaker 1>brother Randy, was in the soap that I did, so

0:28:53.600 --> 0:28:56.200
<v Speaker 1>I now worked with both of the Spelling children. There

0:28:56.200 --> 0:29:00.400
<v Speaker 1>you go. Well, I'm still amazed that you you had

0:29:00.520 --> 0:29:10.800
<v Speaker 1>Luke Perry whispering naughty yeah, I love Yeah, he was,

0:29:11.440 --> 0:29:18.400
<v Speaker 1>he was. Did Jason ever flirt with you? I mean,

0:29:18.520 --> 0:29:22.320
<v Speaker 1>even though it was only pretend, it felt well weird.

0:29:23.400 --> 0:29:25.680
<v Speaker 1>I feel like, you know, I never had a scene

0:29:25.720 --> 0:29:30.360
<v Speaker 1>with Jason until that episode. I don't know what this

0:29:30.440 --> 0:29:32.840
<v Speaker 1>is a sixth season or the seventh season where I

0:29:32.960 --> 0:29:35.760
<v Speaker 1>came back. How is that possible? That was the first?

0:29:35.840 --> 0:29:39.680
<v Speaker 1>I mean just two of you. You know had plenty

0:29:39.760 --> 0:29:43.040
<v Speaker 1>with Shannon and plenty of Jim, you know, and you

0:29:43.200 --> 0:29:45.360
<v Speaker 1>and I had a great one, Tory. You came to

0:29:45.400 --> 0:29:48.280
<v Speaker 1>me for advice or something. You had this I don't know,

0:29:48.360 --> 0:29:50.400
<v Speaker 1>you were pouring your heart out to me. Do you

0:29:50.440 --> 0:29:54.080
<v Speaker 1>remember that scene? I don't even know. I wonder if

0:29:54.120 --> 0:29:56.080
<v Speaker 1>it was like when my mom cheated on my dad.

0:29:56.080 --> 0:29:58.400
<v Speaker 1>I don't remember. That could have been it might have

0:29:58.440 --> 0:30:02.360
<v Speaker 1>been familiar. Yeah, because that just goes to show they

0:30:02.400 --> 0:30:05.760
<v Speaker 1>really they really played on the father son and then

0:30:05.760 --> 0:30:11.120
<v Speaker 1>the mother daughter and the father daughter. Oh and did

0:30:11.200 --> 0:30:14.600
<v Speaker 1>plenty of father daughter like a mom's boy. This is

0:30:14.680 --> 0:30:17.360
<v Speaker 1>like Theory has a connection to his mother. Why didn't

0:30:17.360 --> 0:30:21.200
<v Speaker 1>they explore that? Bizarre? Yeah, that's I think you put

0:30:21.240 --> 0:30:24.600
<v Speaker 1>the nail on the head, Tory. They didn't want to

0:30:24.680 --> 0:30:28.840
<v Speaker 1>explore that because it reminded them of when they were

0:30:28.920 --> 0:30:32.640
<v Speaker 1>teenagers and their mothers in charge of them. And we

0:30:32.680 --> 0:30:36.520
<v Speaker 1>still you know, when you live in a patriarchal system

0:30:36.560 --> 0:30:39.239
<v Speaker 1>and you're becoming a young man, the last thing you

0:30:39.320 --> 0:30:41.520
<v Speaker 1>want to have to admit to is the fact that

0:30:41.560 --> 0:30:45.680
<v Speaker 1>there was this woman who had control over your life.

0:30:47.360 --> 0:30:50.120
<v Speaker 1>Do you think it a lot of I'm just speculating.

0:30:50.120 --> 0:30:52.080
<v Speaker 1>I love kind of talk. Do you think that a

0:30:52.080 --> 0:30:56.600
<v Speaker 1>lot of men grow into adulthood and and have like

0:30:57.240 --> 0:30:59.920
<v Speaker 1>they hold a grudge against women in general because of

0:31:00.680 --> 0:31:04.480
<v Speaker 1>that very thing ad relationship with their mother? Yeah? Bad?

0:31:04.640 --> 0:31:10.640
<v Speaker 1>Or just that no, well, um, just that sense of

0:31:10.760 --> 0:31:15.080
<v Speaker 1>being on a pedestal kind of well, there's that. I mean,

0:31:15.120 --> 0:31:21.600
<v Speaker 1>we do have moms who enable predators, right, I mean,

0:31:21.640 --> 0:31:23.840
<v Speaker 1>do you when do you remember this? Oh god, there

0:31:23.880 --> 0:31:28.920
<v Speaker 1>was this huge scandal, Yes, one of those Lakewood, Lakewood,

0:31:28.920 --> 0:31:32.760
<v Speaker 1>California's like have us who I want to say, And

0:31:33.080 --> 0:31:36.520
<v Speaker 1>there was this whole thing that the boys were putting

0:31:36.560 --> 0:31:40.680
<v Speaker 1>notches in their bed post and this one young woman

0:31:40.800 --> 0:31:44.600
<v Speaker 1>had the actually stood up and said he raped her,

0:31:45.600 --> 0:31:47.840
<v Speaker 1>and of course it just got poured on top of

0:31:47.880 --> 0:31:52.200
<v Speaker 1>her and the mother of the boy was just oh

0:31:52.240 --> 0:31:56.360
<v Speaker 1>my god, she's a slot and my son's great. And

0:31:56.560 --> 0:31:59.840
<v Speaker 1>you know, he had slept to his sixty sixty six

0:32:00.120 --> 0:32:03.640
<v Speaker 1>girls and he's not a slot. She slept with one

0:32:03.680 --> 0:32:07.360
<v Speaker 1>and she is. I mean, the double standard was so rampant.

0:32:07.360 --> 0:32:09.719
<v Speaker 1>I was, and I was, so there are parents, There

0:32:09.720 --> 0:32:15.200
<v Speaker 1>are mothers who enabled their sons, for sure. I remember

0:32:15.240 --> 0:32:20.320
<v Speaker 1>having a really like a nice, like strong connection with

0:32:20.480 --> 0:32:23.400
<v Speaker 1>Jackie with Anne who played my mom on the show,

0:32:23.440 --> 0:32:25.600
<v Speaker 1>and I always love the days when I'll be working

0:32:25.640 --> 0:32:29.200
<v Speaker 1>with her, and it just felt it felt good and

0:32:29.240 --> 0:32:32.720
<v Speaker 1>felt warm and fuzzy somehow. And I did you kind

0:32:32.720 --> 0:32:39.240
<v Speaker 1>of have that same feeling with Brenda for Shannon? No?

0:32:39.720 --> 0:32:42.920
<v Speaker 1>I No, I didn't. We weren't warm and fuzzy. I mean,

0:32:42.960 --> 0:32:46.080
<v Speaker 1>we had some nice scenes together, but I never felt

0:32:46.120 --> 0:32:51.360
<v Speaker 1>that close to Shannon. Um. I felt really close to James.

0:32:51.520 --> 0:32:54.400
<v Speaker 1>I mean because she and you know I we're constantly

0:32:54.800 --> 0:32:58.000
<v Speaker 1>you know. I remember when Richard Rountree came to the set,

0:32:58.040 --> 0:33:01.760
<v Speaker 1>we both just glond onto him. Was like another adult

0:33:03.560 --> 0:33:11.960
<v Speaker 1>um but sorry, yeah so um. And when um Tiffany came,

0:33:13.160 --> 0:33:15.520
<v Speaker 1>she and I had a blast because she was really

0:33:16.120 --> 0:33:19.240
<v Speaker 1>you know, she would just you know, shoot this back

0:33:19.280 --> 0:33:24.600
<v Speaker 1>and forth, and so she was a lot of camera. Well,

0:33:24.840 --> 0:33:28.280
<v Speaker 1>but I mean we would play even we were working

0:33:28.280 --> 0:33:30.440
<v Speaker 1>on the scene. I could I could really play with her.

0:33:30.800 --> 0:33:33.280
<v Speaker 1>My sense of Shannon was that she was kind of working.

0:33:33.840 --> 0:33:37.560
<v Speaker 1>She was doing her thing, and I didn't feel like

0:33:37.560 --> 0:33:40.280
<v Speaker 1>there was a lot of space for me. But you know,

0:33:40.360 --> 0:33:42.479
<v Speaker 1>it may have been different when she was working with

0:33:42.520 --> 0:33:44.360
<v Speaker 1>the rest of you guys. I'm sure it was different

0:33:44.360 --> 0:33:47.120
<v Speaker 1>with Luke. That's interesting, though, Jen, you bring that up

0:33:47.240 --> 0:33:49.600
<v Speaker 1>because like my mom on the show, Felice Martin, was

0:33:49.640 --> 0:33:52.080
<v Speaker 1>played by Catherine And why am I blinking at her

0:33:52.120 --> 0:33:55.120
<v Speaker 1>last name? Oh my gosh, But Catherine who played my

0:33:55.200 --> 0:33:58.000
<v Speaker 1>mom Felice Martin on the show. Even though she was

0:33:59.040 --> 0:34:03.120
<v Speaker 1>kind of harsh on the show, she was so warm

0:34:03.360 --> 0:34:06.840
<v Speaker 1>off camera. But I like, I felt the same way

0:34:06.840 --> 0:34:08.600
<v Speaker 1>that you felt. Like the days that I got to

0:34:08.600 --> 0:34:10.920
<v Speaker 1>work with her, I felt so much love and she

0:34:11.040 --> 0:34:13.719
<v Speaker 1>hugged me and it was like literally like having an

0:34:13.760 --> 0:34:19.200
<v Speaker 1>extension like my mom on set. So well, well, Carol,

0:34:19.360 --> 0:34:22.640
<v Speaker 1>you're a great actress because you couldn't tell I never

0:34:22.680 --> 0:34:25.480
<v Speaker 1>guessed it, no what I thought. You guys were BFFs.

0:34:26.080 --> 0:34:29.440
<v Speaker 1>So Carol, you were in a hundred and forty seven

0:34:29.960 --> 0:34:33.160
<v Speaker 1>of the two d and nine episodes. Oh my god,

0:34:33.600 --> 0:34:40.000
<v Speaker 1>do you have a favorite? Well, seventeen year itch, I

0:34:40.160 --> 0:34:43.960
<v Speaker 1>know not, you know, I got to flirt with somebody else.

0:34:44.719 --> 0:34:47.520
<v Speaker 1>What season was? Do you know what season that was?

0:34:48.400 --> 0:34:50.880
<v Speaker 1>M do you know what season that was in? That

0:34:50.920 --> 0:34:55.239
<v Speaker 1>was the first season? That was the first season. Oh,

0:34:55.280 --> 0:35:00.480
<v Speaker 1>that's next week. Exciting Now I'm excited for the Carol.

0:35:00.880 --> 0:35:03.640
<v Speaker 1>What to look forward to? And we got to wander

0:35:03.719 --> 0:35:09.560
<v Speaker 1>around venicilt you and your old flame in old town?

0:35:11.000 --> 0:35:14.319
<v Speaker 1>Did you talked so slowly? They had to cut like

0:35:14.520 --> 0:35:24.640
<v Speaker 1>three minutes out of Were you thinking speed it up there? Romantic? Oh? No,

0:35:24.960 --> 0:35:29.360
<v Speaker 1>who's the actor? And you know that was the week

0:35:30.520 --> 0:35:34.840
<v Speaker 1>um so the week before I got married in real life,

0:35:35.160 --> 0:35:38.160
<v Speaker 1>in real life, I mean, we had this whole thing

0:35:38.200 --> 0:35:42.319
<v Speaker 1>planned out where I was. You know, first of all,

0:35:42.640 --> 0:35:47.000
<v Speaker 1>we had this wedding plan for Saturday, and then um,

0:35:47.120 --> 0:35:51.440
<v Speaker 1>they call me. Nobody has given me any information. Right

0:35:51.520 --> 0:35:54.160
<v Speaker 1>that we've done the pilot, they picked it up. It's

0:35:54.160 --> 0:35:57.080
<v Speaker 1>starting to shoot in April. Nobody's given me any information.

0:35:57.520 --> 0:36:00.200
<v Speaker 1>And they say, okay, your first call day is Saturday day.

0:36:00.320 --> 0:36:04.839
<v Speaker 1>I'm going what what Saturday? They oh, oh yeah, we're

0:36:04.840 --> 0:36:08.600
<v Speaker 1>shooting Tuesday through Saturday. I said, what the f. It's

0:36:08.640 --> 0:36:11.359
<v Speaker 1>nobody gonna tell me this. I mean, they literally didn't

0:36:11.360 --> 0:36:13.799
<v Speaker 1>tell me until I had to, you know, show up

0:36:13.800 --> 0:36:15.960
<v Speaker 1>for work. I said, you know, I'm getting married on

0:36:16.000 --> 0:36:20.759
<v Speaker 1>a Saturday in October. Okay, we'll work it out. We

0:36:20.840 --> 0:36:23.640
<v Speaker 1>work it out. So we had it set up. We

0:36:23.760 --> 0:36:29.160
<v Speaker 1>actually flipped two shows so that I would get this

0:36:29.200 --> 0:36:32.560
<v Speaker 1>one over and then shoot the next show, which I

0:36:32.560 --> 0:36:36.120
<v Speaker 1>didn't have much to do it, and then we had

0:36:36.120 --> 0:36:39.840
<v Speaker 1>a pick up day, though it shoved the whole shooting

0:36:39.880 --> 0:36:43.719
<v Speaker 1>schedule over one day, which meant that I missed my

0:36:43.800 --> 0:36:48.960
<v Speaker 1>rehearsal dinner, not until I don't know, you know, ten

0:36:49.080 --> 0:36:53.839
<v Speaker 1>ten eleven o'clock. This is why the business sucks so hard.

0:36:53.960 --> 0:36:57.680
<v Speaker 1>The next day I got married. I can't believe that

0:36:57.680 --> 0:37:03.160
<v Speaker 1>that's so typical. I don't from Broadway who got married

0:37:03.239 --> 0:37:07.560
<v Speaker 1>in between the mattenee and the evening show. They wouldn't,

0:37:08.080 --> 0:37:11.080
<v Speaker 1>but they never let them out of the show. Did

0:37:11.239 --> 0:37:14.880
<v Speaker 1>did Cindy Walsh cheat on Jim? Did you? Did she

0:37:15.200 --> 0:37:21.839
<v Speaker 1>have an affair? You kissed him? Were he kissed him?

0:37:22.040 --> 0:37:26.920
<v Speaker 1>He kissed you? That's cheating, Carol Potter. Technically you cheated

0:37:27.120 --> 0:37:33.040
<v Speaker 1>on Jim malls serious cheating. I was. I was tempted,

0:37:34.120 --> 0:37:39.000
<v Speaker 1>but I realized in time that I really loved Jim

0:37:39.040 --> 0:37:42.200
<v Speaker 1>and I didn't want to ruin my life, so I

0:37:42.280 --> 0:37:44.520
<v Speaker 1>made the right decision. I feel like that's an episode

0:37:44.560 --> 0:37:49.680
<v Speaker 1>in every series. Yeah, like the husband of the wife,

0:37:49.200 --> 0:37:53.759
<v Speaker 1>that temptation to dip their toe in them when you

0:37:53.840 --> 0:38:01.040
<v Speaker 1>consider how how prevalent affairs are in this country. I

0:38:01.080 --> 0:38:04.440
<v Speaker 1>thought you were going to say in this industry, No, no, no,

0:38:04.440 --> 0:38:07.920
<v Speaker 1>no no, just remember you know, couples were those one

0:38:07.920 --> 0:38:13.239
<v Speaker 1>of my specialties, and the number of people who have

0:38:13.960 --> 0:38:20.239
<v Speaker 1>who have extramarital affairs is mind blowing. What's like the percentage?

0:38:20.840 --> 0:38:22.880
<v Speaker 1>And I don't you know, I wouldn't want to guess

0:38:22.880 --> 0:38:26.680
<v Speaker 1>at a percentage, but it's way above ten. Yeah, I

0:38:26.680 --> 0:38:31.960
<v Speaker 1>would imagine above ten women. And I don't know if

0:38:32.000 --> 0:38:34.920
<v Speaker 1>it's I don't know if it's half more than half,

0:38:34.960 --> 0:38:38.919
<v Speaker 1>but it's certainly high up in that first half. Why

0:38:38.960 --> 0:38:42.360
<v Speaker 1>do you believe that typically meant? I mean, obviously it

0:38:42.400 --> 0:38:45.080
<v Speaker 1>can happen both ways, but I think typically, I hate

0:38:45.120 --> 0:38:48.280
<v Speaker 1>to say it, men cheat more than women in a marriage.

0:38:48.280 --> 0:38:51.560
<v Speaker 1>Do you find that true, Carol Um? You know I

0:38:51.560 --> 0:38:55.160
<v Speaker 1>couldn't say for sure, but I know that more women

0:38:55.800 --> 0:39:01.279
<v Speaker 1>are are having affairs these days than well I'm talking

0:39:01.320 --> 0:39:04.920
<v Speaker 1>about you know, once women started going to work, they

0:39:04.960 --> 0:39:08.279
<v Speaker 1>meet people at work, and whereas if you're a housewife,

0:39:09.360 --> 0:39:14.800
<v Speaker 1>what do you have, right, you're speaking cookies, you know,

0:39:15.200 --> 0:39:17.880
<v Speaker 1>just mail man. Oh that's why they said, oh the

0:39:18.000 --> 0:39:21.000
<v Speaker 1>kid came from the milkman. Now I get it. That

0:39:21.120 --> 0:39:23.440
<v Speaker 1>was the only other man, the only other guy who

0:39:23.480 --> 0:39:28.239
<v Speaker 1>gave it out the milk mad men, didn't you? That

0:39:28.400 --> 0:39:33.520
<v Speaker 1>was my era? Yeah? Wow, we were allowed to start working.

0:39:33.680 --> 0:39:37.440
<v Speaker 1>We're allowed to be sexy, we were allowed to love interesting.

0:39:37.680 --> 0:39:41.360
<v Speaker 1>I can wear whatever we want. I mean, the range

0:39:41.360 --> 0:39:43.680
<v Speaker 1>of fashion that's available is great, although I have to

0:39:43.680 --> 0:39:49.920
<v Speaker 1>say fifties the best, nice waspy wastes and full skirts

0:39:50.040 --> 0:39:56.280
<v Speaker 1>and emphasis of the buzzard. You cannot beat fifties. Carol Potter.

0:39:56.560 --> 0:39:58.560
<v Speaker 1>I gave credit to Jenny, but I think it might

0:39:58.600 --> 0:40:00.799
<v Speaker 1>have been you that started the end of the mom jean.

0:40:01.560 --> 0:40:04.080
<v Speaker 1>It could have been is that what do you mean?

0:40:04.120 --> 0:40:06.440
<v Speaker 1>It's the biggest thing now even teens are wearing it.

0:40:06.920 --> 0:40:09.919
<v Speaker 1>You didn't ever wear mom jean. Your jeans were Yes,

0:40:10.000 --> 0:40:11.680
<v Speaker 1>you wore jeans and you were mom, so they were

0:40:11.760 --> 0:40:15.160
<v Speaker 1>technically mom jeans, but the style and the cut of

0:40:15.200 --> 0:40:18.680
<v Speaker 1>the gene that is in now because it's the highwayst

0:40:18.680 --> 0:40:23.960
<v Speaker 1>of the and you were so well yeah, god, well

0:40:24.000 --> 0:40:27.719
<v Speaker 1>you know somebody whoever had the idea that sitting your

0:40:27.800 --> 0:40:30.920
<v Speaker 1>waist at the widest part of your hips was flattering

0:40:30.960 --> 0:40:33.680
<v Speaker 1>to a woman that that person should have their heading salmon.

0:40:33.840 --> 0:40:37.560
<v Speaker 1>Oh that you mean like low waisted jeans and not

0:40:37.800 --> 0:40:41.960
<v Speaker 1>not having the tops right. Yeah, I wore the crap

0:40:42.000 --> 0:40:44.040
<v Speaker 1>out of those in the nineties. Remember when they got

0:40:44.080 --> 0:40:47.719
<v Speaker 1>so low that it was like dangerous though, like a

0:40:47.800 --> 0:40:50.080
<v Speaker 1>hip bun showed and then I don't wear a belt.

0:40:50.239 --> 0:41:01.319
<v Speaker 1>Maybe some pugs popping up, I said, she can't handle it. Oh,

0:41:01.400 --> 0:41:13.360
<v Speaker 1>it's it's it. I messed her. Sorry, Carol, I'm watching

0:41:13.480 --> 0:41:20.319
<v Speaker 1>Tori have a hysterical fit. Oh wow, oh my god.

0:41:20.360 --> 0:41:23.560
<v Speaker 1>I needed a laugh today too. So we're here for you.

0:41:24.880 --> 0:41:28.720
<v Speaker 1>I'm just I'm just to hear with this crazy world

0:41:28.840 --> 0:41:31.480
<v Speaker 1>we're living in right now. Yeah, how you holding up?

0:41:32.920 --> 0:41:35.080
<v Speaker 1>I had a bad and I'm telling you the thing

0:41:35.120 --> 0:41:41.200
<v Speaker 1>that I tried to add a new email address mailbox

0:41:41.239 --> 0:41:48.359
<v Speaker 1>onto my phone and it's just like tears for the young.

0:41:48.800 --> 0:41:54.120
<v Speaker 1>That's the thing. It'll just I'll come apart calls with

0:41:54.239 --> 0:41:57.920
<v Speaker 1>clients all day. Well pretty much. I've had I do

0:41:57.960 --> 0:42:00.959
<v Speaker 1>my yoga class twice a week on h and man,

0:42:01.040 --> 0:42:05.000
<v Speaker 1>that's been a lifesaver. I have a meditation group. They

0:42:05.040 --> 0:42:08.840
<v Speaker 1>she come, she um. She offers it every single morning.

0:42:09.080 --> 0:42:12.480
<v Speaker 1>I'm usually there at least four times a week, three

0:42:12.520 --> 0:42:15.880
<v Speaker 1>to five times a week, usually about eight thirty in

0:42:15.920 --> 0:42:20.720
<v Speaker 1>the morning. We all do. She brings us into presence,

0:42:21.440 --> 0:42:25.279
<v Speaker 1>she reads a little something, We do a chant, do

0:42:25.400 --> 0:42:29.399
<v Speaker 1>a sit the thing that's really sick. Can we come?

0:42:29.520 --> 0:42:33.120
<v Speaker 1>Can we Oh? Yeah, we need to have a meditation.

0:42:33.520 --> 0:42:38.799
<v Speaker 1>Her name is Heather Ruce. Are you cee? And if

0:42:38.840 --> 0:42:42.560
<v Speaker 1>you google Heather Ruse, you'll go to her website and

0:42:42.600 --> 0:42:47.160
<v Speaker 1>you can click on the daily meditations and she she

0:42:47.360 --> 0:42:50.439
<v Speaker 1>does a great job. But it's really um. I got

0:42:50.480 --> 0:42:54.960
<v Speaker 1>all involved in deeper and re engage with spiritualities here

0:42:54.960 --> 0:42:57.560
<v Speaker 1>and that's it's been my life. But you know, I

0:42:57.600 --> 0:43:00.160
<v Speaker 1>also was writing this book. You wrote a book, was

0:43:00.200 --> 0:43:04.360
<v Speaker 1>just going to say talking about Actually it's starting in March.

0:43:05.000 --> 0:43:11.320
<v Speaker 1>We had heavy duty um editing, I mean a major rewrite,

0:43:11.719 --> 0:43:16.640
<v Speaker 1>you know, completely restructured from March until I want to

0:43:16.680 --> 0:43:19.520
<v Speaker 1>say towards the end of the summer. So I mean

0:43:19.600 --> 0:43:23.319
<v Speaker 1>I I the fact that there was nothing to do

0:43:23.440 --> 0:43:26.800
<v Speaker 1>and nowhere to go was really kind of So you

0:43:26.920 --> 0:43:30.839
<v Speaker 1>finished the book, and when does it come out? Then February.

0:43:30.960 --> 0:43:36.680
<v Speaker 1>It's called When Your Child Has a Chronic Medical Illness,

0:43:37.520 --> 0:43:41.840
<v Speaker 1>A Guide for the Parenting Journey, and you can preorder

0:43:41.880 --> 0:43:48.400
<v Speaker 1>it on on Amazon. Everybody you can preorder it. And

0:43:49.080 --> 0:43:51.920
<v Speaker 1>you know, so if you know anybody, he's got a

0:43:52.000 --> 0:43:56.040
<v Speaker 1>kid with a chronic medical illness. Um, it's something. It's

0:43:56.080 --> 0:44:02.360
<v Speaker 1>somewhere between fourteen and of kids have some kind of

0:44:02.440 --> 0:44:08.120
<v Speaker 1>chronical medical illness, some kind of chronic illness. UM. So

0:44:09.120 --> 0:44:13.040
<v Speaker 1>we're getting really I'm really pleased for getting great reviews

0:44:13.160 --> 0:44:17.960
<v Speaker 1>and great feedback. People are really saying this is going

0:44:17.960 --> 0:44:20.520
<v Speaker 1>to be helpful to a lot of people, help people

0:44:20.560 --> 0:44:25.799
<v Speaker 1>on that level. Yeah, we're excited. Rea didn't support you.

0:44:25.920 --> 0:44:28.520
<v Speaker 1>Of course, it's so nice hanging out with you. I

0:44:28.520 --> 0:44:31.480
<v Speaker 1>gotta tell you, what you said is so true, Like

0:44:32.440 --> 0:44:36.000
<v Speaker 1>it makes me sad. We had this same conversation with Gabrielle,

0:44:36.040 --> 0:44:38.520
<v Speaker 1>Like we're super close with her now, but back then

0:44:38.640 --> 0:44:42.560
<v Speaker 1>it kind of didn't always work that way. And it's

0:44:42.600 --> 0:44:44.960
<v Speaker 1>just it makes me sad that we missed out on

0:44:45.040 --> 0:44:49.759
<v Speaker 1>like these amazing people pretending conversations. Yeah, we just didn't know.

0:44:50.800 --> 0:44:56.280
<v Speaker 1>I know. I feel that way about college. Do you remember, Carol,

0:44:56.320 --> 0:44:59.959
<v Speaker 1>all the little love triangles that happened on the side

0:45:00.080 --> 0:45:02.879
<v Speaker 1>off stage from the triangles? Yeah, do you remember any

0:45:02.920 --> 0:45:05.759
<v Speaker 1>of them? You know, I would go into the wardrobe

0:45:05.760 --> 0:45:08.600
<v Speaker 1>department and say, okay, tell me what's going on. I

0:45:08.320 --> 0:45:12.279
<v Speaker 1>had I had no idea what was going on, but

0:45:12.400 --> 0:45:15.520
<v Speaker 1>I really didn't see you guys. You know, we didn't

0:45:15.560 --> 0:45:18.719
<v Speaker 1>have scenes together until well, remember they sent me to

0:45:19.200 --> 0:45:25.000
<v Speaker 1>graduate school in counseling. That's what wait, what what did

0:45:25.000 --> 0:45:29.120
<v Speaker 1>you hear? The rumors were, Oh god, I don't even remember. Well,

0:45:29.200 --> 0:45:32.080
<v Speaker 1>I of course the big the big thing was the

0:45:33.440 --> 0:45:38.719
<v Speaker 1>Jenny Shannon, Who's going to wear the red dress? That's

0:45:38.800 --> 0:45:44.600
<v Speaker 1>the one, the red dress. The red dress was that?

0:45:44.600 --> 0:45:47.719
<v Speaker 1>That was you? That was all you. It wasn't all me,

0:45:48.360 --> 0:45:53.919
<v Speaker 1>wasn't it wasn't the red dress? You and me? Well? Yeah, well,

0:45:53.920 --> 0:45:56.080
<v Speaker 1>in the course, then they had you show up at

0:45:56.120 --> 0:46:00.840
<v Speaker 1>the prom in the same dress pitted yea, was that

0:46:00.880 --> 0:46:04.000
<v Speaker 1>happened first? Right? That happened first. That happened early in

0:46:04.040 --> 0:46:08.760
<v Speaker 1>the show, and they kind of created that they pitted

0:46:10.040 --> 0:46:13.440
<v Speaker 1>Kelly and Brenda against each other and made Kelly Steel

0:46:13.480 --> 0:46:17.000
<v Speaker 1>Brenda's boyfriend. And yeah, I mean I didn't have it.

0:46:17.200 --> 0:46:21.400
<v Speaker 1>They didn't have a chance in their friendship, right, but

0:46:21.440 --> 0:46:24.400
<v Speaker 1>they did. They seemed to overcome it, Kelly, Kelly and

0:46:24.400 --> 0:46:28.880
<v Speaker 1>Brenda and remain friends for the whole show as far

0:46:28.920 --> 0:46:34.439
<v Speaker 1>as I remember, is that right? You're still friends? I do? Well,

0:46:34.440 --> 0:46:37.520
<v Speaker 1>did she come on you know when they not the

0:46:37.560 --> 0:46:42.000
<v Speaker 1>rebook but the one before. Um, yeah, I was on

0:46:42.000 --> 0:46:45.480
<v Speaker 1>it for a couple episodes and um, I persuaded her

0:46:45.560 --> 0:46:47.719
<v Speaker 1>to come on, And no, she was not on it

0:46:47.760 --> 0:46:51.319
<v Speaker 1>for a couple of episodes. I feel like it was

0:46:51.400 --> 0:46:54.560
<v Speaker 1>like three episodes. You were on probably twenty two episodes.

0:46:54.680 --> 0:46:57.920
<v Speaker 1>We have this argument someone you guys talking about the

0:46:58.000 --> 0:47:02.200
<v Speaker 1>nine two oh with like then got I am dbat

0:47:02.680 --> 0:47:07.080
<v Speaker 1>all the youngsters that show. I feel like I was

0:47:07.120 --> 0:47:10.520
<v Speaker 1>only there for three episodes or whatever. Um, but Shannon

0:47:10.600 --> 0:47:12.839
<v Speaker 1>did come in for an episode in my and then

0:47:12.920 --> 0:47:16.600
<v Speaker 1>you came in Missy for an episode maybe maybe twenty two.

0:47:17.960 --> 0:47:20.560
<v Speaker 1>I was on two episodes. I think Shannon was on

0:47:20.600 --> 0:47:22.799
<v Speaker 1>maybe two episodes, and you were on like twenty or

0:47:22.800 --> 0:47:26.600
<v Speaker 1>twenty two episodes. That's not true. I always you were. Basically,

0:47:28.480 --> 0:47:32.719
<v Speaker 1>it was all about you all to come in and

0:47:32.800 --> 0:47:37.040
<v Speaker 1>joined the You would like the the guidance counselor, right.

0:47:38.480 --> 0:47:40.480
<v Speaker 1>I thought it would be fun if Cindy came in

0:47:41.239 --> 0:47:45.239
<v Speaker 1>to be under you as a new guidance counselor, having

0:47:45.360 --> 0:47:50.440
<v Speaker 1>gotten her you know, counseling degree and everything. I'm good.

0:47:50.640 --> 0:47:53.600
<v Speaker 1>I thought that would be an interesting sort of Well,

0:47:53.800 --> 0:47:55.600
<v Speaker 1>when when Jan and I produced and I know too

0:47:55.600 --> 0:48:01.840
<v Speaker 1>one O the musical. We'll make that up. It's coming

0:48:01.840 --> 0:48:06.680
<v Speaker 1>out soon. Well before you go, Carol, we are going

0:48:06.719 --> 0:48:09.799
<v Speaker 1>to have to wrap soon, unfortunately, but before you go,

0:48:10.560 --> 0:48:12.560
<v Speaker 1>we have to we play a fun little game on here,

0:48:12.680 --> 0:48:16.920
<v Speaker 1>and it's um kiss Mary kicked to the curb. God,

0:48:17.880 --> 0:48:20.480
<v Speaker 1>we don't use kill because kills just still so aggressive,

0:48:20.560 --> 0:48:23.279
<v Speaker 1>too harsh. Yeah, it's too aggressive. So you can pick

0:48:23.320 --> 0:48:27.400
<v Speaker 1>any of the boys from the cast. Kiss, We know

0:48:27.480 --> 0:48:32.880
<v Speaker 1>this one now? Yeah, I feel who would you marry

0:48:32.960 --> 0:48:39.400
<v Speaker 1>and who would you kick to the kick to the guys? Character? Character?

0:48:40.440 --> 0:48:42.640
<v Speaker 1>Or does it matter? I don't think she made me

0:48:42.640 --> 0:48:45.160
<v Speaker 1>play character? No, you made me? Would you make me

0:48:45.160 --> 0:48:49.400
<v Speaker 1>play real? We did characters? Okay, No, I don't remember.

0:48:49.840 --> 0:48:53.719
<v Speaker 1>I'm lying. I think just go with your gut. What

0:48:53.760 --> 0:48:55.840
<v Speaker 1>about Jim? We should should we include him in the

0:48:55.880 --> 0:49:05.880
<v Speaker 1>list of boys? Jim just the boy? So we've got Brian, Luke, Jason, Iron,

0:49:06.440 --> 0:49:13.320
<v Speaker 1>I am Jason. So those four and you're gonna ignore

0:49:13.360 --> 0:49:16.760
<v Speaker 1>one already we had to do it, don't worry. Okay,

0:49:16.840 --> 0:49:20.400
<v Speaker 1>can you get to play? I'm sorry, I'm so slow.

0:49:20.840 --> 0:49:25.080
<v Speaker 1>Kiss Mary and get rid of her. Which used to

0:49:25.120 --> 0:49:30.560
<v Speaker 1>be I believe a word starting with F was the kiss. Yeah,

0:49:30.560 --> 0:49:42.879
<v Speaker 1>well that's definitely no hesitation there. Uh Mary, Um Brian, Yeah,

0:49:42.880 --> 0:49:47.080
<v Speaker 1>I'm marry Brian. And then um, I have I mean,

0:49:47.200 --> 0:49:50.040
<v Speaker 1>I have to ignore Jason. He played my son. It's

0:49:50.120 --> 0:49:53.960
<v Speaker 1>just too creepy. It gets weird. Perfect. She came to

0:49:54.000 --> 0:49:59.840
<v Speaker 1>the curve. Good job, Carol, Okay, we're all hunks. Was

0:50:00.040 --> 0:50:03.839
<v Speaker 1>so happy you came in and hung out for inviting

0:50:03.920 --> 0:50:08.200
<v Speaker 1>me come back and play with us. Yeah. Yeah, and

0:50:08.200 --> 0:50:10.960
<v Speaker 1>I sometimes get an arguments we're gonna need you, We're

0:50:10.960 --> 0:50:16.239
<v Speaker 1>gonna need our therapist stand by. I love that you

0:50:16.440 --> 0:50:18.520
<v Speaker 1>think you guys wrote it in the script that you

0:50:18.600 --> 0:50:25.719
<v Speaker 1>had decided to start seeing me. Well, you're you're the

0:50:25.760 --> 0:50:29.680
<v Speaker 1>best therapist in town. Why wouldn't we That's right, that's right,

0:50:29.719 --> 0:50:33.520
<v Speaker 1>and everybody go pick up her book or preorder Carol's

0:50:33.560 --> 0:50:38.880
<v Speaker 1>book and support her. That'd be nice. Yeah, thank you

0:50:38.960 --> 0:50:43.520
<v Speaker 1>all for having me. This is yeah. And you'll have

0:50:43.560 --> 0:50:45.440
<v Speaker 1>to tell us off the show what Luke whispered in

0:50:45.480 --> 0:50:52.359
<v Speaker 1>your ear because we know you remember. Yeah, I'll tell

0:50:52.400 --> 0:50:54.560
<v Speaker 1>you that off the show. Okay, fine, let's start a

0:50:54.560 --> 0:51:01.160
<v Speaker 1>group chat BI Carol, Bi, Carol to you so much

0:51:01.600 --> 0:51:04.640
<v Speaker 1>of love. I'm so glad our relationship has got to

0:51:04.680 --> 0:51:07.160
<v Speaker 1>the place where we can really enjoy each other. Me too,

0:51:07.520 --> 0:51:14.200
<v Speaker 1>us too. Bye bye. That was so funny. Guys, do

0:51:14.320 --> 0:51:16.080
<v Speaker 1>you feel like I feel like I just had a

0:51:16.120 --> 0:51:20.520
<v Speaker 1>therapy session? Kind of My heart is so full right now.

0:51:21.440 --> 0:51:25.560
<v Speaker 1>She's so like easy to talk to and just like chill,

0:51:26.640 --> 0:51:29.160
<v Speaker 1>I mean that, like we missed ten years with a

0:51:29.239 --> 0:51:31.839
<v Speaker 1>great woman and we didn't even know. Like I don't

0:51:31.840 --> 0:51:34.400
<v Speaker 1>want to ever do that again. Like we judge people

0:51:34.440 --> 0:51:36.279
<v Speaker 1>because of their age, like, oh, she wasn't in our

0:51:36.280 --> 0:51:38.920
<v Speaker 1>team group, so like, yeah, but I learned just so

0:51:39.080 --> 0:51:42.560
<v Speaker 1>much as it didn't just not wired that way. You're

0:51:43.000 --> 0:51:46.480
<v Speaker 1>you can't see outside yourself and that's not that's not

0:51:46.520 --> 0:51:50.120
<v Speaker 1>a negative thing. Or we're talking badly about teas their

0:51:50.160 --> 0:51:52.799
<v Speaker 1>brains aren't developed in a way that they can appreciate

0:51:53.120 --> 0:51:56.880
<v Speaker 1>the landscape. M hmm, you're right. Well, you know who

0:51:56.920 --> 0:51:59.640
<v Speaker 1>else is in this episode is Lynda Thompson. She plays

0:52:00.360 --> 0:52:03.000
<v Speaker 1>Kelly's mom's best friends, the girl that's laying out at

0:52:03.000 --> 0:52:06.080
<v Speaker 1>the pool with her. Right. So, she was married to

0:52:06.080 --> 0:52:09.839
<v Speaker 1>Bruce Jenner. They had Brandon and Brodie Jenner, and then

0:52:09.880 --> 0:52:17.560
<v Speaker 1>she married David Foster. Oh, she was married to Bruce Jenner. Yes, yes,

0:52:17.640 --> 0:52:22.120
<v Speaker 1>formally yeah, okay, and like Brodie Jenner who was on

0:52:22.160 --> 0:52:28.480
<v Speaker 1>the Hills and stepbrothers the Kardashians, Like, okay, didn't she

0:52:28.640 --> 0:52:31.839
<v Speaker 1>date Elvis at one point? Because I remember something about

0:52:31.880 --> 0:52:33.520
<v Speaker 1>when we were filming the show and that we were

0:52:33.520 --> 0:52:36.400
<v Speaker 1>filming that scene when Brenda and Kelly walk up to

0:52:36.440 --> 0:52:38.920
<v Speaker 1>them at the pool. I remember the crew kind of

0:52:38.960 --> 0:52:43.000
<v Speaker 1>being like, she's that girls dated Elvis, and that was like,

0:52:43.040 --> 0:52:45.839
<v Speaker 1>oh my god, she dated el I mean, yeah, that's

0:52:45.840 --> 0:52:50.320
<v Speaker 1>pretty crazy. That hands down Trump's the Kardashians. Sorry, that's

0:52:51.239 --> 0:52:56.080
<v Speaker 1>I'm fascinated by that. Yeah, dating Elvis is pretty cool. Yeah,

0:52:56.440 --> 0:52:58.480
<v Speaker 1>I know. Well, let's take a break and when we

0:52:58.520 --> 0:53:00.520
<v Speaker 1>come back, we need to talk about the fashion from

0:53:00.520 --> 0:53:02.560
<v Speaker 1>this episode, because now we touched on mom jeans a

0:53:02.560 --> 0:53:05.719
<v Speaker 1>little bit, and then Carol brought up like the fifties

0:53:05.840 --> 0:53:08.200
<v Speaker 1>and stuff like that. Um, but there was some fashion

0:53:08.239 --> 0:53:23.720
<v Speaker 1>from this episode Fashion Show. All right, let's talk about fashion.

0:53:24.280 --> 0:53:26.360
<v Speaker 1>It was the fashion show episode. So there was a

0:53:26.400 --> 0:53:30.360
<v Speaker 1>lot of like fancy, fancy fashion going on my cat walk,

0:53:31.840 --> 0:53:37.759
<v Speaker 1>well sophisticated. Yeah, you had you had the bikini that

0:53:37.880 --> 0:53:44.200
<v Speaker 1>was That was a bikini before my boop drop. And

0:53:44.280 --> 0:53:47.240
<v Speaker 1>Kelly didn't get to walk because her mom ruined everything.

0:53:47.440 --> 0:53:49.839
<v Speaker 1>I know, poor kill all dressed up and nowhere to go.

0:53:50.360 --> 0:53:52.120
<v Speaker 1>You're still wearing the dress at the end of the night.

0:53:52.480 --> 0:53:55.880
<v Speaker 1>She doesn't want to take it off too much, too

0:53:55.960 --> 0:54:01.520
<v Speaker 1>much trauma. No. I thought that Carol looked so good

0:54:01.520 --> 0:54:04.960
<v Speaker 1>in that red dress. It just hit her like perfect,

0:54:05.600 --> 0:54:08.480
<v Speaker 1>such a beautiful woman, beautiful neckline on that dress with

0:54:08.560 --> 0:54:11.120
<v Speaker 1>all the beating in details. What did you guys see

0:54:11.160 --> 0:54:14.839
<v Speaker 1>the speaking of mom jeans, the jeans that Brenda was

0:54:14.880 --> 0:54:18.279
<v Speaker 1>wearing in the kitchen and then at school and then

0:54:18.760 --> 0:54:21.640
<v Speaker 1>the little bus hanging out the cut, there was like

0:54:21.680 --> 0:54:25.319
<v Speaker 1>a yeah right below the cheeks on the back of

0:54:25.320 --> 0:54:27.560
<v Speaker 1>her jeans. It was like written, pet I feel like

0:54:27.600 --> 0:54:32.960
<v Speaker 1>Shannon always wore her own jeans. Oh really, I think so? Yeah,

0:54:33.520 --> 0:54:37.839
<v Speaker 1>like that was her jam those sat She has great

0:54:37.880 --> 0:54:40.200
<v Speaker 1>style and at the time, I feel like she wore

0:54:40.239 --> 0:54:43.080
<v Speaker 1>a lot of her own stuff and definitely her own jeans.

0:54:43.280 --> 0:54:45.560
<v Speaker 1>How do we feel as mom's having your daughter walk

0:54:45.600 --> 0:54:48.200
<v Speaker 1>out of the house and those jeans. I would be like, no,

0:54:48.920 --> 0:54:51.800
<v Speaker 1>go put on some pants that actually cover your ass please.

0:54:53.400 --> 0:54:57.839
<v Speaker 1>She would say that, Oh my god. Sometimes I feel

0:54:57.880 --> 0:55:00.160
<v Speaker 1>awkward when I come over and I'm like, loa, you

0:55:00.200 --> 0:55:04.040
<v Speaker 1>look hot. I'm like, what am I doing? Like it's like,

0:55:05.040 --> 0:55:08.440
<v Speaker 1>but it's hard, like if it's not your own, yeah,

0:55:08.840 --> 0:55:12.040
<v Speaker 1>it's just you know, they're my friends kids, but I'm like,

0:55:12.160 --> 0:55:14.799
<v Speaker 1>they look great, but yeah, when it's your own, I'm like,

0:55:14.920 --> 0:55:20.440
<v Speaker 1>m no, yeah, it's really fun mom. But now I'm like,

0:55:20.440 --> 0:55:22.800
<v Speaker 1>I think I'm gonna be super strict. No. Stella is

0:55:22.880 --> 0:55:24.960
<v Speaker 1>twelve and I tell her all the time, like you

0:55:25.000 --> 0:55:27.320
<v Speaker 1>can't wear that, and she shook. But her thing is

0:55:27.360 --> 0:55:29.680
<v Speaker 1>because now there's like TikTok and everything. So she's like,

0:55:29.960 --> 0:55:34.040
<v Speaker 1>here's girls my age, they're all wearing it. And I'm like, yeah,

0:55:34.080 --> 0:55:36.799
<v Speaker 1>what do you say? I know what you would say,

0:55:36.840 --> 0:55:39.799
<v Speaker 1>you say, they're they're not wearing it. But for me,

0:55:39.880 --> 0:55:43.640
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, ah, I wasn't able to express myself growing

0:55:43.719 --> 0:55:47.359
<v Speaker 1>up like a lot like it was very like my

0:55:47.360 --> 0:55:49.560
<v Speaker 1>mom had great style, but she bought my clothes and

0:55:49.600 --> 0:55:51.000
<v Speaker 1>not un till I was older was I able to

0:55:51.080 --> 0:55:52.719
<v Speaker 1>kind of say this is what I want to wear.

0:55:53.080 --> 0:55:54.560
<v Speaker 1>So I feel like I give a lot of free

0:55:54.640 --> 0:55:56.520
<v Speaker 1>range to my kids. They want to color their hair,

0:55:56.600 --> 0:55:58.360
<v Speaker 1>they want to dress a certain way. I do it.

0:55:58.440 --> 0:56:00.680
<v Speaker 1>So it's hard for me to say no. But I'm

0:56:00.760 --> 0:56:04.040
<v Speaker 1>old fashioned inside, so I'm like, it doesn't feel right.

0:56:04.040 --> 0:56:08.000
<v Speaker 1>You're too young. It's hard and I find myself sounding

0:56:08.040 --> 0:56:10.200
<v Speaker 1>like a mom. I was like, you have your whole

0:56:10.280 --> 0:56:12.000
<v Speaker 1>life to grow up and be an adult, like be

0:56:12.040 --> 0:56:16.759
<v Speaker 1>a kid now. And I'm like, yeah, yeah, we are

0:56:16.760 --> 0:56:21.239
<v Speaker 1>slowly becoming our parents. I think I know, man, And

0:56:21.320 --> 0:56:26.600
<v Speaker 1>I'm okay with that. Yeah too. She chugs her wine.

0:56:29.719 --> 0:56:31.600
<v Speaker 1>Well did you guys, did anybody have a favorite line

0:56:31.600 --> 0:56:36.360
<v Speaker 1>in this episode? I did, um, and I was actually

0:56:36.400 --> 0:56:39.719
<v Speaker 1>one from Cindy Walsh. She said it's the law of

0:56:39.840 --> 0:56:43.480
<v Speaker 1>nature no girl can ever appreciate their own mother. That

0:56:43.719 --> 0:56:47.000
<v Speaker 1>really resonated with me, and I was just like, gosh,

0:56:47.120 --> 0:56:49.640
<v Speaker 1>it's like I remember growing up in in high school.

0:56:49.719 --> 0:56:52.120
<v Speaker 1>I think we're all embarrassed of our mom's at least

0:56:52.120 --> 0:56:53.960
<v Speaker 1>I was, and especially me because like my mom spoke

0:56:54.000 --> 0:56:56.200
<v Speaker 1>Spanish all the time, and we grew up in this

0:56:56.239 --> 0:56:58.080
<v Speaker 1>white neighborhood and all I wanted to do was just

0:56:58.160 --> 0:57:00.200
<v Speaker 1>fit in. And I felt like I just didn't it in,

0:57:00.920 --> 0:57:03.960
<v Speaker 1>and uh, it just really resonated me. And I'm just like, man, like,

0:57:04.000 --> 0:57:06.440
<v Speaker 1>I'm not ready for these teenage battles that I'm going

0:57:06.520 --> 0:57:08.640
<v Speaker 1>to have with my daughter one day, Like I just

0:57:09.120 --> 0:57:12.239
<v Speaker 1>I don't want them. Do you remember your friends coming

0:57:12.239 --> 0:57:15.520
<v Speaker 1>over and always getting along with your mom? Yes, yes,

0:57:15.960 --> 0:57:17.720
<v Speaker 1>all my friends and my mom is the coolest. And

0:57:17.720 --> 0:57:20.200
<v Speaker 1>I was like how and she Now I look back

0:57:20.240 --> 0:57:22.080
<v Speaker 1>and I love my mom so much, and that's you know,

0:57:22.120 --> 0:57:24.000
<v Speaker 1>you get it after you go to college and like

0:57:24.080 --> 0:57:26.600
<v Speaker 1>grow up, but when you're a teenager, they're the most

0:57:26.600 --> 0:57:29.280
<v Speaker 1>embarrassing thing on the planet to you. Yeah, And now

0:57:29.320 --> 0:57:32.200
<v Speaker 1>when teens come to my house, like my friends, my

0:57:32.320 --> 0:57:35.840
<v Speaker 1>kids friends, I there's so many emotions going on in

0:57:35.840 --> 0:57:38.520
<v Speaker 1>my head when they're like, Okay, I gotta be cool.

0:57:38.560 --> 0:57:40.640
<v Speaker 1>I gotta act like the kids want me to act.

0:57:40.680 --> 0:57:42.480
<v Speaker 1>But then I gotta say something that that guy might like,

0:57:42.640 --> 0:57:45.080
<v Speaker 1>and oh, then I start if I start relating to

0:57:45.120 --> 0:57:47.520
<v Speaker 1>the child, God forbid, we actually like relate and have

0:57:47.560 --> 0:57:50.440
<v Speaker 1>a conversation, and my kid is like in the corner, cringing,

0:57:50.480 --> 0:57:55.080
<v Speaker 1>probably saying, let's go hang out. It's so hard to

0:57:55.120 --> 0:57:58.680
<v Speaker 1>be a mom. But once again, you will always have

0:57:58.720 --> 0:58:02.680
<v Speaker 1>a leg up because you will be Kelly Taylor. But

0:58:04.520 --> 0:58:07.240
<v Speaker 1>through a lot you were. You were holed up in

0:58:07.280 --> 0:58:11.160
<v Speaker 1>a warehouse for ten years. As you put it, here's kid.

0:58:11.400 --> 0:58:14.880
<v Speaker 1>Other kids will always be like, wow, cool, mom, Kelly Taylor.

0:58:15.720 --> 0:58:22.200
<v Speaker 1>Both of you actually truly Yeah, that's crazy. How about you?

0:58:22.320 --> 0:58:25.240
<v Speaker 1>Any favorite lines? Um one and one one? The only

0:58:25.240 --> 0:58:27.280
<v Speaker 1>one I can think of right now is when Jackie

0:58:28.120 --> 0:58:31.360
<v Speaker 1>it's all coked out and she says, I I can't

0:58:31.360 --> 0:58:37.560
<v Speaker 1>be everything to everybody, and then Kelly says, when you're drinking, mom,

0:58:37.600 --> 0:58:42.960
<v Speaker 1>you're nothing to nobody. Powerful, really good. I'm gonna tear

0:58:43.080 --> 0:58:46.800
<v Speaker 1>up right now. So I feel. I felt, so I

0:58:46.840 --> 0:58:49.520
<v Speaker 1>felt all the feelings that Kelly was feeling and being

0:58:49.600 --> 0:58:52.440
<v Speaker 1>in her position, and and then I also felt the

0:58:52.480 --> 0:58:55.240
<v Speaker 1>other side, the part, the Jackie's part. Her life is

0:58:55.240 --> 0:58:58.320
<v Speaker 1>falling apart and she doesn't have anybody but Kelly and

0:58:59.000 --> 0:59:02.680
<v Speaker 1>you know she's doesn't. She needs help to kind of

0:59:03.000 --> 0:59:05.400
<v Speaker 1>get her life back on track. And I just felt

0:59:05.520 --> 0:59:07.360
<v Speaker 1>for both of them so much more in the night

0:59:07.560 --> 0:59:13.800
<v Speaker 1>realized I would like your room was iconic always. We

0:59:13.840 --> 0:59:16.160
<v Speaker 1>didn't see my room in this episode. Not in this episode,

0:59:16.200 --> 0:59:18.920
<v Speaker 1>we saw you the mom's room and that weird keyboard

0:59:19.000 --> 0:59:23.560
<v Speaker 1>and TV wester her nightstand. Security is that like it

0:59:23.720 --> 0:59:26.400
<v Speaker 1>felt like more e though, right house, that house, you

0:59:26.440 --> 0:59:28.400
<v Speaker 1>know what, you can still drive by that house. It's

0:59:28.440 --> 0:59:34.040
<v Speaker 1>long long avenue in studio, Yes, neighborhood is if you

0:59:34.200 --> 0:59:36.919
<v Speaker 1>drive up and looked on your right, you can see

0:59:36.960 --> 0:59:39.200
<v Speaker 1>the exterior of that house. And we shot the exter

0:59:39.360 --> 0:59:42.080
<v Speaker 1>of that house as Kelly's exter, and I think we

0:59:42.200 --> 0:59:45.720
<v Speaker 1>shot some of the interiors that like Jackie's room was

0:59:45.840 --> 0:59:49.120
<v Speaker 1>in that house, but the house was like seriously eighties

0:59:49.160 --> 0:59:52.480
<v Speaker 1>with the glass block and the round walls. Yeah, it's

0:59:52.480 --> 0:59:56.200
<v Speaker 1>still very cool. It was cool they were Jackie and

0:59:56.280 --> 1:00:00.840
<v Speaker 1>Kelly were like artsy, I guess, yeah, modern lady, very

1:00:00.960 --> 1:00:05.840
<v Speaker 1>less than zero. Yeah, that her room did have like

1:00:05.920 --> 1:00:09.000
<v Speaker 1>a control panel next to the bed like she was

1:00:09.080 --> 1:00:15.000
<v Speaker 1>driving his faceship. Yeah, like who's going to type on

1:00:15.040 --> 1:00:19.880
<v Speaker 1>the keyboard on the wall. But that was a real house,

1:00:19.960 --> 1:00:24.880
<v Speaker 1>that was a real situation in somebody's hut. Oh my gosh.

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<v Speaker 1>So that again was another person's house that you guys

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<v Speaker 1>would just come and rent out for the day and

1:00:28.680 --> 1:00:33.439
<v Speaker 1>then you do your scenes and you'd leaves. So fascinating me. Yeah,

1:00:34.000 --> 1:00:35.880
<v Speaker 1>people do that all the time. They rent out their

1:00:35.960 --> 1:00:39.120
<v Speaker 1>houses to film productions people all the time. But I

1:00:39.160 --> 1:00:41.360
<v Speaker 1>think it's like I never knew, like I guess people

1:00:41.440 --> 1:00:42.760
<v Speaker 1>do live there. I just thought it was like an

1:00:42.760 --> 1:00:44.840
<v Speaker 1>empty house. You paid a lot of money to do it,

1:00:45.000 --> 1:00:48.360
<v Speaker 1>so there's a huge incentive. But the bat downside, Yeah,

1:00:48.680 --> 1:00:52.840
<v Speaker 1>the downside is they trash your house, basically mess up

1:00:52.880 --> 1:00:56.160
<v Speaker 1>your walls, and you're you know, they don't they go

1:00:56.280 --> 1:01:02.600
<v Speaker 1>through your drawers. At least I did area. But you know,

1:01:02.640 --> 1:01:05.400
<v Speaker 1>when you're whenever you're shooting in someone's house, you're like

1:01:05.800 --> 1:01:07.600
<v Speaker 1>you have to pretend like the kitchen is your kitchen.

1:01:07.640 --> 1:01:09.800
<v Speaker 1>You gotta look around, you gotta see what's going on. Yeah,

1:01:09.800 --> 1:01:11.960
<v Speaker 1>I definitely do in the kitchen always, like the pantry,

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<v Speaker 1>always the friends not like in their underwear. Dord No,

1:01:16.040 --> 1:01:18.400
<v Speaker 1>that's like creepy. I was gonna talk to you after

1:01:18.440 --> 1:01:21.640
<v Speaker 1>the show about that. If that's true. No, my god,

1:01:23.920 --> 1:01:29.520
<v Speaker 1>so so uh. Carol's favorite episode is next week, right, Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>that's our that's the show every teen year. Itch, that's

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<v Speaker 1>everybody's homework. Can't wait. Let's watch it and we'll talk

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<v Speaker 1>more about Carol Potter's steamy performance. Yeah. I love it,

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<v Speaker 1>the one that she's that was her favorite with mom.

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<v Speaker 1>She's a saucy like you can tell like Carol's got

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<v Speaker 1>it going on. I want to go out for drinks

1:01:56.160 --> 1:02:03.600
<v Speaker 1>with her. Yeah, I like it. Well that's it, guys,

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<v Speaker 1>Thanks for thanks for hanging out with us, Happy New Year. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>keep up the great work. Is the first week of

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<v Speaker 1>January down, Let's keep going. Yeah, well, love you guys,

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<v Speaker 1>Love you to watch episode eight