WEBVTT - God Is Goodt 0:00:04.840 --> 0:00:10.119 Hey, hey, hey we're back. 0:00:10.640 --> 0:00:20.079 We're black Bread Ambition and. 0:00:23.000 --> 0:00:29.760 Bishops is back and they're popping like, hey, now, hey, 0:00:31.320 --> 0:00:32.080 May's back. 0:00:32.200 --> 0:00:35.320 Yes, Mandy's curls are bad, honey, how are you? 0:00:35.440 --> 0:00:38.120 Mandra I'm very much better. I got a lot of 0:00:38.200 --> 0:00:40.080 I don't sound better because I was just in Georgia 0:00:40.120 --> 0:00:43.120 and the pollen kicked my You know what, I don't 0:00:43.120 --> 0:00:44.760 want to draw too much attention. 0:00:44.400 --> 0:00:48.839 To it, but do you see Okay, I love it 0:00:49.400 --> 0:00:49.680 if we. 0:00:49.720 --> 0:00:51.960 Draw attention to that. And if you're on YouTube, you 0:00:52.000 --> 0:00:54.480 know what I'm pointing to. Okay, if I draw attention 0:00:54.640 --> 0:00:58.080 or he or the thing sees itself in the camera, 0:00:59.080 --> 0:01:01.319 because I'm just like very casually trying to get sure 0:01:01.360 --> 0:01:04.040 that I cover up, hoping he just thinks that this 0:01:04.120 --> 0:01:07.080 is just white noise and Mommy's not doing anything interesting. 0:01:07.720 --> 0:01:11.560 It's spring break, y'all, okay, and I the kids are 0:01:11.640 --> 0:01:14.200 here in the camps are closing at two pm, like 0:01:14.319 --> 0:01:17.440 what I know? Yeah, but no, I just got back 0:01:17.440 --> 0:01:19.560 from Georgia. I think, y'all. I had a lot of 0:01:20.000 --> 0:01:21.800 I forgot what I said last week. I just know 0:01:21.840 --> 0:01:23.800 it was a blur and I was super sad and 0:01:24.560 --> 0:01:28.480 tiff again carried, but I did get some sweet messages 0:01:28.520 --> 0:01:31.720 from folks and my dad. I'm happy to report I 0:01:31.760 --> 0:01:33.640 went to Georgia for a few days. My dad is 0:01:33.680 --> 0:01:39.040 doing so well and he is looking so good. I 0:01:39.080 --> 0:01:41.320 know if you're talking about. I took him to get 0:01:41.319 --> 0:01:44.480 his first haircut, and I feel, like six weeks it 0:01:44.480 --> 0:01:47.880 looks so handsome, looks so handsome. I even talked him 0:01:47.880 --> 0:01:49.800 into letting the guy shampoo it. I don't think he 0:01:49.880 --> 0:01:52.200 even knew. It's like one of these old school, old 0:01:52.200 --> 0:01:55.320 school bar He's one of the same barber in Union 0:01:55.360 --> 0:01:58.040 City where I grew up for like the first part 0:01:58.080 --> 0:01:59.960 of my child, don't know all my whole child was. 0:02:00.040 --> 0:02:02.360 It was like five year chunks in different places. So 0:02:02.880 --> 0:02:05.720 spent a chunk of time in Union City, Georgia, south 0:02:05.760 --> 0:02:09.000 of Atlanta anyway, So shout out to Kenny at the 0:02:09.000 --> 0:02:10.799 barber shop that I still don't know what its name 0:02:10.880 --> 0:02:17.520 is in Red Oak. Nothing no, nothing makes me feel 0:02:17.560 --> 0:02:21.200 more normal than just fighting with my dad about directions 0:02:21.280 --> 0:02:25.800 in the car when I'm driving him. Oh wow, especially 0:02:25.840 --> 0:02:28.560 in all Atlanta, and I'm just like, yes, Dad, I know, 0:02:28.880 --> 0:02:32.240 take a left at the yellow sign and the short tree. 0:02:32.560 --> 0:02:34.120 You know, make sure you take a rite at the 0:02:34.120 --> 0:02:36.079 short tree, not the tall tree, but the little one. 0:02:36.120 --> 0:02:38.520 I've done told you know what I mean. Like I 0:02:38.600 --> 0:02:41.840 like to have the GPS on just for my own 0:02:40.880 --> 0:02:45.160 I hate that we're millennials, Like we like to know 0:02:45.240 --> 0:02:47.200 what our next five steps are going to be. I 0:02:47.240 --> 0:02:48.800 like to look at the map and know that my 0:02:48.840 --> 0:02:50.760 little blue line is going to go the right way. 0:02:51.440 --> 0:02:54.440 And he just fought with the jeep anyway, he stressed 0:02:54.480 --> 0:02:56.720 me out, but it was it was so fun and 0:02:57.320 --> 0:03:00.480 my my, you know, you know who back there got 0:03:00.480 --> 0:03:04.600 to watch Pop Pop get a big boy haircut and yeah, 0:03:04.880 --> 0:03:10.120 he's doing real well. He had visitors yesterday. And when 0:03:10.160 --> 0:03:12.760 he starts holding court and talking for hours and hours 0:03:12.760 --> 0:03:16.160 on end, I just like sat back and I was like, wow, 0:03:16.639 --> 0:03:19.040 a month ago he could barely get five words out. 0:03:19.160 --> 0:03:23.799 So I almost like, God is good. I've never said 0:03:23.840 --> 0:03:32.080 that once in my life. Girl, Like, am I a 0:03:32.160 --> 0:03:42.160 church girl, Charlotte? I guess I am a church honestly though, 0:03:42.360 --> 0:03:44.920 Like the number of relatives I have who are pastors 0:03:44.920 --> 0:03:47.880 in Georgia, Like I really ought to be more. But no, 0:03:48.080 --> 0:03:52.800 God is good, yes period that. Yeah, how are you are? 0:03:52.840 --> 0:03:54.760 The church Blossoms blossoming. 0:03:54.320 --> 0:03:58.600 Yet peak, although this is a year two you just 0:03:59.360 --> 0:04:01.720 I'm gonna, yeah, you have to come to I want 0:04:01.760 --> 0:04:05.000 to say, it's like early April that it reaches this peak, 0:04:05.040 --> 0:04:05.760 so you have to come. 0:04:05.680 --> 0:04:08.240 Like, God, that's like next week. Okay, So it's. 0:04:08.040 --> 0:04:09.760 Like within next two weeks they're going to reach their peak. 0:04:09.800 --> 0:04:13.080 So I'm excited. Although I'm why, I'm like, where are you? 0:04:13.120 --> 0:04:16.599 Maybe you know, I feel like they pop then they don't. 0:04:16.640 --> 0:04:18.960 But I'm because I'm looking around like it's not looking poppy. 0:04:19.680 --> 0:04:21.880 Just yeah, have to like, what's the come on? 0:04:22.360 --> 0:04:25.080 I know, I'm like, they're better, but yeah, so last 0:04:25.080 --> 0:04:25.840 week I fell. 0:04:26.800 --> 0:04:27.040 Wait. 0:04:28.160 --> 0:04:30.040 You know how most of the time as an. 0:04:32.440 --> 0:04:34.680 Face people are injuring, I always walk out. 0:04:34.720 --> 0:04:37.080 Was coming down the steps to my house and I 0:04:37.240 --> 0:04:40.400 was listening to like this book that I've been listening to, 0:04:40.920 --> 0:04:43.239 and I don't know, I just it was I missed 0:04:43.240 --> 0:04:45.680 the last step. You know, you miss calculate one too 0:04:46.279 --> 0:04:48.120 all the time. I'm like, but you said you catch yourself. 0:04:48.120 --> 0:04:49.359 I mean I said a door. I have not fallen 0:04:49.360 --> 0:04:50.600 as an a door. I want to talk about fail. 0:04:50.640 --> 0:04:52.320 I mean I felt like a five year old, like 0:04:52.480 --> 0:04:55.040 fell knee to the ground, hip to the ground, all 0:04:55.120 --> 0:04:59.200 my back looking at the sky. 0:05:01.240 --> 0:05:03.080 And then you know, usually when you when you're five 0:05:03.120 --> 0:05:04.840 or six, you hop up. I tried to hop up 0:05:04.839 --> 0:05:06.320 my body. It's like you forgot your forty four. 0:05:06.800 --> 0:05:08.360 I laid there for a little bit, just the guy 0:05:08.400 --> 0:05:10.719 to my breakfast. 0:05:10.240 --> 0:05:11.080 Who stairs were you? 0:05:11.320 --> 0:05:11.520 Oh? 0:05:11.600 --> 0:05:12.040 My own? 0:05:12.520 --> 0:05:13.839 And then I laid there for a minute. 0:05:14.160 --> 0:05:15.920 And it wasn't even have that many steps. 0:05:16.000 --> 0:05:17.840 I know, it's like three steps, and I missed the 0:05:17.880 --> 0:05:21.480 last one. And then I just laid there and I said, 0:05:21.960 --> 0:05:23.800 so I had for as I had to just roll 0:05:23.800 --> 0:05:25.120 over to my side. 0:05:27.080 --> 0:05:28.479 I had to roll over to my side. 0:05:28.680 --> 0:05:30.280 Then I had to get on all fours and I said, 0:05:30.279 --> 0:05:32.400 oh okay, and I realized, okay, your niece are scraped. 0:05:32.440 --> 0:05:34.800 That's official. And I was like, oh, my hands are scraped. 0:05:34.880 --> 0:05:36.240 And then I got up and I said, oh okay, 0:05:36.279 --> 0:05:38.200 I'm okay. So I walked halfway up and I was like, 0:05:38.240 --> 0:05:40.320 I was going for a walk, my daily one. So 0:05:40.400 --> 0:05:42.080 I walked like, you know, maybe just like not even 0:05:42.120 --> 0:05:45.360 half a block, and then my inside voice like chold. 0:05:45.120 --> 0:05:48.520 Asspect, Oh no, are you okay? Yeah? 0:05:48.600 --> 0:05:49.800 I mean I thought I was okay. 0:05:49.839 --> 0:05:51.520 And then this morning I woke up, I said, oh, 0:05:51.560 --> 0:05:53.400 I'm just running my knee. I started limping. I'm like, 0:05:53.400 --> 0:05:54.680 why is my knee hurt? And I was like, oh, 0:05:54.680 --> 0:05:56.760 that's right, Timmy took a tumble. 0:05:58.320 --> 0:06:00.680 So yeah, you know, I don't think that was age. 0:06:00.839 --> 0:06:01.840 I think that's just. 0:06:02.000 --> 0:06:04.240 I know, you know, I have not fallen like that, and. 0:06:04.279 --> 0:06:06.719 Like, that's real hard to go downstairs. I mean it 0:06:06.880 --> 0:06:08.119 was doing something else. 0:06:08.240 --> 0:06:10.760 You do a little something like you know, you catch yourself. 0:06:11.400 --> 0:06:13.520 It was I mean it was I was like an 0:06:13.520 --> 0:06:15.640 ant with this with this like a turtle on. 0:06:15.520 --> 0:06:18.800 Her back, just like legs like a yeah, but it 0:06:18.880 --> 0:06:19.440 was one with. 0:06:19.440 --> 0:06:22.400 The said that's an episode. 0:06:24.000 --> 0:06:27.520 And I there was no call she do it, and 0:06:27.560 --> 0:06:30.200 no people walking by, so I'm sure the ring. 0:06:30.760 --> 0:06:32.839 No one, no one honked at you. Oh is not 0:06:32.880 --> 0:06:37.400 the worst I know, are you? Okay? Just leave me 0:06:38.520 --> 0:06:42.479 protect If you see someone who falls down, just ignore them. 0:06:42.560 --> 0:06:46.400 I mean, all they want in the whole to be ignored. 0:06:46.960 --> 0:06:50.200 That's different, yes, but if they look like you know, 0:06:50.640 --> 0:06:53.320 under the age of like let's say fifty, then just 0:06:53.400 --> 0:06:55.880 leave them alone. And if they're not crying and screaming 0:06:55.880 --> 0:06:58.680 in pain, just walk just turn around. You can check 0:06:58.720 --> 0:07:00.960 on them, but don't say anything, yes, turn around. You 0:07:00.960 --> 0:07:03.599 can be like they look okay, they look okay. You know, 0:07:03.920 --> 0:07:05.880 I find a bush for five minutes just to be 0:07:05.920 --> 0:07:07.839 sure if you really want to, but don't talk to 0:07:07.880 --> 0:07:09.840 them that shame. 0:07:10.680 --> 0:07:13.000 We're gonna we're gonna call it like g A W D. 0:07:13.520 --> 0:07:17.800 God is good with the tea is good. Hey ba fam. 0:07:17.840 --> 0:07:21.160 We're gonna take a quick break and we'll be right back. 0:07:26.240 --> 0:07:29.360 Because He is good. Because I also avoided a major scam. 0:07:29.840 --> 0:07:30.480 Are you ready for this? 0:07:32.080 --> 0:07:34.760 You need scams? I know that's gonna be the next 0:07:34.800 --> 0:07:35.640 intro for your book. 0:07:35.960 --> 0:07:38.920 So this scam book is like. 0:07:39.160 --> 0:07:41.720 The thing is, they almost got me a few months ago, 0:07:42.360 --> 0:07:45.200 but because God is what good, it didn't work out. 0:07:45.240 --> 0:07:47.120 And then they try to get me again twice this weekend. 0:07:47.160 --> 0:07:48.480 I said, hold on, maybe I should google. 0:07:48.760 --> 0:07:50.440 So here's what happened. A month ago. 0:07:51.400 --> 0:07:53.760 This podcast that I thought this major podcast reached out 0:07:53.760 --> 0:07:55.080 to me and said, hey, we'd love to have you on. 0:07:55.160 --> 0:07:56.600 I was like yeah, yeah, sure. They're like, oh, we 0:07:56.640 --> 0:07:59.680 actually pay our guests. I was like really okay. They 0:07:59.720 --> 0:08:02.880 were like Australia or something. I'm like, well, maybe that's 0:08:02.880 --> 0:08:04.320 how they do it in Australia. And it wasn't a 0:08:04.320 --> 0:08:04.960 little bit of money. 0:08:05.000 --> 0:08:05.360 I want to. 0:08:05.360 --> 0:08:08.160 Say, it was like anywhere from five thousand, six thousands. 0:08:08.160 --> 0:08:10.840 It wasn't you know. I said, oh, okay, So everything 0:08:10.840 --> 0:08:13.760 looked legit. And then the day. 0:08:13.760 --> 0:08:15.360 Like maybe it was a few days before we're supposed 0:08:15.360 --> 0:08:19.080 to do the podcast, they were like, we're gonna do 0:08:19.120 --> 0:08:22.360 it on we want to also go simultaneously live on Facebook. 0:08:22.600 --> 0:08:26.160 And I said okay, and what had to happen? And 0:08:26.160 --> 0:08:28.840 I've done this with like Chase and not Bag of 0:08:28.840 --> 0:08:34.000 America Prudential before. Is that like you like basically kind 0:08:34.000 --> 0:08:37.640 of joint log in behind the scenes, And for whatever reason, 0:08:37.720 --> 0:08:41.640 it wasn't clicking, Like they couldn't access like my behind 0:08:41.640 --> 0:08:43.880 the scenes Facebook and I was just like oh and 0:08:43.880 --> 0:08:46.160 then like well we could do it on YouTube and 0:08:46.200 --> 0:08:48.680 I said okay, And then same thing YouTube. It was 0:08:48.720 --> 0:08:51.680 only huh girl, By God to grace. It wasn't like 0:08:51.720 --> 0:08:53.839 they weren't able to link whatever they need to link 0:08:53.880 --> 0:08:56.560 behind the scenes. They said, hey, Tiffany, let's try again 0:08:56.559 --> 0:08:58.520 tomorrow because the podcast is in two days. I said, 0:08:58.520 --> 0:09:00.720 no problem. Then the next day I was waiting on 0:09:00.800 --> 0:09:03.319 Zoom and nobody showed up. And then I was like 0:09:03.640 --> 0:09:05.440 this doesn't seem right. So then a week later they 0:09:05.520 --> 0:09:06.880 hit me up and said, oh my bad. I'm like, well, 0:09:06.880 --> 0:09:08.439 that seems odd because I was supposed to be a 0:09:08.480 --> 0:09:09.360 guest this week. 0:09:09.280 --> 0:09:10.439 So it was like a big show. 0:09:10.800 --> 0:09:12.920 Yeah, I can't remember the first show, so I ignored it. 0:09:13.200 --> 0:09:14.839 So when they said, to my bad, can we jump 0:09:14.880 --> 0:09:16.280 back on? I just ignored them. I was like, they're 0:09:16.320 --> 0:09:18.439 not serious. Then this week Tracy reached out to me 0:09:18.520 --> 0:09:21.000 and said two podcasts reached out, one saying they paid 0:09:21.000 --> 0:09:23.559 three thousand dollars and one say they paid ten thousand. 0:09:23.640 --> 0:09:25.920 I said really, and one was Crime Junkies And I'm like, well, 0:09:26.080 --> 0:09:27.840 doesn't have a thing they to do with me. So 0:09:27.880 --> 0:09:29.640 we're going back and forth, and they kept saying, how 0:09:29.679 --> 0:09:31.520 do you want to get paid? And Tracy said, something 0:09:31.559 --> 0:09:34.000 doesn't seem right because they seem more interested in paying 0:09:34.000 --> 0:09:35.920 you than actually like, what is Tiffany need to do? 0:09:35.960 --> 0:09:37.439 They're like, oh, she doesn't need to do anything. 0:09:37.760 --> 0:09:40.720 Really, so what very very fishy? 0:09:40.960 --> 0:09:43.240 Yes, And so they kept being assisted, how do you 0:09:43.280 --> 0:09:46.240 want to get paid? I'm like, what's going on here? 0:09:46.280 --> 0:09:50.560 So then I said, googled podcasts Facebook scam because it 0:09:50.600 --> 0:09:53.240 was the same thing. Let's link behind a Facebook child. 0:09:54.000 --> 0:09:56.720 The reason, the thing, the way, the pot the scam 0:09:56.760 --> 0:09:59.040 works is whatever they are doing behind the scenes of Facebook, 0:09:59.120 --> 0:10:01.360 they take control of your and steal it from you. 0:10:02.280 --> 0:10:06.440 Oh and has like five hundred thousand followers and my 0:10:06.760 --> 0:10:10.320 job and I said, oh my gosh. So the first time, 0:10:10.400 --> 0:10:12.280 that's what they were trying to do. But God said, 0:10:12.320 --> 0:10:15.240 look at this, fool me, not them block And I 0:10:15.240 --> 0:10:17.160 was like, well, come on over to YouTube and steal 0:10:17.160 --> 0:10:17.800 my stuff there. 0:10:17.920 --> 0:10:20.360 And again were they like trying to get you to 0:10:20.400 --> 0:10:23.120 add them as an admin or something. 0:10:23.400 --> 0:10:24.679 I didn't think too much of it because I had 0:10:24.679 --> 0:10:27.640 done it before, but these problems we were legitimate brands 0:10:27.920 --> 0:10:30.760 and so yeah, so I googled it, I thought, I said, 0:10:30.840 --> 0:10:33.040 oh my goodness. So I sent it to Tracy was like, 0:10:33.080 --> 0:10:36.160 any of these come in that and then she said 0:10:36.240 --> 0:10:38.000 I was like, Tree, I'm gonna strangle you. She was like, 0:10:38.000 --> 0:10:39.160 you know what I should have There should have been 0:10:39.200 --> 0:10:41.680 a red flag because they were using a Gmail. And 0:10:41.720 --> 0:10:43.040 I'm like, wait, we won't use the Gmail. 0:10:44.320 --> 0:10:45.400 We used the Gmail. 0:10:45.520 --> 0:10:46.720 We have brought up this podcast. 0:10:46.800 --> 0:10:47.880 And she was a cow. 0:10:49.679 --> 0:10:54.200 But like three four million followers or whatever. And so 0:10:54.600 --> 0:10:56.040 that's why I didn't really think anything of it. I 0:10:56.040 --> 0:10:57.920 was like, well, he use a Gmail, but she said, 0:10:57.960 --> 0:10:59.640 I thought that was odd, but I know some people 0:10:59.679 --> 0:11:03.000 do anyway. That is the super scam is that they 0:11:03.040 --> 0:11:05.920 get you to basically log them in behind the scenes 0:11:05.920 --> 0:11:08.680 on whatever, Facebook, YouTube or whatever. They take it over 0:11:08.720 --> 0:11:11.040 and steal it from you, and they hoped the dangle 0:11:11.120 --> 0:11:13.120 that will pay you. Obviously they're not paying you. That 0:11:13.240 --> 0:11:15.120 as like, you know, to lower your defenses of like, oh, 0:11:15.160 --> 0:11:17.320 I can't wait to do this thing because some poor 0:11:17.360 --> 0:11:19.360 other guy he had like a million people following him 0:11:19.360 --> 0:11:22.840 on Facebook or whatever platform and they took it over. 0:11:22.880 --> 0:11:23.720 He never got it back. 0:11:24.200 --> 0:11:27.040 So just putting it out like I wonder if they 0:11:27.120 --> 0:11:28.960 and then they hold it for ransom or something like 0:11:29.000 --> 0:11:29.880 we'll give you back control. 0:11:30.000 --> 0:11:31.880 No, they just use it because they're like, you know, 0:11:31.960 --> 0:11:33.800 to push whatever their agenda is. You know, like because 0:11:33.800 --> 0:11:36.000 you on Facebook, you could change the name. So now 0:11:36.000 --> 0:11:38.560 you got a million people following whatever scam you're really 0:11:38.679 --> 0:11:48.079 you're really pushing, you know, I know, girl, literally so. 0:11:46.679 --> 0:11:49.200 Glad that you I'm glad that you trusted your spidey sense. 0:11:49.320 --> 0:11:52.079 Girl, after almost being tricked like five times. It only took. 0:11:53.679 --> 0:11:55.920 We said you were having, you had a couple of 0:11:55.960 --> 0:11:59.600 senior moments. 0:12:00.559 --> 0:12:04.959 Let's try to borrow. 0:12:05.040 --> 0:12:08.400 But what if I give you my address? Nobody's come here? 0:12:11.120 --> 0:12:12.839 I know, I know what was looking at me like 0:12:12.880 --> 0:12:14.800 look at hah, look a look at look at this? 0:12:14.840 --> 0:12:18.320 Come look on, we're here. And I get to keep 0:12:18.320 --> 0:12:19.240 my Facebook account, So. 0:12:21.000 --> 0:12:24.200 I will say, if you are, if you use any 0:12:24.200 --> 0:12:26.240 platform like that, what I And it makes sense to 0:12:26.240 --> 0:12:27.800 me that kind of scam. I didn't know. It was 0:12:27.920 --> 0:12:31.680 like I hadn't heard of the podcast angle. But I 0:12:31.720 --> 0:12:35.199 will get occasionally solicited on IG behind the scenes like 0:12:36.200 --> 0:12:38.920 and this, and these accounts will have hundreds of thousands 0:12:38.920 --> 0:12:41.079 of followers, and I think in this day and age, 0:12:41.160 --> 0:12:43.600 a lot of people do judge credibility based on how 0:12:43.600 --> 0:12:47.520 many followers you have. It's like the herd mentality classic, Oh, 0:12:47.559 --> 0:12:49.839 they have one hundred thousand followers, they must be legit. 0:12:50.280 --> 0:12:51.800 But that's so not the case because a lot of 0:12:51.840 --> 0:12:54.120 it can be like bots, and you know they can 0:12:54.200 --> 0:12:56.600 they can work the system. But anyhow they'll reach out 0:12:56.600 --> 0:13:00.280 and they'll say we've gotten our clients, you know, or 0:13:00.320 --> 0:13:02.600 I'm reaching out. I represent clients who've been on the 0:13:02.600 --> 0:13:07.840 Good Morning America E News TMZ, like these big brands 0:13:07.920 --> 0:13:11.840 or whatever, and they want you to have a business 0:13:11.840 --> 0:13:14.160 call with them, and it's basically like you pay them 0:13:14.280 --> 0:13:18.080 to place you at these places. And for me, like 0:13:18.120 --> 0:13:20.160 maybe there are it's one of those things. Maybe it's 0:13:20.240 --> 0:13:23.559 like a teeny bit legitimate, like maybe I would never 0:13:23.559 --> 0:13:26.000 pay anyone for media placements. It's too hard to guarantee that, 0:13:26.040 --> 0:13:28.679 Tracy Nose, Like anyone who works in media knows you can't. 0:13:28.960 --> 0:13:31.760 You can't. You can pay a publicist or pay whoever, 0:13:31.800 --> 0:13:36.000 but guaranteeing a spot like that's some bs. So for 0:13:36.080 --> 0:13:37.840 any like if you have a business or you're wanting 0:13:37.880 --> 0:13:41.160 to promote something, please don't Like I would just say, 0:13:41.440 --> 0:13:43.960 be really cautious before you pay someone who's promising you 0:13:44.000 --> 0:13:47.240 that you're going to get placed somewhere like viewed somewhere, 0:13:47.360 --> 0:13:49.640 get some kind of gig, because I thought that's just 0:13:49.679 --> 0:13:50.920 money down the garbage. 0:13:51.720 --> 0:13:54.400 Absolutely no, you're right, because you can be a publicist. 0:13:54.440 --> 0:13:57.160 You're paying them to pitch you and to connect you. 0:13:57.240 --> 0:13:59.439 And basically it's fingers crossed and the men of the 0:13:59.440 --> 0:14:02.520 publicist is the better relationships too hard you have they have, 0:14:02.840 --> 0:14:04.520 the more likely it is to get a yes. But 0:14:04.559 --> 0:14:07.480 there's still no there's still no guarantee. So someone to 0:14:07.520 --> 0:14:10.240 say they're guaranteed. I've seen that a lot, like, oh, 0:14:10.480 --> 0:14:11.800 if you know, I guarantee I can get you on 0:14:11.840 --> 0:14:12.480 Good morn in America. 0:14:12.520 --> 0:14:13.520 I've seen people. 0:14:13.480 --> 0:14:17.440 Actually say in Tracy Space, my publicists, they'll say, like, 0:14:17.800 --> 0:14:19.520 you know, ten thousand dollars to get you on Good 0:14:19.520 --> 0:14:24.160 Morning America, fifteen thousand the guy, you know, it's so susy, 0:14:24.240 --> 0:14:27.120 sus sus and so just like you know, and you know, 0:14:27.160 --> 0:14:29.760 like I said, a lot of these podcasts, the first 0:14:29.800 --> 0:14:31.480 one was like out of the country, so I thought 0:14:31.520 --> 0:14:32.520 maybe I'm Australia. 0:14:32.560 --> 0:14:33.800 That's what they do, you know. 0:14:34.600 --> 0:14:37.040 And also too, to your point, Mandy, that person that 0:14:37.160 --> 0:14:39.000 was reaching out to you from one hundred thousand followers 0:14:39.040 --> 0:14:41.600 that might have been a stolen page that they're now 0:14:41.640 --> 0:14:42.640 reaching out see. 0:14:42.840 --> 0:14:49.480 Oh yeah, see go listen. You just can't trust anybody anymore. 0:14:49.600 --> 0:14:51.440 And now with AI girls. 0:14:51.200 --> 0:14:53.520 Are these curls. 0:14:53.560 --> 0:14:55.640 Get close so I can see these curls and if 0:14:55.640 --> 0:14:58.080 they really dig in, they'd be like, hey, it's Easter. 0:14:58.200 --> 0:15:00.360 Ray Mandy, I've been watching. I just I wanted to 0:15:00.440 --> 0:15:02.840 introduce myself and let you know I'm gonna go on GMA, 0:15:03.160 --> 0:15:04.880 you can come with me. I'm like, Esa, I'll give 0:15:04.920 --> 0:15:09.520 you money. Wow, the internet is scourry. While I was 0:15:09.560 --> 0:15:13.080 in Georgia, though, my little news tidbit so, while I 0:15:13.160 --> 0:15:16.520 was in Georgia doing a six hour lego project with 0:15:16.720 --> 0:15:17.640 he who must not be. 0:15:17.680 --> 0:15:20.000 Named over there here's being. 0:15:19.920 --> 0:15:22.480 Very good by the way, While I was spending six 0:15:22.520 --> 0:15:25.200 hours building that thing, my dad was next door in 0:15:25.240 --> 0:15:27.800 his room. He's taken over the ground floor of my 0:15:27.920 --> 0:15:31.040 or the basement of the bachelor pad the mayon cave 0:15:31.160 --> 0:15:34.560 of my brother's house, and he was next door watching 0:15:34.560 --> 0:15:37.080 like Channel five Action News, which I actually love to 0:15:37.120 --> 0:15:38.760 watch when I'm in Georgia just to have it on 0:15:38.920 --> 0:15:42.200 the background. It just brings back memories. And he's like, hey, mane, 0:15:42.240 --> 0:15:44.360 come come, come check this out. And I'm like, when 0:15:44.440 --> 0:15:46.040 was the last time my dad was like, come watch 0:15:46.040 --> 0:15:48.520 something on the TV. And usually I would be like, no, 0:15:48.560 --> 0:15:50.480 I'm not getting out. Was not going to be worth it. 0:15:50.560 --> 0:15:52.360 I probably would have missed it by the time I 0:15:52.440 --> 0:15:55.200 get to your room, because that's how TV were anyway. 0:15:55.600 --> 0:15:58.560 But they were talking about four one case and he 0:15:58.680 --> 0:16:00.360 was like, because you know I got my dad first 0:16:00.360 --> 0:16:03.760 four or one k not long ago, and he's really 0:16:03.760 --> 0:16:06.360 proud of it. And he's, Eh, the stock market's up, 0:16:06.400 --> 0:16:08.160 he said, the Dow's going up, down's going up. What 0:16:08.160 --> 0:16:11.120 does that mean. I was like, yeah, that means that 0:16:11.160 --> 0:16:13.080 investments are going up. So it's a good thing that 0:16:13.120 --> 0:16:14.800 you're invested. And he's like, now what do I do. 0:16:14.880 --> 0:16:18.080 I'm like, not a darn thing, go back and mind 0:16:18.080 --> 0:16:23.000 your business and there's nothing to do Congress, But I did. 0:16:23.200 --> 0:16:25.360 I did log onto his endvine and it was nice 0:16:25.400 --> 0:16:27.880 because I don't know, it hasn't been so rough this year, 0:16:27.880 --> 0:16:30.920 at least not for my accounts, but I think I 0:16:30.920 --> 0:16:33.680 saw like twelve and fourteen percent they were up, which 0:16:33.760 --> 0:16:37.320 is definitely above average. So hey, this is one of 0:16:37.360 --> 0:16:39.200 those times where you can pat yourself on the back 0:16:39.480 --> 0:16:42.000 for just putting money in and forgetting about it and 0:16:42.040 --> 0:16:44.880 then just keep doing that, unless, of course, you're Tiffany 0:16:44.880 --> 0:16:48.160 and you're gonna get all the edge in vacation. You 0:16:48.160 --> 0:16:50.520 know on how to invest, and you're going to level 0:16:50.600 --> 0:16:53.520 it up the rest of us, and we're just skating by. 0:16:55.160 --> 0:16:57.040 We don't have to do anything. Set and forget it. 0:16:57.160 --> 0:16:59.120 Heybe a fan. We're going to take a quick break 0:16:59.160 --> 0:17:03.880 and we'll be right back. Do you want to talk 0:17:03.880 --> 0:17:10.200 about your little investing, your little yeah? 0:17:10.440 --> 0:17:13.000 Yeah, no. I mentioned last week. 0:17:13.119 --> 0:17:16.359 I think I messed in last week that I you know, 0:17:16.440 --> 0:17:17.960 I asked Terry she was on our show, but I 0:17:17.960 --> 0:17:22.000 asked her specifically Terry Ijama to teach me, like if 0:17:22.000 --> 0:17:23.399 she would coach me, like how much would it be 0:17:23.440 --> 0:17:25.760 to work with her? Because honestly, I don't have like 0:17:25.800 --> 0:17:29.320 four investment accounts or broker's accounts, and I'm just and 0:17:29.440 --> 0:17:31.480 certainly I invest with my you know, I have find 0:17:31.600 --> 0:17:34.280 my financial advisor, who you know, I love. 0:17:34.840 --> 0:17:39.200 But my concern is I don't like not really. 0:17:38.960 --> 0:17:41.720 Being able to fully understand what's all going on, you 0:17:41.720 --> 0:17:43.280 know what I mean, And so not that. 0:17:43.280 --> 0:17:45.920 I know anything, obviously I do, but I don't know. 0:17:46.040 --> 0:17:48.880 I My desired outcome at the end of the day 0:17:49.119 --> 0:17:53.119 is when I'm no longer like the budget needs to 0:17:54.480 --> 0:17:56.639 I want to be able to make money other ways. 0:17:56.680 --> 0:17:59.080 And certainly you can invest in real estate, but it's 0:17:59.119 --> 0:18:01.480 not passive at all, you know, Like real estate is 0:18:01.520 --> 0:18:04.040 pretty a hard heavy lift and business is for sure 0:18:04.119 --> 0:18:07.040 not passive, you know, which I'm enjoying now. But what 0:18:07.119 --> 0:18:09.080 happens when I don't, and I really want to all 0:18:09.119 --> 0:18:11.240 my kind of like in the market girlies, does it 0:18:11.320 --> 0:18:13.000 take work, but you can kind of be in and 0:18:13.040 --> 0:18:14.880 then not be in as you kind of wanted to. Oh, 0:18:14.920 --> 0:18:16.760 you can set some of your investments to be more 0:18:16.760 --> 0:18:20.640 passive mutual. Don got to put on eye makeup, yes, 0:18:20.920 --> 0:18:22.720 And so I kind of wanted that. I want that 0:18:22.720 --> 0:18:24.440 as an option. So I already have some real estate, 0:18:24.640 --> 0:18:26.959 you know, I have business, and I am in the market, 0:18:27.080 --> 0:18:30.280 but it's kind of like I've given that responsibility over 0:18:30.320 --> 0:18:33.200 to my financial advisor, and I wanted to have an 0:18:33.200 --> 0:18:35.439 even more intelligent conversation with her when it comes to, 0:18:35.920 --> 0:18:37.960 you know, mark investing in the market. So anyway, I 0:18:37.960 --> 0:18:41.280 asked Terry Ejama if she could coach me because one, 0:18:41.480 --> 0:18:43.200 I like the fact that once she went to MIT, 0:18:43.400 --> 0:18:46.800 she's a smarty yardy. And two I like the fact 0:18:46.840 --> 0:18:49.400 that I'm an educator. Yeah I know, right. 0:18:49.760 --> 0:18:51.760 I was like, isn't that what the astronauts. 0:18:52.920 --> 0:18:54.400 Engineers? Yeah? 0:18:54.600 --> 0:18:56.280 Right, So I was like, oh, he's fine. 0:18:56.560 --> 0:18:58.560 And then too, I like the fact that she's an educator. 0:18:58.600 --> 0:19:00.560 She's vice principal for like ten years years. I was like, 0:19:00.600 --> 0:19:02.240 cause you know me, I'm always looking for a good 0:19:02.400 --> 0:19:04.360 What is this terry you're talking about? 0:19:04.960 --> 0:19:07.440 Yeah, I know she must have mentioned that on the show, 0:19:07.480 --> 0:19:08.480 but I don't forgot. 0:19:08.440 --> 0:19:10.720 I know, I didn't. Yeah, I was like wow. 0:19:11.119 --> 0:19:12.960 And then I like the fact that she's already over 0:19:13.000 --> 0:19:15.880 thirty five thousand students, many of which have been able 0:19:15.880 --> 0:19:17.760 to make a thousand dollars in a day, not every 0:19:17.800 --> 0:19:20.000 single day, but in a day from scratt you know, 0:19:20.040 --> 0:19:22.000 from like not having to not having to know how 0:19:22.040 --> 0:19:25.879 to do anything. And and so she said, yeah, of course, Tiffany, 0:19:25.920 --> 0:19:27.919 you know, I'll coach you. And then she mentioned that 0:19:27.960 --> 0:19:32.080 she had this five day challenge and it's super beginner, 0:19:32.200 --> 0:19:34.920 you know, like if you're out here buying and selling, 0:19:35.000 --> 0:19:38.920 it ain't you. And day one is all about the 0:19:38.920 --> 0:19:41.800 stock market learning, like like what is the daw? 0:19:42.000 --> 0:19:43.679 What is sep five hundred? What is all that? 0:19:44.160 --> 0:19:46.920 Day two all about ETFs because this is the way 0:19:46.920 --> 0:19:49.040 you can invest without having to learn how to reach 0:19:49.119 --> 0:19:52.440 charts and ATF is like a bucket, you know, of 0:19:53.240 --> 0:19:55.919 investments that can be traded or bought and sold like 0:19:55.960 --> 0:19:58.159 a stock. Right, that's day two. So day one and 0:19:58.200 --> 0:20:00.080 day two are all about knowledge. What I really like 0:20:00.200 --> 0:20:02.400 the three last three days are all about taking action. 0:20:02.760 --> 0:20:06.119 Day three is all about how do you open up 0:20:06.119 --> 0:20:08.439 your first brokera's account or a brokera's account, like what 0:20:08.520 --> 0:20:10.320 to look for and we get to open it together. 0:20:10.480 --> 0:20:12.399 Like I said, I have four because that's when I 0:20:12.440 --> 0:20:14.359 heard of one, I'd be like open, open, but I. 0:20:14.359 --> 0:20:15.320 Don't do anything with them. 0:20:15.880 --> 0:20:19.960 Day four is buying your first stock, so like I've 0:20:20.000 --> 0:20:22.080 bought stock before, I've used like Robinhoods and stuff. But 0:20:22.160 --> 0:20:24.160 for those of you who haven't, you get to actually 0:20:24.160 --> 0:20:25.800 do the mechanic of buying it. And if you don't 0:20:25.840 --> 0:20:28.040 have enough money to buy, that's okay because there's a 0:20:28.040 --> 0:20:31.359 simulator so you can use paper money. And day five 0:20:31.520 --> 0:20:34.000 is selling that stock, so you really get like in 0:20:34.040 --> 0:20:37.760 these five days. It's really for beginners who are like, okay, 0:20:38.000 --> 0:20:40.760 I now have the mechanics and later on throughout the year, 0:20:40.800 --> 0:20:42.600 you know, Terry's gonna have other things that I plan 0:20:42.680 --> 0:20:44.120 on partner with her with. But this is a great 0:20:44.480 --> 0:20:48.920 five day like a course. Now it's not free. You know, 0:20:48.960 --> 0:20:50.560 when I do a challenge, my stuff be free. But 0:20:50.680 --> 0:20:53.119 it's not free because Terry has a different business. Okay, 0:20:53.520 --> 0:20:56.359 it is ninety seven dollars. You know to something to 0:20:56.400 --> 0:20:59.160 consider for five Yeah, so it's five days. It's ninety 0:20:59.160 --> 0:21:01.840 seven dollars. And so if you think that, you know, 0:21:02.320 --> 0:21:05.480 like you're interested, and I know there's like a VIP upgrade, 0:21:05.760 --> 0:21:07.439 and I think I want to say, you get like 0:21:07.480 --> 0:21:10.120 a six day and you get like cause I'm flying 0:21:10.119 --> 0:21:13.480 to South Carolina to teach, like she has like some 0:21:13.520 --> 0:21:16.160 guest coming, so I am like doing like mindset about 0:21:16.160 --> 0:21:18.399 money or whatever. I'm not teaching investing obviously, so I 0:21:18.400 --> 0:21:20.640 think there's like other like bonuses that you get when 0:21:20.640 --> 0:21:21.680 you upgrade. 0:21:21.720 --> 0:21:23.159 But it's something for me. 0:21:23.320 --> 0:21:26.040 I told myself like, and my team has decided, like 0:21:26.080 --> 0:21:28.399 my sisters were all kind of doing it together, like 0:21:28.720 --> 0:21:31.600 is this something I'm even interested in? Ninety seven dollars? 0:21:31.720 --> 0:21:33.800 Is I know it's a lot of money for some, 0:21:33.880 --> 0:21:36.000 but for many it's not a good way to see 0:21:36.080 --> 0:21:38.960 is this something I'm even interested in? It's live, which 0:21:38.960 --> 0:21:40.760 I do like, so it forces you to take it. Now, 0:21:41.320 --> 0:21:44.720 it's April fifteen to the nineteenth, eight pm to ten 0:21:44.760 --> 0:21:46.800 pm Eastern Standard time, so you want to make sure 0:21:46.840 --> 0:21:47.960 that you're available. 0:21:47.560 --> 0:21:48.880 Like a five day in a row. 0:21:49.359 --> 0:21:50.520 Yeah, five days in a row. 0:21:50.680 --> 0:21:51.960 And then you might say you know, you might do 0:21:52.000 --> 0:21:54.879 it and be like, eh, you know what, I'm not 0:21:54.920 --> 0:21:56.879 ready for the market, or you might be like, okay, 0:21:57.000 --> 0:21:59.960 now I've got the fundamentals and the mechanics under what's 0:22:00.119 --> 0:22:04.040 next and so yeah, so it's Trade and Travel dot Com, 0:22:04.359 --> 0:22:07.600 but I partner with Terry, so you add slash the Bunjonessa. 0:22:07.640 --> 0:22:10.879 So Trade and Travel dot Com slash the Buganisa and 0:22:11.000 --> 0:22:12.760 the people who use my link, I have like a 0:22:12.800 --> 0:22:15.879 bunch of like freebies and goodies that I'm adding to 0:22:15.920 --> 0:22:16.879 those people because I want to. 0:22:16.960 --> 0:22:17.600 I really want to. 0:22:17.640 --> 0:22:20.040 I want like low key, I would love to create 0:22:20.080 --> 0:22:23.440 like an investment club myself. Not an investment club where 0:22:23.440 --> 0:22:26.160 I tell you what to invest an investment club were, 0:22:26.359 --> 0:22:29.119 but literally it's like an accountability partnership. 0:22:29.119 --> 0:22:30.320 You know, yeah, you're like. 0:22:31.880 --> 0:22:35.040 Yes, Like literally, that's honestly, That's what I'm like. I'm 0:22:35.080 --> 0:22:37.199 doing this because I want to. Because there's one thing 0:22:37.240 --> 0:22:39.000 to have a teacher, but Terry's not gonna be able 0:22:39.000 --> 0:22:40.280 to teach me all the time. I want to be 0:22:40.280 --> 0:22:41.520 able to be in this club and say do they 0:22:41.560 --> 0:22:44.840 make get that understanding? And so one of the bonuses 0:22:44.880 --> 0:22:46.720 is that like if you use my link, is that 0:22:46.880 --> 0:22:49.040 like I'm forming like a just a temporary club to 0:22:49.040 --> 0:22:52.440 see if even I'm interested in that, because I really 0:22:52.440 --> 0:22:54.400 want to have a group of women in particular. 0:22:54.440 --> 0:22:57.240 I mean men can join too, but you know I did. 0:22:57.680 --> 0:23:01.320 It sounds a little stressful though, because my I I 0:23:01.320 --> 0:23:04.720 mean having a club having you know, because I just 0:23:04.760 --> 0:23:07.240 watched that movie on the plane, Dumb Money. I mean 0:23:07.280 --> 0:23:10.480 I read it mostly because I forgot my headphones. They 0:23:10.480 --> 0:23:13.960 didn't fit the jack thank you Apple. So I read 0:23:14.000 --> 0:23:16.880 the subtitles of Dumb Money the movie. 0:23:17.119 --> 0:23:22.800 It's okay, No, is that no forar news to rob me. No, 0:23:22.880 --> 0:23:24.639 it's not dumb Never I'm thinking about the wrong thing. 0:23:24.640 --> 0:23:26.119 Go ahead, dumb America ferra. 0:23:26.720 --> 0:23:29.879 Oh yeah, yes, yeah. So anyway, this movie came It 0:23:29.880 --> 0:23:31.800 was kind of sucked because it came out during the 0:23:31.840 --> 0:23:34.080 writer's strike, so none of the actors really could promote 0:23:34.080 --> 0:23:37.000 it or whatever and the actors strike. But anyway, it's 0:23:37.000 --> 0:23:39.719 a good movie. It's it's basically it's all about the 0:23:39.880 --> 0:23:45.159 game stop, game stop, stuck run up like where the redditors. 0:23:45.200 --> 0:23:48.919 It's like it started on this subreddit. I forget what 0:23:48.960 --> 0:23:51.040 it was called. I think it's literally like it was 0:23:51.040 --> 0:23:54.800 either a game stop subreddit or at least a investing subreddit, 0:23:54.920 --> 0:23:56.680 and you know Reddit has all these like teen like 0:23:56.760 --> 0:23:59.719 all these you know subs and a million different niches 0:23:59.720 --> 0:24:02.959 you can join. And they, yeah, a bunch of like 0:24:03.840 --> 0:24:08.719 regular people shorted or went and bought game Stop stock. 0:24:09.040 --> 0:24:11.560 I'm trying not to have confuse thos. And because they 0:24:11.600 --> 0:24:14.520 bought so much, it drove the stock price up. But 0:24:15.080 --> 0:24:17.920 then so many hedge funds had shorted the stock, which 0:24:17.960 --> 0:24:20.320 basically means they were going to lose money. They bet 0:24:20.359 --> 0:24:23.200 that it was going to go down by betting against it. 0:24:23.240 --> 0:24:26.720 When game Stop started to go, they were just losing 0:24:26.760 --> 0:24:29.760 billions of dollars and they had to get bailed out, 0:24:29.800 --> 0:24:31.880 and it was very David and Goliath and David got 0:24:31.920 --> 0:24:35.000 screwed and all that, because you know they were all 0:24:35.040 --> 0:24:37.560 like hold, hold, hold, like they were trying to really 0:24:37.600 --> 0:24:40.160 hold the line anyway. So that's where my head kind 0:24:40.160 --> 0:24:44.119 of went. I'm like, you know, it's it's good to have. 0:24:45.040 --> 0:24:48.240 I love the accountability and like having other voices. I 0:24:48.359 --> 0:24:51.520 get nervous because of our human inclination to sort of 0:24:51.520 --> 0:24:56.359 like follow the pack. Yeah, and sometimes that works out. Yeah, 0:24:56.400 --> 0:24:58.560 but then I think the education piece has to be 0:24:58.560 --> 0:25:00.560 there too, because at the end of the day, you 0:25:00.640 --> 0:25:03.640 got to know when it's like that's good for you. Yeah, 0:25:03.680 --> 0:25:04.680 I'm going to do this. 0:25:05.960 --> 0:25:08.000 And that's why I think having like because all y'all, 0:25:08.119 --> 0:25:09.679 one of my things, I feel like one of the 0:25:10.200 --> 0:25:11.960 I don't want to say claim to fans is but 0:25:12.359 --> 0:25:14.200 one of the things I pride myself on is being 0:25:14.200 --> 0:25:16.680 honest when I'm like, I don't know that like even 0:25:16.720 --> 0:25:19.280 a gig of money, Like you know, the chapters that 0:25:19.320 --> 0:25:21.040 are not my expertise, I'm like, so this is not 0:25:21.080 --> 0:25:23.159 my expertise, but guess what I brought in a booster 0:25:23.480 --> 0:25:26.159 the estate planning. This is my attorney, the insurance, this 0:25:26.240 --> 0:25:28.479 is my financial advisor, this is the you know, like 0:25:28.880 --> 0:25:31.919 they like in the investment chapter, I brought in like 0:25:32.600 --> 0:25:37.160 two people who want the Courtney who talked about investing 0:25:37.160 --> 0:25:40.480 for wealth and Kevin, who talked about investing for retirement. 0:25:40.840 --> 0:25:41.080 You know. 0:25:41.480 --> 0:25:43.520 So one of I think, to me, a really good 0:25:43.560 --> 0:25:46.280 teacher is not here to know everything but to help 0:25:46.320 --> 0:25:48.679 me make connections. And that's that's not the space that 0:25:48.720 --> 0:25:52.280 I'm leaning into because I really believe that in through community, 0:25:52.480 --> 0:25:54.280 that is the way that we're all going to be okay. 0:25:54.920 --> 0:25:57.119 And you know, like, if I could figure it out 0:25:57.200 --> 0:25:59.360 on my own, I'm sure I could, but I don't 0:25:59.400 --> 0:26:01.960 want to. So I'm like, I am going to vet 0:26:02.040 --> 0:26:04.600 and suss out the best educators I can find. But 0:26:04.640 --> 0:26:06.879 then ultimately, it's really the community that you really do 0:26:06.920 --> 0:26:08.560 the work with on a day to day basis, And 0:26:08.600 --> 0:26:10.639 so I'm trying to build some accountability for myself. 0:26:10.640 --> 0:26:11.760 I don't know what that's going to look like. Don't 0:26:11.760 --> 0:26:12.360 hold me to a child. 0:26:12.359 --> 0:26:14.920 I might get tired, but at least for now, this 0:26:14.960 --> 0:26:17.199 is a great little jump start five days. We might 0:26:17.240 --> 0:26:18.800 say I hate it, and you I say I love it, 0:26:19.200 --> 0:26:21.040 and then I get to see, you know what, that 0:26:21.119 --> 0:26:23.960 actually was kind of fun. Let's do this community together 0:26:24.119 --> 0:26:26.600 and I will bring the experts in here, Like I 0:26:26.600 --> 0:26:28.879 don't really know what how to do options, and I 0:26:28.920 --> 0:26:31.480 don't I think, really you should wait and really learn 0:26:31.480 --> 0:26:33.600 how to do basic investing first. But these are the 0:26:33.640 --> 0:26:35.760 types of things that there might be an interest. And 0:26:35.880 --> 0:26:37.960 one thing I am good at is I have access 0:26:38.000 --> 0:26:40.440 to some of the best of the best of the best. 0:26:40.080 --> 0:26:43.000 And I can reach out. So yeah, So if you're 0:26:43.000 --> 0:26:45.439 wanting to join Trade and Travel dot Com, Slo's gonna join. 0:26:45.480 --> 0:26:46.000 Anyone's club. 0:26:46.040 --> 0:26:49.240 It would be yourself, you know, because like I mean, 0:26:49.320 --> 0:26:51.520 like I said, I am a student as well, and 0:26:51.560 --> 0:26:54.320 so when I'm vetting for this in particular, that I'm 0:26:54.359 --> 0:26:57.240 vetting for myself too. And we'll put the link in 0:26:57.280 --> 0:27:00.760 the show notes. But yeah, I mean, like I said, 0:27:00.760 --> 0:27:02.520 it's five days. If we hated, then you know, we 0:27:02.600 --> 0:27:05.359 find something else. But I'm just determined to do something 0:27:05.440 --> 0:27:09.080 beyond making money in this one way. There has to 0:27:09.119 --> 0:27:11.480 be ways that I can make money when I don't 0:27:11.520 --> 0:27:13.359 want to be for basic what does that look like? 0:27:13.440 --> 0:27:18.200 So well, you mentioned real estate like ten minutes ago, 0:27:18.240 --> 0:27:19.439 but I'm going to try to use it as a 0:27:19.440 --> 0:27:22.720 segue anyway, because one thing that we've we've totally forgot 0:27:22.720 --> 0:27:25.200 to talk about, which has only been a few days 0:27:25.240 --> 0:27:28.200 in the news, but just big news for anyone who's 0:27:28.200 --> 0:27:30.359 planning to sell a home and kind of like oop, 0:27:30.480 --> 0:27:33.639 sorry to anyone who recently sold a home. But the 0:27:34.400 --> 0:27:39.160 National Association of Realtors, which is like one of the largest, 0:27:39.200 --> 0:27:42.960 maybe the largest trade association in the entire country. They're 0:27:43.000 --> 0:27:46.760 just massive and they have so much power, but they 0:27:47.040 --> 0:27:50.359 have they were sued by I think it was a 0:27:50.400 --> 0:27:52.520 collective of homeowners. I think it was a class action, 0:27:52.600 --> 0:27:54.959 I forget, but anyway, they had to settle because they 0:27:54.960 --> 0:27:58.040 were sued over the realtor fee, that six percent commission 0:27:58.800 --> 0:28:01.920 that you know now that I'm now that the settlements 0:28:01.920 --> 0:28:05.119 come through, that they've they've that six percent commission, the 0:28:05.160 --> 0:28:07.639 automatic commission that you would pay your realtor for selling 0:28:07.680 --> 0:28:11.879 your home is gone. Like they are not allowed to 0:28:12.119 --> 0:28:16.240 make it standard anymore. And apparently now you're able to 0:28:16.320 --> 0:28:19.440 negotiate with your realtor like okay, they may say, okay, 0:28:19.480 --> 0:28:22.800 well standard, you know, we charge a commission of six percent. Well, 0:28:22.840 --> 0:28:25.840 now this means you can find a realtor who charges 0:28:26.040 --> 0:28:29.919 four percent or five percent or two percent and be like, well, 0:28:30.320 --> 0:28:35.160 you know Jenny down, you know down at Century whatever, 0:28:36.160 --> 0:28:39.240 she's only charging me two and a half percent commission. 0:28:39.360 --> 0:28:41.880 So and use that as leverage and more bargaining power 0:28:41.960 --> 0:28:45.320 to negotiate down that real estate or sorry, the realtor 0:28:45.400 --> 0:28:48.280 fee of six percent, because I mean, I think the 0:28:48.320 --> 0:28:50.920 average home price now is over two hundred thousand dollars, 0:28:50.960 --> 0:28:53.760 So it's not a little bit of money that you're 0:28:53.760 --> 0:28:57.680 paying to have someone sell your put your home on 0:28:57.720 --> 0:29:01.640 the market or whatever for you. And so it's a 0:29:01.880 --> 0:29:06.840 huge huge deal and potentially a huge savings I. 0:29:06.920 --> 0:29:08.959 Know, so then like, is it gonna be worth it 0:29:08.960 --> 0:29:09.640 to be a real. 0:29:09.480 --> 0:29:10.480 Start these days? 0:29:10.520 --> 0:29:10.720 You know? 0:29:10.800 --> 0:29:13.120 See that's the thing. I mean, I still think it will. 0:29:13.360 --> 0:29:15.720 I think what it does is because it doesn't eliminate 0:29:15.760 --> 0:29:18.200 the ability to charge it, it just stops people from 0:29:18.280 --> 0:29:21.520 like making it just yeah, from having an automatic like 0:29:22.080 --> 0:29:24.200 you know. And I hope they come for car rental 0:29:24.240 --> 0:29:28.160 agencies next, because when I tell you, they will smile 0:29:28.240 --> 0:29:30.280 at you. It's just like when when I'm going to 0:29:30.320 --> 0:29:32.680 make another Game of Thrones reference because I don't know why, 0:29:32.720 --> 0:29:35.280 but anyway, Tiffany just like glaze over and just let 0:29:35.280 --> 0:29:38.960 it happen. When Danny at the end of Game of 0:29:39.040 --> 0:29:42.120 Thrones gets like shanked of spoiler alert whatever it's been years, 0:29:42.200 --> 0:29:45.360 gets shanked while the love of her life is kissing her. 0:29:45.640 --> 0:29:47.440 That's what it's like to rent a car in America. 0:29:47.840 --> 0:29:50.400 It's like, oh, you know, especially in Atlanta where they 0:29:50.440 --> 0:29:53.000 got the Riz, they got that Southern Riz and they're 0:29:53.040 --> 0:29:55.560 like oh yeah, baby, like yeah, oh this is your son, 0:29:55.640 --> 0:29:59.000 Oh how cute? Yeah, and you visit and oh that's nice. 0:29:59.040 --> 0:30:00.960 Well just you know, just I'm ride here and I'm 0:30:01.000 --> 0:30:03.360 looking at the thing, and I'm like, the rental that 0:30:03.400 --> 0:30:05.640 I prepaid for was two hundred and eighty dollars for 0:30:05.680 --> 0:30:09.360 a five day car rental. And I'm like, damn man, ma'am. 0:30:09.560 --> 0:30:11.360 And she still smiled as we handed me a glass 0:30:11.360 --> 0:30:13.040 of sweet tea at the same time. Might as well be. 0:30:13.400 --> 0:30:15.840 I'm like, why does the total say five hundred dollars. 0:30:16.440 --> 0:30:19.480 She's like, oh, oh, well, you know, that's just the 0:30:19.520 --> 0:30:21.680 liability insurance. And I was like, yeah, but I answered 0:30:21.680 --> 0:30:23.680 that question. I said, I declined the insurance because my 0:30:23.680 --> 0:30:27.880 credit card covers it. Yes, oh yeah, well well some cards, 0:30:27.880 --> 0:30:30.440 some cards don't really cover this kind of insurance. I 0:30:30.440 --> 0:30:32.320 forget which kind it was, so you know, that's what's 0:30:32.320 --> 0:30:34.920 added there. And I'm like, I was so ready to 0:30:34.920 --> 0:30:36.800 get out of there, but I was so mad because 0:30:36.800 --> 0:30:39.960 she didn't ask me about that type of insurance and 0:30:40.000 --> 0:30:43.400 it was just added on. And I'm like the bill, like, no, 0:30:43.560 --> 0:30:45.480 take that off, and like to the point where she 0:30:45.520 --> 0:30:47.120 had to go back in the system printed me a 0:30:47.120 --> 0:30:47.960 whole new receipt. 0:30:48.120 --> 0:30:48.880 Can you imagine? 0:30:49.000 --> 0:30:53.160 Yes, anyway, car mental agencies we have to get, y'all. 0:30:53.200 --> 0:30:55.720 We have to because your point many That's why I 0:30:55.720 --> 0:30:57.240 pay online to your point, So I could do that 0:30:57.320 --> 0:30:59.320 because you know, when you're there, it could be very 0:30:59.400 --> 0:31:00.120 easy to get. 0:31:00.520 --> 0:31:04.880 They're so good at it. It's such a betrayal, Like 0:31:05.280 --> 0:31:07.680 they really make you, you know, they're so friendly and 0:31:07.720 --> 0:31:09.760 they are getting and I don't know exactly how they 0:31:09.760 --> 0:31:13.000 get paid to sell you that extra insurance, but I 0:31:13.080 --> 0:31:14.840 have to believe they get some kind of commission or 0:31:14.840 --> 0:31:17.640 at least they get, you know, some kind of perks 0:31:17.760 --> 0:31:20.360 or benefit by being the big salesperson who can sell 0:31:20.400 --> 0:31:22.800 you the insurance. But yeah, that is such Oh it's 0:31:22.800 --> 0:31:27.280 so infuriating anyway. But realtors is the same way, but 0:31:27.480 --> 0:31:30.840 it's I don't know, it's in another high stress transaction. 0:31:30.960 --> 0:31:32.960 Nothing is more high stress than buying a home or 0:31:33.000 --> 0:31:36.160 selling a home. And like it's like, oh, yeah, just 0:31:36.200 --> 0:31:38.360 six percent, and at that point they're just hoping that, like, 0:31:38.600 --> 0:31:40.920 you know, all the money is so much money, what's 0:31:40.960 --> 0:31:44.320 an extra six percent going to be? But I'm yeah, 0:31:44.440 --> 0:31:47.600 definitely add the real turfy to the list of things 0:31:47.600 --> 0:31:49.760 that you can negotiate. There's a bunch of different things 0:31:49.760 --> 0:31:52.600 that you can negotiate on a home purchase, not just 0:31:52.720 --> 0:31:55.280 the you know, the cost of the home itself, but 0:31:56.120 --> 0:31:59.280 the fact that real turfees are getting added to the mix. Now, 0:31:59.440 --> 0:32:03.400 good real time realtors who I mean, it does take 0:32:03.440 --> 0:32:05.200 some skill to put a home on the market. And 0:32:05.240 --> 0:32:07.880 maybe they can, maybe they can show you that they 0:32:07.920 --> 0:32:12.320 deserve the six percent because of XYZ. But to have 0:32:12.400 --> 0:32:15.160 like a realtor who's really brilliant at their job get 0:32:15.200 --> 0:32:17.600 paid the same six percent as a realtor who's really 0:32:17.640 --> 0:32:19.960 phoning it in. And I think a lot of people 0:32:19.960 --> 0:32:22.040 have felt that like their realtor is not really the 0:32:22.400 --> 0:32:25.239 bringing it for them. Now you can say, okay, well 0:32:25.240 --> 0:32:28.120 I'm going to take you know, this fee is not automatic, 0:32:28.200 --> 0:32:29.720 like you got to work for it and show me 0:32:29.760 --> 0:32:33.000 that you're you know, doing something for me. And again 0:32:33.120 --> 0:32:36.000 also you can just say, all right, well this realtor 0:32:36.080 --> 0:32:38.120 is offering me four percent, I don't want to pay 0:32:38.120 --> 0:32:40.000 six What can you do and see if they can 0:32:40.040 --> 0:32:40.760 lower it for you. 0:32:42.280 --> 0:32:42.800 That's good. 0:32:43.000 --> 0:32:46.200 Also, they owe like a jillion dollars now and I think, 0:32:46.680 --> 0:32:48.920 let me read this really fast and I'll post this 0:32:49.000 --> 0:32:51.720 link in the show notes. Yeah, they've agreed to pay 0:32:52.120 --> 0:32:55.040 four hundred and eighteen million dollars over the next four 0:32:55.120 --> 0:32:59.480 years and their rest after lawyers get their pay because 0:32:59.520 --> 0:33:01.520 you know they the rest will go to people who 0:33:01.640 --> 0:33:03.800 sold their homes. Oh okay, so if you sold your 0:33:03.800 --> 0:33:08.040 home in recent years and paid what has been called 0:33:08.120 --> 0:33:11.440 inflated real estate commissions, the rest will go on to 0:33:11.520 --> 0:33:14.880 those people. So if you want to find out if 0:33:14.880 --> 0:33:19.200 you're entitled to compensation, check the lawyer's website. It's real 0:33:19.320 --> 0:33:25.400 Estate Commission Litigation dot com. Real Estate Commission Litigation dot com. 0:33:25.600 --> 0:33:28.920 And especially that I'm assuming this this could apply to everyone. 0:33:28.960 --> 0:33:30.880 A lot of people sold during the pandemic, you know. 0:33:32.080 --> 0:33:35.040 So yeah, I would definitely run to that link and 0:33:35.240 --> 0:33:37.160 you can definitely post that in the show notes for y'all. 0:33:38.000 --> 0:33:40.560 Yes, yeah, I thought, you know, as you said, if 0:33:40.600 --> 0:33:46.440 you or someone has been affected by misotheli methoth, what 0:33:46.720 --> 0:33:49.360 misl like as bests? 0:33:49.520 --> 0:33:55.840 Right, the commercials I remember after watching the Prices right 0:33:56.160 --> 0:34:01.000 in the middle of the day. Yeah, Like watch cable 0:34:01.080 --> 0:34:05.000 news on TV these days. It's so funny because I'm like, 0:34:05.040 --> 0:34:06.920 I'm getting a picture of who does watch it. It's 0:34:06.960 --> 0:34:12.840 like a lot of varicose vein, you know, bunyan commercials, 0:34:12.840 --> 0:34:14.600 like diabetes commercials. 0:34:14.719 --> 0:34:17.200 It's very remember that always to be the old white 0:34:17.239 --> 0:34:18.879 dude that was like, do you have diabetes? 0:34:20.200 --> 0:34:24.040 Yeah? How did he die? He was in the news 0:34:24.040 --> 0:34:24.640 recent I don't know. 0:34:24.800 --> 0:34:26.840 I don't know, but I remember hit like that. He 0:34:26.880 --> 0:34:28.960 had like glasses and a mustache. He was I think 0:34:29.000 --> 0:34:30.480 he was part of like some. 0:34:30.560 --> 0:34:31.799 TV show, you know. 0:34:31.840 --> 0:34:35.000 But I just remember him saying, do you have diabetes? No, 0:34:35.080 --> 0:34:38.200 they got the sugar, the sugar I got that baby 0:34:38.200 --> 0:34:39.279 got the sugar I got. 0:34:40.680 --> 0:34:45.040 And now it's time to boost up, break up, boost up, 0:34:45.080 --> 0:34:50.920 break up? Boost You gonna boost, you gonna break, what 0:34:51.000 --> 0:34:53.919 you're gonna do, what you gonna take? 0:34:56.760 --> 0:34:57.080 All right? 0:34:57.160 --> 0:35:02.399 Manja are you gonna booze? Oh? He being the book? 0:35:02.480 --> 0:35:05.279 I'm obsessed. Oh I wish I know he can he 0:35:05.440 --> 0:35:07.000 And there we go. Are we gonna break? 0:35:07.320 --> 0:35:09.799 Are we gonna break? Before? He's about to turn up? 0:35:10.040 --> 0:35:11.000 Turn up Tuesday? 0:35:11.239 --> 0:35:16.720 Heard me sing a little bit. Yeah we have been dang, 0:35:17.160 --> 0:35:19.759 but forty two minutes is really good, buddy, It is 0:35:19.880 --> 0:35:22.720 really good. Say hi to mommy's work friend, miss tipical 0:35:22.800 --> 0:35:23.239 work friend. 0:35:23.320 --> 0:35:24.080 Don't do me like that. 0:35:24.200 --> 0:35:26.200 I don't know what how I do. Ascribe you to 0:35:26.200 --> 0:35:30.719 a four year old I colleague, me to Auntie Tiffy, 0:35:32.320 --> 0:35:36.000 I don't care about that lady. I know, want I 0:35:36.040 --> 0:35:39.120 want to talk. That's the launcher you were talking about. 0:35:39.760 --> 0:35:41.920 That's awesome, Sweetie. Can you say hi to Auntie Tiffy? 0:35:42.120 --> 0:35:42.279 Hi? 0:35:43.239 --> 0:35:45.600 Because Hi Hi, Rio say Hi? 0:35:45.640 --> 0:35:47.960 You break with that you're on the podcast. 0:35:48.800 --> 0:35:50.440 He can't hear you, Hi, real. 0:35:51.239 --> 0:35:55.520 He can't hear you, but she says, ha ha. All right, now, 0:35:55.600 --> 0:35:57.200 can you go back to your couch and be quiet 0:35:57.239 --> 0:36:02.040 like I said, yes, ma'am what I'm hearing, Yes, ma'am. 0:36:02.200 --> 0:36:06.880 Where's your words? Yes, ma'am. Eh, I don't want to 0:36:06.880 --> 0:36:10.400 see yes, ma'am. 0:36:10.400 --> 0:36:11.319 To be a far of your friend. 0:36:12.920 --> 0:36:16.680 Show them what a great mama. All right. Anyway, Yeah, 0:36:16.719 --> 0:36:19.000 we're doing good, and we're doing good. That is not that. 0:36:19.000 --> 0:36:22.200 That's not the tablet, a tablet or a book. It 0:36:22.239 --> 0:36:25.319 is my phone on YouTube. Kids, That is what that is. 0:36:25.520 --> 0:36:27.160 Well, you know what's speaking of which I think I'll 0:36:27.160 --> 0:36:28.640 go first. I'm gonna do a little break. 0:36:29.040 --> 0:36:31.560 Oh okay, yes, it's a little shady break since we're 0:36:31.560 --> 0:36:34.239 talking simply since we're introducing baby so and y'all know 0:36:34.640 --> 0:36:37.640 I've got two DCEs Lily and a million so Malia, 0:36:37.680 --> 0:36:39.640 my niece that lives the closest her birthday's coming up. 0:36:39.680 --> 0:36:41.560 She's turning seven. I can't. 0:36:41.560 --> 0:36:43.759 Apparently, Hello Kitty is the thing now, I'm like, but 0:36:43.840 --> 0:36:47.239 you said it's a girl. We're off that Hello Kitty Kitty, 0:36:47.600 --> 0:36:49.319 I know, So of course I have to get an 0:36:49.360 --> 0:36:52.759 all kind of Hello Katy Shenanigans plushy and notebook and 0:36:52.800 --> 0:36:54.120 stickers and YadA YadA YadA. 0:36:54.160 --> 0:36:54.399 Yeah. 0:36:54.440 --> 0:36:59.480 So an if you are child psychologists, as riddle me this. 0:36:59.640 --> 0:37:02.360 So Amelia had. This is like her second or third 0:37:02.640 --> 0:37:06.160 spring concert that we've gone to, and she specifically said, Mommy, 0:37:06.360 --> 0:37:08.719 I want my aunties to come. Auntie Otto, which is 0:37:08.760 --> 0:37:11.799 me Adoci and Auntie chi Chie, which is Tracy. I 0:37:11.840 --> 0:37:13.840 want my aunties to come, Mommy. 0:37:13.560 --> 0:37:15.239 Are they coming? Are they coming out? Becoming? Big thing? 0:37:15.280 --> 0:37:17.120 You did? If you didn't come that it's a big deal. Later, 0:37:17.400 --> 0:37:18.520 I want you to come. Why where I went? 0:37:18.600 --> 0:37:20.800 I said, okay, okay. So we go to the spring concert. 0:37:20.800 --> 0:37:23.520 They do a great job. Her school is like eighty 0:37:23.600 --> 0:37:27.480 percent maybe even eighty five percent Latina Latino because we're 0:37:27.480 --> 0:37:29.320 in the north ward of Newark, which is very Hispanic. 0:37:29.520 --> 0:37:30.760 So there's a lot of like. 0:37:32.600 --> 0:37:34.080 Which is so cute, really out there. 0:37:34.200 --> 0:37:36.960 The one little brown chocolate Chip with her friends, her 0:37:37.000 --> 0:37:37.760 moroccas whatever. 0:37:38.920 --> 0:37:41.560 Hey, she's getting cultured already. She love first of all 0:37:41.600 --> 0:37:42.160 her accent. 0:37:42.239 --> 0:37:43.839 What was she says? Man, it's worth. I'm like, that's 0:37:43.840 --> 0:37:44.640 what I'm talking about. 0:37:45.080 --> 0:37:49.320 She is like her because she her pronunciation is profecto okay, 0:37:49.640 --> 0:37:50.560 So anyway, I love her. 0:37:50.480 --> 0:37:52.520 Her best friend of Lina's, this little Domdican girl. 0:37:52.680 --> 0:37:56.439 Everything is great afterward, you know, like we all rush 0:37:56.480 --> 0:37:57.600 to the back because we all want to see the 0:37:57.640 --> 0:37:59.040 babies as they come out, and you know, be like, 0:37:59.040 --> 0:38:00.680 oh I saw you, so they can see you, because 0:38:00.719 --> 0:38:03.560 when you're on stage, I can't see you. So for 0:38:03.680 --> 0:38:08.320 the second or third unirow, Amelia comes out and I said, meanie. 0:38:08.920 --> 0:38:11.160 She looked at me with horror in her face, like 0:38:11.160 --> 0:38:12.040 who was this stranger? 0:38:12.360 --> 0:38:13.560 I was like, wait, I'm confused. 0:38:13.960 --> 0:38:15.840 She literally took her friend and put her friend in 0:38:15.840 --> 0:38:17.600 front of her said stand here. I saw her, mad 0:38:17.680 --> 0:38:22.080 I have it on video, I said, mayn Was she embarrassed. 0:38:23.440 --> 0:38:23.759 Of you? 0:38:26.080 --> 0:38:26.440 Mandy? 0:38:27.080 --> 0:38:30.200 I said, Amelia, then you know, get you taper off, 0:38:30.400 --> 0:38:34.200 because now I've got ten six year old looking at 0:38:34.200 --> 0:38:36.440 you like, oh child. 0:38:35.520 --> 0:38:37.920 What are you just too much? She was you were 0:38:37.960 --> 0:38:40.160 too much? Do you bring out too much energy, weren't cool. 0:38:41.080 --> 0:38:44.080 One of her friends, who took pity on me, said, Amelia, 0:38:44.440 --> 0:38:53.160 he's just call you. She looked at her friend like. 0:38:50.200 --> 0:38:53.080 Like her friend Lily was like a Millia. Would you 0:38:53.200 --> 0:38:56.080 do that to that lady some. 0:38:58.200 --> 0:39:00.800 Because me while these other kids they giving selfies with 0:39:00.840 --> 0:39:03.160 their parents, hugs and kisses all the stuff, and me, 0:39:03.320 --> 0:39:05.560 I'm just standing like I do know her? 0:39:05.600 --> 0:39:07.960 I promise, oh my saidness. 0:39:08.360 --> 0:39:11.680 So then later her mother asked her and said, Ami, 0:39:11.719 --> 0:39:14.279 because Amelia is a boundary setting queen Amelia. It is 0:39:14.280 --> 0:39:15.960 who we would all be if we did not if 0:39:15.960 --> 0:39:18.880 we didn't grow up with trauma. So Amelia, she said, Amelia, 0:39:19.320 --> 0:39:21.319 when we come, how come you after you don't know? 0:39:21.400 --> 0:39:22.279 She said, I didn't see you. 0:39:22.280 --> 0:39:23.080 She said that's not true. 0:39:23.800 --> 0:39:24.400 You did see it. 0:39:24.600 --> 0:39:26.719 And then Amelia said, well, I don't want to talk 0:39:26.719 --> 0:39:32.160 about it. She said, oh, well why not? Mommy, I said, 0:39:32.160 --> 0:39:33.960 I don't want to talk about it. And if we're 0:39:33.960 --> 0:39:35.359 going to talk about it, I'm gonna you know, I'm 0:39:35.360 --> 0:39:38.319 gonna leave the room. I said, So this is what 0:39:38.320 --> 0:39:39.720 happens when kids don't get beaten's. 0:39:40.960 --> 0:39:42.800 That was the number of times that I've said the 0:39:42.880 --> 0:39:44.719 exact same thing of my dad. I'm like, oh, don't 0:39:44.800 --> 0:39:47.960 judge my parenting. You had it easy. You could go 0:39:48.000 --> 0:39:49.640 grab a belt and all your problem. 0:39:49.760 --> 0:39:50.520 Girl fixed all this. 0:39:50.640 --> 0:39:53.960 So like, so my my friend Linda, who's a counselor, 0:39:53.960 --> 0:39:56.160 said that you want to get I said, well, did 0:39:56.160 --> 0:39:58.120 were we supposed to do? An instant because old school 0:39:58.200 --> 0:40:00.080 says child having that child up and saying who the 0:40:00.160 --> 0:40:02.839 hew you talking to? And then new school parents says 0:40:02.880 --> 0:40:04.759 that you let them have boundaries, and she said you do. 0:40:05.520 --> 0:40:08.279 Here is kind of like how you navigate that. You 0:40:08.320 --> 0:40:09.680 allow her to say I don't want to talk about 0:40:09.680 --> 0:40:12.480 it in the moment, and then you say, understood, but 0:40:12.640 --> 0:40:14.840 tomorrow at three pm, we're. 0:40:14.640 --> 0:40:15.560 Going to talk about it. 0:40:15.680 --> 0:40:17.919 So you reassert yourself as a parent, like we don't 0:40:17.920 --> 0:40:19.520 have to talk about it in this moment because you're 0:40:19.520 --> 0:40:23.399 feeling whatever, But tomorrow or tonight at six pm after dinner, 0:40:23.400 --> 0:40:25.880 we're talking about it. Then you can literally say, like Alexa, 0:40:26.040 --> 0:40:28.000 please set an alarm for six pm to talk to 0:40:28.040 --> 0:40:30.239 Amelia about it. So that way it's like, no, no, 0:40:30.280 --> 0:40:31.920 we're talking about it, but I'm going to give you 0:40:31.920 --> 0:40:34.440 some agency that maybe in this moment you don't want 0:40:34.480 --> 0:40:36.880 to and I said okay, I like that. So then 0:40:36.960 --> 0:40:38.840 later when she came to the house, I was like, Amelia, 0:40:39.120 --> 0:40:41.480 I asked her that. I said, why you know, did 0:40:41.520 --> 0:40:41.920 you see me? 0:40:42.000 --> 0:40:43.719 At first? She said no. I said, well, remember was 0:40:43.719 --> 0:40:44.520 supposed to be truthful. 0:40:44.560 --> 0:40:46.839 She said, okay, I saw you. I said, why didn't 0:40:46.840 --> 0:40:48.440 you say hi back? Do you do you not want 0:40:48.480 --> 0:40:50.040 me to come? She said I did want you to come? 0:40:50.640 --> 0:40:52.440 And I said did you not want me to say hi? 0:40:52.600 --> 0:40:54.880 She was like, yes, I did not want you to 0:40:54.880 --> 0:40:56.400 say hi. I said, are you embarrassed? 0:40:56.760 --> 0:40:57.320 She nodded. 0:40:58.360 --> 0:41:00.759 Now to do with that? 0:41:02.000 --> 0:41:05.160 Embarrassed? What though that there's just someone really excited to 0:41:05.200 --> 0:41:05.560 see her? 0:41:06.200 --> 0:41:08.000 I guess so because you know I'm with I'm the 0:41:08.040 --> 0:41:09.600 auntie with the pictures in the video. 0:41:09.400 --> 0:41:15.840 And are we all doing that? I mean she's only six, No, 0:41:16.360 --> 0:41:17.120 Mammy is still working. 0:41:20.360 --> 0:41:20.520 Yes. 0:41:21.480 --> 0:41:22.879 I was like, I don't care nothing about your job, 0:41:23.400 --> 0:41:25.000 but yeah, I don't know. 0:41:25.080 --> 0:41:27.080 So basically she admitted that, like I do want you 0:41:27.120 --> 0:41:29.160 to come, I just don't want. 0:41:29.040 --> 0:41:31.600 You to speak to me. So I don't know what 0:41:31.600 --> 0:41:32.040 that means. 0:41:32.040 --> 0:41:36.320 I was like, I mean, yeah, I don't either, although 0:41:36.320 --> 0:41:41.319 when I did whatever not at the Grammys, when like 0:41:41.520 --> 0:41:43.239 she was two or three or I don't know how 0:41:43.440 --> 0:41:46.279 she was, but she's like, and Jay and b are 0:41:46.320 --> 0:41:49.520 just politely clapping, not even over the top, and she's like, 0:41:50.120 --> 0:41:54.080 it's enough, just calm down down. I think there is that, 0:41:54.200 --> 0:41:55.960 Like I do think a lot of kids are like that. 0:41:56.040 --> 0:41:58.239 And I get that from Rio sometimes too. When I'm 0:41:58.239 --> 0:42:00.480 really excited or I'm doing a fun dance, I'm singing 0:42:00.520 --> 0:42:04.960 really loud. It's like mom stopping. I don't know what 0:42:05.000 --> 0:42:07.120 that is, but it sounds normal to me. So, hey, 0:42:07.280 --> 0:42:07.960 I guess girl. 0:42:08.000 --> 0:42:09.239 I was like, so, maybe you don't want me to come? 0:42:09.239 --> 0:42:10.799 She says, no, no, I want you to come. I'm like, 0:42:11.160 --> 0:42:12.080 you just don't want you want me to come? 0:42:12.080 --> 0:42:14.520 And be silent? See how she feels when you don't 0:42:14.560 --> 0:42:16.680 do anything. Just give her the stomach, Yeah, give her this. 0:42:17.120 --> 0:42:18.480 I'm just gonna be like, I'm gonna look at her, 0:42:18.520 --> 0:42:20.560 maybe wave and just be like maybe not even just 0:42:20.560 --> 0:42:22.760 like make sure she sees me, she knows that I came, 0:42:23.239 --> 0:42:26.520 and just be quiet and then maybe yeah. So there's 0:42:26.520 --> 0:42:29.320 my brown break break from Shady Babies. 0:42:29.520 --> 0:42:31.160 Oh yeah, I was gonna say, what's the title of 0:42:31.200 --> 0:42:36.200 that one? Shady Shady Baby break? Man? I'm gonna do 0:42:36.239 --> 0:42:39.640 a break too. Mine's a little bit well, it's just different, 0:42:39.719 --> 0:42:42.000 but I want to do a break. I don't know 0:42:42.000 --> 0:42:44.120 what that, like the overarching theme is gonna be, but 0:42:44.520 --> 0:42:48.759 I two things happened this week. One this article came 0:42:48.800 --> 0:42:51.920 out on Essence that people are all talking about, and 0:42:52.000 --> 0:42:54.200 say what you will about the quality of the article. 0:42:55.120 --> 0:42:57.040 I used to be a business journalist and I would 0:42:57.080 --> 0:42:59.680 write stories like this. You know, you write like an 0:42:59.680 --> 0:43:03.000 opinion article like that. I understand what it takes to 0:43:03.040 --> 0:43:05.120 like write this kind of piece, and you know, you 0:43:05.600 --> 0:43:07.759 do it a little bit because you know it's going 0:43:07.800 --> 0:43:10.880 to be a conversation starter. And sometimes you know, I 0:43:10.880 --> 0:43:13.399 wouldn't necessarily do this, but I do feel like the 0:43:13.440 --> 0:43:16.239 headline and the style of the article is meant to 0:43:17.160 --> 0:43:20.440 incite a reaction, you know what I mean. So this article, 0:43:21.000 --> 0:43:23.640 if you haven't read it yet, it's on Essence dot 0:43:23.640 --> 0:43:26.240 com by Jasmine Browley. It says it's time to admit 0:43:26.280 --> 0:43:29.120 that being liked is more important than being good at 0:43:29.160 --> 0:43:32.480 your job. With a picture of Amanda Seals, who's been 0:43:32.480 --> 0:43:35.120 a guest on Brown Ambition. Remember we had Amanda Seels 0:43:35.160 --> 0:43:35.600 on the show. 0:43:36.040 --> 0:43:37.319 I know that was kind of a big deal. 0:43:37.520 --> 0:43:37.840 It was. 0:43:37.880 --> 0:43:40.040 I mean, it still is. And I remember I remember 0:43:40.239 --> 0:43:42.040 I don't know if I was talking. Maybe I said 0:43:42.040 --> 0:43:43.920 it live with her or with you at least. But 0:43:43.960 --> 0:43:46.280 I'm like, why do I feel like I'm not supposed 0:43:46.320 --> 0:43:48.560 to like Amanda Seals? Like the Internet seems to make 0:43:48.600 --> 0:43:51.759 me feel like she's done something crazy and wrong, and 0:43:51.880 --> 0:43:54.759 really there hasn't been like one thing Amanda Seeals has done. 0:43:54.840 --> 0:43:59.640 She's just very like, she's extremely opinionated, she's extremely brilliant 0:43:59.760 --> 0:44:03.880 and smart, and you know, she's the kind of person 0:44:03.920 --> 0:44:07.120 who will call out shenanigans when she sees shenanigans. And 0:44:07.120 --> 0:44:09.120 I'm saying that because the homeboys behind me, you know, 0:44:10.520 --> 0:44:13.640 and I completely you know, it's that whole quote like 0:44:13.719 --> 0:44:17.799 well behaved women rarely make history whatever. Like she she 0:44:17.960 --> 0:44:20.480 cares deeply. I think about the issues that she speaks about, 0:44:20.480 --> 0:44:25.560 and she's not one of those people who will thrive 0:44:25.640 --> 0:44:27.840 in a corporate setting at all, because you have to 0:44:27.880 --> 0:44:30.400 have a level of like and to be in a 0:44:30.400 --> 0:44:32.719 corporate setting, It's true, like you do have to be 0:44:34.400 --> 0:44:38.000 personable or at least like be the kind of person 0:44:38.080 --> 0:44:40.760 other people want to work with. That's just what it's like. 0:44:40.760 --> 0:44:43.640 Like a not a rotten egg, but like a person 0:44:43.680 --> 0:44:45.680 in a company or a person on a team who 0:44:45.840 --> 0:44:50.960 is agitating and looking for you know, looking to question 0:44:51.080 --> 0:44:54.560 everything and all that. It disrupts the flow that the 0:44:54.719 --> 0:44:57.160 nine to five lusious clock in and clock out kind 0:44:57.200 --> 0:44:59.680 of mentality that a lot of corporate jobs have. It 0:44:59.680 --> 0:45:03.800 doesn't mean that I don't feel like, you know, someone 0:45:03.840 --> 0:45:07.560 like Amanda. It's not a bad thing. I also include myself. 0:45:07.640 --> 0:45:09.680 I found out that I'm not a corporate girly either 0:45:09.719 --> 0:45:12.160 after a while, because I just get tired of faking 0:45:12.640 --> 0:45:15.799 and like going with the flow so much. But the 0:45:15.840 --> 0:45:18.640 fact that the article like used her picture and you know, 0:45:18.719 --> 0:45:21.279 it was a really kind of a weak article, just 0:45:21.560 --> 0:45:25.520 a weak opinion on how you know, in careers you 0:45:25.640 --> 0:45:28.560 do need to be liked and how your talent is 0:45:28.600 --> 0:45:31.399 not the only thing that matters. And at the end 0:45:31.400 --> 0:45:34.040 of it, I'm just kind of like you're using Amanda 0:45:34.120 --> 0:45:36.560 Seals as an example here, and I think again it's 0:45:36.600 --> 0:45:39.120 to get clicks, because people do feel some kind of 0:45:39.120 --> 0:45:40.799 way about a lot of what she has to say. 0:45:40.800 --> 0:45:43.520 But at the end of the article, it's sort of 0:45:43.640 --> 0:45:47.279 just like left it at Yeah, I can see why 0:45:47.320 --> 0:45:50.160 people don't like her, and it's something we all should 0:45:50.160 --> 0:45:53.560 think about. And like, if if I were a young 0:45:53.560 --> 0:45:56.200 black woman in corporate and you know, in the working world, 0:45:56.280 --> 0:45:58.399 and I read this article, I think the takeaway would 0:45:58.440 --> 0:46:02.880 be nothing. The takeaway would be have opinions and be 0:46:03.080 --> 0:46:05.799 bold and don't be surprised when people don't want to 0:46:05.840 --> 0:46:09.800 work with you. Don't be surprised if you lose opportunities. 0:46:10.440 --> 0:46:12.480 Where had I been writing it? And this is one 0:46:12.480 --> 0:46:14.920 of the reasons why I'm working on my book so 0:46:14.960 --> 0:46:18.560 I can put my voice out there on this. I 0:46:18.600 --> 0:46:23.920 would embrace the idea of collab like needing to be 0:46:24.280 --> 0:46:27.799 a good collaborator when you're in your career and let 0:46:27.880 --> 0:46:30.480 yourself free, like let yourself be free to a certain 0:46:30.480 --> 0:46:33.239 extent from everybody liking you. But if you want to 0:46:33.239 --> 0:46:35.520 be effective and make the impact that you want to have, 0:46:35.960 --> 0:46:39.839 your attitude, your personality, your approach to the work can 0:46:39.920 --> 0:46:43.239 hinder you if you're not going to take into consideration 0:46:43.400 --> 0:46:45.520 the people around you and their thoughts and feelings. And 0:46:45.560 --> 0:46:48.840 that's just like part of being a person in the 0:46:48.880 --> 0:46:52.800 world and trying to work with others' that's the reality. 0:46:52.840 --> 0:46:55.920 I don't think that this necessarily speaks ill of or 0:46:56.320 --> 0:47:01.359 you know, should make us look sideways at, you know, 0:47:01.920 --> 0:47:04.000 just people in corporate and choosing to work with their 0:47:04.040 --> 0:47:06.560 friends and all that. Like, at the end of the day, 0:47:07.200 --> 0:47:10.000 you want to work alongside somebody who is going to 0:47:10.080 --> 0:47:13.960 make you feel decent most of the time. That article 0:47:14.000 --> 0:47:16.400 came out and the second thing that happened is my 0:47:16.520 --> 0:47:20.719 girl who I will continue defending until the day I die, 0:47:21.400 --> 0:47:26.120 Jennifer Lopez j Lo, Jenny from the book. He's getting 0:47:26.280 --> 0:47:29.439 so much hate right now, talk about someone who does 0:47:29.520 --> 0:47:32.719 everything and to be liked and still y'all come for 0:47:32.800 --> 0:47:35.920 her like that. It really is, like it shows the 0:47:35.960 --> 0:47:38.400 other side of this whole Amanda Seals thing. Amanda Seals 0:47:38.920 --> 0:47:42.320 has all these opinions as very provocative. You know, doesn't 0:47:42.320 --> 0:47:44.359 put on a face for you. She's like putting on 0:47:44.480 --> 0:47:46.839 you know, just telling it real, real, and you know. 0:47:47.000 --> 0:47:48.880 And then you have j Loo, who is nothing but 0:47:49.000 --> 0:47:51.120 the image and the brand and the polish and the 0:47:51.160 --> 0:47:55.680 glow and all of those things. Perfection, perfection, perfection. They 0:47:56.440 --> 0:47:59.360 cannot stand her right now. So she came out, Jlo 0:47:59.440 --> 0:48:01.120 came out for while, she went and got back together 0:48:01.160 --> 0:48:03.680 with Ben Affleck. Right then she did this she has 0:48:03.719 --> 0:48:05.719 a new album out I forget what it's called, but 0:48:05.760 --> 0:48:09.680 she did a documentary on Amazon. Well, first she financed 0:48:09.680 --> 0:48:12.480 her own documentary. She spent like thirty million of her 0:48:12.480 --> 0:48:18.440 own dollars to create this music video movie. It's like 0:48:18.480 --> 0:48:21.839 a film, she says, a visual album for all of 0:48:21.880 --> 0:48:24.640 her songs on the album. And then also did a 0:48:24.680 --> 0:48:27.680 documentary about the making of that album, which is a 0:48:27.719 --> 0:48:31.120 model that plenty of pop stars have done. Do the album, 0:48:31.360 --> 0:48:33.560 make it, and then do a documentary about the behind 0:48:33.560 --> 0:48:36.279 the scenes. And I thought she was so brave, like 0:48:36.280 --> 0:48:38.680 say what you will. The music is the album. My 0:48:38.719 --> 0:48:42.799 favorite Jlo album, no is the you know? Was the 0:48:42.800 --> 0:48:46.520 movie like a like're gonna win an Oscar? Like I 0:48:46.560 --> 0:48:48.600 don't know. It was something to watch, you know what 0:48:48.680 --> 0:48:51.680 I mean, Hi buddy. But I feel like now people 0:48:51.719 --> 0:48:54.800 are coming for her, saying that she's trying too hard 0:48:55.160 --> 0:48:58.840 to be Jimmy from the Block. There's this clip in 0:48:58.840 --> 0:49:01.959 the documentary where she's like got her her real hair out. 0:49:02.320 --> 0:49:04.399 I honestly thought she was real. She was way more 0:49:04.560 --> 0:49:07.000 raw and authentic than she needed to be in the documentary, 0:49:07.400 --> 0:49:09.719 Like she took her extensions out and she's like, when 0:49:09.760 --> 0:49:11.319 I wear my hair like this. It just makes me 0:49:11.360 --> 0:49:13.440 feel like little Jenny running up and down the block. 0:49:14.080 --> 0:49:17.480 And there's this TikToker who's like, hey, Jenny up the 0:49:17.520 --> 0:49:20.439 block wants you to go away. The block has sent 0:49:20.480 --> 0:49:24.160 you a season desist. Stop claiming the block. Stop. You know, 0:49:24.640 --> 0:49:27.440 they were saying, like, you're a multi millionaire, go back 0:49:27.440 --> 0:49:30.480 to Beverly Hills, like you haven't lived in there? She 0:49:30.560 --> 0:49:34.320 really did, Yeah, Like the woman is from the Bronx 0:49:34.400 --> 0:49:36.279 like and it's a part of her identity. And it 0:49:36.360 --> 0:49:39.960 just makes me feel like, and you don't get to 0:49:39.960 --> 0:49:43.520 be Jennifer f and Lopez by caring what people have 0:49:43.600 --> 0:49:45.400 to say about you. Because they have been coming for 0:49:45.480 --> 0:49:47.880 her since day one and they still are talking about Ashanti. 0:49:47.920 --> 0:49:51.839 Ashanti's fine okay, and she got paid for the work 0:49:51.880 --> 0:49:55.200 that she did, right, How she can't sing and how 0:49:55.480 --> 0:49:57.480 because she doesn't sing the way that they want, they 0:49:57.480 --> 0:49:59.600 think that she should be singing, that she doesn't deserve 0:49:59.640 --> 0:50:01.239 to have a voice or to use it or to 0:50:01.320 --> 0:50:04.640 make music. And I just want to say, for the record, 0:50:05.160 --> 0:50:09.520 I love a woman who continues to make art because 0:50:09.840 --> 0:50:12.880 she can and use her voice because she can, and 0:50:12.920 --> 0:50:15.680 she has something to say. And I think that takes 0:50:15.680 --> 0:50:17.920 so much guts and so it's used to be so 0:50:18.120 --> 0:50:21.000 brave and so strong to know that you're going to 0:50:21.040 --> 0:50:23.960 get this kind of reaction and then just to do 0:50:24.160 --> 0:50:27.799 your art and make your art anyway, like I will, 0:50:28.719 --> 0:50:31.680 I will, I will die on this hill. I love 0:50:31.760 --> 0:50:35.360 Jennifer Lopez. I love Jenny from the Black, and I 0:50:35.480 --> 0:50:37.640 just think she deserves so much better. And I'm sick 0:50:37.680 --> 0:50:41.880 of the internet culture being like, oh, Brittany, We're so sorry. 0:50:41.920 --> 0:50:44.120 We shouldn't have been so hard on you. Oh Monica Lewinsky, 0:50:44.160 --> 0:50:46.279 we really messed up, didn't we owe Anita Hill? Like 0:50:46.440 --> 0:50:48.279 after you destroy somebody, Yeah, I need a hill, Like 0:50:48.280 --> 0:50:50.120 we should have believed you from the beginning. Me too, 0:50:50.200 --> 0:50:52.040 meet you, blah blah blah blah blah. But then we 0:50:52.120 --> 0:50:55.120 repeat the same cycle. We're just going to abuse a mother, 0:50:55.320 --> 0:50:58.279 a woman, you know, someone's daughter. We're just going to 0:50:58.360 --> 0:51:01.799 abuse her for trying to make art and put some 0:51:02.000 --> 0:51:05.960 love and positivity into the world. Like come, we can't 0:51:05.960 --> 0:51:09.440 have it both ways. I just want to see her 0:51:09.840 --> 0:51:12.040 be embraced. And you can say what you want about 0:51:12.040 --> 0:51:13.520 the art and whether or not it's your kind of 0:51:13.640 --> 0:51:17.759 art and whatever, but I would like a huge brown 0:51:17.840 --> 0:51:22.120 break from women being loved one minute and then abuse 0:51:22.200 --> 0:51:25.959 the next because of the art. What's happening. The show's over. 0:51:26.200 --> 0:51:31.359 We're freaking out now, buck, We're wrapping it up. 0:51:31.440 --> 0:51:35.080 We're wrapping it up. Yeah, no, I agree. I think 0:51:35.320 --> 0:51:36.920 you know, the Internet is not. 0:51:36.880 --> 0:51:40.000 A safe space for most people, and even if it 0:51:40.040 --> 0:51:42.760 is temporarily safe, it's not a safe space for long. 0:51:43.280 --> 0:51:45.000 And so as long as you know that, you know, like, 0:51:45.080 --> 0:51:47.240 it doesn't matter how beloved you are, I mean. 0:51:47.440 --> 0:51:49.400 You know, they will bring you to be it and 0:51:49.440 --> 0:51:49.680 may be. 0:51:49.880 --> 0:51:51.839 You know, they'd be dragoned for filth these days. 0:51:51.840 --> 0:51:55.040 So yeah, knowing that, that's why, honestly we should all 0:51:55.080 --> 0:51:57.400 take our social media breaks, because it can be all too. 0:51:57.320 --> 0:52:02.080 Much and they'll just keep and just keep your auntie 0:52:02.080 --> 0:52:04.840 Tiffany has a hard stop in sixty seconds, one second, Okay, 0:52:05.280 --> 0:52:09.560 we just say my last words, yes, ma'am. Anyway, just keep. 0:52:09.840 --> 0:52:12.319 If you're someone who's letting the opinions of others get 0:52:12.360 --> 0:52:15.520 to you, like, wait them out, like, keep doing your work. 0:52:15.760 --> 0:52:18.520 Years will go by, you will like it, just waited out. 0:52:18.560 --> 0:52:20.000 It doesn't matter at the end of the day. Just 0:52:20.080 --> 0:52:24.440 keep doing your art, keep making your keep making your 0:52:24.520 --> 0:52:26.480 voice heard. It doesn't matter if people want to hear 0:52:26.520 --> 0:52:28.440 it or not. Like Amanda Seals is never going to 0:52:28.480 --> 0:52:31.960 stop doing what she does, she shouldn't either. Keep making 0:52:32.000 --> 0:52:34.080 your art, keep saying what matters to you, and you 0:52:34.120 --> 0:52:37.680 will outlast the critics and the TikTok viral moments and 0:52:38.280 --> 0:52:39.839 all that. Bs. 0:52:40.360 --> 0:52:43.799 Yeah you love Uba. If you have not left us 0:52:43.800 --> 0:52:46.600 a review, what are you waiting for? You have one second, 0:52:46.640 --> 0:52:48.520 Mandy to like you can find a quick review. 0:52:49.320 --> 0:52:51.279 Oh what do I have one second? You tell me? Girl? 0:52:52.360 --> 0:52:54.200 Oh I got a second? Do you think I pulled 0:52:54.239 --> 0:52:55.839 them out of nowhere? I have to like go into 0:52:55.880 --> 0:52:58.759 this thing? What about you know? 0:52:58.800 --> 0:53:00.880 We read the reviews at the end. Gotta be ready. 0:53:01.320 --> 0:53:03.440 If you can leave us a review on Apple, Spotify, 0:53:03.480 --> 0:53:07.200 wherever you listen, reviews, help us get views, reviews leads 0:53:07.200 --> 0:53:12.800 the views. He found this episode interesting, fun, engaging, wonderful, tremendous. 0:53:12.920 --> 0:53:17.400 Tendous that your point send is your friend. 0:53:17.280 --> 0:53:22.160 A calligue, a bestie, a sister, a cousin, a mama. 0:53:22.480 --> 0:53:24.040 We'll try to reviieve. We'll do it next week. 0:53:24.040 --> 0:53:25.480 We'll try to read your review so you know that 0:53:25.560 --> 0:53:27.120 you know we're serious about our basis, but we do 0:53:27.160 --> 0:53:28.240 have a lot of really great reviews. 0:53:28.239 --> 0:53:29.879 So oh okay, okay. 0:53:30.640 --> 0:53:34.160 March twenty second, Dynamic Duo from German boxer. I love 0:53:34.200 --> 0:53:36.640 the energy and how financial topics are discussed in super 0:53:36.680 --> 0:53:40.919 simple ways. You go girls, and then essentially Mom says, 0:53:40.960 --> 0:53:43.200 I know you care about the girlies. Tiffany Fellow and 0:53:43.280 --> 0:53:47.480 future BA girlies listen to me. Sometimes information is helpful 0:53:47.520 --> 0:53:50.319 and useful, and sometimes knowing I'm not alone in my 0:53:50.400 --> 0:53:52.920 failures gives me encouragement to get back on the horse. 0:53:53.000 --> 0:53:56.200 So if you've made mistakes or want information about avoiding mistakes, 0:53:56.560 --> 0:53:59.720 give this podcast to listen. Mandy is vulnerable and sharing 0:53:59.719 --> 0:54:02.919 her challenges, but Tiffany drops ways for Mandy and us 0:54:02.960 --> 0:54:06.400 to walk through them. Good stuff here, period. 0:54:06.880 --> 0:54:11.360 That's really sweet, y'all, especially reading You know this is 0:54:11.360 --> 0:54:16.680 a Mandy question, Tiffy, you shout, She's. 0:54:16.560 --> 0:54:19.040 Trying to make sure she routes it to the right operator. Okay, 0:54:19.480 --> 0:54:21.200 press two for career questions. 0:54:21.280 --> 0:54:23.080 No, that's funny though, I don't mind that, all right, 0:54:23.120 --> 0:54:25.480 So listen to us on Friday. Well, as you know now, 0:54:25.520 --> 0:54:29.279 we do throwback like Mondays, So Monday, Wednesday, Friday you 0:54:29.320 --> 0:54:31.000 get BA three times a week. 0:54:31.080 --> 0:54:31.920 How lucky are you? 0:54:33.160 --> 0:54:33.640 Amazing? 0:54:34.160 --> 0:54:36.160 Yeah, all right until next week, well not next week 0:54:36.200 --> 0:54:37.040 until Friday, y'all. 0:54:37.160 --> 0:54:42.000 Bye bye,