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Speaker 1: Hey, hey, hey we're back.

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Speaker 2: We're black Bread Ambition and.

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Speaker 1: Bishops is back and they're popping like, hey, now, hey,

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Speaker 1: May's back.

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Speaker 2: Yes, Mandy's curls are bad, honey, how are you?

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Speaker 3: Mandra I'm very much better. I got a lot of

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Speaker 3: I don't sound better because I was just in Georgia

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Speaker 3: and the pollen kicked my You know what, I don't

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Speaker 3: want to draw too much attention.

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Speaker 1: To it, but do you see Okay, I love it

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Speaker 1: if we.

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Speaker 3: Draw attention to that. And if you're on YouTube, you

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Speaker 3: know what I'm pointing to. Okay, if I draw attention

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Speaker 3: or he or the thing sees itself in the camera,

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Speaker 3: because I'm just like very casually trying to get sure

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Speaker 3: that I cover up, hoping he just thinks that this

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Speaker 3: is just white noise and Mommy's not doing anything interesting.

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Speaker 3: It's spring break, y'all, okay, and I the kids are

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Speaker 3: here in the camps are closing at two pm, like

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Speaker 3: what I know? Yeah, but no, I just got back

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Speaker 3: from Georgia. I think, y'all. I had a lot of

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Speaker 3: I forgot what I said last week. I just know

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Speaker 3: it was a blur and I was super sad and

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Speaker 3: tiff again carried, but I did get some sweet messages

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Speaker 3: from folks and my dad. I'm happy to report I

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Speaker 3: went to Georgia for a few days. My dad is

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Speaker 3: doing so well and he is looking so good. I

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Speaker 3: know if you're talking about. I took him to get

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Speaker 3: his first haircut, and I feel, like six weeks it

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Speaker 3: looks so handsome, looks so handsome. I even talked him

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Speaker 3: into letting the guy shampoo it. I don't think he

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Speaker 3: even knew. It's like one of these old school, old

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Speaker 3: school bar He's one of the same barber in Union

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Speaker 3: City where I grew up for like the first part

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Speaker 3: of my child, don't know all my whole child was.

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Speaker 3: It was like five year chunks in different places. So

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Speaker 3: spent a chunk of time in Union City, Georgia, south

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Speaker 3: of Atlanta anyway, So shout out to Kenny at the

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Speaker 3: barber shop that I still don't know what its name

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Speaker 3: is in Red Oak. Nothing no, nothing makes me feel

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Speaker 3: more normal than just fighting with my dad about directions

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Speaker 3: in the car when I'm driving him. Oh wow, especially

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Speaker 3: in all Atlanta, and I'm just like, yes, Dad, I know,

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Speaker 3: take a left at the yellow sign and the short tree.

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Speaker 3: You know, make sure you take a rite at the

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Speaker 3: short tree, not the tall tree, but the little one.

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Speaker 3: I've done told you know what I mean. Like I

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Speaker 3: like to have the GPS on just for my own

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Speaker 3: I hate that we're millennials, Like we like to know

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Speaker 3: what our next five steps are going to be. I

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Speaker 3: like to look at the map and know that my

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Speaker 3: little blue line is going to go the right way.

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Speaker 3: And he just fought with the jeep anyway, he stressed

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Speaker 3: me out, but it was it was so fun and

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Speaker 3: my my, you know, you know who back there got

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Speaker 3: to watch Pop Pop get a big boy haircut and yeah,

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Speaker 3: he's doing real well. He had visitors yesterday. And when

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Speaker 3: he starts holding court and talking for hours and hours

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Speaker 3: on end, I just like sat back and I was like, wow,

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Speaker 3: a month ago he could barely get five words out.

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Speaker 3: So I almost like, God is good. I've never said

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Speaker 3: that once in my life. Girl, Like, am I a

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Speaker 3: church girl, Charlotte? I guess I am a church honestly though,

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Speaker 3: Like the number of relatives I have who are pastors

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Speaker 3: in Georgia, Like I really ought to be more. But no,

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Speaker 3: God is good, yes period that. Yeah, how are you are?

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Speaker 3: The church Blossoms blossoming.

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Speaker 4: Yet peak, although this is a year two you just

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna, yeah, you have to come to I want

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Speaker 4: to say, it's like early April that it reaches this peak,

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Speaker 4: so you have to come.

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Speaker 3: Like, God, that's like next week. Okay, So it's.

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Speaker 1: Like within next two weeks they're going to reach their peak.

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Speaker 1: So I'm excited. Although I'm why, I'm like, where are you?

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Speaker 1: Maybe you know, I feel like they pop then they don't.

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Speaker 1: But I'm because I'm looking around like it's not looking poppy.

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Speaker 3: Just yeah, have to like, what's the come on?

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Speaker 1: I know, I'm like, they're better, but yeah, so last

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Speaker 1: week I fell.

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Speaker 2: You know how most of the time as an.

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Speaker 3: Face people are injuring, I always walk out.

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Speaker 1: Was coming down the steps to my house and I

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Speaker 1: was listening to like this book that I've been listening to,

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Speaker 1: and I don't know, I just it was I missed

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Speaker 1: I mean I felt like a five year old, like

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Speaker 2: And then you know, usually when you when you're five

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Speaker 2: my body. It's like you forgot your forty four.

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Speaker 1: I laid there for a little bit, just the guy

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Speaker 3: Who stairs were you?

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Speaker 3: My own?

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Speaker 2: And then I laid there for a minute.

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Speaker 3: And it wasn't even have that many steps.

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Speaker 1: I know, it's like three steps, and I missed the

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Speaker 1: last one. And then I just laid there and I said,

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Speaker 2: I had to roll over to my side.

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Speaker 1: Then I had to get on all fours and I said,

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Speaker 1: oh okay, and I realized, okay, your niece are scraped.

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Speaker 1: And then I got up and I said, oh okay,

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Speaker 1: I'm okay. So I walked halfway up and I was like,

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Speaker 1: I walked like, you know, maybe just like not even

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Speaker 1: half a block, and then my inside voice like chold.

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Speaker 3: Asspect, Oh no, are you okay? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: I mean I thought I was okay.

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Speaker 1: And then this morning I woke up, I said, oh,

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Speaker 1: I'm just running my knee. I started limping. I'm like,

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Speaker 1: why is my knee hurt? And I was like, oh,

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Speaker 1: that's right, Timmy took a tumble.

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Speaker 3: So yeah, you know, I don't think that was age.

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Speaker 3: I think that's just.

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Speaker 2: I know, you know, I have not fallen like that, and.

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Speaker 3: Like, that's real hard to go downstairs. I mean it

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Speaker 2: You do a little something like you know, you catch yourself.

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Speaker 2: The said that's an episode.

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Speaker 1: And I there was no call she do it, and

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Speaker 3: No one, no one honked at you. Oh is not

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Speaker 3: the worst I know, are you? Okay? Just leave me

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Speaker 3: protect If you see someone who falls down, just ignore them.

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Speaker 3: I mean, all they want in the whole to be ignored.

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Speaker 3: That's different, yes, but if they look like you know,

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Speaker 3: leave them alone. And if they're not crying and screaming

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Speaker 3: in pain, just walk just turn around. You can check

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Speaker 3: on them, but don't say anything, yes, turn around. You

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Speaker 3: can be like they look okay, they look okay. You know,

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Speaker 3: I find a bush for five minutes just to be

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Speaker 3: sure if you really want to, but don't talk to

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Speaker 2: We're gonna we're gonna call it like g A W D.

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Speaker 2: God is good with the tea is good. Hey ba fam.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna take a quick break and we'll be right back.

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Speaker 2: Because He is good. Because I also avoided a major scam.

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Speaker 2: Are you ready for this?

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Speaker 3: You need scams? I know that's gonna be the next

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Speaker 3: intro for your book.

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Speaker 2: So this scam book is like.

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Speaker 1: The thing is, they almost got me a few months ago,

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Speaker 1: but because God is what good, it didn't work out.

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Speaker 1: And then they try to get me again twice this weekend.

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Speaker 1: I said, hold on, maybe I should google.

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Speaker 2: So here's what happened. A month ago.

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Speaker 1: This podcast that I thought this major podcast reached out

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Speaker 1: I was like yeah, yeah, sure. They're like, oh, we

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Speaker 1: actually pay our guests. I was like really okay. They

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Speaker 1: little bit of money.

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Speaker 1: Say, it was like anywhere from five thousand, six thousands.

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Speaker 2: It wasn't you know. I said, oh, okay, So everything

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Speaker 1: Like maybe it was a few days before we're supposed

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Speaker 1: to do the podcast, they were like, we're gonna do

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Speaker 1: it on we want to also go simultaneously live on Facebook.

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Speaker 1: And I said okay, and what had to happen? And

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Speaker 1: I've done this with like Chase and not Bag of

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Speaker 1: America Prudential before. Is that like you like basically kind

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Speaker 1: of joint log in behind the scenes, And for whatever reason,

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Speaker 1: then like well we could do it on YouTube and

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Speaker 1: I said okay, And then same thing YouTube. It was

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Speaker 1: behind the scenes. They said, hey, Tiffany, let's try again

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Speaker 1: tomorrow because the podcast is in two days. I said,

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Speaker 1: no problem. Then the next day I was waiting on

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Speaker 1: Zoom and nobody showed up. And then I was like

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Speaker 1: this doesn't seem right. So then a week later they

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Speaker 1: hit me up and said, oh my bad. I'm like, well,

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Speaker 1: that seems odd because I was supposed to be a

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Speaker 3: So it was like a big show.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I can't remember the first show, so I ignored it.

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Speaker 1: So when they said, to my bad, can we jump

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Speaker 1: back on? I just ignored them. I was like, they're

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Speaker 1: not serious. Then this week Tracy reached out to me

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Speaker 1: and said two podcasts reached out, one saying they paid

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Speaker 1: three thousand dollars and one say they paid ten thousand.

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Speaker 1: I said really, and one was Crime Junkies And I'm like, well,

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Speaker 1: doesn't have a thing they to do with me. So

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Speaker 1: we're going back and forth, and they kept saying, how

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Speaker 1: do you want to get paid? And Tracy said, something

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Speaker 1: doesn't seem right because they seem more interested in paying

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Speaker 1: you than actually like, what is Tiffany need to do?

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Speaker 1: They're like, oh, she doesn't need to do anything.

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Speaker 3: Really, so what very very fishy?

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Speaker 1: Yes, And so they kept being assisted, how do you

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Speaker 1: want to get paid? I'm like, what's going on here?

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Speaker 1: So then I said, googled podcasts Facebook scam because it

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Speaker 1: was the same thing. Let's link behind a Facebook child.

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Speaker 1: The reason, the thing, the way, the pot the scam

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Speaker 1: works is whatever they are doing behind the scenes of Facebook,

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Speaker 1: they take control of your and steal it from you.

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Speaker 1: Oh and has like five hundred thousand followers and my

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Speaker 1: job and I said, oh my gosh. So the first time,

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Speaker 1: a stock. Right, that's day two. So day one and

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Speaker 1: day two are all about knowledge. What I really like

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Speaker 1: the three last three days are all about taking action.

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Speaker 1: Day three is all about how do you open up

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Speaker 1: your first brokera's account or a brokera's account, like what

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Speaker 1: to look for and we get to open it together.

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Speaker 1: Like I said, I have four because that's when I

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Speaker 1: heard of one, I'd be like open, open, but I.

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Speaker 2: Don't do anything with them.

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Speaker 1: Day four is buying your first stock, so like I've

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Speaker 1: bought stock before, I've used like Robinhoods and stuff. But

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Speaker 1: for those of you who haven't, you get to actually

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Speaker 1: do the mechanic of buying it. And if you don't

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Speaker 1: have enough money to buy, that's okay because there's a

449
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Speaker 1: simulator so you can use paper money. And day five

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Speaker 1: is selling that stock, so you really get like in

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Speaker 1: these five days. It's really for beginners who are like, okay,

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Speaker 1: I now have the mechanics and later on throughout the year,

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Speaker 1: you know, Terry's gonna have other things that I plan

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Speaker 1: on partner with her with. But this is a great

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Speaker 1: five day like a course. Now it's not free. You know,

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Speaker 1: when I do a challenge, my stuff be free. But

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Speaker 1: it's not free because Terry has a different business. Okay,

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Speaker 1: it is ninety seven dollars. You know to something to

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Speaker 1: consider for five Yeah, so it's five days. It's ninety

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Speaker 1: seven dollars. And so if you think that, you know,

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Speaker 1: like you're interested, and I know there's like a VIP upgrade,

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Speaker 1: and I think I want to say, you get like

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Speaker 1: a six day and you get like cause I'm flying

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Speaker 1: to South Carolina to teach, like she has like some

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Speaker 1: guest coming, so I am like doing like mindset about

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Speaker 1: money or whatever. I'm not teaching investing obviously, so I

467
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Speaker 1: think there's like other like bonuses that you get when

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Speaker 1: you upgrade.

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Speaker 2: But it's something for me.

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Speaker 1: I told myself like, and my team has decided, like

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Speaker 1: my sisters were all kind of doing it together, like

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Speaker 1: is this something I'm even interested in? Ninety seven dollars?

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Speaker 1: Is I know it's a lot of money for some,

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Speaker 1: but for many it's not a good way to see

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Speaker 1: is this something I'm even interested in? It's live, which

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Speaker 1: I do like, so it forces you to take it. Now,

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Speaker 1: it's April fifteen to the nineteenth, eight pm to ten

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Speaker 1: pm Eastern Standard time, so you want to make sure

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Speaker 1: that you're available.

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Speaker 3: Like a five day in a row.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, five days in a row.

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Speaker 1: And then you might say you know, you might do

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Speaker 1: it and be like, eh, you know what, I'm not

484
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Speaker 1: ready for the market, or you might be like, okay,

485
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Speaker 1: now I've got the fundamentals and the mechanics under what's

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Speaker 1: next and so yeah, so it's Trade and Travel dot Com,

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Speaker 1: but I partner with Terry, so you add slash the Bunjonessa.

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Speaker 1: So Trade and Travel dot Com slash the Buganisa and

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Speaker 1: the people who use my link, I have like a

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Speaker 1: bunch of like freebies and goodies that I'm adding to

491
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Speaker 1: those people because I want to.

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Speaker 2: I really want to.

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Speaker 1: I want like low key, I would love to create

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Speaker 1: like an investment club myself. Not an investment club where

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Speaker 1: I tell you what to invest an investment club were,

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Speaker 1: but literally it's like an accountability partnership.

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Speaker 3: You know, yeah, you're like.

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Speaker 1: Yes, Like literally, that's honestly, That's what I'm like. I'm

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Speaker 1: doing this because I want to. Because there's one thing

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Speaker 1: to have a teacher, but Terry's not gonna be able

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Speaker 1: to teach me all the time. I want to be

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Speaker 1: able to be in this club and say do they

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Speaker 1: make get that understanding? And so one of the bonuses

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Speaker 1: is that like if you use my link, is that

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Speaker 1: like I'm forming like a just a temporary club to

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Speaker 1: see if even I'm interested in that, because I really

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Speaker 1: want to have a group of women in particular.

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Speaker 2: I mean men can join too, but you know I did.

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Speaker 3: It sounds a little stressful though, because my I I

510
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Speaker 3: mean having a club having you know, because I just

511
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Speaker 3: watched that movie on the plane, Dumb Money. I mean

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Speaker 3: I read it mostly because I forgot my headphones. They

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Speaker 3: didn't fit the jack thank you Apple. So I read

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Speaker 3: the subtitles of Dumb Money the movie.

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Speaker 1: It's okay, No, is that no forar news to rob me. No,

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Speaker 1: it's not dumb Never I'm thinking about the wrong thing.

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Speaker 2: Go ahead, dumb America ferra.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yes, yeah. So anyway, this movie came It

519
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Speaker 3: was kind of sucked because it came out during the

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Speaker 3: writer's strike, so none of the actors really could promote

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Speaker 3: it or whatever and the actors strike. But anyway, it's

522
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Speaker 3: a good movie. It's it's basically it's all about the

523
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Speaker 3: game stop, game stop, stuck run up like where the redditors.

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Speaker 3: It's like it started on this subreddit. I forget what

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Speaker 3: it was called. I think it's literally like it was

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Speaker 3: either a game stop subreddit or at least a investing subreddit,

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Speaker 3: and you know Reddit has all these like teen like

528
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Speaker 3: all these you know subs and a million different niches

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Speaker 3: you can join. And they, yeah, a bunch of like

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Speaker 3: regular people shorted or went and bought game Stop stock.

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Speaker 3: I'm trying not to have confuse thos. And because they

532
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Speaker 3: bought so much, it drove the stock price up. But

533
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Speaker 3: then so many hedge funds had shorted the stock, which

534
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Speaker 3: basically means they were going to lose money. They bet

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Speaker 3: that it was going to go down by betting against it.

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Speaker 3: When game Stop started to go, they were just losing

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Speaker 3: billions of dollars and they had to get bailed out,

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Speaker 3: and it was very David and Goliath and David got

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Speaker 3: screwed and all that, because you know they were all

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Speaker 3: like hold, hold, hold, like they were trying to really

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Speaker 3: hold the line anyway. So that's where my head kind

542
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Speaker 3: of went. I'm like, you know, it's it's good to have.

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Speaker 3: I love the accountability and like having other voices. I

544
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Speaker 3: get nervous because of our human inclination to sort of

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Speaker 3: like follow the pack. Yeah, and sometimes that works out. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: but then I think the education piece has to be

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Speaker 3: there too, because at the end of the day, you

548
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Speaker 3: got to know when it's like that's good for you. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: I'm going to do this.

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Speaker 1: And that's why I think having like because all y'all,

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Speaker 1: one of my things, I feel like one of the

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Speaker 1: I don't want to say claim to fans is but

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Speaker 1: one of the things I pride myself on is being

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Speaker 1: honest when I'm like, I don't know that like even

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Speaker 1: a gig of money, Like you know, the chapters that

556
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Speaker 1: are not my expertise, I'm like, so this is not

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Speaker 1: my expertise, but guess what I brought in a booster

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Speaker 1: the estate planning. This is my attorney, the insurance, this

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Speaker 1: is my financial advisor, this is the you know, like

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Speaker 1: they like in the investment chapter, I brought in like

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Speaker 1: two people who want the Courtney who talked about investing

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Speaker 1: for wealth and Kevin, who talked about investing for retirement.

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Speaker 3: You know.

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Speaker 1: So one of I think, to me, a really good

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Speaker 1: teacher is not here to know everything but to help

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Speaker 1: me make connections. And that's that's not the space that

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Speaker 1: I'm leaning into because I really believe that in through community,

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Speaker 1: that is the way that we're all going to be okay.

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Speaker 1: And you know, like, if I could figure it out

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Speaker 1: on my own, I'm sure I could, but I don't

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Speaker 1: want to. So I'm like, I am going to vet

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Speaker 1: and suss out the best educators I can find. But

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Speaker 1: then ultimately, it's really the community that you really do

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Speaker 1: the work with on a day to day basis, And

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Speaker 1: so I'm trying to build some accountability for myself.

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Speaker 2: I don't know what that's going to look like. Don't

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Speaker 2: hold me to a child.

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Speaker 1: I might get tired, but at least for now, this

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Speaker 1: is a great little jump start five days. We might

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Speaker 1: say I hate it, and you I say I love it,

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Speaker 1: and then I get to see, you know what, that

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Speaker 1: actually was kind of fun. Let's do this community together

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Speaker 1: and I will bring the experts in here, Like I

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Speaker 1: don't really know what how to do options, and I

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Speaker 1: don't I think, really you should wait and really learn

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Speaker 1: how to do basic investing first. But these are the

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Speaker 1: types of things that there might be an interest. And

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Speaker 1: one thing I am good at is I have access

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Speaker 1: to some of the best of the best of the best.

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Speaker 2: And I can reach out. So yeah, So if you're

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Speaker 2: wanting to join Trade and Travel dot Com, Slo's gonna join.

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Speaker 3: Anyone's club.

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Speaker 1: It would be yourself, you know, because like I mean,

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Speaker 1: like I said, I am a student as well, and

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Speaker 1: so when I'm vetting for this in particular, that I'm

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Speaker 1: vetting for myself too. And we'll put the link in

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Speaker 1: the show notes. But yeah, I mean, like I said,

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Speaker 1: it's five days. If we hated, then you know, we

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Speaker 1: find something else. But I'm just determined to do something

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Speaker 1: beyond making money in this one way. There has to

601
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Speaker 1: be ways that I can make money when I don't

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Speaker 1: want to be for basic what does that look like?

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Speaker 3: So well, you mentioned real estate like ten minutes ago,

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Speaker 3: but I'm going to try to use it as a

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Speaker 3: segue anyway, because one thing that we've we've totally forgot

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Speaker 3: to talk about, which has only been a few days

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Speaker 3: in the news, but just big news for anyone who's

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Speaker 3: planning to sell a home and kind of like oop,

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Speaker 3: sorry to anyone who recently sold a home. But the

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Speaker 3: National Association of Realtors, which is like one of the largest,

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Speaker 3: maybe the largest trade association in the entire country. They're

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Speaker 3: just massive and they have so much power, but they

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Speaker 3: have they were sued by I think it was a

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Speaker 3: collective of homeowners. I think it was a class action,

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Speaker 3: I forget, but anyway, they had to settle because they

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Speaker 3: were sued over the realtor fee, that six percent commission

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Speaker 3: that you know now that I'm now that the settlements

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Speaker 3: come through, that they've they've that six percent commission, the

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Speaker 3: automatic commission that you would pay your realtor for selling

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Speaker 3: your home is gone. Like they are not allowed to

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Speaker 3: make it standard anymore. And apparently now you're able to

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Speaker 3: negotiate with your realtor like okay, they may say, okay,

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Speaker 3: well standard, you know, we charge a commission of six percent. Well,

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Speaker 3: now this means you can find a realtor who charges

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Speaker 3: four percent or five percent or two percent and be like, well,

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Speaker 3: you know Jenny down, you know down at Century whatever,

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Speaker 3: she's only charging me two and a half percent commission.

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Speaker 3: So and use that as leverage and more bargaining power

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Speaker 3: to negotiate down that real estate or sorry, the realtor

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Speaker 3: fee of six percent, because I mean, I think the

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Speaker 3: average home price now is over two hundred thousand dollars,

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Speaker 3: So it's not a little bit of money that you're

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Speaker 3: paying to have someone sell your put your home on

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Speaker 3: the market or whatever for you. And so it's a

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Speaker 3: huge huge deal and potentially a huge savings I.

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Speaker 2: Know, so then like, is it gonna be worth it

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Speaker 2: to be a real.

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Speaker 3: Start these days?

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Speaker 4: You know?

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Speaker 3: See that's the thing. I mean, I still think it will.

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Speaker 3: I think what it does is because it doesn't eliminate

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Speaker 3: the ability to charge it, it just stops people from

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Speaker 3: like making it just yeah, from having an automatic like

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Speaker 3: you know. And I hope they come for car rental

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Speaker 3: agencies next, because when I tell you, they will smile

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Speaker 3: at you. It's just like when when I'm going to

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Speaker 3: make another Game of Thrones reference because I don't know why,

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Speaker 3: but anyway, Tiffany just like glaze over and just let

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Speaker 3: it happen. When Danny at the end of Game of

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Speaker 3: Thrones gets like shanked of spoiler alert whatever it's been years,

651
00:29:42,200 --> 00:29:45,360
Speaker 3: gets shanked while the love of her life is kissing her.

652
00:29:45,640 --> 00:29:47,440
Speaker 3: That's what it's like to rent a car in America.

653
00:29:47,840 --> 00:29:50,400
Speaker 3: It's like, oh, you know, especially in Atlanta where they

654
00:29:50,440 --> 00:29:53,000
Speaker 3: got the Riz, they got that Southern Riz and they're

655
00:29:53,040 --> 00:29:55,560
Speaker 3: like oh yeah, baby, like yeah, oh this is your son,

656
00:29:55,640 --> 00:29:59,000
Speaker 3: Oh how cute? Yeah, and you visit and oh that's nice.

657
00:29:59,040 --> 00:30:00,960
Speaker 3: Well just you know, just I'm ride here and I'm

658
00:30:01,000 --> 00:30:03,360
Speaker 3: looking at the thing, and I'm like, the rental that

659
00:30:03,400 --> 00:30:05,640
Speaker 3: I prepaid for was two hundred and eighty dollars for

660
00:30:05,680 --> 00:30:09,360
Speaker 3: a five day car rental. And I'm like, damn man, ma'am.

661
00:30:09,560 --> 00:30:11,360
Speaker 3: And she still smiled as we handed me a glass

662
00:30:11,360 --> 00:30:13,040
Speaker 3: of sweet tea at the same time. Might as well be.

663
00:30:13,400 --> 00:30:15,840
Speaker 3: I'm like, why does the total say five hundred dollars.

664
00:30:16,440 --> 00:30:19,480
Speaker 3: She's like, oh, oh, well, you know, that's just the

665
00:30:19,520 --> 00:30:21,680
Speaker 3: liability insurance. And I was like, yeah, but I answered

666
00:30:21,680 --> 00:30:23,680
Speaker 3: that question. I said, I declined the insurance because my

667
00:30:23,680 --> 00:30:27,880
Speaker 3: credit card covers it. Yes, oh yeah, well well some cards,

668
00:30:27,880 --> 00:30:30,440
Speaker 3: some cards don't really cover this kind of insurance. I

669
00:30:30,440 --> 00:30:32,320
Speaker 3: forget which kind it was, so you know, that's what's

670
00:30:32,320 --> 00:30:34,920
Speaker 3: added there. And I'm like, I was so ready to

671
00:30:34,920 --> 00:30:36,800
Speaker 3: get out of there, but I was so mad because

672
00:30:36,800 --> 00:30:39,960
Speaker 3: she didn't ask me about that type of insurance and

673
00:30:40,000 --> 00:30:43,400
Speaker 3: it was just added on. And I'm like the bill, like, no,

674
00:30:43,560 --> 00:30:45,480
Speaker 3: take that off, and like to the point where she

675
00:30:45,520 --> 00:30:47,120
Speaker 3: had to go back in the system printed me a

676
00:30:47,120 --> 00:30:47,960
Speaker 3: whole new receipt.

677
00:30:48,120 --> 00:30:48,880
Speaker 2: Can you imagine?

678
00:30:49,000 --> 00:30:53,160
Speaker 3: Yes, anyway, car mental agencies we have to get, y'all.

679
00:30:53,200 --> 00:30:55,720
Speaker 1: We have to because your point many That's why I

680
00:30:55,720 --> 00:30:57,240
Speaker 1: pay online to your point, So I could do that

681
00:30:57,320 --> 00:30:59,320
Speaker 1: because you know, when you're there, it could be very

682
00:30:59,400 --> 00:31:00,120
Speaker 1: easy to get.

683
00:31:00,520 --> 00:31:04,880
Speaker 3: They're so good at it. It's such a betrayal, Like

684
00:31:05,280 --> 00:31:07,680
Speaker 3: they really make you, you know, they're so friendly and

685
00:31:07,720 --> 00:31:09,760
Speaker 3: they are getting and I don't know exactly how they

686
00:31:09,760 --> 00:31:13,000
Speaker 3: get paid to sell you that extra insurance, but I

687
00:31:13,080 --> 00:31:14,840
Speaker 3: have to believe they get some kind of commission or

688
00:31:14,840 --> 00:31:17,640
Speaker 3: at least they get, you know, some kind of perks

689
00:31:17,760 --> 00:31:20,360
Speaker 3: or benefit by being the big salesperson who can sell

690
00:31:20,400 --> 00:31:22,800
Speaker 3: you the insurance. But yeah, that is such Oh it's

691
00:31:22,800 --> 00:31:27,280
Speaker 3: so infuriating anyway. But realtors is the same way, but

692
00:31:27,480 --> 00:31:30,840
Speaker 3: it's I don't know, it's in another high stress transaction.

693
00:31:30,960 --> 00:31:32,960
Speaker 3: Nothing is more high stress than buying a home or

694
00:31:33,000 --> 00:31:36,160
Speaker 3: selling a home. And like it's like, oh, yeah, just

695
00:31:36,200 --> 00:31:38,360
Speaker 3: six percent, and at that point they're just hoping that, like,

696
00:31:38,600 --> 00:31:40,920
Speaker 3: you know, all the money is so much money, what's

697
00:31:40,960 --> 00:31:44,320
Speaker 3: an extra six percent going to be? But I'm yeah,

698
00:31:44,440 --> 00:31:47,600
Speaker 3: definitely add the real turfy to the list of things

699
00:31:47,600 --> 00:31:49,760
Speaker 3: that you can negotiate. There's a bunch of different things

700
00:31:49,760 --> 00:31:52,600
Speaker 3: that you can negotiate on a home purchase, not just

701
00:31:52,720 --> 00:31:55,280
Speaker 3: the you know, the cost of the home itself, but

702
00:31:56,120 --> 00:31:59,280
Speaker 3: the fact that real turfees are getting added to the mix. Now,

703
00:31:59,440 --> 00:32:03,400
Speaker 3: good real time realtors who I mean, it does take

704
00:32:03,440 --> 00:32:05,200
Speaker 3: some skill to put a home on the market. And

705
00:32:05,240 --> 00:32:07,880
Speaker 3: maybe they can, maybe they can show you that they

706
00:32:07,920 --> 00:32:12,320
Speaker 3: deserve the six percent because of XYZ. But to have

707
00:32:12,400 --> 00:32:15,160
Speaker 3: like a realtor who's really brilliant at their job get

708
00:32:15,200 --> 00:32:17,600
Speaker 3: paid the same six percent as a realtor who's really

709
00:32:17,640 --> 00:32:19,960
Speaker 3: phoning it in. And I think a lot of people

710
00:32:19,960 --> 00:32:22,040
Speaker 3: have felt that like their realtor is not really the

711
00:32:22,400 --> 00:32:25,239
Speaker 3: bringing it for them. Now you can say, okay, well

712
00:32:25,240 --> 00:32:28,120
Speaker 3: I'm going to take you know, this fee is not automatic,

713
00:32:28,200 --> 00:32:29,720
Speaker 3: like you got to work for it and show me

714
00:32:29,760 --> 00:32:33,000
Speaker 3: that you're you know, doing something for me. And again

715
00:32:33,120 --> 00:32:36,000
Speaker 3: also you can just say, all right, well this realtor

716
00:32:36,080 --> 00:32:38,120
Speaker 3: is offering me four percent, I don't want to pay

717
00:32:38,120 --> 00:32:40,000
Speaker 3: six What can you do and see if they can

718
00:32:40,040 --> 00:32:40,760
Speaker 3: lower it for you.

719
00:32:42,280 --> 00:32:42,800
Speaker 2: That's good.

720
00:32:43,000 --> 00:32:46,200
Speaker 3: Also, they owe like a jillion dollars now and I think,

721
00:32:46,680 --> 00:32:48,920
Speaker 3: let me read this really fast and I'll post this

722
00:32:49,000 --> 00:32:51,720
Speaker 3: link in the show notes. Yeah, they've agreed to pay

723
00:32:52,120 --> 00:32:55,040
Speaker 3: four hundred and eighteen million dollars over the next four

724
00:32:55,120 --> 00:32:59,480
Speaker 3: years and their rest after lawyers get their pay because

725
00:32:59,520 --> 00:33:01,520
Speaker 3: you know they the rest will go to people who

726
00:33:01,640 --> 00:33:03,800
Speaker 3: sold their homes. Oh okay, so if you sold your

727
00:33:03,800 --> 00:33:08,040
Speaker 3: home in recent years and paid what has been called

728
00:33:08,120 --> 00:33:11,440
Speaker 3: inflated real estate commissions, the rest will go on to

729
00:33:11,520 --> 00:33:14,880
Speaker 3: those people. So if you want to find out if

730
00:33:14,880 --> 00:33:19,200
Speaker 3: you're entitled to compensation, check the lawyer's website. It's real

731
00:33:19,320 --> 00:33:25,400
Speaker 3: Estate Commission Litigation dot com. Real Estate Commission Litigation dot com.

732
00:33:25,600 --> 00:33:28,920
Speaker 3: And especially that I'm assuming this this could apply to everyone.

733
00:33:28,960 --> 00:33:30,880
Speaker 3: A lot of people sold during the pandemic, you know.

734
00:33:32,080 --> 00:33:35,040
Speaker 3: So yeah, I would definitely run to that link and

735
00:33:35,240 --> 00:33:37,160
Speaker 3: you can definitely post that in the show notes for y'all.

736
00:33:38,000 --> 00:33:40,560
Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, I thought, you know, as you said, if

737
00:33:40,600 --> 00:33:46,440
Speaker 1: you or someone has been affected by misotheli methoth, what

738
00:33:46,720 --> 00:33:49,360
Speaker 1: misl like as bests?

739
00:33:49,520 --> 00:33:55,840
Speaker 3: Right, the commercials I remember after watching the Prices right

740
00:33:56,160 --> 00:34:01,000
Speaker 3: in the middle of the day. Yeah, Like watch cable

741
00:34:01,080 --> 00:34:05,000
Speaker 3: news on TV these days. It's so funny because I'm like,

742
00:34:05,040 --> 00:34:06,920
Speaker 3: I'm getting a picture of who does watch it. It's

743
00:34:06,960 --> 00:34:12,840
Speaker 3: like a lot of varicose vein, you know, bunyan commercials,

744
00:34:12,840 --> 00:34:14,600
Speaker 3: like diabetes commercials.

745
00:34:14,719 --> 00:34:17,200
Speaker 1: It's very remember that always to be the old white

746
00:34:17,239 --> 00:34:18,879
Speaker 1: dude that was like, do you have diabetes?

747
00:34:20,200 --> 00:34:24,040
Speaker 3: Yeah? How did he die? He was in the news

748
00:34:24,040 --> 00:34:24,640
Speaker 3: recent I don't know.

749
00:34:24,800 --> 00:34:26,840
Speaker 1: I don't know, but I remember hit like that. He

750
00:34:26,880 --> 00:34:28,960
Speaker 1: had like glasses and a mustache. He was I think

751
00:34:29,000 --> 00:34:30,480
Speaker 1: he was part of like some.

752
00:34:30,560 --> 00:34:31,799
Speaker 2: TV show, you know.

753
00:34:31,840 --> 00:34:35,000
Speaker 1: But I just remember him saying, do you have diabetes? No,

754
00:34:35,080 --> 00:34:38,200
Speaker 1: they got the sugar, the sugar I got that baby

755
00:34:38,200 --> 00:34:39,279
Speaker 1: got the sugar I got.

756
00:34:40,680 --> 00:34:45,040
Speaker 5: And now it's time to boost up, break up, boost up,

757
00:34:45,080 --> 00:34:50,920
Speaker 5: break up? Boost You gonna boost, you gonna break, what

758
00:34:51,000 --> 00:34:53,919
Speaker 5: you're gonna do, what you gonna take?

759
00:34:56,760 --> 00:34:57,080
Speaker 3: All right?

760
00:34:57,160 --> 00:35:02,399
Speaker 2: Manja are you gonna booze? Oh? He being the book?

761
00:35:02,480 --> 00:35:05,279
Speaker 3: I'm obsessed. Oh I wish I know he can he

762
00:35:05,440 --> 00:35:07,000
Speaker 3: And there we go. Are we gonna break?

763
00:35:07,320 --> 00:35:09,799
Speaker 2: Are we gonna break? Before? He's about to turn up?

764
00:35:10,040 --> 00:35:11,000
Speaker 2: Turn up Tuesday?

765
00:35:11,239 --> 00:35:16,720
Speaker 3: Heard me sing a little bit. Yeah we have been dang,

766
00:35:17,160 --> 00:35:19,759
Speaker 3: but forty two minutes is really good, buddy, It is

767
00:35:19,880 --> 00:35:22,720
Speaker 3: really good. Say hi to mommy's work friend, miss tipical

768
00:35:22,800 --> 00:35:23,239
Speaker 3: work friend.

769
00:35:23,320 --> 00:35:24,080
Speaker 2: Don't do me like that.

770
00:35:24,200 --> 00:35:26,200
Speaker 3: I don't know what how I do. Ascribe you to

771
00:35:26,200 --> 00:35:30,719
Speaker 3: a four year old I colleague, me to Auntie Tiffy,

772
00:35:32,320 --> 00:35:36,000
Speaker 3: I don't care about that lady. I know, want I

773
00:35:36,040 --> 00:35:39,120
Speaker 3: want to talk. That's the launcher you were talking about.

774
00:35:39,760 --> 00:35:41,920
Speaker 3: That's awesome, Sweetie. Can you say hi to Auntie Tiffy?

775
00:35:42,120 --> 00:35:42,279
Speaker 5: Hi?

776
00:35:43,239 --> 00:35:45,600
Speaker 2: Because Hi Hi, Rio say Hi?

777
00:35:45,640 --> 00:35:47,960
Speaker 3: You break with that you're on the podcast.

778
00:35:48,800 --> 00:35:50,440
Speaker 2: He can't hear you, Hi, real.

779
00:35:51,239 --> 00:35:55,520
Speaker 3: He can't hear you, but she says, ha ha. All right, now,

780
00:35:55,600 --> 00:35:57,200
Speaker 3: can you go back to your couch and be quiet

781
00:35:57,239 --> 00:36:02,040
Speaker 3: like I said, yes, ma'am what I'm hearing, Yes, ma'am.

782
00:36:02,200 --> 00:36:06,880
Speaker 3: Where's your words? Yes, ma'am. Eh, I don't want to

783
00:36:06,880 --> 00:36:10,400
Speaker 3: see yes, ma'am.

784
00:36:10,400 --> 00:36:11,319
Speaker 2: To be a far of your friend.

785
00:36:12,920 --> 00:36:16,680
Speaker 3: Show them what a great mama. All right. Anyway, Yeah,

786
00:36:16,719 --> 00:36:19,000
Speaker 3: we're doing good, and we're doing good. That is not that.

787
00:36:19,000 --> 00:36:22,200
Speaker 3: That's not the tablet, a tablet or a book. It

788
00:36:22,239 --> 00:36:25,319
Speaker 3: is my phone on YouTube. Kids, That is what that is.

789
00:36:25,520 --> 00:36:27,160
Speaker 2: Well, you know what's speaking of which I think I'll

790
00:36:27,160 --> 00:36:28,640
Speaker 2: go first. I'm gonna do a little break.

791
00:36:29,040 --> 00:36:31,560
Speaker 1: Oh okay, yes, it's a little shady break since we're

792
00:36:31,560 --> 00:36:34,239
Speaker 1: talking simply since we're introducing baby so and y'all know

793
00:36:34,640 --> 00:36:37,640
Speaker 1: I've got two DCEs Lily and a million so Malia,

794
00:36:37,680 --> 00:36:39,640
Speaker 1: my niece that lives the closest her birthday's coming up.

795
00:36:39,680 --> 00:36:41,560
Speaker 3: She's turning seven. I can't.

796
00:36:41,560 --> 00:36:43,759
Speaker 1: Apparently, Hello Kitty is the thing now, I'm like, but

797
00:36:43,840 --> 00:36:47,239
Speaker 1: you said it's a girl. We're off that Hello Kitty Kitty,

798
00:36:47,600 --> 00:36:49,319
Speaker 1: I know, So of course I have to get an

799
00:36:49,360 --> 00:36:52,759
Speaker 1: all kind of Hello Katy Shenanigans plushy and notebook and

800
00:36:52,800 --> 00:36:54,120
Speaker 1: stickers and YadA YadA YadA.

801
00:36:54,160 --> 00:36:54,399
Speaker 3: Yeah.

802
00:36:54,440 --> 00:36:59,480
Speaker 1: So an if you are child psychologists, as riddle me this.

803
00:36:59,640 --> 00:37:02,360
Speaker 1: So Amelia had. This is like her second or third

804
00:37:02,640 --> 00:37:06,160
Speaker 1: spring concert that we've gone to, and she specifically said, Mommy,

805
00:37:06,360 --> 00:37:08,719
Speaker 1: I want my aunties to come. Auntie Otto, which is

806
00:37:08,760 --> 00:37:11,799
Speaker 1: me Adoci and Auntie chi Chie, which is Tracy. I

807
00:37:11,840 --> 00:37:13,840
Speaker 1: want my aunties to come, Mommy.

808
00:37:13,560 --> 00:37:15,239
Speaker 2: Are they coming? Are they coming out? Becoming? Big thing?

809
00:37:15,280 --> 00:37:17,120
Speaker 2: You did? If you didn't come that it's a big deal. Later,

810
00:37:17,400 --> 00:37:18,520
Speaker 2: I want you to come. Why where I went?

811
00:37:18,600 --> 00:37:20,800
Speaker 1: I said, okay, okay. So we go to the spring concert.

812
00:37:20,800 --> 00:37:23,520
Speaker 1: They do a great job. Her school is like eighty

813
00:37:23,600 --> 00:37:27,480
Speaker 1: percent maybe even eighty five percent Latina Latino because we're

814
00:37:27,480 --> 00:37:29,320
Speaker 1: in the north ward of Newark, which is very Hispanic.

815
00:37:29,520 --> 00:37:30,760
Speaker 2: So there's a lot of like.

816
00:37:32,600 --> 00:37:34,080
Speaker 3: Which is so cute, really out there.

817
00:37:34,200 --> 00:37:36,960
Speaker 2: The one little brown chocolate Chip with her friends, her

818
00:37:37,000 --> 00:37:37,760
Speaker 2: moroccas whatever.

819
00:37:38,920 --> 00:37:41,560
Speaker 3: Hey, she's getting cultured already. She love first of all

820
00:37:41,600 --> 00:37:42,160
Speaker 3: her accent.

821
00:37:42,239 --> 00:37:43,839
Speaker 2: What was she says? Man, it's worth. I'm like, that's

822
00:37:43,840 --> 00:37:44,640
Speaker 2: what I'm talking about.

823
00:37:45,080 --> 00:37:49,320
Speaker 1: She is like her because she her pronunciation is profecto okay,

824
00:37:49,640 --> 00:37:50,560
Speaker 1: So anyway, I love her.

825
00:37:50,480 --> 00:37:52,520
Speaker 2: Her best friend of Lina's, this little Domdican girl.

826
00:37:52,680 --> 00:37:56,439
Speaker 1: Everything is great afterward, you know, like we all rush

827
00:37:56,480 --> 00:37:57,600
Speaker 1: to the back because we all want to see the

828
00:37:57,640 --> 00:37:59,040
Speaker 1: babies as they come out, and you know, be like,

829
00:37:59,040 --> 00:38:00,680
Speaker 1: oh I saw you, so they can see you, because

830
00:38:00,719 --> 00:38:03,560
Speaker 1: when you're on stage, I can't see you. So for

831
00:38:03,680 --> 00:38:08,320
Speaker 1: the second or third unirow, Amelia comes out and I said, meanie.

832
00:38:08,920 --> 00:38:11,160
Speaker 1: She looked at me with horror in her face, like

833
00:38:11,160 --> 00:38:12,040
Speaker 1: who was this stranger?

834
00:38:12,360 --> 00:38:13,560
Speaker 2: I was like, wait, I'm confused.

835
00:38:13,960 --> 00:38:15,840
Speaker 1: She literally took her friend and put her friend in

836
00:38:15,840 --> 00:38:17,600
Speaker 1: front of her said stand here. I saw her, mad

837
00:38:17,680 --> 00:38:22,080
Speaker 1: I have it on video, I said, mayn Was she embarrassed.

838
00:38:23,440 --> 00:38:23,759
Speaker 3: Of you?

839
00:38:26,080 --> 00:38:26,440
Speaker 5: Mandy?

840
00:38:27,080 --> 00:38:30,200
Speaker 1: I said, Amelia, then you know, get you taper off,

841
00:38:30,400 --> 00:38:34,200
Speaker 1: because now I've got ten six year old looking at

842
00:38:34,200 --> 00:38:36,440
Speaker 1: you like, oh child.

843
00:38:35,520 --> 00:38:37,920
Speaker 3: What are you just too much? She was you were

844
00:38:37,960 --> 00:38:40,160
Speaker 3: too much? Do you bring out too much energy, weren't cool.

845
00:38:41,080 --> 00:38:44,080
Speaker 1: One of her friends, who took pity on me, said, Amelia,

846
00:38:44,440 --> 00:38:53,160
Speaker 1: he's just call you. She looked at her friend like.

847
00:38:50,200 --> 00:38:53,080
Speaker 2: Like her friend Lily was like a Millia. Would you

848
00:38:53,200 --> 00:38:56,080
Speaker 2: do that to that lady some.

849
00:38:58,200 --> 00:39:00,800
Speaker 1: Because me while these other kids they giving selfies with

850
00:39:00,840 --> 00:39:03,160
Speaker 1: their parents, hugs and kisses all the stuff, and me,

851
00:39:03,320 --> 00:39:05,560
Speaker 1: I'm just standing like I do know her?

852
00:39:05,600 --> 00:39:07,960
Speaker 3: I promise, oh my saidness.

853
00:39:08,360 --> 00:39:11,680
Speaker 1: So then later her mother asked her and said, Ami,

854
00:39:11,719 --> 00:39:14,279
Speaker 1: because Amelia is a boundary setting queen Amelia. It is

855
00:39:14,280 --> 00:39:15,960
Speaker 1: who we would all be if we did not if

856
00:39:15,960 --> 00:39:18,880
Speaker 1: we didn't grow up with trauma. So Amelia, she said, Amelia,

857
00:39:19,320 --> 00:39:21,319
Speaker 1: when we come, how come you after you don't know?

858
00:39:21,400 --> 00:39:22,279
Speaker 2: She said, I didn't see you.

859
00:39:22,280 --> 00:39:23,080
Speaker 3: She said that's not true.

860
00:39:23,800 --> 00:39:24,400
Speaker 2: You did see it.

861
00:39:24,600 --> 00:39:26,719
Speaker 1: And then Amelia said, well, I don't want to talk

862
00:39:26,719 --> 00:39:32,160
Speaker 1: about it. She said, oh, well why not? Mommy, I said,

863
00:39:32,160 --> 00:39:33,960
Speaker 1: I don't want to talk about it. And if we're

864
00:39:33,960 --> 00:39:35,359
Speaker 1: going to talk about it, I'm gonna you know, I'm

865
00:39:35,360 --> 00:39:38,319
Speaker 1: gonna leave the room. I said, So this is what

866
00:39:38,320 --> 00:39:39,720
Speaker 1: happens when kids don't get beaten's.

867
00:39:40,960 --> 00:39:42,800
Speaker 3: That was the number of times that I've said the

868
00:39:42,880 --> 00:39:44,719
Speaker 3: exact same thing of my dad. I'm like, oh, don't

869
00:39:44,800 --> 00:39:47,960
Speaker 3: judge my parenting. You had it easy. You could go

870
00:39:48,000 --> 00:39:49,640
Speaker 3: grab a belt and all your problem.

871
00:39:49,760 --> 00:39:50,520
Speaker 2: Girl fixed all this.

872
00:39:50,640 --> 00:39:53,960
Speaker 1: So like, so my my friend Linda, who's a counselor,

873
00:39:53,960 --> 00:39:56,160
Speaker 1: said that you want to get I said, well, did

874
00:39:56,160 --> 00:39:58,120
Speaker 1: were we supposed to do? An instant because old school

875
00:39:58,200 --> 00:40:00,080
Speaker 1: says child having that child up and saying who the

876
00:40:00,160 --> 00:40:02,839
Speaker 1: hew you talking to? And then new school parents says

877
00:40:02,880 --> 00:40:04,759
Speaker 1: that you let them have boundaries, and she said you do.

878
00:40:05,520 --> 00:40:08,279
Speaker 1: Here is kind of like how you navigate that. You

879
00:40:08,320 --> 00:40:09,680
Speaker 1: allow her to say I don't want to talk about

880
00:40:09,680 --> 00:40:12,480
Speaker 1: it in the moment, and then you say, understood, but

881
00:40:12,640 --> 00:40:14,840
Speaker 1: tomorrow at three pm, we're.

882
00:40:14,640 --> 00:40:15,560
Speaker 2: Going to talk about it.

883
00:40:15,680 --> 00:40:17,919
Speaker 1: So you reassert yourself as a parent, like we don't

884
00:40:17,920 --> 00:40:19,520
Speaker 1: have to talk about it in this moment because you're

885
00:40:19,520 --> 00:40:23,399
Speaker 1: feeling whatever, But tomorrow or tonight at six pm after dinner,

886
00:40:23,400 --> 00:40:25,880
Speaker 1: we're talking about it. Then you can literally say, like Alexa,

887
00:40:26,040 --> 00:40:28,000
Speaker 1: please set an alarm for six pm to talk to

888
00:40:28,040 --> 00:40:30,239
Speaker 1: Amelia about it. So that way it's like, no, no,

889
00:40:30,280 --> 00:40:31,920
Speaker 1: we're talking about it, but I'm going to give you

890
00:40:31,920 --> 00:40:34,440
Speaker 1: some agency that maybe in this moment you don't want

891
00:40:34,480 --> 00:40:36,880
Speaker 1: to and I said okay, I like that. So then

892
00:40:36,960 --> 00:40:38,840
Speaker 1: later when she came to the house, I was like, Amelia,

893
00:40:39,120 --> 00:40:41,480
Speaker 1: I asked her that. I said, why you know, did

894
00:40:41,520 --> 00:40:41,920
Speaker 1: you see me?

895
00:40:42,000 --> 00:40:43,719
Speaker 2: At first? She said no. I said, well, remember was

896
00:40:43,719 --> 00:40:44,520
Speaker 2: supposed to be truthful.

897
00:40:44,560 --> 00:40:46,839
Speaker 1: She said, okay, I saw you. I said, why didn't

898
00:40:46,840 --> 00:40:48,440
Speaker 1: you say hi back? Do you do you not want

899
00:40:48,480 --> 00:40:50,040
Speaker 1: me to come? She said I did want you to come?

900
00:40:50,640 --> 00:40:52,440
Speaker 1: And I said did you not want me to say hi?

901
00:40:52,600 --> 00:40:54,880
Speaker 1: She was like, yes, I did not want you to

902
00:40:54,880 --> 00:40:56,400
Speaker 1: say hi. I said, are you embarrassed?

903
00:40:56,760 --> 00:40:57,320
Speaker 3: She nodded.

904
00:40:58,360 --> 00:41:00,759
Speaker 1: Now to do with that?

905
00:41:02,000 --> 00:41:05,160
Speaker 3: Embarrassed? What though that there's just someone really excited to

906
00:41:05,200 --> 00:41:05,560
Speaker 3: see her?

907
00:41:06,200 --> 00:41:08,000
Speaker 1: I guess so because you know I'm with I'm the

908
00:41:08,040 --> 00:41:09,600
Speaker 1: auntie with the pictures in the video.

909
00:41:09,400 --> 00:41:15,840
Speaker 3: And are we all doing that? I mean she's only six, No,

910
00:41:16,360 --> 00:41:17,120
Speaker 3: Mammy is still working.

911
00:41:20,360 --> 00:41:20,520
Speaker 4: Yes.

912
00:41:21,480 --> 00:41:22,879
Speaker 2: I was like, I don't care nothing about your job,

913
00:41:23,400 --> 00:41:25,000
Speaker 2: but yeah, I don't know.

914
00:41:25,080 --> 00:41:27,080
Speaker 1: So basically she admitted that, like I do want you

915
00:41:27,120 --> 00:41:29,160
Speaker 1: to come, I just don't want.

916
00:41:29,040 --> 00:41:31,600
Speaker 2: You to speak to me. So I don't know what

917
00:41:31,600 --> 00:41:32,040
Speaker 2: that means.

918
00:41:32,040 --> 00:41:36,320
Speaker 3: I was like, I mean, yeah, I don't either, although

919
00:41:36,320 --> 00:41:41,319
Speaker 3: when I did whatever not at the Grammys, when like

920
00:41:41,520 --> 00:41:43,239
Speaker 3: she was two or three or I don't know how

921
00:41:43,440 --> 00:41:46,279
Speaker 3: she was, but she's like, and Jay and b are

922
00:41:46,320 --> 00:41:49,520
Speaker 3: just politely clapping, not even over the top, and she's like,

923
00:41:50,120 --> 00:41:54,080
Speaker 3: it's enough, just calm down down. I think there is that,

924
00:41:54,200 --> 00:41:55,960
Speaker 3: Like I do think a lot of kids are like that.

925
00:41:56,040 --> 00:41:58,239
Speaker 3: And I get that from Rio sometimes too. When I'm

926
00:41:58,239 --> 00:42:00,480
Speaker 3: really excited or I'm doing a fun dance, I'm singing

927
00:42:00,520 --> 00:42:04,960
Speaker 3: really loud. It's like mom stopping. I don't know what

928
00:42:05,000 --> 00:42:07,120
Speaker 3: that is, but it sounds normal to me. So, hey,

929
00:42:07,280 --> 00:42:07,960
Speaker 3: I guess girl.

930
00:42:08,000 --> 00:42:09,239
Speaker 1: I was like, so, maybe you don't want me to come?

931
00:42:09,239 --> 00:42:10,799
Speaker 1: She says, no, no, I want you to come. I'm like,

932
00:42:11,160 --> 00:42:12,080
Speaker 1: you just don't want you want me to come?

933
00:42:12,080 --> 00:42:14,520
Speaker 3: And be silent? See how she feels when you don't

934
00:42:14,560 --> 00:42:16,680
Speaker 3: do anything. Just give her the stomach, Yeah, give her this.

935
00:42:17,120 --> 00:42:18,480
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna be like, I'm gonna look at her,

936
00:42:18,520 --> 00:42:20,560
Speaker 1: maybe wave and just be like maybe not even just

937
00:42:20,560 --> 00:42:22,760
Speaker 1: like make sure she sees me, she knows that I came,

938
00:42:23,239 --> 00:42:26,520
Speaker 1: and just be quiet and then maybe yeah. So there's

939
00:42:26,520 --> 00:42:29,320
Speaker 1: my brown break break from Shady Babies.

940
00:42:29,520 --> 00:42:31,160
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I was gonna say, what's the title of

941
00:42:31,200 --> 00:42:36,200
Speaker 3: that one? Shady Shady Baby break? Man? I'm gonna do

942
00:42:36,239 --> 00:42:39,640
Speaker 3: a break too. Mine's a little bit well, it's just different,

943
00:42:39,719 --> 00:42:42,000
Speaker 3: but I want to do a break. I don't know

944
00:42:42,000 --> 00:42:44,120
Speaker 3: what that, like the overarching theme is gonna be, but

945
00:42:44,520 --> 00:42:48,759
Speaker 3: I two things happened this week. One this article came

946
00:42:48,800 --> 00:42:51,920
Speaker 3: out on Essence that people are all talking about, and

947
00:42:52,000 --> 00:42:54,200
Speaker 3: say what you will about the quality of the article.

948
00:42:55,120 --> 00:42:57,040
Speaker 3: I used to be a business journalist and I would

949
00:42:57,080 --> 00:42:59,680
Speaker 3: write stories like this. You know, you write like an

950
00:42:59,680 --> 00:43:03,000
Speaker 3: opinion article like that. I understand what it takes to

951
00:43:03,040 --> 00:43:05,120
Speaker 3: like write this kind of piece, and you know, you

952
00:43:05,600 --> 00:43:07,759
Speaker 3: do it a little bit because you know it's going

953
00:43:07,800 --> 00:43:10,880
Speaker 3: to be a conversation starter. And sometimes you know, I

954
00:43:10,880 --> 00:43:13,399
Speaker 3: wouldn't necessarily do this, but I do feel like the

955
00:43:13,440 --> 00:43:16,239
Speaker 3: headline and the style of the article is meant to

956
00:43:17,160 --> 00:43:20,440
Speaker 3: incite a reaction, you know what I mean. So this article,

957
00:43:21,000 --> 00:43:23,640
Speaker 3: if you haven't read it yet, it's on Essence dot

958
00:43:23,640 --> 00:43:26,240
Speaker 3: com by Jasmine Browley. It says it's time to admit

959
00:43:26,280 --> 00:43:29,120
Speaker 3: that being liked is more important than being good at

960
00:43:29,160 --> 00:43:32,480
Speaker 3: your job. With a picture of Amanda Seals, who's been

961
00:43:32,480 --> 00:43:35,120
Speaker 3: a guest on Brown Ambition. Remember we had Amanda Seels

962
00:43:35,160 --> 00:43:35,600
Speaker 3: on the show.

963
00:43:36,040 --> 00:43:37,319
Speaker 2: I know that was kind of a big deal.

964
00:43:37,520 --> 00:43:37,840
Speaker 4: It was.

965
00:43:37,880 --> 00:43:40,040
Speaker 3: I mean, it still is. And I remember I remember

966
00:43:40,239 --> 00:43:42,040
Speaker 3: I don't know if I was talking. Maybe I said

967
00:43:42,040 --> 00:43:43,920
Speaker 3: it live with her or with you at least. But

968
00:43:43,960 --> 00:43:46,280
Speaker 3: I'm like, why do I feel like I'm not supposed

969
00:43:46,320 --> 00:43:48,560
Speaker 3: to like Amanda Seals? Like the Internet seems to make

970
00:43:48,600 --> 00:43:51,759
Speaker 3: me feel like she's done something crazy and wrong, and

971
00:43:51,880 --> 00:43:54,759
Speaker 3: really there hasn't been like one thing Amanda Seeals has done.

972
00:43:54,840 --> 00:43:59,640
Speaker 3: She's just very like, she's extremely opinionated, she's extremely brilliant

973
00:43:59,760 --> 00:44:03,880
Speaker 3: and smart, and you know, she's the kind of person

974
00:44:03,920 --> 00:44:07,120
Speaker 3: who will call out shenanigans when she sees shenanigans. And

975
00:44:07,120 --> 00:44:09,120
Speaker 3: I'm saying that because the homeboys behind me, you know,

976
00:44:10,520 --> 00:44:13,640
Speaker 3: and I completely you know, it's that whole quote like

977
00:44:13,719 --> 00:44:17,799
Speaker 3: well behaved women rarely make history whatever. Like she she

978
00:44:17,960 --> 00:44:20,480
Speaker 3: cares deeply. I think about the issues that she speaks about,

979
00:44:20,480 --> 00:44:25,560
Speaker 3: and she's not one of those people who will thrive

980
00:44:25,640 --> 00:44:27,840
Speaker 3: in a corporate setting at all, because you have to

981
00:44:27,880 --> 00:44:30,400
Speaker 3: have a level of like and to be in a

982
00:44:30,400 --> 00:44:32,719
Speaker 3: corporate setting, It's true, like you do have to be

983
00:44:34,400 --> 00:44:38,000
Speaker 3: personable or at least like be the kind of person

984
00:44:38,080 --> 00:44:40,760
Speaker 3: other people want to work with. That's just what it's like.

985
00:44:40,760 --> 00:44:43,640
Speaker 3: Like a not a rotten egg, but like a person

986
00:44:43,680 --> 00:44:45,680
Speaker 3: in a company or a person on a team who

987
00:44:45,840 --> 00:44:50,960
Speaker 3: is agitating and looking for you know, looking to question

988
00:44:51,080 --> 00:44:54,560
Speaker 3: everything and all that. It disrupts the flow that the

989
00:44:54,719 --> 00:44:57,160
Speaker 3: nine to five lusious clock in and clock out kind

990
00:44:57,200 --> 00:44:59,680
Speaker 3: of mentality that a lot of corporate jobs have. It

991
00:44:59,680 --> 00:45:03,800
Speaker 3: doesn't mean that I don't feel like, you know, someone

992
00:45:03,840 --> 00:45:07,560
Speaker 3: like Amanda. It's not a bad thing. I also include myself.

993
00:45:07,640 --> 00:45:09,680
Speaker 3: I found out that I'm not a corporate girly either

994
00:45:09,719 --> 00:45:12,160
Speaker 3: after a while, because I just get tired of faking

995
00:45:12,640 --> 00:45:15,799
Speaker 3: and like going with the flow so much. But the

996
00:45:15,840 --> 00:45:18,640
Speaker 3: fact that the article like used her picture and you know,

997
00:45:18,719 --> 00:45:21,279
Speaker 3: it was a really kind of a weak article, just

998
00:45:21,560 --> 00:45:25,520
Speaker 3: a weak opinion on how you know, in careers you

999
00:45:25,640 --> 00:45:28,560
Speaker 3: do need to be liked and how your talent is

1000
00:45:28,600 --> 00:45:31,399
Speaker 3: not the only thing that matters. And at the end

1001
00:45:31,400 --> 00:45:34,040
Speaker 3: of it, I'm just kind of like you're using Amanda

1002
00:45:34,120 --> 00:45:36,560
Speaker 3: Seals as an example here, and I think again it's

1003
00:45:36,600 --> 00:45:39,120
Speaker 3: to get clicks, because people do feel some kind of

1004
00:45:39,120 --> 00:45:40,799
Speaker 3: way about a lot of what she has to say.

1005
00:45:40,800 --> 00:45:43,520
Speaker 3: But at the end of the article, it's sort of

1006
00:45:43,640 --> 00:45:47,279
Speaker 3: just like left it at Yeah, I can see why

1007
00:45:47,320 --> 00:45:50,160
Speaker 3: people don't like her, and it's something we all should

1008
00:45:50,160 --> 00:45:53,560
Speaker 3: think about. And like, if if I were a young

1009
00:45:53,560 --> 00:45:56,200
Speaker 3: black woman in corporate and you know, in the working world,

1010
00:45:56,280 --> 00:45:58,399
Speaker 3: and I read this article, I think the takeaway would

1011
00:45:58,440 --> 00:46:02,880
Speaker 3: be nothing. The takeaway would be have opinions and be

1012
00:46:03,080 --> 00:46:05,799
Speaker 3: bold and don't be surprised when people don't want to

1013
00:46:05,840 --> 00:46:09,800
Speaker 3: work with you. Don't be surprised if you lose opportunities.

1014
00:46:10,440 --> 00:46:12,480
Speaker 3: Where had I been writing it? And this is one

1015
00:46:12,480 --> 00:46:14,920
Speaker 3: of the reasons why I'm working on my book so

1016
00:46:14,960 --> 00:46:18,560
Speaker 3: I can put my voice out there on this. I

1017
00:46:18,600 --> 00:46:23,920
Speaker 3: would embrace the idea of collab like needing to be

1018
00:46:24,280 --> 00:46:27,799
Speaker 3: a good collaborator when you're in your career and let

1019
00:46:27,880 --> 00:46:30,480
Speaker 3: yourself free, like let yourself be free to a certain

1020
00:46:30,480 --> 00:46:33,239
Speaker 3: extent from everybody liking you. But if you want to

1021
00:46:33,239 --> 00:46:35,520
Speaker 3: be effective and make the impact that you want to have,

1022
00:46:35,960 --> 00:46:39,839
Speaker 3: your attitude, your personality, your approach to the work can

1023
00:46:39,920 --> 00:46:43,239
Speaker 3: hinder you if you're not going to take into consideration

1024
00:46:43,400 --> 00:46:45,520
Speaker 3: the people around you and their thoughts and feelings. And

1025
00:46:45,560 --> 00:46:48,840
Speaker 3: that's just like part of being a person in the

1026
00:46:48,880 --> 00:46:52,800
Speaker 3: world and trying to work with others' that's the reality.

1027
00:46:52,840 --> 00:46:55,920
Speaker 3: I don't think that this necessarily speaks ill of or

1028
00:46:56,320 --> 00:47:01,359
Speaker 3: you know, should make us look sideways at, you know,

1029
00:47:01,920 --> 00:47:04,000
Speaker 3: just people in corporate and choosing to work with their

1030
00:47:04,040 --> 00:47:06,560
Speaker 3: friends and all that. Like, at the end of the day,

1031
00:47:07,200 --> 00:47:10,000
Speaker 3: you want to work alongside somebody who is going to

1032
00:47:10,080 --> 00:47:13,960
Speaker 3: make you feel decent most of the time. That article

1033
00:47:14,000 --> 00:47:16,400
Speaker 3: came out and the second thing that happened is my

1034
00:47:16,520 --> 00:47:20,719
Speaker 3: girl who I will continue defending until the day I die,

1035
00:47:21,400 --> 00:47:26,120
Speaker 3: Jennifer Lopez j Lo, Jenny from the book. He's getting

1036
00:47:26,280 --> 00:47:29,439
Speaker 3: so much hate right now, talk about someone who does

1037
00:47:29,520 --> 00:47:32,719
Speaker 3: everything and to be liked and still y'all come for

1038
00:47:32,800 --> 00:47:35,920
Speaker 3: her like that. It really is, like it shows the

1039
00:47:35,960 --> 00:47:38,400
Speaker 3: other side of this whole Amanda Seals thing. Amanda Seals

1040
00:47:38,920 --> 00:47:42,320
Speaker 3: has all these opinions as very provocative. You know, doesn't

1041
00:47:42,320 --> 00:47:44,359
Speaker 3: put on a face for you. She's like putting on

1042
00:47:44,480 --> 00:47:46,839
Speaker 3: you know, just telling it real, real, and you know.

1043
00:47:47,000 --> 00:47:48,880
Speaker 3: And then you have j Loo, who is nothing but

1044
00:47:49,000 --> 00:47:51,120
Speaker 3: the image and the brand and the polish and the

1045
00:47:51,160 --> 00:47:55,680
Speaker 3: glow and all of those things. Perfection, perfection, perfection. They

1046
00:47:56,440 --> 00:47:59,360
Speaker 3: cannot stand her right now. So she came out, Jlo

1047
00:47:59,440 --> 00:48:01,120
Speaker 3: came out for while, she went and got back together

1048
00:48:01,160 --> 00:48:03,680
Speaker 3: with Ben Affleck. Right then she did this she has

1049
00:48:03,719 --> 00:48:05,719
Speaker 3: a new album out I forget what it's called, but

1050
00:48:05,760 --> 00:48:09,680
Speaker 3: she did a documentary on Amazon. Well, first she financed

1051
00:48:09,680 --> 00:48:12,480
Speaker 3: her own documentary. She spent like thirty million of her

1052
00:48:12,480 --> 00:48:18,440
Speaker 3: own dollars to create this music video movie. It's like

1053
00:48:18,480 --> 00:48:21,839
Speaker 3: a film, she says, a visual album for all of

1054
00:48:21,880 --> 00:48:24,640
Speaker 3: her songs on the album. And then also did a

1055
00:48:24,680 --> 00:48:27,680
Speaker 3: documentary about the making of that album, which is a

1056
00:48:27,719 --> 00:48:31,120
Speaker 3: model that plenty of pop stars have done. Do the album,

1057
00:48:31,360 --> 00:48:33,560
Speaker 3: make it, and then do a documentary about the behind

1058
00:48:33,560 --> 00:48:36,279
Speaker 3: the scenes. And I thought she was so brave, like

1059
00:48:36,280 --> 00:48:38,680
Speaker 3: say what you will. The music is the album. My

1060
00:48:38,719 --> 00:48:42,799
Speaker 3: favorite Jlo album, no is the you know? Was the

1061
00:48:42,800 --> 00:48:46,520
Speaker 3: movie like a like're gonna win an Oscar? Like I

1062
00:48:46,560 --> 00:48:48,600
Speaker 3: don't know. It was something to watch, you know what

1063
00:48:48,680 --> 00:48:51,680
Speaker 3: I mean, Hi buddy. But I feel like now people

1064
00:48:51,719 --> 00:48:54,800
Speaker 3: are coming for her, saying that she's trying too hard

1065
00:48:55,160 --> 00:48:58,840
Speaker 3: to be Jimmy from the Block. There's this clip in

1066
00:48:58,840 --> 00:49:01,959
Speaker 3: the documentary where she's like got her her real hair out.

1067
00:49:02,320 --> 00:49:04,399
Speaker 3: I honestly thought she was real. She was way more

1068
00:49:04,560 --> 00:49:07,000
Speaker 3: raw and authentic than she needed to be in the documentary,

1069
00:49:07,400 --> 00:49:09,719
Speaker 3: Like she took her extensions out and she's like, when

1070
00:49:09,760 --> 00:49:11,319
Speaker 3: I wear my hair like this. It just makes me

1071
00:49:11,360 --> 00:49:13,440
Speaker 3: feel like little Jenny running up and down the block.

1072
00:49:14,080 --> 00:49:17,480
Speaker 3: And there's this TikToker who's like, hey, Jenny up the

1073
00:49:17,520 --> 00:49:20,439
Speaker 3: block wants you to go away. The block has sent

1074
00:49:20,480 --> 00:49:24,160
Speaker 3: you a season desist. Stop claiming the block. Stop. You know,

1075
00:49:24,640 --> 00:49:27,440
Speaker 3: they were saying, like, you're a multi millionaire, go back

1076
00:49:27,440 --> 00:49:30,480
Speaker 3: to Beverly Hills, like you haven't lived in there? She

1077
00:49:30,560 --> 00:49:34,320
Speaker 3: really did, Yeah, Like the woman is from the Bronx

1078
00:49:34,400 --> 00:49:36,279
Speaker 3: like and it's a part of her identity. And it

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00:49:36,360 --> 00:49:39,960
Speaker 3: just makes me feel like, and you don't get to

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00:49:39,960 --> 00:49:43,520
Speaker 3: be Jennifer f and Lopez by caring what people have

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00:49:43,600 --> 00:49:45,400
Speaker 3: to say about you. Because they have been coming for

1082
00:49:45,480 --> 00:49:47,880
Speaker 3: her since day one and they still are talking about Ashanti.

1083
00:49:47,920 --> 00:49:51,839
Speaker 3: Ashanti's fine okay, and she got paid for the work

1084
00:49:51,880 --> 00:49:55,200
Speaker 3: that she did, right, How she can't sing and how

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00:49:55,480 --> 00:49:57,480
Speaker 3: because she doesn't sing the way that they want, they

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00:49:57,480 --> 00:49:59,600
Speaker 3: think that she should be singing, that she doesn't deserve

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00:49:59,640 --> 00:50:01,239
Speaker 3: to have a voice or to use it or to

1088
00:50:01,320 --> 00:50:04,640
Speaker 3: make music. And I just want to say, for the record,

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00:50:05,160 --> 00:50:09,520
Speaker 3: I love a woman who continues to make art because

1090
00:50:09,840 --> 00:50:12,880
Speaker 3: she can and use her voice because she can, and

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00:50:12,920 --> 00:50:15,680
Speaker 3: she has something to say. And I think that takes

1092
00:50:15,680 --> 00:50:17,920
Speaker 3: so much guts and so it's used to be so

1093
00:50:18,120 --> 00:50:21,000
Speaker 3: brave and so strong to know that you're going to

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00:50:21,040 --> 00:50:23,960
Speaker 3: get this kind of reaction and then just to do

1095
00:50:24,160 --> 00:50:27,799
Speaker 3: your art and make your art anyway, like I will,

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00:50:28,719 --> 00:50:31,680
Speaker 3: I will, I will die on this hill. I love

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00:50:31,760 --> 00:50:35,360
Speaker 3: Jennifer Lopez. I love Jenny from the Black, and I

1098
00:50:35,480 --> 00:50:37,640
Speaker 3: just think she deserves so much better. And I'm sick

1099
00:50:37,680 --> 00:50:41,880
Speaker 3: of the internet culture being like, oh, Brittany, We're so sorry.

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00:50:41,920 --> 00:50:44,120
Speaker 3: We shouldn't have been so hard on you. Oh Monica Lewinsky,

1101
00:50:44,160 --> 00:50:46,279
Speaker 3: we really messed up, didn't we owe Anita Hill? Like

1102
00:50:46,440 --> 00:50:48,279
Speaker 3: after you destroy somebody, Yeah, I need a hill, Like

1103
00:50:48,280 --> 00:50:50,120
Speaker 3: we should have believed you from the beginning. Me too,

1104
00:50:50,200 --> 00:50:52,040
Speaker 3: meet you, blah blah blah blah blah. But then we

1105
00:50:52,120 --> 00:50:55,120
Speaker 3: repeat the same cycle. We're just going to abuse a mother,

1106
00:50:55,320 --> 00:50:58,279
Speaker 3: a woman, you know, someone's daughter. We're just going to

1107
00:50:58,360 --> 00:51:01,799
Speaker 3: abuse her for trying to make art and put some

1108
00:51:02,000 --> 00:51:05,960
Speaker 3: love and positivity into the world. Like come, we can't

1109
00:51:05,960 --> 00:51:09,440
Speaker 3: have it both ways. I just want to see her

1110
00:51:09,840 --> 00:51:12,040
Speaker 3: be embraced. And you can say what you want about

1111
00:51:12,040 --> 00:51:13,520
Speaker 3: the art and whether or not it's your kind of

1112
00:51:13,640 --> 00:51:17,759
Speaker 3: art and whatever, but I would like a huge brown

1113
00:51:17,840 --> 00:51:22,120
Speaker 3: break from women being loved one minute and then abuse

1114
00:51:22,200 --> 00:51:25,959
Speaker 3: the next because of the art. What's happening. The show's over.

1115
00:51:26,200 --> 00:51:31,359
Speaker 3: We're freaking out now, buck, We're wrapping it up.

1116
00:51:31,440 --> 00:51:35,080
Speaker 2: We're wrapping it up. Yeah, no, I agree. I think

1117
00:51:35,320 --> 00:51:36,920
Speaker 2: you know, the Internet is not.

1118
00:51:36,880 --> 00:51:40,000
Speaker 1: A safe space for most people, and even if it

1119
00:51:40,040 --> 00:51:42,760
Speaker 1: is temporarily safe, it's not a safe space for long.

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Speaker 1: And so as long as you know that, you know, like,

1121
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Speaker 1: it doesn't matter how beloved you are, I mean.

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00:51:47,440 --> 00:51:49,400
Speaker 3: You know, they will bring you to be it and

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00:51:49,440 --> 00:51:49,680
Speaker 3: may be.

1124
00:51:49,880 --> 00:51:51,839
Speaker 2: You know, they'd be dragoned for filth these days.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, knowing that, that's why, honestly we should all

1126
00:51:55,080 --> 00:51:57,400
Speaker 1: take our social media breaks, because it can be all too.

1127
00:51:57,320 --> 00:52:02,080
Speaker 3: Much and they'll just keep and just keep your auntie

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00:52:02,080 --> 00:52:04,840
Speaker 3: Tiffany has a hard stop in sixty seconds, one second, Okay,

1129
00:52:05,280 --> 00:52:09,560
Speaker 3: we just say my last words, yes, ma'am. Anyway, just keep.

1130
00:52:09,840 --> 00:52:12,319
Speaker 3: If you're someone who's letting the opinions of others get

1131
00:52:12,360 --> 00:52:15,520
Speaker 3: to you, like, wait them out, like, keep doing your work.

1132
00:52:15,760 --> 00:52:18,520
Speaker 3: Years will go by, you will like it, just waited out.

1133
00:52:18,560 --> 00:52:20,000
Speaker 3: It doesn't matter at the end of the day. Just

1134
00:52:20,080 --> 00:52:24,440
Speaker 3: keep doing your art, keep making your keep making your

1135
00:52:24,520 --> 00:52:26,480
Speaker 3: voice heard. It doesn't matter if people want to hear

1136
00:52:26,520 --> 00:52:28,440
Speaker 3: it or not. Like Amanda Seals is never going to

1137
00:52:28,480 --> 00:52:31,960
Speaker 3: stop doing what she does, she shouldn't either. Keep making

1138
00:52:32,000 --> 00:52:34,080
Speaker 3: your art, keep saying what matters to you, and you

1139
00:52:34,120 --> 00:52:37,680
Speaker 3: will outlast the critics and the TikTok viral moments and

1140
00:52:38,280 --> 00:52:39,839
Speaker 3: all that. Bs.

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00:52:40,360 --> 00:52:43,799
Speaker 2: Yeah you love Uba. If you have not left us

1142
00:52:43,800 --> 00:52:46,600
Speaker 2: a review, what are you waiting for? You have one second,

1143
00:52:46,640 --> 00:52:48,520
Speaker 2: Mandy to like you can find a quick review.

1144
00:52:49,320 --> 00:52:51,279
Speaker 3: Oh what do I have one second? You tell me? Girl?

1145
00:52:52,360 --> 00:52:54,200
Speaker 3: Oh I got a second? Do you think I pulled

1146
00:52:54,239 --> 00:52:55,839
Speaker 3: them out of nowhere? I have to like go into

1147
00:52:55,880 --> 00:52:58,759
Speaker 3: this thing? What about you know?

1148
00:52:58,800 --> 00:53:00,880
Speaker 2: We read the reviews at the end. Gotta be ready.

1149
00:53:01,320 --> 00:53:03,440
Speaker 1: If you can leave us a review on Apple, Spotify,

1150
00:53:03,480 --> 00:53:07,200
Speaker 1: wherever you listen, reviews, help us get views, reviews leads

1151
00:53:07,200 --> 00:53:12,800
Speaker 1: the views. He found this episode interesting, fun, engaging, wonderful, tremendous.

1152
00:53:12,920 --> 00:53:17,400
Speaker 3: Tendous that your point send is your friend.

1153
00:53:17,280 --> 00:53:22,160
Speaker 1: A calligue, a bestie, a sister, a cousin, a mama.

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Speaker 2: We'll try to reviieve. We'll do it next week.

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00:53:24,040 --> 00:53:25,480
Speaker 1: We'll try to read your review so you know that

1156
00:53:25,560 --> 00:53:27,120
Speaker 1: you know we're serious about our basis, but we do

1157
00:53:27,160 --> 00:53:28,240
Speaker 1: have a lot of really great reviews.

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Speaker 2: So oh okay, okay.

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Speaker 3: March twenty second, Dynamic Duo from German boxer. I love

1160
00:53:34,200 --> 00:53:36,640
Speaker 3: the energy and how financial topics are discussed in super

1161
00:53:36,680 --> 00:53:40,919
Speaker 3: simple ways. You go girls, and then essentially Mom says,

1162
00:53:40,960 --> 00:53:43,200
Speaker 3: I know you care about the girlies. Tiffany Fellow and

1163
00:53:43,280 --> 00:53:47,480
Speaker 3: future BA girlies listen to me. Sometimes information is helpful

1164
00:53:47,520 --> 00:53:50,319
Speaker 3: and useful, and sometimes knowing I'm not alone in my

1165
00:53:50,400 --> 00:53:52,920
Speaker 3: failures gives me encouragement to get back on the horse.

1166
00:53:53,000 --> 00:53:56,200
Speaker 3: So if you've made mistakes or want information about avoiding mistakes,

1167
00:53:56,560 --> 00:53:59,720
Speaker 3: give this podcast to listen. Mandy is vulnerable and sharing

1168
00:53:59,719 --> 00:54:02,919
Speaker 3: her challenges, but Tiffany drops ways for Mandy and us

1169
00:54:02,960 --> 00:54:06,400
Speaker 3: to walk through them. Good stuff here, period.

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Speaker 1: That's really sweet, y'all, especially reading You know this is

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Speaker 1: a Mandy question, Tiffy, you shout, She's.

1172
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Speaker 3: Trying to make sure she routes it to the right operator. Okay,

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Speaker 3: press two for career questions.

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Speaker 1: No, that's funny though, I don't mind that, all right,

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Speaker 1: So listen to us on Friday. Well, as you know now,

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00:54:25,520 --> 00:54:29,279
Speaker 1: we do throwback like Mondays, So Monday, Wednesday, Friday you

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00:54:29,320 --> 00:54:31,000
Speaker 1: get BA three times a week.

1178
00:54:31,080 --> 00:54:31,920
Speaker 2: How lucky are you?

1179
00:54:33,160 --> 00:54:33,640
Speaker 3: Amazing?

1180
00:54:34,160 --> 00:54:36,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, all right until next week, well not next week

1181
00:54:36,200 --> 00:54:37,040
Speaker 2: until Friday, y'all.

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Speaker 3: Bye bye,