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Speaker 1: To Teas and a Pod with Teddy Mellencamp and camera judge.

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Speaker 2: Hi, guys, welcome to another episode of Two Teas and Pod.

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Speaker 2: Tam is not with me today. So I have a

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Speaker 2: very special guest. I've got Gertie, who came in from Miami.

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Speaker 2: Hey girl, Hey, okay, we reunited, honey, reunited. Before we

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Speaker 2: even get started with the pod, I wanted, I got

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Speaker 2: a very very up to date d m from the

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Speaker 2: cruise line from away.

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Speaker 3: From the cruising itself. Are you serious? No, from a

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Speaker 3: sand like celebrity cruises and everything. What happened? Girls, talk

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Speaker 3: to me.

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Speaker 2: I worked for the cruise line. This was on a

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Speaker 2: sailing with media and VIPs. If Julia simply said, hey,

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Speaker 2: this is the person and we need to make room

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Speaker 2: for her, they would have done it. It didn't have

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Speaker 2: to be that deep.

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Speaker 3: Are you serious, It's been verified.

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Speaker 2: It's been verified.

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Speaker 3: Mike drop, Mike drop.

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Speaker 1: Wait, Doria says, clip clip, clip clip?

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Speaker 3: I did. Can I have that person come to their

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Speaker 3: reunion too?

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Speaker 2: I know? Well, so I have to say I was

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Speaker 2: a little bit because of the way that the event

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Speaker 2: was kind of played out. I was like, I was

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Speaker 2: kind of like, why is she doing it this set

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Speaker 2: at this cancer event. I didn't understand. Oh okay, God,

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Speaker 2: so can you explain that a little bit? And then

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Speaker 2: we're going to.

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Speaker 1: We're going back to just the event itself and why

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Speaker 1: did it there?

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Speaker 2: Or yeah, well just explaining it to me because I

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Speaker 2: think a lot of us watching this is a cancer Okay,

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Speaker 2: why is she doing it?

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Speaker 3: Teddy?

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Speaker 1: You know I would never ever use cancer as the

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Speaker 1: playing field to do this with these girls. Number one,

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Speaker 1: based on what they did to me or what happened

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Speaker 1: to me at the wedding chaos. Do you think that

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Speaker 1: some of these girls would even be at my My

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Speaker 1: My cancer charity event?

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Speaker 3: Probably not.

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Speaker 1: This was a magazine cover party hosted by the Nott magazine,

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Speaker 1: and I wish it would assume that that's an edited

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Speaker 1: shot wider so you could see the heavily branded the

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Speaker 1: not magazine them Teddy. When I tell you you look

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Speaker 1: on the floor though not the napkins then not. They

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Speaker 1: wanted to make sure they thought.

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Speaker 2: They were Heather, Yes, honeywing it.

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Speaker 3: It was everywhere.

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Speaker 1: When you look at the screen, it's so zoomed into

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Speaker 1: the pink, pink, pink, And it was very interesting, is

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Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Secondly, it was me giving a speech

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Speaker 1: because the magazine issue was speaking about celebrating the pursuit

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Speaker 1: of life, of happiness and the whole thing. So my

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Speaker 1: speech reflected my own testimony, which we'll have to see

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Speaker 1: word in it.

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Speaker 3: Cancer cancer, cancer cancer. That's part one.

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Speaker 1: Part two is that I had two of thirty people there,

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Speaker 1: thirty of my closest friends. There was no patrons donating

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Speaker 1: to attend the event, strangers out there. No thirty of

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Speaker 1: my rather dies live in Miami, two of them.

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Speaker 2: So all the guests were yours, like true guests. It

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Speaker 2: wasn't like it wasn't like the cancer evant. We saw

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Speaker 2: each other at No.

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Speaker 3: I was kidding and I'm like, what if I would

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Speaker 3: never ever?

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Speaker 1: And that's the spin, And this is how dangerous it

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Speaker 1: could be when it's like, oh, she did it at

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Speaker 1: the cancer event.

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Speaker 2: Very dangerous girls are doing that.

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Speaker 1: Of course they are, and I will see them at

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Speaker 1: the reunion because that is disgusting and that is my

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Speaker 1: name on the line.

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Speaker 3: So we're gonna have to discuss that.

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Speaker 1: Nevertheless, remember they can't read, okay, so you know, we

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Speaker 1: got to work on that. Secondly, out of the thirty guests,

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Speaker 1: two of my really good friends were our survivors too too,

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Speaker 1: and of course they're gonna come to the event. One

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Speaker 1: of them has a charity called Survive Her. Okay, at

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Speaker 1: the event, I'm part of a group called Support your Girlfriends,

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Speaker 1: where we actually support your girlfriends, and we had money.

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Speaker 3: We have ten thousand dollars.

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Speaker 1: And then the head of the organization, she goes, let's

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Speaker 1: do a presentation of the check to survive her. So

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Speaker 1: no one survivor paid. This was not an organization for survivor.

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Speaker 1: Survivor is one person that came to the event, and

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Speaker 1: she's my friend. We said, let's do a check presentation

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Speaker 1: for survivor and that was it. The way that it

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Speaker 1: looked was here's a charity. Oh yeah, oh look at

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Speaker 3: It was unbelievable.

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Speaker 1: And last and last and not least, Martina was not

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Speaker 1: even invited to my party. You see me invite the

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Speaker 1: girls at the LGBTQ event, which she was missing too.

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Speaker 1: Write she was not there. I don't know why, but

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Speaker 1: she was not there at that supporting. I had the caution,

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Speaker 1: so she was not there supporting the cause. And she

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Speaker 1: inserted herself to say, well, thank god, I wasn't there,

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Speaker 1: because you know, how could she do that to the

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Speaker 3: By so the spin is real.

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Speaker 2: And at the reunion, let's gonna say one thing, how

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Speaker 2: could she do that to all the mothers?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 2: Right? Well they I mean, like, I go, how could

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Speaker 2: any like? And that's why I wanted to give you

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Speaker 2: the like, that's what I wanted to talk to you

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Speaker 2: about it, because yeah, people make mistakes or people because

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Speaker 2: the way they made it look on the boat when

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Speaker 2: you were talking about it was you were like, no,

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Speaker 2: I stand by exactly what I did, but I didn't

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Speaker 2: give this back information. Yes, So then I was like, well,

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Speaker 2: I'm still annoyed at Gertie.

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Speaker 1: And and by the way, even in the context of

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Speaker 1: what it was, yes, because my testimony was really heart

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Speaker 1: wrenching and it was really sweet, and I would and

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Speaker 1: my event, I'm a party planner. For me, there's always

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Speaker 1: a party and then there's always an after party. So

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Speaker 1: my event had a program and then after the program

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Speaker 1: there's the dancing part. So I did what I did

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Speaker 1: right before, introducing the band for the dancing part. So

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Speaker 1: the first part part of my event was already whole, and.

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Speaker 2: My business part was yes, and I.

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Speaker 1: Didn't even plan to do it Whenever that time, when

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Speaker 1: I went back and finished the programming and Russell was leaving,

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Speaker 1: and he's telling me what she was saying, still playing victim,

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Speaker 1: still bringing it up. When I told her, bitch, this

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Speaker 1: is between you and me and you my party.

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Speaker 2: And she even said this is between she wanted that testing.

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Speaker 1: But she's talking to my husband, bringing down the mood

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Speaker 1: of my party, bringing the.

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Speaker 2: Topic he carrying sneakers, dirty one.

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry.

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Speaker 1: I just when i'm nice until i'm not teddy, And

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Speaker 1: I'm telling you my kindness in this group has been

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Speaker 1: taken for weakness, clearly me getting on this day.

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Speaker 2: Can we read this? Can we read this? A little

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Speaker 2: bit about this cruise? Okay, okay, you be you and

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Speaker 2: I'll be Julia.

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Speaker 3: Okay, we're doing role player. Okay, okay, who's first?

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Speaker 2: Me?

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Speaker 3: Hi, baby, You're good.

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Speaker 1: They don't have me at the dinner reservation where they

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Speaker 1: swung me out, So I'm trying to figure things out.

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Speaker 1: Not sure why they said because this is her not

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Speaker 1: after a lot of minutes. Not sure why they separated

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Speaker 1: us since I came only for you anyway, I'll figure

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Speaker 1: it out.

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Speaker 2: Oh, just getting back to my room. It's Blank's party

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Speaker 2: and I had no control over the list. I guess

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Speaker 2: changes were made when Blank canceled. I'm sorry. Are you

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Speaker 2: all taken care of question mark?

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Speaker 1: Blank is Martina and this is Sendy's party, all right?

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Speaker 1: To be honest, I'm a little taken aback that I

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Speaker 1: was moved to the site for this exclusive. If I'm

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Speaker 1: supposed to come in as your replacement, as Martinez replacement,

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Speaker 1: I should have been extended the invitation as a courtesy,

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Speaker 1: especially when I'm leaving my kids and husband at home

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Speaker 1: as your guest. I'm sure you had no control over it,

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Speaker 1: and I'm also sure that Blank, Alexis Blino's publicist wanted

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Speaker 1: to make this experience exclusive just for you since I'm

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Speaker 1: not his client. But nevertheless, this is a little rude

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Speaker 1: considering I was just trying to be supportive as a

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Speaker 1: friend to you. I was not even on the reservation

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Speaker 1: for the restaurant that you guys put me at. They're

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Speaker 1: squeezing me in and I'll be okay, but know that

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Speaker 1: I will never let anyone do that to my friends

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Speaker 1: who show.

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Speaker 3: Up for me.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so I would now hearing this her, let's do

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Speaker 2: her response first. Her response is, I don't coordinate dinner reservations.

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Speaker 2: All I'm thinking about this weekend is Blank's condition condition.

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Speaker 2: I thought you wanted to be here and would have

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Speaker 2: enjoyed being here. Otherwise I would have never suggested you

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Speaker 2: join me and leave your kids with Russell. I'm sorry

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Speaker 2: you're upset. This is a work weekend and it wasn't

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Speaker 2: done on purpose or to offend your clarification.

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Speaker 1: The letter that all of us on the cast received

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Speaker 1: because of you know, if half of us when half

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Speaker 1: of us didn't the work translation content for cruising paper barter,

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Speaker 1: it's a bartered not not paid anything in exchange. You

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Speaker 1: then just post content.

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Speaker 3: Girl. So now we're turning.

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Speaker 2: It in and now content would have been better if

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Speaker 2: you were in it. I love you, know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: Maybe that's why, Maybe that's why I wasn't invite That

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Speaker 2: That's why she didn't want to take the attention.

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Speaker 1: Maybe that's why I was invited to the cruise for

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Speaker 1: the content part and then the VIP part.

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Speaker 3: No gurdy, no access.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I think that you're proving that Julia wanted

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Speaker 1: Well, no, she wanted me as a seat filler. So

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Speaker 1: it's kind of like, oh, you're fun here, let's do

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Speaker 1: the spot thing. But then now I need to go

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Speaker 1: to VIP but I'll see you later at the bar.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So I have a so why we're on her,

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Speaker 2: we may as well just keep on her.

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Speaker 3: Okay.

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Speaker 2: Do you think that Julia is trying to ic you

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Speaker 2: out or some of the women are trying to ic

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Speaker 2: you out? Or do you think she's just obsessed with

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Speaker 2: being with the cool The cool girl are cool.

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Speaker 1: Girls and they're gonna be cool Girlsdriana is a freaking riot.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, she was a one.

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Speaker 1: I think it's multifaceted, and I think we'll get to

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Speaker 1: the bottom of that at the reunion. But I think

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Speaker 1: Julia gets fixated on new, shiny objects, and I think

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Speaker 1: that it's a repeat offense that she keeps doing, you know,

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Speaker 1: like she's friends with you and then she finds something

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Speaker 1: else and then she goes there. This is a nine

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean that makes sense. Yeah, but I think

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Speaker 2: do you think that Julia's relationship with Adriana is now

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Speaker 2: flawed forever?

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Speaker 1: I mean, it doesn't nonexistent right now, and so you'll

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Speaker 1: have to keep watching to see how it becomes this extinct.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, I love Stephanie.

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Speaker 1: Stephanie came hard, strong, to the point no bullshit. Now

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Speaker 3: I think I can't remember. So she's coming in.

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Speaker 1: And that's how I meet Stephanie with their spin on bus.

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Speaker 3: And trust me, it gets quite spicy in Spain.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Well, I'm excited for that. What are your thoughts

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Speaker 3: I liked it actually, to be honest, because I gotta break.

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Speaker 1: It's a lot, it's a lot of personalities, you know.

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Speaker 2: So, yeah, that's true.

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Speaker 3: And I was and I was out of town.

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Speaker 1: I was going to speak engagement on for the Lynn

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Speaker 3: So that's the cancer, you know. Yeah, So I came back.

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Speaker 3: I was like walking in, honey, anybody gonna phase me?

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Speaker 3: And what you got? Who's got a question?

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Speaker 2: How badly do you want doctor nicullback?

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Speaker 1: I what was good for her? And I'm not too sure.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, she played it. I liked your scene because you

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Speaker 3: Course, but why not.

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Speaker 1: See if you're a woman that's not that's not insecure,

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Speaker 1: And I was like, you know what, you need to

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Speaker 2: And they did it well and it made me like

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Speaker 2: them both. The only thing I'm not loving about Stephanie

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Speaker 1: It's a tense it's intense, and actually, when you see

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Speaker 3: That's good for you.

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Speaker 1: There's a big surprise for her and it's and it's like, what,

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Speaker 2: And how long have those two been together?

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Speaker 2: I think because we were trying to figure out because

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Speaker 3: We do. We all do at some point in time

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, in regards to you and Julia's tension,

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Speaker 2: do you think that there's room for resolution?

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Speaker 3: Oh? Good times are coming because you know.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, something happens next episode that shifts my thinking. And

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Speaker 1: if you see me walking into every single group event,

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Speaker 1: for example, my event, it's like Debbie down or like

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Speaker 1: I'm here to ruin the event and I'm gonna talk

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Speaker 1: So you see the opposite vibes. I'm on a high

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Speaker 3: Point where we're like, okay, we're neutral and let's see

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Speaker 3: what you know.

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Speaker 2: She she's yeah, yeah, I mean look at those ravies.

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Speaker 2: You know.

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Speaker 3: It's it's hard to watch these scenes back.

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Speaker 1: It's to watch this this this show back because you know,

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Speaker 1: we're going backwards, you know. So the reunion is going

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Speaker 1: to be on and popping because did you see last

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Speaker 1: night whatever that was? Did you see that last night?

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Speaker 1: Watch what happens?

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Speaker 3: I heard?

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Speaker 2: I did. I wanted to talk to you about.

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Speaker 1: The well, I still I'm flabbergasted at how she's apologizing

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Speaker 2: And you can't see water splashing. Water splashing is like

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Speaker 2: if you're on a boat and all of a sudden,

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Speaker 1: Yes, Isaac Mizrahi, if you're listening, I am di disgusted, disgusted, unacceptable,

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Speaker 1: and this is not for entertainment. Okay, I was degraded

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Speaker 2: And she sat there and just.

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Speaker 1: Grinned, because if I was really sorry, I was gonna say,

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Speaker 1: you know what, I'm so sorry.

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Speaker 3: This is not right.

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Speaker 1: I've really mean I'm sorry, and I don't need you

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Speaker 2: There was absolutely no reason it needed to get to

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Speaker 2: that point. And if she did do it, and it

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Speaker 2: say I'm really sorry?

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Speaker 1: Is a third physical offender? Okay, let's go back to Bahamas.

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Speaker 1: She tried to pour an entire eyes bucket on Marisol

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Speaker 1: and we helped make that not happen. And there's another

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Speaker 1: situation that was not aired, Okay, that was actually interesting

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Speaker 1: as well. So we will discuss this at the reunion

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Speaker 1: because the sweet voice is gonna only take you so far,

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Speaker 1: and when you have repeat offenses, we're going to have

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think you know. When she was on Watch

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Speaker 2: It Happen's Life, she says it hasn't been it.

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Speaker 3: I don't want to hear it. I don't want to

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Speaker 2: I don't want to hear it. Well, it's pretty much

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Speaker 2: it's you know, you don't have to hear it. Everybody

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Speaker 2: heard it. But I feel like it's her way of

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Speaker 2: just once again trying like, I don't think that apology

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Speaker 3: It wasn't.

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Speaker 2: I think it was for the people.

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Speaker 3: Nasty, absolutely, of course. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Has she reached out or anything, of course not, of

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Speaker 2: course not.

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Speaker 3: No.

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Speaker 1: The last thing that I've heard her say is Gertie

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Speaker 2: And do you think the girls are a little too

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Speaker 3: With Adriana?

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Speaker 1: I mean this tick for tat with them, and they

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Speaker 1: That's why we hardly get involved and would let them play.

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Speaker 2: Would you've been upset about the Sagginese comment? No, I

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Speaker 3: I have, but you know, you do, I do.

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Speaker 2: That's why that's why I have my jeans.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: But you know who they don't keep accountable, you know,

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Speaker 1: after that number one? She should have been escorted outside

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Speaker 3: No, she stayed. She got consoled by Larsa, and she

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Speaker 1: Like nothing happened, like nothing. And I you know, do

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Speaker 1: you know what it took for me to stay there?

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Speaker 1: I said to myself, No, I worked.

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Speaker 2: How did you do that?

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Speaker 3: You know, I don't know how I did it.

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Speaker 1: I just said to myself, I'm gonna stay there to

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Speaker 1: just stop stopping, okay, cutting the cake. I saw her

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Speaker 3: This was at my expense.

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Speaker 2: It was done to me, and I think as viewers,

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Speaker 2: it's hard for us, Like, while we're watching it, we're

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Speaker 2: looking at it as two separate instances when it's all

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Speaker 2: so hurt. Not only did she not fight for Like,

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Speaker 2: if I invited a friend somewhere with me, it doesn't

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Speaker 2: matter if it's a paid post or what it is,

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Speaker 2: I'd be like, hey, no, this is who I came.

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Speaker 1: With as a replacement to your wife, and that you

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Speaker 1: got me on the cruise because of your wife, that

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Speaker 1: you're getting gleamed for to get on the cruise to

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Speaker 1: you say I'm thirsty and I'm the opportunities and I'm

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Speaker 1: psycho scary. Everything that she said to me, I'm looking

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Speaker 1: at her and I'm like, you really need a mirror

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Speaker 1: because the lies are so extreme, and it is about

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Speaker 1: it's not even about the cruise, Teddy, It's about.

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Speaker 2: The the from the lack of respect in your friendship.

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Speaker 1: No, the cruise was used as a tool to paint

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Speaker 2: She wanted you to be high maintenance, over the top.

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Speaker 2: It's too much. I couldn't deal. But this is the

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Speaker 2: person you chose to invite, so then take care of her.

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Speaker 3: Why did she call it Riana her best friend?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what I don't understand.

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Speaker 3: I even asked her. You'll see what she responded. I'll

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Speaker 3: talk to you about the reunion. Why didn't you call

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Speaker 3: it Guiana? First?

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Speaker 1: If I'm not your friend and you don't know me

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Speaker 2: But knowing like that. And also if for some reason,

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Speaker 2: somebody on that cruise line, which we already confirmed it

444
00:19:41,400 --> 00:19:42,280
Speaker 2: isn't the case, but.

445
00:19:42,280 --> 00:19:45,000
Speaker 3: Need I need that tea? Yeah, I'll give that to you.

446
00:19:45,320 --> 00:19:48,639
Speaker 2: But if somebody on that cruise line said, you know,

447
00:19:48,680 --> 00:19:51,359
Speaker 2: we don't want Gerty there she wasn't, then that's for

448
00:19:51,520 --> 00:19:54,560
Speaker 2: Julia should at least have the balls to come to

449
00:19:54,600 --> 00:19:58,960
Speaker 2: you and say, hey, I'm sorry, I tried. They're telling

450
00:19:59,000 --> 00:20:01,200
Speaker 2: me no, So where do you want to go now?

451
00:20:01,320 --> 00:20:01,560
Speaker 3: Yes?

452
00:20:02,160 --> 00:20:03,760
Speaker 2: And at the end of the day, like, let's go

453
00:20:03,800 --> 00:20:04,520
Speaker 2: together at.

454
00:20:04,400 --> 00:20:05,440
Speaker 3: The end of the day.

455
00:20:05,640 --> 00:20:08,879
Speaker 1: And again, let me remind everybody the cruise happened in

456
00:20:08,960 --> 00:20:14,639
Speaker 1: twenty twenty three. Yeah, okay, And at the end of

457
00:20:14,680 --> 00:20:17,520
Speaker 1: the day, Julia decided to bring it up now because

458
00:20:17,640 --> 00:20:20,399
Speaker 1: Julia has such, I guess an ego that she didn't

459
00:20:20,480 --> 00:20:24,240
Speaker 1: like the way I had something to say about it.

460
00:20:24,320 --> 00:20:26,320
Speaker 1: She didn't want to be called out, and so it

461
00:20:26,359 --> 00:20:28,000
Speaker 1: was kind of like, how dare you talk to me now?

462
00:20:28,400 --> 00:20:30,320
Speaker 1: Is you were my cruise? You were in my bed,

463
00:20:30,520 --> 00:20:33,360
Speaker 1: that's the spin on that. And I'm like, wait, you

464
00:20:33,440 --> 00:20:36,639
Speaker 1: literally called me. Russell's mom was like, is Martinez we

465
00:20:36,680 --> 00:20:38,800
Speaker 1: thought we thought the way that she sounded on the

466
00:20:38,800 --> 00:20:40,639
Speaker 1: phone that it was back.

467
00:20:40,960 --> 00:20:43,120
Speaker 3: That's how bad he was. Why would I get back

468
00:20:43,119 --> 00:20:44,560
Speaker 3: on the cruise. I'm like, oh, she'll be fine.

469
00:20:44,680 --> 00:20:46,800
Speaker 1: She didn't even want to tell me why. She said, please,

470
00:20:46,840 --> 00:20:49,800
Speaker 1: I'll tell you on the cruise. I can't talk now.

471
00:20:49,800 --> 00:20:51,840
Speaker 2: I'm getting she didn't want you to talk her out

472
00:20:51,880 --> 00:20:53,600
Speaker 2: of going. She was inappropriate.

473
00:20:53,880 --> 00:20:56,120
Speaker 3: She didn't want she didn't want me to say no.

474
00:20:56,680 --> 00:20:59,480
Speaker 1: She wanted to sound like there was something to hear

475
00:20:59,560 --> 00:21:01,600
Speaker 1: that was so here that to get me to get

476
00:21:01,600 --> 00:21:02,119
Speaker 1: on the cruise.

477
00:21:02,160 --> 00:21:03,120
Speaker 3: It's a manipulation.

478
00:21:03,560 --> 00:21:05,679
Speaker 1: And so I leave my house, I get on this cruise.

479
00:21:05,800 --> 00:21:07,560
Speaker 1: I'm there for you. And then I'm like, shu, sure

480
00:21:07,960 --> 00:21:09,480
Speaker 1: you know if there we get a reservation for you,

481
00:21:09,560 --> 00:21:11,840
Speaker 1: we'll be We'll see you at the Martin barlater, okay,

482
00:21:12,040 --> 00:21:14,800
Speaker 1: see yeah. And then I'm like alone, no reservation, I'm

483
00:21:14,800 --> 00:21:17,399
Speaker 1: by myself. Jen Fester was on the ship. Eventually she

484
00:21:17,440 --> 00:21:19,520
Speaker 1: comes to me later on, but she has her own thing.

485
00:21:19,560 --> 00:21:22,040
Speaker 1: She wasn't supposed to be babysitting me. I'm here alone

486
00:21:22,400 --> 00:21:25,040
Speaker 1: for you, and you can't pull a chair, and I'm like,

487
00:21:25,080 --> 00:21:26,680
Speaker 1: what can I sit on the chair that was meant

488
00:21:26,720 --> 00:21:27,280
Speaker 1: for Martina?

489
00:21:27,560 --> 00:21:29,000
Speaker 3: It didn't make sense to my friend.

490
00:21:29,359 --> 00:21:31,439
Speaker 2: Felt I just and she would have.

491
00:21:31,440 --> 00:21:34,879
Speaker 1: Never done it. She would have never done it to Larsa.

492
00:21:34,960 --> 00:21:37,000
Speaker 1: She would have never done it to Alexia. Those are

493
00:21:37,280 --> 00:21:39,879
Speaker 1: facts she would have never Alexi would have parasceled her

494
00:21:39,880 --> 00:21:45,119
Speaker 1: ass out of that. For them to not have even said, Julia,

495
00:21:45,800 --> 00:21:46,920
Speaker 1: they didn't want to hear the story.

496
00:21:46,960 --> 00:21:47,880
Speaker 3: They didn't want to hear the story.

497
00:21:47,880 --> 00:21:50,159
Speaker 2: So that's the thing. I never heard the story. I

498
00:21:50,200 --> 00:21:53,119
Speaker 2: didn't feel like I got the full story, so I

499
00:21:53,240 --> 00:21:55,800
Speaker 2: wasn't able to take it in and really understand. But

500
00:21:55,840 --> 00:21:58,040
Speaker 2: now that I hear that, if I think, if me

501
00:21:58,119 --> 00:22:01,159
Speaker 2: and Taram are going to do something and I was

502
00:22:01,520 --> 00:22:03,000
Speaker 2: with you, and I asked her to go with me.

503
00:22:03,119 --> 00:22:06,000
Speaker 2: I would never in one million years, ditcher.

504
00:22:05,760 --> 00:22:07,600
Speaker 3: Who raised you? If you do that? Like who raised you?

505
00:22:07,760 --> 00:22:11,400
Speaker 2: Yeah? And if it was, If it was I get

506
00:22:11,400 --> 00:22:15,119
Speaker 2: paid this extra amount to attend this portion of the event,

507
00:22:15,400 --> 00:22:17,440
Speaker 2: I would have said to her, do you want to go?

508
00:22:17,520 --> 00:22:19,360
Speaker 2: It's really a paid thing for me, like you don't

509
00:22:19,359 --> 00:22:19,639
Speaker 2: have to.

510
00:22:19,800 --> 00:22:21,840
Speaker 1: Well, the itinerary that they sent to me, because I'm

511
00:22:21,920 --> 00:22:24,040
Speaker 1: very organized, you know, have a powerty planner. Before I packed,

512
00:22:24,080 --> 00:22:25,920
Speaker 1: I said, well, send me the itinerary so I can

513
00:22:25,960 --> 00:22:29,520
Speaker 1: see what to pack. And that VIP dinner was not

514
00:22:29,560 --> 00:22:32,359
Speaker 1: on my itinerary, but it sure wasn't hers. So you

515
00:22:32,480 --> 00:22:34,639
Speaker 1: understand there's lots of details that you're not going to

516
00:22:34,680 --> 00:22:35,440
Speaker 1: be able to walk back.

517
00:22:35,440 --> 00:22:37,960
Speaker 2: Honey, Okay, did she ask anyone else before you? Do

518
00:22:38,000 --> 00:22:40,040
Speaker 2: you think I asked?

519
00:22:40,320 --> 00:22:42,400
Speaker 1: I asked her to ask somebody else, Adriana. I said,

520
00:22:42,400 --> 00:22:46,400
Speaker 1: why don't you ask Adriana? I asked her. Yes, there's

521
00:22:46,440 --> 00:22:48,440
Speaker 1: lots of layers to this, and I don't I don't

522
00:22:48,440 --> 00:22:50,280
Speaker 1: want to even get into the semantics of it, because

523
00:22:50,280 --> 00:22:52,840
Speaker 1: at this point it's about the theme of the fact

524
00:22:52,880 --> 00:22:55,920
Speaker 1: that it's shitty behavior, you.

525
00:22:55,840 --> 00:22:58,600
Speaker 2: Know, but fans overall are unhappy with the way you've

526
00:22:58,600 --> 00:22:59,520
Speaker 2: been treated this season.

527
00:23:00,400 --> 00:23:03,000
Speaker 1: I didn't even ask Teddy when I tell you, you

528
00:23:03,080 --> 00:23:05,800
Speaker 1: know what, I just finished recovery.

529
00:23:05,840 --> 00:23:08,680
Speaker 3: I have two surgeries, you know, construct reconstructing surgeries.

530
00:23:08,960 --> 00:23:11,280
Speaker 1: I was coming into this season like, oh, I'm getting

531
00:23:11,320 --> 00:23:13,000
Speaker 1: my groove and we're gonna have so much fun. I

532
00:23:13,040 --> 00:23:15,760
Speaker 1: don't have to worry about this sea thing anymore. I'm

533
00:23:15,760 --> 00:23:20,520
Speaker 1: doing my thing. I walk into this mess the biggest disappointment.

534
00:23:20,600 --> 00:23:23,240
Speaker 1: I was like, I cannot believe I'm in this mess.

535
00:23:23,280 --> 00:23:25,640
Speaker 1: I'm getting water thrown in my face, and I'm thinking

536
00:23:25,640 --> 00:23:27,119
Speaker 1: I'm gonna have my girls backing me up, and like

537
00:23:27,200 --> 00:23:29,080
Speaker 1: just being like Gertie, we got you, where do you

538
00:23:29,080 --> 00:23:31,320
Speaker 1: want to go and celebrate you? And I got the

539
00:23:31,520 --> 00:23:35,040
Speaker 1: complete opposite for no reason. So I'm like, wow, like

540
00:23:35,119 --> 00:23:36,960
Speaker 1: this this was really hurtful.

541
00:23:37,080 --> 00:23:39,680
Speaker 2: Do you think it's because they were all being selfish

542
00:23:39,800 --> 00:23:42,879
Speaker 2: or do you think that it was intentional to hurt you.

543
00:23:43,160 --> 00:23:45,200
Speaker 1: I think it's a little bit of everything. I think

544
00:23:45,200 --> 00:23:47,679
Speaker 1: it's a little bit of everything. And I'm sorry that

545
00:23:47,720 --> 00:23:50,399
Speaker 1: I got attention last year for you know, having cancer.

546
00:23:51,720 --> 00:24:00,920
Speaker 2: It's not always the best attention, Like it's really hard,

547
00:24:07,200 --> 00:24:10,320
Speaker 2: So how how are you feeling? Like watching you and

548
00:24:10,400 --> 00:24:12,760
Speaker 2: watching your story has given me a lot of like

549
00:24:13,160 --> 00:24:16,760
Speaker 2: even when you were talking about physically feeling different, I

550
00:24:16,800 --> 00:24:18,880
Speaker 2: was like, oh my gosh, I don't feel alone anymore,

551
00:24:18,920 --> 00:24:21,919
Speaker 2: because I was wondering, like it sounds so silly, but

552
00:24:21,960 --> 00:24:25,720
Speaker 2: I was like, oh, I can't get botox, and well

553
00:24:25,760 --> 00:24:29,359
Speaker 2: because I well no, because I still haven't. Oh so

554
00:24:29,440 --> 00:24:31,600
Speaker 2: they were like, you got to wait a little bit.

555
00:24:32,200 --> 00:24:36,560
Speaker 2: Oh and because it can, like I guess, get into

556
00:24:36,600 --> 00:24:39,000
Speaker 2: your system a lot more like botox, Fieller and all

557
00:24:39,000 --> 00:24:42,040
Speaker 2: that kind of stuff. But I remember a moment of

558
00:24:42,080 --> 00:24:45,320
Speaker 2: being like feeling so like insecure, like well, I can

559
00:24:45,359 --> 00:24:48,480
Speaker 2: see my eyebrows lifting, I can see this, And so

560
00:24:48,520 --> 00:24:51,080
Speaker 2: when you were talking about that, I really felt it.

561
00:24:51,080 --> 00:24:53,720
Speaker 1: It's just a lot, and I, like, Russell can only

562
00:24:53,760 --> 00:24:55,439
Speaker 1: take so much and I feel like I only have

563
00:24:55,520 --> 00:24:58,120
Speaker 1: like a couple of people that can really go deep

564
00:24:58,119 --> 00:25:00,080
Speaker 1: into those layers in and I don't want to the

565
00:25:00,119 --> 00:25:03,359
Speaker 1: people with this crap. So you're on a show to

566
00:25:03,400 --> 00:25:05,320
Speaker 1: share your life, and you have other people who are

567
00:25:05,359 --> 00:25:07,320
Speaker 1: on this show to share their lives. You think you

568
00:25:07,320 --> 00:25:10,760
Speaker 1: can intermingle all those things, and I do talk with

569
00:25:11,000 --> 00:25:13,840
Speaker 1: someone and when I realized that they're not even listening

570
00:25:13,880 --> 00:25:16,520
Speaker 1: to the basics of like how's how's it going? And

571
00:25:16,560 --> 00:25:18,600
Speaker 1: I start talking and then I get interrupted, Like it's

572
00:25:18,640 --> 00:25:21,600
Speaker 1: just you'll see what got me to the point of

573
00:25:21,680 --> 00:25:23,520
Speaker 1: like I'm like, I'm just gonna do it right now,

574
00:25:23,560 --> 00:25:25,520
Speaker 1: Like I was just over I was up to here.

575
00:25:25,880 --> 00:25:27,760
Speaker 1: I'm like, they don't listen, they don't want to listen,

576
00:25:27,800 --> 00:25:31,280
Speaker 1: they don't care. Just all the feelings of like feeling

577
00:25:31,440 --> 00:25:34,480
Speaker 1: so like low and I'm like, I'm like, they don't

578
00:25:34,480 --> 00:25:36,560
Speaker 1: care about me, so so if the system is rigged,

579
00:25:36,800 --> 00:25:39,320
Speaker 1: blowing blow this spot. That was That was why I

580
00:25:39,359 --> 00:25:41,440
Speaker 1: was like, I'm doing it now. When they go low,

581
00:25:41,520 --> 00:25:42,800
Speaker 1: you go high. Well sometimes when they.

582
00:25:42,720 --> 00:25:43,560
Speaker 3: Go lower, you go lower.

583
00:25:43,720 --> 00:25:44,480
Speaker 2: Yeah.

584
00:25:45,720 --> 00:25:48,080
Speaker 1: I'm the one who literally is go Bama, Yeah, Hi,

585
00:25:48,160 --> 00:25:50,280
Speaker 1: go hi Laura. Time this time, I'm not going to

586
00:25:50,320 --> 00:25:50,960
Speaker 1: the pizza hill.

587
00:25:53,560 --> 00:25:56,639
Speaker 3: Shit. Oh you're not my best moment, but you know

588
00:25:56,680 --> 00:25:57,639
Speaker 3: what it happens.

589
00:25:57,680 --> 00:26:01,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, how are you? How are you overall feeling? Like

590
00:26:02,200 --> 00:26:05,280
Speaker 2: just remind just some of our listeners what kind of

591
00:26:05,320 --> 00:26:07,480
Speaker 2: treatments you ended up having to go through and how

592
00:26:07,560 --> 00:26:08,320
Speaker 2: long you've.

593
00:26:08,119 --> 00:26:11,359
Speaker 1: Been so there is a thing called cancer brain because

594
00:26:11,400 --> 00:26:13,200
Speaker 1: I looked at the confessional that I did and I said,

595
00:26:13,200 --> 00:26:15,560
Speaker 1: I have five chemo surgery, five chemo treatment.

596
00:26:15,680 --> 00:26:17,280
Speaker 3: I only have four. And I'm like, what did I say? Five?

597
00:26:17,320 --> 00:26:18,240
Speaker 3: Four chemo brain?

598
00:26:19,359 --> 00:26:21,119
Speaker 2: I have it too, but I don't have chemo, so

599
00:26:21,400 --> 00:26:25,520
Speaker 2: maybe it's yeah, it's a cancer a little Did you

600
00:26:25,520 --> 00:26:26,200
Speaker 2: have a little shakes?

601
00:26:26,240 --> 00:26:27,399
Speaker 1: Did you have a little I had a little bit

602
00:26:27,440 --> 00:26:30,840
Speaker 1: of everything. We shake, drop and roll. Okay, it was

603
00:26:30,840 --> 00:26:31,760
Speaker 1: a little bit of everything.

604
00:26:31,840 --> 00:26:35,159
Speaker 3: But what was the question? Yeah, I came. So I

605
00:26:35,160 --> 00:26:40,960
Speaker 3: had four chemo treatments, twenty radiations. Now now it's.

606
00:26:40,880 --> 00:26:43,320
Speaker 1: Actually up to nine surgeries because I had to do,

607
00:26:44,320 --> 00:26:47,400
Speaker 1: you know, the whole thing. So yeah, I and then

608
00:26:47,440 --> 00:26:51,920
Speaker 1: I take a nastrosol, which is I'm an estrogen receptor,

609
00:26:53,440 --> 00:26:55,600
Speaker 1: and so I'm taking that from five to ten years,

610
00:26:55,640 --> 00:26:58,280
Speaker 1: depending on how my body does. I have hot flashes

611
00:26:58,280 --> 00:27:01,080
Speaker 1: because it's severe hot flashes the pill I take. Plus

612
00:27:01,119 --> 00:27:04,040
Speaker 1: I had to get medical, you know, hysterectomy pulled, so

613
00:27:04,760 --> 00:27:08,119
Speaker 1: hysterectomy and so those two are screwing up my body

614
00:27:08,119 --> 00:27:09,639
Speaker 1: and my body is still trying to figure out what

615
00:27:09,680 --> 00:27:12,320
Speaker 1: happened because I'm not supposed to be in menopause right now,

616
00:27:12,640 --> 00:27:13,359
Speaker 1: So I take.

617
00:27:13,240 --> 00:27:14,719
Speaker 3: A pill to try to counter that.

618
00:27:14,920 --> 00:27:18,359
Speaker 1: So I'm like Cinderella, I have seven hours to be

619
00:27:18,440 --> 00:27:19,440
Speaker 1: okay in the streets.

620
00:27:19,680 --> 00:27:20,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, we girl.

621
00:27:21,400 --> 00:27:23,280
Speaker 1: Sometimes I cut that pill in half, which I know, doctor,

622
00:27:23,320 --> 00:27:24,000
Speaker 1: don't don't kill me.

623
00:27:24,040 --> 00:27:25,480
Speaker 3: I do cut it didn't happen. I'm supposed to.

624
00:27:25,600 --> 00:27:27,040
Speaker 1: I know, we're going to take this on half because

625
00:27:27,040 --> 00:27:28,440
Speaker 1: we have a brunch, and we're gonna take it on

626
00:27:28,480 --> 00:27:29,440
Speaker 1: half because we have a dinner.

627
00:27:29,920 --> 00:27:32,440
Speaker 3: So yeah, you just kind of as a.

628
00:27:32,400 --> 00:27:37,720
Speaker 2: New medications alone. Yeah, even like everything that I take

629
00:27:37,840 --> 00:27:39,760
Speaker 2: is a non narcotic, but I swear they make me

630
00:27:39,800 --> 00:27:43,399
Speaker 2: feel a certain way. Yeah, And I don't know that.

631
00:27:43,680 --> 00:27:45,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, they don't make me feel a certain way. Well,

632
00:27:45,600 --> 00:27:48,199
Speaker 1: and that's result does because it flushes me. So I

633
00:27:48,320 --> 00:27:50,679
Speaker 1: do get like the jitters a little bit more because

634
00:27:50,720 --> 00:27:51,040
Speaker 1: of it.

635
00:27:51,119 --> 00:27:52,440
Speaker 3: So I don't know.

636
00:27:52,480 --> 00:27:54,120
Speaker 1: And I was already hyper. So now I'm on ten

637
00:27:54,320 --> 00:27:55,680
Speaker 1: all the time. I feel like, you know, but there's

638
00:27:55,720 --> 00:27:57,080
Speaker 1: nothing I can do about it. When am I supposed

639
00:27:57,080 --> 00:27:57,240
Speaker 1: to do?

640
00:27:57,320 --> 00:28:00,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, And so you're feeling good, but you're feeling a

641
00:28:00,359 --> 00:28:02,280
Speaker 2: little hyper. But are you How often do you have

642
00:28:02,320 --> 00:28:03,880
Speaker 2: to go in to get rechecked.

643
00:28:03,800 --> 00:28:06,320
Speaker 3: Every six months? Every six months. I just booked my

644
00:28:06,560 --> 00:28:08,840
Speaker 3: next mamogram. Yeah, so every six months I get checked.

645
00:28:09,080 --> 00:28:12,359
Speaker 2: What tip would you tell another woman right now who's

646
00:28:12,440 --> 00:28:15,119
Speaker 2: concerned that something might be going on with them?

647
00:28:15,200 --> 00:28:19,560
Speaker 1: Oh, you see something, say something? Absolutely no reason. What's

648
00:28:19,560 --> 00:28:22,720
Speaker 1: the reason to wait? Because you're losing a day in

649
00:28:22,720 --> 00:28:25,200
Speaker 1: your life. You should be gaining one by by getting checked,

650
00:28:25,240 --> 00:28:27,960
Speaker 1: to be proactive, preactive, you know. So I think that

651
00:28:28,000 --> 00:28:31,119
Speaker 1: people should definitely, uh, you know, get a move on

652
00:28:31,160 --> 00:28:33,959
Speaker 1: it if you haven't gotten checked, because you're scared. Just

653
00:28:34,280 --> 00:28:35,960
Speaker 1: it's better to find out now than you're finding out

654
00:28:35,960 --> 00:28:38,280
Speaker 1: on stage four. You don't want that heat, Okay, you

655
00:28:38,320 --> 00:28:38,760
Speaker 1: don't want.

656
00:28:38,720 --> 00:28:41,640
Speaker 2: You don't want it. And because it's different, I have

657
00:28:41,720 --> 00:28:45,920
Speaker 2: different we have different cancer. She doesn't have cancer. Oh god.

658
00:28:46,440 --> 00:28:51,440
Speaker 2: But the fact that what age should people be going

659
00:28:51,440 --> 00:28:52,880
Speaker 2: and getting their MAMMOGRAMD.

660
00:28:52,560 --> 00:28:55,480
Speaker 3: I tricked the system, I think. So I was getting

661
00:28:55,520 --> 00:28:56,240
Speaker 3: a boot job.

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Speaker 1: I was getting a boot job after my son, Liam,

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Speaker 1: second son, and then they found a lot of calcification

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Speaker 1: and density, and then the doctors are well before I

665
00:29:06,280 --> 00:29:07,680
Speaker 1: do the boop job, I need to make sure you're

666
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Speaker 1: not you don't have anything in you. So I was

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Speaker 1: like thirty a Liam at thirty thirty. What is your

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00:29:14,640 --> 00:29:19,440
Speaker 1: thirty five? Yeah, yeah, Liam a thirty five. So I

669
00:29:19,480 --> 00:29:22,320
Speaker 1: had my my thing like around thirty seven, I think.

670
00:29:22,400 --> 00:29:25,360
Speaker 1: So I had my mamogram before forty, right, and then

671
00:29:25,400 --> 00:29:26,920
Speaker 1: I had to keep going because of the fact that

672
00:29:26,960 --> 00:29:28,680
Speaker 1: I was already in the system. So every year I

673
00:29:28,680 --> 00:29:30,560
Speaker 1: started going. So try to pretend you're going to get

674
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Speaker 1: a boob job and then.

675
00:29:31,920 --> 00:29:33,760
Speaker 2: Hopefully and then they'll give it to you a little early.

676
00:29:33,840 --> 00:29:35,240
Speaker 1: Never know if you got a lot of density in

677
00:29:35,280 --> 00:29:37,840
Speaker 1: your breast. So I got them earlier, so thank god.

678
00:29:38,080 --> 00:29:41,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, my gosh, is there any other little tidbits you

679
00:29:41,000 --> 00:29:44,360
Speaker 2: want to share with us or open up to that

680
00:29:44,400 --> 00:29:45,760
Speaker 2: you think our listeners would get in.

681
00:29:45,800 --> 00:29:49,240
Speaker 1: From listen when here's the thing about it, Like, you know,

682
00:29:49,280 --> 00:29:52,560
Speaker 1: I wanted my main goal being an advocate for cancer

683
00:29:52,640 --> 00:29:56,400
Speaker 1: in general, but also to break the stigma of people

684
00:29:56,880 --> 00:29:59,200
Speaker 1: hiding or not wanting to talk about the sea word,

685
00:29:59,280 --> 00:30:01,920
Speaker 1: the cancer word. We need to start normalizing it because

686
00:30:01,920 --> 00:30:04,720
Speaker 1: one in eight women is going to have cancer, breast cancer,

687
00:30:04,880 --> 00:30:07,360
Speaker 1: and one in three any type of other cancer. So

688
00:30:07,400 --> 00:30:09,840
Speaker 1: someone you know you will be affected in some way,

689
00:30:09,840 --> 00:30:14,080
Speaker 1: shape or form. And if we learn anything about last season, okay,

690
00:30:15,240 --> 00:30:18,000
Speaker 1: you want to be at least empathetic to someone who

691
00:30:18,120 --> 00:30:19,080
Speaker 1: says they have cancer.

692
00:30:19,120 --> 00:30:19,920
Speaker 3: You should know the.

693
00:30:19,800 --> 00:30:24,040
Speaker 1: Basic commendments, you know, you know, keep it calm, keep

694
00:30:24,080 --> 00:30:26,520
Speaker 1: it to yourself, you know, be a little bit more

695
00:30:27,160 --> 00:30:27,960
Speaker 1: open minded.

696
00:30:28,840 --> 00:30:30,640
Speaker 2: Don't be so you know, like try to pretend you're

697
00:30:30,680 --> 00:30:32,160
Speaker 2: not a doctor because you're not.

698
00:30:32,560 --> 00:30:36,120
Speaker 1: Don't question, don't question if the person has it or not,

699
00:30:36,240 --> 00:30:38,040
Speaker 1: and make it a gossip thing. There's a lot of

700
00:30:38,120 --> 00:30:41,280
Speaker 1: things that we can do. So you don't have you

701
00:30:41,320 --> 00:30:42,120
Speaker 1: don't have a book.

702
00:30:41,920 --> 00:30:48,120
Speaker 2: Right, hold on what congratulations?

703
00:30:48,120 --> 00:30:50,680
Speaker 1: So the book I wrote actually, you know, two years,

704
00:30:50,720 --> 00:30:54,440
Speaker 1: which is recently. I wrote it after having cancer because

705
00:30:54,480 --> 00:30:57,040
Speaker 1: I wanted to wait to see how I felt about everything.

706
00:30:57,520 --> 00:31:00,760
Speaker 1: And then I had a layer ish of trauma in

707
00:31:00,800 --> 00:31:03,960
Speaker 1: the past, including the cancer, which was traumatic. So my

708
00:31:04,080 --> 00:31:07,600
Speaker 1: book is from trauma to trophies and the unforeseen events

709
00:31:07,760 --> 00:31:08,840
Speaker 1: that redefined me.

710
00:31:09,960 --> 00:31:11,720
Speaker 2: Oh, I need to read.

711
00:31:11,880 --> 00:31:14,479
Speaker 1: This is not a cancer book, but the cancer is

712
00:31:14,520 --> 00:31:16,840
Speaker 1: in there on how it changed me from the gurdy

713
00:31:16,920 --> 00:31:19,120
Speaker 1: before to Gurdy two point zero.

714
00:31:19,480 --> 00:31:23,400
Speaker 3: And so now I'm like, this is for pre order,

715
00:31:23,680 --> 00:31:26,200
Speaker 3: for pre order, it's for pre order, and it's.

716
00:31:26,120 --> 00:31:28,840
Speaker 1: Going to be out by November and hopefully by Bravo, Khan,

717
00:31:28,960 --> 00:31:29,800
Speaker 1: Can I please have one?

718
00:31:29,800 --> 00:31:30,000
Speaker 2: Soon?

719
00:31:30,120 --> 00:31:32,840
Speaker 3: I will hook you up with a freaking copy, because I.

720
00:31:32,800 --> 00:31:36,120
Speaker 2: Think there are so many things that people don't know

721
00:31:36,200 --> 00:31:38,760
Speaker 2: and don't understand, and especially even about the way to

722
00:31:38,800 --> 00:31:41,840
Speaker 2: talk to people when they have Like I always tell

723
00:31:41,880 --> 00:31:43,680
Speaker 2: all of my friends. I don't know if maybe this

724
00:31:43,720 --> 00:31:46,600
Speaker 2: is just me, but I'm like, please stop asking me questions.

725
00:31:46,920 --> 00:31:48,680
Speaker 3: You know, I went to the room. Guess what I

726
00:31:48,720 --> 00:31:49,040
Speaker 3: asked her.

727
00:31:49,120 --> 00:31:51,560
Speaker 1: I said, how is she feeling? Does she want to

728
00:31:51,600 --> 00:31:53,600
Speaker 1: talk about anything around the S word?

729
00:31:53,800 --> 00:31:56,480
Speaker 3: Yes? No, okay, And I'm like, Hi, Teddy, how you doing? Girl?

730
00:31:56,640 --> 00:31:57,680
Speaker 3: You open up the conversation.

731
00:31:57,800 --> 00:32:00,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, no, I don't mind. I don't mind that. But

732
00:32:00,480 --> 00:32:03,040
Speaker 2: you know when somebody will text you and they'll be like, hey, babe,

733
00:32:03,200 --> 00:32:06,320
Speaker 2: miss you, how are you feeling? What's going on? What

734
00:32:06,360 --> 00:32:07,160
Speaker 2: is all day?

735
00:32:07,200 --> 00:32:08,840
Speaker 3: You just got out of the doctor's office.

736
00:32:08,840 --> 00:32:12,120
Speaker 2: Who I'm like, I can barely see, thank you too.

737
00:32:12,600 --> 00:32:16,120
Speaker 2: My eyesight too, I can barely see.

738
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Speaker 3: Man.

739
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Speaker 2: I'm going to need the audio book when I'm doing

740
00:32:19,240 --> 00:32:20,160
Speaker 2: the audio book as well.

741
00:32:20,440 --> 00:32:22,760
Speaker 1: And this book is the beginning of the chapter of

742
00:32:22,800 --> 00:32:25,320
Speaker 1: me talking to people about the different facets and the

743
00:32:25,320 --> 00:32:27,880
Speaker 1: next book I'm going to write is about the care vivers.

744
00:32:28,120 --> 00:32:30,560
Speaker 1: So Russell's going to get in on that. Now, what

745
00:32:30,680 --> 00:32:33,040
Speaker 1: your man is doing, how is he feeling, what is

746
00:32:33,080 --> 00:32:35,760
Speaker 1: he taking care of? How is he affected by it?

747
00:32:35,840 --> 00:32:38,160
Speaker 1: That is like that blind spot that we feel like

748
00:32:38,160 --> 00:32:40,120
Speaker 1: it's all about us to wut. Your sex life going

749
00:32:40,240 --> 00:32:42,600
Speaker 1: now is much better. I'm taking a pill, Honey, I

750
00:32:42,640 --> 00:32:44,280
Speaker 1: took a pill. I'll tell you about that later.

751
00:32:44,960 --> 00:32:46,880
Speaker 2: Need to hear that just in case.

752
00:32:46,960 --> 00:32:47,880
Speaker 3: Yes, but like you.

753
00:32:47,800 --> 00:32:50,280
Speaker 1: Know, he's dry down there, Okay, I guess, but like

754
00:32:50,480 --> 00:32:53,440
Speaker 1: Russell with my eyes, I'm all like excited, right, so

755
00:32:53,440 --> 00:32:55,640
Speaker 1: I'm wet up here and then I'm like dright out there.

756
00:32:55,680 --> 00:32:59,440
Speaker 1: So I'm like, hey, you're focus, get it together, clarify.

757
00:33:03,920 --> 00:33:05,200
Speaker 2: Yes, I'm ready.

758
00:33:05,400 --> 00:33:07,400
Speaker 1: So yeah, there's a lot of things that it's like,

759
00:33:07,480 --> 00:33:10,960
Speaker 1: you know, happening. And doctor Jackie from Married to Medicine. Oh,

760
00:33:11,080 --> 00:33:14,560
Speaker 1: you know, I'm gonna tease exclusive she makes a cameo.

761
00:33:15,000 --> 00:33:17,000
Speaker 1: Oh she does miss a cameo. I got to call

762
00:33:17,040 --> 00:33:19,880
Speaker 1: my backup, honey. I'm like listen, yeah, so you're gonna

763
00:33:19,880 --> 00:33:21,920
Speaker 1: see a little bit of her. And she's a two

764
00:33:22,040 --> 00:33:25,120
Speaker 1: time cancer survivor and so she has a whole sex

765
00:33:26,000 --> 00:33:27,800
Speaker 1: tools and all that stuff that she sent my way,

766
00:33:27,880 --> 00:33:28,240
Speaker 1: so you know.

767
00:33:28,200 --> 00:33:29,640
Speaker 2: She could tell her to send it my way.

768
00:33:30,040 --> 00:33:34,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, you know what, Good for you and your boyfriend's.

769
00:33:35,200 --> 00:33:36,720
Speaker 1: I know he's an ex borfriend, but good for you

770
00:33:36,720 --> 00:33:39,240
Speaker 1: and your future boyfriend or whoever, honey, girlfriend, boyfriend, whatever

771
00:33:39,240 --> 00:33:41,480
Speaker 1: you want to do. You have one wife, and who

772
00:33:41,520 --> 00:33:44,280
Speaker 1: are we to judge people and what they be doing?

773
00:33:44,800 --> 00:33:45,120
Speaker 3: Who?

774
00:33:45,360 --> 00:33:47,680
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, did you watch the show Dying for Sex?

775
00:33:48,040 --> 00:33:48,800
Speaker 3: No? What is that?

776
00:33:49,240 --> 00:33:53,880
Speaker 2: Oh? My gosh, it's about Michelle Williams and she has

777
00:33:53,920 --> 00:33:56,680
Speaker 2: Michelle Williams is in it and she had cancer okay,

778
00:33:56,880 --> 00:33:59,320
Speaker 2: and it's terminal. Yeah, and it's like all the things

779
00:33:59,320 --> 00:34:03,360
Speaker 2: she does in her last day, like and just watching

780
00:34:03,400 --> 00:34:06,800
Speaker 2: that made and granted this is far from where I am,

781
00:34:08,120 --> 00:34:09,680
Speaker 2: but I think we have to get to a place

782
00:34:09,680 --> 00:34:10,799
Speaker 2: where we're talking about it.

783
00:34:11,320 --> 00:34:12,080
Speaker 3: Break the stigma.

784
00:34:12,280 --> 00:34:14,879
Speaker 2: Let's break the stigma. It's like the way nobody used

785
00:34:14,880 --> 00:34:18,319
Speaker 2: to talk about ever having a miscarriage, and now we

786
00:34:18,360 --> 00:34:19,640
Speaker 2: can say it. And there's eight other.

787
00:34:19,680 --> 00:34:20,919
Speaker 3: Abortions, like, you know, there's so many past.

788
00:34:21,080 --> 00:34:22,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, we've gotta be starting a podcast, me and Teddie

789
00:34:23,280 --> 00:34:24,600
Speaker 1: introducing you to you know what.

790
00:34:25,000 --> 00:34:30,120
Speaker 2: We we have a come trauma and trophy.

791
00:34:31,480 --> 00:34:32,160
Speaker 3: I love it.

792
00:34:32,360 --> 00:34:34,799
Speaker 2: Oh well, thanks for joining us and you guys can

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Speaker 2: find Gerty online on Instagram at Girdy Design Girty Design.

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Speaker 2: Thanks for coming on and joining

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Speaker 3: Us, Love you guys,