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Speaker 1: Welcome back to Good Mom's Bad Choices. I'm Erica and

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Speaker 1: I'm Mela and it's Wednesday, Happy hump Day, Happy humph Day.

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Speaker 1: So before we start this episode, shall we pull a card?

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Speaker 2: Yes, we shall.

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Speaker 1: Today we're going to be pulling from a different deck.

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Speaker 3: It is the animal spirit deck.

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Speaker 1: The first card that I pull is supposed to represent

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Speaker 1: the path and the second is the obstacle. So the

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Speaker 1: path is crocodile.

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Speaker 3: Let's see what it says.

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Speaker 1: So in the card, you can see the crocodile resting, submerging,

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Speaker 1: collecting energy, cooling off. So the crocodile reminds us to

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Speaker 1: step back from the external world and turn inward. Now

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Speaker 1: is not the time for decisions, action or discussion. The

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Speaker 1: crocodile's mantra is weight. This doesn't mean lying around hoping

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Speaker 1: life changes will disappear. The crocodile is much smarter than that.

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Speaker 1: It means intentionally withdrawing, gathering our awareness, observing, and building energy.

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Speaker 1: Fill up the vital resources. So your next move comes

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Speaker 1: from a place of wisdom and power. So when in balance,

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Speaker 1: you feel wise, patient, a silent powerhouse. And when you're

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Speaker 1: out of balance, in this card, you can feel stuck,

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Speaker 1: lashing out, Lord lashing out. I don't know, this is

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Speaker 1: the journey. So I think of the path. So I

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Speaker 1: think that right now is a time to kind of

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Speaker 1: go within inwardly, work in silence and intentionally kind of

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Speaker 1: withdraw from society, which you know, we just did in

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Speaker 1: Costa Rica, lighty right literally in.

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Speaker 4: The middle of nowhere in the jungle alone, to go

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Speaker 4: deep down inside of us.

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Speaker 1: And because there's a silent power housing being made in

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Speaker 1: the silence, and it's in the works, and so I

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Speaker 1: just feel like, point, yeah, the crocodile. I feel there's

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Speaker 1: also definitely crocodiles of Costa Rica. Okay, So the next

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Speaker 1: card is the hyena. This is the obstacle, the obstacle,

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Speaker 1: the hyena. The hyena personality is a jokester and crowd pleaser,

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Speaker 1: but below the surface there are unfulfilled dreams to be realized.

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Speaker 1: When the Hyena card appears, it's time to reflect on

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Speaker 1: your reliance or sarcasm and humor to express your truth.

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Speaker 1: Are you using jokes to hide old resentments and relationships

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Speaker 1: or to mask things that you feel uncomfortable discussing? What

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Speaker 1: would happen if you took your goals seriously. When in balance,

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Speaker 1: it could be charming, wouity, fun to be around. When

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Speaker 1: out of balance, scrappy, petty, suspicious, and to bring into

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Speaker 1: balance sobriety.

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Speaker 4: Damn, I feel like this is speaking to me. This

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Speaker 4: is very rude. No yash for this, hyena. I do

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Speaker 4: have a habit of making everything sarcastic, and I'm a

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Speaker 4: people pleaser for sure. But below the surface there are

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Speaker 4: unfulfilled dreams to be realized, and I probably cover up

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Speaker 4: some things that I need to dig deeper to get out.

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Speaker 4: And I just said that I probably can't drink as

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Speaker 4: much as I used to do anymore.

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Speaker 3: It just does not work for me.

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Speaker 4: So maybe it just it's a significance that there's a

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Speaker 4: shift happening and things the way you went about old

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Speaker 4: things are no longer going to serve you. But I

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Speaker 4: think I'm any better at my like masking my serious

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Speaker 4: conversations with the sarcasm. I'm pretty expressive these days. I

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Speaker 4: cry and moan and do all the things if I

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Speaker 4: feel necessary. Does this relate to you in any way?

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Speaker 3: You know what?

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Speaker 1: I feel like it almost relates to our guest this week, Zosha,

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Speaker 1: because she's so charming, she's witty, she's fun to be around,

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Speaker 1: she's fucking hilarious, and you know, and in this episode

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Speaker 1: she talks a lot about, you know, trying to find

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Speaker 1: that balance in motherhood. And you know, her daughter is

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Speaker 1: younger than ours, and you know, you know how that

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Speaker 1: time is, and like that first time out and like

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Speaker 1: feeling guilty but then also just like being fucking bals

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Speaker 1: to the walls crazy because you can fucking wait, but

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Speaker 1: then also feeling so guilty about.

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Speaker 4: That right, And it says, are you using jokes to

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Speaker 4: hide old resentments and relationships or to massive things that

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Speaker 4: you feel uncomfortable discussing? And yeah, because her daughter is

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Speaker 4: much younger than ours, I know, I know she you

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Speaker 4: know there's some some inevitably, just like we have all experienced,

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Speaker 4: there's always some. The smaller your child is, the more

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Speaker 4: deep your attachment to the relationship with that baby daddy.

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Speaker 4: And we talk about it. But first, what's going to

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Speaker 4: be her affirmation today, Erica? So today's affirmation is, good

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Speaker 4: moms deserve to make all the bad choices they want

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Speaker 4: when they're not with their kids guilt free. Good moms

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Speaker 4: deserve to make all the bad choices they want when they.

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Speaker 1: When they kid wrap them kids off. Do you boo,

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Speaker 1: do whatever the fuck you want? Okay, we are so

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Speaker 1: excited to have a Zosha Rockwell with us. She is

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Speaker 1: a mama and actress and just overall amazing, hilarious human being.

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Speaker 3: Welcome to the show's oshi, Hey girl, Hey, what do chilling?

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Speaker 3: Welcome to the Good Mom's Babe ca Oh.

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Speaker 2: I love it. It's very cute, very jungle. Yeah, I'm happy

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Speaker 2: to be here. Yeah.

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Speaker 5: We're talking about this shit for three years, right.

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Speaker 3: I know it's been a minute. How you doing.

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Speaker 6: I'm good.

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Speaker 2: I'm excited to drink. Oh, I'm like, can I start?

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Speaker 5: Yes?

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Speaker 6: Cheers er, cheers?

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Speaker 3: Oh oh she lit?

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Speaker 2: My phone's dry?

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Speaker 3: A right special? Don't you mate that my phone be

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Speaker 3: so dry?

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Speaker 6: My phone's always dry.

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Speaker 3: It's my gay best friend, so callous.

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Speaker 2: How was your lady's weekend?

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Speaker 3: What'd you do?

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Speaker 6: Oh my gosh, this weekend.

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Speaker 2: I didn't do that much, just was chilling, hung out

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Speaker 2: with my daughter, went to my mom's house. She's three,

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Speaker 2: three and a couple months. She turned three in June.

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Speaker 1: What a wonderful horrible Yes, I didn't want to be negative.

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Speaker 3: Book. Goddamn three is fucking hard.

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Speaker 2: Okay, it's so hard. It is a hard age. So

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Speaker 2: there's not I mean, obviously with the pandemic, there isn't

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Speaker 2: that much we can do. But we had a playdate. Okay,

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Speaker 2: so we went to the park, went to my mom's house,

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Speaker 2: which is my favorite thing to do because I can

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Speaker 2: just like nothing.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, and she's.

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Speaker 5: Cool exactly kid mode, like I don't take care of

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Speaker 5: stuff by.

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Speaker 6: Right, and we can just chill.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, yeah, that's all we did. Just kick it, eat,

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Speaker 2: have ice cream.

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Speaker 3: You're from LA, right? What part of LA were you?

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Speaker 2: I'm from South LA, like all over. We lived in Lamert.

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Speaker 2: My family is from Compton, like, my mom was raised there,

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Speaker 2: she lives there now. Who We lived in Englewood, just

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Speaker 2: all over South LA. Mainly Lamert though, and Compton was

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Speaker 2: always like home base cause that's where my grandma's house was.

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Speaker 6: Woo woo La in the.

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Speaker 2: House, yes, west soy.

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Speaker 1: Well, you know we're from uh, we're valley girls. And

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Speaker 1: people are always saying the valley's not in LA. I

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Speaker 1: beg to differ.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it is LA. It's the valley just right. I'm like,

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Speaker 2: I'm from l A, l A. I'll consider the valley LA.

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Speaker 3: People.

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Speaker 2: I feel like, what's not l A is like maybe

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Speaker 3: Okay, that's definitely not yeah.

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Speaker 1: Right, Long Beach's the whole city, right.

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Speaker 2: Right, Yeah, No, the valley is because the valley is

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Speaker 2: right near Hollywood essentially.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it is.

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Speaker 1: I would say that there is definitely a threshold of

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Speaker 1: how deep in the valley can be considered Los Angeles.

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Speaker 3: However, where I Andila are from, it is considered l A. Okay.

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Speaker 5: I just want to just for the just in case

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Speaker 5: anyone was wanting to argue for me.

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Speaker 2: I'm the l A Police, So I'm like, I've set

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Speaker 3: What I did for the weekend, Oh, I don't know, Yeah,

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Speaker 3: what did you? What did you do this weekend?

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Speaker 5: I did girlfriendship for a nigga that's not my boyfriend,

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Speaker 5: so you know, dumb ship regular.

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Speaker 3: So when are you gonna not do dumb ship? Dumb

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Speaker 3: girlfriend and shit? Today's Monday? Right today?

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Speaker 6: Did boyfriend?

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Speaker 5: I did have a boyfriend, and then I messed that up.

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Speaker 5: So that's why I'm still doing girlfriendship because I'm trying

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Speaker 5: to prove myself. Hmmm. I've had a long life of

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Speaker 5: not being a girlfriend, so was it easy for me?

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Speaker 5: To transition into girlfriendhood like I thought it would be.

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Speaker 5: So we're in the in between stage and so I'm

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Speaker 5: doing girlfriend ship to be like.

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Speaker 3: Hey, I have a girlfriend.

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Speaker 2: Look, I have a girlfriend.

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Speaker 5: Material like I make pies, I can cut you want

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Speaker 5: some spaghetti.

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Speaker 2: It's a vegetarian like I compromise.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: So that was numb and I even brought like Lona

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Speaker 5: that shit's very confusing. It felt very like atomic family.

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Speaker 3: And I was, wait, what did you say to me?

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Speaker 3: You told me?

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Speaker 2: She was like it was like Russell. It was like

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Speaker 2: Sierra and Russell. I was like, what are you talking about?

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Speaker 5: She's like, you know, like Russell Wilson is the stepdaddy

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Speaker 5: of the century. Like it is like, who doesn't want

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Speaker 5: to Russell Wilson. I feel like every single mom's aspirations

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Speaker 5: are to find a w Russell, right, Like look at Sierra,

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Speaker 5: Look what she did.

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Speaker 3: Look out his daddy little future.

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Speaker 2: Totally he's like my three kids, Yeah, three kids, Like nope,

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Speaker 2: this one's mine. Yes, that's how I need to.

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Speaker 3: Get in there. How do you feel about that?

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Speaker 1: How do you feel about like a person that's not

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Speaker 1: your child's parent, like considering your child their kids?

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, saying it publicly.

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Speaker 1: I know, I think it's a requirement, but saying it publicly,

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Speaker 1: like if Luna, if your baby daddy had a girlfriend

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Speaker 1: and she was talking about lunas my daughter.

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Speaker 5: If they were in a long term relationship, and if

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Speaker 5: they had plans on getting married, I would hope this.

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Speaker 3: So marriage is what determines, No, But if it's a long.

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Speaker 5: Term relationship, and like I know you and we've been

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Speaker 5: around I and they have other kids together, I want

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Speaker 5: you to like, I think you need to consider, yes,

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Speaker 5: his child, my child, a part of your unit. Like

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Speaker 5: can you imagine like a bitch being at a party

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Speaker 5: and being like, oh, oh, your kids are so cute,

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Speaker 5: Like oh these are mine?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's true. That makes a kid feel bad?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, like this is so and so is alone.

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Speaker 3: Oh I mean there's one thing doing it at a party.

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Speaker 1: And then also like posting like so proud of my

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Speaker 1: son's accomplishments today on Instagram.

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Speaker 3: Why is the Instagram a fact?

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Speaker 1: I mean, I'm just saying that's both considered public like

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Speaker 1: that right, I don't know.

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Speaker 5: I think he could go both ways because I think

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Speaker 5: sometimes step parents who don't have kids come in and

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Speaker 5: they really want to be that role really hard, and

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Speaker 5: it's like a little bit much like calm down, Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Have I known you five years?

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Speaker 5: But like, also I've even been discovering a lot of

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Speaker 5: the shit that I do that's not girlfriendy. I've also

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Speaker 5: discovered there are things that like we want people to

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Speaker 5: come in and do, but then also they do it

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Speaker 5: and we're like I.

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Speaker 6: Hate it right now, right, chill, chill.

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Speaker 6: I know, it depends on which way it goes.

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Speaker 2: I feel like if I had a man in my life,

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Speaker 6: They're like born in ninety eight.

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Speaker 2: They're like little girls, like, yeah, so I feel like

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Speaker 2: But like I think as I keep going and like

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Speaker 2: I don't want to know anything.

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Speaker 6: I don't care.

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Speaker 2: I'd be like, hello, nice to meet you, and then

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Speaker 2: That's why I try to like imagine like me having

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Speaker 5: You're a little bit older than your baby daddy, right

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Speaker 5: mm hm, you're like how many years older?

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Speaker 5: And then he's probably didn't girls even younger than him,

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Speaker 5: So have you experienced that yet, like having like him

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Speaker 2: Like I when I when me and my daughter's father

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Speaker 3: Need to meet her.

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Speaker 1: And now that I'm seeing someone, I was like, I'm like, yeah,

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Speaker 3: I don't I don't really want you to meet him.

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Speaker 2: I don't want to meet her, and like let's just

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Speaker 5: All right? Also, don't try to act like this is

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Speaker 2: Make her call you mom, or any any weird shit

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Speaker 5: But also like, my girlfriend just went through a breakup

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Speaker 5: almost immediately moved the bitch and she's a cheerleader.

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Speaker 3: She's like twenty five, And I.

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Speaker 6: Was like, well, now.

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Speaker 2: Probably yeah.

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Speaker 3: You know how they have the stadiums with the.

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Speaker 2: Fake people at the empty stadium that is so scary.

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Speaker 2: The dancers, I don't know.

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Speaker 6: I don't like her job.

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Speaker 2: She's on the side.

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Speaker 3: She's like his bitch never hears she's like a sexual

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Speaker 2: No, she's on the side.

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Speaker 5: She's a pretty So I had to tell my girlfriend.

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Speaker 5: She was like very unhappy that she wasn't pre warned

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Speaker 6: But I was like, you got a free baby sitter.

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Speaker 5: If she wasn't over there acting like a preschool teacher,

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Speaker 5: you wouldn't get a break.

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Speaker 2: That nigga would be trying to ditch and dodge you

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Speaker 2: everything like true moms.

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Speaker 3: This is a PSA announcement for all moms.

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Speaker 5: If your former baby daddy is dating someone else, I

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Speaker 5: don't care how old she is. If the bitch looks

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Speaker 3: Cue to let that nigga play that.

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Speaker 2: Out of the week and bounce.

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Speaker 6: That's so true.

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Speaker 5: I let that nigga takehim, let her, him and his

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Speaker 5: two year old girlfriend go to Disneyland, do all that

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Speaker 5: should have. All the sleepover is supply popcorn.

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Speaker 3: Whatever you gotta do. Just back up and let it

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Speaker 3: go easy.

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Speaker 5: Right, may not last forever, and your hopes that you

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Speaker 5: support the relationship so that it does, that you could

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Speaker 5: do what you need to do.

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Speaker 2: That's so true. I've been leaning into that a lot too.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, as hos, I'm cute, I don't really care

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Speaker 2: about anything, but you know what I'm saying, it ain't

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Speaker 2: much childer that na'.

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Speaker 6: Is not that deep.

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Speaker 2: Like I'm gonna just be over here doing me or

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Speaker 2: I think of the other Jimmy, y'all know her.

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Speaker 6: I can't. I don't know how to pronounce it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm like, I don't know how to say it

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Speaker 2: because it's French. I love her. I love her, And

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Speaker 2: I listened to her on you Guys' podcast and she

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Speaker 2: was saying how like her baby daddy and his wife

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Speaker 2: they have like the whole nuclear family because they have

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Speaker 2: another kid.

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Speaker 3: They moved over. They drove cross country.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean they're like co parents and goals.

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Speaker 3: They drove cross country together and to move to LA

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Speaker 3: they moved together.

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Speaker 5: I didn't realize it was like a carr and.

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Speaker 6: Her and the wife are cool.

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Speaker 2: I feel like she's like cooler with the wife than

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Speaker 2: with the baby daddy. And she's like, that's my girl,

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Speaker 2: that's good. Becau's how my mom was.

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Speaker 3: Let's be honest.

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Speaker 1: The wife is probably the one bathing, taking care of

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Speaker 1: doing the hair, making sure everything.

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Speaker 3: Is, you know, running smoothly, and she.

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Speaker 6: Probably like has your back more.

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Speaker 2: If he's like she's annoying, she's like, she's fine, you're annoying.

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Speaker 3: If you have a good one.

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Speaker 5: Who's like, if I have a baby with you, nigga,

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Speaker 5: I need to gauge how you're acting better, be acting.

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Speaker 6: Correctly right exactly.

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Speaker 2: I think ultimately that's for me.

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Speaker 5: I'm such a free spirited, loving cancer, like that is

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Speaker 5: my ultimate goal. I want to be like Alicia and like.

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Speaker 3: What's the husbands.

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Speaker 5: They go on the cation together. That's like every black person's.

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Speaker 3: It was a long time coming though.

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Speaker 6: Oh yeah, did read the book? Read the book?

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Speaker 2: I didn't read the book.

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Speaker 1: I just remember all that the dramas, the reality show,

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Speaker 1: and she has some crazy ship.

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Speaker 5: But if Mashanda can get over even Jamila, I think

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Speaker 5: she said, like they broke up like abruptly, and yeah,

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Speaker 5: she got engaged while she was pregnant, while she was pregnant.

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Speaker 2: So I was listening to her testimony, I was like

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Speaker 2: in my room, I was like, I love choices. I

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Speaker 2: told her the truth, like rying, It's true.

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Speaker 5: It's a struggle to get past your own emotions and

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Speaker 5: your own feelings, and like it is especially when it

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Speaker 5: comes to bursting a child from your vagina, Like I

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Speaker 5: made that you owe me everything plus your blood and

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Speaker 5: every dime you ever inheris belongs to me. Respect me,

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Speaker 5: let me queen.

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Speaker 1: And all the baby daddy's change the trend. Speaking of which,

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Speaker 1: I want to play a little game with you because

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Speaker 1: I want our listeners to get a real quick recap

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Speaker 1: on you know, what do you think about a few things? Okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: So this is a game we like to play. It's

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Speaker 1: called trigger. And how trigger works is I say a

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Speaker 2: So I try to try to don't try to overthink.

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Speaker 3: Just go for it.

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Speaker 2: Word is social Okay, here we go. Monogamy dead, favorite

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Speaker 2: sex position, doggy boxers or briefs box a brief?

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Speaker 3: Okay? But what's a boxer brief?

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Speaker 2: Like the boxers that are tight, they're like tight, but

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Speaker 2: they're like but they're shorts. The biker shorts is a brief.

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Speaker 2: I guess that's a brief. I want making briefs I

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Speaker 2: think of like, wait, is a brief A panty like

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Speaker 2: a man panty?

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Speaker 3: That's an underwear?

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Speaker 6: Okay's briefs? Okay, okay, not lucy goosey boxers.

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Speaker 3: Stripper name zimon dim.

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Speaker 1: With drinking or smoking, drinking, bad habits, rage, Kanye all?

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Speaker 3: How do you go from rage to all?

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Speaker 2: I loved Kanye baby daddy l a okay, social media, Bye,

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Speaker 2: happily ever after?

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Speaker 3: Did ship?

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Speaker 2: Monogamy and happily around? Damn for white women, for women

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Speaker 2: who don't look like me, have bad day, bad day?

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Speaker 3: Threesomes?

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Speaker 2: Sure trump black women word pregnancy never again? Really never

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Speaker 2: gat you done?

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Speaker 5: Forever?

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Speaker 2: I think, so, yeah, that wasn't I don't want to

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Speaker 2: double down on this.

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Speaker 6: I think I want to keep the overhead light.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I have unprotected sax, No, I'm all angry.

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Speaker 6: When I'm like I can feel work, I'm angry. I'm like,

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Speaker 6: maybe right, monotonymy over.

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Speaker 3: A favorite porn category.

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Speaker 6: I don't have one. I don't watch porn.

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Speaker 2: Isn't it weird?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 6: No, something, I know, I don't watch it.

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Speaker 2: I feel weird because my girlfriends were like, really, I'm like, no,

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Speaker 2: you masturbate. I do, but not to like, just to

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Speaker 2: like the porn in my head. Meanwhile, last night, I said, Jamila,

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Speaker 2: I texted Mela porn and I was like, do we

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Speaker 2: know this girl? I was like, did we have her

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Speaker 2: on our show?

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Speaker 6: And I was like, yes, yes we did.

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Speaker 2: Oh that's cool. It was a guess we did. Then

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Speaker 2: I had to and then.

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Speaker 5: She's like then I just had to watch it because

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Speaker 5: I'm like at first, I'm like, we had just had

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Speaker 3: Right to the masturbating.

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Speaker 6: I was like, this is how she winds us like

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Speaker 6: I gotta get.

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Speaker 3: To bed for tomorrow.

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Speaker 6: I did.

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Speaker 5: I was like, but first, so I was like, okay,

445
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Speaker 5: this is dick is bending at a weird angle. Did

446
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Speaker 5: you notice that spending at the base strangely, I'm gonna

447
00:20:08,280 --> 00:20:09,240
Speaker 5: let you get back to your things.

448
00:20:10,040 --> 00:20:13,800
Speaker 3: Let me finish open relationship.

449
00:20:14,720 --> 00:20:15,280
Speaker 6: I guess.

450
00:20:15,600 --> 00:20:22,639
Speaker 1: Oh lord, it's like nowadays, right and no choice? Your

451
00:20:22,720 --> 00:20:27,120
Speaker 1: childhood favorite cereal tricks.

452
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Speaker 6: That's not my favorite, but that's what popped in my head.

453
00:20:31,200 --> 00:20:31,920
Speaker 6: That's what I thought.

454
00:20:33,720 --> 00:20:36,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, my favorite is probably sinnamon to crunch, but oh

455
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Speaker 2: that's my favorite. Yeah, just make French chest, bitches, Like, that's.

456
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Speaker 1: A lot of work when I get just pouring a

457
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Speaker 1: bowl and pour some milk over it.

458
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Speaker 3: That's why get may spend one week and being.

459
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Speaker 1: A white Okay, goodbye your leg week.

460
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Speaker 5: Guess what I made three times that morning?

461
00:20:53,840 --> 00:20:58,000
Speaker 2: French chest, three times three, three rounds of Oh my,

462
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Speaker 2: she's like, I got it. Don't worry, baby, want one

463
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Speaker 2: another one problem? I'll make you want to bochia a

464
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Speaker 2: second fall off for easy.

465
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Speaker 5: Don't domestications, Oh my god.

466
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Speaker 3: Okay, celebrity crush, Oh my god.

467
00:21:13,920 --> 00:21:18,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that's fine.

468
00:21:18,400 --> 00:21:21,120
Speaker 6: The Watchman, I've.

469
00:21:21,040 --> 00:21:23,040
Speaker 2: Never seen one thing this man is saying someone.

470
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Speaker 6: His work, not one thing.

471
00:21:26,640 --> 00:21:30,840
Speaker 2: I know his Instagram, I know his chocolate beautiful, so fine,

472
00:21:30,880 --> 00:21:34,240
Speaker 2: he follows me on Twitter because we both black eggs.

473
00:21:34,680 --> 00:21:37,160
Speaker 2: He unfollowed me on Instagram, which is fine.

474
00:21:37,320 --> 00:21:39,440
Speaker 6: It was fun. It was fine. Yeah, it's fine. I

475
00:21:39,480 --> 00:21:43,000
Speaker 6: think he was probably yeah, yeah, he was too much.

476
00:21:43,600 --> 00:21:44,360
Speaker 6: He is so fine.

477
00:21:44,440 --> 00:21:47,760
Speaker 2: Him and Jonathan Major's Pinn love Craft Country.

478
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Speaker 3: Oh I haven't seen that one.

479
00:21:48,880 --> 00:21:51,880
Speaker 6: I've seen it and The Five.

480
00:21:51,760 --> 00:21:56,200
Speaker 2: Bloods on Netflix. That's another fine. He was Delroy's son.

481
00:21:56,680 --> 00:21:57,960
Speaker 2: He was the son, like the young one.

482
00:21:58,880 --> 00:21:59,919
Speaker 3: Okay, I have to look anyway.

483
00:21:59,920 --> 00:22:04,040
Speaker 2: These are my celebrity booze. Yeah, yeah, anyone knows them.

484
00:22:04,040 --> 00:22:06,080
Speaker 5: And it happens to be tuning in send this part

485
00:22:06,119 --> 00:22:06,240
Speaker 5: to that.

486
00:22:06,359 --> 00:22:08,880
Speaker 2: I know. I'm always like my mom's like, we need

487
00:22:08,920 --> 00:22:11,080
Speaker 2: to make that happen. I'm like, Mom, I can't just

488
00:22:11,119 --> 00:22:12,560
Speaker 2: be jumping from actor to actors.

489
00:22:14,600 --> 00:22:16,159
Speaker 6: She's like, we need to make it happen.

490
00:22:16,240 --> 00:22:18,600
Speaker 2: You want it, We got it, baby. And he's thirty four.

491
00:22:18,800 --> 00:22:19,720
Speaker 3: Oh okay, so good.

492
00:22:19,760 --> 00:22:23,640
Speaker 6: I need some grown men. It seems like every guy

493
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Speaker 6: I meet is like, we want to go grown. Every

494
00:22:27,600 --> 00:22:28,200
Speaker 6: twenty seven.

495
00:22:28,080 --> 00:22:28,879
Speaker 3: Year old man is right.

496
00:22:29,040 --> 00:22:30,800
Speaker 1: Every twenty seven year old is ready to settle down,

497
00:22:32,560 --> 00:22:34,520
Speaker 1: ready to take life serious. I don't know nothing about it.

498
00:22:34,840 --> 00:22:37,120
Speaker 5: You either got to go old or very young where

499
00:22:37,119 --> 00:22:42,520
Speaker 5: you can mold them true single mom therapy.

500
00:22:43,160 --> 00:22:50,920
Speaker 3: Yes it's squirt pee yes or no good one there? Okay?

501
00:22:51,040 --> 00:22:52,120
Speaker 2: A favorite author.

502
00:22:53,720 --> 00:22:59,960
Speaker 1: Rock fan, gay Idol Whitney, a song or panties, panties

503
00:23:00,600 --> 00:23:02,960
Speaker 1: curly or straight curly?

504
00:23:03,800 --> 00:23:07,480
Speaker 3: Your insecurity? Rage?

505
00:23:08,240 --> 00:23:11,320
Speaker 6: That rage my whole personality.

506
00:23:11,240 --> 00:23:13,080
Speaker 3: To dig into this raige, I know, not.

507
00:23:13,000 --> 00:23:15,679
Speaker 2: Even impatience, just like my whole personality.

508
00:23:15,760 --> 00:23:16,680
Speaker 6: Probably you can't.

509
00:23:16,680 --> 00:23:19,080
Speaker 2: You wait, what.

510
00:23:19,040 --> 00:23:19,520
Speaker 3: Was the question?

511
00:23:19,840 --> 00:23:23,320
Speaker 6: I said, my whole But I'm kidding.

512
00:23:23,400 --> 00:23:25,320
Speaker 2: That's like, that's a mom in security.

513
00:23:25,400 --> 00:23:27,399
Speaker 5: I think I'm happy you said that because I've I

514
00:23:27,440 --> 00:23:30,639
Speaker 5: was experiencing some insecurity with my entire personality this weekend,

515
00:23:30,760 --> 00:23:32,960
Speaker 5: so I didn't quite come to terms with it until now.

516
00:23:33,440 --> 00:23:34,040
Speaker 3: Yeah.

517
00:23:34,160 --> 00:23:34,760
Speaker 6: I think I'm just.

518
00:23:34,680 --> 00:23:36,800
Speaker 2: Too much for people. So I understand. Yeah, me too.

519
00:23:36,920 --> 00:23:39,119
Speaker 6: I'm a lot. It works like solo dolo.

520
00:23:39,000 --> 00:23:41,240
Speaker 2: But I'm like, I can't be flying off the handle

521
00:23:41,280 --> 00:23:43,960
Speaker 2: in my daughter. I look nuts and every thing you

522
00:23:44,040 --> 00:23:46,720
Speaker 2: read about they're all like, if you yell, that's really

523
00:23:46,760 --> 00:23:47,400
Speaker 2: scarce kids.

524
00:23:47,400 --> 00:23:51,720
Speaker 6: I'm like, shit, I yelled. I don't yell every day, but.

525
00:23:51,840 --> 00:23:53,439
Speaker 2: I like it toughens them up. You need to be

526
00:23:53,520 --> 00:23:57,359
Speaker 2: tough world experience, right, I'm double sad.

527
00:23:57,440 --> 00:24:00,480
Speaker 6: You know what I'm saying. Yeah, I'm a sad so I'm.

528
00:24:00,320 --> 00:24:01,840
Speaker 2: Sing cancer moon.

529
00:24:02,960 --> 00:24:03,800
Speaker 6: I can't help it.

530
00:24:05,200 --> 00:24:07,320
Speaker 2: I know, sad mercury.

531
00:24:07,480 --> 00:24:11,240
Speaker 6: Like I'll be like, what's up. I'm honest blunt.

532
00:24:11,080 --> 00:24:13,600
Speaker 5: Yeah inside is that w that but like that like

533
00:24:13,680 --> 00:24:14,880
Speaker 5: bowdedness is coming.

534
00:24:14,640 --> 00:24:17,960
Speaker 2: From yeah, And she said yeah, she'd be like I'm

535
00:24:17,960 --> 00:24:19,960
Speaker 2: gonna whoop you. I'm gonna beat you up if you

536
00:24:20,040 --> 00:24:22,239
Speaker 2: do this. She like she literally came in the other day.

537
00:24:22,240 --> 00:24:24,040
Speaker 2: It's like I hope you break a nail. I was

538
00:24:24,119 --> 00:24:27,399
Speaker 2: like what. Yeah, We're like very blunt and like the

539
00:24:27,520 --> 00:24:29,800
Speaker 2: mouth can get evil, but you don't mean right now

540
00:24:29,880 --> 00:24:31,760
Speaker 2: behind it Like I'm very quick to be like a

541
00:24:31,840 --> 00:24:33,679
Speaker 2: waiter will bring me the wrong thing, and I'm like,

542
00:24:33,680 --> 00:24:34,320
Speaker 2: I'd rather.

543
00:24:34,200 --> 00:24:37,000
Speaker 6: Die than eat this. Just like big talk, big talk.

544
00:24:37,480 --> 00:24:40,280
Speaker 2: Everything's big. Like I'm always like, what does she have cancer?

545
00:24:40,840 --> 00:24:43,840
Speaker 2: Like this big old top, but you know, actually she does?

546
00:24:44,000 --> 00:24:47,120
Speaker 6: And you gat had a cold ship?

547
00:24:47,560 --> 00:24:54,040
Speaker 2: No, oh my god, okay, turn off bad shoes.

548
00:24:54,640 --> 00:24:55,119
Speaker 3: I feel you.

549
00:24:55,359 --> 00:24:56,120
Speaker 2: I can't do it.

550
00:24:56,280 --> 00:24:57,360
Speaker 3: Biggest regret.

551
00:24:57,720 --> 00:25:01,920
Speaker 2: Oh I can't one. I guess yeah, I can't think

552
00:25:01,920 --> 00:25:04,680
Speaker 2: of one yo, La you know, oh you just throwing

553
00:25:04,680 --> 00:25:07,760
Speaker 2: that in. Oh?

554
00:25:08,359 --> 00:25:10,840
Speaker 5: I regret no nothing for sixty seconds.

555
00:25:11,240 --> 00:25:15,920
Speaker 6: You know, I'm like, have tried it, not as bad

556
00:25:15,960 --> 00:25:16,640
Speaker 6: as you think.

557
00:25:19,040 --> 00:25:21,040
Speaker 3: Okay, last one, best vacation.

558
00:25:21,359 --> 00:25:26,639
Speaker 2: Ooh Miami recently for my thirty fifth birthday. That was

559
00:25:26,720 --> 00:25:29,400
Speaker 2: so fun. Did you go talk to us? Did we We didn't.

560
00:25:29,400 --> 00:25:30,480
Speaker 2: Don't think we went to the beach.

561
00:25:30,880 --> 00:25:32,840
Speaker 6: We're just so nuts. I know we did a boat though,

562
00:25:33,240 --> 00:25:34,640
Speaker 6: which we were there for three.

563
00:25:34,359 --> 00:25:37,560
Speaker 2: Bomb days stated soho beach house. It was like a

564
00:25:37,680 --> 00:25:41,960
Speaker 2: very grown trip and so fun. Drank a lot, ate

565
00:25:41,960 --> 00:25:44,720
Speaker 2: a lot, smoked a lot and it was just really

566
00:25:44,760 --> 00:25:45,600
Speaker 2: I felt so cute.

567
00:25:45,720 --> 00:25:46,760
Speaker 6: I was like, I love this.

568
00:25:47,359 --> 00:25:49,640
Speaker 2: I'm on more vacations, man, I missed vacation.

569
00:25:50,320 --> 00:25:52,240
Speaker 5: I just want to let everybody at home know that

570
00:25:52,280 --> 00:25:56,520
Speaker 5: as we're talking about anal important and sex physicians, Erica's

571
00:25:56,520 --> 00:25:57,960
Speaker 5: stepdad is in the room.

572
00:25:59,440 --> 00:26:01,399
Speaker 2: I just want to make it's awkward for Eric. Thanks.

573
00:26:01,400 --> 00:26:04,040
Speaker 3: You don't think I know that I'm sound.

574
00:26:04,160 --> 00:26:05,679
Speaker 2: I'm actually sweating right.

575
00:26:05,520 --> 00:26:06,320
Speaker 3: Now a little bit.

576
00:26:06,840 --> 00:26:07,880
Speaker 6: Oh my god, I didn't know.

577
00:26:07,800 --> 00:26:10,359
Speaker 2: What the math on my mom is also like maybe

578
00:26:10,400 --> 00:26:12,000
Speaker 2: like four hundred yards away.

579
00:26:12,760 --> 00:26:13,680
Speaker 3: I pray to God you just.

580
00:26:14,080 --> 00:26:15,680
Speaker 6: What he's gonna tell you don't know?

581
00:26:15,760 --> 00:26:17,480
Speaker 2: As soon as you asked me, did do you macurbate?

582
00:26:17,520 --> 00:26:19,880
Speaker 6: Your mom walked in and I was like, here is.

583
00:26:21,400 --> 00:26:23,200
Speaker 5: Can you imagine what it was for him to grow

584
00:26:23,280 --> 00:26:24,040
Speaker 5: up with her as.

585
00:26:24,000 --> 00:26:25,480
Speaker 2: A teenager with me? Yeah?

586
00:26:25,480 --> 00:26:26,560
Speaker 3: It was a fucking saint?

587
00:26:27,359 --> 00:26:32,159
Speaker 6: Is that true? Let me turn the sound.

588
00:26:33,119 --> 00:26:35,600
Speaker 1: I am just I was just very What I wanted

589
00:26:35,720 --> 00:26:37,199
Speaker 1: was what I wanted, and I was going to do

590
00:26:37,240 --> 00:26:37,840
Speaker 1: it no matter what.

591
00:26:39,160 --> 00:26:39,639
Speaker 3: Very strong.

592
00:26:40,960 --> 00:26:44,200
Speaker 2: I'm also Sagittarius mood. So oh see, there I go.

593
00:26:44,840 --> 00:26:45,640
Speaker 3: Where that's the mom.

594
00:26:45,840 --> 00:26:48,320
Speaker 5: I'm a cancer and if I want it, I want it.

595
00:26:48,680 --> 00:26:50,320
Speaker 2: I'm going to get it or else I will kill you.

596
00:26:50,960 --> 00:26:53,200
Speaker 2: And if you don't want to.

597
00:26:55,240 --> 00:26:56,360
Speaker 6: Wait, what's your rising?

598
00:26:56,760 --> 00:26:57,680
Speaker 3: I'm a double scorpio.

599
00:26:57,760 --> 00:27:03,400
Speaker 6: Oh yes, what about you? What's your Leo moon?

600
00:27:03,600 --> 00:27:03,840
Speaker 4: Yeah?

601
00:27:03,880 --> 00:27:04,480
Speaker 2: And then my son?

602
00:27:04,600 --> 00:27:05,240
Speaker 3: That's nice.

603
00:27:05,640 --> 00:27:07,200
Speaker 2: I don't know what that labor means. I don't really

604
00:27:07,200 --> 00:27:08,200
Speaker 2: like labors that much.

605
00:27:08,040 --> 00:27:08,800
Speaker 3: So I'm confused.

606
00:27:09,680 --> 00:27:11,720
Speaker 5: And I'm also I'm in the cast, so I'm the

607
00:27:11,720 --> 00:27:14,520
Speaker 5: twenty second of June. So I'm Cancer and Gemini a

608
00:27:14,520 --> 00:27:16,800
Speaker 5: little bit of Gemini and Gemmis are already two people.

609
00:27:16,920 --> 00:27:18,080
Speaker 3: I have a lot of shit going on.

610
00:27:18,520 --> 00:27:21,200
Speaker 1: They're a lot crazy, but I'm actually very well balanced,

611
00:27:21,280 --> 00:27:21,520
Speaker 1: are you?

612
00:27:21,680 --> 00:27:23,640
Speaker 2: Yes? Okay, Yes, I'm rational.

613
00:27:23,880 --> 00:27:27,960
Speaker 5: I'm emotional and I'm rational. I'm fun and I'm serious

614
00:27:28,480 --> 00:27:29,879
Speaker 5: splash responsible a little bit.

615
00:27:31,640 --> 00:27:32,000
Speaker 3: It's fun.

616
00:27:32,000 --> 00:27:35,320
Speaker 2: I'm serious.

617
00:27:35,320 --> 00:27:35,720
Speaker 6: Serious.

618
00:27:36,600 --> 00:27:38,960
Speaker 2: People generally like me a lot. I don't smile all,

619
00:27:39,240 --> 00:27:40,080
Speaker 2: but when I do, I do.

620
00:27:41,320 --> 00:27:44,120
Speaker 5: I'm the most smiley friendly people like calm down, check

621
00:27:44,160 --> 00:27:44,600
Speaker 5: the fuck up?

622
00:27:44,600 --> 00:27:46,560
Speaker 3: Like who issue? She's way too perky, like.

623
00:27:46,800 --> 00:27:47,600
Speaker 2: You want to be friends.

624
00:27:48,760 --> 00:27:51,200
Speaker 1: Meanwhile, I'm just like, I don't think I love it.

625
00:27:51,320 --> 00:27:53,000
Speaker 6: I know you want one about I don't know if

626
00:27:53,000 --> 00:27:53,439
Speaker 6: she likes me.

627
00:27:53,520 --> 00:27:55,640
Speaker 2: You're like, hey, girls, she's a scorpio.

628
00:27:55,720 --> 00:27:58,520
Speaker 5: That's okay, yes, be I didn't have Erica liked me

629
00:27:58,560 --> 00:28:00,480
Speaker 5: like the first two years of her friendship, but she

630
00:28:00,600 --> 00:28:01,720
Speaker 5: kept asking a good places.

631
00:28:01,720 --> 00:28:03,879
Speaker 2: She's like, what's up cash for friends?

632
00:28:03,920 --> 00:28:04,480
Speaker 3: She likes me.

633
00:28:04,640 --> 00:28:06,520
Speaker 2: I think I always thought you were a cancer.

634
00:28:06,720 --> 00:28:07,680
Speaker 6: Oh really mm hmm.

635
00:28:08,000 --> 00:28:10,040
Speaker 2: You remind me of my cousin Brooke. Not you don't

636
00:28:10,040 --> 00:28:12,119
Speaker 2: look alike or nothing, but just like vibe wise. But

637
00:28:12,160 --> 00:28:14,520
Speaker 2: she's but it's a water sign and I think she

638
00:28:14,560 --> 00:28:17,040
Speaker 2: has like a scorpio. Rising I found out, I was like, mmm,

639
00:28:17,960 --> 00:28:20,520
Speaker 2: but I like that. Though I don't like like easy people,

640
00:28:20,840 --> 00:28:23,639
Speaker 2: I'm pretty easy, but like falsely like people are like

641
00:28:23,680 --> 00:28:25,720
Speaker 2: she loves me, and I'm like, hahi, I hate you.

642
00:28:27,000 --> 00:28:28,200
Speaker 6: I'm just really friendly.

643
00:28:28,560 --> 00:28:30,240
Speaker 2: But like I like people who aren't just like you

644
00:28:30,320 --> 00:28:33,600
Speaker 2: can't girl, I'll be like, yeah, that's too You guys

645
00:28:33,640 --> 00:28:36,720
Speaker 2: like me right, You're like, I'm very seen. I know

646
00:28:36,760 --> 00:28:38,520
Speaker 2: I met you. I'm like, let me take your baby. Thanks.

647
00:28:39,440 --> 00:28:41,560
Speaker 6: I like that. I had so much fun.

648
00:28:41,600 --> 00:28:43,400
Speaker 2: I love you guys, and everything you're doing let me

649
00:28:43,400 --> 00:28:46,520
Speaker 2: have my good mom's gush. So fun and I feel

650
00:28:46,520 --> 00:28:49,760
Speaker 2: like this is a great outlet for like fly single moms,

651
00:28:49,800 --> 00:28:51,680
Speaker 2: Like I love listening to the bag Yis.

652
00:28:52,440 --> 00:28:54,160
Speaker 6: I'm always crying what I do. For some reason.

653
00:28:54,200 --> 00:28:56,160
Speaker 2: I think it's just because I was still so fresh

654
00:28:56,240 --> 00:28:59,600
Speaker 2: in all the pain that I was like hearing anything

655
00:28:59,640 --> 00:29:00,280
Speaker 2: similar to it.

656
00:29:00,360 --> 00:29:02,200
Speaker 6: I was like, other people have been through this too.

657
00:29:02,200 --> 00:29:04,520
Speaker 2: Like when we had that single day mile link up

658
00:29:04,600 --> 00:29:08,480
Speaker 2: that was so fun. Yeah, And like meeting other moms

659
00:29:08,480 --> 00:29:10,520
Speaker 2: who were like, oh, yeah, I got dumped during my pregnancy,

660
00:29:10,720 --> 00:29:11,680
Speaker 2: just saying it all.

661
00:29:11,560 --> 00:29:13,280
Speaker 6: Willy nilly and they have like a ten year old

662
00:29:13,280 --> 00:29:15,120
Speaker 6: and they're over it. I was like, this is what

663
00:29:15,200 --> 00:29:15,760
Speaker 6: I need.

664
00:29:17,600 --> 00:29:21,000
Speaker 2: Hell yeah, hope and like snatchedness and fineness and like

665
00:29:21,240 --> 00:29:24,600
Speaker 2: new booze and stuff. I was like, I'll always be

666
00:29:24,680 --> 00:29:26,280
Speaker 2: using all these examples. I'm like, and they both had

667
00:29:26,280 --> 00:29:28,520
Speaker 2: a boyfriend, they both get kids, and fine, they both

668
00:29:28,560 --> 00:29:31,280
Speaker 2: have boyfriends. Well, it took a long while to get there,

669
00:29:31,360 --> 00:29:34,840
Speaker 2: but it's fine. But they're not too It's not easy though.

670
00:29:34,880 --> 00:29:36,800
Speaker 1: I have a boyfriend now and I'm like, h for real,

671
00:29:36,960 --> 00:29:39,640
Speaker 1: my shirt did I There's a lot of talking. It's

672
00:29:39,680 --> 00:29:42,120
Speaker 1: a lot of talking. It's a lot of emotions. It's

673
00:29:42,160 --> 00:29:44,000
Speaker 1: a lot of having to consider other people. And I

674
00:29:44,040 --> 00:29:47,080
Speaker 1: already have to consider a whole other, whole ass of

675
00:29:47,200 --> 00:29:50,160
Speaker 1: small human that I made and the person that's attached

676
00:29:50,200 --> 00:29:51,240
Speaker 1: to that person forever.

677
00:29:51,560 --> 00:29:53,320
Speaker 3: It's it's a lot. It's a lot.

678
00:29:53,400 --> 00:29:55,200
Speaker 6: It's a lot. We do a lot. I feel like

679
00:29:55,200 --> 00:29:56,120
Speaker 6: we deserve an award.

680
00:29:56,200 --> 00:29:57,200
Speaker 3: We really do every day.

681
00:29:57,280 --> 00:29:59,840
Speaker 2: We're like top not I'll be like people who are

682
00:29:59,840 --> 00:30:01,480
Speaker 2: my especially single moms.

683
00:30:01,520 --> 00:30:03,640
Speaker 6: I'm like, I'm superior as motherfuckers.

684
00:30:04,280 --> 00:30:04,400
Speaker 2: Right.

685
00:30:04,520 --> 00:30:07,320
Speaker 6: I do a lot and I'll still be booking jobs.

686
00:30:07,360 --> 00:30:08,800
Speaker 6: I'm like, you spell.

687
00:30:08,600 --> 00:30:11,520
Speaker 2: Down this and how do you balance all that?

688
00:30:11,560 --> 00:30:15,160
Speaker 1: Like, how do you balance like motherhood, working like my

689
00:30:15,200 --> 00:30:18,800
Speaker 1: shooting long hours like I mean, and having time to

690
00:30:18,840 --> 00:30:20,840
Speaker 1: also because as an actor, like you would need time

691
00:30:20,920 --> 00:30:23,440
Speaker 1: to yourself, time to get into your character and do

692
00:30:23,480 --> 00:30:24,120
Speaker 1: a right.

693
00:30:24,280 --> 00:30:26,239
Speaker 6: I don't even know. I just be doing it.

694
00:30:26,280 --> 00:30:28,840
Speaker 2: I mean, luckily, since it is acting, I don't work

695
00:30:28,880 --> 00:30:31,400
Speaker 2: that much. So for the most part, I'm a weird

696
00:30:31,520 --> 00:30:34,560
Speaker 2: stay at home mom. Not by choice because I don't

697
00:30:34,560 --> 00:30:36,920
Speaker 2: have like a regular right like nine for two months

698
00:30:36,960 --> 00:30:38,479
Speaker 2: and then you're done, and then I'm done for like

699
00:30:38,520 --> 00:30:40,880
Speaker 2: a year, like the pandemic there was nothing going on

700
00:30:41,040 --> 00:30:42,760
Speaker 2: or like you know, just as a black actress, I'm

701
00:30:42,800 --> 00:30:46,600
Speaker 2: not always working, but like when I do, we pull

702
00:30:46,600 --> 00:30:47,040
Speaker 2: it together.

703
00:30:47,200 --> 00:30:50,280
Speaker 6: Thank goodness. I have my nanny Blair, who's awesome and.

704
00:30:50,640 --> 00:30:53,320
Speaker 2: Blair, Yeah, shout out to the Blair tribe.

705
00:30:53,040 --> 00:30:54,720
Speaker 3: Is crucial, so crucial.

706
00:30:54,840 --> 00:30:58,040
Speaker 2: My mom lives here, so I my mom. But yeah,

707
00:30:58,120 --> 00:31:01,560
Speaker 2: we like it's been working out luckily. Like there was

708
00:31:01,600 --> 00:31:04,200
Speaker 2: one time when me and my child's father were still

709
00:31:04,240 --> 00:31:06,760
Speaker 2: together and we both booked jobs that shot in New York,

710
00:31:07,120 --> 00:31:08,680
Speaker 2: so we like both were in New York at the

711
00:31:08,720 --> 00:31:10,680
Speaker 2: same time, and we hired a nanny there and like

712
00:31:10,760 --> 00:31:13,640
Speaker 2: did that. It's just been like slowly working out step

713
00:31:13,680 --> 00:31:15,840
Speaker 2: by step, and like he works out of town all

714
00:31:15,840 --> 00:31:19,000
Speaker 2: the time, so I'm constantly here alone with her. But

715
00:31:19,200 --> 00:31:21,120
Speaker 2: all the work I've gotten in the past few years

716
00:31:21,120 --> 00:31:24,200
Speaker 2: has been in La so like just by the grace

717
00:31:24,240 --> 00:31:26,600
Speaker 2: of God, It's like, oh, okay, I'm literally working here,

718
00:31:26,720 --> 00:31:28,360
Speaker 2: so I don't have to do that much. It's not

719
00:31:28,400 --> 00:31:31,360
Speaker 2: like I have to be yes, girl, I'm already tipsy. Ps.

720
00:31:32,440 --> 00:31:34,600
Speaker 2: We like to drink on an empty stock is my

721
00:31:34,680 --> 00:31:38,680
Speaker 2: favorite hobby, drinking on an empty.

722
00:31:37,320 --> 00:31:39,440
Speaker 3: And Monday at noon and we like to drink on

723
00:31:39,440 --> 00:31:43,760
Speaker 3: an empty stomach. Oh, just everybody at home knows your.

724
00:31:43,600 --> 00:31:46,560
Speaker 2: Baby daddy is also an actor. He is. He's black

725
00:31:46,600 --> 00:31:54,240
Speaker 2: after Excellent, the famous movie star standing the movie. He's good.

726
00:31:54,240 --> 00:31:55,560
Speaker 6: Thought, at least he's good, and.

727
00:31:59,440 --> 00:32:01,239
Speaker 2: If he wasn't, it would be nice to shoot on him.

728
00:32:01,720 --> 00:32:03,280
Speaker 2: What at least he's good, But at.

729
00:32:03,200 --> 00:32:05,200
Speaker 5: Least he's good, because then, like you, like, your baby

730
00:32:05,200 --> 00:32:05,400
Speaker 5: has so.

731
00:32:05,440 --> 00:32:09,080
Speaker 6: Much right, she's nuts like both of us, and that's good.

732
00:32:09,120 --> 00:32:11,120
Speaker 2: He's cute too. That'd be the problem.

733
00:32:11,160 --> 00:32:13,760
Speaker 6: I'd be like, why you gotta be so whatever?

734
00:32:13,840 --> 00:32:18,000
Speaker 2: You'd be like gay out of my house. It's a finance.

735
00:32:18,080 --> 00:32:20,960
Speaker 2: I hate don't you hate that? I want to hear

736
00:32:21,000 --> 00:32:22,600
Speaker 2: you so fine? I hate you?

737
00:32:22,600 --> 00:32:23,479
Speaker 3: Why do you still look good?

738
00:32:23,520 --> 00:32:24,160
Speaker 6: Get the fuck out?

739
00:32:24,440 --> 00:32:26,880
Speaker 2: Are you doing hurt me? And be fine?

740
00:32:28,000 --> 00:32:28,760
Speaker 3: It isn't great.

741
00:32:28,760 --> 00:32:30,080
Speaker 2: It's always a great day when you do see your

742
00:32:30,080 --> 00:32:32,520
Speaker 2: baby daddy and it looks like sh right, You're like

743
00:32:32,600 --> 00:32:34,080
Speaker 2: I been so cool and you're like.

744
00:32:34,160 --> 00:32:35,800
Speaker 3: You really looking trash yesterday.

745
00:32:36,440 --> 00:32:39,040
Speaker 1: Don't want to wait together, you don't want to work

746
00:32:39,080 --> 00:32:41,800
Speaker 1: out clean under your goddamn fingernails.

747
00:32:41,960 --> 00:32:43,840
Speaker 2: I know I love that too, when i'd be like

748
00:32:44,040 --> 00:32:47,760
Speaker 2: looking at the tie and the rest, just rest and

749
00:32:47,800 --> 00:32:50,040
Speaker 2: stop meeting all them girls' just some rest?

750
00:32:53,680 --> 00:32:56,160
Speaker 5: How I want to know, because obviously this is like

751
00:32:56,240 --> 00:32:58,120
Speaker 5: a baby mama show, not really, but you know what

752
00:32:58,160 --> 00:33:01,239
Speaker 5: I mean, it's a bunch of baby mamas. But I think, like,

753
00:33:01,680 --> 00:33:04,040
Speaker 5: just like you're talking about seeing us in our stage

754
00:33:04,080 --> 00:33:06,560
Speaker 5: of single them and like navigating that. I think when

755
00:33:06,560 --> 00:33:09,080
Speaker 5: you become first a single mom, there's all this panic

756
00:33:09,120 --> 00:33:10,320
Speaker 5: and it's like, how am I gonna.

757
00:33:10,080 --> 00:33:11,960
Speaker 2: Ever live again? How I'm ever gonna go on a date?

758
00:33:12,400 --> 00:33:12,920
Speaker 6: You know what I mean?

759
00:33:12,960 --> 00:33:14,680
Speaker 5: And then you get two free and being single and

760
00:33:14,680 --> 00:33:16,480
Speaker 5: being you're like, I'll never be in a relationship again.

761
00:33:16,560 --> 00:33:19,160
Speaker 2: Fuck everybody. He gets her on the weekends.

762
00:33:19,480 --> 00:33:23,840
Speaker 5: But I think it also like eight the three, the adjustment,

763
00:33:24,520 --> 00:33:27,600
Speaker 5: It always relates kind of to at what point did

764
00:33:27,640 --> 00:33:29,600
Speaker 5: you break up? So, like, was it in pregnancy?

765
00:33:29,720 --> 00:33:31,600
Speaker 2: Was it one? Was it two? Cause you're still you're

766
00:33:31,640 --> 00:33:34,840
Speaker 2: just three. So yeah, she's okay. So we were broken

767
00:33:34,920 --> 00:33:36,800
Speaker 2: up right before I found out I got pregnant, but

768
00:33:36,840 --> 00:33:38,920
Speaker 2: we never changed our behavior. We were broken up, but

769
00:33:38,960 --> 00:33:42,560
Speaker 2: we were still fucking and hanging out and loving and

770
00:33:42,560 --> 00:33:45,280
Speaker 2: looking at these other's face, giving each other, looking in

771
00:33:45,280 --> 00:33:46,360
Speaker 2: your souls.

772
00:33:45,920 --> 00:33:49,880
Speaker 6: And shit, and now we'll go. That went off and on.

773
00:33:49,960 --> 00:33:53,080
Speaker 2: Until a couple a couple of months ago.

774
00:33:53,720 --> 00:33:54,880
Speaker 6: I kept I would get cool.

775
00:33:54,960 --> 00:33:56,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, you gave me some great advice. You

776
00:33:56,520 --> 00:33:58,440
Speaker 2: were like cut it off. You were like, you got

777
00:33:58,440 --> 00:34:00,920
Speaker 2: to cut it off. You can cut out a queen,

778
00:34:01,080 --> 00:34:03,040
Speaker 2: which is it's not always that easy. I don't know

779
00:34:03,080 --> 00:34:04,520
Speaker 2: how the fuck this scorpio.

780
00:34:04,120 --> 00:34:05,440
Speaker 6: Bitch so freaking good at it.

781
00:34:05,600 --> 00:34:06,360
Speaker 2: She's really good.

782
00:34:06,400 --> 00:34:07,840
Speaker 5: I'm still happy to just be enjoining my one other

783
00:34:07,880 --> 00:34:10,280
Speaker 5: person that's not the I'm the worst because I constantly

784
00:34:10,280 --> 00:34:11,640
Speaker 5: I'm feeling like the wake bag sure of the two

785
00:34:11,680 --> 00:34:12,880
Speaker 5: of us, like shock, I'm so.

786
00:34:12,920 --> 00:34:17,520
Speaker 2: Weak, right, I would do this right, Yeah, like even

787
00:34:17,600 --> 00:34:20,200
Speaker 2: during the pandemic or like in the last like year,

788
00:34:20,560 --> 00:34:23,359
Speaker 2: I know that we're not together and I know he's

789
00:34:23,360 --> 00:34:26,239
Speaker 2: doing his thing, but I'll still find myself over there,

790
00:34:26,280 --> 00:34:29,680
Speaker 2: breaking my boundaries less than before, not all the time,

791
00:34:29,719 --> 00:34:31,239
Speaker 2: and I won't go as far. The last time that

792
00:34:31,280 --> 00:34:33,520
Speaker 2: we were like together together was like twenty eighteen. We

793
00:34:33,680 --> 00:34:36,600
Speaker 2: like moved in together and like got a house and

794
00:34:36,680 --> 00:34:37,239
Speaker 2: dah da da da.

795
00:34:37,320 --> 00:34:38,600
Speaker 6: When I was trying to do the open.

796
00:34:38,360 --> 00:34:40,200
Speaker 2: Relationship thing, I was like, Okay, you can do his thing,

797
00:34:40,280 --> 00:34:43,680
Speaker 2: but I'll be here. But it was like so disrespectful.

798
00:34:43,719 --> 00:34:46,120
Speaker 6: Oh god, Like I do't be like sleep. I'm like

799
00:34:46,160 --> 00:34:47,880
Speaker 6: good night and like go to sleep. And I'm like,

800
00:34:47,880 --> 00:34:50,719
Speaker 6: oh my, he's like leaving out. No, you can fax

801
00:34:50,800 --> 00:34:51,560
Speaker 6: niggas an inch.

802
00:34:51,680 --> 00:34:56,440
Speaker 2: They take fourteen miles. He's like, what was open? I'm like,

803
00:34:56,520 --> 00:34:58,239
Speaker 2: but no, Like I feel like a care of close

804
00:34:58,360 --> 00:35:01,160
Speaker 2: my eyes without you, like even out to go stick

805
00:35:01,160 --> 00:35:01,640
Speaker 2: it somewhere.

806
00:35:01,640 --> 00:35:02,760
Speaker 3: O god.

807
00:35:03,000 --> 00:35:06,239
Speaker 2: But yeah. But yeah, so in the last like a

808
00:35:06,360 --> 00:35:08,920
Speaker 2: few months, really the pandemic helped. I really got my

809
00:35:08,960 --> 00:35:11,440
Speaker 2: boundaries on lock and just kind of knowing what it is.

810
00:35:12,320 --> 00:35:16,760
Speaker 2: Still love him honestly, yeah, never stop.

811
00:35:17,880 --> 00:35:18,960
Speaker 6: Yeah it occurs.

812
00:35:19,040 --> 00:35:21,319
Speaker 2: Yeah, I still love him, still full attracted to him

813
00:35:21,360 --> 00:35:22,399
Speaker 2: and stuff, but just.

814
00:35:22,680 --> 00:35:25,240
Speaker 6: You know, taking it one day time.

815
00:35:25,600 --> 00:35:29,040
Speaker 2: I'm proud of you. Thank you. And it is practice.

816
00:35:29,239 --> 00:35:30,720
Speaker 3: I fucked up often.

817
00:35:30,920 --> 00:35:32,480
Speaker 2: I lost my boyfriend.

818
00:35:32,760 --> 00:35:35,320
Speaker 5: And you know, and because it just it is because

819
00:35:35,320 --> 00:35:38,520
Speaker 5: it's residual. It takes time, you know, it takes time.

820
00:35:38,560 --> 00:35:40,560
Speaker 5: And I think once you birth the person from your

821
00:35:40,640 --> 00:35:45,120
Speaker 5: vagina and the other person's connected to that person or

822
00:35:45,680 --> 00:35:52,040
Speaker 5: behave see a section baby, yeah whatever, you've carried a baby.

823
00:35:51,000 --> 00:35:53,360
Speaker 2: Yah, you carried the baby.

824
00:35:54,000 --> 00:35:57,680
Speaker 5: It is really hard to like unsink your teeth from

825
00:35:57,680 --> 00:36:00,799
Speaker 5: a nigga, you know, like it's really hard saying like

826
00:36:01,480 --> 00:36:04,400
Speaker 5: society makes it seem like you once you make with

827
00:36:04,440 --> 00:36:06,080
Speaker 5: someone and have a fucking baby, you can never they

828
00:36:06,120 --> 00:36:08,400
Speaker 5: can never leave you supposed to a white picket fence immediately,

829
00:36:08,400 --> 00:36:10,239
Speaker 5: they're supposed to fucking act right, and then they don't.

830
00:36:10,280 --> 00:36:13,600
Speaker 6: And then you're like, oh no, and so you're a failure.

831
00:36:13,719 --> 00:36:17,759
Speaker 2: Yeah. And it's even worse when it's like everyone on

832
00:36:17,800 --> 00:36:20,439
Speaker 2: Twitter and stuff, they're like, you're so lucky. I can't

833
00:36:20,440 --> 00:36:22,480
Speaker 2: believe you had the Keith Stanfield's dick inside you.

834
00:36:22,600 --> 00:36:24,080
Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm so lucky.

835
00:36:24,239 --> 00:36:26,319
Speaker 2: You're like, I'm like, shut up, it's not that I'm

836
00:36:26,360 --> 00:36:27,400
Speaker 2: like he's lucky.

837
00:36:28,040 --> 00:36:31,080
Speaker 6: It's so sexist. It's so freaking sexist to me.

838
00:36:31,239 --> 00:36:33,160
Speaker 2: Like you don't see me over here doing stuff, right,

839
00:36:33,200 --> 00:36:37,000
Speaker 2: I'm like yeah, And they're like it's crazy because he's

840
00:36:37,040 --> 00:36:39,799
Speaker 2: actually the person who like supports me the most through that,

841
00:36:40,200 --> 00:36:42,120
Speaker 2: Like he's really helpful with that. He'd be like these

842
00:36:42,120 --> 00:36:44,719
Speaker 2: people are nuts, they don't know anything. You're the shit.

843
00:36:45,360 --> 00:36:47,480
Speaker 2: Cut it off, like you know, Like he's very like

844
00:36:48,000 --> 00:36:49,440
Speaker 2: he gets me back down to earth when it comes

845
00:36:49,480 --> 00:36:52,239
Speaker 2: to that, because sometimes he's just too famous, or like

846
00:36:52,280 --> 00:36:54,120
Speaker 2: when he has a trailer that drops or something that's

847
00:36:54,120 --> 00:36:57,239
Speaker 2: always an annoying day. Yeah, everyone is tagging you, yeah,

848
00:36:58,440 --> 00:37:01,640
Speaker 2: how you feel or they're like oh, and I'm like god,

849
00:37:01,800 --> 00:37:03,480
Speaker 2: and it ends up being like a weird day for me.

850
00:37:03,520 --> 00:37:05,160
Speaker 2: But he's always like it's okay, No, it's a hard

851
00:37:05,200 --> 00:37:05,880
Speaker 2: day for you.

852
00:37:06,040 --> 00:37:06,640
Speaker 6: Hang in there.

853
00:37:06,880 --> 00:37:09,120
Speaker 2: I like more than one on one relationship than like

854
00:37:09,160 --> 00:37:11,920
Speaker 2: the public the public one. Yeah, the one on one

855
00:37:11,920 --> 00:37:14,279
Speaker 2: He's all right, yeah, like the public one is like

856
00:37:14,320 --> 00:37:18,120
Speaker 2: so annoying. Actually just deactivated my Instagram, yeah, which was

857
00:37:18,160 --> 00:37:21,399
Speaker 2: it's self care ten days self care. Yes, I'm still

858
00:37:21,400 --> 00:37:23,160
Speaker 2: on Twitter because that's fun. I feel like Twitter is

859
00:37:23,200 --> 00:37:24,200
Speaker 2: the thinking man's app.

860
00:37:24,400 --> 00:37:26,040
Speaker 6: Oh god, that's a lot about us.

861
00:37:26,320 --> 00:37:27,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, I can't figure it out.

862
00:37:27,920 --> 00:37:28,480
Speaker 6: Oh my god.

863
00:37:28,600 --> 00:37:30,560
Speaker 2: I love Twitter, though, I think because I'll be doing comedy.

864
00:37:30,600 --> 00:37:33,160
Speaker 2: I'm like a comedian, Like it's a place to just

865
00:37:33,200 --> 00:37:35,600
Speaker 2: be funny and like riff and be stupid and I

866
00:37:35,640 --> 00:37:39,359
Speaker 2: can like make these jokes about like being his baby mom,

867
00:37:39,480 --> 00:37:41,440
Speaker 2: like you know, and people will like laugh and actually

868
00:37:41,520 --> 00:37:44,200
Speaker 2: get it, Whereas on Instagram, I take it so serious.

869
00:37:44,400 --> 00:37:47,320
Speaker 2: I take it so serious. Instagram constantly makes me feel

870
00:37:47,360 --> 00:37:50,239
Speaker 2: old or like I don't take good enough pictures, and

871
00:37:50,280 --> 00:37:53,279
Speaker 2: I'm like, I feel more popping in my body than

872
00:37:53,280 --> 00:37:56,440
Speaker 2: I do on the ground. Yeah, I'm like, my.

873
00:37:56,400 --> 00:37:57,080
Speaker 6: Words are dope.

874
00:37:57,120 --> 00:37:58,600
Speaker 2: A lot of these little like girls who are like

875
00:37:59,200 --> 00:38:01,000
Speaker 2: they ain't gonna word. That's scary.

876
00:38:01,000 --> 00:38:01,959
Speaker 3: You don't want to bitch with nowhere.

877
00:38:02,040 --> 00:38:04,759
Speaker 6: Yeah, this is a yeah. I'm like, if you're not born.

878
00:38:04,840 --> 00:38:08,440
Speaker 2: The headache, oh my god, the headache, the headache with

879
00:38:08,480 --> 00:38:09,560
Speaker 2: the list and those that.

880
00:38:09,560 --> 00:38:13,439
Speaker 5: Fucking slug lip, that top lip that everyone's getting big.

881
00:38:14,239 --> 00:38:16,000
Speaker 2: I know, there's so many ways to feel bad about

882
00:38:16,040 --> 00:38:17,040
Speaker 2: yourself on Instagram.

883
00:38:17,120 --> 00:38:18,319
Speaker 6: Sometimes I don't feel earthy enough.

884
00:38:18,320 --> 00:38:20,239
Speaker 2: I'm like, go, I need to have arm pitchures. Or

885
00:38:20,320 --> 00:38:22,960
Speaker 2: sometimes I don't feel snatched enough. I need to you know,

886
00:38:23,080 --> 00:38:25,480
Speaker 2: or I don't feel light enough or dark enough or

887
00:38:25,840 --> 00:38:27,080
Speaker 2: natural enough or not.

888
00:38:27,280 --> 00:38:28,320
Speaker 6: I'm like, what the hell?

889
00:38:28,640 --> 00:38:32,440
Speaker 2: This is just like comparison central, And I think it's.

890
00:38:32,280 --> 00:38:35,160
Speaker 1: Really important to like get off of there and find out,

891
00:38:35,280 --> 00:38:37,919
Speaker 1: like and really tap into yourself and try to figure out, Okay,

892
00:38:37,920 --> 00:38:39,560
Speaker 1: what is it that I actually love about myself?

893
00:38:39,840 --> 00:38:42,720
Speaker 3: What does sexuality mean to me? What do I actually enjoy?

894
00:38:42,840 --> 00:38:44,920
Speaker 1: And even in like sex and like watching porn two

895
00:38:44,960 --> 00:38:47,040
Speaker 1: can be really confusing too, Like people who watch too

896
00:38:47,120 --> 00:38:50,320
Speaker 1: much porn am I, in my opinion obviously have unrealistic

897
00:38:50,360 --> 00:38:54,520
Speaker 1: expectations of sex sometimes and even like I mean, it's

898
00:38:54,560 --> 00:38:58,320
Speaker 1: just so much negativity, Like every time I look on Instagram,

899
00:38:58,320 --> 00:39:01,400
Speaker 1: we're seeing another black person being killed, and like, of course.

900
00:39:01,320 --> 00:39:02,640
Speaker 3: I want to be in the know.

901
00:39:02,800 --> 00:39:05,040
Speaker 1: I want to know what's happening, and I want to.

902
00:39:04,960 --> 00:39:06,319
Speaker 3: Be you know, do I need to see it.

903
00:39:06,760 --> 00:39:08,719
Speaker 1: I want to be like educated, I want to be

904
00:39:08,880 --> 00:39:11,560
Speaker 1: like I want to be able to contribute in some way.

905
00:39:12,000 --> 00:39:14,719
Speaker 1: But it's emotionally draining, and especially us as parents, like

906
00:39:14,719 --> 00:39:16,319
Speaker 1: I don't know about you, like as a black mom

907
00:39:16,360 --> 00:39:19,760
Speaker 1: who has a daughter, and even a black and has

908
00:39:19,880 --> 00:39:22,040
Speaker 1: a black you know, the father of your child is

909
00:39:22,040 --> 00:39:26,279
Speaker 1: black too, like worrying about him content, Yeah, they're gonna

910
00:39:26,280 --> 00:39:26,759
Speaker 1: get him.

911
00:39:26,960 --> 00:39:29,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, it just gets so heavy.

912
00:39:29,600 --> 00:39:32,399
Speaker 6: It's a lot. It's a lot. So far, so good though.

913
00:39:32,560 --> 00:39:34,359
Speaker 2: On the deactivation, I've had a couple of people call

914
00:39:34,480 --> 00:39:37,200
Speaker 2: me like are you okay, And I'm like, yeah, okay,

915
00:39:37,360 --> 00:39:39,640
Speaker 2: I just deactivated. But I think they're like, when you

916
00:39:39,719 --> 00:39:42,440
Speaker 2: go on and you look for someone's faces deactivated, it

917
00:39:42,440 --> 00:39:44,200
Speaker 2: looks like you're blocked. So I think some people.

918
00:39:43,920 --> 00:39:45,120
Speaker 3: Are like, I'm not blocked.

919
00:39:45,160 --> 00:39:46,640
Speaker 6: I'm like, girl, no, I.

920
00:39:46,800 --> 00:39:50,080
Speaker 2: Just shut the whole shit down. Anytime, if I'm going

921
00:39:50,120 --> 00:39:53,120
Speaker 2: through Instagram and my chest goes like this tight, I

922
00:39:53,160 --> 00:39:55,000
Speaker 2: delete that ac Like, I'm like, I cannot be out

923
00:39:55,080 --> 00:39:59,160
Speaker 2: here having physical responses to Instagram. Like I think I

924
00:39:59,200 --> 00:40:01,759
Speaker 2: heard Easter Race something like She's like, if if the

925
00:40:01,800 --> 00:40:03,920
Speaker 2: problem is something that you could just like turn your

926
00:40:03,920 --> 00:40:05,680
Speaker 2: phone off and it's not a problem anymore, it's not

927
00:40:05,719 --> 00:40:08,440
Speaker 2: a real problem. So so much of my problems come

928
00:40:08,440 --> 00:40:09,840
Speaker 2: from Instagram, whereas like, you're.

929
00:40:09,680 --> 00:40:12,439
Speaker 6: Real, I'm like, I'm actually chore and everything's fine. Yeah.

930
00:40:12,600 --> 00:40:16,040
Speaker 1: I think even like deleting people that trigger you like

931
00:40:16,200 --> 00:40:18,600
Speaker 1: and it doesn't mean like they're a bad person or

932
00:40:18,640 --> 00:40:21,080
Speaker 1: like I've looked at pages where I'm like, yeah, like

933
00:40:21,400 --> 00:40:23,520
Speaker 1: I whenever I look at your page, something makes me

934
00:40:23,560 --> 00:40:26,480
Speaker 1: feel not good, great and shy, and it's not your fault,

935
00:40:26,560 --> 00:40:29,640
Speaker 1: but I'm gonna delete you because what I see. You know,

936
00:40:30,000 --> 00:40:32,360
Speaker 1: we're so influenced by what we see is our intake

937
00:40:32,640 --> 00:40:34,879
Speaker 1: and vice versa. Like too, I feel like, if you

938
00:40:34,960 --> 00:40:37,440
Speaker 1: are looking on my page and you're triggered by anything

939
00:40:37,440 --> 00:40:40,160
Speaker 1: in my life or whatever you suppose is my life,

940
00:40:40,239 --> 00:40:42,480
Speaker 1: delete me, delete me too, Like.

941
00:40:42,440 --> 00:40:43,120
Speaker 2: I don't give a fuck.

942
00:40:43,160 --> 00:40:44,759
Speaker 1: I'm not one of those bitches that like has that

943
00:40:44,840 --> 00:40:46,440
Speaker 1: app where I find out like you deleted.

944
00:40:47,000 --> 00:40:49,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, I do mute if it's like a real person

945
00:40:49,480 --> 00:40:50,320
Speaker 2: who I'm like, I don't want.

946
00:40:50,160 --> 00:40:50,800
Speaker 6: To follow you.

947
00:40:50,880 --> 00:40:52,879
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm I'm a muter.

948
00:40:54,080 --> 00:40:57,040
Speaker 2: I can't do the perfect moms, like the perfect moms,

949
00:40:57,239 --> 00:41:00,560
Speaker 2: and even like the dope ones who are like cool

950
00:41:00,600 --> 00:41:03,520
Speaker 2: and not perfect, but they're like pictures are yeah, all

951
00:41:03,520 --> 00:41:05,560
Speaker 2: the pictures of perfect or they like move with ease

952
00:41:05,600 --> 00:41:07,440
Speaker 2: with their kids, like we wait and got lunch today,

953
00:41:07,640 --> 00:41:10,040
Speaker 2: and I'm like, damn, And if I go to a restaurant,

954
00:41:10,040 --> 00:41:14,279
Speaker 2: I feel frustrated the whole time lunch. I'm irritated or

955
00:41:14,480 --> 00:41:17,360
Speaker 2: like are the ones who are like, yeah, there's a

956
00:41:17,400 --> 00:41:20,600
Speaker 2: few like yeah, like a few that I'm thinking of specifically,

957
00:41:20,600 --> 00:41:23,640
Speaker 2: so let me be chill, And they're like really nice and

958
00:41:23,800 --> 00:41:25,400
Speaker 2: blah blah talk about that.

959
00:41:25,800 --> 00:41:27,080
Speaker 6: Yeah, but I'd be like, I.

960
00:41:27,040 --> 00:41:29,480
Speaker 2: Can't look at you, sus you too, like I don't know, like,

961
00:41:29,560 --> 00:41:32,359
Speaker 2: don't nobody got an angle problem, don't nobody fly off

962
00:41:32,360 --> 00:41:34,600
Speaker 2: and no one has rage over there, nobody got rage.

963
00:41:34,800 --> 00:41:37,040
Speaker 6: Anybody punch walls? Just me cool.

964
00:41:37,239 --> 00:41:38,440
Speaker 2: That's how I've been like a lately.

965
00:41:38,440 --> 00:41:41,160
Speaker 6: I'm like all of my bad traits are so masculine.

966
00:41:41,239 --> 00:41:43,480
Speaker 2: If I was a dude, it'd be fine. Like girls

967
00:41:43,520 --> 00:41:45,600
Speaker 2: like girl negative traits who like she never speaks up

968
00:41:45,600 --> 00:41:49,400
Speaker 2: for herself, she lets everyone walk all over her and

969
00:41:49,480 --> 00:41:52,160
Speaker 2: mind her like she flies off the handle, like she

970
00:41:52,239 --> 00:41:53,040
Speaker 2: goes nuts.

971
00:41:53,520 --> 00:41:55,680
Speaker 5: I never thought about that, Like your traits being like

972
00:41:55,800 --> 00:42:01,359
Speaker 5: masculine or feminine, Oh my god, totally have masculine when

973
00:42:01,400 --> 00:42:03,520
Speaker 5: it like I have masculine energy, I think, and then

974
00:42:03,520 --> 00:42:04,120
Speaker 5: that comes off.

975
00:42:04,200 --> 00:42:05,440
Speaker 3: People don't know how to take that.

976
00:42:05,480 --> 00:42:07,759
Speaker 2: Well me too, I'm like a boy, like I'm a

977
00:42:07,920 --> 00:42:09,080
Speaker 2: whole stood out here.

978
00:42:09,040 --> 00:42:13,000
Speaker 5: Like a tendencies. But when I choot on my boyfriend,

979
00:42:13,560 --> 00:42:15,520
Speaker 5: I was like, I know I have magad tendencies.

980
00:42:15,520 --> 00:42:16,640
Speaker 3: It has nothing to do with you.

981
00:42:17,000 --> 00:42:19,400
Speaker 2: And you're like, sorry, I'm sorry. He's like you you

982
00:42:19,440 --> 00:42:22,560
Speaker 2: are you do the petite nigga.

983
00:42:22,760 --> 00:42:26,120
Speaker 1: I even I even beg to like challenge that, because

984
00:42:26,120 --> 00:42:28,560
Speaker 1: why are we assigning cheating to just men? Because women

985
00:42:28,600 --> 00:42:30,480
Speaker 1: do it too, So I don't think it's a.

986
00:42:30,840 --> 00:42:33,160
Speaker 3: I didn't have a good reason. I had no reason.

987
00:42:33,239 --> 00:42:33,880
Speaker 2: What was your reason?

988
00:42:33,880 --> 00:42:34,480
Speaker 6: He was bored?

989
00:42:34,640 --> 00:42:35,360
Speaker 3: It was easy.

990
00:42:35,520 --> 00:42:41,840
Speaker 6: Oh that's a very mad reason. It's easy.

991
00:42:41,840 --> 00:42:42,680
Speaker 2: He was available.

992
00:42:43,560 --> 00:42:46,120
Speaker 5: Said persons may have had big dicks.

993
00:42:46,840 --> 00:42:47,319
Speaker 6: I don't know.

994
00:42:47,440 --> 00:42:51,640
Speaker 2: It's just not any big dicks. He has big dicks.

995
00:42:52,520 --> 00:42:54,040
Speaker 5: Didn't you say you had a spontaneous weekend?

996
00:42:54,080 --> 00:42:57,200
Speaker 6: Oh my god, I'm so excited to tell y'all. I

997
00:42:57,239 --> 00:42:57,800
Speaker 6: was so excited.

998
00:42:57,840 --> 00:43:00,759
Speaker 2: Okay, so this is what was going on. Okay, my

999
00:43:00,800 --> 00:43:03,399
Speaker 2: mom got surgery like two weeks ago, so the week

1000
00:43:03,520 --> 00:43:05,399
Speaker 2: before because she's like, you know, can't do too much

1001
00:43:05,440 --> 00:43:07,840
Speaker 2: after the week before her surgery, she kept Saturn for

1002
00:43:07,880 --> 00:43:09,799
Speaker 2: the weekend because her Saturn's dad is out of town

1003
00:43:09,800 --> 00:43:14,759
Speaker 2: till like December or something, so Saturn whatever, thank you,

1004
00:43:14,800 --> 00:43:19,200
Speaker 2: My daughter forty was over there, and it's actually okay,

1005
00:43:19,200 --> 00:43:20,000
Speaker 2: he ain't gonna watch this.

1006
00:43:20,880 --> 00:43:24,719
Speaker 6: Okay, yes I know, but he don't know. He don't

1007
00:43:24,719 --> 00:43:25,840
Speaker 6: even know who Harrison Ford is.

1008
00:43:26,640 --> 00:43:30,719
Speaker 2: He's like, no, that's my old white man crushed. So

1009
00:43:30,760 --> 00:43:33,480
Speaker 2: I was by myself and home having a good time,

1010
00:43:33,600 --> 00:43:35,880
Speaker 2: and I have been talking to this guy on Riyah,

1011
00:43:36,600 --> 00:43:39,640
Speaker 2: like right, Rya Brian never worked, so she has her

1012
00:43:39,640 --> 00:43:42,680
Speaker 2: own beefs because they didn't let her on. Racist If

1013
00:43:42,760 --> 00:43:44,480
Speaker 2: I know that they racist, I know that.

1014
00:43:44,880 --> 00:43:45,200
Speaker 6: Yeah, I know.

1015
00:43:45,280 --> 00:43:48,680
Speaker 2: I've given friend passes to like multiple black homegirls who

1016
00:43:48,719 --> 00:43:51,120
Speaker 2: like are popping with like Matt because it's all about

1017
00:43:51,160 --> 00:43:53,120
Speaker 2: like blue checks or it's all about like if you

1018
00:43:53,160 --> 00:43:55,080
Speaker 2: don't have a blue check, if you have blue checks

1019
00:43:55,120 --> 00:43:59,200
Speaker 2: following you. Oh. One of my friends, literally, Hailey Bieber,

1020
00:43:59,360 --> 00:43:59,840
Speaker 2: follows her.

1021
00:44:00,040 --> 00:44:00,839
Speaker 6: She couldn't get on the right.

1022
00:44:01,040 --> 00:44:06,480
Speaker 2: Yes, yeah it's Haley. I follow from white girl right,

1023
00:44:07,320 --> 00:44:10,120
Speaker 2: she's married to the King of Why. But so anyway,

1024
00:44:10,160 --> 00:44:11,880
Speaker 2: so I was talking to this guy on there, and

1025
00:44:11,920 --> 00:44:14,000
Speaker 2: so we ended up face timing and it was like

1026
00:44:14,080 --> 00:44:17,080
Speaker 2: eleven maybe ten eleven, and like, like I said, I'm

1027
00:44:17,080 --> 00:44:19,520
Speaker 2: a double sad. So like spontaneity is everything to me.

1028
00:44:19,560 --> 00:44:21,239
Speaker 2: I love to just like make a move right, and

1029
00:44:21,280 --> 00:44:23,200
Speaker 2: I haven't ever do done so long? So I was like,

1030
00:44:23,280 --> 00:44:25,440
Speaker 2: let's FaceTime because we had never like seen each other.

1031
00:44:25,480 --> 00:44:26,719
Speaker 2: I want to see what he looked like. And I

1032
00:44:26,719 --> 00:44:28,279
Speaker 2: was like, Okay, you look like how I thought, which

1033
00:44:28,360 --> 00:44:31,440
Speaker 2: is fine. He's of artwork more so like not beautiful,

1034
00:44:31,480 --> 00:44:35,719
Speaker 2: but I'm interested. So he was like, well, I'm about

1035
00:44:35,760 --> 00:44:38,400
Speaker 2: to go to He was British, which was weird. And

1036
00:44:38,480 --> 00:44:40,480
Speaker 2: now he was like, I'm about to go to a soiree.

1037
00:44:40,520 --> 00:44:43,080
Speaker 2: Do you want to come with COVID?

1038
00:44:43,200 --> 00:44:45,759
Speaker 6: And I was like yeah, And I just like.

1039
00:44:45,880 --> 00:44:48,160
Speaker 2: Hung up and got dressed and went to like a

1040
00:44:48,239 --> 00:44:51,680
Speaker 2: euro trash party and bever like in like over there

1041
00:44:51,719 --> 00:44:54,520
Speaker 2: by Souhlo house, like dohe need Beverly Hills? Like, and

1042
00:44:54,560 --> 00:44:58,440
Speaker 2: then I can to find euro trash Like all the

1043
00:44:58,440 --> 00:45:01,080
Speaker 2: men are like fifty plus with like button down shirts.

1044
00:45:01,160 --> 00:45:01,799
Speaker 2: Open up here.

1045
00:45:01,840 --> 00:45:04,240
Speaker 6: The music is like, dude, drink exactly what. That's exactly

1046
00:45:04,239 --> 00:45:04,560
Speaker 6: what I.

1047
00:45:05,080 --> 00:45:06,920
Speaker 2: And the lady's like, Hi, I'm blown, God, do you

1048
00:45:06,960 --> 00:45:10,520
Speaker 2: want some a suspence? And I was like yeah, so

1049
00:45:10,600 --> 00:45:12,279
Speaker 2: I had like I got like we only stayed there

1050
00:45:12,320 --> 00:45:13,960
Speaker 2: for like fifteen minutes. I was nervous the whole time

1051
00:45:13,960 --> 00:45:15,799
Speaker 2: because I was like, there's like twenty people here. There

1052
00:45:15,880 --> 00:45:18,160
Speaker 2: was like eleven people with no masks. I was like,

1053
00:45:18,200 --> 00:45:20,680
Speaker 2: I don't know, okay, whatever, though I was just like,

1054
00:45:20,719 --> 00:45:23,560
Speaker 2: I'm having playing We're outside drinking the champagne.

1055
00:45:23,560 --> 00:45:24,800
Speaker 3: This is an eleven bitch. You counted.

1056
00:45:25,120 --> 00:45:27,800
Speaker 6: I counted. I did because I've been pretty safe.

1057
00:45:27,840 --> 00:45:32,080
Speaker 5: And I was like, I don't even were not wearing masks.

1058
00:45:32,280 --> 00:45:34,120
Speaker 5: Baby daddy out for getting COVID so she couldn't.

1059
00:45:34,200 --> 00:45:35,680
Speaker 2: I didn't be getting it, even though I do the

1060
00:45:35,719 --> 00:45:37,919
Speaker 2: same things as him. But like, so we were there,

1061
00:45:38,040 --> 00:45:40,920
Speaker 2: I'm with this guy. He had like a vintage Mercedes.

1062
00:45:41,280 --> 00:45:42,960
Speaker 6: We were driving down Sunset in it.

1063
00:45:43,080 --> 00:45:45,200
Speaker 2: I just felt so cute. Then we went back to

1064
00:45:45,280 --> 00:45:47,399
Speaker 2: his place and we were like, this is our first

1065
00:45:47,480 --> 00:45:49,600
Speaker 2: night meeting and we were just like hanging out. He

1066
00:45:49,640 --> 00:45:53,040
Speaker 2: doesn't drink, but he had mad drinks and drugs and everything.

1067
00:45:53,080 --> 00:45:54,400
Speaker 2: I didn't do no drugs. I was like, I'm not

1068
00:45:54,400 --> 00:45:56,239
Speaker 2: trying to do k for the first time. Oh my god,

1069
00:45:56,280 --> 00:45:58,840
Speaker 2: what are you with that person? What kind of nigga

1070
00:45:59,160 --> 00:45:59,719
Speaker 2: doesn't drink?

1071
00:45:59,800 --> 00:46:03,480
Speaker 6: But he was like, okay, don't you the party.

1072
00:46:03,560 --> 00:46:04,120
Speaker 2: Don't you remember that?

1073
00:46:04,640 --> 00:46:06,000
Speaker 3: Don't you remember that party went to that?

1074
00:46:06,080 --> 00:46:08,319
Speaker 2: Not even a party of course, because you were moming me.

1075
00:46:08,640 --> 00:46:11,000
Speaker 2: I was literally this guy kept trying to give Jamiala.

1076
00:46:11,120 --> 00:46:15,000
Speaker 1: This man we met at the Soho House restaurant, then

1077
00:46:15,000 --> 00:46:16,200
Speaker 1: we went to his house, which okay, we went to

1078
00:46:16,239 --> 00:46:18,200
Speaker 1: his house because it was beautiful and it was like he'said,

1079
00:46:18,200 --> 00:46:19,080
Speaker 1: come to the house and we walked.

1080
00:46:19,120 --> 00:46:20,839
Speaker 3: I'm like, oh my god. And then immediately starts trying

1081
00:46:20,840 --> 00:46:21,200
Speaker 3: to give.

1082
00:46:21,080 --> 00:46:23,640
Speaker 2: Jamala Kate and I was like, get the kay. It's

1083
00:46:23,800 --> 00:46:27,600
Speaker 2: who was tranquilizer and academy. I was like a back

1084
00:46:27,640 --> 00:46:33,920
Speaker 2: to suck. I was literally about, yeah, yeah, like I

1085
00:46:33,920 --> 00:46:38,000
Speaker 2: want to see. It's like I said, no, just ving

1086
00:46:39,120 --> 00:46:42,400
Speaker 2: we already fucked up, even if you're just drunk, like

1087
00:46:43,080 --> 00:46:46,520
Speaker 2: I ended up drinking like two goblets of tequila, having fun.

1088
00:46:46,840 --> 00:46:48,680
Speaker 3: Your vocabulary to goblets.

1089
00:46:48,680 --> 00:46:51,920
Speaker 2: They were goblets for sure, Like yeah, you're a trash.

1090
00:46:52,320 --> 00:46:55,760
Speaker 2: It was just we had sex on the first time meeting.

1091
00:46:55,800 --> 00:46:57,560
Speaker 2: It was I was so excited.

1092
00:46:57,520 --> 00:46:58,080
Speaker 5: I love this.

1093
00:46:58,160 --> 00:47:00,920
Speaker 2: I haven't had sex with anyone since my maby daddy

1094
00:47:01,280 --> 00:47:07,880
Speaker 2: what girl, like ever since ever since him evergnancies girl

1095
00:47:10,280 --> 00:47:13,000
Speaker 2: and I've been with him from like thirty to thirty five.

1096
00:47:13,120 --> 00:47:14,760
Speaker 2: And it was that weekend.

1097
00:47:14,840 --> 00:47:16,040
Speaker 6: I just left feeling.

1098
00:47:15,880 --> 00:47:17,239
Speaker 2: Like I was in my prime this guy. I have

1099
00:47:17,320 --> 00:47:19,759
Speaker 2: not talked to him since. I'm so happy he hates me.

1100
00:47:19,840 --> 00:47:22,040
Speaker 2: Probably he's like forty, he's like not checking for me

1101
00:47:22,080 --> 00:47:23,480
Speaker 2: at all. I'm not checking for him.

1102
00:47:23,560 --> 00:47:24,120
Speaker 6: It's great.

1103
00:47:24,239 --> 00:47:24,520
Speaker 2: I don't know.

1104
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Speaker 6: It was so fun and.

1105
00:47:27,160 --> 00:47:29,520
Speaker 2: Freeing and spontaneous, like you guys were saying, like meeting

1106
00:47:29,560 --> 00:47:31,760
Speaker 2: guys towhe house, going to his house, like I haven't

1107
00:47:31,800 --> 00:47:33,680
Speaker 2: done that kind of stuff in a minute, just like

1108
00:47:34,160 --> 00:47:36,400
Speaker 2: moving around like just how I want to.

1109
00:47:36,520 --> 00:47:37,759
Speaker 6: And it was just it felt good.

1110
00:47:37,800 --> 00:47:40,359
Speaker 2: I felt cute and I felt young. The next time

1111
00:47:40,440 --> 00:47:42,160
Speaker 2: I went to like out the restaurant and had dinner

1112
00:47:42,200 --> 00:47:44,160
Speaker 2: with my friend. It was just such a dope weekend.

1113
00:47:44,600 --> 00:47:47,240
Speaker 2: I was like, I'm bomb and I literally my takeaway

1114
00:47:47,360 --> 00:47:49,480
Speaker 2: was like I'm in my prime. I was like, I

1115
00:47:49,520 --> 00:47:51,800
Speaker 2: think your prime is like thirty to fifty.

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00:47:52,120 --> 00:47:55,360
Speaker 6: I truly did love that. I was like, that's the prime.

1117
00:47:55,400 --> 00:47:57,400
Speaker 2: I don't think it's like in your twenties necessarily. I

1118
00:47:57,440 --> 00:48:00,960
Speaker 2: think that's a dope time you don't have any agency. Yeah,

1119
00:48:01,000 --> 00:48:04,680
Speaker 2: you're just like hey, yeah. And I was just like, literally,

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00:48:05,000 --> 00:48:07,080
Speaker 2: from here on out, I want to live every day

1121
00:48:07,160 --> 00:48:08,839
Speaker 2: as if I'm in my prime, even if that means

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00:48:08,840 --> 00:48:11,040
Speaker 2: having to delete Instagram or whatever. I want to like

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00:48:11,160 --> 00:48:13,319
Speaker 2: feel that in my body. I know, of course you're

1124
00:48:13,320 --> 00:48:14,600
Speaker 2: gonna have bad days, but I was like, I want

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00:48:14,640 --> 00:48:17,839
Speaker 2: to just like have that knowledge all the time and

1126
00:48:17,880 --> 00:48:20,719
Speaker 2: not ever sleep on myself or anything like that. Again,

1127
00:48:21,000 --> 00:48:23,319
Speaker 2: like because I was like, I'm mom, I'm sick of this.

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00:48:23,400 --> 00:48:26,200
Speaker 2: I'm not sitting around in the shadows of the baby

1129
00:48:26,280 --> 00:48:28,800
Speaker 2: daddy or being a mom or any of that bullshit.

1130
00:48:28,880 --> 00:48:30,960
Speaker 6: I was like, I'm fine and fly.

1131
00:48:31,239 --> 00:48:37,080
Speaker 2: Yes, you.

1132
00:48:43,680 --> 00:48:45,200
Speaker 6: Coming, meeting dudes taking them down.

1133
00:48:46,400 --> 00:48:47,080
Speaker 2: He got a vintage.

1134
00:48:48,040 --> 00:48:49,880
Speaker 6: Yes, I wasn't been convertible.

1135
00:48:49,440 --> 00:48:52,600
Speaker 2: With my afro flying Like hey, it wasn't flying because

1136
00:48:52,600 --> 00:48:54,160
Speaker 2: it's four seed. But I was like, oh my god,

1137
00:48:54,680 --> 00:48:56,879
Speaker 2: kind of it was so fun.

1138
00:48:56,880 --> 00:48:57,920
Speaker 6: It made me feel so happy.

1139
00:48:58,040 --> 00:49:00,400
Speaker 2: That was like a really fun weekend. And then for

1140
00:49:00,440 --> 00:49:02,480
Speaker 2: the past consecutive weekends, I haven't had any help and

1141
00:49:02,520 --> 00:49:04,520
Speaker 2: I've been alone with my daughter, but I have the memory.

1142
00:49:05,160 --> 00:49:06,840
Speaker 2: But see, no, but I love I love that, And

1143
00:49:06,840 --> 00:49:09,600
Speaker 2: that's really like what we obviously, you know, we advocate for.

1144
00:49:09,719 --> 00:49:11,960
Speaker 3: I think a lot of times moms feel like they.

1145
00:49:11,880 --> 00:49:14,279
Speaker 1: Can't do hood ushia with their friends no more, right like,

1146
00:49:14,360 --> 00:49:16,840
Speaker 1: and I think that that's like this misconception of motherhood

1147
00:49:16,840 --> 00:49:18,960
Speaker 1: that like, you can't be a great mom and then

1148
00:49:19,040 --> 00:49:20,879
Speaker 1: still have fun on the weekends and be a little

1149
00:49:20,880 --> 00:49:23,040
Speaker 1: bit irresponsible. But as long as you're not hurting nobody

1150
00:49:23,120 --> 00:49:24,480
Speaker 1: and everyone gets home.

1151
00:49:24,360 --> 00:49:26,080
Speaker 6: Rightly and you're.

1152
00:49:27,480 --> 00:49:28,280
Speaker 2: You're like chilling.

1153
00:49:28,600 --> 00:49:32,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, no, I think that's really exciting. Help us

1154
00:49:33,239 --> 00:49:35,200
Speaker 3: and opening up to me more.

1155
00:49:36,840 --> 00:49:40,560
Speaker 2: And more sex with more maybe daddy okay, and you're.

1156
00:49:40,520 --> 00:49:44,520
Speaker 5: Like, honestly, that made me so sad. Like the thirties

1157
00:49:44,760 --> 00:49:46,920
Speaker 5: and the thirty to fifty, I feel like it's the

1158
00:49:46,960 --> 00:49:48,440
Speaker 5: woman's sex prime.

1159
00:49:48,560 --> 00:49:50,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, because we never die out anything.

1160
00:49:51,000 --> 00:49:51,680
Speaker 6: You need some lub.

1161
00:49:51,760 --> 00:49:54,399
Speaker 2: But dudes be dying all they'd be like, it won't

1162
00:49:54,440 --> 00:49:56,040
Speaker 2: be Little Bama hundred shout out.

1163
00:49:56,239 --> 00:50:00,680
Speaker 5: My grandmother, my very Christian, Jesus loving god fearing grandmother

1164
00:50:00,760 --> 00:50:03,720
Speaker 5: who does sell weed and two acid?

1165
00:50:04,320 --> 00:50:05,560
Speaker 2: What oh she does?

1166
00:50:05,800 --> 00:50:06,680
Speaker 6: Asked where she did that?

1167
00:50:06,840 --> 00:50:08,200
Speaker 5: She told me she's like, oh, me and my girlfriend

1168
00:50:08,200 --> 00:50:09,919
Speaker 5: did ask it out here before she died.

1169
00:50:09,920 --> 00:50:11,520
Speaker 2: I said, well, how how old were you guys?

1170
00:50:11,520 --> 00:50:13,600
Speaker 5: She said, I don't know, like forty or something, And

1171
00:50:13,719 --> 00:50:18,560
Speaker 5: I said, my motherfuck Grandma.

1172
00:50:15,800 --> 00:50:21,400
Speaker 6: I knew I was on the right path, but she

1173
00:50:21,600 --> 00:50:21,920
Speaker 6: told me.

1174
00:50:22,000 --> 00:50:23,959
Speaker 5: She was like, oh my god, I tell the story

1175
00:50:23,960 --> 00:50:25,239
Speaker 5: all the time because I.

1176
00:50:25,200 --> 00:50:25,799
Speaker 3: Need to know this.

1177
00:50:26,280 --> 00:50:28,520
Speaker 5: She was like, honestly, I feel like God played a

1178
00:50:28,520 --> 00:50:30,800
Speaker 5: bad joke on women because I can.

1179
00:50:30,680 --> 00:50:31,680
Speaker 3: Still work just fine.

1180
00:50:31,880 --> 00:50:34,920
Speaker 5: But these niggas. She didn't say these niggas, but I

1181
00:50:35,000 --> 00:50:36,160
Speaker 5: say these niggers can't.

1182
00:50:36,160 --> 00:50:37,239
Speaker 2: And I feel like it's just.

1183
00:50:37,200 --> 00:50:38,000
Speaker 6: A terrible joke.

1184
00:50:38,400 --> 00:50:38,600
Speaker 2: Why.

1185
00:50:38,880 --> 00:50:41,080
Speaker 6: And I was like, oh no, that's not.

1186
00:50:41,160 --> 00:50:45,040
Speaker 2: So many younger men all the time, like older women,

1187
00:50:45,080 --> 00:50:48,239
Speaker 2: they're like, yeah, he's thirty four, I'm fifty. Yeah, and

1188
00:50:48,280 --> 00:50:50,600
Speaker 2: they're like yeah, I mean I always said I most

1189
00:50:50,640 --> 00:50:53,560
Speaker 2: will need some lube at most, like I'm going through menopause.

1190
00:50:54,000 --> 00:50:55,600
Speaker 2: It's a little dry whatever. Like remember how you were

1191
00:50:55,640 --> 00:50:56,600
Speaker 2: like breastfeeding and it.

1192
00:50:56,560 --> 00:50:57,160
Speaker 6: Was like dry.

1193
00:50:57,280 --> 00:50:59,920
Speaker 5: Oh my god, we're pregnant and it was yeast.

1194
00:50:59,680 --> 00:51:02,760
Speaker 2: Oh god, oh man pregnancy yeast.

1195
00:51:03,239 --> 00:51:03,439
Speaker 3: Oh.

1196
00:51:03,680 --> 00:51:05,879
Speaker 5: It's like a full pregnancy, just a yeast.

1197
00:51:07,080 --> 00:51:11,560
Speaker 2: Flash everywhere looking there.

1198
00:51:14,680 --> 00:51:15,360
Speaker 3: It's very scary.

1199
00:51:15,440 --> 00:51:15,600
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1200
00:51:15,640 --> 00:51:17,840
Speaker 6: I hope you need more guys though. It's hard.

1201
00:51:18,520 --> 00:51:19,960
Speaker 2: Riah Ryan, some races I can't.

1202
00:51:19,960 --> 00:51:21,960
Speaker 1: If you've made a black I am going to manifest

1203
00:51:22,040 --> 00:51:23,480
Speaker 1: more men into your life.

1204
00:51:23,800 --> 00:51:29,880
Speaker 5: I am going to more money for more vacations, more sitters.

1205
00:51:29,440 --> 00:51:32,000
Speaker 3: More bomb sex, big dicks with your.

1206
00:51:33,400 --> 00:51:37,160
Speaker 5: Fun nights driving through Dohani and sunset in the Drop

1207
00:51:37,239 --> 00:51:37,839
Speaker 5: and Drop Hop.

1208
00:51:38,320 --> 00:51:41,719
Speaker 2: Thank y'all and maybe possible future stepdaddies that are like.

1209
00:51:42,160 --> 00:51:44,359
Speaker 5: Russell Wilson for all of us. This is a prayer

1210
00:51:44,400 --> 00:51:44,640
Speaker 5: for all of.

1211
00:51:44,680 --> 00:51:48,160
Speaker 3: Us, except because she still has a man. Amen. Amen.

1212
00:51:48,640 --> 00:51:54,520
Speaker 2: I love that prayer, and so it is says thank

1213
00:51:54,560 --> 00:51:56,680
Speaker 2: you so much for coming, thank you for having me.

1214
00:51:56,760 --> 00:51:58,680
Speaker 6: This is so fun. I love y'all.

1215
00:51:58,680 --> 00:52:00,719
Speaker 2: It's just my favorite. Maybe we can helk up on

1216
00:52:00,719 --> 00:52:01,840
Speaker 2: the weight thund and you can teach me how to

1217
00:52:01,920 --> 00:52:02,360
Speaker 2: use Twitter.

1218
00:52:02,760 --> 00:52:05,479
Speaker 6: Yeah, oh yes, I will. I'm kind of good at it, Okay,

1219
00:52:05,480 --> 00:52:06,040
Speaker 6: well better.

1220
00:52:05,960 --> 00:52:08,560
Speaker 3: Than me, So yes, can you tell our listeners where

1221
00:52:08,560 --> 00:52:09,160
Speaker 3: they can find you?

1222
00:52:09,880 --> 00:52:10,080
Speaker 6: Yeah?

1223
00:52:10,120 --> 00:52:15,360
Speaker 2: Better Twitter? Yes, on Twitter at zosher rock Star x

1224
00:52:15,400 --> 00:52:17,960
Speaker 2: O s a h rock Stars well normal, and I'll

1225
00:52:18,000 --> 00:52:19,520
Speaker 2: probably be back on the Gram at some point.

1226
00:52:19,640 --> 00:52:22,080
Speaker 6: But on there, I'm at zosch rock xo, s h.

1227
00:52:22,200 --> 00:52:22,880
Speaker 3: R o q.

1228
00:52:24,840 --> 00:52:28,080
Speaker 2: On ryo for a mail. Hey, what about Hinge?

1229
00:52:28,080 --> 00:52:31,480
Speaker 5: Because like I was on Hinge. I can't get on

1230
00:52:31,640 --> 00:52:34,120
Speaker 5: Riot because it's super stupid, exclusive and racist.

1231
00:52:34,800 --> 00:52:35,920
Speaker 2: I was on Hinge.

1232
00:52:35,640 --> 00:52:36,360
Speaker 6: Because of y'all.

1233
00:52:36,920 --> 00:52:37,719
Speaker 2: Oh no, nothing was.

1234
00:52:37,920 --> 00:52:40,080
Speaker 6: You know, there was a lot of guys who were

1235
00:52:40,120 --> 00:52:42,239
Speaker 6: work in a factory. I was like, that will never work.

1236
00:52:42,280 --> 00:52:43,839
Speaker 2: They were like, guys, They're like, I'm gonna do I'm

1237
00:52:43,880 --> 00:52:45,800
Speaker 2: the manager of literally.

1238
00:52:45,880 --> 00:52:48,080
Speaker 6: I was like, y'all are regular.

1239
00:52:48,280 --> 00:52:53,000
Speaker 5: First of all, we we take regular black men who

1240
00:52:53,040 --> 00:52:53,800
Speaker 5: have good jobs.

1241
00:52:53,840 --> 00:52:56,200
Speaker 6: Regular jobs, Okay, get through.

1242
00:52:57,520 --> 00:52:58,880
Speaker 2: Like these l a bitches?

1243
00:52:59,600 --> 00:53:02,720
Speaker 5: What special k and regular factory draw.

1244
00:53:02,680 --> 00:53:04,359
Speaker 6: But I'm like, what am I gonna do with day?

1245
00:53:04,680 --> 00:53:07,160
Speaker 2: What we gonna do? You don't how many run lines

1246
00:53:07,280 --> 00:53:08,680
Speaker 2: like they're like, that's cool.

1247
00:53:08,480 --> 00:53:10,440
Speaker 6: To your reactor? What's that like?

1248
00:53:10,480 --> 00:53:13,480
Speaker 2: I don't have time. You have been in hollywoods how

1249
00:53:13,520 --> 00:53:14,600
Speaker 2: you memorize lives?

1250
00:53:14,600 --> 00:53:16,400
Speaker 6: How does that work? I hate this combo.

1251
00:53:17,680 --> 00:53:19,680
Speaker 2: I mean, at least go to if you went to college,

1252
00:53:19,680 --> 00:53:20,160
Speaker 2: that's cool.

1253
00:53:20,480 --> 00:53:21,400
Speaker 3: Did you go to college?

1254
00:53:21,560 --> 00:53:22,680
Speaker 2: Me? Yeah?

1255
00:53:23,280 --> 00:53:25,759
Speaker 3: I want to take him. I actually met in New York.

1256
00:53:25,920 --> 00:53:27,759
Speaker 3: Jared introduced us, Yes, and.

1257
00:53:27,719 --> 00:53:29,640
Speaker 2: I need to Jared.

1258
00:53:30,440 --> 00:53:32,200
Speaker 5: Oh my god, what should your friends after dereg with

1259
00:53:32,280 --> 00:53:33,640
Speaker 5: Jared and sore?

1260
00:53:33,800 --> 00:53:35,240
Speaker 6: Oh that that is fine.

1261
00:53:35,920 --> 00:53:40,080
Speaker 2: He's coming next month okay, oh yeah, his little fine self.

1262
00:53:40,320 --> 00:53:43,400
Speaker 1: Yes, he's so handsome. Well, anyway, you guys, you know

1263
00:53:43,400 --> 00:53:46,480
Speaker 1: where to find us at Good Mom's Underscore, Bad Choices

1264
00:53:46,520 --> 00:53:48,480
Speaker 1: on Instagram. We ain't got no Twitter because we're old

1265
00:53:48,520 --> 00:53:49,960
Speaker 1: and we do have a Twitter. We do what we

1266
00:53:49,960 --> 00:53:53,040
Speaker 1: don't be like girl, I don't even try.

1267
00:53:53,360 --> 00:53:54,080
Speaker 2: Don't know what it's called.

1268
00:53:54,800 --> 00:53:57,000
Speaker 1: Make sure you go on Apple Podcasts and rate and

1269
00:53:57,000 --> 00:53:59,040
Speaker 1: review us. If you've been listening to us for a minute.

1270
00:53:59,120 --> 00:54:01,440
Speaker 1: Just takes the second, Just takes one second. Don't forget

1271
00:54:01,520 --> 00:54:02,839
Speaker 1: do it right now when you get off of here

1272
00:54:02,880 --> 00:54:03,880
Speaker 1: school all the way to the bottom.

1273
00:54:03,880 --> 00:54:04,919
Speaker 2: Give us that five star rating.

1274
00:54:04,960 --> 00:54:07,880
Speaker 3: Right, it's a cute review and we'll love you forever.

1275
00:54:08,160 --> 00:54:11,400
Speaker 5: And also, don't be cheap. Join Patreon. It's only like

1276
00:54:11,520 --> 00:54:13,799
Speaker 5: five or ten dollars a month. We're single moms. We

1277
00:54:13,840 --> 00:54:17,160
Speaker 5: need help. We're doing this every week. Don't be tyrone

1278
00:54:17,560 --> 00:54:20,239
Speaker 5: and be a freeloader. Give us some money and help

1279
00:54:20,320 --> 00:54:22,919
Speaker 5: us create dope shit and grow and be rich.

1280
00:54:24,480 --> 00:54:26,120
Speaker 1: And also Patreon, you get a lot, You got so

1281
00:54:26,200 --> 00:54:28,600
Speaker 1: much more concent You get bonus episodes or secret episodes

1282
00:54:28,600 --> 00:54:29,640
Speaker 1: you can't find anywhere else.

1283
00:54:29,680 --> 00:54:30,959
Speaker 2: So check us.

1284
00:54:30,840 --> 00:54:34,000
Speaker 3: Out there and we'll catch you guys next week.

1285
00:54:34,400 --> 00:54:52,160
Speaker 4: Ye ella solo recorder. Then let's us say us that