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I met him on the Steve 26 00:01:16,080 --> 00:01:19,080 Speaker 1: Harvey camp and you know, I was a little jealous 27 00:01:19,120 --> 00:01:20,760 Speaker 1: of him because, you know, I was writing on the 28 00:01:20,800 --> 00:01:22,640 Speaker 1: show back in the early name. He was on every 29 00:01:22,640 --> 00:01:25,160 Speaker 1: doing TV show and he looked good too. And I'm 30 00:01:25,160 --> 00:01:26,600 Speaker 1: not man because he looked good. But he was on 31 00:01:26,680 --> 00:01:28,600 Speaker 1: every doing TV show and I could but he never 32 00:01:28,640 --> 00:01:31,360 Speaker 1: did my show because I did the Parenthood, I did 33 00:01:31,400 --> 00:01:33,800 Speaker 1: the Sister Sister, I did the Jamie Fire, and I 34 00:01:33,800 --> 00:01:35,880 Speaker 1: could never cast his brother. You know why, because he 35 00:01:35,920 --> 00:01:38,720 Speaker 1: always had his own series. He always had his own seiers. 36 00:01:38,760 --> 00:01:42,080 Speaker 1: He's one of the most consistent working actors in Hollywood. 37 00:01:42,200 --> 00:01:44,240 Speaker 1: He's one of the stars of the new owned series. 38 00:01:44,480 --> 00:01:50,120 Speaker 1: Please welcome to Money Making Conversation Dendre with Phil my brother, 39 00:01:50,880 --> 00:01:55,080 Speaker 1: Mr Whitfield. How you doing, what's going on? I'm doing well, man, 40 00:01:55,480 --> 00:01:59,200 Speaker 1: I'm doing well and I say that, man, because you 41 00:01:59,400 --> 00:02:03,360 Speaker 1: and and because Uh I admired, because we know Hollywood 42 00:02:03,480 --> 00:02:06,160 Speaker 1: is UH, it's not a kind to people of color. 43 00:02:06,400 --> 00:02:09,119 Speaker 1: You know, the opportunities can be limited. At one time, 44 00:02:09,120 --> 00:02:10,560 Speaker 1: the only way we can get on TV was on 45 00:02:10,560 --> 00:02:13,600 Speaker 1: the reality show and that turn has made and but 46 00:02:13,680 --> 00:02:19,640 Speaker 1: you've been consistently a solid uh face and television and 47 00:02:19,720 --> 00:02:22,519 Speaker 1: films just tell the audience how are you able to 48 00:02:22,560 --> 00:02:25,320 Speaker 1: accomplish that? And that knows through relationships and also through talent. 49 00:02:25,440 --> 00:02:29,080 Speaker 1: But it has to be some tremendous blessings that God 50 00:02:29,200 --> 00:02:32,680 Speaker 1: is presented to you on a regular basis. Yeah, without 51 00:02:32,680 --> 00:02:35,519 Speaker 1: a doubt. I mean right from the very beginning. I mean, 52 00:02:36,240 --> 00:02:39,800 Speaker 1: God absolutely put people in my life that that didn't 53 00:02:39,800 --> 00:02:44,640 Speaker 1: allow me to get away from um, the destiny of 54 00:02:44,720 --> 00:02:48,120 Speaker 1: this life. Um. There were plenty of times where I 55 00:02:48,160 --> 00:02:51,120 Speaker 1: didn't know what direction that I was going in, and 56 00:02:51,919 --> 00:02:55,720 Speaker 1: He always put people in my life that literally sort 57 00:02:55,760 --> 00:02:59,200 Speaker 1: of kicked me back in the place right Um, and 58 00:02:59,280 --> 00:03:01,640 Speaker 1: until I I found what my you know, what my 59 00:03:01,720 --> 00:03:04,679 Speaker 1: passion was. UM. Acting has been a great passion of 60 00:03:04,720 --> 00:03:07,920 Speaker 1: mine for over thirty four years. You know. UH started 61 00:03:07,960 --> 00:03:10,440 Speaker 1: off on the you know, the most watch show on television. History, 62 00:03:10,480 --> 00:03:16,480 Speaker 1: the Cosby Show that was and most people most people 63 00:03:16,680 --> 00:03:20,720 Speaker 1: usually get like you know, they become an extra doing 64 00:03:20,760 --> 00:03:23,880 Speaker 1: background work or you know, or something of that nature. 65 00:03:24,000 --> 00:03:27,880 Speaker 1: And and my first job was on the most watch show, 66 00:03:28,639 --> 00:03:33,640 Speaker 1: uh in history. So it literally was breaking in space, 67 00:03:33,680 --> 00:03:36,640 Speaker 1: which is why now whenever I do anything or working 68 00:03:36,680 --> 00:03:40,280 Speaker 1: with um, you know, um, miss Oprah Winfrey, who is 69 00:03:40,360 --> 00:03:43,080 Speaker 1: just incredible, I can't I don't even have words to 70 00:03:43,160 --> 00:03:46,720 Speaker 1: describe exactly what she is, not only to our people, 71 00:03:46,720 --> 00:03:50,640 Speaker 1: but to humanity in general. UM. But then of course 72 00:03:50,800 --> 00:03:55,320 Speaker 1: Aba du Verney, who is such a visionary um and 73 00:03:55,400 --> 00:03:59,160 Speaker 1: who has the kind of execution um that great you 74 00:03:59,160 --> 00:04:03,000 Speaker 1: know sports which is a made up um so UM. 75 00:04:03,000 --> 00:04:06,880 Speaker 1: Working with those sisters is just incredible. But uh, coming 76 00:04:06,920 --> 00:04:10,680 Speaker 1: from the background that I come from, UM, it doesn't uh, 77 00:04:10,720 --> 00:04:14,640 Speaker 1: it doesn't intimidate me. Uh. And I'm always ready for it. 78 00:04:14,760 --> 00:04:19,320 Speaker 1: And again because it is my passion, uh, it has 79 00:04:19,400 --> 00:04:23,599 Speaker 1: produced a great platform to suit my purpose and my 80 00:04:23,680 --> 00:04:25,880 Speaker 1: purpose work is something that I'm sure that we'll get 81 00:04:25,920 --> 00:04:29,919 Speaker 1: a chance to talk about. Absolutely absolutely. I want to 82 00:04:29,920 --> 00:04:32,599 Speaker 1: talk about a little bit because you're you're very talented 83 00:04:32,839 --> 00:04:37,680 Speaker 1: dramatic actor and you're very talented comedic actor. That balance 84 00:04:37,800 --> 00:04:40,159 Speaker 1: is very hard to find in Hollywood. I don't care 85 00:04:40,240 --> 00:04:43,719 Speaker 1: what what gender or what color tone you are. That 86 00:04:43,800 --> 00:04:45,720 Speaker 1: has really helped you had been a blessing for you. 87 00:04:45,760 --> 00:04:51,560 Speaker 1: Correct without a doubt. Um, because and I purposely, uh 88 00:04:51,760 --> 00:04:56,359 Speaker 1: would would choose if I did a drama the next job, 89 00:04:56,640 --> 00:04:59,239 Speaker 1: I would say, I want to do a comedy. After 90 00:04:59,279 --> 00:05:01,159 Speaker 1: I did a comedy, you know what, I want to 91 00:05:01,160 --> 00:05:06,279 Speaker 1: do a drama because I didn't want anyone to say, oh, 92 00:05:06,440 --> 00:05:10,279 Speaker 1: that's the comedy guy. Well that's the drama guy. Um. 93 00:05:10,320 --> 00:05:13,279 Speaker 1: You know, in some circles some people would say, well, 94 00:05:13,320 --> 00:05:16,080 Speaker 1: it kind of hurts you because you know, like music, 95 00:05:16,160 --> 00:05:17,920 Speaker 1: people want to be able to put you on a box. 96 00:05:18,200 --> 00:05:19,680 Speaker 1: They want to be able to say that this is 97 00:05:19,720 --> 00:05:23,320 Speaker 1: what you do. Um. But I didn't want that. And 98 00:05:23,480 --> 00:05:28,720 Speaker 1: I encourage everyone to follow their heart as it pertains 99 00:05:28,760 --> 00:05:31,640 Speaker 1: to choices that they make in their career. They're gonna 100 00:05:31,680 --> 00:05:35,320 Speaker 1: be a bunch of experts that say you're supposed to 101 00:05:35,320 --> 00:05:36,960 Speaker 1: do it this way or you're supposed to do it 102 00:05:37,040 --> 00:05:39,400 Speaker 1: that way. But if there were one way to do it, 103 00:05:39,520 --> 00:05:41,560 Speaker 1: then there would be a book telling you that that's 104 00:05:41,560 --> 00:05:43,559 Speaker 1: the way to do it. The truth of the matter 105 00:05:43,680 --> 00:05:46,160 Speaker 1: is that there isn't and you really do have to 106 00:05:46,160 --> 00:05:49,400 Speaker 1: to follow your heart, uh and make the choices that 107 00:05:49,480 --> 00:05:52,240 Speaker 1: you are going to to be able to live with 108 00:05:52,720 --> 00:05:55,960 Speaker 1: to live out your your own best life. Now, we 109 00:05:56,120 --> 00:05:59,040 Speaker 1: met officially man, because you know we've we've we've been 110 00:05:59,040 --> 00:06:02,040 Speaker 1: in a lot of wood events together, but we officially 111 00:06:02,279 --> 00:06:06,039 Speaker 1: made set down on the Steve Harveary Mentoring Camp several 112 00:06:06,160 --> 00:06:08,680 Speaker 1: years ago. That was a camp that we invited you 113 00:06:08,720 --> 00:06:11,239 Speaker 1: out and and that's what I really found your purpose, 114 00:06:11,360 --> 00:06:14,280 Speaker 1: you know, purpose of Man. I'm telling you something. If 115 00:06:14,320 --> 00:06:16,760 Speaker 1: you want to understand him, I don't know if you 116 00:06:16,839 --> 00:06:21,719 Speaker 1: do uh motivational quotes on Instagram or anything, but he 117 00:06:21,880 --> 00:06:25,080 Speaker 1: is so inspired because he has a tremendous passion to 118 00:06:25,160 --> 00:06:28,520 Speaker 1: create change and to create change in young men and 119 00:06:28,560 --> 00:06:31,320 Speaker 1: men in general. Listen, I know we're getting shot on 120 00:06:31,360 --> 00:06:32,640 Speaker 1: this break, but I want to bring it up on 121 00:06:32,640 --> 00:06:35,279 Speaker 1: another break. Give us a synopsis of what the Manhood 122 00:06:35,360 --> 00:06:39,080 Speaker 1: Tour is. Well, it literally was burst out of a 123 00:06:39,200 --> 00:06:42,360 Speaker 1: need that we find in our black and brown communities 124 00:06:43,000 --> 00:06:47,960 Speaker 1: to serve our younger males that don't have their father 125 00:06:48,120 --> 00:06:51,239 Speaker 1: in their life. And I've always said that it's very 126 00:06:51,279 --> 00:06:54,800 Speaker 1: it's impossible to be something you don't see. So you 127 00:06:54,880 --> 00:06:57,679 Speaker 1: can't become a man if you don't have men around 128 00:06:57,720 --> 00:07:00,800 Speaker 1: you showing what that looks like, that walks like, and 129 00:07:00,800 --> 00:07:03,840 Speaker 1: what that talks like. So that's how the Manhood Tour 130 00:07:04,000 --> 00:07:06,760 Speaker 1: was created. Cool, I'm on the phone talking to Uh. 131 00:07:06,839 --> 00:07:09,840 Speaker 1: He's on the phone, Dendre Whitfield. He's one of the 132 00:07:09,880 --> 00:07:13,160 Speaker 1: stars of Queen Sugar, which airs Wednesday at ten p m. 133 00:07:13,240 --> 00:07:16,480 Speaker 1: On OWNED. This year, he was a correct congratulations you 134 00:07:16,600 --> 00:07:20,680 Speaker 1: was you were nominated for an Image Award. Uh and 135 00:07:20,680 --> 00:07:23,000 Speaker 1: and I hopefully they're more in the future for you. 136 00:07:23,160 --> 00:07:25,680 Speaker 1: But tell us a little bit about the show and uh, 137 00:07:25,760 --> 00:07:29,120 Speaker 1: and why you become so engaged that character yours. You 138 00:07:29,160 --> 00:07:31,520 Speaker 1: know you kind of like the best friend around all 139 00:07:31,520 --> 00:07:37,480 Speaker 1: the messy people. Well, you know it's funny because you 140 00:07:37,560 --> 00:07:42,080 Speaker 1: know my yeah, I mean my my, you know, my 141 00:07:42,200 --> 00:07:49,440 Speaker 1: character is sort of uh what I've affectionately called the U, 142 00:07:49,880 --> 00:07:58,520 Speaker 1: the resuscitator. UM. He is UH a professor l s U. 143 00:07:58,840 --> 00:08:01,920 Speaker 1: He's a water irrigant, some specialists. He works with the 144 00:08:01,920 --> 00:08:08,400 Speaker 1: folks in the community, UM and even the surrogate family 145 00:08:08,480 --> 00:08:12,680 Speaker 1: that he has around him and the best friend of 146 00:08:12,720 --> 00:08:17,080 Speaker 1: the patriarchal who actually makes it happen passes away, Andre, 147 00:08:17,200 --> 00:08:20,200 Speaker 1: holdlet thalk, don't go towhere, holdletalk, holdlet talk. We're gonna 148 00:08:20,240 --> 00:08:22,440 Speaker 1: come right back. But man, when of the stars of 149 00:08:22,680 --> 00:08:24,960 Speaker 1: Queen Sugar on Own every Wednesday at temp M, you 150 00:08:24,960 --> 00:08:28,360 Speaker 1: can catch the show. Don't go nowhere, Mr Whitfielder's own hole. 151 00:08:31,200 --> 00:08:33,520 Speaker 1: Welcome back to this. Rashan McDonald on the phone, is 152 00:08:33,679 --> 00:08:37,560 Speaker 1: um very talented. I want to say, started on the 153 00:08:37,600 --> 00:08:40,520 Speaker 1: cause be showing a cute little young kid in the back. 154 00:08:40,559 --> 00:08:43,480 Speaker 1: Now he's a grown man, a grown man doing this thing. 155 00:08:43,559 --> 00:08:46,920 Speaker 1: He's he's operating and performing on the award winning series Uh, 156 00:08:47,200 --> 00:08:50,440 Speaker 1: from creator and executive producer Ava Duvenai and executive Debuce, 157 00:08:50,640 --> 00:08:54,400 Speaker 1: produced by the Incredible O for Winfrey on the Own network. 158 00:08:55,040 --> 00:08:57,880 Speaker 1: His character is called Remy. Uh. Now, you were telling 159 00:08:57,960 --> 00:09:00,680 Speaker 1: us a little bit about your character before I was 160 00:09:00,720 --> 00:09:02,679 Speaker 1: able to cut you off. I don't want to miss anything, 161 00:09:02,800 --> 00:09:04,880 Speaker 1: right because we're about to get into the shell Queen 162 00:09:04,960 --> 00:09:07,960 Speaker 1: Sugar and why everybody should be watching it and why 163 00:09:08,040 --> 00:09:12,440 Speaker 1: you know it's really interesting, Dendre tell me this. Why 164 00:09:12,480 --> 00:09:16,840 Speaker 1: are black dramas seeming to seem to be operating now? 165 00:09:16,880 --> 00:09:19,079 Speaker 1: They seemed to be working now because you used to 166 00:09:19,120 --> 00:09:21,880 Speaker 1: be only able to see African Americans in comedy. We're 167 00:09:21,880 --> 00:09:24,840 Speaker 1: gonna be funny. Ha ha. We were funny and nobody 168 00:09:24,840 --> 00:09:27,200 Speaker 1: would really watch the dramas. But that seems to be 169 00:09:27,280 --> 00:09:35,120 Speaker 1: turning now. Yeah. I think, um, that that came out 170 00:09:35,160 --> 00:09:38,400 Speaker 1: of the fact that a lot of our dramas has 171 00:09:38,760 --> 00:09:43,880 Speaker 1: been over sensationalized about who we are and about what 172 00:09:44,000 --> 00:09:47,360 Speaker 1: we are. They seem to have been stuck in the 173 00:09:47,400 --> 00:09:52,160 Speaker 1: space of telling one side of our story. Right. What 174 00:09:52,320 --> 00:09:55,840 Speaker 1: you're seeing in Queen Sugar is the fullness of our story. 175 00:09:56,320 --> 00:09:59,959 Speaker 1: So you're seeing the life, the loves, um, the struggles, 176 00:10:00,080 --> 00:10:05,840 Speaker 1: the successes, um, and you're also seeing the truths that 177 00:10:05,880 --> 00:10:11,679 Speaker 1: are being told through the lenses of our daily experiences 178 00:10:11,760 --> 00:10:15,440 Speaker 1: in a country that has a saying we should show 179 00:10:15,480 --> 00:10:19,560 Speaker 1: pride in our country, but sometimes shows us that we 180 00:10:19,640 --> 00:10:23,600 Speaker 1: aren't valued. So I think the thing that you understand 181 00:10:23,640 --> 00:10:26,439 Speaker 1: what I mean, I think that the thing that really 182 00:10:26,480 --> 00:10:31,640 Speaker 1: resonates with our audiences is the fact that there is 183 00:10:31,679 --> 00:10:36,320 Speaker 1: a great authenticity, uh that is being shared in the 184 00:10:36,360 --> 00:10:40,520 Speaker 1: storytelling of of this show. Uh. There's no there's no 185 00:10:40,600 --> 00:10:44,360 Speaker 1: lying about it. We're not cutting around any truths We've 186 00:10:44,600 --> 00:10:49,439 Speaker 1: dealt with Black lives matter. We've dealt with protests, We've 187 00:10:49,480 --> 00:10:55,680 Speaker 1: dealt with UH pregnancies, We've dealt with UH generational wealth, 188 00:10:56,080 --> 00:11:02,839 Speaker 1: we've dealt with poverty, We've dealt with UM UH industries 189 00:11:03,000 --> 00:11:07,840 Speaker 1: that are difficult for our folks to break into or 190 00:11:08,400 --> 00:11:12,080 Speaker 1: feel people in. So again, all of that speaks to 191 00:11:12,360 --> 00:11:16,400 Speaker 1: the authenticity of the storytelling. And I think that that's 192 00:11:16,440 --> 00:11:20,400 Speaker 1: what really resonates with our audiences is truth. Well resonates 193 00:11:20,400 --> 00:11:23,320 Speaker 1: with me because I'm a writer, I'm a producer and 194 00:11:23,360 --> 00:11:26,360 Speaker 1: I know, you know, I've done sitcom some Sister Sisters 195 00:11:26,440 --> 00:11:29,760 Speaker 1: or Jamie Foxx to Parenthood. So I know what you're 196 00:11:29,760 --> 00:11:33,680 Speaker 1: saying is that, you know, being behind the camera, being 197 00:11:33,679 --> 00:11:36,920 Speaker 1: the writers. But to my understanding that this this the 198 00:11:36,960 --> 00:11:44,320 Speaker 1: production staff is a female influenced but staff correct, Yes, 199 00:11:45,280 --> 00:11:50,920 Speaker 1: it's really a UM Eva has. Her vision show was 200 00:11:50,960 --> 00:11:55,160 Speaker 1: to have UH an inclusive set, meanings there would be 201 00:11:55,160 --> 00:11:58,920 Speaker 1: women involved, there would be UH folks of color involved. 202 00:11:58,920 --> 00:12:02,200 Speaker 1: As a matter of fact, she actually UM made it 203 00:12:02,240 --> 00:12:06,920 Speaker 1: a mandate that before anyone could present a department head, 204 00:12:07,000 --> 00:12:11,319 Speaker 1: they would have to present m viable candidates of color 205 00:12:11,960 --> 00:12:15,319 Speaker 1: for those department had positions UM and that is not 206 00:12:15,360 --> 00:12:19,559 Speaker 1: normally done in our industry. Um. She also she further 207 00:12:19,600 --> 00:12:23,839 Speaker 1: made it a mandate that, uh, the directors would be 208 00:12:24,760 --> 00:12:27,920 Speaker 1: all female. So every female that we've had for the 209 00:12:27,960 --> 00:12:32,120 Speaker 1: past uh three seasons were in the in the midst 210 00:12:32,400 --> 00:12:35,560 Speaker 1: of our third season. Every single one of them have 211 00:12:35,679 --> 00:12:42,200 Speaker 1: been female, including my own life. My wife directed, no 212 00:12:42,360 --> 00:12:47,480 Speaker 1: question and um and really, um say Salary Richards and Whitfield. 213 00:12:47,720 --> 00:12:51,240 Speaker 1: His wife put the word out's and I want on 214 00:12:51,360 --> 00:12:58,600 Speaker 1: my show. Yes, the Winfield, uh, because he's the story 215 00:12:58,600 --> 00:13:03,679 Speaker 1: in ourselves. Man. You know, she's just incredible actress, you know, 216 00:13:03,840 --> 00:13:07,400 Speaker 1: and uh and has crossed over and it's directing everywhere. 217 00:13:07,640 --> 00:13:12,000 Speaker 1: She's directing every sci fi to comedy to drama. She 218 00:13:12,240 --> 00:13:15,079 Speaker 1: is turning and turning pages out there, man. And I'm 219 00:13:15,120 --> 00:13:17,880 Speaker 1: proud of her. I'm proud of you because y'all live 220 00:13:17,920 --> 00:13:22,160 Speaker 1: that balanced life man, And I like that. Yeah, you're 221 00:13:22,240 --> 00:13:27,480 Speaker 1: living the life of of of working hard at whatever 222 00:13:27,520 --> 00:13:31,840 Speaker 1: your profession is, but making sure that, uh that you 223 00:13:32,000 --> 00:13:37,440 Speaker 1: preserve your your personal space. I told my wife a 224 00:13:37,440 --> 00:13:40,240 Speaker 1: long time ago, I said, we gotta work just as 225 00:13:40,280 --> 00:13:45,040 Speaker 1: hard at our marriage as we do at our careers. Um, 226 00:13:45,080 --> 00:13:48,000 Speaker 1: because that's how you sustain those people, you know, said, 227 00:13:48,120 --> 00:13:51,400 Speaker 1: you know I love it because sometimes people will come 228 00:13:51,480 --> 00:13:52,920 Speaker 1: up to me and they would say, hey, you and 229 00:13:53,000 --> 00:13:56,680 Speaker 1: Sali still married, and I'm like yeah, because they're so 230 00:13:56,840 --> 00:14:01,600 Speaker 1: not used to people in in Hollywood being together. You know, 231 00:14:01,679 --> 00:14:04,120 Speaker 1: for that amount of time. We've been together for twenty years. 232 00:14:04,480 --> 00:14:08,120 Speaker 1: We've been married for fifteen of those. So the union 233 00:14:08,160 --> 00:14:10,800 Speaker 1: of twenty years in our industry is like being together 234 00:14:10,840 --> 00:14:12,920 Speaker 1: for sixty years. Now. The thing I love about it, 235 00:14:12,920 --> 00:14:14,960 Speaker 1: I want to let everybody know that listening and some 236 00:14:15,000 --> 00:14:17,640 Speaker 1: people who may be watching on Facebook is his. The 237 00:14:17,640 --> 00:14:21,000 Speaker 1: beauty of this couple. Um when it comes to charity work, 238 00:14:21,280 --> 00:14:23,600 Speaker 1: they have time. When we needed him on the step 239 00:14:23,680 --> 00:14:26,160 Speaker 1: Harvard camp, he came and a lot of people came 240 00:14:26,200 --> 00:14:28,160 Speaker 1: and come and lead, or they'll do one session and 241 00:14:28,200 --> 00:14:30,840 Speaker 1: they go, hey, where's the uber. I gotta get out 242 00:14:30,880 --> 00:14:33,400 Speaker 1: of here. He you had to run him off the 243 00:14:33,440 --> 00:14:36,120 Speaker 1: camp because he was there to change lives that we can. 244 00:14:36,720 --> 00:14:39,640 Speaker 1: You know, Sally, when I needed to comfort the Neighborhood 245 00:14:39,640 --> 00:14:41,760 Speaker 1: Awards because you know, you gotta have celebrities or people 246 00:14:41,760 --> 00:14:44,480 Speaker 1: won't buy tickets, you know, she would, I call it 247 00:14:44,600 --> 00:14:46,600 Speaker 1: the last minute. Sometimes I call her head a schedule. 248 00:14:46,880 --> 00:14:49,640 Speaker 1: She made a point that the importance of being there 249 00:14:49,680 --> 00:14:53,560 Speaker 1: and and and supporting, and and and and cherishing and 250 00:14:53,760 --> 00:14:56,480 Speaker 1: showcasing the talents, because it really the stars of the 251 00:14:56,520 --> 00:14:58,560 Speaker 1: show are the people in the community. It's not the 252 00:14:58,560 --> 00:15:01,680 Speaker 1: people who present their awards. And she felt that was important. 253 00:15:01,720 --> 00:15:05,040 Speaker 1: So I loved the way you guys affected community. And 254 00:15:05,080 --> 00:15:07,800 Speaker 1: that's one of the reasons. I know you're starting on 255 00:15:07,800 --> 00:15:09,920 Speaker 1: on you know, Queen Sugar, and I'm gonna promote that. 256 00:15:09,960 --> 00:15:11,520 Speaker 1: And you know I have been promoting this, but I 257 00:15:11,600 --> 00:15:15,040 Speaker 1: was more important to me was let people hear you. Man. 258 00:15:15,120 --> 00:15:18,120 Speaker 1: You're the man who had to your passion, your your 259 00:15:18,120 --> 00:15:21,480 Speaker 1: your career, your body of work. You know. And because 260 00:15:21,520 --> 00:15:24,920 Speaker 1: social media plays an important role, because Queen Sugar is 261 00:15:24,920 --> 00:15:26,840 Speaker 1: one of the most popular shows when it airs on 262 00:15:26,880 --> 00:15:30,920 Speaker 1: social media, that's important. And to get your story told correct, 263 00:15:32,760 --> 00:15:35,840 Speaker 1: what's talk about? And I'm gonna tell you the importance 264 00:15:36,560 --> 00:15:41,400 Speaker 1: of social media. I literally made a post um making 265 00:15:41,560 --> 00:15:46,400 Speaker 1: a great plea to our brother, uh Floyd Mayweather. He 266 00:15:46,440 --> 00:15:50,080 Speaker 1: had made a post uh talking about the value of 267 00:15:50,080 --> 00:15:53,840 Speaker 1: one of his watches. It was reportedly eighteen million dollars. 268 00:15:54,760 --> 00:15:59,360 Speaker 1: And and what I did was I said, you know, 269 00:16:00,000 --> 00:16:04,880 Speaker 1: a lot of people were, you know, destroying him over 270 00:16:05,000 --> 00:16:09,080 Speaker 1: the fact that you know that that he would invest 271 00:16:09,560 --> 00:16:13,680 Speaker 1: his money UM in what would seem to be such 272 00:16:13,760 --> 00:16:19,840 Speaker 1: a frivolous purchase when there are people that would you know, 273 00:16:20,040 --> 00:16:25,280 Speaker 1: that would obviously um do well in having that money 274 00:16:25,320 --> 00:16:31,280 Speaker 1: assists there, uh, their educational aspirations, their career goals, um, 275 00:16:31,320 --> 00:16:35,000 Speaker 1: the community, all of those things. And I said, you know, 276 00:16:35,560 --> 00:16:40,800 Speaker 1: rather than be one that does the ungodly thing, which 277 00:16:40,880 --> 00:16:44,040 Speaker 1: is to shame someone for some of the things that 278 00:16:44,080 --> 00:16:46,400 Speaker 1: they may have made, I do as a godly man, 279 00:16:46,440 --> 00:16:49,880 Speaker 1: what I try to do is lovingly hold our our 280 00:16:50,200 --> 00:16:55,000 Speaker 1: our folks accountable and to bring certain things to their attention. 281 00:16:55,400 --> 00:16:58,480 Speaker 1: So through a post, because I don't have a contact 282 00:16:58,480 --> 00:17:01,640 Speaker 1: for the brother, just to be honest, UM, I literally 283 00:17:01,680 --> 00:17:05,080 Speaker 1: made a post and I said, my brother, you're from 284 00:17:05,119 --> 00:17:09,720 Speaker 1: Grand Rapids, Michigan. Not far down the road is Flint, Michigan, 285 00:17:10,880 --> 00:17:16,000 Speaker 1: and our community could be resuscitated by that kind of money. 286 00:17:16,080 --> 00:17:21,119 Speaker 1: Your wealth could actually revive an entire community. You're talking 287 00:17:21,160 --> 00:17:25,760 Speaker 1: about a hundred thousand people in the city of Flint 288 00:17:26,600 --> 00:17:32,160 Speaker 1: that that are struggling with drinkable water. So I encouraged 289 00:17:32,200 --> 00:17:37,360 Speaker 1: our brother to turn his watch into water. And that's 290 00:17:37,359 --> 00:17:41,040 Speaker 1: what I have tagged watched into Water, and a few 291 00:17:41,119 --> 00:17:45,520 Speaker 1: days after that, the mayor of Flint got in touch 292 00:17:45,560 --> 00:17:50,080 Speaker 1: with me to say thank you, because it feels like 293 00:17:50,560 --> 00:17:55,080 Speaker 1: every single day we're distracted by certain issues. Were distracted 294 00:17:55,119 --> 00:17:58,760 Speaker 1: by the fact that Puerto Rico still isn't being properly addressed. 295 00:17:58,760 --> 00:18:01,800 Speaker 1: We're distracted by the fact that Flip Michigan still isn't 296 00:18:01,840 --> 00:18:06,879 Speaker 1: properly being addressed. And it's literally because every single day 297 00:18:07,119 --> 00:18:14,000 Speaker 1: we're bombard bombarded with another news story about a specific 298 00:18:14,640 --> 00:18:20,399 Speaker 1: administration not doing uh the job that they should be 299 00:18:20,440 --> 00:18:23,360 Speaker 1: doing as it pertains to the people that it's supposed 300 00:18:23,400 --> 00:18:26,679 Speaker 1: to be serving. So it's very difficult to stay on topic. 301 00:18:26,760 --> 00:18:30,840 Speaker 1: So she said, I literally wanted to call you myself 302 00:18:31,359 --> 00:18:34,160 Speaker 1: just to say thank you. We were on the phone 303 00:18:34,200 --> 00:18:36,760 Speaker 1: for an hour and a half. And because I am 304 00:18:36,800 --> 00:18:41,000 Speaker 1: a speaker, because I am a restoration agent, because that 305 00:18:41,119 --> 00:18:44,400 Speaker 1: is my purpose work, I offered my services. She said, 306 00:18:44,440 --> 00:18:46,480 Speaker 1: I would love to have you come here. I want 307 00:18:46,480 --> 00:18:48,480 Speaker 1: to thank you for coming on my show. Man, Hey, 308 00:18:48,560 --> 00:18:51,200 Speaker 1: you did you? You ended this show letting the world 309 00:18:51,240 --> 00:18:53,320 Speaker 1: know who you are, and I appreciate that because that's 310 00:18:53,359 --> 00:18:55,359 Speaker 1: all I wanted to people understand is that when you 311 00:18:55,440 --> 00:18:58,600 Speaker 1: called when it's when there's a call for service. 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