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Speaker 1: Hey guys, and welcome back to another week of casual Chaos.

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Speaker 1: This week, I have a super exciting guest, Tate Madden.

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Speaker 1: Welcome to Casual Chaos.

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Speaker 2: Thank you, thank you so much for having me.

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Speaker 1: First off, you are gorgeous.

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Speaker 2: Thank you.

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Speaker 1: Love your style. The hair is killing it, thank you.

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Speaker 1: Did you, like ever have long hair?

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Speaker 2: Oh? Yeah, I know. I had hair like down to hear,

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Speaker 2: like my whole life.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god.

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Speaker 2: And then COVID hit and my friend who is a hairstylist,

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Speaker 2: her salon shut down, and so she was just trying

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Speaker 2: to like put stuff on social media, so she's like,

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Speaker 2: can I cut in color your hair? And then when

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Speaker 2: I was over there, I was like, honestly, just chop

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Speaker 2: it off because if I hate it, no one is

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Speaker 2: seeing me anyway, so it'll grow out. And if I

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Speaker 2: love it, like I like, I'll know.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: And obviously I loved it because it's been years and

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Speaker 2: it's still still a bop.

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Speaker 1: So funny. I was actually on TikTok the other day

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Speaker 1: and Sophia Richie just cut a bob. Yes, and she

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Speaker 1: looks awesome too, and as expected, Yeah, I mean she

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Speaker 1: could pull quite literally anything off. Okay, I guess let's

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Speaker 1: start from the beginning. So did you grow up in Florida.

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Speaker 2: I did not. I grew up in Ohio. Oh Whatincinnati, Ohio? Oh?

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Speaker 1: So then what made you go to Florida.

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Speaker 2: My older sister lived in Florida. I actually was living

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Speaker 2: in Fort Worth, Texas at the time, and I would

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Speaker 2: visit my older sister. She has three boys, and I

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Speaker 2: just loved it, and so I would go and visit

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Speaker 2: my nephews and I was like, ah, like, I'm young,

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Speaker 2: I'm single, like I don't have anything holding me back, Like,

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Speaker 2: let's just try Florida. And then I just never left.

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Speaker 1: So you're like, parents and family are still in Ohio.

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Speaker 2: Still in Ohio. Yes, I have one sister, like I said,

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Speaker 2: lives in Florida. And then I have my younger sister

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Speaker 2: that I got to move to Florida. So little by little,

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Speaker 2: I'm one of six, so no way, just keep pulling.

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Speaker 2: All girls are mixed next so girl boy, then me,

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Speaker 2: and then boy girl girl.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, so many of you. I'm one of four,

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Speaker 1: so but I mean six, I feel like that's crazy.

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Speaker 2: And even there were three though, I feel like it's

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Speaker 2: just like craziness. Yeah, no matter how much fun.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, are you all so close? Yes?

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Speaker 2: I love having a big family. It is the most fun.

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Speaker 2: Like it's always so crazy and there was just no

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Speaker 2: structure growing up, like everything's just everywhere. But like when

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Speaker 2: I look back at it, I'm like, I had so

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Speaker 2: much fun. It was the best time. Do you like

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Speaker 2: having a big.

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Speaker 1: One hundred percent come from a big Italian family and

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Speaker 1: my dad's side is huge, so we just grew up

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Speaker 1: so many cousins. We all have so many siblings and

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Speaker 1: the house is never quiet now, there's never a dull moment.

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Speaker 1: There's always something going on. But that's the beauty of it.

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Speaker 1: And I feel like a lot of kids, if they're

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Speaker 1: like an only child, they always wish they had a sibling. Yes,

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Speaker 1: so I feel I guess grateful.

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Speaker 2: I can't imagine not having like a big family. I

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Speaker 2: also laugh when people try and they're like, oh, I'm

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Speaker 2: so sorry, it's a louder. So I'm like, this is

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Speaker 2: how I feel comfortable, Like I like it just being

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Speaker 2: absolute madness.

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Speaker 1: I'm too quiet or something.

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Speaker 2: Yes, I'm like, what's going on?

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Speaker 1: We got in trouble? Yes, So where did you go

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Speaker 1: to college?

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Speaker 2: I didn't go to college. Oh, no way plot twist. No,

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Speaker 2: I didn't go to college. Honestly, think I'm just too

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Speaker 2: add to like sit in a classroom.

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Speaker 1: It's not for everyone.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I just wanted to bop around. I went to

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Speaker 2: la for a bit, stayed with my brother for a

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Speaker 2: couple months, and here in New York. My family at

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Speaker 2: one point said that I was a bubble. They're like,

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Speaker 2: you really just float because I was just kind of

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Speaker 2: found my way, which was terrifying at times because I

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Speaker 2: did it when I was obviously so young, and when

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Speaker 2: you have six siblings, like, I don't want to have

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Speaker 2: help from anyone. I'm like, my parents have all my

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Speaker 2: younger siblings to worry about. I'm going to take care

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Speaker 2: of myself, which sometimes my mom would get mad at

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Speaker 2: me and she would yell at me and be like,

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Speaker 2: what are you doing, like call me? So yeah, that

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Speaker 2: was a thing, but we got through it and I'm here,

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Speaker 2: and I feel like that is like one of the

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Speaker 2: biggest reasons why I've matured and been able to like

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Speaker 2: navigate life. Say, I probably trusted myself helped.

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Speaker 1: You gain so much independence for yourself. Yes, when did

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Speaker 1: you start kind of being on your own?

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Speaker 2: Right after high school?

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Speaker 1: Oh Wowah So at eighteen, Oh yeah, I.

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Speaker 2: Was just like I'm just gonna go. I'm gonna figure

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Speaker 2: it out. I don't care like what I need to do.

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Speaker 2: It was a lot of like ups and downs, but

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Speaker 2: I'm very proud of myself for like where I am now.

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Speaker 1: It's probably so rewarding for yourself though, like look how

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Speaker 1: far I've come.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I hate being a burden to people, which again

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Speaker 2: is something that I should probably work on. How my

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Speaker 2: mom used to yell at me and say, you know,

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Speaker 2: I'm your mom, like if you need help, like call me.

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Speaker 2: I don't know if it's the competitiveness with myself or

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Speaker 2: what it is, but I was just always like, you

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Speaker 2: need to do this on your own, Like you need

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Speaker 2: to do this like by yourself, figure it out by yourself.

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Speaker 1: What's your sign?

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Speaker 2: A virgo?

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Speaker 1: You're a virgo? Okay, my sister's a virgo and so

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Speaker 1: was my No No, and he was the same way.

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Speaker 1: He was so like particular about everything, perfect everything, yes,

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Speaker 1: had to be his way. If he didn't do it,

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Speaker 1: then it wasn't good to night. Yes, that is me.

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Speaker 1: It's not bad to ask for help. But I completely

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Speaker 1: get what you mean.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, I think looking back now, I'm like, oh,

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Speaker 2: people want the parents that you can call no matter what,

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Speaker 2: and like, my parents are those parents. So I think

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Speaker 2: that's why they were very frustrated with me when I

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Speaker 2: parents that people dream of and I didn't always take

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Speaker 2: advantage of it. But I also think that they're proud

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Speaker 2: so always a learning curve.

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Speaker 1: I was even having this conversation with my cousin because

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Speaker 1: she's kind of dealing with the same thing, figuring out

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Speaker 1: I was like, you know what, when you are older,

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Speaker 1: you're going to look back and be so grateful that

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Speaker 1: you accomplished all this by yourself and that you didn't

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Speaker 1: ask anyone for help, not like you couldn't, but just

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Speaker 1: knowing that you accomplished all of this on your own,

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Speaker 1: all by yourself. That's more rewarding than necessarily asking someone

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Speaker 1: for help, which isn't a bad thing. Feel like it's

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Speaker 1: a self pride thing in a way.

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Speaker 2: And I think it gives you comfort cents in your choices,

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Speaker 2: and also it makes it where you're not having to

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Speaker 2: abide by someone else's rules. Like if I'm going to

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Speaker 2: make a mistake, I'm going to make a mistake because

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Speaker 2: I chose in this moment that this was the choice

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Speaker 2: I fully take accountability for it, Whereas if I'm getting

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Speaker 2: help from someone or they kind of have a little bit,

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Speaker 2: if I'm putting money into this, like it might sway

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Speaker 2: learn from them, because I think if you don't make

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Speaker 2: your own choices and make your own mistakes, like there's

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Speaker 2: always a little tinge of like regret later down the

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Speaker 2: road where it's like, oh, like what if I just

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Speaker 2: would have trusted to myself and did it myself and

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Speaker 2: not let someone like sway where I was headed.

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Speaker 1: So when it's coming out of your pocket, I feel

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Speaker 1: like you're yeah, more pocked in.

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Speaker 2: You're like, Okay, we're not going to mess this one up.

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Speaker 1: So how did you get hired to be on Tyler's show?

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Speaker 2: So I only am on like little syn bits, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: like I was brought on because Tyler and Kate were

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Speaker 2: my friend and he was so busy.

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Speaker 1: Prior to the show. Yes, okay, so you knew Tyler

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Speaker 1: before the show?

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Speaker 2: Yeh?

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Speaker 1: Did you know him like before kind of his rise

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 2: So a funny thing is is my little sister, the

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Speaker 2: one that I got to move to Florida already, she

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Speaker 2: was obsessed with Tyler and I didn't watch the Bachelorette.

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Speaker 2: Yeah all, And the only thing that I've seen of

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Speaker 2: him is my friend who I was living with at

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Speaker 2: the time. I came home and she was watching the

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Speaker 2: Bachelorette and I was like, Oh, what are you watching.

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Speaker 2: She's like, oh, I'm just watching the Bachelorette. There's just

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Speaker 2: a guy from Jupiter on the show, so it's interesting.

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Speaker 2: I was like, oh cool. I like saw him for

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Speaker 2: like zero point five seconds, never thought anything else of it.

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Speaker 2: And then my sister was like, Tate, you live where

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Speaker 2: Tyler Cameron lives? Like da da da.

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Speaker 1: She was to get on it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, She's like no, she wanted to find him, which

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Speaker 2: is so funny now because he's like an annoying brother

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Speaker 2: to her where she like can't stand him and she's like,

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Speaker 2: never meet your heroes, but in like a loving wife.

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Speaker 1: No, No, my boyfriend is the same way with me.

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Speaker 1: It's so funny.

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Speaker 2: But there's this one tweet that she did where it

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Speaker 2: was like a picture of Tyler without a shirt on,

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Speaker 2: and she was like, I love this man. And so

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Speaker 2: he will bring that up to her all the time,

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Speaker 2: like if he's being annoying, and I'll be like, well,

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Speaker 2: he's like, you love this man, and she's like, no,

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Speaker 2: I did not, No, I want to literally, but yeah.

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Speaker 2: So I became friends with him. One of his best

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Speaker 2: friends did like a fake wedding shoot with me. One

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Speaker 2: of our mutual friends is a wedding planner and she

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Speaker 2: needed like a fake briding groom. So I met him.

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Speaker 2: He was like, oh my gosh, you got to hang

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Speaker 2: out with the squad, like you gotta come on the boat.

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Speaker 2: And I was like okay, like whatever, and so I

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Speaker 2: went on this boat and it was Tyler's boat. Okay,

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Speaker 2: if you ask Tyler, he does not remember meeting me.

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Speaker 2: And we had a very long conversation that night and

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Speaker 2: I was like, oh my god, we're like friends.

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Speaker 1: We were friends.

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Speaker 2: He thought that I met him like when I started

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Speaker 2: helping him for the show. I was like, I've hung

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Speaker 2: out with you so many times. Skipped too. We did

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Speaker 2: become very obviously close friends during the show. Like no

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Speaker 2: romance at all. Yeah, looking back, I'm like, it was

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Speaker 2: just so much going on at once, but yeah, I

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Speaker 2: had no interest in dating him like whatsoever. And then

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Speaker 2: I think we both just have a very similar work

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Speaker 1: I mean, if you don't feel confident in your relationship

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Speaker 1: I love that. So, then, how long have you guys

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Speaker 2: I think we would like to have somewhere maybe in

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Speaker 1: Is he a skier.

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Speaker 2: But yeah, this first initial I'll have to show you

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Speaker 1: But you're a scared.

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Speaker 2: I am a scary y because of my friends.

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Speaker 1: I can't wait. I want to I've never been to

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Speaker 1: like with my mom. I'm making it a point. I

440
00:19:16,640 --> 00:19:18,480
Speaker 1: want to go there for my birthday this year because

441
00:19:18,520 --> 00:19:22,080
Speaker 1: I'm in January. I'm January eighth, so I really want

442
00:19:22,119 --> 00:19:24,200
Speaker 1: to go there for my birthday this year. And then

443
00:19:24,240 --> 00:19:26,679
Speaker 1: I was even seeing like bachelor rat trips in Aspen,

444
00:19:26,920 --> 00:19:27,960
Speaker 1: like this looks.

445
00:19:27,760 --> 00:19:29,720
Speaker 2: So fun, it is magical.

446
00:19:29,920 --> 00:19:31,879
Speaker 1: I think I just want to go there for the experience,

447
00:19:32,119 --> 00:19:33,840
Speaker 1: you know, go the.

448
00:19:33,880 --> 00:19:34,760
Speaker 2: Cutest little town.

449
00:19:34,840 --> 00:19:35,840
Speaker 1: Money will come back.

450
00:19:35,880 --> 00:19:38,240
Speaker 2: I can always make more money. Someone told me that

451
00:19:38,280 --> 00:19:39,800
Speaker 2: once when I was like, oh my gosh, like you

452
00:19:39,840 --> 00:19:41,399
Speaker 2: really need to start budgeting, and they were like, no,

453
00:19:41,480 --> 00:19:42,960
Speaker 2: you don't. You just need to make more money.

454
00:19:43,000 --> 00:19:45,399
Speaker 1: It's like every time I go into Aritzia, no matter what,

455
00:19:45,480 --> 00:19:47,440
Speaker 1: you're spending a lot of money when you go in there.

456
00:19:47,800 --> 00:19:49,679
Speaker 1: And every time I go to the register, you know,

457
00:19:49,760 --> 00:19:51,880
Speaker 1: because the Short Hills Mall is near Jersey. I don't

458
00:19:51,880 --> 00:19:53,520
Speaker 1: know if you've ever heard of it, but it's a

459
00:19:53,640 --> 00:19:55,919
Speaker 1: nice mall in Jersey, and it's the same people that

460
00:19:55,960 --> 00:19:57,720
Speaker 1: work at a Ritzia, the same people that help me

461
00:19:57,760 --> 00:19:59,880
Speaker 1: every time. And I'm at the register and I'm just.

462
00:19:59,840 --> 00:20:01,840
Speaker 2: Like, oh my gosh, tell me what I did.

463
00:20:01,880 --> 00:20:04,480
Speaker 1: And then they're like, you know, it's okay. Money comes

464
00:20:04,520 --> 00:20:07,919
Speaker 1: back and he comes back. I'm like, thanks, easy for

465
00:20:08,000 --> 00:20:10,200
Speaker 1: you guys to say, I have you enjoy your commissions?

466
00:20:11,240 --> 00:20:11,479
Speaker 1: I know.

467
00:20:11,520 --> 00:20:13,520
Speaker 2: They just opened it a Ritzia, like right next to

468
00:20:13,560 --> 00:20:15,879
Speaker 2: where I live. We had to go to the Miami

469
00:20:15,960 --> 00:20:18,840
Speaker 2: Open and I was panicking because it was like my

470
00:20:18,920 --> 00:20:21,080
Speaker 2: first brand deal thing that I was doing, and I

471
00:20:21,119 --> 00:20:23,800
Speaker 2: had nothing to wear. I went in there and bought

472
00:20:23,840 --> 00:20:26,439
Speaker 2: so much clothes and the lady was like, oh my gosh,

473
00:20:26,880 --> 00:20:28,879
Speaker 2: I see you're like a first time customer because I

474
00:20:28,880 --> 00:20:30,440
Speaker 2: had never been in a ritzy because there wasn't one

475
00:20:30,440 --> 00:20:32,760
Speaker 2: around me. She's like, I'll be seeing you all the time.

476
00:20:32,840 --> 00:20:34,720
Speaker 2: And I looked at the receipt. I'm like, ma'am, you

477
00:20:34,760 --> 00:20:37,639
Speaker 2: will never actually see me ever in your entire life. Like,

478
00:20:37,920 --> 00:20:40,200
Speaker 2: I have never spent this type of money.

479
00:20:40,400 --> 00:20:43,400
Speaker 1: It's crazy because you go in there, you actually could

480
00:20:43,440 --> 00:20:46,080
Speaker 1: only buy like one, two, three things and you're already

481
00:20:46,119 --> 00:20:48,960
Speaker 1: at like four hundred dollars. But if you do go

482
00:20:49,080 --> 00:20:52,280
Speaker 1: in there and do one splurge, you have the best

483
00:20:52,320 --> 00:20:55,480
Speaker 1: basics that will actually last you for it's all I

484
00:20:55,520 --> 00:20:59,119
Speaker 1: wear now. So yeah, their basics are incredible.

485
00:20:58,680 --> 00:21:01,280
Speaker 2: Yes, and they're very smart with how they do their

486
00:21:01,359 --> 00:21:04,280
Speaker 2: color palettes because they always have just like four or

487
00:21:04,320 --> 00:21:08,400
Speaker 2: five colors and then they have like ten different tops. Yeah,

488
00:21:08,640 --> 00:21:10,879
Speaker 2: so whatever body type you have, like they have a

489
00:21:10,920 --> 00:21:13,240
Speaker 2: top in that color and then all the bottoms in

490
00:21:13,280 --> 00:21:17,119
Speaker 2: those colors, like pants, like everything. So it's very easy and.

491
00:21:17,560 --> 00:21:20,119
Speaker 1: You could wear the shirt or the whatever you decide

492
00:21:20,119 --> 00:21:22,359
Speaker 1: to buy. The pants, the Blazer with like one hundred

493
00:21:22,359 --> 00:21:24,400
Speaker 1: different outfits because they're such a staple.

494
00:21:24,520 --> 00:21:24,760
Speaker 2: Yeah.

495
00:21:24,960 --> 00:21:27,120
Speaker 1: So how are the home renovations coming. I've seen some

496
00:21:27,160 --> 00:21:30,240
Speaker 1: photos and it's stunning. I'm so excited to do that

497
00:21:30,280 --> 00:21:32,320
Speaker 1: one day. Thank you. Like, I'm so excited.

498
00:21:32,480 --> 00:21:35,119
Speaker 2: I've always dreamed of doing it and it was so

499
00:21:35,240 --> 00:21:39,160
Speaker 2: much fun. But holy cow, it was so much more.

500
00:21:39,760 --> 00:21:42,200
Speaker 1: Did you not get a glimpse of it from Tyler's show?

501
00:21:42,640 --> 00:21:46,120
Speaker 2: I did, but it was different for the show because

502
00:21:46,400 --> 00:21:50,880
Speaker 2: you go home to your own house, yeah, your own bed,

503
00:21:51,000 --> 00:21:54,119
Speaker 2: like everything's put together. Where when we started doing this

504
00:21:54,119 --> 00:21:55,920
Speaker 2: home renno, We're like, oh, we'll live in it. We'll

505
00:21:55,960 --> 00:21:57,719
Speaker 2: just do a piece by piece, Like we'll knock out

506
00:21:57,760 --> 00:22:01,880
Speaker 2: the kitchen first, yeah, and then we'll do this piece. Well,

507
00:22:01,920 --> 00:22:03,920
Speaker 2: then we just started doing you know, we had to

508
00:22:03,920 --> 00:22:06,040
Speaker 2: fix the electrical, so they started having to like knock

509
00:22:06,080 --> 00:22:07,840
Speaker 2: down walls in places we didn't think we were gonna

510
00:22:07,880 --> 00:22:10,680
Speaker 2: have to knock down right away. And by time that happened,

511
00:22:10,680 --> 00:22:12,720
Speaker 2: there was like so much I was like, we can't

512
00:22:12,760 --> 00:22:16,000
Speaker 2: live here. Yeah, and I had already moved out of

513
00:22:16,040 --> 00:22:19,479
Speaker 2: the apartment with my sister and her boyfriend. He was

514
00:22:19,520 --> 00:22:22,400
Speaker 2: basically living at the apartment and they have a big

515
00:22:22,440 --> 00:22:25,639
Speaker 2: golden doodle and I have a labradoodle.

516
00:22:25,040 --> 00:22:26,679
Speaker 1: And Tyler, how you guys have dogs?

517
00:22:26,800 --> 00:22:30,920
Speaker 2: Yes, So we were like, we can't stay here, and

518
00:22:31,000 --> 00:22:35,160
Speaker 2: so we moved into the tiny two bedroom apartment with

519
00:22:35,280 --> 00:22:38,680
Speaker 2: our dogs. It was her boy my sister's boyfriend her

520
00:22:39,119 --> 00:22:39,600
Speaker 2: you all.

521
00:22:40,000 --> 00:22:42,199
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, like in this teenye, So that must have

522
00:22:42,280 --> 00:22:45,360
Speaker 1: grown your relationship from closed to just a bit.

523
00:22:45,600 --> 00:22:48,320
Speaker 2: And we just started dating. I'm like, we are going

524
00:22:48,440 --> 00:22:51,600
Speaker 2: all in, like straight out the gate. There is no

525
00:22:51,720 --> 00:22:52,600
Speaker 2: messing around here.

526
00:22:52,720 --> 00:22:55,600
Speaker 1: And so that was three dogs in one apartment.

527
00:22:55,960 --> 00:23:00,760
Speaker 2: Luckily, his dog Kate, who was on his show, one

528
00:23:00,760 --> 00:23:03,520
Speaker 2: of his best friends from growing up. Her mom is

529
00:23:03,560 --> 00:23:07,560
Speaker 2: an angel, the best person ever. She is obsessed with Harley,

530
00:23:07,600 --> 00:23:10,000
Speaker 2: which is his dog, and now she's obsessed with my dog,

531
00:23:10,760 --> 00:23:13,560
Speaker 2: and so she babysits like tries to steal them all

532
00:23:13,560 --> 00:23:17,000
Speaker 2: the time. So Harley was able to stay with her

533
00:23:17,320 --> 00:23:19,320
Speaker 2: a good amount of the time because it was it

534
00:23:19,359 --> 00:23:22,080
Speaker 2: was just a lot to have three dogs. But yeah,

535
00:23:22,080 --> 00:23:24,199
Speaker 2: we were all just like packed in there like sardines

536
00:23:24,359 --> 00:23:27,040
Speaker 2: and just our stuff is everywhere. We had like a

537
00:23:27,080 --> 00:23:29,679
Speaker 2: storage unit and we had, you know, stuff still at

538
00:23:29,720 --> 00:23:31,480
Speaker 2: the house, and we had stuff in the apartment. It

539
00:23:31,560 --> 00:23:34,040
Speaker 2: was something that I never ever want to do ever again.

540
00:23:34,280 --> 00:23:35,959
Speaker 1: So so how long did that last?

541
00:23:36,200 --> 00:23:40,399
Speaker 2: Like that lasted probably like four months, yeah, which doesn't

542
00:23:40,440 --> 00:23:41,720
Speaker 2: sound like a long time.

543
00:23:41,560 --> 00:23:43,000
Speaker 1: But it was a long time time.

544
00:23:43,160 --> 00:23:45,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, when I think back to that time in my life,

545
00:23:45,640 --> 00:23:46,880
Speaker 2: like I don't even know how.

546
00:23:47,320 --> 00:23:49,399
Speaker 1: So then in four months, like the house was able

547
00:23:49,440 --> 00:23:50,840
Speaker 1: to be kind of lived in again.

548
00:23:50,880 --> 00:23:53,040
Speaker 2: I lived in. They like closed up all the walls.

549
00:23:53,200 --> 00:23:53,720
Speaker 1: Yeah.

550
00:23:53,800 --> 00:23:56,960
Speaker 2: The worst part about home renovations is all of the

551
00:23:56,960 --> 00:24:00,399
Speaker 2: inside the wall stuff, like the plumbing, the ac all

552
00:24:00,480 --> 00:24:04,280
Speaker 2: the electrical It takes so long and there's like no

553
00:24:04,400 --> 00:24:05,520
Speaker 2: satisfaction to it.

554
00:24:05,640 --> 00:24:07,959
Speaker 1: Yeah, you feel like so much getting done and then

555
00:24:08,000 --> 00:24:11,040
Speaker 1: you're like okay, great, like I don't see yeah, I

556
00:24:11,040 --> 00:24:13,520
Speaker 1: just gave him money and like what did you even do? Yeah?

557
00:24:13,720 --> 00:24:17,320
Speaker 2: So yeah, that that was rough, But the design part

558
00:24:17,400 --> 00:24:18,359
Speaker 2: was like so much fun.

559
00:24:18,560 --> 00:24:20,359
Speaker 1: Did you kind of take that over or did you

560
00:24:20,400 --> 00:24:21,800
Speaker 1: guys both enjoy doing that?

561
00:24:22,280 --> 00:24:26,000
Speaker 2: So I designed basically the whole house, but I will

562
00:24:26,080 --> 00:24:28,919
Speaker 2: say the house is very quirky. I was like French

563
00:24:28,960 --> 00:24:32,800
Speaker 2: cottage is kind of like what I'm seeing. He oh

564
00:24:32,800 --> 00:24:36,360
Speaker 2: my gosh. Love loved it, like loves to go thrifting

565
00:24:36,440 --> 00:24:39,480
Speaker 2: with me now, like to find antiques. Like it's so

566
00:24:39,560 --> 00:24:42,560
Speaker 2: excited if he'll find something to like show me. So

567
00:24:42,600 --> 00:24:45,000
Speaker 2: that was something that I did not know about him

568
00:24:45,080 --> 00:24:47,560
Speaker 2: that it was like one of the cutest things ever.

569
00:24:47,720 --> 00:24:50,680
Speaker 2: Is like he really loved everything that I showed him.

570
00:24:50,720 --> 00:24:53,240
Speaker 2: I wouldn't have expected him to. Like a French cottage

571
00:24:53,400 --> 00:24:54,359
Speaker 2: themed house.

572
00:24:54,200 --> 00:24:57,520
Speaker 1: Oh for sure. And then like, I feel like that's

573
00:24:57,520 --> 00:24:59,800
Speaker 1: the best thing though, as you're like creating your dream home,

574
00:25:00,080 --> 00:25:01,680
Speaker 1: both of your visions are coming to life.

575
00:25:01,800 --> 00:25:04,680
Speaker 2: Yes. Yeah, And he's like my biggest cheerleader. I mean

576
00:25:04,800 --> 00:25:07,000
Speaker 2: sometimes I'm like, do you actually like what I'm doing?

577
00:25:07,080 --> 00:25:09,000
Speaker 2: Because he's just anything I do. I mean I could

578
00:25:09,040 --> 00:25:11,440
Speaker 2: draw a smiley face on the wall and he's like, well,

579
00:25:11,680 --> 00:25:14,479
Speaker 2: people will come over, Tate did this. Tate drew that

580
00:25:14,560 --> 00:25:17,800
Speaker 2: smiley face, and I'll be like, Okay, it's not that serious, relax.

581
00:25:18,160 --> 00:25:20,240
Speaker 2: But yeah, he's like my biggest cheerleader, Like I can

582
00:25:20,320 --> 00:25:23,920
Speaker 2: do no wrong. He thinks anything that I do is amazing.

583
00:25:24,119 --> 00:25:36,119
Speaker 1: So it's so amazing. Are the renovations almost done? Yeah, like,

584
00:25:36,400 --> 00:25:37,480
Speaker 1: are you at the home stretch.

585
00:25:37,720 --> 00:25:40,880
Speaker 2: We're at the home stretch, so the inside is basically done.

586
00:25:40,920 --> 00:25:45,040
Speaker 2: We just had Gaii Alex do two rooms upstairs for us,

587
00:25:46,040 --> 00:25:49,040
Speaker 2: So I said, the house feels like it's twenty times

588
00:25:49,119 --> 00:25:52,800
Speaker 2: bigger now because we never went upstairs. There's like a

589
00:25:52,840 --> 00:25:55,119
Speaker 2: bonus room type thing, and then there's two bedrooms in

590
00:25:55,160 --> 00:25:58,760
Speaker 2: the bathroom upstairs. But we were just waiting for her

591
00:25:58,800 --> 00:26:00,600
Speaker 2: to do it, so we just never up there. And

592
00:26:00,640 --> 00:26:03,040
Speaker 2: now that it's done, I'm like, oh my gosh, I'm like,

593
00:26:03,080 --> 00:26:07,080
Speaker 2: this house feels like ginormous now, but it's so nice

594
00:26:07,080 --> 00:26:09,679
Speaker 2: to have, like the entire house no matter where we go,

595
00:26:09,800 --> 00:26:13,400
Speaker 2: it's like finished. But now we have to do the outside.

596
00:26:13,480 --> 00:26:16,280
Speaker 2: So if you pull up to our house, you would

597
00:26:16,280 --> 00:26:22,320
Speaker 2: be like, what is this Like? It looks not cute, yeah,

598
00:26:22,359 --> 00:26:24,720
Speaker 2: but then you walk in. I love when people haven't

599
00:26:24,720 --> 00:26:26,119
Speaker 2: been there before and then they walk into They're like,

600
00:26:26,200 --> 00:26:28,920
Speaker 2: oh my gosh, this is sick, and I'm like, yeah,

601
00:26:28,960 --> 00:26:31,840
Speaker 2: I know you guys. Yeah, it makes the effect, like

602
00:26:32,240 --> 00:26:35,080
Speaker 2: the reaction better when they have to see the outside

603
00:26:35,119 --> 00:26:35,800
Speaker 2: before they walk in.

604
00:26:35,960 --> 00:26:38,560
Speaker 1: Once they see the inside, they know that side. Yeah,

605
00:26:38,600 --> 00:26:39,880
Speaker 1: it's gonna be just that's great.

606
00:26:39,920 --> 00:26:41,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, so we're about to start on that.

607
00:26:41,840 --> 00:26:43,440
Speaker 1: Do you think this is going to be your forever home?

608
00:26:43,480 --> 00:26:44,480
Speaker 1: At least for a little bit.

609
00:26:44,560 --> 00:26:47,159
Speaker 2: Oh no, Tyler's already like should we get land and

610
00:26:47,280 --> 00:26:50,600
Speaker 2: like build a house from scratch? I'm like, can we

611
00:26:50,720 --> 00:26:54,160
Speaker 2: enjoy this for five seconds? Like I will actually jump

612
00:26:54,200 --> 00:26:54,680
Speaker 2: off a bridge.

613
00:26:54,800 --> 00:26:56,360
Speaker 1: So is he more of like the buy and cell

614
00:26:56,440 --> 00:26:57,800
Speaker 1: type guy you think? So?

615
00:26:57,880 --> 00:27:01,640
Speaker 2: He has four short term rentals okay that I help

616
00:27:01,720 --> 00:27:05,440
Speaker 2: him run, and he's on Zillow more than he's on

617
00:27:06,200 --> 00:27:09,200
Speaker 2: TikTok Instagram any side, Like he loves looking.

618
00:27:09,440 --> 00:27:13,439
Speaker 1: I mean, it's such a good investment and it's just

619
00:27:13,760 --> 00:27:15,720
Speaker 1: consistent revenue that comes in.

620
00:27:16,000 --> 00:27:18,199
Speaker 2: Yes, so been loving that. He just got his real

621
00:27:18,280 --> 00:27:20,760
Speaker 2: estate license. Yeah, real estate is definitely something that he's

622
00:27:20,760 --> 00:27:21,520
Speaker 2: like passionate about.

623
00:27:21,840 --> 00:27:25,000
Speaker 1: It's honestly also just such a good license to have. Yes,

624
00:27:25,200 --> 00:27:26,879
Speaker 1: you don't need to go to college or anything. You know,

625
00:27:26,880 --> 00:27:28,760
Speaker 1: it's a real estate license. And as long as you

626
00:27:28,840 --> 00:27:32,080
Speaker 1: have that charisma and way of talking. I feel like

627
00:27:32,160 --> 00:27:34,520
Speaker 1: real estate is a great field for a lot of

628
00:27:34,520 --> 00:27:37,640
Speaker 1: people who are really good at talking and can sell something,

629
00:27:37,760 --> 00:27:39,320
Speaker 1: which are social and outgoing.

630
00:27:39,560 --> 00:27:39,720
Speaker 2: Yeah.

631
00:27:39,720 --> 00:27:41,360
Speaker 1: I feel like that's also a lot of people who

632
00:27:41,359 --> 00:27:44,120
Speaker 1: maybe didn't love school, but they are They have such

633
00:27:44,160 --> 00:27:47,480
Speaker 1: a good personality and can talk, and that's why I

634
00:27:47,520 --> 00:27:49,760
Speaker 1: think real. My boyfriend has his real estate license too.

635
00:27:49,760 --> 00:27:51,440
Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, you start using it more. I was like,

636
00:27:51,520 --> 00:27:53,400
Speaker 1: it's really like so good.

637
00:27:53,240 --> 00:27:55,400
Speaker 2: But it is so good to just have. Like Tyler

638
00:27:55,400 --> 00:27:58,719
Speaker 2: would always say, people sometime like every now and then

639
00:27:58,800 --> 00:28:00,639
Speaker 2: a couple times a year reach out to him like

640
00:28:00,720 --> 00:28:04,560
Speaker 2: where they should buy in Jupiter. Every time he would

641
00:28:04,600 --> 00:28:07,040
Speaker 2: be like, oh, why don't I have my real estate license? Now?

642
00:28:07,040 --> 00:28:09,360
Speaker 2: He has four short term rentals, he has the house

643
00:28:09,400 --> 00:28:11,959
Speaker 2: we live in, Like, he's also always you know, buying

644
00:28:12,080 --> 00:28:15,160
Speaker 2: homes and instead of you know, giving that commission away,

645
00:28:15,200 --> 00:28:17,919
Speaker 2: he could just do it himself, so which is incredible.

646
00:28:18,040 --> 00:28:20,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree, I mean Christianize how him the same thing.

647
00:28:20,800 --> 00:28:24,120
Speaker 1: He yearly pays his MLS, like, always renews it. Yeah,

648
00:28:24,200 --> 00:28:26,600
Speaker 1: has his real estate license no matter what, even though

649
00:28:26,640 --> 00:28:29,159
Speaker 1: if he's not using it at the time. Now that

650
00:28:29,280 --> 00:28:31,960
Speaker 1: my friends are starting to look at apartments and move out,

651
00:28:32,280 --> 00:28:34,280
Speaker 1: because we're at that stage right now where we're all

652
00:28:34,320 --> 00:28:38,200
Speaker 1: starting to move out and look at places, he was like, incredible,

653
00:28:38,280 --> 00:28:41,280
Speaker 1: I could show everyone in the New Jersey area get

654
00:28:41,280 --> 00:28:43,320
Speaker 1: the commission and it's so handy.

655
00:28:43,520 --> 00:28:45,480
Speaker 2: Yes, how long have you guys been dating?

656
00:28:45,640 --> 00:28:47,400
Speaker 1: We've been together since we were nineteen.

657
00:28:47,520 --> 00:28:48,320
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh.

658
00:28:48,440 --> 00:28:51,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, we went through ups and downs as well, of course,

659
00:28:51,440 --> 00:28:54,080
Speaker 1: but we've been on the steady road for a while now,

660
00:28:54,160 --> 00:28:57,880
Speaker 1: so yeah, it's like that whole transition, which is crazy

661
00:28:57,920 --> 00:29:01,200
Speaker 1: of like, okay, leaving the nest suit, Yeah, moving out,

662
00:29:01,760 --> 00:29:04,719
Speaker 1: especially just because of my work. It's all in the city.

663
00:29:05,280 --> 00:29:08,080
Speaker 1: So I'm in Jersey, which isn't bad in retrospect. If

664
00:29:08,080 --> 00:29:09,920
Speaker 1: you're just living in Jersey and you want to go

665
00:29:10,000 --> 00:29:13,200
Speaker 1: out in the city for a night, okay, totally manageable.

666
00:29:13,600 --> 00:29:16,920
Speaker 1: But when I'm here every day, every day, Yeah, and

667
00:29:16,960 --> 00:29:19,440
Speaker 1: going back and forth, driving in and out, paying the

668
00:29:19,480 --> 00:29:23,400
Speaker 1: parking garage fees, you know, risk and getting street parking tickets,

669
00:29:23,560 --> 00:29:26,480
Speaker 1: just all of the things, I'm like, this is not

670
00:29:26,560 --> 00:29:29,840
Speaker 1: worth it. I rather live in you know, Jersey City,

671
00:29:29,920 --> 00:29:32,479
Speaker 1: which is you know, a little more reasonable rent than

672
00:29:32,560 --> 00:29:35,239
Speaker 1: obviously living in New York City. But then you have

673
00:29:35,280 --> 00:29:38,440
Speaker 1: the luxury of taking the path, which is twenty minutes

674
00:29:38,600 --> 00:29:41,640
Speaker 1: you know, you're in the it's very easy, you know,

675
00:29:41,880 --> 00:29:45,280
Speaker 1: public transportation to get into the city from Jersey City

676
00:29:45,360 --> 00:29:48,640
Speaker 1: or Hoboken. That's where I'm like, Okay, when my friend

677
00:29:48,760 --> 00:29:51,120
Speaker 1: just said this to me today, Gia, don't go crazy

678
00:29:51,160 --> 00:29:54,800
Speaker 1: on an apartment yet, like get a one bedroom just

679
00:29:55,080 --> 00:29:58,160
Speaker 1: literally make it a space where you can spend two

680
00:29:58,320 --> 00:30:00,959
Speaker 1: or three nights a week there and then when you

681
00:30:01,000 --> 00:30:03,160
Speaker 1: want to come home, you come home, but at least

682
00:30:03,200 --> 00:30:05,480
Speaker 1: so you're not lugging yourself back and forth into the

683
00:30:05,480 --> 00:30:08,240
Speaker 1: city every day. And I was like, whoa, that was

684
00:30:08,360 --> 00:30:11,560
Speaker 1: like the smartest thing you ever said, just to have

685
00:30:11,720 --> 00:30:15,200
Speaker 1: a place to just go back to, especially like a

686
00:30:15,280 --> 00:30:18,320
Speaker 1: day like today, like you know, filming podcasts today, I

687
00:30:18,320 --> 00:30:20,720
Speaker 1: have Amazon right after this, and then I have a

688
00:30:20,800 --> 00:30:24,120
Speaker 1: red carpet at night. Yeah, those little in between hours

689
00:30:24,120 --> 00:30:27,040
Speaker 1: would be so nice to like go home and refresh myself.

690
00:30:27,200 --> 00:30:30,720
Speaker 1: It's happening very soon. So where does your career stand now?

691
00:30:30,960 --> 00:30:33,000
Speaker 1: I know you and Tyler kind of work together on

692
00:30:33,040 --> 00:30:36,240
Speaker 1: social media. How has your career evolved over the years.

693
00:30:36,800 --> 00:30:41,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's interesting. So my resume is wild. Worked with

694
00:30:41,680 --> 00:30:45,320
Speaker 2: horses in Texas. Before I moved to Florida, I worked

695
00:30:45,320 --> 00:30:48,920
Speaker 2: with cutting horses, and then once I moved here, I

696
00:30:49,160 --> 00:30:51,400
Speaker 2: was a personal shopper at Bloomingdale's.

697
00:30:51,920 --> 00:30:52,120
Speaker 1: Wow.

698
00:30:52,520 --> 00:30:55,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, and then I worked at a little boutique underneath

699
00:30:55,560 --> 00:30:59,520
Speaker 2: the creative director, which was more my speed because it

700
00:30:59,640 --> 00:31:01,680
Speaker 2: get to just like style how I wanted for like

701
00:31:01,720 --> 00:31:04,840
Speaker 2: fashion shows and whatnot that they did and photo shoots,

702
00:31:05,400 --> 00:31:09,080
Speaker 2: and then I kind of went into doing the social

703
00:31:09,080 --> 00:31:13,560
Speaker 2: media for Tyler and during the show, I came on

704
00:31:13,840 --> 00:31:17,280
Speaker 2: to do social media, and then it evolved where, oh,

705
00:31:17,320 --> 00:31:19,520
Speaker 2: the budget wasn't being tracked correctly, so I was like

706
00:31:20,080 --> 00:31:22,239
Speaker 2: everyone's panicing. I'm like, I'll take that on too. And

707
00:31:22,240 --> 00:31:24,480
Speaker 2: then it was like one thing after the other, like oh,

708
00:31:24,480 --> 00:31:26,200
Speaker 2: we need people like to stay late to like help

709
00:31:26,240 --> 00:31:28,040
Speaker 2: get this house ready for a reveal. It's like, okay,

710
00:31:28,080 --> 00:31:29,680
Speaker 2: I'll do that. So then I kind of all started

711
00:31:29,680 --> 00:31:32,520
Speaker 2: to pile on. Now I think I kind of do

712
00:31:32,720 --> 00:31:35,680
Speaker 2: that same kind of thing. How I just kept piling

713
00:31:35,720 --> 00:31:36,120
Speaker 2: things on.

714
00:31:36,200 --> 00:31:37,680
Speaker 1: You're kind of managing everything.

715
00:31:37,760 --> 00:31:40,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, I helped manage the short term rentals that Tyler has.

716
00:31:40,840 --> 00:31:43,880
Speaker 2: We obviously do social media, which I'm just now trying

717
00:31:43,880 --> 00:31:47,000
Speaker 2: to get familiar with, like the social media thing. And

718
00:31:47,160 --> 00:31:49,760
Speaker 2: it was like for so long we kept our relationship

719
00:31:49,760 --> 00:31:51,680
Speaker 2: pretty secret. For like the first year, it was so

720
00:31:51,760 --> 00:31:54,000
Speaker 2: much easier just to like film him doing stuff. And

721
00:31:54,040 --> 00:31:55,800
Speaker 2: now it's like he's like we'll get in and get

722
00:31:55,800 --> 00:31:56,680
Speaker 2: in it, and I'm just.

723
00:31:56,600 --> 00:32:00,400
Speaker 1: Like, did you guys reveal? Your relationship or did the

724
00:32:00,400 --> 00:32:01,480
Speaker 1: public There.

725
00:32:01,400 --> 00:32:04,120
Speaker 2: Was always like tiktoks and stuff, like I think it

726
00:32:04,240 --> 00:32:08,760
Speaker 2: was after our friend's wedding. There was a video of

727
00:32:08,840 --> 00:32:11,480
Speaker 2: him and I dancing, and well.

728
00:32:11,280 --> 00:32:12,920
Speaker 1: Whoever was at that wedding.

729
00:32:13,080 --> 00:32:16,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, little switch. Well you know we posted it, yeah, yeah,

730
00:32:16,760 --> 00:32:20,239
Speaker 2: little wedding somewhat out of you, Like, our friends sent

731
00:32:20,360 --> 00:32:23,840
Speaker 2: us like a video of us dancing and it was cute,

732
00:32:24,000 --> 00:32:26,880
Speaker 2: and so we ended up posting it. And that was

733
00:32:26,960 --> 00:32:29,240
Speaker 2: kind of like the hard launch. We didn' kiss or

734
00:32:29,280 --> 00:32:31,520
Speaker 2: anything in it, but it was very obvious. That's kind

735
00:32:31,520 --> 00:32:33,800
Speaker 2: of how we launched. But yeah, the social media thing

736
00:32:33,880 --> 00:32:36,640
Speaker 2: is still getting in the groove of it, slowly but

737
00:32:36,680 --> 00:32:38,920
Speaker 2: surely learning, Like people are going to say good things,

738
00:32:38,960 --> 00:32:40,600
Speaker 2: people are going to say bad things. People are gonna

739
00:32:40,600 --> 00:32:43,800
Speaker 2: have opinions about this, and you're dead. Yeah, so you

740
00:32:43,880 --> 00:32:46,880
Speaker 2: just kind of have to like let it just go.

741
00:32:47,640 --> 00:32:49,880
Speaker 1: But I mean you saw it from a behind the

742
00:32:49,920 --> 00:32:53,400
Speaker 1: scenes perspective because you like, we're filming Tyler and yes,

743
00:32:53,800 --> 00:32:56,400
Speaker 1: managing his social media, so you I'm sure we're seeing

744
00:32:56,400 --> 00:32:59,760
Speaker 1: the comments about him, But then so did that kind

745
00:32:59,760 --> 00:33:00,600
Speaker 1: of pair you.

746
00:33:00,960 --> 00:33:04,960
Speaker 2: A little bit? He has very few negative comments, like

747
00:33:05,520 --> 00:33:08,680
Speaker 2: it is nice, so nice and every once in a while,

748
00:33:08,880 --> 00:33:11,640
Speaker 2: like someone will say something negative, but for the most part,

749
00:33:11,680 --> 00:33:14,400
Speaker 2: like people just love him. So yeah, when when he

750
00:33:14,440 --> 00:33:16,400
Speaker 2: started to post me, I think.

751
00:33:16,440 --> 00:33:19,120
Speaker 1: The girls that were probably jealous are like, you're taking

752
00:33:19,120 --> 00:33:19,720
Speaker 1: my mad.

753
00:33:19,680 --> 00:33:22,880
Speaker 2: Well honestly too, Like I kind of assumed, like like

754
00:33:22,920 --> 00:33:25,760
Speaker 2: I'm confident in myself, but there's always going to be

755
00:33:25,840 --> 00:33:28,120
Speaker 2: the people to bring up, like the ex girlfriends and stuff.

756
00:33:28,120 --> 00:33:30,200
Speaker 2: I mean, he has beautiful ex girlfriends, Like I take

757
00:33:30,240 --> 00:33:32,000
Speaker 2: that more as a compliment, like, hey, I'm a part

758
00:33:32,040 --> 00:33:37,480
Speaker 2: of this group of beautiful people, and people just try

759
00:33:37,480 --> 00:33:39,480
Speaker 2: to like switch it into like a negative.

760
00:33:39,120 --> 00:33:41,480
Speaker 1: Thing and compare and try to like yes.

761
00:33:41,760 --> 00:33:45,040
Speaker 2: And I think like the craziest thing when I started

762
00:33:45,040 --> 00:33:47,200
Speaker 2: to get people a little bit of a following is

763
00:33:47,320 --> 00:33:51,240
Speaker 2: just people basically talking about you, like in front of you, essentially,

764
00:33:51,320 --> 00:33:54,320
Speaker 2: like on my page on my post, like she is

765
00:33:54,360 --> 00:33:56,400
Speaker 2: this and this and this she is. I'm like, why

766
00:33:56,400 --> 00:33:58,280
Speaker 2: are you saying she like you are? I'm right here.

767
00:33:59,840 --> 00:34:01,719
Speaker 2: Is when you get like a little bit of a following,

768
00:34:01,760 --> 00:34:04,840
Speaker 2: I think people forget like, hey, you're actually commenty and

769
00:34:04,880 --> 00:34:07,400
Speaker 2: like on their posts like they're seeing it. So when

770
00:34:07,440 --> 00:34:10,319
Speaker 2: you're saying like she's so ugly or this or that.

771
00:34:10,400 --> 00:34:13,000
Speaker 2: It's like you're just talking to me. Yeah, So that's

772
00:34:13,080 --> 00:34:15,840
Speaker 2: part was like bizarre to me because normally before I

773
00:34:15,880 --> 00:34:17,160
Speaker 2: had a little bit of a following, it was just

774
00:34:17,200 --> 00:34:18,399
Speaker 2: my family like, oh my.

775
00:34:18,320 --> 00:34:21,399
Speaker 3: Gosh, you look so cute, like you look oh my gosh,

776
00:34:21,480 --> 00:34:24,600
Speaker 3: that's so funny Tate, where instead of like a secret

777
00:34:25,200 --> 00:34:27,600
Speaker 3: message portal where they like, she is this than this

778
00:34:27,719 --> 00:34:29,640
Speaker 3: where they don't, like they're on Reddit and I can't

779
00:34:29,640 --> 00:34:30,359
Speaker 3: see who they are.

780
00:34:30,480 --> 00:34:33,120
Speaker 1: So oh literally was that hard for you though, kind

781
00:34:33,160 --> 00:34:37,160
Speaker 1: of adjusting from seeing Tyler's past and being so comfortable

782
00:34:37,200 --> 00:34:39,600
Speaker 1: with him to now, did that ever make you worry

783
00:34:39,600 --> 00:34:41,480
Speaker 1: some a little bit for your relationship?

784
00:34:41,920 --> 00:34:46,399
Speaker 2: No, because which people might think I'm crazy for saying that,

785
00:34:46,600 --> 00:34:50,960
Speaker 2: but I've seen Tyler like the ebbs and flows of

786
00:34:51,000 --> 00:34:55,160
Speaker 2: like who he is as a person, always a great person.

787
00:34:55,400 --> 00:34:58,360
Speaker 2: But there's definitely like he loved being in the streets

788
00:34:58,360 --> 00:35:00,000
Speaker 2: when he was in the streets, like he always says that,

789
00:35:00,239 --> 00:35:02,560
Speaker 2: like you can't take me out of the streets, Like

790
00:35:02,600 --> 00:35:05,080
Speaker 2: he loved me out of the town, loved staying out

791
00:35:05,120 --> 00:35:08,560
Speaker 2: all night, like he was living it up. And I

792
00:35:08,600 --> 00:35:12,279
Speaker 2: think because I saw that stage of his life and

793
00:35:12,960 --> 00:35:16,800
Speaker 2: I also saw him after the show kind of dim from.

794
00:35:16,560 --> 00:35:21,479
Speaker 1: That, like maybe he had his fun. Yeah he's calmed down.

795
00:35:21,640 --> 00:35:24,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, like we will get fro yo, we will cuddle

796
00:35:24,040 --> 00:35:26,080
Speaker 2: in bed, we will put on the show that we're watching.

797
00:35:26,160 --> 00:35:28,080
Speaker 1: I think that's kind of I feel like this is

798
00:35:28,120 --> 00:35:31,319
Speaker 1: most boys. Maybe I'm wrong, I don't know, but I

799
00:35:31,360 --> 00:35:33,440
Speaker 1: mean I at least dealt with this with my boyfriend too,

800
00:35:33,480 --> 00:35:35,239
Speaker 1: you know, especially because we dated when we were so

801
00:35:35,400 --> 00:35:39,040
Speaker 1: young and everything happened. But like every boy, especially, you know,

802
00:35:39,080 --> 00:35:42,279
Speaker 1: when they're attractive and they get the attention from other females,

803
00:35:42,800 --> 00:35:45,040
Speaker 1: they're gonna have their time where they want to go

804
00:35:45,120 --> 00:35:48,080
Speaker 1: all out. Yeah, so have your fun, go be a dog,

805
00:35:48,280 --> 00:35:50,399
Speaker 1: do what you need to do. But then when they

806
00:35:50,440 --> 00:35:53,239
Speaker 1: find their person, I feel like they don't see a

807
00:35:53,320 --> 00:35:56,040
Speaker 1: need to do it anymore. And you feel that security

808
00:35:56,080 --> 00:35:56,439
Speaker 1: as well.

809
00:35:56,560 --> 00:35:58,759
Speaker 2: Yes, it is like a feeling. And I mean, like

810
00:35:58,800 --> 00:36:00,920
Speaker 2: I said, Tyler's an open book. And when I say that,

811
00:36:01,000 --> 00:36:03,200
Speaker 2: I mean like because I help him with so much

812
00:36:03,200 --> 00:36:06,640
Speaker 2: work stuff, Like my MacBook has his phone number on it,

813
00:36:06,719 --> 00:36:08,520
Speaker 2: so I see all of his text messages because I

814
00:36:08,560 --> 00:36:10,720
Speaker 2: need codes all the time, Like I have his email

815
00:36:10,760 --> 00:36:12,920
Speaker 2: hooked up. I am logged into his Instagram because I

816
00:36:13,040 --> 00:36:15,319
Speaker 2: did his social media, like he would have to be

817
00:36:15,520 --> 00:36:17,640
Speaker 2: very sneaky, but it's also.

818
00:36:17,360 --> 00:36:18,680
Speaker 1: Trying to do something, yes, but.

819
00:36:18,600 --> 00:36:23,400
Speaker 2: There's also never been any sort of conversation around that.

820
00:36:23,600 --> 00:36:26,200
Speaker 2: It just always was that because it was always not

821
00:36:26,239 --> 00:36:29,160
Speaker 2: a big deal. And I think the one thing about

822
00:36:29,200 --> 00:36:31,560
Speaker 2: Tyler is he was in the streets and he was

823
00:36:31,600 --> 00:36:33,640
Speaker 2: being crazy, but like he knew that he wasn't going

824
00:36:33,719 --> 00:36:35,400
Speaker 2: to enter in a relationship if he was in that

825
00:36:35,440 --> 00:36:38,640
Speaker 2: stage of life, which why I think it took, you know,

826
00:36:38,880 --> 00:36:41,360
Speaker 2: months for him to be like, Hey, you're my girlfriend,

827
00:36:41,960 --> 00:36:43,960
Speaker 2: because I do think he cared about me so much

828
00:36:43,960 --> 00:36:45,359
Speaker 2: that he was like, if I'm going to do this,

829
00:36:45,400 --> 00:36:49,080
Speaker 2: I need to be absolutely sure because she's my friend

830
00:36:49,080 --> 00:36:51,319
Speaker 2: first and foremost, and I'm not going to go into

831
00:36:51,360 --> 00:36:54,560
Speaker 2: this unless I actually am like all in one hundred percent.

832
00:36:55,120 --> 00:36:56,600
Speaker 2: So I appreciate him for that.

833
00:36:56,719 --> 00:37:00,279
Speaker 1: Also, I know that on Tyler's show Going On with

834
00:37:00,360 --> 00:37:03,600
Speaker 1: Tyler Cameron, he also referenced that you really remind him

835
00:37:03,640 --> 00:37:08,160
Speaker 1: of his mom, which I thought was so sweet and

836
00:37:08,239 --> 00:37:11,360
Speaker 1: probably one of the biggest compliments you could have ever received.

837
00:37:12,080 --> 00:37:15,680
Speaker 1: So I feel like that's your takeaway, Like you're the one.

838
00:37:16,000 --> 00:37:20,360
Speaker 2: No, he is taking me home. No, that is seriously.

839
00:37:20,880 --> 00:37:23,160
Speaker 2: Any time that he says it, because I've heard him

840
00:37:23,160 --> 00:37:26,120
Speaker 2: say it a few times, it hits the same every time.

841
00:37:26,200 --> 00:37:29,160
Speaker 2: It is the way that he speaks about her and

842
00:37:29,880 --> 00:37:32,680
Speaker 2: who she is and just how he lights up, like

843
00:37:32,719 --> 00:37:35,000
Speaker 2: any time that he gets to talk about her. The

844
00:37:35,040 --> 00:37:36,960
Speaker 2: fact that he would have put me anywhere in the

845
00:37:37,000 --> 00:37:41,000
Speaker 2: same stratosphere as her is like such a compliment.

846
00:37:41,520 --> 00:37:43,920
Speaker 1: So where do you think you see you and Tyler

847
00:37:43,960 --> 00:37:45,520
Speaker 1: within the next five years.

848
00:37:45,680 --> 00:37:49,200
Speaker 2: I hope it's married with babies. He wants like five

849
00:37:49,320 --> 00:37:53,839
Speaker 2: children and I am thirty one. House. Oh I love it,

850
00:37:53,880 --> 00:37:56,360
Speaker 2: Oh you want it. I have always wanted a big family,

851
00:37:56,480 --> 00:37:59,719
Speaker 2: but I also thought I would have had children by now,

852
00:38:00,239 --> 00:38:02,359
Speaker 2: which I didn't want to start having kids till I

853
00:38:02,400 --> 00:38:05,160
Speaker 2: was like twenty nine thirty. Anyways, I mean you're still

854
00:38:05,280 --> 00:38:07,879
Speaker 2: so young. I'm still so young. Yeah, but thirty one

855
00:38:07,880 --> 00:38:09,560
Speaker 2: and then you're popping out five. I'm like, that is

856
00:38:09,600 --> 00:38:09,919
Speaker 2: a lot.

857
00:38:10,000 --> 00:38:10,799
Speaker 1: Maybe we're pushing it.

858
00:38:10,880 --> 00:38:12,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, may we're pushing it. Maybe we go back to four.

859
00:38:14,200 --> 00:38:16,400
Speaker 2: But no, I would love to have a big family.

860
00:38:16,560 --> 00:38:18,520
Speaker 1: Like basically all of your thirties, you're going to be

861
00:38:18,520 --> 00:38:19,600
Speaker 1: sober popping out here.

862
00:38:19,640 --> 00:38:22,839
Speaker 2: Yes, now hopefully we can get some twins in there.

863
00:38:23,040 --> 00:38:24,680
Speaker 1: So just like is that in your family?

864
00:38:25,239 --> 00:38:28,080
Speaker 2: Yes, my papa is a twin, so it does skip

865
00:38:28,120 --> 00:38:32,600
Speaker 2: a generation. Yeah, yeah, so who knows, But yes, I

866
00:38:32,680 --> 00:38:35,239
Speaker 2: would love to be married with kids, which we do

867
00:38:35,320 --> 00:38:37,879
Speaker 2: talk about. So I think it's on the radar with him,

868
00:38:37,920 --> 00:38:41,960
Speaker 2: probably like five years, but you know, we'll get there.

869
00:38:42,080 --> 00:38:43,319
Speaker 2: I'm confident we'll get there.

870
00:38:43,920 --> 00:38:46,760
Speaker 1: It sounds like I would be like such a beautiful couple.

871
00:38:47,239 --> 00:38:49,879
Speaker 1: Do you think you want to raise your kids in Florida?

872
00:38:49,960 --> 00:38:54,359
Speaker 2: I'm always open. He loves stupidter yeh. I'm more so

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Speaker 2: he grew up in yes, born and raised, loves it.

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Speaker 2: I'm more something, you know, opportunity or whatever was to

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Speaker 2: lead us somewhere else, Like I think I would be

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Speaker 2: good to move. But I do love Jupiter. I love

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Speaker 2: the kids growing up there, Like these little kids are

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Speaker 2: like taking out their dad's boat, like they're all running

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Speaker 2: around surfing.

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Speaker 1: I feel like it's just such a cool vibe. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: So the kids there, like they have a really cool childhood.

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Speaker 1: Like jeeves with no time, like put the.

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Speaker 2: Top down, beach bonfires in high school. There's land and

884
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Speaker 2: stuff like one way and then there's the ocean other way.

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00:39:33,320 --> 00:39:35,360
Speaker 2: So like the high school kids are like mudding with

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Speaker 2: their friends one weekend and they're like going to the

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Speaker 2: beach the next weekend. So there's a little bit of everything.

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Speaker 2: So it's a very fun, cool place to grow up.

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Speaker 1: You guys would have like the most gorgeous blonde babies,

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Speaker 1: little surfers, they would yet in the Florida vibe.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so maybe one day.

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Speaker 1: Oh I love that. Well, that's all I have for you.

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Speaker 1: Thank you so much for coming on my podcast. This

894
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Speaker 1: was such a fun Episod said, and I wish you

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Speaker 1: and Tyler nothing but the best. You guys sound like

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Speaker 1: such a beautiful couple. Hopefully we'll go out sometimes we'll

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Speaker 1: go to