1 00:00:01,360 --> 00:00:04,240 Speaker 1: All right, So this is from Wayne on Steve Harvey FM. 2 00:00:04,320 --> 00:00:06,880 Speaker 1: Wayne says, over the weekend, my wife looked in the 3 00:00:06,920 --> 00:00:09,200 Speaker 1: glove compartment of my car and found a pair of 4 00:00:09,240 --> 00:00:10,480 Speaker 1: panties and. 5 00:00:10,440 --> 00:00:14,400 Speaker 2: She was mad, I mean, ticked off. At first. She 6 00:00:14,520 --> 00:00:16,200 Speaker 2: was going off on me, and I get it. 7 00:00:16,960 --> 00:00:19,600 Speaker 1: That's when I pointed out to her that during the 8 00:00:19,640 --> 00:00:22,120 Speaker 1: week before I had lent my car to my brother 9 00:00:22,160 --> 00:00:22,680 Speaker 1: in law. 10 00:00:22,480 --> 00:00:24,120 Speaker 2: Who was getting his car repaired. 11 00:00:24,520 --> 00:00:27,800 Speaker 1: It's disturbing enough to think that those panties might belong 12 00:00:27,840 --> 00:00:32,159 Speaker 1: to my sister, but if they're not hers, then there's 13 00:00:32,159 --> 00:00:35,840 Speaker 1: someone else's, and that's a much bigger problem. My brother 14 00:00:35,880 --> 00:00:39,040 Speaker 1: in law won't return my calls, and my wife's barely 15 00:00:39,120 --> 00:00:42,080 Speaker 1: talking to me because she's still deciding if she believes 16 00:00:42,120 --> 00:00:45,760 Speaker 1: me either way. I'm bringing this up at Thanksgiving. How 17 00:00:45,800 --> 00:00:48,760 Speaker 1: do I start the conversation? That's the question? 18 00:00:48,960 --> 00:00:51,440 Speaker 3: Holdway, hold man, don't do it. First of all, don't 19 00:00:51,440 --> 00:00:52,560 Speaker 3: do that at Thanksgiving. 20 00:00:54,440 --> 00:00:54,920 Speaker 4: Don't do that. 21 00:00:55,160 --> 00:00:57,720 Speaker 3: Thanks I bet I would. I'm getting he draws off me. 22 00:00:57,960 --> 00:01:00,520 Speaker 3: I bet I would. Now I'm gone to draw off me, 23 00:01:00,560 --> 00:01:02,960 Speaker 3: but I'm not. I don't have for more days. No, 24 00:01:03,080 --> 00:01:05,759 Speaker 3: we're not. We're not waiting on Thanksgiving. Uh huh No, no, 25 00:01:06,400 --> 00:01:09,640 Speaker 3: you don't get the draws off me. Now, Now I 26 00:01:09,760 --> 00:01:13,400 Speaker 3: have lies prepared for stuff like that car wash. 27 00:01:14,800 --> 00:01:16,399 Speaker 4: But brother in law had the car. 28 00:01:16,880 --> 00:01:20,160 Speaker 2: Well, you have a bank of lies prepared in case. 29 00:01:22,160 --> 00:01:27,000 Speaker 4: Car wash, your bank together? Car wash? You know how 30 00:01:27,000 --> 00:01:28,520 Speaker 4: you get out your car at the car wash? 31 00:01:28,600 --> 00:01:31,200 Speaker 5: What that had to do? He's in the glove compartment. 32 00:01:31,240 --> 00:01:32,319 Speaker 5: How are you trying this in? 33 00:01:32,720 --> 00:01:34,960 Speaker 4: And neither do I. 34 00:01:35,840 --> 00:01:38,800 Speaker 2: But you just it's just falls under your bank of lives. 35 00:01:39,000 --> 00:01:39,959 Speaker 2: You just go in there. 36 00:01:39,959 --> 00:01:42,760 Speaker 4: You have got it. Ain't nowhere in the world. I 37 00:01:42,800 --> 00:01:43,440 Speaker 4: know what they are. 38 00:01:45,440 --> 00:01:48,000 Speaker 2: That doesn't matter. That's besides the point, Carlo. 39 00:01:49,080 --> 00:01:50,080 Speaker 4: Brother in law is. 40 00:01:50,080 --> 00:01:54,680 Speaker 3: Not returning, brother in law is not returning calls or not. Homie, 41 00:01:54,760 --> 00:01:57,800 Speaker 3: I'm pulling up on brother in law. Bro let me 42 00:01:57,800 --> 00:02:02,000 Speaker 3: tell you won't do this. No, no, no, hot but dog, 43 00:02:02,280 --> 00:02:04,720 Speaker 3: listen to me how you want to do this, because 44 00:02:04,800 --> 00:02:08,359 Speaker 3: right now my wife think it was me. Now, if 45 00:02:08,400 --> 00:02:09,959 Speaker 3: you go in there and tell your wife is you 46 00:02:10,040 --> 00:02:12,360 Speaker 3: and this is her sister, it's gonna be a problem. 47 00:02:12,440 --> 00:02:14,120 Speaker 3: But what it ain't gonna do is keep on being 48 00:02:14,120 --> 00:02:16,000 Speaker 3: a problem at my house. And how you want to 49 00:02:16,040 --> 00:02:17,680 Speaker 3: do it, I'm. 50 00:02:17,520 --> 00:02:20,880 Speaker 6: Gonna give you to Wednesday night, Thursday, it's coming. 51 00:02:20,680 --> 00:02:22,280 Speaker 2: Up Thanksgiving Eve. 52 00:02:22,919 --> 00:02:24,360 Speaker 4: How you want to do it? 53 00:02:26,120 --> 00:02:27,560 Speaker 2: What you're gonna say on Thanksgiving? 54 00:02:27,560 --> 00:02:29,679 Speaker 5: What if he doesn't make your dad? What you're gonna 55 00:02:29,720 --> 00:02:31,919 Speaker 5: say on Thanksgiving? 56 00:02:32,680 --> 00:02:34,360 Speaker 4: Oh, We're like in the middle of the dressing. 57 00:02:34,520 --> 00:02:37,680 Speaker 6: I'm saying, you need to tell about you need to 58 00:02:37,680 --> 00:02:39,799 Speaker 6: tell my wife about these draws you had in my car. 59 00:02:40,680 --> 00:02:46,000 Speaker 2: It's coming home, so better him than you. 60 00:02:46,040 --> 00:02:50,560 Speaker 3: Basically, Oh, ain't no way. 61 00:02:50,760 --> 00:02:51,359 Speaker 4: It ain't no way. 62 00:02:51,440 --> 00:02:53,720 Speaker 3: What you cannot do is start a fire in my 63 00:02:53,840 --> 00:02:56,280 Speaker 3: house and then take your behind home. 64 00:02:56,680 --> 00:02:59,520 Speaker 4: That's not going to happen. I don't play that. 65 00:02:59,440 --> 00:03:04,519 Speaker 5: Man, Okay, So y'all giving him the green light Thanksgiving 66 00:03:04,560 --> 00:03:08,200 Speaker 5: it is. If he don't answer by Thanksgiving, ease according 67 00:03:08,240 --> 00:03:11,560 Speaker 5: to time, I'm. 68 00:03:11,639 --> 00:03:14,640 Speaker 4: Waiting that long. I wouldn't do it. I'm gonna do 69 00:03:14,680 --> 00:03:15,079 Speaker 4: it before. 70 00:03:16,200 --> 00:03:17,799 Speaker 2: Oh today is Tuesday. 71 00:03:18,320 --> 00:03:21,919 Speaker 6: Yeah, by the time my Friday is Turkey. I'm just 72 00:03:22,040 --> 00:03:25,960 Speaker 6: taking when it come out, better be to say something 73 00:03:25,960 --> 00:03:28,560 Speaker 6: about this. Hello. 74 00:03:28,560 --> 00:03:32,280 Speaker 4: All right, depend on how many pounds it is. 75 00:03:32,440 --> 00:03:35,160 Speaker 6: But I'm telling you right now you got bout forty minutes, 76 00:03:35,440 --> 00:03:36,400 Speaker 6: maybe forty five. 77 00:03:38,320 --> 00:03:43,400 Speaker 1: All right, We're moving on to dk on Steve Barve 78 00:03:43,640 --> 00:03:46,200 Speaker 1: fm DK says, I've been with my girlfriend for a 79 00:03:46,240 --> 00:03:49,840 Speaker 1: couple of years now, and while we've had some great times, 80 00:03:49,880 --> 00:03:52,080 Speaker 1: I've worked hard to move up in my career and 81 00:03:52,120 --> 00:03:55,320 Speaker 1: have grown my income to six figures. But she still 82 00:03:55,360 --> 00:03:58,520 Speaker 1: compares what I make to other couples and constantly talks 83 00:03:58,800 --> 00:04:01,360 Speaker 1: about wanting a lifestyle ell and that I'm not sure 84 00:04:01,360 --> 00:04:04,360 Speaker 1: I can provide. This made me hesitate to take on 85 00:04:04,440 --> 00:04:08,280 Speaker 1: big steps forward because I'm not sure she sees or 86 00:04:08,400 --> 00:04:10,760 Speaker 1: values what I bring to the relationship. How do I 87 00:04:10,800 --> 00:04:14,480 Speaker 1: talk to her about needing appreciation and consistency without it 88 00:04:14,560 --> 00:04:16,920 Speaker 1: turning into a fight or seeming like I'm. 89 00:04:16,760 --> 00:04:20,400 Speaker 3: Doing well well, well, well, I mean, let it turn 90 00:04:20,440 --> 00:04:21,159 Speaker 3: into a fight. 91 00:04:22,200 --> 00:04:27,560 Speaker 4: That had this one now and later. But we're gonna 92 00:04:27,600 --> 00:04:28,000 Speaker 4: have this. 93 00:04:27,920 --> 00:04:30,240 Speaker 3: One out now so we can fight and then you 94 00:04:30,360 --> 00:04:32,440 Speaker 3: go your way and I go mine. 95 00:04:32,640 --> 00:04:34,440 Speaker 4: Okay, it ain't no fit to be you sleeping in 96 00:04:34,480 --> 00:04:35,680 Speaker 4: the basement conversation. 97 00:04:36,800 --> 00:04:40,159 Speaker 1: Okay, all right, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.