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<v Speaker 1>second dat day. How early do you introduce somebody to

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<v Speaker 1>your friends after you guys have just started dating. It

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<v Speaker 1>takes a while for me to want to introduce people

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<v Speaker 1>to my friends because it's very important to me. So

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<v Speaker 1>if I take a girl around my friends, I means

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<v Speaker 1>I'm finally really into her, and then she can meet

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<v Speaker 1>my friends. And then after meeting them, she goes. They

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<v Speaker 1>all seem like terrible people. I hate them. You should

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<v Speaker 1>never talk to them again, and you can only spend

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<v Speaker 1>time with me from now on. I fall in love

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<v Speaker 1>right there instantly. That's what I look for in a woman. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>George is on the phone today and that's how he

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<v Speaker 1>spent his second date with the girl that he wants

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<v Speaker 1>to call today. He spent it meeting her friends at

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<v Speaker 1>her birthday party. How's it going, George? Good? How are

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<v Speaker 1>you guys doing pretty good? So where'd you meet the

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<v Speaker 1>girl that you want to call today? Well, we discovered

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<v Speaker 1>each other dating app oh, like a tender type of situation. Yep,

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<v Speaker 1>one of those types of situation. Is it tender? Yes? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>a tender type of situation. It was tender. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to claim it right. Yeah. People love doing

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<v Speaker 1>that like an app on your phone and sometimes you

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<v Speaker 1>swipe one way, sometimes you swipe the other way. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>one of those. Were you excited about going on a

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<v Speaker 1>date with her? Are you just looking for a hook up?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it's always excited when you get a match

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<v Speaker 1>on tender, especially your guys think, uh yeah, I was

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<v Speaker 1>excited and we just met for coffee. Okay, So where

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<v Speaker 1>do the friends and birthday party come into play on

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<v Speaker 1>this thing? I mean, I thought we hit it off.

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<v Speaker 1>We really enjoyed our company. We had a conversation at

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<v Speaker 1>the end of the day. She just said, Hey, this

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<v Speaker 1>might seem weird, but it could be fun. I got

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<v Speaker 1>my birthday party this Weekend's gonna be friends there and

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<v Speaker 1>she'd be pretty chill. Do you want to come? That's

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<v Speaker 1>actually an awesome invite for you for a second date.

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<v Speaker 1>Because I don't know, somewhere subconsciously in my head, anytime

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<v Speaker 1>a girl invites me to a birthday party, even a

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<v Speaker 1>friend of mine, him thinking like, oh, she wants me

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<v Speaker 1>to be her present that night? Is that how you felt?

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<v Speaker 1>I took it as a good sign. Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>I have never thought that invited a guy to my

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<v Speaker 1>birthday party before? All you guys go quickly so much

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<v Speaker 1>that comes to being invited to a birthday party. That's

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<v Speaker 1>what a guy's thinking if he invites you to birthday parties,

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<v Speaker 1>Like that is what I want to unwrap later. Did

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<v Speaker 1>you get her anything for her birthday? Saying, as you

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<v Speaker 1>barely know her, I brought a bottle of wine. But

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<v Speaker 1>that was a good gesture. Yeah, it's a perfect gift.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you kidding me? And was she excited to see you? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>I felt like I was welcome. I thought I felt

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<v Speaker 1>like I wanted me there. She wanted to invite you

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<v Speaker 1>to her birthday party and show up. It's like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>you actually shove up? Well, she could have been preoccupied

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<v Speaker 1>with all of her friends and family, like it'd be

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<v Speaker 1>easy to not be able to spend a whole lot

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<v Speaker 1>of time with you. No, No, I got the vibe

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<v Speaker 1>that she was very excited for me to be there.

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<v Speaker 1>How did she introduce you to her friends? This is

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<v Speaker 1>George from tender, or she says a friend of mine,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, or as a guy I'm dating. Even how

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<v Speaker 1>she introduced you, Yeah, I think she said friend, this

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<v Speaker 1>is a friend of mine. We didn't go into details

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<v Speaker 1>about tinder. I think that's a good later. But all

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<v Speaker 1>of her good girlfriends knew, like they all got the

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<v Speaker 1>lowdown before you showed up. Yeah, I got the sense

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<v Speaker 1>as they knew, because whenever she introduced me, they go, oh, yeah, George,

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<v Speaker 1>you're the guy. That's a good sign. That means that

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<v Speaker 1>she's talking about you to her friends. Yeah, where they

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<v Speaker 1>were all in room when she sliped right, Because the

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<v Speaker 1>last thing you want to do is go, this is George,

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<v Speaker 1>this guy I just met, And they go I've never

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<v Speaker 1>heard of you. She hadn't. She's not excited about you

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<v Speaker 1>one bit. So that's a good sign. Yeah. I actually

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<v Speaker 1>met her parents, her parents who were at the party, um,

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<v Speaker 1>and they seem like nice people. We chatted and it

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't as awkward as it should have been. But then

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<v Speaker 1>the next day the text he would be like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>what are we gonna do next? And then took a

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<v Speaker 1>long time for respond and when she did, she just said, uh,

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<v Speaker 1>let me pull it up. She said, Hey, I feel

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<v Speaker 1>I need to be honest. I'm not interested in taking

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<v Speaker 1>this any further. Well, you don't. You're not wondering if

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<v Speaker 1>you're not getting a call back from her because she's

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<v Speaker 1>busy or something. You know specifically that she does not

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<v Speaker 1>want to talk to you again. Yeah, and then I

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<v Speaker 1>asked why. If I can ask why and just no response,

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<v Speaker 1>so I have no idea. You seem like, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>were you social at the party, because I think it's

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<v Speaker 1>always such a red flag if you invite somebody and

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<v Speaker 1>then you have to like babysit them the whole time. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I thought I was. I thought I was making the round.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought I didn't think I offended anybody. So it

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<v Speaker 1>just sounds like you got bad reports from friends. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, like that's how I would read it. I

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<v Speaker 1>thought I got along with their friends great. I liked

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<v Speaker 1>their friends a lot, And I don't think I did

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<v Speaker 1>anything crazy like like pull my junk out waving around.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe that's actually the problem. Maybe that's what you needed

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<v Speaker 1>to do make a really lasting impression. Yeah, Yeah, maybe

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<v Speaker 1>I missed read the situation. Yeah, get hired for all

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<v Speaker 1>sorts of birthday parties in that group. You gotta know

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<v Speaker 1>when it's a party where you're supposed to wait your

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<v Speaker 1>junk out at the end. You have to know that,

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<v Speaker 1>because if you don't, it's just bad form, you know

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<v Speaker 1>what I mean? True? All right, true? Well, yeah, we'll

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<v Speaker 1>play a song. Come back, call her and get your

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<v Speaker 1>second date update. All right, thank you, hang on looking

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<v Speaker 1>jubil In the morning, George is on the phone with us.

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<v Speaker 1>He wants to call a girl named Lisa. Today. They

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<v Speaker 1>met on tender, went out for a coffee date. She

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<v Speaker 1>liked him so much she invited him to her birthday party.

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<v Speaker 1>He went there, said he had a fun time, talked

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<v Speaker 1>to all her friends, family, all that good stuff. But

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<v Speaker 1>a few days later he didn't hear anything back, and

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<v Speaker 1>then she texted him saying, I'm not really interested. He's

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<v Speaker 1>curious why and if he did something wrong? George, I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't even think to ask the obvious question here at

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<v Speaker 1>the birthday party? Did you sleep with one of her friends? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Uh no, no, I think i'd remember that. All right, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>there's a follow up to that. Does she have any pets?

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<v Speaker 1>And did you sleep with them? Good? It's you hear

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<v Speaker 1>how these second date updates end up a lot. All right.

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<v Speaker 1>She did have a very cute dog, but no, we

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<v Speaker 1>did not have all right, So from my perspective, everything

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<v Speaker 1>should be good and she shouldn't be blowing you off.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you ready to call her? Yeah? Well yeah, let's

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<v Speaker 1>do it, all right. But if I find out like

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<v Speaker 1>she had a bird or something and you had relations

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<v Speaker 1>with it, I'm gonna be pissed that you lied to me.

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<v Speaker 1>No no, no, no, no no no no. I'm just trying

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<v Speaker 1>to make sure we're on the same page. All right.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna die the phone of her right now and

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<v Speaker 1>get her on the phone and get your second Date Update.

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<v Speaker 1>You're ready, Yeah, let's do this. Hullo. Hi, can I

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<v Speaker 1>speak to Lisa? Please her? Hey Lisa, how are you?

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<v Speaker 1>This is Jewil from Brook and Jewil in the Morning. Um, Hello, Hello,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm calling you today because one of our listeners emailed

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<v Speaker 1>us and asked us to get you on the phone. Really,

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<v Speaker 1>m It's a segment that we do on our show

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<v Speaker 1>called the Second Date Update. It's where if you go

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<v Speaker 1>out on a date with somebody and then end up

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<v Speaker 1>blowing them off, they email us and ask us to

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<v Speaker 1>get that person on the phone and ask why so

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<v Speaker 1>you recently went out on a date with somebody that

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<v Speaker 1>listens to our show. Um, all right, his name is George.

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<v Speaker 1>I think you would remember going on a date with

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<v Speaker 1>George because you also invited him to your birthday party.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yes, I didn't. Sounds like regret in your voice

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<v Speaker 1>right there. You have a second to talk to us

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<v Speaker 1>about George, Yeah, I have a second. So he told

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<v Speaker 1>us about how you guys met and he went to

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<v Speaker 1>your birthday party. He thought everything went great, and then

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<v Speaker 1>you sent him a text message saying you didn't want

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<v Speaker 1>to talk to him anymore. Did he do something wrong? What?

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<v Speaker 1>You know what? He was great with my friends, but

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<v Speaker 1>the reactions at the end of the night were just

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<v Speaker 1>not what I expected. Did your friends not like him?

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<v Speaker 1>I thought it was kind of a douche or something.

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<v Speaker 1>It wasn't my friends who reacted about him. It was

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<v Speaker 1>it was my parents. Oh oh, your parents didn't like him. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>like really didn't like him at all. Really, are they

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<v Speaker 1>like really strict parents. No, they're not really over protected.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why weird that they didn't like this person. What

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<v Speaker 1>did they say to you? Well, they told me he

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<v Speaker 1>asked questions, and they told me he asked my mom,

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<v Speaker 1>how many grandkids do you want? What? Yes, King, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. She didn't make it seem like he was joking.

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<v Speaker 1>Was it in context though about something they were talking about.

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<v Speaker 1>How long was he talking to your parents? He was

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<v Speaker 1>talking to them for a long time. I think he

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<v Speaker 1>was trying to impress them or something. But he was

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<v Speaker 1>with them for a while before I got married. My

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<v Speaker 1>mom would not really bring up grandkids, but some of

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<v Speaker 1>them are like, oh my god, I can't wait till

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<v Speaker 1>she final gets married, give me some gran No, No,

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<v Speaker 1>that's not my moment at all. But to ask that

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<v Speaker 1>after like the first time meeting them, and especially we

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<v Speaker 1>just went to coffee once, like we've only been on

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<v Speaker 1>one date, did she get the feeling? I mean, because

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<v Speaker 1>I could see him talking to her just being like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>do you want grand kids someday? That's cool, yell, But

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<v Speaker 1>if he's like, how many grandkids you want? Because I'm

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<v Speaker 1>about to do work, I'm getting ready to do work tonight.

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<v Speaker 1>With how she felt about it, Yes, that's okay to her.

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<v Speaker 1>But don't you think I mean one question like that

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<v Speaker 1>like it was enough to write him off. No, it

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<v Speaker 1>was the second question that he asked my parents second,

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<v Speaker 1>what what else did he ask your parents other than

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<v Speaker 1>if they want grandkids? He he asked my dad for

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<v Speaker 1>permission to marry me. Shut up that he had to

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<v Speaker 1>have been joking. There's no way he did. He had

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<v Speaker 1>to have been joking, though. No, my dad said he

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<v Speaker 1>was serious. Are you sure your dad's reading it correctly?

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<v Speaker 1>I can't imagine a guy being out technically your second

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<v Speaker 1>date at your birthday party and then asking your father

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<v Speaker 1>for permission to marry you. I wish it had it happened,

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<v Speaker 1>but it did. And is that why you sent him

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<v Speaker 1>a text saying I don't want to talk to you anymore. Yeah? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>By the way, I completely support that if that's I'd

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<v Speaker 1>love to know if he was actually joking, though, wouldn't you? No?

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<v Speaker 1>I I mean, I trust my parents, all right. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I'd like to ask him. And he's actually on the

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<v Speaker 1>other line listening right now, so we can do that.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you serious? Yes? I am. First of all, this

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<v Speaker 1>is being blown way out of proportion, way out of proportion.

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<v Speaker 1>I was having an adult conversation with them, adults about

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<v Speaker 1>adults thing. I don't know right now. This whole situation

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<v Speaker 1>is just confusing. It's really confusing to me too, George,

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<v Speaker 1>did you ask her father if you could marry her?

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<v Speaker 1>It was in the context of a fun conversation, and

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, you know, I was just like, hey, man,

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<v Speaker 1>what do you think if I married your daughter? So

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<v Speaker 1>you weren't joking though, because you just didn't deny it.

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<v Speaker 1>Look well, I mean, first of all, I didn't want

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<v Speaker 1>them to think I was just some tinder guy, so

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<v Speaker 1>it's kind of that was some credibility, you know, So

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<v Speaker 1>I thought, well, for this guy to take me seriously,

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<v Speaker 1>I should ask the question. Let's talk about putting me

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<v Speaker 1>in the awkward position of this is my first Like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess second date with you, and I'm meeting your parents,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'm supposed to hold the court for for an hour, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>but you don't ask them to marry me after we've

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<v Speaker 1>only been on one date. It just came up. It

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't I didn't say. I didn't say, hey, I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>go propose your daughter. I said, hey, you know, down

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<v Speaker 1>the line, what would you think of a guy like

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<v Speaker 1>me marrying your daughter? I don't understand what's so crazy. Look,

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<v Speaker 1>I just turned thirty. I'm in the present company of adults,

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<v Speaker 1>and we're talking about adults thing. Marriage is on everybody's mind.

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<v Speaker 1>You have gone a coffee with this girl, and that

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<v Speaker 1>is it. We hit it off. Yeah, but hitting it

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<v Speaker 1>off is way different than Hey, we're gonna get married, sir,

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<v Speaker 1>can I have your daughter's hand in marriage? I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>ask for her hand in marriage that moment. I asked

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<v Speaker 1>down the line. Oh so it was a future proposal

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<v Speaker 1>that you were thinking about. It was a future hypothetical.

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<v Speaker 1>That doesn't make it any better, George, whether it was

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<v Speaker 1>in the future or not, you don't ask it now.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, we did hit it off at the coffee shop,

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<v Speaker 1>but it didn't hit off to say, Okay, I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>marry this person. Man. I'm just I think you're just

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<v Speaker 1>way too uptight about this whole thing. I'm up tight

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<v Speaker 1>about it. Really. Yeah, well I think it's crazy. Well, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess I'm sorry that I saw a future you

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<v Speaker 1>know together, I'm sorry that makes me crazy. Well, then

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry. Yeah, Lisa, you should be flattered George wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to marry you after one coffee date. Yeah, that's not flattering.

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<v Speaker 1>Why is that not flattering? Because it's creepy? Okay, I

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<v Speaker 1>guess I just don't understand. I feel like that's like

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<v Speaker 1>a pretty high compliment you could pay somebody. Gude, you

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<v Speaker 1>don't even know her. You just met her, well, and

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<v Speaker 1>she's having me meet her parents. Yeah, but she didn't

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<v Speaker 1>specifically say, hey, come meet my parents. Didn't she just

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<v Speaker 1>ask you to go to her birthday? Yeah? But she

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<v Speaker 1>left me alone with her parents for like an hour.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean you think she would see that and be like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>so like pissed off that she left you with her

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<v Speaker 1>parents so long. You're like, I'm just gonna screw this

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<v Speaker 1>whole thing up right now. Hey, sir, No, I wasn't pissed.

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<v Speaker 1>I was actually like, Okay, she must really like me.

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<v Speaker 1>She's putting me together with her parents. I never heard.

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<v Speaker 1>What did her dad say to you after you ask

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<v Speaker 1>for her hand in marriage? He just laughed it off,

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<v Speaker 1>and I did too, and I took that as like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>he likes me. I love to know what he was thinking. Yeah, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>this is normally the point where I ask if you

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<v Speaker 1>guys want to go out on a second date and

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<v Speaker 1>I will pay for it. But instead, George, would you

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<v Speaker 1>like to propose to Lisa right now? I will pay

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<v Speaker 1>for the catering at your wedding. If she says yes,

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<v Speaker 1>please don't. Lisa, don't want free, free wedding catering. I'll

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<v Speaker 1>pay for it. No, no, thank you. Yeah. I think

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<v Speaker 1>I think the moment's passed on that one, didn't you sure?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, Lisa, as it passed. Yes, it's definitely passed.

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<v Speaker 1>It was never even there. It's a good point, Lisa.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you for your time anytime yep. And I'm sorry

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<v Speaker 1>that you're not going to be getting married to George

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<v Speaker 1>anytime soon. Thankfully. If a girl ever asked me to

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<v Speaker 1>meet her parents, I will likely decline. Brooking chubble in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning,