1 00:00:02,440 --> 00:00:05,080 Speaker 1: Everybody's Bill Courtney with an army of normal folks. And 2 00:00:05,120 --> 00:00:08,080 Speaker 1: we continue now a part two of our conversation with 3 00:00:08,080 --> 00:00:25,920 Speaker 1: Peggy Halberson, right after these brief messages from our general sponsors. 4 00:00:27,360 --> 00:00:30,160 Speaker 1: So let's just talk about wells for minutes. I think 5 00:00:30,200 --> 00:00:32,239 Speaker 1: an American sent their listen to this is like, oh, 6 00:00:32,280 --> 00:00:34,040 Speaker 1: that's cool. They dug a hole and got some water. 7 00:00:35,240 --> 00:00:38,000 Speaker 1: And we take so much for granted the United States. 8 00:00:38,200 --> 00:00:43,040 Speaker 1: I haven't been to Liberia, but I have traveled extensively 9 00:00:43,159 --> 00:00:46,440 Speaker 1: for work. We sell lumber all over the place, and 10 00:00:46,600 --> 00:00:51,760 Speaker 1: oftentimes lumber is made where inexpensive labor. Lumber is sent 11 00:00:51,880 --> 00:00:55,760 Speaker 1: where inexpensive labor is to make furniture as inexpensively as 12 00:00:55,800 --> 00:01:00,800 Speaker 1: possible to the nextport back to first world nations. Candidly, 13 00:01:01,720 --> 00:01:05,320 Speaker 1: some of it is a lot like the garment industry, 14 00:01:05,440 --> 00:01:10,320 Speaker 1: So that takes me to places that have poverty. Oftentimes, 15 00:01:10,800 --> 00:01:14,800 Speaker 1: I have witnessed human beings trying to bathe in a ditch. 16 00:01:17,640 --> 00:01:23,280 Speaker 1: While not far up the ditch, another individual was relieving 17 00:01:23,360 --> 00:01:30,520 Speaker 1: himself and said, ditch. And while that's maybe distasteful to 18 00:01:31,640 --> 00:01:37,040 Speaker 1: imagine and picture in your mind's eye, then the person 19 00:01:37,840 --> 00:01:43,480 Speaker 1: downstream of ditch creek is scooping up their cooking water 20 00:01:44,360 --> 00:01:47,560 Speaker 1: with the same water as someone had just relieved themselves 21 00:01:47,680 --> 00:01:51,360 Speaker 1: and bathed in. So when you talk about the importance 22 00:01:51,360 --> 00:01:54,320 Speaker 1: of clean water in a well, you really need to 23 00:01:54,400 --> 00:01:58,600 Speaker 1: understand that cholera in some of these places can claim 24 00:01:58,800 --> 00:02:02,400 Speaker 1: up to forty percent of the people's lives, and it 25 00:02:02,480 --> 00:02:05,600 Speaker 1: is why in many of these places the population the 26 00:02:05,680 --> 00:02:10,120 Speaker 1: age of the population is typically like sixty percent under 27 00:02:10,160 --> 00:02:13,360 Speaker 1: thirty years old, because people just don't live long because 28 00:02:13,400 --> 00:02:16,959 Speaker 1: they don't have something as simple as clean water to drink, 29 00:02:17,360 --> 00:02:18,280 Speaker 1: bathe or cook with. 30 00:02:18,760 --> 00:02:24,760 Speaker 2: Sure is that Liberia, Absolutely, the seventy percent of librarya 31 00:02:24,840 --> 00:02:25,840 Speaker 2: is under thirty years old. 32 00:02:26,440 --> 00:02:29,400 Speaker 3: Seventy under thirty under thirty. 33 00:02:29,520 --> 00:02:31,480 Speaker 1: That may be the worst number I've ever heard. There 34 00:02:31,480 --> 00:02:33,600 Speaker 1: may be a worst country, but there can't be many it. 35 00:02:33,880 --> 00:02:35,639 Speaker 2: They just did a census two years ago and those 36 00:02:35,639 --> 00:02:39,440 Speaker 2: were the statistics that came up. So between the war 37 00:02:39,720 --> 00:02:44,920 Speaker 2: and the water health things, the country is full of 38 00:02:45,000 --> 00:02:46,839 Speaker 2: young people with no mentors. 39 00:02:48,080 --> 00:02:55,359 Speaker 1: So just building a well literally upgrades exponentially the lifestyle 40 00:02:55,400 --> 00:02:56,320 Speaker 1: of the people in that village. 41 00:02:58,480 --> 00:03:01,320 Speaker 2: Yes, and there are a lot of the communities, and 42 00:03:01,720 --> 00:03:03,720 Speaker 2: I wish I had better numbers on how many. But 43 00:03:04,120 --> 00:03:09,040 Speaker 2: some of the communities had enough structure and enough organization 44 00:03:09,200 --> 00:03:11,440 Speaker 2: and leadership in that community that once they had a well, 45 00:03:12,080 --> 00:03:14,080 Speaker 2: it was theirs and they took care of it with 46 00:03:14,440 --> 00:03:16,600 Speaker 2: like most of the time. What they do in Liberia 47 00:03:16,760 --> 00:03:19,079 Speaker 2: is you have a chain and a lock on pump 48 00:03:19,480 --> 00:03:21,840 Speaker 2: and you only open it in the morning and in 49 00:03:21,880 --> 00:03:24,600 Speaker 2: the evening so that the kids don't come and play 50 00:03:24,600 --> 00:03:27,720 Speaker 2: on it and you know, throw whatever, you know, be kids. 51 00:03:28,080 --> 00:03:30,520 Speaker 2: So there's a lot and you in some places you 52 00:03:30,600 --> 00:03:34,880 Speaker 2: do not wear your shoes on the culvert around that pump. 53 00:03:35,000 --> 00:03:37,720 Speaker 2: Like in those places that keep the place really clean 54 00:03:37,800 --> 00:03:40,200 Speaker 2: and neat, that pump is going to last a long time. 55 00:03:40,600 --> 00:03:45,040 Speaker 2: But not every community has leadership. And in the community 56 00:03:45,040 --> 00:03:46,480 Speaker 2: that we put our first well in, it was a 57 00:03:46,520 --> 00:03:51,200 Speaker 2: community of almost all women. The only guy that I 58 00:03:51,280 --> 00:03:53,160 Speaker 2: knew who was there was drunk most of the time. 59 00:03:53,440 --> 00:03:58,320 Speaker 2: So we have had to repair that well. Oh my goodness. 60 00:03:58,640 --> 00:04:00,800 Speaker 2: Almost every year we have to go back and do 61 00:04:00,880 --> 00:04:05,400 Speaker 2: simple repairs just because they don't have enough organization in 62 00:04:05,440 --> 00:04:09,920 Speaker 2: that community to maintain that pump. And that when that 63 00:04:10,040 --> 00:04:14,080 Speaker 2: happens over and over and over, I start thinking there's 64 00:04:14,120 --> 00:04:18,000 Speaker 2: another problem that we need to address. Before we can 65 00:04:18,040 --> 00:04:23,200 Speaker 2: even address the water problem, which is education, organizations and mentorship. Yep, 66 00:04:24,080 --> 00:04:29,720 Speaker 2: which is why wells. So Michael morphed to one well, 67 00:04:30,560 --> 00:04:36,520 Speaker 2: which morphed to more wells, which morph to civics and teaching, 68 00:04:38,920 --> 00:04:43,000 Speaker 2: civics and education. Oh yeah, sure is that right? Well? 69 00:04:43,040 --> 00:04:45,000 Speaker 2: And we also so at the times, at the same 70 00:04:45,000 --> 00:04:47,000 Speaker 2: time that we are doing wells, we are also doing 71 00:04:47,080 --> 00:04:50,200 Speaker 2: a child sponsorship program, so we are trying to help 72 00:04:50,279 --> 00:04:53,640 Speaker 2: kids go to school. So in Liberia there is a 73 00:04:53,680 --> 00:04:56,800 Speaker 2: public school system that is free. But as Peter used 74 00:04:56,839 --> 00:04:59,240 Speaker 2: to say, it's free of teachers, it's free of books, 75 00:04:59,279 --> 00:05:05,680 Speaker 2: it's free of dea, free everything, free of everything. So 76 00:05:06,040 --> 00:05:10,080 Speaker 2: that is not an option Peter from Peter's Liberian he 77 00:05:10,240 --> 00:05:12,400 Speaker 2: is He's from the same tribe that Michael's from. 78 00:05:12,720 --> 00:05:16,039 Speaker 1: No kidding, Yeah, just a librarian dude, trying to do 79 00:05:16,080 --> 00:05:16,440 Speaker 1: it right. 80 00:05:16,560 --> 00:05:20,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, he's a pastor and a husband and father of 81 00:05:20,640 --> 00:05:22,520 Speaker 2: five kids, plus a whole bunch of other kids that 82 00:05:22,560 --> 00:05:25,840 Speaker 2: he kept bringing home. I don't know how is it 83 00:05:26,160 --> 00:05:28,720 Speaker 2: would be like Peter, he for got to stop bringing 84 00:05:28,800 --> 00:05:29,640 Speaker 2: home children. 85 00:05:30,120 --> 00:05:34,760 Speaker 1: So all right, so take us from the first wells 86 00:05:34,800 --> 00:05:36,440 Speaker 1: onwards and the sponsorship. 87 00:05:36,839 --> 00:05:39,080 Speaker 2: We did the first well in the first school and 88 00:05:39,120 --> 00:05:42,279 Speaker 2: then Teamwork Africa started and then we actually were able 89 00:05:42,360 --> 00:05:45,200 Speaker 2: to partner with an organization from Texas called the Last 90 00:05:45,200 --> 00:05:48,560 Speaker 2: Well and they were focused on bringing clean water to Liberia. 91 00:05:48,600 --> 00:05:50,599 Speaker 2: So we were one of their partners for five years, 92 00:05:51,080 --> 00:05:53,240 Speaker 2: five year, four or five years something like that, and 93 00:05:53,320 --> 00:05:55,360 Speaker 2: we did a ton of projects with them because we 94 00:05:55,440 --> 00:05:58,800 Speaker 2: had Liberian well technician teams and they you know that 95 00:05:58,839 --> 00:06:02,599 Speaker 2: they're special the specializ and going to really remote areas 96 00:06:02,640 --> 00:06:06,360 Speaker 2: where you couldn't bring a well digging rig and they 97 00:06:06,400 --> 00:06:09,040 Speaker 2: would carry in all the materials on their heads, so 98 00:06:09,120 --> 00:06:14,719 Speaker 2: the cement, the frame for molding the culverts, and they 99 00:06:14,720 --> 00:06:17,599 Speaker 2: would mold the bricks on site and so yeah, they 100 00:06:17,640 --> 00:06:19,880 Speaker 2: would chomp through that and I and then I got 101 00:06:19,880 --> 00:06:22,600 Speaker 2: to go to Liberia and do the follow up. So 102 00:06:22,720 --> 00:06:24,840 Speaker 2: I got to walk on all those jungle paths and 103 00:06:25,279 --> 00:06:27,640 Speaker 2: go verify. Yep, there's a new well right here in 104 00:06:27,640 --> 00:06:30,440 Speaker 2: the middle of nowhere where you know, we walked an 105 00:06:30,480 --> 00:06:34,400 Speaker 2: hour from the closest road to go to this village 106 00:06:34,480 --> 00:06:36,520 Speaker 2: and see that there's a brand new well there. So 107 00:06:36,960 --> 00:06:41,400 Speaker 2: sad for Oh, sure, easily, yeah, yeah, I mean sometimes 108 00:06:41,400 --> 00:06:43,600 Speaker 2: it would take a land cruiser as far as the 109 00:06:43,640 --> 00:06:45,320 Speaker 2: land cruiser would go and then would take a motorcycle 110 00:06:45,320 --> 00:06:47,080 Speaker 2: as far as the motorcycle would go, and then we 111 00:06:47,120 --> 00:06:48,000 Speaker 2: would walk from there. 112 00:06:48,080 --> 00:06:51,880 Speaker 3: Did you ever fill No, really. 113 00:06:52,279 --> 00:06:55,000 Speaker 2: No, because by the time I was doing that part, 114 00:06:55,279 --> 00:07:00,320 Speaker 2: I had developed really really close friendships with my friends 115 00:07:00,320 --> 00:07:04,440 Speaker 2: in Liberia and so they were so, so so careful 116 00:07:04,480 --> 00:07:07,360 Speaker 2: with me. We actually moved to Liberia in twenty sixteen. 117 00:07:07,680 --> 00:07:18,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, that we actually after Yeah, well, okay, well. 118 00:07:17,320 --> 00:07:19,560 Speaker 2: We did and we were living there and I was 119 00:07:19,640 --> 00:07:22,320 Speaker 2: so on weekends I would go into the rural areas 120 00:07:22,360 --> 00:07:25,440 Speaker 2: to go do my you know, my well checkups, and 121 00:07:25,520 --> 00:07:27,960 Speaker 2: I would travel with the well technician team, and then 122 00:07:28,080 --> 00:07:29,800 Speaker 2: there was a place that I would guest house that 123 00:07:29,840 --> 00:07:33,280 Speaker 2: I would stay overnight. And there's one time where my 124 00:07:33,280 --> 00:07:36,000 Speaker 2: my well technician team was like, we don't know about 125 00:07:36,000 --> 00:07:37,800 Speaker 2: this place that you stay because it doesn't have a 126 00:07:37,800 --> 00:07:39,760 Speaker 2: fence around it, and we don't really know the guys 127 00:07:39,800 --> 00:07:42,360 Speaker 2: that are there, and are you sure that you're safe there? 128 00:07:42,600 --> 00:07:44,840 Speaker 2: And I'm like, yes, I know the guys there, they're okay, 129 00:07:45,040 --> 00:07:47,040 Speaker 2: and they're like okay, fine, So they dropped me off 130 00:07:47,040 --> 00:07:48,920 Speaker 2: and then the guys at that place they're like, we 131 00:07:48,960 --> 00:07:52,520 Speaker 2: don't know about those well technician guys that you're hanging out. 132 00:07:52,560 --> 00:07:53,200 Speaker 3: So it's like. 133 00:07:53,200 --> 00:07:55,760 Speaker 2: Everybody was always, you know, looking out for me. And 134 00:07:56,080 --> 00:07:59,120 Speaker 2: one time I was a little bit foolish and it 135 00:07:59,160 --> 00:08:01,920 Speaker 2: was not a very high hill, but it was steep 136 00:08:01,960 --> 00:08:03,160 Speaker 2: and it had gravel on it, so it was like 137 00:08:03,240 --> 00:08:06,600 Speaker 2: six foot little incline and I slipped and I fell 138 00:08:06,600 --> 00:08:09,680 Speaker 2: down and slid down it on my knee and so 139 00:08:09,760 --> 00:08:11,520 Speaker 2: I got a big gash in it made it actually 140 00:08:11,560 --> 00:08:13,800 Speaker 2: a nice scar. And the guys that were with me 141 00:08:13,920 --> 00:08:18,040 Speaker 2: were absolutely horrified that I got hurt, and for the 142 00:08:18,080 --> 00:08:21,000 Speaker 2: rest of like not only for the rest of that trip, 143 00:08:21,040 --> 00:08:23,720 Speaker 2: but for months after that, I was not allowed to 144 00:08:23,800 --> 00:08:27,239 Speaker 2: walk up or down a hill without holding someone's hand. 145 00:08:30,880 --> 00:08:33,520 Speaker 2: They told me, they said, we have committed to bring 146 00:08:33,559 --> 00:08:35,920 Speaker 2: you back to your husband in the same condition that 147 00:08:35,960 --> 00:08:38,400 Speaker 2: you left, so you cannot get hurt. 148 00:08:39,760 --> 00:08:40,600 Speaker 3: Unbelievable. 149 00:08:40,760 --> 00:08:46,920 Speaker 1: It also speaks to the humanity, to the desire to 150 00:08:47,120 --> 00:08:49,800 Speaker 1: just be safe and happy and have the basics, and 151 00:08:50,160 --> 00:08:54,480 Speaker 1: how despite all of the twenty years of the past 152 00:08:54,520 --> 00:08:57,360 Speaker 1: that these people have lived through, that their raw humanity 153 00:08:57,440 --> 00:08:57,960 Speaker 1: still comes. 154 00:08:57,960 --> 00:08:58,200 Speaker 3: Sorry. 155 00:08:58,320 --> 00:09:01,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, and they you know that point, they knew us, 156 00:09:01,400 --> 00:09:06,960 Speaker 2: they and they were so grateful that the family who 157 00:09:07,160 --> 00:09:10,199 Speaker 2: lived in a country like the United States would give 158 00:09:10,240 --> 00:09:13,120 Speaker 2: all that up to come and live with them, and 159 00:09:13,200 --> 00:09:17,839 Speaker 2: they and they really wanted to honor that sacrifice that 160 00:09:17,880 --> 00:09:18,439 Speaker 2: we were making. 161 00:09:18,640 --> 00:09:20,640 Speaker 3: And so take us. 162 00:09:20,520 --> 00:09:24,560 Speaker 1: To the decision that you and Mark and your four 163 00:09:24,640 --> 00:09:28,800 Speaker 1: children made to move to Liberia. And at this point 164 00:09:29,480 --> 00:09:32,200 Speaker 1: you still have Michael living with you. No, no, he's 165 00:09:32,240 --> 00:09:35,439 Speaker 1: still in Libera is So tell me how that worked. 166 00:09:35,480 --> 00:09:35,720 Speaker 3: Well. 167 00:09:35,880 --> 00:09:38,040 Speaker 2: From the very first time I went to Liberia, my 168 00:09:38,120 --> 00:09:41,079 Speaker 2: heart was just captured and I just really wanted to 169 00:09:41,120 --> 00:09:47,440 Speaker 2: be there, so I wanted to bring it recaptured. I 170 00:09:47,480 --> 00:09:49,520 Speaker 2: was looking over some of the things I wrote on 171 00:09:49,559 --> 00:09:53,280 Speaker 2: my first trip and really, yeah, yeah, yeah. 172 00:09:53,440 --> 00:09:57,280 Speaker 1: Just for those who aren't watching this on YouTube, she's 173 00:09:57,320 --> 00:09:59,640 Speaker 1: got a folder with a bunch of notes in front 174 00:09:59,640 --> 00:10:01,960 Speaker 1: of her and when she said that, she looked down. 175 00:10:02,000 --> 00:10:03,960 Speaker 3: These are some of your notes from fifteen years ago. 176 00:10:04,240 --> 00:10:04,959 Speaker 2: Yeah, this is my. 177 00:10:06,720 --> 00:10:10,160 Speaker 3: What's for you? That's how seriously she's taken this. That's precious. 178 00:10:10,200 --> 00:10:12,520 Speaker 2: I this is, you know, from October twenty ten. So 179 00:10:12,600 --> 00:10:16,280 Speaker 2: this is from my first time, my first time in Liberia. 180 00:10:16,360 --> 00:10:17,880 Speaker 3: So what what'd you fall in love with? 181 00:10:18,520 --> 00:10:22,080 Speaker 2: I said, let me read this. Let this is like 182 00:10:22,120 --> 00:10:24,240 Speaker 2: the end my last. This is what I'm leaving. 183 00:10:24,720 --> 00:10:25,120 Speaker 1: He said. 184 00:10:25,240 --> 00:10:27,280 Speaker 2: I didn't want to think about leaving. I said, I'm 185 00:10:27,280 --> 00:10:29,960 Speaker 2: not sure what to feel now about leaving. I said, 186 00:10:29,960 --> 00:10:32,560 Speaker 2: I hope Mother Teresa's quote is true. And her quote 187 00:10:32,640 --> 00:10:34,320 Speaker 2: is that I found this paradox that if you love 188 00:10:34,400 --> 00:10:36,680 Speaker 2: until it hurts, there could be no more hurts, only 189 00:10:36,720 --> 00:10:40,760 Speaker 2: more love. Because I have surely loved until it hurts deeply. 190 00:10:41,200 --> 00:10:43,679 Speaker 2: I have come across the world only to find myself 191 00:10:43,720 --> 00:10:47,800 Speaker 2: at home, a joy growing deep in my soul. As 192 00:10:47,840 --> 00:10:50,240 Speaker 2: long as I never forget the love, laughter, family, and 193 00:10:50,240 --> 00:10:53,080 Speaker 2: friendship that is here, It'll always be with me. So 194 00:10:53,080 --> 00:10:54,560 Speaker 2: I have so much to do when I get home. 195 00:10:54,679 --> 00:10:57,600 Speaker 2: Feels a little overwhelming, but these memories and God's strength 196 00:10:57,600 --> 00:11:01,080 Speaker 2: will encourage me in my weakness. Everyone said that coming 197 00:11:01,120 --> 00:11:03,560 Speaker 2: here would change me, but I didn't understand how. When 198 00:11:03,600 --> 00:11:06,160 Speaker 2: I first arrived, I said that Liberia had a beauty 199 00:11:06,200 --> 00:11:09,880 Speaker 2: among the rubble, and I have found such beauty and 200 00:11:09,960 --> 00:11:12,440 Speaker 2: it is the beauty, not the rubble, that has changed me. 201 00:11:13,720 --> 00:11:17,000 Speaker 3: Wow, And you're saying that with tears in your house 202 00:11:17,120 --> 00:11:17,480 Speaker 3: right now? 203 00:11:18,600 --> 00:11:26,800 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, we'll be right back. 204 00:11:35,280 --> 00:11:38,520 Speaker 1: So you get the wells going, you sponsor some kids, 205 00:11:38,600 --> 00:11:40,959 Speaker 1: and then you or Mark, or you and Mark look 206 00:11:41,000 --> 00:11:44,160 Speaker 1: at each other and say, why don't we just hook foot? 207 00:11:44,559 --> 00:11:49,280 Speaker 2: I wanted to move there, and I again waited because 208 00:11:49,360 --> 00:11:53,960 Speaker 2: I did not want to make my husband back up 209 00:11:53,960 --> 00:11:57,400 Speaker 2: our house and move to Africa. So I just was 210 00:11:57,679 --> 00:12:00,320 Speaker 2: patient and I waited to see if God would speak 211 00:12:00,360 --> 00:12:01,920 Speaker 2: to him the same way that he was speaking to me. 212 00:12:02,240 --> 00:12:05,319 Speaker 2: And so after a couple of years, Mark said, Okay, 213 00:12:05,360 --> 00:12:08,920 Speaker 2: well if it go like kind of like I don't 214 00:12:08,920 --> 00:12:11,280 Speaker 2: know how this could possibly happen, but if you can 215 00:12:11,280 --> 00:12:13,160 Speaker 2: find a way to make it happen, let's see where 216 00:12:13,240 --> 00:12:17,680 Speaker 2: this leads. And we found someone who said, oh, sure, 217 00:12:18,120 --> 00:12:22,160 Speaker 2: I can support you guys going to Africa. So we 218 00:12:22,200 --> 00:12:25,720 Speaker 2: had a guy who was like really like literally started 219 00:12:25,840 --> 00:12:29,720 Speaker 2: funding us to go to Liberia about six months before 220 00:12:29,720 --> 00:12:31,880 Speaker 2: we left. So we had, you know, we had some 221 00:12:31,960 --> 00:12:34,480 Speaker 2: money saved up for us to go to Liberia. We 222 00:12:34,920 --> 00:12:38,400 Speaker 2: sold our house and packed up our kids and moved 223 00:12:38,559 --> 00:12:40,120 Speaker 2: to Liberia. 224 00:12:40,559 --> 00:12:44,640 Speaker 1: You say it almost as you say it, you're laughing, 225 00:12:44,800 --> 00:12:47,120 Speaker 1: like you're not even sure you actually did that. 226 00:12:47,760 --> 00:12:50,959 Speaker 2: I know, the whole time, I was like, it's simple, 227 00:12:51,360 --> 00:12:55,240 Speaker 2: it's crazy. It's like, how does somebody just pack up 228 00:12:55,320 --> 00:12:58,560 Speaker 2: suitcases and just move to Africa, and and then we 229 00:12:58,679 --> 00:13:01,120 Speaker 2: just but we just did all right. 230 00:13:01,160 --> 00:13:03,520 Speaker 3: So how old were your kids they were? 231 00:13:04,160 --> 00:13:08,880 Speaker 2: That's a great question. So twenty sixteen, so Evelyn was sixteen, sixteen, fifteen, 232 00:13:08,960 --> 00:13:09,920 Speaker 2: thirteen and eleven. 233 00:13:10,400 --> 00:13:13,559 Speaker 1: What were they thinking about leaving high school and friends 234 00:13:13,600 --> 00:13:15,280 Speaker 1: to go to Africa. 235 00:13:15,320 --> 00:13:18,080 Speaker 2: Well, Dawson had just my son had just finished middle school, 236 00:13:18,080 --> 00:13:20,120 Speaker 2: so he hadn't started high school yet, so I mean 237 00:13:20,160 --> 00:13:23,120 Speaker 2: he was probably the most like, yeah, whatever, mom. The 238 00:13:23,200 --> 00:13:26,520 Speaker 2: girls were home. My oldest two girls were already homeschooling. 239 00:13:26,600 --> 00:13:30,280 Speaker 2: They had had had it with middle school and in 240 00:13:30,440 --> 00:13:32,400 Speaker 2: high school, so the a so they were good with it. 241 00:13:32,440 --> 00:13:35,360 Speaker 2: And then Elena is just she had just finished elementary school. 242 00:13:35,400 --> 00:13:37,760 Speaker 2: So it's kind of like a transition year for most 243 00:13:37,800 --> 00:13:38,160 Speaker 2: of the kids. 244 00:13:38,200 --> 00:13:39,240 Speaker 3: Any school actually fit. 245 00:13:39,480 --> 00:13:44,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, and they, I mean they weren't like they were 246 00:13:44,679 --> 00:13:46,560 Speaker 2: open to it. I wouldn't have said they were like 247 00:13:46,679 --> 00:13:49,000 Speaker 2: gung ho, like excited were moving to Africa, but they 248 00:13:49,000 --> 00:13:51,600 Speaker 2: were certainly open to it. Two of the girls had 249 00:13:51,600 --> 00:13:53,599 Speaker 2: already gone to Liberia with me, so they kind of 250 00:13:53,679 --> 00:13:55,320 Speaker 2: knew a little bit of what we were getting into. 251 00:13:55,840 --> 00:13:58,000 Speaker 3: And at this time, team work Africa is a thing. 252 00:13:58,200 --> 00:13:59,520 Speaker 3: It is, and you're raising money. 253 00:14:00,200 --> 00:14:06,040 Speaker 1: So now you're taking teamwork Africa to have teamwork in Africa. 254 00:14:06,120 --> 00:14:08,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, and I you know, so we had we had 255 00:14:08,000 --> 00:14:10,680 Speaker 2: to find somebody to be the director on the US side. 256 00:14:10,800 --> 00:14:13,520 Speaker 2: So that was another huge factor in being able to 257 00:14:13,559 --> 00:14:15,480 Speaker 2: even leave because we had to have somebody here who 258 00:14:15,559 --> 00:14:18,600 Speaker 2: was running everything. So we had, you know, so we 259 00:14:18,640 --> 00:14:21,000 Speaker 2: had someone to do that, We had someone to sponsor 260 00:14:21,080 --> 00:14:23,400 Speaker 2: us to go, and then we we went. 261 00:14:23,640 --> 00:14:25,520 Speaker 3: Would you live what's did you live in Maroon? 262 00:14:25,760 --> 00:14:28,880 Speaker 2: We? Yep? Outside so Menrovia is like, you know, capital 263 00:14:28,960 --> 00:14:31,560 Speaker 2: city and then there's little communities around Minorvia just kind 264 00:14:31,560 --> 00:14:34,560 Speaker 2: of like suburbs are here. And so we had a 265 00:14:34,720 --> 00:14:37,720 Speaker 2: base in Liberia where we had a guest house, and 266 00:14:37,800 --> 00:14:39,720 Speaker 2: so our family moved into the guest house. We had 267 00:14:39,760 --> 00:14:42,400 Speaker 2: built our first school there and we were in the 268 00:14:42,400 --> 00:14:44,280 Speaker 2: process of trying to build a medical center, so we 269 00:14:44,320 --> 00:14:46,160 Speaker 2: had a place to stay in the and the Fhlomo 270 00:14:46,240 --> 00:14:48,760 Speaker 2: family had also built a house on that same property, 271 00:14:48,840 --> 00:14:51,120 Speaker 2: so we were all living together. We were it was 272 00:14:51,200 --> 00:14:55,360 Speaker 2: absolutely insane. I had traveled to Liberia at least twice 273 00:14:55,400 --> 00:14:57,440 Speaker 2: a year up to that point, and I had stayed 274 00:14:57,520 --> 00:14:59,680 Speaker 2: up to three weeks at a time, and I thought 275 00:14:59,800 --> 00:15:01,720 Speaker 2: I kind of had an idea of what it might 276 00:15:01,760 --> 00:15:04,160 Speaker 2: be like to live in Liberia, and I really thought 277 00:15:04,200 --> 00:15:07,240 Speaker 2: I had covered all the bases and I thought I 278 00:15:07,280 --> 00:15:10,480 Speaker 2: knew what this would look like. And when we got there, 279 00:15:10,640 --> 00:15:13,000 Speaker 2: we put all our stuff in a container and shipped 280 00:15:13,040 --> 00:15:18,600 Speaker 2: it and the container stayed in the port until three 281 00:15:18,640 --> 00:15:22,160 Speaker 2: weeks before we went back to the US for our 282 00:15:22,200 --> 00:15:23,080 Speaker 2: first visit. 283 00:15:25,400 --> 00:15:26,080 Speaker 3: Customs. 284 00:15:26,360 --> 00:15:29,920 Speaker 2: No, no, I it was. It was the most awful 285 00:15:30,200 --> 00:15:30,640 Speaker 2: that year. 286 00:15:30,760 --> 00:15:31,840 Speaker 3: Was work hard, it was. 287 00:15:32,200 --> 00:15:34,640 Speaker 2: We shipped it in August and we got it in May. 288 00:15:35,480 --> 00:15:38,120 Speaker 2: It in May three, three weeks before we left to 289 00:15:38,120 --> 00:15:42,440 Speaker 2: go back to La suitcase for seven months. Whatever we yeah, 290 00:15:42,480 --> 00:15:44,560 Speaker 2: whatever we could get and we know, whatever we could 291 00:15:44,640 --> 00:15:46,760 Speaker 2: you know, get in Liberia or whatever we had in 292 00:15:46,800 --> 00:15:49,920 Speaker 2: our suitcases, that is literally what we had. Yeah, it 293 00:15:50,000 --> 00:15:52,280 Speaker 2: was a very interesting time for us. And we had 294 00:15:52,280 --> 00:15:54,080 Speaker 2: a plan to have a generator. We had raised a 295 00:15:54,080 --> 00:15:56,760 Speaker 2: whole bunch of money to build a community generator so 296 00:15:56,800 --> 00:16:01,400 Speaker 2: that we'd have electricity. It never never. 297 00:16:01,400 --> 00:16:06,080 Speaker 5: Worked, so our struggle to have electricity every day, Like 298 00:16:06,080 --> 00:16:08,080 Speaker 5: we would try to have the generator on from like 299 00:16:08,200 --> 00:16:11,080 Speaker 5: seven PM until like you know, three or so in 300 00:16:11,080 --> 00:16:12,360 Speaker 5: the morning, because it's hot. 301 00:16:12,600 --> 00:16:15,880 Speaker 2: It's hot and humid in Liberia. But you know, we 302 00:16:15,880 --> 00:16:17,720 Speaker 2: were going to have running water in our house. We 303 00:16:18,080 --> 00:16:20,640 Speaker 2: had running water in our house for one day. After 304 00:16:20,680 --> 00:16:23,520 Speaker 2: that we had to carrying water to the bathrooms, to 305 00:16:23,560 --> 00:16:27,240 Speaker 2: the big barrels where we could. Yeah, we had regular toilets. 306 00:16:27,240 --> 00:16:28,680 Speaker 2: You just you know, dumped the bucket of water in 307 00:16:28,760 --> 00:16:31,280 Speaker 2: the toilet and then we did bucket baths every night. 308 00:16:31,360 --> 00:16:34,640 Speaker 2: No hot water, no consistent electricity. 309 00:16:34,480 --> 00:16:35,280 Speaker 3: For how long was this? 310 00:16:35,560 --> 00:16:39,000 Speaker 2: Two school years? So we were there from we went 311 00:16:39,040 --> 00:16:42,520 Speaker 2: there August of twenty eighteen. We came back in June 312 00:16:42,640 --> 00:16:44,240 Speaker 2: of the following year, and then we were back for 313 00:16:44,280 --> 00:16:45,840 Speaker 2: two months and then we went back for another year. 314 00:16:46,800 --> 00:16:49,920 Speaker 1: So for Yeah, and you had running water one day, Yeah, 315 00:16:50,400 --> 00:16:53,520 Speaker 1: of that entire stuy, Yes, and your children bucked it 316 00:16:53,600 --> 00:16:55,120 Speaker 1: up and said, okay they did. 317 00:16:55,880 --> 00:16:59,280 Speaker 2: Yeah they And now you know, my kids are between 318 00:16:59,280 --> 00:17:02,440 Speaker 2: twenty five and twenty now, and they will tell you 319 00:17:02,480 --> 00:17:05,480 Speaker 2: that living in Librea for those two years shaped their 320 00:17:05,480 --> 00:17:09,240 Speaker 2: lives and they, for the most part, are incredibly grateful 321 00:17:09,800 --> 00:17:13,240 Speaker 2: because of how it has changed how they see life 322 00:17:13,240 --> 00:17:18,920 Speaker 2: in the United States. And they they know, are yes, yes. 323 00:17:18,760 --> 00:17:21,320 Speaker 1: So what was your plan? What did you do the 324 00:17:21,359 --> 00:17:24,080 Speaker 1: two years you were in a Botbaria besides to water. 325 00:17:24,359 --> 00:17:28,760 Speaker 2: Well, my background's actually in education, so I was planning 326 00:17:28,760 --> 00:17:31,240 Speaker 2: to work with the school kind of in the administration. 327 00:17:31,280 --> 00:17:33,800 Speaker 2: I wanted to be training the teachers and implementing some 328 00:17:34,440 --> 00:17:37,440 Speaker 2: programs that would help the school, you know, be better, 329 00:17:37,600 --> 00:17:40,439 Speaker 2: be different. And then Mark actually ended up being the 330 00:17:40,440 --> 00:17:42,800 Speaker 2: Bible teacher in the school. He actually ended up in 331 00:17:42,800 --> 00:17:45,560 Speaker 2: the classroom teaching more than I did. The kids still 332 00:17:45,600 --> 00:17:47,639 Speaker 2: talk about him when I go back to visit. 333 00:17:47,960 --> 00:17:49,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, unbelievable. 334 00:17:49,480 --> 00:17:51,520 Speaker 2: So then I went out, of course into the jungle 335 00:17:51,560 --> 00:17:53,520 Speaker 2: and did my well assessments to go check on all 336 00:17:53,520 --> 00:17:54,400 Speaker 2: our water projects. 337 00:17:54,440 --> 00:18:01,360 Speaker 3: Do Okay. So you come back from Liberia and eighteen 338 00:18:01,800 --> 00:18:03,840 Speaker 3: eighteen with the. 339 00:18:03,840 --> 00:18:07,119 Speaker 2: Goal of well, we had hoped that when we were 340 00:18:07,160 --> 00:18:10,920 Speaker 2: in Liberia we would finally adopt Michael, but that didn't 341 00:18:10,960 --> 00:18:12,040 Speaker 2: happen either. 342 00:18:12,480 --> 00:18:17,440 Speaker 1: Let's remember this all started with trying to adopt Bikeael. Yeah, 343 00:18:17,560 --> 00:18:20,520 Speaker 1: and in the meantime, you've moved to a library and back. 344 00:18:20,720 --> 00:18:22,760 Speaker 1: Did he get to live with you while you were 345 00:18:22,800 --> 00:18:25,800 Speaker 1: in library, Yes, bless his heart and your heart. So 346 00:18:25,920 --> 00:18:31,720 Speaker 1: you guys formed a real familial relationship. 347 00:18:31,840 --> 00:18:33,040 Speaker 3: And then when you had to go, you had to 348 00:18:33,119 --> 00:18:33,879 Speaker 3: leave him again. 349 00:18:34,480 --> 00:18:38,399 Speaker 2: Yeah. The summer when we left for two months, you know, 350 00:18:38,480 --> 00:18:40,600 Speaker 2: he stayed but when we knew we were coming back, 351 00:18:40,840 --> 00:18:44,119 Speaker 2: so we ended up coming. So my oldest daughter had 352 00:18:44,200 --> 00:18:46,879 Speaker 2: a knee injury, a significant one that we thought she 353 00:18:46,920 --> 00:18:50,040 Speaker 2: needed surgery for. So in the spring of twenty eighteen, 354 00:18:50,080 --> 00:18:51,840 Speaker 2: she had to come back to the United States. And 355 00:18:51,880 --> 00:18:55,280 Speaker 2: she was just turned eighteen, so she legally could travel, 356 00:18:55,280 --> 00:18:59,240 Speaker 2: but physically she couldn't. And so we sent my son. 357 00:18:59,440 --> 00:19:02,600 Speaker 2: So like, you know, tall, strong guy, he's going to 358 00:19:02,760 --> 00:19:04,600 Speaker 2: make sure she gets to the airport ocape. Except the 359 00:19:04,600 --> 00:19:06,560 Speaker 2: two of them don't have a clue on how to travel. 360 00:19:06,760 --> 00:19:10,280 Speaker 2: But my fourteen year old daughter is got the you know, 361 00:19:10,600 --> 00:19:13,240 Speaker 2: she knows how, she knows how to navigate the airport. 362 00:19:13,600 --> 00:19:15,720 Speaker 2: And so we sent the three of them back to 363 00:19:15,720 --> 00:19:19,080 Speaker 2: the United States together ahead of time. And then after 364 00:19:19,119 --> 00:19:22,360 Speaker 2: they left, we got word from the US that the director, 365 00:19:22,400 --> 00:19:25,040 Speaker 2: the US director that was in charge of Teamwork Africa 366 00:19:25,080 --> 00:19:29,720 Speaker 2: was resigning within a month, and that immediately meant that 367 00:19:29,760 --> 00:19:31,679 Speaker 2: in order for Teamwork Africa to survive, we had to. 368 00:19:31,680 --> 00:19:32,240 Speaker 3: Come back home. 369 00:19:33,080 --> 00:19:35,680 Speaker 2: So we were already planning to come back again for 370 00:19:35,920 --> 00:19:39,520 Speaker 2: two months during the summertime. So when we came back, 371 00:19:39,600 --> 00:19:41,400 Speaker 2: we had two months to find a new place to live, 372 00:19:41,480 --> 00:19:44,640 Speaker 2: to get new jobs, to get new cars, to to 373 00:19:44,920 --> 00:19:48,600 Speaker 2: re establish everything. And while I had done a lot 374 00:19:48,680 --> 00:19:53,320 Speaker 2: of you know, studying and research and learning about what 375 00:19:53,359 --> 00:19:55,440 Speaker 2: it would be like for our family to live in Liberia, 376 00:19:55,560 --> 00:19:57,359 Speaker 2: I hadn't had any time to think about what it 377 00:19:57,359 --> 00:20:00,960 Speaker 2: would be like to come back. And it turned out 378 00:20:01,240 --> 00:20:05,560 Speaker 2: that coming back to the United States was much harder 379 00:20:05,720 --> 00:20:09,320 Speaker 2: on my family than it was leaving. Why the reverse 380 00:20:09,359 --> 00:20:12,520 Speaker 2: culture shock? Like everybody thought it would be the same. 381 00:20:12,720 --> 00:20:15,439 Speaker 2: Everybody thought it would just feel the same, and it didn't. 382 00:20:15,760 --> 00:20:18,680 Speaker 2: Everything felt really different. And that like at that point, 383 00:20:19,040 --> 00:20:21,440 Speaker 2: we had just had a new Woodman's grocery store come 384 00:20:21,480 --> 00:20:24,639 Speaker 2: into our community, and I walked in and looked at 385 00:20:24,720 --> 00:20:27,600 Speaker 2: it and walked right back out. The idea that you 386 00:20:27,640 --> 00:20:31,920 Speaker 2: would have an entire aisle for peanut butter was totally 387 00:20:31,920 --> 00:20:35,040 Speaker 2: overwhelming to me. I could for a long time. I 388 00:20:35,160 --> 00:20:37,040 Speaker 2: had just shop out little grocery stores. 389 00:20:37,160 --> 00:20:38,560 Speaker 3: You know what's about. 390 00:20:38,359 --> 00:20:41,960 Speaker 1: That is you're an American and you're only gone two years. 391 00:20:42,400 --> 00:20:46,160 Speaker 1: How overwhelming must it be? Or someone that comes from 392 00:20:46,160 --> 00:20:47,960 Speaker 1: there and tries to integrate. 393 00:20:47,680 --> 00:20:48,120 Speaker 3: Into our. 394 00:20:49,640 --> 00:20:53,719 Speaker 1: And I mean for only two years and you're an 395 00:20:53,720 --> 00:20:56,480 Speaker 1: American you came from that. What must it be like 396 00:20:56,600 --> 00:21:00,280 Speaker 1: for someone to try We always talk about people need 397 00:21:00,280 --> 00:21:06,000 Speaker 1: to integrate into society better. But the overwhelming I mean, 398 00:21:06,800 --> 00:21:08,679 Speaker 1: I've never thought about it until you just said that, 399 00:21:08,800 --> 00:21:11,359 Speaker 1: But how difficult I must be for people? 400 00:21:11,520 --> 00:21:11,879 Speaker 3: Yeah. 401 00:21:12,080 --> 00:21:15,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, My kids were in youth group and they were 402 00:21:15,480 --> 00:21:17,920 Speaker 2: talking about a story, something that had happened in Haiti, 403 00:21:17,960 --> 00:21:20,520 Speaker 2: and they were showing a video of kids from Haiti. 404 00:21:20,640 --> 00:21:24,640 Speaker 2: And and for my daughter Grace, those kids looked like kids. 405 00:21:24,680 --> 00:21:26,840 Speaker 2: She knew they lived in a community, you know, in 406 00:21:26,880 --> 00:21:29,439 Speaker 2: an environment that she was familiar with. The girls in 407 00:21:29,440 --> 00:21:32,320 Speaker 2: front of her were giggling and playing on her phone, 408 00:21:32,560 --> 00:21:36,960 Speaker 2: and she was like, like so overwhelmed. She actually had 409 00:21:36,960 --> 00:21:39,000 Speaker 2: got up and left and went to the bathroom and 410 00:21:39,480 --> 00:21:44,840 Speaker 2: sobbed because she couldn't connect with these girls who just 411 00:21:44,920 --> 00:21:47,199 Speaker 2: they just had no connection to what they were seeing 412 00:21:47,400 --> 00:21:49,479 Speaker 2: from that video. But for Grace, she knew what it 413 00:21:49,560 --> 00:21:52,119 Speaker 2: was like to live there. She knew the struggles that 414 00:21:52,160 --> 00:21:55,000 Speaker 2: those kids were going through. So a lot of those 415 00:21:55,040 --> 00:21:59,040 Speaker 2: things were just really hard. My kids thought differently than 416 00:21:59,440 --> 00:22:01,480 Speaker 2: the kids that they, you know, went to school with, 417 00:22:01,640 --> 00:22:04,239 Speaker 2: And for quite a long time, for several months, it 418 00:22:04,280 --> 00:22:06,040 Speaker 2: was I felt like I was just trying to keep 419 00:22:06,040 --> 00:22:08,920 Speaker 2: everybody's head above water as we were trying to acclimate 420 00:22:08,960 --> 00:22:12,000 Speaker 2: to being back here. And then we had Michael with 421 00:22:12,119 --> 00:22:14,639 Speaker 2: us that when we came back to stay we were 422 00:22:14,680 --> 00:22:16,800 Speaker 2: able to keep Michael came with us for four months, 423 00:22:17,240 --> 00:22:18,399 Speaker 2: and then at the end of four months I had 424 00:22:18,440 --> 00:22:20,600 Speaker 2: to take him back to Liberia to wait for the app. 425 00:22:22,119 --> 00:22:22,280 Speaker 1: Yo. 426 00:22:25,560 --> 00:22:27,959 Speaker 2: He was so excited to come to the United States, 427 00:22:28,000 --> 00:22:30,040 Speaker 2: and that was a whole other thing too, because people 428 00:22:30,040 --> 00:22:34,679 Speaker 2: in Liberia think that the US is heaven. It is heaven, 429 00:22:35,359 --> 00:22:39,160 Speaker 2: and so anything that didn't go the way he thought 430 00:22:39,280 --> 00:22:41,440 Speaker 2: it was going to go, it was really hard for 431 00:22:41,520 --> 00:22:44,080 Speaker 2: him because he thought everything was going to be perfect here. 432 00:22:44,640 --> 00:22:48,560 Speaker 2: So that made it a little bit, you know, it 433 00:22:48,720 --> 00:22:52,320 Speaker 2: was Those were some really funny, funny times where we're like, no, Michael, 434 00:22:52,320 --> 00:22:55,400 Speaker 2: this is actually just another part of Earth where things 435 00:22:55,480 --> 00:22:57,760 Speaker 2: are a little bit easier, but they don't go perfectly either. 436 00:22:57,880 --> 00:23:01,440 Speaker 3: So yeah, but that's interesting. All right. 437 00:23:01,680 --> 00:23:08,919 Speaker 1: So you're back here, you're running teamwork Africa, and Michael's 438 00:23:08,920 --> 00:23:09,880 Speaker 1: still there. 439 00:23:10,160 --> 00:23:12,399 Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, and you stop work today. 440 00:23:12,520 --> 00:23:16,280 Speaker 2: Well, and when we got back to from Liberia and 441 00:23:16,359 --> 00:23:21,080 Speaker 2: the director quit, so did all the other staff. So well, 442 00:23:21,480 --> 00:23:25,119 Speaker 2: we came back to Teamwork Africa. The organization kind of 443 00:23:25,119 --> 00:23:29,400 Speaker 2: in shambles, and I'm trying to keep our family, you know, floating, 444 00:23:29,560 --> 00:23:31,560 Speaker 2: and now I got to take Michael back to Liberia, 445 00:23:31,960 --> 00:23:34,159 Speaker 2: and so I took he went back in October. In 446 00:23:34,280 --> 00:23:38,320 Speaker 2: January of that year, So twenty nineteen, Peter Flomo dies 447 00:23:38,600 --> 00:23:43,600 Speaker 2: suddenly and he's our country director. Peter, Yeah, my one 448 00:23:43,600 --> 00:23:46,800 Speaker 2: of my best friends. And I'm like, we can be 449 00:23:46,880 --> 00:23:49,919 Speaker 2: done now, like we can just be done well. And 450 00:23:49,960 --> 00:23:53,960 Speaker 2: then yeah, so that's two, and then I can go 451 00:23:54,000 --> 00:23:58,280 Speaker 2: through Michael's whole adoption story. But we do finally adopt 452 00:23:58,359 --> 00:24:03,240 Speaker 2: Michael in December of twenty nineteen, right before twenty twenty, 453 00:24:04,480 --> 00:24:06,800 Speaker 2: and then twenty twenty hits and then everybody, you know, 454 00:24:06,880 --> 00:24:10,639 Speaker 2: all the nonprofit organizations are there's no fundraising, you know, 455 00:24:10,760 --> 00:24:14,360 Speaker 2: like and I was, yeah, exactly. I do want to say, though, 456 00:24:14,359 --> 00:24:16,360 Speaker 2: that is by the grace of God that Michael came 457 00:24:16,400 --> 00:24:20,280 Speaker 2: home in December of twenty nineteen, because if he hadn't 458 00:24:20,560 --> 00:24:23,679 Speaker 2: based on his age, he had just turned fifteen. I 459 00:24:23,720 --> 00:24:26,720 Speaker 2: am not sure after everything closed during COVID, by the 460 00:24:26,800 --> 00:24:31,000 Speaker 2: time we could have possibly traveled, he might have aged out. 461 00:24:31,640 --> 00:24:33,400 Speaker 2: So that was like the I mean at the very 462 00:24:33,440 --> 00:24:37,080 Speaker 2: last minute, because I was like, God, seriously, we've gone 463 00:24:37,119 --> 00:24:39,399 Speaker 2: through all this, Please don't tell me at the end 464 00:24:39,400 --> 00:24:42,600 Speaker 2: of the day we are not going to adopt this kid. 465 00:24:43,280 --> 00:24:44,360 Speaker 2: So we did. 466 00:24:48,520 --> 00:24:49,440 Speaker 3: We'll be right back. 467 00:25:00,520 --> 00:25:05,520 Speaker 1: You're finally adopted and together without going back and forth, 468 00:25:05,800 --> 00:25:10,000 Speaker 1: you've started to try to put back together team work 469 00:25:10,040 --> 00:25:13,520 Speaker 1: Africa US. And then Pastor Peter does and it's twenty 470 00:25:13,560 --> 00:25:18,520 Speaker 1: twenty going into COVID and candidly it's like, maybe we've 471 00:25:18,560 --> 00:25:19,520 Speaker 1: done what we've gone to do. 472 00:25:19,680 --> 00:25:21,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, like I can be done. God, can I be done? 473 00:25:22,000 --> 00:25:23,959 Speaker 3: Candidly? Who could blame you? 474 00:25:24,160 --> 00:25:27,800 Speaker 1: And you still have done an enormous amount Yeah, schools 475 00:25:27,880 --> 00:25:32,360 Speaker 1: and medical centers and wells and teamwork. Africa's story could 476 00:25:32,400 --> 00:25:34,240 Speaker 1: be a good one, and boat up right there. 477 00:25:34,320 --> 00:25:37,919 Speaker 2: I think it would have. I would have been satisfied 478 00:25:37,920 --> 00:25:40,040 Speaker 2: with that. I would have I would have been okay 479 00:25:40,280 --> 00:25:43,440 Speaker 2: with moving on to doing going back to the life. 480 00:25:43,440 --> 00:25:45,439 Speaker 2: I thought we were going to have, you know, a 481 00:25:45,480 --> 00:25:46,359 Speaker 2: decade before that. 482 00:25:47,119 --> 00:25:49,320 Speaker 3: But it's five years later and you're sitting say no, 483 00:25:49,520 --> 00:25:50,120 Speaker 3: what happened. 484 00:25:50,359 --> 00:25:54,879 Speaker 2: What happened was in those quiet moments where I sat still, 485 00:25:55,400 --> 00:26:00,040 Speaker 2: I knew that we weren't done yet, and so we 486 00:26:00,040 --> 00:26:04,800 Speaker 2: we reorganized and we refocused, and I gathered the people 487 00:26:04,840 --> 00:26:07,160 Speaker 2: that I knew best in Liberia and brought them all 488 00:26:07,200 --> 00:26:10,359 Speaker 2: together to see what kind of team we could rebuild. 489 00:26:10,960 --> 00:26:15,160 Speaker 2: And the Teamwork Africa team that we built in Liberia 490 00:26:15,560 --> 00:26:19,120 Speaker 2: after that is the strongest our team has ever been. 491 00:26:19,960 --> 00:26:21,840 Speaker 2: The work that we're doing now. 492 00:26:21,600 --> 00:26:23,119 Speaker 3: One door closes, more open. 493 00:26:23,480 --> 00:26:26,720 Speaker 2: We It's almost like the first decade of Teamwork Africa 494 00:26:26,920 --> 00:26:31,040 Speaker 2: was just practice for the work that we're doing now. 495 00:26:31,720 --> 00:26:33,200 Speaker 3: How many wells have you guys built? 496 00:26:33,240 --> 00:26:35,360 Speaker 2: Oh yes, I brought that too because I'm super bad 497 00:26:35,400 --> 00:26:35,919 Speaker 2: at numbers. 498 00:26:36,200 --> 00:26:39,320 Speaker 1: So yeah, give me, give me, give me what we're 499 00:26:39,359 --> 00:26:42,159 Speaker 1: going to get to what you're doing now so that 500 00:26:42,320 --> 00:26:48,240 Speaker 1: people get how this crazy story is not ended but 501 00:26:49,119 --> 00:26:53,200 Speaker 1: currently in the present progressing. But let's put some perspective 502 00:26:53,240 --> 00:26:55,480 Speaker 1: to it now in terms of numbers. Yeah, from two 503 00:26:55,480 --> 00:26:56,800 Speaker 1: wells and all of it. 504 00:26:56,880 --> 00:27:00,960 Speaker 2: Okay, from twenty eleven to twenty twenty four, we did 505 00:27:01,480 --> 00:27:03,800 Speaker 2: two hundred and sixteen new wells. 506 00:27:03,800 --> 00:27:08,919 Speaker 1: Meaning two hundred and sixteen entire communities yes, no longer 507 00:27:09,000 --> 00:27:10,399 Speaker 1: dying from Cawra. 508 00:27:10,400 --> 00:27:14,680 Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, brand new wells places yeah. And then over 509 00:27:15,400 --> 00:27:18,520 Speaker 2: way over five hundred repairs. Like we would do major 510 00:27:18,600 --> 00:27:20,760 Speaker 2: repairs that we would record, but we would go to 511 00:27:20,800 --> 00:27:24,080 Speaker 2: communities where there was a little mini repair, a small repair, 512 00:27:24,160 --> 00:27:26,240 Speaker 2: and we would always fix them. We didn't even write 513 00:27:26,240 --> 00:27:28,320 Speaker 2: it down. So there are times we'd be out doing 514 00:27:28,320 --> 00:27:31,760 Speaker 2: our well assessments and we tried always to get back 515 00:27:31,840 --> 00:27:34,520 Speaker 2: to where we were staying before dark, because you know, 516 00:27:34,880 --> 00:27:37,880 Speaker 2: a breakdown in the dark in the jungle is not ideal, 517 00:27:38,320 --> 00:27:40,600 Speaker 2: you know. So we'd be like watching the time, and 518 00:27:40,800 --> 00:27:42,720 Speaker 2: you know, I'd see one more well. I'm like, Willy, Willy, 519 00:27:42,760 --> 00:27:44,000 Speaker 2: do you think you have time to fix that one 520 00:27:44,040 --> 00:27:45,520 Speaker 2: more well? And he's like, yeah, we can do it. 521 00:27:45,680 --> 00:27:48,000 Speaker 2: And then another time he'd be like, Sis, Peggy, can 522 00:27:48,040 --> 00:27:49,960 Speaker 2: we fix one more well before we leave for today? 523 00:27:50,040 --> 00:27:52,240 Speaker 2: And so between you know, the two of us where 524 00:27:52,480 --> 00:27:55,880 Speaker 2: he just Peter Willie Jackson is our well technician. He's 525 00:27:55,920 --> 00:27:59,840 Speaker 2: been with us the entire time. He is passionate about 526 00:28:00,040 --> 00:28:03,840 Speaker 2: having drinking water. Yeah, and he's so talented. I've seen him. 527 00:28:04,320 --> 00:28:08,640 Speaker 2: You know, mcgiver has nothing on Willi. He has way 528 00:28:08,680 --> 00:28:11,679 Speaker 2: to innovate and figure out how to solve problems. And 529 00:28:12,040 --> 00:28:14,640 Speaker 2: he just doesn't quit either, Like he just keeps going 530 00:28:14,680 --> 00:28:16,159 Speaker 2: at it until he figures out a solution. 531 00:28:16,400 --> 00:28:17,960 Speaker 3: All right, So that many wells? What else? 532 00:28:18,040 --> 00:28:20,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, So that's what I have for water, for our wells, 533 00:28:20,560 --> 00:28:23,119 Speaker 2: so for like our kids. So right now we have 534 00:28:23,160 --> 00:28:25,880 Speaker 2: two one hundred and eighty kids on our scholarship program, 535 00:28:26,440 --> 00:28:28,600 Speaker 2: and we're about ready to open up our second school. 536 00:28:29,320 --> 00:28:32,720 Speaker 2: And what that's I mean we've done less of other 537 00:28:32,760 --> 00:28:34,040 Speaker 2: things too, But I don't have all the numbers for 538 00:28:34,160 --> 00:28:34,600 Speaker 2: all this stuff. 539 00:28:34,600 --> 00:28:38,959 Speaker 1: That's still incredible from a mom who wanted to adopt 540 00:28:38,960 --> 00:28:44,000 Speaker 1: a kid, a normal kid, a mom sitting in Oa Claire, 541 00:28:44,040 --> 00:28:49,520 Speaker 1: Wisconsin who wanted to adopt a kid, I mean, how 542 00:28:49,560 --> 00:28:52,560 Speaker 1: many how many people in each of these villages? 543 00:28:52,600 --> 00:28:53,320 Speaker 3: On average? 544 00:28:53,400 --> 00:28:57,280 Speaker 2: We we estimate that each well can provide I think 545 00:28:59,000 --> 00:29:01,320 Speaker 2: the governments to ts Dick say two hundred people, but 546 00:29:01,360 --> 00:29:04,880 Speaker 2: the last well said five hundred for each for each well, 547 00:29:05,280 --> 00:29:08,320 Speaker 2: and how many wells two hundred and sixty. 548 00:29:09,840 --> 00:29:12,920 Speaker 3: So it's two sixty time. 549 00:29:13,560 --> 00:29:16,000 Speaker 2: Those they don't work, well, yeah, they don't work. 550 00:29:16,720 --> 00:29:19,680 Speaker 1: That's like, that's one hundred and thirty thousand people or 551 00:29:19,720 --> 00:29:25,720 Speaker 1: so I haven't Yeah, that are living free of cholera 552 00:29:25,960 --> 00:29:27,880 Speaker 1: because you decided to adopt Michael. 553 00:29:29,640 --> 00:29:35,560 Speaker 3: He that is insane. All right, so reorganize. 554 00:29:34,880 --> 00:29:38,240 Speaker 2: Yes, what's today look well, because Liberia is so young, 555 00:29:38,480 --> 00:29:42,000 Speaker 2: and because the war and the lack of healthcare has 556 00:29:42,040 --> 00:29:46,760 Speaker 2: taken so many grandparents on doctor per seventy thousand My gosh, yeah, 557 00:29:46,840 --> 00:29:49,360 Speaker 2: that'd be one doctor for my entierement for all Claire, 558 00:29:49,840 --> 00:29:53,000 Speaker 2: for the entire shot of the city. Yeah, I think. Yeah. 559 00:29:53,240 --> 00:29:56,360 Speaker 2: We decided that a lot of the challenges of the 560 00:29:56,360 --> 00:29:59,920 Speaker 2: programs that we had started were didn't work because of 561 00:30:00,160 --> 00:30:03,760 Speaker 2: just lack of education and in a lot of ways 562 00:30:03,760 --> 00:30:08,040 Speaker 2: a lack of character development. Liberia is an incredibly corrupt 563 00:30:08,080 --> 00:30:11,480 Speaker 2: country and it's because of the civil war and the 564 00:30:11,520 --> 00:30:16,400 Speaker 2: disruption of the fabric of their society. It just makes 565 00:30:16,600 --> 00:30:19,680 Speaker 2: it just you know, lying is is a you know normal, 566 00:30:19,880 --> 00:30:24,480 Speaker 2: stealing from everybody is acceptable, like, and it just makes 567 00:30:24,760 --> 00:30:28,080 Speaker 2: nothing works well when you don't have integrity, when you 568 00:30:28,080 --> 00:30:31,760 Speaker 2: don't have character, and trying to get like we try 569 00:30:31,760 --> 00:30:34,320 Speaker 2: to do agriculture projects and so trying to bring in 570 00:30:34,640 --> 00:30:39,480 Speaker 2: more innovative, more resourceful forms of agriculture, and nobody wants 571 00:30:39,520 --> 00:30:41,920 Speaker 2: to change the way they do things. So that is 572 00:30:42,080 --> 00:30:45,240 Speaker 2: like just beating your head against the wall. So we decided, 573 00:30:45,280 --> 00:30:48,080 Speaker 2: you know what, we're gonna work with children. We're going 574 00:30:48,160 --> 00:30:51,720 Speaker 2: to work with youth because they are going to be 575 00:30:51,760 --> 00:30:55,000 Speaker 2: the leaders for tomorrow. They are they have the opportunity 576 00:30:55,040 --> 00:30:57,840 Speaker 2: to change the direction of this country. And so we 577 00:30:58,080 --> 00:31:03,360 Speaker 2: decided to focus on education and mentorship, especially the mentorship. 578 00:31:03,720 --> 00:31:05,880 Speaker 2: So we started a program from girls and a program 579 00:31:05,880 --> 00:31:08,600 Speaker 2: for boys. We limit it to thirty kids with two 580 00:31:08,640 --> 00:31:13,080 Speaker 2: leaders mentors. We teach character lessons, We use the Bible, 581 00:31:13,440 --> 00:31:16,320 Speaker 2: they get into small groups, they talk, and then they 582 00:31:16,360 --> 00:31:19,600 Speaker 2: meet weekly. And we also, as you mentioned. 583 00:31:19,640 --> 00:31:21,080 Speaker 3: This is in addition to school. 584 00:31:21,280 --> 00:31:24,760 Speaker 2: Yes, yep, yeah, so we ran we are our first 585 00:31:24,760 --> 00:31:27,760 Speaker 2: so we have one hundred and eighty kids that get scholarships. 586 00:31:27,800 --> 00:31:29,320 Speaker 2: They do not all go to our school because they 587 00:31:29,320 --> 00:31:32,320 Speaker 2: don't all live close enough to us. But in twenty 588 00:31:32,400 --> 00:31:36,080 Speaker 2: twenty two, I was getting so frustrated with the cost 589 00:31:36,120 --> 00:31:38,840 Speaker 2: of the tuition going up and the quality of education 590 00:31:39,080 --> 00:31:42,320 Speaker 2: going down that I was just like, we have got 591 00:31:42,360 --> 00:31:44,400 Speaker 2: figure out a way that we can run our own school. 592 00:31:44,480 --> 00:31:46,560 Speaker 2: And we didn't have the money to build a school 593 00:31:46,600 --> 00:31:48,520 Speaker 2: and that was going to take forever to do. And 594 00:31:48,600 --> 00:31:51,480 Speaker 2: so I just asked the team, I'm like, could you 595 00:31:51,480 --> 00:31:54,400 Speaker 2: guys look around and see is there a house that 596 00:31:54,440 --> 00:31:56,680 Speaker 2: we could rent that we could start a school, or 597 00:31:56,760 --> 00:31:59,920 Speaker 2: what can we do? And one of our staff was 598 00:32:00,120 --> 00:32:02,840 Speaker 2: going to a church and the church school closed and 599 00:32:03,040 --> 00:32:05,880 Speaker 2: she talked to the pastor and told that told her 600 00:32:05,960 --> 00:32:09,120 Speaker 2: our interest in starting a school, and we worked out 601 00:32:09,160 --> 00:32:11,680 Speaker 2: an arrangement that we're renting that school now for the 602 00:32:11,680 --> 00:32:14,320 Speaker 2: next ten years. And that was our first school. So 603 00:32:14,360 --> 00:32:18,640 Speaker 2: it's called Imago Day. It's called what it's called Imago Day. 604 00:32:18,920 --> 00:32:22,040 Speaker 2: What is Imago Day is Latin for image of God. 605 00:32:22,240 --> 00:32:24,560 Speaker 2: So the motto of our school is based on Genesis 606 00:32:24,560 --> 00:32:27,480 Speaker 2: one twenty seven where it says God said, let us 607 00:32:27,560 --> 00:32:29,520 Speaker 2: make people in our image. 608 00:32:29,760 --> 00:32:31,200 Speaker 6: All right, Peggy, show them your tat. 609 00:32:32,960 --> 00:32:34,800 Speaker 3: And it's on your wrist. 610 00:32:35,200 --> 00:32:36,360 Speaker 6: Those are midlife crisis. 611 00:32:38,160 --> 00:32:39,960 Speaker 3: Is that your mid life crisis tat? 612 00:32:40,120 --> 00:32:43,400 Speaker 2: Yes? It is. It is Imago Day, that phrase. 613 00:32:43,480 --> 00:32:45,080 Speaker 3: Do you ever think you'd have a tat? No? 614 00:32:48,200 --> 00:32:50,000 Speaker 2: I've thought about it for the last two years, and 615 00:32:50,000 --> 00:32:52,040 Speaker 2: then this year i turned fifty, and I'm like, if 616 00:32:52,040 --> 00:32:53,720 Speaker 2: I'm ever going to do it, it's going to be now. 617 00:32:53,920 --> 00:32:59,920 Speaker 2: So I am so passionate about the children in Liburian, 618 00:33:00,120 --> 00:33:02,760 Speaker 2: knowing that each one of them has been made in 619 00:33:02,800 --> 00:33:05,479 Speaker 2: the image of God and deserves love and respect and 620 00:33:05,520 --> 00:33:07,320 Speaker 2: not only that for them to know that, but for 621 00:33:07,360 --> 00:33:10,280 Speaker 2: them to see the people in their communities that every 622 00:33:10,320 --> 00:33:13,320 Speaker 2: single person that they see is also made in the 623 00:33:13,320 --> 00:33:16,800 Speaker 2: image of God and deserves love and respect. And I 624 00:33:16,840 --> 00:33:19,200 Speaker 2: want to I want our school to be a place 625 00:33:19,200 --> 00:33:22,880 Speaker 2: where that's true. I want these kids to grow in 626 00:33:23,000 --> 00:33:25,760 Speaker 2: communities where that's true. I want them to build families 627 00:33:25,800 --> 00:33:28,000 Speaker 2: where that's true. 628 00:33:28,240 --> 00:33:31,200 Speaker 1: You're literally trying to change the culture of the country 629 00:33:31,280 --> 00:33:32,080 Speaker 1: from the bottom up. 630 00:33:32,360 --> 00:33:35,160 Speaker 2: Yeah and not and small and small, Like it's so 631 00:33:35,280 --> 00:33:37,560 Speaker 2: easy when you get started to say we're going to 632 00:33:37,680 --> 00:33:40,880 Speaker 2: change Africa or we're going to change Liberia, or we're 633 00:33:40,880 --> 00:33:43,640 Speaker 2: going to change Bond County, or we're going to change 634 00:33:44,080 --> 00:33:47,640 Speaker 2: Swakoko District. And now I'm like, you know what, I'm 635 00:33:47,640 --> 00:33:50,680 Speaker 2: going to pour my life into the lives of one 636 00:33:50,760 --> 00:33:54,640 Speaker 2: hundred and eighty kids and I'm going to pray that 637 00:33:54,720 --> 00:34:02,560 Speaker 2: God is going to change the communities through them. 638 00:34:02,680 --> 00:34:03,080 Speaker 3: Wow. 639 00:34:04,920 --> 00:34:10,520 Speaker 1: So one hundred and thirty thousand people in communities getting 640 00:34:10,560 --> 00:34:16,200 Speaker 1: clean drink of water, schools, character development, character building, trying 641 00:34:16,239 --> 00:34:17,759 Speaker 1: to change it from the ground up. 642 00:34:21,760 --> 00:34:22,839 Speaker 3: Where's money come from? 643 00:34:24,040 --> 00:34:25,800 Speaker 2: I don't know, Like I told. 644 00:34:25,680 --> 00:34:28,000 Speaker 4: You a weak you're the executive director, so you need 645 00:34:28,000 --> 00:34:30,919 Speaker 4: to know, well when we first started, and I told 646 00:34:31,000 --> 00:34:34,719 Speaker 4: you that I didn't know anything about running a nonprofit, 647 00:34:35,160 --> 00:34:38,120 Speaker 4: and so I just my husband worked at the radio station, 648 00:34:38,360 --> 00:34:40,600 Speaker 4: and so he would have me on he had a. 649 00:34:40,560 --> 00:34:43,880 Speaker 2: Talk show at the time, perfect and I would tell 650 00:34:43,920 --> 00:34:47,160 Speaker 2: the story, you know, when I was in Liberia, and 651 00:34:47,200 --> 00:34:48,680 Speaker 2: I would you know, you always have to give a 652 00:34:48,719 --> 00:34:51,640 Speaker 2: greeting to the community, and I would always close my 653 00:34:51,800 --> 00:34:53,640 Speaker 2: greeting to them and I would say, I'm going to 654 00:34:53,680 --> 00:34:55,839 Speaker 2: carry you back with me in my heart, and I'm 655 00:34:55,880 --> 00:34:58,360 Speaker 2: going to share your story. And so that's what I 656 00:34:58,400 --> 00:35:00,719 Speaker 2: would do. I would just tell the story of what 657 00:35:00,760 --> 00:35:03,520 Speaker 2: I had seen and what I had felt and what 658 00:35:03,800 --> 00:35:08,680 Speaker 2: the what life was like there, and people just responded. 659 00:35:08,680 --> 00:35:08,880 Speaker 5: You know. 660 00:35:08,880 --> 00:35:10,840 Speaker 2: We had a guy the very first time I was 661 00:35:10,840 --> 00:35:12,480 Speaker 2: on the radio, We had a guy call and say 662 00:35:12,480 --> 00:35:14,719 Speaker 2: how much does it cost a sponsor a well? And 663 00:35:14,760 --> 00:35:17,560 Speaker 2: I had to go find out and he was like, 664 00:35:17,640 --> 00:35:19,319 Speaker 2: I want, I want to put a well in in 665 00:35:19,320 --> 00:35:22,600 Speaker 2: one of those communities and people. And I went to 666 00:35:22,880 --> 00:35:24,920 Speaker 2: the church I grew up in and I told the 667 00:35:24,920 --> 00:35:27,800 Speaker 2: story of the first ten kids and they're like real sponsor, 668 00:35:27,840 --> 00:35:30,799 Speaker 2: all ten of them. And you know, things in the 669 00:35:30,840 --> 00:35:34,960 Speaker 2: early days just just came in and I was sitting 670 00:35:35,040 --> 00:35:38,759 Speaker 2: with a pastor who connects with lots of different missionaries 671 00:35:38,760 --> 00:35:41,520 Speaker 2: and international organizations, and I was telling him what was 672 00:35:41,520 --> 00:35:44,279 Speaker 2: going on with Teamwork Africa and he said, he said, 673 00:35:44,280 --> 00:35:47,640 Speaker 2: what's happening with you guys is truly astonishing. And I'm 674 00:35:47,680 --> 00:35:51,120 Speaker 2: like it is. I'm like, you mean this is how 675 00:35:51,160 --> 00:35:55,759 Speaker 2: it happens for all our organizations. He's like, no, I. 676 00:35:55,880 --> 00:36:01,319 Speaker 1: Uh, you know, it is astonishing as it starts with 677 00:36:01,440 --> 00:36:05,640 Speaker 1: a normal person, an average person, a mom wanting to 678 00:36:05,680 --> 00:36:09,279 Speaker 1: adopt a child who got passionate about where that child's from. 679 00:36:10,000 --> 00:36:13,440 Speaker 1: And all of this has happened and is ongoing. But 680 00:36:14,560 --> 00:36:18,400 Speaker 1: I do want to give you an opportunity to answer 681 00:36:18,880 --> 00:36:21,440 Speaker 1: a question. And this is a softball and I'm a 682 00:36:21,560 --> 00:36:24,319 Speaker 1: love it up there for you, all right, Why should 683 00:36:24,400 --> 00:36:26,560 Speaker 1: we give a crap about the kids in Liberia? We 684 00:36:26,680 --> 00:36:28,880 Speaker 1: got problems all around us the United States. 685 00:36:30,560 --> 00:36:35,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, because every single person matters whether they're here or 686 00:36:35,560 --> 00:36:41,160 Speaker 2: whether they're there. We are all just people. We're not 687 00:36:41,280 --> 00:36:44,759 Speaker 2: different people. There's not you know, we make so many 688 00:36:44,760 --> 00:36:48,640 Speaker 2: boundaries between here and there or what makes us one 689 00:36:48,680 --> 00:36:51,520 Speaker 2: group and them another group? And the truth is we're 690 00:36:51,760 --> 00:36:54,799 Speaker 2: just all people, right, now, the radio station that my 691 00:36:54,840 --> 00:36:58,200 Speaker 2: husband works at is doing a backpack fundraiser and they're 692 00:36:58,280 --> 00:37:01,640 Speaker 2: raising money for backpack for Eau Claire, and they're raising 693 00:37:01,719 --> 00:37:04,080 Speaker 2: money for backpacks for Chip of Falls, which is the 694 00:37:04,080 --> 00:37:06,600 Speaker 2: community next door, and they're raising backpacks for the kids 695 00:37:06,640 --> 00:37:11,000 Speaker 2: in Liberia too, And it's a it's a beautiful partnership 696 00:37:11,040 --> 00:37:14,879 Speaker 2: between saying that the kids in the in my community matter, 697 00:37:15,120 --> 00:37:17,680 Speaker 2: and so do the ones far away that I don't see. 698 00:37:18,560 --> 00:37:22,320 Speaker 2: They all matter and wherever you can find a spot 699 00:37:22,400 --> 00:37:25,480 Speaker 2: to do something, do it. A lot of times when I, 700 00:37:25,640 --> 00:37:27,600 Speaker 2: you know, I get that question, why should we care 701 00:37:27,719 --> 00:37:30,520 Speaker 2: what happens? You know in Africa? We have problems here, 702 00:37:30,640 --> 00:37:33,080 Speaker 2: and my question is great, what are you doing about 703 00:37:33,080 --> 00:37:35,719 Speaker 2: it that a girl? Don't don't tell me that you 704 00:37:35,760 --> 00:37:38,160 Speaker 2: know we have problems here if you're not doing anything 705 00:37:38,200 --> 00:37:40,960 Speaker 2: about it, this is where I having called to do something. 706 00:37:41,160 --> 00:37:43,279 Speaker 2: And if you're called to do something with me, then 707 00:37:43,320 --> 00:37:45,200 Speaker 2: let's go do it. But if not, find the thing 708 00:37:45,280 --> 00:37:47,680 Speaker 2: that you are created to do and do it and 709 00:37:47,680 --> 00:37:53,960 Speaker 2: stop complaining and what other people are doing. 710 00:37:51,719 --> 00:37:54,160 Speaker 3: That sounds like how we opened the show or something. 711 00:37:54,280 --> 00:37:55,360 Speaker 6: She's ready to host it R. 712 00:38:01,040 --> 00:38:02,040 Speaker 3: Because that's what I've. 713 00:38:01,840 --> 00:38:06,319 Speaker 1: Been saying to anybody who'll listen, is you know, I 714 00:38:06,320 --> 00:38:08,560 Speaker 1: wish somebody would do something about that day. 715 00:38:08,640 --> 00:38:09,799 Speaker 3: Who is somebody? 716 00:38:11,480 --> 00:38:15,080 Speaker 1: It can be just a normal person from Oa Claire, Wisconsin. 717 00:38:15,320 --> 00:38:17,880 Speaker 1: It could be anybody who wants to employ their passion 718 00:38:18,080 --> 00:38:21,840 Speaker 1: and an area's need and make miracles happen. 719 00:38:22,360 --> 00:38:24,960 Speaker 2: One of the I really really love the name of 720 00:38:25,000 --> 00:38:26,600 Speaker 2: your podcast, and I think it's one of the reasons 721 00:38:26,640 --> 00:38:27,920 Speaker 2: why I was like. 722 00:38:28,360 --> 00:38:30,280 Speaker 6: I'm this morning. 723 00:38:30,400 --> 00:38:32,759 Speaker 2: Why I can, why why I can be on this 724 00:38:32,800 --> 00:38:37,640 Speaker 2: podcast is because I am just a normal person. It's 725 00:38:37,640 --> 00:38:41,359 Speaker 2: like you've said it, I'm a mom from from Wisconsin. 726 00:38:41,880 --> 00:38:44,080 Speaker 2: I'm a kid who grew up in the you know, 727 00:38:44,239 --> 00:38:47,759 Speaker 2: in the rural farmland and wanted to grow up and 728 00:38:47,880 --> 00:38:50,759 Speaker 2: you know, get married and have kids. Like this was 729 00:38:50,840 --> 00:38:53,680 Speaker 2: not I'm not. It frustrates me to no end when 730 00:38:53,719 --> 00:38:57,400 Speaker 2: people say, oh, you're so, You're so amazing. I'm like, no, 731 00:38:57,480 --> 00:39:01,240 Speaker 2: why not? What what God has done in my life 732 00:39:01,440 --> 00:39:05,160 Speaker 2: is truly amazing. But it's not because I'm amazing. I'm 733 00:39:05,239 --> 00:39:07,560 Speaker 2: simply following. One step at a time. 734 00:39:11,239 --> 00:39:12,520 Speaker 3: We'll be right back. 735 00:39:25,360 --> 00:39:27,920 Speaker 6: One thing built to your question about why I care 736 00:39:27,920 --> 00:39:30,640 Speaker 6: about Africa. You know, sometimes you'll go on the riff 737 00:39:30,680 --> 00:39:33,200 Speaker 6: about even if you don't care about the morality of it, 738 00:39:33,880 --> 00:39:36,680 Speaker 6: how about the practical basis? And I think what you 739 00:39:36,719 --> 00:39:39,319 Speaker 6: guys did with a bola is a great example of that. 740 00:39:39,480 --> 00:39:42,480 Speaker 6: And people now appreciate, especially from COVID, that the world 741 00:39:42,520 --> 00:39:45,280 Speaker 6: really is interconnected. So like we don't deal all these problems, 742 00:39:45,719 --> 00:39:47,360 Speaker 6: it's going to get here too. If you want to 743 00:39:47,360 --> 00:39:49,560 Speaker 6: talk about what you get, Yeah, I mean what I say. 744 00:39:49,719 --> 00:39:53,600 Speaker 1: Oftentimes if you don't care from it from a social 745 00:39:53,680 --> 00:39:58,160 Speaker 1: and spiritual standpoint, there's a pragmatic view to the type 746 00:39:58,160 --> 00:40:02,400 Speaker 1: of work that you guys do. One of them I 747 00:40:02,520 --> 00:40:05,239 Speaker 1: use all the time is for like our city. If 748 00:40:05,280 --> 00:40:09,080 Speaker 1: you don't care about our school's felling kids from a 749 00:40:09,200 --> 00:40:11,680 Speaker 1: social point of view, well, I think you're a jerk, 750 00:40:11,760 --> 00:40:14,359 Speaker 1: but okay, but you should care about it pragmatically. If 751 00:40:14,360 --> 00:40:16,680 Speaker 1: you give a crap about your property values and about 752 00:40:16,680 --> 00:40:21,840 Speaker 1: your tack space. It all connects. So tell us about 753 00:40:21,880 --> 00:40:23,240 Speaker 1: what alex is talking about. 754 00:40:23,560 --> 00:40:26,319 Speaker 2: Yeah. In twenty fourteen, there was an ebola outbreak in 755 00:40:26,360 --> 00:40:28,880 Speaker 2: West Africa, and most people in liber and in the 756 00:40:28,960 --> 00:40:32,080 Speaker 2: United States knew absolutely nothing about it until the first 757 00:40:32,120 --> 00:40:36,440 Speaker 2: American intracted ebola and then suddenly it was a national emergency. 758 00:40:37,320 --> 00:40:38,840 Speaker 2: But it was a big deal for us at the 759 00:40:38,880 --> 00:40:42,799 Speaker 2: time because we shortly after the breakout, we lost two 760 00:40:42,800 --> 00:40:43,680 Speaker 2: of our foster. 761 00:40:43,440 --> 00:40:45,600 Speaker 3: Moms and they're in two Ebola. 762 00:40:46,640 --> 00:40:49,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, two of our foster mom and their whole families, 763 00:40:49,239 --> 00:40:49,640 Speaker 2: like their. 764 00:40:49,600 --> 00:40:52,799 Speaker 1: Entire Linebola is a terrible death too. 765 00:40:53,640 --> 00:40:54,120 Speaker 3: It is. 766 00:40:54,640 --> 00:40:57,240 Speaker 2: At the time of the outbreak, it was about ninety 767 00:40:57,360 --> 00:41:02,279 Speaker 2: percent fatal. The chances of surviving were almost impossible. We 768 00:41:02,320 --> 00:41:06,960 Speaker 2: had two nurses who who also passed away from ebola, 769 00:41:07,200 --> 00:41:10,480 Speaker 2: so in trying to help other people survive. So it 770 00:41:10,520 --> 00:41:13,440 Speaker 2: was an incredibly scary time and so we you know, 771 00:41:13,440 --> 00:41:15,960 Speaker 2: I'm in communication with Peter almost every day. I was 772 00:41:16,000 --> 00:41:17,560 Speaker 2: like every day he would call me and tell me 773 00:41:17,640 --> 00:41:20,120 Speaker 2: and let me know if everyone was okay. And so 774 00:41:20,400 --> 00:41:23,719 Speaker 2: the the biggest thing that we could do to help 775 00:41:23,960 --> 00:41:26,640 Speaker 2: was the hand washing buckets, just to make sure that 776 00:41:26,719 --> 00:41:31,359 Speaker 2: everybody washed their hands constantly and exactly do that. If 777 00:41:31,360 --> 00:41:34,719 Speaker 2: you don't clean water exactly well, soap that's why you need, 778 00:41:35,160 --> 00:41:39,440 Speaker 2: right But we so we we bought hundreds, if not 779 00:41:39,560 --> 00:41:44,759 Speaker 2: thousands of buckets with faucets and bleach and soap, and 780 00:41:44,800 --> 00:41:46,640 Speaker 2: we gave those out to all of our families, to 781 00:41:46,640 --> 00:41:49,040 Speaker 2: everybody we could find, and after they got those buckets, 782 00:41:49,040 --> 00:41:50,640 Speaker 2: we didn't lose another kid. 783 00:41:53,719 --> 00:41:56,719 Speaker 3: But the point is, why do we care? 784 00:41:57,480 --> 00:42:03,600 Speaker 1: Because the world is connected now and it may COVID 785 00:42:03,680 --> 00:42:07,040 Speaker 1: may have broken out on bats in a cave or 786 00:42:07,040 --> 00:42:11,640 Speaker 1: in a lab and Wuhan or wherever. Who listen, I 787 00:42:11,640 --> 00:42:12,239 Speaker 1: said it may. 788 00:42:12,400 --> 00:42:13,080 Speaker 3: I don't know. 789 00:42:13,120 --> 00:42:17,640 Speaker 1: Anybody will ever pinpoint for sure? 790 00:42:18,680 --> 00:42:19,839 Speaker 3: Okay, well fine, it's lab. 791 00:42:20,080 --> 00:42:24,040 Speaker 1: The point is it happened literally halfway around the world 792 00:42:24,040 --> 00:42:27,200 Speaker 1: from us, and it killed all of the people are killed. 793 00:42:27,800 --> 00:42:31,560 Speaker 1: A bola killed people here and scared the hell out 794 00:42:31,560 --> 00:42:35,439 Speaker 1: of people in the United States. So why why should 795 00:42:35,520 --> 00:42:40,680 Speaker 1: we care? Because basic health, basic safety, basic education makes 796 00:42:40,719 --> 00:42:44,560 Speaker 1: a world a better place for all of us. From 797 00:42:44,600 --> 00:42:46,520 Speaker 1: a pragmatic standpoint. 798 00:42:46,080 --> 00:42:50,200 Speaker 2: It was the the US stepped up and helped Liberia 799 00:42:50,560 --> 00:42:51,799 Speaker 2: at that At that time, it was one of the 800 00:42:51,800 --> 00:42:55,439 Speaker 2: most proud moments for me as an American, was that 801 00:42:56,239 --> 00:42:59,359 Speaker 2: most of the most Americans have no idea the United 802 00:42:59,400 --> 00:43:03,400 Speaker 2: States time to Liberia, but at that moment when Liberia 803 00:43:03,440 --> 00:43:06,840 Speaker 2: needed somebody to step up and help them, the United 804 00:43:06,840 --> 00:43:10,759 Speaker 2: States sent support there. And Sierra Leone was founded by 805 00:43:11,600 --> 00:43:15,640 Speaker 2: was part of England, so the UK sent resources to 806 00:43:16,000 --> 00:43:19,759 Speaker 2: Sierra Leone and the French sent support to Kotova. No 807 00:43:20,160 --> 00:43:21,880 Speaker 2: Guinea was the third country that had it, and so 808 00:43:21,920 --> 00:43:24,279 Speaker 2: it was it was actually a good moment for me 809 00:43:24,400 --> 00:43:29,200 Speaker 2: to see these nations actually doing something to help these 810 00:43:29,200 --> 00:43:32,040 Speaker 2: countries who desperately needed it at the time. You know, 811 00:43:32,400 --> 00:43:35,000 Speaker 2: the sad part of it is that they did it 812 00:43:35,160 --> 00:43:37,680 Speaker 2: because they didn't want a bullet to come to their countries. 813 00:43:38,080 --> 00:43:41,359 Speaker 3: Got was it because of their abject generosity or because 814 00:43:41,360 --> 00:43:42,719 Speaker 3: they didn't want to bowl to spread out? 815 00:43:42,920 --> 00:43:45,400 Speaker 2: At least they were at least they were there, like 816 00:43:45,680 --> 00:43:48,200 Speaker 2: you know, they needed they I mean, library could not 817 00:43:48,320 --> 00:43:50,719 Speaker 2: have ended a bullet without world's help. 818 00:43:53,160 --> 00:43:55,600 Speaker 3: So what does it cost to sponsor one of these kids? 819 00:43:55,920 --> 00:43:59,120 Speaker 2: Twenty five dollars a month, twenty five bucks a month. 820 00:43:59,200 --> 00:44:02,000 Speaker 3: We'll get a kid educate. Yeah, that's it. 821 00:44:02,080 --> 00:44:05,520 Speaker 2: That's it. And not only that that So the base 822 00:44:05,560 --> 00:44:10,560 Speaker 2: of what our sponsorship kids get is tuition. They get backpacks, 823 00:44:10,560 --> 00:44:13,879 Speaker 2: that get school shoes. Then we have some kids who 824 00:44:13,920 --> 00:44:17,200 Speaker 2: are in even deeper poverty. And so we have several 825 00:44:17,200 --> 00:44:19,759 Speaker 2: families that also get rice support every month. 826 00:44:20,000 --> 00:44:23,839 Speaker 1: How can I, as a donor be assured that that 827 00:44:23,960 --> 00:44:25,600 Speaker 1: money gets to that kid? 828 00:44:26,080 --> 00:44:26,960 Speaker 3: How does that work? 829 00:44:27,040 --> 00:44:27,360 Speaker 4: Okay? 830 00:44:27,480 --> 00:44:30,400 Speaker 2: So all of the money for Starfish kids goes into 831 00:44:30,800 --> 00:44:34,040 Speaker 2: the fund and then every year, like so, I'm getting 832 00:44:34,040 --> 00:44:36,000 Speaker 2: ready to go to library in September. I'm going to 833 00:44:36,000 --> 00:44:39,320 Speaker 2: be bringing all the tuition money with me to Liberia 834 00:44:39,840 --> 00:44:42,760 Speaker 2: and so I'm there when all the kids register for school. 835 00:44:42,840 --> 00:44:46,080 Speaker 2: So and then I get all the receipts literally take care. Yeah, 836 00:44:46,160 --> 00:44:48,319 Speaker 2: when we register the kids, I'm there and I get 837 00:44:48,320 --> 00:44:51,600 Speaker 2: the receipts for the school. So we go and right 838 00:44:51,640 --> 00:44:54,160 Speaker 2: now my staff and library are doing home visits for 839 00:44:54,200 --> 00:44:56,560 Speaker 2: each one of our kids. They're going to their houses. 840 00:44:56,719 --> 00:44:59,200 Speaker 2: They're saying where they sleep, who they live with. We 841 00:44:59,280 --> 00:45:01,560 Speaker 2: get their con information and we find out what their 842 00:45:01,560 --> 00:45:04,480 Speaker 2: health concerns are. And then we get new pictures of 843 00:45:04,520 --> 00:45:07,520 Speaker 2: the kids every year, and then we register them for school. 844 00:45:07,640 --> 00:45:10,160 Speaker 2: So we have learned the hard way not to give 845 00:45:10,200 --> 00:45:14,720 Speaker 2: cash to people. So we always get receipts for everything 846 00:45:14,760 --> 00:45:17,160 Speaker 2: that we do, so that I can so that I 847 00:45:17,200 --> 00:45:18,359 Speaker 2: can removed. 848 00:45:18,080 --> 00:45:20,919 Speaker 1: Value that want to support. You can rest assured these 849 00:45:21,000 --> 00:45:21,880 Speaker 1: kids are getting. 850 00:45:21,640 --> 00:45:25,160 Speaker 2: Us money there. Yeah, even the kids on the rice support, 851 00:45:25,360 --> 00:45:28,200 Speaker 2: I get their picture with the bag of rice every month. 852 00:45:28,680 --> 00:45:30,759 Speaker 2: So when the kids go to the doctor, I get 853 00:45:30,800 --> 00:45:33,239 Speaker 2: a picture of the receipt from the clinic that they 854 00:45:33,280 --> 00:45:33,560 Speaker 2: went to. 855 00:45:34,360 --> 00:45:37,080 Speaker 1: I didn't grow up with a whole lot and sometimes 856 00:45:37,520 --> 00:45:40,840 Speaker 1: being a spooled, impetuous American kid like all of my 857 00:45:40,920 --> 00:45:42,320 Speaker 1: own children and pretty. 858 00:45:42,080 --> 00:45:43,000 Speaker 3: Much are biolsisy. 859 00:45:43,120 --> 00:45:46,360 Speaker 1: Listen, I wouldn't always finish what was on my plate, 860 00:45:48,040 --> 00:45:52,120 Speaker 1: and my mom would say, my mom would say, you know, 861 00:45:53,440 --> 00:45:56,360 Speaker 1: you should eat that and quit being such a selfish 862 00:45:56,400 --> 00:45:59,560 Speaker 1: little turd because they're they're kids starving and. 863 00:45:59,640 --> 00:46:02,839 Speaker 2: Afford, I used to say. And my joke was, and 864 00:46:03,000 --> 00:46:04,760 Speaker 2: I know their names right. 865 00:46:05,440 --> 00:46:07,520 Speaker 3: That's why I set it up for you. When I 866 00:46:07,600 --> 00:46:08,600 Speaker 3: read you said that. 867 00:46:08,560 --> 00:46:11,480 Speaker 2: I died laugh because you could say, yeah. 868 00:46:11,160 --> 00:46:13,719 Speaker 3: They're kids starving Africa, and I know who they are. 869 00:46:14,719 --> 00:46:16,760 Speaker 3: Eat your food, you little spoiled brat. 870 00:46:17,160 --> 00:46:19,560 Speaker 2: Oh Peter had the chance to come to United States 871 00:46:19,560 --> 00:46:22,400 Speaker 2: a couple of times, and one time, you know, making 872 00:46:22,400 --> 00:46:24,640 Speaker 2: dinner whatever, and I'm calling the kids to come and eat, 873 00:46:24,640 --> 00:46:27,000 Speaker 2: and he comes to the kitchen and he goes, you 874 00:46:27,120 --> 00:46:32,640 Speaker 2: have to call the children. You're like, our kids are 875 00:46:32,680 --> 00:46:33,760 Speaker 2: waiting at the door. 876 00:46:35,760 --> 00:46:37,080 Speaker 3: That's funny but sad. 877 00:46:37,320 --> 00:46:43,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, And I think it's beautiful that you're making all 878 00:46:43,040 --> 00:46:46,520 Speaker 1: of the suffort to make it better for these children. 879 00:46:47,000 --> 00:46:50,439 Speaker 1: And starting at the ground up and cleaning water and 880 00:46:50,520 --> 00:46:53,960 Speaker 1: everything else. How do people find out more about Teamwork Africa. 881 00:46:54,120 --> 00:46:56,719 Speaker 2: We have a website, teamwork Africa dot org. We're very 882 00:46:56,719 --> 00:46:59,680 Speaker 2: active on Facebook, so you can find Teamwork Africa on Facebook. 883 00:46:59,719 --> 00:47:01,919 Speaker 2: And we have a media person and so she does 884 00:47:01,920 --> 00:47:03,560 Speaker 2: the Instagram and all that kind of stuff too. 885 00:47:03,760 --> 00:47:05,680 Speaker 3: Somebody wants to get in touch with you, yeah, you. 886 00:47:05,640 --> 00:47:09,240 Speaker 2: Can email me for sure, Peggy at Teamwork Africa. 887 00:47:09,280 --> 00:47:12,560 Speaker 3: Do at work Alex, same thing of for me over there. Yeah. 888 00:47:12,600 --> 00:47:16,600 Speaker 6: One of the things, it's like the Mountain Villager story 889 00:47:16,680 --> 00:47:18,640 Speaker 6: that's not quite the name of it, but the guy 890 00:47:18,680 --> 00:47:22,000 Speaker 6: talking about the fencing. Oh and then the also to 891 00:47:22,160 --> 00:47:25,040 Speaker 6: the story of the girl where people thought, you know, 892 00:47:25,160 --> 00:47:28,200 Speaker 6: maybe she was promiscuous, but you new selling else and yeah. 893 00:47:28,600 --> 00:47:33,239 Speaker 2: Yeah, So we wanted to learn how to teach self 894 00:47:33,239 --> 00:47:36,480 Speaker 2: sustainability and we wanted to point out why giving handouts 895 00:47:36,560 --> 00:47:39,839 Speaker 2: didn't solve any problems, and so we started found out but. 896 00:47:39,800 --> 00:47:43,160 Speaker 4: A handouts set and if you look at our logo, 897 00:47:43,239 --> 00:47:45,239 Speaker 4: we have you know, the little people trying to you know, 898 00:47:45,280 --> 00:47:46,239 Speaker 4: help the other person up. 899 00:47:46,680 --> 00:47:48,239 Speaker 2: So one of the stories that we used in our 900 00:47:48,280 --> 00:47:50,879 Speaker 2: training for self sustainability was about a community who lived 901 00:47:50,960 --> 00:47:52,960 Speaker 2: up on a mountain and there was a really rugged 902 00:47:53,000 --> 00:47:56,200 Speaker 2: trail and people kept sliding down off the trail and 903 00:47:56,239 --> 00:47:59,920 Speaker 2: getting hurt or dying, and so one you know, kind 904 00:47:59,920 --> 00:48:01,719 Speaker 2: of hard group came in and they said, well, what 905 00:48:01,760 --> 00:48:04,000 Speaker 2: you guys need is a clinic at the bottom of 906 00:48:04,040 --> 00:48:06,759 Speaker 2: this mountain, so them people get hurt, they can take 907 00:48:06,800 --> 00:48:09,839 Speaker 2: them to the clinic and get treatment. So they went 908 00:48:09,880 --> 00:48:11,640 Speaker 2: back to wherever they were from and raised money and 909 00:48:11,640 --> 00:48:13,920 Speaker 2: built the clinic and funded it and staffed it. But 910 00:48:14,040 --> 00:48:16,360 Speaker 2: over time that got really burdened some and they couldn't 911 00:48:16,600 --> 00:48:18,719 Speaker 2: keep raising money to pay the salaries and get all 912 00:48:18,760 --> 00:48:20,719 Speaker 2: the medicine and stuff, and eventually the clinic closed and 913 00:48:20,760 --> 00:48:23,319 Speaker 2: people kept falling off the mountain getting hurt and dying. 914 00:48:23,680 --> 00:48:26,040 Speaker 2: So another group from a really big city came and said, no, 915 00:48:26,200 --> 00:48:29,000 Speaker 2: what you need is an ambulance. So if you have 916 00:48:29,000 --> 00:48:31,160 Speaker 2: an ambulance at the bottom of the hill, then when 917 00:48:31,160 --> 00:48:33,440 Speaker 2: someone gets hurt, you can get in the ambulance and 918 00:48:33,480 --> 00:48:36,319 Speaker 2: then drive to the hospital and the city. So but 919 00:48:36,520 --> 00:48:39,200 Speaker 2: you know, the ambulance needs new tires all the time, 920 00:48:39,239 --> 00:48:41,239 Speaker 2: and it kept breaking down, and then eventually they just 921 00:48:41,239 --> 00:48:44,439 Speaker 2: got tired of paying for that ambulance, and so there 922 00:48:44,480 --> 00:48:47,759 Speaker 2: the ambulance sits. So the community is sitting there going, well, 923 00:48:47,760 --> 00:48:50,680 Speaker 2: what are we going to do about this problem? And 924 00:48:50,719 --> 00:48:52,839 Speaker 2: this old man said, well, I didn't want to say 925 00:48:52,880 --> 00:48:56,480 Speaker 2: anything when the outsiders were here, but I was thinking 926 00:48:56,560 --> 00:49:00,440 Speaker 2: we could build a fence along the path that people 927 00:49:00,480 --> 00:49:04,960 Speaker 2: would stop falling off the side of the mountain. Crazy 928 00:49:05,080 --> 00:49:07,879 Speaker 2: thought we could have down some of our trees and 929 00:49:08,000 --> 00:49:11,399 Speaker 2: we could build our own railing to keep people from 930 00:49:11,440 --> 00:49:14,239 Speaker 2: falling off, and we could maintain it on our own 931 00:49:14,520 --> 00:49:16,080 Speaker 2: without any help from anybody else. 932 00:49:18,040 --> 00:49:23,160 Speaker 1: Old saying is you can keep pulling drowning kids out 933 00:49:23,200 --> 00:49:25,359 Speaker 1: of the river, which is a beautiful thing to do, 934 00:49:25,560 --> 00:49:28,439 Speaker 1: but eventually you need to wonder why they're falling in 935 00:49:28,440 --> 00:49:29,240 Speaker 1: in the first place. 936 00:49:29,280 --> 00:49:29,760 Speaker 2: Exactly. 937 00:49:30,960 --> 00:49:35,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, So how much money was wasted on a clinic 938 00:49:35,239 --> 00:49:37,719 Speaker 1: and an ambulance because we went in to tell them 939 00:49:37,719 --> 00:49:40,640 Speaker 1: what they needed when all we had to do was ask, hey, 940 00:49:41,239 --> 00:49:43,120 Speaker 1: how can we help you with this fountain thing? 941 00:49:43,120 --> 00:49:43,879 Speaker 3: What do you all think? 942 00:49:44,080 --> 00:49:44,319 Speaker 2: Right? 943 00:49:45,320 --> 00:49:47,719 Speaker 6: And the bottom up solutions the people closest to the problem, 944 00:49:47,800 --> 00:49:48,600 Speaker 6: or bottom. 945 00:49:48,280 --> 00:49:50,840 Speaker 1: Up solution people because the problems always know the answer. 946 00:49:50,920 --> 00:49:54,840 Speaker 1: Get my hand up out of hand out, and things 947 00:49:54,920 --> 00:49:57,319 Speaker 1: change and they have ownership on it because it's their 948 00:49:57,680 --> 00:50:02,200 Speaker 1: idea and they know what it is. Right, beautiful story. 949 00:50:04,840 --> 00:50:21,720 Speaker 1: We'll be right back. We talked early about very sad 950 00:50:21,800 --> 00:50:27,520 Speaker 1: truth of assault. You have a story about a girl, 951 00:50:28,640 --> 00:50:32,480 Speaker 1: I'll just let you tell it that some thought might 952 00:50:32,560 --> 00:50:36,280 Speaker 1: be promiscuous, but it turned out, yeah, something completely different. 953 00:50:36,480 --> 00:50:38,760 Speaker 2: I met Lomoni and one of my very first trips 954 00:50:38,760 --> 00:50:40,759 Speaker 2: to Liberia, she was four or five years old, and 955 00:50:40,840 --> 00:50:43,960 Speaker 2: she had a growth on her eye and when I 956 00:50:44,000 --> 00:50:46,200 Speaker 2: went back ahead gotten noticely bigger, and so we were 957 00:50:46,200 --> 00:50:49,000 Speaker 2: able to take Lomoni and get her treatment. Unfortunately, we 958 00:50:49,000 --> 00:50:51,120 Speaker 2: weren't able to save her eye, but we were able 959 00:50:51,160 --> 00:50:53,480 Speaker 2: to remove the tumor. And so from that time on 960 00:50:53,640 --> 00:50:56,640 Speaker 2: she lived at our campus in Monrovia to go to school. 961 00:50:57,000 --> 00:51:00,400 Speaker 2: And she was a super sweet, very shy little girl. 962 00:51:01,239 --> 00:51:03,560 Speaker 2: So she lived there for several years. And then in 963 00:51:03,600 --> 00:51:08,359 Speaker 2: twenty nineteen, when Peter died, just chaos just erupted, and 964 00:51:08,400 --> 00:51:11,399 Speaker 2: nobody knew what was going to happen. You know, Peter 965 00:51:11,560 --> 00:51:14,480 Speaker 2: held the whole thing together, and she ended up going. 966 00:51:14,719 --> 00:51:17,439 Speaker 2: She ended up leaving. I didn't know where she went, 967 00:51:18,040 --> 00:51:20,799 Speaker 2: and so I was in the community where I knew 968 00:51:20,800 --> 00:51:22,319 Speaker 2: that she was from where I had first met her, 969 00:51:22,320 --> 00:51:24,279 Speaker 2: and asking the principal of a school there, I'm like, 970 00:51:24,320 --> 00:51:26,480 Speaker 2: do you know Lomani? Do you know have you seen her? 971 00:51:26,520 --> 00:51:29,319 Speaker 2: Do you know where she went? And after I left 972 00:51:29,360 --> 00:51:31,839 Speaker 2: he contacted me he said, yeah, I found Lomoni. And 973 00:51:31,880 --> 00:51:34,680 Speaker 2: so I sent our staff from Monrovia to go see 974 00:51:34,680 --> 00:51:37,239 Speaker 2: if we could take her back to town so she 975 00:51:37,239 --> 00:51:39,359 Speaker 2: could keep going to school. And when they got there, 976 00:51:39,760 --> 00:51:42,959 Speaker 2: they said, Lemoni's just given birth to a baby. And 977 00:51:43,040 --> 00:51:45,960 Speaker 2: so my country director was like, oh, she has a boyfriend. 978 00:51:46,000 --> 00:51:47,640 Speaker 2: Now she's you know, off doing her old thing. And 979 00:51:47,640 --> 00:51:51,840 Speaker 2: I'm like, Frances, you don't know Lomone. I do, and 980 00:51:51,880 --> 00:51:54,319 Speaker 2: that's not the kind of girl that she is. Go 981 00:51:54,640 --> 00:51:58,000 Speaker 2: find out what happened to her. So we sent the 982 00:51:58,040 --> 00:52:01,160 Speaker 2: staff back to the village to to talk to find 983 00:52:01,200 --> 00:52:06,400 Speaker 2: out what happened. And the they said Lomoni was a 984 00:52:06,480 --> 00:52:10,640 Speaker 2: vulnerable girl. What vulnerable? Vulnerable just meant that there was 985 00:52:10,680 --> 00:52:12,520 Speaker 2: no she had no protectors. She didn't have a father 986 00:52:12,560 --> 00:52:16,080 Speaker 2: and uncle, a brother, nobody to defend her, so she 987 00:52:16,160 --> 00:52:19,799 Speaker 2: was an easy target. And Lomoni gave birth to a 988 00:52:19,800 --> 00:52:26,680 Speaker 2: baby girl three weeks after she turned fourteen, so I 989 00:52:26,760 --> 00:52:31,279 Speaker 2: was undone another moment where I was just like, you know, 990 00:52:31,680 --> 00:52:40,720 Speaker 2: so mad and so sad, and just we talked to her. 991 00:52:40,760 --> 00:52:43,120 Speaker 2: Her mother was still there and we asked her if 992 00:52:43,120 --> 00:52:45,040 Speaker 2: we could take Lomani and the baby back to town. 993 00:52:45,080 --> 00:52:47,799 Speaker 2: And we had have a wonderful woman who's one of 994 00:52:47,800 --> 00:52:51,719 Speaker 2: my best friends, Rosalind, who kind of raised Lomani when 995 00:52:51,760 --> 00:52:53,520 Speaker 2: she was in town. So LONEI went to go live 996 00:52:53,560 --> 00:52:56,799 Speaker 2: with with Rosalind. And then once you got to town, 997 00:52:56,840 --> 00:53:00,279 Speaker 2: they had me on video call and I knew, I 998 00:53:00,320 --> 00:53:02,200 Speaker 2: knew they were going to ask me to give the 999 00:53:02,239 --> 00:53:06,680 Speaker 2: baby a name, and I was like, all these feelings 1000 00:53:06,680 --> 00:53:09,360 Speaker 2: are just so huge. And so I'm talking to Rosalind 1001 00:53:09,960 --> 00:53:14,120 Speaker 2: and she's shown me this beautiful baby girl and she said, says, Peggy, 1002 00:53:14,160 --> 00:53:15,640 Speaker 2: what are we going to name her? And it just 1003 00:53:15,719 --> 00:53:22,800 Speaker 2: blurted out, Mercy. We'll name it Mercy. And from Mercy 1004 00:53:22,880 --> 00:53:26,840 Speaker 2: and Lumone's story, we have a dream of building a 1005 00:53:26,880 --> 00:53:30,960 Speaker 2: Mercy House, which will be housing for at risk girls, 1006 00:53:31,280 --> 00:53:34,640 Speaker 2: so that those girls who are vulnerable will be in 1007 00:53:34,680 --> 00:53:40,400 Speaker 2: a safe place, and also for girls who have already 1008 00:53:40,440 --> 00:53:42,960 Speaker 2: been assaulted and we didn't get there in time, that 1009 00:53:43,000 --> 00:53:45,840 Speaker 2: they can also have a safe place to recover and 1010 00:53:45,920 --> 00:53:49,320 Speaker 2: have a second chance at life. We have girls right now. 1011 00:53:49,440 --> 00:53:51,400 Speaker 2: We don't have the Mercy House built, but I have 1012 00:53:51,440 --> 00:53:55,160 Speaker 2: two girls right now who are in really bad spots 1013 00:53:55,239 --> 00:53:58,319 Speaker 2: and we need to find housing for them now, a 1014 00:53:58,360 --> 00:54:01,880 Speaker 2: safe place for them to be. One of our girls 1015 00:54:02,480 --> 00:54:04,640 Speaker 2: was living with her neighbor and her neighbor kicked her out, 1016 00:54:04,680 --> 00:54:07,120 Speaker 2: said she wasn't bring anything to the family, so she 1017 00:54:07,200 --> 00:54:09,520 Speaker 2: went to go live with a boy who had his 1018 00:54:09,560 --> 00:54:12,800 Speaker 2: own demands on her. And she's pregnant now, and. 1019 00:54:15,000 --> 00:54:15,879 Speaker 3: Like, what is she? 1020 00:54:16,840 --> 00:54:18,960 Speaker 2: Where's she going to go? Who's you know? We had 1021 00:54:19,000 --> 00:54:22,120 Speaker 2: another girl who got pregnant and ran away because she 1022 00:54:22,160 --> 00:54:24,120 Speaker 2: was sure her mom was going to kick her out 1023 00:54:24,239 --> 00:54:28,080 Speaker 2: because she was pregnant. So we have an incredible social 1024 00:54:28,120 --> 00:54:33,040 Speaker 2: worker in Liberia, Nima's Angeline, and she is she has 1025 00:54:33,200 --> 00:54:35,440 Speaker 2: We have a trauma counseling group. She meets with the 1026 00:54:35,440 --> 00:54:38,000 Speaker 2: girls twice a month and is trying to help them 1027 00:54:38,040 --> 00:54:42,680 Speaker 2: work through both the trauma of assault and also helping 1028 00:54:42,760 --> 00:54:47,080 Speaker 2: to tea helping to teach these girls that their body 1029 00:54:47,120 --> 00:54:49,799 Speaker 2: belongs to them and that nobody else has the right 1030 00:54:49,840 --> 00:54:53,200 Speaker 2: to touch it, and they can say no, and they 1031 00:54:53,200 --> 00:54:56,719 Speaker 2: can tell somebody when they're being harassed, and there are 1032 00:54:56,840 --> 00:55:03,400 Speaker 2: literally signs on schools in Liberia that's say no no 1033 00:55:03,560 --> 00:55:05,600 Speaker 2: sex for grades, no grades for sex. 1034 00:55:10,680 --> 00:55:13,360 Speaker 3: With all that you've done, there's so much more to do. 1035 00:55:15,600 --> 00:55:17,759 Speaker 2: The thing that ties it all together for me is 1036 00:55:17,800 --> 00:55:20,640 Speaker 2: that my entire life, what I've wanted more than anything 1037 00:55:20,680 --> 00:55:22,920 Speaker 2: in the whole world is to be a mom. And 1038 00:55:23,000 --> 00:55:26,360 Speaker 2: I have been blessed with five kids that I have 1039 00:55:26,440 --> 00:55:29,960 Speaker 2: the opportunity to raise, But there are so many kids 1040 00:55:30,080 --> 00:55:33,759 Speaker 2: in Liberia where I'm the only mom they've got, and 1041 00:55:33,800 --> 00:55:36,200 Speaker 2: they messaged me every day. I was I was like, 1042 00:55:36,239 --> 00:55:38,400 Speaker 2: I'm gonna see if I can remember the names of 1043 00:55:38,600 --> 00:55:41,440 Speaker 2: all of the kids that call me call me mom, 1044 00:55:41,560 --> 00:55:44,440 Speaker 2: And there's there's a good, good start on some of 1045 00:55:44,520 --> 00:55:47,720 Speaker 2: those kids that And some days, you know, like Sarah, 1046 00:55:47,800 --> 00:55:50,600 Speaker 2: she just needs me to say I love you, Sarah, 1047 00:55:50,960 --> 00:55:52,680 Speaker 2: Or it was Alicia's birth the other day and I'm like, 1048 00:55:52,719 --> 00:55:57,320 Speaker 2: happy birthday, dear. Like everybody needs to know they matter 1049 00:55:57,760 --> 00:56:01,279 Speaker 2: to someone, and for some of these kids, it's me 1050 00:56:01,480 --> 00:56:04,719 Speaker 2: way over here where they can. They just need to 1051 00:56:04,760 --> 00:56:08,239 Speaker 2: know that somebody cares, somebody sees them. 1052 00:56:08,760 --> 00:56:09,959 Speaker 3: How your names are on there? 1053 00:56:10,480 --> 00:56:14,520 Speaker 2: Fourteen fifteen sixteen, I was still going. 1054 00:56:16,360 --> 00:56:21,120 Speaker 1: Twenty five bucks a month. Yeah, teamwork Africa, y'all. 1055 00:56:22,440 --> 00:56:22,839 Speaker 3: And Army. 1056 00:56:23,000 --> 00:56:25,960 Speaker 1: Normal folks is about normal folks doing extraordinary things when 1057 00:56:26,000 --> 00:56:30,279 Speaker 1: they match their passion with an opportunity. And Peggy is a, 1058 00:56:31,320 --> 00:56:35,840 Speaker 1: I mean, tip top five star example of that. And 1059 00:56:36,000 --> 00:56:38,040 Speaker 1: I don't know how you can hear the story and 1060 00:56:38,080 --> 00:56:41,120 Speaker 1: hear her voice and hear her passion and understand the 1061 00:56:41,200 --> 00:56:44,480 Speaker 1: volume of need available and understand something. I suppose twenty 1062 00:56:44,480 --> 00:56:50,800 Speaker 1: five dollars could literally help change not only an individual's life, 1063 00:56:51,520 --> 00:56:54,680 Speaker 1: but join the ranks of the people that Peggy is 1064 00:56:54,719 --> 00:56:56,839 Speaker 1: trying to put together to change the culture of an 1065 00:56:57,000 --> 00:57:02,959 Speaker 1: entire country. One hearted Tom, Thanks for joining me, Thanks 1066 00:57:02,960 --> 00:57:05,000 Speaker 1: for telling your story. 1067 00:57:05,200 --> 00:57:06,840 Speaker 3: You are an inspiration, Peggy. 1068 00:57:06,920 --> 00:57:10,759 Speaker 1: It's pretty phenomenal, as well as Mark and your children. Candidly, 1069 00:57:11,239 --> 00:57:15,319 Speaker 1: your entire family. The work that they've all committed all 1070 00:57:15,320 --> 00:57:16,920 Speaker 1: because you wanted to adopt a kid. 1071 00:57:17,840 --> 00:57:20,120 Speaker 2: Tells you we're on our way to somewhere else. 1072 00:57:20,360 --> 00:57:21,560 Speaker 3: What's Michael doing now? 1073 00:57:22,200 --> 00:57:24,680 Speaker 2: He is actually in the National Guard. 1074 00:57:25,360 --> 00:57:27,560 Speaker 3: He's in the United States National Guard. 1075 00:57:27,760 --> 00:57:31,120 Speaker 2: He's trying. He had some trouble with the entrance stuff, 1076 00:57:31,160 --> 00:57:33,120 Speaker 2: so he had to get some tutoring and stuff. But 1077 00:57:33,240 --> 00:57:34,560 Speaker 2: he's trying that out. 1078 00:57:35,560 --> 00:57:38,320 Speaker 3: Holy smokes, is that actually proud? 1079 00:57:38,640 --> 00:57:45,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, phenomenal, That's phenomenal. Peggy Harvson Everybody, co founder and 1080 00:57:45,800 --> 00:57:49,800 Speaker 1: US director of Teamwork Africa from EA Claire, Wisconsin and 1081 00:57:50,960 --> 00:57:55,919 Speaker 1: Liberia and points of between doing God's work, changing lives 1082 00:57:55,960 --> 00:57:56,600 Speaker 1: one at a time. 1083 00:57:57,280 --> 00:57:59,760 Speaker 3: Peggy, thank you, Thank you so. 1084 00:57:59,760 --> 00:58:06,800 Speaker 1: Much, happy, and thank you for joining us this week. 1085 00:58:07,240 --> 00:58:10,960 Speaker 1: If Peggy halperson has inspired you in general, or better yet, 1086 00:58:11,360 --> 00:58:15,800 Speaker 1: to take action by adopting a child, easily sponsoring the 1087 00:58:16,000 --> 00:58:19,600 Speaker 1: education of their Liberian students for only twenty five bucks 1088 00:58:19,640 --> 00:58:22,560 Speaker 1: a month, or something else entirely, please. 1089 00:58:22,360 --> 00:58:24,560 Speaker 3: Let me know. I really want to hear about it. 1090 00:58:24,600 --> 00:58:28,480 Speaker 1: You can write me anytime at Bill at normalfolks dot us, 1091 00:58:28,520 --> 00:58:31,040 Speaker 1: and I'm telling you ask anybody who's ever emailed me. 1092 00:58:31,440 --> 00:58:32,360 Speaker 3: I will respond. 1093 00:58:33,120 --> 00:58:36,000 Speaker 1: And if you enjoyed this episode, share it with friends, 1094 00:58:36,200 --> 00:58:39,240 Speaker 1: share it on social subscribe to the podcast, rate and 1095 00:58:39,320 --> 00:58:43,240 Speaker 1: review it. Please join the army at normalfolks dot us 1096 00:58:43,360 --> 00:58:45,400 Speaker 1: any and all of these things that will help us 1097 00:58:45,440 --> 00:58:50,240 Speaker 1: grow an army of normal folks. I'm Bill Courtney. Until 1098 00:58:50,240 --> 00:58:52,120 Speaker 1: next time, do what you can