WEBVTT - The Date Zero 0:00:00.560 --> 0:00:07.600 From Hollywood. Thank you for listening to us with Ryan Seacrest. 0:00:09.480 --> 0:00:14.600 It's Ryan's Seacrest and Sissany and Patty and Tanya and Sunshine. 0:00:14.880 --> 0:00:17.560 Highs in the low seventies, not nearly as windy, which 0:00:17.640 --> 0:00:20.160 is good news. We're also paying your bills in just 0:00:20.200 --> 0:00:23.000 a minute. We start that right away. Got some Notsberry 0:00:23.040 --> 0:00:26.680 Farm tickets and the Morning Hack is this hour? So 0:00:26.720 --> 0:00:29.680 many people are catching COVID right now. It is obviously 0:00:29.720 --> 0:00:33.919 it's so contagious. I've been through it all here and 0:00:34.440 --> 0:00:37.919 if you do, there are three foods they say you 0:00:37.920 --> 0:00:41.200 should eat to help, and I'll tell you more about 0:00:41.200 --> 0:00:43.360 that in a little bit. And they've also got a 0:00:43.360 --> 0:00:47.920 second date update. This couple met on hinge? What's the process? Tundy? 0:00:47.960 --> 0:00:50.120 You met on hinge? You met Robbie on hinge? One 0:00:50.159 --> 0:00:53.560 of the great success stories of hinge history. What is 0:00:53.640 --> 0:00:57.240 the process when you first meet someone on a hinge? 0:00:57.240 --> 0:00:59.960 How does that look? I mean it just looks like 0:01:00.040 --> 0:01:02.680 a text message essentially, or even like a d M 0:01:02.680 --> 0:01:04.839 on Instagram. You just because this guy saying he doesn't 0:01:05.120 --> 0:01:08.040 he's not chit chatty on it. Yeah, it just depends 0:01:08.040 --> 0:01:11.200 like some people like to chat on the dating apps 0:01:11.200 --> 0:01:14.240 for a while before they meet I r L. Other 0:01:14.319 --> 0:01:16.840 people like to do it quick, have a little bit 0:01:16.880 --> 0:01:19.160 of conversation, and then go meet up, So it just 0:01:19.200 --> 0:01:22.880 kind of depends on your preference. So I guess they 0:01:23.120 --> 0:01:26.960 went out and she's not responding. So that's what a 0:01:27.000 --> 0:01:30.480 second date update is all about, trying to find out why. Well, 0:01:30.520 --> 0:01:32.920 you know, we made the announcement yesterday that Patty is 0:01:32.920 --> 0:01:35.200 going to move on and pursue them for other dreams 0:01:35.200 --> 0:01:38.600 and endeavors. She'll be here till the eighteenth of February, 0:01:38.880 --> 0:01:41.600 but a lot of reaction pouring in because of your 0:01:41.600 --> 0:01:45.240 connection with people that you have created here. And it 0:01:45.319 --> 0:01:49.040 is true. Once you do this and you know this 0:01:50.240 --> 0:01:54.560 job or this platform, I guess we would call it 0:01:54.560 --> 0:01:57.240 it's just as it's a very intimate one because there's 0:01:57.240 --> 0:02:00.160 not a script, and it's really every day for any 0:02:00.160 --> 0:02:03.480 many hours and I don't know, it's it's unlike anything 0:02:03.520 --> 0:02:07.960 I've worked on for that those reasons too right, And 0:02:08.000 --> 0:02:13.079 I think because of that, when how do you form 0:02:13.160 --> 0:02:16.600 these friendships and relationships with people who listen, who may 0:02:16.639 --> 0:02:20.919 see something that that inspires them and you they want 0:02:20.919 --> 0:02:23.240 to call and say thank you and Lucy's in Ontario 0:02:24.000 --> 0:02:27.920 and Lucy go ahead, you around with Patty. Good morning everyone, 0:02:28.000 --> 0:02:31.240 Good morning Ryan, Patty. I am so excuttered that I'm 0:02:31.280 --> 0:02:35.519 on air. Um. You have no idea how inspirational you 0:02:35.639 --> 0:02:38.120 have been ever since I heard you a few years ago. 0:02:38.120 --> 0:02:43.000 One kiss of m Oh, my god, she's like Latina. 0:02:43.200 --> 0:02:46.680 She sounds more like me. So I did my research. 0:02:46.800 --> 0:02:49.680 I researched with There wasn't much out there on you, 0:02:50.000 --> 0:02:52.440 yeah back then, but I realized, oh my god, she's 0:02:52.600 --> 0:02:55.120 because I'm from Maywood. I grew up in Maywood, so 0:02:55.440 --> 0:02:58.680 I'm familiar. Yeah. So then I heard you, and then 0:02:58.760 --> 0:03:01.440 your story is so much like me, And we didn't 0:03:01.480 --> 0:03:04.600 have that much representation back then. We're starting to now 0:03:04.840 --> 0:03:07.400 where there wasn't like Mario Lopez and Eva Angoria. And 0:03:07.400 --> 0:03:10.040 then I hear you and you're like more like me. 0:03:10.639 --> 0:03:13.000 So I'm like, oh my gosh, I started following you. 0:03:13.200 --> 0:03:15.839 I believe in your story, your struggles, that I've gone 0:03:15.880 --> 0:03:21.079 through the same thing. I'm firstborn um, from Mexican American parents. 0:03:21.760 --> 0:03:24.760 And just the fact that you are there and Ryan 0:03:24.800 --> 0:03:27.320 gave you that opportunity, which we know that it's so 0:03:27.440 --> 0:03:30.920 difficult for people to believe in us and trust us. 0:03:31.080 --> 0:03:34.440 So I am so inspired with your story. I'm sad 0:03:34.520 --> 0:03:37.280 that you're leaving, but I'm so happy for you. I've 0:03:37.360 --> 0:03:42.080 even invested in your your whole um Little Liberals and 0:03:42.200 --> 0:03:44.400 Bob books because I'm a teacher, so I buy them 0:03:44.400 --> 0:03:46.600 and I read them for my to my students. So 0:03:46.720 --> 0:03:49.240 this is so awesome. I am so happy and excited 0:03:49.280 --> 0:03:54.000 for you. Yeah, I'm really quiance. I'm sorry, go ahead. 0:03:54.800 --> 0:03:57.600 You know. Being part of this show just didn't change 0:03:57.600 --> 0:04:01.240 in my life. I really think that it allowed girls 0:04:01.320 --> 0:04:07.720 like me to believe that they do belong in these spaces, 0:04:07.720 --> 0:04:12.880 in these platforms, without having to kid who they truly are, 0:04:13.000 --> 0:04:17.920 without having to assimilate. That's the word, assimilate, exactly, without 0:04:17.920 --> 0:04:22.000 having you here something else because of the shame that 0:04:22.120 --> 0:04:26.640 we have been taught to carry many times in which 0:04:26.720 --> 0:04:30.080 they have in Yeah, exactly. And that's what attracted me 0:04:30.160 --> 0:04:34.000 so much, because you're genuine, you're humble, and you you 0:04:34.080 --> 0:04:37.719 believe in your culture, and I believe in my culture, 0:04:37.839 --> 0:04:42.760 and we don't let society um or us to be assimilated. 0:04:42.880 --> 0:04:47.800 And that's so key. You're so right. I love you, Lucy. 0:04:47.800 --> 0:04:51.039 Thank you, Lucy. Oh I asked me to Ryan, I 0:04:51.080 --> 0:04:54.520 love you too. I've been listening forever and in my dream, 0:04:54.640 --> 0:04:57.200 I always have this dinner that I'm gonna have a 0:04:57.279 --> 0:05:01.640 dinner like a picnic with you, Mario Opus, Allen the Rock, 0:05:01.880 --> 0:05:05.599 Patty something. And this is the first time I get 0:05:05.640 --> 0:05:08.680 on air, and I'm so excited. I'm so excited. Well, 0:05:08.760 --> 0:05:13.159 let me know when the picnic is you select Patty, 0:05:13.240 --> 0:05:17.279 Love you guys, love you, Lucy. It's so sweet, very 0:05:17.360 --> 0:05:21.719 very sweet. All right, you're that that's a big picnic 0:05:21.800 --> 0:05:26.479 she's organizing there. I'm just happy I got thrown in 0:05:26.520 --> 0:05:32.760 with those names on air with Ryan Seacrets. So let 0:05:32.800 --> 0:05:35.200 me get to this morning hack. It's a food hack. 0:05:35.920 --> 0:05:39.240 And look, I mean, in the past few weeks a 0:05:39.360 --> 0:05:44.280 large part of our staff got COVID. It is everywhere. 0:05:44.839 --> 0:05:46.640 It's good to be prepared. You may not have much 0:05:46.640 --> 0:05:48.680 of an appetite, but these are the top three foods 0:05:48.720 --> 0:05:54.200 they say you should eat. Yogurt soft cold, feels good 0:05:54.240 --> 0:05:56.839 on your It's not even a flavorthing, is a texture 0:05:56.880 --> 0:05:59.920 thing and feels soothing on your throat. But now for me, 0:06:00.200 --> 0:06:03.960 I don't like I don't respond well to dairy things, 0:06:04.000 --> 0:06:07.560 make noises, and so like yoga is a tricky one 0:06:07.600 --> 0:06:09.880 for me. There's different like the almond yogurt. I like that. 0:06:11.360 --> 0:06:14.520 I I can live with that. Ice Cream feels good 0:06:14.520 --> 0:06:16.680 on a sore throat. Ice Cream provide you the glucose 0:06:16.760 --> 0:06:19.240 and protein. My mom never told me that when I 0:06:19.279 --> 0:06:24.160 was a kid. Ice cream is really Yeah, that's a 0:06:24.160 --> 0:06:29.440 good that's a good marketing boy. Impasta with s. When 0:06:29.480 --> 0:06:31.520 you start to feel better, the posta will raise your 0:06:31.520 --> 0:06:35.040 blood sugar gently and the meat bumps up your protect 0:06:35.160 --> 0:06:39.440 The COVID diet is good. Yeah, right, like getting it. 0:06:39.440 --> 0:06:41.560 It's not so good, but what doctors recommend you eat 0:06:41.720 --> 0:06:45.800 is not back Today's quote, be patient. Miracles take a 0:06:45.800 --> 0:06:51.839 little longer than settling does. On air with Ryan Seacrest, 0:06:53.279 --> 0:06:55.840 I had a one D fifty dollar Postmates gift card 0:06:55.920 --> 0:06:58.960 for you now at Kiss fm dot com. Keyword Postmates 0:06:58.960 --> 0:07:01.279 if you want to roll over there. Sisney's got the headlines. 0:07:02.160 --> 0:07:04.640 So Fiser and Bio and Tech have begun a clinical 0:07:04.680 --> 0:07:07.880 trial for their omicron specific COVID nineteen vaccine candidate. The 0:07:07.920 --> 0:07:11.280 study will evaluate the vaccine for safety, tolerability, and the 0:07:11.400 --> 0:07:14.280 level of immune response as both a primary series and 0:07:14.440 --> 0:07:17.280 a booster dose and up to about four hundred healthy 0:07:17.280 --> 0:07:21.200 adults ages eighteen to fifty five. The omicron specific vaccine 0:07:21.240 --> 0:07:25.800 will be administered as a thirty microgram dose, the same 0:07:25.840 --> 0:07:28.960 as the current vaccine in A new state bill would 0:07:28.960 --> 0:07:32.160 require all K through twelve students in California to be 0:07:32.280 --> 0:07:36.000 vaccinated against COVID nineteen in order to attend in person classes. 0:07:36.280 --> 0:07:41.240 State Senator Dr Richard Pan introduced the proposed legislation at 0:07:41.320 --> 0:07:45.040 our Lita High School yesterday morning alongside representatives from the 0:07:45.080 --> 0:07:49.000 Los Angeles and San Diego Unified School districts. The bill 0:07:49.000 --> 0:07:51.560 would add the COVID vaccine to the list of required 0:07:51.640 --> 0:07:55.480 vaccinations for children attending school in person, and the Los 0:07:55.480 --> 0:07:58.680 Angeles Rams are hoping there will be fewer San Francisco 0:07:58.760 --> 0:08:01.960 forty Niner fans in the stands at SOFI Stadium for 0:08:02.000 --> 0:08:05.680 the NFC Championship Game this coming Sunday. With a trip 0:08:05.720 --> 0:08:07.960 to the Super Bowl on the line, the Rams are 0:08:08.040 --> 0:08:11.560 not taking any chances. Ticketmaster limited ticket sales to fans 0:08:11.600 --> 0:08:15.760 in Southern California by monitoring residency based on credit card 0:08:15.800 --> 0:08:19.440 billing addresses, but by eleven a m. Yesterday the notice 0:08:19.440 --> 0:08:22.360 had been removed. A source from the Rams said that 0:08:22.400 --> 0:08:25.240 the tickets are sold out. So that is why that 0:08:25.360 --> 0:08:27.400 policy is no longer in effect. Now if you want 0:08:27.440 --> 0:08:29.280 to still get tickets, you have to get them at 0:08:29.280 --> 0:08:37.679 resale websites. On air with Ryan secrets the Rams with 0:08:37.800 --> 0:08:41.319 a nail biter making it to the next round of 0:08:41.360 --> 0:08:47.240 them playoffs. The final four NFL teams l A, Rams, 0:08:47.720 --> 0:08:51.959 San Francisco Forty Niners, Kansas City Chiefs, and the Cincinnati Bengals. 0:08:51.960 --> 0:08:55.440 It's a big deal for the bank now. I remember 0:08:55.480 --> 0:08:58.920 when the Olympics came to Atlanta. Is the Super Bowls 0:08:58.920 --> 0:09:01.040 come in here? I remember when the Olympics came to Atlanta. 0:09:01.280 --> 0:09:04.360 People in my neighborhood rented out their houses for people 0:09:04.360 --> 0:09:05.800 who want to come to the Olympics. There was no 0:09:05.840 --> 0:09:09.760 Airbnb back then, but you could post for your house 0:09:09.840 --> 0:09:13.040 to be rented, and it was kind of a way 0:09:13.080 --> 0:09:16.520 people would leave town when Olympics were in town and 0:09:16.520 --> 0:09:19.960 rent out their path. Now for Super Bowl, is there 0:09:20.000 --> 0:09:24.160 a high demand for airbnb Stana? Oh? Yeah, people are 0:09:24.240 --> 0:09:27.760 coming in from all over and they're looking at air 0:09:27.800 --> 0:09:30.000 I was looking just kind of around and I had 0:09:30.040 --> 0:09:32.280 a friend of mine hit me up saying kind of 0:09:32.280 --> 0:09:34.880 just like where should I stay what's close by? Blah 0:09:34.920 --> 0:09:39.679 blah blah. And I was thinking, because I have my 0:09:39.760 --> 0:09:42.520 apartment that I'm not at very much anymore. I'm always 0:09:42.559 --> 0:09:47.880 at my boyfriend's house. I thought if I I thought 0:09:48.240 --> 0:09:51.319 I could put up my apartment for Airbnb the weekend 0:09:51.360 --> 0:09:54.320 the super Bowl and make bank because it's two bedroom, 0:09:54.520 --> 0:09:59.920 two bathroom. What's the downside? I don't really know legal 0:10:00.280 --> 0:10:02.840 if you're allowed to in an apartment complex, like if 0:10:02.840 --> 0:10:04.880 I have to ask my landlord, or like you have 0:10:04.880 --> 0:10:06.480 to ask your landlord because I think you have to 0:10:06.520 --> 0:10:09.760 be the owner in order to do that, or if 0:10:09.760 --> 0:10:13.560 I do it on the hush hush, do you is 0:10:13.640 --> 0:10:17.920 your is your apartment condo? Is it owned by an individual? 0:10:18.160 --> 0:10:21.080 Or is it the complexes? I don't know. I just 0:10:21.080 --> 0:10:23.760 know it's like an LLC that I make my checkout too, right, 0:10:24.600 --> 0:10:28.920 I think, look to me, the bank party is great, right, 0:10:29.000 --> 0:10:31.600 make some bank. You're not gonna using any empty The 0:10:31.640 --> 0:10:34.600 only thing is I don't know if like the wrong 0:10:34.720 --> 0:10:37.280 people end up sleeping under your roof for in your bedroom, 0:10:37.320 --> 0:10:39.520 then that energy is there. No, But I could make 0:10:39.559 --> 0:10:41.840 like I could make it a really cute vibe, Like 0:10:41.880 --> 0:10:44.040 I could make it you know, if you're whoever, whatever 0:10:44.120 --> 0:10:46.320 team you're in, I could I could decorate with some 0:10:46.440 --> 0:10:49.880 fun super Bowl. Uh, you know, I don't think that. 0:10:50.520 --> 0:10:52.000 I know you don't have to. Then I could raise 0:10:52.000 --> 0:10:54.440 the prices, like, oh my gosh, because you can have 0:10:54.480 --> 0:10:57.200 my experience in your own home. You can have my 0:10:57.280 --> 0:11:00.920 plays and I have a football stadium, uh charcuterie board 0:11:00.920 --> 0:11:04.079 that you can use, and I have you should put 0:11:04.120 --> 0:11:06.520 it all together in a little page. All right, That's 0:11:06.520 --> 0:11:09.440 what I'm saying. I think it's a great idea. Michael 0:11:09.480 --> 0:11:11.280 and I have thought about doing this, but for the Olympics, 0:11:11.280 --> 0:11:13.120 because the Olympics are going to be so spread out 0:11:13.160 --> 0:11:15.520 all over Los Angeles, Like they're gonna have events here 0:11:15.559 --> 0:11:17.400 in the valley. They're going to be all over. They're 0:11:17.400 --> 0:11:20.000 even talking about using like the Harvard Westlake High School 0:11:20.000 --> 0:11:23.679 that's off of Cold Water candidates for the Olympics. Yeah, 0:11:24.760 --> 0:11:28.000 for an Olympic event. I mean all over. They're going 0:11:28.080 --> 0:11:30.319 to create all the park in the valley and that's 0:11:30.320 --> 0:11:33.080 going to be like a track over at Griffith Park 0:11:33.200 --> 0:11:35.000 that's going to be something for golf. Like it's gonna 0:11:35.040 --> 0:11:41.680 be all over Los Angeles. So we may be onto 0:11:41.800 --> 0:11:45.160 something I think you just got to We'll check with 0:11:45.160 --> 0:11:48.559 your landlord first, and then the other thing is are 0:11:48.600 --> 0:11:52.880 you okay with strangers in your room? And yeah, yeah, 0:11:52.920 --> 0:11:54.360 but you get to pick like, I'm not just gonna 0:11:54.400 --> 0:11:56.240 rent this to some random I'm gonna, you know, have 0:11:56.280 --> 0:11:59.320 a little I'm gonna you do through like Facebook, and 0:11:59.360 --> 0:12:01.880 so it's like all their informations, they're like, no one really, 0:12:02.720 --> 0:12:05.320 you know, it's somewhat safe, but I don't know how 0:12:05.440 --> 0:12:07.960 comfortable I'm gonna feel about someone else in your bed, 0:12:10.000 --> 0:12:13.680 I know, into your mattress and think it's super Bowl weekend. 0:12:13.720 --> 0:12:17.040 You know that they're going to be in your bed parties. 0:12:20.920 --> 0:12:23.760 I don't know. Studio Cities at Studio City to Inglewood 0:12:23.840 --> 0:12:26.320 is still a long drive. No, it's a quick john. 0:12:26.520 --> 0:12:28.760 It's a quick jaunt over the freeway. You just don't 0:12:28.760 --> 0:12:32.400 throw that in the description. People don't know in Los Angeles. Okay, 0:12:33.640 --> 0:12:38.400 don't think about the negative stuff. We're just being pragmatic, Patty. 0:12:38.400 --> 0:12:42.200 We're just weighing options. Take it, jump and do it. 0:12:42.559 --> 0:12:45.360 I gonna get into what we call a second date update, 0:12:45.400 --> 0:12:50.000 which sometimes are just a disaster. Other times the disasters 0:12:50.040 --> 0:12:53.760 are good news because we we see this. It's just 0:12:53.840 --> 0:12:56.880 not there's no potential in this, in this relationship or 0:12:56.880 --> 0:12:59.880 this early connection. So Ben and Los feedless. All right, 0:13:00.000 --> 0:13:03.080 he's on the phone. Let me bring Ben in. But 0:13:03.160 --> 0:13:06.240 basically Ben went on Hinge. Is that the one you 0:13:06.280 --> 0:13:13.640 went on? Sure? He said, Uh, he has hinged it 0:13:13.679 --> 0:13:16.120 to win it, he said, I don't chit chat much 0:13:16.160 --> 0:13:18.480 on those things. So we scheduled at date zero is 0:13:18.480 --> 0:13:21.560 probably the best meet up I've ever had. At the end, 0:13:21.600 --> 0:13:23.920 I told her I wanted to see her again and 0:13:23.960 --> 0:13:28.160 she seemed down. But it's not responded. So let's see Ben. 0:13:28.400 --> 0:13:32.080 How you doing Ben? Hey good? How are you good? Thanks? 0:13:32.280 --> 0:13:35.480 So walk us through you You met Ellie? Is her 0:13:35.559 --> 0:13:40.920 name on Hinge? And where do you think this is 0:13:41.000 --> 0:13:45.839 taking the wrong turn? You know? I have no idea. Um, 0:13:46.440 --> 0:13:49.480 yeah I met her on Hinge. Um we decided to 0:13:49.679 --> 0:13:53.880 have a gay zero and um to the the Italian 0:13:53.920 --> 0:13:56.439 bar met am out of bar it's on Labre like 0:13:56.559 --> 0:13:58.360 in the Welsh area. It's hard to be a nice 0:13:58.400 --> 0:14:01.760 little place for us. And yeah, great, a great time. 0:14:01.800 --> 0:14:05.000 I mean, she's kit honey, and it seemed like she 0:14:05.040 --> 0:14:08.080 wanted to go on you know, an actual date, but 0:14:08.320 --> 0:14:10.880 I haven't heard what date zero? This is new to 0:14:10.920 --> 0:14:17.679 me is um? So a date zero is like you 0:14:18.120 --> 0:14:21.040 just go for one drink. It's one hour, no matter what, 0:14:21.120 --> 0:14:22.760 if you haven't you know, the time of your life, 0:14:22.760 --> 0:14:26.360 it's still just one hour. Um And then from there, 0:14:26.760 --> 0:14:29.160 you know, you decide if you want to actually go 0:14:29.200 --> 0:14:32.280 on an actual date. But now if it's going well, 0:14:32.320 --> 0:14:33.840 why can't I stay for an hour and a half. 0:14:35.560 --> 0:14:40.040 It's just a little bit, you know more, no strings 0:14:40.080 --> 0:14:48.880 attached there, Yeah, both sides. But after this date zero happened? 0:14:49.240 --> 0:14:53.920 What happened? I don't know. I mean I just haven't 0:14:54.400 --> 0:14:57.560 heard from her. I I text her and you know, 0:14:57.640 --> 0:15:00.360 no responses back, and I looked did the may We 0:15:00.400 --> 0:15:02.960 don't know what went wrong. Have you guys heard of 0:15:03.000 --> 0:15:06.200 this date zero concept before? Where two people go out 0:15:06.240 --> 0:15:08.400 on a date zero. They set a time limit and 0:15:08.400 --> 0:15:10.280 there's no pressure, and no matter if it's good or bad, 0:15:10.360 --> 0:15:13.600 you leave. I only recently found out because of Erica, 0:15:13.840 --> 0:15:17.560 but otherwise I would have not known. Like having all 0:15:17.560 --> 0:15:19.960 the rules are just like either it is or it 0:15:20.000 --> 0:15:24.720 isn't right, it's worth it. Most people just do that, 0:15:24.800 --> 0:15:26.160 you know what I mean? Like you give him an 0:15:26.160 --> 0:15:28.040 hour on our first date? You meet up for a drink, 0:15:28.200 --> 0:15:30.720 say have dinner after you kind of you set the 0:15:30.800 --> 0:15:35.360 timeline without setting a timeline. All right, well here's Ben. Ben. 0:15:35.440 --> 0:15:38.160 We have Ellie on the line. Be very quiet, you'll 0:15:38.160 --> 0:15:40.000 be able to hear everything. But we want to find 0:15:40.000 --> 0:15:43.960 out what went wrong. Okay, okay, cool. So he says 0:15:43.960 --> 0:15:46.360 after this date zero, he said, I want to see 0:15:46.360 --> 0:15:49.320 you again, and she seemed kind of bummed about it. Well, 0:15:49.360 --> 0:15:51.160 what's interesting is that he said that this was his 0:15:51.280 --> 0:15:53.800 best meet up that he's ever had. This was his 0:15:54.200 --> 0:15:57.640 he was feeling good about this. Let me bring her in. Ellie, 0:15:57.720 --> 0:16:01.640 Good morning, How are you doing. I'm good? How are you? 0:16:02.240 --> 0:16:05.600 I'm doing super well? Thank you very much. We are 0:16:05.640 --> 0:16:07.280 calling thank you for GREENI go on the air with us. 0:16:07.280 --> 0:16:09.280 We're calling you about a guy you met on a 0:16:09.360 --> 0:16:15.640 hinge named Ben. Does that ring a bell? Yes? Okay, 0:16:15.880 --> 0:16:21.000 do you have a second I do. So you mette 0:16:21.040 --> 0:16:23.840 him and then you actually met him, right, you guys 0:16:23.880 --> 0:16:29.960 saw each other? Yeah? Yeah, I'm just taking back from him. Sorry, Yeah, 0:16:30.040 --> 0:16:36.280 I know him And what happened on the date? How 0:16:36.400 --> 0:16:40.880 was it? Well? It was it was good. Um, but wait, 0:16:40.880 --> 0:16:44.240 why are you guys calling me? Well? I know it 0:16:44.280 --> 0:16:48.360 makes very little sense, but we have we have a 0:16:48.360 --> 0:16:51.720 report that Ben liked you and wanted to see you again, 0:16:51.960 --> 0:16:55.520 but you were kind of unresponsive to that idea. Can 0:16:55.840 --> 0:17:03.360 can you elaborate? Um? Yeah, we we went out. We 0:17:03.400 --> 0:17:05.880 had a really good time. I just can't believe you're 0:17:05.920 --> 0:17:12.400 calling me about this. I know neither can we. But 0:17:12.720 --> 0:17:17.960 do you did you have a connection with Ben? I mean, yeah, 0:17:18.000 --> 0:17:30.720 we had a really good time. But so, oh jeez. Um. 0:17:30.840 --> 0:17:33.040 So the thing is like, this might not be a 0:17:33.080 --> 0:17:37.119 big deal for some people, but literally, oh jeez, he 0:17:37.200 --> 0:17:41.320 calls his dogs doggies. Literally, he never said the word 0:17:41.359 --> 0:17:44.680 dogs ever. It was like, are you a doggie lover? 0:17:45.040 --> 0:17:47.760 What is the pictures of my doggies? Gotta get home 0:17:47.760 --> 0:17:51.000 and see the doggie? Oh my god? Do you know 0:17:51.080 --> 0:17:54.720 that sounds that sounds like such a trivial thing, but 0:17:54.800 --> 0:17:58.280 it is a little annoying. I don't love it. I 0:17:58.320 --> 0:18:02.040 don't love it like I it's cringe e. Weirdly, that's 0:18:02.040 --> 0:18:05.400 cringe e. It's it's the I you got the it's 0:18:05.440 --> 0:18:10.160 a little ick, right, that's like that's like when people 0:18:10.320 --> 0:18:13.200 it's like doggy daddy, it's all it could it could 0:18:13.200 --> 0:18:24.480 be shy. I can't right but now so so, but 0:18:24.560 --> 0:18:29.760 could you not look past that? Well? No, you know 0:18:29.800 --> 0:18:32.000 I might be okay for some people, but I just can't. 0:18:32.240 --> 0:18:36.320 It just can't move on okay much. You know, I's often, 0:18:37.200 --> 0:18:39.760 remember Ben is I often forget that Ben's actually listening 0:18:39.960 --> 0:18:42.320 on this line, Ellie, Ben is on the phone, and 0:18:42.359 --> 0:18:44.880 it has asked us to call to find out what 0:18:44.920 --> 0:18:47.280 went wrong. Clearly you have a good sense of humor 0:18:47.320 --> 0:18:50.840 about it all. But Ben, does that sound familiar the 0:18:50.840 --> 0:18:54.160 way you were talking about your dog. I mean I've 0:18:54.160 --> 0:19:01.239 always called him my doggies, you know. But can you 0:19:01.359 --> 0:19:03.920 tell us what you said exactly on the day about 0:19:03.960 --> 0:19:07.120 your doggies? Yeah? I mean it was like I said, 0:19:07.240 --> 0:19:10.240 d o the hour, and I just wanted to show 0:19:10.240 --> 0:19:14.680 her pictures of my doggies. And I didn't think anything 0:19:14.720 --> 0:19:17.000 of it. You know, I've been calling in my doggies 0:19:17.040 --> 0:19:20.720 for the last years. I've had many doggies. Do you 0:19:20.760 --> 0:19:27.080 have three? So you have the daddy to three doggies, 0:19:26.440 --> 0:19:33.399 the three doggies like your charm. Your charm is making 0:19:33.400 --> 0:19:36.879 it less icky for me. But it sounds a little, 0:19:38.119 --> 0:19:40.560 it doesn't sound I don't know. It strikes me the 0:19:40.640 --> 0:19:43.359 same money it's funny because your voice is so deep, 0:19:43.480 --> 0:19:46.119 so when you say doggies, it really does. It's powerful. 0:19:46.359 --> 0:19:48.359 But the more you say it, the more charmed I 0:19:48.440 --> 0:19:54.880 am by you too, Doggies, I don't. I was kind 0:19:54.880 --> 0:19:57.840 of cute, you know that. I was showing her, you know, 0:19:57.920 --> 0:20:02.000 my kids, my fur babies. But I guess not so. Ellie? 0:20:02.240 --> 0:20:03.800 Are you amused by any of this? Do you want 0:20:03.800 --> 0:20:08.080 to see Ben again? Look, it's fine. He'll find somebody 0:20:08.119 --> 0:20:14.000 that loves that. It's just not me. Really. You can't 0:20:14.040 --> 0:20:16.480 force this, Ben, if it's not meant to be. You know, 0:20:17.080 --> 0:20:19.960 there's somebody walking this planet that can't wait to melt 0:20:20.080 --> 0:20:26.160 when you say doggies. And that's how didn't make fun 0:20:26.160 --> 0:20:30.960 of her when she ordered Maria. You know, business and 0:20:31.080 --> 0:20:32.840 making fun with you of each other. No, it's not 0:20:32.880 --> 0:20:35.080 about that, all right? Well, Ben, the good news is 0:20:36.359 --> 0:20:40.159 back to you and your babies, and Ellie. Thank you 0:20:40.200 --> 0:20:41.560 for having a good sense humor and going on the 0:20:41.560 --> 0:20:47.959 air with us. Thank you, Ben, You're cute. You'll be fine. Thanks. 0:20:48.680 --> 0:20:52.480 I hope you find someone too, all right? Well, thanks guys. 0:20:52.720 --> 0:20:57.320 Good luck always ends awkwardly. It's strange the way he 0:20:57.359 --> 0:20:59.639 would say it. It was like it's sounds like on 0:20:59.720 --> 0:21:02.879 pay for I don't love it. But the way he 0:21:02.960 --> 0:21:06.040 said it became really funny. You know how he said that. 0:21:06.119 --> 0:21:08.639 It sounds like he's saying like d A W like 0:21:08.720 --> 0:21:12.880 do don wasn't into him? If she was super into him, 0:21:12.880 --> 0:21:16.120 she wouldn't care right, exactly, like we were more into 0:21:16.200 --> 0:21:22.560 him than she was. Exactly. Yeah. On air with Ryan Secrets, 0:21:24.600 --> 0:21:28.400 we made the announcement yesterday on the show that Patty 0:21:28.640 --> 0:21:30.400 is going to take on the next chapter in her life. 0:21:30.440 --> 0:21:33.000 She's gonna go pursue her publishing company and do other 0:21:33.040 --> 0:21:35.720 things that she's always a dreamt of doing. And Maria 0:21:35.720 --> 0:21:41.080 in San Pedro, you're on with us, Hi, Ryan, Um, 0:21:41.119 --> 0:21:43.359 I just wanted to call in. I'm so excited that 0:21:43.359 --> 0:21:45.879 I you know, it's so funny that I this is 0:21:45.920 --> 0:21:47.760 the first time I've ever been able to get through 0:21:48.160 --> 0:21:50.879 and it's to you know, say goodbye to Patty. And 0:21:50.920 --> 0:21:53.400 that means so much to me because I can't think 0:21:53.440 --> 0:21:57.520 of a better time to get on, because I mean, 0:21:57.560 --> 0:22:01.920 Patty is just so inspirational to me. I just love 0:22:02.040 --> 0:22:06.240 following her and all her work she's done. Um, she's 0:22:06.320 --> 0:22:12.840 just such a inspirational Hispanic like a woman that just 0:22:13.040 --> 0:22:17.760 unapologetically lived out her you know, her culture and her beliefs, 0:22:17.880 --> 0:22:23.159 and you know, just I've never seen someone like follow 0:22:23.240 --> 0:22:26.560 their dreams and pushed so hard to carry everyone with 0:22:26.640 --> 0:22:30.520 them like she just you know, she posts about investing 0:22:30.560 --> 0:22:32.600 on her page, she posts about what she does for 0:22:32.680 --> 0:22:35.879 her kids, and then she's you know, teaching parents and 0:22:35.960 --> 0:22:38.080 so kay to teach their kids Spanish with her little 0:22:38.119 --> 0:22:42.000 Libre's books and just everything she does to raise up 0:22:42.000 --> 0:22:46.200 her community. And it's just so inspirational. And she's inspired 0:22:46.280 --> 0:22:48.800 me so much for all the years that I've been 0:22:48.840 --> 0:22:52.199 following her and listening to your show that on the 0:22:52.440 --> 0:22:54.280 on one or two point seven is the first time 0:22:54.280 --> 0:22:57.960 I ever um, you know, came across Patty and then 0:22:58.200 --> 0:23:01.600 started following her on social media like I do you 0:23:01.880 --> 0:23:06.919 insist and basically everyone from the show, But um, I 0:23:07.040 --> 0:23:11.199 just I just wanted to say that, Um, you know, 0:23:11.320 --> 0:23:15.440 she she really has has I have a daughter myself, um, 0:23:15.600 --> 0:23:19.080 and I'm a I'm a single mom, and she's She's 0:23:19.119 --> 0:23:23.400 just shown me so much about how it's so many 0:23:23.440 --> 0:23:26.400 things are okay that we might because of how we 0:23:26.400 --> 0:23:30.840 were raised to to you know, sometimes and our our 0:23:30.920 --> 0:23:35.840 hispanic families teach us to assimilate more than to carry 0:23:35.840 --> 0:23:40.880 our culture because they're scared. And so I watching her, 0:23:41.240 --> 0:23:46.520 I'm just and so inspired that, like I, it's crazy 0:23:46.600 --> 0:23:49.560 to see that someone can talk that much about their 0:23:49.560 --> 0:23:53.080 culture and it's okay, like no one's gonna judge you 0:23:53.119 --> 0:23:55.879 for it, and you know the world will happily welcome you, 0:23:56.000 --> 0:23:59.240 because sometimes it doesn't feel like that. And so I 0:23:59.359 --> 0:24:04.480 just Patty, I, I can't believe that, you know, you 0:24:04.600 --> 0:24:07.960 came from so little and you've built this huge company 0:24:08.000 --> 0:24:11.440 with your books and everything you've done, and it inspires 0:24:11.440 --> 0:24:13.919 me to do so much. I grew up in you know, 0:24:14.160 --> 0:24:17.800