Speaker 1: It's time to Catch a Cheater.
Speaker 2: Only on the Jubile Show. Katie is on the phone
Speaker 2: today for to Catch a Cheater. She's been married to
Speaker 2: her husband for eight years. His name is Seth, but
Speaker 2: now she thinks that something might be going on, so
Speaker 2: we'll see if we can help her out. Katie, sorry
Speaker 2: you're going through this, but why of yourselves? What was
Speaker 2: going on? Why do you think your husband is cheating?
Speaker 1: I don't know if he's cheating or not.
Speaker 3: It's just this weird.
Speaker 1: We have a very good marriage.
Speaker 4: And we have I mean, I guess we've had a
Speaker 4: handful of rough spots, but I mean over the course
Speaker 4: of eight Like, well, we were together for eleven.
Speaker 1: Years, so a couple of years before we got married,
Speaker 1: and so there's going to be some rough spots. But
Speaker 1: I mean, you know, we we still went out.
Speaker 4: You know, we were trying, we were having fun, we
Speaker 4: were going to concerts and like, I don't know, we
Speaker 4: like to bowl, and I don't know, I always looked
Speaker 4: at us and thought of us as being like a
Speaker 4: really strong couple, and I don't know, I guess in
Speaker 4: the last couple of years, we both just started to
Speaker 4: work more and more, you know, I got this promotion
Speaker 4: and at work so much that I guess I kind
Speaker 4: of got complacent. You know, maybe he did too, you know,
Speaker 4: get home and just eat dinner and go to bed,
Speaker 4: and now he doesn't really want to go out as
Speaker 4: much anymore, which I'm all of this in.
Speaker 1: My mind is kind of normal.
Speaker 4: Like, you know, we've been together for a really long time,
Speaker 4: and he's kind of a stereotypically kind.
Speaker 1: Of lazy dude, and I like that about him, you know,
Speaker 1: I like being comfy and cozy at home, but he.
Speaker 4: Does you know, he goes to see his friend Josh,
Speaker 4: but he's like that's been one of his best friends
Speaker 4: since high school. And I don't think he could be
Speaker 4: the two your types because he doesn't really want to
Speaker 4: go out and do anything.
Speaker 1: But like I said, things have been different this last month.
Speaker 4: So he's going over to Josh's place like twice as
Speaker 4: much as he usually does, and.
Speaker 1: I don't know, I'm wondering what he's really doing at
Speaker 1: his house. I mean, I've heard he's complained.
Speaker 4: In the past about how Josh was, like he can
Speaker 4: get annoying after a while. And I've hung out with
Speaker 4: Josh and Set before and he's I can confirm that, Like.
Speaker 1: I don't know if we met him now in real life,
Speaker 1: like would we be would he be close friends with him?
Speaker 1: I don't know. It's not like he's been friends with
Speaker 1: him since high school and you know they've I respect that.
Speaker 4: And I admire that, and I see, you know, there's
Speaker 4: a lot of love there for him, but like, I.
Speaker 1: Don't know, he's a boring dude and he's kind of annoying,
Speaker 1: and I can't I can't figure out what he's doing
Speaker 1: over there twice as much as usual. So that's one thing.
Speaker 1: And then the other thing that's been this kind of
Speaker 1: like huge change is that, all of.
Speaker 4: A sudden seth is a workout guy.
Speaker 1: I probably wouldn't have called you guys if it wasn't
Speaker 1: for that. He's working out every single day for several
Speaker 1: hours at a time. But I don't think he's ever
Speaker 1: worked out since we first met. And just is he
Speaker 1: doing it to impress someone? Is it someone at work?
Speaker 1: Like he's there a long time. I don't know. This
Speaker 1: is not me, Like I'm not normally an insecure person.
Speaker 1: I know that it doesn't feel good.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I wouldn't call yourself insecure, even though it's like
Speaker 5: you're noticing things are changing, and of course that's going
Speaker 5: to set off an alarm in you. So that's not
Speaker 5: even an insecurity.
Speaker 4: And his appetite is less too now, like he said,
Speaker 4: he's not really very hungry when we have dinner, like
Speaker 4: he had a big lunch or something like that, and that,
Speaker 4: like there's never been a time where Seth hasn't wanted
Speaker 4: like pizza or Friday, we usually get Mexican dinner, and
Speaker 4: I don't know, he's just not finishing his plate, which
Speaker 4: is again unusual. And I asked him about it and
Speaker 4: he and he just said he wanted to get back
Speaker 4: into shape, which again totally valid. I want to support
Speaker 4: him in that. I don't want to deter him in
Speaker 4: any way.
Speaker 1: I'm just nervous.
Speaker 5: Yeah, and then if he's spending more time at the
Speaker 5: boring Josh's house, I'm just curious as what triggered it.
Speaker 5: Maybe it's not necessarily cheating, Maybe it's just he is
Speaker 5: inspired by something.
Speaker 2: I don't know. Hopefully he's not all right. You already
Speaker 2: told us what grocery store you guys are rewards card
Speaker 2: members at. So we'll play a song, come back and
Speaker 2: then call him and pretend to be from the grocery
Speaker 2: store and say that every single month, we choose one
Speaker 2: awards card member who gets free flowers delivered from our
Speaker 2: floral department. We'll see if he sends us to you
Speaker 2: or somebody else. Okay, okay, thank you, all right, we'll
Speaker 2: play a song come back, get your to Catch a
Speaker 2: Teeter next. Right in the middle of to Catch a Teeter,
Speaker 2: if you're just joining us, Katie is on the phone
Speaker 2: and she thinks that her husband's seth of eight years
Speaker 2: might be cheating. So in a second, we're gonna call
Speaker 2: him and pretend to be from the grocery store that
Speaker 2: he's a rewards member at, and say that every single
Speaker 2: month we choose one lucky Rewards card member who gets
Speaker 2: free flowers delivered from our floral department, and he's this
Speaker 2: month's big winner. We'll see if he sends those flowers
Speaker 2: to his wife, Katie or someone else. But first, Katie,
Speaker 2: why don't you refresh everybody's memory on what's going on.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we've just dressed a little.
Speaker 4: In the last couple of years, we both work a lot,
Speaker 4: and in the last couple of months he's totally changed.
Speaker 4: Suddenly he's going over to his friends house twice as much.
Speaker 1: As usual, all high school, who I think is pretty boring.
Speaker 1: He's told me he's boring.
Speaker 4: And the big thing that's worrying me is suddenly he's
Speaker 4: working out every day, which is great. He's looking great,
Speaker 4: but he's never been a workout guy. He's eating healthy.
Speaker 4: It's just such a sudden shift, and I'm just worried.
Speaker 2: Okay, you ready for us to call him?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Okay, here we go. Hi, this is corrible calling from
Speaker 2: I was looking for a rewards card member named Seth Seth. Hi,
Speaker 2: Please don't hang up. This is not a marketing phone call.
Speaker 2: I'm calling to actually tell you congratulations. Here this month's
Speaker 2: a big winner.
Speaker 3: Okay, what did I win?
Speaker 2: Every single month we choose one lucky Rewards card member
Speaker 2: who gets free flowers delivered from our floral department, absolutely
Speaker 2: free on us to anybody that you want. You won
Speaker 2: thirty six long sting red roses, a box of candy
Speaker 2: orchocolate on a car to be delivered to anybody that
Speaker 2: you want.
Speaker 4: A y.
Speaker 3: It's very cool, not bad.
Speaker 2: So here's how it works. I can take down the
Speaker 2: information in just a couple of minutes over the phone.
Speaker 3: No, that's fine, that's fine. I actually have a little
Speaker 3: bit of downtime. It's good.
Speaker 2: All I will need is the first and last name
Speaker 2: of the person you want to send them to.
Speaker 3: Okay, same last name as mine, und Katie.
Speaker 2: And anything you'd like to put on a card.
Speaker 3: Uh yeah, pretty roses for a pretty lady. Love you kid?
Speaker 2: Oh that is I like that?
Speaker 3: Thanks? Yeah?
Speaker 2: So you e ver you ever cheat on your wife
Speaker 2: at all?
Speaker 4: Ever?
Speaker 2: Set My name is Jewbel and I lost the radio show.
Speaker 2: It's called the Jewbels Show.
Speaker 5: Hi phole shows here. I'm Nina Hi, and I'm Victoria.
Speaker 2: And your wife Katie is actually on the phone listening
Speaker 2: to this.
Speaker 3: Ah. So this is kind of like a setup to
Speaker 3: seed and cheating or something like that.
Speaker 2: Is that like a yes, that's exactly what it is.
Speaker 2: We do a segment called to Catch a Cheater, and
Speaker 2: Katie thought maybe there might be something going on. So
Speaker 2: we were saying, if we could catch you by who
Speaker 2: you'd send flout us too kind of flowers?
Speaker 1: Babe?
Speaker 3: What would you do this?
Speaker 1: Oh? I'm sorry, I just didn't know what to do.
Speaker 1: You've been so different this last month. I mean, you're
Speaker 1: not the same guy.
Speaker 4: You just you're working out every single day for like
Speaker 4: multiple hours.
Speaker 1: At a time, and I don't know, I just got
Speaker 1: in my head akop stuff. I mean, I just I
Speaker 1: asked you why, and you didn't give me a reason.
Speaker 4: You just said you wanted to be more healthy, which
Speaker 4: is valid, but like it's just so sudden, and I
Speaker 4: don't know.
Speaker 1: You're spending all this.
Speaker 4: Time over at Josh is like double sometimes triple as
Speaker 4: much as you used to, and.
Speaker 1: Like it's just a like, are you really there? I
Speaker 1: don't know.
Speaker 6: It's crazy you think that I actually cheat cheat on you.
Speaker 3: It's very cute, but like not really giving that cheat
Speaker 3: on you with some like hot little hot lady or something.
Speaker 2: That's not that's I'm sorry. He's definitely.
Speaker 3: I love you.
Speaker 6: I wouldn't I wouldn't that, But also I guess I should.
Speaker 6: We should probably talk about it. Something kind of happened
Speaker 6: to made me, uh kind of look at my life
Speaker 6: and where I am right now as this is, uh,
Speaker 6: this is weird. So uh the reason I haven't spend
Speaker 6: a lot of time with Josh and he doesn't.
Speaker 3: Really want anybody to know, but you're kind of forcing
Speaker 3: my hand in this. He's he's been diagnosed with uh cancer.
Speaker 2: I'm so sorry.
Speaker 6: I've been going with him to doctor visits and stuff,
Speaker 6: you know, because he's not he doesn't live near his family,
Speaker 6: and we just you know, we've have best friends for
Speaker 6: a long time. And doctors are saying that it's totally
Speaker 6: tradable and success rates are pretty pretty good, pretty pretty
Speaker 6: responsive with how how early they caught it.
Speaker 3: But I mean that's kind of what's going on with him,
Speaker 3: and you know.
Speaker 6: He's he's Josh is really kind of secretive in his life,
Speaker 6: and he's like, you know, don't tell anybody.
Speaker 3: It's very embarrassing and everything. And I just didn't know
Speaker 3: what to do.
Speaker 6: So I've just really been kind of there for him
Speaker 6: as he's going through this so he doesn't have to
Speaker 6: do it alone.
Speaker 1: I had no idea.
Speaker 4: I had no idea, and so I mean, wow, but
Speaker 4: what does that What does that have to do with you?
Speaker 1: Like the working out and the eating. I mean, it's
Speaker 1: all that.
Speaker 3: Honestly.
Speaker 6: It was when I saw the look in his eyes
Speaker 6: when he first told me, you know, he couldn't stop crying,
Speaker 6: and I it kind of freaked me out.
Speaker 3: It kind of like made me think about my mortality
Speaker 3: and everything.
Speaker 6: And I just as soon as I saw that look
Speaker 6: in his eyes, I just decided. I was like, you
Speaker 6: have to make sure that you're around for the people
Speaker 6: you care about.
Speaker 3: You know, it wouldn't be.
Speaker 6: Good if you know he's going through this, and you know,
Speaker 6: I haven't been healthy.
Speaker 3: I haven't been here. I'm black blax and eating pizza.
Speaker 4: You know.
Speaker 6: We always go out from Chinese, go out for Mexican
Speaker 6: food and everything, and I'm just like, let me just
Speaker 6: make sure that I'm here. Let me just make sure
Speaker 6: that I'm around. So I really just wanted to be
Speaker 6: healthier and just be here for him, be here for you,
Speaker 6: be here.
Speaker 3: For everybody that I care about.
Speaker 6: And uh, you know, it just it sucked too because
Speaker 6: I mean I haven't worked out like this in years.
Speaker 3: But now that I'm doing it and really focusing on
Speaker 3: the reasons for doing it, it makes me start to
Speaker 3: enjoy it.
Speaker 6: Like I kind of tricked my brain into thinking, like
Speaker 6: you want to do this, and next thing, you know,
Speaker 6: it's like I do want to do this, and then
Speaker 6: eating right kind of followed. I mean, I know I
Speaker 6: say I don't have an apathet a lot of times,
Speaker 6: but I don't. I'm just trying to eat eat a
Speaker 6: little bit better.
Speaker 1: You know, well, now it's terrible. Why didn't you just
Speaker 1: tell me? Why didn't you tell me any of those
Speaker 1: I would have understood completely.
Speaker 6: I'm I'm a little to be honest, I'm a little
Speaker 6: embarrassed about it too. I haven't you know, I haven't
Speaker 6: done anything physical since way way before the pandemic, and
Speaker 6: I just got used to that lacked lifestyle. You know,
Speaker 6: we just hang out and we always just kind of
Speaker 6: stay home and hang out, and we've just been in
Speaker 6: that mode. And you know, when I josh Is health
Speaker 6: scare made me kind of realize that, you know, that's
Speaker 6: not a.
Speaker 3: Way to live.
Speaker 6: It's just kind of a way to just be. And
Speaker 6: I want to I just want to do more. I
Speaker 6: just want to be here and just have a better,
Speaker 6: healthier life and you know, not make a noise every
Speaker 6: single time I've been over.
Speaker 3: And honestly, I think that maybe I didn't.
Speaker 6: Tell you because as Josh is going to this house
Speaker 6: trying to respect his privacy, and then you know, the.
Speaker 3: Embarrassment from him kind of leaked over unto me, and.
Speaker 6: I was like, let me just you know, it's like,
Speaker 6: sometimes you're improving yourself. You kind of want to hide
Speaker 6: from the world and reappear as a better version of yourself.
Speaker 6: I should have definitely told you, because you clearly thought
Speaker 6: I was you care around for somebody.
Speaker 1: I'm really god, I'm really sorry.
Speaker 2: Sorry about your friend man. But Katie, at least you
Speaker 2: know now he's not cheating.
Speaker 5: Yeah, and I'm glad they caught it early. Never just
Speaker 5: got this awakened need for wellness, and I think that's
Speaker 5: a great thing.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean, I keep looking for a side piece though,
Speaker 6: well that happens.
Speaker 1: You know, you can hear from us again. There the
Speaker 1: Jewble shows to catch a cheater.