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Speaker 1: First Date to follow up powered by the Advocates Injury

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Speaker 1: Attorneys online at Advocateslaw dot com. Trea is on the

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Speaker 1: phone today for a first date follow up and she's

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Speaker 1: getting ghosted from a date she went on with a

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Speaker 1: another date if she still wants one. In a second,

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Speaker 1: but first, Drea, how long has it been since you

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Speaker 2: It's been about a week now that I haven't heard

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Speaker 2: from her, Okay, And yeah, so I'm just really confused

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Speaker 2: because we will for like, we met at work, and

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Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly. But she's really pretty.

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Speaker 2: She has a great sense of humor, and we've actually

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Speaker 3: And stuff and kind of getting to know each other.

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Speaker 2: So it was we kind of knew each other before

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Speaker 3: Up the nerve to ask her out.

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Speaker 2: And I wanted I've been wanting to play pickleball because

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Speaker 2: I've heard there's so much hype around it, and I

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Speaker 1: Is that what you did for your date?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we went, we played We played a couple of

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Speaker 2: words at bar. Okay, And I mean, as far as

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Speaker 2: I'm concerned, the date was great. Like the conversation was wonderful.

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Speaker 2: She get fired, I don't know. I hadn't heard anything,

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Speaker 2: so I don't think so. But I've been reaching out

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Speaker 3: Just don't know. I thought we had a great date.

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Speaker 3: I think, you know. Now I'm just worried I did something.

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Speaker 1: Do they have like a policy about dating other coworkers

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Speaker 2: Like you can't, like supervisors can't date hourly employees and

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Speaker 3: But if you're both hourly, then you can.

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Speaker 1: Then you can be okay, then it's a free for

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Speaker 3: I love it.

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Speaker 4: Does she usually show up to work every day?

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Speaker 4: I mean, is she the type of person that just

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Speaker 2: She's actually pretty good with attendance, so which.

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Speaker 4: Did anything weird happen on the date? Like, was there

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Speaker 2: I don't know, I mean not on my end, I

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Speaker 3: Out of it.

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Speaker 1: But I'd be worried too. Have you asked around about her?

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Speaker 3: I asked a couple of people, but nobody really.

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Speaker 2: Everybody just kind of says they haven't heard from her either,

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Speaker 4: I feel like it's a good amount of time to

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Speaker 4: It's an idea.

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Speaker 1: Oh no, so you know that she's answering her phone

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Speaker 4: Okay, Well, good, she's a lie.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, she is alive, so that's good. I just now

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Speaker 1: We'll see if we can figure out. We'll play a

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Speaker 1: song come Back, and then we'll call her and see

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Speaker 1: thanks guys, All right, we'll play a song come Back.

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Speaker 1: Get your first day follow up next. Grea is on

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Speaker 1: the phone today for a first day follow up, and

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Speaker 1: she's getting ghosted by a date she went on with

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Speaker 1: why she's ghosting and maybe get Drea another date if

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Speaker 1: she still wants one. But first, Drea, why don't you

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Carolyne and I met at work.

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Speaker 2: We've been kind of floating back and forth, and I

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Speaker 2: we played pickleball, we had drinks, great conversation, and even

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Speaker 2: a little kiss at the end. So I'm just wondering

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Speaker 1: Close and she hasn't been to work for a week.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's the alarming dyeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, all right, that's where I'm worried.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Okay mccaller. Hello, Hi, May I speak to Carolina? Please?

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Speaker 3: Yes? This is Carolina.

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Speaker 1: Carolina, how are you? My name is Jewbele and I

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Speaker 1: host a radio show and it's called The Jebel Show.

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Speaker 4: Hi, Carolina, the show's here too. My name is Nina, Hi,

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Speaker 4: and I'm Victoria.

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Speaker 1: There's three of us on the phone with you right now.

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Speaker 2: Hi.

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Speaker 3: Okay, sorry, three of this Okay, what's going on?

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Speaker 1: We do a segment on our show it's called the

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Speaker 1: first Date follow Up. That's where if you go out

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Speaker 1: on a date with somebody and end up ghosting them,

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Speaker 1: that person can email us to get you on the

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Speaker 1: phone and ask why you're ghosting them. So we got

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Speaker 1: an email about you from somebody that you dated recently, Okay,

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Speaker 1: any idea who would be?

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Speaker 5: Was it Dria?

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Speaker 4: Yes?

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Speaker 1: It was Drea. Wants to know why you're ghostinger, why

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Speaker 3: Okay, So I'll tell you about that. Okay.

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Speaker 2: Cool.

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Speaker 5: I mean if you don't about.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, okay, but you know what, fine, So I'm go

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Speaker 5: seeing Draya. You can tell her this because you know,

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Speaker 5: as we were leaving our date, something just didn't really

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Speaker 3: It was a comment that she made.

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Speaker 5: She's kind of like, oh, you know, it's going to

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Speaker 5: be amazing when my ex hears about this, She's going

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Speaker 5: Like to me, that's like, you know, listen, I'm getting older.

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Speaker 5: I don't want to be a pawn in anyone's game.

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Speaker 1: She was saying that going out with you was going

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Speaker 5: Yeah, like basically like getting back at her, Like happiness

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Speaker 4: Yeah that I'm glad you're feeling about her.

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Speaker 5: She seems like a cool girl. I want to protect

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Speaker 1: You think that she didn't really like you that much,

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Speaker 1: She just wanted to make her ex jealous.

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Speaker 5: So I don't know what she'll say if I mentioned

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Speaker 1: Well, let's see, because she's actually on the phone and

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Speaker 1: she's been listening this whole time, and she wants to

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Speaker 2: Sorry, I just got kind of like I just got

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Speaker 2: No, first of all, I am so sorry. It's like,

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Speaker 2: and you're just, all of a sudden, this amazing, beautiful

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Speaker 3: So I'm so sorry for that comment.

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Speaker 5: like I do appreciate the apology for sure, and you know,

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Speaker 5: I didn't think that's where you'd be coming from. Not

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Speaker 5: really sure if I'm interested if they gave us any further.

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Speaker 5: For me, the biggest reason why is just kind of

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Speaker 5: like the whole X talk. I feel like this is

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Speaker 5: don't even like bringing up like past girlfriends or even

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Speaker 5: So I feel like this is a lot coming at me.

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Speaker 3: Does that make sense? You dated guys?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I date people for sure. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, you didn't tell me that, so I didn't

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Speaker 2: keep your secrets for sure. So you know that's kind

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Speaker 2: of oh, just a lot. Yeah, Well, you're getting on

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Speaker 2: to me about like my ex but you didn't even

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Speaker 2: it's just kind of odds to me.

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Speaker 5: I wasn't really getting on too about your acts. I

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Speaker 5: think for me it was just more about like, oh,

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Speaker 5: that seems like some game playing there.

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Speaker 2: So yeah, well I just I mean, I guess like

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Speaker 2: I do kind of like to you upfront about things.

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Speaker 2: I you know, I don't really like to keep things

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Speaker 2: because when you're trying to get to know somebody, you're

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but like in time for sure that that is

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Speaker 5: You just pretty much stated that there. You know, I

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Speaker 5: just think it takes time to get to know one

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Speaker 5: that I don't need to know everything up front.

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Speaker 2: I guess I'm just kind of different on that end.

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Speaker 2: I kind of like, you know, I mean.

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Speaker 3: We're different.

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Speaker 1: Carolina, would you would you like to go with your

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Speaker 1: egg in another date? We'll pay for it.

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Speaker 5: I think that's just made myself pretty clear here. Again,

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Speaker 5: I think she seems like a cool girl, but I

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Speaker 5: think you know she's I'm not the one for her.

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Speaker 5: You know that it's early on, but I can tell

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Speaker 5: I can definitely tell this.

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Speaker 1: We're just not a match.

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Speaker 3: But yeah, no, that's fine.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I would feel like to be friends because

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Speaker 2: I think you're really cool girls, but I mean, I

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Speaker 2: just I'm not really interested either, because you know, it's

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Speaker 2: like doing to hide things from me.

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Speaker 5: So well, hopefully you know, work, friends will believe it

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Speaker 5: at that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, well see it work, Carolina, I have

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Speaker 1: a good bird after being sick.

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Speaker 5: Oh, thank you.

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Speaker 3: I appreciate that. Juble's first date follow up