1 00:00:01,040 --> 00:00:05,080 Speaker 1: It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter and listen. 2 00:00:05,200 --> 00:00:10,000 Speaker 1: If you need advice on work, on sex, on relationships, parenting, 3 00:00:10,000 --> 00:00:13,080 Speaker 1: and more, please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEFM 4 00:00:13,119 --> 00:00:15,360 Speaker 1: dot com. All you have to do is click submit 5 00:00:15,480 --> 00:00:18,000 Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your letter live on 6 00:00:18,120 --> 00:00:20,760 Speaker 1: the air, just like we're gonna read this one today, 7 00:00:21,079 --> 00:00:25,320 Speaker 1: and you never know it could be yours, so write us. 8 00:00:24,800 --> 00:00:27,319 Speaker 1: It could be Buckle up and hold on tight. We 9 00:00:27,360 --> 00:00:31,400 Speaker 1: got it for you. Here it is Strawberry Letter. Thank you, nephew. 10 00:00:31,520 --> 00:00:36,120 Speaker 1: Subject my ex was on my couch. Dear Stephen Shirley. 11 00:00:36,400 --> 00:00:38,800 Speaker 1: I'm in my mid thirties and I got divorced a 12 00:00:38,920 --> 00:00:41,599 Speaker 1: year ago and I was getting over my ex husband 13 00:00:41,880 --> 00:00:44,680 Speaker 1: and I had started dating someone new. I got the 14 00:00:44,760 --> 00:00:46,879 Speaker 1: house and the divorce, so my ex did not have 15 00:00:46,920 --> 00:00:50,400 Speaker 1: a problem with that until he found out I was 16 00:00:50,520 --> 00:00:53,360 Speaker 1: dating a man that's way more handsome and put together 17 00:00:53,640 --> 00:00:57,360 Speaker 1: than he's ever been. He got jealous and started texting 18 00:00:57,360 --> 00:00:59,720 Speaker 1: me things about the man being over to my house 19 00:00:59,760 --> 00:01:02,000 Speaker 1: all night, and he said it wasn't a good look. 20 00:01:02,320 --> 00:01:04,960 Speaker 1: I blocked his cell number and I blocked him on 21 00:01:05,040 --> 00:01:08,120 Speaker 1: social media, but our mutual friends kept him in the 22 00:01:08,160 --> 00:01:11,280 Speaker 1: loop about every little thing I did with the new guy. 23 00:01:11,640 --> 00:01:15,119 Speaker 1: It got messy, but I was only focused only on 24 00:01:15,160 --> 00:01:18,400 Speaker 1: this new guy and losing weight because he is so fine. 25 00:01:18,840 --> 00:01:21,679 Speaker 1: One of my girls popped by one evening and my 26 00:01:21,800 --> 00:01:24,880 Speaker 1: new man was painting the kitchen with his shirt off. 27 00:01:25,319 --> 00:01:27,880 Speaker 1: She went and spread that bit of tea, and then 28 00:01:27,959 --> 00:01:31,040 Speaker 1: my ex husband started writing by my house. He sent 29 00:01:31,120 --> 00:01:34,120 Speaker 1: a message to me through my sister saying we need 30 00:01:34,120 --> 00:01:37,479 Speaker 1: to talk about selling the house. This is my house, 31 00:01:37,760 --> 00:01:41,280 Speaker 1: so I knew that was alive. I thought avoiding him 32 00:01:41,319 --> 00:01:43,560 Speaker 1: would make him go on with his life, but it 33 00:01:43,720 --> 00:01:46,760 Speaker 1: only made him try harder to get to me. When 34 00:01:46,800 --> 00:01:50,360 Speaker 1: I got home Thursday, his car was parked out front 35 00:01:50,520 --> 00:01:53,760 Speaker 1: and my front door was opened. I called my sister 36 00:01:53,920 --> 00:01:56,680 Speaker 1: to tell her that he was there, and she encouraged 37 00:01:56,760 --> 00:01:59,880 Speaker 1: me to go inside and talk to him. I found 38 00:02:00,120 --> 00:02:04,320 Speaker 1: him sitting on the couch crying. He pulled me close 39 00:02:04,400 --> 00:02:07,640 Speaker 1: to him and he apologized for cheating and said he 40 00:02:07,680 --> 00:02:11,000 Speaker 1: can't stand to see me with another man. I've waited 41 00:02:11,040 --> 00:02:14,960 Speaker 1: for that apology for almost two years. He said he 42 00:02:15,040 --> 00:02:19,320 Speaker 1: will never stop loving me. My heart melted. We made love, 43 00:02:19,480 --> 00:02:21,920 Speaker 1: and then he asked for a second chance. To get 44 00:02:21,960 --> 00:02:25,640 Speaker 1: things right. Is he being sincere or is he doing 45 00:02:25,720 --> 00:02:30,240 Speaker 1: all of this because he is jealous? Well, of course 46 00:02:30,280 --> 00:02:32,799 Speaker 1: he's doing all of this because he's jealous. I mean, 47 00:02:33,000 --> 00:02:35,160 Speaker 1: you know, it's getting back to him that you got 48 00:02:35,160 --> 00:02:37,280 Speaker 1: a new man and he's fine and all of that. 49 00:02:38,080 --> 00:02:41,000 Speaker 1: But yeah, he's jealous. But he didn't think about any 50 00:02:41,040 --> 00:02:42,880 Speaker 1: of this when he was out there cheating on you, 51 00:02:43,160 --> 00:02:46,200 Speaker 1: now did he? But now since you've moved on with 52 00:02:46,240 --> 00:02:49,239 Speaker 1: your life with this fine man, you're enjoying your life now, 53 00:02:49,320 --> 00:02:53,000 Speaker 1: you're happy. Now your ex realizes how much he missed 54 00:02:53,000 --> 00:02:56,040 Speaker 1: you and everything. It's been a year since you guys 55 00:02:56,639 --> 00:02:59,080 Speaker 1: got the divorce and everything, so he's had time to 56 00:02:59,120 --> 00:03:02,960 Speaker 1: think about what he's lost. I'm sure he has regrets. 57 00:03:03,440 --> 00:03:07,000 Speaker 1: But guess what he did this. He broke up the family, 58 00:03:07,080 --> 00:03:09,679 Speaker 1: he broke up the home. We all know. Life is 59 00:03:09,720 --> 00:03:14,360 Speaker 1: about changes. We know that, and the wrong decision. Life 60 00:03:14,440 --> 00:03:17,640 Speaker 1: is about choices. I should say, the wrong decision can 61 00:03:17,680 --> 00:03:20,280 Speaker 1: affect you for the rest of your life. And clearly 62 00:03:20,440 --> 00:03:23,799 Speaker 1: your ex didn't make the right choice and he acted 63 00:03:23,880 --> 00:03:28,120 Speaker 1: stupidly when he cheated. I mean, that's obvious. My suggestion is, 64 00:03:28,160 --> 00:03:32,359 Speaker 1: if you want to move on, would be to put 65 00:03:32,360 --> 00:03:34,760 Speaker 1: the house on the market and sell it. Okay, just 66 00:03:34,840 --> 00:03:39,720 Speaker 1: like your husband suggested, move away, start over if you can. 67 00:03:39,960 --> 00:03:42,520 Speaker 1: Your ex won't let you have any peace. You see 68 00:03:42,560 --> 00:03:45,120 Speaker 1: that in this house you two used to share, because 69 00:03:45,120 --> 00:03:47,560 Speaker 1: he just can't stand the sight of another man in 70 00:03:47,680 --> 00:03:51,200 Speaker 1: what he thinks is still his home. The other thing is, 71 00:03:51,320 --> 00:03:54,200 Speaker 1: please keep all these other people out of your business, please, 72 00:03:54,520 --> 00:03:57,480 Speaker 1: the sisters, the friends, all of that. They can't just 73 00:03:57,560 --> 00:03:59,800 Speaker 1: be popping up. They know where you live. You know 74 00:03:59,840 --> 00:04:01,680 Speaker 1: that would be a good reason to sell it too. 75 00:04:01,800 --> 00:04:04,600 Speaker 1: They're running back telling your X what's going on now? 76 00:04:04,640 --> 00:04:08,000 Speaker 1: He's asking for another chance. So it boils down to 77 00:04:08,400 --> 00:04:10,960 Speaker 1: does he deserve a second chance after what he did 78 00:04:11,040 --> 00:04:13,520 Speaker 1: to you? Will you ever be able to forgive him 79 00:04:13,520 --> 00:04:16,720 Speaker 1: and trust him again? Most importantly, do his words lined 80 00:04:16,800 --> 00:04:19,159 Speaker 1: up line up with his actions? If the answer to 81 00:04:19,279 --> 00:04:22,839 Speaker 1: any of these questions is no, then no, move on, 82 00:04:23,040 --> 00:04:28,080 Speaker 1: Continue to move on with your life, Steve. Well, my 83 00:04:28,200 --> 00:04:33,719 Speaker 1: ex is on my couch. This is really borderline dangerous 84 00:04:33,760 --> 00:04:37,760 Speaker 1: a little bit, but I'm gonna give you my honest opinion. 85 00:04:39,200 --> 00:04:42,120 Speaker 1: And here it is. You and your mid thirties. You 86 00:04:42,160 --> 00:04:44,240 Speaker 1: got divorced a year ago. You was getting over your 87 00:04:44,279 --> 00:04:47,400 Speaker 1: ex he started dating somebody knew you got the house 88 00:04:47,440 --> 00:04:49,920 Speaker 1: and the divorce. X didn't have problem with that till 89 00:04:49,920 --> 00:04:52,039 Speaker 1: he found out I was dating a man that was 90 00:04:52,160 --> 00:04:58,160 Speaker 1: way more handsome and put together than he has ever been. Okay, 91 00:04:58,240 --> 00:05:03,039 Speaker 1: Jack Pott, So now you have moved on and found 92 00:05:03,160 --> 00:05:08,480 Speaker 1: something actually better. But you gotta understand how busy the 93 00:05:08,520 --> 00:05:11,479 Speaker 1: devil is, and I'm gonna show you that in this letter. 94 00:05:12,000 --> 00:05:15,600 Speaker 1: So now he got jealous and started texting me things 95 00:05:15,640 --> 00:05:18,440 Speaker 1: about the man being over my house all night, and 96 00:05:18,480 --> 00:05:20,400 Speaker 1: he said it wasn't a good look. It wasn't a 97 00:05:20,400 --> 00:05:23,280 Speaker 1: good look to who. It ain't a good look to him, 98 00:05:23,720 --> 00:05:27,120 Speaker 1: It ain't a good look for him. Why it ain't 99 00:05:27,120 --> 00:05:30,520 Speaker 1: a good look? Why because he got all these spies 100 00:05:30,520 --> 00:05:35,680 Speaker 1: out of here. You're a divorce it's been over a year. 101 00:05:36,480 --> 00:05:38,520 Speaker 1: But let me explain something to you. It's actually been 102 00:05:38,600 --> 00:05:41,919 Speaker 1: more than a year. The divorce is just the date 103 00:05:42,160 --> 00:05:46,080 Speaker 1: that the courts give you. The marriage was over before that. 104 00:05:46,200 --> 00:05:48,400 Speaker 1: It just took y'all time to get the old Kate 105 00:05:49,680 --> 00:05:55,080 Speaker 1: finalization from the court. Y'all had been stopped being all 106 00:05:55,200 --> 00:05:58,520 Speaker 1: right with each other long time before that. So it's 107 00:05:58,560 --> 00:06:02,080 Speaker 1: really been way more than a year. I blocked his 108 00:06:02,200 --> 00:06:04,600 Speaker 1: sale number, I blocked him on social media, but our 109 00:06:04,680 --> 00:06:07,200 Speaker 1: mutual friends kept him in the loop about loop, about 110 00:06:07,240 --> 00:06:09,120 Speaker 1: every little thing I did with this new guy. Now, 111 00:06:09,160 --> 00:06:13,040 Speaker 1: I want you to understand something we're saying our mutual 112 00:06:13,080 --> 00:06:17,040 Speaker 1: friends because they ain't your friends. Them is his friends. 113 00:06:18,800 --> 00:06:23,880 Speaker 1: There are not. They're not your friend's sister. It got messy, 114 00:06:23,960 --> 00:06:25,839 Speaker 1: but I was only focused on the new guy and 115 00:06:25,880 --> 00:06:28,719 Speaker 1: losing weight. Because he's so fine. You better go good, 116 00:06:30,000 --> 00:06:32,839 Speaker 1: go on and get your life right. You got a 117 00:06:32,880 --> 00:06:35,799 Speaker 1: man that's helping you improve yourself. You got a chance 118 00:06:35,839 --> 00:06:38,120 Speaker 1: to be happy. When I come back, I'll tell you direct. 119 00:06:39,680 --> 00:06:42,320 Speaker 1: All right, Steve, hang on, we'll have part two of 120 00:06:42,360 --> 00:06:45,320 Speaker 1: your responds coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour. 121 00:06:46,240 --> 00:06:49,080 Speaker 1: Today's Strawberry letter title my ex was on my couch. 122 00:06:49,080 --> 00:06:53,960 Speaker 1: We'll get back into it right after this. You're listening, 123 00:06:54,720 --> 00:06:57,440 Speaker 1: all right, Come on, Steve. Let's recap today's Strawberry letter. 124 00:06:57,839 --> 00:07:03,039 Speaker 1: The subject my ex was on my couch? What you 125 00:07:03,279 --> 00:07:05,880 Speaker 1: got a divorce from your ex husband? Why you got 126 00:07:05,880 --> 00:07:09,320 Speaker 1: a divorce? I don't know. He cheated, I understand later on, 127 00:07:09,640 --> 00:07:11,880 Speaker 1: but he'd been doing you wrong for a while. You've 128 00:07:11,920 --> 00:07:14,640 Speaker 1: been divorced for over a year. That's just the legal 129 00:07:15,160 --> 00:07:17,840 Speaker 1: moment that the courts allotted. Your marriage was over long 130 00:07:17,920 --> 00:07:21,600 Speaker 1: before that. So it's been over two years probably since 131 00:07:21,600 --> 00:07:23,520 Speaker 1: you've been out there in the dating game. So you 132 00:07:23,560 --> 00:07:26,240 Speaker 1: got out there, you've met somebody where you finding your 133 00:07:26,320 --> 00:07:31,040 Speaker 1: husband and he ever been and you and your husband 134 00:07:31,080 --> 00:07:33,280 Speaker 1: is jealous, started telling you stuff about the man, and 135 00:07:33,360 --> 00:07:35,480 Speaker 1: it wasn't a good look. It ain't a good look 136 00:07:35,520 --> 00:07:39,840 Speaker 1: for who man. Stop letting people put their insecurities and 137 00:07:40,040 --> 00:07:42,920 Speaker 1: ill feelings on you. And why you got it's a 138 00:07:43,120 --> 00:07:46,280 Speaker 1: bad it's not a good look for food. And then 139 00:07:46,320 --> 00:07:48,280 Speaker 1: so you blocked him cell number, you blocked him on 140 00:07:48,320 --> 00:07:50,680 Speaker 1: social media. But then your mutual friends kept him in 141 00:07:50,760 --> 00:07:52,800 Speaker 1: the loop about every little thing I did with the 142 00:07:52,880 --> 00:07:57,040 Speaker 1: new guy. Those are not your mutual friends. Stop looking 143 00:07:57,080 --> 00:08:00,120 Speaker 1: at that them haters. And the devil has been is 144 00:08:00,160 --> 00:08:02,280 Speaker 1: he man? The devil use a lot of people to 145 00:08:02,360 --> 00:08:04,920 Speaker 1: get his way. So the devil don't want you to 146 00:08:04,960 --> 00:08:07,360 Speaker 1: be happy. The devil don't want you to see this 147 00:08:07,480 --> 00:08:09,880 Speaker 1: new blessing because I tell people all the time to 148 00:08:09,960 --> 00:08:12,360 Speaker 1: break up is often the blessing. But to get you 149 00:08:12,480 --> 00:08:14,480 Speaker 1: not to see it, now here the devil come with 150 00:08:14,560 --> 00:08:17,840 Speaker 1: all these tricks, and now you said, you know you've 151 00:08:17,880 --> 00:08:19,960 Speaker 1: only been focused on this new guy and losing weight 152 00:08:20,000 --> 00:08:22,640 Speaker 1: because he's so fine. One of my girls popped by 153 00:08:22,680 --> 00:08:24,400 Speaker 1: one or even then my new man was painting to 154 00:08:24,480 --> 00:08:27,000 Speaker 1: kitchen with a shirt off. She would and spread that 155 00:08:27,120 --> 00:08:30,120 Speaker 1: bit of tea. And then my ex husband started riding 156 00:08:30,160 --> 00:08:34,040 Speaker 1: by my house. Okay. He sent a message to me 157 00:08:34,160 --> 00:08:36,720 Speaker 1: through my sister saying, we need to talk about selling 158 00:08:36,720 --> 00:08:41,320 Speaker 1: the house. Selling the house. Why once again something to 159 00:08:41,440 --> 00:08:44,560 Speaker 1: benefit him. It's not a good look. It's not a 160 00:08:44,559 --> 00:08:47,360 Speaker 1: good look to him. We need to think about selling 161 00:08:47,400 --> 00:08:51,920 Speaker 1: the house. This is my house. We ain't selling sugar 162 00:08:52,240 --> 00:08:58,240 Speaker 1: honey tea. That's what we ain't doing. I wish I would, man, 163 00:08:58,240 --> 00:09:01,000 Speaker 1: you're gonna give up your asset and carried with him 164 00:09:01,040 --> 00:09:05,640 Speaker 1: like it's a week. No, no, sister, he keeps dropping 165 00:09:05,640 --> 00:09:08,000 Speaker 1: this guilt on you like he got right. He gave 166 00:09:08,080 --> 00:09:10,719 Speaker 1: up them rights when he gave up his manner. So 167 00:09:10,760 --> 00:09:13,720 Speaker 1: I knew that was a lie. I thought avoiding him 168 00:09:13,720 --> 00:09:15,520 Speaker 1: would make him go on with his life, but only 169 00:09:15,559 --> 00:09:19,040 Speaker 1: made him try harder to get to me. But why though, 170 00:09:19,880 --> 00:09:22,840 Speaker 1: See you know what somebody told me one time, the 171 00:09:22,880 --> 00:09:25,840 Speaker 1: finest woman in the world. Is your ex on the 172 00:09:26,000 --> 00:09:35,120 Speaker 1: arms of another man, boomerang, Grandmama, the finest woman in 173 00:09:35,160 --> 00:09:40,080 Speaker 1: the world. It's your ex on the arms of another man. 174 00:09:41,080 --> 00:09:43,959 Speaker 1: And now hear his ass come, we're selling the house. 175 00:09:44,400 --> 00:09:46,240 Speaker 1: We do know it's your house. Why would you say 176 00:09:46,240 --> 00:09:49,160 Speaker 1: all house for what? That's your asset? You know you 177 00:09:49,200 --> 00:09:51,240 Speaker 1: got your new man paying the stitching with your shirt off. 178 00:09:53,160 --> 00:09:55,480 Speaker 1: When I got home Thursday, his car was parked out 179 00:09:55,520 --> 00:09:57,800 Speaker 1: in the front of my front door was open. I 180 00:09:57,960 --> 00:10:00,520 Speaker 1: called my sister to tell her that he he was there, 181 00:10:00,600 --> 00:10:03,040 Speaker 1: and she encouraged me to go inside and talk to her. 182 00:10:03,720 --> 00:10:07,120 Speaker 1: What now you go inside to talk to her? I 183 00:10:07,240 --> 00:10:10,679 Speaker 1: found him on the couch. Crime. Where was all them 184 00:10:10,679 --> 00:10:13,120 Speaker 1: tears when he was over the other chicks happening? What 185 00:10:13,360 --> 00:10:17,120 Speaker 1: was all them tears? And divorce court? Seeing court man, 186 00:10:17,160 --> 00:10:21,040 Speaker 1: they'll give you a chance to rethink the divorce. They 187 00:10:21,040 --> 00:10:22,920 Speaker 1: will ask you if this is what you really want 188 00:10:22,920 --> 00:10:25,920 Speaker 1: to do? But what no tears? Then yeah, let me 189 00:10:25,920 --> 00:10:27,560 Speaker 1: get on out of here. I got some things I 190 00:10:27,640 --> 00:10:30,040 Speaker 1: got to do. He pulled me close to him and 191 00:10:30,080 --> 00:10:32,680 Speaker 1: he apologized for cheating and said he can't stand to 192 00:10:32,720 --> 00:10:36,560 Speaker 1: see me with another man. I told you that I've 193 00:10:36,600 --> 00:10:40,560 Speaker 1: waited for that apology for almost two years. Here week ago, 194 00:10:41,640 --> 00:10:45,560 Speaker 1: I've waited for that apology for almost two years. I 195 00:10:45,720 --> 00:10:48,839 Speaker 1: told you wasn't just a year this marriage been on. 196 00:10:49,000 --> 00:10:52,160 Speaker 1: I've waited on that apology for two years. Why would 197 00:10:52,160 --> 00:10:55,760 Speaker 1: it take a person who is kind hearted two years 198 00:10:55,800 --> 00:11:00,599 Speaker 1: to apologize? And what is this? What is this closure 199 00:11:00,880 --> 00:11:05,800 Speaker 1: that women always want? See? You just wanted some closure? 200 00:11:06,800 --> 00:11:10,400 Speaker 1: Now here he come with this apology that you've been 201 00:11:10,400 --> 00:11:14,960 Speaker 1: waiting for for two years. He said he would never 202 00:11:15,000 --> 00:11:19,240 Speaker 1: stop loving me. I know, okay, cool, my heart melted. 203 00:11:19,760 --> 00:11:22,040 Speaker 1: We made love and then he asked for a second 204 00:11:22,080 --> 00:11:25,480 Speaker 1: chance to get things right. Is he being sincere or 205 00:11:25,559 --> 00:11:29,160 Speaker 1: is he doing all this because he jealous? He jealous? 206 00:11:29,240 --> 00:11:32,720 Speaker 1: He jealous? Yeah, he regret losing you. I bet he'd 207 00:11:32,760 --> 00:11:35,319 Speaker 1: do because you know, jumped over that fist out that 208 00:11:35,440 --> 00:11:37,719 Speaker 1: grass was green, but only see the only reason that 209 00:11:37,840 --> 00:11:41,000 Speaker 1: grass look greener on the other side because you stop 210 00:11:41,080 --> 00:11:44,120 Speaker 1: watering the grass on your side, So now you don't 211 00:11:44,120 --> 00:11:46,080 Speaker 1: want over there, and found out that day they weren't 212 00:11:46,160 --> 00:11:49,040 Speaker 1: number a bunch of tricks in the first place. Now 213 00:11:49,080 --> 00:11:51,960 Speaker 1: you want your real girl back, you know, I would 214 00:11:51,960 --> 00:11:56,120 Speaker 1: be curious what would happen system in your mid thirties, 215 00:11:56,440 --> 00:12:00,720 Speaker 1: if you would share all this information with your current boyfriend, 216 00:12:01,880 --> 00:12:04,840 Speaker 1: just share the information with him. He may have a 217 00:12:04,880 --> 00:12:07,720 Speaker 1: plan for you this way better than this fool ever had. 218 00:12:08,960 --> 00:12:10,960 Speaker 1: You May be you may you may have a blessed 219 00:12:11,240 --> 00:12:14,000 Speaker 1: right in your house, and now you're fitting to mess 220 00:12:14,080 --> 00:12:16,720 Speaker 1: up and listen to this fool right here. If I 221 00:12:16,760 --> 00:12:18,960 Speaker 1: were you, before I make a decision to go back 222 00:12:19,000 --> 00:12:23,480 Speaker 1: to your ex husband who divorced you, always remember why 223 00:12:23,559 --> 00:12:25,800 Speaker 1: you got the divorce in the first place and what 224 00:12:25,960 --> 00:12:29,360 Speaker 1: has changed since the well, what has changed since then? 225 00:12:30,520 --> 00:12:32,000 Speaker 1: If I were you, I would sit down and have 226 00:12:32,160 --> 00:12:34,320 Speaker 1: this discussion with my new man and see what his 227 00:12:34,440 --> 00:12:37,360 Speaker 1: intents are before I go back to this mood. Just 228 00:12:37,360 --> 00:12:40,000 Speaker 1: don't sound good. To meet those sisters. It's really talking, 229 00:12:40,360 --> 00:12:43,400 Speaker 1: all right. Thank you. 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