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Speaker 1: in lies. Good morning everyone. I really enjoy listening to

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Speaker 1: in his daily activity. He claims that all the female

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Speaker 1: seventeen years. I don't have to get I have to

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Speaker 1: Why have dirty pictures of women on his phone? Why

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Speaker 1: My question to you guys, Is am I wrong for

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Speaker 1: doing this? Okay? This is a crazy letter. Uh yeah,

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Speaker 1: Why does he have naked pictures of women on his phone? Oh? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's right, his boy sent him to him, that's right. Uh.

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Speaker 1: I don't get the I don't get the whole pickle

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Speaker 1: you because you went through his stuff and you busted him. Um.

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Speaker 1: Just stop. Okay, uh so you know, are you wrong again?

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Speaker 1: I say the both of you are wrong on this one. Steve, Okay, well,

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Speaker 1: me full of codes. There's a lot of codes in here.

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Speaker 1: when he got home. Wise, he got a lock on

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Speaker 1: Do you work in it? Well? How much free time

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Speaker 1: We're some more unveiling of the letter. All right, you

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Speaker 1: Everyone really enjoyed listening to Steve. I've showing my problem

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Speaker 1: is this. The other day, while in my bedroom changing

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Speaker 1: my three month old daughter, dieing my husband's sell phone

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Speaker 1: His daily activity code. He hims at all his female

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Speaker 1: not I know right away. You're looking at them. Man,

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Speaker 1: you know why. Maybe the pictures is in there. Maybe

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Speaker 1: there's a reason why he got this co worker's number

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Speaker 1: looked to him, and she he don't even compliment her,

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Speaker 1: and they've been married seventeen years. Cold breaker is fitting

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Speaker 1: to break all these codes. For a year. Let's check

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Speaker 1: So who you loving? Cold cracker in action. I found

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Speaker 1: he loved her? Whoa come on? He feel huh he

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Speaker 1: hell they got what is you keeping them for? Cold

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Speaker 1: Cracker say he want to look at somebody look nice?

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Speaker 1: Neck it to him because you don't fit the bill.

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Speaker 1: No more cold cracker cracking, cold cracking cracking, Let's crack

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Speaker 1: another one. Let's say that one Why is he so

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Speaker 1: He don't want your ass in the phone, right because

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Speaker 1: now here we go to the big one. At seven

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Speaker 1: We've been together seventeen years. At seven forty nine in

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Speaker 1: you ain't what you was. Maybe you don't even care

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Speaker 1: same thing it took to get your babyhood. Come on,

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Speaker 1: it's gonna take the same thing to keep up now.

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Speaker 1: You ain't doing the tricks no more. You ain't got

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Speaker 1: no lingerie no more. You don't wear thongs to bed

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Speaker 1: no more. You wear you loopid pennies all the time. Cold, cracking,

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Speaker 1: cracking cold. You're cracking too much. You need to notice,

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