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Speaker 1: The new dators are still in that phase where they

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Speaker 1: get like a text message from their significant other and

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Speaker 1: they're super excited about it, you know, because you see

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Speaker 1: your name pop up on the phone. You're just like, Oh,

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Speaker 1: you got the butterflies in your stomach.

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Speaker 2: You're super excited. You're like, I wonder what kind of

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Speaker 2: emotion they use.

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Speaker 1: Oh, it's a peach emoji. I'm gonna send her an

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Speaker 1: egg plant emoj you.

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Speaker 3: Know, we're flirting.

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Speaker 1: This is so cute. You get a text message in

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Speaker 1: a long relationship, though the reaction's a lot different, isn't it.

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Speaker 1: You get a text message in a long relationship.

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Speaker 2: You're just like a check that later.

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Speaker 1: You get an eggplant or a peach emoji and a

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Speaker 1: long relationship.

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Speaker 2: All it means is like, Hey, on the way.

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Speaker 1: Home from work, which you pick some eggplants up with

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Speaker 1: some peaches.

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Speaker 2: From the grocery store.

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Speaker 1: Just throw a splash emoji and there means get some.

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Speaker 2: Bottled water too.

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Speaker 1: We're out of bottle of water. Make an eggplant parmers

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Speaker 1: on a peach cobbler for dinner. Be a saint, appreciate it.

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Speaker 2: Texting can be tricky, since you will show it's hard

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Speaker 2: to read how people are via text message. Some people

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Speaker 2: can be super short. Some people can literally say that

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Speaker 2: they hate you and then follow it up with a

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Speaker 2: bunch of emojis that make you wonder if it was

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Speaker 2: a joke. And some people get your text and then

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Speaker 2: respond five weeks later like, sorry, just saw this, but

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Speaker 2: forgot that they have red receipts on so you know

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Speaker 2: they saw it a long time ago, which actually happened

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Speaker 2: to me the other day. Oh well, there's a new

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Speaker 2: study out that says you can tell everything about your

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Speaker 2: personality by how you text, and we'll go over it

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Speaker 2: right now, so you can learn a little bit about

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Speaker 2: yourself and the people that you text with on a

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Speaker 2: day to day basis. So here are some of the

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Speaker 2: things that your texting style might indicate about your personality.

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Speaker 2: If you're a paragraph texter, oh jeez, lengthy thoughtful messages

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Speaker 2: says you might be detail oriented, enjoy deep conversations, and

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Speaker 2: value context. Oh, thank you very much.

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Speaker 3: Also, I will send a paragraph, and you're welcome for

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Speaker 3: the thought out time that I just spent.

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Speaker 2: On that for you. If I get a paragraph texted

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Speaker 2: to me, I'm skimming.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we're still irritating because sometimes you have a lot

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Speaker 3: to say.

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Speaker 2: Well now in the new iPhones. Also, if you don't

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Speaker 2: open the message, it'll give you a summary. Oh the

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Speaker 2: summary is I love the summary. It's wild what it says. Yeah.

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Speaker 4: I mean you was texting me over the weekend about

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Speaker 4: some work stuff and the summary was like, uh, like

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Speaker 4: it was so confused by what you were saying. So

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Speaker 4: it was just like a bunch of nonsensical words next

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Speaker 4: to each other. Don't understand radio right right, Like it

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Speaker 4: doesn't get what we do. So it's like something about radio.

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Speaker 2: Says hilarious sometimes when it recaps somebody's text message, and

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Speaker 2: sometimes it'll be wrong. You know, someone will type something

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Speaker 2: and it's like they're they're having a problem right now.

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Speaker 2: You're like, you open the text super quick. You're like, no,

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Speaker 2: they made a joke.

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Speaker 3: AI, It's not that that's the only way to get

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Speaker 3: you to open the text message. Thank you.

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Speaker 2: If you're a short and sweet text someone who prefers

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Speaker 2: concise messages, you're direct, practical and value efficiency in communication.

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Speaker 2: Aoh no, you don't do that. But it's hard if

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Speaker 2: you're a paragraph texture and you're texting with a short

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Speaker 2: and sweet texture, Oh my gosh, because then you're like,

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Speaker 2: are they mad?

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Speaker 3: What?

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Speaker 2: What?

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Speaker 1: What?

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Speaker 2: What's up? Why are they? Why are they texting me short? Well,

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Speaker 2: the thing that gets.

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Speaker 3: Confusing with the short textures is the punctuation. If there's

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Speaker 3: no punctuation, or if there's a period or an exclamation point, like,

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Speaker 3: you don't know what type of like vibe you're getting

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Speaker 3: the like if it's like a yelling or like an

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Speaker 3: excitement for the exclamation point.

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Speaker 2: Or a brush off you know, if you're a rapid

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Speaker 2: fire text so multiple short texts in a row, you're annoying. Victoria.

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Speaker 2: That's not what it says. If we're going to study.

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Speaker 2: That's just my opinion. If your scientists actually said that

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Speaker 2: you're just annoying. Your personality is annoying, you're going what

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Speaker 2: texting says about your person.

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Speaker 3: Happens when those people do those and they add the

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Speaker 3: voice notes and a little short paragraph, they come back

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Speaker 3: with another one victory.

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Speaker 2: It's that they're fine. I'm trying to make it a

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Speaker 2: full experience for you.

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Speaker 4: Stop it, complete the thought before you start typing.

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Speaker 2: It says that you might be a stream of consciousness

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Speaker 2: communicator or simply someone who wants to get their thoughts

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Speaker 2: out quickly there. It is as far as emotional expression

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Speaker 2: goes in texting, Emoji obsessed Texters says, you're expressive and

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Speaker 2: use emojis to convey emotions and add personality to your messages.

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Speaker 2: I'm a fan of emojis, big fan. I like emojis.

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Speaker 2: I never used to use emojis, but I realize some

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Speaker 2: people they don't know how, they don't know how to

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Speaker 2: communicate anymore without emojis. So you say something, you have

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Speaker 2: to have a smiley face after it, or they think

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Speaker 2: you're upset. You know what I mean.

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Speaker 3: It's like a nice thing to do though, you know,

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Speaker 3: just to make people feel a little extra better. Little

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Speaker 3: validation goes a long way.

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Speaker 4: The worst thing is when you're having a serious text

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Speaker 4: conversation someone who's just stupid.

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Speaker 2: I've gotten I've been in arguments before in like relationship

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Speaker 2: and they would use emojis and my response would be,

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Speaker 2: I don't know how to read that emoji. I don't

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Speaker 2: know what that emoji is. I know you're upset right now,

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Speaker 2: but you send an emoji and it doesn't look like

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Speaker 2: an angry face, So I'm like, what is that emoji? Please?

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Speaker 2: It's an eye roll? Okay, I already know you're rolling

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Speaker 2: your eyes. I'm going to use.

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Speaker 3: Emojis in an argument. I feel like that just diffuses

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Speaker 3: the entire situation. Yeah, I think you seriously.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's hard to take it seriously when it happens.

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Speaker 2: If you're a dry texter, one word answers or use

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Speaker 2: minimal language, you might come across as disinterested or prefer

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Speaker 2: to keep things brief.

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Speaker 5: I'm busy, I'm busy, like so when you're texting me

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Speaker 5: a bunch of stuff on your time, you got to

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Speaker 5: understand that I'm not going to get back to you

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Speaker 5: and meet you where you are, at your level until

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Speaker 5: I have time to do that, which is probably three

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Speaker 5: months from now.

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Speaker 3: That just makes me not want to text you. There's

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Speaker 3: no point to communicate with you. You're not going to

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Speaker 3: give me anything, like forget it, I'm done here.

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Speaker 2: If I'm done here, if I get excited, that's what

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Speaker 2: I'm hoping for.

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Speaker 4: What not with Nina specifically.

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Speaker 2: Studying about text messaging That says you can tell about

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Speaker 2: people's personality based on how they text in response time.

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Speaker 2: If you're a prompt responder, says you might be easily approachable,

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Speaker 2: value connection and have a tendency to be responsive to things.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, if you're by your phone, response stop with the

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Speaker 3: game's full.

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Speaker 2: If you're a slow responder, you might be busy, value

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Speaker 2: your own time, or simply prefer to think before responding

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Speaker 2: or to play games.

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Speaker 4: I wonder which one of the people in the room

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Speaker 4: fills in the gaps, right.

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Speaker 2: I know everything they're thinking, and it's not good for me. Well,

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Speaker 2: it's annoying now. And as far as attachment style, if

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Speaker 2: you're an anxious text or says you send long messages

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Speaker 2: over analyzed responses, you might have an anxious attachment style

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Speaker 2: and seek reassurance. If you're a dismissive text there Nina's

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Speaker 2: laughing right now, reluctant to engagements, deep conversations, or express emotions,

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Speaker 2: and you might have a dismissive attachment style or prioritize independent.

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Speaker 3: I'm tired now, but I need to very much be

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Speaker 3: that girl. Now.

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Speaker 2: I just go to sleep