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Speaker 2: That's how you get out of consequences.

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Speaker 1: All right, Sophia so Anna, my late wife died in

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Speaker 2: Oh that's so sad.

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Speaker 1: It is the person lost control of her car and

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Speaker 1: ran over her and she passed away immediately. Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: We were both twenty six at the time, and it

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Speaker 1: was four years ago, right before the pandemic. We were

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Speaker 1: having a bad time as a couple, and she was

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Speaker 1: Shortly after her passing, I found out I had an

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Speaker 1: STD and surprise, surprise, she was cheating on me.

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Speaker 2: That is such a mix of emotions.

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Speaker 1: I have never had such a rollercoaster of emotions in

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Speaker 1: the first paragraph of a story in this entire show's history,

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Speaker 1: like three thousand stories, and this is wow.

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Speaker 2: What do you you can't? Can you be mad? I mean,

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Speaker 2: I know you can be I don't know, but like, how.

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Speaker 1: Do you all? I know? Phil Is. This comes from

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Speaker 1: I'm Done twenty two forty four from the r slash

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Speaker 1: Okay storytime subreddit. Let's get back to this terror. On

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Speaker 1: the day that she passed away. A guy we went

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Speaker 2: This is before? Wait?

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Speaker 1: Or because I'm like.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, a guy we went to college with cent her

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Speaker 2: Yes, yes, imagine being that guy, the one who asked

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Speaker 2: Who tells him? Who tells him? Do you tell him?

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Speaker 1: Does he deserve just you?

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Speaker 2: Just he just thinks that she ghosted him?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, honestly, yeah, literally, I would he deserve well no,

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Speaker 2: pis question mark, Oh my god.

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Speaker 2: I would kind of just like alter my life.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you have to like go to some freaking like

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Speaker 1: and stooping immediately after the death. That seems do do

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Speaker 2: Still send picks messages after three years of being together.

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Speaker 1: That would be kind of like like he was like, hey, so,

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Speaker 1: just like I get picks, you get picksed, we get

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Speaker 2: What after three years he's still behaving like that? Apparently,

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Speaker 1: Dade wasn't gonna go that far, but hey, now, Also,

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Speaker 2: If this guy is so messy, at first.

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Speaker 1: I thought you were mocking me.

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Speaker 2: Oh this is literally the Blake Hamlets.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Also, the little sticker goes is the same color

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's not like OP is being accused of cheating,

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Speaker 2: It makes Helen Anna mains for becoming a new member.

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Speaker 1: Heck yeah, anyone else, that's it, we got it. Shout

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Speaker 1: to see it. Shibai. So I told her all about

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Speaker 1: I don't know if that's necessary.

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Speaker 2: Well, I okay, I think to a certain extent, I

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Speaker 2: in this past relationship. You cheated on me and then yeah,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and this is just like you know, this is

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Speaker 1: The rest of the family, well the proof yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: But I think you can absolutely talk to your fiance

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Speaker 1: I should have seen so many strokes and the shadows.

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Speaker 1: It's easier to vote now, please yes. So anyways, here

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Speaker 2: Guys, I understand this.

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Speaker 1: This is a big one. They asked me about her,

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Speaker 1: trying to include me in conversations about her. Anna is

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Speaker 1: such a good cook, write Op. I loved when she

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Speaker 1: and Op would banter, you remember Op, stuff like this.

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Speaker 1: that I was not ready. They let me be for

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Speaker 1: a while, but ever since I dated started dating Laura,

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Speaker 1: I couldn't use the I'm not ready excuse. I get

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Speaker 1: that it's their daughter, but why would they keep bringing

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Speaker 1: seems a little too much to me. Her hot tea.

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Speaker 1: It is hot tea. Well now it's cold. But her

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Speaker 1: Well, let's see.

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Speaker 2: My coworker exposed my personal life to HR, so I

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Speaker 1: Tit for tat emphasis on the tip.

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Speaker 2: You have that locked and loaded.

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Speaker 2: I twenty eight female, have been in a happy and

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Speaker 2: committed throple for about three years now. It's unconventional, but

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Speaker 2: media platform that's more on the mature side, think Facebook,

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Speaker 2: but for adults. Who like to talk about NSFW topics

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Speaker 2: One of my coworkers, Jake thirty four Mail, recently found

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Speaker 2: Instead of keeping his discovery to himself, Jake took screenshots

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Speaker 2: how did he know?

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Speaker 1: I think that was the original thing. Right, He found

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Speaker 1: That's quite specific.

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Speaker 2: I got called into a meeting with HR, and honestly,

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Speaker 1: Right, So basically Jake is getting the penalty, which what

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that is that's so much more unprofessional dude to

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Speaker 2: After that HR meeting, I was still fuming. I knew

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Speaker 2: if he wanted to dig into my private life, he

438
00:23:30,480 --> 00:23:34,359
Speaker 2: should face the consequences of his own actions. It didn't

439
00:23:34,400 --> 00:23:38,680
Speaker 2: take long for everything to blow up. Jake's wife confronted him,

440
00:23:38,720 --> 00:23:42,439
Speaker 2: and now she's filed for divorce. Words spread around the office,

441
00:23:42,440 --> 00:23:45,439
Speaker 2: and Jake is absolutely furious with me, saying I ruined

442
00:23:45,440 --> 00:23:49,159
Speaker 2: his marriage and made his life hell. Some of my

443
00:23:49,200 --> 00:23:51,679
Speaker 2: coworkers think I went too far and should have just

444
00:23:52,040 --> 00:23:54,840
Speaker 2: let it go, but others believe he got what he

445
00:23:54,880 --> 00:23:57,359
Speaker 2: deserved for trying to get me in trouble over something

446
00:23:57,400 --> 00:24:01,119
Speaker 2: that was none of his business. Oh Am, I the

447
00:24:01,160 --> 00:24:03,480
Speaker 2: a hole, and there are some relevant comments to finish

448
00:24:03,520 --> 00:24:06,040
Speaker 2: this story off, I don't think.

449
00:24:05,880 --> 00:24:09,160
Speaker 1: So let's do let's do a poll, Let's do a pole.

450
00:24:09,200 --> 00:24:11,680
Speaker 2: Here is the a hole.

451
00:24:11,560 --> 00:24:15,760
Speaker 1: This I think is. I think it's tricky. It is

452
00:24:16,480 --> 00:24:17,520
Speaker 1: deliciously petty.

453
00:24:17,840 --> 00:24:20,879
Speaker 2: I think it's petty for sure, because I think, do

454
00:24:21,000 --> 00:24:24,359
Speaker 2: you absolve her completely of any court sort of petty

455
00:24:24,480 --> 00:24:29,000
Speaker 2: A holary go through through HR. However, this man is

456
00:24:29,000 --> 00:24:33,399
Speaker 2: a creepy and he's been setting her inappropriate pictures. Yeah,

457
00:24:33,440 --> 00:24:35,880
Speaker 2: and he's been trying to like, you know, cheat with her.

458
00:24:36,080 --> 00:24:38,480
Speaker 1: The fact that he means that he deserves to be

459
00:24:38,560 --> 00:24:40,320
Speaker 1: exposed to his wife about for sure.

460
00:24:40,440 --> 00:24:46,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, and there's not any certainty that HR would have

461
00:24:46,320 --> 00:24:48,960
Speaker 2: you know, probably wouldn't have revealed anything to that.

462
00:24:49,200 --> 00:24:51,800
Speaker 1: What's the rap sheet again? So she she uh, she

463
00:24:51,920 --> 00:24:54,880
Speaker 1: messaged his wife with pictures of him on the site. Yes,

464
00:24:55,240 --> 00:24:57,280
Speaker 1: messages of him like reaching out to her.

465
00:24:58,680 --> 00:24:59,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's it.

466
00:25:02,800 --> 00:25:07,679
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't. I don't think that that is And

467
00:25:07,720 --> 00:25:09,959
Speaker 1: you know what, one could actually argue that she's kind

468
00:25:09,960 --> 00:25:12,399
Speaker 1: of going easy on it because imagine right now, she's

469
00:25:12,680 --> 00:25:14,800
Speaker 1: he just told his wife. He could have told the

470
00:25:14,800 --> 00:25:18,320
Speaker 1: wife and HR and a marriage.

471
00:25:18,440 --> 00:25:21,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, she totally could have gone to HR. Honestly, Yeah,

472
00:25:21,560 --> 00:25:23,480
Speaker 2: she could have gone to HR and made his life worse.

473
00:25:23,880 --> 00:25:25,960
Speaker 2: And yeah, as you said, losing his job. But in

474
00:25:26,000 --> 00:25:28,560
Speaker 2: this case, he just loses his marriage, which he doesn't.

475
00:25:28,880 --> 00:25:31,440
Speaker 2: He does deserve either position.

476
00:25:31,240 --> 00:25:34,320
Speaker 1: So I think, yeah, I think not the a hole

477
00:25:34,400 --> 00:25:39,200
Speaker 1: because one op is so so, so so so deserves

478
00:25:39,240 --> 00:25:42,199
Speaker 1: to not ever have this happen to her again with

479
00:25:42,280 --> 00:25:44,320
Speaker 1: this guy. So that's helping put a stop to it

480
00:25:44,600 --> 00:25:47,359
Speaker 1: and number two, the wife deserves to know that the

481
00:25:47,440 --> 00:25:51,040
Speaker 1: husband is cheating on her and like sending these crazy

482
00:25:51,080 --> 00:25:54,600
Speaker 1: creepy messages to multiple Yeah, the multimple women, et cetera, etextera.

483
00:25:54,920 --> 00:25:58,359
Speaker 1: So yeah, I don't even I think this falls within

484
00:25:58,440 --> 00:26:02,359
Speaker 1: the realm of like it's actually like a appropriate. I

485
00:26:02,359 --> 00:26:06,560
Speaker 1: think spots. Yeah, it happens to be delicious, but it's

486
00:26:06,600 --> 00:26:09,200
Speaker 1: also what he deserves. None. Yeah.

487
00:26:09,240 --> 00:26:12,159
Speaker 2: I also think going further, that she should reach out

488
00:26:12,200 --> 00:26:15,480
Speaker 2: to HR because it's completely unacceptable he's able to send

489
00:26:15,520 --> 00:26:19,160
Speaker 2: all these inappropriate messages totally during work hours and also

490
00:26:19,240 --> 00:26:21,439
Speaker 2: probably ope, he's not the only person affected by this.

491
00:26:21,640 --> 00:26:24,040
Speaker 1: I agree. So not only did you not go too far,

492
00:26:24,119 --> 00:26:25,040
Speaker 1: you didn't go far enough, you.

493
00:26:25,000 --> 00:26:25,760
Speaker 2: Didn't go far enough.

494
00:26:25,800 --> 00:26:27,000
Speaker 1: Go farther, go farther.

495
00:26:27,240 --> 00:26:31,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, but we have a ninety seven percent not

496
00:26:31,720 --> 00:26:35,359
Speaker 2: the a hole, which I agree with. But there are

497
00:26:35,480 --> 00:26:38,760
Speaker 2: some relevant comments and some from OP as well, who

498
00:26:39,200 --> 00:26:41,959
Speaker 2: was big Bob se says, not the a hole. People

499
00:26:42,000 --> 00:26:45,560
Speaker 2: in glasshouses shouldn't throw hand grenades with a bungee cord attached.

500
00:26:45,760 --> 00:26:46,640
Speaker 2: Still working on that one.

501
00:26:46,760 --> 00:26:47,119
Speaker 1: Nice.

502
00:26:47,440 --> 00:26:50,880
Speaker 2: Seriously, he tried to spread revenge corn to make OP

503
00:26:51,080 --> 00:26:53,720
Speaker 2: lose her job and retaliation for not letting him into

504
00:26:53,720 --> 00:26:57,040
Speaker 2: her bed. When you go after someone's livelihood, the gloves

505
00:26:57,080 --> 00:26:58,800
Speaker 2: are off and the boots are on.

506
00:26:58,960 --> 00:27:01,119
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, a great comment.

507
00:27:01,760 --> 00:27:05,320
Speaker 2: Okay, consequence, says christ I wouldn't want to cross you, haha.

508
00:27:06,119 --> 00:27:08,800
Speaker 2: He was clearly out of line and was during worktime

509
00:27:08,920 --> 00:27:12,480
Speaker 2: being inappropriate towards you. Given he went to your HR department,

510
00:27:12,600 --> 00:27:15,399
Speaker 2: how on earth did he think it wouldn't be blatantly

511
00:27:15,440 --> 00:27:18,160
Speaker 2: clear that he'd have to be on there to find it,

512
00:27:18,680 --> 00:27:21,240
Speaker 2: to try and get you fired. I'd say he deserved it.

513
00:27:21,640 --> 00:27:24,320
Speaker 2: He played a stupid game and won a stupid prize,

514
00:27:24,640 --> 00:27:28,359
Speaker 2: threw stones in glass houses, et cetera. The only chance

515
00:27:28,359 --> 00:27:30,439
Speaker 2: of you being a hole was if you knew they

516
00:27:30,440 --> 00:27:33,560
Speaker 2: had kids that would be overstepping things, not because of him,

517
00:27:33,720 --> 00:27:34,440
Speaker 2: but because of them.

518
00:27:34,640 --> 00:27:35,200
Speaker 1: I disagree.

519
00:27:35,240 --> 00:27:37,399
Speaker 2: I disagree with that. Yeah, I disagree with that. I

520
00:27:37,400 --> 00:27:39,160
Speaker 2: think if someone's being cheated on.

521
00:27:39,720 --> 00:27:42,280
Speaker 1: Then they should be able to cut those ties and

522
00:27:42,320 --> 00:27:45,159
Speaker 1: then rebuild the life of their own happiness and like

523
00:27:45,400 --> 00:27:48,359
Speaker 1: a terrible example for your children, you know, like find

524
00:27:48,680 --> 00:27:51,760
Speaker 1: another father figure who could do right by your kids.

525
00:27:51,800 --> 00:27:54,760
Speaker 2: I agreed, honestly, without wishing to scare you, I'd be

526
00:27:54,800 --> 00:27:57,280
Speaker 2: a little bit worried about violence. At this point, you

527
00:27:57,320 --> 00:28:00,080
Speaker 2: really have fed up his life even if he deserved it.

528
00:28:00,640 --> 00:28:03,080
Speaker 2: And Opie says, I didn't know he had babies, but

529
00:28:03,119 --> 00:28:05,280
Speaker 2: I would have still done it even if I did.

530
00:28:05,880 --> 00:28:08,560
Speaker 2: I just would have also sent his SOONBX some money

531
00:28:08,600 --> 00:28:10,840
Speaker 2: to go along with the info and help her escape him.

532
00:28:11,480 --> 00:28:14,720
Speaker 2: Caroline says, are you concerned that your act of revenge

533
00:28:15,320 --> 00:28:17,520
Speaker 2: may bite you in the butt at work too? He's

534
00:28:17,560 --> 00:28:19,920
Speaker 2: an a hole, but now you've exposed your own secrets

535
00:28:19,960 --> 00:28:23,960
Speaker 2: to the entire company as well. People talk just a thought,

536
00:28:24,000 --> 00:28:26,119
Speaker 2: you're part of a threutle? Did it never occur to you?

537
00:28:26,280 --> 00:28:29,240
Speaker 2: He may have had an open marriage, in which case

538
00:28:30,400 --> 00:28:32,280
Speaker 2: the wife will be like, oh, it's.

539
00:28:32,200 --> 00:28:34,560
Speaker 1: Okay, we have an open marriage, and that's fine.

540
00:28:34,680 --> 00:28:38,200
Speaker 2: But the issue here is not just that he cheated

541
00:28:38,200 --> 00:28:42,840
Speaker 2: on his wife. It's also that he was He was

542
00:28:42,880 --> 00:28:49,200
Speaker 2: actually harassing sexually harassing Ope exactly pleasant op says he

543
00:28:49,240 --> 00:28:52,440
Speaker 2: did not. He brags at work about cheating, literally uses

544
00:28:52,480 --> 00:28:55,320
Speaker 2: the word cheating, And in my honest opinion, if I

545
00:28:55,360 --> 00:28:57,800
Speaker 2: center the message and she had responded, oh, we're in

546
00:28:57,840 --> 00:29:02,840
Speaker 2: an open marriage, I would apologize. Yeah, and that is

547
00:29:02,880 --> 00:29:05,760
Speaker 2: the end of that story, but I think, yeah, I

548
00:29:05,760 --> 00:29:09,320
Speaker 2: think he needs to go to HR as well, and

549
00:29:09,360 --> 00:29:11,120
Speaker 2: that that's my honest opinion on that.

550
00:29:11,280 --> 00:29:13,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, she didn't go far enough, like I really think,

551
00:29:13,760 --> 00:29:15,400
Speaker 1: because like, what are we gonna do? Let this guy

552
00:29:15,480 --> 00:29:17,960
Speaker 1: keep working at the company, and like is he is

553
00:29:18,000 --> 00:29:20,440
Speaker 1: he gonna go on some rampage and just start harassing

554
00:29:20,480 --> 00:29:22,040
Speaker 1: all the women in the company, Like this.

555
00:29:21,960 --> 00:29:23,520
Speaker 2: Is crazy, it's unacceptable behavior.

556
00:29:23,720 --> 00:29:28,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, if if this guy, if this guy worked it here,

557
00:29:28,760 --> 00:29:31,240
Speaker 1: let me tell you something, it wouldn't be his cheeks

558
00:29:31,360 --> 00:29:35,640
Speaker 1: would be spanked rob by guess who me? That's right?

559
00:29:36,120 --> 00:29:37,880
Speaker 2: And then I think him out the door.

560
00:29:40,040 --> 00:29:44,320
Speaker 1: Thanking him. But speaking of spanking, I have a work

561
00:29:44,320 --> 00:29:47,560
Speaker 1: in this town. Ever again, that's right. Uh, let me

562
00:29:47,760 --> 00:29:51,320
Speaker 1: spank your ear holes with this next story. Let's do it.

563
00:29:51,920 --> 00:29:54,160
Speaker 1: My fiance mad a pros and cons list about me.

564
00:29:54,520 --> 00:29:55,640
Speaker 1: I'm calling off the wedding.

565
00:29:56,600 --> 00:29:59,560
Speaker 2: That one episode of Friends, I haven't seen it, Ross

566
00:29:59,640 --> 00:30:02,320
Speaker 2: makes it pros and cons lists of Rachel.

567
00:30:03,040 --> 00:30:04,080
Speaker 1: Ouch and she read it.

568
00:30:04,400 --> 00:30:07,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, tough nuts. That kind of sucks.

569
00:30:07,520 --> 00:30:10,320
Speaker 1: Hi, everyone, I hope you guys give me some insight

570
00:30:10,400 --> 00:30:13,200
Speaker 1: and help with this situation. Do you know if this

571
00:30:13,280 --> 00:30:17,160
Speaker 1: is a direct machine? Okay, me twenty four female and

572
00:30:17,240 --> 00:30:19,160
Speaker 1: my soon to be husband, twenty four male, have been

573
00:30:19,200 --> 00:30:22,680
Speaker 1: together since we were both seventeen. He was my first everything,

574
00:30:22,760 --> 00:30:26,720
Speaker 1: first boyfriend, first kissed. He took my virgin olive oil,

575
00:30:27,440 --> 00:30:30,640
Speaker 1: literally my first everything. Can we make.

576
00:30:30,520 --> 00:30:34,280
Speaker 2: That virgin of extra virgin Olivo extra virgin?

577
00:30:34,760 --> 00:30:37,560
Speaker 1: By the way, this comes from flaky artists from Marslast

578
00:30:37,560 --> 00:30:41,280
Speaker 1: Stoky story Time. So he proposed after I graduated nursing school,

579
00:30:41,320 --> 00:30:44,120
Speaker 1: and I've never been happier. I know everyone says this,

580
00:30:44,320 --> 00:30:47,720
Speaker 1: but there's literally been zero problems and zero red flags.

581
00:30:48,160 --> 00:30:53,640
Speaker 1: What could go wrong? Oh my gosh. I wanted to

582
00:30:53,680 --> 00:30:56,560
Speaker 1: play this game that he has on his iPad because

583
00:30:56,600 --> 00:30:59,960
Speaker 1: I've become borderline addicted to it game. As I was

584
00:31:01,560 --> 00:31:03,440
Speaker 1: As I was playing, I saw a text from a

585
00:31:03,480 --> 00:31:06,480
Speaker 1: group chat pop up. I ignored it. Then another came

586
00:31:06,560 --> 00:31:10,240
Speaker 1: up from one of his friends saying I'd marry a BJQ.

587
00:31:10,960 --> 00:31:15,720
Speaker 1: I got confused, so I decided, Oh.

588
00:31:16,440 --> 00:31:22,520
Speaker 2: I mean a bj queen. Wow, that's horrible.

589
00:31:23,560 --> 00:31:24,880
Speaker 1: I didn't do you know that?

590
00:31:25,200 --> 00:31:25,240
Speaker 4: You?

591
00:31:25,480 --> 00:31:25,680
Speaker 1: Yeah?

592
00:31:26,480 --> 00:31:26,960
Speaker 2: Context?

593
00:31:27,920 --> 00:31:35,920
Speaker 1: Oh, okay, literature. What kind of literature you read? Oh

594
00:31:35,960 --> 00:31:36,440
Speaker 1: my god?

595
00:31:37,200 --> 00:31:37,240
Speaker 4: No.

596
00:31:37,440 --> 00:31:41,080
Speaker 2: Also, it was just like context, you can kind of

597
00:31:41,160 --> 00:31:44,560
Speaker 2: figure it out how to use your brain for one second.

598
00:31:44,600 --> 00:31:46,600
Speaker 2: And also I found the story true.

599
00:31:47,360 --> 00:31:50,000
Speaker 1: Uh so this group chat is only meant some of

600
00:31:50,160 --> 00:31:52,640
Speaker 1: my childhood friends too, and we hang out with these

601
00:31:52,680 --> 00:31:56,640
Speaker 1: people multiple times a week. My husband sends a pros

602
00:31:56,720 --> 00:31:59,920
Speaker 1: and consolest about me. I copied it and send it

603
00:32:00,080 --> 00:32:02,800
Speaker 1: to me and deleted the evidence. Here's the list.

604
00:32:04,760 --> 00:32:06,840
Speaker 2: I did also have to censor this a little bit,

605
00:32:06,920 --> 00:32:09,000
Speaker 2: so it was worse than it is here.

606
00:32:09,200 --> 00:32:13,680
Speaker 1: True pros, spicy, sleep, eager, and BJ's whenever I want

607
00:32:14,400 --> 00:32:19,120
Speaker 1: big boobs, big butt, big thighs and a flat stomach.

608
00:32:19,640 --> 00:32:23,520
Speaker 1: Doesn't let herself become frumpy and ugly, funny and smart,

609
00:32:24,000 --> 00:32:29,520
Speaker 1: good cook and baker, cons has lots of animals, doesn't

610
00:32:29,560 --> 00:32:34,720
Speaker 1: always keep our place clean, laughs too loud. She's too happy,

611
00:32:35,400 --> 00:32:38,960
Speaker 1: what vulgar and crude? Has bad breath in the morning.

612
00:32:39,600 --> 00:32:41,640
Speaker 2: Everyone has breath in the morning.

613
00:32:41,760 --> 00:32:45,640
Speaker 1: Hello, I'm reading she's too happy. She's a human being.

614
00:32:46,560 --> 00:32:47,440
Speaker 2: She has pets.

615
00:32:49,120 --> 00:32:52,080
Speaker 1: This man. God, she has to sleep, so she can't

616
00:32:52,160 --> 00:32:56,040
Speaker 1: tend to my every heat all night. She can't fan me,

617
00:32:56,320 --> 00:32:57,600
Speaker 1: you know, like a great god.

618
00:32:57,840 --> 00:33:01,000
Speaker 2: I come home and don't help clean, and she doesn't

619
00:33:01,040 --> 00:33:01,960
Speaker 2: have it all clean for me.

620
00:33:02,280 --> 00:33:06,480
Speaker 1: Wow, Oh my God. And spends too much time at

621
00:33:06,560 --> 00:33:11,479
Speaker 1: the gym. This makes no sense, Yes, no sense. How

622
00:33:11,520 --> 00:33:11,680
Speaker 1: are you?

623
00:33:11,920 --> 00:33:15,440
Speaker 3: How do you like someone that is like physically tracked

624
00:33:15,480 --> 00:33:17,160
Speaker 3: of you, but like, oh, I don't want them to,

625
00:33:17,640 --> 00:33:18,480
Speaker 3: you know, go to the gym.

626
00:33:20,680 --> 00:33:22,000
Speaker 1: I don't want them to get the gates.

627
00:33:22,400 --> 00:33:24,280
Speaker 2: She keeps in shape, but also she goes to the

628
00:33:24,400 --> 00:33:26,120
Speaker 2: gym disgusting.

629
00:33:26,480 --> 00:33:28,840
Speaker 1: Hey babe, can you just like keep your perfect body

630
00:33:28,920 --> 00:33:31,160
Speaker 1: but spend all that gym time on me? Because that's

631
00:33:31,440 --> 00:33:33,440
Speaker 1: what I need? Hey babe, can you lift this car

632
00:33:33,560 --> 00:33:35,920
Speaker 1: off of me? But stop going to the gym. Yeah,

633
00:33:37,200 --> 00:33:38,959
Speaker 1: I might have to break up if you keep doing

634
00:33:39,040 --> 00:33:41,280
Speaker 1: going to the gym. But if you if you lose

635
00:33:41,920 --> 00:33:45,520
Speaker 1: one percent of your beautiful body, I'm out too. I'm

636
00:33:45,560 --> 00:33:47,040
Speaker 1: also out. I'm also out.

637
00:33:47,160 --> 00:33:49,000
Speaker 2: It's called a catch twenty two.

638
00:33:51,320 --> 00:33:56,160
Speaker 1: Now, maybe it's a paradox. Chat will decide is this

639
00:33:56,320 --> 00:33:59,160
Speaker 1: less bad? It made my stomach drop her very flat

640
00:33:59,200 --> 00:34:02,760
Speaker 1: stomach apparently, and I've just felt this impending dread ever

641
00:34:02,880 --> 00:34:07,840
Speaker 1: since discovering it. The cons aren't that bad bad even

642
00:34:07,960 --> 00:34:11,120
Speaker 1: the pros were bad. It shows yeah, it shows how

643
00:34:11,360 --> 00:34:12,080
Speaker 1: terrible he is.

644
00:34:12,360 --> 00:34:15,880
Speaker 2: Yeah that even the pros were like incredibly demeaning.

645
00:34:16,160 --> 00:34:18,759
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, not one of the pros is like, I

646
00:34:18,880 --> 00:34:19,759
Speaker 1: love talking to her.

647
00:34:19,880 --> 00:34:22,640
Speaker 2: Oh, she's got a great mind, she's so intelligent.

648
00:34:22,880 --> 00:34:25,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, she comforts me whenever I come home. You know,

649
00:34:26,120 --> 00:34:30,640
Speaker 1: well I guess she'd come you know anyways, You ever say, uh,

650
00:34:30,800 --> 00:34:34,120
Speaker 1: the cons aren't that bad, but it feels so objectifying

651
00:34:34,239 --> 00:34:37,040
Speaker 1: with the prose list. Yes, And as they scrolled up

652
00:34:37,080 --> 00:34:39,880
Speaker 1: and read more the worst I'd got. He talked to

653
00:34:39,960 --> 00:34:43,680
Speaker 1: them about how he thinks I lied about being virgin

654
00:34:43,719 --> 00:34:48,000
Speaker 1: olive oil when we met because I'm too eager. I'm

655
00:34:48,120 --> 00:34:51,520
Speaker 1: wanting to try too many things, and even bragged about

656
00:34:51,560 --> 00:34:53,920
Speaker 1: how he has a folder on his phone of videos

657
00:34:53,960 --> 00:34:58,080
Speaker 1: and photos of me and us. Everyone dared him to

658
00:34:58,200 --> 00:35:01,520
Speaker 1: send it his friends suck dude, but he said no,

659
00:35:02,000 --> 00:35:04,800
Speaker 1: thank god. But how can I not be sure he

660
00:35:04,880 --> 00:35:07,240
Speaker 1: didn't send it? Anyways, and delete the evidence.

661
00:35:07,360 --> 00:35:11,759
Speaker 2: I would say, like, hopefully, hopefully he has hofully hope,

662
00:35:12,000 --> 00:35:15,760
Speaker 2: but absolutely you need to delete that off of his phone.

663
00:35:16,280 --> 00:35:19,240
Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, you cannot trust this guy at a minimum,

664
00:35:19,320 --> 00:35:22,120
Speaker 1: at a minimum. He even talked about how there was

665
00:35:22,200 --> 00:35:24,640
Speaker 1: a week he tested to see how many bjs he

666
00:35:24,719 --> 00:35:27,640
Speaker 1: could get out of me by simply asking for them,

667
00:35:27,719 --> 00:35:30,719
Speaker 1: and decided to stop because he started to feel bad.

668
00:35:30,760 --> 00:35:36,080
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, there is more, but I can't write

669
00:35:36,080 --> 00:35:40,959
Speaker 1: it out. I feel so gross bad. I talk about

670
00:35:41,040 --> 00:35:43,759
Speaker 1: him in such a different way. It feels like he

671
00:35:43,880 --> 00:35:47,160
Speaker 1: only sees me as a spicy sleep object, and I

672
00:35:47,320 --> 00:35:50,000
Speaker 1: can and I see him as my other half.

673
00:35:50,160 --> 00:35:52,640
Speaker 2: Absolutely, he's only seeing you as like a body.

674
00:35:54,120 --> 00:35:58,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, just a meatbag. A beautiful meatback, but a meatback.

675
00:35:59,520 --> 00:36:02,200
Speaker 1: I've opted it out of friend hangouts and have distance

676
00:36:02,280 --> 00:36:04,799
Speaker 1: and distanced myself from him. He noticed and has been

677
00:36:04,840 --> 00:36:07,200
Speaker 1: trying to find out what's wrong, but I'm not even

678
00:36:07,320 --> 00:36:09,840
Speaker 1: ready to tell him. I want to postpone our wedding

679
00:36:09,960 --> 00:36:13,279
Speaker 1: until we can figure this out or if it's even salvageable.

680
00:36:13,840 --> 00:36:18,080
Speaker 1: Am I overreacting? Please? Any and all evidence is welcomed

681
00:36:18,200 --> 00:36:20,520
Speaker 1: and quick at it before the update. This response has

682
00:36:20,520 --> 00:36:22,960
Speaker 1: been overwhelming. I've never used read it before and opted

683
00:36:23,200 --> 00:36:27,479
Speaker 1: to use my friend's account thing, and wow, I really

684
00:36:27,640 --> 00:36:30,600
Speaker 1: wasn't expecting this. I appreciate. I appreciate all of your guys'

685
00:36:30,680 --> 00:36:33,120
Speaker 1: advice and input. It truly means a lot. I'll try

686
00:36:33,160 --> 00:36:35,520
Speaker 1: to update when I can, but thank you all. We

687
00:36:35,640 --> 00:36:38,600
Speaker 1: have an update, But Sophia, let's give our advice in it.

688
00:36:38,719 --> 00:36:42,160
Speaker 2: Please him. You don't need to postpone the wedding. Cancel it.

689
00:36:42,600 --> 00:36:48,000
Speaker 1: Yes, Now, so here's the question, leave him, but Paul,

690
00:36:49,719 --> 00:36:50,440
Speaker 1: tell him or not?

691
00:36:51,520 --> 00:36:54,200
Speaker 2: Say I have made a pros and cons list of

692
00:36:54,280 --> 00:37:00,719
Speaker 2: you pro none, Ah, you suck and you're ugly, and then.

693
00:37:00,719 --> 00:37:05,160
Speaker 1: Leave and then leave. Yeah that's funny. Yeah, but in

694
00:37:05,280 --> 00:37:08,759
Speaker 1: all seriousness, do you think that there should be some

695
00:37:09,120 --> 00:37:10,480
Speaker 1: form of communicating Like.

696
00:37:10,640 --> 00:37:13,520
Speaker 2: I'm completely serious. I think she should make a breezy conquest.

697
00:37:14,520 --> 00:37:19,879
Speaker 2: Completely serious, I say, I would love to hear from

698
00:37:20,000 --> 00:37:23,440
Speaker 2: the one, our one and only Molly.

699
00:37:23,600 --> 00:37:27,839
Speaker 1: Who is in the studio. Can you pass the mic over, Molly?

700
00:37:27,960 --> 00:37:30,120
Speaker 1: I am putting you in the hot seat quite literally,

701
00:37:31,400 --> 00:37:34,600
Speaker 1: I was so focused on it is all good. I'll

702
00:37:34,600 --> 00:37:42,040
Speaker 1: give you a quick tales. So basically, uh, Opie's husband, Yes, Beyonce,

703
00:37:42,239 --> 00:37:48,160
Speaker 1: thank you send this like crazy disgusting pros and consoles

704
00:37:48,239 --> 00:37:51,440
Speaker 1: to His friend was talking about like their their spicy sleeps,

705
00:37:51,520 --> 00:37:57,680
Speaker 1: like OPI, we've we've agreed, like leave him for sure.

706
00:37:58,040 --> 00:38:01,600
Speaker 1: But the question right now is uh, tell him why

707
00:38:02,040 --> 00:38:04,520
Speaker 1: or not? Because they are planning to get married.

708
00:38:05,000 --> 00:38:11,759
Speaker 4: Oh so tough because obviously, like you, hear a lot

709
00:38:11,800 --> 00:38:13,920
Speaker 4: of stories about people being cheated on and they're like,

710
00:38:14,040 --> 00:38:16,799
Speaker 4: oh you should and you don't know, and like ride

711
00:38:16,840 --> 00:38:19,520
Speaker 4: it out and then uh, you know when they're least

712
00:38:19,640 --> 00:38:20,160
Speaker 4: expecting it.

713
00:38:21,440 --> 00:38:26,399
Speaker 2: Ah, that's tough, guys, It's tough.

714
00:38:26,480 --> 00:38:27,040
Speaker 1: I would say.

715
00:38:27,120 --> 00:38:30,000
Speaker 4: I would say, don't, like keep your cards close to

716
00:38:30,080 --> 00:38:32,200
Speaker 4: your chest. Yeah, you know what I'm saying, So like

717
00:38:32,320 --> 00:38:35,719
Speaker 4: maybe don't and then down the line be like, oh,

718
00:38:35,800 --> 00:38:39,120
Speaker 4: by the way, oh, like bake a pros and cons

719
00:38:39,200 --> 00:38:43,280
Speaker 4: list about op about the fiance.

720
00:38:43,480 --> 00:38:44,239
Speaker 2: Do you know what I'm saying?

721
00:38:44,560 --> 00:38:48,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, like basically yeah, yeah, like getting it, getting your

722
00:38:48,360 --> 00:38:53,239
Speaker 1: get back with it. Yeah. I think I think that

723
00:38:55,120 --> 00:39:00,640
Speaker 1: he doesn't deserve to know. It could be good just

724
00:39:00,840 --> 00:39:05,880
Speaker 1: to eliminate any potential like like if he's constantly like

725
00:39:06,200 --> 00:39:07,480
Speaker 1: what happened, what happened? Will happen?

726
00:39:07,560 --> 00:39:07,719
Speaker 4: You know?

727
00:39:08,120 --> 00:39:09,440
Speaker 1: I mean he knows what happened.

728
00:39:09,160 --> 00:39:11,240
Speaker 4: Though, Yeah, just light his car on fire.

729
00:39:11,600 --> 00:39:12,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't.

730
00:39:12,280 --> 00:39:16,000
Speaker 2: I don't think he deserves you know, I think you

731
00:39:16,239 --> 00:39:17,640
Speaker 2: to make a pros and cons list.

732
00:39:17,800 --> 00:39:19,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, well that's that's great too. That's great too either

733
00:39:20,080 --> 00:39:22,479
Speaker 1: either that like basically, does he deserve to be told

734
00:39:22,520 --> 00:39:22,759
Speaker 1: in a.

735
00:39:23,280 --> 00:39:26,360
Speaker 4: You know, I got it spray paint the pros and

736
00:39:26,440 --> 00:39:27,680
Speaker 4: cons list on his car.

737
00:39:28,120 --> 00:39:28,560
Speaker 1: There we go.

738
00:39:29,080 --> 00:39:31,040
Speaker 2: And if you are in a certain state and you

739
00:39:31,160 --> 00:39:33,360
Speaker 2: do it inside the car, apparently it's legal.

740
00:39:33,600 --> 00:39:37,319
Speaker 1: Sophia Callan just raised a very good point. He could

741
00:39:37,440 --> 00:39:40,959
Speaker 1: retaliate with the video. Yeah, oh so, yeah, we gotta

742
00:39:41,000 --> 00:39:43,320
Speaker 1: get That's why I think that. That's why I was

743
00:39:43,360 --> 00:39:46,759
Speaker 1: saying she should get on his phone and delete all

744
00:39:46,800 --> 00:39:48,319
Speaker 1: of them for sure. And then.

745
00:39:49,880 --> 00:39:54,239
Speaker 2: Again and he does. She says, no, okay, this is

746
00:39:54,280 --> 00:39:56,680
Speaker 2: what she does. She makes a pros and cons list

747
00:39:56,760 --> 00:40:01,960
Speaker 2: for him. Yes, bro, not applicable, con many and then

748
00:40:02,440 --> 00:40:04,120
Speaker 2: at the end of the pros and cons list, she

749
00:40:04,239 --> 00:40:09,000
Speaker 2: attaches a like legal document that says, if you share

750
00:40:09,120 --> 00:40:12,920
Speaker 2: any of the intimate photos or videos that I sent

751
00:40:12,960 --> 00:40:16,360
Speaker 2: to you, that will be considered revenge corn and I

752
00:40:16,440 --> 00:40:17,000
Speaker 2: will assue you.

753
00:40:17,800 --> 00:40:22,360
Speaker 1: I love that. Yeah, I love that. Yeah boom, I

754
00:40:22,520 --> 00:40:23,319
Speaker 1: hope that point.

755
00:40:23,400 --> 00:40:26,040
Speaker 4: None of you are ever in this situation, because it.

756
00:40:26,160 --> 00:40:31,080
Speaker 1: Really If you ever are, though, you can share your

757
00:40:31,120 --> 00:40:34,040
Speaker 1: story and we will console you because you would deserve

758
00:40:34,360 --> 00:40:37,239
Speaker 1: here for you. Yes, but guys, the story is not over.

759
00:40:37,560 --> 00:40:39,120
Speaker 1: I'm going to get to Jono's I think right after

760
00:40:39,200 --> 00:40:43,600
Speaker 1: the story, big dog. But guys, we have an update.

761
00:40:44,280 --> 00:40:48,239
Speaker 1: It is not over. Okay, So I wanted to say

762
00:40:48,560 --> 00:40:50,880
Speaker 1: thank you to everyone that gave me their advice and input,

763
00:40:51,640 --> 00:40:53,600
Speaker 1: and also thank you to my friend for letting me

764
00:40:53,680 --> 00:40:55,880
Speaker 1: post on her Reddit account. I've never used Reddit, so

765
00:40:55,960 --> 00:41:00,000
Speaker 1: this whole experience has been wild nervous elogy. She suggests

766
00:41:00,040 --> 00:41:02,360
Speaker 1: said that I use it due to her using it,

767
00:41:03,440 --> 00:41:05,520
Speaker 1: and told me that she got a lot of great

768
00:41:05,560 --> 00:41:10,440
Speaker 1: legal advice as well as emotional support. So again, thank you. Anyways,

769
00:41:10,520 --> 00:41:12,480
Speaker 1: my soon to be ex left for a work related

770
00:41:12,520 --> 00:41:15,800
Speaker 1: trip and won't be returning until the seventh. I decided

771
00:41:15,800 --> 00:41:18,719
Speaker 1: to go through his iPad even more, and things I

772
00:41:18,840 --> 00:41:23,720
Speaker 1: found were absolutely appalling. I can't believe I considered staying.

773
00:41:23,880 --> 00:41:26,439
Speaker 1: You all opened my eyes and what I found really

774
00:41:26,640 --> 00:41:30,640
Speaker 1: solidified it. I searched the group chat more. They didn't

775
00:41:30,680 --> 00:41:33,960
Speaker 1: talk about me a whole lot, but every time they

776
00:41:34,000 --> 00:41:38,960
Speaker 1: did it was degrading and wildly inappropriate. I found out

777
00:41:39,040 --> 00:41:41,000
Speaker 1: that it was my soon to be ex that coined

778
00:41:41,040 --> 00:41:44,800
Speaker 1: me as the BJ queen, and I was right. He

779
00:41:44,840 --> 00:41:49,200
Speaker 1: has sent videos No oh my god, see him, dude,

780
00:41:49,360 --> 00:41:52,520
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, see him, sue him. It was just videos

781
00:41:52,560 --> 00:41:55,680
Speaker 1: of me performing oral but still I wanted those to

782
00:41:55,719 --> 00:42:00,239
Speaker 1: stay between it, and that is still crazy. Wait, I'm I'm.

783
00:42:00,200 --> 00:42:04,000
Speaker 2: Sorry he's sending videos of him.

784
00:42:05,520 --> 00:42:06,440
Speaker 1: To his friends.

785
00:42:07,040 --> 00:42:10,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, what kind of friendship does he have?

786
00:42:12,040 --> 00:42:19,640
Speaker 1: Bad ones? Disgusting ones? Dude. I found his ex Twitter

787
00:42:19,960 --> 00:42:25,879
Speaker 1: and Reddit account. It's nothing but gangbang corn and cuck

788
00:42:26,719 --> 00:42:32,600
Speaker 1: stuff corn all the corn is one girl in multiple guys.

789
00:42:33,440 --> 00:42:35,400
Speaker 1: I don't want to read too much into it, but

790
00:42:35,840 --> 00:42:39,960
Speaker 1: that into that, but how everything is falling. I'm scared

791
00:42:40,040 --> 00:42:41,799
Speaker 1: he was going to try to share me with other

792
00:42:41,960 --> 00:42:47,320
Speaker 1: guys in this group chaining, which yes, I am open minded,

793
00:42:47,400 --> 00:42:50,120
Speaker 1: but I am a firm no on threesomes and no

794
00:42:50,400 --> 00:42:54,160
Speaker 1: sharing of any sort, and he knows this. I also

795
00:42:54,320 --> 00:42:58,759
Speaker 1: found out that he calls me butterface. He constantly complains

796
00:42:58,800 --> 00:43:01,800
Speaker 1: that I don't lean into my femininity and dress more girly.

797
00:43:02,200 --> 00:43:04,759
Speaker 1: He says he hates my tattoos and piercings and that

798
00:43:04,880 --> 00:43:06,400
Speaker 1: they're quote unquote excessive.

799
00:43:07,800 --> 00:43:14,400
Speaker 4: Big let's go.

800
00:43:16,680 --> 00:43:19,919
Speaker 1: There's so much more, and I'm just devastated. I don't

801
00:43:19,960 --> 00:43:22,440
Speaker 1: even know where to begin. I don't want to tell

802
00:43:22,520 --> 00:43:25,880
Speaker 1: my family because I'm so humiliated and sad. Do I

803
00:43:25,960 --> 00:43:29,359
Speaker 1: collect evidence from his iPad and take it to a lawyer? Yes? Yes?

804
00:43:29,680 --> 00:43:29,839
Speaker 4: Yes?

805
00:43:29,920 --> 00:43:32,920
Speaker 1: Do I start moving out while he's away. Yes, I

806
00:43:33,040 --> 00:43:35,759
Speaker 1: am so lost right now. Thank you to everyone that

807
00:43:35,960 --> 00:43:40,880
Speaker 1: helps me open my eyes. Wow. Terrible, that's crazy.

808
00:43:41,080 --> 00:43:41,920
Speaker 2: That was horrible.

809
00:43:42,000 --> 00:43:45,040
Speaker 1: I mean wow, answers.

810
00:43:44,719 --> 00:43:47,480
Speaker 2: Leave him now? Yeah, I think now it's a lot.

811
00:43:47,680 --> 00:43:51,560
Speaker 2: Now you gotta just maybe and him, you know, I

812
00:43:51,640 --> 00:43:51,920
Speaker 2: don't know.

813
00:43:53,760 --> 00:43:56,839
Speaker 1: Yeah, I just end it and get out and start

814
00:43:56,960 --> 00:43:59,960
Speaker 1: life over and then talk to the boys. Yeah.

815
00:44:00,200 --> 00:44:02,839
Speaker 3: Really, whenever you leave, make sure to put a note

816
00:44:02,920 --> 00:44:05,319
Speaker 3: for the next person, so whenever they clean they will

817
00:44:05,360 --> 00:44:05,640
Speaker 3: find it.

818
00:44:05,719 --> 00:44:08,640
Speaker 1: And I know, but do it for this one too. Yeah.

819
00:44:09,640 --> 00:44:11,160
Speaker 2: Do you know how many people I wish would have

820
00:44:11,280 --> 00:44:14,000
Speaker 2: left me notes? You've read a story we know, Molly,

821
00:44:14,080 --> 00:44:16,359
Speaker 2: we read it or I wasn't there, but they read

822
00:44:16,400 --> 00:44:19,840
Speaker 2: a story where an ex of this guy left a

823
00:44:19,920 --> 00:44:23,480
Speaker 2: note basically saying like, I know that you'll find this

824
00:44:23,680 --> 00:44:27,200
Speaker 2: because he doesn't clean and like giving all these like

825
00:44:27,280 --> 00:44:30,080
Speaker 2: warning signs of him. That's a real one right there.

826
00:44:30,600 --> 00:44:34,960
Speaker 1: Whoa girl's girl to the maximum? That's crazy. That's a

827
00:44:34,960 --> 00:44:35,520
Speaker 1: great idea.