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Speaker 1: They talk better than they say. These are the radio

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Speaker 1: blogs on The Fread Show.

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Speaker 2: Like we're running in our diaries, except we say them aloud.

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Speaker 1: We call them blogs. I'm gonna take this one, dear blog.

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Speaker 2: I uh okay, now wait a minute, I'm scared. Now

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Speaker 2: I pushed the button, but then I'm afraid if I

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Speaker 2: pushed the button again.

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Speaker 1: We'll get suck on that. Okay, I don't know. I

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Speaker 1: pushed it twice. What I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I reset all the computers eight times, and now my

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Speaker 2: outlook works, so that's cool. But it was but it

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Speaker 2: was like the seventh reset, you know, Okay. Tech Support's like,

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Speaker 2: well duh. I'm like, oh, I'm sorry. I didn't realize

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Speaker 2: the seventh time would do it.

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Speaker 1: My bad. You're a big company outlook, my.

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Speaker 2: Bad, and many of us are having this issue, right

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Speaker 2: but they want me to call and I've done that.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you become it when you put a ticket in. Girl,

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Speaker 1: It's like, no, you work for us, now it's your blog.

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Speaker 2: So we had a little radio conference last week, and

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Speaker 2: then since I was in Texas, I went from Austin

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Speaker 2: to Dallas to see my nieces now.

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Speaker 1: And by the way, every.

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Speaker 2: Time I talk about going to Dallas, I'm going to

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Speaker 2: see my nieces now. My sister lives there as well,

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Speaker 2: my brother in law. They happened to be, you know,

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Speaker 2: the parents of the nieces. But that's not really why

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Speaker 2: I'm there. Let's be honest. I'm there to see my nieces. Polly,

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Speaker 2: who's four and a half and mave, who's I think

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Speaker 2: two ish?

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I'm losing track of how ol day or it doesn't matter,

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Speaker 2: but I hang out with these girls and I'm supervised, right.

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Speaker 2: I think we're at the point now where I could

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Speaker 2: be unsupervised with at least Polly, because Polly can use

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Speaker 2: the bathroom by herself, and that was kind of the

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Speaker 2: big barrier.

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I probably could have gone in there with her. We

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Speaker 2: could have figured it out, but like, I don't know,

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Speaker 2: I'm not I don't know how to do this parenting thing.

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Speaker 1: How old is she? Polly four and a half? Oh?

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Speaker 1: She suddenly helped wiping though. If it's a number two, well,

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Speaker 1: good for me. I guess it's fine. You're fine.

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Speaker 2: I would do it, it doesn't matter. Whatever she needs, whatever

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Speaker 2: she needs, But I don't. I don't really know what

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Speaker 2: I'm doing. So it's it's I think they'd probably like,

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Speaker 2: let me go figure it out, but I don't anyway,

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Speaker 2: So like we I just when did when do you

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Speaker 2: lose as a parent? This sense that they're going to

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Speaker 2: break at every turn? Because, like you know, we went

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Speaker 2: to Target because they had to get some stuff, and

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Speaker 2: then Polly wanted one of those little cake pops.

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Speaker 1: So we go over to the thing.

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Speaker 2: And I'm walking with her and like I'm holding her

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Speaker 2: hand and she's fine with that, but then she runs

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Speaker 2: ahead of me and I'm like, hold on, hold on,

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Speaker 2: and what are you doing? So I'm chasing after this

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Speaker 2: She's nothing going to happen. And then she's you know,

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Speaker 2: looking around and all this stuff at the Starbucks and

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Speaker 2: touching everything, and I'm just like, I'm like, I create

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Speaker 2: this like bubble around her, you know. And then I

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Speaker 2: don't know when do you? And then they're in the

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Speaker 2: car and I'm like, are you sure they builds it

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Speaker 2: in right?

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Speaker 1: Like you sure?

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Speaker 2: And my brother in law and my sister are like

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Speaker 2: they're fine, dude, Like everything's fine. When do you lose

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Speaker 2: this like sense that that you don't have to watch

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Speaker 2: every single step they make? I think it's you have

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Speaker 2: that second kid, because I think if this was just Polly,

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Speaker 2: your brother, your brother in law, and your sister would

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Speaker 2: not be that chill. I helicopter over these kids and yes,

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Speaker 2: then they're like jumping around on the couch. They're disassembling

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Speaker 2: the couch and turning it into a trampoline. I'm like Amanda, I.

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Speaker 1: Know is this and she's just chilling and I'm.

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Speaker 2: Sitting on the couch, so like, I know that if

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Speaker 2: something happens to one of these kids, it's I'm gonna

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Speaker 2: get blamed, yep, because I'm sitting right there even though

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Speaker 2: this is all happening around me and they're just I'm like,

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Speaker 2: I don't know, PAULI don't do that, And I don't

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Speaker 2: want to be the guy that says don't do that,

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Speaker 2: but I I know if she's trips the one time

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Speaker 2: and I'm sitting there, that is going to be Bubba Broker?

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Speaker 2: Does it call me Bubba? So I'm just when do

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Speaker 2: you lose this sense that they're going to break all

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Speaker 2: the time? It is my question because I don't I

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Speaker 2: don't know when I'm gonna I don't know if there's

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Speaker 2: ever gonna be a time where I'm comfortable being with

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Speaker 2: them where I don't feel like if anything happens then

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Speaker 2: I will be excommunicated from the family, you know, but

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Speaker 2: you have a lot of nephews, yes, I mean, is

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Speaker 2: there ever a point where you take them out to

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Speaker 2: do stuff and you're like, just let them go, They'll

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Speaker 2: be fine.

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Speaker 1: They can go with me.

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Speaker 3: When they can eat hot wings and watch Real Housewives.

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Speaker 1: That's a good one. Which is what age? Would you say? Seven? Ten?

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Speaker 1: At what agees are the Housewives appropriate?

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Speaker 3: But yeah, I need you to be able to, you know,

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Speaker 3: wipe and talk in all of that.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so you knew as a as a woman with

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Speaker 2: a maternal instinct with you know, with all these nephews, nine.

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Speaker 1: Of them, I lost counsel.

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Speaker 2: I can understand why even you won't take them on

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Speaker 2: your own until they're ten.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, pretty much?

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Speaker 2: Okay, good Now I feel better about this because I've

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Speaker 2: been a little resistant and even though I want to

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Speaker 2: to be like, come on, you come with me and

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Speaker 2: we're gonna go out and have a day, because I

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Speaker 2: don't know what would happen.

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Speaker 1: There's a lot of angles. I wouldn't know how to deal.

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't know how to do. I wouldn't know what

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Speaker 1: to do. I wouldn't be able to triage you. I

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Speaker 1: wouldn't be able to handle it.

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Speaker 2: No, you know, I wouldn't know what to do, not

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Speaker 2: only because it's a girl, because it's a kid. I

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Speaker 2: wouldn't know what to do, yep, And so I don't.

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Speaker 2: But I'm just curious when this sense of like, Okay,

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Speaker 2: everything's gonna be all right, and and and the helicoptering ends,

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Speaker 2: and for me maybe the answer is never.

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Speaker 3: No.

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Speaker 2: I can just hear it now, you know, poly skins

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Speaker 2: your knee. What did you let her do? I don't know, Amanda.

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Speaker 2: She was swinging off of the couch. I know she

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Speaker 2: climbed the wall earlier in front of you, and that

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Speaker 2: was okay. She was on the dining room table previously.

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Speaker 2: But yeah, I went to this place called the landing Strip,

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Speaker 2: but I under see it.

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Speaker 1: But it's not by the airport. They loved her there.

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Speaker 1: You should have seen it.

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Speaker 2: Man, she really took to those to turquoise and in

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Speaker 2: candy or whatever. Okay, so it's ten years old.

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Speaker 3: Yes, that's the safer, safe age. But then I'm afraid

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Speaker 3: of like, okay, so ten's fine. And then we get twelve, thirteen, fourteen.

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Speaker 3: Now we get into some areas where I also don't

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Speaker 3: know what I would be doing. So that's scary too.

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Speaker 3: So I'm thinking maybe just twenty one.

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Speaker 1: That's the say, not even then, not never.

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Speaker 2: Well, by twenty one, everything's under I mean not under control,

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Speaker 2: not mentally, but like there's some sense of there's not

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Speaker 2: no n bar