WEBVTT - Are you trying to numb your mind? There's a better solution...

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<v Speaker 1>There's a couple of things, but I would just I

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<v Speaker 1>would say, why are you trying to numb yourself? Is it?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you like yourself better when you're you're under the

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<v Speaker 1>influence problem? Or are you able to relax more when

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<v Speaker 1>you're under the influence problem because you're you're taking away

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<v Speaker 1>from the fact that there's there's there's a better solution

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<v Speaker 1>to all of this. Podcast guests today the one and

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<v Speaker 1>only Chad, one of my favorite guests. I'm so I'm

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<v Speaker 1>so giddy when you come. It's exciting to be here.

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<v Speaker 1>You've switched some things up. I have sitting on this

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<v Speaker 1>side now. Yeah, I'm I still recognize you. It's mostly

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<v Speaker 1>by your voice, though I'm not used to seeing this

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<v Speaker 1>side of you. Yeah, I I because of the second camera.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just trying to make adjustments. You asked me earlier

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<v Speaker 1>why I make adjustments, and I said, usually it's because

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<v Speaker 1>of a problem. Most of the things in my life

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<v Speaker 1>are innovated from problems. You're a visionary. There's Yeah, You're

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<v Speaker 1>you're always getting better, which is cool. Good, I'll take that.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll take that as a compliment. Yeah, and you are

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<v Speaker 1>the reason I love you as a guest is because

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<v Speaker 1>first of all, you're just just a good human being,

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<v Speaker 1>just a good dude. And if I had something going

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<v Speaker 1>on in my life a question, I'm so glad that

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<v Speaker 1>I have you in my life to bounce that off of.

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<v Speaker 1>If I said, hey, Chat, I got to talk about something.

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<v Speaker 1>Could we meet for coffee, You'd be like house three o'clock. Absolutely,

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<v Speaker 1>And I think that that's that's such a benefit to

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<v Speaker 1>have that kind of person on this podcast where we

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<v Speaker 1>can go through these questions and walk through it as

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<v Speaker 1>as if we're living it with them. That's really what

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<v Speaker 1>we're doing. And if anyone wants to email, you could

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<v Speaker 1>email Grangersmith Podcast at gmail dot com. That's where I'm

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<v Speaker 1>getting these questions from. And you're you've been on here

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<v Speaker 1>so much that I actually have a lot of questions

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<v Speaker 1>that are for you, okay, that are for chat specifically

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<v Speaker 1>that that's in the subject line. And I'm gonna I'm

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<v Speaker 1>trying to find I was gonna find like an easy

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<v Speaker 1>one to get into. Probably this one first question is, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>this is John from Illinois. Shout out to Illinois granger

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<v Speaker 1>What is your favorite thing to hunt? Yeah? M hm,

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<v Speaker 1>we've talked about we have the very first Yeah, episode

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<v Speaker 1>I was a part of. We talked about the difference

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<v Speaker 1>between hunting and shopping, like in Texas we kind of

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<v Speaker 1>shopped for meat around a Yeah, you steer the line

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<v Speaker 1>like heater air conditioner in the in the summertime. And

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<v Speaker 1>I've had people that they were less than excited about

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<v Speaker 1>the way that I described hunting in Texas. They were like, whatever, man,

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<v Speaker 1>and that they're telling me that it's because I take

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<v Speaker 1>the easy route and I'm a rifle hunter and I

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<v Speaker 1>need to bow hunt or I need to whatever else.

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<v Speaker 1>But I mean, I don't totally disagree with them. Chad

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<v Speaker 1>is a Montana guy. Yeah, Montana hunting is very different

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<v Speaker 1>than Texas hunting, and there it's all hunting. So I

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<v Speaker 1>understand the joke about shopping, and I feel that, and

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<v Speaker 1>I feel the need to to make a hunt difficult

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<v Speaker 1>so that you could feel like you're you're earning it

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<v Speaker 1>and your reflection of your ancestors and you're it's a

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<v Speaker 1>it's a huge challenge. I understand that. But sometimes you

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<v Speaker 1>just want to get a dough right. You just want

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<v Speaker 1>to feel the freezer exactly, and and so I do

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<v Speaker 1>appreciate that. I think it's interesting here you can your

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<v Speaker 1>your your limit or whatever, you can get five deer.

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<v Speaker 1>And where I've lived before and hunted in Colorado on Montana,

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<v Speaker 1>it's it's you get one, you pay, and you get

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<v Speaker 1>one because of size difference. But the question is what's

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<v Speaker 1>our favorite? M h, Yeah, what's our favorite? Which is

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<v Speaker 1>in Texas we need to get white tail off. Like

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<v Speaker 1>the reason there's five is because we need to manage herd.

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<v Speaker 1>Because because as humans, we've also managed to get rid

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<v Speaker 1>of all the predators. You know, there used to be

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<v Speaker 1>wolves in Texas. Did you know that? Wild wolves? If

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<v Speaker 1>you think about I always put in perspective of that

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<v Speaker 1>movie Old Yeller. Did you ever see that movie? Ye?

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<v Speaker 1>Remember they're fighting. There's a wolf in the movie. That's

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<v Speaker 1>that's fighting Old Yeller. TRAVI us a wolf, get your gun.

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<v Speaker 1>And that was that took place like in the Texas

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<v Speaker 1>hill country. So there used to be wolves in Oklahoma, Texas, Louisiana.

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<v Speaker 1>And those wolves were either killed by local farmers and

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<v Speaker 1>ranchers and pioneer people, or they were bred out by coyotes.

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<v Speaker 1>Coyotes could breed with a wolf, and the more that

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<v Speaker 1>the codies do that, obviously it they just become coyotes

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<v Speaker 1>and and so coyotes aren't a predator of deer or

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<v Speaker 1>they are. They are, but they'll they'll take they'll take

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<v Speaker 1>down a fawn, okay, and they'll actually take a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of fawns. But we also manage those. The State of

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<v Speaker 1>Texas will manage codies free of charge to ranchers just

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<v Speaker 1>to help with cattle and goats and sheep and chickens.

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<v Speaker 1>So the State of Texas will manage that for you.

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<v Speaker 1>So we also get rid of coyotes, but they're not

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<v Speaker 1>like a wolf. A wolf take down a dough to

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<v Speaker 1>a wolf take down a buck, and they used to,

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<v Speaker 1>but because we've limited that those predators, Texas needs hunters

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<v Speaker 1>to manage the white tail herd because if you don't

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<v Speaker 1>manage it, they'll just there's not enough food to go around. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>this is not an answer to his question at all,

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<v Speaker 1>I know, but it's very enlightening and I think you're

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<v Speaker 1>you're drying a good point that there are different reasons

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<v Speaker 1>why we would hunt and maybe have different favorites. So

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<v Speaker 1>there's a what's your favorite thing to hunt and eat? Right,

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<v Speaker 1>there's the what do you enjoy the flavor of or

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<v Speaker 1>like to cook? But then I think there's the what's

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<v Speaker 1>kind of on your bucket list? Right, would you love

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<v Speaker 1>to say that you've you've done that kind of hunt?

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<v Speaker 1>And then there may be just a man when it

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<v Speaker 1>comes down to it, I love to, okay, hunt this.

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<v Speaker 1>So it seems like there's multiple favorites, right, And I

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<v Speaker 1>can think there's one animal that fills two of those

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<v Speaker 1>categories for me, and then there's another one that's just

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<v Speaker 1>that bucket list like that would be cool an epex

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<v Speaker 1>predator go first. Okay. So the thing that I have

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<v Speaker 1>enjoyed hunting the most, and I also enjoy the meat

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<v Speaker 1>the most of is the rocky mountain elk. I think

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<v Speaker 1>that is just the process of stalking the animal, finding it,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, chasing it, getting after it, spending hours climbing mountains,

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<v Speaker 1>trapsing through the forest. It is a it's a powerful

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<v Speaker 1>moment when you have downed a bowl elk and it's

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<v Speaker 1>there before you and it's it's just majestic. It's huge,

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<v Speaker 1>it's beautiful, and its meat is so good and tasty.

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<v Speaker 1>But my like, what would I love to hunt someday?

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<v Speaker 1>It'd be a grizzly bear. Yeah, because I think there's

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<v Speaker 1>this element of you're going to die. You could, it

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<v Speaker 1>could in me right. It's not just a one way

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<v Speaker 1>street here, it's two ways. And yeah, that are a

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<v Speaker 1>polar bear, same thing. Those things hunt you. Yeah, okay, awesome.

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<v Speaker 1>I've been elkhunting, but I've never gotten an elk. It

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<v Speaker 1>keep going and we need to get you up to

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<v Speaker 1>Montana or Colorado. Will trapes around for a few days. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll get you. I would love to. I have. I've

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<v Speaker 1>gone mule deer hunting. I have gotten a mule deer,

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<v Speaker 1>actually got a mule deer in Mexico, which was a

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<v Speaker 1>But I haven't. I just don't have a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>big game experience grown up white tail hunting. I have

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of great whitetail stories. And that's probably my

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<v Speaker 1>answer to what I enjoy hunting and eating because I've

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<v Speaker 1>done it so much. And do you both rifle and

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<v Speaker 1>bow hunts and I have. I enjoy bird hunting. I

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<v Speaker 1>enjoy dove hunting. It's a completely different deal, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>I love to go out with Lincoln, my son, and

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<v Speaker 1>he can easily go and he's been deer hunting with

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<v Speaker 1>me too. But there's a process of dove hunting where

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<v Speaker 1>we could literally go out in the front yard, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>in September thirtieth in Texas and get a dove and

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<v Speaker 1>then you can go right back to the grill and

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<v Speaker 1>put that dove breast on the grill within twenty minutes

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<v Speaker 1>of shooting it, which is really cool. I like to

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<v Speaker 1>do it with white tail too. I like to get

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<v Speaker 1>the backstrap and eat a piece of it the same day.

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<v Speaker 1>There's something special about that that is awesome bucket list

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<v Speaker 1>for me. I would say doll sheep in Alaska or

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<v Speaker 1>the Northwest Territory of Canada that I've had some friends

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<v Speaker 1>do that, and it's like a nine day deal. You're

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<v Speaker 1>probably not gonna get one. You're gonna you're gonna walk

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<v Speaker 1>for fifty miles. You're gonna be more tired than you've

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<v Speaker 1>ever been. Are they like up in eigh elevation or

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<v Speaker 1>are they okay? Yeah, So you'll see one and you'll

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<v Speaker 1>you'll see And first of all, just to get a

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<v Speaker 1>legal illegal ram, that's hard in itself, just to find one,

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<v Speaker 1>and then when you do, you will you could hunt it.

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<v Speaker 1>You could stock it for three or four days and

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<v Speaker 1>you're going mountaintop to mountaintop just watching it and You're like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>the sun's going down, we need a camp here. He's

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<v Speaker 1>probably gonna be in that same ridge when we wake up.

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<v Speaker 1>Wake up there he is. So you move down the

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<v Speaker 1>valley and you come back up, and then he's he's

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<v Speaker 1>moved on to the next hill. And then and you realize, well,

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<v Speaker 1>our airplane pick up, which is how they get you,

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<v Speaker 1>is in two days. We have to start heading back

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<v Speaker 1>to the drop site. We're gonna let this one go.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's crazy. I mean the stress that the toll

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<v Speaker 1>it takes on your body. You're completely dependent on the weather.

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<v Speaker 1>If it's foggy, you can't do anything but stay right there.

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<v Speaker 1>If it's raining, you're right there. I'm in When do

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, how many can go on this? Okay, I'll

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<v Speaker 1>look into it. I'm serious, talk about totally do that,

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<v Speaker 1>talk about getting close to God? I mean, you are

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<v Speaker 1>out in the middle of absolute nowhere. If this results

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<v Speaker 1>in an actual hunt, this is the best question we've

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<v Speaker 1>ever received. That's true. Thank you. John. His name, by

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<v Speaker 1>the way, his emails John the Angler. Yeah, he's a fisherman,

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<v Speaker 1>probably a fly fisherman. Yeah yeah, let me find one

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<v Speaker 1>of these that has Chad. Here's one right here, two

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<v Speaker 1>granger and Pastor Chad. Hey, my name is Aaron. My

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<v Speaker 1>wife goes to church every Sunday, but I don't. I

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<v Speaker 1>used to go to church by myself when I was younger,

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<v Speaker 1>but I stopped because I felt like I was consistently

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<v Speaker 1>being judged by my peers. I want to start going

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<v Speaker 1>with my wife, but I still have that fear. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know much about the word, and I want to

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<v Speaker 1>be a follower of Christ, but I don't know where

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<v Speaker 1>to begin. Any advice would be appreciated. Thank y'all so much,

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<v Speaker 1>Love you guys. So, Aaron, do you say he didn't

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<v Speaker 1>say where he's from. It's a good question, though, and

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<v Speaker 1>I want to address first that he used the word fear.

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<v Speaker 1>It's interesting and I would say as a pastor, Aaron,

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<v Speaker 1>as much as you might be intimidated or have that

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<v Speaker 1>fear of going back, or or not knowing enough or

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<v Speaker 1>feeling like you should know more, as a pastor, that

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<v Speaker 1>does not exist in our heart and when we if

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<v Speaker 1>I were to meet you on a Sunday morning, I

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<v Speaker 1>would be so floored and excited that you overcame the

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<v Speaker 1>fear to be there because of what that means for you.

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<v Speaker 1>And for your eternal security, that you're taking a step

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<v Speaker 1>towards the Lord, and that is significant, and that is

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<v Speaker 1>a win in and of itself. And I'll also confess

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<v Speaker 1>Aaron that as a pastor, there are often times where

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<v Speaker 1>if I'm sitting in the congregation and somebody else's preaching

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<v Speaker 1>or teaching and they reference a verse or a book

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<v Speaker 1>of the Bible, I sometimes have to look in the

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<v Speaker 1>Table of Contents to find it, in the sense that

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<v Speaker 1>I don't automatically know exactly what page in number. But

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<v Speaker 1>it's okay to not know. It's okay to be in

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<v Speaker 1>a place of still learning, and to just embrace that

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<v Speaker 1>and own that there's still so much to learn when

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<v Speaker 1>it comes to the scriptures, what they say, what they mean,

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<v Speaker 1>where to find things, and so don't allow that fear.

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<v Speaker 1>Just know that you're not alone in it. I think

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<v Speaker 1>the enemy wins when he gets us to think we're

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<v Speaker 1>somehow unique and weird in our own issues and that

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<v Speaker 1>no one else can relate or has those issues. But

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<v Speaker 1>that is absolute, that's a lie. Yeah. So I have

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<v Speaker 1>a friend that I try to get to go to

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<v Speaker 1>church with me all the time, always ask him, and

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<v Speaker 1>he had an interesting thing to say about that. He said,

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<v Speaker 1>I can't go to church right now because until I

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<v Speaker 1>know more about the Bible, I feel like it's me

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<v Speaker 1>walking into the movie theater halfway through the movie. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just going to go to church on a given Sunday

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<v Speaker 1>and the preachers talking about something and I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>the backstory at all. What do you say to that? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, that's the place where we learn the backstory. Like,

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<v Speaker 1>that's the exact place you ought to go. It's kind

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<v Speaker 1>of like I talk to people because in another life

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<v Speaker 1>I am a a coach CrossFit yep. And I'll have

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<v Speaker 1>people say I really want to try CrossFit, but I

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<v Speaker 1>need to get in shape first. I don't feel like

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<v Speaker 1>it can coming point and do CrossFit because I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>not physically there. And I'm trying to convince them. No,

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<v Speaker 1>if there is, there is nothing better than CrossFit to

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<v Speaker 1>help you begin to experience fitness and to get in shape.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what it's designed to do. It's not there for

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<v Speaker 1>the people that are already fit to then go and

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<v Speaker 1>hang out and have fun. No, it's designed to develop

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<v Speaker 1>fitness for people that are not fit. That's a great analogy. So,

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<v Speaker 1>and you could you could attest to this that on Sunday,

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<v Speaker 1>Aaron Sunday mornings, churches will build their service with you

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<v Speaker 1>in mind. They're going to build their service knowing that

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<v Speaker 1>a certain percentage probably pretty big, what thirty forty fift

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<v Speaker 1>they know will go on a Sunday as a guest

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<v Speaker 1>or as a friend or the mother in law joins

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<v Speaker 1>because they were asked to. And pastors know that, they

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<v Speaker 1>know that on Sunday mornings they're going to have to

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<v Speaker 1>They're going to have to build their sermon with a

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<v Speaker 1>component of this is a lot of people's first time

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<v Speaker 1>to hear this first time or it may be the

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<v Speaker 1>only time in the week that these folks will experience

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<v Speaker 1>the Bible. And so we understand that this is an

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<v Speaker 1>important opportunity to get people comfortable with the Word, exposed

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<v Speaker 1>to the scriptures, learning the Bible, how to approach the

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<v Speaker 1>Bible on their own, like it's a unique spot. The

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<v Speaker 1>majority of people that are coming that may be the

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<v Speaker 1>only time they experience it. So, yes, we do have

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<v Speaker 1>that in mind. And so like I said, that's the

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<v Speaker 1>place you should go in order to gain a greater

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<v Speaker 1>understanding and love of comfort. Yeah, once you get that,

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<v Speaker 1>then they have small groups and Bible studies during the

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<v Speaker 1>week that then dig deeper and it allows you to

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<v Speaker 1>get to the next level. But Sundays will always take

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<v Speaker 1>you back at some point to the basics in the message.

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<v Speaker 1>At least it's usually built like that. So and there's

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<v Speaker 1>a podcast that you can listen to, the Take and

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<v Speaker 1>Read podcast. Yes, when does that come out? It should

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<v Speaker 1>If it's not already ready, it will be ready in

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<v Speaker 1>the next week from when this podcast. When you hear

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<v Speaker 1>my voice right now, okay, good, good, good like okay,

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<v Speaker 1>then we'll reiterate that again. Okay. So what do you

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<v Speaker 1>think Aaron means by judged by others? He says, I

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<v Speaker 1>stopped going because I constantly felt like I was being

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<v Speaker 1>judged by my peers. What do you think he means

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<v Speaker 1>Christians judging or non believers, non church goers judging him?

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<v Speaker 1>A good question. I took it to mean that other Christians,

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<v Speaker 1>other peers within the church were judging him for lifestyleka,

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<v Speaker 1>something like that, and he just he felt like it

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<v Speaker 1>was a place of judgment. Could go either way. It

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<v Speaker 1>could be other people as friends that aren't church goers,

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<v Speaker 1>saying why do you go to church? I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>that's a good point, man. I would just lean in, Aaron,

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<v Speaker 1>I would lean into what Chad said about this is

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<v Speaker 1>the same scenario as you saying I really want to

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<v Speaker 1>get in shape, but I don't really want to go

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<v Speaker 1>to the gym because I'm not in shape, and everyone

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<v Speaker 1>is saying no, the gym is how you get in

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<v Speaker 1>Jed's where you go. That's where you go. That's and

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<v Speaker 1>just like the gym, when you go to the gym,

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<v Speaker 1>you're surrounding yourself with other people that have like minded goals.

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<v Speaker 1>They all want The people at church are going to

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<v Speaker 1>want to know more about the Word and to be

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<v Speaker 1>stronger followers of Christ. And so you're going to surround yourself,

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<v Speaker 1>just like you would do at the gym, with people

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<v Speaker 1>that are have the same goal in mind. And just

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<v Speaker 1>like the gym, you're going to have those guys that

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<v Speaker 1>are there because they want to show how strong they

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<v Speaker 1>are totally and they're flexing down and they're they're simply

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<v Speaker 1>there because they want to display, you know, all of

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<v Speaker 1>their their macho stuff. And I think you're going to

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<v Speaker 1>find that obviously in the church. You're going to find

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<v Speaker 1>people that really want you to know how much they

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<v Speaker 1>know and and just just let them just roll with it.

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<v Speaker 1>So he says, I don't even know where to begin. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>you find a church. Yeah, where's your wife going? He says,

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<v Speaker 1>his wife goes. My wife go to church every Sunday, perfect, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>the right past. So hey, babe, what time are you going?

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<v Speaker 1>Is it ten? What time do you leave? I'm in,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm in. Hey does this look okay? All right, let's

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<v Speaker 1>roll and then your level of participation is could be zero. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>just sit sit in the seat. One of our pastors

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<v Speaker 1>at celebration. Daniel, his story is crazy, his testimony is crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>He came from Lansing, Michigan, and he came from a

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<v Speaker 1>non believing family, and his mother was radically transformed, radically

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<v Speaker 1>reborn and started going to church, and his dad, who

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<v Speaker 1>was a drug dealer, thought that she was going to

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<v Speaker 1>meet another man. So he would follow her and go

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<v Speaker 1>and hide in the bathroom and wait just to catch

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<v Speaker 1>her in the act, because she had to be going

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<v Speaker 1>to this church thing, because there had to be another

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<v Speaker 1>man she was cheating on him with. So he was

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<v Speaker 1>going and hiding in the bathroom and sometimes doing drugs

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<v Speaker 1>in the bathroom, and one day after so many times

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<v Speaker 1>the Gospel penetrated him. It just radically transformed him, and

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<v Speaker 1>he walks out of the bathroom tears streaming on his face,

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<v Speaker 1>walked up to the altar, fell down in front of

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<v Speaker 1>the pastor and said, I'm in. He then gave his

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<v Speaker 1>life to Christ and he started going to church, and

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<v Speaker 1>then he became a pastor. And then he radically transformed

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<v Speaker 1>his family and turned himself into the police and said,

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<v Speaker 1>well this is before he became a pastor. Turned himself

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<v Speaker 1>into the police and said this is what I do.

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<v Speaker 1>And they said, we'll let you off if you rat

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<v Speaker 1>out all of your drugular buddies, and he said, I

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<v Speaker 1>can't do that because they'll kill my whole family. So

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<v Speaker 1>instead he opted to go to each of them and

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<v Speaker 1>ministered to them the Gospel. So he went to each

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<v Speaker 1>of the drug dealers and ministered and some of them

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<v Speaker 1>believed that's so cool and transformed. And then that then

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<v Speaker 1>led to his young kids growing up in the Word.

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<v Speaker 1>And then now Daniels the pastor himself. That's awesome. That's

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<v Speaker 1>the kind of stories that you that are undeniable, Aaron.

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<v Speaker 1>So just show up, no expectations, just show up with

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<v Speaker 1>your wife. Yeah, yeah, let's kid, let's take a break.

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<v Speaker 1>You're gonna love it. Back to the podcast, Aaron, we're

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<v Speaker 1>just talking about you, the guy that emailed last, and

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<v Speaker 1>we're talking about what it would mean to your wife

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<v Speaker 1>for you to go with her to church. And I'll

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<v Speaker 1>tell you this too, that statistics will say that if

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<v Speaker 1>you don't go, your kids won't go either. Yeah I can't. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's about the father. Statistics will show them a father

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<v Speaker 1>that does not go to church, the kids will not go,

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<v Speaker 1>regardless of the mother. Whatever that means. Yep. So Chad

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<v Speaker 1>has a podcast out that's it's not out now, but

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<v Speaker 1>it's out. By the time you hear this podcast, it

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<v Speaker 1>should be ready to take and read. Take and read

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<v Speaker 1>podcasts spelled out yep. And it's it's it's the next

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<v Speaker 1>level if you if you want to get deeper into

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<v Speaker 1>the word, it's the next level from this podcast to

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<v Speaker 1>go to and and just break down the Bible itself.

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<v Speaker 1>Inspired by Yeah, my time getting to be here with

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<v Speaker 1>Granger and and inspired by him as he and I

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<v Speaker 1>had tacos and and explored what what could it look

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<v Speaker 1>like for people that wanted to go a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>deeper into some of these topics, specifically around the Bible.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, we got after it. And uh, if you

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<v Speaker 1>tune in, my first guest is a really good guy,

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<v Speaker 1>one of my favorite guests, and yeah, you'll probably really

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<v Speaker 1>appreciate him if you tune in. All right, I think

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<v Speaker 1>that might be me. It is. This is an interesting question.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think I've seen anything like this. This is

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<v Speaker 1>If you have a question, email Grangersmith podcast at gmail

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<v Speaker 1>dot com. Subject line of this one is homesick says

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<v Speaker 1>hey granger thanks for your podcast. I've been listening for

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<v Speaker 1>a while and I really like your advice. So I

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<v Speaker 1>have a question of my own for you. I'm twenty

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<v Speaker 1>two years old. Recently moved to another state to do

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<v Speaker 1>a year and a half of voluntary service work and

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<v Speaker 1>I felt like this is what God wanted me to do.

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<v Speaker 1>But the last few weeks I felt really overwhelming with

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<v Speaker 1>this new job and everything, and I miss home and

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<v Speaker 1>my family a lot. I work with one other guide

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<v Speaker 1>and we do a lot of driving, and it could

0:26:46.200 --> 0:26:51.320
<v Speaker 1>be very lonely. So my question is how much is homesickness? Okay?

0:26:52.160 --> 0:26:55.360
<v Speaker 1>And how much should I just not let myself think

0:26:55.359 --> 0:26:58.760
<v Speaker 1>about it? And how can I overcome homesickness and believe

0:26:58.800 --> 0:27:02.639
<v Speaker 1>in myself that I am enough on my own. Thanks

0:27:02.640 --> 0:27:08.680
<v Speaker 1>in advance, Andrew. And it's interesting because you you ended

0:27:08.680 --> 0:27:10.600
<v Speaker 1>it almost like you thought I was going to tell

0:27:10.600 --> 0:27:14.520
<v Speaker 1>you that you're enough on your own, like anticipating that

0:27:14.960 --> 0:27:18.560
<v Speaker 1>I would say something like that. But man, homesickness is

0:27:18.600 --> 0:27:21.200
<v Speaker 1>a real thing and I feel it. I feel it

0:27:21.200 --> 0:27:25.600
<v Speaker 1>because I travel for my work. And the first thing

0:27:25.640 --> 0:27:28.720
<v Speaker 1>that comes to my mind, Andrew, is just balance. You

0:27:29.200 --> 0:27:32.240
<v Speaker 1>have to be able to balance your home life with

0:27:32.400 --> 0:27:37.040
<v Speaker 1>your work life. And some people don't have that kind

0:27:37.040 --> 0:27:41.000
<v Speaker 1>of luxury, like a deployment soldier in the Armies out

0:27:41.000 --> 0:27:46.800
<v Speaker 1>for sixteen months on deployment doesn't have that choice. If

0:27:46.840 --> 0:27:50.920
<v Speaker 1>you do have a choice, then I would I would

0:27:51.640 --> 0:27:53.800
<v Speaker 1>lean into that balance as hard as you can and

0:27:54.440 --> 0:27:59.240
<v Speaker 1>really really dial in your time that you're present when

0:27:59.280 --> 0:28:02.560
<v Speaker 1>you are home as opposed to going home, and that's

0:28:02.600 --> 0:28:03.960
<v Speaker 1>the time you get to just lay on the couch

0:28:03.960 --> 0:28:08.280
<v Speaker 1>and look at your phone, but instead just really really

0:28:08.400 --> 0:28:11.200
<v Speaker 1>be as present as you can. I know you're twenty two.

0:28:11.880 --> 0:28:15.600
<v Speaker 1>I don't think you're married, which is good that makes

0:28:15.640 --> 0:28:18.680
<v Speaker 1>it worse. Homesickness gets a lot worse when you have kids.

0:28:21.080 --> 0:28:24.800
<v Speaker 1>Have you ever felt homesick? Yeah? So in my position

0:28:25.640 --> 0:28:29.680
<v Speaker 1>at the church, I get to lead out efforts and missions,

0:28:30.080 --> 0:28:33.040
<v Speaker 1>and so when we think about global or international missions,

0:28:33.040 --> 0:28:39.280
<v Speaker 1>I'll go and a trip will be ten fifteen days absence,

0:28:39.360 --> 0:28:42.520
<v Speaker 1>so about a half of a month. And so I've

0:28:42.560 --> 0:28:47.120
<v Speaker 1>definitely experienced it, and I think there are some things

0:28:47.120 --> 0:28:52.080
<v Speaker 1>that I've learned about that experience and just being in

0:28:52.160 --> 0:28:59.720
<v Speaker 1>seasons of life that feel like you're in a particular

0:28:59.760 --> 0:29:03.200
<v Speaker 1>place or of time where you can't wait to get

0:29:03.200 --> 0:29:05.960
<v Speaker 1>past it, but it's you're in this and this is

0:29:06.000 --> 0:29:11.160
<v Speaker 1>where you are, this is where God has you. And yeah,

0:29:11.240 --> 0:29:15.120
<v Speaker 1>so I think there's some things to think about. Like

0:29:15.200 --> 0:29:19.720
<v Speaker 1>I always identify the duration of the trip or the season,

0:29:20.360 --> 0:29:23.120
<v Speaker 1>and if I know there's there's a time stop, like

0:29:23.160 --> 0:29:26.240
<v Speaker 1>I know that it's gonna end at some point, that's

0:29:26.280 --> 0:29:28.920
<v Speaker 1>different than if I don't know when it's gonna end totally.

0:29:29.360 --> 0:29:33.560
<v Speaker 1>And it sounds like he does. He has a dedicated time.

0:29:33.600 --> 0:29:34.880
<v Speaker 1>He said a year and a half. He's doing this

0:29:35.000 --> 0:29:37.880
<v Speaker 1>volunteer service, he's working, he's doing this particular thing, and

0:29:37.880 --> 0:29:41.000
<v Speaker 1>there's an end date. So there's something to that that

0:29:41.080 --> 0:29:45.000
<v Speaker 1>I think is helpful. And the next question we would

0:29:45.080 --> 0:29:50.480
<v Speaker 1>naturally ask is Okay, is it worth it? Yep? I

0:29:50.480 --> 0:29:52.320
<v Speaker 1>don't know if he's required to be on this thing,

0:29:54.000 --> 0:29:58.160
<v Speaker 1>but you're asking yourself is this worth it? And if

0:29:58.200 --> 0:30:01.960
<v Speaker 1>it is, then what do I hope to get out

0:30:01.960 --> 0:30:04.520
<v Speaker 1>of this? Like what's the value? What's the worth of this?

0:30:06.080 --> 0:30:09.320
<v Speaker 1>And how might I get the most out of this experience?

0:30:09.360 --> 0:30:12.040
<v Speaker 1>So I mean, like so many of the questions that

0:30:12.080 --> 0:30:16.000
<v Speaker 1>you get, it's like I have more questions for this individual, like, Okay,

0:30:16.000 --> 0:30:18.640
<v Speaker 1>what is this? Why did you decide to do it?

0:30:19.080 --> 0:30:20.920
<v Speaker 1>In your decision to do it, have you started to

0:30:20.960 --> 0:30:23.600
<v Speaker 1>second guess that decision what you thought it was going

0:30:23.680 --> 0:30:26.440
<v Speaker 1>to be. Is there more that this could do in

0:30:26.480 --> 0:30:29.720
<v Speaker 1>your life than you anticipated? Are there ways in which

0:30:29.760 --> 0:30:34.360
<v Speaker 1>pining for home right now in this homesickness is diminishing

0:30:34.720 --> 0:30:37.080
<v Speaker 1>the value of what you could get out of this time?

0:30:37.200 --> 0:30:40.520
<v Speaker 1>And so I just have more questions than I have answers,

0:30:40.520 --> 0:30:42.880
<v Speaker 1>I think. So we'll just treat it like this is

0:30:43.000 --> 0:30:45.200
<v Speaker 1>just he's out on work and he has to do

0:30:45.240 --> 0:30:48.600
<v Speaker 1>it and he's stuck to it. So Andrew, I'll walk

0:30:48.640 --> 0:30:50.200
<v Speaker 1>through a couple of things that I do in my

0:30:50.280 --> 0:30:56.960
<v Speaker 1>life when I experience homesickness. One thing is FaceTime. FaceTime

0:30:57.000 --> 0:31:00.960
<v Speaker 1>is amazing. FaceTime is something that we didn't have six, seven, eight,

0:31:01.000 --> 0:31:05.000
<v Speaker 1>ten years ago where you could save your mom. So

0:31:05.080 --> 0:31:07.040
<v Speaker 1>you're thinking about your mom. I'm just throwing that out there.

0:31:07.640 --> 0:31:10.680
<v Speaker 1>I say, hey, Mom, can I FaceTime you at ten

0:31:10.720 --> 0:31:14.080
<v Speaker 1>am every day for a couple of minutes? That would

0:31:14.080 --> 0:31:17.160
<v Speaker 1>make me feel good? And this buddy that you're driving

0:31:17.200 --> 0:31:20.440
<v Speaker 1>with tell him that, say, manam I know it sounds weird,

0:31:20.440 --> 0:31:23.120
<v Speaker 1>but I get a little homesick and he might look

0:31:23.120 --> 0:31:25.440
<v Speaker 1>at you and go me too. He'd be weird if

0:31:25.440 --> 0:31:27.520
<v Speaker 1>you didn't. If you guys are on the same mission

0:31:27.520 --> 0:31:30.840
<v Speaker 1>together something. Here's a couple other things that important to me.

0:31:31.680 --> 0:31:36.400
<v Speaker 1>Maintaining a schedule is important. A routine is important even

0:31:36.440 --> 0:31:41.040
<v Speaker 1>when you're gone. Maintaining even if it's broken. Just knowing

0:31:41.080 --> 0:31:43.480
<v Speaker 1>your schedule, knowing that I'm gonna eat at this time,

0:31:43.920 --> 0:31:45.560
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna go to sleep at this time, I wake

0:31:45.640 --> 0:31:48.120
<v Speaker 1>up at this time, We're gonna drive this many miles today.

0:31:48.960 --> 0:31:53.360
<v Speaker 1>The unknown makes homesickness worse, and so it's like I

0:31:53.360 --> 0:31:55.800
<v Speaker 1>don't know how much farther we're gonna drive. I don't

0:31:55.800 --> 0:31:57.560
<v Speaker 1>know how much sleep I'm gonna get tonight. I don't

0:31:57.560 --> 0:32:00.200
<v Speaker 1>know if I'm gonna where I'm gonna eat lunch. Not

0:32:00.360 --> 0:32:03.440
<v Speaker 1>knowing those things adds to the anxiety of it. So

0:32:03.520 --> 0:32:06.880
<v Speaker 1>then along the same lines, if you could add a

0:32:07.760 --> 0:32:11.800
<v Speaker 1>gem stop or some kind of exercise into your daily routine,

0:32:12.800 --> 0:32:15.320
<v Speaker 1>it will drastically help you. It man, it helps me.

0:32:15.400 --> 0:32:18.320
<v Speaker 1>I work out every morning on the road. We either

0:32:18.360 --> 0:32:21.800
<v Speaker 1>find a gym, or we'll work out outside, or we'll

0:32:22.320 --> 0:32:24.800
<v Speaker 1>do some kind of cardio outside. But some kind of

0:32:24.800 --> 0:32:28.000
<v Speaker 1>physical activity every morning, every single morning. I'll do that.

0:32:28.800 --> 0:32:31.400
<v Speaker 1>And if I'm feeling a little grumpy or a little homesick,

0:32:32.400 --> 0:32:34.680
<v Speaker 1>forty five minutes of getting the blood flowing and I'll

0:32:34.680 --> 0:32:37.840
<v Speaker 1>feel great. I feel great. And then along the same

0:32:37.960 --> 0:32:41.960
<v Speaker 1>those same lines, trying to eat healthy because you have

0:32:42.000 --> 0:32:45.520
<v Speaker 1>a tendency to get homesick or depressed and eat junk

0:32:46.200 --> 0:32:50.520
<v Speaker 1>because it's convenient. Maybe it's comfort comfort, Yeah, gas stations,

0:32:50.840 --> 0:32:53.400
<v Speaker 1>been on the road, you're stopping. I'm just gonna grab

0:32:53.400 --> 0:32:56.400
<v Speaker 1>these Doritos in a Snickers bar and a coke. I

0:32:56.520 --> 0:32:58.760
<v Speaker 1>just don't feel like I don't feel like eat anything

0:32:58.960 --> 0:33:01.760
<v Speaker 1>other than this. It's and it's just a never ending

0:33:01.800 --> 0:33:04.280
<v Speaker 1>cycle because then you feel worse and you crash because

0:33:04.320 --> 0:33:08.200
<v Speaker 1>of that sugar. It and it just perpetuates the problem.

0:33:08.320 --> 0:33:12.160
<v Speaker 1>So FaceTime your mama at a certain time. That helps

0:33:12.200 --> 0:33:15.560
<v Speaker 1>instead of just sporadically, just say hey tomorrow at ten am,

0:33:16.680 --> 0:33:19.600
<v Speaker 1>knowing your schedule of your day when you go to bed,

0:33:20.160 --> 0:33:23.760
<v Speaker 1>know your schedule tomorrow. What do I have tomorrow? Okay, tomorrow,

0:33:24.160 --> 0:33:27.760
<v Speaker 1>we drive three hundred miles. I have two stops. I'm

0:33:27.760 --> 0:33:30.960
<v Speaker 1>gonna eat in this town and I already looked it

0:33:31.040 --> 0:33:33.160
<v Speaker 1>up and there's a diner I'm gonna eat there. We'renna

0:33:33.160 --> 0:33:35.959
<v Speaker 1>do that twelve thirty. Then I'm gonna have dinner. I'm

0:33:35.960 --> 0:33:38.080
<v Speaker 1>gonna try to do as healthy as I can, and

0:33:38.120 --> 0:33:40.200
<v Speaker 1>it's gonna be in this town. And then I'm gonna

0:33:40.240 --> 0:33:44.520
<v Speaker 1>be in bed by ten and then lights out at

0:33:44.560 --> 0:33:47.840
<v Speaker 1>ten thirty. Cool. And then there's there's a there's a

0:33:47.880 --> 0:33:49.920
<v Speaker 1>comfort that comes with that, like I know what I'm

0:33:49.960 --> 0:33:54.479
<v Speaker 1>doing tomorrow and just stick to those kind of things.

0:33:54.720 --> 0:33:58.080
<v Speaker 1>And then I think, to Chad's point, count down the days.

0:33:59.000 --> 0:34:03.200
<v Speaker 1>I've got seven more days, six more days. And then

0:34:03.480 --> 0:34:05.600
<v Speaker 1>you know, I keep a weather app on my phone

0:34:05.640 --> 0:34:08.360
<v Speaker 1>my iPhone. I'll keep the weather in all the cities

0:34:08.360 --> 0:34:10.799
<v Speaker 1>that we're going to, and every time we get to

0:34:10.840 --> 0:34:13.920
<v Speaker 1>a city, I delete it off the weather app. So

0:34:13.920 --> 0:34:15.440
<v Speaker 1>that's kind of a way to count down. I could

0:34:15.480 --> 0:34:19.839
<v Speaker 1>scroll through the city the checklist. So Andrew, what your

0:34:19.880 --> 0:34:23.120
<v Speaker 1>feelings real? I'm gonna I think you might have wanted

0:34:23.120 --> 0:34:26.839
<v Speaker 1>me to say, get over it, stop thinking about it.

0:34:26.960 --> 0:34:28.879
<v Speaker 1>You're fine on your own. I'm not gonna say that.

0:34:29.239 --> 0:34:31.720
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna say it's a real thing because as humans

0:34:31.719 --> 0:34:36.080
<v Speaker 1>were built for community. We're built for family and to

0:34:36.080 --> 0:34:38.719
<v Speaker 1>be together and to be on a routine. We're not

0:34:38.840 --> 0:34:42.200
<v Speaker 1>built to separate and go. We can and we're good

0:34:42.280 --> 0:34:45.680
<v Speaker 1>at it, and we should. You need to to grow

0:34:45.719 --> 0:34:48.319
<v Speaker 1>in life, but you need to understand it when you

0:34:48.360 --> 0:34:52.840
<v Speaker 1>don't feel comfortable, why and where that's coming from? Yeah, buddy,

0:34:52.960 --> 0:34:57.080
<v Speaker 1>good question, man, I was good. Where should we go now?

0:35:00.400 --> 0:35:03.880
<v Speaker 1>What about budgeting? How about budgeting? That's all great? Another

0:35:03.960 --> 0:35:06.600
<v Speaker 1>off the wall. It says, Hey, Granger and guest. My

0:35:06.719 --> 0:35:10.480
<v Speaker 1>name is Kaylee. I'm twenty six years old from Magnolia, Texas.

0:35:11.360 --> 0:35:14.000
<v Speaker 1>I'm a Texas A and M class of twenty seventeen.

0:35:14.920 --> 0:35:17.879
<v Speaker 1>And was she supposed to say something after that. Okay, yeah,

0:35:17.880 --> 0:35:20.160
<v Speaker 1>I knew you guys haveniced this. I've got my parents

0:35:20.200 --> 0:35:22.000
<v Speaker 1>hoked on the Smiths and so now we watch together.

0:35:22.280 --> 0:35:25.239
<v Speaker 1>Thank you, Kayley. That's awesome. She also listened to the

0:35:25.280 --> 0:35:27.800
<v Speaker 1>podcast every Monday morning at her desk while she's prepping

0:35:27.800 --> 0:35:31.160
<v Speaker 1>for the week. My question is about budgeting. I moved

0:35:31.200 --> 0:35:33.799
<v Speaker 1>back in with my parents in May to save up

0:35:33.800 --> 0:35:36.319
<v Speaker 1>for a house. I've been doing pretty well saving so far,

0:35:36.840 --> 0:35:39.400
<v Speaker 1>but I feel like I could really maximize my savings

0:35:39.400 --> 0:35:42.120
<v Speaker 1>by creating a solid budget. Do you and your guest

0:35:42.200 --> 0:35:46.239
<v Speaker 1>have any strategies for budgeting programs to use or apps?

0:35:46.760 --> 0:35:52.920
<v Speaker 1>Thanks so much, Kaylee. Yes, what you got Within the

0:35:52.960 --> 0:35:56.800
<v Speaker 1>first couple months of marriage, we did the whole financial

0:35:56.840 --> 0:36:04.560
<v Speaker 1>piece thing and we saw transform just our peace of

0:36:04.640 --> 0:36:08.600
<v Speaker 1>mind as well as the actual amount of money we

0:36:08.600 --> 0:36:12.000
<v Speaker 1>were able to save. To have a plan for the

0:36:12.080 --> 0:36:15.640
<v Speaker 1>money before it arrived and telling it where to go

0:36:16.160 --> 0:36:19.520
<v Speaker 1>rather than wondering where it went, it was huge for us.

0:36:21.440 --> 0:36:25.880
<v Speaker 1>And when we are when we stick to the budget,

0:36:26.920 --> 0:36:31.640
<v Speaker 1>we definitely experience more joy and success in saving and

0:36:31.880 --> 0:36:35.360
<v Speaker 1>getting to prioritize money where we want it to go. So, yes,

0:36:36.160 --> 0:36:40.960
<v Speaker 1>we've used things from an envelope system to a simple spreadsheet,

0:36:41.080 --> 0:36:48.200
<v Speaker 1>to Mint to simplify, or there's all kinds of programs,

0:36:48.360 --> 0:36:51.120
<v Speaker 1>free apps where you can link to your bank account

0:36:51.200 --> 0:36:53.840
<v Speaker 1>and as you spend money, you can go through and

0:36:53.880 --> 0:36:56.440
<v Speaker 1>assign this is it was for clothing, it was for food,

0:36:56.560 --> 0:36:59.440
<v Speaker 1>and it can track all that so you can just

0:37:00.239 --> 0:37:02.759
<v Speaker 1>every week, every day, every month, you can see if

0:37:02.760 --> 0:37:07.200
<v Speaker 1>you're sticking within those categories you've preset. But I think

0:37:07.200 --> 0:37:10.600
<v Speaker 1>it's a good idea. So you're talking about Dave Ramsey, Yes, right, yeah,

0:37:10.640 --> 0:37:13.200
<v Speaker 1>so that's the same place I would go, Kaylee. Is

0:37:14.440 --> 0:37:18.920
<v Speaker 1>Dave Ramsey probably dot com, I don't know, the Financialpeace

0:37:18.920 --> 0:37:22.279
<v Speaker 1>dot com, something like that. Just just google Dave Dave

0:37:22.400 --> 0:37:27.480
<v Speaker 1>Ramsey and he is really the go to for for

0:37:27.600 --> 0:37:31.239
<v Speaker 1>your question. And you might have already heard of him

0:37:31.400 --> 0:37:36.520
<v Speaker 1>or from him, but he has a massive platform, many

0:37:36.560 --> 0:37:40.319
<v Speaker 1>books and and very detailed step by step process that

0:37:40.400 --> 0:37:42.359
<v Speaker 1>chat's talking about. Amber and I did the same thing

0:37:43.040 --> 0:37:46.360
<v Speaker 1>and it's called baby steps or something. Ye, baby steps

0:37:46.440 --> 0:37:50.360
<v Speaker 1>and emergency fund and you kind of accumulate there's things

0:37:50.400 --> 0:37:53.040
<v Speaker 1>that you kind of prioritize and do in a certain

0:37:53.160 --> 0:37:57.759
<v Speaker 1>order that then helps you build and protect your your

0:37:57.760 --> 0:38:00.560
<v Speaker 1>budget and your wealth. And the good news is you're

0:38:00.600 --> 0:38:03.759
<v Speaker 1>twenty six and you're single, and you're already thinking about

0:38:03.760 --> 0:38:07.440
<v Speaker 1>this as opposed to forty five and you're in tremendous

0:38:07.480 --> 0:38:10.920
<v Speaker 1>debt and you you're in trouble. You know a lot

0:38:10.920 --> 0:38:13.279
<v Speaker 1>of people will go there from that too, So it's

0:38:13.320 --> 0:38:16.480
<v Speaker 1>great that you're starting from scratch. Maybe you have some

0:38:16.480 --> 0:38:18.880
<v Speaker 1>school debt, maybe you have car debt. I don't know,

0:38:19.400 --> 0:38:23.359
<v Speaker 1>but Dave Ramsey, no matter what stage you're in, these

0:38:23.400 --> 0:38:25.839
<v Speaker 1>baby steps at the beginning, will just go Okay, here's

0:38:25.920 --> 0:38:28.880
<v Speaker 1>here's the deal. We're going to start with the highest

0:38:28.920 --> 0:38:32.080
<v Speaker 1>interest credit card, and we're going to attack it, and

0:38:32.080 --> 0:38:34.759
<v Speaker 1>we're gonna pay the minimum on the lowest interest credit card.

0:38:34.800 --> 0:38:36.960
<v Speaker 1>What does he call it? Like the snowball now the

0:38:38.360 --> 0:38:40.040
<v Speaker 1>it's been a while since I've seen it. Oh, he

0:38:40.160 --> 0:38:44.719
<v Speaker 1>calls it going gazelle intense. Okay, yes, I think that's

0:38:44.760 --> 0:38:47.759
<v Speaker 1>the first case. Yeah, And you you are able to

0:38:47.880 --> 0:38:51.360
<v Speaker 1>identify your priorities, and so you attack debt and you

0:38:51.400 --> 0:38:53.759
<v Speaker 1>say no to other things, and for a period of

0:38:53.800 --> 0:38:56.959
<v Speaker 1>time you're just just going after that thing and paying

0:38:57.040 --> 0:39:00.160
<v Speaker 1>it off, and you're going gazelle intent. Same no to

0:39:00.200 --> 0:39:02.160
<v Speaker 1>some of the frills. Of life for a little while.

0:39:02.760 --> 0:39:05.799
<v Speaker 1>And I think he says, what's his phrase, live like

0:39:05.920 --> 0:39:08.960
<v Speaker 1>no one else now, so you can live like no

0:39:09.040 --> 0:39:12.120
<v Speaker 1>one else later, Yeah, or something that's awesome. All of

0:39:12.160 --> 0:39:14.920
<v Speaker 1>these things are copyrighted Dave Ramsey. Yeah, sorry, Dave, I

0:39:15.200 --> 0:39:19.000
<v Speaker 1>take no credit. He has so many YouTube videos and

0:39:19.120 --> 0:39:22.680
<v Speaker 1>probably podcasts, and so yeah, I would lean lean, lean

0:39:22.760 --> 0:39:26.680
<v Speaker 1>in to Dave Ramsey and don't worry about what I

0:39:26.719 --> 0:39:29.560
<v Speaker 1>say because he's the authority, and Chad and I have

0:39:29.600 --> 0:39:31.759
<v Speaker 1>both done it so very fun. Yeah, good for you

0:39:31.800 --> 0:39:36.239
<v Speaker 1>for thinking about that. Kayley, Let's see so many, so

0:39:36.320 --> 0:39:40.680
<v Speaker 1>many questions, so many questions. How about struggle with marijuana? Okay,

0:39:40.760 --> 0:39:42.960
<v Speaker 1>next one on a queue. Hey and your My name

0:39:43.000 --> 0:39:46.680
<v Speaker 1>is Blake. I'm twenty four years old currently living in Reno, Nevada.

0:39:47.160 --> 0:39:49.800
<v Speaker 1>Turned twenty one a few years back and about the

0:39:49.840 --> 0:39:52.719
<v Speaker 1>same time I started smoking marijuana. Now a little backstory.

0:39:53.200 --> 0:39:56.840
<v Speaker 1>Growing up, I was deeply involved in church in Las Vegas,

0:39:57.400 --> 0:39:59.640
<v Speaker 1>and I was on fire for Jesus. Once I moved

0:39:59.680 --> 0:40:02.160
<v Speaker 1>to Reena for college, I got involved with the fraternity,

0:40:02.840 --> 0:40:04.919
<v Speaker 1>and to be honest, it really helped me find who

0:40:04.960 --> 0:40:09.160
<v Speaker 1>I was and some great lifelong friendships I found myself

0:40:09.200 --> 0:40:11.960
<v Speaker 1>distant from Christ as I was in attending church and

0:40:12.040 --> 0:40:14.120
<v Speaker 1>I was in a relationship that was not supportive of

0:40:14.160 --> 0:40:18.280
<v Speaker 1>my faith. Around my twenty first birthday, I started smoking

0:40:18.719 --> 0:40:21.000
<v Speaker 1>and I've been pretty much doing it every day since.

0:40:21.320 --> 0:40:24.400
<v Speaker 1>It has helped me with insomnia, depression, and some medical

0:40:24.480 --> 0:40:26.920
<v Speaker 1>issues I have. I have discussed it with my doctors.

0:40:27.320 --> 0:40:30.160
<v Speaker 1>In the last six months or so, I started attending

0:40:30.160 --> 0:40:33.239
<v Speaker 1>a church regularly, and I'm even a small group that

0:40:33.320 --> 0:40:35.239
<v Speaker 1>meets with people around my age when it's a week.

0:40:36.040 --> 0:40:39.040
<v Speaker 1>My issue is that I've come to is I'm trying

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<v Speaker 1>to stop smoking and even what the Bible says about

0:40:42.640 --> 0:40:44.880
<v Speaker 1>weed and addiction. So my question is, what does the

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<v Speaker 1>Bible say about weed? And do you have any advice

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<v Speaker 1>on ways to stop smoking? Help to catch a concert

0:40:51.640 --> 0:40:56.799
<v Speaker 1>when you're in reno? Yee blake, Okay, A lot, a

0:40:56.800 --> 0:41:02.439
<v Speaker 1>lot to unpack, a lot to unpack. So we didn't

0:41:02.440 --> 0:41:05.640
<v Speaker 1>we didn't first say me not, Chatty's a pastor. You

0:41:05.680 --> 0:41:09.600
<v Speaker 1>can't say this that that there are there are good

0:41:09.640 --> 0:41:16.200
<v Speaker 1>reasons from marijuana. There's medical reasons. For instance, if it's

0:41:17.360 --> 0:41:22.239
<v Speaker 1>crazy opioid from your doctor, or your doctor wants to

0:41:22.239 --> 0:41:25.080
<v Speaker 1>give you some kind of edible and it's doctor approved,

0:41:26.000 --> 0:41:28.719
<v Speaker 1>then okay, I can understand it. So you need to

0:41:28.760 --> 0:41:31.360
<v Speaker 1>ask yourself because you you identified a bunch of problems

0:41:31.360 --> 0:41:34.160
<v Speaker 1>that you're using it for. You need to really dial

0:41:34.200 --> 0:41:36.960
<v Speaker 1>in why are you using it? Because I don't think

0:41:36.960 --> 0:41:39.920
<v Speaker 1>it's any of those reasons right. Why are you using?

0:41:40.080 --> 0:41:43.239
<v Speaker 1>And then why do you want to stop? Because you're

0:41:43.320 --> 0:41:47.560
<v Speaker 1>not convinced the Bible says to stop? You're asking, does it?

0:41:47.560 --> 0:41:50.239
<v Speaker 1>It's interesting because the Bible says that the heart that

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<v Speaker 1>is the law will be written on our hearts, and

0:41:53.840 --> 0:41:58.120
<v Speaker 1>so our hearts know the law and will speak it

0:41:58.200 --> 0:42:02.799
<v Speaker 1>to us. It's actually it's a big testimony to the

0:42:02.800 --> 0:42:08.000
<v Speaker 1>truth of the Bible because from an atheistic perspective, we all,

0:42:08.239 --> 0:42:11.040
<v Speaker 1>as image bearers of God have this law written on

0:42:11.080 --> 0:42:15.240
<v Speaker 1>our hearts that speaks to us. That's hard to explain

0:42:15.320 --> 0:42:18.160
<v Speaker 1>where that would have come from. We know right from wrong,

0:42:18.239 --> 0:42:21.160
<v Speaker 1>and we know different scenarios. We know that the smoking

0:42:21.280 --> 0:42:24.600
<v Speaker 1>thing is probably not right and I should probably quit.

0:42:25.640 --> 0:42:29.120
<v Speaker 1>But then you know, we could justify it by insomnia, depression,

0:42:29.160 --> 0:42:33.000
<v Speaker 1>medical issues, doctor approved, but we know that's not why

0:42:33.080 --> 0:42:37.280
<v Speaker 1>he's emailing this podcast. Yeah, I mean, yeah, other people

0:42:37.360 --> 0:42:41.040
<v Speaker 1>describe it your moral compass, that there's something that we

0:42:41.200 --> 0:42:44.439
<v Speaker 1>have that says that I ought to do this and

0:42:44.760 --> 0:42:47.359
<v Speaker 1>I probably shouldn't do that, or we feel bad when

0:42:47.360 --> 0:42:52.439
<v Speaker 1>we do something. But back, so his question is one

0:42:52.480 --> 0:42:55.759
<v Speaker 1>of what does the Bible say about a weed? And

0:42:55.840 --> 0:42:58.040
<v Speaker 1>do you have any advice to stop smoking? So to

0:42:58.239 --> 0:43:01.920
<v Speaker 1>one's practical, one's more kind of philosophical theological, right, And

0:43:02.160 --> 0:43:04.000
<v Speaker 1>I want to say one more time, if anyone's listening

0:43:04.000 --> 0:43:09.359
<v Speaker 1>in Grandma is in stage three cancer and doctors saying hey,

0:43:09.360 --> 0:43:12.600
<v Speaker 1>some edibles will help you eat, I've heard of these stories. Right,

0:43:12.960 --> 0:43:15.239
<v Speaker 1>this is not what we're talking about. Yeah, I mean

0:43:15.360 --> 0:43:21.400
<v Speaker 1>not it right that we we can identify whatever whatever

0:43:21.520 --> 0:43:25.320
<v Speaker 1>substance it might be. There are there are ways in which,

0:43:26.600 --> 0:43:31.160
<v Speaker 1>like prescription medication is used to help and assist, and

0:43:31.200 --> 0:43:35.600
<v Speaker 1>there are ways that it is abused and it's very harmful. Well,

0:43:35.640 --> 0:43:40.800
<v Speaker 1>you could say the same about alcohol, regular tobacco. You

0:43:40.840 --> 0:43:45.920
<v Speaker 1>could say the same about McDonald's. Right, that the way

0:43:45.960 --> 0:43:51.600
<v Speaker 1>that our culture approaches food and processed food and stuff

0:43:51.600 --> 0:43:55.279
<v Speaker 1>that's just bad for you. The way that we use

0:43:55.320 --> 0:43:58.160
<v Speaker 1>that is harmful to our bodies. So that's a whole

0:43:58.320 --> 0:44:01.760
<v Speaker 1>another discussion. And chads a cancer survivor by the way, Yes,

0:44:02.280 --> 0:44:05.320
<v Speaker 1>And so there's a whole discussion to be had about

0:44:05.360 --> 0:44:08.560
<v Speaker 1>how does marijuana compare to other substances that people might

0:44:08.600 --> 0:44:13.560
<v Speaker 1>be addicted to or that might cause harm. But that's

0:44:13.600 --> 0:44:16.920
<v Speaker 1>not this that's not this discussion. I think what he's

0:44:16.960 --> 0:44:22.360
<v Speaker 1>asking what does the Bible say about whether it's substance

0:44:22.680 --> 0:44:29.359
<v Speaker 1>or maybe using products or ingesting things, or it could

0:44:29.360 --> 0:44:31.600
<v Speaker 1>even be in the realm of you know, the Bible

0:44:31.640 --> 0:44:35.560
<v Speaker 1>talks about meat, sacrifice to idols and refraining from it

0:44:35.640 --> 0:44:38.839
<v Speaker 1>because it might cost someone to stumble. Even though you're

0:44:38.880 --> 0:44:42.680
<v Speaker 1>free to partake, there is a reason to abstain from

0:44:42.680 --> 0:44:45.760
<v Speaker 1>it for the sake of another brother, or a weaker brother.

0:44:45.840 --> 0:44:48.160
<v Speaker 1>So there's a lot of avenues you could take to

0:44:48.200 --> 0:44:54.839
<v Speaker 1>say there's a certainly there's factors in your circumstance that

0:44:54.880 --> 0:44:58.160
<v Speaker 1>would have to be considered. But in general, there is

0:44:58.200 --> 0:45:01.560
<v Speaker 1>no passage of the Bible that says marijuana is a sin.

0:45:02.400 --> 0:45:05.439
<v Speaker 1>But it does speak to the way that we give

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<v Speaker 1>ourselves to things, the way that we allow substance to

0:45:08.400 --> 0:45:12.520
<v Speaker 1>influence us. It talks about that you do not be

0:45:12.640 --> 0:45:15.719
<v Speaker 1>drunk with wine, but be filled with the spirit. So

0:45:15.719 --> 0:45:19.799
<v Speaker 1>there are times in seasons where alcohol is acceptable in

0:45:19.840 --> 0:45:21.920
<v Speaker 1>the scriptures, and there's other times where it's like, man,

0:45:21.960 --> 0:45:26.120
<v Speaker 1>the abuse of that stuff is really unwise and unhealthy.

0:45:26.160 --> 0:45:30.040
<v Speaker 1>And so, just like any of these conversations, a substance

0:45:30.080 --> 0:45:34.040
<v Speaker 1>that impairs your judgment, a substance that causes you to

0:45:34.200 --> 0:45:37.239
<v Speaker 1>not be able to respond to the spirit or to

0:45:37.320 --> 0:45:41.200
<v Speaker 1>love others well because you have been impaired. Yep, that's

0:45:41.239 --> 0:45:43.600
<v Speaker 1>not what That's not God's design for us, that's not

0:45:43.680 --> 0:45:45.880
<v Speaker 1>his best for us. And so we don't have to

0:45:45.920 --> 0:45:50.920
<v Speaker 1>find a passage that says thou shalt not partake of marijuana,

0:45:51.520 --> 0:45:55.640
<v Speaker 1>because there's other principles that guide us to understand. Can

0:45:55.680 --> 0:45:58.359
<v Speaker 1>I be sensitive to God's leading in my life if

0:45:58.360 --> 0:46:02.200
<v Speaker 1>I'm impaired? Am I in a position where I can

0:46:02.360 --> 0:46:06.239
<v Speaker 1>fully and freely care for and serve another person? Or

0:46:06.280 --> 0:46:09.720
<v Speaker 1>am I limited because I'm impaired? Yeah, there are things

0:46:09.760 --> 0:46:14.239
<v Speaker 1>that we have to consider. Yeah, is your motivation behind it?

0:46:14.800 --> 0:46:18.759
<v Speaker 1>Because it's changing your mind, are your perception? Are your

0:46:19.040 --> 0:46:22.600
<v Speaker 1>You're it's numbing you to some other kind of pain

0:46:23.280 --> 0:46:27.839
<v Speaker 1>that that's inside. Then you're you're taking away from what

0:46:28.000 --> 0:46:31.440
<v Speaker 1>Christ can do for you, because He could accomplish all

0:46:31.480 --> 0:46:34.160
<v Speaker 1>those things and in order for that to happen, we

0:46:34.200 --> 0:46:37.480
<v Speaker 1>need to have a clear mind. The Bible's talk so

0:46:37.640 --> 0:46:41.480
<v Speaker 1>many times about about the mind, the mind, the mind,

0:46:42.000 --> 0:46:46.719
<v Speaker 1>the controlling your mind. Not your feelings, are your your heart,

0:46:46.800 --> 0:46:50.319
<v Speaker 1>are your gut, but your mind. And so if you're

0:46:50.320 --> 0:46:53.040
<v Speaker 1>transforming your mind with any kind of substance for any

0:46:53.120 --> 0:46:57.080
<v Speaker 1>kind of reason, then everything Chad said, then you're you're

0:46:57.520 --> 0:47:02.000
<v Speaker 1>you're hindering your yourself from the spirit speaking to you

0:47:02.080 --> 0:47:04.800
<v Speaker 1>in that way. So there's a couple of things. But

0:47:04.840 --> 0:47:08.359
<v Speaker 1>I would just I would say, why are you trying

0:47:08.400 --> 0:47:13.440
<v Speaker 1>to numb yourself? Is it? Do you like yourself better

0:47:13.600 --> 0:47:18.480
<v Speaker 1>when you're you're under the influence problem or are you

0:47:18.719 --> 0:47:21.880
<v Speaker 1>able to relax more when you're under the influence problem

0:47:22.680 --> 0:47:25.759
<v Speaker 1>because you're you're taking away from the fact that there's

0:47:25.920 --> 0:47:29.920
<v Speaker 1>there's there's a better solution to all of this. And

0:47:29.920 --> 0:47:32.080
<v Speaker 1>and that's why I built this. I wanted to say that,

0:47:32.280 --> 0:47:33.719
<v Speaker 1>and that's why I built the whole thing up with.

0:47:34.640 --> 0:47:37.480
<v Speaker 1>If you need to be impaired for a medical reason,

0:47:37.640 --> 0:47:41.040
<v Speaker 1>that's different. But if it's just like you know what, man,

0:47:41.120 --> 0:47:45.879
<v Speaker 1>I don't really like myself the way I am sober, Yeah,

0:47:46.040 --> 0:47:49.799
<v Speaker 1>I like myself better when I'm numb to the problems,

0:47:50.280 --> 0:47:53.000
<v Speaker 1>and then you can't identify what the problems are, and

0:47:53.040 --> 0:47:56.799
<v Speaker 1>it's never ending numbness that you keep searching for, but

0:47:56.840 --> 0:48:00.319
<v Speaker 1>you're never fixing the problem. You're just bondoing the side

0:48:00.320 --> 0:48:04.759
<v Speaker 1>of the car without getting the new door. Yeah, or

0:48:04.880 --> 0:48:08.480
<v Speaker 1>I mean similar to that, I like myself better, or

0:48:09.719 --> 0:48:13.880
<v Speaker 1>I just I like to escape from the world or

0:48:14.760 --> 0:48:18.360
<v Speaker 1>my problems or my situation, and I just I just

0:48:18.400 --> 0:48:20.640
<v Speaker 1>want to break from it for just a little bit.

0:48:21.080 --> 0:48:23.120
<v Speaker 1>And then when it wears off, Man, you're right back

0:48:23.160 --> 0:48:25.839
<v Speaker 1>in that spot and Leven's changed, and it may even

0:48:25.840 --> 0:48:30.360
<v Speaker 1>be worse because you've neglected to engage with in a

0:48:30.360 --> 0:48:33.480
<v Speaker 1>healthy way the things in your world. But Yeah, if

0:48:33.520 --> 0:48:35.880
<v Speaker 1>it's I mean, I really like what you said, Granger.

0:48:36.400 --> 0:48:38.640
<v Speaker 1>If it's this, then that's a problem. If it's this,

0:48:38.840 --> 0:48:41.319
<v Speaker 1>then it's I mean, like going through the checklist of

0:48:41.400 --> 0:48:44.240
<v Speaker 1>what's your motivation. And it sounds like he wants to stop,

0:48:45.040 --> 0:48:48.040
<v Speaker 1>and he wants some practical advice on how to stop.

0:48:48.600 --> 0:48:54.200
<v Speaker 1>I've I've never had to deal with substance abuse and

0:48:54.360 --> 0:48:58.640
<v Speaker 1>trying to figure out how to stop. My My biological

0:48:58.640 --> 0:49:04.880
<v Speaker 1>father was addicted to substance and didn't really ever successfully stop.

0:49:05.000 --> 0:49:09.000
<v Speaker 1>So I don't have good advice for that because that's

0:49:09.000 --> 0:49:12.680
<v Speaker 1>not something I've experienced or witnessed. Do you have any

0:49:12.800 --> 0:49:15.279
<v Speaker 1>I would say, first and foremost, get away from the

0:49:15.320 --> 0:49:18.320
<v Speaker 1>other guys that are doing it. Yeah, So your community,

0:49:18.320 --> 0:49:22.160
<v Speaker 1>the people you disassociate with, the people you're around, and

0:49:25.360 --> 0:49:28.240
<v Speaker 1>that you are who your five people, your five closest

0:49:28.239 --> 0:49:30.839
<v Speaker 1>people around you are, That's who you are. We could

0:49:31.360 --> 0:49:35.520
<v Speaker 1>you could substitute that marijuana for girlfriend. How do I

0:49:35.600 --> 0:49:38.480
<v Speaker 1>quit this girlfriend? She's not good for me. You could

0:49:38.480 --> 0:49:42.000
<v Speaker 1>substitute it with almost anything, my job, my career, it's

0:49:42.040 --> 0:49:44.080
<v Speaker 1>not good for me. How do I quit it? I'm

0:49:44.120 --> 0:49:49.440
<v Speaker 1>making good money. So this situation is it's not just marijuana.

0:49:50.280 --> 0:49:54.040
<v Speaker 1>So I would first and foremost get away from these

0:49:54.040 --> 0:49:56.040
<v Speaker 1>guys that are doing it, or just tell them straight up, guys,

0:49:56.080 --> 0:49:58.759
<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to stay away from this. So will you

0:49:58.760 --> 0:50:01.120
<v Speaker 1>please not do it in front of me? Oh come on, man,

0:50:01.600 --> 0:50:06.080
<v Speaker 1>we've changed, Yeah, I've changed. Yeah, So cut off your

0:50:06.680 --> 0:50:10.080
<v Speaker 1>Yeah that the friendships are the place where that is

0:50:10.840 --> 0:50:14.000
<v Speaker 1>natural and normative. Also cut off access if you can

0:50:14.239 --> 0:50:19.440
<v Speaker 1>like how you're getting it. Yeah, we would say that

0:50:19.480 --> 0:50:23.520
<v Speaker 1>with other avenues of sin or temptation. We would say,

0:50:23.600 --> 0:50:25.720
<v Speaker 1>you need to cut off access, you need to stop

0:50:26.480 --> 0:50:30.759
<v Speaker 1>hanging around people that are doing it. And the reality

0:50:30.840 --> 0:50:33.920
<v Speaker 1>is it needs to be it's it's likely to be

0:50:34.000 --> 0:50:37.880
<v Speaker 1>replaced by something else. Yeah, tell tell your small group.

0:50:38.360 --> 0:50:40.319
<v Speaker 1>He's in a small group. Yeah, I would say, guys,

0:50:40.320 --> 0:50:43.440
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna tell you something. I'm smoking weed. Hey, it's

0:50:43.480 --> 0:50:46.000
<v Speaker 1>not that it's it's it's not like you're coming out

0:50:46.040 --> 0:50:47.440
<v Speaker 1>and saying, hey, guys, I'm gonna tell you I'm a

0:50:47.480 --> 0:50:50.839
<v Speaker 1>serial killer. You're gonna say I'm smoking weed, and they're

0:50:50.840 --> 0:50:52.439
<v Speaker 1>going to go, how can we help you? I mean,

0:50:53.080 --> 0:50:56.400
<v Speaker 1>you're not too far lost here, man, bring it up

0:50:56.400 --> 0:50:58.640
<v Speaker 1>to your small group. And so I'm trying to quit.

0:50:59.120 --> 0:51:00.799
<v Speaker 1>I don't want to do this. I don't like what

0:51:00.800 --> 0:51:03.239
<v Speaker 1>it's making me become. Can you help me with this?

0:51:03.560 --> 0:51:05.719
<v Speaker 1>And that's what a small group is for. Yeah, I

0:51:05.719 --> 0:51:08.439
<v Speaker 1>think you should ask the same question of them. Yeah,

0:51:08.520 --> 0:51:11.440
<v Speaker 1>you guys have some advice. I need to, yes, stop

0:51:11.520 --> 0:51:15.520
<v Speaker 1>doing this and to figure out a better way and

0:51:15.600 --> 0:51:18.959
<v Speaker 1>get some accountability and some support. And then we'll say

0:51:18.960 --> 0:51:20.520
<v Speaker 1>this to and then this is the last thing we'll

0:51:20.520 --> 0:51:23.960
<v Speaker 1>say on this podcast. Actually, but Chad and I would

0:51:24.000 --> 0:51:27.880
<v Speaker 1>both agree that this is not a this is not

0:51:27.920 --> 0:51:31.120
<v Speaker 1>a judgment thing, and it's important this day and age

0:51:31.120 --> 0:51:35.960
<v Speaker 1>because everyone's so offended. But leaning into Christ as hard

0:51:36.000 --> 0:51:38.719
<v Speaker 1>and as fast as you can, with all of your

0:51:38.719 --> 0:51:41.319
<v Speaker 1>burdens and with all of your problems and all your

0:51:41.440 --> 0:51:44.520
<v Speaker 1>vices and all of your addictions and all of all

0:51:44.560 --> 0:51:48.719
<v Speaker 1>of your tendencies, take it all to him. This is Christianity.

0:51:48.800 --> 0:51:51.120
<v Speaker 1>Is not about drop it all and then you're worthy

0:51:51.160 --> 0:51:53.959
<v Speaker 1>to go to church and sit before Christ. Christ says,

0:51:54.080 --> 0:51:57.000
<v Speaker 1>bring it all to me. Give all of it to me,

0:51:57.280 --> 0:51:59.840
<v Speaker 1>and I will take it and I will make you clean.

0:52:00.960 --> 0:52:04.080
<v Speaker 1>Leaning into Him. It's not about it's not about how

0:52:04.080 --> 0:52:06.279
<v Speaker 1>could I work to shave all this often and to

0:52:06.320 --> 0:52:09.560
<v Speaker 1>be better for myself? Just go to him. Just go Okay, God,

0:52:09.560 --> 0:52:12.400
<v Speaker 1>I'm pregnant, I'm not perfect, I got so many problems.

0:52:12.760 --> 0:52:15.839
<v Speaker 1>But I'm leaning into you and you will be amazed

0:52:16.520 --> 0:52:20.720
<v Speaker 1>at what He can do to you in that aspect. Amen.

0:52:21.880 --> 0:52:24.920
<v Speaker 1>Thank you guys. That's all we got today. I always

0:52:24.920 --> 0:52:28.719
<v Speaker 1>appreciate you, brother, Amen taking me podcast, taking repodcast check

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