Speaker 1: Swifties. We need your help.
Speaker 2: I am very concerned about an outfit because where we're
Speaker 2: going to be is probably going to be warm. It's
Speaker 2: this summer, right, What are we wearing? Calm Down with
Speaker 2: Erin and Carissa is a production of iHeartRadio.
Speaker 1: Hello, Hello, Thanks for coming to Netflix.
Speaker 2: Everybody. It was purely a joy. Welcome to the Calm
Speaker 2: Down Podcast. This is our first episode since we were
Speaker 2: lucky enough to be a part of Netflix. Is a
Speaker 2: joke for those of you that attended the Hollywood Improv
Speaker 2: and use your hard earned money.
Speaker 1: To buy a ticket. We cannot thank you enough.
Speaker 2: Erin and I, you know, we're of what are we
Speaker 2: a weakish removed ten days removed or something like that,
Speaker 2: And we just hope you guys know how much we
Speaker 2: appreciate that it takes time and energy and effort to
Speaker 2: go and support that. And I really hope you guys
Speaker 2: know from the bottom of my heart. I know Erin's
Speaker 2: as well, that we appreciate that. I had so much fun,
Speaker 2: and I hope we get to do it. And it
Speaker 2: wasn't something that we even like had planned on doing,
Speaker 2: but when the opportunity presented itself, we're like, Yeah, let's
Speaker 2: do it. It was so fun and now I want to
Speaker 2: keep doing it. So I know we spoke to some
Speaker 2: of you. I wish we got to spend more time
Speaker 2: with you guys, but we got to think of some
Speaker 2: fun cities to.
Speaker 1: Go to it because I had a blast.
Speaker 2: We do and yeah, we were so grateful. I think
Speaker 2: it really hit me. I walked in before you did,
Speaker 2: and we had like a really fun, cool little green
Speaker 2: room upstairs where everybody came and there were people like
Speaker 2: waiting by the stairs, and as we walked up, it was.
Speaker 1: Like, oh my god, oh my god. It was really fun.
Speaker 2: But the person that got the biggest kick out of
Speaker 2: the oh my gods and is that her was.
Speaker 1: Jared Stole and Stephen Canderry.
Speaker 2: And when Jared walked into the green room after me,
Speaker 2: he goes, wow, babe, you got some fans here. I
Speaker 2: guess what some of these people are kingspans too. Well,
Speaker 2: they ended up being fans of the material that we
Speaker 2: provide on. Steve and Jared and I got to tell
Speaker 2: you our two husbands loved it, absolutely loved it. Steve
Speaker 2: stayed up far past his bedtime only to keep saying,
Speaker 2: I gotta tell you people are big fans, big fans
Speaker 2: of the Calm Down podcast, and I have some fans.
Speaker 2: He was like so excited that people like, you know,
Speaker 2: these boys are so funny.
Speaker 1: These men, they're not boys, they're yeah.
Speaker 2: Are like okay, like we don't always need to be
Speaker 2: talked about, we don't always need to be whatever. But
Speaker 2: Jarrett right, sorry laugh, Yeah, Jared Aaron was taking like
Speaker 2: a selfie video of us, like in the green room area,
Speaker 2: and Jared's like, okay, babe, don't talk about me the
Speaker 2: whole time. She's like, no, I'm going to you make
Speaker 2: good material and he's like fuck, but no. They were
Speaker 2: great and they were so cute. It also like encompasses
Speaker 2: who they are as people that they're so supportive. But
Speaker 2: I think it's just funny to see, you know, because
Speaker 2: what I just had to kick Steve out of the
Speaker 2: house because he went to the gym and I record
Speaker 2: this for an hour and he has to leave and
Speaker 2: he doesn't like really listen. I'm sure he doesn't go
Speaker 2: back and either because he's probably like, what is she
Speaker 2: bitching about now? But I think it's sweet of them
Speaker 2: that they were so supportive because we do a lot
Speaker 2: of different things.
Speaker 1: This is the thing Steve loves the most that I do.
Speaker 2: I could have nineteen more jobs and he's like big
Speaker 2: fan of the Calm Down podcast. So thanks, babe, love you.
Speaker 2: They were I totally lost my train of thought. I
Speaker 2: absolutely forgot what I was just gonna say. But oh
Speaker 2: that I was like laughing to you. After we got home,
Speaker 2: Chris as Steve, Jarret and I we all got home
Speaker 2: and that we started voice noting each other about the night,
Speaker 2: which was so stupid. We had just spent how many
Speaker 2: hours together, went to a bar together, and then started
Speaker 2: voice noting.
Speaker 1: But I said it for three in the morning.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I've done a Super Bowl where one hundred million
Speaker 2: people have watched, and my husband wasn't as proud as
Speaker 2: he was then you know, at the Hollywood improv.
Speaker 1: So it was hysterical.
Speaker 2: One thing Steve brought up and I thought it was
Speaker 2: such a great point, and yes, we are really hoping
Speaker 2: these live shows, you know, continue to happen. We want
Speaker 2: to make it happen. He mentioned how you and I
Speaker 2: had such a good time and he enjoyed the part
Speaker 2: where we interacted with fans. Took one that was something
Speaker 2: we didn't really know how much we were going to
Speaker 2: do of and I think if we continue to do this,
Speaker 2: we incorporate more of it. It's just in we do
Speaker 2: it for a living. I mean, we talk to people
Speaker 2: for a living, so you know, no kidding, we had
Speaker 2: a great.
Speaker 1: Time with it. But I loved that too. It was
Speaker 1: so cool. I did.
Speaker 2: And I you know, it goes without saying like, of
Speaker 2: course you want people to listen to your podcast where
Speaker 2: or we could just pick up the phone and have
Speaker 2: a phone call every you know, Monday for an hour, right,
Speaker 2: So we don't have this podcast without you guys listening.
Speaker 2: But I hope that you really know for those people
Speaker 2: that we were lucky enough to meet that it does
Speaker 2: mean the world and you guys actually listen and care.
Speaker 2: So thank you, because you know, there's a lot of
Speaker 2: different and we've done this for what three years now,
Speaker 2: and you've become a mother since we started this podcast.
Speaker 2: I'm in a healthy relationship. There's been like all these
Speaker 2: different things in life, and it's a fun to have
Speaker 2: a group and like a little community here. So it
Speaker 2: means a lot. So thank you, guys, and I hope
Speaker 2: to continue doing them. So we got I have a
Speaker 2: flight to catch this afternoon, which I'm excited about. I'm
Speaker 2: back on the road, traveling a lot, which makes me
Speaker 2: happy because I love doing the sit down interviews for
Speaker 2: NFL films. But we also are traveling and meeting up
Speaker 2: with each other back in New York on Thursday because
Speaker 2: Aaron Mickey announcement, Well, hold on, say what you're doing.
Speaker 2: I'm just as excited as your sit down interviews. And
Speaker 2: then we can say, Okay, tell everybody who you're interviewing.
Speaker 1: I love it. Oh.
Speaker 2: These are some of Aaron's favorites with her fandom for
Speaker 2: She's not shy about it, and it's no problem because
Speaker 2: she covers this team a lot, a lot. San Francisco
Speaker 2: forty nine ers, so Trent Williams her favorite offensive lineman
Speaker 2: of all time. So I'm going to go and interview
Speaker 2: him for NFL Films, And then I'm also interviewing Jamiico Ryans,
Speaker 2: who of course was the decordinator for San Francisco and
Speaker 2: now the head coach of Houston and done an unbelievable
Speaker 2: job with a rookie quarterback and turning that program around,
Speaker 2: making the playoffs last year and just super impressive. I
Speaker 2: know the guys like sir Richard Sherman, who of course
Speaker 2: I work with, has always had such amazing things to
Speaker 2: say about Demico. And it also says a lot too
Speaker 2: about those decoordinators in San Francisco that go on to
Speaker 2: get head coaching jobs. Right. You got Robert Sola, you
Speaker 2: got Demico, and they're all these guys that people that
Speaker 2: other guys love playing for.
Speaker 1: There are players.
Speaker 2: So I haven't had a chance. What go I just
Speaker 2: thought of something. You should text John Lynch and ask
Speaker 2: him to give you a couple of things about Dimiko.
Speaker 2: He would love it. I love it and defensive minded,
Speaker 2: defensive coach like. And this is what I also say,
Speaker 2: Look at my gals, she's the best. This is one
Speaker 2: thing about Aaron that I hope you guys like you.
Speaker 2: If I haven't expressed it, I'll say it now. She
Speaker 2: is so generous, whether it's before we got on here.
Speaker 2: I of course don't have an outfit for the thing
Speaker 2: that we're going to do in New York, which we'll
Speaker 2: get to in a second. I am I cram for
Speaker 2: the exam. In the words of Jared Stole, I cram
Speaker 2: for the exam. Jared said something yesterday which made us
Speaker 2: laugh because I am last minute on everything because I
Speaker 2: just don't. I'm like, oh, I'll just pick up an outfit,
Speaker 2: I'll just do whatever. Anyways, Aaron's very generous with her resources,
Speaker 2: with her connections, with all these kinds of things, so
Speaker 2: thank you.
Speaker 1: I will definitely take you up on that.
Speaker 2: But I'm looking forward to sitting down with both of
Speaker 2: those guys, so that's fun. Then I'm going to meet
Speaker 2: you in New York and I want you to make
Speaker 2: the announcement. What are we doing, sister in New York
Speaker 2: together on Thursday? And we want all of you guys
Speaker 2: to watch. Yeah, on Thursday, you guys have to check
Speaker 2: out Jimmy Fallon because Chris and I are going to
Speaker 2: be on as guests in studio with Jimmy, which I've
Speaker 2: never done before.
Speaker 1: I know you haven't either, CHRISA. And we're so excited,
Speaker 1: so excited.
Speaker 2: I first of all, I've always been a huge fan
Speaker 2: of his because I just love his style. I love
Speaker 2: the way that he makes his guests feel like they're
Speaker 2: just so important. He just is so fun, and I
Speaker 2: just I'm really excited. I'm kind of nervous, and I
Speaker 2: don't really get nervous for things, but this is going
Speaker 2: to be like, I don't know, different for us.
Speaker 1: I can't wait. You've done these things before, though.
Speaker 2: I know, but I've never met him, And the only
Speaker 2: reason why I feel like I know him is because
Speaker 2: a mutual friend of ours his friends with him, and
Speaker 2: so I feel like that's kind of our end. But
Speaker 2: I the only time I've ever done his show was
Speaker 2: during COVID, so I don't Yes, it matters and whatever,
Speaker 2: but this is actually in studio with Jimmy Fallon. I'm praying, praying, praying, praying.
Speaker 2: Chris had said this yesterday. She wants to do a game.
Speaker 2: I want to do the Golden Retriever game. I want
Speaker 2: to be in that chair with all those puppies. I
Speaker 2: don't care anything. He has the most fun games, and
Speaker 2: that's what I think. I love, Like he gets those,
Speaker 2: he gets guests of his like you know, obviously like
Speaker 2: do crazy and wild things. But it's so much fun
Speaker 2: instead of just you know, the normal sit down. But yeah,
Speaker 2: I'm excited. Yeah, it's a now cool run about the
Speaker 2: Calm Down podcast. We did Netflix as a joke and
Speaker 2: now we're doing Jimmy Fallon. It's really really exciting. So
Speaker 2: that's why he's having us on and you guys check
Speaker 2: it out.
Speaker 1: We're pomped.
Speaker 2: Yes, So a lot of good and exciting things coming up.
Speaker 2: We also had fun this weekend. As you mentioned in
Speaker 2: our pre game, Aaron and I very rarely get to
Speaker 2: spend chunks of time together just with our crazy schedules,
Speaker 2: but we actually got forty eight hours together this weekend,
Speaker 2: which is so fun. I was even saying to team
Speaker 2: that that was just so nice that like also go
Speaker 2: out on like a real date. We went to the
Speaker 2: Justin Timberlake concert, so myself, Aaron, Steve, Jared, and Kendra,
Speaker 2: Aaron's sister, we had so much fun I could have
Speaker 2: that he puts on the most incredible show, like justin.
Speaker 1: Thank you, thank you, thank you, because I had it.
Speaker 1: We were talking about this.
Speaker 2: I hadn't been to a concert since pre COVID and
Speaker 2: I still can't even think of the last concert that
Speaker 2: I went to.
Speaker 1: I just know it was like years ago.
Speaker 2: So it was so fun to just get out there
Speaker 2: and how can we not like dance to every one
Speaker 2: of his frickin songs? But I had the best time,
Speaker 2: So thank you for organizing that.
Speaker 1: A couple things about the show that you enjoyed the most.
Speaker 2: What I mean anything, crimea River line three minutes, three
Speaker 2: songs in, you turn around, you go, I'm sweating, and
Speaker 2: I three songs in, dripping down the back.
Speaker 1: Steve went to put his hand on my back. I go,
Speaker 1: don't touch me, I'm sweating. But I was so excited.
Speaker 2: Mean, I can't I can't stop moving every now it
Speaker 2: was like this, and then being there with you and Kendra,
Speaker 2: who little miss choreography twins, so it's hard not to dance. Meanwhile,
Speaker 2: Stephen Jared are standing behind us and being so sweet,
Speaker 2: and we're blocking their view and dancing like psychos.
Speaker 1: But I loved crimea River. I loved his I loved
Speaker 1: all of it. I loved it all.
Speaker 2: Tell the second I came on, you're in the bathroom
Speaker 2: peeing Crime a River comes on, Aaron screams in the stall, hurry,
Speaker 2: I have never peeed so fast. I think Pete was
Speaker 2: going down my leg, sweat down my back, pee down
Speaker 2: my leg, pants up, not even fully done yet, and
Speaker 2: I'm running back out because the beginning of it, right
Speaker 2: when you hear that intro, you.
Speaker 1: Know, the boys were really cute.
Speaker 2: Justin was amazing, and he put us in this a
Speaker 2: fantastic area.
Speaker 1: I love him so much, so grateful. I was actually
Speaker 1: thinking about this.
Speaker 2: I saw he was in He's gonna be in Phoenix tomorrow,
Speaker 2: and I'm going to text him because I just I'm
Speaker 2: like so excited, and I know he's been doing this
Speaker 2: his whole life, but I feel like, ever since we
Speaker 2: went the other night, it's what you guys have been
Speaker 2: talking about. My sister and I've been talking about Jarrett.
Speaker 2: But I'm just so proud of him. I mean, he's
Speaker 2: such an insane performer.
Speaker 1: This guy.
Speaker 2: He fucking dances his ass off, he sings his ass off,
Speaker 2: he's playing instruments.
Speaker 1: I'm just I'm so proud of him.
Speaker 2: But it was really cool how he had this stage
Speaker 2: setup and Jarrett and Steve were in on it. They
Speaker 2: knew like when he was coming to our side of
Speaker 2: this stage, so the boys were very concerned. They were like, hey,
Speaker 2: he's got fifteen minutes left up on this stage, so
Speaker 2: if you have to go to the bathroom, go to
Speaker 2: the bathroom now, because then he's coming to the stage
Speaker 2: right in front of us and we need to be ready.
Speaker 1: Chris, you know, he knew.
Speaker 2: Where we were, so were you kind of nervous, like
Speaker 2: whenever he would look our way, because I was like, I.
Speaker 1: Want Justin to know. I'm like, I got this feeling
Speaker 1: inside mob I just come stop.
Speaker 2: I didn't stop moving the whole time. Hence the outfit
Speaker 2: that I just threw in the bathtub when I got home.
Speaker 2: I didn't even throw it in the dirty clothes, I thought,
Speaker 2: in the bathtub because the pleather was fully drenched. No,
Speaker 2: I just think he is you hit it on the head.
Speaker 2: He is the ultimate performer. Like there are very few people,
Speaker 2: especially like you know, we grew up, which and Justin's
Speaker 2: been performing since he was a kid. So think about
Speaker 2: the decades that he has done this. But when you
Speaker 2: have a guy that can do all kinds of music,
Speaker 2: like any genre or cover another artist even if you
Speaker 2: want to do anything, you're just like, I'm mesmerized by
Speaker 2: he can dance, he can sing, and he's like a
Speaker 2: like I mean, the guy's even an actor.
Speaker 1: Like the guy he's great like social networking. Not remember
Speaker 1: how great he was in that.
Speaker 2: Ye, So he is an all world talent, and you
Speaker 2: don't really get a lot of those, like the Triple
Speaker 2: Threats that can do them all, do all the things.
Speaker 2: So Yeah, it was such a fun, fun time. I mean,
Speaker 2: the last time we saw the guy was when we
Speaker 2: were golfing and I was out of control on a
Speaker 2: golf hostel if you've heard this before, But yeah, it
Speaker 2: was really fun. So he's the best. I love him
Speaker 2: so much. Another thing about the show, which I really
Speaker 2: appreciated and it made me feel like I was in
Speaker 2: my twenties, was just, I mean lucky where he placed us.
Speaker 2: We had so much room to dance and everything like that,
Speaker 2: but there was this Steve was so great.
Speaker 1: He got our content.
Speaker 2: But after we ran back from the bathroom for crimea River,
Speaker 2: we did this whole routine and it was just I
Speaker 2: hadn't danced that way in a concert in forever.
Speaker 1: It was so much fun, I know.
Speaker 2: Which was a catalyst for us actually pulling the trigger.
Speaker 2: We have set a date, ladies and gentlemen. We're not
Speaker 2: going to share that day yet because in case anything changes.
Speaker 2: But guess what, we have two announcements. We're going on
Speaker 2: fallon and we are finally going to a Taylor Swift
Speaker 2: concert together. And I called her and I was like, Yo,
Speaker 2: we need to lock this in and then she was like, well,
Speaker 2: I don't know if I can because of this is this.
Speaker 1: I hung up the phone.
Speaker 2: I said to Steve. I was like, well, I guess
Speaker 2: we can go without Aaron. And I was like, but
Speaker 2: I don't want to go to a concert without Aaron.
Speaker 2: I want you to go to Taylor Swift with you.
Speaker 2: It would not be the same. So Aaron texts me
Speaker 2: right back. She's like, Okay, we're going to make this work.
Speaker 2: So we pulled the trigger. We cannot wait. We're going
Speaker 2: to do a whole calmed.
Speaker 1: I mean it is going.
Speaker 2: By the way, just watch out because we have already
Speaker 2: talked about alf for Gal that cramps for the exam
Speaker 2: and doesn't plan anything. I am getting everything organized so
Speaker 2: the second I get on that plane, I am ready.
Speaker 2: So the last forty eight hours have been about living
Speaker 2: through this Justin experience, which was amazing. And by the way,
Speaker 2: I'll say it again, if you guys haven't seen him
Speaker 2: yet and he's coming to your sit hey, please go
Speaker 2: because he's insane amazing. You'll dance your face off and
Speaker 2: sing your face off. But then that led us to,
Speaker 2: like Chris has said, all right, we're going. Even the
Speaker 2: next morning, after I woke up from Justin, I was like,
Speaker 2: are we really making the effort to fly that far? Yes,
Speaker 2: we're going to Europe to see her. That's how we
Speaker 2: can swing it because we missed it. But I also
Speaker 2: said this to you as we were back at my
Speaker 2: house on Sunday watching her concert. I was like, we
Speaker 2: weren't supposed to go to the La show. We were
Speaker 2: supposed to go to this show. So that's what's happening.
Speaker 2: But now I thought, oh God, are we really going
Speaker 2: to do it? Really gonna do it? Swifties, we need
Speaker 2: your help. I am very concerned about an outfit because
Speaker 2: where we're going to be is probably gonna be warm.
Speaker 2: It's this summer, right, What am I? What are we wearing?
Speaker 2: Let me just give you a little insight on air
Speaker 2: and everyone, So we're sitting at lunch, we're having a
Speaker 2: great time and this one all of a sudden, she
Speaker 2: like goes quiet, She's like starts, and she's like does
Speaker 2: the like look up thing, And I'm like, what are
Speaker 2: you doing?
Speaker 1: She's like, what am I gonna wear? Am I gonna
Speaker 1: wear shorts?
Speaker 2: And I'm like you, I mean, my god, the fact
Speaker 2: that you're already thinking about this and then you're like okay,
Speaker 2: it's gonna do hum. She's a planner. My gal over
Speaker 2: there is a planner. But I'm going to take a
Speaker 2: note from your book or whatever the expression is, don't
Speaker 2: cramp for the exam, not cramming for the exam.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be ready and the whole thing.
Speaker 2: But yeah, swifties will know all the what to wear,
Speaker 2: would not to wear cause the second that I was
Speaker 2: in Justin and I was dancing that way, I was like,
Speaker 2: I can wear anything that resembles this outfit because I
Speaker 2: am going to be a goner. No hair extensions for Taylor,
Speaker 2: I'm going, oh now, Thau, that's another thing. I learned
Speaker 2: it justin four songs in I'm like, my head is
Speaker 2: on fire, I'm sweating.
Speaker 1: This is crazy. I ended up taking out my extensions
Speaker 1: at Justin's show with them in her purse. At one
Speaker 1: point Chris and Steve were like, look at your phone.
Speaker 1: I was like, I can't. Why it's in my purse
Speaker 1: and it's in all the extensions are in there. I can't.
Speaker 2: And you know, at a concert you have to have
Speaker 2: a small purse. So she was jamming those things in there.
Speaker 2: Have you watched them? I have to watch them because
Speaker 2: I have a shoot tomorrow, so yeah, and then I
Speaker 2: got to watch them for Fallon all the things, so busy,
Speaker 2: so busy, So okay, so the outfits. I already went
Speaker 2: ahead and canceled the plans. So that's official because I
Speaker 2: was like, I can't make it, you guys, So I
Speaker 2: did that.
Speaker 1: The email is going out short. It's just a lot.
Speaker 1: I'm very nervous how many friendship bracelets. I already know.
Speaker 1: I'm wearing sneakers because I want to dance my face off.
Speaker 2: I'm very worried about keeping momentum up for three hours
Speaker 2: in that show. So now that we have made the
Speaker 2: long overdue decision and we're going, we need the swifties
Speaker 2: help on like what we did learn't from the concert,
Speaker 2: what you would do differently, what you'd wear, what you
Speaker 2: wouldn't wear, what worked for you it didn't work. Also,
Speaker 2: we have a lot of questions on how early are
Speaker 2: we arriving. Yeah, you know, doors open at five, but
Speaker 2: like when does she go on? Does she go on
Speaker 2: right on time? Like we just need anyone that's been
Speaker 2: to the Eras tour to give a intel dm US
Speaker 2: and then let's get involved.
Speaker 1: Jared very concerned about a parking pass we got to get.
Speaker 1: Part goes this park. This is how he said it.
Speaker 2: He goes, something we're overlooking here is haven't spent enough
Speaker 2: time talking about.
Speaker 1: It is the parking pass. Huh.
Speaker 2: I'm like, something we've overlooked and haven't spent enough time
Speaker 2: talking about.
Speaker 1: But it is.
Speaker 2: It's true. This is this is the stole Andrew's residence.
Speaker 2: They're very prepared. Are you okay?
Speaker 1: Are you going to make it to the concert? I
Speaker 1: don't think you're thinking about my shorts?
Speaker 2: Oh god, I'm so excited. So we never do things
Speaker 2: like this. Now stole Danger's house. We're crazy. Yeah, this
Speaker 2: is very spontaneous of you two. And for the record,
Speaker 2: we're going for forty eight hours. We are forty eight
Speaker 2: hours having this, to which Chris has said, I go,
Speaker 2: I don't know if I'm gonna have this. DaMina for this,
Speaker 2: She goes, You're gonna get your ass on that plane.
Speaker 2: She got her ass on that plane from Tokyo, went
Speaker 2: to a super Bowl, then an after party, had three
Speaker 2: drinks in her care and yeah, Aaron goes, I'm gonna
Speaker 2: have to get a coffee, And I'm like, you know,
Speaker 2: what is fucking wrong with you you were gonna tell
Speaker 2: me we're gonna fly halfway across the world, and you're
Speaker 2: already thinking about needing a coffee.
Speaker 1: The endorphins alone on this thing, since we've been talking
Speaker 1: about going for so long, should be enough.
Speaker 2: So I don't plan on sleeping for two hours or
Speaker 2: for two days. Okay, So we have a lot of
Speaker 2: good things to look forward to. Now, I'll tell you what.
Speaker 1: I after the Brady Rose.
Speaker 2: For those of you guys that didn't know who Nicki
Speaker 2: Glazer was, now you do because she was so wonderful
Speaker 2: on that and we we she now has circulated all
Speaker 2: throughout the feed of whatever. And I actually watched part
Speaker 2: of her Stern interview this morning, which was on Howard Stern,
Speaker 2: and she admitted that she was meet she was in
Speaker 2: the Taylor Swift documentary and she was I.
Speaker 1: Saw sassy mixed sass.
Speaker 2: To her and was being like, ah, like kind of
Speaker 2: like mocking Taylor Swift and saying not so nice things.
Speaker 2: Then she has, you know, not even most recently, but
Speaker 2: like a little while ago, she put out this whole
Speaker 2: post and she said how she was so sorry that
Speaker 2: she did that and it was wrong of her and
Speaker 2: she was just projecting and feeling jealous and all of
Speaker 2: these different things, which was really big of her because
Speaker 2: most people don't want to admit ever when they and
Speaker 2: that's embarrassing, Like I wouldn't want to be featured in
Speaker 2: someone's documentary making fun of them, like it's just mean.
Speaker 2: But since then, Taylor or Nicki has come out and
Speaker 2: said like she's smell like twenty five grand or even
Speaker 2: upwards of even more than twenty five grand. On going
Speaker 2: and seeing Taylor Swift concert, she said she was going
Speaker 2: to freeze her eggs, yeah, and then decided not to
Speaker 2: because she doesn't know if she wants to have kids,
Speaker 2: which gets me. All of that preamble is what gets
Speaker 2: me to the headline, she said, Nicki Glazer, here's the headline.
Speaker 2: Nicki Glazer doesn't want to have kids, and she's not
Speaker 2: afraid to talk about it. So she talked about this
Speaker 2: on Stern and also on Hodah and Jenna, and she said,
Speaker 2: you see your friends wanting it so badly, genuinely wanting it,
Speaker 2: and you feel like, what's wrong with me that I
Speaker 2: don't want it? And That's what I'm struggling with more
Speaker 2: than es well should I because I'm kind of sure,
Speaker 2: I don't want it, but I'm like, why don't I
Speaker 2: want this thing that everybody seems to want? Okay, Anyways,
Speaker 2: she continued and said, I feel like I can always adopt.
Speaker 1: And this headline.
Speaker 2: Stood out to me when we were talking about because
Speaker 2: we always just Ryan gives us different headlines that we
Speaker 2: might want to chat about. I have talked about this
Speaker 2: a little bit on here, and obviously even said like
Speaker 2: I feel like I'm not getting invited to certain things
Speaker 2: because you know, I don't have kids or this or that.
Speaker 2: It might be a gross exaggeration, but I do definitely
Speaker 2: feel that I don't want to have kids. And it's
Speaker 2: so weird because I'm not just telling myself that to
Speaker 2: make myself feel better, like I froze my eggs, like
Speaker 2: I could move forward in that direction. But the longer
Speaker 2: and longer I go without having a baby and I'm
Speaker 2: forty two now, the more I'm really comfortable with my choice.
Speaker 2: Can we always change our minds? Sure, but I have
Speaker 2: this piece about me that's like, yeah, no, I'm good
Speaker 2: on not having any kids. And it's weird, Like even
Speaker 2: seeing you with Mac yesterday, I'm like, I thought about
Speaker 2: this when I came home. I was like, will I
Speaker 2: miss that if I don't have it? And I'm like,
Speaker 2: I don't know if I don't know, but it's not
Speaker 2: enough to make me want to move forward with that.
Speaker 2: And it's just kind of a weird position to be
Speaker 2: in because I'm like, should I feel bad? I also
Speaker 2: feel selfish, Like being a parent is the most selfless
Speaker 2: thing you can do. Think about how much your life
Speaker 2: has changed since you've had a child, Like it's not
Speaker 2: about you anymore. Your schedule's not about you anymore, Like
Speaker 2: even doing something spontaneous, like you've got to make sure
Speaker 2: that he's accounted for, and all these different things in
Speaker 2: your life that you never would have had to think about.
Speaker 2: And honestly, I don't have that. I can just pick
Speaker 2: up and do what I want when I want. And
Speaker 2: that makes me feel a little selfish, But I'm also
Speaker 2: like really comfortable with my choice.
Speaker 1: I hope No.
Speaker 2: I was really jealous of you after justin Timberlake when
Speaker 2: Jared and I were both hung over and I.
Speaker 1: Was like, do you know what they don't have to
Speaker 1: wake up? That sucks.
Speaker 2: I mean we slept until ten o'clock. Well we're great,
Speaker 2: but yeah, I don't know. I'm really I don't know.
Speaker 1: I think where I'm cold.
Speaker 2: She said it. I think it's cool you're saying it.
Speaker 2: I am to blame because I do always say I
Speaker 2: want you to have a baby. I want you to
Speaker 2: have a baby, because I see how you are with
Speaker 2: my baby, and I see how Steve is with him.
Speaker 1: But I appreciated she said it.
Speaker 2: You know there were times during my whole thing that
Speaker 2: I felt that way too. Is it just about trying
Speaker 2: to get this because it's been so hard and I've
Speaker 2: come this far?
Speaker 1: How could I back out now? I had those thoughts.
Speaker 2: But you know, I also I watched this interview and
Speaker 2: I love that she said I could always adopt, and Hoda,
Speaker 2: who has adopted, said which is also great, and you can.
Speaker 1: So I thought it was cool that she said this.
Speaker 2: I do feel like there is always so much pressure on,
Speaker 2: especially in your forties, trying to have that baby, trying
Speaker 2: to get that baby because your time is running out,
Speaker 2: and then maybe it puts all this pressure that you
Speaker 2: didn't want anyways, and you didn't even want to know
Speaker 2: you want to have a baby, but you feel like
Speaker 2: you got to do it now because you're in your forties.
Speaker 2: It's just weird because I always know what you want
Speaker 2: down the line around kids, right, I mean, I always
Speaker 2: thought I would have kids. I had the name I
Speaker 2: wanted to name my kid, Jalen because I love Jalen Rose. Like.
Speaker 1: I always thought like, oh, I'm gonna have four kids.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna have three boys, and i'm gonna have the
Speaker 2: last one's gonna be a girl, and she's gonna be
Speaker 2: protected by her older brothers.
Speaker 1: And I had it all played out in my head.
Speaker 2: And then life happened, and disappointment happened, and the things
Speaker 2: in my life that I've made the biggest commitment to
Speaker 2: have been my biggest versus of pain. So I'm like,
Speaker 2: why would I risk making a commitment like that? And
Speaker 2: maybe that kid hates me, and maybe that kid, you know,
Speaker 2: ends up hurting other people, and then I feel responsible
Speaker 2: because I brought this kid into the world, Like I
Speaker 2: don't know. So I just feel like, because I can
Speaker 2: without having a child, I can control that because so
Speaker 2: much chaos in my life has come from committing to
Speaker 2: something that's supposed to be forever. And luckily I could
Speaker 2: get out of it, But you can't get out of
Speaker 2: a kid and so.
Speaker 1: I think you did it the right way.
Speaker 2: Though. You did freeze your eggs, and I'm not peer
Speaker 2: pressuring anyone to do it. But it gives you some time.
Speaker 2: It gives you some insurance, and that's all I think
Speaker 2: people should unless you're like, you know, trying to get
Speaker 2: it done and that's why you're freezing your eggs. But
Speaker 2: it does give you insurance. If you are not interested
Speaker 2: in it, now, at least you can look at that option. Yeah,
Speaker 2: and why just appreciate my friends having kids because then
Speaker 2: I can borrow yours and then hand them back. Okay,
Speaker 2: there's another headline on here that you and I both
Speaker 2: looked at, and I have questions about this one. Yeah, husband, Yeah, sorry,
Speaker 2: I was waiting for you to read it to me
Speaker 2: like a bedtime story. Husband did not tell his wife
Speaker 2: a crime was committed in their house. A man purchased
Speaker 2: a home where a murder suicide had occurred a few
Speaker 2: years earlier.
Speaker 1: My god.
Speaker 2: Five years after purchasing the house, he met a woman
Speaker 2: who has now become his wife. When I took her
Speaker 2: into my home for the first time, she fell in
Speaker 2: love with it. She ended up having a casual convo
Speaker 2: with someone at the grocery store who told her about
Speaker 2: the history of the house. She then said she couldn't
Speaker 2: live in a place where something so terrible happened. He
Speaker 2: reminded her that's what she had been doing for a
Speaker 2: past for the past year in the house. She's left
Speaker 2: the house and is arguing to sell the home. Wow,
Speaker 2: I have a problem with my husband not telling me
Speaker 2: information like that.
Speaker 1: That's a big man.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I'm sorry, because like I do believe in
Speaker 2: like there's got to be something bigger out here in
Speaker 2: like ghosts and like there's something you know, after life
Speaker 2: or whatever, and so it's like, oh my god, I
Speaker 2: would freak out. And murder suicide is a little different
Speaker 2: than like, oh, Grandma passed away in here.
Speaker 1: Like, yeah, I was thinking.
Speaker 2: About this because I live not close, but I live
Speaker 2: in a situation where I know something happened not too
Speaker 2: far from me, and that house has since been rebuilt
Speaker 2: because of what happened, and like I drive by and
Speaker 2: I'm like, I wonder if they have to disclose that
Speaker 2: to like they do. Well, she should have been in
Speaker 2: that meeting about what was happening here with it, but
Speaker 2: she started dating him five years after. Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, Yeah,
Speaker 2: you're just right. You're right, you're right, You're right, You're right.
Speaker 2: I would be so passed. That's the bigger conversation. All right,
Speaker 2: what else you're not tell me?
Speaker 1: What a hello?
Speaker 2: Well, and then that's exactly where we're going to leave from.
Speaker 2: Oh you didn't want to tell me, you didn't want
Speaker 2: to make me. Oh you thought you thought i'd be mad?
Speaker 2: Well now I'm real fucking mad.
Speaker 1: Oh really? Yeah? Yeah? So how me? Yeah? Did you
Speaker 1: kill she?
Speaker 2: Was it you?
Speaker 1: She's kidding? Mm hmm. Oh you're the one that drove
Speaker 1: them to night. It's your fault.
Speaker 2: I don't know so gnarly Nope, i'd be just I
Speaker 2: would be real peeved about that. Time to leave the house,
Speaker 2: time to leave the house. And like CHRISA and I
Speaker 2: discussed yesterday, once you get it in your mind you
Speaker 2: want to leave the house, then the house sucks. I'm
Speaker 2: out of here.
Speaker 1: This sucks.
Speaker 2: Is too small, this hits way too close to home.
Speaker 2: Literally today, we need our trash can fixed so bad.
Speaker 2: As you saw the pull out, it was stuck and
Speaker 2: I just said, I'm going to rip thing out and
Speaker 2: throw it over the balcony. My husband just started whistling
Speaker 2: and walked out the room. Ever since I got robbed,
Speaker 2: I mean, I s we should play a drinking game
Speaker 2: called every Time I Got robbed because I mentioned it
Speaker 2: a lot, but it's really traumatic, and so ever since
Speaker 2: that happened, I'm just like, I got to get out
Speaker 2: of here because anyone's looking for anyone's looking to rent
Speaker 2: a house. I gotta player rent.
Speaker 1: There wasn't a murder suicide here, but it might if
Speaker 1: I stay here longer. No, I'm kidding. Did you make
Speaker 1: that call yet, by the way, that you're to do
Speaker 1: today that.
Speaker 2: It's gonna happen in the Delta lounge in the car? Oh?
Speaker 1: Sure is.
Speaker 2: But yeah, that is a that's a that's a no.
Speaker 2: The non negotiable as far as confessing what's been going
Speaker 2: on in the house before you've been there.
Speaker 1: So any who.
Speaker 2: But yeah, guys, speaking of confessions and the airport lounge,
Speaker 2: you got a story for us about getting someone's life
Speaker 2: story at the airports.
Speaker 1: Know this, as I'm about to head back to the airport.
Speaker 2: You know, when you're sitting at the airport bar, which
Speaker 2: we love an airport bar, right, like I used to be, like,
Speaker 2: get me right on that plane like now, it's like,
Speaker 2: all right, if I have let's say the interviews ended
Speaker 2: early and I've got like a two hour window, I'm good.
Speaker 2: We're gonna go change our clothes. We're gonna get into
Speaker 2: the company clothes. We're gonna get go to the bar,
Speaker 2: post up. I don't have to race to order the food.
Speaker 1: Whatever.
Speaker 2: Call me, call you, get the phone calls in that
Speaker 2: you normally don't get to have. But when you sit
Speaker 2: there at that airport bar, you are hearing. Now you
Speaker 2: might come in late to this conversation. I might be
Speaker 2: with you this conversation. People love to tell.
Speaker 1: Their whole life story at that airport bar.
Speaker 2: You know the guy where it's like we're flying here,
Speaker 2: and then he's telling you why you're flying there, and
Speaker 2: it's like this guy was going on and on about
Speaker 2: his whole life. I sat down for five minutes. He
Speaker 2: was having the conversation with the woman next to me,
Speaker 2: and I wanted to help her out so bad. I
Speaker 2: wanted to be like, blink twice if you need help,
Speaker 2: because this poor girl was just sucked in. At this point,
Speaker 2: this guy's flight must have been delayed because he was wasted,
Speaker 2: and she couldn't have been sweeter, and she's like, oh
Speaker 2: really okay, and everything was just like being very sweet
Speaker 2: and listening to this guy just pour out all of
Speaker 2: his mistakes in life.
Speaker 1: But I was like, bro, lock it up.
Speaker 2: And it just got me thinking about if you want
Speaker 2: to find out anything about people, just pony on up
Speaker 2: to an airport bar, because they'll tell you where they're going,
Speaker 2: they'll tell you why you're going. Like there's always a
Speaker 2: story because when someone's at an airport, they're doing something,
Speaker 2: whether it's work, whether it's family, and they're laying it
Speaker 2: all out on the line. Forget taxi, caab confessionals, airport
Speaker 2: bar confessionals, liquor fls.
Speaker 1: It could be a great show.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and things are happening stretched And meanwhile, what's your
Speaker 2: go to cocktail at an airport bar?
Speaker 1: I realize it depends on the time of day, so say,
Speaker 1: I'll just talk. I'll cut you off. It's always a
Speaker 1: blue moon. Oh, it's always a blue moon. I can't
Speaker 1: I know, even if it's nine in the morning.
Speaker 2: Yeah, oh yeah, woa orange. It's like, you know, it's
Speaker 2: like a mimosa, but like always always either a mimosa
Speaker 2: or a blue moon.
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 2: Why because there's something if if they have that on draft,
Speaker 2: I like it and I never finish it.
Speaker 1: It's very gluttonous. I just take like two SIPs of it.
Speaker 2: There's something about like a cold beer, which is also
Speaker 2: why Steve probably thinks that I need to be more
Speaker 2: sophisticated and have a different drink. He was really into
Speaker 2: the fact Steve wants me to drink white wine. He
Speaker 2: thinks it's like, what how did that end last night?
Speaker 2: Were you happy with the choices you made? Or here's
Speaker 2: the backstory, guys. I'm very like regimented with what I
Speaker 2: like to drink. The Blue Moon at the airport a
Speaker 2: couple SIPs, or I love a mimosa, or I'm really
Speaker 2: into a vodka cranberry.
Speaker 1: If like we're going out at night, I know that's juvenile.
Speaker 2: All of those drinks for the most part, not the
Speaker 2: blue one, but are kind of juvenile drinks.
Speaker 1: Steve so white wine. I don't know why.
Speaker 2: He thinks it's like classy, but it just looks better
Speaker 2: probably than me drinking a drink that I would have
Speaker 2: had when I was twenty one, like a vacca cranmer. Anyways,
Speaker 2: I think I might be into white wine. Now I
Speaker 2: had the two glasses at your house and they were delicious,
Speaker 2: So I'm ordering that so chrispy right now in the
Speaker 2: Delta Lounge. I don't know things are happening. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 2: I love a white wine.
Speaker 1: I'm bored with my conversation.
Speaker 2: But okay, well with that, we're gonna let you go
Speaker 2: so you can catch your flight and go hear somebody's
Speaker 2: life story since you're bored with your own.
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