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Speaker 1: The Jewels Show on demand Jebils dirty little Secret sign

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Speaker 1: for your dirty little secret text in four one oh

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Speaker 1: six one. If you have a dirty little secret, you

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Speaker 1: can tell us anything because nobody will know who you are.

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Speaker 1: All right, whatever your name is, you have a dirty

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Speaker 1: little secret. I do. Um. I've been keeping something from

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Speaker 1: my husband for quite some time. That's not good. Is

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Speaker 1: it a man? Are you keeping a man from your husband?

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Speaker 1: Or no, it's not a man. It's kind of more

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Speaker 1: around how we actually met. Oh, he thinks it was

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Speaker 1: just you know, fate kis meant whatever, And it actually

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Speaker 1: was a bet from my friends for me to go

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Speaker 1: up to him. But I haven't never had the heart

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Speaker 1: to tell him because we met in college and he

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Speaker 1: was like the total nerdy bookworm across the way, and

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Speaker 1: my friends and I were not super into school, so

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Speaker 1: we were there more hanging out than we were actually studying,

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Speaker 1: and so we saw this guy. Yeah, that's that's what

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Speaker 1: I was about to ask you, Because Derek in that

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Speaker 1: situation could go either way. It could be like, oh,

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Speaker 1: that guy is so hot, right, Like I dare you

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Speaker 1: to go talk to a girl like he is definitely is.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, I don't even know how I get

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Speaker 1: words out of my mouth in it, or it could

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Speaker 1: be like, wow, I dare you to ask that guy

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Speaker 1: out because he's tragic. So it was kind of like that.

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Speaker 1: It was kind of like that. I mean he was

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Speaker 1: like glasses like middle part, like a total like nerd,

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Speaker 1: chewing on his pen, and I, well, I went just

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Speaker 1: to you know, make my friends laugh. But then I

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Speaker 1: actually started talking to him, and you know, his charm

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Speaker 1: makes up for everything. At actually really sweet. Wait, so

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Speaker 1: how long have you been married? Now we've been married

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Speaker 1: for six years? Now, wow, yeah, I'm assuming you won

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Speaker 1: the bet. Then I did win the bet. But it's

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Speaker 1: hard to tell him that targeted for being a nerd.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if you would how he would take that.

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Speaker 1: But I just don't want to hurt his feelings, you know.

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Speaker 1: I mean, he's got to know that he's a nerd.

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Speaker 1: Yeah he does. He know he's a nerd. He does.

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Speaker 1: But I will say I've done some work on him

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Speaker 1: in the in the years that we've been married to

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Speaker 1: try to write I know now, if you will, there's

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Speaker 1: a couple of ways of looking at it, right, because

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Speaker 1: if someone were to tell you that they had a

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Speaker 1: bet to go up and ask you out because you

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Speaker 1: were like a nerdy, funky looking dude. I don't know

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Speaker 1: it's looking or not, but nerdy whatever. You could go, oh,

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Speaker 1: that sucks that you did that, or you could look

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Speaker 1: at it how I look at it right, because Alex

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Speaker 1: and I are married if you didn't know that by

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Speaker 1: the way, Um, and you know people make a comment

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Speaker 1: about my wife being attractive, right and in dudes a

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Speaker 1: lot of times online, especially on social media, will rip

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Speaker 1: on me right on my social media and on Alex's

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Speaker 1: social media. Uh, but I just look at it like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's how dope I am, right, right, are you kidding me?

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Speaker 1: Like I'm not about looks. Yeah, you're my twin flame

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Speaker 1: and there's no like there's no better person for me

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Speaker 1: in this world, and like that's it. Yeah. And that's

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Speaker 1: what I mean though, is like you can look at

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Speaker 1: it one or two ways, like your husband could look

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Speaker 1: at it, like, yeah, that's how cool I am. I

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Speaker 1: was so tragic and nerdy that you got dared to

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Speaker 1: ask me out. But then I talked to you and

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Speaker 1: you were like, damn this nerd is hot. Yes, right, yeah,

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Speaker 1: that is what happened. That is what happened. So does

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Speaker 1: that help you in your decision and if you tell

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Speaker 1: your husband or not. Yeah, I feel better about it.

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Speaker 1: I at first was thinking that he was just going

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Speaker 1: to be upset, but you made a really valid point.

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Speaker 1: Think he might think that it's actually kind of funny

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Speaker 1: and feel better about him. Yeah, like after this long yes,

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Speaker 1: six years. If it does end in a divorce, you

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Speaker 1: know our phone number, so give us a goal. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I will definitely call you guys. Then okay, all right,

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Speaker 1: thank you for telling us you do a little secret.

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Speaker 1: Thank you. The Jebel Show on demand