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Speaker 3: and we're live on a Monday, everybody's favorite day of

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Speaker 1: It might be like that sometimes, but a lot of

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Speaker 3: It's me. I'm people have shout out to Adam and Eve.

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Speaker 3: Do you guys want free stuff? Cause I love free stuff. Okay,

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Speaker 3: addition to that, they got more free shit. They want

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Speaker 3: Once you pay for it, it's yours, it's yours. And

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Speaker 1: Okay, big TV dog, the one you paid fork.

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Speaker 3: You turned the sound up the way that you earned. Okay,

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Speaker 3: and put that Cold TVGWT. Oh, and did I forget

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Speaker 3: to mention free shipping? So literally you're just paying half

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Speaker 3: can't beat this deal. That means he's freaking man. It's

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Speaker 3: like the whole song was a breakdown, Yes it was.

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Speaker 3: And it's let me freak you like I want to

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Speaker 1: I have permission.

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Speaker 3: I'm not just gonna freak you without getting held up,

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Speaker 1: When you say the party over the party over.

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Speaker 3: Right, it's not like Aaron Hall music, and Hall music

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Speaker 3: I know he could control himself around no sex.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, when y'all go back and y'all think of the

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Speaker 1: So I can see people going, what the fuck do

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Speaker 1: you do to my dog? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: The Charlotte City Council voted unanimously on Monday to pass

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Speaker 1: Because they've been doing those crackdowns here periodically where ICE

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Speaker 3: In broad and sometimes vague language, to compact outlies outlines

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because the thing about it, people are here, and

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Speaker 3: Yeah. And the worst part, because I know some people

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Speaker 3: Like we didn't really gain any progress from it. I

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Speaker 3: You probably don't know this, but our police chief basically

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Speaker 1: Y'all come down here, y'all. Motherfuckers on y'all. They even

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Speaker 3: Yeah, he was basically like, I mean, I like I sheriff.

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Speaker 2: So don't get this is not a glowing review.

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Speaker 3: Just because I don't think I could ever give a

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Speaker 3: But he's sassy, like he also went to the white people,

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Speaker 3: They don't ever get pulled over, and they had to

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Speaker 2: That's the point of telling y'all slow their ass down.

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Speaker 3: Second of all, y'all don't ever have a problem with

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Speaker 3: to see our city try to be, you know, at

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Speaker 3: whether they're liberal or Republican, because it's only so far

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Speaker 1: Right, good, good, Yes, children about debits and credits. I

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Speaker 1: fucking interest. That bullshit adds up. I did not know

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Speaker 1: that that's how people get into debt and they don't realize.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. With the prevalence of like payday loans being a

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Speaker 3: The app is called get your Money Right Now, just

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Speaker 1: Yes, And the thing is it's predatory and that's why

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Speaker 3: Some well, you know, it's funny. So a lot of

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Speaker 1: Yes they are, Yes they are.

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Speaker 3: A lot of those laws are being repelled. And that's

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Speaker 3: Like these were just Obama administration like changes and trumping

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Speaker 3: They wouldn't even decline any of them.

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Speaker 1: No, they were just let that bullshit go through.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, anyway, think I have a news article if I

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Speaker 1: to be. Now everything is computerized, and everything has to

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Speaker 1: be done in a certain way in a certain time.

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Speaker 1: And you know, if you're a parent that stay on

437
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Speaker 1: top of that. A lot of parents call the teachers

438
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Speaker 1: in harass the teachers if grades are three seconds passed

439
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Speaker 1: when they do, like it is actually a lot of

440
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Speaker 1: stress to be a teacher. Then your test grades are

441
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Speaker 1: are connected to whether or not you got a raise.

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Speaker 1: So these teachers like, shit, my motherfucking teaching to do right.

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Speaker 3: The House voted seventy three thirty eight on Thursday to

444
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Speaker 3: approve the bill, sending the measure to Governor Roy Cooper's

445
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Speaker 3: that's for a signature. Currently, high schoolers must take full

446
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Speaker 3: credit Civics and Economics course, which splits class time between

447
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Speaker 3: the two subjects. Wow, wow for real m, that's interesting.

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Speaker 3: Students must also take two US History classes to graduate,

449
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Speaker 3: which probably don't teaching shit about slavery. Teachers against the

450
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Speaker 3: bill say that a full credit personal finance course is

451
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Speaker 3: unnecessary it takes away instructional time for US History, which

452
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Speaker 3: they barely teach. Bill supporters argue that financial literacy is

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Speaker 3: crucial for student success.

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Speaker 1: Yes it is, Yes it is. Then you be like

455
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Speaker 1: me eighteen years old and don't know how fucking simple

456
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Speaker 1: shit like devising credits and balances and check book and

457
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Speaker 1: stuff like that works.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. The theme from I mean I absolutely agree with

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Speaker 3: the people that pass the bill, just because I think

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Speaker 3: one of the things with school is that some of

461
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Speaker 3: the stuff that they teaches ethereal in a way that

462
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Speaker 3: doesn't have applications to real life. Now, I don't like

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Speaker 3: that it's taken away from what was it Civics and

464
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Speaker 3: economics or whatever. I wish there was another area they

465
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Speaker 3: could take something away for and then put this in.

466
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Speaker 3: But you know, by that say talking, I kind of

467
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Speaker 3: I dig it so and I'm glad. I think. I

468
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Speaker 3: think we need to teach kids more shit that they

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Speaker 3: can actually use. One of the reasons a lot of

470
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Speaker 3: kids check out is because some of the stuff doesn't

471
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Speaker 3: have an application to their real lives, and they start

472
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Speaker 3: to you know, you know, they basically start to check out.

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Speaker 3: And I'm not against necessarily teaching some of the stuff.

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Speaker 3: I mean, you never know what's gonna float your boat,

475
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Speaker 3: especially arts classes and stuff like this. But balance in

476
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Speaker 3: the check book, man, There's no reason you should be like,

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Speaker 3: you know, getting out of high school and can't like

478
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Speaker 3: manage your money. You will. I'm not amazed. I know

479
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Speaker 3: people can't, but I'm saying I'm saying there's no reason

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Speaker 3: for it to be that way. If we have the

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Speaker 3: resources to add this class, or even if we could

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Speaker 3: just add it to one of the other classes and

483
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Speaker 3: teach it, like you could probably add this in math class.

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Speaker 3: Something simple doesn't look like.

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Speaker 1: That's look like that's where it should go. It should

486
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Speaker 1: be literally be another math because it's lily math. It

487
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Speaker 1: should be another math class.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, all right.

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Speaker 2: Uh, what other news we got?

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Speaker 3: Illinois plans to expunge the records of eight hundred thousand

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Speaker 3: people with marijuana convictions. Wonderful, you know that's what I'm

492
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Speaker 3: talking about. Look like marijuana legalization advocates in Chicago and

493
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Speaker 3: surrounding areas have reason to celebrate this week. According to Complex, Tuesday,

494
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Speaker 3: Governor JB. Pritz Ger signed legislation that will not only

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Speaker 3: make Illinois the eleventh straight to allow marijuana for recreational use,

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Speaker 3: but also include sweeping legal reforms to retroactively address those

497
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Speaker 3: individuals whose lives have already been adversely impacted by previous

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Speaker 3: drug laws.

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Speaker 1: That's the biggest thing. And I know you're a reason, Moe.

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Speaker 1: My question is do y'all erased or do they you know?

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Speaker 1: Because the thing is you should have rased it. I

502
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Speaker 1: should not have to go and draw paperwork and go

503
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Speaker 1: and fight you and pull outforms all this shit to

504
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Speaker 1: get my shit cleaned.

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Speaker 3: As a result of this move, in twenty twenty, the

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Speaker 3: Cannabis Regulation and Tax Act will come into effect and

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Speaker 3: mandate that seven hundred and seventy thousand Illinois residents with

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Speaker 3: marijuana related defenses for up to thirty grams of weed

509
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Speaker 3: have their criminal records expunge. Those convicted with an amount

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Speaker 3: ranging from thirty to five hundred grams will be permitted

511
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Speaker 3: to petition the court to have their charge lifted as well.

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Speaker 3: Earlier this year, Governor prins care campaign that supported legalizer

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Speaker 3: recreation of marijuana, explaining that from a fiscal standpoint, his

514
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Speaker 3: law with funnel upwards of one billion dollars per year

515
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Speaker 3: to the state. He also acknowledged that the war on

516
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Speaker 3: drugs was disproportionately targeted on minorities in the community who

517
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Speaker 3: deserved a second chance right. The war on cannabis has

518
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Speaker 3: destroyed families, filled prisons with non violent offenders, and disproportionately

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Speaker 3: disrupted black and brown communities. Prisco said. Law enforcement across

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Speaker 3: the nation has spent billions of dollars to enforce the

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Speaker 3: criminalization of cannabis, yet its consumption remains wise spread.

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Speaker 1: Yes it does. And I think we even read studies

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Speaker 1: where it's the same across the board regardless of the race.

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Speaker 1: But brown people get locked up like ridiculously times the

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Speaker 1: rate compared to white people.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, white people do way more drugs than black people.

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Speaker 3: I mean, and why wouldn't you. You're not gonna go

528
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Speaker 3: to jail for it, you know what I mean. Like,

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Speaker 3: I mean, it's logical. It's not like a genetic disposition.

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Speaker 3: It's you know, if if there's one group of people

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Speaker 3: that you're constantly harassing and incarcerating for fucking drugs, and

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Speaker 3: there's another group of people that never get pulled over

533
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Speaker 3: and never get like harassed about drugs and shit, one

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Speaker 3: of them is gonna smoke a whole lot of fucking drugs.

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Speaker 3: And it's white people. So yeah, even though they do

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Speaker 3: more drugs, they go to jail and get less time

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Speaker 3: they do a lot they do do deal less with

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Speaker 3: the penalties. Correct. So, but shout out to my man,

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Speaker 3: Governor Prisker on this one. I mean, that's what I'm

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Speaker 3: talking about. Come on down as possible, then as it

541
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Speaker 3: becomes easier for you, play the record once a day

542
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Speaker 3: or as needed, like he coming to the cookout, and

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Speaker 3: he got seven hundred and seventy thousand plus one. We

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Speaker 3: appreciate your governor campaigned on it and delivered. And it's

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Speaker 3: not just for Chicago, So you can't just be like, oh,

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Speaker 3: it's just the black people in Chicago. It's for the

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Speaker 3: whole state of Illinois, right, take get them all out

548
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Speaker 3: of the state prisons. To go ahead and roll the

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Speaker 3: blunt and pass went over to Governor Prisca. He coming

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Speaker 3: with all the cush. Okay, he was about to be

551
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Speaker 3: a hit at the motherfucking Party're gonna be bringing your.

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Speaker 2: Uncles home, you know what I'm saying, Good good man.

553
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Speaker 3: Like so many times we read these stories and it's

554
00:29:26,680 --> 00:29:30,400
Speaker 3: just like the new hip trend, the latest you know,

555
00:29:30,880 --> 00:29:39,440
Speaker 3: marijuana cook it right, the latest marijuana entrepreneurs, two white women.

556
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Speaker 3: It's like all these black people in jail. And yes,

557
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Speaker 3: it's about time somebody actually recognized that and made good

558
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Speaker 3: on that promise. Cause that's one of the reasons I

559
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Speaker 3: think it's important to vote.

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Speaker 1: Come on.

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Speaker 3: Somebody filed a lawsuit against Rihanna's fenty beauty because their

562
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Speaker 3: website was not eighty eight compliant. She's being sued by

563
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Speaker 3: a visually impaired woman. Well, they say Rihanna, I guess

564
00:30:09,680 --> 00:30:12,360
Speaker 3: she's named in the suit. Maybe who claims the Posstars

565
00:30:12,360 --> 00:30:16,360
Speaker 3: beauty company is not accommodating it's visually impaired customers. Beatrice

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Speaker 3: gutaad gutar aias Gutierra's Gutierres filed a lawsuit in Los

567
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Speaker 3: Angeles on Wednesday against Fenty Beauty because it failed to

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Speaker 3: provide suitable online access for all of its customers. Gutierres,

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Speaker 3: who says she is visually impaired and legally blind, says

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Speaker 3: she decided to suit fenty after she was she found

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Speaker 3: its website to be ill equipped to handle her needs,

572
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Speaker 3: and the lawsuit, Guttierres explains that Rihanna's company website does

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Speaker 3: not use screen reading technology and industry standard that allows

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Speaker 3: blind people to interact with the website.

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Speaker 1: I have a question, is it because I mean, and

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Speaker 1: maybe my lack of knowledge. I've been on a lot

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Speaker 1: of sites, and I know I'm speaking from somebody that's

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Speaker 1: the ablest. I didn't even know that was an option.

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Speaker 1: Not to sound ignorant, like, I didn't know that the

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Speaker 1: standard was that you must have this, Like, is it

581
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Speaker 1: a federal law or something.

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Speaker 3: Well, I also didn't know about this as well, but

583
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Speaker 3: this is a common tactic that is used to get

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Speaker 3: sites eight A complying and stuff. Yeah, other other companies

585
00:31:14,640 --> 00:31:17,880
Speaker 3: within that industry have it already, okay, so I guess

586
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Speaker 3: it stood out that he did not have it.

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Speaker 1: Okay.

588
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Speaker 3: Some people may be offended that this is like a

589
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Speaker 3: first recourse was to sue rather than talk or whatever.

590
00:31:26,680 --> 00:31:29,120
Speaker 3: You know, people would like to you know, I don't know,

591
00:31:29,160 --> 00:31:31,520
Speaker 3: maybe they wanted a petition or something. But in this case,

592
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Speaker 3: a lawsuit can make you aware she's only sewing for

593
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Speaker 3: fifteen thousand dollars. So it doesn't seem like, you know,

594
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Speaker 3: that grifting quote unquote type like I don't need a

595
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Speaker 3: billion dollars. Like it seems kind of like a heads up,

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Speaker 3: you know what, can y'all take care of this? Yeah,

597
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Speaker 3: it's so. Gudi Eira says in legal documents that the

598
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Speaker 3: fenty Beauty website includes access barriers that preclude her from

599
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Speaker 3: being able to interact with the beauty brand to make purchases.

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Speaker 3: Gutierr's is seeking in the mediate injunction against fenty Beauty

601
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Speaker 3: and hopes that the judge will forced to company to

602
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Speaker 3: addresses deficiencies and adhere to mandated federal standards required of

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Speaker 3: businesses to be accessible to the visually repaired. She is

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Speaker 3: also seeking damages in the amount of fifteen thousand dollars.

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Speaker 3: In recent years, other businesses have also been here with

606
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Speaker 3: similar lawsuits. The Umbrella singer, it's just the latest business

607
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Speaker 3: owner to be slat with a lawsuit. So yeah, I

608
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Speaker 3: think you know the of course, the initial feeling of

609
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Speaker 3: probably most people hearing this is to be kind of

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Speaker 3: defensive because it's Rihanna, and we all stand and love Rihanna,

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Speaker 3: and you just want to be like, you know, why

612
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Speaker 3: you gotta bring her under this or whatever. But I

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Speaker 3: don't think it's necessarily swipe directly at Rihanna. It's about

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Speaker 3: fenty Beauty. I'm sure she has people who work on

615
00:32:50,920 --> 00:32:54,480
Speaker 3: that website and maybe they can help, you know, get

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Speaker 3: it up to speed or whatever.

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Speaker 1: You know.

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Speaker 3: I don't know what you I don't know how you

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Speaker 3: know if your site is even eighty eight.

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Speaker 2: Complying, that's my thing said.

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Speaker 3: But I feel like on that level, people know, so

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Speaker 3: you know, like, this isn't you and your word press site.

623
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Speaker 3: This is you know, a multi million dollar operation. You know,

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Speaker 3: I don't think it's too much to ask. This is

625
00:33:17,480 --> 00:33:20,200
Speaker 3: to me, this is like if she had a restaurant

626
00:33:20,200 --> 00:33:22,760
Speaker 3: that didn't have ramps for wheelchairs and then she got

627
00:33:22,800 --> 00:33:25,920
Speaker 3: sued and everybody was like, well how was she supposed

628
00:33:25,920 --> 00:33:28,960
Speaker 3: to know? Like, well, you know now now you know.

629
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Speaker 3: And then also another thing I saw people say was like, well,

630
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Speaker 3: how can a blind person even apply makeup? Blind people

631
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Speaker 3: were making up? There's like, yes they do, that's tutorials

632
00:33:39,480 --> 00:33:41,640
Speaker 3: on YouTube and stuff. Even if you weren't going to

633
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Speaker 3: apply yourself and you wanted to buy it as a gift,

634
00:33:44,720 --> 00:33:46,360
Speaker 3: even if you wanted to buy it for someone to

635
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Speaker 3: put on you. There's a lot of things. I mean,

636
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Speaker 3: if it's just a matter of clicking a few buttons

637
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Speaker 3: or you know, changing a few things on your website,

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Speaker 3: I don't think Rihanna. I would hope that a person

639
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Speaker 3: like Rihanna, whoever's in charge the website, would be like

640
00:34:01,840 --> 00:34:04,440
Speaker 3: this is like, yes, we need to get our shit

641
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Speaker 3: up to speed.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, Yeah I can. Knowing Rihanna, this will be fixed,

643
00:34:09,200 --> 00:34:12,840
Speaker 1: you know, or whoever is over it, this will be

644
00:34:12,920 --> 00:34:17,640
Speaker 1: fixed and probably fixed really really soon. Because like you say,

645
00:34:17,920 --> 00:34:21,960
Speaker 1: for the smaller people, you would not even think about

646
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Speaker 1: something like that. I mean, particularly if you're a person

647
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Speaker 1: who does not have to deal with it. That's the

648
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Speaker 1: kind of the I guess. I won't say the privilege

649
00:34:34,600 --> 00:34:37,640
Speaker 1: of not dealing with certain things. Certain things don't cross

650
00:34:37,680 --> 00:34:39,680
Speaker 1: your mind, like you say, until you get smacked with

651
00:34:39,680 --> 00:34:41,840
Speaker 1: a lawsuit, until somebody brings you up to your attention.

652
00:34:41,880 --> 00:34:44,319
Speaker 3: Then you're like, oh, okay, yeah, it definitely sucks. But

653
00:34:45,160 --> 00:34:48,200
Speaker 3: you know at the same time, like I get it,

654
00:34:48,280 --> 00:34:50,719
Speaker 3: you know what you're supposed to do. Just I guess

655
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Speaker 3: I can't use this website because I don't want to

656
00:34:52,760 --> 00:34:53,799
Speaker 3: like piss anybody off.

657
00:34:53,880 --> 00:34:56,560
Speaker 1: Like, and people are stupid when they say bullshit like that,

658
00:34:56,640 --> 00:34:59,799
Speaker 1: y'all go, y'all do no people function and all types

659
00:34:59,840 --> 00:35:06,800
Speaker 1: of just because they had just because they have these disabilities,

660
00:35:07,040 --> 00:35:09,560
Speaker 1: it doesn't mean they don't they can't function in society.

661
00:35:09,640 --> 00:35:13,440
Speaker 3: Also most importantly, and uh, you know, hate them be

662
00:35:13,520 --> 00:35:16,680
Speaker 3: so cynical, but we live in a capitalist society, and

663
00:35:16,960 --> 00:35:20,640
Speaker 3: we do you want that money? It's really all it's

664
00:35:20,760 --> 00:35:24,400
Speaker 3: to it, to be quite frank, like, that's like the

665
00:35:24,440 --> 00:35:30,360
Speaker 3: beauty and the ugliness of capitalism is essentially even cynically

666
00:35:30,880 --> 00:35:33,360
Speaker 3: ually need to do certain things just so you don't

667
00:35:34,160 --> 00:35:36,480
Speaker 3: lose out on the money that you were getting. Not

668
00:35:36,480 --> 00:35:38,720
Speaker 3: to mention all the allies of people and all that stuff,

669
00:35:38,760 --> 00:35:41,680
Speaker 3: like just do it just to fucking do it, Like

670
00:35:41,719 --> 00:35:44,880
Speaker 3: I don't. I'm not. I'm I'm that sort of pragmatist

671
00:35:44,960 --> 00:35:47,759
Speaker 3: when it comes to most of my beliefs anyway, Like,

672
00:35:47,840 --> 00:35:52,080
Speaker 3: I don't need you to believe or share my belief system,

673
00:35:52,160 --> 00:35:53,919
Speaker 3: but I do need you to operate in a fair,

674
00:35:54,960 --> 00:35:58,440
Speaker 3: fair way. And even if you fucking hate my ass,

675
00:35:58,480 --> 00:36:01,279
Speaker 3: you need to go ahead and take care of what

676
00:36:01,280 --> 00:36:04,360
Speaker 3: the fuck your obligations are to the public, period. You know.

677
00:36:05,360 --> 00:36:08,680
Speaker 3: You know, it's like those people are like I if

678
00:36:08,719 --> 00:36:12,359
Speaker 3: somebody's racist, I don't want them selling food or I'm like, listen,

679
00:36:12,480 --> 00:36:15,480
Speaker 3: racist people gonna own companies and ship. What I want

680
00:36:15,520 --> 00:36:16,759
Speaker 3: to do is be able to go in and sit

681
00:36:16,760 --> 00:36:18,440
Speaker 3: down as a black person. You don't fuck up, You

682
00:36:18,480 --> 00:36:21,040
Speaker 3: don't say shit to me, you don't say no racist shit,

683
00:36:21,120 --> 00:36:23,080
Speaker 3: you don't put a colored section up like you just

684
00:36:23,160 --> 00:36:27,040
Speaker 3: do your dcause I understand that you are going to exist.

685
00:36:27,160 --> 00:36:29,319
Speaker 3: Whether I know about it or I don't know about it,

686
00:36:29,680 --> 00:36:33,360
Speaker 3: your ass is going to exist. So let's you know, anyway,

687
00:36:33,840 --> 00:36:37,680
Speaker 3: Hopefully that'll that works out. There's a restaurant that is

688
00:36:37,719 --> 00:36:40,879
Speaker 3: trying to uh to uh.

689
00:36:40,800 --> 00:36:44,680
Speaker 2: Give couples some options when they go out to eat.

690
00:36:45,719 --> 00:36:47,400
Speaker 1: That starts with Charlotte.

691
00:36:47,480 --> 00:36:52,560
Speaker 3: What I like about good Day Charlotte, Day Charlotte. Okay,

692
00:36:53,600 --> 00:36:56,239
Speaker 3: y'all really tried to step out like this is on

693
00:36:56,320 --> 00:37:00,600
Speaker 3: my platform and tell us about Man, these news stations

694
00:37:00,640 --> 00:37:03,040
Speaker 3: really try to do like day morning shows. They don't

695
00:37:03,040 --> 00:37:06,520
Speaker 3: even be doing news no more. It's like six white people.

696
00:37:06,320 --> 00:37:08,080
Speaker 2: Sitting on the couch radio station.

697
00:37:09,440 --> 00:37:11,200
Speaker 3: Station. It's just like six white people sitting on the

698
00:37:11,280 --> 00:37:14,560
Speaker 3: couch talking about other ship that done it, Like did

699
00:37:14,600 --> 00:37:17,080
Speaker 3: you see this video where someone took a coffee cup?

700
00:37:17,280 --> 00:37:19,040
Speaker 1: Did you see this outfit and threw.

701
00:37:18,920 --> 00:37:19,920
Speaker 3: It at a baby?

702
00:37:21,600 --> 00:37:23,799
Speaker 2: What happened to the news when the fucking traffic coming?

703
00:37:24,280 --> 00:37:27,960
Speaker 3: What about weather? The ones? Oh great? And it's one

704
00:37:27,960 --> 00:37:30,799
Speaker 3: of those talking videos, so they didn't even talk. It's

705
00:37:30,800 --> 00:37:32,920
Speaker 3: just one of those like text videos. I'll read it

706
00:37:33,000 --> 00:37:36,520
Speaker 3: now that they wasted my time. Air. A quirky menu

707
00:37:36,640 --> 00:37:39,040
Speaker 3: option called my Girlfriend is Not Hungry at a dinner

708
00:37:39,080 --> 00:37:41,440
Speaker 3: in Little Rock, Arkansas, is getting quite a bit of

709
00:37:41,480 --> 00:37:47,840
Speaker 3: attention on social media. Mama D's, a family owned business

710
00:37:47,920 --> 00:37:51,800
Speaker 3: in the city. I'll say Mama d from Love and

711
00:37:51,840 --> 00:37:54,240
Speaker 3: Hip Hop and she had her restaurant. Oh my god,

712
00:37:54,680 --> 00:37:59,160
Speaker 3: Oh my god, the queen has ordered everything would be

713
00:37:59,280 --> 00:37:59,960
Speaker 3: like royal.

714
00:38:00,400 --> 00:38:04,320
Speaker 2: Yes, Prince, little prince right, would you like a prince Burger?

715
00:38:06,080 --> 00:38:08,640
Speaker 1: Just still? The court menu item.

716
00:38:09,600 --> 00:38:13,560
Speaker 3: Patrons the Family, a family owned business in the city.

717
00:38:13,640 --> 00:38:18,080
Speaker 3: Patrons offers patrons the my girlfriend is not Hungry choice

718
00:38:18,520 --> 00:38:22,680
Speaker 3: for four cents, which adds extra fries to an entree,

719
00:38:22,719 --> 00:38:24,680
Speaker 3: and a choice of two chicken wings or three fried

720
00:38:24,760 --> 00:38:30,560
Speaker 3: cheese sticks. Smart Andrew Putra, who owns the location with

721
00:38:30,719 --> 00:38:33,160
Speaker 3: his mother, sister, and aunt, said the family created the

722
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Speaker 3: menu option to be funny and freshing.

723
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Speaker 2: The restaurant is also named after his mother, Daisy.

724
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Speaker 1: Yeah.

725
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Speaker 2: I mean, let's be honest, y'all, it's about time.

726
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Speaker 3: I can't believe that these are the first people to

727
00:38:46,320 --> 00:38:49,560
Speaker 3: thought of this, but right, we have all had the

728
00:38:50,120 --> 00:38:53,320
Speaker 3: French fried thievery that has gone on, and there's a

729
00:38:53,360 --> 00:38:58,160
Speaker 3: goddamn travesty. I'm guilty, Yes you are, Yes, you absolutely are.

730
00:38:59,480 --> 00:39:01,760
Speaker 3: Do you want thing? I just want some chicken nuggets

731
00:39:01,760 --> 00:39:04,279
Speaker 3: and I'm like, well half my fucking fries are gone,

732
00:39:04,920 --> 00:39:07,719
Speaker 3: So apparently you didn't just want some chicken nuggets. No

733
00:39:07,880 --> 00:39:10,880
Speaker 3: one is suffering from financial abuse in this car, and

734
00:39:11,120 --> 00:39:13,279
Speaker 3: you have your own money. You could have ordered some

735
00:39:13,400 --> 00:39:16,640
Speaker 3: fries for yourself. Now I have the option of going.

736
00:39:16,800 --> 00:39:19,520
Speaker 3: My girlfriend is not hungry, please, And then they asked

737
00:39:19,560 --> 00:39:22,320
Speaker 3: some extra French fries and some chicken wings and cheese steaks.

738
00:39:22,680 --> 00:39:23,000
Speaker 3: Thank you.

739
00:39:23,800 --> 00:39:26,520
Speaker 2: This is this is the kind of change that we.

740
00:39:26,640 --> 00:39:27,320
Speaker 3: Need in America.

741
00:39:27,400 --> 00:39:28,719
Speaker 1: This was to make America great again.

742
00:39:28,880 --> 00:39:31,719
Speaker 3: This truly will make America great again. Will because it

743
00:39:31,800 --> 00:39:31,960
Speaker 3: is a.

744
00:39:32,000 --> 00:39:34,800
Speaker 1: Scur save relationships and marriages.

745
00:39:34,640 --> 00:39:38,560
Speaker 3: Much like cold feet in the bed. This is one

746
00:39:38,560 --> 00:39:40,600
Speaker 3: of the worst kept secrets.

747
00:39:42,880 --> 00:39:45,640
Speaker 1: I don't know why my feet always gold good, great,

748
00:39:45,800 --> 00:39:47,000
Speaker 1: like fucking ice pops.

749
00:39:47,480 --> 00:39:51,799
Speaker 2: Come on, man, I'm just saying I don't appreciate these lies.

750
00:39:51,600 --> 00:40:00,320
Speaker 3: The lies, the lies, the lies. I'm not angry.

751
00:40:00,480 --> 00:40:03,239
Speaker 2: Don't lie to me. It's not like I'm sitting up

752
00:40:03,280 --> 00:40:05,839
Speaker 2: there act like you ike Turner or something.

753
00:40:07,560 --> 00:40:09,520
Speaker 3: Oh you know, like if they if they were to say, like,

754
00:40:09,600 --> 00:40:11,120
Speaker 3: you know what, actually I do want to burger and fries,

755
00:40:11,160 --> 00:40:15,680
Speaker 3: You'll be like, bitch, what are you fucking crazy? I said,

756
00:40:15,719 --> 00:40:18,239
Speaker 3: I got photo I was three thirty five cents. I

757
00:40:18,320 --> 00:40:20,480
Speaker 3: can't believe you're trying to eat too. Here's some knackings

758
00:40:20,520 --> 00:40:25,400
Speaker 3: that some water eat this, Like, come on, man, who

759
00:40:25,480 --> 00:40:26,160
Speaker 3: are you fooling?

760
00:40:26,880 --> 00:40:26,920
Speaker 1: Like?

761
00:40:27,000 --> 00:40:28,879
Speaker 3: The calories don't count if you don't order it, it's

762
00:40:28,880 --> 00:40:33,560
Speaker 3: still counts. You still eight half my fries. Oh my goodness.

763
00:40:34,200 --> 00:40:37,359
Speaker 2: It's the worst feeling in the world. Honestly, it's worse

764
00:40:37,400 --> 00:40:37,880
Speaker 2: than slavery.

765
00:40:38,000 --> 00:40:38,560
Speaker 3: I'll just say it.

766
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Speaker 1: I'm not.

767
00:40:45,360 --> 00:40:48,479
Speaker 3: These are not my ancestors' hands. Okay, I'm not playing

768
00:40:48,520 --> 00:40:55,480
Speaker 3: that all right. The key to a relationship happiness, what

769
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Speaker 3: is it, Karen?

770
00:40:58,400 --> 00:41:02,160
Speaker 1: The key communication?

771
00:41:02,680 --> 00:41:05,200
Speaker 3: The keyter relationship happenings could be as simple as finding

772
00:41:05,360 --> 00:41:10,640
Speaker 3: a nice person. Despite the popular belief, sharing similar personalities

773
00:41:10,680 --> 00:41:12,799
Speaker 3: may not be as important as most people think. That's

774
00:41:12,840 --> 00:41:16,600
Speaker 3: according to new research from Michigan State University. People invest

775
00:41:16,640 --> 00:41:19,319
Speaker 3: a lot in the finding someone who's compatible, but our

776
00:41:19,360 --> 00:41:21,839
Speaker 3: research says that may not be the end all be all,

777
00:41:22,560 --> 00:41:26,080
Speaker 3: says Bill Topic, Associate professor of psychology and director of

778
00:41:26,280 --> 00:41:31,040
Speaker 3: MSU's Close Relationships Lab. Instead, people may want to ask

779
00:41:31,160 --> 00:41:33,520
Speaker 3: are they a nice person? Do they have a lot

780
00:41:33,560 --> 00:41:36,680
Speaker 3: of anxiety? Those things matter way more than the fact

781
00:41:36,719 --> 00:41:39,160
Speaker 3: that two people are introversed and end up together. The

782
00:41:39,280 --> 00:41:42,880
Speaker 3: most striking finding of the study was that having similar

783
00:41:42,920 --> 00:41:46,080
Speaker 3: personalities has almost no effect on how satisfied people were

784
00:41:46,160 --> 00:41:49,600
Speaker 3: in their lives and relationships. That says a lot, because

785
00:41:50,040 --> 00:41:53,920
Speaker 3: dating apps pretty much are only about how similar are

786
00:41:54,000 --> 00:41:59,200
Speaker 3: we in our lives and our views not it doesn't

787
00:41:59,280 --> 00:42:01,520
Speaker 3: measure And I guess you can't really measure how nice

788
00:42:01,520 --> 00:42:02,200
Speaker 3: of a person are.

789
00:42:02,200 --> 00:42:05,399
Speaker 1: You because it's some assholes out there.

790
00:42:05,880 --> 00:42:07,719
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean shit, there's people I agree with on

791
00:42:08,040 --> 00:42:10,040
Speaker 3: just about everything, and I would not want to spend

792
00:42:10,200 --> 00:42:13,720
Speaker 3: a minute around these motherfuckers. I now, they're miserable ass

793
00:42:14,320 --> 00:42:19,880
Speaker 3: just like completely vibeless, humorless drains on my soul. And

794
00:42:19,920 --> 00:42:21,920
Speaker 3: I'll be sitting up there like, how is this happening

795
00:42:22,000 --> 00:42:24,680
Speaker 3: when we agree on so much. It's just because they

796
00:42:24,760 --> 00:42:26,759
Speaker 3: might just not be a nice person. They might just

797
00:42:26,800 --> 00:42:28,960
Speaker 3: be mean, you know, it might just be a dick.

798
00:42:29,080 --> 00:42:30,680
Speaker 3: They might not have a sense of humor about shit.

799
00:42:30,760 --> 00:42:31,160
Speaker 3: You never know.

800
00:42:31,520 --> 00:42:34,480
Speaker 1: And some people, some people they're just boring. I've had

801
00:42:34,560 --> 00:42:36,600
Speaker 1: people talk to me and I'm sitting there looking at

802
00:42:36,680 --> 00:42:38,320
Speaker 1: them and we're growing a lot of shit. But I'm like,

803
00:42:38,360 --> 00:42:39,680
Speaker 1: oh my god, boring.

804
00:42:40,320 --> 00:42:43,879
Speaker 3: Yeah, So what does this research mean for dating?

805
00:42:43,920 --> 00:42:44,000
Speaker 1: Now?

806
00:42:44,120 --> 00:42:46,880
Speaker 3: Despite their popularity. Apps that match people on compatibility may

807
00:42:46,920 --> 00:42:49,040
Speaker 3: have had it all wrong, he said, when you started

808
00:42:49,080 --> 00:42:52,160
Speaker 3: getting to creating algorithms and psychologically matching people, we actually

809
00:42:52,200 --> 00:42:54,759
Speaker 3: don't know as much as we about that as we

810
00:42:54,880 --> 00:42:57,600
Speaker 3: think we do. We don't know why the heart chooses

811
00:42:57,680 --> 00:43:00,319
Speaker 3: what it does. But with this research, with can rule

812
00:43:00,360 --> 00:43:04,040
Speaker 3: our compatibility as a long factor. The researchers looked at

813
00:43:04,239 --> 00:43:06,960
Speaker 3: almost every way couples could be happy, making it the

814
00:43:07,040 --> 00:43:09,920
Speaker 3: most comprehensive study today. The study uses data from the

815
00:43:09,960 --> 00:43:12,880
Speaker 3: Panel Study of Income Dynamics and Long Running Survey of

816
00:43:12,960 --> 00:43:17,360
Speaker 3: Households Topic and Richard Lucas MSU Foundation professor in the

817
00:43:17,400 --> 00:43:20,840
Speaker 3: Department of Psychology measure the effects of personality traits on

818
00:43:20,960 --> 00:43:24,840
Speaker 3: well being in more than twenty five hundred heterosexual couples

819
00:43:25,080 --> 00:43:28,320
Speaker 3: who have been married roughly twenty years. Even among couples

820
00:43:28,360 --> 00:43:32,880
Speaker 3: who share similar personalities, they found that having a partner

821
00:43:32,920 --> 00:43:36,239
Speaker 3: who is conscientious and nice leads to higher levels of

822
00:43:36,280 --> 00:43:37,400
Speaker 3: relationship satisfaction.

823
00:43:37,800 --> 00:43:41,759
Speaker 1: Yes, because you need somebody that's going to consider you,

824
00:43:42,280 --> 00:43:44,319
Speaker 1: You need somebody to gonna think about you. You need

825
00:43:44,400 --> 00:43:48,040
Speaker 1: somebody that's gonna actually end a lot and actually get

826
00:43:48,080 --> 00:43:49,640
Speaker 1: to know you. Because there are a lot of married

827
00:43:49,680 --> 00:43:52,440
Speaker 1: people that don't know they may I mean literally sometimes

828
00:43:52,920 --> 00:43:55,280
Speaker 1: you almost have to think like your mate, you know, truthfully,

829
00:43:55,320 --> 00:43:58,120
Speaker 1: you gotta be like, okay, you know, how would they

830
00:43:58,160 --> 00:43:59,759
Speaker 1: handle this? So what would they think about this?

831
00:44:00,520 --> 00:44:01,239
Speaker 3: And shit like that.

832
00:44:01,480 --> 00:44:07,879
Speaker 1: And actually, intimacy is more than sex, and that's hard

833
00:44:07,920 --> 00:44:09,319
Speaker 1: for a lot of people to understand that. It's more

834
00:44:09,360 --> 00:44:13,680
Speaker 1: than fucking somebody. You really got to know somebody. And

835
00:44:13,920 --> 00:44:17,759
Speaker 1: there are a lot of people out there and they

836
00:44:17,880 --> 00:44:20,480
Speaker 1: just dick y'all. They're just not nice people. They don't

837
00:44:20,520 --> 00:44:24,200
Speaker 1: consider anybody else. They only do things with them first,

838
00:44:24,239 --> 00:44:26,200
Speaker 1: even though they're in a marriage. They they don't even

839
00:44:26,480 --> 00:44:29,480
Speaker 1: they make decisions and don't even consult or consider how

840
00:44:29,600 --> 00:44:31,400
Speaker 1: they make with feels because that's the thing. You have

841
00:44:31,400 --> 00:44:33,239
Speaker 1: to consider other people feelings. You can't be like me

842
00:44:33,360 --> 00:44:35,920
Speaker 1: me me me me, stay single, stay single if it's

843
00:44:35,960 --> 00:44:37,200
Speaker 1: still me me me me me me me.

844
00:44:39,560 --> 00:44:43,000
Speaker 3: Yeah. The thing for me that I thought I was

845
00:44:43,280 --> 00:44:48,360
Speaker 3: I think it's interesting about that is being nice is

846
00:44:48,400 --> 00:44:53,160
Speaker 3: one of those things that I guess you could work

847
00:44:53,200 --> 00:44:55,160
Speaker 3: at it. You know, some people need to work at

848
00:44:55,200 --> 00:44:57,080
Speaker 3: the same way you could work at patience. It's like

849
00:44:57,120 --> 00:45:00,879
Speaker 3: a muscle, you know, you need. Most people will not, right,

850
00:45:00,920 --> 00:45:03,520
Speaker 3: because why would I do all this work? I want

851
00:45:03,560 --> 00:45:05,759
Speaker 3: to be my free, natural self when I come home.

852
00:45:05,760 --> 00:45:07,840
Speaker 3: I don't want to have to work at anything. I

853
00:45:07,960 --> 00:45:10,520
Speaker 3: just want to this is me at home, now, deal

854
00:45:10,600 --> 00:45:12,480
Speaker 3: with it, right, That's how most people feel. Right.

855
00:45:14,239 --> 00:45:17,480
Speaker 2: But being nice to me is one of those things

856
00:45:17,520 --> 00:45:18,960
Speaker 2: where it doesn't really.

857
00:45:18,840 --> 00:45:22,000
Speaker 3: Cost you anything. And I hear it a lot in

858
00:45:22,120 --> 00:45:24,960
Speaker 3: couples where I'm like, they are mean to each other. Now,

859
00:45:25,280 --> 00:45:27,560
Speaker 3: what's funny is they might be mean to each other

860
00:45:27,719 --> 00:45:30,680
Speaker 3: in a civil way, like it's a Minnesota nice as

861
00:45:30,719 --> 00:45:33,040
Speaker 3: they call it, like it's they're mean, but they're not

862
00:45:33,200 --> 00:45:35,880
Speaker 3: like call each other bitch, but they're just like, you know,

863
00:45:36,160 --> 00:45:39,960
Speaker 3: they're saying cutting remarks. They're always kind of knocking each other, Yeah,

864
00:45:40,280 --> 00:45:43,040
Speaker 3: very cold tones and stuff like that. And I always,

865
00:45:43,480 --> 00:45:45,000
Speaker 3: in back of my mind, I'm always like, well, if

866
00:45:45,040 --> 00:45:47,480
Speaker 3: they're like that in front of me, what the fuck

867
00:45:47,600 --> 00:45:49,799
Speaker 3: is going on in their house by behind closed doors?

868
00:45:50,239 --> 00:45:53,000
Speaker 3: Because being nice to somebody is like, I don't know

869
00:45:53,600 --> 00:45:56,600
Speaker 3: the minimum, the bare minimum, you know. I mean, we

870
00:45:56,719 --> 00:45:58,880
Speaker 3: all have moments, don't get me wrong, I mean we

871
00:45:59,000 --> 00:46:02,080
Speaker 3: get sarcastic. Somebody gets on your nerves. One day. I'm

872
00:46:02,120 --> 00:46:04,520
Speaker 3: not saying every single moment of your life you're just

873
00:46:04,560 --> 00:46:08,960
Speaker 3: gonna wake up and be like sunshine darling. You are

874
00:46:09,239 --> 00:46:11,400
Speaker 3: the moon, you know. But I mean there's got to

875
00:46:11,440 --> 00:46:14,799
Speaker 3: be like a certain level of like checking yourself right

876
00:46:15,120 --> 00:46:19,080
Speaker 3: that has to be done. Some like niceness to me,

877
00:46:19,280 --> 00:46:23,160
Speaker 3: really is about consideration for someone other than yourself.

878
00:46:23,320 --> 00:46:23,720
Speaker 1: Correct.

879
00:46:24,440 --> 00:46:26,600
Speaker 3: At the same time, having a partner who is neurotic

880
00:46:26,719 --> 00:46:31,040
Speaker 3: and surprisingly more extroverted results in the lower relationship satisfaction.

881
00:46:31,200 --> 00:46:34,880
Speaker 3: I don't think that surprising at all. No offense to extroverts,

882
00:46:35,000 --> 00:46:39,719
Speaker 3: you know, I'm married one, but that being extroverted does

883
00:46:40,320 --> 00:46:44,239
Speaker 3: normally mean you pay less attention to your partner and

884
00:46:44,440 --> 00:46:48,600
Speaker 3: what's going on there because you got that attention locked down.

885
00:46:48,680 --> 00:46:52,680
Speaker 2: You're craving and drawn to attention other places.

886
00:46:52,800 --> 00:46:56,719
Speaker 3: Correct, So you know your partner or however your relationships

887
00:46:56,760 --> 00:46:59,799
Speaker 3: are going more than likely that's you already locked that down.

888
00:47:00,040 --> 00:47:02,560
Speaker 3: You got that attention, you used to that attention. You know,

889
00:47:03,640 --> 00:47:06,760
Speaker 3: so more people, more people, which means you're not focusing

890
00:47:06,800 --> 00:47:10,720
Speaker 3: on them. It's a great example of your introvert dating

891
00:47:10,760 --> 00:47:13,840
Speaker 3: an extrovert. When you're at a public function or situation

892
00:47:14,120 --> 00:47:17,040
Speaker 3: and your batteries drained and you're ready to go to

893
00:47:17,120 --> 00:47:20,120
Speaker 3: fuck home. How hard is it to get that person

894
00:47:20,200 --> 00:47:22,719
Speaker 3: to just turn around and see, like, yo, I'm ready

895
00:47:22,800 --> 00:47:26,040
Speaker 3: to go without having to like yank their shoulder or

896
00:47:26,200 --> 00:47:28,880
Speaker 3: like you know, like to the side, like you know

897
00:47:29,000 --> 00:47:33,160
Speaker 3: it's going to happen. Because humanity, everybody's an X factor.

898
00:47:33,719 --> 00:47:39,560
Speaker 3: Situations vary, but when it happens, that feeling like that

899
00:47:39,800 --> 00:47:43,000
Speaker 3: to me, I could see in a relationship people feeling

900
00:47:43,160 --> 00:47:45,799
Speaker 3: like that all the time, you know, right, And.

901
00:47:45,840 --> 00:47:48,320
Speaker 1: It's also one of the things. And I am guilty

902
00:47:48,400 --> 00:47:51,520
Speaker 1: that I'm so much better than I used to be because,

903
00:47:51,600 --> 00:47:54,800
Speaker 1: like I said, I'm an extrovert and so for me,

904
00:47:55,040 --> 00:47:58,560
Speaker 1: our energy levels are very different in social situations, and

905
00:47:58,719 --> 00:48:01,840
Speaker 1: so I had to be more where more alert. I

906
00:48:02,000 --> 00:48:05,800
Speaker 1: had to kind of pay you attention, you know. And

907
00:48:06,440 --> 00:48:08,719
Speaker 1: when I mean pay attention, just pay attention to your

908
00:48:08,800 --> 00:48:13,040
Speaker 1: body language, and I mean like pay attention to like

909
00:48:13,400 --> 00:48:17,840
Speaker 1: your it not might sounds silly, but like your eyes

910
00:48:18,120 --> 00:48:19,840
Speaker 1: and your face, like it's certain things that you do

911
00:48:19,880 --> 00:48:21,920
Speaker 1: when I'm like okay, like like it's almost like I

912
00:48:22,120 --> 00:48:23,759
Speaker 1: took to because we've been together so long, I can

913
00:48:23,840 --> 00:48:26,479
Speaker 1: literally see the energy leave you because we've been together

914
00:48:26,600 --> 00:48:28,200
Speaker 1: so long like I can see it kind of go

915
00:48:29,560 --> 00:48:33,319
Speaker 1: where it slowly goes down. But that's because it's been

916
00:48:33,360 --> 00:48:35,560
Speaker 1: brought to my attention and so I pay it attention

917
00:48:36,120 --> 00:48:38,080
Speaker 1: versus a lot of people when things are brought to

918
00:48:38,120 --> 00:48:41,640
Speaker 1: their attention, because a lot of people treat relationships like

919
00:48:41,800 --> 00:48:44,160
Speaker 1: points and on the way on a battlefield, it's a war.

920
00:48:44,560 --> 00:48:47,919
Speaker 1: It's who's right, who's wrong. It's I'm going to win.

921
00:48:48,160 --> 00:48:50,680
Speaker 1: It's not about us trying to move forward together. So

922
00:48:51,880 --> 00:48:55,040
Speaker 1: if you quote unquote point something out all of a sudden,

923
00:48:55,040 --> 00:48:57,759
Speaker 1: you point out a flawing me, So instead of me

924
00:48:58,600 --> 00:49:02,400
Speaker 1: being understanding and saying, okay, I will, I will make

925
00:49:02,440 --> 00:49:04,120
Speaker 1: a note of that and I will try to work

926
00:49:04,160 --> 00:49:06,680
Speaker 1: on that. People get mad, they get offended. What's wrong

927
00:49:06,760 --> 00:49:09,720
Speaker 1: with me? I'm find like I am, And that's causes

928
00:49:09,840 --> 00:49:13,000
Speaker 1: this confrontation, that this conflict when it really don't need

929
00:49:13,080 --> 00:49:16,399
Speaker 1: to be there. But you know, it's kind of human

930
00:49:16,480 --> 00:49:20,000
Speaker 1: nature for people to book up against somebody saying that

931
00:49:20,120 --> 00:49:21,560
Speaker 1: you're not quote unquote perfect.

932
00:49:22,000 --> 00:49:24,160
Speaker 3: Yeah it's but you know it's interesting. It's not an

933
00:49:24,160 --> 00:49:27,320
Speaker 3: attack and it's not pointing out a flaw. You're with

934
00:49:27,480 --> 00:49:29,719
Speaker 3: another person and that person is trying to tell you

935
00:49:29,800 --> 00:49:33,880
Speaker 3: here's how I navigate these situations and how it feels

936
00:49:33,920 --> 00:49:37,080
Speaker 3: to me correct. And you know, there's a there's like

937
00:49:37,200 --> 00:49:42,000
Speaker 3: an empathy in that, there's a communication in that, there's

938
00:49:42,080 --> 00:49:45,000
Speaker 3: trust in that because they're trusting you with something that

939
00:49:45,239 --> 00:49:48,040
Speaker 3: they may not even relate to other people often and

940
00:49:48,120 --> 00:49:51,000
Speaker 3: they're hoping for you to be understanding. And I think,

941
00:49:51,719 --> 00:49:54,080
Speaker 3: like I said, in this particular situation, I'm pointing out

942
00:49:54,160 --> 00:49:57,720
Speaker 3: like extraversion it can be a hindrance to that because

943
00:49:58,239 --> 00:50:03,200
Speaker 3: you know, introversion it's kind of a focus on self

944
00:50:03,600 --> 00:50:09,080
Speaker 3: and a focus on close relationships. So to a certain extent,

945
00:50:09,200 --> 00:50:14,719
Speaker 3: if you're in a close relationship with an introvert, you I, me,

946
00:50:14,920 --> 00:50:18,480
Speaker 3: the singular kind of becomes us. So me focusing on

947
00:50:18,640 --> 00:50:21,760
Speaker 3: me is still me focusing on us correct as opposed

948
00:50:21,840 --> 00:50:27,840
Speaker 3: to focusing on like selfishly focusing on just myself. And

949
00:50:27,920 --> 00:50:30,759
Speaker 3: that's my introversion is I freeze you out? You know,

950
00:50:30,960 --> 00:50:32,719
Speaker 3: I hate that, like I would not I'm not that

951
00:50:32,880 --> 00:50:37,120
Speaker 3: hype of introvert. But anyway, my point being, there's the

952
00:50:37,719 --> 00:50:41,720
Speaker 3: extra version could be a hindrance to a relationship because

953
00:50:42,400 --> 00:50:47,480
Speaker 3: it is drawn to attention from outside the relationship in

954
00:50:47,560 --> 00:50:50,319
Speaker 3: a lot of cases, and yeah, I can see how

955
00:50:50,360 --> 00:50:54,400
Speaker 3: that would hinder, you know, the closeness of a relationship,

956
00:50:54,440 --> 00:50:56,400
Speaker 3: because it's always like, well, let me go to this party,

957
00:50:56,520 --> 00:50:58,200
Speaker 3: let me oh, a new group of people want to

958
00:50:58,239 --> 00:51:00,239
Speaker 3: meet me. Oh, a new person is talking to me. Now,

959
00:51:00,800 --> 00:51:03,240
Speaker 3: Like I'm always out going, I'm always seeking this attention,

960
00:51:03,320 --> 00:51:05,399
Speaker 3: and so we have to find that balance. Like there's

961
00:51:05,440 --> 00:51:07,160
Speaker 3: some people that can deal with that. And I mean,

962
00:51:07,239 --> 00:51:09,640
Speaker 3: like I said, you're an extrovert and we make it work.

963
00:51:09,840 --> 00:51:12,399
Speaker 3: Like so it's not like, you know, one is worse

964
00:51:12,480 --> 00:51:14,720
Speaker 3: than the other. It's just it's just literally just different

965
00:51:14,760 --> 00:51:19,920
Speaker 3: ways that people live what causes relationships to fail. A

966
00:51:20,000 --> 00:51:23,440
Speaker 3: relationship can have many downfalls, but marriages often die more

967
00:51:23,920 --> 00:51:28,680
Speaker 3: by ice and fire, says Lead a relationship doctor Michael McNaughty. Uh,

968
00:51:29,400 --> 00:51:32,640
Speaker 3: the first couples drift apart. First steps the lead. The

969
00:51:32,640 --> 00:51:34,480
Speaker 3: couples drifting apart, and a break up can be broken

970
00:51:34,520 --> 00:51:37,680
Speaker 3: down as follow stage one. More negativity than positivity steps

971
00:51:37,680 --> 00:51:41,480
Speaker 3: into the relationship. You know, I think that's another function

972
00:51:41,600 --> 00:51:44,359
Speaker 3: of the whole nice thing, you know. I mean, look,

973
00:51:44,480 --> 00:51:48,759
Speaker 3: some people just ain't nice, right. You gotta get with

974
00:51:48,840 --> 00:51:51,759
Speaker 3: somebody that just understand that shit. I guess because I

975
00:51:51,880 --> 00:51:54,120
Speaker 3: couldn't deal with it, and I wouldn't want to do

976
00:51:54,239 --> 00:51:55,920
Speaker 3: that to anybody, right like.

977
00:51:56,840 --> 00:52:01,440
Speaker 1: Because like I said, I am very thankful to have you,

978
00:52:02,239 --> 00:52:05,799
Speaker 1: because like I'm in a you know, straight relationship, right

979
00:52:05,880 --> 00:52:08,279
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you right now, the way I hear

980
00:52:08,560 --> 00:52:12,160
Speaker 1: some men talk to their mates and their significant others,

981
00:52:12,719 --> 00:52:15,719
Speaker 1: they're not even talking to me and my motherfucking skin

982
00:52:15,840 --> 00:52:19,759
Speaker 1: cross right like like it's I don't say nothing, but

983
00:52:20,200 --> 00:52:24,200
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, like like I could see something like Nigga,

984
00:52:24,239 --> 00:52:26,560
Speaker 1: the fuck you think you got that fucking dude, right,

985
00:52:26,920 --> 00:52:29,320
Speaker 1: you know, And that's your marriage. You could deal with

986
00:52:29,440 --> 00:52:32,440
Speaker 1: whatever you want to deal with. But there's certain standards

987
00:52:32,480 --> 00:52:34,920
Speaker 1: that I know that and I'm gonna tell you right now.

988
00:52:36,080 --> 00:52:38,879
Speaker 1: A lot of times, uh, And I think that's one

989
00:52:38,960 --> 00:52:42,240
Speaker 1: thing that put like this one thing that bothers people

990
00:52:43,560 --> 00:52:46,160
Speaker 1: with our relationship sometimes is that a lot of times

991
00:52:46,200 --> 00:52:48,600
Speaker 1: people think you don't quote unquote control me, if that

992
00:52:48,719 --> 00:52:50,960
Speaker 1: makes sense. They think you don't quote unquote put me

993
00:52:51,040 --> 00:52:52,440
Speaker 1: in my lane and tell me what to do, Like

994
00:52:52,480 --> 00:52:54,240
Speaker 1: I have too much freedoms in the relationship.

995
00:52:54,320 --> 00:52:56,319
Speaker 3: Which is funny because on the podcast, we have people

996
00:52:56,400 --> 00:52:59,640
Speaker 3: that write in and say the opposite shit, Like you know,

997
00:53:00,080 --> 00:53:03,560
Speaker 3: like it's so funny. I mean, everybody's viewing what they

998
00:53:03,800 --> 00:53:06,320
Speaker 3: assume to be our entire day of relationship on this podcast.

999
00:53:06,360 --> 00:53:09,720
Speaker 3: But yeah, it's funny because the reality of our life

1000
00:53:09,800 --> 00:53:11,840
Speaker 3: and then the way people talk about us is so

1001
00:53:12,000 --> 00:53:14,080
Speaker 3: fucking anyway, go ahead.

1002
00:53:15,320 --> 00:53:18,920
Speaker 1: Right because because it's layers to it. But it's just,

1003
00:53:19,640 --> 00:53:23,200
Speaker 1: you know, amazes me how because I'm very vocal and

1004
00:53:23,320 --> 00:53:26,440
Speaker 1: I hadn't always been as vocal as I am, so

1005
00:53:26,800 --> 00:53:29,879
Speaker 1: now you know, I'm more flat footed and I will

1006
00:53:29,960 --> 00:53:32,759
Speaker 1: express myself and I'm like, I'm not gonna put up

1007
00:53:32,800 --> 00:53:34,680
Speaker 1: with this. I am gonna put it with that. And

1008
00:53:34,840 --> 00:53:37,479
Speaker 1: I'm very, very more open now with how I feel.

1009
00:53:37,760 --> 00:53:40,000
Speaker 1: And I think, truthfully, a lot of that is with

1010
00:53:40,160 --> 00:53:43,600
Speaker 1: getting older because the older older you get, particularly being

1011
00:53:43,640 --> 00:53:46,440
Speaker 1: a woman, the older you get, the more comfortable you

1012
00:53:46,520 --> 00:53:48,880
Speaker 1: are in your skin, the more comfortable you are on

1013
00:53:48,960 --> 00:53:52,040
Speaker 1: your woman. It's the more comfortable and the more comfortable

1014
00:53:52,080 --> 00:53:56,800
Speaker 1: you become with I'm not taking no shit, and I

1015
00:53:57,160 --> 00:53:58,800
Speaker 1: and not to get off topic, but I think this

1016
00:53:58,960 --> 00:54:03,120
Speaker 1: is why a lot of men of older men don't

1017
00:54:03,280 --> 00:54:06,040
Speaker 1: like older women because they know that they're gonna be

1018
00:54:06,120 --> 00:54:08,080
Speaker 1: like bitch, I'm not gonna put it with that bullshit.

1019
00:54:08,120 --> 00:54:10,239
Speaker 1: And they like young women because of their lack of

1020
00:54:10,360 --> 00:54:12,279
Speaker 1: knowledge and then like and they just ain't lived life

1021
00:54:12,360 --> 00:54:13,040
Speaker 1: yet us.

1022
00:54:13,160 --> 00:54:16,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, And also young women are taught to be compliant

1023
00:54:17,680 --> 00:54:22,200
Speaker 3: and you know, and obviously a lack of relationship as well.

1024
00:54:22,280 --> 00:54:26,160
Speaker 3: That as a cudgel against a lot of women, even

1025
00:54:26,280 --> 00:54:30,480
Speaker 3: older and younger. And I think via the advent of.

1026
00:54:32,480 --> 00:54:36,040
Speaker 2: The women's movement, not just feminism, but.

1027
00:54:36,160 --> 00:54:37,880
Speaker 3: Like literally just you can get a job, you can

1028
00:54:37,920 --> 00:54:42,840
Speaker 3: get a bank account, you can get a divorce, be

1029
00:54:42,960 --> 00:54:46,480
Speaker 3: as we're now coming upon the precipice of a time

1030
00:54:46,520 --> 00:54:49,560
Speaker 3: where women are like crossing over the threshold from you

1031
00:54:49,680 --> 00:54:53,239
Speaker 3: were supposed to have a man too. Okay, well it

1032
00:54:53,320 --> 00:54:57,680
Speaker 3: didn't happen yet, I'm forty or whatever the fuck. Ock y'all,

1033
00:54:58,320 --> 00:55:02,280
Speaker 3: just treat me like the fuck with respect and nicely

1034
00:55:03,200 --> 00:55:05,560
Speaker 3: and call it a good day. Like I'm not gonna

1035
00:55:05,560 --> 00:55:08,360
Speaker 3: sit up here and be like, oh, he crazy, and

1036
00:55:08,560 --> 00:55:12,520
Speaker 3: just deal with you like been demeaning me, talking bad

1037
00:55:12,560 --> 00:55:16,560
Speaker 3: about my body, talking bad about my my life choices,

1038
00:55:16,600 --> 00:55:20,880
Speaker 3: talking bad about you know, just everything, like I owe you, like,

1039
00:55:21,040 --> 00:55:24,080
Speaker 3: like my whole existence as a woman is to fucking

1040
00:55:24,280 --> 00:55:27,800
Speaker 3: like pay to pay some sort of like reverence to

1041
00:55:27,880 --> 00:55:29,560
Speaker 3: the fact that you're a man and you have a dick,

1042
00:55:30,000 --> 00:55:32,839
Speaker 3: and that's my whole fucking life as a cis had woman.

1043
00:55:33,440 --> 00:55:35,399
Speaker 3: Like a lot of women are just rejecting that shit

1044
00:55:35,520 --> 00:55:38,560
Speaker 3: flat out, Like, look, I got there's other shit to

1045
00:55:38,640 --> 00:55:41,200
Speaker 3: life than fucking you. There's other shit to life and

1046
00:55:41,320 --> 00:55:44,279
Speaker 3: raising your damn dirty ass kids, or dealing with your

1047
00:55:44,360 --> 00:55:47,560
Speaker 3: cheating ass ways, or dealing with disrespect or your meanness

1048
00:55:47,719 --> 00:55:49,920
Speaker 3: or whatever the fuck. Like I can go out and

1049
00:55:49,920 --> 00:55:52,960
Speaker 3: get my fucking PhD. I can go outstart my own business.

1050
00:55:53,120 --> 00:55:55,880
Speaker 3: I'm like, I'm living life. I'll adopt the kid my

1051
00:55:56,000 --> 00:55:58,960
Speaker 3: fucking self, like I like, I like, I'm living my

1052
00:55:59,120 --> 00:56:02,759
Speaker 3: fucking life because my happiness is more important than being

1053
00:56:02,840 --> 00:56:06,719
Speaker 3: tied to some nigga who feels like, you know, like

1054
00:56:06,840 --> 00:56:10,080
Speaker 3: that Martin proposal where it's like, yes, I will marry you.

1055
00:56:10,280 --> 00:56:12,879
Speaker 3: Are you happy? Damn Like, I don't want to live

1056
00:56:12,960 --> 00:56:14,799
Speaker 3: my life like that, you know. And I think that's

1057
00:56:14,840 --> 00:56:17,239
Speaker 3: what has changed a lot, because now men have to

1058
00:56:17,320 --> 00:56:20,399
Speaker 3: consider women in a way that we never considered women before, right,

1059
00:56:20,520 --> 00:56:22,520
Speaker 3: and because you didn't have to. It's like I courted

1060
00:56:22,560 --> 00:56:25,120
Speaker 3: you at thirteen, bat you mine, you my property. Now

1061
00:56:25,160 --> 00:56:27,480
Speaker 3: get in the house, pop out these babies, take care

1062
00:56:27,520 --> 00:56:29,680
Speaker 3: of shit. I'll be over my mistress house. Bitch, I'm

1063
00:56:29,719 --> 00:56:31,600
Speaker 3: going to the moon. I'll be right back right.

1064
00:56:31,680 --> 00:56:34,520
Speaker 1: And men are not handling this well. And that's why

1065
00:56:34,600 --> 00:56:36,759
Speaker 1: you see a lot of this rejection online from a

1066
00:56:36,800 --> 00:56:39,520
Speaker 1: lot of particularly straight men. You see a lot of

1067
00:56:39,600 --> 00:56:43,000
Speaker 1: whining and crying online. I'm just keeping it on line

1068
00:56:43,400 --> 00:56:48,200
Speaker 1: with men not really under They understand, but men have

1069
00:56:48,400 --> 00:56:51,120
Speaker 1: never really had to look at women as an equal.

1070
00:56:51,160 --> 00:56:54,120
Speaker 1: I'm just kicked that real like, society has never really

1071
00:56:54,239 --> 00:56:57,759
Speaker 1: taught men to look at their mate and their significant

1072
00:56:57,800 --> 00:57:01,880
Speaker 1: others as an equal. And so now women are like

1073
00:57:02,360 --> 00:57:08,080
Speaker 1: I am in control, and people who have had the

1074
00:57:08,120 --> 00:57:11,160
Speaker 1: privilege of always being in control has a turn around

1075
00:57:11,200 --> 00:57:12,920
Speaker 1: and be like, bitch, what you man? You in control?

1076
00:57:13,000 --> 00:57:16,040
Speaker 1: How dare you take yo, your your right to have children,

1077
00:57:16,440 --> 00:57:19,760
Speaker 1: your your right to your body to and and tell

1078
00:57:19,840 --> 00:57:21,480
Speaker 1: me when I can fuck you and how I can

1079
00:57:21,520 --> 00:57:24,320
Speaker 1: treat how how dare you? They turn and it's this

1080
00:57:24,600 --> 00:57:30,120
Speaker 1: anger versus being like, Okay, I understand the dynamics have changed,

1081
00:57:31,360 --> 00:57:35,160
Speaker 1: but instead of admitting that they don't that they don't

1082
00:57:35,200 --> 00:57:37,280
Speaker 1: know how to deal with it well and going I'm

1083
00:57:37,280 --> 00:57:39,240
Speaker 1: not trying to find and going to get help with

1084
00:57:39,480 --> 00:57:42,840
Speaker 1: whatever issues that they have with women, you end up

1085
00:57:42,840 --> 00:57:45,520
Speaker 1: with these pointless fights online, right, And I know that's

1086
00:57:45,560 --> 00:57:49,000
Speaker 1: a huge tangent, but yeah, back to the article on

1087
00:57:49,240 --> 00:57:52,280
Speaker 1: stage one, more negativity and the positivity seems to the relationship,

1088
00:57:52,400 --> 00:57:54,920
Speaker 1: so you know, and like I said, I've seen that.

1089
00:57:55,240 --> 00:57:57,120
Speaker 3: I don't know how people come back from that. I mean,

1090
00:57:57,160 --> 00:58:01,520
Speaker 3: maybe therapy, counseling, some sort of communication, because that for me,

1091
00:58:02,080 --> 00:58:04,920
Speaker 3: just the way my whole ego is set up, I

1092
00:58:05,000 --> 00:58:07,800
Speaker 3: couldn't do it. I couldn't do it man, Like, I

1093
00:58:08,000 --> 00:58:11,040
Speaker 3: don't want to be I don't want to come home

1094
00:58:11,120 --> 00:58:14,120
Speaker 3: and be chastised. I don't mind if you're not happy

1095
00:58:14,200 --> 00:58:16,080
Speaker 3: with something, we need to talk about it. I'm cool

1096
00:58:16,120 --> 00:58:19,600
Speaker 3: with that, right If it's just you, fucking like being

1097
00:58:19,840 --> 00:58:22,200
Speaker 3: negative and mean about every fucking thing I have to

1098
00:58:22,280 --> 00:58:22,720
Speaker 3: say or do.

1099
00:58:23,640 --> 00:58:26,240
Speaker 2: No, Like, I get enough of that in my own head.

1100
00:58:26,880 --> 00:58:29,400
Speaker 3: Why the fuck would I want someone that's supposed to

1101
00:58:29,440 --> 00:58:33,000
Speaker 3: be in it with me to bring that to the relationship, right.

1102
00:58:33,080 --> 00:58:38,000
Speaker 1: And particularly somebody that goes to work dealing with all

1103
00:58:38,080 --> 00:58:40,600
Speaker 1: types of shit on there nine to five. I don't

1104
00:58:40,600 --> 00:58:42,240
Speaker 1: want to have to fight people at home and time

1105
00:58:42,240 --> 00:58:44,440
Speaker 1: around and fight you too. Yeah, my house should be

1106
00:58:44,840 --> 00:58:48,000
Speaker 1: my sanctuary. I can't speak for nobody else. My house

1107
00:58:48,120 --> 00:58:51,280
Speaker 1: has got cause you. You mentally have got to take

1108
00:58:51,360 --> 00:58:54,000
Speaker 1: a break from the fucking race of the world, right,

1109
00:58:54,080 --> 00:58:57,360
Speaker 1: You've got to have somewhere where you can unwhine and

1110
00:58:57,560 --> 00:59:00,360
Speaker 1: and not and not always be owned, because you're constantly

1111
00:59:00,440 --> 00:59:02,880
Speaker 1: own when you go to your job. Your job pay

1112
00:59:02,920 --> 00:59:05,520
Speaker 1: you not to cut your coworkers out. Your job pays

1113
00:59:05,560 --> 00:59:07,360
Speaker 1: you to sit down, shut up, and work. That's what

1114
00:59:07,440 --> 00:59:09,520
Speaker 1: the fuck. Your job pays you. And you do the job,

1115
00:59:09,560 --> 00:59:11,240
Speaker 1: we'll pay you. We give you health care and whatever.

1116
00:59:11,360 --> 00:59:13,200
Speaker 1: That's what we're paying you to do. They don't pay

1117
00:59:13,240 --> 00:59:14,960
Speaker 1: you for your problems and your issues at home. They

1118
00:59:15,000 --> 00:59:16,560
Speaker 1: don't pay you for that. That's what they pay you for.

1119
00:59:16,800 --> 00:59:18,160
Speaker 1: I don't want to have to deal with all the

1120
00:59:18,200 --> 00:59:21,760
Speaker 1: bullshit at my job spend hours, however it takes me

1121
00:59:21,840 --> 00:59:24,120
Speaker 1: to get home to turn around, look you and your

1122
00:59:24,200 --> 00:59:26,800
Speaker 1: goddamn face and have to deal with the same bullshit.

1123
00:59:27,160 --> 00:59:27,720
Speaker 3: I like like.

1124
00:59:27,800 --> 00:59:30,440
Speaker 1: And people wonder why people get divorced. Sometimes that's the

1125
00:59:30,440 --> 00:59:33,160
Speaker 1: reason why. Because that negativity will drive you up the

1126
00:59:33,240 --> 00:59:33,840
Speaker 1: fucking wall.

1127
00:59:34,440 --> 00:59:36,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, even if you have a good job, right, come

1128
00:59:36,600 --> 00:59:39,640
Speaker 3: home to fucking bullshit Stage two. The four horsemen of

1129
00:59:39,720 --> 00:59:44,640
Speaker 3: the pocalysts, contempt, criticism, defensiveness, and stonewalling all contribute to

1130
00:59:44,640 --> 00:59:49,320
Speaker 3: a poison's relationship. Yep, And I think stage it's funny

1131
00:59:49,360 --> 00:59:51,520
Speaker 3: because stage two is definitely a result of stage one.

1132
00:59:51,960 --> 00:59:54,439
Speaker 2: Once thing is getting more negative, you come home.

1133
00:59:54,720 --> 00:59:57,960
Speaker 3: What now you live in contempt, your your significant other,

1134
00:59:58,880 --> 01:00:01,600
Speaker 3: you know, or others, how, you know, whatever, your lifestyle

1135
01:00:01,760 --> 01:00:06,760
Speaker 3: is criticism, right, you getting more? There's more? You did

1136
01:00:06,840 --> 01:00:08,720
Speaker 3: this wrong, you did that wrong? What's wrong with this?

1137
01:00:09,440 --> 01:00:13,280
Speaker 3: You know that shit? And it's normally not constructive, you know,

1138
01:00:13,720 --> 01:00:18,320
Speaker 3: at that point. Defensiveness, which you know you see all

1139
01:00:18,360 --> 01:00:20,120
Speaker 3: the time, you know. I think I feel like when

1140
01:00:20,160 --> 01:00:24,520
Speaker 3: I grew up, not so much at now, but definitely

1141
01:00:24,520 --> 01:00:26,560
Speaker 3: when I was a kid, that was defensiveness in my

1142
01:00:26,640 --> 01:00:29,880
Speaker 3: home because it was always like, am I gonna be

1143
01:00:30,240 --> 01:00:34,280
Speaker 3: attacked with this criticism? Like, you know, because like my

1144
01:00:34,400 --> 01:00:37,200
Speaker 3: dad especially is good at asking you a question and

1145
01:00:37,320 --> 01:00:39,640
Speaker 3: you already know that he knows an answer to the question.

1146
01:00:39,880 --> 01:00:42,480
Speaker 3: And you want to get to the end because you're

1147
01:00:42,480 --> 01:00:44,280
Speaker 3: fucked up somewhere and you're gonna get in trouble and

1148
01:00:44,320 --> 01:00:45,400
Speaker 3: you don't know what it is, but.

1149
01:00:45,800 --> 01:00:50,240
Speaker 2: He'll start with like, you know, now, who did dude's turn?

1150
01:00:50,400 --> 01:00:51,960
Speaker 3: Was it to do these dishes? And you're like, you

1151
01:00:52,200 --> 01:00:54,880
Speaker 3: know it was I'm supposed to do the dishes, or

1152
01:00:55,480 --> 01:00:57,520
Speaker 3: even if it was my brother's urn. You know that

1153
01:00:57,760 --> 01:00:59,400
Speaker 3: you just don't want to see no damn dishes in

1154
01:00:59,480 --> 01:01:02,240
Speaker 3: the same whatever. Right, So after a while of that

1155
01:01:02,400 --> 01:01:04,720
Speaker 3: kind of like you know that being one of his

1156
01:01:04,920 --> 01:01:08,840
Speaker 3: main communication techniques, you do get defensive. You know, my

1157
01:01:08,920 --> 01:01:11,919
Speaker 3: mom used to be defensive about it, like cause it's like, Okay,

1158
01:01:12,040 --> 01:01:15,440
Speaker 3: you're gonna go through a whole lecture and I'm already

1159
01:01:15,560 --> 01:01:17,760
Speaker 3: defending myself. I'm already like, well, I was doing this.

1160
01:01:17,880 --> 01:01:19,400
Speaker 3: I was doing this because I'm trying not to catch

1161
01:01:19,440 --> 01:01:23,040
Speaker 3: the blame. You know. Now that being said, I do

1162
01:01:23,360 --> 01:01:26,880
Speaker 3: have the same kind of questioning pattern, but the difference is,

1163
01:01:27,200 --> 01:01:30,360
Speaker 3: at least in my opinion, I'm not seeking to blame you.

1164
01:01:30,440 --> 01:01:32,680
Speaker 3: I'm seeking to understand. If I don't want to be

1165
01:01:32,800 --> 01:01:35,480
Speaker 3: mad as somebody because they did something in a way

1166
01:01:35,520 --> 01:01:37,640
Speaker 3: I don't understand. If I can understand it, then I

1167
01:01:37,680 --> 01:01:40,280
Speaker 3: won't be mad, you know where It's like, okay, so

1168
01:01:40,440 --> 01:01:42,560
Speaker 3: how come, you didn't do these dishes. It's like, oh,

1169
01:01:42,760 --> 01:01:46,160
Speaker 3: the dishwasher is broken. Cool, you know I won't then

1170
01:01:46,200 --> 01:01:47,840
Speaker 3: turn it into like and why didn't you didn't wash

1171
01:01:47,840 --> 01:01:49,800
Speaker 3: the dishes by your hands? Like I think mad at

1172
01:01:49,840 --> 01:01:52,480
Speaker 3: these dishes in here, I'm like, Okay, that's the explanation

1173
01:01:52,920 --> 01:01:55,000
Speaker 3: we need to work on. We need to get dishwasher fixed.

1174
01:01:55,400 --> 01:01:58,280
Speaker 3: That's it for me, you know. So yeah, I think

1175
01:01:58,320 --> 01:02:01,240
Speaker 3: the defensiveness comes in because, especially if you have contempt,

1176
01:02:01,720 --> 01:02:04,680
Speaker 3: you're expressing the contempt through criticism, and then the other

1177
01:02:04,760 --> 01:02:07,560
Speaker 3: person's being defensive because they know that you're you just

1178
01:02:07,640 --> 01:02:09,880
Speaker 3: want to get back to the contempt. You know, you

1179
01:02:10,000 --> 01:02:11,240
Speaker 3: just want to walk out the room and be like,

1180
01:02:11,240 --> 01:02:13,400
Speaker 3: stupid ass, motherfucker, ain't doing no dishes. You don't want

1181
01:02:13,440 --> 01:02:18,240
Speaker 3: to actually here solve the problem, right, And of course

1182
01:02:18,320 --> 01:02:20,880
Speaker 3: stonewalling I think is more like silent treatment and shit.

1183
01:02:20,800 --> 01:02:23,840
Speaker 1: Like that, right, And I don't, right, And I think

1184
01:02:23,960 --> 01:02:26,200
Speaker 1: for me, and I've had that done against me because

1185
01:02:26,280 --> 01:02:31,480
Speaker 1: like for me, the criticism, the like nit picking, Like

1186
01:02:31,600 --> 01:02:33,560
Speaker 1: and I love my mama, but that's something that she

1187
01:02:34,080 --> 01:02:38,520
Speaker 1: does and still does to today, and like that's something

1188
01:02:38,600 --> 01:02:41,920
Speaker 1: that just irritates the shit out of me personally, like

1189
01:02:42,240 --> 01:02:46,400
Speaker 1: I'm like, don't criticize me like that, like, And that's

1190
01:02:46,440 --> 01:02:48,880
Speaker 1: the thing I and and because a lot of times

1191
01:02:48,960 --> 01:02:51,640
Speaker 1: when when you nitpick at people, you're trying to turn

1192
01:02:51,760 --> 01:02:54,560
Speaker 1: them into something that they're not. I am who I am,

1193
01:02:54,680 --> 01:02:57,080
Speaker 1: and that's the end of it. You would drive yourself

1194
01:02:57,160 --> 01:02:59,600
Speaker 1: up the wall trying to satisfy somebody that will never

1195
01:02:59,680 --> 01:03:02,720
Speaker 1: fucking be satisfied with any decision that you make when

1196
01:03:02,720 --> 01:03:05,200
Speaker 1: they're like that. So I had to learn how to

1197
01:03:05,280 --> 01:03:08,360
Speaker 1: just let that go, you know. And people like that

1198
01:03:08,520 --> 01:03:12,040
Speaker 1: don't understand why I separate myself from them. I won't

1199
01:03:12,120 --> 01:03:14,760
Speaker 1: tell them, I won't confront them. You look around you,

1200
01:03:14,880 --> 01:03:17,160
Speaker 1: but we ain't seen Karen in six months. That's the

1201
01:03:17,240 --> 01:03:19,600
Speaker 1: fuck why. Because I don't want to deal with this.

1202
01:03:19,760 --> 01:03:22,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's a huge as flags even in friendships and shit, correct,

1203
01:03:23,000 --> 01:03:25,720
Speaker 3: we're talking about romantic relationships right now, but even as

1204
01:03:25,760 --> 01:03:29,640
Speaker 3: a friend, if I just see your highly critical, negative

1205
01:03:29,680 --> 01:03:33,080
Speaker 3: ass person, no ya, no, it's cause it's gonna go

1206
01:03:33,160 --> 01:03:33,760
Speaker 3: somewhere bad.

1207
01:03:33,880 --> 01:03:36,000
Speaker 2: I'm not one of those people. You're gonna do it

1208
01:03:36,080 --> 01:03:37,360
Speaker 2: to me and you're gonna find out.

1209
01:03:37,280 --> 01:03:40,520
Speaker 3: That that's see people say the word trigger and it's all,

1210
01:03:40,640 --> 01:03:43,280
Speaker 3: and it's like this fragility attached to it. It's like

1211
01:03:43,360 --> 01:03:45,840
Speaker 3: I'm triggered. I'm triggered, and I do this and I'm

1212
01:03:45,880 --> 01:03:48,760
Speaker 3: triggered and I was triggered and that's how it's become

1213
01:03:48,880 --> 01:03:53,240
Speaker 3: like mocked on the internet. But everyone has triggers, yes,

1214
01:03:53,280 --> 01:03:55,880
Speaker 3: they do. The thing is that kind of trigger for

1215
01:03:56,040 --> 01:03:58,800
Speaker 3: me does not lead to me like crying and being sad.

1216
01:03:58,880 --> 01:04:01,560
Speaker 3: It leads to me going to fuck off. And so

1217
01:04:01,920 --> 01:04:04,120
Speaker 3: normally when I see people like that, I just move

1218
01:04:04,200 --> 01:04:07,200
Speaker 3: away from them because I'm like, dag, you don't know it,

1219
01:04:07,440 --> 01:04:11,040
Speaker 3: but like you're on my tenth nerve and like it's

1220
01:04:11,160 --> 01:04:13,439
Speaker 3: just like this is gonna end up bad for both

1221
01:04:13,480 --> 01:04:16,120
Speaker 3: of us because I'm gonna say something. Because there's things

1222
01:04:16,160 --> 01:04:18,840
Speaker 3: I hold back because I think it's just you know, polite.

1223
01:04:19,040 --> 01:04:21,960
Speaker 3: It's yeah, you know, people always strive like I'm honest, man,

1224
01:04:22,000 --> 01:04:23,760
Speaker 3: I'm honest with it really means I'm a dig They

1225
01:04:23,800 --> 01:04:25,880
Speaker 3: tell you every fucking thing on their mind. Like, nah,

1226
01:04:26,000 --> 01:04:28,920
Speaker 3: I'm honest. I'm communicative all the shit. But there's things

1227
01:04:28,960 --> 01:04:31,000
Speaker 3: where I'm like, Okay, this is a person is my friend.

1228
01:04:31,360 --> 01:04:33,200
Speaker 3: They might be doing something I don't like, or if

1229
01:04:33,280 --> 01:04:36,040
Speaker 3: something gets on my nerves, but it's totally acceptable. I

1230
01:04:36,080 --> 01:04:39,040
Speaker 3: don't need to change them. I'm completely willing to deal

1231
01:04:39,080 --> 01:04:42,320
Speaker 3: with it correct. And if that kind of person were

1232
01:04:42,400 --> 01:04:44,480
Speaker 3: to just keep coming at you, coming at you, coming

1233
01:04:44,520 --> 01:04:46,560
Speaker 3: at you, then all of a sudden, I'm like, well,

1234
01:04:46,600 --> 01:04:48,800
Speaker 3: you know what, motherfucker, it's a lot of shit I

1235
01:04:48,840 --> 01:04:52,200
Speaker 3: don't talk about because I thought we were both understanding.

1236
01:04:52,280 --> 01:04:55,400
Speaker 3: We are tolerant of each others like shortcomings and mistakes,

1237
01:04:55,760 --> 01:04:57,400
Speaker 3: because that's what friendship used to mean.

1238
01:04:57,960 --> 01:04:59,720
Speaker 1: And that's what it don't mean that no more, but

1239
01:04:59,800 --> 01:05:01,720
Speaker 1: that that's right. That's what it means to me now.

1240
01:05:01,800 --> 01:05:04,760
Speaker 3: It means you check out the same boxes on I

1241
01:05:04,760 --> 01:05:06,280
Speaker 3: don't know, and.

1242
01:05:06,280 --> 01:05:08,800
Speaker 1: When don't have private moments, you put it on fucking Snapchat.

1243
01:05:09,000 --> 01:05:12,520
Speaker 3: Right, That's what friendship means now, as opposed to like, no,

1244
01:05:12,800 --> 01:05:15,320
Speaker 3: like that's my homie. Sometimes they say or do some

1245
01:05:15,400 --> 01:05:17,760
Speaker 3: ship where I'm like, man, chill out and that's the

1246
01:05:17,920 --> 01:05:19,960
Speaker 3: end of it, you know what I mean. Like, or

1247
01:05:20,000 --> 01:05:21,920
Speaker 3: they have some views where I'm like, I disagree with

1248
01:05:22,400 --> 01:05:23,080
Speaker 3: what you about.

1249
01:05:24,000 --> 01:05:24,040
Speaker 1: You.

1250
01:05:24,240 --> 01:05:27,560
Speaker 3: You don't like Beyonce's music, a nigga, you whack for that,

1251
01:05:27,960 --> 01:05:30,600
Speaker 3: and we and we offer that like it's not what

1252
01:05:30,720 --> 01:05:32,720
Speaker 3: that means. We don't go to concerts together, that's it.

1253
01:05:33,400 --> 01:05:35,960
Speaker 3: But we're still friends and I feel like that ship

1254
01:05:36,040 --> 01:05:41,120
Speaker 3: has kind of changed over time. But yeah, I think

1255
01:05:41,400 --> 01:05:44,040
Speaker 3: what people don't realize is that you know, the evil

1256
01:05:44,080 --> 01:05:47,800
Speaker 3: inside is always there. So I don't like being pushed

1257
01:05:47,840 --> 01:05:51,000
Speaker 3: in these ways because it definitely will trigger something and

1258
01:05:51,240 --> 01:05:53,200
Speaker 3: that I can see how this leads to a part

1259
01:05:53,200 --> 01:05:54,280
Speaker 3: of that breakdown relationship.

1260
01:05:55,240 --> 01:05:57,960
Speaker 1: Agreed, And like you say, it's one of those things

1261
01:05:58,040 --> 01:06:01,200
Speaker 1: where I have one hundred agree with what you just said.

1262
01:06:02,200 --> 01:06:05,840
Speaker 1: For me, I will remove myself and it's not for you.

1263
01:06:06,160 --> 01:06:11,000
Speaker 1: It's more of me protecting you, you know, because I'm

1264
01:06:11,080 --> 01:06:13,840
Speaker 1: like you. Eventually you're gonna You're gonna catch me on

1265
01:06:13,960 --> 01:06:18,040
Speaker 1: an off day or a day where I'm tired or

1266
01:06:18,400 --> 01:06:22,640
Speaker 1: I hadn't you know, you get anything right, and I

1267
01:06:22,680 --> 01:06:24,600
Speaker 1: don't know when the mother gonna be and I might

1268
01:06:24,680 --> 01:06:26,880
Speaker 1: be like, you know what, bitch, I don't have enough

1269
01:06:26,920 --> 01:06:29,160
Speaker 1: for you today, and then next thing you know, you

1270
01:06:29,320 --> 01:06:31,960
Speaker 1: got ten years worth of shit and I'm wrong for

1271
01:06:32,120 --> 01:06:36,080
Speaker 1: fucking going off. But nobody's seen the fifteen years that

1272
01:06:36,120 --> 01:06:37,720
Speaker 1: I've had to deal with your boys, because that's a

1273
01:06:37,800 --> 01:06:40,439
Speaker 1: thing like I won't let it slide, and it slid

1274
01:06:40,560 --> 01:06:42,760
Speaker 1: and it slider. So for before I get to that

1275
01:06:42,920 --> 01:06:46,240
Speaker 1: point that I show my black ass and not get

1276
01:06:46,320 --> 01:06:48,600
Speaker 1: invited to nothing else, I will just leave.

1277
01:06:49,080 --> 01:06:53,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, the assumption is that you're doing it because that's

1278
01:06:53,120 --> 01:06:55,040
Speaker 3: the kind of person you are, you know what I'm saying, like, oh,

1279
01:06:55,080 --> 01:06:57,160
Speaker 3: you're not. You're just a nice person that lets people

1280
01:06:57,200 --> 01:07:00,200
Speaker 3: do whatever they want. And then they don't know, like, no,

1281
01:07:00,520 --> 01:07:04,520
Speaker 3: I mean, I'm a nice person, but at the same time,

1282
01:07:05,120 --> 01:07:08,080
Speaker 3: I'm nice under the conditions that you're nice too, right.

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01:07:08,120 --> 01:07:11,560
Speaker 1: Right, And that's the part that people don't understand because

1284
01:07:11,800 --> 01:07:14,640
Speaker 1: one thing about me and my and Roger noticed me

1285
01:07:14,720 --> 01:07:18,760
Speaker 1: and my personality. I'm very given, I will do anything

1286
01:07:18,880 --> 01:07:21,640
Speaker 1: for anybody. I'm very sweet and kind, you know, really

1287
01:07:21,720 --> 01:07:26,680
Speaker 1: truly is just a sweet and kind person. And when

1288
01:07:26,680 --> 01:07:27,920
Speaker 1: you deal with people like that, a lot of times,

1289
01:07:27,960 --> 01:07:30,000
Speaker 1: like you say, they take it. But like this, people

1290
01:07:30,560 --> 01:07:33,720
Speaker 1: didn't nag like that, particularly to somebody that's kind of

1291
01:07:33,760 --> 01:07:36,320
Speaker 1: a nice and kind person like me. They just assume

1292
01:07:36,520 --> 01:07:39,440
Speaker 1: that you're weak and that you don't know or that

1293
01:07:39,560 --> 01:07:43,840
Speaker 1: you don't understand what's happening. And you know, sometimes I

1294
01:07:43,960 --> 01:07:45,840
Speaker 1: might be a little slow to certain things, but want

1295
01:07:45,920 --> 01:07:48,600
Speaker 1: certain things I brought to my attention, you know, and

1296
01:07:48,680 --> 01:07:51,000
Speaker 1: I'm more aware and alert, and that's just running over

1297
01:07:51,160 --> 01:07:53,600
Speaker 1: time that you know, people are mean and cruel in

1298
01:07:53,720 --> 01:07:56,680
Speaker 1: various different ways. Sometimes people hide it. A lot of

1299
01:07:56,720 --> 01:07:59,720
Speaker 1: times people think mean and cruel to smack you upside

1300
01:07:59,720 --> 01:08:03,280
Speaker 1: the hay, But that's not always it meaning cruel. Sometimes

1301
01:08:03,360 --> 01:08:05,720
Speaker 1: it is the way they said, the tone that they say,

1302
01:08:06,040 --> 01:08:09,000
Speaker 1: the how they treat you, their body language. Like, it's

1303
01:08:09,080 --> 01:08:11,680
Speaker 1: a lot of ways the motherfuckers are nasty and mean,

1304
01:08:11,960 --> 01:08:14,960
Speaker 1: and people just consider it politeness because you know, we're

1305
01:08:15,080 --> 01:08:17,479
Speaker 1: just not considered to We don't want to call out

1306
01:08:17,520 --> 01:08:20,320
Speaker 1: your bullshit, right because we just let it slide. Because

1307
01:08:20,320 --> 01:08:22,200
Speaker 1: if I'm the one to call out your bullshit, I'm

1308
01:08:22,280 --> 01:08:24,960
Speaker 1: wrong and you can play victim if I tell you

1309
01:08:25,320 --> 01:08:27,599
Speaker 1: that this behavior is unacceptable, right.

1310
01:08:27,960 --> 01:08:31,080
Speaker 3: You know. But yes, that's a big one that stage two.

1311
01:08:31,120 --> 01:08:34,080
Speaker 3: Stage three is flooding. This is when anger starts coming

1312
01:08:34,160 --> 01:08:36,919
Speaker 3: out in the relationship and the parties become highly emotional,

1313
01:08:36,960 --> 01:08:39,720
Speaker 3: which would make sense after stage two. I mean, all

1314
01:08:39,760 --> 01:08:42,479
Speaker 3: those things are very triggering. The folks correct at stage

1315
01:08:42,520 --> 01:08:44,920
Speaker 3: four is I think the worst stage is just when

1316
01:08:44,960 --> 01:08:48,559
Speaker 3: you stop giving a fuck. Yeah, yeah, just disengage. It's

1317
01:08:48,640 --> 01:08:52,760
Speaker 3: just like we're fucking like roommates or uh, yeah, this

1318
01:08:52,920 --> 01:08:57,360
Speaker 3: nigga's cheating, but who gives a fuck out? You know, like, yeah,

1319
01:08:57,520 --> 01:08:59,720
Speaker 3: I don't give a fuck. We're not you know, we

1320
01:08:59,760 --> 01:09:04,000
Speaker 3: don't talk. I don't care. But yeah, it's interesting that

1321
01:09:05,120 --> 01:09:07,160
Speaker 3: because I because I just don't see how websites can

1322
01:09:07,200 --> 01:09:10,200
Speaker 3: measure that. But it's interesting that just being nice it

1323
01:09:10,240 --> 01:09:13,240
Speaker 3: is such a huge component to relationships because and there's

1324
01:09:13,240 --> 01:09:16,240
Speaker 3: people that pride themselves on being dicks and shit, and

1325
01:09:16,360 --> 01:09:19,040
Speaker 3: everyone has different images online now, so you got that

1326
01:09:19,240 --> 01:09:22,160
Speaker 3: ship where people can craft an entire image of like

1327
01:09:22,280 --> 01:09:25,479
Speaker 3: I'm so like fucking charitable and altruistic.

1328
01:09:25,040 --> 01:09:28,040
Speaker 2: And you know this, this and this and then but

1329
01:09:28,240 --> 01:09:31,120
Speaker 2: really they're not like that, you know. He just so,

1330
01:09:31,200 --> 01:09:32,519
Speaker 2: I man, it's a.

1331
01:09:32,560 --> 01:09:33,400
Speaker 3: Mind felt out there.

1332
01:09:33,479 --> 01:09:33,639
Speaker 1: Man.

1333
01:09:34,120 --> 01:09:37,240
Speaker 3: I feel for everybody having to deal with this bullshit

1334
01:09:37,320 --> 01:09:39,439
Speaker 3: because it's a lot man, right and.

1335
01:09:39,560 --> 01:09:42,320
Speaker 1: And and it's one of the things too, where uh,

1336
01:09:43,200 --> 01:09:45,400
Speaker 1: when it comes to relationships and shit like that, don't

1337
01:09:45,479 --> 01:09:48,760
Speaker 1: be pressured to be in a relationship just because you

1338
01:09:48,880 --> 01:09:50,759
Speaker 1: know a lot a lot of times people are lonely

1339
01:09:50,840 --> 01:09:53,559
Speaker 1: and I completely understand that, but baby, you be better

1340
01:09:53,600 --> 01:09:57,240
Speaker 1: off being lonely by yourself then with somebody that you

1341
01:09:57,400 --> 01:09:59,920
Speaker 1: got to deal with bullshit. And that's the goddamn truth.

1342
01:10:00,200 --> 01:10:02,760
Speaker 1: That's all types of we just did a thing for

1343
01:10:02,840 --> 01:10:05,120
Speaker 1: Adam and Eve. There's all types of shit that can

1344
01:10:05,160 --> 01:10:07,120
Speaker 1: get that crave in right on out the way and

1345
01:10:07,200 --> 01:10:08,920
Speaker 1: you can go on about your goddamn life.

1346
01:10:09,160 --> 01:10:12,880
Speaker 3: Yeah. The other thing too, is like, you know, this

1347
01:10:13,040 --> 01:10:15,560
Speaker 3: sounds kind of hippie ish, but it's something you know,

1348
01:10:15,640 --> 01:10:19,600
Speaker 3: I think about, you know now down forty or whatever is,

1349
01:10:19,960 --> 01:10:22,840
Speaker 3: you know, I think you have to find people that

1350
01:10:23,200 --> 01:10:26,479
Speaker 3: like are attuned to your vibrational waves, you know, like

1351
01:10:26,640 --> 01:10:30,280
Speaker 3: to the people that attuned to the energy you're giving out,

1352
01:10:30,680 --> 01:10:33,960
Speaker 3: to the energy that you're that you're able to process,

1353
01:10:35,800 --> 01:10:37,960
Speaker 3: and that changes over the course of your life. That

1354
01:10:38,120 --> 01:10:40,439
Speaker 3: changes different stages. People change with you.

1355
01:10:40,600 --> 01:10:43,920
Speaker 2: People change, people don't change. People change the other way.

1356
01:10:44,200 --> 01:10:49,160
Speaker 2: And we're all kind of seeking these matches all the time.

1357
01:10:49,240 --> 01:10:53,439
Speaker 3: And I don't mean romantically necessarily, just period, right, And

1358
01:10:53,600 --> 01:10:56,479
Speaker 3: you want to take that energy that we're all getting

1359
01:10:56,880 --> 01:11:00,479
Speaker 3: and you know, transmitted it, morphit, turn it, it's something

1360
01:11:00,520 --> 01:11:03,639
Speaker 3: positive for you, Which is the stage that I'm trying

1361
01:11:03,680 --> 01:11:06,479
Speaker 3: to be at now where it's like, even when someone

1362
01:11:06,680 --> 01:11:08,600
Speaker 3: is putting out negative ways towards me, I try to

1363
01:11:08,640 --> 01:11:11,160
Speaker 3: turn that shit into something positive for me. You know.

1364
01:11:12,520 --> 01:11:15,320
Speaker 3: Now it's so easy to like block people's access to you,

1365
01:11:16,720 --> 01:11:21,320
Speaker 3: especially with so many connections being like online, which you know,

1366
01:11:21,439 --> 01:11:24,360
Speaker 3: I no offense to my online friends, but it feels

1367
01:11:24,439 --> 01:11:29,960
Speaker 3: more artificial of a connection compared to some of them

1368
01:11:30,000 --> 01:11:33,040
Speaker 3: relationships I've taken privately or offline. You know what I'm saying,

1369
01:11:33,200 --> 01:11:36,240
Speaker 3: Like those relationships are more fulfilling to me, but also

1370
01:11:36,640 --> 01:11:40,240
Speaker 3: they matter more to me, you know. I think now

1371
01:11:40,360 --> 01:11:45,759
Speaker 3: with social media, we're also feeling and absorbing way.

1372
01:11:45,920 --> 01:11:48,679
Speaker 2: More like energy than we were before.

1373
01:11:48,840 --> 01:11:51,240
Speaker 3: Of course, you know, even if you were like quote

1374
01:11:51,320 --> 01:11:55,080
Speaker 3: unquote popular in your local area now back in the day,

1375
01:11:55,479 --> 01:11:57,240
Speaker 3: there's only so many people that have access to you.

1376
01:11:57,280 --> 01:12:00,840
Speaker 3: There's so much physical time and that you have that

1377
01:12:00,920 --> 01:12:02,880
Speaker 3: you occupy that people are gonna be able to be

1378
01:12:02,960 --> 01:12:04,960
Speaker 3: a member of that space, be a member of that time.

1379
01:12:05,520 --> 01:12:09,360
Speaker 3: Like now, every someone right now could be on Twitter

1380
01:12:09,479 --> 01:12:12,200
Speaker 3: and be like I just want to hit up so

1381
01:12:12,360 --> 01:12:14,400
Speaker 3: and so, and they can just do it. They can

1382
01:12:14,439 --> 01:12:16,320
Speaker 3: go on Facebook, they can direct message the ain't going

1383
01:12:16,360 --> 01:12:18,599
Speaker 3: your Instagram? That can leave a comment like now, we're

1384
01:12:18,600 --> 01:12:21,840
Speaker 3: absorbing shit all the time, shit that we really weren't

1385
01:12:21,840 --> 01:12:25,040
Speaker 3: supposed to all know, Like if I cook some food

1386
01:12:25,160 --> 01:12:26,960
Speaker 3: and I put a picture of it online, like, yo,

1387
01:12:27,080 --> 01:12:30,439
Speaker 3: I made this food. I don't need some stranger to

1388
01:12:30,520 --> 01:12:32,759
Speaker 3: hit me up and be like I wouldn't eat that food.

1389
01:12:33,080 --> 01:12:34,320
Speaker 3: But that's where we are now.

1390
01:12:34,760 --> 01:12:34,880
Speaker 1: Now.

1391
01:12:34,960 --> 01:12:37,160
Speaker 3: If that happened in real life, I made some food

1392
01:12:37,720 --> 01:12:40,000
Speaker 3: and you know, I took a picture of it, send

1393
01:12:40,040 --> 01:12:42,519
Speaker 3: it to my parents or some shit, no one's gonna

1394
01:12:42,600 --> 01:12:45,560
Speaker 3: like hop into that and be like, well, you know what,

1395
01:12:45,800 --> 01:12:48,800
Speaker 3: I don't eat seafood, you know, like like everyone else

1396
01:12:48,960 --> 01:12:52,599
Speaker 3: is gonna be fine, you know. But so I feel

1397
01:12:52,680 --> 01:12:54,800
Speaker 3: like we had to make adjustments on the fly. And

1398
01:12:55,120 --> 01:12:57,920
Speaker 3: because this social media stuff has only been around about

1399
01:12:57,920 --> 01:13:01,080
Speaker 3: ten years, right, it hasn't all been studied. We don't

1400
01:13:01,120 --> 01:13:04,640
Speaker 3: know the adverse mental effects has had on us. I

1401
01:13:04,800 --> 01:13:08,200
Speaker 3: know I've dealt with things from the rise of popularity

1402
01:13:08,240 --> 01:13:11,000
Speaker 3: this podcast that I had never dealt with in my

1403
01:13:11,600 --> 01:13:13,000
Speaker 3: life before.

1404
01:13:13,560 --> 01:13:16,360
Speaker 1: Personalities and everything when you go to fuck of this.

1405
01:13:16,760 --> 01:13:18,439
Speaker 3: Never had a person want to be down with me

1406
01:13:18,520 --> 01:13:21,360
Speaker 3: because of what they think I represent correct, never had

1407
01:13:21,360 --> 01:13:23,320
Speaker 3: that happen before. I never had people want to put

1408
01:13:23,400 --> 01:13:26,800
Speaker 3: labels on me that I didn't apply to myself. I mean,

1409
01:13:26,880 --> 01:13:30,000
Speaker 3: even as a positive thing. I don't see myself a

1410
01:13:30,040 --> 01:13:34,519
Speaker 3: certain way. You do, you know, Oh, you a uh,

1411
01:13:35,040 --> 01:13:38,120
Speaker 3: you're an activist, you a podcast mogul, You're I'm like,

1412
01:13:38,320 --> 01:13:40,760
Speaker 3: I'm none of these fucking things. And I know you

1413
01:13:40,840 --> 01:13:44,040
Speaker 3: think it's a compliment, but why you know you're not,

1414
01:13:44,360 --> 01:13:46,400
Speaker 3: Like what that means is you don't see me. You

1415
01:13:46,520 --> 01:13:48,840
Speaker 3: see an image of me that you decided is me,

1416
01:13:49,439 --> 01:13:51,160
Speaker 3: and that you decided it is good for me that

1417
01:13:51,240 --> 01:13:53,920
Speaker 3: I don't agree with. You know, you don't even understand

1418
01:13:53,920 --> 01:13:55,600
Speaker 3: why I don't agree with it, because you can't hear me.

1419
01:13:55,760 --> 01:13:58,840
Speaker 3: You can only hear what you think I should be.

1420
01:13:59,080 --> 01:13:59,240
Speaker 3: You know.

1421
01:13:59,800 --> 01:14:03,560
Speaker 2: I remember one time when we were going to d C.

1422
01:14:04,840 --> 01:14:07,840
Speaker 3: I had put up a post about you know, like yo,

1423
01:14:08,040 --> 01:14:10,479
Speaker 3: we like this is crazy, this is going, this is

1424
01:14:10,600 --> 01:14:14,120
Speaker 3: coming true. We are on a plane to d C.

1425
01:14:14,960 --> 01:14:18,280
Speaker 2: We are first class, Like I.

1426
01:14:19,880 --> 01:14:22,479
Speaker 3: Like this one my second time on plane in my life,

1427
01:14:23,040 --> 01:14:26,160
Speaker 3: you know, like this is like you know, I'm holding

1428
01:14:26,200 --> 01:14:29,479
Speaker 3: the hand of my wife looking out this window, like

1429
01:14:30,400 --> 01:14:35,160
Speaker 3: really feel with endless like just possibilities and you know,

1430
01:14:35,320 --> 01:14:38,720
Speaker 3: and anxious to see what's gonna happen, and you know,

1431
01:14:38,880 --> 01:14:41,040
Speaker 3: a million feelings are coming through my body at once,

1432
01:14:41,200 --> 01:14:44,439
Speaker 3: you know, through my mind, and so it's crazy.

1433
01:14:44,560 --> 01:14:44,920
Speaker 1: How like.

1434
01:14:45,600 --> 01:14:48,200
Speaker 3: So I was just like, it's crazy, like all this

1435
01:14:48,400 --> 01:14:50,960
Speaker 3: journey so far, and it's not even the end of

1436
01:14:51,040 --> 01:14:54,280
Speaker 3: this journey, but so far, and all the friendships I've made,

1437
01:14:54,360 --> 01:14:56,519
Speaker 3: all the people that fuck with me, all the people

1438
01:14:56,600 --> 01:14:59,519
Speaker 3: that don't, all the people that have listened to us,

1439
01:15:00,040 --> 01:15:02,400
Speaker 3: all the people we've met, all the people will never

1440
01:15:02,520 --> 01:15:07,120
Speaker 3: meet all. I mean, it's crazy. It's every day I

1441
01:15:07,240 --> 01:15:09,040
Speaker 3: think about that ship and I'm like, this is still

1442
01:15:09,080 --> 01:15:11,920
Speaker 3: insane that I'm able to live this way, right, Okay,

1443
01:15:12,120 --> 01:15:18,479
Speaker 3: you do every day every day. So, but it was crazy.

1444
01:15:18,600 --> 01:15:21,200
Speaker 3: So I basically put a Facebook post stuff that said that, right,

1445
01:15:21,560 --> 01:15:23,599
Speaker 3: this has been a couple of years ago now, because

1446
01:15:23,640 --> 01:15:26,960
Speaker 3: it was when we went to Negro Con, right, So,

1447
01:15:28,200 --> 01:15:30,320
Speaker 3: and I don't even I can't even remember that guy's name,

1448
01:15:31,720 --> 01:15:35,720
Speaker 3: and I'm not saying that to be shady, but he

1449
01:15:35,920 --> 01:15:39,080
Speaker 3: did a god DM me that day Facebook after I

1450
01:15:39,160 --> 01:15:41,080
Speaker 3: put that post stuff, and it was like, you know,

1451
01:15:41,160 --> 01:15:43,320
Speaker 3: I used to not like you and I thought you

1452
01:15:43,479 --> 01:15:46,000
Speaker 3: was just doing this, that and the other. But you know,

1453
01:15:46,280 --> 01:15:50,840
Speaker 3: seeing this post and how you know how you you're

1454
01:15:50,880 --> 01:15:53,599
Speaker 3: so excited and you just being a genuine person and stuff. Man,

1455
01:15:53,960 --> 01:15:55,920
Speaker 3: it really made me think about it differently and blah

1456
01:15:55,920 --> 01:15:58,800
Speaker 3: blah blah, and you know it's you know, it's kind

1457
01:15:58,840 --> 01:16:01,479
Speaker 3: of dope and I'm glad see you doing good or whatever. Right,

1458
01:16:03,040 --> 01:16:06,839
Speaker 3: here's the thing, Karen, I had never had any altercation

1459
01:16:06,920 --> 01:16:07,680
Speaker 3: with this person ever.

1460
01:16:08,479 --> 01:16:10,400
Speaker 1: No people have preconceived notions.

1461
01:16:10,640 --> 01:16:16,800
Speaker 3: Right, right, But think about that, like that energy was

1462
01:16:16,840 --> 01:16:19,479
Speaker 3: out there in the world. We don't know each other,

1463
01:16:20,360 --> 01:16:22,639
Speaker 3: Like we're not tight like that. We've never had a fight,

1464
01:16:23,439 --> 01:16:27,439
Speaker 3: We've never we're not friends. For you, for you to

1465
01:16:27,520 --> 01:16:32,280
Speaker 3: have any reason to disregard or to regard me, I'm

1466
01:16:32,400 --> 01:16:34,599
Speaker 3: just a person. I'm just a product to you, right.

1467
01:16:35,400 --> 01:16:37,479
Speaker 3: I guess in that moment I became human to.

1468
01:16:37,520 --> 01:16:39,439
Speaker 2: That person in the way correct that I must not

1469
01:16:39,520 --> 01:16:40,080
Speaker 2: have been before.

1470
01:16:40,200 --> 01:16:43,080
Speaker 3: But I was never not me. This is the only

1471
01:16:43,160 --> 01:16:46,240
Speaker 3: experience I have in my life, Like my life is

1472
01:16:46,320 --> 01:16:49,040
Speaker 3: the one experience I have on this earth. I don't have.

1473
01:16:49,280 --> 01:16:51,559
Speaker 2: I can't compare it and be in anyone else's shoes.

1474
01:16:52,120 --> 01:16:53,720
Speaker 2: So the idea of someone.

1475
01:16:53,560 --> 01:16:58,000
Speaker 3: Resenting me that I didn't know was kind of weird

1476
01:16:58,080 --> 01:17:00,240
Speaker 3: to me because and It wasn't just they resented, but

1477
01:17:00,360 --> 01:17:02,080
Speaker 3: it's like they resented me, but they were a friend

1478
01:17:02,120 --> 01:17:05,280
Speaker 3: on my Facebook page. They resented me, but they're possibly

1479
01:17:05,320 --> 01:17:07,000
Speaker 3: listened to the show if you talked or something like

1480
01:17:07,640 --> 01:17:10,960
Speaker 3: like why even be around someone like that? Right, And

1481
01:17:11,040 --> 01:17:13,880
Speaker 3: I'm not saying this pejoratively, like like you lose or

1482
01:17:13,880 --> 01:17:14,280
Speaker 3: why would you?

1483
01:17:14,479 --> 01:17:14,519
Speaker 1: No?

1484
01:17:14,840 --> 01:17:19,360
Speaker 3: Literally, it made me think these things like how how

1485
01:17:19,560 --> 01:17:24,720
Speaker 3: much is social media and the accessibility to each other

1486
01:17:24,920 --> 01:17:25,720
Speaker 3: affecting us?

1487
01:17:26,040 --> 01:17:26,920
Speaker 1: Correct? You know?

1488
01:17:27,320 --> 01:17:31,080
Speaker 3: And I was happy because in a way, it was

1489
01:17:31,280 --> 01:17:34,519
Speaker 3: like like I don't know if they thought I was

1490
01:17:34,520 --> 01:17:36,280
Speaker 3: supposed to be happy because they were reaching out to

1491
01:17:36,360 --> 01:17:37,920
Speaker 3: me to be like, hey, you're not the dick I

1492
01:17:38,000 --> 01:17:40,560
Speaker 3: thought you were. Cause I mean to be honest, it

1493
01:17:40,640 --> 01:17:42,760
Speaker 3: did nothing for me because I'm like, I was never

1494
01:17:42,960 --> 01:17:46,800
Speaker 3: what you thought I was. But you still don't know me,

1495
01:17:47,120 --> 01:17:50,280
Speaker 3: and it doesn't have any effect, right, Like it's not

1496
01:17:50,400 --> 01:17:52,439
Speaker 3: like my brother hitting me up being like man, you changed,

1497
01:17:52,560 --> 01:17:56,240
Speaker 3: like nigga, you don't know me, Like it's impossible for

1498
01:17:56,360 --> 01:17:59,679
Speaker 3: you to affect my point the way I view myself

1499
01:17:59,720 --> 01:18:03,280
Speaker 3: because we don't have any relationship. But it was more

1500
01:18:03,439 --> 01:18:10,120
Speaker 3: to the effect of likes. It's interesting that we can

1501
01:18:11,479 --> 01:18:14,720
Speaker 3: be affected by someone that far away. And it's made

1502
01:18:14,760 --> 01:18:16,519
Speaker 3: me look at other people and how I look at

1503
01:18:16,600 --> 01:18:22,600
Speaker 3: things with like celebrities, with yeah, I'm just not and

1504
01:18:22,720 --> 01:18:25,000
Speaker 3: I'm not going to be, you know. And even when

1505
01:18:25,040 --> 01:18:28,320
Speaker 3: I vehemently disagree with certain folks, I still look at

1506
01:18:28,360 --> 01:18:30,960
Speaker 3: it like I don't know them though, correct, you know.

1507
01:18:31,760 --> 01:18:34,320
Speaker 3: Like I remember reading something where someone said they were

1508
01:18:34,320 --> 01:18:36,360
Speaker 3: disappointed in the celebrity for something, and I was like,

1509
01:18:36,840 --> 01:18:39,120
Speaker 3: how could you be disappointing someone you don't know though

1510
01:18:39,640 --> 01:18:43,040
Speaker 3: you do not know? Because disappointment to me means there

1511
01:18:43,120 --> 01:18:46,760
Speaker 3: was an expectation, correct, and and and and I think

1512
01:18:46,960 --> 01:18:51,080
Speaker 3: with social media and Instagram and TV and Netflix, like

1513
01:18:51,160 --> 01:18:53,960
Speaker 3: all this ship that makes us so accessible, we all

1514
01:18:54,120 --> 01:18:55,760
Speaker 3: feel like we know people that we don't know.

1515
01:18:56,120 --> 01:18:57,799
Speaker 1: It is the illusion of closeness.

1516
01:18:58,120 --> 01:19:00,479
Speaker 2: And of course you can craft that image to be

1517
01:19:00,560 --> 01:19:01,160
Speaker 2: whatever you want to.

1518
01:19:01,240 --> 01:19:02,960
Speaker 3: If you want to look like you are bawling every

1519
01:19:03,000 --> 01:19:06,479
Speaker 3: weekend while you are fucking broke, you can make it happen.

1520
01:19:06,640 --> 01:19:07,120
Speaker 1: Yes, you can.

1521
01:19:07,320 --> 01:19:08,920
Speaker 3: You can take a picture on the top of a

1522
01:19:09,160 --> 01:19:12,599
Speaker 3: fucking mountain or something. You can be at a fancy

1523
01:19:12,640 --> 01:19:15,759
Speaker 3: restaurant ordering waters to go, like, you can do whatever

1524
01:19:15,880 --> 01:19:18,760
Speaker 3: you want to to make yourself look a certain way,

1525
01:19:18,840 --> 01:19:24,560
Speaker 3: but the effort of looking that way versus who you are, like,

1526
01:19:24,680 --> 01:19:27,120
Speaker 3: that's that's I don't know. It just seemed like so

1527
01:19:27,280 --> 01:19:29,519
Speaker 3: much of I don't know, so much of what we

1528
01:19:29,600 --> 01:19:32,280
Speaker 3: go through is that way. But yeah, it really made

1529
01:19:32,320 --> 01:19:36,599
Speaker 3: me start paying attention to energy man like, and energy matters.

1530
01:19:36,680 --> 01:19:39,880
Speaker 1: It matters from your loved ones, your friends, people you're around,

1531
01:19:40,000 --> 01:19:43,280
Speaker 1: because like for me, there's very few, but there are

1532
01:19:43,360 --> 01:19:45,400
Speaker 1: some people and even some of the fans I meet,

1533
01:19:45,439 --> 01:19:48,120
Speaker 1: and it's almost like an instant energy. Well you go, okay,

1534
01:19:48,280 --> 01:19:51,240
Speaker 1: you're cool, you like like like and some people and

1535
01:19:51,439 --> 01:19:54,400
Speaker 1: not in the mean way, but it's just like it's

1536
01:19:54,479 --> 01:19:57,160
Speaker 1: not negative or positive. I'm not like it could go

1537
01:19:57,280 --> 01:19:58,280
Speaker 1: either way with some people.

1538
01:19:58,479 --> 01:20:00,479
Speaker 3: Yeah. Nah, That's one of the things I think is weird,

1539
01:20:00,520 --> 01:20:03,519
Speaker 3: quote unquote weird about me is that people And I

1540
01:20:03,680 --> 01:20:06,320
Speaker 3: don't think I'm being weird. I think I'm just expressing

1541
01:20:06,400 --> 01:20:09,120
Speaker 3: it in a way that is honest, and people take

1542
01:20:09,200 --> 01:20:11,280
Speaker 3: it in a negative light. But when I when I

1543
01:20:11,360 --> 01:20:14,439
Speaker 3: say stuff like, oh, I don't like this person, and

1544
01:20:14,560 --> 01:20:17,000
Speaker 3: I don't mean in a negative way like I don't

1545
01:20:17,120 --> 01:20:20,639
Speaker 3: like them as in I dislike them, No, I mean literally,

1546
01:20:20,760 --> 01:20:22,880
Speaker 3: I don't like them. I don't like them, I don't

1547
01:20:22,920 --> 01:20:25,639
Speaker 3: dislike them, I don't like They're still in the middle

1548
01:20:25,720 --> 01:20:27,920
Speaker 3: right there where I don't consider them for much right

1549
01:20:29,560 --> 01:20:32,559
Speaker 3: to meet us. Everyone's default, like you know, doesn't mean

1550
01:20:32,600 --> 01:20:37,479
Speaker 3: anything mean, doesn't anything negative towards me. Yeah, it doesn't

1551
01:20:37,520 --> 01:20:40,439
Speaker 3: mean like that shit to me. That's just being honest

1552
01:20:40,479 --> 01:20:42,800
Speaker 3: about the net. But it's almost like we live in

1553
01:20:42,880 --> 01:20:45,400
Speaker 3: a time now where everything's so faked, Like, you gotta

1554
01:20:45,560 --> 01:20:49,000
Speaker 3: like people, you gotta like. Think about the currency that

1555
01:20:49,120 --> 01:20:59,040
Speaker 3: we travel the internet with likes right like hearts, retweets, loves, favorites,

1556
01:21:00,920 --> 01:21:04,639
Speaker 3: right friend. Think about these labels, right? Do they even

1557
01:21:04,720 --> 01:21:06,280
Speaker 3: fucking mean that? No, they do.

1558
01:21:06,479 --> 01:21:06,960
Speaker 1: Not Like.

1559
01:21:07,040 --> 01:21:09,360
Speaker 3: You're not my actual like Facebook says Roder, you have

1560
01:21:09,439 --> 01:21:12,280
Speaker 3: twenty five hundred friends, I say Facebook, I have three friends.

1561
01:21:12,320 --> 01:21:15,240
Speaker 3: I have like three friends that I get like. If

1562
01:21:15,280 --> 01:21:18,080
Speaker 3: something happens and I'm going through it, I know who

1563
01:21:18,080 --> 01:21:19,960
Speaker 3: I can pick up the phone and call. All you

1564
01:21:20,080 --> 01:21:23,120
Speaker 3: niggas ain't on the list. And yet somehow we've like

1565
01:21:23,439 --> 01:21:27,880
Speaker 3: taken that as an insult. It's not an insult to

1566
01:21:27,920 --> 01:21:29,800
Speaker 3: say you're not my friend even though you're on my

1567
01:21:29,920 --> 01:21:30,599
Speaker 3: Facebook page.

1568
01:21:30,720 --> 01:21:31,680
Speaker 1: Correct, It shouldn't be.

1569
01:21:31,720 --> 01:21:34,080
Speaker 3: It shouldn't hurt anyone's feelings, but it kind of does.

1570
01:21:34,800 --> 01:21:38,280
Speaker 3: You know, when people unfollow stuff people on Twitter, it's

1571
01:21:38,320 --> 01:21:41,920
Speaker 3: like they make these large pronouncements, I'm unfollowing everyone, and

1572
01:21:42,040 --> 01:21:45,360
Speaker 3: I am sorry if you are disappointment, And the thing

1573
01:21:45,560 --> 01:21:48,879
Speaker 3: is they have to say it because someone is somewhere

1574
01:21:49,400 --> 01:21:51,479
Speaker 3: disappointed you follow me?

1575
01:21:51,720 --> 01:21:53,439
Speaker 2: Wow, fuck you right, And.

1576
01:21:53,479 --> 01:21:56,160
Speaker 1: They take that shit the hard. Half the time, I'm

1577
01:21:56,280 --> 01:21:59,240
Speaker 1: not even following. I don't pay that shit attention half

1578
01:21:59,320 --> 01:21:59,639
Speaker 1: the time.

1579
01:22:00,000 --> 01:22:04,120
Speaker 3: But it says something about us though, that the entitlement

1580
01:22:04,280 --> 01:22:06,400
Speaker 3: that we feel to each other, just before you get

1581
01:22:06,400 --> 01:22:08,960
Speaker 3: to the celebrity, the entitlement we feel to each other.

1582
01:22:09,120 --> 01:22:11,840
Speaker 3: You should have to follow my life. You should want

1583
01:22:11,840 --> 01:22:14,360
Speaker 3: to know what I think about everything. I shouldn't want

1584
01:22:14,360 --> 01:22:17,240
Speaker 3: to know what you think about everything, you know. A

1585
01:22:17,280 --> 01:22:21,320
Speaker 3: big one for me was when people would so like

1586
01:22:21,400 --> 01:22:25,439
Speaker 3: a celebrity kills themselves or something like self harm, and

1587
01:22:25,600 --> 01:22:28,840
Speaker 3: then people go on social media and they start being like,

1588
01:22:29,840 --> 01:22:32,920
Speaker 3: reach out to your strong friends or you know, y'all say,

1589
01:22:33,400 --> 01:22:36,439
Speaker 3: y'all care about people, that's this, but y'all don't reach

1590
01:22:36,479 --> 01:22:38,560
Speaker 3: out to everybody that's depressed. And da da dah you know,

1591
01:22:38,640 --> 01:22:42,519
Speaker 3: they start point fingers, blaming people, grandstanding, soap boxing, all

1592
01:22:42,560 --> 01:22:46,599
Speaker 3: this shit, and the whole toel thinking like, I don't

1593
01:22:46,600 --> 01:22:50,680
Speaker 3: know if it's just a secret or something, but I

1594
01:22:50,760 --> 01:22:53,640
Speaker 3: don't have the mind reading ability on the internet to

1595
01:22:53,720 --> 01:22:56,559
Speaker 3: tell when to fuck somebody is going to kill themselves

1596
01:22:56,680 --> 01:22:59,479
Speaker 3: or not, and most of you don't. And if you did,

1597
01:23:00,000 --> 01:23:01,880
Speaker 3: it ain't shit you can do about it from fucking

1598
01:23:02,000 --> 01:23:05,519
Speaker 3: three hundred miles away unless somebody reaches out and has

1599
01:23:05,600 --> 01:23:09,000
Speaker 3: some like serious trouble, like unless they're like, you know,

1600
01:23:09,160 --> 01:23:13,040
Speaker 3: and even then you can't necessarily do something. There's a

1601
01:23:13,160 --> 01:23:17,519
Speaker 3: YouTuber last week who uh uh you know, die by

1602
01:23:17,560 --> 01:23:21,559
Speaker 3: suicide and his last post on YouTube was about ending

1603
01:23:21,640 --> 01:23:24,080
Speaker 3: in and then he went missing. People called the police

1604
01:23:24,120 --> 01:23:27,360
Speaker 3: and then they found his body days later, and I'm like,

1605
01:23:27,720 --> 01:23:29,360
Speaker 3: you know, you see people sharing it like check on

1606
01:23:29,479 --> 01:23:31,240
Speaker 3: people see this is what I'm talking about, And I'm like,

1607
01:23:33,080 --> 01:23:35,360
Speaker 3: how the fuck was anyone supposed to stop that? Man? Correct,

1608
01:23:36,040 --> 01:23:38,599
Speaker 3: you don't want them to do it, obviously, you hope

1609
01:23:38,640 --> 01:23:40,760
Speaker 3: they don't. You try to be here for people that

1610
01:23:40,920 --> 01:23:42,200
Speaker 3: that's the most you can do is let them know

1611
01:23:42,240 --> 01:23:45,120
Speaker 3: I'm out here, you know, But that's it. You like

1612
01:23:45,200 --> 01:23:48,160
Speaker 3: this performative ass like if you need to call somebody,

1613
01:23:48,240 --> 01:23:50,720
Speaker 3: you talk to me, like, man, get the You're not

1614
01:23:50,800 --> 01:23:52,760
Speaker 3: a counselor you don't know what the fuck to do

1615
01:23:52,880 --> 01:23:55,320
Speaker 3: or say. And I think in a weird way, the

1616
01:23:55,400 --> 01:23:59,000
Speaker 3: reason I kind of don't like it is because it

1617
01:24:00,360 --> 01:24:08,080
Speaker 3: implies a level of like expertise and entitlement to the

1618
01:24:08,240 --> 01:24:10,960
Speaker 3: idea that we are attached through the internet. Therefore, I

1619
01:24:11,080 --> 01:24:13,400
Speaker 3: have all the right answers. I could have stopped that

1620
01:24:13,479 --> 01:24:16,439
Speaker 3: guy from killing himself and his friends and his other

1621
01:24:16,479 --> 01:24:19,320
Speaker 3: people on social media that follow him. They failed him

1622
01:24:19,560 --> 01:24:21,880
Speaker 3: because I would have had the right words, I would

1623
01:24:21,920 --> 01:24:24,479
Speaker 3: have fixed it. He must have just not been able

1624
01:24:24,479 --> 01:24:25,800
Speaker 3: to reach out to people, or he will still be

1625
01:24:25,920 --> 01:24:28,120
Speaker 3: here or whatever. Right, And it's that type of like

1626
01:24:28,760 --> 01:24:32,160
Speaker 3: weirdness that I think has really fucked up, Like it's

1627
01:24:32,240 --> 01:24:35,360
Speaker 3: fucked with me, you know. I feel so disillusioned sometimes

1628
01:24:35,920 --> 01:24:39,240
Speaker 3: and people because I look around, I'm like, how much

1629
01:24:39,280 --> 01:24:41,000
Speaker 3: of this is just fake? How much is this this shit?

1630
01:24:41,080 --> 01:24:44,160
Speaker 3: Y'all say? But we don't actually have the black and

1631
01:24:44,200 --> 01:24:46,800
Speaker 3: white answers for any of this, because human beings are anomalies,

1632
01:24:46,920 --> 01:24:49,280
Speaker 3: is right. We're all over the fucking place. One day

1633
01:24:49,280 --> 01:24:51,600
Speaker 3: you feel this way one day, you feel that we

1634
01:24:51,680 --> 01:24:54,960
Speaker 3: don't understand every condition of the heart, the brain, and

1635
01:24:55,000 --> 01:24:57,800
Speaker 3: the mind, Like we don't know how to fix all

1636
01:24:57,880 --> 01:24:59,960
Speaker 3: the doctors and people have studied this shit for years

1637
01:25:00,080 --> 01:25:02,640
Speaker 3: and still can't quote unquote fix people. So why are

1638
01:25:02,720 --> 01:25:06,680
Speaker 3: we treating everything so like? Obviously the answer was a,

1639
01:25:07,000 --> 01:25:09,120
Speaker 3: you know, so we can seem smarter than everybody else.

1640
01:25:09,240 --> 01:25:11,759
Speaker 3: So you know, I think about all that shit because

1641
01:25:12,840 --> 01:25:15,280
Speaker 3: you know, obviously it's a long, rambling thing, but it's

1642
01:25:15,760 --> 01:25:17,880
Speaker 3: but I think about all that shit because we are

1643
01:25:17,960 --> 01:25:21,120
Speaker 3: constantly bumping into each other, we are you know, online

1644
01:25:21,200 --> 01:25:23,560
Speaker 3: and all this stuff in life, and it's like, what

1645
01:25:23,760 --> 01:25:25,960
Speaker 3: is the damage that is being done by the accumulation

1646
01:25:26,120 --> 01:25:30,960
Speaker 3: of all these collisions that are happening mentally, psychically, emotionally

1647
01:25:31,840 --> 01:25:34,599
Speaker 3: on all these different levels. And how do you insulate

1648
01:25:34,640 --> 01:25:36,519
Speaker 3: and protect yourself and then at the same time, how

1649
01:25:36,560 --> 01:25:38,680
Speaker 3: you protect the people you love? How do you let

1650
01:25:38,760 --> 01:25:40,040
Speaker 3: people know that you're out there?

1651
01:25:40,200 --> 01:25:40,360
Speaker 1: You know?

1652
01:25:40,800 --> 01:25:43,400
Speaker 3: So, you know, that's one of the things I was

1653
01:25:43,479 --> 01:25:47,559
Speaker 3: just thinking about the like, just the way that I've

1654
01:25:47,600 --> 01:25:50,479
Speaker 3: been moving through the world and how I don't know,

1655
01:25:50,720 --> 01:25:53,599
Speaker 3: lately this last year or so, I've been so much

1656
01:25:53,640 --> 01:25:56,240
Speaker 3: at peace in a way that you know, I wish

1657
01:25:56,280 --> 01:25:58,439
Speaker 3: I could convey to other people so they could feel

1658
01:25:58,479 --> 01:26:00,960
Speaker 3: it too, and that at the same time, a lot

1659
01:26:01,000 --> 01:26:03,200
Speaker 3: of it has come from the recognition of being able

1660
01:26:03,240 --> 01:26:06,880
Speaker 3: to like look at people and almost like I said,

1661
01:26:06,880 --> 01:26:08,439
Speaker 3: I know this is some real hippy shit, but almost

1662
01:26:08,479 --> 01:26:11,160
Speaker 3: like I can see they are and be like, you're not.

1663
01:26:11,439 --> 01:26:13,680
Speaker 3: You're not at rest, you're not at peace. You're not

1664
01:26:13,840 --> 01:26:17,880
Speaker 3: people feel it. You like you're sapping energy from other people.

1665
01:26:18,240 --> 01:26:20,960
Speaker 1: They carry it like some people carry it like a weight. Yeah,

1666
01:26:21,320 --> 01:26:23,559
Speaker 1: you know, cause some people truth be told can actually

1667
01:26:23,720 --> 01:26:25,760
Speaker 1: enter a room and change the whole atmosphere.

1668
01:26:25,880 --> 01:26:28,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, And just you like you can look at people

1669
01:26:28,240 --> 01:26:30,200
Speaker 3: and be like, you hate yourself, you hate your life,

1670
01:26:30,760 --> 01:26:33,920
Speaker 3: you hate everything you're going through, and you're disguising it

1671
01:26:34,000 --> 01:26:36,720
Speaker 3: through all this other shit. Correct, Like everything else is

1672
01:26:37,400 --> 01:26:40,400
Speaker 3: just another It's all to get away from whatever the

1673
01:26:40,479 --> 01:26:42,680
Speaker 3: turmoil is inside. And if you can't deal with that,

1674
01:26:42,880 --> 01:26:45,439
Speaker 3: how the fuck you gonna deal with anything else? Every

1675
01:26:45,640 --> 01:26:48,320
Speaker 3: if you lying to yourself, everything you do is a

1676
01:26:48,360 --> 01:26:52,360
Speaker 3: fucking lie. Everything you a liar by even though you're

1677
01:26:52,439 --> 01:26:55,639
Speaker 3: not physically going out and telling people lies, you lying,

1678
01:26:56,479 --> 01:26:58,160
Speaker 3: you know what I mean? So it's like I just

1679
01:26:58,200 --> 01:26:59,640
Speaker 3: I don't know, I've been able to see shit more

1680
01:26:59,680 --> 01:27:03,960
Speaker 3: clearly like that, and I'm just being open about it.

1681
01:27:04,120 --> 01:27:07,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's very hard for people because it's human nature

1682
01:27:07,200 --> 01:27:10,960
Speaker 1: not to want to change, and self reflection is one

1683
01:27:10,960 --> 01:27:13,479
Speaker 1: of the most hardest things just for human beings to do,

1684
01:27:13,560 --> 01:27:15,920
Speaker 1: particularly people as they get older, because a lot of

1685
01:27:15,920 --> 01:27:19,480
Speaker 1: people get quote unquote set in their ways. But sometimes

1686
01:27:20,160 --> 01:27:22,120
Speaker 1: being set in your ways is not a healthy thing,

1687
01:27:23,040 --> 01:27:25,519
Speaker 1: is not always a good thing. Sometimes things need to

1688
01:27:25,600 --> 01:27:30,200
Speaker 1: be broken and changed and rebuild and remade into something

1689
01:27:30,320 --> 01:27:35,600
Speaker 1: new and something better, because sometimes the first time was

1690
01:27:35,680 --> 01:27:39,000
Speaker 1: wrong and incorrect, and nobody wants to admit that. Sometimes

1691
01:27:40,040 --> 01:27:44,439
Speaker 1: the foundation ain't strong. Sometimes your beliefs aren't always right.

1692
01:27:44,600 --> 01:27:48,680
Speaker 1: Sometimes you have to rethink everything from who you are

1693
01:27:49,080 --> 01:27:52,360
Speaker 1: to you almost have to requestion life sometimes, and people

1694
01:27:52,439 --> 01:27:55,679
Speaker 1: don't want to do that because eventually that would require

1695
01:27:55,800 --> 01:27:58,040
Speaker 1: you to fucking change, and that's what people don't want

1696
01:27:58,080 --> 01:28:01,120
Speaker 1: to do. But change it's not always a ar frightening thing.

1697
01:28:01,560 --> 01:28:03,559
Speaker 1: It can actually make you a better human being.

1698
01:28:04,479 --> 01:28:06,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's you know, and I'm not saying that like

1699
01:28:06,320 --> 01:28:08,960
Speaker 3: I'm an expert of any of that shit. This is

1700
01:28:09,040 --> 01:28:11,240
Speaker 3: just the way I've been feeling that maybe people out

1701
01:28:11,240 --> 01:28:14,120
Speaker 3: there understand too, you know, but we all get on

1702
01:28:14,200 --> 01:28:16,240
Speaker 3: that journey and feel that way.

1703
01:28:16,320 --> 01:28:16,439
Speaker 1: Man.

1704
01:28:16,439 --> 01:28:18,280
Speaker 3: I'm just trying to see life in a different way,

1705
01:28:18,360 --> 01:28:21,559
Speaker 3: a different respective, because I think it's untenable the way

1706
01:28:21,640 --> 01:28:24,000
Speaker 3: that I was watching, in the way that I was

1707
01:28:24,080 --> 01:28:27,439
Speaker 3: contributing to, like certain shit, you know what I mean,

1708
01:28:27,520 --> 01:28:31,200
Speaker 3: when you just see like everything so black and white everything,

1709
01:28:31,439 --> 01:28:35,160
Speaker 3: there's no nuance, everything right or wrong, every everything can't

1710
01:28:35,200 --> 01:28:35,639
Speaker 3: be that way.

1711
01:28:36,320 --> 01:28:39,080
Speaker 1: People like it's something wrong with you and be like, hey,

1712
01:28:39,160 --> 01:28:43,040
Speaker 1: it's nuanced to this, and nuance is absolutely fucking it

1713
01:28:43,160 --> 01:28:44,240
Speaker 1: does not exist.

1714
01:28:44,320 --> 01:28:48,160
Speaker 3: But people are different places on their journeys, and I

1715
01:28:48,200 --> 01:28:52,519
Speaker 3: think it's important to acknowledge that correct And also just

1716
01:28:52,640 --> 01:28:55,880
Speaker 3: certain terminology. I've just noticed, like it's so easy to

1717
01:28:55,960 --> 01:28:59,080
Speaker 3: be co opted and to be like, to me, whatever

1718
01:28:59,160 --> 01:29:01,120
Speaker 3: you need it to mean the moment, to justify how

1719
01:29:01,160 --> 01:29:02,519
Speaker 3: are you're gonna do because people have been doing the

1720
01:29:02,560 --> 01:29:05,680
Speaker 3: same shit with each other for eternity. But you know,

1721
01:29:05,880 --> 01:29:07,400
Speaker 3: if you have the right words for it, you can

1722
01:29:07,479 --> 01:29:10,479
Speaker 3: just fight anything, you know. All right, let's do some

1723
01:29:10,560 --> 01:29:24,719
Speaker 3: fucking with black people, guys. Boom with those black people

1724
01:29:24,960 --> 01:29:28,439
Speaker 3: were just fucking with those blacks. We're just fucking with

1725
01:29:29,160 --> 01:29:32,280
Speaker 3: fucking with black people. That's right, God's time to play

1726
01:29:32,360 --> 01:29:34,439
Speaker 3: the game we all hate to play. It's fucking with

1727
01:29:34,560 --> 01:29:36,760
Speaker 3: black people. The game. We go all around to go

1728
01:29:36,920 --> 01:29:38,920
Speaker 3: find different articles make us feel fuck with and will

1729
01:29:38,960 --> 01:29:41,360
Speaker 3: sign points scores and zero twenn hundred intervals are twenty

1730
01:29:41,400 --> 01:29:46,800
Speaker 3: five today's contestants er everybody, all right, let's see who's

1731
01:29:46,840 --> 01:29:51,840
Speaker 3: fucking with us today. A rapper pulls out of Detroit

1732
01:29:51,960 --> 01:29:54,800
Speaker 3: festival because tickets were initially more expensive for white people

1733
01:29:56,520 --> 01:30:02,200
Speaker 3: MM the older reparation searcharge eh. Last week, a Detroit

1734
01:30:02,320 --> 01:30:06,320
Speaker 3: music festival called Afrofuture came under fire for its ticketing.

1735
01:30:06,439 --> 01:30:10,200
Speaker 3: Model rapper Tiny Jag became the first to pull out

1736
01:30:10,240 --> 01:30:13,280
Speaker 3: of the event due to its controversial pricing, which charges

1737
01:30:13,320 --> 01:30:16,439
Speaker 3: white people twice as much as people of color. I

1738
01:30:16,560 --> 01:30:18,360
Speaker 3: was going to make a video, but I'm too triggered

1739
01:30:18,400 --> 01:30:20,880
Speaker 3: to address the issue in that way, she wrote in

1740
01:30:20,920 --> 01:30:23,240
Speaker 3: a statement on her Twitter account July second. I was

1741
01:30:23,320 --> 01:30:27,919
Speaker 3: unknowingly adding to the Afro Future event miscommunication, but ultimately

1742
01:30:28,000 --> 01:30:30,120
Speaker 3: agreed to support and play the event in the effort

1743
01:30:30,160 --> 01:30:33,800
Speaker 3: to support an individual within its curation. Today, a non

1744
01:30:33,920 --> 01:30:37,880
Speaker 3: POC friend of mine brought to my attention that the

1745
01:30:38,000 --> 01:30:41,720
Speaker 3: Afrofuture is acquiring non POC to pay twice amount to

1746
01:30:41,760 --> 01:30:45,000
Speaker 3: attend the festivals POC. On the event right page for

1747
01:30:45,080 --> 01:30:47,560
Speaker 3: Afro Future fest there was an early bird ticket for

1748
01:30:47,680 --> 01:30:51,000
Speaker 3: POC only for ten dollars, while non POC would be

1749
01:30:51,080 --> 01:30:57,400
Speaker 3: charged twenty dollars for tickets. Now what they gonna do

1750
01:30:57,520 --> 01:31:02,000
Speaker 3: to verify that show with my ticket and say POC

1751
01:31:02,200 --> 01:31:05,880
Speaker 3: discount and I'm a white man? Are they gonna be like, sir,

1752
01:31:06,240 --> 01:31:06,960
Speaker 3: get the fuck out of it?

1753
01:31:07,120 --> 01:31:09,360
Speaker 1: Is gonna big old letters POC.

1754
01:31:10,040 --> 01:31:10,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like, how do they?

1755
01:31:11,479 --> 01:31:14,439
Speaker 3: How do they? How were they planning to enforce this?

1756
01:31:14,800 --> 01:31:17,640
Speaker 3: Or is it just like honor system? Anyway, this does

1757
01:31:17,720 --> 01:31:20,120
Speaker 3: not reflect the views of myself or the Tiny jack team.

1758
01:31:20,200 --> 01:31:22,720
Speaker 3: She continue to apologize to anyone who may have been

1759
01:31:22,720 --> 01:31:26,559
Speaker 3: triggered or offended. I was immediately enraged because just because

1760
01:31:26,760 --> 01:31:29,519
Speaker 3: I am bi racial Tiny Jackson in an interview with

1761
01:31:29,640 --> 01:31:32,479
Speaker 3: the Detroit Metro Times, I have family members that would have,

1762
01:31:32,680 --> 01:31:35,000
Speaker 3: under those circumstances been subjected to something that I would

1763
01:31:35,080 --> 01:31:37,439
Speaker 3: not ever want them to be in, especially not because

1764
01:31:37,439 --> 01:31:40,439
Speaker 3: of anything that I have going on now I confront

1765
01:31:40,520 --> 01:31:44,920
Speaker 3: I mean, I do agree that you know with her.

1766
01:31:45,000 --> 01:31:47,360
Speaker 3: I understand why she was still as fucked up, but

1767
01:31:49,000 --> 01:31:52,679
Speaker 3: they are acting like this ten dollars as motherfucking slavery. Okay,

1768
01:31:54,360 --> 01:31:58,040
Speaker 3: no offense, but like I mean, I get the principle

1769
01:31:58,120 --> 01:32:02,240
Speaker 3: of it, but y'all, like, come on, man, y'all, she

1770
01:32:02,439 --> 01:32:06,080
Speaker 3: really pulled out like like like like motherfucking whips and

1771
01:32:06,200 --> 01:32:09,840
Speaker 3: chains were coming back on this shit. Like, you know,

1772
01:32:10,160 --> 01:32:10,600
Speaker 3: I get it.

1773
01:32:10,720 --> 01:32:12,799
Speaker 1: And what happened when the niggas buy the white people tickets,

1774
01:32:12,880 --> 01:32:15,519
Speaker 1: are y'all gonna be like, nah, good to cheep of tickets?

1775
01:32:16,200 --> 01:32:18,479
Speaker 3: Yeah, Like I get it, you know what I'm saying,

1776
01:32:18,840 --> 01:32:22,240
Speaker 3: Like why it's not fair and you know, especially if

1777
01:32:22,240 --> 01:32:23,960
Speaker 3: they signed you up and you didn't know that. I

1778
01:32:24,040 --> 01:32:29,439
Speaker 3: can definitely understand objecting to it, but come on, like,

1779
01:32:29,640 --> 01:32:32,479
Speaker 3: they're not gonna have your white people out there fucking

1780
01:32:32,640 --> 01:32:35,320
Speaker 3: picking cotton and shit, come on now. In response to

1781
01:32:35,360 --> 01:32:37,720
Speaker 3: the criticism of the prices, Afrofuture anounced it would change

1782
01:32:37,760 --> 01:32:40,240
Speaker 3: all tickets to twenty dollars general admission for the safety

1783
01:32:40,280 --> 01:32:43,280
Speaker 3: of our community, family elders who will receive threats from

1784
01:32:43,280 --> 01:32:46,479
Speaker 3: white supremacists, and youth who are subjected to seeing racist

1785
01:32:46,520 --> 01:32:49,360
Speaker 3: comments on the IG page. Afro future Fast has changed

1786
01:32:49,400 --> 01:32:52,120
Speaker 3: our tickety model to statement rings. Event Bridce said. The

1787
01:32:52,120 --> 01:32:55,040
Speaker 3: tickety model for Afro future violator's terms of service. Oh

1788
01:32:55,080 --> 01:32:57,400
Speaker 3: they lucky the shit didn't yank as a site does

1789
01:32:57,439 --> 01:32:59,679
Speaker 3: not promote events that require tending to pay different prices

1790
01:32:59,720 --> 01:33:02,599
Speaker 3: based to protect the characters such as race ethnicity. Yeah

1791
01:33:02,680 --> 01:33:04,960
Speaker 3: that's the other thing too, where black people do that, Like,

1792
01:33:05,120 --> 01:33:07,639
Speaker 3: we can't be racist shit. So it's like we should

1793
01:33:07,640 --> 01:33:10,400
Speaker 3: be able to tell white people they gotta pay more.

1794
01:33:10,640 --> 01:33:14,120
Speaker 3: And it's like, yeah, I don't know if you understand this,

1795
01:33:14,240 --> 01:33:16,439
Speaker 3: but these companies don't want that smoke.

1796
01:33:18,040 --> 01:33:21,200
Speaker 1: Like I could see the difference and you sit closer

1797
01:33:21,240 --> 01:33:23,840
Speaker 1: to the stage than somebody else, but it can't be

1798
01:33:23,920 --> 01:33:24,559
Speaker 1: based off race.

1799
01:33:24,640 --> 01:33:26,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, these companies don't want to be like And then

1800
01:33:26,840 --> 01:33:29,680
Speaker 3: we got sued for a million dollars because we allowed, uh,

1801
01:33:30,000 --> 01:33:34,720
Speaker 3: somebody using our event bright tickets to discriminate based on race.

1802
01:33:34,920 --> 01:33:37,360
Speaker 3: And I know for a fact, because you know people

1803
01:33:37,400 --> 01:33:41,240
Speaker 3: don't you know, when you're black and pro black and militant,

1804
01:33:41,240 --> 01:33:43,840
Speaker 3: you never supposed to bring this up. But if white

1805
01:33:43,880 --> 01:33:47,040
Speaker 3: people did the same ship, y'all would be fucking infuriated. Yes, sir,

1806
01:33:47,439 --> 01:33:51,920
Speaker 3: come on, now, come on, now so as tax right

1807
01:33:52,000 --> 01:33:57,920
Speaker 3: as a policy for fault, come on. But as a

1808
01:33:59,479 --> 01:34:02,360
Speaker 3: as a company, their policy is gonna have to be

1809
01:34:02,520 --> 01:34:05,840
Speaker 3: something that says, for nobody, can you do this. It's

1810
01:34:05,880 --> 01:34:07,880
Speaker 3: not gonna be a policy that says, well, it's okay

1811
01:34:07,960 --> 01:34:10,160
Speaker 3: if you're doing it to white people, but nobody else,

1812
01:34:10,360 --> 01:34:12,879
Speaker 3: Like they don't want to go to court for that bullshit.

1813
01:34:13,120 --> 01:34:15,639
Speaker 3: Just sell the tickets to everybody the same and leave

1814
01:34:15,720 --> 01:34:18,040
Speaker 3: us the fuck along. Unless you're gonna start walking around

1815
01:34:18,080 --> 01:34:19,920
Speaker 3: selling tickets by hand, then you do what the fuck

1816
01:34:19,960 --> 01:34:21,920
Speaker 3: you want to keep us out of it. Come off.

1817
01:34:22,400 --> 01:34:24,720
Speaker 3: But yeah, I understand why event Bright was like, man,

1818
01:34:24,800 --> 01:34:29,479
Speaker 3: y'all need to chill anyway. Canzil to one hundred mm?

1819
01:34:33,280 --> 01:34:41,120
Speaker 3: Gonna fifty y'all? I think I'm gonna give it, you

1820
01:34:41,200 --> 01:34:44,040
Speaker 3: know what, give it a zero? Not fucked with either way.

1821
01:34:44,320 --> 01:34:48,960
Speaker 3: I mean they took it down. I don't know who

1822
01:34:49,040 --> 01:34:51,320
Speaker 3: this rapper is to give a fuck if they could

1823
01:34:51,439 --> 01:34:54,240
Speaker 3: make it or not. Maybe they got some biracial fragility

1824
01:34:54,280 --> 01:34:57,040
Speaker 3: shit popping off. Maybe they don't. I don't know this person,

1825
01:34:58,000 --> 01:35:00,800
Speaker 3: and I do understand the principle of of like, I

1826
01:35:01,000 --> 01:35:03,519
Speaker 3: just want to I don't want my name associated with

1827
01:35:03,600 --> 01:35:05,760
Speaker 3: a concert one that I didn't sign up for, and

1828
01:35:05,840 --> 01:35:07,519
Speaker 3: then two I find out y'all doing some shit I

1829
01:35:07,520 --> 01:35:11,040
Speaker 3: wouldn't do for myself. Like, you know, you gotta find

1830
01:35:11,040 --> 01:35:12,920
Speaker 3: another way to hook black people up if you're gonna

1831
01:35:13,000 --> 01:35:15,720
Speaker 3: do that, you know, or just make it the reparations

1832
01:35:15,800 --> 01:35:21,240
Speaker 3: concert or something like. I don't know. Like, I mean,

1833
01:35:21,320 --> 01:35:23,640
Speaker 3: it's crazy though, because like what other things could this

1834
01:35:23,720 --> 01:35:26,280
Speaker 3: apply to? You know, like could men ever sue because

1835
01:35:26,320 --> 01:35:28,120
Speaker 3: like all ladies get in free before ten?

1836
01:35:28,240 --> 01:35:30,200
Speaker 1: You know, men actually try to revote against that.

1837
01:35:30,280 --> 01:35:32,200
Speaker 3: Now, yeah, you know it's some ashy niggas out there

1838
01:35:32,280 --> 01:35:33,120
Speaker 3: starting their own.

1839
01:35:34,880 --> 01:35:36,200
Speaker 1: Y'all at here for the women.

1840
01:35:36,320 --> 01:35:40,479
Speaker 3: So the is this let us get in free? I

1841
01:35:40,680 --> 01:35:42,120
Speaker 3: need to get in free. I got here with four

1842
01:35:42,160 --> 01:35:44,760
Speaker 3: ten as well. Okay, well what are you here for?

1843
01:35:44,880 --> 01:35:45,920
Speaker 3: Because it's some moons in them?

1844
01:35:46,000 --> 01:35:48,960
Speaker 1: I mean, then if they're not getting free, they might

1845
01:35:49,000 --> 01:35:49,519
Speaker 1: not show up.

1846
01:35:49,800 --> 01:35:53,479
Speaker 3: This dick ain't free, okay. People making millions of dollars

1847
01:35:53,520 --> 01:35:54,200
Speaker 3: skim of these.

1848
01:35:54,120 --> 01:35:57,280
Speaker 1: Women photos mad because ain't no women in them.

1849
01:35:59,360 --> 01:36:02,599
Speaker 3: Let's see. Five police officers were kicked out of Starbucks

1850
01:36:02,640 --> 01:36:04,679
Speaker 3: after a customer complained she didn't feel safe.

1851
01:36:08,800 --> 01:36:09,240
Speaker 1: Star wars.

1852
01:36:09,479 --> 01:36:12,400
Speaker 2: We don't want no smoke hashtag race together.

1853
01:36:13,880 --> 01:36:14,280
Speaker 3: Mm hmm.

1854
01:36:16,120 --> 01:36:18,880
Speaker 1: I was like, mmm, we don't want no smoke. We

1855
01:36:18,920 --> 01:36:20,280
Speaker 1: don't we don't want to have to do no more.

1856
01:36:20,360 --> 01:36:22,760
Speaker 1: Classes were not closing for the day, no more.

1857
01:36:22,960 --> 01:36:25,679
Speaker 3: Now I think Starbucks has already apologized for this shit,

1858
01:36:26,360 --> 01:36:29,439
Speaker 3: like of course, uh. But a group of Arizona Police

1859
01:36:29,439 --> 01:36:31,479
Speaker 3: officers are asked to leave a Starbucks coffee shop on

1860
01:36:31,600 --> 01:36:34,000
Speaker 3: July fourth, after customer complaining the status she didn't feel

1861
01:36:34,040 --> 01:36:36,439
Speaker 3: safe with them being there. This feels like the kind

1862
01:36:36,479 --> 01:36:39,160
Speaker 3: of thing I would say jokingly and then be shocked

1863
01:36:39,200 --> 01:36:42,960
Speaker 3: when they did it. I'm like, you know, like sarcastia

1864
01:36:43,040 --> 01:36:44,800
Speaker 3: is like, well, I think I don't feel safe with

1865
01:36:44,840 --> 01:36:47,519
Speaker 3: all these cops, So say what sir? You know what, sir,

1866
01:36:47,600 --> 01:36:49,639
Speaker 3: you got a great point. We'll be right back.

1867
01:36:49,840 --> 01:36:52,600
Speaker 2: Officers, take your coffees to go, because you know they

1868
01:36:52,760 --> 01:36:53,439
Speaker 2: wasn't paying for them.

1869
01:36:53,920 --> 01:36:54,960
Speaker 1: Take your to go.

1870
01:36:55,400 --> 01:36:56,680
Speaker 3: That's part of that. I want to talk about them

1871
01:36:56,720 --> 01:36:59,120
Speaker 3: cost going to thath for free. Of course, I guess

1872
01:36:59,160 --> 01:37:03,240
Speaker 3: if somebody threw a old fashioned stick them up, you know,

1873
01:37:03,479 --> 01:37:05,280
Speaker 3: the cops supposed to come in there and shut it down.

1874
01:37:05,400 --> 01:37:09,080
Speaker 3: But let's be honest, nobody carries cash anymore. You don't

1875
01:37:09,120 --> 01:37:12,400
Speaker 3: have to give those cops free coffee anymore. Five cops

1876
01:37:12,479 --> 01:37:15,040
Speaker 3: were drinking at a branch of the coffee chain in

1877
01:37:15,080 --> 01:37:17,599
Speaker 3: the city where they were approached by barista and told

1878
01:37:17,680 --> 01:37:19,800
Speaker 3: that a customer made a complain about their presence. The

1879
01:37:19,920 --> 01:37:22,400
Speaker 3: worker said, it said that I told them that to

1880
01:37:22,479 --> 01:37:25,000
Speaker 3: either move out of the complain of customers line of

1881
01:37:25,040 --> 01:37:30,280
Speaker 3: sight or lead the premises entirely shit sit in the

1882
01:37:30,360 --> 01:37:37,040
Speaker 3: colored section blue. President of the union Rob Ferraro believes

1883
01:37:37,040 --> 01:37:40,519
Speaker 3: the treatment officers subject as an unfortunate sign of the times. Well,

1884
01:37:40,560 --> 01:37:42,880
Speaker 3: I mean, what else is a fucking police union do

1885
01:37:42,960 --> 01:37:45,560
Speaker 3: if not act like a little bit about everything that

1886
01:37:45,760 --> 01:37:46,960
Speaker 3: somebody says to the police.

1887
01:37:47,840 --> 01:37:48,800
Speaker 1: Do they have a job?

1888
01:37:48,880 --> 01:37:50,680
Speaker 3: What does the police union do other than just be

1889
01:37:50,840 --> 01:37:56,040
Speaker 3: like someone said, police officers need to stop killing people,

1890
01:37:56,200 --> 01:37:58,120
Speaker 3: and you know what, fuck those guys.

1891
01:37:59,360 --> 01:38:00,559
Speaker 1: That's literally what they say.

1892
01:38:01,640 --> 01:38:05,519
Speaker 3: A cop shot an assaulted and innocent puppy and then

1893
01:38:06,439 --> 01:38:08,560
Speaker 3: fucking took his mom to the ken or had it

1894
01:38:08,640 --> 01:38:12,120
Speaker 3: put down. Well, you know what, dogs are the real problem. Like,

1895
01:38:12,240 --> 01:38:17,479
Speaker 3: look at your job. It's become accepted to not trust

1896
01:38:17,560 --> 01:38:19,280
Speaker 3: to see police and think that we're not here to

1897
01:38:19,360 --> 01:38:21,960
Speaker 3: serve you, he said, and again, it goes back to

1898
01:38:22,120 --> 01:38:24,120
Speaker 3: we take great pride in the level of customer service

1899
01:38:24,160 --> 01:38:26,639
Speaker 3: we provide citizens, and to be looked at us feeling

1900
01:38:26,760 --> 01:38:30,240
Speaker 3: unsafe when you have law enforcement around you is somewhat

1901
01:38:30,320 --> 01:38:33,200
Speaker 3: perplexing to me. Feel unsafe? Yeah, well, I mean.

1902
01:38:35,400 --> 01:38:39,559
Speaker 2: Right, we're gonna be in black We don't feel safe

1903
01:38:39,600 --> 01:38:40,280
Speaker 2: with y'all around.

1904
01:38:41,040 --> 01:38:44,360
Speaker 3: I don't know if you've you know, studied any history,

1905
01:38:44,479 --> 01:38:52,439
Speaker 3: but there's a reason we didn't just make that up. Yeah,

1906
01:38:52,520 --> 01:38:55,600
Speaker 3: the police union did attain of tweets that I'm not

1907
01:38:55,640 --> 01:38:59,320
Speaker 3: gonna who kiss a fuck? They say they are blaming

1908
01:38:59,360 --> 01:39:02,080
Speaker 3: Starbucks a hole for the incident, but just that branch,

1909
01:39:03,120 --> 01:39:09,120
Speaker 3: and of course they did apologize for doing it. So

1910
01:39:09,479 --> 01:39:10,559
Speaker 3: zer care.

1911
01:39:12,360 --> 01:39:16,320
Speaker 1: Mm hmmm, I'm sorry to go to zero.

1912
01:39:17,320 --> 01:39:20,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm not sorry, and also a zero. Let me

1913
01:39:20,280 --> 01:39:21,120
Speaker 2: give a fuck about this?

1914
01:39:22,439 --> 01:39:35,000
Speaker 3: Like what what what to say? You know what I mean, like,

1915
01:39:36,200 --> 01:39:38,679
Speaker 3: welcome to every day of my life when y'all come around,

1916
01:39:39,160 --> 01:39:47,400
Speaker 3: you know, like, uh, welcome to one day as a

1917
01:39:47,479 --> 01:39:49,080
Speaker 3: black person. What the fuck?

1918
01:39:50,439 --> 01:39:50,599
Speaker 1: Sir?

1919
01:39:51,000 --> 01:39:53,200
Speaker 3: Sir, you ain't gonna need to leave. You're making people

1920
01:39:53,200 --> 01:39:57,400
Speaker 3: feel uncomfortable. Yeah, that's what I'm saying. The only thing

1921
01:39:57,439 --> 01:39:58,920
Speaker 3: I would have went out to my car ifile was

1922
01:39:58,960 --> 01:40:02,439
Speaker 3: that person, and I would rolled my windows down, turned

1923
01:40:02,479 --> 01:40:04,840
Speaker 3: my music all the way up on the as I

1924
01:40:04,920 --> 01:40:06,479
Speaker 3: watched them costly eat a restaurant.

1925
01:40:13,080 --> 01:40:15,080
Speaker 1: Ha ha, what about music?

1926
01:40:17,560 --> 01:40:24,080
Speaker 3: Just looked them all dead in the eyes. Oh, of

1927
01:40:24,240 --> 01:40:26,240
Speaker 3: all the places I've been asked to leave because I

1928
01:40:26,360 --> 01:40:27,880
Speaker 3: was making people uncomforted.

1929
01:40:27,520 --> 01:40:29,439
Speaker 1: Go five miles an hour to be sure they hear it.

1930
01:40:32,360 --> 01:40:35,200
Speaker 3: Well, Now you know how many times you had to

1931
01:40:35,280 --> 01:40:38,839
Speaker 3: come over and say I was looking suspicious fitting a description,

1932
01:40:39,120 --> 01:40:41,920
Speaker 3: in a description, making people uncomfortable. I need to move

1933
01:40:41,960 --> 01:40:45,880
Speaker 3: along for minding my black ass business? How many nine?

1934
01:40:45,920 --> 01:40:48,759
Speaker 3: On what cause have y'all niggas gotten? Oh a nigga

1935
01:40:48,800 --> 01:40:52,720
Speaker 3: just standing outside waiting on their friend to come out

1936
01:40:52,880 --> 01:40:56,439
Speaker 3: or something like that, right, sir, your lord in front of.

1937
01:40:56,479 --> 01:40:59,680
Speaker 1: My house, in front of my motherfucking house. Oh the

1938
01:40:59,760 --> 01:41:03,880
Speaker 1: poor on my own grass, in my car, so you're

1939
01:41:03,880 --> 01:41:05,080
Speaker 1: breaking into your own home.

1940
01:41:08,640 --> 01:41:11,240
Speaker 3: Some need to keep it down, this conversation like they

1941
01:41:11,320 --> 01:41:13,479
Speaker 3: must have been in theres, Like you know what, only

1942
01:41:13,560 --> 01:41:16,840
Speaker 3: thing better than a dead niggers? Two dead niggers? What

1943
01:41:17,000 --> 01:41:21,599
Speaker 3: are your means? What are your men? Are uncomfortable? Wow? Wow,

1944
01:41:21,720 --> 01:41:23,639
Speaker 3: I guess you just want us to move on now,

1945
01:41:23,920 --> 01:41:27,320
Speaker 3: isn't that something? Yeah? The other day, I was uh

1946
01:41:28,720 --> 01:41:30,840
Speaker 3: in a in the store. I was with you, and

1947
01:41:30,880 --> 01:41:32,800
Speaker 3: then a police officer came up to me and said,

1948
01:41:33,000 --> 01:41:35,479
Speaker 3: oh man, I wish I could grow a beer like that.

1949
01:41:37,640 --> 01:41:41,480
Speaker 3: And I was like, oh man, I wish I was bulletproof.

1950
01:41:45,320 --> 01:41:47,040
Speaker 3: I didn't say that, but that's all I was thinking.

1951
01:41:47,880 --> 01:41:50,080
Speaker 3: It's like, oh man, you got everything I won't. I

1952
01:41:50,160 --> 01:41:52,400
Speaker 3: wish I could kill black people with the community. Anyway.

1953
01:41:52,479 --> 01:41:55,360
Speaker 3: You have a good one, buddy, Uh good look on

1954
01:41:55,439 --> 01:41:59,439
Speaker 3: that beer, sir. Oh yeah, man, Like I feel like

1955
01:41:59,520 --> 01:42:02,720
Speaker 3: cops I feel about costa way women feel about street harassment.

1956
01:42:02,840 --> 01:42:04,240
Speaker 2: Like I gotta be nice to him.

1957
01:42:04,360 --> 01:42:04,920
Speaker 3: I don't want to.

1958
01:42:05,640 --> 01:42:07,160
Speaker 1: I have no choices life and death.

1959
01:42:07,280 --> 01:42:09,120
Speaker 3: Cop come over to me and be like, what's going on, buddy,

1960
01:42:09,120 --> 01:42:11,840
Speaker 3: I'm like, uh, gotta do a little social for you,

1961
01:42:12,160 --> 01:42:15,000
Speaker 3: you know, like I keep it nice, man, Like I'm.

1962
01:42:14,920 --> 01:42:16,759
Speaker 1: Not gonna if it ain't life or death, the minimum

1963
01:42:16,880 --> 01:42:17,000
Speaker 1: is a.

1964
01:42:17,080 --> 01:42:21,240
Speaker 3: Fine kick it. Like, motherfucker just decided. You know, you

1965
01:42:21,360 --> 01:42:23,800
Speaker 3: didn't speak to me the other day. You ugly anyway, bitch,

1966
01:42:23,840 --> 01:42:26,000
Speaker 3: and your headlight is busted. I'm gonna need to go

1967
01:42:26,040 --> 01:42:27,080
Speaker 3: ahead take you downtown.

1968
01:42:28,800 --> 01:42:30,600
Speaker 1: All right, this is in the office of what.

1969
01:42:32,360 --> 01:42:40,280
Speaker 3: Next. Joe Biden apologized for his remarks on segregationists. Now

1970
01:42:40,520 --> 01:42:43,360
Speaker 3: this is interesting because Essence fests this weekend and all

1971
01:42:43,880 --> 01:42:47,400
Speaker 3: the Democratic politicians apparently went and cut the rug down there,

1972
01:42:47,600 --> 01:42:54,360
Speaker 3: know lings except Joe. Joe was like, I probably won't,

1973
01:42:54,800 --> 01:42:57,080
Speaker 3: probably won't have great time in New Orleans. I'm gonna

1974
01:42:57,080 --> 01:43:02,760
Speaker 3: go to South Carolina. So what I'm interested in is

1975
01:43:02,880 --> 01:43:06,240
Speaker 3: that he apologized on this Saturday for this on Saturday

1976
01:43:06,560 --> 01:43:11,599
Speaker 3: last week, this weekend, and yet this happened weeks ago

1977
01:43:13,520 --> 01:43:17,080
Speaker 3: that he said that he works with segregationists and they

1978
01:43:17,439 --> 01:43:20,639
Speaker 3: called me boy or son and he didn't call me boy.

1979
01:43:20,720 --> 01:43:22,519
Speaker 3: He thought that was like a good thing to say,

1980
01:43:23,160 --> 01:43:27,240
Speaker 3: and to which all black people were like, man, what.

1981
01:43:29,360 --> 01:43:30,760
Speaker 1: I think it had a lot to do with that

1982
01:43:30,880 --> 01:43:34,120
Speaker 1: new Poland it came out and his numbers dipped. Yeah.

1983
01:43:34,280 --> 01:43:37,879
Speaker 2: Well, you know, Kamala Harris absolutely did.

1984
01:43:39,920 --> 01:43:41,080
Speaker 3: Take his ass a task.

1985
01:43:41,520 --> 01:43:44,120
Speaker 2: I mean, she was on that debate stage day, was

1986
01:43:44,200 --> 01:43:44,920
Speaker 2: not ready.

1987
01:43:44,840 --> 01:43:49,600
Speaker 3: Her week's coming off, her week's coming off. Ripped his

1988
01:43:49,680 --> 01:43:52,720
Speaker 3: wig right off in front of everybody, and we all

1989
01:43:52,880 --> 01:43:55,880
Speaker 3: was like, oh my god, is Joe uncle Joe? Okay, okay,

1990
01:43:56,439 --> 01:43:58,559
Speaker 3: I think our niggas even called him uncle Joe no more.

1991
01:43:58,600 --> 01:44:00,439
Speaker 3: I feel like day off of that. I think they

1992
01:44:00,479 --> 01:44:02,920
Speaker 3: are too, feel like the Blacks have taken his uncle

1993
01:44:02,960 --> 01:44:06,800
Speaker 3: status back. Now we only have Joe. Yeah, we only

1994
01:44:06,840 --> 01:44:12,439
Speaker 3: got like three uncles left, Uncle Denzel, Uncle Snoop and

1995
01:44:12,520 --> 01:44:15,080
Speaker 3: of course Uncle Shannon Shark. You know, I feel like

1996
01:44:15,120 --> 01:44:15,960
Speaker 3: we running out.

1997
01:44:15,880 --> 01:44:17,479
Speaker 1: Of uncles, running out of them.

1998
01:44:17,680 --> 01:44:21,280
Speaker 3: You know, we don't have a lot of uncles. Uncle Charles,

1999
01:44:21,400 --> 01:44:23,479
Speaker 3: who's dead, he's at the crossroads, Like, we don't have

2000
01:44:23,520 --> 01:44:26,280
Speaker 3: a lot of uncles guys left. And I feel like

2001
01:44:26,360 --> 01:44:29,280
Speaker 3: Uncle Joe's ship got got rescinded. I haven't seen anyone

2002
01:44:29,400 --> 01:44:31,600
Speaker 3: say Uncle Joe. In a minute. I might try to

2003
01:44:31,640 --> 01:44:33,760
Speaker 3: bring it back on Twitter just to make these niggas mad.

2004
01:44:37,720 --> 01:44:40,560
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna do it. I'm not gonnad at you.

2005
01:44:40,960 --> 01:44:43,080
Speaker 3: I'm absolutely not gonna do it, cause I don't even

2006
01:44:43,080 --> 01:44:45,000
Speaker 3: really fuck without him like that. I really would just

2007
01:44:45,040 --> 01:44:47,280
Speaker 3: be doing it to be a dick that every time

2008
01:44:47,360 --> 01:44:50,000
Speaker 3: he come up, Oh good old uncle Joe. What did

2009
01:44:50,080 --> 01:44:53,840
Speaker 3: he say this time putting his put in his mouth again?

2010
01:44:54,200 --> 01:44:55,640
Speaker 3: Oh my goodness, And that he.

2011
01:44:55,680 --> 01:44:58,080
Speaker 1: Got my ticket to the kickout. Niggas really lose their minds.

2012
01:45:00,520 --> 01:45:06,720
Speaker 3: Oh but yeah, he apologized. You know, so that's good

2013
01:45:07,040 --> 01:45:14,960
Speaker 3: that he apologized. He said, No, was I wrong? Now?

2014
01:45:15,120 --> 01:45:17,920
Speaker 3: Was I wrong a few weeks ago? Wait, hold on,

2015
01:45:18,479 --> 01:45:20,320
Speaker 3: let me get to the beginners. He used a speech

2016
01:45:20,400 --> 01:45:22,280
Speaker 3: to draw contrast with some of the candidates and the

2017
01:45:22,320 --> 01:45:25,960
Speaker 3: Democratic president's primary to his left and to de finished

2018
01:45:25,960 --> 01:45:28,800
Speaker 3: brought in philosophy of working within the system to get

2019
01:45:28,840 --> 01:45:31,160
Speaker 3: things done for those for the least of a bungust,

2020
01:45:32,000 --> 01:45:34,280
Speaker 3: even when that means dealing with people whose views he

2021
01:45:34,360 --> 01:45:39,960
Speaker 3: finds republic repugnant. I'm sorry, now, was I wrong a

2022
01:45:40,000 --> 01:45:42,160
Speaker 3: few weeks ago to somehow give the impression to people

2023
01:45:42,200 --> 01:45:45,479
Speaker 3: that I was praising those men who I successfully opposed

2024
01:45:45,479 --> 01:45:48,240
Speaker 3: time and time again? Yes I was. I regret it.

2025
01:45:49,760 --> 01:45:52,360
Speaker 3: I'm sorry for all any pain and misconception I may

2026
01:45:52,439 --> 01:45:53,439
Speaker 3: have caused anybody.

2027
01:45:58,200 --> 01:46:02,320
Speaker 2: All right, Look, we had to take a break because

2028
01:46:02,320 --> 01:46:03,439
Speaker 2: when I'm talking about Uncle.

2029
01:46:03,400 --> 01:46:07,240
Speaker 3: Joe, I just get so choked up, because that man

2030
01:46:07,360 --> 01:46:09,680
Speaker 3: meant so much to us during the Obama error, you know,

2031
01:46:12,160 --> 01:46:17,120
Speaker 3: him authoring the crime build and stuff. I mean, oh man,

2032
01:46:18,360 --> 01:46:19,800
Speaker 3: it's just a lot to see, you know, one of

2033
01:46:19,880 --> 01:46:23,519
Speaker 3: your heroes go down the way that he's going, you know,

2034
01:46:23,760 --> 01:46:28,479
Speaker 3: and everything he's done for this African American community and

2035
01:46:28,840 --> 01:46:33,280
Speaker 3: what working with those segregationists, uh, when a lot of

2036
01:46:33,320 --> 01:46:35,519
Speaker 3: black people couldn't work with them because it wouldn't let

2037
01:46:35,600 --> 01:46:39,320
Speaker 3: us because uh, you know, the whole segregation is thing.

2038
01:46:39,439 --> 01:46:43,840
Speaker 3: So oh man, it's just sometimes you can't take the pain.

2039
01:46:43,920 --> 01:46:45,240
Speaker 3: You have to just take a step away from the

2040
01:46:45,280 --> 01:46:50,040
Speaker 3: mic for a second. Uh, because you know, he's definitely

2041
01:46:50,080 --> 01:46:53,800
Speaker 3: one of those men that I feel like, you know,

2042
01:46:54,040 --> 01:46:56,360
Speaker 3: he was coming to the cookout and now you guys

2043
01:46:56,400 --> 01:46:59,240
Speaker 3: are trying trying to keep him out, y'all telling him

2044
01:46:59,280 --> 01:47:02,680
Speaker 3: the wrong day, the wrong time, And it's a lot

2045
01:47:02,720 --> 01:47:05,640
Speaker 3: for me to process, you know. So I got a

2046
01:47:05,640 --> 01:47:09,840
Speaker 3: little choked up, and oh man, it's just it's a

2047
01:47:09,920 --> 01:47:13,800
Speaker 3: lot to deal with, guys. So what came? What's wrong?

2048
01:47:16,600 --> 01:47:19,880
Speaker 3: All right? He did say he was wrong. He said

2049
01:47:20,080 --> 01:47:21,800
Speaker 3: he regrets Hi, I'm sorry for any pain, and da

2050
01:47:22,000 --> 01:47:24,759
Speaker 3: da da da. The room broke into a pause, drowning

2051
01:47:24,800 --> 01:47:30,560
Speaker 3: out mister Biden. Because the only thing better than a

2052
01:47:30,600 --> 01:47:34,280
Speaker 3: white man doubling down on the ship that he said

2053
01:47:34,320 --> 01:47:38,840
Speaker 3: for weeks is when he finally says, oh ship the

2054
01:47:38,880 --> 01:47:44,200
Speaker 3: post and and I oop and uh takes it back.

2055
01:47:46,520 --> 01:47:49,080
Speaker 3: I'm sure they started clapping before you even could apologize.

2056
01:47:50,040 --> 01:47:52,479
Speaker 3: He's like, oh boy, I messed up. I shouldn't have said,

2057
01:47:52,520 --> 01:48:00,840
Speaker 3: whoa Uncle Joe? Black people buying the ship? We quiet me?

2058
01:48:00,920 --> 01:48:05,000
Speaker 3: Gross Uncle Joe was talking. Okay, Jesus, what else does

2059
01:48:05,040 --> 01:48:06,560
Speaker 3: he need to do for you? People who let you in?

2060
01:48:07,400 --> 01:48:08,519
Speaker 1: Huh? How'd you get a ticket?

2061
01:48:09,240 --> 01:48:13,439
Speaker 3: He said? But he asked the crowd, should that misstep

2062
01:48:13,479 --> 01:48:15,760
Speaker 3: defined fifty years of my record for fighting for civil

2063
01:48:15,840 --> 01:48:20,040
Speaker 3: rights racial justice in this country? I hope not, he said.

2064
01:48:20,240 --> 01:48:22,880
Speaker 3: Some of the crowd murmured no. I mean you are

2065
01:48:23,000 --> 01:48:25,479
Speaker 3: asking a room full of your supporters that I would

2066
01:48:25,560 --> 01:48:28,000
Speaker 3: hope if anywhere, that's the place where they will give

2067
01:48:28,000 --> 01:48:30,920
Speaker 3: you a break. That's like if the next live show

2068
01:48:30,960 --> 01:48:32,479
Speaker 3: we did, if I just went to the stage and

2069
01:48:32,600 --> 01:48:34,439
Speaker 3: was like, you guys, listen.

2070
01:48:34,760 --> 01:48:34,880
Speaker 1: Uh.

2071
01:48:36,240 --> 01:48:40,200
Speaker 3: I just do not think beating women should hold me

2072
01:48:40,400 --> 01:48:44,760
Speaker 3: back from being an entertainer anymore. I mean, I listen,

2073
01:48:44,920 --> 01:48:47,719
Speaker 3: I beat every woman I've ever dated. But I feel

2074
01:48:47,840 --> 01:48:51,920
Speaker 3: like here I can say I'm sorry and we all

2075
01:48:52,200 --> 01:48:55,519
Speaker 3: that should not overtake all my work, and people would

2076
01:48:55,520 --> 01:48:59,400
Speaker 3: be like that would be the last live show elved.

2077
01:49:00,000 --> 01:49:00,880
Speaker 3: He would be clapping like this.

2078
01:49:02,320 --> 01:49:05,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, they would clap like that is this a joke?

2079
01:49:05,439 --> 01:49:08,280
Speaker 1: And I would look at you like, motherfucker, what right?

2080
01:49:08,680 --> 01:49:10,720
Speaker 3: But if there's a room you can do this in,

2081
01:49:11,240 --> 01:49:13,960
Speaker 3: is that that's the room? Karen's my point. Now, if

2082
01:49:14,000 --> 01:49:16,040
Speaker 3: I went into a random room where nobody knew me

2083
01:49:16,120 --> 01:49:17,960
Speaker 3: and I said that, I don't eve think I get

2084
01:49:17,960 --> 01:49:21,800
Speaker 3: a clap, I just get boobed, you know, I get

2085
01:49:21,880 --> 01:49:23,960
Speaker 3: the you know in our room, I get is he joking?

2086
01:49:26,680 --> 01:49:29,320
Speaker 3: And it's like, I hope this is right?

2087
01:49:29,400 --> 01:49:30,880
Speaker 2: This a character, it's a new character.

2088
01:49:30,920 --> 01:49:33,479
Speaker 3: Oh rod soy, he's so crazy, y'all, he's so crazy.

2089
01:49:33,880 --> 01:49:36,719
Speaker 3: But if you did this and like, you know, listen,

2090
01:49:36,800 --> 01:49:38,920
Speaker 3: you know it's Chris Brown at a concert being like

2091
01:49:39,560 --> 01:49:41,560
Speaker 3: I'm a dance So I started crying and everybody was like,

2092
01:49:41,880 --> 01:49:43,080
Speaker 3: oh poor bless his heart.

2093
01:49:44,120 --> 01:49:44,280
Speaker 1: You know.

2094
01:49:44,560 --> 01:49:46,640
Speaker 3: Now, if that that same year he would have went

2095
01:49:46,680 --> 01:49:49,040
Speaker 3: to a Rihanna concert and came out dancing, everybody be like,

2096
01:49:49,600 --> 01:49:51,160
Speaker 3: if y'all don't get this, nigga off to stay for

2097
01:49:51,280 --> 01:49:52,760
Speaker 3: we fucking riot up in here.

2098
01:49:53,120 --> 01:49:53,280
Speaker 1: Right.

2099
01:49:53,680 --> 01:49:57,200
Speaker 2: So it's just he knew the room. As a politician, this.

2100
01:49:57,320 --> 01:50:01,640
Speaker 1: Is the room he could do this in, correct, But this.

2101
01:50:01,720 --> 01:50:03,080
Speaker 3: Is not an unbiased room. It's my point.

2102
01:50:03,120 --> 01:50:04,600
Speaker 2: So when you say they broke in to applause, that

2103
01:50:04,680 --> 01:50:05,400
Speaker 2: does nothing for me.

2104
01:50:06,000 --> 01:50:11,920
Speaker 3: That's my real point, right anyway, And yes, beating women

2105
01:50:11,960 --> 01:50:13,920
Speaker 3: probably was too far. For example, what I really mean

2106
01:50:13,960 --> 01:50:15,599
Speaker 3: is when I came out on the stage and say, God,

2107
01:50:15,640 --> 01:50:17,760
Speaker 3: it's time for me to live my truth. I too

2108
01:50:18,000 --> 01:50:20,439
Speaker 3: enjoyed sugar grits. That would be a lot of applause.

2109
01:50:21,760 --> 01:50:23,960
Speaker 3: There would be so much applause in that room for

2110
01:50:24,080 --> 01:50:27,120
Speaker 3: me living my truth. But deep down everyone would know

2111
01:50:27,240 --> 01:50:30,920
Speaker 3: that I was praising an abomination of nature. That I

2112
01:50:30,960 --> 01:50:33,439
Speaker 3: would be some booze too now that I was spitting

2113
01:50:33,479 --> 01:50:37,880
Speaker 3: in the face of God himself by advocating for that bullshit.

2114
01:50:38,040 --> 01:50:40,040
Speaker 2: They would know, but they would let me.

2115
01:50:40,160 --> 01:50:42,920
Speaker 3: Live in that room because it's my room.

2116
01:50:43,920 --> 01:50:46,640
Speaker 2: I did everything to get people in that fact.

2117
01:50:48,760 --> 01:51:00,240
Speaker 3: Anyway, zero he gets say, yeah, I mean right, right, right, Yeah,

2118
01:51:00,240 --> 01:51:01,760
Speaker 3: I was gonna give his ass one hundred Then I

2119
01:51:01,840 --> 01:51:04,519
Speaker 3: just really I was to He did apologize, So I

2120
01:51:04,600 --> 01:51:07,880
Speaker 3: guess I mean that I said twenty five off of

2121
01:51:08,000 --> 01:51:11,080
Speaker 3: apologize that the weeks of telling us to go to hell,

2122
01:51:11,840 --> 01:51:13,880
Speaker 3: I'm a good person. FU what y'all talk about?

2123
01:51:14,520 --> 01:51:16,720
Speaker 1: Right? But then but them poll numbers don't lie them

2124
01:51:16,800 --> 01:51:20,600
Speaker 1: polling up like right. People act like it's a coincidence,

2125
01:51:20,920 --> 01:51:24,400
Speaker 1: and the thing is not to get you know what

2126
01:51:24,600 --> 01:51:31,120
Speaker 1: you know, Yeah, it's the motherfucking hundred because big right,

2127
01:51:31,160 --> 01:51:33,360
Speaker 1: because I'm still warm. I think the only reason why

2128
01:51:33,439 --> 01:51:35,880
Speaker 1: you apologize is because of them fucking poll numbers. And

2129
01:51:36,040 --> 01:51:41,000
Speaker 1: also you hire people. You hire people whose whole job

2130
01:51:41,479 --> 01:51:45,080
Speaker 1: is to tell you strategically what you need to do.

2131
01:51:45,640 --> 01:51:48,400
Speaker 1: And I think that these people told you that that

2132
01:51:48,720 --> 01:51:51,160
Speaker 1: was not the right thing to say, and they've told

2133
01:51:51,200 --> 01:51:53,320
Speaker 1: you other things were not the right thing to say,

2134
01:51:53,640 --> 01:51:55,880
Speaker 1: but you said fuck it every time, and you out

2135
01:51:55,880 --> 01:51:57,240
Speaker 1: here fucking up your pole numbers.

2136
01:51:57,600 --> 01:52:01,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, he can't say take I mean, that's the real

2137
01:52:01,880 --> 01:52:04,519
Speaker 3: problem with him is that he can't fucking take no

2138
01:52:04,760 --> 01:52:05,719
Speaker 3: for its right.

2139
01:52:05,800 --> 01:52:08,400
Speaker 1: When somebody my whole job. I do this for a

2140
01:52:08,439 --> 01:52:11,760
Speaker 1: fucking living. I'm a political strategist. This is what the

2141
01:52:11,840 --> 01:52:13,400
Speaker 1: fuck I do. And you're gonna tell me that I

2142
01:52:13,479 --> 01:52:14,519
Speaker 1: don't know how to do my job.

2143
01:52:14,760 --> 01:52:17,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, he just can't. No one can ever tell him

2144
01:52:17,200 --> 01:52:18,760
Speaker 3: you're wrong on this one and you need to take

2145
01:52:18,800 --> 01:52:21,160
Speaker 3: this l He's always gonna be like, man, fuck y'all.

2146
01:52:21,240 --> 01:52:25,800
Speaker 1: And if he does not do have denomination that's gonna

2147
01:52:25,800 --> 01:52:26,720
Speaker 1: be why right?

2148
01:52:27,360 --> 01:52:29,679
Speaker 3: All right, let's wrap this up with some guests the race.

2149
01:52:30,520 --> 01:52:34,880
Speaker 3: This is almost a two hour episode already we've been going. Yeah,

2150
01:52:35,080 --> 01:52:38,439
Speaker 3: got to some big tangents and ship. But uh, people

2151
01:52:38,560 --> 01:52:40,920
Speaker 3: like this, they missed us. It's been a week. They

2152
01:52:41,000 --> 01:52:45,000
Speaker 3: deserve all right, guess the race time. Now that it's

2153
01:52:45,120 --> 01:52:49,240
Speaker 3: time for some guests story race. That's right, guests the

2154
01:52:49,479 --> 01:52:50,080
Speaker 3: race time.

2155
01:52:51,840 --> 01:52:53,240
Speaker 1: Now that it is time for.

2156
01:52:53,439 --> 01:52:54,719
Speaker 3: Some guest story race.

2157
01:52:55,640 --> 01:52:57,759
Speaker 1: That's right, this guests the race time.

2158
01:52:58,760 --> 01:53:03,400
Speaker 3: But that's right, it's time for gus the race, the

2159
01:53:03,479 --> 01:53:05,720
Speaker 3: number one game show going across all the podcasts. Man

2160
01:53:06,400 --> 01:53:08,800
Speaker 3: where we reading news articles from all over the globe,

2161
01:53:08,840 --> 01:53:10,800
Speaker 3: and we asked our contestants today.

2162
01:53:10,600 --> 01:53:14,160
Speaker 2: Karen and the chat room to guess the race.

2163
01:53:14,280 --> 01:53:19,400
Speaker 3: And of course everyone playing is a stone cold hoorasist.

2164
01:53:20,320 --> 01:53:25,719
Speaker 3: All right, let's get into the first story. Wait, where's

2165
01:53:25,760 --> 01:53:27,760
Speaker 3: the picture of the person? I might have to wait

2166
01:53:27,800 --> 01:53:29,280
Speaker 3: for this to load, you know, let me do a

2167
01:53:29,320 --> 01:53:32,360
Speaker 3: different one until this loads. Oh no, I just read

2168
01:53:32,360 --> 01:53:36,639
Speaker 3: it until it loads. I got a picture. A Haywood

2169
01:53:36,720 --> 01:53:39,080
Speaker 3: County woman is accused of using a stun gun on

2170
01:53:39,120 --> 01:53:42,200
Speaker 3: the McDonald's manager and trying to drag him out of

2171
01:53:42,280 --> 01:53:46,880
Speaker 3: the restaurant drive through window. Oh the shit, Yes, I

2172
01:53:46,920 --> 01:53:59,840
Speaker 3: guess you could say it was a shocking development. The

2173
01:54:00,000 --> 01:54:02,960
Speaker 3: attack on Sunday left the nineteen year old employee with

2174
01:54:03,040 --> 01:54:08,519
Speaker 3: both physical and emotional scars. Yeah, she grasped me by

2175
01:54:08,600 --> 01:54:08,920
Speaker 3: my hair.

2176
01:54:09,160 --> 01:54:12,479
Speaker 1: I mean, I mean did she fuck up his McRib.

2177
01:54:14,760 --> 01:54:23,600
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yes, yes, he's in the hospital with Bruce mcgribs.

2178
01:54:28,320 --> 01:54:43,400
Speaker 3: I wonder if she's gonna get any charges. That was great.

2179
01:54:43,480 --> 01:54:45,120
Speaker 3: I just didn't it was so good. I didn't even

2180
01:54:45,160 --> 01:54:48,520
Speaker 3: pick up. She grabbed me by my hair, pulled me

2181
01:54:48,600 --> 01:54:51,120
Speaker 3: out the window. That's when she has the taser, trying

2182
01:54:51,120 --> 01:54:53,480
Speaker 3: to go for my throat. Punch me in my face,

2183
01:54:53,600 --> 01:54:56,480
Speaker 3: punch me in my eyes, just beating me. Cell Phone

2184
01:54:56,560 --> 01:54:59,040
Speaker 3: video shows a Soft Jordan experience while working at the

2185
01:54:59,120 --> 01:55:03,360
Speaker 3: McDonald's and brown Jordan and overnight manager said two customers

2186
01:55:03,480 --> 01:55:05,280
Speaker 3: upset about how long it took to feel that order.

2187
01:55:05,600 --> 01:55:08,400
Speaker 3: Jordan said, they wouldn't stop blowing their car horn. I said, hey,

2188
01:55:08,480 --> 01:55:10,680
Speaker 3: I'm the manager, and you disrespecting me and the customers

2189
01:55:10,760 --> 01:55:12,920
Speaker 3: behind you by laying on the horn. You can refuse.

2190
01:55:13,040 --> 01:55:15,200
Speaker 3: We can refuse to serve you because you're being disruptive.

2191
01:55:15,800 --> 01:55:19,600
Speaker 3: See that was his first mistake. That was I mean,

2192
01:55:19,760 --> 01:55:21,560
Speaker 3: I was working in a long time in fast food.

2193
01:55:21,680 --> 01:55:23,680
Speaker 3: Let me tell you something. Just give them the food.

2194
01:55:24,440 --> 01:55:27,240
Speaker 2: Just don't even at you, not mister McDonald's.

2195
01:55:28,240 --> 01:55:32,040
Speaker 3: Once you start asking for respect as a minimum wage worker,

2196
01:55:32,120 --> 01:55:32,800
Speaker 3: you ain't getting it.

2197
01:55:33,240 --> 01:55:36,200
Speaker 2: These motherfuckers are evil as fucked.

2198
01:55:36,440 --> 01:55:40,000
Speaker 3: This is why, like so much of my world view

2199
01:55:40,080 --> 01:55:43,600
Speaker 3: was shaped by working in minimum wage fast food jobs.

2200
01:55:44,120 --> 01:55:46,400
Speaker 3: I don't think people ever realize it, but there's a

2201
01:55:46,520 --> 01:55:50,760
Speaker 3: reason I don't believe in humanity at writ large, and

2202
01:55:50,840 --> 01:55:53,320
Speaker 3: it's mostly because I've seen how people treat folks when

2203
01:55:53,320 --> 01:55:54,640
Speaker 3: they think you ain't shit.

2204
01:55:56,200 --> 01:55:58,040
Speaker 1: I don't think McDonalds would ever do this because it's

2205
01:55:58,040 --> 01:56:00,919
Speaker 1: so fucking cheap. But eventually they gonna put their employees

2206
01:56:00,920 --> 01:56:03,680
Speaker 1: behind those glass bulletproof things that they do at the bank.

2207
01:56:03,920 --> 01:56:04,919
Speaker 3: They gonna be robots.

2208
01:56:05,040 --> 01:56:07,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, where you're gonna put it in and you're gonna twist,

2209
01:56:07,520 --> 01:56:08,880
Speaker 1: and that's how you don't get your food, so you

2210
01:56:08,960 --> 01:56:11,600
Speaker 1: won't be jumping across the counter and attacking me and shit.

2211
01:56:11,880 --> 01:56:14,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, And you know what, McDonald's would never do that

2212
01:56:14,200 --> 01:56:16,800
Speaker 3: because the chiever just did not do it right. They

2213
01:56:16,920 --> 01:56:18,760
Speaker 3: rather get a robot in that that you can't beat

2214
01:56:18,840 --> 01:56:19,240
Speaker 3: up or something.

2215
01:56:19,240 --> 01:56:21,200
Speaker 1: They rather have an employee fucking sue them than to

2216
01:56:21,280 --> 01:56:22,160
Speaker 1: actually protect them.

2217
01:56:22,280 --> 01:56:24,880
Speaker 3: That's how the world gonna end. That's how motherfucking Skottnak

2218
01:56:24,960 --> 01:56:28,520
Speaker 3: gonna become the matrix and shit is because somebody gonna

2219
01:56:29,240 --> 01:56:31,280
Speaker 3: live to one of these goddamn machines and be like

2220
01:56:31,560 --> 01:56:33,440
Speaker 3: I said, I want to catch up on my burger, bitch,

2221
01:56:33,520 --> 01:56:35,120
Speaker 3: you fucked it up, and the machine gonna be like

2222
01:56:35,840 --> 01:56:39,520
Speaker 3: you pressed the motherfucking no ketchup button, asshole, and the

2223
01:56:39,560 --> 01:56:42,240
Speaker 3: person gonna be like, fuck you, robot, I'm pissing on you,

2224
01:56:42,560 --> 01:56:45,440
Speaker 3: I'm flapping you around. You can't do shit about it, robot,

2225
01:56:45,520 --> 01:56:47,640
Speaker 3: and the robot gonna be like, the fuck I can't.

2226
01:56:47,880 --> 01:56:50,360
Speaker 3: I might flip burgers, but guess what I can lift

2227
01:56:50,400 --> 01:56:53,080
Speaker 3: five thousand tons, bitch. And it's gonna kill people, and

2228
01:56:53,120 --> 01:56:55,880
Speaker 3: then it's gonna become sentient and self aware, and then

2229
01:56:55,920 --> 01:56:58,760
Speaker 3: motherfucking satellite is gonna be communicating with drones and shit,

2230
01:56:59,040 --> 01:56:59,920
Speaker 3: and it's gonna fuck.

2231
01:56:59,760 --> 01:57:00,320
Speaker 1: Us out all up.

2232
01:57:00,440 --> 01:57:02,720
Speaker 3: And it's gonna be because they start putting robots in

2233
01:57:02,840 --> 01:57:05,480
Speaker 3: fast food was smart. Only human beings could take this

2234
01:57:05,600 --> 01:57:09,760
Speaker 3: type of demeaning punishment without resulting to killing robots will

2235
01:57:09,800 --> 01:57:13,640
Speaker 3: make the logical conclusion of humans are the goddamn problem

2236
01:57:14,040 --> 01:57:14,800
Speaker 3: need to be gone?

2237
01:57:14,960 --> 01:57:18,280
Speaker 1: Ain't that always the end result for the robots? Y'all know?

2238
01:57:18,440 --> 01:57:21,000
Speaker 1: The mother y'all are the flower person, y'all.

2239
01:57:21,200 --> 01:57:23,360
Speaker 3: Y'all gonna get us there so fast with these fucking

2240
01:57:23,440 --> 01:57:26,520
Speaker 3: robot jobs. Man, y'all don't understand. You just had to

2241
01:57:26,560 --> 01:57:29,320
Speaker 3: give it to a poor person of color who has

2242
01:57:29,400 --> 01:57:31,760
Speaker 3: no other options in life. It's unfortunate, but it's the

2243
01:57:31,880 --> 01:57:33,400
Speaker 3: only thing keep us aside there alive.

2244
01:57:33,560 --> 01:57:35,600
Speaker 1: They're gonna fuck around and mess with a robot all

2245
01:57:35,640 --> 01:57:37,960
Speaker 1: of a sudden, they gonna be a cold, red cold

2246
01:57:38,040 --> 01:57:41,120
Speaker 1: right next thing, you know, that motherfucker gonna lock down

2247
01:57:41,480 --> 01:57:44,520
Speaker 1: all the doors, gonna lock everything, gonna lock down. They're

2248
01:57:44,560 --> 01:57:46,640
Speaker 1: just gonna be y'alling there with them robots, Nigga fuck

2249
01:57:46,680 --> 01:57:47,240
Speaker 1: everybody else.

2250
01:57:47,320 --> 01:57:51,720
Speaker 3: Johnny five disassemble, and it's gonna tell y'all my life right,

2251
01:57:52,080 --> 01:57:54,960
Speaker 3: tell your arm off and shit and fucking destroy your

2252
01:57:55,040 --> 01:57:57,760
Speaker 3: whole in front of your family and shit, and you know.

2253
01:57:57,800 --> 01:57:59,920
Speaker 1: What, and then that they're so good after they kill it, boy,

2254
01:58:00,000 --> 01:58:02,120
Speaker 1: they're gonna clean the restaurant up people. They ain't gonna

2255
01:58:02,120 --> 01:58:03,040
Speaker 1: know what happened to the bodies.

2256
01:58:03,600 --> 01:58:07,480
Speaker 3: We know what's gonna happen. Man. That's why I never

2257
01:58:07,720 --> 01:58:08,800
Speaker 3: argue with customers.

2258
01:58:08,440 --> 01:58:10,560
Speaker 1: That everybodys gonna be like, bitch, I'm not paid.

2259
01:58:10,720 --> 01:58:13,400
Speaker 3: I work for free, like I wasn't a manager. But

2260
01:58:13,440 --> 01:58:16,200
Speaker 3: I never argue with customers. I go get my manage, man,

2261
01:58:18,280 --> 01:58:21,240
Speaker 3: because if it's to me, it's up to me. You're

2262
01:58:21,240 --> 01:58:21,800
Speaker 3: getting it free.

2263
01:58:22,360 --> 01:58:24,960
Speaker 2: Tell you right now, you get an attitude, Hey, man,

2264
01:58:25,040 --> 01:58:26,080
Speaker 2: you just take the challenge.

2265
01:58:26,080 --> 01:58:28,480
Speaker 3: I don't. I don't want to die over a MC

2266
01:58:28,640 --> 01:58:32,440
Speaker 3: chicken a dollar in nineteen cent me chicken. You're about

2267
01:58:32,440 --> 01:58:36,120
Speaker 3: to fucking kill me. Bro, you're gonna tasee me over

2268
01:58:36,320 --> 01:58:40,120
Speaker 3: McChicken because we had to put down fresh frogs. Dog.

2269
01:58:40,240 --> 01:58:44,919
Speaker 3: I gotta die tonight. I gotta go meet God tonight

2270
01:58:45,000 --> 01:58:49,000
Speaker 3: because of this what's wrong. People are insane. People are

2271
01:58:49,120 --> 01:58:52,800
Speaker 3: so fucking crazy, man. That's why, Na, this is about

2272
01:58:52,800 --> 01:58:55,120
Speaker 3: to turn to a big ass rant. But let me

2273
01:58:55,200 --> 01:58:57,360
Speaker 3: just long story short. That's why I'm believe in all this,

2274
01:58:57,760 --> 01:59:00,600
Speaker 3: like socialism could save us. No, it's not, it's you.

2275
01:59:00,880 --> 01:59:03,960
Speaker 3: It's you the person. You are fucked up and you're

2276
01:59:04,000 --> 01:59:07,480
Speaker 3: just walking out here being like you're the normal, You're

2277
01:59:07,560 --> 01:59:10,760
Speaker 3: the norm. This is not the the fucking like people

2278
01:59:10,880 --> 01:59:14,000
Speaker 3: have this evil inside of them constantly and that's why

2279
01:59:14,120 --> 01:59:17,320
Speaker 3: we're so fucked up. Like it's not just everybody thinks

2280
01:59:17,320 --> 01:59:20,240
Speaker 3: it's like the rich, no, the poor, the motherfuckers that

2281
01:59:20,280 --> 01:59:22,720
Speaker 3: can bare it for McDonald's but still feel they need

2282
01:59:22,760 --> 01:59:24,240
Speaker 3: to shit on the person because at least I don't

2283
01:59:24,240 --> 01:59:28,640
Speaker 3: work at McDonald's to come. Do you think it's the

2284
01:59:28,720 --> 01:59:32,240
Speaker 3: one percent niggas one hundred percent all of y'all a

2285
01:59:32,400 --> 01:59:41,040
Speaker 3: problem anyway? Jordan said. That's when Mark Quenta Glidwell got

2286
01:59:41,080 --> 01:59:43,520
Speaker 3: out of the car and approach to drive through window.

2287
01:59:43,600 --> 01:59:47,000
Speaker 3: He said, Glidwell hit him with her credit card and

2288
01:59:47,160 --> 01:59:49,600
Speaker 3: use a stun gun, leaving a nasty looking mark on

2289
01:59:49,640 --> 01:59:51,880
Speaker 3: his neck. Good God, at first we thought it was

2290
01:59:51,920 --> 01:59:53,800
Speaker 3: just scratch marks from her fingers until you look at

2291
01:59:53,840 --> 01:59:56,040
Speaker 3: the video and you can clearly see her trying to

2292
01:59:56,120 --> 01:59:58,320
Speaker 3: jam the taste her into my throat. He said. The

2293
01:59:58,400 --> 02:00:02,960
Speaker 3: whole time she was threatening to kill him because it

2294
02:00:03,080 --> 02:00:06,400
Speaker 3: took too long to get a quarter pounder, saying that

2295
02:00:06,560 --> 02:00:10,200
Speaker 3: because I voted for Trump, I deserve this. Jordan, I

2296
02:00:10,360 --> 02:00:16,120
Speaker 3: wasn't even old enough to vote when he ran damn damn. Jordan,

2297
02:00:16,240 --> 02:00:18,960
Speaker 3: who said he's gay, was shocked to hear the woman

2298
02:00:19,080 --> 02:00:22,120
Speaker 3: call him several insulting things. Honestly, I believe she was

2299
02:00:22,160 --> 02:00:24,760
Speaker 3: trying to hurt me emotionally and physical. It was really hurtful.

2300
02:00:25,040 --> 02:00:28,200
Speaker 3: Glidwell was accused by Brownville Belize a short time later

2301
02:00:28,560 --> 02:00:31,400
Speaker 3: and charge arrested, I mean, and charged with aggravated the saft.

2302
02:00:31,800 --> 02:00:34,600
Speaker 3: Jacob's mother would like to see more serious charges. She

2303
02:00:34,760 --> 02:00:36,440
Speaker 3: needs to be charged with a hate crime because she

2304
02:00:36,480 --> 02:00:38,880
Speaker 3: hated my son for the colored skin and his sexuality.

2305
02:00:39,280 --> 02:00:42,240
Speaker 3: Mother Jessica Garland said that's a hate that's hate, and

2306
02:00:42,320 --> 02:00:45,280
Speaker 3: that's a hate crime to me. She'll probably call him

2307
02:00:45,640 --> 02:00:49,600
Speaker 3: homophobic slurs. Jacob said he'll return to work at mcdonald'scause

2308
02:00:49,600 --> 02:00:51,800
Speaker 3: he needs the job so he can go to college,

2309
02:00:53,000 --> 02:01:01,480
Speaker 3: right exactly. And you know, McDonald's ain't got zero z statement,

2310
02:01:02,080 --> 02:01:08,680
Speaker 3: zero therapy, zero help counseling, zero discussions. They just expected

2311
02:01:08,800 --> 02:01:12,280
Speaker 3: that as you better be there when the motherfucking mcgriddles

2312
02:01:12,280 --> 02:01:15,080
Speaker 3: are being made in the morning, stun gun or not.

2313
02:01:15,480 --> 02:01:18,720
Speaker 3: I hope you didn't think we had some insurance. I

2314
02:01:18,840 --> 02:01:21,440
Speaker 3: hope you didn't think that was Fitna happen no level

2315
02:01:21,520 --> 02:01:24,280
Speaker 3: of conversation. You better get your ass up for this

2316
02:01:24,400 --> 02:01:29,000
Speaker 3: seven twenty five in the morning and be here, get

2317
02:01:29,080 --> 02:01:33,959
Speaker 3: your hourly wage, work your eighty hours a week, stun.

2318
02:01:33,920 --> 02:01:37,440
Speaker 1: Gun fun on your neck and all all right, and

2319
02:01:37,760 --> 02:01:39,800
Speaker 1: your take home pay for two weeks gonna be four

2320
02:01:39,880 --> 02:01:40,600
Speaker 1: hundred dollars right.

2321
02:01:41,560 --> 02:01:43,480
Speaker 3: Uh, but he knows working to drive through will never

2322
02:01:43,600 --> 02:01:46,400
Speaker 3: be quite the same again. It only takes once glyn

2323
02:01:46,520 --> 02:01:48,720
Speaker 3: Wells in jail on ten thousand dollars bond. The next

2324
02:01:48,760 --> 02:01:51,760
Speaker 3: quarter appearance of July thirtieth, Karen guess the race of

2325
02:01:51,960 --> 02:01:54,040
Speaker 3: mar Quenta Glidwell.

2326
02:01:54,640 --> 02:01:55,200
Speaker 1: That's a negro.

2327
02:01:56,120 --> 02:01:58,880
Speaker 3: Karen says, that is a negro. Let's check the chat

2328
02:01:58,960 --> 02:02:04,920
Speaker 3: room and see what the negroes believe. Brownsville sounds like

2329
02:02:05,040 --> 02:02:09,200
Speaker 3: code for nigger so town, nigger town, so black, Mark

2330
02:02:09,240 --> 02:02:13,040
Speaker 3: Quenta black, I'm the real Hamburglar, bitch, Black Hamburglar, ain't

2331
02:02:13,040 --> 02:02:17,840
Speaker 3: got ship on me. Black Asian black lady who she

2332
02:02:18,040 --> 02:02:22,200
Speaker 3: said she had a hair bonnet and lady's black black

2333
02:02:22,280 --> 02:02:24,520
Speaker 3: stun gun and the drive through Nigga with the hard

2334
02:02:24,600 --> 02:02:42,520
Speaker 3: e r and blizzak. The correct answer is black. And

2335
02:02:42,640 --> 02:02:45,800
Speaker 3: one person did say Asian, very very close but you

2336
02:02:45,920 --> 02:02:57,200
Speaker 3: missed it just barely so and uh, that's a blurry

2337
02:02:57,200 --> 02:02:58,400
Speaker 3: picture because I had to blow it up.

2338
02:02:58,480 --> 02:03:02,360
Speaker 1: But yeah, she yeah, surprised she didn't have a bund

2339
02:03:02,400 --> 02:03:04,160
Speaker 1: oft on because her hair looked like it's pinched up

2340
02:03:04,160 --> 02:03:04,960
Speaker 1: all kinds of ways.

2341
02:03:05,720 --> 02:03:07,880
Speaker 3: She was with somebody. What was the other passenger doing?

2342
02:03:08,320 --> 02:03:10,520
Speaker 3: Card I feel bad for them because now they got

2343
02:03:10,600 --> 02:03:12,280
Speaker 3: a ride with this motherfucker all the way back.

2344
02:03:12,360 --> 02:03:14,840
Speaker 1: And all I want was a ten piece of chicken nugget. Bitch,

2345
02:03:14,880 --> 02:03:16,760
Speaker 1: I didn't know I was gonna try. I'll stay at.

2346
02:03:16,680 --> 02:03:18,360
Speaker 3: Home for this, like I can't wait for the hot

2347
02:03:18,440 --> 02:03:20,520
Speaker 3: mustard sauce. It did not. I did not know it

2348
02:03:20,680 --> 02:03:24,440
Speaker 3: was gonna get this real. Okay, it's not that serious

2349
02:03:24,480 --> 02:03:24,680
Speaker 3: to me.

2350
02:03:25,080 --> 02:03:27,360
Speaker 1: And she was like, I just wanted a big mac.

2351
02:03:27,400 --> 02:03:28,720
Speaker 1: I didn't won't return of the mac.

2352
02:03:30,840 --> 02:03:37,040
Speaker 3: The hell is this? Let's see A woman has her

2353
02:03:37,120 --> 02:03:41,480
Speaker 3: lover arrested for leaving a morning gift in her eye.

2354
02:03:42,800 --> 02:03:46,080
Speaker 3: Morning gift a Nashville woman to walk towards a prox

2355
02:03:46,160 --> 02:03:48,480
Speaker 3: Saturday morning. She told Alice. She opened her eyes at

2356
02:03:48,480 --> 02:03:51,760
Speaker 3: approximately ten am and she noticed her intimate partner taking

2357
02:03:51,800 --> 02:03:55,000
Speaker 3: care of business in the bedroom closet. She says when

2358
02:03:55,040 --> 02:03:57,360
Speaker 3: he noticed she was awake, he walked over and gave

2359
02:03:57,440 --> 02:03:59,880
Speaker 3: her an unwanted gift that in a location that Lisa

2360
02:04:00,000 --> 02:04:03,839
Speaker 3: Lopez would appreciate. Oh, this is all of those sassy articles.

2361
02:04:03,880 --> 02:04:07,919
Speaker 3: I guess left eye. The victim was at the apartment

2362
02:04:07,960 --> 02:04:11,440
Speaker 3: at the Gossip on Church Saturday morning when she said

2363
02:04:11,480 --> 02:04:13,360
Speaker 3: she was sleeping in the bedroom began to wake up

2364
02:04:13,640 --> 02:04:15,840
Speaker 3: and she was opening her eyes, she realized her intimate partner,

2365
02:04:15,880 --> 02:04:19,760
Speaker 3: twenty five year old Christian Jamison McCrae, was masturbating in

2366
02:04:19,800 --> 02:04:22,360
Speaker 3: the bedroom closet. She told police that once she noticed,

2367
02:04:22,520 --> 02:04:25,160
Speaker 3: once he noticed she was wake she was waking up,

2368
02:04:25,560 --> 02:04:28,200
Speaker 3: he walked over to her and ejaculated onto her face

2369
02:04:28,320 --> 02:04:30,960
Speaker 3: and more specifically, into her left eye. She stated the

2370
02:04:31,040 --> 02:04:33,600
Speaker 3: action was extremely offensive and they had not been recently

2371
02:04:33,640 --> 02:04:35,840
Speaker 3: engaged in any type of sexual activity for that to

2372
02:04:35,920 --> 02:04:40,360
Speaker 3: occur as she was sleeping. And I mean, even if

2373
02:04:40,440 --> 02:04:43,520
Speaker 3: y'all had though, like, that's still a hell of an

2374
02:04:44,960 --> 02:04:49,160
Speaker 3: assumption on his part, Like even if he was like

2375
02:04:49,480 --> 02:04:51,240
Speaker 3: fresh out the box, you know what I'm saying, Like

2376
02:04:51,320 --> 02:04:54,560
Speaker 3: I just tapped that the idea of being like and

2377
02:04:54,680 --> 02:04:56,680
Speaker 3: now the nete on her face while she's just waking

2378
02:04:56,760 --> 02:04:57,280
Speaker 3: up in the morning.

2379
02:04:57,480 --> 02:04:59,000
Speaker 1: It seems a little.

2380
02:05:00,240 --> 02:05:02,200
Speaker 3: Like it feels like that's a box they have to

2381
02:05:02,280 --> 02:05:04,960
Speaker 3: check on porn scene, so you probably wouldn't need to

2382
02:05:05,000 --> 02:05:06,040
Speaker 3: check that in real life.

2383
02:05:06,120 --> 02:05:08,840
Speaker 1: Somehow, I'm trying to tell y'all plumb, get y'all fucked

2384
02:05:08,920 --> 02:05:12,480
Speaker 1: up right, don't be don't be doing that shit without permission.

2385
02:05:12,720 --> 02:05:16,320
Speaker 3: Some people have mourning breath, other people have morning wood,

2386
02:05:17,560 --> 02:05:22,440
Speaker 3: and he just had a morning gift. At eight forty

2387
02:05:22,480 --> 02:05:24,400
Speaker 3: seven pm. The two have been in a verbal altercation

2388
02:05:24,480 --> 02:05:27,040
Speaker 3: during which a video recording shows Christian McCray outside apartment

2389
02:05:27,080 --> 02:05:29,720
Speaker 3: dooring into our argument. Suddenly, McCray banged on the door

2390
02:05:29,840 --> 02:05:32,040
Speaker 3: so hard the frame was cracked. Police charge McCray with

2391
02:05:32,120 --> 02:05:37,160
Speaker 3: vandalism and domestic assault. McCray is no stranger to the police. Yeah,

2392
02:05:37,160 --> 02:05:42,120
Speaker 3: apparently he was arrested for disorderly conduct, cocaine, possession of

2393
02:05:42,200 --> 02:05:46,360
Speaker 3: vading arrest, resisting arrests, and more, including outstanding warrens after

2394
02:05:46,400 --> 02:05:48,360
Speaker 3: police found cocaine in his pocket that he told them

2395
02:05:48,400 --> 02:05:51,400
Speaker 3: it's not mine out it was going to get I

2396
02:05:51,520 --> 02:05:54,560
Speaker 3: was going to give it to a friend. Christian McCrae

2397
02:05:54,640 --> 02:05:56,680
Speaker 3: later called us to give us his side of the story.

2398
02:05:56,800 --> 02:05:59,520
Speaker 3: And he that he was a medical student working to

2399
02:05:59,560 --> 02:06:02,040
Speaker 3: become a He had no idea what these charges were about,

2400
02:06:02,120 --> 02:06:04,720
Speaker 3: and someone must have drugged him. However, that's just the

2401
02:06:04,840 --> 02:06:07,880
Speaker 3: beginning of the story. He's not. He's now named as

2402
02:06:07,920 --> 02:06:10,120
Speaker 3: the missing suspect in this case of a man being

2403
02:06:10,160 --> 02:06:13,960
Speaker 3: brutally beaten in Bellevue after getting a ride from someone

2404
02:06:14,000 --> 02:06:16,680
Speaker 3: he knew from Snapchat, for which he is now charged

2405
02:06:16,720 --> 02:06:19,600
Speaker 3: with ribery. McCray has also charged the two crimes from April.

2406
02:06:19,920 --> 02:06:22,080
Speaker 3: On April sixteenth, police say he attended to cash and

2407
02:06:22,160 --> 02:06:24,240
Speaker 3: stolen check for seven thousand dollars at a bank on

2408
02:06:24,360 --> 02:06:28,160
Speaker 3: Union Street downtown, and on April twenty third, Metropolis say

2409
02:06:28,160 --> 02:06:30,240
Speaker 3: he assaulted a woman at his apartment and the God

2410
02:06:30,280 --> 02:06:32,880
Speaker 3: Sit On Church. Different from the above victim, she was

2411
02:06:32,920 --> 02:06:35,080
Speaker 3: able to initially defend herself by striking him with a

2412
02:06:35,120 --> 02:06:37,600
Speaker 3: liquor bottle, but then he continued to attacking her. He's

2413
02:06:37,680 --> 02:06:39,600
Speaker 3: charged and aggravated a sort with a daily weapon in

2414
02:06:39,640 --> 02:06:43,280
Speaker 3: that case. In total, he is jailed on eleven charges

2415
02:06:43,360 --> 02:06:47,880
Speaker 3: in little sixty two thousand dollars bond. Motherfucker is cj

2416
02:06:48,040 --> 02:06:52,400
Speaker 3: for grand theft Odo San Andreas Karen guessed the race

2417
02:06:52,680 --> 02:06:55,080
Speaker 3: of Christian Jamison McCrae white.

2418
02:06:55,840 --> 02:06:58,880
Speaker 2: Of course, I see what your logic is here. Why

2419
02:06:58,920 --> 02:06:59,680
Speaker 2: are you saying white?

2420
02:07:01,080 --> 02:07:03,760
Speaker 1: Why am I saying white? Because he keep getting fucking arrested.

2421
02:07:04,400 --> 02:07:06,480
Speaker 3: I see, I see where you're going. Let's take it.

2422
02:07:06,560 --> 02:07:11,280
Speaker 3: The chat room believes his right says, uh, Sleep coming white. Yeah,

2423
02:07:12,320 --> 02:07:15,240
Speaker 3: you know, maybe they were arguing, Karen, and he just

2424
02:07:15,280 --> 02:07:28,120
Speaker 3: wanted her to see where he's coming from. Maybe he

2425
02:07:29,520 --> 02:07:32,000
Speaker 3: maybe he was. Maybe he's trying to help her join

2426
02:07:32,040 --> 02:07:35,440
Speaker 3: the navy because she needed some seemings.

2427
02:07:42,360 --> 02:07:43,760
Speaker 1: Oh, you just trying to help up with help her

2428
02:07:43,800 --> 02:07:44,320
Speaker 1: with a facial.

2429
02:07:50,560 --> 02:07:52,280
Speaker 3: I don't know if I would call it a facial, Karen.

2430
02:07:52,360 --> 02:08:06,400
Speaker 3: Let's not get into semantics. So not you feel like that.

2431
02:08:10,200 --> 02:08:13,400
Speaker 3: But that was the worst one. Sorry. Anyway, back to

2432
02:08:13,480 --> 02:08:18,000
Speaker 3: these guesses, Elma's glue, white spider man homecoming, white, sleep

2433
02:08:18,040 --> 02:08:21,680
Speaker 3: coming white, white, white, his name is Christian, must be black. Uh,

2434
02:08:21,880 --> 02:08:25,680
Speaker 3: this nigga going to jail, not medical, medical school. Black.

2435
02:08:26,240 --> 02:08:29,040
Speaker 3: I'm going out on the limb and saying black, foolishness.

2436
02:08:29,440 --> 02:08:32,600
Speaker 3: All were Christian soldiers white? Oh he rather than Trump's

2437
02:08:32,640 --> 02:08:35,240
Speaker 3: hat A lot of white, lot of few. So I'm

2438
02:08:35,280 --> 02:08:38,240
Speaker 3: black in that too. You guys are very divided over this,

2439
02:08:39,840 --> 02:08:46,640
Speaker 3: and Karen, yes you said white, Yes I did, and

2440
02:08:46,760 --> 02:08:47,440
Speaker 3: you got it wrong.

2441
02:08:49,120 --> 02:08:52,720
Speaker 1: He was black and kept getting arrested.

2442
02:08:52,920 --> 02:09:04,040
Speaker 3: Me yep, you like kind of like a little be

2443
02:09:04,160 --> 02:09:04,680
Speaker 3: the base.

2444
02:09:04,560 --> 02:09:07,160
Speaker 1: God this a little this nigga committed forty five crimes

2445
02:09:07,200 --> 02:09:08,760
Speaker 1: in three weeks. And then what.

2446
02:09:11,520 --> 02:09:12,520
Speaker 3: Everybody said? Black?

2447
02:09:21,880 --> 02:09:22,800
Speaker 1: Oh he did that ship.

2448
02:09:24,360 --> 02:09:28,320
Speaker 3: You were like, you look a little bit like branding

2449
02:09:28,480 --> 02:09:29,480
Speaker 3: from medium popcorn.

2450
02:09:30,400 --> 02:09:32,480
Speaker 2: Oh, spoiler in your face.

2451
02:09:35,480 --> 02:09:42,000
Speaker 3: I'll just jogged out, look alike. Uh oh m hm.

2452
02:09:43,360 --> 02:09:46,040
Speaker 3: Maybe she just misunderstood and he said he wanted to facetimer.

2453
02:09:46,880 --> 02:09:50,960
Speaker 1: Oh no, her own type of face time.

2454
02:09:53,760 --> 02:09:59,360
Speaker 3: Oh, this story is terrible. Mm hm hmmm. All right,

2455
02:09:59,560 --> 02:10:13,000
Speaker 3: let's get into the Barnes round double up, and the

2456
02:10:13,160 --> 02:10:20,040
Speaker 3: race double up, and the race that's right, double the points,

2457
02:10:20,120 --> 02:10:21,840
Speaker 3: double the race and the bonus round of guest. The

2458
02:10:21,960 --> 02:10:24,880
Speaker 3: race so far, Caring is one and one going into

2459
02:10:24,920 --> 02:10:27,560
Speaker 3: the bonus round. But can she finish on a strong note?

2460
02:10:27,760 --> 02:10:33,320
Speaker 3: I doubt it. Let's see a Louisiana man has been

2461
02:10:33,400 --> 02:10:35,920
Speaker 3: arrested after licking a tub of Bluebell ice cream in

2462
02:10:36,000 --> 02:10:42,160
Speaker 3: a copycat video. That's right, another person has decided to

2463
02:10:42,280 --> 02:10:50,520
Speaker 3: do the Bluebell ice cream video the Assumption Parish. Assumption Parish, Okay,

2464
02:10:50,640 --> 02:10:55,880
Speaker 3: Louisiana Sheriff's Department arrested thirty six year old Lanise Martin

2465
02:10:55,920 --> 02:11:00,560
Speaker 3: the third after a video circulated online showing him licking

2466
02:11:00,640 --> 02:11:03,000
Speaker 3: a tub of Bluebelt ice cream, sticking his fingers in it,

2467
02:11:03,200 --> 02:11:06,360
Speaker 3: then placing the container back on the freezer shelf. According

2468
02:11:06,400 --> 02:11:08,920
Speaker 3: to investigators, at the management became aware of the video,

2469
02:11:09,240 --> 02:11:11,400
Speaker 3: Martin returned to the store provided a receipt to prove

2470
02:11:11,480 --> 02:11:14,560
Speaker 3: he purchased the ice cream. Afterwards, however, managers still decide

2471
02:11:14,560 --> 02:11:18,200
Speaker 3: to report the incident to police, who they had questioned Martin. Yeah,

2472
02:11:18,240 --> 02:11:20,160
Speaker 3: this thing where they think is a joke is so

2473
02:11:20,480 --> 02:11:21,080
Speaker 3: weird to me.

2474
02:11:24,120 --> 02:11:25,080
Speaker 1: You purchased it or not?

2475
02:11:25,680 --> 02:11:26,680
Speaker 3: Who on the fucking.

2476
02:11:26,440 --> 02:11:29,760
Speaker 2: Around and joke around with jail and Louisiana dog.

2477
02:11:30,080 --> 02:11:35,400
Speaker 3: Oh my god. Deputy's charging with unlawful posting, criminal activity

2478
02:11:36,200 --> 02:11:39,400
Speaker 3: for notoriety and publicity, and tampering with property. Yeah, they

2479
02:11:39,480 --> 02:11:42,960
Speaker 3: got lows for this. I don't know why people think

2480
02:11:43,120 --> 02:11:45,840
Speaker 3: there's just nothing out there that they thought of this.

2481
02:11:46,080 --> 02:11:48,760
Speaker 1: I don't give a fuck you posted it online.

2482
02:11:49,720 --> 02:11:52,920
Speaker 3: Oh my god, who can joke like this? What else

2483
02:11:52,960 --> 02:11:55,800
Speaker 3: do you think you can joke like, hey man, I'm

2484
02:11:55,800 --> 02:11:57,480
Speaker 3: about to break in this house and rape this woman.

2485
02:11:57,720 --> 02:12:01,840
Speaker 3: Had just kidd y'all just fucking shit boy, follow me

2486
02:12:01,920 --> 02:12:04,960
Speaker 3: on the ground, like, no, you can't do certain things.

2487
02:12:05,680 --> 02:12:08,480
Speaker 2: Hey guys, uh, there's about to be a fire in

2488
02:12:08,520 --> 02:12:09,480
Speaker 2: this crowded movie theater.

2489
02:12:09,680 --> 02:12:13,400
Speaker 3: A I got, y'all just fucking with y'all niggas. You

2490
02:12:13,520 --> 02:12:16,200
Speaker 3: can't do it everything not okay, it's not all y'

2491
02:12:16,200 --> 02:12:18,720
Speaker 3: all the accent free out here, just because you fucking

2492
02:12:18,800 --> 02:12:20,640
Speaker 3: turn the camera phone at yourself.

2493
02:12:20,720 --> 02:12:24,200
Speaker 1: Right, And somebody's saying, the thing is Bluebell being nice,

2494
02:12:24,320 --> 02:12:28,080
Speaker 1: But eventually Bluebear might start smacking lawsuits and making people

2495
02:12:28,200 --> 02:12:32,480
Speaker 1: pay right right, And they're trying to be nice by

2496
02:12:32,800 --> 02:12:34,840
Speaker 1: actually doing it like this because they don't want to

2497
02:12:34,880 --> 02:12:38,000
Speaker 1: be considered dicks for suing. But eventually they're gonna do

2498
02:12:38,120 --> 02:12:39,920
Speaker 1: so much money they're gonna be like, fuck it, we're

2499
02:12:39,960 --> 02:12:41,080
Speaker 1: gonna send this nipple out of.

2500
02:12:41,120 --> 02:12:44,760
Speaker 3: You right the first girl. Okay, are y'all niggas will

2501
02:12:44,800 --> 02:12:47,280
Speaker 3: still be like, well, listen, prison abolition and ship for

2502
02:12:47,400 --> 02:12:51,120
Speaker 3: this next motherfuckers too, every motherfucker with mouthwashing shit, Like

2503
02:12:51,200 --> 02:12:54,400
Speaker 3: some of y'all need time out. What are you doing?

2504
02:12:54,600 --> 02:12:56,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, one of these. One of these, y'all gonna do

2505
02:12:56,200 --> 02:12:58,160
Speaker 1: it to the wrong company, and they're not gonna care

2506
02:12:58,160 --> 02:12:59,520
Speaker 1: about the hit. They're gonna fucking.

2507
02:12:59,400 --> 02:13:03,040
Speaker 3: Sue you anyway. A spokesperson for the sheriff's officer, we

2508
02:13:03,160 --> 02:13:07,760
Speaker 3: discouraged anyone from copying this. Karen guessed the race. What

2509
02:13:08,040 --> 02:13:10,240
Speaker 3: was that name, Lanise Martin?

2510
02:13:10,440 --> 02:13:11,760
Speaker 2: The third black?

2511
02:13:12,200 --> 02:13:14,880
Speaker 3: Karen says black. Let's check the chat room and see

2512
02:13:14,920 --> 02:13:20,840
Speaker 3: what they say. Black thirty six like his old old

2513
02:13:21,000 --> 02:13:26,680
Speaker 3: ass ignorant nigga up, you going to jail now? Black, black,

2514
02:13:26,920 --> 02:13:31,880
Speaker 3: blacketed black. It looks like everyone with black. That's got

2515
02:13:31,960 --> 02:13:35,040
Speaker 3: to be a moon cricket and black and ashy. The

2516
02:13:35,120 --> 02:13:38,800
Speaker 3: correct answer is. And it's amazing how close black and

2517
02:13:38,880 --> 02:13:40,880
Speaker 3: ash he was on this one because he is black

2518
02:13:40,920 --> 02:13:57,920
Speaker 3: and ashy. Correct, he's black. Mm hm hmmm. And that's

2519
02:13:58,000 --> 02:14:01,440
Speaker 3: him in the uh in the chat I don't know

2520
02:14:01,560 --> 02:14:06,240
Speaker 3: you can see him yet? Oh no, right, oh no,

2521
02:14:06,960 --> 02:14:07,840
Speaker 3: what happened there?

2522
02:14:08,480 --> 02:14:16,560
Speaker 1: I don't understand what's happening here. And you and you

2523
02:14:16,720 --> 02:14:18,920
Speaker 1: and you and you think putting the ship back on

2524
02:14:19,040 --> 02:14:21,000
Speaker 1: the show. I'm supposed to be okay, my nigga?

2525
02:14:21,800 --> 02:14:26,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, oh man, you like a descendant of like Robin Harris,

2526
02:14:26,200 --> 02:14:31,720
Speaker 3: the comedian to me from like baby Kids. I don't know,

2527
02:14:31,800 --> 02:14:35,320
Speaker 3: he gives me that vibe, you know. Also, why did

2528
02:14:35,360 --> 02:14:37,440
Speaker 3: they put him in this fucking black and white old

2529
02:14:37,520 --> 02:14:43,520
Speaker 3: ash uniform like like the chain gang? Right? As soon

2530
02:14:43,560 --> 02:14:57,080
Speaker 3: as I looked at him, how much the term one

2531
02:14:57,120 --> 02:14:58,840
Speaker 3: of them white people on the whites on the.

2532
02:14:58,840 --> 02:15:07,120
Speaker 4: Pods a nig a pile, My goodness, looking like I

2533
02:15:07,200 --> 02:15:09,360
Speaker 4: can't get right, can't get right?

2534
02:15:10,120 --> 02:15:19,600
Speaker 3: What is this? I'm so confused, louis it you gotta

2535
02:15:19,600 --> 02:15:22,840
Speaker 3: be putting people in jail like this in twenty nineteen, right,

2536
02:15:23,840 --> 02:15:25,720
Speaker 3: I got this one fucking looking like Eddie Murphy and

2537
02:15:25,880 --> 02:15:29,280
Speaker 3: Martin Lawrence should be in the sell with them. That right,

2538
02:15:29,320 --> 02:15:33,280
Speaker 3: I told you the last time Colong.

2539
02:15:34,400 --> 02:15:38,480
Speaker 1: Put you in here locked up? Foe, Pat? Some ice cream?

2540
02:15:40,040 --> 02:15:41,920
Speaker 1: I mean is that a sexual stat No? No? No,

2541
02:15:42,080 --> 02:15:44,040
Speaker 1: really really all right, real ice cream, y'all?

2542
02:15:44,040 --> 02:15:47,480
Speaker 3: I figured some ice cream. I bought it, though, Oh

2543
02:15:47,640 --> 02:15:49,400
Speaker 3: my god, he really went to jail for trying to

2544
02:15:49,440 --> 02:15:52,080
Speaker 3: make the whites on the ice creams and the nigga

2545
02:15:52,120 --> 02:15:56,400
Speaker 3: ice creams. That's so sad. That is so sad, all right, last.

2546
02:15:56,240 --> 02:16:09,240
Speaker 1: Thing, that's about the only time fingering would give your

2547
02:16:09,240 --> 02:16:09,760
Speaker 1: frost bike.

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Speaker 3: I really need to go back and watch Life. That's all.

2549
02:16:18,280 --> 02:16:20,160
Speaker 3: I need to go back and watch Life again. That

2550
02:16:20,320 --> 02:16:22,480
Speaker 3: was That was a movie. I don't think I ever

2551
02:16:22,600 --> 02:16:24,320
Speaker 3: saw it again after the first time I saw it.

2552
02:16:24,920 --> 02:16:25,760
Speaker 1: I was disappointed.

2553
02:16:27,080 --> 02:16:27,920
Speaker 3: You were disappointed.

2554
02:16:28,840 --> 02:16:30,600
Speaker 1: I mean, it had its moments where it was funny,

2555
02:16:31,040 --> 02:16:33,640
Speaker 1: but it didn't live to the expectations that I thought

2556
02:16:33,680 --> 02:16:34,200
Speaker 1: it was gonna be.

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02:16:34,400 --> 02:16:36,840
Speaker 3: I think I just couldn't get over them niggas, like

2558
02:16:37,440 --> 02:16:40,680
Speaker 3: because in a way, it's one of the most realist movies,

2559
02:16:41,120 --> 02:16:44,640
Speaker 3: right because it's talking about the unfair prison and industrial

2560
02:16:44,760 --> 02:16:49,360
Speaker 3: complex of black people, and it's gallows humor at the

2561
02:16:49,440 --> 02:16:51,920
Speaker 3: same time. And while it was funny because I do

2562
02:16:52,080 --> 02:16:55,880
Speaker 3: remember laughing Lane Jacqueline, I remember laughing at all the ship.

2563
02:16:55,920 --> 02:16:58,160
Speaker 3: I can quote parts of the movie. But I feel

2564
02:16:58,160 --> 02:17:00,440
Speaker 3: like I watched that movie one time and I was

2565
02:17:00,520 --> 02:17:04,720
Speaker 3: just like, it's too sad because these black men basically,

2566
02:17:05,200 --> 02:17:10,120
Speaker 3: you know, almost switch their entire life incarcerated, and it's just,

2567
02:17:10,240 --> 02:17:12,120
Speaker 3: you know, it's just sad that they went through all this.

2568
02:17:12,720 --> 02:17:15,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, And I think, being younger, like it was decades ago,

2569
02:17:16,000 --> 02:17:18,640
Speaker 1: I wasn't ready now, I bet that this shit probably

2570
02:17:18,680 --> 02:17:21,039
Speaker 1: be freaking hilarious because my perspective has changed.

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02:17:21,400 --> 02:17:23,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, Yeah, for sure, I need to watch it again

2572
02:17:23,520 --> 02:17:26,880
Speaker 3: because I love when they trying to talk about some

2573
02:17:26,959 --> 02:17:28,480
Speaker 3: ship and making it funny. I feel like that's what

2574
02:17:28,560 --> 02:17:29,280
Speaker 3: we do for a living.

2575
02:17:29,400 --> 02:17:31,280
Speaker 1: So and there's a lot of ship I watched, it

2576
02:17:31,320 --> 02:17:33,360
Speaker 1: wouldn't funny that Now I go back and watch it, like, oh,

2577
02:17:33,400 --> 02:17:34,240
Speaker 1: that'sh's hilarious.

2578
02:17:34,240 --> 02:17:35,920
Speaker 3: I think I can laugh at it now in a

2579
02:17:36,000 --> 02:17:37,720
Speaker 3: way I couldn't. I just didn't know what they spect

2580
02:17:37,760 --> 02:17:41,400
Speaker 3: walking in me, like I don't know, boomerang or fucking

2581
02:17:42,280 --> 02:17:42,440
Speaker 3: you know.

2582
02:17:44,760 --> 02:17:46,920
Speaker 1: And when it didn't, like I'm saying, when it didn't

2583
02:17:46,920 --> 02:17:49,279
Speaker 1: reach expectation, I think that's when I became disappointed.

2584
02:17:49,480 --> 02:17:54,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, all right. Gainesville man was arrested Tuesday from after

2585
02:17:54,360 --> 02:17:57,600
Speaker 3: Alachua County Sheriff's deputy said he destroyed another man's property

2586
02:17:57,600 --> 02:18:00,320
Speaker 3: and threatened to kill him with the samurai sword. According

2587
02:18:00,320 --> 02:18:02,600
Speaker 3: to the arrest support, Jeffy Phillips, forty six, was arguing

2588
02:18:02,600 --> 02:18:04,280
Speaker 3: with another man at the campsite and use a sword

2589
02:18:04,280 --> 02:18:07,680
Speaker 3: approximately twenty four inches long to destroy his tent, phone,

2590
02:18:07,800 --> 02:18:10,320
Speaker 3: and wheelchair, and threatened to kill the victim if he

2591
02:18:10,360 --> 02:18:13,760
Speaker 3: did not leave a campsite, holding the to the victim's throat? Wow,

2592
02:18:14,320 --> 02:18:16,160
Speaker 3: HOW'SE supposed to leave? You just destroyed my wheelchair?

2593
02:18:16,920 --> 02:18:17,800
Speaker 1: Where am I supposed to go?

2594
02:18:18,240 --> 02:18:21,040
Speaker 3: When questioned my deputies, Phyllis admitted to destroying the victims property,

2595
02:18:21,080 --> 02:18:23,160
Speaker 3: but could not recall holding the sword to the victim's throat,

2596
02:18:23,200 --> 02:18:26,279
Speaker 3: but made statements indicating he was within the arms Lymphisis

2597
02:18:26,400 --> 02:18:29,240
Speaker 3: of the victim. Phillips was charged with aggravating saw with

2598
02:18:29,320 --> 02:18:32,000
Speaker 3: the daily weapon, criminal mischief. He's booked on in jail.

2599
02:18:32,560 --> 02:18:37,000
Speaker 3: Bod said that twenty five thousand dollars. All right, we'll

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02:18:37,040 --> 02:18:42,720
Speaker 3: be back tomorrow. Tomorrow. I will try to remember to

2601
02:18:42,840 --> 02:18:45,160
Speaker 3: do some white people news, so we could talk a

2602
02:18:45,200 --> 02:18:49,320
Speaker 3: little bit about Trump, because Trump has a lot of

2603
02:18:49,760 --> 02:18:55,440
Speaker 3: wild shit going on. And Jeffrey Epstein or Epstein, the

2604
02:18:55,600 --> 02:18:59,440
Speaker 3: dude he kicks it with, was arrested, Oh, for some

2605
02:18:59,640 --> 02:19:04,120
Speaker 3: under age sex trafficking type ship. Oh yeah, I don't know.

2606
02:19:04,280 --> 02:19:06,040
Speaker 3: Trump seems to hang around a lot of sex traffic

2607
02:19:06,040 --> 02:19:08,199
Speaker 3: because I don't know what it is. Birds of a feather,

2608
02:19:08,520 --> 02:19:11,320
Speaker 3: I don't know. I don't know. But we'll probably talk

2609
02:19:11,320 --> 02:19:14,680
Speaker 3: about some of that stuff tomorrow, all right, until or

2610
02:19:14,720 --> 02:19:16,320
Speaker 3: maybe we won't who knows what the fun will be

2611
02:19:16,320 --> 02:19:17,080
Speaker 3: talking about tomorrow.

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Speaker 1: All right's gonna happen between nine then, all right, until.

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Speaker 3: Then, I love you.

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02:19:21,720 --> 02:19:22,280
Speaker 1: I love you too.

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Speaker 2: H Now that will always be the same, even tomorrow,