WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Don't Wanna Date a Prostitute

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<v Speaker 1>Brooking jewels second day. Sometimes when you go out on

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<v Speaker 1>a date, it's all about the order that you do

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<v Speaker 1>things like usually go up and knock on the door

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<v Speaker 1>before taking your pants off. I've learned that the hard way.

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<v Speaker 1>And Ben also learned a valuable lesson about dating on

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<v Speaker 1>the date that he emailed us about, right Ben, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I did. How are you are you currently pantsless? Right now?

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<v Speaker 1>Ben did not take off his pants. I was. I

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<v Speaker 1>am fully closed. Yeah, he was fully closed on his day.

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<v Speaker 1>He kind of knows that he screwed up, though, Ben,

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<v Speaker 1>Why don't you tell us what happened. I met Gabby

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<v Speaker 1>through a friend of a friend. It was kind of

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<v Speaker 1>a setup date and I know this sounds like cliche,

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<v Speaker 1>but I wanted to check out a movie, so we

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<v Speaker 1>did go like you's a dinner movie. Thing wrong with that?

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<v Speaker 1>That's fine. You can go traditional if you want to

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<v Speaker 1>be in creative and just you know, not putting in

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<v Speaker 1>the effort that like the thing is is kind of

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<v Speaker 1>what I screwed up. I'm kind of an like a

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<v Speaker 1>point in my life where I need to do things

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<v Speaker 1>that a little cheaply right now. So I went and

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<v Speaker 1>did the movie first, and then the dinner. Okay, why

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<v Speaker 1>is that cheaper? Oh because of Mattenee. Yeah, because it

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<v Speaker 1>was a Mattenee was actually before six o'clock. I like that.

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<v Speaker 1>I like that whole thing. He knows exactly what he's

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<v Speaker 1>talking about. I make the least amount of money here.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that's cool though. I mean, you know, but

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<v Speaker 1>it's kind of weird though, to do the movie before

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<v Speaker 1>dinner with someone on a first date. And so it's

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<v Speaker 1>not like you talked her in the movie anyway. But

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<v Speaker 1>like that's the thing because like the only time I

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<v Speaker 1>really say anything you were was like, hey, do you

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<v Speaker 1>want some popcorn or do you want to rethill or anything?

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<v Speaker 1>And then that'd be it awkward like silence, And so

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<v Speaker 1>we're just sitting in this movie theater thinking about the date.

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<v Speaker 1>You know. Yeah, yeah, I'm not even paying attention to

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<v Speaker 1>the movie, right unless you can't pull the you know,

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<v Speaker 1>arm over the shoulder trick, the popcorn thing really to

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<v Speaker 1>go in for that, you know, I mean I try

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<v Speaker 1>to popcorn trick on a lot of people. Those are

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<v Speaker 1>usually just strange that you end up sitting next to. Anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>different story for a different time. We're talking about Ben

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<v Speaker 1>right now, Ben, go ahead, Yeah, there was no smoothness

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<v Speaker 1>at all. Like we were watching the movie and I

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<v Speaker 1>would just keep thinking about it. But what was that

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<v Speaker 1>on screening? There was like three sex scenes are always

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<v Speaker 1>the best. I have no idea like anything about this girl,

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<v Speaker 1>and I am watching this movie with all these sex

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<v Speaker 1>scenes and it's super awkward. I don't know where her

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<v Speaker 1>take is on it. I can't even do bits because

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to offend her. Right, that's when you

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<v Speaker 1>that's when you just stop, look at her, bite your

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<v Speaker 1>lower lip and just nod your head and go, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>how was the interaction after your movie experience? Who want

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<v Speaker 1>to get some Mexican food afterwards? And it's another great

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<v Speaker 1>choice for her first date in Mexican. Well, as long

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<v Speaker 1>as there's a lot of margaritas. I feel like your

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<v Speaker 1>date needs a lot of alcoholics. I mean, like both

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<v Speaker 1>of you, I agree. I took that might us help

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<v Speaker 1>maybe in the beginning, but it was just it's still awkward.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just kind of just carried into the night. Like

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like we talked about the movie and then

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<v Speaker 1>we were talking about like how we knew each other,

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<v Speaker 1>what we're doing wasn't anything like so basically you're ther

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<v Speaker 1>whole day was just awkward from the get go. It

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<v Speaker 1>was just like, but I mean, you're calling for a

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<v Speaker 1>second date, so there must have been something that you

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<v Speaker 1>liked about her that you are invested in. Yeah. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean she is beautiful. She totally someone I would

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<v Speaker 1>want to go out with again. She is normal, Like

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<v Speaker 1>she doesn't seem crazy to me. Bush, Yeah, that's a

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<v Speaker 1>big plus. How how'd your date end? I got out

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<v Speaker 1>of the car and I hugged R goodbye. It like

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<v Speaker 1>was the awkward hugs too. I mean the whole thing

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<v Speaker 1>just carried through right from the start, and I just

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<v Speaker 1>felt like if I would have had the opportunity to

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<v Speaker 1>do it all over, I just would have flipped a date,

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<v Speaker 1>like went to dinner first, and it just had that

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<v Speaker 1>conversation because it just felt awkward the whole time. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>if I was a girl on that day, I'd chalk

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<v Speaker 1>it up to bad chemistry and that it wouldn't work out.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, honestly, I just want another date because I

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<v Speaker 1>felt like I made a bad first impression and if

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<v Speaker 1>I had that second opportunity on a date that I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like maybe she would get to know me a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit better and it wouldn't be so awkward, right,

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<v Speaker 1>You just want to call her up and go, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>remember those sex scenes we were watching. We should try that. Huh.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, We're gonna play a song, comeback, call her,

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<v Speaker 1>and then get your second date update. Cool, Thank god

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<v Speaker 1>brooking jubil in the morning, Seate. Remember if you want

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<v Speaker 1>a second date update, all you have to do is

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<v Speaker 1>email us Brook and Jewel at Moving nine two five

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<v Speaker 1>dot com. We will call the person who didn't call

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<v Speaker 1>you back right now. Ben wants us to call Gabby

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<v Speaker 1>because he went on quote an awkward first date with her.

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<v Speaker 1>He decided to go to dinner in the movie Buddy.

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<v Speaker 1>They went to the movie first so he could save

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<v Speaker 1>some money by going to matinee. Smart choice, but he

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<v Speaker 1>thinks that that made everything awkward and after that their

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<v Speaker 1>dinner was kind of weird. End of the night with

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<v Speaker 1>a hug. Hasn't heard from her since you're ready to go, Ben,

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<v Speaker 1>I am, Yeah, Thanks you guys for helping me out.

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<v Speaker 1>Hopefully you can inventor. Is this the most awkward date

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<v Speaker 1>you've ever been on? Oh? Hands down? A lot of

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<v Speaker 1>awkward silences. Yeah, I love those moments. I enjoy it. Well.

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<v Speaker 1>I enjoyed after the fact. During it, it's like this

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<v Speaker 1>is weird, but then you look back and you're like,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a hilarious Actually, you just love all right, Ben,

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna call her right now. See, we can get

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone. Okay, thanks? Hello, Hey, can I speak

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<v Speaker 1>to Gabby please? Hey, Gabby, this is Jewel from brook

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<v Speaker 1>and Jewel in the morning. I'm moving ninety two point five.

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<v Speaker 1>How are you the radio stations? Yep, I am the

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<v Speaker 1>radio station. Well, I'm calling you because we have a

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<v Speaker 1>mutual friend and I want to ask you some questions

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<v Speaker 1>about him who. His name's Ben and he recently went

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<v Speaker 1>on a date with him. Oh yeah, yeah, I know Ben.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you like Ben? I mean it was it was

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<v Speaker 1>a good dat, I guess. Did you think it was

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<v Speaker 1>awkward or anything? I mean it was a little awkward. Sure,

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<v Speaker 1>did You're not going to hurt anybody's feelings on this one.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, if I'm being totally honest, it wasn't the

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<v Speaker 1>greatest seat in the world, all right, but did so?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you have a bad time or did you enjoy

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<v Speaker 1>yourself a little bit? With Ben? I'd say it was

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<v Speaker 1>more awkward than good. We went to see a movie

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<v Speaker 1>before we had dinner. Yeah, he told us that, and

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<v Speaker 1>we also heard about the sex scenes during the movie.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean this, sitting next to this total stranger and

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<v Speaker 1>watching sex scenes is pretty awkward. But I guess that

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<v Speaker 1>that wasn't the deal breaker. Did you just think that,

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<v Speaker 1>like you just have bad chemistry with them and it

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<v Speaker 1>won't work out. I think we could be really good

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<v Speaker 1>friends one day, okay, but you don't want to date

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<v Speaker 1>the dude, I don't think so what was a deal breaker?

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<v Speaker 1>So he took me out to dinner after the movie,

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<v Speaker 1>and he was great, and he paid for dinner. But

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<v Speaker 1>when he took out his credit card, I actually saw

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<v Speaker 1>his last name. And his last name is Hooker. I

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<v Speaker 1>could crassitude Hooker all right, like a lady of the night.

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<v Speaker 1>And I just don't think I could be a missious Hooker.

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<v Speaker 1>That's your deal breaker because his last name is Hooker.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a high school teacher. They would eat me alive.

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<v Speaker 1>I just I can't. I can't do it. I would.

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<v Speaker 1>I would like to have a missus Hooker as a teacher.

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<v Speaker 1>But Danny, how are you jumping to that conclusion already?

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<v Speaker 1>Of last names? Just keep your last name. If that's

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<v Speaker 1>the problem. I'm a pretty traditional girl. I mean, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>ready to get married. I know that I don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to keep my last name, and I just can't imagine

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<v Speaker 1>myself being a missus hooker. I just can't. I can't happen. Really,

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<v Speaker 1>there's nothing wrong with that name. Abby. At this point,

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<v Speaker 1>I should let you know that Ben is actually on

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<v Speaker 1>the other line and heard everything that you just said. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's that's ridiculous. You want to go on a second

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<v Speaker 1>date with me because my last name, I mean name,

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<v Speaker 1>And unless you're you're willing to change your last name

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<v Speaker 1>one day, I'm not. It's not like a bad name.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I'm proud of my name, and you're proud to

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<v Speaker 1>be a hooker, and you should be proud to be

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<v Speaker 1>a hooker. I am. I know it sounds like it's

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<v Speaker 1>a bad thing, but it's it's not like there's a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of famous people that have the last name Hooker.

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<v Speaker 1>You ever heard John Lee Hooker. He's a great musician.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm proud of it's a dude. Yeah, And it's the

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<v Speaker 1>oldest profession in the world, so it's very respected. It's

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<v Speaker 1>still illegal. I don't know if you realize that flag Gabby,

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<v Speaker 1>You're really not going to go out with him based

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<v Speaker 1>on his last name. I mean it's the last name.

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<v Speaker 1>It was an awkward day. I'm ready to get married.

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<v Speaker 1>I know what I want and I don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>be a hooker, and I don't want to go out

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<v Speaker 1>on a a more awkward date. It was an awkward and

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<v Speaker 1>it could have just been awkward because you were hugging

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<v Speaker 1>a hooker. I don't want you to be that type

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<v Speaker 1>of hooker. Okay, I think you're a great girl, and

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<v Speaker 1>I think we could have a great time if we

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<v Speaker 1>just tried it out one more time, because I know

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<v Speaker 1>it was just awkward, and I know I felt weird.

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<v Speaker 1>I should have maybe just called it out right then,

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<v Speaker 1>but I didn't, and I feel like if I had

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<v Speaker 1>a second chance of you, I think he could go

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<v Speaker 1>really well. There you go. That's a pretty good please.

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<v Speaker 1>We will pay for you, guys to go out again.

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<v Speaker 1>Will you go on a second date with Ben? You

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<v Speaker 1>don't have to worry about being a hooker just yet,

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<v Speaker 1>but we will pay for you to go out with Ben.

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<v Speaker 1>I just I'm sure there are other girls that will

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<v Speaker 1>want to be a missus hooker one day. But I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just not one of them. I'm sorry then it just

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't right. No, come on, let us pay crazy to

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<v Speaker 1>let us pay for a date. Go out with Ben,

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<v Speaker 1>just see if you like him. You never know. A

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<v Speaker 1>free date, both of us won't have to spend a dollar.

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<v Speaker 1>I won't have to do that awkward movie first because

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<v Speaker 1>we don't have to worry about price. Let's do it.

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<v Speaker 1>And I mean, if you've, if you've entertained the idea

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<v Speaker 1>of marrying him, you might as well give him a

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<v Speaker 1>second does that on the first date. The thing is

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<v Speaker 1>you could call him your own little hooker someday. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's awesome. Absolutely not. You're not going to

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<v Speaker 1>go out with him? I don't think so. No, really,

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<v Speaker 1>I hope you never meet a Ben prostitute. The prostitute

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<v Speaker 1>is such a common last name. All right, what you

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<v Speaker 1>got your answer? Ben's silly? Sorry, maybe I think you're

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<v Speaker 1>making a mistake, But all right, nothing you can do

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<v Speaker 1>about it either, is the thing? All right? Live and learn? Right? Yep. Finally,

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<v Speaker 1>jubil you get to talk to a hooker and you

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<v Speaker 1>don't have to pay for it. That's true. I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>enjoy it as much. Yeah, it's broken jubil in the morning,