1 00:00:03,320 --> 00:00:07,720 Speaker 1: Brooking jewels second day. Sometimes when you go out on 2 00:00:07,720 --> 00:00:09,639 Speaker 1: a date, it's all about the order that you do 3 00:00:09,720 --> 00:00:13,040 Speaker 1: things like usually go up and knock on the door 4 00:00:13,280 --> 00:00:16,480 Speaker 1: before taking your pants off. I've learned that the hard way. 5 00:00:17,160 --> 00:00:21,440 Speaker 1: And Ben also learned a valuable lesson about dating on 6 00:00:21,680 --> 00:00:24,239 Speaker 1: the date that he emailed us about, right Ben, Yeah, 7 00:00:24,239 --> 00:00:28,000 Speaker 1: I did. How are you are you currently pantsless? Right now? 8 00:00:28,160 --> 00:00:31,600 Speaker 1: Ben did not take off his pants. I was. I 9 00:00:31,640 --> 00:00:34,040 Speaker 1: am fully closed. Yeah, he was fully closed on his day. 10 00:00:34,040 --> 00:00:35,559 Speaker 1: He kind of knows that he screwed up, though, Ben, 11 00:00:35,560 --> 00:00:37,800 Speaker 1: Why don't you tell us what happened. I met Gabby 12 00:00:37,920 --> 00:00:39,400 Speaker 1: through a friend of a friend. It was kind of 13 00:00:39,400 --> 00:00:43,440 Speaker 1: a setup date and I know this sounds like cliche, 14 00:00:43,560 --> 00:00:46,559 Speaker 1: but I wanted to check out a movie, so we 15 00:00:46,720 --> 00:00:49,720 Speaker 1: did go like you's a dinner movie. Thing wrong with that? 16 00:00:49,960 --> 00:00:51,800 Speaker 1: That's fine. You can go traditional if you want to 17 00:00:51,800 --> 00:00:53,600 Speaker 1: be in creative and just you know, not putting in 18 00:00:53,600 --> 00:00:57,520 Speaker 1: the effort that like the thing is is kind of 19 00:00:57,520 --> 00:01:00,640 Speaker 1: what I screwed up. I'm kind of an like a 20 00:01:00,720 --> 00:01:02,360 Speaker 1: point in my life where I need to do things 21 00:01:02,400 --> 00:01:05,679 Speaker 1: that a little cheaply right now. So I went and 22 00:01:05,800 --> 00:01:08,959 Speaker 1: did the movie first, and then the dinner. Okay, why 23 00:01:09,040 --> 00:01:12,240 Speaker 1: is that cheaper? Oh because of Mattenee. Yeah, because it 24 00:01:12,319 --> 00:01:15,600 Speaker 1: was a Mattenee was actually before six o'clock. I like that. 25 00:01:15,720 --> 00:01:17,319 Speaker 1: I like that whole thing. He knows exactly what he's 26 00:01:17,319 --> 00:01:21,000 Speaker 1: talking about. I make the least amount of money here. 27 00:01:21,000 --> 00:01:25,640 Speaker 1: I think that's cool though. I mean, you know, but 28 00:01:25,680 --> 00:01:28,000 Speaker 1: it's kind of weird though, to do the movie before 29 00:01:28,080 --> 00:01:30,520 Speaker 1: dinner with someone on a first date. And so it's 30 00:01:30,640 --> 00:01:33,280 Speaker 1: not like you talked her in the movie anyway. But 31 00:01:33,440 --> 00:01:35,800 Speaker 1: like that's the thing because like the only time I 32 00:01:35,840 --> 00:01:37,760 Speaker 1: really say anything you were was like, hey, do you 33 00:01:37,800 --> 00:01:40,160 Speaker 1: want some popcorn or do you want to rethill or anything? 34 00:01:40,240 --> 00:01:43,280 Speaker 1: And then that'd be it awkward like silence, And so 35 00:01:43,280 --> 00:01:46,160 Speaker 1: we're just sitting in this movie theater thinking about the date. 36 00:01:46,360 --> 00:01:48,720 Speaker 1: You know. Yeah, yeah, I'm not even paying attention to 37 00:01:48,760 --> 00:01:51,520 Speaker 1: the movie, right unless you can't pull the you know, 38 00:01:52,040 --> 00:01:55,320 Speaker 1: arm over the shoulder trick, the popcorn thing really to 39 00:01:55,360 --> 00:01:56,800 Speaker 1: go in for that, you know, I mean I try 40 00:01:56,800 --> 00:01:59,120 Speaker 1: to popcorn trick on a lot of people. Those are 41 00:01:59,160 --> 00:02:01,680 Speaker 1: usually just strange that you end up sitting next to. Anyway, 42 00:02:01,800 --> 00:02:04,040 Speaker 1: different story for a different time. We're talking about Ben 43 00:02:04,120 --> 00:02:06,800 Speaker 1: right now, Ben, go ahead, Yeah, there was no smoothness 44 00:02:06,840 --> 00:02:09,040 Speaker 1: at all. Like we were watching the movie and I 45 00:02:09,080 --> 00:02:10,560 Speaker 1: would just keep thinking about it. But what was that 46 00:02:10,680 --> 00:02:15,840 Speaker 1: on screening? There was like three sex scenes are always 47 00:02:15,880 --> 00:02:20,000 Speaker 1: the best. I have no idea like anything about this girl, 48 00:02:20,080 --> 00:02:22,120 Speaker 1: and I am watching this movie with all these sex 49 00:02:22,120 --> 00:02:24,760 Speaker 1: scenes and it's super awkward. I don't know where her 50 00:02:24,840 --> 00:02:27,480 Speaker 1: take is on it. I can't even do bits because 51 00:02:27,480 --> 00:02:30,400 Speaker 1: I don't want to offend her. Right, that's when you 52 00:02:30,480 --> 00:02:32,639 Speaker 1: that's when you just stop, look at her, bite your 53 00:02:32,639 --> 00:02:35,160 Speaker 1: lower lip and just nod your head and go, yeah, 54 00:02:36,919 --> 00:02:40,320 Speaker 1: how was the interaction after your movie experience? Who want 55 00:02:40,360 --> 00:02:43,679 Speaker 1: to get some Mexican food afterwards? And it's another great 56 00:02:43,760 --> 00:02:45,919 Speaker 1: choice for her first date in Mexican. Well, as long 57 00:02:45,960 --> 00:02:47,720 Speaker 1: as there's a lot of margaritas. I feel like your 58 00:02:47,800 --> 00:02:50,440 Speaker 1: date needs a lot of alcoholics. I mean, like both 59 00:02:50,480 --> 00:02:53,560 Speaker 1: of you, I agree. I took that might us help 60 00:02:53,639 --> 00:02:57,160 Speaker 1: maybe in the beginning, but it was just it's still awkward. 61 00:02:57,160 --> 00:02:59,000 Speaker 1: It's just kind of just carried into the night. Like 62 00:02:59,040 --> 00:03:01,959 Speaker 1: I feel like we talked about the movie and then 63 00:03:02,040 --> 00:03:04,600 Speaker 1: we were talking about like how we knew each other, 64 00:03:04,720 --> 00:03:07,760 Speaker 1: what we're doing wasn't anything like so basically you're ther 65 00:03:07,760 --> 00:03:11,120 Speaker 1: whole day was just awkward from the get go. It 66 00:03:11,160 --> 00:03:13,040 Speaker 1: was just like, but I mean, you're calling for a 67 00:03:13,080 --> 00:03:15,360 Speaker 1: second date, so there must have been something that you 68 00:03:15,440 --> 00:03:19,040 Speaker 1: liked about her that you are invested in. Yeah. Well, 69 00:03:19,040 --> 00:03:22,000 Speaker 1: I mean she is beautiful. She totally someone I would 70 00:03:22,040 --> 00:03:24,520 Speaker 1: want to go out with again. She is normal, Like 71 00:03:24,560 --> 00:03:28,200 Speaker 1: she doesn't seem crazy to me. Bush, Yeah, that's a 72 00:03:28,200 --> 00:03:32,000 Speaker 1: big plus. How how'd your date end? I got out 73 00:03:32,000 --> 00:03:35,400 Speaker 1: of the car and I hugged R goodbye. It like 74 00:03:35,640 --> 00:03:38,120 Speaker 1: was the awkward hugs too. I mean the whole thing 75 00:03:38,200 --> 00:03:41,720 Speaker 1: just carried through right from the start, and I just 76 00:03:41,720 --> 00:03:44,440 Speaker 1: felt like if I would have had the opportunity to 77 00:03:44,480 --> 00:03:48,080 Speaker 1: do it all over, I just would have flipped a date, 78 00:03:48,160 --> 00:03:50,360 Speaker 1: like went to dinner first, and it just had that 79 00:03:50,480 --> 00:03:54,080 Speaker 1: conversation because it just felt awkward the whole time. I mean, 80 00:03:54,360 --> 00:03:56,040 Speaker 1: if I was a girl on that day, I'd chalk 81 00:03:56,040 --> 00:03:57,960 Speaker 1: it up to bad chemistry and that it wouldn't work out. 82 00:03:58,600 --> 00:04:01,600 Speaker 1: You know, honestly, I just want another date because I 83 00:04:01,600 --> 00:04:04,480 Speaker 1: felt like I made a bad first impression and if 84 00:04:04,480 --> 00:04:07,520 Speaker 1: I had that second opportunity on a date that I 85 00:04:07,640 --> 00:04:09,720 Speaker 1: feel like maybe she would get to know me a 86 00:04:09,760 --> 00:04:11,960 Speaker 1: little bit better and it wouldn't be so awkward, right, 87 00:04:12,200 --> 00:04:13,320 Speaker 1: You just want to call her up and go, Hey, 88 00:04:13,320 --> 00:04:17,599 Speaker 1: remember those sex scenes we were watching. We should try that. Huh. 89 00:04:18,400 --> 00:04:20,760 Speaker 1: All right, We're gonna play a song, comeback, call her, 90 00:04:20,760 --> 00:04:23,599 Speaker 1: and then get your second date update. Cool, Thank god 91 00:04:27,880 --> 00:04:32,440 Speaker 1: brooking jubil in the morning, Seate. Remember if you want 92 00:04:32,480 --> 00:04:33,760 Speaker 1: a second date update, all you have to do is 93 00:04:33,800 --> 00:04:35,560 Speaker 1: email us Brook and Jewel at Moving nine two five 94 00:04:35,600 --> 00:04:37,800 Speaker 1: dot com. We will call the person who didn't call 95 00:04:37,839 --> 00:04:40,320 Speaker 1: you back right now. Ben wants us to call Gabby 96 00:04:40,480 --> 00:04:44,080 Speaker 1: because he went on quote an awkward first date with her. 97 00:04:44,200 --> 00:04:45,680 Speaker 1: He decided to go to dinner in the movie Buddy. 98 00:04:45,680 --> 00:04:47,520 Speaker 1: They went to the movie first so he could save 99 00:04:47,560 --> 00:04:50,080 Speaker 1: some money by going to matinee. Smart choice, but he 100 00:04:50,120 --> 00:04:52,240 Speaker 1: thinks that that made everything awkward and after that their 101 00:04:52,240 --> 00:04:53,960 Speaker 1: dinner was kind of weird. End of the night with 102 00:04:54,000 --> 00:04:56,440 Speaker 1: a hug. Hasn't heard from her since you're ready to go, Ben, 103 00:04:57,080 --> 00:04:59,360 Speaker 1: I am, Yeah, Thanks you guys for helping me out. 104 00:04:59,400 --> 00:05:01,920 Speaker 1: Hopefully you can inventor. Is this the most awkward date 105 00:05:01,960 --> 00:05:05,599 Speaker 1: you've ever been on? Oh? Hands down? A lot of 106 00:05:05,640 --> 00:05:11,680 Speaker 1: awkward silences. Yeah, I love those moments. I enjoy it. Well. 107 00:05:11,720 --> 00:05:13,720 Speaker 1: I enjoyed after the fact. During it, it's like this 108 00:05:13,800 --> 00:05:14,960 Speaker 1: is weird, but then you look back and you're like, 109 00:05:15,000 --> 00:05:20,880 Speaker 1: that's a hilarious Actually, you just love all right, Ben, 110 00:05:20,880 --> 00:05:22,160 Speaker 1: We're gonna call her right now. See, we can get 111 00:05:22,200 --> 00:05:34,360 Speaker 1: on the phone. Okay, thanks? Hello, Hey, can I speak 112 00:05:34,360 --> 00:05:38,839 Speaker 1: to Gabby please? Hey, Gabby, this is Jewel from brook 113 00:05:38,839 --> 00:05:40,760 Speaker 1: and Jewel in the morning. I'm moving ninety two point five. 114 00:05:40,800 --> 00:05:45,040 Speaker 1: How are you the radio stations? Yep, I am the 115 00:05:45,120 --> 00:05:48,480 Speaker 1: radio station. Well, I'm calling you because we have a 116 00:05:48,560 --> 00:05:51,040 Speaker 1: mutual friend and I want to ask you some questions 117 00:05:51,080 --> 00:05:56,720 Speaker 1: about him who. His name's Ben and he recently went 118 00:05:56,760 --> 00:06:01,039 Speaker 1: on a date with him. Oh yeah, yeah, I know Ben. 119 00:06:01,520 --> 00:06:05,919 Speaker 1: Did you like Ben? I mean it was it was 120 00:06:05,920 --> 00:06:11,560 Speaker 1: a good dat, I guess. Did you think it was 121 00:06:11,600 --> 00:06:17,320 Speaker 1: awkward or anything? I mean it was a little awkward. Sure, 122 00:06:17,560 --> 00:06:19,960 Speaker 1: did You're not going to hurt anybody's feelings on this one. 123 00:06:22,040 --> 00:06:24,240 Speaker 1: I mean, if I'm being totally honest, it wasn't the 124 00:06:24,240 --> 00:06:27,080 Speaker 1: greatest seat in the world, all right, but did so? 125 00:06:27,240 --> 00:06:28,880 Speaker 1: Did you have a bad time or did you enjoy 126 00:06:28,880 --> 00:06:32,160 Speaker 1: yourself a little bit? With Ben? I'd say it was 127 00:06:32,240 --> 00:06:36,760 Speaker 1: more awkward than good. We went to see a movie 128 00:06:36,880 --> 00:06:40,840 Speaker 1: before we had dinner. Yeah, he told us that, and 129 00:06:40,960 --> 00:06:43,119 Speaker 1: we also heard about the sex scenes during the movie. 130 00:06:44,240 --> 00:06:47,400 Speaker 1: I mean this, sitting next to this total stranger and 131 00:06:47,520 --> 00:06:50,200 Speaker 1: watching sex scenes is pretty awkward. But I guess that 132 00:06:50,200 --> 00:06:52,640 Speaker 1: that wasn't the deal breaker. Did you just think that, 133 00:06:52,760 --> 00:06:54,719 Speaker 1: like you just have bad chemistry with them and it 134 00:06:54,720 --> 00:06:57,760 Speaker 1: won't work out. I think we could be really good 135 00:06:57,800 --> 00:07:00,320 Speaker 1: friends one day, okay, but you don't want to date 136 00:07:00,320 --> 00:07:03,240 Speaker 1: the dude, I don't think so what was a deal breaker? 137 00:07:04,040 --> 00:07:06,839 Speaker 1: So he took me out to dinner after the movie, 138 00:07:06,920 --> 00:07:09,880 Speaker 1: and he was great, and he paid for dinner. But 139 00:07:10,640 --> 00:07:12,880 Speaker 1: when he took out his credit card, I actually saw 140 00:07:13,080 --> 00:07:16,720 Speaker 1: his last name. And his last name is Hooker. I 141 00:07:16,800 --> 00:07:20,240 Speaker 1: could crassitude Hooker all right, like a lady of the night. 142 00:07:20,600 --> 00:07:23,000 Speaker 1: And I just don't think I could be a missious Hooker. 143 00:07:23,840 --> 00:07:27,560 Speaker 1: That's your deal breaker because his last name is Hooker. 144 00:07:27,920 --> 00:07:30,080 Speaker 1: I'm a high school teacher. They would eat me alive. 145 00:07:30,160 --> 00:07:33,360 Speaker 1: I just I can't. I can't do it. I would. 146 00:07:33,800 --> 00:07:35,560 Speaker 1: I would like to have a missus Hooker as a teacher. 147 00:07:37,520 --> 00:07:40,560 Speaker 1: But Danny, how are you jumping to that conclusion already? 148 00:07:40,560 --> 00:07:42,880 Speaker 1: Of last names? Just keep your last name. If that's 149 00:07:42,880 --> 00:07:46,559 Speaker 1: the problem. I'm a pretty traditional girl. I mean, I'm 150 00:07:46,600 --> 00:07:49,200 Speaker 1: ready to get married. I know that I don't want 151 00:07:49,200 --> 00:07:51,320 Speaker 1: to keep my last name, and I just can't imagine 152 00:07:51,360 --> 00:07:57,560 Speaker 1: myself being a missus hooker. I just can't. I can't happen. Really, 153 00:07:57,560 --> 00:08:00,840 Speaker 1: there's nothing wrong with that name. Abby. At this point, 154 00:08:00,880 --> 00:08:02,640 Speaker 1: I should let you know that Ben is actually on 155 00:08:02,680 --> 00:08:09,040 Speaker 1: the other line and heard everything that you just said. Yeah, 156 00:08:09,080 --> 00:08:12,200 Speaker 1: that's that's ridiculous. You want to go on a second 157 00:08:12,280 --> 00:08:15,600 Speaker 1: date with me because my last name, I mean name, 158 00:08:16,120 --> 00:08:19,080 Speaker 1: And unless you're you're willing to change your last name 159 00:08:19,120 --> 00:08:25,440 Speaker 1: one day, I'm not. It's not like a bad name. 160 00:08:25,640 --> 00:08:28,200 Speaker 1: Like I'm proud of my name, and you're proud to 161 00:08:28,200 --> 00:08:29,880 Speaker 1: be a hooker, and you should be proud to be 162 00:08:29,920 --> 00:08:34,280 Speaker 1: a hooker. I am. I know it sounds like it's 163 00:08:34,280 --> 00:08:36,480 Speaker 1: a bad thing, but it's it's not like there's a 164 00:08:36,480 --> 00:08:38,840 Speaker 1: lot of famous people that have the last name Hooker. 165 00:08:38,880 --> 00:08:40,920 Speaker 1: You ever heard John Lee Hooker. He's a great musician. 166 00:08:40,960 --> 00:08:45,000 Speaker 1: I'm proud of it's a dude. Yeah, And it's the 167 00:08:45,040 --> 00:08:50,439 Speaker 1: oldest profession in the world, so it's very respected. It's 168 00:08:50,480 --> 00:08:53,600 Speaker 1: still illegal. I don't know if you realize that flag Gabby, 169 00:08:53,600 --> 00:08:54,960 Speaker 1: You're really not going to go out with him based 170 00:08:54,960 --> 00:08:58,840 Speaker 1: on his last name. I mean it's the last name. 171 00:08:58,960 --> 00:09:01,680 Speaker 1: It was an awkward day. I'm ready to get married. 172 00:09:01,760 --> 00:09:03,800 Speaker 1: I know what I want and I don't want to 173 00:09:03,800 --> 00:09:05,120 Speaker 1: be a hooker, and I don't want to go out 174 00:09:05,160 --> 00:09:07,160 Speaker 1: on a a more awkward date. It was an awkward and 175 00:09:07,200 --> 00:09:08,920 Speaker 1: it could have just been awkward because you were hugging 176 00:09:08,960 --> 00:09:16,360 Speaker 1: a hooker. I don't want you to be that type 177 00:09:16,360 --> 00:09:19,880 Speaker 1: of hooker. Okay, I think you're a great girl, and 178 00:09:19,880 --> 00:09:21,600 Speaker 1: I think we could have a great time if we 179 00:09:21,720 --> 00:09:24,040 Speaker 1: just tried it out one more time, because I know 180 00:09:24,080 --> 00:09:27,320 Speaker 1: it was just awkward, and I know I felt weird. 181 00:09:27,400 --> 00:09:29,160 Speaker 1: I should have maybe just called it out right then, 182 00:09:29,280 --> 00:09:31,920 Speaker 1: but I didn't, and I feel like if I had 183 00:09:31,920 --> 00:09:33,880 Speaker 1: a second chance of you, I think he could go 184 00:09:34,000 --> 00:09:37,440 Speaker 1: really well. There you go. That's a pretty good please. 185 00:09:37,679 --> 00:09:39,760 Speaker 1: We will pay for you, guys to go out again. 186 00:09:39,800 --> 00:09:42,000 Speaker 1: Will you go on a second date with Ben? You 187 00:09:42,000 --> 00:09:43,760 Speaker 1: don't have to worry about being a hooker just yet, 188 00:09:46,200 --> 00:09:48,160 Speaker 1: but we will pay for you to go out with Ben. 189 00:09:49,280 --> 00:09:51,520 Speaker 1: I just I'm sure there are other girls that will 190 00:09:51,520 --> 00:09:53,520 Speaker 1: want to be a missus hooker one day. But I'm 191 00:09:53,559 --> 00:09:56,120 Speaker 1: just not one of them. I'm sorry then it just 192 00:09:56,240 --> 00:09:59,880 Speaker 1: wasn't right. No, come on, let us pay crazy to 193 00:10:00,160 --> 00:10:02,000 Speaker 1: let us pay for a date. Go out with Ben, 194 00:10:02,360 --> 00:10:04,959 Speaker 1: just see if you like him. You never know. A 195 00:10:05,040 --> 00:10:07,520 Speaker 1: free date, both of us won't have to spend a dollar. 196 00:10:07,800 --> 00:10:10,600 Speaker 1: I won't have to do that awkward movie first because 197 00:10:10,640 --> 00:10:13,839 Speaker 1: we don't have to worry about price. Let's do it. 198 00:10:13,960 --> 00:10:16,760 Speaker 1: And I mean, if you've, if you've entertained the idea 199 00:10:16,880 --> 00:10:20,000 Speaker 1: of marrying him, you might as well give him a 200 00:10:20,040 --> 00:10:25,960 Speaker 1: second does that on the first date. The thing is 201 00:10:26,240 --> 00:10:31,000 Speaker 1: you could call him your own little hooker someday. No, 202 00:10:32,400 --> 00:10:38,599 Speaker 1: I think it's awesome. Absolutely not. You're not going to 203 00:10:38,640 --> 00:10:43,079 Speaker 1: go out with him? I don't think so. No, really, 204 00:10:43,360 --> 00:10:46,920 Speaker 1: I hope you never meet a Ben prostitute. The prostitute 205 00:10:47,000 --> 00:10:51,880 Speaker 1: is such a common last name. All right, what you 206 00:10:51,880 --> 00:10:55,520 Speaker 1: got your answer? Ben's silly? Sorry, maybe I think you're 207 00:10:55,559 --> 00:10:58,120 Speaker 1: making a mistake, But all right, nothing you can do 208 00:10:58,160 --> 00:11:03,000 Speaker 1: about it either, is the thing? All right? Live and learn? Right? Yep. Finally, 209 00:11:03,080 --> 00:11:04,480 Speaker 1: jubil you get to talk to a hooker and you 210 00:11:04,520 --> 00:11:07,160 Speaker 1: don't have to pay for it. That's true. I didn't 211 00:11:07,240 --> 00:11:11,400 Speaker 1: enjoy it as much. Yeah, it's broken jubil in the morning,