Speaker 1: Second date, up date.
Speaker 2: Wait a minute, It's extremely rare in the dating world,
Speaker 2: and normally only the best of the best can pull
Speaker 2: this off. I'm talking about the elusive insta date where
Speaker 2: you meet someone out and then immediately turned that into
Speaker 2: a date night without even handing them your credit card.
Speaker 2: Very rare, and apparently that happened for one of our listeners, Derek,
Speaker 2: where just like Rumpelstiltskin, he took a piece of straw
Speaker 2: and spun it into date night gold Rumple Derek Skin,
Speaker 2: Welcome to the show Man.
Speaker 3: Sorry, nobody, nobody ever does again.
Speaker 4: It's hard to not picture you with like spindly fingers, and.
Speaker 2: It's what I'm going to take the blame on that, Derek.
Speaker 1: That was my bad. From now, we'll just call you Derek. Okay.
Speaker 3: I appreciate it.
Speaker 5: I appreciate periods where you met this person.
Speaker 2: Yeah, tell us about first. What's her name?
Speaker 3: Her name is Emmy, okay, And I met her at
Speaker 3: this pretty popular steakhouse. I mean and when I said popular,
Speaker 3: it's really hard to get a table.
Speaker 5: Wait, how do you meet someone at a steakhouse?
Speaker 4: Like, whenever you go to a steakhouse, you're with someone already,
Speaker 4: whether it be a friend, like, it's not a meeting place.
Speaker 5: How did that happen?
Speaker 3: Fair enough? I met her in the bar area, specifically.
Speaker 4: Bar.
Speaker 2: Okay, that's like the people who are waiting hoping to
Speaker 2: get a table.
Speaker 5: Or there's somebody traveling for work.
Speaker 2: You know, all this money and all I want is
Speaker 2: just a full yeah pickens, Yes, there you go.
Speaker 1: How did it go with emmy?
Speaker 3: I saw that she was by herself, and I approached her,
Speaker 3: and I was trying to talk to her, trying to
Speaker 3: spit some game. And notice she kept on looking at
Speaker 3: her phone.
Speaker 5: So your game wasn't being very famous gaming? The game
Speaker 5: wasn't gaming?
Speaker 3: Well, I said, are you waiting on? I got to
Speaker 3: meet you? And she goes, no, I'm waiting for my friend.
Speaker 4: Oh okay, you always have the one friend that's chronically late, Lily,
Speaker 4: if you're listening to this show right now, okay.
Speaker 1: She said she was waiting for a friend.
Speaker 3: Yeah, And then and her friend wasn't just late, and
Speaker 3: her friend is a nurse and she got called in
Speaker 3: for a ship.
Speaker 5: Friend hurts worse, she went to the hospital to work.
Speaker 1: She could have not gone to the hospital.
Speaker 2: Are people are gonna start saving themselves if they our friendship.
Speaker 4: Always honestly, it feels like the universe is giving you
Speaker 4: this opportunity then, right, is that how you saw it?
Speaker 3: Absolutely? And I was like, well, how about you and
Speaker 3: me have dinner? Then?
Speaker 1: Oh, it's pretty smooth. What did she say?
Speaker 3: Games back on and she was hesitant, and she sorry,
Speaker 3: I don't know you, and I was like, you do.
Speaker 3: We've talked almost four minutes. I'm practically your brother.
Speaker 2: Still I would have worked on someone like Brook, but.
Speaker 5: I actually didn't see anything wrong.
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, that's kind of funny, flirtatious. How did she
Speaker 2: react to that?
Speaker 3: She laughed good, Yeah, she laughed.
Speaker 4: Well, and she's in such a position she can't say, oh,
Speaker 4: I'm sorry, he already had players.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean.
Speaker 3: To give you the whole story here. She laughs, and
Speaker 3: then she says, all right, we can eat, but let
Speaker 3: me get the table.
Speaker 1: Oh you guys got a table at the bar. That's
Speaker 1: a good.
Speaker 3: Sign, That's what I'm thinking. And I didn't understand why,
Speaker 3: but I was like, okay, sure, And they came back
Speaker 3: and gave us this incredible table, like right in the
Speaker 3: center of the.
Speaker 4: Restaurant steakhouse royalty.
Speaker 1: Yeah. Two Queen of the months.
Speaker 5: That's right.
Speaker 3: Yeah, the wait there's more cocktails already there at the table.
Speaker 3: The waiters like, hey, drinks are compliments of the house.
Speaker 3: And I was like, who are you? How did you
Speaker 3: do this? You never been in table here, let alone
Speaker 3: free drinks?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 5: Did she have an explanation?
Speaker 3: She shucks, and I quote, it's just pretty privilege, pretty
Speaker 3: pretty privilege, Brook.
Speaker 1: Does that happen to you all the time when you
Speaker 1: go to the steakhouse? Was like, pop by the sailor
Speaker 1: man right now?
Speaker 4: Honestly, never happened to be the only time happens is
Speaker 4: if with him with a friend.
Speaker 5: Who like works in the industry, or are here with
Speaker 5: all girls, not with a guy. Why do they care
Speaker 5: if you're already on a date?
Speaker 1: That makes sense? Why She was like, hold on, let
Speaker 1: me do this.
Speaker 5: Yeah, so maybe they didn't know you're the guy. You're
Speaker 5: not getting free stuff. They dragged it down. Don't go
Speaker 5: to Vegas with men. Yeah, but it's not Vegas.
Speaker 4: This is.
Speaker 2: That must have made you feel kind of good, right, well.
Speaker 3: Yeah, without question. I mean, I look, I was on
Speaker 3: cloud nine already when she said, yes, I will have dinner.
Speaker 4: With Yeah, so beautiful was the rest of the night
Speaker 4: just as magical.
Speaker 3: Well, we talked for about an hour, had some excellent food,
Speaker 3: and then she said she had to go, and uh,
Speaker 3: we hugged and said, you know, we should meet up again.
Speaker 3: And that's why I'm that's why I'm calling you guys.
Speaker 3: I know, maybe shouldn't see it as romantic.
Speaker 2: I mean I realized that I was going to ask,
Speaker 2: was there any like romance that happened during dinner or
Speaker 2: did it feel more like a friendly just casual.
Speaker 3: I mean, honestly, like it's one of those things where
Speaker 3: it's like, am I telling myself that there was some
Speaker 3: eye contact and some flirting and what have you? Up?
Speaker 1: Yeah, I knew that a lot. I'm like, dude, this
Speaker 1: girl she's so into me.
Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, I mean, look, clearly I wanted to move
Speaker 3: to that area of romance. But it's been about two
Speaker 3: weeks and I haven't been able to reach her at ah.
Speaker 1: Okay, but you have you have like texted?
Speaker 3: Yeah, but she did tell me she travels a lot,
Speaker 3: so maybe that's part of what's going on.
Speaker 5: It sounds like a woman that's in high demand. Yeah,
Speaker 5: you know what I mean, she's pretty successful. I hope,
Speaker 5: she answers our call me too.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and you know what, we're gonna give you some
Speaker 2: pretty privilege here, Derek. We're gonna come back and do
Speaker 2: a second date update just for you, free of charge.
Speaker 1: Is how does that feel, Bud?
Speaker 3: I love it.
Speaker 1: We're gonna do it with your second date update. Right
Speaker 1: after this hold.
Speaker 2: On Second Date Update, our listener Derek met a beautiful
Speaker 2: woman at a steakhouse bar. Her friend was called into
Speaker 2: work that night so couldn't make it, and that's when Derek,
Speaker 2: like a gentleman, offered to eat dinner with her.
Speaker 5: Oh this is gentleman music, I think. Yeah, yeah first
Speaker 5: yeah yeah.
Speaker 2: So they ended up getting one of the best tables
Speaker 2: in the house with complimentary drinks ready for them.
Speaker 1: The reason why.
Speaker 2: Derek wasn't around when she approached the manager asking for
Speaker 2: a spot in the restaurant.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 2: And when he asked, how did you pull this off,
Speaker 2: she replied with two words. Pretty privilege, which power. If
Speaker 2: you don't know what that is, it's basically where beautiful
Speaker 2: people in society get extra benefits that none of us
Speaker 2: Ugos could possibly dream of getting gifted to us.
Speaker 1: And someone in this room has pretty privileged as well.
Speaker 2: Jeff Well, I wasn't really thinking to me, like, Alexis,
Speaker 2: what's the coolest, pretty privileged thing that's happened to you ever?
Speaker 6: Oh in Vegas, I said, they get that.
Speaker 5: Every woman gets that. That doesn't count.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I get that when I go with my girlfriends
Speaker 4: even now, you know.
Speaker 5: Being used loosely right now.
Speaker 2: Either way, Derek was impressed with what happened that night,
Speaker 2: and not only does he want more of that action,
Speaker 2: he really liked this girl Emmy that he met, So
Speaker 2: we're hoping to hook him up with him one more time.
Speaker 4: Oh my god, I feel like the universe was trying
Speaker 4: to hook you guys up.
Speaker 5: Derek. We got to help the universe out here.
Speaker 1: Anything you want to say to the universe, Derek.
Speaker 3: Yeah, thank you Universe thus far. Please keep it going.
Speaker 5: Yeah, there you go, There you go.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Right now, let's put a call out into the universe
Speaker 2: and see if Emmy picks up.
Speaker 1: Here we go.
Speaker 2: We're gonna pray for the best for doing it.
Speaker 1: Hello, Hi, we're looking for Emmy.
Speaker 6: Yeah, we're a.
Speaker 2: Radio show called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 1: Is this Emmy?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 6: But why are you calling me?
Speaker 3: Are you in a quail Sanctuary.
Speaker 1: There's some beautiful noises happening where we were.
Speaker 3: I actually had birds.
Speaker 1: I'm so sorry, So I don't want to waste any
Speaker 1: of your time here.
Speaker 2: We're calling you because we do a segment on our
Speaker 2: show called Second Date Update, and one of our listeners
Speaker 2: has asked us to reach out to you because you
Speaker 2: two had dinner the other night and had a really
Speaker 2: good time together.
Speaker 5: He it was like two weeks ago.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, it was a while ago. He's hoping to
Speaker 2: see you again.
Speaker 1: His name is Derek.
Speaker 6: Oh uh, yeah, I remember him.
Speaker 1: Okay, we good.
Speaker 4: Oh, I mean it's crazy because it's not like you
Speaker 4: guys planned to be on a date. No.
Speaker 6: Actually, my friend had canceled for dinner, so.
Speaker 2: That we heard a little bit about the story of
Speaker 2: how you two met and you got a great table
Speaker 2: in the restaurant. We were wondering if you had any
Speaker 2: interest in maybe seeing Derek again.
Speaker 6: Probably not, if I'm on it.
Speaker 4: Okay, honesty is good.
Speaker 2: We're trying to figure out is there a reason why,
Speaker 2: because he did tell us a little bit about what happened,
Speaker 2: and you know, he told us that you asked to
Speaker 2: get the tape.
Speaker 6: Well, yeah, he couldn't get the table only I could.
Speaker 5: Okay, why.
Speaker 6: It's just the way it is.
Speaker 2: Well, did he do anything wrong that night or say something?
Speaker 6: No, not at all, not at all.
Speaker 4: Are you in a relationship because we actually didn't cover that,
Speaker 4: you know, and like, I don't know if he asked you.
Speaker 6: Honestly, it's I don't have a boyfriend, but it's just
Speaker 6: my lifestyle. I just don't think he would understand lifestyle.
Speaker 5: What's your lifestyle? Are you famous? I've been dying to
Speaker 5: know you, like celebrity?
Speaker 2: No.
Speaker 6: I mean I tried to give him a hint, and
Speaker 6: I don't think he got it. What type of hint
Speaker 6: I told him about pretty privilege?
Speaker 5: Pretty privileged?
Speaker 4: He said that that's why you said you got free
Speaker 4: drinks and stuff because you're you're good looking.
Speaker 6: Yeah, basically that's what the situation is right now, and
Speaker 6: I'm using it to my advantage.
Speaker 5: I don't get it, Like, what is that a weird
Speaker 5: a lifestyle?
Speaker 1: How do you mean that?
Speaker 3: Okay?
Speaker 6: Currently I'm a tier three pretty privilege. Who's creating I
Speaker 6: don't know who created it. But there's different tiers, like
Speaker 6: tier one is getting free entrance to clubs and free
Speaker 6: drinks and that's the lowest tier.
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, that's brooken, alexis point and your Tier three?
Speaker 1: What does that mean?
Speaker 6: It's like where guys pay you to go on vacations
Speaker 6: to places like Saint Bart's and Beisa.
Speaker 4: That's why you're out of town for quote unquote work.
Speaker 7: Well, it's not just legal going to another guy, right,
Speaker 7: So do you mean it's like a sugar baby sort
Speaker 7: of situation where guys pay you to like go on
Speaker 7: trips with you.
Speaker 6: It's not sugar baby, it's not at all what that is?
Speaker 5: It sounds exactly like that. What's the different.
Speaker 6: It's me and a group of girls, just like five
Speaker 6: or six of us. We just get invited on these
Speaker 6: trips and they'll pay us ten to twenty thousand just
Speaker 6: to be there for photos.
Speaker 1: Ten to twenty dollars.
Speaker 5: On top of paying for your trip. Uh huh oh,
Speaker 5: you're like a model sort of.
Speaker 1: You have to be Alexia, She said, pretty privileged. This
Speaker 1: is Tier three? I think it was.
Speaker 4: What are you'll posting hotter pictures and taking those Tier ones?
Speaker 1: Pipe down over there?
Speaker 2: We're talking to Tier three. Keep going, I'm sorry, man,
Speaker 2: how does this work? You get paid twenty grand just
Speaker 2: personally to show up.
Speaker 3: Huh.
Speaker 6: We get in our bikini, take a few quick pictures together,
Speaker 6: like hanging on the boat with drinks, and then that's it.
Speaker 6: The rest of the vacation has come.
Speaker 5: For just for pictures that I'm jealous of, the guide,
Speaker 5: the pictures.
Speaker 2: It's not like, well, I can understand that you clearly
Speaker 2: have a lot of good stuff going on in your life.
Speaker 2: But going back to Derek, I mean, oh, well, Derek's
Speaker 2: did you.
Speaker 4: I guess if you can't have a boyfriend or be
Speaker 4: in a relationship while you're doing this, I mean he
Speaker 4: likes you.
Speaker 6: Yeah, that's great now, but I'm not actively looking for
Speaker 6: a boyfriend or anything like that. My life is just yeah,
Speaker 6: I'm being on private jets and yachts and saying and staman.
Speaker 6: You know, it's like a full time job.
Speaker 2: Well, maybe he'll send us like a sign up sheet
Speaker 2: for where the pretty privileged thing is Like, okay, well.
Speaker 5: You didn't even make a tear.
Speaker 2: If we can't do that, maybe something else. What we
Speaker 2: can do is get you on the phone with Derek
Speaker 2: right now, because he's on the other line listening.
Speaker 1: Yeah, there he is.
Speaker 3: Yeah, Oh'm like, hey, what's up. I mean coming in hot.
Speaker 3: I mean, that's pretty awesome that you're doing, you know,
Speaker 3: yacht trips in the Bahamas. Like, that's incredible, it's sane.
Speaker 6: Parts you should have been listening closer the.
Speaker 1: Bahamas up for Tier twos.
Speaker 3: Look, I think that's awesome. I could come with you.
Speaker 3: I mean, like, I also know.
Speaker 6: No, but I'm going to go. Good luck and.
Speaker 1: Hold on?
Speaker 3: Wait what but I mean hold on, like I want
Speaker 3: a I would love to hang out with you again.
Speaker 3: I thought we had a really good conversation. Second, like
Speaker 3: I know a guy who could give us like fifty
Speaker 3: off on like zip line tours in Costa Rica.
Speaker 6: Oh, that's so nice of you. But I'm going to go.
Speaker 3: But hold on, like I whose cruises?
Speaker 2: I mean, Derek, you need to just to stop asking
Speaker 2: what the professionals take over. So I mean, I mean,
Speaker 2: can you admit that you had a nice time with
Speaker 2: Derek when you hung out with him?
Speaker 5: You're really trying.
Speaker 6: We did, but we should just leave it there and
Speaker 6: I'll always have that memory of you.
Speaker 5: Kevin almost got Derek's name right, Yeah it's Derek.
Speaker 3: Yeah, Derek, it's actually Derek.
Speaker 6: That doesn't matter.
Speaker 2: Listen, I mean, I think this is gonna have to
Speaker 2: be the one time in your life where you just
Speaker 2: put all that money in free trips and yachts and
Speaker 2: private jets to the side and just to move just
Speaker 2: for a second and look into your heart. And I
Speaker 2: think there's a space for Derek and has a different voice. Okay,
Speaker 2: I know you like free stuff, Emmy, that's for sure.
Speaker 2: And we would give you a free date that we
Speaker 2: pay for if you meet up with Derek one more time.
Speaker 5: How many times are you going to ask?
Speaker 1: How many times does it take?
Speaker 6: What is include?
Speaker 1: Well?
Speaker 2: Usually we do like a gift card to a restaurant.
Speaker 2: Just literally, Okay, I'm in the towel, I'm leaving the
Speaker 2: white flag and it's not gonna.
Speaker 3: Cars.
Speaker 2: Doesn't always. I feel terrible about myself now, Derek. I'm sorry, man,
Speaker 2: it doesn't sound like we're going to get you a
Speaker 2: date here.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I guess, yeah, but you know what, what a
Speaker 3: one time date you had?
Speaker 5: Yeah? I don't live in my heart forever.
Speaker 4: Jeffy brooking Jeffrey in the morning,