WEBVTT - Sunday Sampler - The Nashville Podcast Network (3-31-24) 0:00:07.960 --> 0:00:10.239 Hey, everybody, Bob here, thanks for hanging out. It's a 0:00:10.280 --> 0:00:13.120 Sunday sampler. I want to play a few things. Number one, 0:00:13.160 --> 0:00:15.040 coming up, movie Mike's movie podcast. 0:00:15.120 --> 0:00:15.560 It's a game. 0:00:15.640 --> 0:00:17.759 He challenges you to identify some of the most obscure 0:00:17.800 --> 0:00:18.320 movie quotes. 0:00:18.400 --> 0:00:19.720 See if you can nail him. 0:00:19.760 --> 0:00:22.720 On Sore Losers, the president of the Nashville Podcast Network 0:00:22.800 --> 0:00:27.240 joins the guys. You know, they have kind of a 0:00:27.280 --> 0:00:29.640 resolution after a long time. And then starting us off, 0:00:29.680 --> 0:00:32.000 I talked with media executive Phil Becker, and we just 0:00:32.040 --> 0:00:35.120 talked about AI AI and radio. He introduced the first 0:00:35.120 --> 0:00:38.919 ever AI radio personality. We've talked about social media, and 0:00:38.960 --> 0:00:42.199 so here you go all these plus more Sunday sampler. 0:00:42.440 --> 0:00:44.640 We'll start with this a clip of my conversation with 0:00:44.680 --> 0:00:48.320 Phil Becker. He the thing that I struggle with the 0:00:48.320 --> 0:00:52.640 most daily, weekly, monthly in this format, which I love 0:00:52.640 --> 0:00:54.320 and grew up on. But I was also the napster 0:00:54.440 --> 0:00:57.960 kid right first. So as much as country music was 0:00:58.200 --> 0:01:00.600 the Arkansas music and Mike, my mother raised me on 0:01:00.680 --> 0:01:02.880 even traditional which I don't even know what current like 0:01:02.920 --> 0:01:05.560 a temporary country wasn't n ttil later, I was still 0:01:05.560 --> 0:01:09.000 a napster kid who had every influence. So it's almost 0:01:09.000 --> 0:01:12.920 that first generation, even in like I'm doing a project 0:01:12.959 --> 0:01:14.759 coming up the next couple months with Malcolm Gladwell who 0:01:14.720 --> 0:01:18.120 wrote Outliers, and I'd blink, yeah, so big fan of 0:01:18.200 --> 0:01:22.360 him and an Outliers specifically. You know, when Bill Gates 0:01:22.440 --> 0:01:25.280 lived in a town where there was a computer, he 0:01:25.280 --> 0:01:27.040 wouldn't have been Bill Gates if there wasn't that computer 0:01:27.200 --> 0:01:30.560 wasn't in that town. Like luckily that environment worked out 0:01:30.720 --> 0:01:32.880 with the person that was accepting of it and pushed 0:01:33.240 --> 0:01:34.920 and the next thing you know, we have somebody who's 0:01:35.000 --> 0:01:37.720 changing media. I think I'm very fortunate to have been 0:01:39.040 --> 0:01:41.280 birthed in a time that allowed me to be on 0:01:41.400 --> 0:01:44.600 the front side of digital media. But where I was 0:01:44.800 --> 0:01:51.600 really curious, I was consumed by we don't have to 0:01:51.680 --> 0:01:56.200 live in this artistic box that we've been delivered in. 0:01:57.040 --> 0:01:58.520 But I'm very fortunate in the same way Bill Gates 0:01:58.560 --> 0:01:59.960 was fortunate he had a computer in his town, the 0:02:00.080 --> 0:02:02.760 only one for miles and miles and miles. I got 0:02:02.760 --> 0:02:04.640 to be at the age where I had digital media first, 0:02:04.760 --> 0:02:11.079 and because of that, I have all of these different 0:02:11.360 --> 0:02:17.280 influences and from my most influential years, and so the 0:02:17.320 --> 0:02:21.440 one consistent thing has been other people my age or younger, 0:02:21.600 --> 0:02:24.120 regardless of where they grew up, country, hip hop up, 0:02:24.440 --> 0:02:26.200 They've all been influenced. 0:02:25.680 --> 0:02:26.799 By everything too. 0:02:28.200 --> 0:02:31.120 So the standard has been in this format, which again 0:02:31.639 --> 0:02:33.519 I know in love and I've dedicated my last fifteen 0:02:33.560 --> 0:02:39.040 years to it that anybody who comes over here must 0:02:39.080 --> 0:02:44.760 be a carpetbagger, because why weren't they here originally? If 0:02:44.800 --> 0:02:49.680 that's the case, I'm a carpetbagger in a way because 0:02:49.760 --> 0:02:51.480 even though I grew up on country music. In my 0:02:51.520 --> 0:02:54.280 first radio I begged to get a job at US 0:02:54.360 --> 0:02:58.280 ninety seven, they wouldn't hire me, and I did pop. 0:02:58.440 --> 0:03:00.480 But on my pop stations I would put country artists on. 0:03:00.880 --> 0:03:05.440 But to them because I wasn't completely I'm a carpetbagger. However, 0:03:05.480 --> 0:03:09.560 the thing I said with Beyonce was one, if we're 0:03:09.600 --> 0:03:12.000 going to say to be country, you've had to always 0:03:12.000 --> 0:03:15.320 be country, then there's a lot of people that if 0:03:15.919 --> 0:03:18.360 you're not a black artist coming over on a slave 0:03:18.400 --> 0:03:20.679 ship with a makeshift banjo, or if you're not a 0:03:20.760 --> 0:03:23.600 European with a basic fiddle, and the combination of those 0:03:23.680 --> 0:03:25.680 is what influenced the South and the South, then You're 0:03:25.720 --> 0:03:29.119 not a country right, So all you white dudes who 0:03:29.120 --> 0:03:31.360 have your goatee and your sunglasses, they're yelling at me 0:03:32.160 --> 0:03:32.919 that ain't country. 0:03:33.840 --> 0:03:35.160 Well, if you want to keep going. 0:03:34.960 --> 0:03:37.680 Back, I'm going to go back to the actual creation 0:03:37.800 --> 0:03:38.560 of country music. 0:03:38.960 --> 0:03:39.760 You ain't country. 0:03:40.640 --> 0:03:45.360 Secondly, I think also there is a problem, and I 0:03:45.360 --> 0:03:47.600 can understand this problem, and I understand why people feel 0:03:47.600 --> 0:03:49.760 this way because I feel it too. If somebody is 0:03:49.840 --> 0:03:55.000 not succeeding in a genre and they go, I'm just 0:03:55.000 --> 0:03:56.520 going to go and do country because it's not working 0:03:56.520 --> 0:04:01.960 for me. There I can understand being insulted by that, because, oh, 0:04:02.200 --> 0:04:04.640 where you're is it the easier format where you're the 0:04:04.640 --> 0:04:06.800 second place where you're you think you can because you 0:04:06.800 --> 0:04:08.040 can't make it where you did make it. Now you're 0:04:08.040 --> 0:04:09.120 just going to come over and think you can just 0:04:09.120 --> 0:04:11.280 succeed over here where we are. To me, that's not 0:04:11.320 --> 0:04:14.000 so much about art, but it's like, oh, you think 0:04:14.040 --> 0:04:15.840 you can't be the governor of Minnesota, You're gonna move 0:04:15.840 --> 0:04:17.200 to Arkansas and run trying to be the governor because 0:04:17.240 --> 0:04:21.159 you think we're idiots. So my point with Beyonce was 0:04:21.240 --> 0:04:22.919 she doesn't have to do that. She's doing it on 0:04:22.920 --> 0:04:25.600 her own. She's never been bigger yet she still wants 0:04:25.640 --> 0:04:31.919 to do country infused music and some of the music 0:04:31.960 --> 0:04:34.200 that is considered country now. And I could go back, 0:04:34.240 --> 0:04:37.200 and I've been in a couple documentaries where I. 0:04:37.200 --> 0:04:38.080 Talk about music. 0:04:39.560 --> 0:04:42.000 Even if you go back to like Bob Wills, who 0:04:42.080 --> 0:04:45.719 is traditional, like extremely he was the first guy that 0:04:45.800 --> 0:04:49.880 ever amplified as steal guitar, an electric still guitar that's 0:04:49.880 --> 0:04:53.640 not country. Well now it's the first time they made 0:04:53.640 --> 0:04:56.640 an electric guitar. You can go to the greats who've 0:04:56.640 --> 0:04:59.640 all been told you're not country. Generally, the people that 0:04:59.720 --> 0:05:02.279 aren't country and make it are the ones that reset country. 0:05:02.440 --> 0:05:04.760 So people that yell, hey, your country music, this is 0:05:04.839 --> 0:05:08.279 I like traditional country. At one point that traditional wasn't 0:05:08.360 --> 0:05:11.440 Beyonce today, right. And I've been lucky enough to sit 0:05:11.480 --> 0:05:13.400 with these artists who have been told that, and actually 0:05:13.920 --> 0:05:18.239 just Garth for example, everybody Garth's the greatest car. Garth 0:05:18.320 --> 0:05:21.200 wasn't country according to eighty percent of country music for 0:05:21.200 --> 0:05:24.080 a while because how he was doing his concerts. So 0:05:24.920 --> 0:05:29.799 I've often said, the people that say that something's not country, 0:05:30.320 --> 0:05:33.560 they almost have to exist. If everything stayed the same 0:05:33.560 --> 0:05:36.080 country music would die if everything stayed traditional country music 0:05:36.080 --> 0:05:38.240 would die. Any art I just happen to be in 0:05:38.279 --> 0:05:41.599 this one and that that ain't country. It's annoying as crap. 0:05:43.160 --> 0:05:45.480 But if it didn't happen, I don't think the format 0:05:45.480 --> 0:05:49.160 would be able to progress. Like so, I was upset 0:05:49.200 --> 0:05:50.240 with the Beyonce think, and I got a lot of 0:05:50.240 --> 0:05:52.800 offers to go and do all these TV shows, but 0:05:52.920 --> 0:05:55.039 I've found that going on with somebody else controls the narrative. 0:05:55.040 --> 0:05:56.960 And you're talking about race, that's tricky because they will cut, 0:05:57.000 --> 0:05:59.839 they'll cut your promo, and as a white dude, I'm 0:05:59.839 --> 0:06:01.960 just I'm gonna talk talk about it in a mine, right, 0:06:02.600 --> 0:06:05.760 But I'm super happy that now people are being way 0:06:05.839 --> 0:06:11.719 more understanding of black art, at female artists, bands, anything 0:06:11.760 --> 0:06:14.640 that's not considered traditional country for now, because it's going 0:06:14.640 --> 0:06:17.400 to be traditional country in ten years and history is 0:06:17.440 --> 0:06:19.080 going to be on the side of the same side 0:06:19.080 --> 0:06:20.440 it's always been on progression. 0:06:20.880 --> 0:06:23.800 Well, you know, you talked about being the napster kid, 0:06:23.839 --> 0:06:27.440 and you talked about being the Bill Gates situation where 0:06:27.440 --> 0:06:29.520 if he didn't live in that town, there wouldn't be sure. 0:06:30.560 --> 0:06:34.599 I actually think that you and I because we're roughly 0:06:34.600 --> 0:06:37.599 the same age. You and I are going to be 0:06:39.600 --> 0:06:44.520 bringing children into the world. People that are younger now, 0:06:44.839 --> 0:06:47.600 they're going to laugh at us. Dude, they're going to 0:06:47.680 --> 0:06:50.120 laugh at us and go, you told somebody what a 0:06:50.279 --> 0:06:54.520 genre was, right, that's offensive. You told someone how they 0:06:54.520 --> 0:06:55.680 had to feel about something. 0:06:55.720 --> 0:06:56.000 That's it. 0:06:56.520 --> 0:06:58.520 They're going to look back and you and I are 0:06:58.520 --> 0:07:02.800 supposedly the outliers, the disruptors, the rule breakers, even us 0:07:03.480 --> 0:07:05.359 compared to where the world will be, which is a 0:07:05.360 --> 0:07:06.040 beautiful thing. 0:07:06.080 --> 0:07:08.200 By the way, they'll laugh. 0:07:08.120 --> 0:07:10.560 It's very socratic, I'll say, because we're so smart. We 0:07:10.600 --> 0:07:13.600 know we're not that smart, right, Like I don't. I 0:07:13.840 --> 0:07:16.120 have no confidence that I know anything about art. I 0:07:16.160 --> 0:07:19.880 have confidence that eventually my sensibilities will get me to 0:07:19.880 --> 0:07:21.560 a spot that I realized I don't know. So I'm 0:07:21.560 --> 0:07:23.040 gonna trust what I can find out. 0:07:29.960 --> 0:07:42.440 Good cass up, little food for yourself life. Oh it's 0:07:42.480 --> 0:07:50.800 pretty bad, it's pretty beautiful. Laugh a little more THI. 0:07:51.960 --> 0:07:55.840 You're kicking it with four with Amy Brown. 0:07:56.440 --> 0:07:59.120 Hey, it's Amy Brown from Four Things with Amy Brown. 0:07:59.280 --> 0:08:01.840 And here's what we talked about this week on my podcast. 0:08:03.880 --> 0:08:06.760 I want to talk about a myth of dyslexia, and 0:08:06.760 --> 0:08:10.400 that is that it's a sign of low intelligence. 0:08:10.280 --> 0:08:12.400 Which is the furthest thing from the truth. 0:08:12.800 --> 0:08:16.800 A lot of your millionaires, a lot of Hollywood actors, 0:08:17.120 --> 0:08:20.800 Chaining Tatum different, they are dyslexic, and they will talk 0:08:20.800 --> 0:08:24.760 about having to reredescript and reread a script. But these 0:08:24.760 --> 0:08:29.560 are successful people. These are very smart people. Albert Einstein, 0:08:29.720 --> 0:08:33.160 they said he was dyslexic. I saw a stat that's 0:08:33.400 --> 0:08:36.040 like seven out of ten millionaires. 0:08:36.360 --> 0:08:39.000 And I don't know how scientifically proven it was. 0:08:39.280 --> 0:08:42.960 We're dyslexic. And you had her on your show from 0:08:43.040 --> 0:08:47.640 Shark Tank. I was fascinated with her talking about her dyslexia. 0:08:48.120 --> 0:08:52.600 And I had always told entrepreneurship is a great way 0:08:52.679 --> 0:08:55.720 for dyslexics to go because they think so out of 0:08:55.760 --> 0:08:56.240 the box. 0:08:56.720 --> 0:08:59.560 Has nothing to do with intelligence at all. 0:09:00.120 --> 0:09:02.360 That was Barbara Corcoran, by the way, and yeah, it 0:09:02.400 --> 0:09:04.720 was it was cool to hear her say that, especially 0:09:04.800 --> 0:09:07.959 right after we had been diagnosed with it. And it's 0:09:08.000 --> 0:09:10.760 a it's a spectrum and you should get tested if 0:09:10.800 --> 0:09:12.720 you think you have it, or you know. You even 0:09:12.760 --> 0:09:16.280 said some adults come in to get their kids tested 0:09:16.400 --> 0:09:17.920 and they don't even know that they have it, but 0:09:17.960 --> 0:09:20.280 then they start to get curious. And for me, I 0:09:20.280 --> 0:09:22.440 think I always had a curiosity, but I would have 0:09:22.600 --> 0:09:26.680 never gotten tested because I just didn't put enough eggs 0:09:26.720 --> 0:09:29.120 in that basket that it could actually be dyslexia. But 0:09:29.120 --> 0:09:31.600 that's also because I had a misunderstanding of what dyslexia 0:09:31.679 --> 0:09:36.959 actually is. And I also have a question about it 0:09:37.000 --> 0:09:40.720 being hereditary. Does it often come from someone in our family? 0:09:40.960 --> 0:09:41.439 It does? 0:09:41.600 --> 0:09:45.040 It can skip generation, but like if you were to 0:09:45.080 --> 0:09:47.760 have a biological child, they would have a fifty percent 0:09:47.920 --> 0:09:50.040 more likelihood of having dyslexia. 0:09:50.360 --> 0:09:52.040 All right, Well, quick question about that, because if I 0:09:52.080 --> 0:09:55.200 was meant to be left handed and I was, you know, 0:09:55.440 --> 0:09:57.800 encouraged to be right, and that crossed the wires in 0:09:57.840 --> 0:10:01.920 my brain because dyslexia it's hereditary. Is it just because 0:10:01.920 --> 0:10:04.000 my brain was susceptible to that? Like if I didn't 0:10:04.000 --> 0:10:07.320 have dyslexia, my family somewhere, which my sister and I 0:10:07.360 --> 0:10:10.360 have a theory that it was potentially our dad, and 0:10:10.400 --> 0:10:12.120 I wish she was alive so that I could have 0:10:12.240 --> 0:10:13.360 him get tested. 0:10:13.400 --> 0:10:14.720 But he hated to read. 0:10:15.000 --> 0:10:17.360 He did not have dyscalcula because he was really great 0:10:17.360 --> 0:10:20.480 at math. But he was left handed, and he was 0:10:21.040 --> 0:10:21.960 very creative. 0:10:22.240 --> 0:10:26.760 And they're doing studies now like high school football players. 0:10:26.840 --> 0:10:31.400 They are finding that there can be a concussion related dyslexia. 0:10:32.000 --> 0:10:33.559 New studies that have just come out. 0:10:33.600 --> 0:10:36.280 I've been reading it just because it's fascinating to me 0:10:36.400 --> 0:10:39.080 that a brain injury can actually cause it. 0:10:39.520 --> 0:10:42.640 Well, I was getting some neurofeedback done a year and 0:10:42.640 --> 0:10:44.920 a half ago, is when I started, maybe two years ago, 0:10:45.280 --> 0:10:47.720 and she did a little scan over on my brain 0:10:47.760 --> 0:10:50.760 and she said, the front part of my brain, I 0:10:50.760 --> 0:10:53.520 guess had an injury of sorts, and your brain doesn't 0:10:53.520 --> 0:10:57.360 know the difference between an emotional trauma and a physical trauma. Yes, 0:10:57.480 --> 0:10:59.920 So all she could see was that there was tru 0:11:00.280 --> 0:11:02.120 to the brain right there. And she asked me if 0:11:02.160 --> 0:11:04.200 I had ever hit my head as a kid or anything, 0:11:04.559 --> 0:11:05.800 and I told her about a time that I was 0:11:05.800 --> 0:11:10.040 playing hide and seek and I slid headfirst into my parents' 0:11:10.200 --> 0:11:14.120 bed because the bed was base and I was about 0:11:14.160 --> 0:11:16.800 to get tagged, and so I slid and my arms 0:11:16.880 --> 0:11:19.600 went straight under on the carpet through the bed, but 0:11:19.640 --> 0:11:24.520 then my head hit the bedpost and I had to 0:11:24.520 --> 0:11:27.400 get stitches. And it's right there, and she goes, that's 0:11:27.600 --> 0:11:31.480 right when your add could have come into action. Yes, 0:11:31.559 --> 0:11:34.040 And I thought, what, I hit my head as a 0:11:34.120 --> 0:11:37.080 kid and that could be my ADD Like I thought 0:11:37.120 --> 0:11:41.160 that was something you were just born with. But she said, yeah, 0:11:41.160 --> 0:11:43.200 I know that trauma to your head could have been 0:11:43.440 --> 0:11:44.000 the culprit. 0:11:44.200 --> 0:11:47.920 Well, and my son had brain surgery because he battled 0:11:47.920 --> 0:11:50.880 brain cancer. So that was one thing that was really 0:11:50.920 --> 0:11:54.600 hard for us to separate. Okay, what is medical, what's educational? 0:11:54.679 --> 0:11:58.319 What is from surgery is what is not. That's one 0:11:58.400 --> 0:12:00.640 of the reasons it took us so long to be 0:12:00.679 --> 0:12:01.959 able to find help for him. 0:12:02.440 --> 0:12:06.040 Well, what signs can parents look for, Like if they're thinking, well, 0:12:06.040 --> 0:12:09.480 maybe I should get my kid tested or maybe I 0:12:09.480 --> 0:12:12.040 should get myself tested. What are signs people can look for. 0:12:12.480 --> 0:12:14.520 There's different signs for different ages. 0:12:14.600 --> 0:12:17.839 So for the young ones, if they are having a 0:12:17.880 --> 0:12:23.560 really hard time rhyming, that's usually a flag because having 0:12:23.640 --> 0:12:27.680 trouble rhyming is the number one thing for younger kids 0:12:27.720 --> 0:12:30.280 that you see and then you're riding your b's and 0:12:30.320 --> 0:12:32.240 d's backwards, those kind of things. 0:12:32.280 --> 0:12:34.920 But that can be natural until about seven. 0:12:35.480 --> 0:12:40.400 Mirror writing a complete sentence forwards or backwards. That's a 0:12:40.559 --> 0:12:44.680 huge flag, and some kids realize that it's cool trick 0:12:44.920 --> 0:12:48.120 and they don't want to switch it. Just realizing that 0:12:48.559 --> 0:12:52.880 I am not remembering things and it's not an age 0:12:52.920 --> 0:12:55.840 related thing. It's like, I read that whole paragraph, I 0:12:55.880 --> 0:12:59.120 can't remember what I was even looking for in it. 0:13:00.080 --> 0:13:04.560 Uptence to read is always a big sign inability to rhyme, 0:13:04.760 --> 0:13:09.080 to change up your phonetics your words, kind of like 0:13:09.120 --> 0:13:12.079 the test that we did after the Bobby Bone show 0:13:12.480 --> 0:13:16.280 where I had you switching around and taking parts of 0:13:16.360 --> 0:13:17.280 words out. 0:13:17.600 --> 0:13:20.079 Let's do an example of that and I'll do it. 0:13:20.240 --> 0:13:27.480 Okay, So the word toast replaced the first sound with a. 0:13:26.880 --> 0:13:29.400 C coast post. 0:13:29.520 --> 0:13:29.800 Yes. 0:13:29.920 --> 0:13:31.480 I think that's a good example, And then we did 0:13:31.480 --> 0:13:32.920 the syllable one. 0:13:33.240 --> 0:13:34.880 Yes. That was why I called in. 0:13:35.160 --> 0:13:39.400 Was Eddie talking about the cabbage because he couldn't figure 0:13:39.440 --> 0:13:42.560 out why they were saying it had so many sounds. 0:13:42.920 --> 0:13:44.400 So cabbage is cut. 0:13:46.480 --> 0:13:48.120 But at. 0:13:49.640 --> 0:13:52.720 Cabbage it has five distinct sounds. 0:13:53.040 --> 0:13:56.240 It has more letters than that, and it has less 0:13:56.280 --> 0:13:57.319 syllables than that. 0:13:57.400 --> 0:13:59.160 But those are the phonemes. 0:14:00.000 --> 0:14:02.640 That was what he saw on TikTok. Yes, okay, let's 0:14:02.679 --> 0:14:04.440 run through that one. Give me a word and I'll 0:14:04.440 --> 0:14:05.720 do the letter sounds. 0:14:06.160 --> 0:14:10.240 Okay, so through the the root. 0:14:10.480 --> 0:14:13.840 I feel like that one's a little tricky. It is 0:14:13.840 --> 0:14:14.600 is it three? 0:14:15.000 --> 0:14:21.720 Because it's the that's one sound er? Ooh, so through 0:14:22.840 --> 0:14:23.560 got it? 0:14:23.560 --> 0:14:26.040 It gets a little tricky. But we did a lot 0:14:26.120 --> 0:14:29.120 of those. And from the results of my test, and 0:14:29.160 --> 0:14:30.800 this is something I did one on one with you 0:14:31.160 --> 0:14:34.520 after the show, like a week or two after. What 0:14:34.680 --> 0:14:37.160 did that show you about what I had going on? 0:14:37.520 --> 0:14:40.880 It showed me that you have double deficit, which you 0:14:41.040 --> 0:14:46.000 have a phonological processing. You can process your sounds, but 0:14:46.240 --> 0:14:49.120 it does take you a little bit to be able 0:14:49.160 --> 0:14:53.680 to manipulate them, and it probably affects you more with 0:14:53.800 --> 0:14:57.960 your reading and comprehending because you don't realize how hard 0:14:58.000 --> 0:15:02.040 you're working with your brain to get all those phonetics 0:15:02.080 --> 0:15:03.160 out into all of that. 0:15:16.000 --> 0:15:21.640 Let's do it live, Oh the two so loser? 0:15:23.760 --> 0:15:25.400 What up? Everybody? I am lunchbox. 0:15:25.480 --> 0:15:27.360 I know the most about sports, so I'll give you 0:15:27.400 --> 0:15:29.720 the sports facts, my sports. 0:15:29.360 --> 0:15:34.040 Opinions, because I'm pretty much a sports genius. What up, y'all? 0:15:34.040 --> 0:15:36.240 A hiscison, I'm from the North, I'm in Alpha Male. 0:15:36.280 --> 0:15:38.400 I live on the West side of Nashville with Baser, 0:15:38.480 --> 0:15:41.360 my wife. We do have a white picket fence at 0:15:41.360 --> 0:15:44.560 the apartment complex. Soon I'm gonna have two point five kids, 0:15:44.960 --> 0:15:46.840 and yes, sadly, I will die of a heart attack 0:15:46.840 --> 0:15:48.520 when I'm seventy two years old. 0:15:49.240 --> 0:15:52.160 Here's a clip from the last podcast. 0:15:53.680 --> 0:15:59.320 Ah, so I did play golf yesterday. Whoa music bed? 0:15:59.360 --> 0:16:00.640 Don't know if it's playing or not. 0:16:01.600 --> 0:16:05.840 And I got a glimpse into what maybe our future is, 0:16:06.000 --> 0:16:08.520 maybe you and Justin's future. But it was like, wow, 0:16:08.640 --> 0:16:12.360 this is the future of a friendship or relationship that. 0:16:12.440 --> 0:16:13.680 Lasts so long. 0:16:14.280 --> 0:16:15.440 So this is a good story. 0:16:15.840 --> 0:16:17.680 Yeah, I got paired up. Well, I show up. 0:16:17.720 --> 0:16:19.280 I just walked up because I didn't know if I 0:16:19.320 --> 0:16:21.400 was gonna be able place. I just walked up. I'm like, hey, 0:16:22.400 --> 0:16:24.880 any chance you can fit a single in? He's like, oh, man, 0:16:24.920 --> 0:16:27.280 I got t Time's book the rest of the afternoon. 0:16:27.360 --> 0:16:30.200 But uh, oh Phil and Bill. I mean, if they 0:16:30.240 --> 0:16:32.400 haven't gone yet, you can you can pair up with them. 0:16:32.440 --> 0:16:35.800 And he goes out there, Bill, Bill, hey, this one's 0:16:35.800 --> 0:16:36.840 gonna pair up with you. 0:16:37.840 --> 0:16:39.680 And I walk up and they're like, oh, how's it going. 0:16:39.760 --> 0:16:42.160 Nice to meet you? And I'm great, great, to meet you. 0:16:42.280 --> 0:16:44.520 I'm celebrating my dad's birthday. 0:16:44.800 --> 0:16:49.920 But he's not here. Oh he's celebrating. 0:16:49.480 --> 0:16:50.760 No I did. I was telling them. 0:16:52.520 --> 0:16:56.000 Somebody a single told me they're celebrating a birthday loser. 0:16:56.200 --> 0:16:58.320 They're like, oh, is your dad gonna play with Like, no, 0:16:58.440 --> 0:17:01.280 he lives in Texas, man, I'm celebrating his birthday by 0:17:01.320 --> 0:17:02.800 being outside and playing golf. 0:17:03.160 --> 0:17:05.040 Nice And so these two guys. 0:17:04.960 --> 0:17:07.680 Know each other, and Phil and Bill they're like, I mean, 0:17:08.560 --> 0:17:12.040 chatting it up, and they're nice friendly. About the fourth hole, 0:17:12.119 --> 0:17:15.800 they start talking trash Root tell you it feels like Bill, 0:17:15.840 --> 0:17:17.720 there ain't no damn way you're gonna make that shot. 0:17:18.119 --> 0:17:20.080 Ain't no way you're gonna make that damn shot Bill, 0:17:20.840 --> 0:17:24.080 and Bill trains it. 0:17:24.680 --> 0:17:27.000 Are they're playing for skins or what they're playing money. 0:17:27.400 --> 0:17:30.879 They're in a tournament and they play a couple of 0:17:30.920 --> 0:17:33.720 times a week, and they play money games at different courses, 0:17:34.240 --> 0:17:36.240 and they usually book three tea times, and they didn't 0:17:36.240 --> 0:17:38.199 get in the three tea times, so they were on 0:17:38.240 --> 0:17:40.160 their own and they just had to be honest about 0:17:40.160 --> 0:17:40.639 their score. 0:17:41.080 --> 0:17:42.160 Highly illegal though. 0:17:42.400 --> 0:17:44.280 The betting, Yeah yeah, I understand. 0:17:44.520 --> 0:17:47.040 And Bill looks at me and goes you think Phil 0:17:47.080 --> 0:17:48.359 gets in my head when he tells me I'm not 0:17:48.359 --> 0:17:50.639 gonna miss a shops. I mean, I met him in 0:17:50.680 --> 0:17:52.480 eighty seven. I haven't listened to him what he said 0:17:52.480 --> 0:17:58.840 since ninety two, and I'm like, dude. 0:17:58.640 --> 0:18:02.920 It went back since eighties nineties. That's forty years, That's 0:18:02.920 --> 0:18:03.600 what I'm saying. 0:18:04.359 --> 0:18:06.280 And I felt like, oh my god, this is the 0:18:06.320 --> 0:18:09.479 future of what life is going to be like if 0:18:09.520 --> 0:18:12.640 we are still doing this podcast in thirty to forty years. 0:18:12.320 --> 0:18:14.159 Playing at the local shitty muni. 0:18:14.080 --> 0:18:14.680 And they were. 0:18:14.760 --> 0:18:16.560 They were so funny the way they would talk to 0:18:16.600 --> 0:18:18.720 each other. I mean, one would hit a good shot, 0:18:18.760 --> 0:18:22.359 he'd be like, not that good. He'd be like, you 0:18:22.400 --> 0:18:24.320 could have hit it farther. You know, like they know 0:18:24.520 --> 0:18:26.760 nothing nice to each other, and it was all in 0:18:26.800 --> 0:18:27.240 good fun. 0:18:27.320 --> 0:18:28.880 But I banged your life. 0:18:29.520 --> 0:18:32.560 No, did you try and join in? No, I had 0:18:32.600 --> 0:18:33.960 sex with Martha last night. 0:18:35.440 --> 0:18:38.199 No coach. Then they turned Yeah. Phil and Bill get 0:18:38.280 --> 0:18:40.040 a love set. I don't want I don't want to 0:18:40.119 --> 0:18:40.920 upset Phil and Bill. 0:18:41.800 --> 0:18:44.760 He's about to drive I banged your wife last night. 0:18:45.640 --> 0:18:48.240 What Bill gets out of the cart? 0:18:48.359 --> 0:18:51.439 Do you feel the lines pil grabs his wedges are 0:18:51.640 --> 0:18:52.280 knocking me out. 0:18:52.280 --> 0:18:53.360 I know we didn't do any of that. 0:18:53.480 --> 0:18:58.120 Come here, you millennial mothercker. I got to just hit 0:18:58.240 --> 0:18:59.840 you over the he set up a bit. 0:19:00.520 --> 0:19:03.080 Now, then Bill tells me, he goes. Bill's always like man, 0:19:03.119 --> 0:19:05.560 he goes, Bill goes. Phil's always bragging about how many 0:19:05.560 --> 0:19:08.880 fairways he hits. Oh I hit eight fairways, he goes. 0:19:09.400 --> 0:19:10.240 But you know what he done that. 0:19:11.000 --> 0:19:14.880 He doesn't brag about how many green and regulations he hits. 0:19:14.200 --> 0:19:15.600 He goes. 0:19:16.200 --> 0:19:19.160 He can say, oh I hit eight fairways. How many 0:19:19.160 --> 0:19:21.719 girls you get to thank you? 0:19:23.400 --> 0:19:25.760 Great? So then we're on the tenth t. 0:19:25.960 --> 0:19:27.120 Are you playing money with him? 0:19:27.200 --> 0:19:27.480 No? 0:19:27.480 --> 0:19:29.080 No, no, because they're in a pool. They're in a 0:19:29.320 --> 0:19:32.080 like the tea times after us. There's like three or 0:19:32.080 --> 0:19:34.280 four of them. Those are the guys that are playing 0:19:34.280 --> 0:19:35.960 for money. So they keep scoring. Then they go in 0:19:35.960 --> 0:19:37.600 the clubhouse and they dibby up their money. 0:19:37.760 --> 0:19:38.640 And at some point we. 0:19:38.600 --> 0:19:40.800 Got to go to a country club and pay ten 0:19:40.880 --> 0:19:43.879 grand a year, because I mean, you just going to 0:19:44.000 --> 0:19:45.800 a course and hoping for a tea time. We don't 0:19:45.800 --> 0:19:47.280 have to deal with that if we can afford it. 0:19:47.520 --> 0:19:50.160 Country here's the problem with the country club. You fork 0:19:50.200 --> 0:19:53.840 out ten twenty thirty thousand dollars to join. You never 0:19:53.960 --> 0:19:56.400 get jets just to join. Then you have to pay 0:19:56.440 --> 0:19:58.280 per month. I don't know, Oh. 0:19:58.200 --> 0:20:01.760 You do, yeah, but I feel like they always get 0:20:01.800 --> 0:20:02.760 the tea times they want. 0:20:02.960 --> 0:20:05.720 Well, probably, yeah, because you're paying fifty thousand dollars for 0:20:05.760 --> 0:20:06.280