WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Secret Selfie

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<v Speaker 1>The second date update.

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<v Speaker 2>If you're like me, you've wondered is it possible to

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<v Speaker 2>be too smooth on a date?

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<v Speaker 3>I've been there.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm putting hair moose on places where hair isn't that smooth?

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<v Speaker 4>Are you stick?

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<v Speaker 2>Apparently one of our listeners, Cam believes that may have

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<v Speaker 2>been his problem. Too smooth during this day, Cam, you

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<v Speaker 2>moos in right now?

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<v Speaker 3>Bro?

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<v Speaker 5>No, no, thank god.

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<v Speaker 1>Because I am moosey goosey up in here. I am

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<v Speaker 1>ready to hear the story. But Brook's getting too turned

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<v Speaker 1>on by it. That's the problem. So Cam, you think

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<v Speaker 1>you're so smooth? Huh smooth as.

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<v Speaker 5>That's actually the problem is that she kept asking me like,

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<v Speaker 5>are you a player? Are you so smooth? You pick

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<v Speaker 5>up girls all the time? And I couldn't vincent. I

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<v Speaker 5>was like, well, no, I met you. I like you,

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<v Speaker 5>we had a connection, you would Well, I don't know,

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<v Speaker 5>she's just met the wrong people. She just kept asking, well, maybe.

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<v Speaker 4>Maybe you're more debonair and smooth than you realize.

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<v Speaker 2>The sounds like a player to me, But I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>it's interesting that you even had that conversation.

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<v Speaker 1>How did you meet this girl? I'm assuming.

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<v Speaker 5>Well her name is Ashley?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, and we met.

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<v Speaker 5>At a food truck.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, how did that happen?

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<v Speaker 4>Jose, You're going to get on a tangent.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, I was out of the bars with some friends

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<v Speaker 5>and we're getting kind of late. So I go to

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<v Speaker 5>this food truck and I'm waiting for my nachos.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, because it's always Mexican food after the bars, like

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<v Speaker 2>smooth boys do with their nachos.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I know Alexis would fall in love with you. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>that's smart.

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<v Speaker 5>So then there's this girl and she's dancing to this

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<v Speaker 5>street musicians playing guitar. But she's really into the music,

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<v Speaker 5>and so I just give her a hard time. I

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<v Speaker 5>start picking on her. I'm like, wow, you must be

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<v Speaker 5>really wasted because she likes to dance. Well, I mean

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<v Speaker 5>it was a street guitar player. It wasn't like this

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<v Speaker 5>was a rock show.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, I don't call that smooth.

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<v Speaker 3>What's not smooth?

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<v Speaker 1>Street performer and criticizing someone's.

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<v Speaker 5>Dancing, Yeah, exactly, I'm not smooth, Okay.

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<v Speaker 4>But she liked it, she liked be and made fun

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<v Speaker 4>of well.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, so she picks on me back. She's like, no,

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<v Speaker 5>I'm not wasted. I actually like good music. Don't you

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<v Speaker 5>like this music. So it turns out we start talking.

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<v Speaker 5>We end up at a picnic table with her friends,

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<v Speaker 5>and then her friend starts complaining I want to go home,

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<v Speaker 5>and we were having a good time, So her friend

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<v Speaker 5>goes home. She and I actually go out for more

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<v Speaker 5>drinks and we end up at my place.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow, she's willing to ditch her friend group just to

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<v Speaker 2>hang out with you.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm back on you being on the smooth training and honestly.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, the truth is, her friend group actually kind of

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<v Speaker 5>ditched her because they were the ones that want to

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<v Speaker 5>go home.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, there's always one in the girlfriend group that is like.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, yeah, no self control.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, obviously we'll see you tomorrow.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah yeah, How did it go back at your place?

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<v Speaker 5>Very well? I thought until I woke up the next

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<v Speaker 5>morning and she was gone, and I can't get a

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<v Speaker 5>hold of her since then. But like I said, the

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<v Speaker 5>only thing I can think of is her main theme

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<v Speaker 5>of the night was like, how often you pick up girls?

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<v Speaker 5>Are you a player? Is this what you always do?

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<v Speaker 4>It kind of makes sense why she would think that now,

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<v Speaker 4>because you picked her up and like, you guys went

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<v Speaker 4>back to your place.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, no, I don't do that all the time, and

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<v Speaker 5>I didn't just have a goal, like we went and

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<v Speaker 5>had drinks first, like it just happened. Actually, I know.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm just saying, like the situation she's probably feeling.

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<v Speaker 6>I would only think that if like, at your house,

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<v Speaker 6>did you have something that screamed player, Like extra toothbrushes

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<v Speaker 6>A ton of them are like brought up.

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<v Speaker 1>That's actually a good point, you know that, Or an

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<v Speaker 1>extra room labeled for the girls. Yeah, do you have

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<v Speaker 1>anything like that at your place?

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<v Speaker 5>No? I would think an extra toothbrush would scream wife, but.

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<v Speaker 4>It's not used.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't you want to brush your teeth?

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<v Speaker 3>I'm saving that for my wife.

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<v Speaker 4>It's like I had pictures of my wedding all around.

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<v Speaker 5>But I told her like, look, I'm just a bachelor.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm not dating anyone else. We happen to beat it

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<v Speaker 5>a food truck and we just hit it off, and

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<v Speaker 5>so I'm like, what is going on? Why did she

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<v Speaker 5>leave early and disappear? It's so weird a lot of

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<v Speaker 5>times her axe get.

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<v Speaker 1>To cheat it on her big player, So it could

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<v Speaker 1>be other stuff, is.

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<v Speaker 4>Right, It could be uncomfortable to wake up the next

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<v Speaker 4>morning when you're like completely sober, and some people just

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<v Speaker 4>want to scurry out of it anything.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, exactly, No, I totally understand that. But look now

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<v Speaker 5>it's been four days and you at least text somebody back,

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<v Speaker 5>like I've been texting her and she won't even respond.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, but you really, like you're saying you could have

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<v Speaker 4>seen more than just one night of fun.

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<v Speaker 5>Absolutely, I thought, you know, we were great together.

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<v Speaker 1>He probably doesn't believe you. Yes, it sounds like already

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<v Speaker 1>she's like, no way, this guy's not well. We'll try

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<v Speaker 1>and call her and change her mind.

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<v Speaker 2>That you're not smooth and you're not cool. Yeah, you

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<v Speaker 2>are just a totally average, regular.

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<v Speaker 4>Type of Yeah, nobody wants you've never even.

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<v Speaker 1>Been with a woman before.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, this is more like Coldie Locks and the Three Bears.

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<v Speaker 5>The porridge is too hot, the porge is too cold.

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<v Speaker 5>Let's just keep it in the middle.

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<v Speaker 1>No, yeah, we're going full extreme one way or the other. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he's not a virgin, but one time he got to

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<v Speaker 1>second base.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait, yeah, let's just call her. We'll see what she

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<v Speaker 1>has to say. For your second date update.

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<v Speaker 2>Right after this second date update, we're in the middle

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<v Speaker 2>of a second date update. It's broken Jeffrey in the morning,

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<v Speaker 2>having kind of an interesting discussion in the studio. Is

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<v Speaker 2>it possible to tell if a guy is a play

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<v Speaker 2>you're right away? Like, just in general when you meet

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<v Speaker 2>what are the signs that could point to that? Because

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<v Speaker 2>maybe we could figure this out before we even call her.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh if he if our listener is a player, because

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<v Speaker 4>why she thinks he.

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<v Speaker 3>Is our listener?

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<v Speaker 2>Cam was accused of being a player by the girl

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<v Speaker 2>he went out with Ashley the other night. And I'm wondering, Brooke, like,

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<v Speaker 2>what are the signs that tell you a guy is

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<v Speaker 2>a player?

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<v Speaker 3>What do you think?

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<v Speaker 4>Sane? I would say like using any sort of pet.

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<v Speaker 1>Name right like Beethoven. No, that's probably not a good sign.

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<v Speaker 4>I'd also say like any sort of like touching or

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<v Speaker 4>really intense eye contact like a shoulder rub or or

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<v Speaker 4>there's like you know, like the pop callar, like the

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<v Speaker 4>Ferrari keychain.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, Okay, I guess I'm not going to bring my

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<v Speaker 1>Ferrari out on a dab. Sure what am I supposed

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<v Speaker 1>to bring?

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<v Speaker 4>I don't own. I'm sorry, any Ferrari driver.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, general, okay, so there are some signs there.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, maybe we could just break this down ourselves

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<v Speaker 2>right now, Cam do you own any Ferrari money? Did

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<v Speaker 2>you use a pet name when talking to Ashley?

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<v Speaker 4>Uh?

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<v Speaker 1>No, long pause there, think that's good.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, I just think it's funny that, Like I was like,

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<v Speaker 5>I own a Ferrari, Like where did that come from?

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<v Speaker 5>But then I realized, oh, the key chain. Now, no,

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<v Speaker 5>it's definitely not.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean anything where it's like you're over compensating. You're like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>trying to make it look like you have a lot

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<v Speaker 4>of money.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, I remind you we met at a food truck,

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<v Speaker 5>not a Michelin Star restaurant.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, yeah, normal, did you order side of walk because

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<v Speaker 4>that could mean the same that's oh, be.

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<v Speaker 5>Talking right there, big spender. Yeah you caught.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so we're still up in the air.

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<v Speaker 2>We don't know for sure if any of this even

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<v Speaker 2>matters to her, Like it could be something completely different

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<v Speaker 2>than has her not calling you back.

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<v Speaker 1>So let's just dial up Ashley and find out.

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<v Speaker 3>Here we go, Hello, Hey is this Ashley?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>Hey Ashley.

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<v Speaker 1>Not sure if you're ready for this, but welcome to

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<v Speaker 1>a radio show called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, probably because what we're doing here is a segment

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<v Speaker 2>called a second Date update. We are reaching out on

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<v Speaker 2>behalf of one of our listeners. It's a guy that

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<v Speaker 2>you met just a few days ago.

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<v Speaker 4>Actually pretty cute.

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<v Speaker 1>I think he really wants to see you again because

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<v Speaker 1>his name is Cam.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh you remember Cam the food truck.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh my god, I don'tbelievable.

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<v Speaker 4>Ale, Yeah, yeah, that's a glory review the story.

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<v Speaker 1>Why do you feel that way? What happened that night?

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<v Speaker 1>Because we've heard a little bit of the story from Cam.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, and he said such nice things about you, about god,

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 7>No, let's just say I should have known at the

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<v Speaker 7>taco truck red flag way too comfortable approaching me, Like

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<v Speaker 7>what now?

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<v Speaker 1>Wait wait, okay, too comfortable?

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<v Speaker 4>What is the red flag? Because he said he you

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<v Speaker 4>he was making fun of your dancing, remember your street dancing?

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<v Speaker 7>Oh really? Oh god? Just he just like, I don't know,

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<v Speaker 7>like he's gave me player vibes.

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<v Speaker 4>All right.

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<v Speaker 2>You mentioned that you said to him you thought he

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<v Speaker 2>was a player, and he denied it multiple times. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>he did many times.

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<v Speaker 4>It didn't bother you enough to go home with him.

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<v Speaker 7>So great he told you about that too.

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<v Speaker 5>Awesome.

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<v Speaker 1>Great, Well you went over and spent the night. He

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<v Speaker 1>didn't say anything no details about it.

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<v Speaker 2>But the one detail that he is totally missing is like,

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<v Speaker 2>why haven't you spoken to him?

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<v Speaker 1>Because he's trying to text you and you are not

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<v Speaker 1>responding at all.

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, So we've been drinking a lot and he kind

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<v Speaker 7>of passed out, like nothing actually happened. Okay, and my

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<v Speaker 7>friends had told me about this trick that they do

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<v Speaker 7>to like check if a guy is saying who they

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<v Speaker 7>say they are or whatever. I know it's really sneaky,

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<v Speaker 7>but when he was passed out, I took a live

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<v Speaker 7>photo of his face with my phone and then, god,

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<v Speaker 7>I can't believe I'm telling you. I kind of went

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<v Speaker 7>over to his phone and like held it over and

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<v Speaker 7>it opened his smart.

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<v Speaker 4>Opened his phone. Yeah, I get, it's.

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<v Speaker 7>Probably just play Candy crush on it, right, dude, I

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<v Speaker 7>wish that's all I found.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm sorry, that's kind of crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, that's a smart move.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>I would hate it to happen to me, but that

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<v Speaker 1>is brilliant violent. What did you find on his phone?

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, the whole I'm not a player, I'm not talking

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<v Speaker 7>another girl, blah blah blah with In like ten seconds,

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<v Speaker 7>I could see that was a complete lie.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, yeah, everybody would lie about that, Like what are

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<v Speaker 4>you gonna say, I'm actually talking to ten other women

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<v Speaker 4>right now, like come home with me?

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<v Speaker 7>Like so many, so many texts, Like it was ridiculous,

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<v Speaker 7>And I'm thinking, like how many times is he like

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<v Speaker 7>met these girls and taco trucks?

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<v Speaker 5>Like is this this thing?

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<v Speaker 7>Is you hang out at the tackle trucks?

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<v Speaker 4>What is back it times with him right there? So

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<v Speaker 4>why do you care? I mean if you went home

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<v Speaker 4>like a one night stand, like it's just like what

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<v Speaker 4>do you expect?

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, I didn't think it was going to be a

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<v Speaker 7>one night stand. I didn't know it was good. I

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<v Speaker 7>was hoping for a relationship. We seem to click. I

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<v Speaker 7>just you know, I had a feeling.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean I could think he thinks you're a player.

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<v Speaker 6>You go home with a random guy for the taco

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<v Speaker 6>truck to break in his phone.

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<v Speaker 1>Crazy.

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<v Speaker 4>I do believe that he really really likes you, and

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<v Speaker 4>that maybe maybe he will be a reformed.

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<v Speaker 1>Player like you and twenty other women all at the

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<v Speaker 1>same time.

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<v Speaker 4>He only called us about her, that is true, But

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<v Speaker 4>I am.

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<v Speaker 2>A little bit mad that he lied to us about

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<v Speaker 2>texting other women. We didn't ask about we didn't have to.

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<v Speaker 1>He just came out and said that are.

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<v Speaker 4>He said that he wasn't talking to anybody else.

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<v Speaker 2>That's what he said in the first part. But now

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<v Speaker 2>I want to ask him again, Cam Kim, you've.

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<v Speaker 4>You've got a jilted man on the phone named Jeffrey.

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<v Speaker 5>This is a real violation of privacy.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh not a good first.

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<v Speaker 3>Thing to say.

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<v Speaker 1>You just say no.

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<v Speaker 2>By the way, true, but also by the way, Ashley,

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<v Speaker 2>Cam has been listening to this conversation the entire time.

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<v Speaker 1>Another lie that he didn't come forward with.

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<v Speaker 2>So I'm just saying jeff the truth. He didn't mention anything.

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<v Speaker 2>So Cam, go ahead talk to Ashley there and trying

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<v Speaker 2>to defend yourself.

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<v Speaker 3>I guess.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, that's not cool to look for my song.

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, so you're telling me over and over again you're

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<v Speaker 7>not a player.

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<v Speaker 5>Not only are you a player, but you're a liar.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>No, I just think you need to You can't just

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<v Speaker 5>dig like that. That's not cool. You should give me

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<v Speaker 5>a chance to, you know, get to know you myself,

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<v Speaker 5>to lie to.

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<v Speaker 7>Me some more like are you kidding me?

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<v Speaker 5>Who are these girls? Chloe?

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<v Speaker 7>What was the other going on?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh?

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, the pictures from her name was April.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe they were not girls that you're dating. Maybe they

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<v Speaker 2>were family members. Oh my god, Brook talks like that

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<v Speaker 2>to her family members.

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<v Speaker 3>You know that is not.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just trying to help. Maybe there's an explanation Cam

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<v Speaker 1>is not jumping in and offering up.

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<v Speaker 4>I think Cam needs to explain why he was lying,

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<v Speaker 4>because obviously you were. You got caught, Like why lie?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, honestly, I'm more curious about the little phone hack game,

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<v Speaker 5>Like what the hell was that all about?

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<v Speaker 4>That is kind of like CIA level that.

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<v Speaker 7>I mean, I had an instinct and I followed it.

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<v Speaker 3>I just knew. I knew rying, and I.

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<v Speaker 7>Had to prove it before I left, so I didn't

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<v Speaker 7>do something stupid like.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, yeah, I think it's interesting that you use the

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<v Speaker 2>word instinct there, Ashley, because say what you will about

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<v Speaker 2>violation of privacy, and you're crossing boundaries. Bottom line is,

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<v Speaker 2>you don't go through somebody else's phone unless you really

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<v Speaker 2>care about them.

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<v Speaker 1>Something deep inside of your heart.

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<v Speaker 2>Told you you need to steal this man's face and

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<v Speaker 2>lead his text messages to make sure he's the right

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<v Speaker 2>guy for you.

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<v Speaker 1>I would follow that instinct all the word at Chili's

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<v Speaker 1>for a real date that we pay for. Wow, we

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<v Speaker 1>owe it to your heart, to your instincts to see

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<v Speaker 1>this through.

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<v Speaker 3>And that's a food.

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<v Speaker 4>I have a feeling that that was not going to

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<v Speaker 4>work on Ashley.

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<v Speaker 5>I want that came from somewhere, That instinct came from me.

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<v Speaker 7>Not want to be fooled again.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but I said Chili's, Did you hear me? Those

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<v Speaker 1>baby back ribs are worth it?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 7>That's not healthy.

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<v Speaker 1>They're not even sponsoring us. And I'm throwing that out

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<v Speaker 1>there like it's the.

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<v Speaker 7>True love pushing him. I'm the not happening. So just

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<v Speaker 7>I don't know what you're doing with this phone call.

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<v Speaker 7>Just forget it, like to lose my number.

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<v Speaker 4>Man, that's pretty clear there account. He messed up.

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<v Speaker 3>Dude.

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<v Speaker 5>I've been deleted that picture of my face.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh I already did. Don't worry about that.

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<v Speaker 4>I thought for sure she would have printed it out

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<v Speaker 4>and framed it.

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<v Speaker 2>Just post that picture right on the side of the

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<v Speaker 2>taco truck for the next girl that he games down.

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<v Speaker 5>That's not a bad idea. Look, I'm only there Thursday

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<v Speaker 5>through Saturday.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not that big a ca Okay, looking Jeffrey in

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<v Speaker 2>the morning did we just unlock a dangerous new life

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<v Speaker 2>hack for couples too?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah? We did. I'm telling you that's why I don't

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<v Speaker 4>have my face idea on my phone. Oh yeah, any number?

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<v Speaker 2>You know, Michael opening up your phone, finding that Silver

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<v Speaker 2>Singles account that you've been hiding out there, reading all

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<v Speaker 2>the smut you right on there.

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<v Speaker 1>It's uses that much money's in her bank account. It's

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<v Speaker 1>like a fourteen digit goha. I'm not saying all guys

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<v Speaker 1>should be scared. We should be scared too. Yeah, because

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<v Speaker 1>if you missed it.

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<v Speaker 2>Ashley took a live photo of her date's face and

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<v Speaker 2>used it to unlock his phone when he wasn't there

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<v Speaker 2>and read his incriminating text.

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<v Speaker 4>Is that illegal? Like, I'm being serious, Like, are you

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<v Speaker 4>allowed to do that?

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<v Speaker 1>I think only maybe you post something with them knowing.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe it's illegal.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 4>It's just crazy people can do that.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it's smart, it's smart, and it shows you care.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm going to that.

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<v Speaker 2>But if anybody has actually tried this before and it works,

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<v Speaker 2>text into seven eight five nine two and.

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<v Speaker 4>Confirm text it on whose phone? Though?

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<v Speaker 2>It is gonna be crazy, But we can always try

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<v Speaker 2>and help you with your dating life. If you want

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<v Speaker 2>some help, email the show. We'll call that person who's

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<v Speaker 2>not calling you back. And go.

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